TOPIC | 5.0 | Don't call me boy, boy! |
| 5.32 | Mon Aug 20 1990 12:28 | I'm glad you did that | 20 lines |
TOPIC | 17.0 | Shaving.. Ugh..... |
| 17.147 | Thu Mar 09 1989 15:19 | Another vote for beards... | 8 lines |
TOPIC | 21.0 | What is a "MACHO" man, anyway? |
| 21.33 | Sun Sep 03 1989 12:53 | Ha! | 9 lines |
| 21.40 | Thu Sep 14 1989 14:04 | My impression of "macho" | 32 lines |
| 21.50 | Sun Sep 17 1989 16:08 | Personal bias and cultural bias | 17 lines |
TOPIC | 25.0 | Dating and emotional barriers... |
| 25.19 | Thu Mar 02 1989 16:26 | Appropriate for a non-SOAPBOX file? | 10 lines |
TOPIC | 56.0 | Circumcision |
| 56.104 | Mon May 22 1989 14:42 | It can be stretched... | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 80.0 | Masculine Scents |
| 80.131 | Mon Jun 26 1989 10:43 | I agree | 12 lines |
| 80.140 | Fri Jun 22 1990 11:22 | Shopping for cologne was fun... | 6 lines |
TOPIC | 132.0 | Gift suggestions for a man |
| 132.19 | Thu Sep 06 1990 17:10 | | 16 lines |
| 132.23 | Thu Sep 06 1990 18:13 | OOoops. | 8 lines |
TOPIC | 144.0 | Marriage Values and Views |
| 144.44 | Wed Jun 21 1989 13:05 | I'll keep it brief... | 32 lines |
| 144.56 | Thu Jun 22 1989 14:43 | One more attempt at clarification... | 41 lines |
TOPIC | 146.0 | Coed restrooms ? |
| 146.35 | Fri Feb 02 1990 15:05 | Just curious... | 33 lines |
| 146.60 | Wed Feb 07 1990 11:11 | Got a good laugh out of me... | 6 lines |
TOPIC | 174.0 | What is a 'real woman'? |
| 174.14 | Mon Jun 19 1989 12:44 | Not a happy camper... | 26 lines |
| 174.20 | Wed Jun 21 1989 12:39 | Say it ain't so, Joe | 30 lines |
| 174.25 | Thu Jun 22 1989 14:30 | More clarification...I hope | 23 lines |
TOPIC | 234.0 | Sex or Making Love???? |
| 234.38 | Fri Sep 22 1989 12:06 | Do I have to choose between them? | 9 lines |
TOPIC | 258.0 | The Decline of Humanism, or, Why use "SO"? |
| 258.77 | Thu Jun 07 1990 16:08 | Not asking you to "go bland" when you know specifics | 30 lines |
| 258.81 | Fri Jun 08 1990 10:33 | Sounds good to me... | 10 lines |
| 258.90 | Mon Jun 11 1990 11:17 | The writer in me wishes this were shorter... | 50 lines |
| 258.92 | Mon Jun 11 1990 12:25 | Yep, it applies (though I wonder if the host knows that) | 11 lines |
TOPIC | 261.0 | Fathers rights in abortions |
| 261.245 | Thu Jul 27 1989 16:17 | Trying very hard to understand | 26 lines |
| 261.248 | Mon Jul 31 1989 12:44 | Thank you for taking that risk | 14 lines |
| 261.260 | Fri Aug 04 1989 11:22 | It all comes down to this for me... | 12 lines |
TOPIC | 273.0 | SEX? need or desire? |
| 273.125 | Thu Jul 13 1989 15:53 | I think that "intimacy" is the need | 20 lines |
| 273.138 | Wed Jul 26 1989 10:57 | Just trying to keep the spectrum in mind | 14 lines |
TOPIC | 316.0 | New victims of discrimination? |
| 316.6 | Fri Jan 13 1989 16:23 | Merit and AA are not mutually exclusive | 30 lines |
| 316.60 | Wed Feb 01 1989 18:55 | Another view | 35 lines |
| 316.61 | Wed Feb 01 1989 18:56 | :-) | 7 lines |
| 316.62 | Wed Feb 01 1989 19:10 | I've been lucky | 36 lines |
| 316.65 | Fri Feb 03 1989 11:36 | A different view | 103 lines |
| 316.69 | Fri Feb 03 1989 16:45 | He says as he fixes his jock strap and spits tabacco juice | 8 lines |
| 316.71 | Mon Feb 06 1989 11:47 | More questions than answers today... | 9 lines |
| 316.80 | Fri Feb 10 1989 11:16 | "Boys have ugly faces" | 15 lines |
| 316.82 | Fri Feb 10 1989 14:29 | Stories and stuff... | 110 lines |
TOPIC | 317.0 | Correcting past injustices |
| 317.19 | Wed Feb 01 1989 19:28 | I like it; I think it works | 31 lines |
| 317.21 | Thu Feb 02 1989 10:10 | We need creative solutions | 70 lines |
| 317.24 | Fri Feb 03 1989 13:45 | Still think AA causes minimal hassle to white men | 27 lines |
| 317.25 | Fri Feb 03 1989 13:47 | I could be wrong | 21 lines |
| 317.28 | Fri Feb 03 1989 17:24 | Some people in the American community need our help | 109 lines |
| 317.35 | Mon Feb 06 1989 11:42 | More stuff... | 99 lines |
| 317.41 | Wed Feb 08 1989 10:27 | Only a few sacrifices that we really object to | 67 lines |
| 317.53 | Thu Feb 09 1989 13:59 | Perhaps another direction this discussion can go in... | 20 lines |
| 317.55 | Fri Feb 10 1989 14:02 | Good news! | 9 lines |
TOPIC | 319.0 | Coping with possible testicular cancer |
| 319.5 | Wed Feb 08 1989 10:01 | Feeling for lumps | 11 lines |
TOPIC | 321.0 | Thu Feb 09 1989 14:01 | Men, Homosexuality, and Bisexuality | 9 lines |
| 321.1 | Thu Feb 09 1989 14:06 | "Minority" status | 29 lines |
TOPIC | 323.0 | BLACK HISTORY EVENTS |
| 323.1 | Wed Feb 15 1989 11:41 | A few thoughts... | 17 lines |
| 323.2 | Wed Feb 15 1989 11:42 | Correction | 5 lines |
TOPIC | 325.0 | Yeah but, WHY??? |
| 325.19 | Mon Feb 27 1989 12:26 | Same topic, another perspective | 29 lines |
TOPIC | 326.0 | something interesting? |
| 326.18 | Thu Mar 02 1989 16:23 | 'Scuse me? | 9 lines |
TOPIC | 327.0 | Just Thinking |
| 327.6 | Thu Mar 09 1989 09:43 | Random stuff | 10 lines |
| 327.9 | Thu Mar 09 1989 15:08 | Thoughts on love and on relationships | 37 lines |
| 327.10 | Thu Mar 09 1989 15:16 | ...more stuff | 25 lines |
TOPIC | 331.0 | Let Go/Hold On |
| 331.9 | Thu Mar 23 1989 12:11 | Try not to judge her; Try to empathize with her | 31 lines |
TOPIC | 334.0 | Didja hear the news? |
| 334.84 | Fri Apr 21 1989 16:24 | A bit of a tangent... | 63 lines |
TOPIC | 341.0 | Doctor Recommendations.... |
| 341.2 | Fri Apr 28 1989 14:58 | Be careful when writing to this note, please | 15 lines |
TOPIC | 349.0 | Mon May 22 1989 14:54 | Thank You | 17 lines |
TOPIC | 350.0 | It's So Male of you (S'MALE'O'U) |
| 350.1 | Mon May 29 1989 16:12 | Hard to dismiss when stereotypes are reinforced | 44 lines |
| 350.5 | Tue May 30 1989 12:13 | White Males aren't trusted; and that's "real" | 74 lines |
| 350.8 | Tue May 30 1989 16:56 | This is the voice in my head says "Watch out, 'white male'"! | 54 lines |
| 350.14 | Wed May 31 1989 14:12 | One more time... | 35 lines |
| 350.19 | Mon Jun 05 1989 13:44 | Feedback, Sharing, and Community | 79 lines |
| 350.20 | Tue Jun 13 1989 12:59 | FYI: Why I use the word "strate" | 31 lines |
| 350.22 | Tue Jun 13 1989 17:20 | Until I find an alternative... | 11 lines |
| 350.24 | Thu Jun 15 1989 16:30 | Ha! | 11 lines |
| 350.26 | Fri Jun 16 1989 11:23 | At least one member cares, and that's enough | 13 lines |
| 350.29 | Mon Jun 19 1989 11:52 | Go for it... | 19 lines |
TOPIC | 351.0 | Wage parity between men and women |
| 351.48 | Tue Jun 13 1989 12:56 | More heat than light... | 25 lines |
| 351.87 | Thu Jun 15 1989 17:28 | Lots of stuff... | 158 lines |
| 351.91 | Fri Jun 16 1989 13:24 | Back to wage parity... | 53 lines |
| 351.105 | Mon Jun 19 1989 12:31 | Alienation | 36 lines |
TOPIC | 354.0 | Happy Father's Day |
| 354.11 | Wed Jun 21 1989 12:13 | I think it should be a positive day, too | 6 lines |
| 354.13 | Mon Jul 31 1989 12:47 | I think it belongs here | 21 lines |
TOPIC | 356.0 | Wed Jun 21 1989 12:53 | Valuing Differences | 101 lines |
TOPIC | 360.0 | destructive relationships..why??? |
| 360.5 | Wed Aug 02 1989 11:37 | Some thoughts | 31 lines |
TOPIC | 364.0 | "Less Clothing alternatives for MEN" |
| 364.18 | Fri Aug 04 1989 11:19 | Cross-Cultural Catalogs | 17 lines |
TOPIC | 368.0 | For Granddad |
| 368.5 | Sun Aug 27 1989 15:43 | Some thoughts | 20 lines |
TOPIC | 375.0 | Wed Sep 20 1989 16:15 | Getting used to the rubber | 23 lines |
| 375.14 | Thu Sep 21 1989 13:01 | It can be fun to use condoms | 38 lines |
| 375.16 | Fri Sep 22 1989 12:11 | | 30 lines |
| 375.21 | Fri Sep 22 1989 16:14 | Different requirements for different people... | 22 lines |
| 375.48 | Wed Nov 01 1989 14:48 | Another idea... | 14 lines |
| 375.49 | Wed Nov 01 1989 15:31 | Clarification | 14 lines |
TOPIC | 376.0 | Woman gets embryos (man forced to become father) |
| 376.14 | Mon Sep 25 1989 20:47 | This is how I call it | 29 lines |
| 376.21 | Wed Sep 27 1989 12:40 | I gave it my best shot... | 85 lines |
| 376.27 | Thu Sep 28 1989 14:24 | Clarification of what I'm trying to say | 33 lines |
| 376.28 | Thu Sep 28 1989 14:29 | Technology is natural | 15 lines |
| 376.33 | Mon Oct 02 1989 19:16 | Trying to focus on one point (and then elaborating) | 77 lines |
TOPIC | 384.0 | Being Male...Lost Identity??? |
| 384.20 | Wed Nov 01 1989 16:09 | Sorry it's so long; after effects of the workshop | 176 lines |
| 384.29 | Thu Nov 02 1989 11:26 | Sorry. I have blabbing fingers... | 20 lines |
| 384.35 | Fri Nov 03 1989 16:59 | Just something that came to mind that I relate to... | 11 lines |
TOPIC | 385.0 | Thu Nov 02 1989 11:16 | Gay Valuing Differences Presentation | 106 lines |
| 385.3 | Mon Nov 06 1989 10:57 | We need "sponsorship" in local sites | 25 lines |
TOPIC | 387.0 | help me understand!!! |
| 387.5 | Wed Nov 08 1989 13:37 | Triggered some thoughts about my ex | 20 lines |
TOPIC | 388.0 | Men/Public Emotions....AHHHH! |
| 388.2 | Wed Nov 08 1989 13:55 | Thoughts | 49 lines |
TOPIC | 391.0 | Is this harrassment?? |
| 391.8 | Tue Nov 21 1989 14:33 | Interesting... | 24 lines |
TOPIC | 393.0 | Thu Nov 30 1989 11:19 | The Men of "Steel Magnolias" | 32 lines |
| 393.13 | Fri Dec 01 1989 14:47 | Background is okay, but what type of background? | 38 lines |
| 393.26 | Tue Dec 05 1989 13:21 | My cut at it... | 44 lines |
| 393.27 | Tue Dec 05 1989 13:33 | More clarification... | 30 lines |
| 393.36 | Wed Dec 06 1989 09:30 | ...nevermind | 12 lines |
| 393.38 | Wed Dec 06 1989 10:08 | I guess it really bothered me; oh well! | 114 lines |
| 393.52 | Tue Dec 12 1989 16:46 | Funny Essay about Film's Effects on Kids | 109 lines |
TOPIC | 394.0 | What is television trying to tell the public? |
| 394.10 | Fri Dec 01 1989 14:59 | I'd look at the overall portrayal of boys | 26 lines |
| 394.163 | Wed Dec 20 1989 16:18 | Lots of thoughts | 164 lines |
| 394.164 | Wed Dec 20 1989 16:19 | I blew it...AGAIN! | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 396.0 | Fri Dec 01 1989 15:09 | Free without Free Falling | 25 lines |
TOPIC | 400.0 | Parental Error |
| 400.14 | Tue Dec 12 1989 17:09 | Sounds familiar | 35 lines |
| 400.20 | Wed Dec 27 1989 10:15 | Sounds like a rough time for all | 8 lines |
TOPIC | 403.0 | Wed Dec 27 1989 13:56 | Reaffirming Valuing Differences | 60 lines |
| 403.1 | Wed Dec 27 1989 13:57 | | 45 lines |
| 403.2 | Wed Dec 27 1989 13:59 | | 61 lines |
| 403.3 | Wed Dec 27 1989 14:00 | | 24 lines |
| 403.4 | Wed Dec 27 1989 14:03 | Focus on valuing the male difference | 11 lines |
TOPIC | 404.0 | Men and housework, help! |
| 404.28 | Thu Jan 04 1990 16:01 | Doncha _Love_ Notes??? Oy! | 32 lines |
TOPIC | 406.0 | Determination of Paternity |
| 406.14 | Thu Jan 18 1990 16:35 | "Don't worry (step) daugher, just getting back at mom." | 12 lines |
TOPIC | 408.0 | UK FATHERS AND CUSTODY OF CHILDREN |
| 408.4 | Tue Jan 30 1990 11:53 | Enemies can team up "for the same of the kids" | 28 lines |
TOPIC | 409.0 | Real Men....support an end to violence against women |
| 409.1 | Fri Jan 26 1990 11:21 | I'd like to go... | 2 lines |
| 409.35 | Tue Jan 30 1990 11:57 | PTL, Mother Theresa, and the NFL: Respect! | 8 lines |
| 409.47 | Wed Jan 31 1990 13:59 | "Take that soapbox away from him!" | 76 lines |
| 409.64 | Thu Feb 01 1990 11:11 | Another example of everyone's responsibility in this... | 31 lines |
| 409.69 | Fri Feb 02 1990 11:15 | Random thoughts about hoop and hoopla | 72 lines |
| 409.77 | Mon Feb 05 1990 13:45 | 2 Cases in this week's Boston Globe... | 14 lines |
| 409.88 | Tue Feb 06 1990 10:22 | Saw another one in the paper yesterday... | 6 lines |
| 409.101 | Wed Feb 07 1990 11:18 | Why so much heat? Plenty of room for all topics. | 22 lines |
| 409.123 | Thu Feb 08 1990 11:23 | I don't think we should ignore that it happens to women more... | 27 lines |
| 409.129 | Thu Feb 08 1990 15:14 | I didn't intend to insult folks | 32 lines |
TOPIC | 415.0 | Men On Abortion |
| 415.32 | Thu Feb 22 1990 15:02 | Words men use when talking about abortion | 27 lines |
| 415.43 | Tue Feb 27 1990 11:00 | More thoughts... | 49 lines |
TOPIC | 416.0 | New Findings on Homosexuality |
| 416.1 | Tue Feb 20 1990 11:06 | Something doesn't seem right with those numbers... | 27 lines |
| 416.5 | Thu Feb 22 1990 15:30 | Some thoughts... | 85 lines |
| 416.9 | Tue Feb 27 1990 11:04 | Yes | 13 lines |
| 416.12 | Wed Feb 28 1990 14:01 | A thought... | 13 lines |
TOPIC | 419.0 | Real man? |
| 419.17 | Tue Mar 06 1990 12:09 | Feel free to disagree... | 20 lines |
| 419.19 | Wed Mar 07 1990 11:31 | | 17 lines |
| 419.34 | Mon Mar 12 1990 12:52 | ;-) | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 420.0 | Why is it... |
| 420.3 | Wed Mar 07 1990 10:20 | I've experienced it, too | 25 lines |
TOPIC | 421.0 | Men loving Men |
| 421.21 | Wed Mar 07 1990 11:24 | Some thoughts... | 180 lines |
| 421.28 | Thu Mar 08 1990 11:46 | I wish I was closer to the heterosexual women in my life | 29 lines |
| 421.29 | Thu Mar 08 1990 12:05 | More thoughts | 49 lines |
| 421.59 | Fri Mar 09 1990 16:18 | Harrrruuuummmmmpppphhh! | 69 lines |
| 421.78 | Mon Mar 12 1990 17:19 | "A little respect...Just a little bit <A-Rum!>" | 31 lines |
| 421.83 | Tue Mar 13 1990 10:06 | I guess I just want to hear and to be heard | 10 lines |
| 421.86 | Tue Mar 13 1990 10:50 | I'll give it one more try... | 86 lines |
| 421.118 | Fri Mar 16 1990 10:48 | A plea for courtesy and not making assumptions | 12 lines |
| 421.120 | Mon Mar 19 1990 15:15 | Ha! | 9 lines |
| 421.124 | Tue Mar 20 1990 15:57 | Geraldo doing some investigative reporting... | 16 lines |
| 421.132 | Wed Mar 21 1990 14:02 | Some thoughts... | 15 lines |
| 421.145 | Thu Mar 22 1990 11:06 | I don't feel as if I'm getting anywhere with this... | 17 lines |
| 421.150 | Fri Mar 23 1990 15:40 | Have we gone as far as we can here? | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 425.0 | What is sexy" |
| 425.11 | Tue Mar 13 1990 10:10 | Handy with a dictionary... | 7 lines |
| 425.46 | Mon Mar 19 1990 15:51 | Sexy is as sexy does | 41 lines |
| 425.48 | Tue Mar 20 1990 10:24 | I wasn't sure before I looked them up... | 24 lines |
| 425.61 | Fri Mar 23 1990 15:31 | Another opinion, for what it's worth | 7 lines |
| 425.76 | Fri Apr 06 1990 11:30 | | 8 lines |
| 425.84 | Fri Apr 06 1990 15:20 | "You" "No, no, you first" "I couldn't. You take him"... | 14 lines |
| 425.85 | Fri Apr 06 1990 15:23 | Or does this belong in a "sexiest facility" note? | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 426.0 | Mon Mar 12 1990 14:55 | I don't speak for all gay men | 17 lines |
TOPIC | 428.0 | ARE MEN SHY? |
| 428.15 | Wed Mar 21 1990 09:10 | Need some clarification on "putting ego on the line" | 15 lines |
| 428.29 | Thu Mar 22 1990 11:24 | Internalization, not self-centeredness | 28 lines |
TOPIC | 429.0 | Is touching 'sexual' for most men? |
| 429.12 | Fri Mar 23 1990 15:38 | Sexual or sensual? | 18 lines |
| 429.24 | Tue Mar 27 1990 11:26 | Men kissing on national TV | 10 lines |
| 429.29 | Fri Apr 13 1990 12:59 | | 23 lines |
| 429.30 | Wed Apr 18 1990 16:36 | | 35 lines |
TOPIC | 430.0 | Domestic Violence |
| 430.47 | Fri Mar 23 1990 15:47 | Two more ramifications | 33 lines |
| 430.126 | Wed Mar 28 1990 11:33 | Some observations | 50 lines |
TOPIC | 431.0 | Wed Mar 28 1990 11:41 | He says he's confused and needs time? | 36 lines |
| 431.1 | Wed Mar 28 1990 11:50 | Some thoughts... | 38 lines |
| 431.7 | Thu Mar 29 1990 12:33 | Gambling mood today... | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 438.0 | Fri Apr 06 1990 15:38 | When does sex talk go too far? | 25 lines |
| 438.12 | Mon Apr 09 1990 11:55 | We're crossing a line... | 15 lines |
| 438.39 | Wed Apr 11 1990 16:40 | Give me a break, please | 13 lines |
| 438.47 | Fri Apr 13 1990 13:23 | With "Demand" comes responsibility for "Supply" | 83 lines |
| 438.64 | Tue Apr 17 1990 16:59 | | 12 lines |
TOPIC | 440.0 | Women's Breasts...what are they?? |
| 440.3 | Mon Apr 09 1990 11:40 | Vive La Difference | 7 lines |
| 440.26 | Wed Apr 18 1990 15:44 | Do the right thing... | 16 lines |
| 440.43 | Fri Apr 20 1990 16:15 | One more time (but I don't know why)... | 14 lines |
| 440.45 | Fri Apr 20 1990 16:20 | | 13 lines |
TOPIC | 441.0 | What do women look for? |
| 441.4 | Mon Apr 09 1990 11:43 | Heterosexual women, gay men, bi women, bi men: which group? | 9 lines |
| 441.44 | Wed Apr 11 1990 11:59 | Back to "What women find attractive," please... | 11 lines |
| 441.52 | Wed Apr 11 1990 16:15 | Enough, please! | 11 lines |
| 441.61 | Fri Apr 20 1990 16:17 | "I got you, Babe" AAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaggggggggggghhhhhhh! | 8 lines |
| 441.70 | Thu Apr 26 1990 12:36 | Why don't we all don pink and blue and get it over with? | 8 lines |
| 441.72 | Thu Apr 26 1990 12:43 | | 9 lines |
TOPIC | 442.0 | Manners. |
| 442.22 | Wed Apr 11 1990 12:50 | Stuff... | 62 lines |
| 442.30 | Wed Apr 11 1990 16:27 | Clarification... | 26 lines |
| 442.32 | Wed Apr 11 1990 16:35 | Perfect example of what I'm talking about... | 26 lines |
| 442.40 | Thu Apr 12 1990 11:33 | Oh, well. I'll try one more time... | 39 lines |
| 442.54 | Fri Apr 13 1990 12:39 | I agree with some things... | 64 lines |
TOPIC | 444.0 | Wed Apr 11 1990 12:57 | Scouting: How do you feel about it? | 11 lines |
| 444.1 | Wed Apr 11 1990 12:58 | Clarification | 8 lines |
| 444.5 | Wed Apr 11 1990 16:07 | | 23 lines |
| 444.6 | Wed Apr 11 1990 16:11 | Please don't put words into my mouth | 20 lines |
| 444.14 | Fri Apr 13 1990 12:53 | Still remembering... | 64 lines |
| 444.26 | Thu Apr 19 1990 11:34 | Lots of Judo-Christian stuff in there... | 34 lines |
| 444.43 | Fri Apr 20 1990 15:48 | Thoughts on religion, patriotism, and Scouting | 65 lines |
| 444.44 | Fri Apr 20 1990 15:57 | Just don't map it onto me, that's all | 26 lines |
| 444.58 | Mon Apr 23 1990 16:26 | Stuff | 21 lines |
| 444.66 | Tue Apr 24 1990 13:47 | I love notes, I _swear_; such fluid communication | 19 lines |
| 444.75 | Wed Apr 25 1990 10:28 | I understand, now | 22 lines |
| 444.78 | Thu Apr 26 1990 12:39 | Would be nice to know what we are fighting about | 9 lines |
| 444.84 | Fri Apr 27 1990 15:12 | Thoughts on PCness | 58 lines |
| 444.86 | Mon Apr 30 1990 14:34 | PC | 27 lines |
| 444.87 | Mon Apr 30 1990 14:38 | A summary of my objection... | 11 lines |
TOPIC | 445.0 | What is Ugly??? |
| 445.11 | Fri Apr 20 1990 16:19 | Agreement... | 4 lines |
| 445.20 | Mon Apr 23 1990 16:15 | That was make-up | 9 lines |
| 445.25 | Tue Apr 24 1990 13:34 | Good question... | 9 lines |
TOPIC | 447.0 | Roper Poll on women's perception of men |
| 447.13 | Fri Apr 27 1990 14:57 | Some thoughts... | 29 lines |
TOPIC | 449.0 | Tue May 01 1990 11:09 | PC: What does it mean in our MENNOTES discussions? | 10 lines |
| 449.1 | Tue May 01 1990 11:31 | My cut at it... | 82 lines |
TOPIC | 451.0 | Cheating Wives |
| 451.13 | Fri May 04 1990 10:42 | Some observations... | 20 lines |
TOPIC | 452.0 | Anybody Up For An 'Outing'? |
| 452.11 | Fri May 04 1990 11:07 | My take on it... | 54 lines |
| 452.21 | Mon May 07 1990 11:28 | More stuff... | 82 lines |
| 452.28 | Tue May 08 1990 11:21 | Is Outing really a concern of yours? I think not. | 90 lines |
| 452.64 | Tue May 15 1990 13:03 | Great line... | 11 lines |
| 452.65 | Tue May 15 1990 13:08 | Notes on "family" | 27 lines |
| 452.67 | Tue May 15 1990 14:55 | "Gay" does not say anything about "love/sex life" | 18 lines |
| 452.68 | Tue May 15 1990 15:04 | Response to some questions... | 54 lines |
| 452.69 | Tue May 15 1990 15:33 | "Gay Man Surfaces From Deadlines...Film at 11" | 95 lines |
| 452.88 | Wed May 16 1990 12:15 | That was longer than I thought it would be... | 109 lines |
| 452.95 | Thu May 17 1990 12:33 | More thoughts... | 39 lines |
| 452.96 | Thu May 17 1990 13:08 | Further Tales... | 103 lines |
| 452.102 | Fri May 18 1990 11:42 | More thoughts | 159 lines |
| 452.105 | Fri May 18 1990 14:32 | Homophobic comments made in mourning... | 114 lines |
| 452.108 | Fri May 18 1990 16:38 | Thanks! | 20 lines |
| 452.113 | Thu Jun 07 1990 16:48 | You're being called on it... | 121 lines |
| 452.117 | Mon Jun 11 1990 11:25 | Surprized at the reaction... | 10 lines |
| 452.120 | Mon Jun 11 1990 12:29 | PC for "whining liberal" translates to: | 22 lines |
| 452.128 | Mon Jun 11 1990 15:50 | More thoughts... | 115 lines |
| 452.135 | Tue Jun 12 1990 12:56 | More thoughts... | 59 lines |
| 452.158 | Thu Jun 14 1990 14:54 | Interesting... | 17 lines |
| 452.162 | Thu Jun 14 1990 16:57 | Interesting thought... | 31 lines |
| 452.192 | Tue Jun 19 1990 15:49 | Different ways to look at things... | 41 lines |
| 452.193 | Tue Jun 19 1990 16:00 | Umm...NO | 36 lines |
| 452.196 | Tue Jun 19 1990 16:33 | | 5 lines |
| 452.197 | Tue Jun 19 1990 16:33 | Responsibility? Yes. Guilt? No. | 117 lines |
| 452.202 | Tue Jun 19 1990 17:28 | Check it out... | 60 lines |
| 452.210 | Wed Jun 20 1990 12:07 | more thoughts... | 89 lines |
| 452.212 | Wed Jun 20 1990 15:13 | Have your opinion, but I don't share it | 7 lines |
| 452.228 | Thu Jun 21 1990 11:22 | "He's mellowing. Is he sick, or something???" ;-) | 15 lines |
| 452.236 | Thu Jun 21 1990 12:03 | Some background on my position | 145 lines |
| 452.238 | Thu Jun 21 1990 12:20 | Talk away; get out of that voting booth, though | 15 lines |
| 452.247 | Fri Jun 22 1990 12:01 | More thoughts... | 116 lines |
| 452.255 | Mon Jun 25 1990 12:37 | Yep... | 12 lines |
| 452.257 | Mon Jul 02 1990 12:24 | I'm sorry if I used that term in here. | 10 lines |
TOPIC | 453.0 | Are fathers valued? Should they be paid? |
| 453.86 | Mon Jun 04 1990 16:24 | My cut on it... | 22 lines |
TOPIC | 454.0 | On War |
| 454.5 | Thu May 17 1990 12:21 | A nodding head... | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 455.0 | Female Homosexuality and Men |
| 455.15 | Fri May 18 1990 10:48 | Some thoughts... | 35 lines |
| 455.18 | Mon May 21 1990 11:12 | Oh, well... | 17 lines |
TOPIC | 458.0 | Hollywood depiction of men |
| 458.4 | Mon Jun 04 1990 16:16 | Random thoughts... | 55 lines |
| 458.32 | Tue Jun 12 1990 10:41 | Why reinforce a negative myth? | 16 lines |
| 458.35 | Tue Jun 12 1990 12:44 | Yep... | 5 lines |
| 458.48 | Tue Jun 26 1990 15:05 | Classism is the issue, no? | 21 lines |
TOPIC | 462.0 | Is this Sexist? |
| 462.10 | Mon Jun 18 1990 11:10 | Another perspective | 11 lines |
| 462.54 | Wed Jun 20 1990 11:39 | Some thoughts... | 22 lines |
TOPIC | 466.0 | Fri Jun 22 1990 12:04 | Heterosexuals working with Gay People | 3 lines |
| 466.1 | Fri Jun 22 1990 12:14 | Work that can be done day-to-day | 225 lines |
| 466.10 | Mon Jun 25 1990 12:41 | Think for yourselves. Definitely. | 19 lines |
| 466.11 | Mon Jun 25 1990 12:52 | An example... | 41 lines |
| 466.36 | Mon Jun 25 1990 16:32 | I thought I covered this... | 9 lines |
| 466.37 | Mon Jun 25 1990 16:38 | Blech... | 36 lines |
| 466.49 | Tue Jun 26 1990 12:31 | I'm not asking anyone to go "generic" | 57 lines |
| 466.52 | Tue Jun 26 1990 14:58 | I'm okay; he's okay; everyone's okay; okay? | 21 lines |
| 466.57 | Mon Jul 02 1990 12:16 | I don't feel as if I'm being heard, yet | 127 lines |
| 466.59 | Mon Jul 02 1990 18:39 | I felt what I felt; can other people "agree" with it??? | 54 lines |
| 466.64 | Tue Jul 03 1990 12:01 | Reality is a collective hunch, IMO | 48 lines |
| 466.65 | Tue Jul 03 1990 12:40 | Lost in the analogy... | 21 lines |
TOPIC | 467.0 | male sexoholic |
| 467.13 | Mon Jun 25 1990 16:28 | It's not about sex; other needs aren't being met... | 18 lines |
| 467.32 | Wed Jun 27 1990 15:33 | Here is the way I treated it... | 163 lines |
TOPIC | 476.0 | Andrew Dice Clay |
| 476.42 | Wed Jul 25 1990 15:13 | "It's only a joke" to those who are not affected | 15 lines |
TOPIC | 479.0 | Mapplethorpe Revisited |
| 479.6 | Thu Aug 02 1990 11:31 | Some thoughts | 48 lines |
| 479.9 | Fri Aug 03 1990 11:19 | How good was he? | 23 lines |
| 479.60 | Fri Aug 10 1990 16:51 | | 38 lines |
| 479.62 | Fri Aug 10 1990 17:43 | | 16 lines |
| 479.70 | Tue Aug 14 1990 15:54 | Art, Horror, Fear, Self-examination, and Virtue | 224 lines |
TOPIC | 482.0 | what's FAIR |
| 482.17 | Fri Aug 10 1990 16:38 | | 12 lines |
TOPIC | 483.0 | If you don't agree, you're a pig |
| 483.31 | Fri Aug 10 1990 17:07 | Heterosexually-appearing white men aren't doing their part | 30 lines |
| 483.32 | Fri Aug 10 1990 17:23 | You might want to ask African Americans, gays, etc... | 48 lines |
| 483.33 | Fri Aug 10 1990 17:32 | | 22 lines |
| 483.48 | Mon Aug 13 1990 12:51 | One person's take on "White Male Privilege" | 72 lines |
| 483.56 | Mon Aug 13 1990 14:55 | More thoughts... | 29 lines |
| 483.59 | Mon Aug 13 1990 15:17 | More thoughts... | 82 lines |
| 483.118 | Thu Aug 16 1990 10:37 | Yes and no | 13 lines |
TOPIC | 484.0 | Impoliteness in the Halls |
| 484.21 | Fri Aug 10 1990 17:38 | I notice it, too | 16 lines |
TOPIC | 486.0 | Married to a deadbeat |
| 486.11 | Wed Aug 15 1990 16:35 | It sounds drastic, but what else can you do? | 6 lines |
TOPIC | 487.0 | How frequently do you guys have sex? |
| 487.8 | Fri Aug 17 1990 11:29 | | 30 lines |
TOPIC | 490.0 | Are men always "ready for sex?" |
| 490.4 | Thu Aug 23 1990 15:14 | | 18 lines |
TOPIC | 491.0 | So sad the song... |
| 491.11 | Thu Aug 23 1990 15:28 | Some thoughts... | 43 lines |
TOPIC | 494.0 | You want my phone number? |
| 494.12 | Tue Aug 28 1990 16:40 | Same for gay folks, too | 11 lines |
| 494.18 | Fri Aug 31 1990 11:51 | Don't count on it until he comes through once... | 21 lines |
| 494.22 | Fri Aug 31 1990 16:45 | Another way to look at it... | 51 lines |
TOPIC | 496.0 | A Gathering of Men (in person, not on TV) |
| 496.8 | Wed Aug 29 1990 10:06 | Some thoughts | 44 lines |
| 496.23 | Fri Aug 31 1990 11:45 | | 14 lines |
| 496.26 | Tue Sep 04 1990 10:56 | Do men always have to isolate??? | 16 lines |
TOPIC | 498.0 | Valuing similarities??? |
| 498.7 | Fri Aug 31 1990 12:07 | Both serve us in different contexts | 59 lines |
| 498.9 | Fri Aug 31 1990 16:23 | Here's one point of view | 46 lines |
TOPIC | 504.0 | Spit Brook Men's Group |
| 504.3 | Thu Oct 04 1990 15:35 | | 16 lines |
TOPIC | 505.0 | Robert Bly's work with men |
| 505.3 | Tue Sep 18 1990 12:47 | Good for a laugh, with an underlying serious point | 15 lines |
TOPIC | 506.0 | "NICE GUYS" Ophra Winfrey show |
| 506.7 | Tue Sep 18 1990 12:53 | | 20 lines |
TOPIC | 509.0 | How do men decide who to marry? |
| 509.6 | Thu Sep 20 1990 11:48 | | 8 lines |
| 509.17 | Fri Sep 21 1990 11:20 | | 21 lines |
TOPIC | 511.0 | Patriots - a male/male sellout? |
| 511.3 | Tue Sep 25 1990 12:51 | | 46 lines |
| 511.13 | Tue Sep 25 1990 15:01 | Notice people trying to shift the focus, here... | 34 lines |
| 511.14 | Tue Sep 25 1990 15:07 | | 43 lines |
| 511.31 | Tue Sep 25 1990 22:55 | | 89 lines |
| 511.40 | Wed Sep 26 1990 12:32 | Clarification | 17 lines |
| 511.62 | Thu Sep 27 1990 12:09 | | 12 lines |
| 511.82 | Fri Sep 28 1990 11:44 | For what it's worth... | 7 lines |
| 511.84 | Fri Sep 28 1990 11:53 | Priorities, sexual harassment or locker room privacy? | 41 lines |
| 511.98 | Mon Oct 01 1990 20:06 | Enough, please... | 13 lines |
| 511.108 | Thu Oct 04 1990 15:32 | | 16 lines |
TOPIC | 512.0 | Is the media totally lacking in ethics? |
| 512.4 | Tue Sep 25 1990 15:22 | | 46 lines |
TOPIC | 513.0 | Men Selling Out Other Men |
| 513.13 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:25 | | 10 lines |
| 513.15 | Mon Oct 01 1990 20:16 | In reply to an earlier reply... | 12 lines |
| 513.25 | Thu Oct 04 1990 15:24 | "Selling Out" needs to be clearly defined | 27 lines |
TOPIC | 514.0 | Wed Sep 26 1990 11:28 | Racism toward and by men | 1 lines |
| 514.1 | Wed Sep 26 1990 12:03 | Where I am coming from... | 80 lines |
| 514.2 | Wed Sep 26 1990 12:22 | My cut on it... | 81 lines |
| 514.7 | Thu Sep 27 1990 12:03 | | 20 lines |
| 514.11 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:09 | | 20 lines |
| 514.12 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:10 | | 8 lines |
| 514.13 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:19 | | 40 lines |
| 514.15 | Mon Oct 01 1990 20:29 | An example of my own racism... | 36 lines |
TOPIC | 515.0 | Sex poll |
| 515.23 | Thu Sep 27 1990 12:49 | | 10 lines |
| 515.43 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:05 | Such drama... | 11 lines |
| 515.60 | Mon Oct 01 1990 19:56 | | 8 lines |
TOPIC | 517.0 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:28 | Jokes about men: when are they insulting? | 83 lines |
| 517.1 | Fri Sep 28 1990 12:30 | | 19 lines |
| 517.5 | Fri Sep 28 1990 15:15 | Yep... | 7 lines |
TOPIC | 518.0 | Fun with Mutations... |
| 518.2 | Mon Oct 01 1990 20:30 | | 8 lines |
TOPIC | 519.0 | Promiscuity/morality & other trivia |
| 519.16 | Thu Oct 04 1990 14:50 | Some thoughts | 25 lines |
| 519.17 | Thu Oct 04 1990 15:00 | exi | 29 lines |