Title: | MUSIC V4 |
Notice: | New Noters please read Note 1.*, Mod = someone else |
Moderator: | KDX200::COOPER |
Created: | Wed Oct 09 1991 |
Last Modified: | Tue Mar 12 1996 |
Last Successful Update: | Fri Jun 06 1997 |
Number of topics: | 762 |
Total number of notes: | 18706 |
Last Friday nigth my band "Generation Gap" was suppose to play a two nighter in Leominster. My drummer called at the last minute saying that the weather was bad and that he couldn't make it. I was in a state of shock, because I have never been in this type of situation before. We did the next night on Saturday but I did not say anything at this time about this. The drummer has a 4 wheel drive vehicle and we offered to have him stay at our house, after getting to Leominster after the gig. He cancelled out at 17:00 (5:00p.m.) 4 hours before we were suppose to play by then the road to me looks ok to drive on and did not see a problem. NOW I have have to deal with this, anyone would like to comment. thanks Phil
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757.1 | NETCAD::HERTZBERG | History: Love it or Leave it! | Mon Feb 19 1996 09:58 | 9 | |
It seems this fella doesn't think the show must go on. The list of OK reasons to cancel a show is pretty short, in my opinion... a few family goodies such as a death or near death, illness of the cenceller has to be in the class of hospitalization or nearly so, etc. Cancelling on accounta weather has to be by everybody's agreement, including the club owner. Unless I'm getting a wrong impression about what this guy did, I'd be so furious I'd insist the band fire him as soon as a practical. | |||||
757.2 | E::EVANS | Mon Feb 19 1996 11:12 | 6 | ||
Does he play like a cross betweenJohn Bonham and Keith Moon? If not, .... Jim | |||||
757.3 | DREGS::BLICKSTEIN | General MIDI | Mon Feb 19 1996 11:23 | 16 | |
I think you need to figure out whether or not you guys agree on what is a valid reason to cancel a gig (and I certainly agree with .0 and .1 that the list of valid reasons is VERY short). I once had to deal with a player who cancelled out on gigs and it always created a tremendous hassle for the rest of the band. My feeling is communicate with him, see if you agree, and if you don't, get another drummer. Fast! You would not believe some of the situations my GB band was in and still played. The rules for wedding bands are even stricter: not even death is a valid excuse for leaving clients without a band on their wedding. db | |||||
757.4 | Look for a new skin man | STRATA::WOOLDRIDGE | Pleasure, Spiked With Pain | Mon Feb 19 1996 15:47 | 7 |
re .2: ...or Michel Shrieve (sp?) AKA vintage Santa @ woodstock! Then I 'd give him another chance.... if not: Take his sticks man! Tell him to join Spinal Tap! A loser IMHO. -zombie wolf | |||||
757.5 | SCASS1::BARBER_A | catch a groove and let it flow | Mon Feb 19 1996 16:20 | 1 | |
What's a drunner? | |||||
757.6 | ALFA2::DWEST | the storyteller makes no choice... | Mon Feb 19 1996 16:37 | 1 | |
obviously, one who druns.... :^) | |||||
757.7 | Fire him! | MXOC00::CSILVA | Mon Feb 19 1996 21:02 | 13 | |
Trying a new band/band member is as hard as trying to find a new girl friend. If you don't have common likes/dislikes, habits the thing doesn't work. Actually trying to have a completely new band is like trying to have "n" new girlfriends at the same time. But as with bad girls, let bad musicians go! | |||||
757.8 | OCTAVE::VIGNEAULT | Minister of chiles | Tue Feb 20 1996 07:25 | 11 | |
He has a 4 wheel drive vehicle and cancelled due to snow ? Methinks it was probably a convenient excuse for _other_ reasons. Discuss it with fellow band members. Personally, I'd send the guy on his way, but sometimes that's easier said than done, especially if you're longtime buddies/bandmates. If you don't toss him, you need to remind him of his responsibilities to the fellow bandmates as well as the client. Whatever you do beyond that extent is really up to the consensus of the other band members and yourself. Lv | |||||
757.9 | Hey BL!!! | ASDG::MCNAMARA | strange visitor...... | Tue Feb 20 1996 08:43 | 13 |
...hey Phil! Longtime no see!l I'd hafta agree with the previous noters: define what an "emergency" is, then stick by it...also may think you may hafta get a new "drunner"... i hear drunners are hard to come by...do U know what a set of new "druns" cost these daze?? Where didya play, Phil? Next time, gimme a blast, the wifey and I will try to make it....take care, Dude... george | |||||
757.10 | CPEEDY::MARKEY | He's ma...ma...ma...mad sir | Tue Feb 20 1996 12:28 | 22 | |
My take on it is that it depends... if you're the first or second band of four playing a tuesday night at Sir Morgan's, and your entire take for the evening will consist of 1/2 of the cover charge for the five friends you convice to show up, cancelling a gig is clearly no big deal. On the other hand, if you're the head-liner on a weekend night, or (as db mentioned) you're playing weddings or other important personal events, then missing a gig is death in this business, and you'll never get another. It's worth noting however, that you'll never get to point B if you keep missing gigs while at point A. Obviously, this gig was important enough that the author of the base note was upset about it, in which case I would dump the drummer just on the principle that he clearly has a different set of priorities than the rest of the band. Hell, I've been thrown out of bands because my priorities were different. It's no big deal... and often quite necessary. Of course, drunners are an odd lot anyway... :-) -b | |||||
757.11 | Skin Heads | STRATA::WOOLDRIDGE | Pleasure, Spiked With Pain | Tue Feb 20 1996 13:48 | 10 |
Yet another slant on this subject......... -= We all walk to the sound of a different drunner =- | |||||
757.12 | SCASS1::BARBER_A | DingaDingDangMyDangaLongLingLong | Tue Feb 20 1996 16:25 | 3 | |
set note/title=DRUMMER ?? 8) | |||||
757.13 | Love that place | NETCAD::HERTZBERG | History: Love it or Leave it! | Tue Feb 20 1996 16:46 | 9 |
re: Note 757.10 by CPEEDY::MARKEY I was going to enter a note saying I don't agree with the philosophy that some gigs should be treated as more important than others (and therefore less OK to cancel out on), but I decided otherwise when the example of Sir Morgan's was raised. I'd book a gig there just for the fun of cancelling out on them! ;^) | |||||
757.14 | Been out voted....thanks again | ICS::CATORIO | Wed Feb 21 1996 13:17 | 9 | |
Thanks for all the help with this one, still having problems with this but I have been out voted. Since we have 5 members in the band three have said to keep the drummer (formally drunner). Three to one oh well another time..... thanks again Phil anyone need a bass player........( country oldies ) | |||||
757.15 | from drunner to drunner | MROA::16.35.16.128::jmay | Thu Feb 22 1996 09:40 | 13 | |
I beilive that when the BAND decided to do a gig(either headlining/SMCove set/etc , it then became a BAND issue to cancel ...not some wimp drunner that just decided to stay home and "beat his own skins". All gigs have to be fun and exciting for me. You NEVER know who's in the Sir Morgan Cove audience. Once the fun,excitment,etc was lost with your drunner, was when he should have made the decision to bail out. ...If you really you're out voted maybe it's to "find a better class of losers"%^) How ya been Phil? John(RODEO CLOWNS) | |||||
757.16 | CPEEDY::MARKEY | He's ma...ma...ma...mad sir | Sun Feb 25 1996 19:51 | 23 | |
On the "you never know who will be at Sir Morgan's" note, it just so happens that one of my old bands was booked in there on a Thursday night as a headliner. Not exactly a huge night, but what the hay... anyway, we decided since we were the headliners, and had the longest set, that we would break out some of the more experimental stuff we did. There were about eight people there, when we went on so we basically said ".... it, we're gonna have some fun." Anyway, there was this guy sitting at the bar who I didn't know from Adam, but he seemed to be really digging what we were doing. The next day, a review shows up in the BOSTON GLOBE of our show! The guy who was digging us was none other than Steve Morse, the Globe's music critic. And it was a very favorable review indeed. On the other hand, all the nice things Morse said about us, and in turn about our being "regulars" at the Cove, that raging shmuck Niel (SM owner) said to me a couple years later (after the band had been defunct for a while) that he didn't remember us at all... what a Bozon Emitter that guy is... -b | |||||
757.17 | Must be a virus or something. | ASABET::pelkey.ogo.dec.com::pelkey | professional hombre | Wed Mar 06 1996 16:24 | 64 |
Hmmm,,, Just reading this note,, I gotta laugh at how odd timing is.. Last night, our bass player pulled one of his infamous last minute, "My pet hamster Died, can't make practice" routines. He 'claimed' the roads would be too bad later on... (We had some rain / snow going on in Mass..) but I don't get it... he wasn't even driving, the Keyboard player was gonna haul him up to practice... Since the form of this band in January, we've had 6 cancels.. all from the bass player, and all at the last minute. - Gotta go to New York, I forgot, sorry - I'm stuck in Burlington, can't get there.. - I've gotta a meeting, won't get done till 9:30 - Gotta go to New Jersey,, just found out... - It's snowing too hard, I don't wanna drive... and now this one... to me anyway, clearly he's coming up with better things to put his time into on practice night, and well basically, "screw" the band, add to this, he knows that one of the guys actually leaves work early, and gets docked, to make practice, that's now time AND money lost.. We've all agreed that cancelations would have to be done, prior to 2:30.. On top of this, he's now pushing the responsibility of his canceling to the Keyboard player,,, asking Brian to call Ron, and cancel for him,,, What are we dealing with here, a child ??? So bad enough we're getting the old 'Any reason is good enough reason' now he refuses to even make the calls,, He never called Ron to cancel, just left it up to Brian, who told him that there was no way he was cancling for his behalf (Rich) So, figuring "it's" on, Ron gets a call from Brian, at 6:30 p.m. (half the guys are on they're way already) to see if Rich called, to which Ron says 'No, what for ???' Off go the rockets,. So now, Ron calls Rich, Rich complains about the roads, Ron says, "Hey what's the deal, Brian is driving what's the beef.." Rich says "Brain's not driving,," eeeehhhh, Wrong answer, Brian had just told Ron that he didn't understand what was going on cuz he'd offered Rich a ride... (as he always did..) Ron tells Rich, to hang up the phone, and for the next ten minutes, think about you're level of commitment to this band, if you can't decide in ten minutes, than you're not into it.. IF you don't call me back, then we'll know your answer.. Rich NEVER called back... Ron called him at 9:15, 9:30 and 9:45,,, no answer... So, we summarily fired Rich last night... Obviously his commitment level isn't there... |