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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

1275.0. "Skinny kid, rings under eyes" by GRANPA::JHAGERTY () Fri Jan 10 1992 11:46

    My son is 22 months and is skinny as a rail.  His height is in the 80th
    percentile, but his weight is almost off the charts (24lbs).  He's very
    active and is a terrible eater.  He tends to be on the pale side and
    constantly has rings under his eyes which makes him look almost sickly
    at times.  The Dr. did blood work and everything seemed fine.
    
    I'm sure others have had similar experiences, so I'm looking for how
    you dealt with the frustation of a skinny kid.  And any experiences
    with rings under the eyes?
    
    John                      
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1275.1I had one of thoseTLE::RANDALLliberal feminist redneck pacifistFri Jan 10 1992 12:0822
    Sounds like my oldest.  She was 75th percentile in height, and she
    was off the chart for weight.  At 18 months I think she weighed
    just under 22 lbs.   From 18 months to about 30 months she lived
    on steamed carrots, instant mashed potatoes, cottage cheese, milk,
    and fruit juice (and not much of that).  Oh, and ice cream. 
    
    Strangers used to come up to me in the grocery store and ask me if
    there was something wrong with her.  I think they were preparing
    to offer sympathy if she was dying of leukemia or something.  
    
    But she was always active, full of energy and curiosity, very
    healthy and robust, never any sign of any health problem.  Just
    skinny.  
    
    I consoled myself with the knowledge that on the whole skinny
    people live longer than fat people, and that fat babies tend to
    have more weight problems when they grow up than skinny ones do.  
    Now she's 18, an apprentice dancer with the Granite State Ballet,
    and a straight-A student, so it doesn't appear to have hurt her
    any :)
    
    --bonnie
1275.2Don't think this is what your mean, butPOWDML::SATOWFri Jan 10 1992 12:157
re: .0

>    any experiences with rings under the eyes?
    
Yes.  I see them every morning when I'm shaving.   :^)

Clay
1275.3Hereditary, allergy?MCIS5::CORMIERFri Jan 10 1992 12:298
    Sometimes rings or smudgy coloration under the eyes is hereditary
    (thank you, Mom, for passing yours on to me : ), sometimes are caused
    by allergies.  Take a good look at your family members.  Then, if it
    really worries you, a trp to the allergist may be in order. But I can
    state from experience that they usually aren't fatal. However, they can
    be expensive...lots of cosmetics needed in my case so people stop
    asking me if I'm sick or tired (yeah, sick and tired of being asked!).
    Sarah
1275.4NEWPRT::NEWELL_JOJodi Newell - Irvine, CaliforniaFri Jan 10 1992 12:578
    Reply .3 beat me to it.  "Allergic Shiners" are very common in 
    children and adults that suffer from allergies.  Also there is
    a characteristic crease that appears on the nose, caused from
    rubbing.  Both of my kids (ages 4 and 6) have the shiners.  
    I do too but makeup does a decent job of covering them.  
    
    Jodi-
    
1275.5ringsGRANPA::JHAGERTYSun Jan 12 1992 19:206
    My wife thinks he takes after me with the rings under the eyes.  They
    tend to come and go depending on my sleep habits.  I noticed my sons
    rings come and go as well which means lack of sleep or allergies. 
    Maybe an allergenist for both my son an I, just for good measure.
    
    John
1275.6weightKAOFS::M_FETTalias Mrs.BarneyMon Jan 13 1992 09:3216
    My goddaughter is celebrating her 10th birthday this month; she
    was born 8 weeks pre-mature at the weight of barely two pounds.
    
    She now weights, at 10, only 48 pounds. She is a very fussy eater
    (what looked like it may have become an eating disorder a while
    back has sort of resolved it self -- she's just not fond of food).
    
    Of course that puts her way beyond average, but she's a healthy
    happy kid, and her metabolism seems to be doing quite fine. 
    
    Don't let unusual weight/height statistics concern you. if the 
    child seems to be doing fine in all other aspects (as the
    blood tests seem to indicate) then there is much less to worry about.
    
    Monica
    
1275.7VCSESU::BRANAMSteve, VAXcluster Sys Supp Eng MRO1-3/SL1, DTN 297-2625Fri Jan 17 1992 12:567
I was always skinny as a kid. I recall being one of the lightest kids in 5th 
grade, as well as one of the shortest. I am now average height (5'8") and just
a bit overweight 8^(. My son is 16 months, but everybody always thinks he is
6-12 months old. I console myself with the thought that most people are 
probably lousy at estimating a baby's age, and probably just have one or two
other kids to base their estimates on. He seems to be eating less as he gets
older, but there is no reduction in his activity (yeesh!).