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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

1133.0. "Hospital information wanted -- **Please respond by MAIL**" by CSLALL::BARRY_LM () Thu Sep 12 1991 13:41

    Hi Everyone,
    
    My due date is drawing near...Nov. 2nd.  I'm going to deliver at
    Brigham & Women's Hospital in Boston.
    
    MODERATORS: If this is a unappropriate question for this file please
    feel free to delete.
    
    I was wondering, have any of you out there delivered at Brigham and
    Women's?
    
    What were your feelings/impressions of the experience?
    
    Were the nurses nice?
    
    Was someone with you at all times?
    
    What is the earliest you can get the epidural?
    
    This is a teaching hospital, were there a lot of people in and out
    of your labor/delivery room?
    
    How soon after the baby is born, would you say you got to see and
    hold it?
    
    I know these questions may sound silly to some of you, but I'm very
    NERVOUS about this experience.  I'm looking forward to being a mommy,
    but I wish that I know what was waiting for me, these few days I'm
    to be in the hospital.
    
    Any adice or comments will be appreciated, and I realize that they
    are just one person's opinion.
    
    This is such a wonderful thing "NOTES - PARENTING"  I've found it
    to be so comforting and helpful to me these past eight months.
    
    Thanks....
    
    Lisa Barry
    
    
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1133.2GOZOLI::BERTINOThu Sep 12 1991 14:361
The general rule about the epidural seems to be "Not until you are 7cm dilated"
1133.3Moderator policyTNPUBS::STEINHARTThu Sep 12 1991 16:4833
                      Moderator Policy
    
    The policy regarding this note is as follows:
    
    All responses about particular hospitals must be by mail.
    General comments on selecting a hospital, such as teaching hospitals
    versus standard hospitals, are welcome.  
    
    Please feel free to put in inquiries about particular hospitals (to be
    responded to by mail) or general inquiries about selecting a hospital.
    
    To discuss labor and childbirth, you will find existing discussions in
    the following notes.  Do not use 1133 to discuss anesthesia or other
    issues around labor:
    
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           	173
    		232      
     		267    <-- general discussion
          	301
    		563
    		576
    
    To discuss hospital visits, you will find existing discussions in:
    
    		511
    		557
    		731
    		927
    
    
    
      
1133.1Lyn's experienceTNPUBS::STEINHARTThu Sep 12 1991 17:0948
     This reply entered for Lyn Tripp.
    
PERFCT::TRIPP                                        43 lines  12-SEP-1991 12:58
                            -< you DO have rights! >-
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    Although I can't give you any personal experience with B&W, as is the
    case in ANY teaching hospital you do have rights.  You have the right
    to tell the third, fourth, fifth, or sixth resident, intern or medical
    student who comes in to ask the same set of questions "ENOUGH!
    already", and ask him/her to leave.  You do have the right so say that
    you only want to deal with your *personal* physician, or one of his/her
    associates.
    
    In my case, with my first deliver I was
    induced using Prosteglanden suppositories.  The very nature of how the
    medication is administered is very personal.  A senior resident
    (female) came into our labor room to explain that MY OB was tied up in
    an emergency delivery and either we could wait about a half hour or she
    would be willing to insert the suppository, purely our choice.  We
    allowed her to do it.  After that I had to deal with one or two other
    residents and was assigned one nurse who only checked in periodically,
    unless summoned by hubby or I.  When the change of shift came about I
    was introduced to another nurse, again the only one I dealt with, and
    she stayed and ultimately assisted in the delivery.
    
    Much the same thing happened 20 months later when our son was delivered
    by a hasty C-section.  I had one nurse who assisted in the prep,
    delivery and post delivery care.  Ironically it was discovered after my
    son's birth that she was the one who had assisted in the first
    delivery! (unfortunately our first was a stillbirth, died in utero).  
    
    As for seeing the baby, usually unless you've had general anesthesia
    you should be able to hold the baby immediately, OR and this is
    important, as soon as YOU are ready to hold the baby.  Baring of course
    that something goes wrong and the baby needs some immediate attention.
    You also have the right to have the baby in the room as much or as
    little as YOU choose to.
    
    All of this, providing you are a "normal" delivery and Low risk, could
    include a birthing room experience, which would mean you may not have
    to delivery in a Delivery Room itself.  You may have an Intraveines
    started in your arm, some hospitals use this as SOP, you may or may not
    request some pain relief for yourself, such as injections of pain
    killer and/or Epidural which may be uncomfortable but not outrageous.
    
    Please relax, a lot of these questions will be answered if you go
    through some sort of Lamaze classes.
    Lyn