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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

967.0. "Trading" by CGHUB::OBRIEN (Yabba Dabba DOO) Fri Jun 14 1991 15:51

    This has to with boys/girls trading items.  My specific concern is with
    baseball cards.  Craig is 10 and seems to be getting "ripped off" on
    his trading with his buddies.  Since he is not sure of the value of
    some of the cards and his buddies are, they'll give him 3 garbage cards
    for a great card.  My husband and I were going to stay out of it, but
    after seeing some of the cards he's traded, we're concerned he's being
    "taken".
    
    I'm not sure, should we let him has his fun and trade, or should we
    stop it all together.
    
    I'm not a baseball fan, but some of the cards he's collected are of
    value.  Any thoughts?
    
    Thanks,
    Julie
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967.1A Magazine On Trading CardsCAPITN::TOWERS_MIFri Jun 14 1991 16:3320
    There is a magazine out called BECKETTS (sp) that shows values of cards
    and is easy to read and I think a ten year old could understand it.  My
    girlfriend's son has been an avid reader since he was 13 and I borrowed
    one to check on the cards I had as a kid.  You might see if you can
    find one and maybe he will want to see how much some of these cards go
    for and become more aware himself.  
    
    I know how you feel about being taken.  I was raised a baseball fan 
    and I had fun trading but never thought any of the cards would be 
    worth what they are today. If the person was not on my team - it went.  
    Cannot guess how many Kofax or Drysdale cards I might have given away 
    because they were the hated Dodgers.  If my son (who is only 9 months
     now) gets ripped off someday I will have to really watch out for
    butting in. However, business is business so maybe this magazine might
    interest him.
    
    If not - I guess let him have fun.
    
    Michelle
     
967.2NAVIER::SAISIFri Jun 14 1991 16:454
    You might want to explain about "sentimental value" too, and let
    him weigh the importance of that against the market value published
    in the magazine.
    	Linda
967.3depends on why he's tradingCSSE32::RANDALLBonnie Randall Schutzman, CSSE/DSSMon Jun 17 1991 15:5418
    Is this just with the cards you buy with bubble gum?  Or is he
    spending money to get cards, and then trading those away?  The
    differences in value among the current cards are so small it's
    probably not worth worrying about.  But if he's trying to build up
    a collection, and getting taken advantage of, he might need some
    protection. 
    
    You could have a pool of cards for trading, for instance, and the
    rest off limits.  The magazine is a good idea, to get him more
    information. 
    
    Steven (7) would trade a card worth a hundred dollars that had a
    player he didn't like for a card with a Blue Jay player on it, and
    think he got a good deal.  (Any Blue Jays player.  He likes the
    Blue Jays because blue is his favorite color and blue jays are his
    favorite bird.  No baseball factors involved.)
    
    --bonnie
967.4ThanksCGHUB::OBRIENYabba Dabba DOOMon Jun 17 1991 16:319
    I'm going to go out and buy the magazine so Craig can look up the value
    of the different cards.  He does get cards in the bubble gum packs and
    does buy some.  I like the idea of having a box of cards to be traded
    only, so maybe we can work on that and my husband and I will know
    what's going on in a trade.
    
    Thanks,
    Julie
    
967.5QUARK::LIONELFree advice is worth every centMon Jun 17 1991 21:0613
    My son, 7, has started being interested in baseball cards, and trades
    them with his friends.  I am not concerned with the cards as an
    "investment" - he enjoys the cards and enjoys the trades - why should
    I care if he trades for "garbage cards" if he truly likes what he
    gets.
    
    Julie, my advice (worth every cent as it says above) is to relax and
    leave Craig to enjoy the trading.  Now if he thinks that he's
    trying to make good deals according to the "worth" of the cards, then
    by all means buy him a book or magazine that lists the values, but
    otherwise I'd suggest leaving him alone.
    
    				Steve