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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

541.0. "Toddler's balance problem" by TSGDEV::CHANG () Tue Dec 04 1990 12:08

    I just had a conversation with Eric's (now 28 month) daycare
    teacher this morning.  She told me that she thinks Eric
    has a balance problem.  Base on her observation, Eric 
    has a tendency to lean his head toward his right shoulder.
    She said there could be a problem with his middle or inner
    ear.  I did notice the same behavior, but I always think
    that's just a habbit.  I also don't think he is doing
    it as frequent as the teacher described.  I called the
    pedi. right after the conversation and will bring Eric
    for a checkup this Friday.
    
    I just want to know more about the balance problem.  If
    anyone's toddler has the problem, when and how did
    you find out the problem and what the treatments
    are?   Is there a long-term effect if it is untreated
    or treated too late?
    
    I felt pretty guilty, because I didn't pick up the problem.
    However, Eric is doing well and advanced in all areas.  It 
    gives me no reasons to think there could be a problem.
    
    Thanks, Wendy 
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541.1My experienceNEURON::REEVESTue Dec 04 1990 16:5422
    Wendy, 
    	My son was 10 months old and everytime he would try to sit up by
    himself, he would fall over.  Due to the fact that he has Down Syndrome,
    we kind of ignored the problem as we thought it was due to his low muscle 
    tone. 
    	He was having an awful time with ear infections so they put tubes in 
    his ears, within a week of his surgery he was sitting up by himself 
    with no problem.  The doctors and therapists agree that his problem 
    was actually fluid and not low muscle tone.
    	I could have kicked myself for not realizing it sooner, but than I 
    am a first time mom and not a medical professional.  
    	I guess what I'm trying to say is don't beat yourself up for not 
    noticing some things, the best thing is to let the doctor check it out 
    and go from there.  If there is fluid and they want to put tubes in,
    it is a really easy surgery.  I worried myself sick over the surgery
    even though everyone told me is was a piece of cake.  They were all 
    right, the entire procedure only took 10 minutes and within 3 hours 
    after arriving at the hospital we were home and Shayne slept most of 
    the day.	
    	Good luck and I hope everything works out......
    
    Malinda
541.2Neurological problem?ISLNDS::AMANNWed Dec 05 1990 16:3419
    Wendy,
    
    My son was 6 years old before we recognized his balance problem.
    Even his pediatrician never noticed it.
    
    We took our son to Children's Hospital for an evaluation because
    he was having academic problems.  The full day evaluation showed
    Chris had learning disabilities and other neurological problems,
    including balance.  To this day (he's now 12) he can not ride
    a bike.
    
    Anyway, there's certainly nothing to feel guilty about.  It's good
    you have a day care person who tries to be observant.  I hope it's
    
    just some transient inner ear problem that can be fixed quickly
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    or something else that simply disappears on its own.
                      
    ---Dick
541.3He is fine!TSGDEV::CHANGMon Dec 10 1990 15:227
    Good news!  I have Eric checked by his pedi. last Friday.
    He did few simple tests and said Eric is fine.  He has
    no balance problem.  The leaning toward one side may just
    a temporary habbit.  What a relief!  Thanks for all
    the replies!
    
    Wendy