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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

408.0. "Any other RESOLVE members out there?" by WMOIS::D_ALEXANDER () Thu Oct 11 1990 12:20

    I've seen and even created alot of notes regarding infertility.
    But I've yet to come across a file about RESOLVE (a nonprofit
    organization for people coping with infertility).  
    
    I'd like to see if there are other people who are members and
    about some of there experiences with RESOLVE.  And just overall
    information about the organization.
    
    I'll start - I just became a member of RESOLVE in July.  My
    husband and I belong to a support group that meets once
    a week in Worcester, MA.  So far these group meetings have
    been very helpful.  We have learnt alot about the science
    of infertility from the other couples experiences.  And 
    also it has helped emotionaly to be able to talk with others
    who are going through the same things.
    
    I recieve the RESOLVE newsletters once a month and they are
    very interesting to me.
    
    Well, I'll let someone else have a turn,
    
    Deb
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408.1A good organizationWFOV12::MOKRAYThu Oct 11 1990 17:4129
    I was a member of RESOLVE but didn't pay the dues last time around
    because we had adopted and doing fertility drugs and being a first-time
    mother didn't fit very well.  I right off with them ordered all their
    background notes re my conditions.  I found those very useful as I
    became, as all who suffer infertility seem to do, a pseudo-reproductive
    endocrinologist.  You can amaze your friends!  Dazzle them completely
    as you speak knowledgeably of sperm counts and progesterone balances at
    every stage of the cycle.  I'd definitely recommend ordering these
    notes as a new member. 
    
    I was a member of a support group but it wasn't RESOLVE sponsored
    because I'm in WEstern Mass.  I too found it phenomenally helpful. 
    Just to cry with others.  And also to learn, although sometimes the
    oldtimers felt like they were teaching the neophytes.  
    
    It seems like most of RESOLVE activities are in Boston area, vs. other
    places, although there is an active group in HArtford.  Their
    newsletters were always something to look forward to.  They made
    adoption seem like a natural alternative, by announcing member's family
    additions, in addition to the biological children.  They provided some
    humor, which is usually sorely needed.  They also provided up to the
    moment medical status on some issues, like Lupron and so forth.  I
    think anyone starting the infertility treatment road should join. 
    Trouble is, you don't know you're infertile for quite a while.  I wish
    doctors would recommend RESOLVE when you first say you're trying to
    have a baby.  If one was lucky and conceived and carried straight away,
    you'd have helped support an organization supporting those who
    couldn't.  And if not, you'd be getting information from the beginning,
    and avoiding the runaround too often given.  
408.2RESOLVE in Colo SpgsCSC32::DUBOISThe early bird gets wormsThu Oct 11 1990 17:568
There is a RESOLVE chapter in Colorado Springs.  There was an article in
the Gazette-Telegraph this week about infertility, and they talked about
RESOLVE.  I don't remember the phone number, but if anyone needs to know
where they can get it (and they don't have the Gazette handy) you can send
me mail at CSC32::DUBOIS and I'll tell you where I saw a pamphlet that had
the number, or may be able to get you the number.

       Carol
408.3We were membersSCAACT::RESENDEJust an obsolete childTue Oct 16 1990 01:426
Pat and I were active in RESOLVE till we adopted Michael.  We went through 
three IVF attempts, and RESOLVE was an absolutely wonderful source of 
information for us, as well as providing needed support during a very 
difficult time for both of us.  It's a great organization.

Steve
408.4USWAV1::DOLIMPIOTue Oct 23 1990 12:5617
    We have been members of RESOLVE for a while.  They have been a good
    source of info for us.  THey even have a contact file of members who are
    looking for people with the same sorts of problems.  My wife met a nice
    woman in our town who has the same problems we do.  They have gotten
    together a few times and have had a great time.  
    
    The booklets also are great.  The info they give you is clear, concise
    and has been a help.   The thing I find now is that when I see a
    few women at work talking about "baby stuff", I jump right in and in
    some cases know more than they do!  They can't figure me out.  
    
    If anyone needs the resolve address, I have it at home.  Drop me a
    vaxmail and I'll send it to you.
    
    Pete
    
    ps:Hi Deb!
408.5Infertility ForumCASDEV::P_SULLIVANTue Oct 23 1990 16:0916
	There is a "Open Discussion on Infertility" being held at 
	Resevoir Place in Waltham, MA on Wednesday, October 24, from
	7:30 to 9:30.  RESOLVE is hosting it and it is free.
	Resevoir Place is on the western side of the Trapelo Rd
	exit off of RT. 128.  

	This information was found in the Thursday, October 18th 
	edition of the Maynard Beacon.  No phone number was listed.

	I am currently undergoing tests for infertility.  This will be
	my first association with RESOLVE.  I am looking forward to it 
	and I am optimistic, from reading this notes file, that I will 
	gain lots of information.

	- Patty