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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

1292.0. "Babysitter you can trust?" by GLRMAI::HALL () Wed Jun 04 1997 14:49

    Purchasing a house and daycare expense don't mix!!!  Therefore, I am
    forced to withdraw my kids (2 boys) from their current daycare and seek a
    private babysitter of some sort.  I feel bad about this and not
    totally comfortable -  especially about placing an add in the newspaper. 
    
    Anyone have suggestions on where to find the ones you can trust?  I
    live in the Gardner area.
    
    Anne 
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1292.1How to find a Nanny....STAR::MANSEAUThu Jun 05 1997 11:4422
    
    I put an ad in the local paper so I get responses from local people.
    Hopefully someone who has lived in the area a long time and has 
    good references.  I also ask them to send a resume with salary 
    requirements.  Then I call them, I don't put my number in the paper.   
    Maybe I don't get as many responses that way, but I get serious inquires.   I also don't spent time 
    I also don't spend time on the phone talking with people I'd never 
    consider.      
                                    
    I ask for at least three references and call all of them.
    Personal references and work references even if the work ones go 
    way back.
    
    Of course a drivers license is a must.   You can do a limited criminal 
    check just like the nanny services do.  The last time I looked into it, 
    there was a fee and you had to check each state.  I've never done it
    I always spend lots of time with a new nanny and use common sense.
    We spend a minimum one hour interviewing much longer if we like the 
    person.  Then we spend a day together with the children.  Then I 
    always pop in unannounced or have a relative or neighbor do the same.
             
   
1292.2Thank you!GLRMAI::HALLThu Jun 05 1997 14:214
    Thank you!  I would have put my number in the paper not thinking before
    hand. I will definately take this approach.
    
    Anne