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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

1240.0. "Doula" by STOWOA::NAHABEDIAN () Fri Jan 24 1997 09:02

    Has anyone ever used a Doula during your labor and delivery?  I'm
    seriously considering it and would like to hear your experiences and
    recommendations (Doulas willing to go to Framingham, MA).
    
    Thanks.
    
    - Lauri
    
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1240.1Inquiring minds want to knowMPGS::WOOLNERYour dinner is in the supermarketFri Jan 24 1997 11:274
    What is a Doula?  (Not in my 230,000-entry dictionary)
    
    Thanks,
    Leslie
1240.2Definition of a DoulaSTOWOA::NAHABEDIANFri Jan 24 1997 11:5512
    The word "doula" comes from the ancient Greek and is now used to refer
    to "a woman experienced in childbirth who provides continuous physical,
    emotional, and informational support to the mother before, during, and
    just after childbirth".  
    
    Research studies have found that when doulas attend births, labors are
    shorter, there are fewer complications, and there is less need for:
    oxytocin to speed labor, for forceps and vacuum extractor deliveries,
    or for pain medication, epidurals, or cesarian deliveries.  Babies also
    breastfeed more easily.
    
    - Lauri
1240.3CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageFri Jan 24 1997 12:329
    good definition.  My short answer would have been a doula is a super
    coach and support person.  they can take over on back rubs when your
    partner is tired or absent, run interference, and help you remain calm
    as they have been through this as well.  My midwife does doula work, or
    "labor sitting" as she calls it when people ask her to, as well as
    homebirths for those who request it.  However, she wouldn't do anyone
    in NH much good being in CO.
    
    meg
1240.4Why not use a midwife?BUSY::CSMITHMon Feb 03 1997 13:1225
Although most midwives won't come to your house during labor, they will be with you
during the entire labor at the hospital as will the labor nurses.  If you have a
supportive husband/significant other, you'll find this to be enough. You'll be
familiar with the person as well as trusting. 

I'm about to have my 2nd child with the same midwives, and I can't tell you what a 
wonderful experience it is.  They really take the time to prepare you for the birth 
and assist you through the delivery.  Had I not had a midwife for my 1st, I'm sure 
I would have ended up with a C-section or at least an episiotomy (sp?). I think the
advantage of a midwife is that she is medically trained to deliver the baby
and will recognize potential risk that warrants a doctors back-up.   

A Doula would be great afterward if you don't have anyone else to help out, otherwise
I would save my money and rely on family and friends.

I used the certified midwives affiliated with Worcester Memorial, but I believe both 
Framingham and Newton Wellsley also have Mid-wives. Call the hospital and the 
physician referral service or even the child birth class instructors will know who they are!

Most HMO's will cover 100% of a midwife's fee but double check. Sometimes, the affiliated
Dr. is who the referral needs to go to.

Good luck

Send me mail if you have any questions about the Midwives!
1240.5Next time midwifeSTOWOA::NAHABEDIANTue Feb 04 1997 09:5311
    Well, I'm 2.5 weeks away from my due date and early on had decided to 
    go with an OB (lots of complications for the first 17 weeks) and silly
    me didn't know much about midwives then.  
    
    If I had to do it over again I would definitely have gone with a midwife.
    Live and learn.  So, in lieu of that I've decided to have a doula
    attend. 
    
    Next time I will definitely go the midwife route.
    
    - Lauri