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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

1163.0. "Grandparents' Topic" by MAL009::MAGUIRE () Tue Jul 23 1996 11:17

    I have a question for some grandparents...
    
    Does anyone know of any grandparents who have started, or belong to any
    playgroups with their grandchildren?  
    
    My grandaughter is cared for 5 days a week by me and her other grand-
    mother.  There are no children in the neighborhood, and she is 3 now,
    and I'd really like to be able to establish some regular contact with
    other children.  I take her to places, but it's always just her and I.
    
    We live on the North Shore, and I'm not against beginning one of these
    myself if I thought it might catch on.
    
    Any thoughts on this?  Her parents are will probably look into day care 
    for the fall a couple of mornings a week, or something like that,
    mainly for the company of other children.  As you may have guessed, she
    is an only child......so far!  
    
    Thanks,
    Lorraine
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1163.1Happy for you and your Grand-daughter!NETCAD::CREEGANWed Jul 24 1996 11:2913
    Boy, it's nice to hear about a grandparent who enjoys their
    grandchild(ren)!   I remember when my first child was born
    I asked my Mother-In-Law if she'd like to watch my daughter
    so we (her son and I) could attend a wedding.
    
    She said, "Well, I wouldn't 'like' to, but I'll watch her."
    
    THAT was the first and last time I ever asked.
    
    My daughter recently turned 11 and her Grandmother took her
    shopping for a dress.  That's the closest they've ever been
    to a second babysitting experience or her Grandmother giving
    of herself.
1163.2Playgroup in MaynardASABET::MACGILLIVARYWed Jul 24 1996 13:3850
    
     I know Maynard is not the North Shore, but let me tell you about
     a playgroup that my mother-in-law brings my daughter and my neice
     to once a week.  
    
     The playgroup was started by a small group of mothers in Maynard. 
     It is held once a week from 9:30am until 12noon.  St. Bridgets
     church donates their church hall for this purpose. The playgroup
     has grown from a small group to many parents participating each
     week with their children.  
    
     It began with families donating toys, books, arts and crafts materials
     and they now ask for just $1.OO donation each week to purchase other
     materials.  During parties on special occasions, they have raffles
     with donated items to raise additional funds. A small committee
     recently put together a cookbook with recipes from the playgroup
     families to raise money as well.
    
     Parents take turns reading books, demonstrating crafts or the children
     have fun just playing together as well.  Parents take turns bringing
     light snacks and juice each week.
    
     Out of this playgroup many friendships have formed. Many of the
     families go to MacDonalds together for lunch after the playgroup,
     which the children love.  They attend each other's birthday's etc.
    
     Parents of the children have also organized Pizza parties for the 
     families and also an occasional adult nights out.
    
     My mother in law has become very involved with the group and really
     enjoys the company of the other mothers and grandmothers as well.
    
     And although I am at work each day, I have taken some vacation time
     to attend the playgroup and other functions related to it and have 
     come to know some of the other families as well.
    
     If you would like additional information, please write to me and I
     can direct you to a couple of the organizers of the group.  If it
     is not too far, you might want to attend one Friday with your
     grandchild. 
    
     It is amazing how word of mouth spreads and how the playgroup has
     grown.
       
    
    
     Regards,
     Janet MacGillivary
     ASABET::MACGILLIVARY
                                              
1163.3Activities on the North ShoreCSLALL::MOSCHELLAThu Jul 25 1996 18:0715
    Hi,
    
    I am also from the North Shore (North of Boston, I assume).
    There is a Gymborie program in Melrose and Peabody that I 
    enjoyed with both of my daughters.
    
    Also, there was an Art Program they attended in Belmont for
    pre-schoolers.  Maybe Belmont would be too far to drive but
    you may want to explore an art program within an art center
    .... maybe there is one in the Marblehead Salem area.
    
    Good luck !
    
    Kathleen
    
1163.4Grandparents WelcomeCSLALL::MOSCHELLAThu Jul 25 1996 18:093
    Let me add .... at both Gymborie and in the Art Program there
    were grandparents in attendance !!