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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

1037.0. "psycho-soma?" by CAM::LINDSEY () Thu Oct 19 1995 10:50

    
    A friend of mine living out of the country, has a 2 year old that is
    having difficulty sleeping.  She is tired and cranky but refuses to
    sleep.  Finally she gave the child something called psycho-soma and
    that's supposed to be some kind of relaxant to allow sleep. 
    
    This makes me nervous.  Has anyone ever used anything like this?
    Is this something doctors in the states would recommend?
    
    Sue
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1037.1a book on sleep problemsSTOWOA::SPERAFri Oct 20 1995 11:025
    Doctor's at Boston's Children's Hospital wrote a book called Solving
    Your Child's Sleep Problem. 
    
    I don't remember drugs altho' they may be mentioned. Perhaps you could
    send her a copy. It is very readable and useful. 
1037.2CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backFri Oct 20 1995 12:2410
    Psyco-soma?
    
    As in Psychosomatic?
    
    As in a placebo that convinces some people that it is a powerful drug,
    but, in actuality is nothing more than a sugar pill?
    
    Meg, whos mother used to use a spoonful of honey on us for insominia.
    
    
1037.3doubt its a placeboCAM::LINDSEYMon Oct 23 1995 09:477
    
    I doubt that the concept of a placebo would work with a 2 year old.
    I assume that this is a real medication that enables the child to
    relax enough to sleep.
    
    Sue
    
1037.4Herbal, perhaps?AKOCOA::NELSONWed Oct 25 1995 12:281
    Maybe it is a homeopathic remedy??
1037.5Sleeping ProblemsOTOOA::HHAYESMon Nov 06 1995 12:0127
    I don't think it is a homeopathic remedy.  I have never heard of it.  I
    would call a homeopath to check it out.  Or go check it out in the
    library or book store.
    
    At 2, nightmares usually begin.  It sounds like she is  afraid to sleep
    because of nightmares.  My son had nightmares starting at about 2.  I
    would let him take my pillow from my bed into his.  SOMETIMES this
    would work, other times it would not.  I would let him sleep in my bed. 
    Or I would rub his back in his bed to relax him enough sleep.  Tell him
    his dreams are his like using his imagination while sleeping.  I would
    rock him to sleep.  Warm milk really DOES work.  A routine is very much
    required at a young age.  Supper, playtime, bath, book, bed.  A steady
    routine will do wonders.
    
    These remedies did not always work.  One day one way would work and the
    others would not.  Eventually, he grew out of it.
    
    I don't think popping a pill is the answer.  Fake pill or not.  What
    message is this giving a child?  Pop a pill everytime you can't deal
    with something!  I am sure mom is getting tired staying up with a
    little one.  However, if she needs to crash in moms/dads bed once in a
    while, so be it.  My son will not be 20 still crashing in my bed for
    comfort.  So, really, give them a bit of rope.  Patience.  Humour!!
    
    Helen