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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

883.0. "Foul language on commercial tv" by --UnknownUser-- () Wed Jan 18 1995 11:55

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883.1CLOUD9::WEIERPatty, DTN 381-0877Wed Jan 18 1995 12:1315
    Jim,
    
    Funny you bring it up - I was just observing the same thing.  I was
    surprised by it, but I guess it doesn't particularly bother me, so I
    doubt that I'd call.
    
    One thing that might help your personal plight, is I've seen a device
    you can attach to your TV, that actually turns off the volume when
    commercials are on.  Apparantly commercials air at a different
    wave-length or strength (or something like that), and this device can
    interpret that, and will turn your tv to "mute" until it picks up the
    original signal again.  Haven't seen one recently, but maybe someplace
    like Radio Shack could help .....
    
    -Patty
883.2WRKSYS::MACKAY_EWed Jan 18 1995 13:3232
    
    re .0
    
    I don't watch prime time network TV that much, most of the shows 
    during that time of the day do not have much redeeming value for
    children. Star Trek, Lois and Clark (Superman) are exceptions, IMO.
    
    My daughter is 9 and she can watch any show on Disney, Discovery
    and Nickoleon, limited to 1 hour of TV a day during the week, after 
    she finishes her homework and chores. But, she is so busy that she 
    hardly has time for TV.
    
    We, the parents, don't want TV that much, other than the news, 
    financial and sports programs, documentaries and movies. So, we don't 
    have too many problems. 
    
    As far as language is concerned, I don't find the words you mentioned
    foul. I use those words once in a while myself. Worse things come out
    of my mouth when I get behind the wheel in Boston ;-) I don't make a big 
    deal of them. My daughter has heard these words, she knows what they
    mean since I explained them to her and she has never used them, at least 
    in front of us ;-). I guess, my philosophy is that if my daughter is
    going to learn the "bad" things, she will better off learning them from
    me. 
    
    All in all, I don't believe network TV or too much of any TV is for
    good young kids. Of course, it is up to the parents to decide what kind 
    of information their kids get. Turning the TV off is not a bad option
    in my opinion.
    
    
    Eva
883.3We agreeBUSY::BONINAThu Jan 19 1995 12:356
    We noticed the foul language increase as well, so has my 3 1/2 year old
    "foul language policegirl".  We watch a few commedies while we
    play with our daughter at night and we've noticed shes not watching,
    but when they say a foul word, she shouts out "they said a naughty
    word"...."that's naughty behavior"!  We think she has big ears on all
    naughty words these days.
883.4NICK AT NIGHT AND TBS ARE OUR FAVORITE STATIONSCHORDZ::WALTERMon Jan 23 1995 09:2318
    
    You know, after I read the base reply... I made a mental note to see if 
    anything my son watches are loosening up their standards.
    
    Simpsons last night.. Bart, "what in hell is going on here!"
    
    I almost fell off my seat.  
    
    Now not to say that words like this don't come out of my mouth or my
    husbands, and it probably wouldn't of been so bad if Homer said it but
    this was to me, giving children the message that its o.k. to say things
    like this.  
    
    I was not happy at all obviously and will monitor my sons TV choices
    much more closely.
    
    A nick fan --
    cj
883.5Bart is not for kids!MPGS::HEALEYKaren Healey, VIIS Group, SHR3Mon Jan 23 1995 14:0911
    
    re: Bart
    
    That show is DEFINATELY not a childrens show.  It is a cartoon for
    adults and I certainly would not let my child watch it.  Just the 
    other day Bart and Maggie were watching the Itchy and Scratchy show
    and it was gory, with Scratchy getting sliced into pieces and more.
    
    Karen
    
    (hi cj...)!