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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

787.0. "what can teens do on LONG bus trip???" by KAHALA::TRYON () Fri Jul 22 1994 14:30

    My husband and I are leaders of a Youth Group at our church and we are
    taking 30 of the members by SCHOOL bus (god help us) to Six Flags in
    NJ in 10 days.
    
    These are teens ranging in age from 12 to 17 and we will be traveling
    about 8 hours total (leaving from Belmont, NH and cannot take the
    bus on the Garden State Parkway so it's the long way around for us).
    
    What I need from noters in this file, if possible, is any suggestions
    for games, activities, etc. that can keep these kids occupied on the
    bus. I know for the first hour they will be OK with settling in,
    gossiping, etc but we will have 7 hours left after that (not to mention
    the ride home!) to fill...
    
    We've already thought of sing-alongs, getting the most recent set of
    Trivial Pursuit cards and having a contest with prizes...what else
    can you experienced travelers-with-teens come up with??
    
    Thanks for any help,
    
    Nancy 
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787.1A couple of ideasWONDER::MAKRIANISPattyFri Jul 22 1994 14:5023
    
    When I've gone on bus trips with my mother's work to New York, the
    woman who has organized the trip always has planned activities (and
    this is for a bunch of adults). One of the games she always plays is
    BINGO, using regular playing cards. We would play $1 for 4 or 5 hands.
    Each player gets 5 cards (mix together a number of decks to get the
    needed amount of cards). Using a single deck start calling off the
    cards (i.e., 8 of spades, Queen of Diamonds). As a card is called,
    anybody who has that card "turns it over". Once a person has "turned
    over" all 5 cards in their hand they yell BINGO!!! That person then
    gets a fourth or fifth of the pot. Instead of having the kids buy in to
    play you could just have inexpensive prizes, probably the sillier the
    better.
    
    The other thing she always had are those word puzzles, you know like
    the word GROUND with 6 feet underneath it means "Six Feet Under
    Ground", etc. She would have mimeographed sheets of these things, pass
    them out to each seat (presumably two people). She then would give a
    time limit and we would see who could get the most of them figured out.
    
    Good Luck on your trip.
    
    Patty
787.2BARSTR::PCLX31::satowgavel::satow, dtn 223-2584Fri Jul 22 1994 15:017
Plenty of BATTERIES (for portable radios, cassette players, CD players, 
hand held computer games), travel size board games, playing cards, teen 
magazines as appropriate for your church.

Earplugs (for you)  ;^)

Clay
787.3CLOUD9::WEIERPatty, DTN 381-0877Fri Jul 22 1994 15:2396
    We used to travel a lot .... I think that book stores carry 'popular
    travel games' books, most games don't require anyone to get out of
    their seat.
    
    Some games we did;
    
    o License plate game - write down all the different license plates you
    see and try to see how many states you can get.  
    
    o Alphabet game - You have to look around and find something that
    begins with each letter in the alphabet, sequentially.  Thus first you
    have to see something (outside the bus!) that begins with "A"
    (automobile), then something that begins with "B" (bridge), then
    something that starts with "C" (coffee shop) etc etc.  You can vary it
    - it has to be a SIGN, or has to be a store, or whatever you like.
    
    o 'I'm going on a picnic'.  This is fun because they have to listen,
    and it requires intense concentration.  For a group that large, it'd be
    best to break into groups of 8 or so.  Go through the alphabet, and
    each person has to bring something, 'on a picnic' that coincides with
    their letter of the alphabet.  The 1st person has to pick something for
    'a', the 2nd person has to repeat 'a' and bring something that begins
    w/ 'b', the 3rd person has to repeat 'a' and 'b' and bring something
    that begins with 'c'.  And so on.  If you mess it up, you're out, and
    the rest continue.  You can make it be whatever you want - say it can
    ONLY be food, or has to be related to sports, or whatever.  It's hard
    to remember 26 things!  So, for example, if I'm on the letter 'F', I'd
    say something like "I'm going on a picnic, and I'm going to bring;
    apples, bananas, cucumbers, dandelions, an erasable pen and fifty
    frogs! ... you get the idea.
    
    o 20 Questions  Each person is ASSIGNED a person (or an event).  You
    should set this up ahead of time.  Everyone else knows what this person
    is, but this person does NOT know.  They can ask 20 yes/no questions to
    determine who/what they are.  
    
    o Who Am I?  Each person thinks of someone (real or fictional, but
    should be well known) and writes it down so no one else can see, on a
    piece of paper.  The rest of the people are allowed to ask as many YES
    or NO questions as they like, until they guess who it is.  They HAVE to
    be yes/no questions.  Usually this is played in a circle, so you have
    to wait your turn to ask a question, but it can be more fun to just
    'blurt out' questions.  Beginning questions are usually like; are you a
    male? are you a female?  are you alive?  are you dead?  were you ever
    alive? (as in a cartoon character!) are you in politics? on tv?  Again
    you can focus it to a particular topic (it has to be a famous sports
    figure, or someone from the movies or whatever).
    
    o I'm thinking of .... a simple-minded guessing game;  look around the
    bus and mentally pick something.  Then you say 'I'm thinking of
    something' and the rest of the people have to guess what it is, again
    with yes/no questions.  For the little kids, when I play this, I
    usually also indicate the color of it - "I'm thinking of something red"
    
    o Balloon-volleyball.  Get a few small balloons and fill them with air
    (NOT helium), then you have to bat the balloons around, and not let
    them touch the ground.  This is probably fairly easy on a bus, so you
    may want to have lots of balloons going around to make it more
    difficult.
    
    o Find out what type of music the kids like, then borrow some of the
    most popular tapes (from them!).  Have a contest to who can 'sing the
    next 10 words' (or however many).  Play a portion of the song, and then
    stop the tape in the middle of the song .... the kids have to try to
    finish the song, or sing the next part.  
    
    o Name the capitals .... try to see who can name the state capitals,
    maybe tie it in w/ your license plate games.
    
    o Name all the states that end in "A" .... the majority of them DON'T
    end in "A", but you'd be surprised how many do!
    
    o Try one of those Alphabet games with musical groups .... you know, it
    would go something like (A-B-C-D...)... Aerosmith, Beach Boys, Culture
    Club etc (of course they've probably never HEARD of these groups! (-;)
    
    o If you don't mind them standing up, you can have a contest to see
    what 'row' can pass the apple the fastest.  Most buses sit 2-across in
    a seat, 2 seats across the width of the bus.  This would give you 4
    rows down the length of the bus.  In the front row across, give each
    kid a large apple (or maybe grapefruit, or softball or something), and
    have them tuck it under their chin.  They have to turn around in their
    seat and pass it to the person behind them, who takes it with their
    chin.  And so on down the line.  You're not allowed to touch it with
    your hands at all - JUST your chin/chest.  If it falls, the person who
    was passing it puts it back under their chin, and continue on.  Whoever
    makes it to the last row first, wins.  You may need to rearrange the
    kids temporarily to fill in any gaps.  This can be quite humerous!
    
    I think the biggest challenge is keeping their minds occupied, and if
    you can keep them thinking the whole time, you're more likely to have
    fun and a lot less of the 'I'm Bored!'  .... of course there's nothing
    like a good game of balloon-volleyball to use up some energy!  
    
    Good Luck!
    Patty
787.4DELNI::DISMUKEFri Jul 22 1994 15:419
    We have always worked with small groups, but I can imagine most would
    bring pillows, walkmans, etc.  I can't imagine you needing to keep them
    busy unless that's what you choose to do.  I think some of the games
    mentioned previously will be a big boost for the trip.  I'd stay away
    from those games with little pieces...they get upset and lost so
    easily.  Cards are always a big hit.  
    
    -s
    
787.5Mystery prizeBRAT::ARCHAMBAULTa rebel to the naked eyeFri Jul 22 1994 15:4111
    A variation of the "Guess what I'm thinking of" game.  Have some sort
    of a small inexpensive "prize".  Put it in a box and wrap it.  Everyone 
    is allowed to hold the box, shake the box, etc.  Then, they can start 
    asking yes and no (only) questions.  The first person to guess what's 
    in the box, wins. 
    
    My family does this every Christmas Eve.  Whoever wins the mystery
    gift, is responsible for bringing the gift the following year. We have
    a lot of fun with it!
    
    Carolyn