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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

631.0. "little eye contact in infant" by --UnknownUser-- () Mon Nov 22 1993 11:41

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631.1little eye contact = autistic?STAR::AWHITNEYMon Nov 22 1993 12:085
    I am curious as to why little eye contact = autistic?  4 weeks
    seems young to me for lots of eye contact but (I hate to admit it) -
    I really don't remember exactly how Sammy Kay was at 4 weeks. 
    
    
631.2Maybe too early to hold eye contact...NOVA::JOSHIMon Nov 22 1993 12:244
My daughter is about 3 months old;  as far as I remember, she did not hold
eye contact for an extended period at 4 weeks either.  Now, though, she will
make eye contact, smile, recognize etc!  So perhaps you should just wait and
see what your baby does in a few weeks!
631.4is this behavior only with Mom?BROKE::STEVE5::BOURQUARDDebMon Nov 22 1993 13:297
*If* this behavior is only seen with Mom, it may be that the baby senses
when he's being held by his mother and doesn't feel a need to study Mom's
face.

Hoping that this is *not* a problem...

- Deb
631.5too earlyPCOJCT::LOCOVAREMon Nov 22 1993 14:093
    I think it is too early to tell... talk to your doctor...
    
    
631.6Don't worry!SWAM1::MATHIEU_PATue Nov 23 1993 19:2117
    
    
    I remember reading that when breastfeeding, the baby studies the
    mother's face with incredible loving intensity and that it is one
    of the most rewarding parts of breastfeeding. I can tell you that
    Chloe never looked once at me, she was too busy getting as much milk as
    she could. She just stared into space.
    
    I can't remember her doing much focusing or eye contact either when
    little, and she is now a very active two year old.
    
    I would try to reassure your wife, she is probably just still under-
    going all the postpartum emotional upheaval. Let us know what the 
    doctor says. 
    
    Patricia.
    
631.8CSC32::S_MAUFEthis space for rentFri Nov 26 1993 13:0210
    
    I noticied a few months ago a friends baby always making/keeping eye 
    contact, and my two not really bothering. However, I'm terrible for now
    making eye contact and always feel self-concious about it.
    
    Soo, when holding the kids and talking to them and reading books and
    stuff now, I try and keep eye contact with them, and they are
    reciprocating for longer and longer periods. So you can work on it! 
    
    Simon