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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

349.0. "very tired 4 year old" by ICS::NELSONK () Wed Oct 07 1992 15:34

    James has come down with some really odd symptoms lately.
    In addition to the cold and ear infection he's got, he has
    been complailning of being very tired and of having a pain
    in his upper back.  He's being seen today by the doctor
    (he just went yesterday; first ear infection of the season),
    but, frankly, I'm worried.  Any chance that he is anemic?
    Could it be meningitis?  What would make a little 4.5-year-old
    feel so lousy?
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349.1PHAROS::PATTONWed Oct 07 1992 16:018
    I think with meningitis he would have a raging fever. It could just be
    the by-product of the cold/virus. On the other hand, Daniel (same age
    as James) had mono last spring, and exhaustion is a key symptom of
    mono. A blood test can help answer the question.
    
    Good luck,
    
    Lucy
349.2How does he act? Tired & hurting?SWAM2::OSBORNE_JAWed Oct 07 1992 16:1012
    He could be anemic, my 10 month old recently was, and was put on 
    vitamins. (I don't know why he was anemic, he takes iron fortified
    formula.)
    
    My 3.5 year old frequently says he's very, very tired, and
    occassionally complains that his back hurts.  He doesn't act like
    he's tired or hurting, though.  I think he's just imitating me!
    
    A virus, or the flu, could cause tiredess and aches.  It always 
    does with me.  
    
    Please let us know what the doc says.
349.3going aroundASABET::MACGILLIVARYWed Oct 07 1992 16:2411
    A cold and flu has been lingering in our house the past week or so.
    Both my husband and I complained of a dull ache in our backs and have
    attributed it to the cold, since neither one of us can remember doing
    anything out of the ordinary to cause a backache.
    
    Also, we have both been very very tired as well.  
    
    Looks like it something going around since others in the office have
    had the same symptoms.  
    
    
349.4It's a muscle pullICS::NELSONKThu Oct 08 1992 11:5628
    The pedi saw James yesterday and said that the backache is probably
    a muscle pull.  After thinking about what happened over the weekend,
    I think that is probably right on:  James helped Uncle Dan load
    firewood into the wheelbarrow, then he and I went bowling on Sunday,
    etc.  So he is probably a pretty sore kiddo.
    
    As regards the fatigue, the dr. said it is probably from the cold.
    He said it could also be hay fever.  He's seeing more cases of
    hay fever this year than ever before and in younger kids, too.  He
    said that what people seem to hate most about hay fever is the 
    fatigue, not necessarily the runny nose, watery eyes, etc.
    
    Come to think of it, I've been dragging it this week myself.
    It could also have something to do with the days becoming so much
    shorter (at least here in New England):  It's now dark at 6:30 p.m.,
    and daylight saving time ends in three weeks (Halloween).  So there
    could be a lot of other things going on.
    
    I'll call the day care provider and see if James is still taking his
    little multivitamin every day.  I used to give it to him in the a.m.,
    but it tended to give him a stomach ache.
    
    Maybe we need a little Mommy-ization here....a couple of days at
    home with Mom and/or Dad could improve his outlook, too.
    
    Thanx everyone for your concern.  Sometimes I feel my sitter tends
    to make more out of things than necessary -- but that may be
    preferable to minimizing real concerns!