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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

244.0. "Sports for Pre-schoolers?" by MR4DEC::OTTE () Wed Jul 29 1992 13:37

    Hi.  This is my first note to this file.  I've been reading for a while
    now and have found some helpful information in here.  I have a
    beautiful son, Michael, who is almost 3.5 yrs.  I am a single parent
    so he's very challenging to say the least.  I'm happy to say he has
    a great father who does see him so I do get my breaks.
    
    Anyway, I am interested in finding out what types of organized sports
    there might be in the Marlboro area for kids this age.  I have heard of
    T-ball and thought maybe someone might have some more info on how I
    could get Michael involved in something like this.
    
    I didn't see any notes that might cover this subject so I started a new
    one.
    
    Thanks for any help.
    
    Debbie
    
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244.1Central Mass Gymnastics, in NROAKOCOA::TRIPPWed Jul 29 1992 14:1921
    Debbie,
    
    Unfortunately from what I've seen there really isn't much for
    preschoolers, except for one program I've had experience with.
    
    There is a "Central Mass Gymnasics Center" in Northboro.  Their offices
    are on Bear Foot Road, almost across the street from the Sweetlife
    warehouse.  They sponsor a (this is a vague memory it may be "off a
    bit) two week Gymnastics camp, which is held weekday mornings, at the
    Oxford Academy school on Howard St in Northboro.  It is only during
    July and August.  I would only wonder if they might have a regular
    program during other times of the year, and maybe even weekend
    programs.  MIght be worth a call to them.  (will you post whatever
    infor you obtain?)
    
    Also consider a call to the Central or Greendale Branch of the YMCA, I
    am aware they do all levels of swimming lessons, maybe there is more
    activities I'm not aware of.
    
    Good luck, I too am looking for ways to "burn off" lots of energy.
    Lyn
244.2different towns have different stuffTLE::RANDALLThe Year of Hurricane BonnieWed Jul 29 1992 15:525
    Check with your city/town's recreation department.  A lot of towns
    have what they call "instructional leagues" for tennis, soccer,
    swimming, and/or other sports.  
    
    --bonnie
244.3ELWOOD::KAPLANLarry Kaplan, DTN: 237-6872Wed Jul 29 1992 17:334
    The Wayside Health Club (On Broadmeadow off of Farm Road) has an
    excellent swim program.  Membership is not required.
    
    L.
244.4POWDML::SATOWThu Jul 30 1992 09:2544
Ahhh, a subject with which I have more familiarity than I care to admit.

By "organized sports" do you mean organized in the sense of organized into
teams and competing?  Or do you mean organized in an instructional sense? 

The reason that I ask is that 3.5 (or even 4.5) seems quite young to me to
be playing competitive team sports.  Many programs that I'm familiar with
(such as our local soccer and baseball programs) have minimum age
requirements, and they are five, I think.  Kids younger than that age often
have trouble understanding the rules, and/or lack the physical skills to play
the game.  And make sure that you're child is ready socially as well as
physically.  In competitive team situations, kids can be quite unthoughtful
and intimidating to the less skilled or aggressive.

Along with one of the other notes, I suggest you look into gymnastics
programs.  That's an activity that builds up motor skills, but which doesn't
have the negative aspects of competitive team sports.  Check with your town
recreation department.  Also, check the phone book for gymnastics
instruction.  There are many, many programs that are set up for kids
Michael's age.  Also, as mentioned, check out swimming programs at the
various pools in your town. 

There are probably "learn to (ice) skate" programs at Navin Rink (Marlboro). 
I don't know anything about them though, such as minimum ages. 

For an entry level comptetive sport, I have a strong bias toward soccer as
opposed to T-ball.  Are you interested in the pros and cons of the various
possibilities?

From a "when" standpoint, soccer is typically played both spring and fall. 
T-ball is primarily a spring sport, but many programs run in the fall also.
Gymnastics is pretty much year around, as is swimming.  Ice skating usually
runs late fall to late spring.  Signups for T-ball and soccer are usually
several months ahead.

I think it's great you are showing interest.  I think youth sports activities
are especially good for a child with a family situation like yours.  The non-
custodial parent can take a share of the transporting back and forth, and
there are a lot of opportunities for bonding between the child and the non-
custodial parent.  Many dads who feel totally awkard around some child
raising activities do wonderfully as the parent of a young athlete, as long
as they don't get into living out their lives through their kids.

Clay
244.5DYNOSR::CHANGLittle dragons' mommyThu Jul 30 1992 11:3512
    I too think 3.5 yr old is too young for any "organized" sports.
    I took Eric to ice skate this spring and he loved it.  He was
    3.5 then.  He cann't wait to start again this fall.  We went
    to the ring in Marlboro.  His daycare center offers swimming
    lessons every summer.   He gets to swim at least 2 days a week.
    We also got him a new bike this spring and he spends a lot of
    time on it.  And in weekends, he learns tennis with his dad.
    When he turns 5, I will probably have him join a junior baseball 
    team or something.  But it all depends on his interest.  Right
    now, he wants to be a hocky player.
    
    Wendy