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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

178.0. "Kids never cease to amaze us" by WHEEL::POMEROY () Tue Jun 16 1992 16:15

    I have to share this story:
    
    This weekend my 7 1/2 year old son went for a bike ride around the
    block.  Apparently there was a yard sale down the street.  My son
    came back home and asked me for a quarter.  When I asked what it
    was for, he said he wanted to get something for Susan (his 5 year old
    sister).  He went to his piggy bank and got a quarter.
    
    A while later he came back and handed his sister a teddy bear that
    he bought at the yard sale.  She then, gave him the biggest hug and
    kiss and said thank you.
    
    My heart melted.
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178.1Kids can be....A1VAX::DISMUKESay you saw it in NOTES...Tue Jun 16 1992 17:0622
    Kids can be so thoughtful!!!  
    
    My son is in Readiness in Nashua.  Each student is assigned a "6th
    grade buddy" for the school year.  My son went to the school store the
    other day and bought himself a ruler.  He told me the teacher is
    allowing them to attend the "graduation" of the 6th graders and he is
    going to give his "buddy" his ruler for a graduation gift.
    
    I am so proud of him!  
    
    On the contrary...Kids can be so mean!
    
    He is having a birthday party in a few weeks.  He invited a bunch of
    kids from his class including a new boy.  He wants to be friends with
    the new boy, but the other classmates told him they wouldn't be his
    friend if he played with the new boy!  He said he didn't care - he
    wanted to have the new boy come, too.
    
    I am glad he has the guts to stick to what is right for him!
    
    -sandy
    
178.2NEWPRT::NEWELL_JOLatine loqui coactus sumMon Jul 13 1992 15:0036
    This is more of a "brag" than anything...
    
    This weekend, our 7 year old daughter, Amber found $25.00 in an 
    envelope at a local Target store.  Without hesitation she suggested
    we take it to security to hopefully find the rightful owner. While she
    was filing the report, two adults complimented her on her honesty
    and told her how proud she and her parents should be.  
    
    The store manager told Amber the money was her is it wasn't claimed
    in 30 days.  That thought certainly made her happy.
    
    About a half hour after we got home the phone rang and a little girl
    asked for Amber. It was the girl that lost the money. They had a brief
    conversation and Amber hung up a little dissapointed.
    
    The next morning we got a phone call from a woman. This woman explained
    that the girl who lost the money was a seven year old who lived in a
    home for abused children. The woman was Britanny's 'buddy' and had
    taken her to Target to teach her the value of money. Brittany had been
    saving this money for months and had carefully placed it in the
    envelope, holding it tightly for safekeeping.  But as we all know,
    little minds wander sometime and the money was forgotten.
    
    They didn't find anything to buy at Target and left for home. Once home
    they realized the money was gone.  Britanny cried while the buddy
    called Target. Of course, the money was waiting there for them.
    
    The woman was so impressed with Amber and told us it restored alot
    of trust and faith in the little girl and that many valuable lessons
    were learned that day. Amber felt *very* good after hearing the story.
    
    Yes, a lot of valuable lessons were learned by *everyone*!
    
    I'm so proud of my little girl!
    
    Jodi-
178.3AssumptionsSALEM::GILMANMon Aug 24 1992 15:4216
    My son said something last week which staggered me because it
    illustrates both kids perception and Socities attitutudes.
    
    Matt has been warned about going with strangers with no gender
    overtones attached.  That is, he wasn't told not to go with strange
    women, or strange men, just strangers.
    
    Matt said out of the blue:  "Dad, are strangers ALWAYS men?!"
    
    After I recovered I explained that strangers ment men OR women.
    But he acurately reflected Socities attitude.... especially when
    crimes with sexual overtones are involved a man is assumed to be the
    offender rather than a woman.
    
    Jeff
    
178.4POWDML::SATOWMon Aug 24 1992 18:0912
re: 273.22

>    Oddly, when her sister was born, Abbey announced she would give it [her 
>    pacifier] to her.  

What a neat kid!  The true value of a gift is what it means to the receiver 
and to the giver, not its intrinsic value.  Of course, Taylor had no way of 
knowing the value of the gift.  But Abbey gave up something that was very 
important to her, and something that she thought would be of great value 
to her sister.

Clay
178.5It really does happen!ASIC::MYERSTue Jun 28 1994 12:2313
    For the past 2 months my daughter Sarah, almost 26 mos, has been asking
    to use the potty, but this has been more of an excuse to take all of her
    clothes off than to actually use it 8^).
    
    Yesterday when I picked her up at daycare her teacher said that she had
    asked to use the potty in the afternoon and then actually produced! 
    Last night she asked twice and produced twice, too!  Then she told me
    she didn't want to wear diapers anymore, so this weekend we're going
    shopping for big girl underwear.
    
    I don't know who's more proud and excited, me or Sarah!
    
    Susan