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292.1 | the rest was very nicely put | SUBSYS::NEUMYER | sun your buns | Mon Feb 04 1991 15:40 | 14 |
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>NATURISTS may skinnydip with family members or feel comfortable with
>body freedom in larger social gatherings.
This sentence seems to stand out in the list of statements. Maybe
it's the wording (ie skinnydip) that makes it seem juvenile in light of
the other statements. I would think the NATURISTS would not only swim
nude with family members, but many other things as well.
ed
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292.2 | Spontaneous dip? | GENRAL::KILGORE | Cherokee and Proud of it! | Wed Feb 06 1991 12:29 | 5 |
| I take skinny-dipping as a spontaneous naked swim with somebody. I don't feel
it is a juvenile statement. However, my dictionary says skinny-dipping is
swimming in the nude. Spontaneous or not! :-)
Judy
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292.3 | | MOIRA::FAIMAN | light upon the figured leaf | Thu Feb 07 1991 09:42 | 21 |
| For me, the word "skinnydipping" neatly sums up the fact that there are
millions of people who might occasionally take off all their clothes for
a quick swim, alone or with their family or a few friends. Many of these
people aren't "nudists" or "naturists", and aren't engaging in "clothing-
optional activity".
I'm hard-put to explain exactly what the difference is. It seems to have
something to do with informality. Maybe it's that "skinnydipping" is an
American tradition, right along with apple pie and the 4th of July, while
"nudism" is exotic and suspect.
On the one hand, the skinnydipping tradition can generate a certain
legitimacy for nudism -- "We aren't doing anything that Americans haven't
been doing for centuries, without ever thinking twice about it". On the
other hand, it's important to remember that the true skinnydipper, who
occasionally swims nude in the local swimming hole on hot summer afternoons,
probably has no particular interest in the legal and cultural ramifications
of nudity in American society, and no desire to be dragged into the nudist
movement.
-Neil
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292.4 | Pawn of the state? | DDIF::MACK | Embrace No Contradictions | Fri Feb 08 1991 14:28 | 29 |
| I didn't quite understand the inference about clothing making one the
pawn of the state.
It occurs to me that each of us is to some degree a pawn of the society
in which we live, and that any expression of the freedom of the soul
makes us less of a pawn (acted upon) and more of an active participant.
Shedding my clothes is one such expression of my freedom.
The state is clearly one of the many organs of the society in which we
live, but, as the state doesn't hold the monopoly on enforcement, and
routinely abdicates in the face of controversy responsibility it might
be construed to have, I think the clause is overstated and
unsupported. The state is a problem, but not the primary problem.
In many parts of the country, particularly in the deep south, I suspect
that the state is probably at least marginally more progressive than
popular sentiment. They can't _afford_ to be _much_ more progressive
than popular sentiment, as it is popular sentiment that chooses who
will govern. This is democracy operating as it should. It is popular
sentiment which needs to change. Accomplishing this is also a part of
the democratic process. That is the purpose of a free press and free
speech. This requires more education and persuasion than direct
political action.
Question of the hour: How does one demonstrate to an open-minded but
conservative individual (yes, they do exist) that nudity isn't
tantamount to sexual anarchy?
Ralph
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292.5 | | SUBWAY::SAPIENZA | Knowledge applied is wisdom gained. | Fri Feb 08 1991 16:57 | 30 |
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.4> Question of the hour: How does one demonstrate to an open-minded but
.4> conservative individual (yes, they do exist) that nudity isn't
.4> tantamount to sexual anarchy?
Well, emphasizing the word demonstrate, one might attempt the
following with said "open-minded but conservative individual"...
a) Take 'em to a nude beach and/or naturist resort. They go, keep
their bathing suit on, and witness for themselves that there aren't
any orgies going on. Maybe they'll even take their clothes off.
Of course, this assumes that you take them to a place where
there isn't any sexual activity. Therefore, *some* nude beaches
might not be appropriate.
b) Take 'em to a party a Judy's (?) house. I've never been to one
but from the descriptions in this conference it seems like there
isn't any sex involved. :-)
c) Take 'em to one of the NENA open events. Again, same caveat as
item b) above.
d) Shock treatment. Invite them to your house for a cup of coffee
and answer the door in the buff! Don't make any sexual advances
towards them while they're with you. :-)
Frank
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292.6 | I think we have the wrong address..... | GENRAL::KILGORE | Cherokee and Proud of it! | Fri Feb 08 1991 17:26 | 21 |
| If you answer your door in the buff, your friends may decide they have the
wrong house and leave! ;-)
We took some friends to a local hut-tub rental place, started with suits on
but took the suits off while still in the water. It just felt natural to
continue being nude and never put the suits back on. No one seemed to be
uptight about getting out of the tub nude, I don't think they were comfortable
with the idea of being nude when we first got in tho. We have hut-tubbed
together since and naturally start off nude now.
When Ben was here a year ago, he stayed with us one night. Sure was nice not
to have to worry about putting a robe on before leaving the bedroom (we sleep
in the nude) or worry about being completely dressed before traipsing out into
the kitchen.
It was a much different scene when Bob's aunt stayed with us for 2+ weeks. It
was a drag to insure we were properly attired before scooting from room to room.
We were in much better moods after she left. It is amazing what the freedom
away from clothing can do for the mind! :-)
Judy
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292.7 | | CSC32::GORTMAKER | Alas, babylon... | Fri Feb 08 1991 17:50 | 5 |
| Last summer I had a non-naturist friend living with me for a month
while he and his wife worked some problems and it about drove me crazy
having to remember to wear something around the house.
-j
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