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126.1 | Do you really want honesty? | CAADC::COOLEY | On top of old Smoky... | Sat Dec 03 1988 10:08 | 17 |
| This will be a brief reply, no time to dissect the base note
line-by-line.
1) PLEASE release the caps-lock on your terminal. I'd rather see
all lower-case, if a choice must be made. CAPS ARE CONSIDERED
SCREAMING!
2) You reject all the non-sexual reasons given for enjoying not
having clothes on; state what your reasons are/would be, and then
ask "If my reasons aren't your true reasons, then what are". I suggest
you go back and re-read; the answers are already there. If you reject
what someone says out of hand at the outset, you can't really expect
a rational discussion.
3) Re-read your own final comment.
Don Cooley
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126.2 | | CADSE::WONG | Le Chinois Fou | Sat Dec 03 1988 16:59 | 69 |
| Considering the fact that there wasn't anyone else at the beach
the last time I went nuding, I don't think that there HAS to be
any sexual connitations associated with nudism.
Me? I like nuding at the beach because it makes sense...as I stated
in an earlier note. If I'm going to be lying around on a beach,
sweating away under the hot sun, I really don't need the confinement
of clothing. Can anyone really justify the wearing of swimsuits
at a beach? Going to the beach for a tan, and then covering parts
of your body so you won't get a tan...?
At the beach, I've seen lots of couples lounging around, sunbathing,
reading, swimming, etc...nothing sexual about it.
>>> I AM CURIOUS ABOUT THE TRUE MOTIVATION OF PEOPLE WHO PRACTICE
>>> NUDISM. THE REASONS GIVEN FOR GOING NUDE THAT I HAVE READ IS THAT
>>> "ITS A FEELING OF FREEDOM", "GETTING IN TOUCH WITH NATURE", "BEING
>>> ACCEPTED BY OTHERS FOR WHO OR WHAT I AM", ETC; ETC. WHY IS IT I
>>> FEEL SUSPICIOUS ABOUT THESE COMMENTS?
Of the nudist/naturists that I know, they are all fairly open-minded
about their feelings on nudism.
>>> - IF I WERE TO NUDE IN A NATURAL SETTING WITH A PERSON OF THE OPPOSITE
>>> SEX IT WOULD DEFINITELY FEEL SENSUOUS.
Any MOTOS? or just with a sepcific person? Think about it...
how many MOTOS's do you see every day and not pay any attention
to? Seeing a MOTOS does not imply "instant lust".
>>> IS THIS DESENSITIZING PROCESS SUPPOSE TO BE ONE OF THE BENEFITS
>>> OF NUDISM? (NO THANKS)
Nudists tend to be more aware and comfortable with their
bodies. I don't believe that seeing nude people on a regular
basis will desensitize anyone.
>>> - I BELIEVE THAT NUDISM IS BASED ON SEXUALITY. I DON'T MEAN THAT
>>> NUDISM IS PERVERTED. ITS JUST SOME FOLKS WAY OF EXPRESSING SEXUALITY
Hardly. I like swimming and sunbathing in the nude. I'd enjoy
it just as much alone as I would with a bunch of friends. It
just feels nice; there doesn't have to be any hidden meanings.
>>> - I LOVE TO NUDE AT THE RIGHT TIME AND RIGHT PLACE WITH THE RIGHT
>>> PERSON. HOWEVER IF FREQUENT NUDING MEANS NOT HAVING SEXUAL FEELINGS
>>> FOR NAKED PEOPLE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX THEN WHAT FEELING WOULD I BE
>>> GETTING IN RETURN FOR MY INVESTMENT? OH, I KNOW , "FEELINGS OF
**INVESTMENT**?????????
Nuding is not merely the removal of clothes. It implies the
acceptance of the good points and faults of one's own body.
Sex and sexual feelings are not required with nudism, although
they can be there.
>>> - PEOPLE WHO NUDE MUST BE GETTING SOMETHING OUT OF IT OR ELSE THEY
>>> WOULDN'T BE DOING IT. IF ITS NOT SEXUALLY MOTIVATED TO ENHANCE
>>> SEXUAL FEELINGS OR TO NUMB THEM THEN WHAT IS IT REALLY?
There's nothing wrong with just liking to go nuding, for it's
own sake. There doesn't have to be any hidden agenda.
>>> - AGAIN, I'M NOT AGAINST IT, I GUESS WE JUST DO IT FOR DIFFERENT
>>> REASONS....
I guess this explains it all. There are alot of different people
who like to go nuding.
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126.3 | One perspective | HSSWS1::GREG | Malice Aforethought | Sun Dec 04 1988 00:23 | 35 |
| re: .0
I find it amusing that you cannot see a naked body without
getting sexually aroused. To my way of thinking, that is a
very significant statement about the level of repression our
society imposes on us. People have become so accustomed to
seeing each other naked only in sexual situations that they
have equated to two, and have completely forgotten that nude
is not only natural, but extremely comfortable (no confinement),
relaxing, and healthy (from a psychological perspective).
By hiding beneath our clothes all of the time we build
a strong mystique around the body, and particularly those
parts that are considered 'obscene' when exposed in public.
Please, try to explain to me what is obscene about a breast?
Why is a penis obscene? Why do we demand that everyone hide
these things?
This repression impacts us indirectly in many aspects
of our lives. Advertisers know the value of alluding to the
sexuality we now equate with the naked body, and they entice
us with teasing little glances. These not-so-subtle messages
only work because we are so repressed and puritanical in our
attitudes about our bodies.
I, for one, am not ashamed of my body. I did not buy into
the crap that the church and society tried to spoon-feed me
from childhood on. The guilt trips they tried to lay on me
affected my early years, and now I have cast them aside and
made my own decisions.
In the end, for me it boils down to freedom. I live for
my freedom, and strive for ever more.
- Greg
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126.4 | See also notes 62.* | MOIRA::FAIMAN | light upon the figured leaf | Sun Dec 04 1988 11:42 | 10 |
| As for the question of getting "desensitized" to nudity as a sexual
arouser, please go back and read notes 62.* ("Nude all the time?").
In short, many of us find no *intrinisic* coupling between nudity
and sex. That doesn't mean that I'm not turned on by my naked wife
when we make love. It means that when I look at a naked woman at a
nude beach, I do so with the same sort of feelings and appreciation
as when I look at any woman anywhere, *not* the sort of feelings and
appreciation I have when making love with my wife.
-Neil
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126.5 | Different strokes of different folks! | GENRAL::KILGORE | Cherokee Woman | Sun Dec 04 1988 22:53 | 39 |
| re: .0
We were all born naked right? So there shouldn't be anything wrong with
nudity...and there isn't!
I love nudity in nature. I love the feeling of the sun, the breeze, and no
elastic bands or constricting wastebands around me. AND it is a sensuous
feeling particularly when the sun is baking parts of me that haven't seen
the sun for a while. ;-)
Being nude with a MOTOS and having senseous feelings would depend on who I'm
with. If you have intentions and already had in mind something along that
line such as you'd like to get it on with someone, it will probably be VERY
sensuous. If I don't have that in mind, I don't have that tendancy. It is
nice to look at nude bods but it doesn't have to be a sexual thing. AND that
is very hard to explain and get across to someone that has never experienced
it.
I haven't been desensitized yet...I get turned on by nude bodies IF I'M IN THE
MOOD to be turned on. Just because I'm nude with someone doesn't mean either
one of us should take it as a sexual thing. And like Neil, I still get very
turned on when I have sex with my spouse...and after 17+ years, that's not
bad! ;-)
>> - I LOVE TO NUDE AT THE RIGHT TIME AND RIGHT PLACE WITH THE RIGHT
>> PERSON. HOWEVER IF FREQUENT NUDING MEANS NOT HAVING SEXUAL FEELINGS
>> FOR NAKED PEOPLE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX THEN WHAT FEELING WOULD I BE
>> GETTING IN RETURN FOR MY INVESTMENT? OH, I KNOW , "FEELINGS OF
>> FREEDOM", "IN TOUCH WITH NATURE, "ACCEPTANCE", ETC; ETC.
I thing you got the picture. We all have our own motives for going nude. Just
like different people have different motives for having sex...some it is pure
gratification, others are trying to create another human being, some use it
to relief stress, others it is a stress creator, etc. Same with food, our
jobs, choice of mates, where you go on vacation, why do you have that breed of
dog or cat....this list goes on and on. Different reasons, different people...
that's what makes the world go round! :-)
Judy
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126.6 | | KAOFS::D_BIGELOW | Life's a beach! | Tue Dec 06 1988 10:38 | 44 |
|
I believe there is *some* truth in what you have to say. Judy seems
to feel the same way that I do, in the fact that nudism can be sensuous, and
you're right in the sense that nudism can become somewhat erotic when you're
with the right person, and you're in the right place, (right person and
place of course, is always the individual's choice). However, sensuous
feelings we receive can be as different as the individual, and they don't
have to be sexual feelings. Perhaps lying in a cool stream with the water
trickling over your body on a hot summer day could be sensuous. I know it
is for me, but that doesn't make me want to jump the first naked woman I see!
I've read your note, over and over again. You've said in one
paragraph that you're not someone who is obsessed with sexual feelings, but
yet the rest of your note certainly implies that your are. The fact that
it seems you are not able to take your clothes off without feeling sexually
stimulated, whether it be in a naturist environment or not, is the overtone
of your overall message.
I beleive (forgive fellow naturists), that nudism/naturism does give
all of us, to some degree, some sexual stimulation. I would be lying to you
if I were to say that I hadn't at some time thought about what sex would be
like with one of the naked women I've seen at naturist park, but I'd also be
lying if I said I hadn't thought about the same thing on a clothed beach.
Think about it for a minute. Think about what other people have already
said in their replys. Our society regards sex as a taboo, and being a taboo,
commercially exploits sex as the most powerful advertising tool known to man!
Products from soft drinks to shampoo, from powerboats to pantyhose all use
sexual connotations in their selling campaigns. I beleive you are caught up in
a publicly accepted generalization of sexual attitudes, in other words, "it's
OK to go a strip club and watch people take their clothes off, it's OK to
purchase porn magazines and videos, etc, BUT... God forbid that I let someone
see me naked, especially in public". It disturbs me to know that those who
are most verbally against public nudity, are generally either sexually
deviant, or have some severe psychological hangups, commonly inflicted
during childhood.
Yes, Naturism can be sensous, but it's all a state of mind. Like
anything in life, naturism is what you make of it, so make the most of it.
One of the things that naturism is to me, is a healthy and healing process
of ridding myself of the overload of subconscious sexual stimuli I get each
day, and turn inward to find my balance between society and nature.
Darrell
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126.7 | Being careful with our words | MOIRA::FAIMAN | light upon the figured leaf | Tue Dec 06 1988 11:10 | 13 |
| Darrell,
I presume that you *didn't* mean to suggest that the author of .0 is
sexually deviant or has some severe psychological hangups?
In any case, I would be careful with the generalization. I don't
doubt that there are people whose hostility to public nudity results
from a projection of their own psychological problems; but I am
willing to grant that many or most opponents of nudism are acting
out of an honest (if mistaken) moral belief.
-Neil
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126.8 | Sorry ! | KAOFS::D_BIGELOW | Life's a beach! | Tue Dec 06 1988 11:49 | 16 |
| > I presume that you *didn't* mean to suggest that the author of .0 is
> sexually deviant or has some severe psychological hangups?
You presumed correctly. I am not in any way suggesting that the
author is sexually deviant or has psychological hangups. If
anyone (including the author) misinterpreted my meaning, I sincerely
apologize.
Yes, I was making a generalization of the more severely verbally
abusive individuals against naturism that I have personally met.
Thank-you Neil, for your constructive criticism. I'll be more
careful with my generalizations in all future correspondence.
Darrell
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126.9 | No Frill's Here! | TULA::VIATEAM13 | | Tue Dec 06 1988 19:57 | 10 |
| I agree with Darrel, in that society for so long has bombarded
us with sexuality to sell product that our lives seem to be constantly
filled with it, and all the confusion that goes along with it. Such
as it's ok to be almost nude to sell soft drinks, but to go topless
at the lake is a no no, it creates alot of subconcious confusion.
when you dress you can be what you want to be sexy,mean or a slob.
But when nude no-one sees the fancy packaging they just see you.
And it's up to the individual how they will percieve others and
themselves. It's up to your self to make the choice.
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126.10 | Natural=Desirable? | SA1794::MOULTONB | | Wed Dec 07 1988 16:44 | 59 |
|
Thanks to all of you who replied to my note. I found your replies
to be both informative and interesting.
I think that more has to be said concerning the value of clothes
however. Clothes were originally made to protect humans from the
environment. Clothes eventually evolved in our society to become
a statement of status, style, and individuality. Our clothes also
serve a more basic need such as covering up bodies that should be
covered up. Lets face it, there are some people (maybe myself
included) that should be outlawed from practicing public nudity
due to their unsightly physical appearance. Yes I know that beauty
is in the eye of the beholder but in some cases ugly is ugly.
I'm also wondering how many of you would be willing to nude with
your parents or grandparents? Anyways, getting back to clothes...
Another basic need that clothes serve is to protect our immediate
environment (such as furniture) from our bodies. I remember reading
somewhere that some nudists have parties in their homes with other
nudists and they protect their furniture by covering it with towels!
How DISGUSTINGLY GROSS! Hey look, its one thing to be sittn' on a
tree stump in the middle of a forest but keep yer butt off da furniture
please! If nuding is natural, then its okay, right? Are you then saying
that all things that are natural are good and should be publically viewed?
I should think not! There are some NATURAL body functions that are not
appealing to the eye. All I'm saying is NATURAL does not automatically
mean that something is good or desirable. So lets not get carried away
with the NATURAL bit. Today wearing clothes is considered normal by
society the same as brushing your teeth, combing your hair, or as with
most women, applying makeup. Animals don't do any of the above so why
do humans? Because humans are a higher concious life form that recognizes
that all things NATURAL are not desirable and that the human being's
appearance and health can be enhanced by artificial means. I will agree
that not all things imposed on us by society are good for us. I think
that probably pornorgraphy is such a big "hit" with the masses today
because of the restrictions imposed on us by society about nudity and
sex. If you tell people they shouldn't do something they naturally
want to do it all the more and it can get carried away.
things imposed on us by society are goo
Our clothes protect our immediate envir-
onment (such as our furniture) from our bodies. I remember reading
somewhere that some nudists invite other nudists into their homes
and put towels on the furniture to protect it. HOW DIGUSTINGLY GROSS!
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126.11 | | CADSE::WONG | Le Chinois Fou | Wed Dec 07 1988 19:42 | 67 |
| RE: .10
Are you saying that there are no situations where nudity is
appropriate?
From what I've read so far in this notesfile, and from what I've
experienced, there are times when clothes should be worn and times
when it's okay not to be clothed. The notes here have not advocated
nudity all the time. Nudism is not having to be clothed when you
don't have to.
When would it be appropriate to be nude?
o At a beach where it's allowed..
why cover up parts of your body when you're tanning?
getting sand in a swimsuit is a pain...
o swimming...
why put clothes on just to get them wet?
o when it's hot and where it's appropriate...
imagine putting on clothes to get cooler...?
o when you have to go outside in the rain and it's warm...?
putting on clothes to purposely get wet? I read somewhere
about missionaries who visited some tropical isles hundreds
of years ago and making the natives cover themselves up.
The death rate shot up because so many natives were getting
their clothes wet and catching the pneumonia.
o Where it's appropriate...
When would it be appropriate to wear clothes?
o when around other people who might be offended and where
it's not appropriate...
...such as textile beaches...
o when it's cold...
brrrrrr....!
o wherever it's appropriate...etc...
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Nudism/Naturism is intended for everyone, not just the people with
the incredible Adonis/Venus bodies. It makes no statement on what
is a good-looking or bad-looking body. The person inside is the
important part.
Regarding the nudity with family...
Some people have relatives who are nudists and some don't. I know
of at least one person in this notesfile who used to go nuding with
the in-laws. Alot of people here probably would go nuding with
relatives, if the relatives were into nudism.
"Natural" bodily functions have nothing to do with nudism. "Natural"
in this case refers to a biological function, as opposed to a
emotional and mental state. At the nudist places that I've visited,
there are extensive private and secluded restroom facilities because
natural bodily functions are considered one's personal business.
Nudists are nude when and where it's appropriate. When it's not,
they get dressed. Simply as that. They don't HAVE to take off
their clothes; at the same time, they don't have some inhuman
compulsion to take off their clothes all the time.
B.
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126.12 | | NEXUS::GORTMAKER | Whatsa Gort? | Thu Dec 08 1988 03:48 | 3 |
| I for one know my mother wouldent see anything new.
-j
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126.13 | | KAOFS::D_BIGELOW | Life's a beach! | Thu Dec 08 1988 09:12 | 52 |
| RE: .10
I feel sorry for you that you have such a negative attitude
about your body. Believe me, I've seen bodies that might be classified
by most persons in our society as "grotesque" in nudist environments,
and I suppose when I first got into naturism, I probably saw a few
of them and thought to myself "eeeh, gad ! put your clothes on
mister!". As time passed though, it was just another body. People
do NOT go nuding just to show off their fantastic figure ! God!
If everyone who went nuding were only there to show off their body,
then I doubt there would be naturist organizations at all ! Cause
if there were, you'd end up having to meet specific qualifications
just to gain entrance. "Nope." says the guard at the gate, "this
guy's biceps are too small, he can't come in." or "this man/woman
is overweight, he/she can't come in either". Let's get realistic!
If you've got a problem with the way your body looks, and you
wish you could have Arnold Schwartzanager's body, (or Jane Fonda's,
in case you're a woman) or whatever your ideal image of a body is,
then that's YOUR problem. Naturists DON'T have a problem with it.
We accept people just as they are. If you're unhappy with the way
you look, and you can do something about it, then it's up to you
to change. If you can't do anything to change your physical
appearance, SO WHAT ! We don't care !
So far in my life, I've met a lot of people who I felt could
lose a couple hundred pounds (I'm not saying that you are someone
who could stand to lose weight, cause I've never met you, and I
don't know what grotesque physical appearance means to you), and
by society's standards, these people are considered grotesque.
BUT, most of them, are about the nicest, most humane, wonderful people
I have ever met ! Some (notice I didn't say ALL), of the beautiful
bodied people I've met, in my opinion, require a personality change.
They're the kind that have a great body and they KNOW IT. Ohhh!
I hate that kind. They're the type of people who most commonly stick
their noses up at me ! And it doesn't seem to matter if they are
clothed or not, (however, unclothed people always have a tendency
to be more open).
We're not going to try to convert you to be a naturist. That's
your decision. After all, you are the person who first expressed
an interest in naturism by putting in your base note. We are
expressing our views on naturism. If you are unable to accept our
views, as people who have been naturists for many years, and we
know what we're talking about, then perhaps you shouldn't be a
naturist. All I ask is that you listen to us. We are not here
to be ridiculed.
Darrell
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126.14 | A touch of reality | HSSWS1::GREG | Malice Aforethought | Thu Dec 08 1988 23:15 | 24 |
| re: .10
Actually, it was my parents that turned me onto naturism.
We don't often got nuding together, though, because they
live in Tennessee, and I live in Texas. Rather a long drive
for a day at the beach, if you take my meaning.
My father has an enormous stomach, but he's not at all
sensitive about it. He used to run around the house
naked all the time on the weekends, and nobody thought
anything of it. Mom was always a bit more modest, but
she never really hid herself from us. If she was naked when
we walked in the room she would not rush to cover herself.
I grew up in a very relaxed environment with regard to
our bodies. Nothing is gross or nasty about the body.
Nothing.
By the way, while I don't really throw nude parties,
one of my neighbors frequently hangs out with me nude,
and we sit on the (expensive) furniture naked all the
time. Believe me, towels are not necessary unless
you are incontinent.
- Greg
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126.15 | Time and place! How about in the military? | IAMOK::GONZALEZ | | Fri Dec 09 1988 02:49 | 17 |
|
One thing that has bothered me (and I consider myself to be
VERY OPEN) is the following.
When I was in the Navy (I've been out almost two years now)
there was a guy in my living compartment - whom I shall call
S - who was always walking around nude. Now I'd hate to be
prudish but this really use to bother me. On board ship, and
both of us lived on board -in port and underway-, the living
compartment, as you can imagine, was not all that big. And we
had to share that space with as many as 60 other men. Looking
back maybe what bothered me is having an unclothed male contin-
ually invading my personal space (and I didn't like him that much
anyway). I'm interested in your comments on this - I can take
the truth. (Oh and I might mention this person never washed
himself too meticulously and his clothes even less! Maybe we
were luckier when he wore none!!
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126.16 | A Reply from the WASP Nest! | HPSTEK::SHERMAN | | Fri Dec 09 1988 13:39 | 111 |
| HI:
I might as well stick my $0.02 worth.
One morning a year or so ago, I managed to get my WASP (White, Anglo-Saxon
Protestant) body into my car and drove into a beach. It was at the
southern coast of Rhode Island. I was in a jacket and slax. I grumbled at
paying $20. to get in, but I did.
Finding no club-house, I wound up on the beach. It was textile just like
all the rest of the beaches (or so I thought). I walked up to a couple who
was just settling down onto their pads, and asked where I could change.
"Right down there past the snow-fence ... You'll see the place." He
replied.
I thanked him and went down past the snow-fence.
I found a place to change ... it was 700 feet long and about 75 feet wide.
It was full of naked people. Apparently they hadn't all changed
completely, yet ... or something. After walking through this very
un-WASP-ish group I found nothing but another length of snow-fence at the
other end of the changing-place.
I considered my options.
I couldn't put on my bathing trunks without first doffing my street
clothes. Since there were no walls to prevent THEM from seeing ME, I
suddenly decided that I was old enough to handle the situation. I found me
a spot, pulled off the clothes, and ... something wonderful happened:
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!
This world couldn't care less that old WASP-ish me was standing there in
the buff. That wasn't the wonderful thing, however....
I suddenly began to laugh inwardly at myself. "All these years of WASP-ing
it all over the world .. and now look at yourself!"
I relaxed like I had never relaxed before.
While I was trying to avoid "looking" at anyone else, I suddenly looked at
my tummy. My spare tire was enormous! Most of the people there were very
healthy looking. I looked like a frumpy old sot! Apparently I had let my
clothes be a kind of shade to keep even me from knowing what I looked like.
UGH!
Right on the spot, I decided I would lose weight.
The next season I joined about 1000 Naturists at a beautiful place in
Pennsylvania called Camp Akiba. Families with children of all ages ...
Grand parents ... singles ... you name it they were there.
I had gone down with the idea of setting up what I called a Cancer
Screening Center. The ideas was to get people to take skin cancer
seriously. I wanted husbands and wives to use their love as a tool to keep
each other living long enough to spoil their grandchildren rotten ... and
their great-grandchildren, too!
Well, I sat there under my sign and waited. "Customers" began to drop by.
I showed them the pamphlets, and suggested that they make a body map for
each other, then use that body map as a way to recall the past while
checking in the future. I processed well over a hundred people.
Remember, the pamphlets tell you to see if that mole is larger or changed
in some other way since the last time you checked it. How can you tell, I
reasoned with my customers, if you don't know how big and where it was back
then?
So we measured moles and mapped them all afternoon, and for several hours
each day thereafter. It was a relaxed situation, but I have never been
trusted so much before in my life. Funny, when you're trusted, you become
even more trustworthy.
The most important thing ... which was mentioned in some of the earlier
replies: After about 2 hours of this close work with other humans, I began
to actually see the bodies simply as another kind of outfit. There was a
lady's outfit and a gentleman's outfit. Looking at the outfits for
blemishes was all I was doing after a while. But the most wonderful part
of it was talking to the persons inside those outfits.
I may be older than most of you, but I'm still human. However, I found
these people were friends, and I don't go around making gooney-eyes at
friends!
Regarding Nudity and Nakedness ... fiddlesticks. Based on my own personal
experience with these wonderful people, I believe all that would happen if
every place permitted people to wear whatever outfit they wanted, would be
that the sick peek-a-boo sex we see on TV and in publications would fade
away as a viable way to get attention.
The sooner that happens, the sooner families will be able to get children
into adults with a minimum of sex fuss.
Of course this would mean a great loss to those organizations (including
those who pontificate on special days) who earn their money by selling
outfits and propaganda on how nasty and untrustworthy people are.
People are nice, clothed or not. I know this from experience now.
Oh, by the way, I dropped from 185 pounds to my present weight of 155-158
(My three-pound YO-YO!). I just aimed at 160 pounds, kept my eye on the
scale, and simply melted down to the desired weight within about 6 months.
No diets either! A year later when I went to Akiba, I felt much better,
thank you.
Stan/
P.S. If you'd like a map and a mole measurer, contact me by E-Mail.
I have a few left. SMS
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126.17 | I love the human body! | ENGINE::TIM | Tim Knapp - MLO6-2/13a - dtn: 223-3730 | Fri Dec 09 1988 20:46 | 6 |
| I too was in the Army and had a roommate that walked around in the
nude. I found it most refreshing. From that point on I going to
nude beaches and walking around with out a stitch on. Talk about
a cool breeze!
Tim
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126.18 | From streaking to seeking a fuller life | HSSWS1::GREG | Malice Aforethought | Sat Dec 10 1988 09:51 | 36 |
|
Anybody besides me remember 'streaking' from the early
'70s? I always thought is was an amusing thing to do,
and was particularly amused by the song 'The Streak'
(can't remember who did it, but I think it was the guy
who played Snowman in Smokey and The Bandit... Jerry
something-or-other.)
Anyway, since my family had pretty loose ideas about
nudity anyway I thought it was funny that people made
such a big deal about someone who chose to be naked in
public. I never understood the mentality that said the
body should be hidden at all times. I never understood
why people were afraid of nudity.
But I acknowledged that they were, and decided to suppress
my 'expression of freedom' in their presence. Even today
I tend to avoid nuding except at home an in secluded places,
and that causes some emotional backpressure to build up in
me. I heard somewhere that one of the reasons most people
find winter depressing is because the skin does not recieve
a sufficient amount of light. I posit that the same can be
said of those who never bare themselves to the sun during the
year.
Clothing protects you from the elements, true enough, and
I would not be caught in zub-zero tempeartures without it;
but it also creates a barrier between your body and the life-giving
sun. Of course, in these days of high tech, even true prudes
can get enough sun simply by buying a tanning bed, but there
are risks involved with such unnatural approaches. There are
risks involved in all of life. Given the choice, I'll take
my chances in the sun (being careful to watch for skin cancer,
mind you).
- Greg
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126.19 | Yes, old wrinkly folks too... | GENRAL::KILGORE | Cherokee Woman | Mon Dec 12 1988 15:15 | 33 |
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>> I'm also wondering how many of you would be willing to nude with
>> your parents or grandparents?
I have nuded with my father-in-law. He was a bit 'saggy' but nice and
tan all over. My husband and I took a naturist type camping trip into
Utah. The leader was in his 50's and a tall and big man. There was
also another gentleman from the state of Washington who was 76 years
young. And my father-in-law, my husband and me. We had a good time
together...and it didn't matter whether someone was overweight, ugly,
old, etc. or not. We enjoyed each others company!
If my parents were into this I would nude with them....I think Grandma
would of if she'd had the chance. Our next door neighbors want to go
with us to Valley View. They are mother and daughter, ages late 60's
and late 40's. The mother reminds me an awful lot like my grandma...
and we call her Grandma! She of German descent and wears an apron (over
her dress...) all day long with her hose around her ankles just like my
grandma...memories...:-)!
>> Another basic need that clothes serve is to protect our immediate
>> environment (such as furniture) from our bodies. I remember reading
>> somewhere that some nudists have parties in their homes with other
>> nudists and they protect their furniture by covering it with towels!
>> How DISGUSTINGLY GROSS!
We cover our furniture with towels when nuding not to protect the furniture
but to protect our b*tts from whoever or whatever had sat in the chair last.
Other chairs, public benches, etc. that were sat on previously are 'stuck'
on the bottom of your pants right now! YUCK!! ;-) Just think about it.
Judy
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