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Conference moira::naturism

Title:Naturism
Notice:Site report index is in topic 7
Moderator:GENRAL::KILGORE
Created:Tue Jan 26 1988
Last Modified:Wed May 07 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:457
Total number of notes:3687

72.0. "Social versus private" by BSS::RJONES () Fri Jun 17 1988 15:42

    	What are your thoughts around nudism being a social versus a
    privately enjoyed activity?
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72.1Don't understand...CADSE::WONGLe Chinois FouFri Jun 17 1988 16:102
    What do you mean, "social"?  Like a nudist campground?
    Like a nude beach?  Hot tubbing with friends?
72.2Men social? Women private?BSS::RJONESMon Jun 20 1988 11:4910
	I may be wrong, but I SUSPECT that:

	1. For men, the general preference is to enjoy nudity in
	   a social environment, less often when alone.

	2. For women, nudity might more often be practiced in the
	   privacy of the home or enclosed backyard; in other words,
	   enjoyed more frequently in private.

	Any validity to this?
72.3I think valid...but shouldn't beGENRAL::KILGOREThe Desert RatMon Jun 20 1988 12:1126
>>	1. For men, the general preference is to enjoy nudity in
>>	   a social environment, less often when alone.

From what I hear about men's locker rooms that is true...comparing it
to the women's locker only.  I can remember besides me there was only
one other person in my senior year at high school that was brave enough
to bare herself and walk nude to the showers.  And god foresake, take a
shower with a member of the same sex!  Oh, my!

>>	2. For women, nudity might more often be practiced in the
>>	   privacy of the home or enclosed backyard; in other words,
>>	   enjoyed more frequently in private.

If most women could get over the hang-up about worrying about what their
bodies look like, I think more women could 'enjoy' more public nudity.
Of course, there will always be people (both males and females, closed minded
people) that will voice their opinions regarding what other people's bodies
should be like and about their distaste for 'ugly' ones.  Now if we could do 
away with such mentality, the whole world would be healthier!

You also have to keep in mind...it is not publicly acceptable to parade around 
in the nude.  Varied upbringings have alot to do with how people handle nudity
and if they correlate (connect) nudity with sex and if sex is 'dirty' to them 
or not.

Judy
72.4PLANET::BADOWSKIMon Jun 20 1988 13:294
    As with the Volkswagon Beetle, the body style doesn't change. Thus
    the saying, if you've seen one youve seen them all - so thats the
    big deal. We all look alike in the dark anyway.
    
72.5Either way is fineMOIRA::FAIMANA goblet, a goblet, yea, even a hoopSun Jun 26 1988 22:5711
    Well, being around other naked people seems to "validate" the
    experience.  I mean, of course it's ok to be naked alone; but being
    naked with others directly defies the nakedness taboo.  You've
    somehow accomplished more by being socially nude.  So I prefer
    social nudity. 
                                                    
    On the other hand, I don't have to have other people around to enjoy
    being nude.  I can be perfectly happy being nude at home in the
    evening, or outside in the yard.  So both ways are fine.
    
    	-Neil
72.6Against the grain of societyIOENG::JWILLIAMSZeitgeist ZoologyWed Jul 06 1988 17:4623
    I haven't really considered private nudity to be fundamentally any
    different than taking a shower or a bath or something like that.
    When outside the privacy of my own home ( or backyard, etc. ), I
    prefer to find other people who enjoy being nude because of the
    security of having others in the same boat, so to speak, should
    you get "caught". If I were "caught" in the nude by myself, I would
    be at greater risk of harrassment than if I were "caught" with others.
    
    Add to this the fact that I enjoy looking at other people, and enjoy
    their company in general, I really do prefer to do it with others.
    It really helps me to relax and enjoy myself. With other people
    there, there is a good chance that I can come back and that spot
    will still be there (if the prudes don't take even more for
    themselves).
    
    To me, being nude by myself isn't that special, certainly nothing
    worth writing about. Being nude with other people is a completely
    unique experience which can not be compared with anything else I
    can think of. In a society that seems saturated with nudity-sex
    associations, it's truly amazing that people can get together and
    trust each other enough to go in the nude.
    
    							John.