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Conference moira::naturism

Title:Naturism
Notice:Site report index is in topic 7
Moderator:GENRAL::KILGORE
Created:Tue Jan 26 1988
Last Modified:Wed May 07 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:457
Total number of notes:3687

15.0. "who do you nude with?" by USAVAX::REDICK (body electric) Tue Feb 02 1988 23:07


     1)    who do you nude with?

     2)    do you like it better alone?

     3)    are there certain people you *won't* nude with?

     4)    are you always at ease?
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15.1SSDEVO::YOUNGERCalm down, it's only 1's and 0'sWed Feb 03 1988 02:3526
     1)    who do you nude with?
    
    	SO, friends, aquaintances only when in a mid-size to largish group.
                  
     2)    do you like it better alone?
    
    	I'm not sure.  Alone is certainly different-just you and the
    	universe, which is wonderful.  However, company is also nice.
    	Depends upon the mood I guess.

     3)    are there certain people you *won't* nude with?
    
    	Anyone who has in the past looked at me *too* closely - trying
    	make it into an (unwanted by me) sexual experience.  Also, anyone
    	who repeatedly points out my lack of physical perfection.  It's
    	my body, I've come to accept it the way it is, I don't need
    	anyone attempting to damage my fairly new-found acceptance of
    	me the way I am.  I am also inclined to believe that a person
    	with a need to show me how imperfect I am doesn't really like me
    	anyway.

     4)    are you always at ease?
    
    	Except when it gets too cold, and #3.

    Elizabeth
15.2just meUSAVAX::REDICKbody electricWed Feb 03 1988 17:1020
     1)    who do you nude with?
           
           basically i nude with whoever is interested.  i think it's
           a great way to enjoy friends.  friends who don't have 
           preconceived notions about who you should be etc...

     2)    do you like it better alone?

           sometimes.  "solitude and standing"  there's a very 
           peaceful feeling that goes with nuding alone.

     3)    are there certain people you *won't* nude with?

           people who don't appreciate the meaning of "freedom"
           and who can't relate to the concept.  

     4)    are you always at ease?

           nope.  if i think i'm being scrutinized then i just
           don't feel right.
15.3who will join me?GENRAL::KILGOREA + Thinking AreaWed Feb 03 1988 17:2126
    1)  I like to nude with most anybody how cares to 'do as the 
    	natives do'.  My husband, friends, acquaintances, people 
    	from work who frequent the same places as we do.  If you 
    	care to share the experience and are open to the idea, I 
    	really have no problem with it.  I've even nuded with my 
     	father-in-law on skinny-dipping occasions and while at the
    	hot springs.
    
    2) 	I think any experience is best shared but I have on occasion
    	sunned by myself.  It really depends on the mood I'm in.
    
    3)  I prefer not to nude with: 
    
    	Perverts, sex maniacs and (I agree with Elizabeth) anyone who
    	has attempted an unwanted sexual experience with me.  I was
    	pressured one time, it was almost like just because I was nude
    	it was 'open season' on Judy.  After I set this guy straight
    	I haven't had another experience like it.
    
    4)  I am at ease most times but that could depend on the general
    	mood of the people I'm with at the time.  If somebody is up-tight
    	I'll try to help ease their uneasiness.  Otherwise I just may
    	leave the area and resort to oneness with Nature since I am
    	totally relaxed and at ease when 'communing with Nature'.
        
    Judy
15.4Who me, not yet ready!?FSTVAX::ROYERFIDUS AMICUS..Mon Mar 07 1988 14:2817
    
    
    1.  never have had the nerve, but while in Germany was tempted
        to go with my wife and family and landlady who was a member
        in Karlsruhe.
    
    2.  probably easier the first time or two..
    
    3.  I would of course be rather shy for the first few times,
        and problems might arise, what does one do?
        And un welcome attentions from either sex would be a 
        real negative.
    
    4.  I forget the question, but it probably is not needed
        as I have never enjoyed nudity out doors.
    
    Dave
15.5Sometimes risky . . .IOENG::JWILLIAMSZeitgeist ZoologyTue Jul 05 1988 16:4719
    1) To me, the problem always seems to be in "popping the question".
    It has always worked out OK, and we've always had a good time, but
    I think it's fair to say that I only invite people I know fairly
    well ( mostly family ), but I've got no problems with the people
    who are already there. Mostly it would be the embarassment of dealing
    with someone who might take it the wrong way. I'll nude with almost
    anyone who wants to, the difficulty is in knowing whom.
    
    2) No, I like doing it with others. I feel more secure with other
    people there. Safety in numbers.
    
    3) I won't do it with anyone who does not want to. I apply zero
    pressure.
    
    4) I get a little nervous prior to "popping the question", maybe
    a little before hand if it's someone else's first time. Once nude,
    though, everything seems alright.
    
    							John.
15.6only humans dress!HOO78C::SCHUURMANThu Oct 05 1989 10:1211
    1) I nude with anyone who doesn't have a problem being normal under
    these circumstances, but it is more fun with friends around.
    
    2)Yes, I don't have to be with a lot of people to nude and feel
    fantastic.
    
    3)I won't nude with men or women who make a sexual experiance out
    of it, and not with my parent.
    
    4)oeps! forgot the question.Will be back for that.
    
15.7Back again to answer!HOO78C::SCHUURMANThu Oct 05 1989 10:133
    4)Yes!
    
    That's it.
15.8Late replyTRUCKS::JAMES_ITue Nov 07 1989 05:3521
     1)    who do you nude with?

Anyone who happens to be at the beach/ on the site etc. who doesn't do
anything objectionable like smoking.  That doesn't mean that I socialise with
them all, discussion about green issues and other important/ serious topics
soon weeds out those with whom I have no common soul. 

     2)    do you like it better alone?

Sometimes, but usually I am a social animal.

     3)    are there certain people you *won't* nude with?

No.  There are a lot of family and friends who are not nudists, and would not 
therefore nude with me or anyone else.

     4)    are you always at ease?

Yes when on an approved site or beach.  No when in a place where there may be 
hostiles, textiles, etc..
15.9with other DECies! (hopefully at the NENA swim!)ASIMOV::DITOMMASOI cant get use to this lifestyleWed Oct 14 1992 13:2722
       (this old note, .. seemed like a good place to put this!)

  Well, next sat. is the NENA swim in Revere, and to answer the question
  who do I nude with .. at this point in time, just my SO (for this sat.
  anyway) ..

  The big question is ...  (drum roll please)

   Is anyone else going to the NENA swim this sat. -  Amy and I are going
  and it would be nice to know other people there.  As far as I can tell,
  we won't know anyone there this sat. night.  SO, if you are going,
  drop me a line ... 

   if you thought you might go, but didn't know anyone (or anyone your age)
  who's going, ... well, drop me a line and maybe we can catch up with
  each other at the swim.  (amy's 22 I'm 30 btw) ..

   So, if you're thinking about going, definetly drop me a line, it would
  be nice to know some other DECcies there!

  ciao
  Paul