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15.1 | | SSDEVO::YOUNGER | Calm down, it's only 1's and 0's | Wed Feb 03 1988 02:35 | 26 |
| 1) who do you nude with?
SO, friends, aquaintances only when in a mid-size to largish group.
2) do you like it better alone?
I'm not sure. Alone is certainly different-just you and the
universe, which is wonderful. However, company is also nice.
Depends upon the mood I guess.
3) are there certain people you *won't* nude with?
Anyone who has in the past looked at me *too* closely - trying
make it into an (unwanted by me) sexual experience. Also, anyone
who repeatedly points out my lack of physical perfection. It's
my body, I've come to accept it the way it is, I don't need
anyone attempting to damage my fairly new-found acceptance of
me the way I am. I am also inclined to believe that a person
with a need to show me how imperfect I am doesn't really like me
anyway.
4) are you always at ease?
Except when it gets too cold, and #3.
Elizabeth
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15.2 | just me | USAVAX::REDICK | body electric | Wed Feb 03 1988 17:10 | 20 |
| 1) who do you nude with?
basically i nude with whoever is interested. i think it's
a great way to enjoy friends. friends who don't have
preconceived notions about who you should be etc...
2) do you like it better alone?
sometimes. "solitude and standing" there's a very
peaceful feeling that goes with nuding alone.
3) are there certain people you *won't* nude with?
people who don't appreciate the meaning of "freedom"
and who can't relate to the concept.
4) are you always at ease?
nope. if i think i'm being scrutinized then i just
don't feel right.
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15.3 | who will join me? | GENRAL::KILGORE | A + Thinking Area | Wed Feb 03 1988 17:21 | 26 |
| 1) I like to nude with most anybody how cares to 'do as the
natives do'. My husband, friends, acquaintances, people
from work who frequent the same places as we do. If you
care to share the experience and are open to the idea, I
really have no problem with it. I've even nuded with my
father-in-law on skinny-dipping occasions and while at the
hot springs.
2) I think any experience is best shared but I have on occasion
sunned by myself. It really depends on the mood I'm in.
3) I prefer not to nude with:
Perverts, sex maniacs and (I agree with Elizabeth) anyone who
has attempted an unwanted sexual experience with me. I was
pressured one time, it was almost like just because I was nude
it was 'open season' on Judy. After I set this guy straight
I haven't had another experience like it.
4) I am at ease most times but that could depend on the general
mood of the people I'm with at the time. If somebody is up-tight
I'll try to help ease their uneasiness. Otherwise I just may
leave the area and resort to oneness with Nature since I am
totally relaxed and at ease when 'communing with Nature'.
Judy
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15.4 | Who me, not yet ready!? | FSTVAX::ROYER | FIDUS AMICUS.. | Mon Mar 07 1988 14:28 | 17 |
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1. never have had the nerve, but while in Germany was tempted
to go with my wife and family and landlady who was a member
in Karlsruhe.
2. probably easier the first time or two..
3. I would of course be rather shy for the first few times,
and problems might arise, what does one do?
And un welcome attentions from either sex would be a
real negative.
4. I forget the question, but it probably is not needed
as I have never enjoyed nudity out doors.
Dave
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15.5 | Sometimes risky . . . | IOENG::JWILLIAMS | Zeitgeist Zoology | Tue Jul 05 1988 16:47 | 19 |
| 1) To me, the problem always seems to be in "popping the question".
It has always worked out OK, and we've always had a good time, but
I think it's fair to say that I only invite people I know fairly
well ( mostly family ), but I've got no problems with the people
who are already there. Mostly it would be the embarassment of dealing
with someone who might take it the wrong way. I'll nude with almost
anyone who wants to, the difficulty is in knowing whom.
2) No, I like doing it with others. I feel more secure with other
people there. Safety in numbers.
3) I won't do it with anyone who does not want to. I apply zero
pressure.
4) I get a little nervous prior to "popping the question", maybe
a little before hand if it's someone else's first time. Once nude,
though, everything seems alright.
John.
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15.6 | only humans dress! | HOO78C::SCHUURMAN | | Thu Oct 05 1989 10:12 | 11 |
| 1) I nude with anyone who doesn't have a problem being normal under
these circumstances, but it is more fun with friends around.
2)Yes, I don't have to be with a lot of people to nude and feel
fantastic.
3)I won't nude with men or women who make a sexual experiance out
of it, and not with my parent.
4)oeps! forgot the question.Will be back for that.
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15.7 | Back again to answer! | HOO78C::SCHUURMAN | | Thu Oct 05 1989 10:13 | 3 |
| 4)Yes!
That's it.
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15.8 | Late reply | TRUCKS::JAMES_I | | Tue Nov 07 1989 05:35 | 21 |
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1) who do you nude with?
Anyone who happens to be at the beach/ on the site etc. who doesn't do
anything objectionable like smoking. That doesn't mean that I socialise with
them all, discussion about green issues and other important/ serious topics
soon weeds out those with whom I have no common soul.
2) do you like it better alone?
Sometimes, but usually I am a social animal.
3) are there certain people you *won't* nude with?
No. There are a lot of family and friends who are not nudists, and would not
therefore nude with me or anyone else.
4) are you always at ease?
Yes when on an approved site or beach. No when in a place where there may be
hostiles, textiles, etc..
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15.9 | with other DECies! (hopefully at the NENA swim!) | ASIMOV::DITOMMASO | I cant get use to this lifestyle | Wed Oct 14 1992 13:27 | 22 |
| (this old note, .. seemed like a good place to put this!)
Well, next sat. is the NENA swim in Revere, and to answer the question
who do I nude with .. at this point in time, just my SO (for this sat.
anyway) ..
The big question is ... (drum roll please)
Is anyone else going to the NENA swim this sat. - Amy and I are going
and it would be nice to know other people there. As far as I can tell,
we won't know anyone there this sat. night. SO, if you are going,
drop me a line ...
if you thought you might go, but didn't know anyone (or anyone your age)
who's going, ... well, drop me a line and maybe we can catch up with
each other at the swim. (amy's 22 I'm 30 btw) ..
So, if you're thinking about going, definetly drop me a line, it would
be nice to know some other DECcies there!
ciao
Paul
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