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Conference misery::feline

Title:Meower Power - Where Differing Opinions are Respected
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Moderator:JULIET::CORDES_JA
Created:Wed Nov 13 1991
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1079
Total number of notes:28858

1023.0. "Sibling Rivalry?" by ICS::SILVERSTEIN () Tue Aug 27 1996 08:05

    Looking for suggestions/ideas/help with what I think is sibling
    rivalry.  Last summer I got three kittens--littermates (actually, it
    was the whole litter)--two females, one male.  All three have been
    neutered.  One of the females, Cali, runs away.
    
    Or, so we thought.  On closer observation, it looks like the male,
    Paddy, is refusing to share the territory with her.  She ends up way
    down our street, well past her comfort zone and then becomes
    disoriented and can't (or won't) find her way home.  This last time she
    was gone for a week, and it took flyers in the neighbors' mailboxes to
    find her.  Other times we've been able to find her, but always we've
    had to go get her.  She's always happy to be found and loves the attention
    and will stay close for a few days, then off she goes again.
    
    The other female, Misty, doesn't seem to be bothered by Paddy or their
    dog, Pluto-the-dog-from-outer-space (Cali gets along with Pluto).  The
    neighbors next door have seen Paddy and Cali fighting in their yard,
    which is what started the sibling rivalry theory.
    
    Any thoughts, ideas, experiences with same??
    
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1023.1PADC::KOLLINGKarenTue Aug 27 1996 11:103
    Can you keep them in the house, and go thru the normal new (sic) cat
    intro techniques?
    
1023.2confined to quartersICS::SILVERSTEINTue Aug 27 1996 11:4611
    Cali is confined to quarters at the moment.  All are brought in every
    night; Paddy is now locked in the den and Cali (and Misty) are sleeping
    on the bed.  Prior to this, only Paddy slept on the bed.  We thought it
    was their choice, but now are suspicious.  Other than that, we haven't
    instituted any other new cat intro techniques.
    
    Do you think we should keep all in?  We are also confining
    Pluto-the-dog-from-outerspace more and letting the cats have the run of
    the house without interference from him (also about 1 year old) more
    frequently.
    
1023.3PADC::KOLLINGKarenTue Aug 27 1996 11:482
    Well, I'm on the indoors only for cats persuasion :-0
    
1023.4LJSRV1::MARXWed Aug 28 1996 11:197
    I too think you should keep the cats inside.  If there is some dominant
    behavior going on, you'll be able to see it and correct the situation. 
    I keep seven inside, and occasionally two of my females will ambush
    each other.  They have never gotten into a big fight - just threatening
    sounds, but I'm there to let them know that the behavior isn't
    acceptable!  Also, your cats will be much safer if confined.
    
1023.5MFGFIN::E_WALKERNight of the Living EdWed Aug 28 1996 20:125
1023.6TROLL AlertIROCZ::BKWALThu Aug 29 1996 02:486
    
    RE: 1023.5
    
    Look what popped out from under the bridge again. For those not
    familiar with the gentleman's contributions, YES, he is trying
    to <ahem> yank your tail.
1023.7PADC::KOLLINGKarenThu Aug 29 1996 11:446
    Seems to me the way to deal with this is for the mods to post a
    subsequent reply, in case anyone gets mislead by his "advice", and
    then delete his posting.  Isn't there something in the corporate ethics
    guidelines about harassing other employees?  Sounds to me like his
    postings are a violation of that.