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1211.1 | | CNTROL::DGAUTHIER | | Tue Jan 23 1996 15:49 | 3 |
| My dictionary says that a concubine is a woman who cohabits with a man
she's not married to. THere's no mention of the relationship beyond
cohabitation. I suppose you mean something more?
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1211.2 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Jan 23 1996 15:57 | 8 |
| MY GUESS is that being a concubine was a common thing for women in that
culture since women typically weren't afforded the status men were of
that time. How they were treated and what was considered appropriate,
I don't know. I will say that from what I've seen in Old Testament
accounts, they were not always treated right...as we saw in the Book of
Judges.
-Jack
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1211.3 | | CPCOD::JOHNSON | A rare blue and gold afternoon | Tue Jan 23 1996 17:18 | 10 |
| My dictionary has a 2nd entry for concubine that is probably closer
to the situation in the Bible where concubines are mentioned. The
definition is "A secondary wife in certain polygamous societies."
As far as I am aware, the Bible never gives approval to polygamy or
concubines, nor do we see the practice being declared a "sin". It
simply reports the existence of the practice. We do see a number of
issues and problems arise from the practice in certain cases. I am
not sure how it was that polygamy has disappeared (more or less).
Leslie
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1211.4 | Not quite a wife | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Tue Jan 23 1996 23:34 | 7 |
| As I understand it, a concubine did not enjoy the social or legal
status of a wife. The children of such a union were nevertheless
usually considered legitimate.
Shalom,
Richard
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1211.5 | | CNTROL::DGAUTHIER | | Wed Jan 24 1996 08:54 | 3 |
| >nor do we see the practice being declared a "sin".
Does adultery fit here?
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1211.6 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Jan 24 1996 09:43 | 4 |
| Very good question! Take Jacob for example. Husband of Leah, husband
of Rachael. The twelve sons of Jacob came from three women!
-Jack
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1211.7 | Other Examples | CPCOD::JOHNSON | A rare blue and gold afternoon | Wed Jan 24 1996 10:41 | 8 |
| I think a concubine had some sort of status, but not the full status of
wife which is why the dictionary said a "secondary" wife. I am not sure
how it was established as to whether one was a concubine or a wife.
Soloman and David also had multiple wives. (& concubines I think) Moses had
more than one wife, but it may be that his second wife did not become his
wife until after the death of Zipporah, I've forgotten. Anybody know offhand?
Leslie
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1211.8 | | CNTROL::DGAUTHIER | | Wed Jan 24 1996 11:11 | 13 |
| Ummmmmm.... unless the definition of adultery was changed since then,
weren't all those guys guilty of this sin? God said "Thou shall not
commit adultery", right? Then many of the OT heros have concubines?
Am I missing something here?
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1211.9 | family legend | ADISSW::HAECK | Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa! | Wed Jan 24 1996 12:24 | 7 |
| This isn't biblical, but my family history includes a man whose wife
became bedridden (sp?). They had many children. He needed someone to
take care of the children and his wife. It was considered improper to
have a live-in housekeeper, but it was okay to have a concubine.
(??? never did understand that logic.) I've never checked it out, but
family legend has it that he is buried somewhere in Boston with his
wife on one side and seven concubines on the other.
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1211.10 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Jan 24 1996 14:26 | 11 |
| > >nor do we see the practice being declared a "sin".
> Does adultery fit here?
I suppose we could exempt some on account of the 'grandfather clause,'
that is, that the commandment against adultery was issued after the time
of Abraham and Jacob.
Shalom,
Richard
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1211.11 | | CNTROL::DGAUTHIER | | Wed Jan 24 1996 14:31 | 11 |
| >I suppose we could exempt some on account of the 'grandfather clause,'
Does that go for "I am the lord thy god..." and the other 8 as well?
I'm not trying to discredit the OT. Just trying to understand it a bit
more and observe the method of reconcilling situations like this
when they pop up.
-dave
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1211.12 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Jan 24 1996 14:38 | 7 |
| .11
I really didn't intend my 'grandfather clause' exemption to be taken
too seriously, Dave.
Richard
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1211.13 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Jan 24 1996 14:44 | 6 |
| .9
Interesting. Do you have an idea of the time in which this took place?
Richard
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1211.14 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Wed Jan 24 1996 14:59 | 11 |
| Z I really didn't intend my 'grandfather clause' exemption to be taken
Z too seriously, Dave.
Actually, I took it as a legitimate point. Pauls letter to the Romans
states that "...where there is no law, sin is not imputed." "To him
that knoweth what to do and doeth it not, to him it is sin." Abraham
may not have thought anything of concubines because it didn't occur to
him he was doing anything wrong. Adultery was not a commandment as of
yet.
-Jack
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1211.15 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:06 | 7 |
| So, you're saying you believe something is not wrong until it's
understood that it's wrong?
I don't think so.
Richard
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1211.16 | | CNTROL::DGAUTHIER | | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:23 | 12 |
| But didn't some of the Jews build a golden calf (transgression of
commandment #1) prior to their recieving the commandments? Why was
this not grandfathered?
(the issue of post 10 commandment concubines remains unresolved)
Maybe the meaning of the word "adultery" differs then to now?
It appears that the Mormons have no problem with polygamy. How do they
justify this?
-dave
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1211.17 | \ | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:26 | 10 |
| Not exactly Richard. I personally believe it was wrong all the time.
But the penalty of the transgression was not imputed to Abraham since
the law had not been established.
Consider Cain for example. He was a murderer but was not put to death
for his sin. There WAS sin, but there was no transgression since the
law had not been established. Had he did his deed in the Mosaic
period, he would have been put to death.
-Jack
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1211.18 | | CPCOD::JOHNSON | A rare blue and gold afternoon | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:35 | 23 |
| I will have to verify this as my memory about it is vague & I am unsure
about what I am about to say. But I think that if you read the
laws in Leviticus & Deuteronomy concerning adultry, it is mostly
about having sexual relations with the wife of another man. If a
man was caught having sexual relations with an unmarried woman, he
either had to marry her, or pay the family the normal "bride price",
but if he were caught having sexual relations with another man's
wife, both he and the woman could be put to death by stoning.
I don't think very many people in David & Soloman's day actually had
multiple wives and concubines because they could not materially
provide for or support them. I think this was primarily a practice
amongst the wealthy.
Although these things existed - polygamy and concubines, I don't think
the Bible puts them forward as okay just because it reports the
practices. I think, but I could be wrong, that God's ideal is for a
marriage to be between one man and one woman because I don't think a
man can cleave to his wife any other way (Genesis). In dealing with
some of the things we do wrong, the Bible is sometimes more compassionate
and makes more allowances for our short comings than we do.
Leslie
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1211.19 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Jan 24 1996 18:20 | 13 |
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Well, this will come as no surprise. I disagree.
Yes, Cain killing Abel was wrong. However, I don't believe Cain wasn't
murdered in turn on the grounds that he predated Mosaic Law.
Richard
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1211.20 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Jan 25 1996 11:24 | 6 |
| The concubine in Judges 19 belongs to a Levite, which as I recall is the
priestly tribe of Israel. Judges 19 doesn't mention the Levite having
a wife.
Richard
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1211.21 | | ADISSW::HAECK | Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa! | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:51 | 5 |
| re: .13
Well, not exact. The graveyard in question is one of those that is
part of the walking tour in Boston, I think. I'll try to remember to
ask my mother or sister.
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1211.22 | Who could handle more than one? 8*) | SUBSYS::LOPEZ | He showed me a River! | Fri Jan 26 1996 13:33 | 9 |
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> Why do we as a society no longer have concubines?
Because men have become so advanced that they realize they have
met their match in just one woman.
8*) 8*)
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1211.23 | | CNTROL::DGAUTHIER | | Fri Jan 26 1996 13:56 | 7 |
| Who needs a concubine in the 90's anyway? Seems to me that this
"function" has been effectively replaced with cheating, wife swapping
and remarrying.
-dave
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1211.24 | Not everyone's on the "make" | THOLIN::TBAKER | The Spirit of Apathy | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:48 | 13 |
| > Who needs a concubine in the 90's anyway? Seems to me that this
> "function" has been effectively replaced with cheating, wife swapping
> and remarrying.
Ya know, I've always suspected that was going on a lot, but I've
never found out where I can get "my share".
Maybe this is the place. Where do I sign up?
Tom
:-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)
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1211.25 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Psalm 85.10 | Sun Jan 28 1996 12:04 | 10 |
| .21
Debby,
By default it has to be sometime in the last 500 years, I guess. I was
just curious about how recent it might have been.
Shalom,
Richard
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1211.26 | | ADISSW::HAECK | Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa! | Wed Jan 31 1996 15:38 | 7 |
| re: .13 (Richard)
Well, I had dinner with my mother last night and got the date. This
relative was John Faunce and he came over on the Queen Ann in 1623. He
married in 1633, so it would have been mid to late 1600's. My mother
didn't have the death date, but he is buried in Copp's Hill Burial
Ground which is one of the Boston Freedom Trail Sites.
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1211.27 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Psalm 85.10 | Fri Feb 02 1996 20:35 | 8 |
| 1121.26
Thanks, Debby. From the dates given, I sense the arrangement was largely
pragmatic.
Shalom,
Richard
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