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889.1 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Tue Mar 29 1994 17:24 | 8 |
| When my parents, who were Methodist missionaries, were in Africa they
didn't drink out of respect for the custom of the local church, but in the
States they drank beer, wine, etc. They told me that one reason the Methodist
church in Africa was opposed to drinking was that many African men would
get drunk in the beer halls, squandering the family's money, getting into
fights and (I would guess) physically abusing their wives and children.
-- Bob
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889.2 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | just a closer walk with thee | Tue Mar 29 1994 18:02 | 19 |
|
Up until the time I recommitted my life to Christ (about 15 months ago) I
made my own beer and frankly enjoyed it. However, it was my conviction that
I could no longer do so and call myself a Christian. Nobody told me I had
to, and being a member of a Baptist church I have *never* heard a sermon
telling me I cannot have a beer or glass of wine or whatever. For me it
became a personal conviction. I like to be ready to share the gospel with
anyone at any time, and for me, I simply cannot do so having consumed alcoholic
beverages.
I do the best I can not to judge others who do have a drink now and then, but
for me, it is an extreme rarity.
Jim
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889.3 | | POBOX::DIERCKS | We will have Peace! We must!!!! | Tue Mar 29 1994 18:28 | 6 |
|
I'd have prefered the question be asked differently. "Is it
non-Christian to drink alcohol?" My answer, vehemently, "no".
GJD
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889.4 | We gotta be careful about gray areas | SLBLUZ::DABLER | Is it 1996 yet? | Tue Mar 29 1994 18:59 | 24 |
| Hi all.
To answer the question, (and I like the way Greg re-worded it) I don't believe
that it is unChristian to imbibe in adult beverages. I don't believe anything
the Lord God created is inherently (did I spell that right?) wrong. Man, however
has the power to pervert what God created.
I think as Christians, we must constantly be aware of our surroundings and use
our head when it comes to alcohol. Their are several "gray" areas that the
Bible states must be sorted out individually. Drinking alcohol, from all that I
have read, falls into this category. We must be extremely careful about being
condemnatory (is THAT a word?) in these gray areas.
Paul cautions us about causing weaker brothers and sisters in the faith to
stumble because of our action. Could our drinking cause someone who is weaker
than we are to become alcoholic? Could it cause someone to abuse what God has
created? It could. That is why I say we must be aware of where we are and what
we do in public. As Christians, we live by a higher standard than the rest of
the world.
Jim()
( Hi Greg! How ya doin'? For the record, you're still the only Edu. person
worth his salt in this company... )
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889.5 | | POBOX::DIERCKS | We will have Peace! We must!!!! | Tue Mar 29 1994 19:03 | 6 |
| >>( Hi Greg! How ya doin'? For the record, you're still the only Edu. person
>>worth his salt in this company... )
How do you draw "the face" for an embarrassed, bald guy?
8-)
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889.6 | I didn't mean to make a blanket statement | SLBLUZ::DABLER | Is it 1996 yet? | Tue Mar 29 1994 20:49 | 11 |
| RE : <<< Note 889.5 by POBOX::DIERCKS "We will have Peace! We must!!!!" >>>
Before I draw the deserved wrath of any other Edu. person who may be reading
this notesfile, I meant to say that Greg is the only Edu. guy I have had the
privilege of having as the instructor. He is truly very knowledgeable in his
field.
I didn't mean to exclude people because I know there has to be good teachers
in this company, but I seem to draw the ones who know less than me sometimes.
Jim()
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889.7 | my perspective | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Mar 29 1994 23:06 | 27 |
| My church (Episcopalian) celebrates the Eucharist every Sunday, with wine and
wafers. Now, people just take a little sip or intinct (dip the wafer into the
wine), so wine is used as an active part of the celebration. I know some
churches substitute grape juice, and I have heard from some people that in
Biblical times what they called wine was not fermented/alcohol free. I
disagree with that interpretation.
Some people in my parish refuse the wine, for personal reasons. They are
still considered partakers of celebration.
Our pastor does not allow any other alcohol consumption on church grounds,
whether sponsored by an activity of the congregation or some group that is
renting the hall. I don't believe that is an Episcopalian policy, I believe it
is a prudent and responsible policy. (/john, do you know of any such church
policy?)
There are some people who cannot drink a little without drinking a lot. For
them it is dangerous to drink wine, beer, or any other alcoholic beverage.
I see that as a personal issue, not a Christian issue.
I cannot drink because of medication I am taking, however even without that
reason, I very rarely drink alcoholic drinks. (maybe a glass of wine 1 or 2
times a year.)
Peace,
Jim
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889.8 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Mud season has arrived | Wed Mar 30 1994 08:35 | 22 |
| The Bible gives all sorts of examples of drinking wine. Jesus made
it for a marriage celebration. The Bible does warn about the risks
of strong drink as well. I think, in moderation, God doesn't have a
problem with it.
There are other individual issues though. I have a close friend who
is a social worker. Though he never had a problem with alcohol he
works counseling many who do. One day one of those people asked him
when he gave up alcohol. He had to reply that he hadn't. This hurt
his credibility because he was asking the other person, who did have
a drinking problem, to stop drinking all together. My friend hasn't
had a drink since. For him, drinking would be wrong because it
conflicts with his ministry. The same can be said for others I'm sure.
For me the major concern is how does it effect ones witness. I don't
drink the stuff mainly because I've never found *anything* that tastes
as bad as beverages with alcohol in them. I had a lot of friends as a
teenager who got drunk a lot. This has made me somewhat uncomfortable
with people drinking and very uncomfortable with people who get drunk.
But I think that's personal not religious.
Alfred
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889.9 | Pass me a Guiness Stout | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Mar 30 1994 10:32 | 11 |
| I myself feel, as a previous reply said, that everything given to us
by God is good. Moderation is and always will be the key to life.
Wether it's sex, beer, wine, music, even shooting firearms, each thing
in it self is not bad. Excess, though, is wrong.
For some, the substance can't be done in moderation ( Poe the author
would become drunk on one glass of wine), and total abstinance is
needed. For many, though, sucessfull life means moderation.
Marc H.
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889.10 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Wed Mar 30 1994 17:17 | 30 |
| Alcholism and drug addiction are one of the greatest sins affecting the
world today and probably for all times.
How do we answer this question in light of Paul's quote, If my eating
meat causes my brother to sin then I will not eat meat. Would he not
say, If my drinking alcohol causes my brother to sin, then I will not
drink alcohol.
A large number of people in our society should never drink alcohol.
Can non alcoholics drink alcohol in a way that does not encourage
alcoholics to also partake?
Can a church responsibly use alcohol in a eucharist celebration without
providing a non alcoholic drink as well?
Is my right to drink alcohol more important than the right of all those
whose lifes that are shattered by alcohol encouraged by an eat, drink,
and be merry culture?
For what good reason should I need to drink alcohol?
I raise all these question as a person who enjoys partaking in a bottle
of wine occasionally.
Alcoholism and drug abuse are the most prevalent destroyers of family
morality in the U.S. and probably the world today.
Patricia
Patricia
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889.11 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | just a closer walk with thee | Wed Mar 30 1994 17:23 | 9 |
|
Great note, Patricia..
Jim
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889.12 | | POBOX::DIERCKS | We will have Peace! We must!!!! | Wed Mar 30 1994 18:12 | 11 |
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In may church, Prince of Peace Lutheran in Schaumburg, IL, I often
assist the Pastors in serving communion. The pastor serves the wafer
and performs the blessing of the non-communing children and the
assisting serves the wine. We have, on the altar, an addition cup with
grape juice for those that desire it. It is very plainly stated in the
order of worship that those who are interested can have the grape juice
just by asking. The default is wine.
GJD
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889.13 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 31 1994 01:12 | 2 |
| Wow Patricia, something we really agree 100% on.... Thanks for writing
that. :-)
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889.14 | I disagree | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Mar 31 1994 10:39 | 15 |
| RE: .10
I do not agree at all. My basic problem with the line of reasoning
is that because someone has an addiction to a substance....alcohol
, sex, meat, etc., then you have to give up the same substance,
not because you have a problem with the stuff, but to be helpful
to the other person.
I claim that it doesn't help the person with the addiction, and it
deprives me of my right to enjoy a gift from God.
Yes, alcohol has ruined many a life, but, it hasn't an will not
ruinen mine.
Marc H.
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889.15 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Thu Mar 31 1994 10:52 | 21 |
| re: Note 889.14 by Marc "I'm the NRA"
> I do not agree at all. My basic problem with the line of reasoning
> is that because someone has an addiction to a substance....alcohol
> , sex, meat, etc., then you have to give up the same substance,
> not because you have a problem with the stuff, but to be helpful
> to the other person.
I mostly agree. I've had difficulty with Paul's statement of being "all
things to all people". I don't think that is possible for anyone except
God and I think it is an unhealthy thing to attempt.
> Yes, alcohol has ruined many a life, but, it hasn't an will not
> ruinen mine. ~~
~~
Gee, Marc, slurred speech this early in the morning? What have you been
drinking? .-) .-) .-)
Peace,
Jim
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889.16 | | HURON::MYERS | | Thu Mar 31 1994 10:56 | 12 |
| Mark,
I don't think Patricia was suggesting that because some people in the
world are alcoholic you should abstain from alcohol at all times. Is
that what you thought? The point is that if on some occasion when you
drink you were to cause -- or tempt -- another person to sin (ie fall
off the wagon) then it is your duty to abstain from drinking *at that
time*. Do you disagree with this?
God gives us no "right" to tempt another person...
Eric
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889.17 | Strange Days | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Mar 31 1994 11:02 | 27 |
| Re: .15
Ha Ha.....that's pretty good. Jim.
Re: .Patricia
You know, another reason that I don't accept your approach has to do
with censorship.
During the early 70's, I had many a debate with people over
pornography. I found that many people would claim that the sight
of naked people would turn normal people into raving rapists
or unfaithful wives/husbands. But, the worst part was that
*they* and only *them* would decide what you saw....i.e. they knew
what was best for you.
Nothing gets me more angry than for someone to decide what I can
do/see/read.
I really think that the next step by the people that would ban
alcohol would be to censor books.
Curious twist...a "conservative" NRA member arguing for personal
freedoms with tradition "liberal" people.
Marc H.
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889.18 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Mar 31 1994 11:05 | 5 |
| RE: .16
I agree ....that just sounds like simple courtesy.
Marc H.
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889.19 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | just a closer walk with thee | Thu Mar 31 1994 11:46 | 36 |
|
> How do we answer this question in light of Paul's quote, If my eating
> meat causes my brother to sin then I will not eat meat. Would he not
> say, If my drinking alcohol causes my brother to sin, then I will not
> drink alcohol.
What Patricia said here is precisely why I rarely drink. I love to
share what Jesus Christ has done in my life with other people. I have
a number of people with whom I have been sharing the Lord and one of the
reasons these folks are listening to me is that they knew me while in
my backslidden state and they can see that my life has been changed.
Now, if one of those folks should wander into a bar and see me sitting
there having a couple of beers, there is the potential of them seeing
me as hypocritical..."hey, that guy says he's changed, but he's still
drinking..heck, I bet he's still smoking pot, etc etc"..my concern for
their souls is far more overpowering than my need to have a beer or 2.
I don't think censorship is the issue. I have no desire to ban the
sale/consumption of alcohol, and as much as I detest pornography (to
which I was once addicted) and would like to not see it around, I don't
advocate banning it. Hearts must be changed from the inside out, not
outside in.
Jim
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889.20 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Thu Mar 31 1994 13:53 | 7 |
| re .13
Nancy
That's great news.
Patricia
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889.21 | | GUCCI::RWARRENFELTZ | Follow the Money! | Fri Apr 01 1994 09:03 | 5 |
| Patricia:
I agree with you also...great note!
Ron
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