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777.1 | Is this possible? | WELLER::FANNIN | | Fri Dec 03 1993 00:53 | 11 |
| How about:
30% Sleeping
25% Earning a living
20% Home and family work
15% Serving the Community (Volunteering)
10% Learning and Playing
Ruth
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777.2 | Budgeting our time | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Inciting Peace | Fri Dec 03 1993 14:25 | 18 |
| You raise an interesting point, Ruth. Where we dedicate our time,
not unlike where we put our money, is an indicator of where we have
placed our priorities.
Richard Bolles, ex-Episcopal priest and author of "What Color Is Your
Parachute," reduces life to 3 basic functions: learning, working and
playing. Bolles advocates devoting a third of one's time to each function
over a period of a year, if at all possible -- and he claims it is. For
further exploration I recommend Bolles' book, "The Three Boxes of Life."
Something I have found is that unless time is deliberately allocated for
things like worship, relationships, and even sex, they just don't happen,
and all too often, they die of neglect. Life is just not as wonderfully
spontaneous as it has been portrayed in the movies.
Peace,
Richard
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777.3 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Dec 03 1993 15:26 | 5 |
| RE: .2
That sure is the truth!
Marc H.
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777.4 | I'd rather be basketweaving... | WELLER::FANNIN | | Fri Dec 03 1993 15:45 | 22 |
| Richard,
I did read _The_Three_Boxes_of_Life several years ago...might have been
the seed that is now sprouting into major discontent.
I think I need a "how-to" book rather than a "why not" book though.
We've set up such a silly society; our priorities are so insane. Our
distant ancestors would be incredulous if we told them that someday
people would voluntarily sit and stare at glowing screens while tapping
on little tablets *instead* of playing with our children, making
love...
In the Gospel of Thomas the disciples are asking Jesus about how to
live and he says:
"Do not lie, and do not do what you dislike."
I wonder what kind of world we could shape with that as a mantra. With
our treasure and our heart aligned, rightly dividing The Word...
Ruth
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777.5 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready | Fri Dec 03 1993 16:32 | 3 |
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Gospel of Thomas?
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777.6 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Inciting Peace | Fri Dec 03 1993 16:38 | 7 |
| .5 Jim,
It's non-canonical.
Peace,
Richard
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777.7 | I'd ask myself a *lot* of questions | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Inciting Peace | Fri Dec 03 1993 16:40 | 23 |
| Nuts and bolts stuff, eh, Ruth? Well, I'm afraid what might fit me may not
fit so well on you. For one thing, you're contours are much better
than mine! ;-}
The first thing I'd consider is simplifying my life. I'd ask myself how
I might live, and still have some savings, and still be able to give away
money, on less income. The other option, of course, is to look for a way
of increasing your income while decreasing the hours you spend earning it.
A neat trick! But not impossible.
You could consider buying clothing at a consignment or second-hand store
instead of Joslins or Foleys (And, I don't know whether you do or not). You
might consider using public transportation instead of driving (though that's
not such a great idea to get around in this town). I found when I was riding
the bus in Phoenix, it was a great opportunity for reading and study.
You might block months out on your calendar; say, setting June and July
aside for play. Where would you want to go? What would you want to do?
How much do you think it would cost? Would you know by March if you
could pull it off? And do you have something in the works come August 1st?
Peace,
Richard
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777.8 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready | Fri Dec 03 1993 17:14 | 10 |
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Hey...I used to ride the bus in Phoenix! Great for reading/studying (and
cooler than my car which wasn't air conditioned)
Jim
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777.9 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Fri Dec 03 1993 17:38 | 12 |
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Oh Lord...time. With all the layoffs I've been averaging
close to 500 miles a week. By the time I get home I feel like I am on
some heavy drugs. This week for an example I have over 1000 miles.
I used to think I worked to live but lately I've been working hard just
to keep up let alone live. I think its time to rethink my current
occupation. One very good thing about all this travel it allows me to
do some heavy thinking about God and all that is offered.
Dave
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777.10 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Inciting Peace | Fri Dec 03 1993 22:49 | 21 |
| .9 Oh, so that's why we've not heard very much from you in recent
months, Dave. You've been missed.
An idea to utilize your driving time is to play instructional tapes.
Those long Texas stretches of miles and miles of nothing but miles
and miles are indeed good times to turn your thoughts to prayer and
meditation.
Oh, and while you're on the road, you might as well sing "Happy Birthday."
You know you're going to have to sooner or later, so you might as well
get it out of the way.
It's called 'time management.'
Shalom,
Richard
;-}
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777.11 | | DEMING::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Dec 06 1993 14:21 | 13 |
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| Gospel of Thomas?
Jim, you might appreciate this. Your note was the first one I saw when
I logged in, and as it came on the screen instead of seeing the Gospel of
Thomas, I saw Gorman Thomas. Remember him? The centerfielder for Milwaukee in
the early 80's? Mr. Walk/Strikeout/Homerun Thomas?
Glen
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777.12 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready | Mon Dec 06 1993 14:52 | 3 |
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:-)
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777.13 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Mon Jan 22 1996 14:27 | 13 |
| Time - we speak of it in economic terms. We spend it. We squander it.
We invest it. We talk about saving it, though in truth, time can never
be stored up and used later.
We used to speak of "quality time." But I think we've found quality time
is more difficult to achieve than we thought in the absence of quantity time.
Time is money, it's said. But with time, none of us knows how much we have
to begin with.
Shalom,
Richard
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