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Conference lgp30::christian-perspective

Title:Discussions from a Christian Perspective
Notice:Prostitutes and tax collectors welcome!
Moderator:CSC32::J_CHRISTIE
Created:Mon Sep 17 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1362
Total number of notes:61362

514.0. "Mary and Martha" by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE (Keep on loving boldly!) Mon Aug 31 1992 17:33

Mary and Martha, two aspects embodied in probably every one of us.

Martha: attentive to the practical considerations of life.  Martha is the
side of us who makes sure the bills get paid, and who worries when they don't.
Martha gets the lube and oil change done.  Martha washes the dishes and takes
out the trash.

Mary: attentive to the relational, affective and spiritual dimensions of life.
Mary devotes time to getting to know others.  Mary remembers significant
occasions.  Mary hugs and cries and laughs with others.

Do you see Mary and Martha in your life?  Are these two living in harmony or
does one dominate the other excessively?

Peace,
Richard
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514.1LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsMon Aug 31 1992 22:415
    They're both here, thanks -- but they don't coexist very well.
    Usually one *or* the other is dominant -- wish I could persuade
    them to *share* more and thus achieve more balance in may life!
    
    ;*)
514.2AKOCOA::FLANAGANwaiting for the snowTue Sep 01 1992 14:366
    The Mary and Martha story speaks to me as a women.  It is a liberation
    story and I love the story as a liberation story.  Jesus' message in
    inviting women into the spiritual community is refreshing.
    
    Given the historic setting of 2000 years ago it is inspirational.  
    
514.3CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Sep 01 1992 14:454
	I'm much more the "Martha" type. I think we need both types but
	I don't see any real need for everyone to be both types in one.

			Alfred
514.4VIDSYS::PARENTthings in the mirror are backwardTue Sep 01 1992 17:2311
   Martha represents early life for me, totally controlled and restrained.
   Mary was amoung the aspects restrained, sometimes missing and sometimes
   the wild escapee.  Harmony did not exist, there was no balance.  Both
   have their place in my life Mary being the child that wonders and hugs,
   Martha maintaining order and disipline when proper.

   Peace,
   Allison

   
514.5RE: .4LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Sep 01 1992 17:311
    I like that!
514.6CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Wed Sep 02 1992 00:3722
My pastor gave a sermon a few weeks ago on Mary and Martha.  It turns out
that Mary is more a part of me than I had previously thought.

I've always thought of myself as a "Martha."  And I've always felt a little
guilty for my reluctance to let go of getting things accomplished.

God knows we could not survive long without the Marthas of the world, the
pragmatists, the house-in-order responsibility-takers.  The Marthas of the
world do not always receive the credit they deserve because sometimes
what they do just isn't noticed until it stops being done.

Mary is more likely to send you a silly card or a bouquet of flowers for no
special reason.  Mary is more likely to go out of her way to introduce herself
to you and welcome you to church if she's not seen you there before.  And
you know something?  I've been known to do these Mary kinds of things.

And I've been thinking.  You know, many of the things Martha does is because
of the Mary in her.  Such is the nature of respite care, hospice, and so much
more.

Peace,
Richard