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9.1 | "hurts and manners"? | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 03 1990 13:55 | 11 |
| re Note 9.0 by EDIT::SMITH:
> Use this string to question policies, etc., relative to how all other
> strings are handled. (If mods are open to this, that is!)
We are VERY open to this!
(I had my doubts about the title "processing" -- it has none
of the above connotations to me. But I'm sure I can learn!)
Bob
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9.2 | What's on your heart and mind? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | A Higher Calling | Wed Oct 03 1990 13:57 | 3 |
| This note to deal with matters of concern and peripheral interactions
within this conference.
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9.9 | moderator request | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Oct 16 1990 13:46 | 10 |
| re Note 27.66 by CSC32::MORGAN:
Mikie,
Would you please refrain from using the term "Bible bangers"?
I personally find it offensive, and I can imagine others
would, too. (There is precedent for requesting the avoidance
of certain terms, e.g., "Pro-abortionist".)
Bob
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9.10 | moderator request (start a new topic) | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Oct 16 1990 13:52 | 14 |
| Mikie,
It is not at all clear to me that your notes 27.62-27.68
address the topic "Apparent Errors in the Bible" at all.
Perhaps you meant to start a new topic? It would seem that
you are writing about common misconceptions about the Bible.
(In any event, the title you've been using "Satanic Verses,
part N of 7" is totally uninformative about the content of
the notes -- perhaps it IS informative of where you are
coming from?)
Bob
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9.3 | Satanism? | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Tue Oct 16 1990 14:09 | 6 |
| I submit this question for general discussion: is it appropriate to discuss
Satanism in this conference? Why or why not? I have my own thoughts about
this but I'd like to hear what others have to say. (Of course, a lot of
people have already voted with their feet, so to speak.)
-- Bob
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9.4 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | A Higher Calling | Tue Oct 16 1990 14:15 | 10 |
| I'm of the opinion that the wall of Christianity is able to withstand a
few tomatoes hurled against it. Mikie is one of my favorite tomato
hurlers. 8-) He prods. He pokes. He makes us uncomfortable. In this
sense, Mikie is something of a prophet. (Sorry if that offends you,
Mikie!)
Let's do something different with this prophet. Let's *not* stone him.
Peace,
Richard
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9.13 | quote with care | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Oct 16 1990 14:59 | 14 |
| re Note 27.72 by CSC32::MORGAN:
> I didn't use the term "Bible Bangers." It was a quote of Loren. A short
> look at the header will indicate who is responsible for the term.
A simple rule -- if you put it here, you're responsible for
it.
> Would you agree that apparent errors includes hypocracy [sic]?
No.
Bob
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9.14 | mod comment | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Oct 16 1990 15:11 | 31 |
| re Note 27.74 by CSC32::MORGAN:
> It is the current convention that where as articles over 100 lines
> should be broken up they should also be numbered in order.
No it isn't -- the current convention (in this conference) is
that IF AT ALL POSSIBLE each participant in a discussion
limit themselves to about 100 lines or less per exchange in a
dialogue.
In fact, if you must use more than 100 lines for a single
exchange, please keep it together in one note.
Breaking a long monologue into multiple contiguous bits does
nothing to maintain the flow of discussion.
(Note that, if you are responding to more than one note or
point, you may use separate replies, even in succession.)
> Satanic Verses comes from Salmon Rushdie's book SATANIC VERSES. We all
> know what happened to him.
> But for those who haven't read the paper in the last two years Salmon
> Rushdie published his book which contained an elightening commentary on
> Mohammed's trip in a cave where he received instruction from Allah.
> Because of this commentary his DEATH was ordered.
Yeah, so what does that have to do with the text in your
notes?
Bob
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9.7 | Can we ignore something that *is*? | BSS::VANFLEET | Noting in tongues | Tue Oct 16 1990 15:50 | 10 |
| I agree with Richard. We need to explore even those topics that make
us feel uncomfortable. If we live with our heads in the sand all we
can really witness to is the qualities of sand, which don't necessarily
apply to the myriad of gifts God has seen fit to grace our existence
with.
(But I'd call Mikie a "fiery prophet" rather than a "tomato
prophet".) ;-)
Nanci
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9.17 | OK | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Oct 16 1990 15:54 | 18 |
| re Note 27.81 by CSC32::MORGAN:
> ... -- the current convention (in this conference) is
> that IF AT ALL POSSIBLE each participant in a discussion
> limit themselves to about 100 lines or less per exchange in a
> dialogue.
>
> In fact, if you must use more than 100 lines for a single
> exchange, please keep it together in one note.
Ok. I'll do that in the future or now, you decide.
The future will be soon enough.
(By "I'll do that", do you mean both "keep it together" AND
"limit to about 100 lines or less per exchange"? I hope so.)
Bob
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9.15 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Please, don't squeeze the shaman... | Tue Oct 16 1990 16:01 | 23 |
| Mikie,
> Let's take the human mind out of the box. Let's rev it up, squeel
> the tires and see what it will do.
It's apparent to me that you enjoy doing this Mikie and can do it
rather well. I've learned a lot from some of your notes in the past
year, not that I agree with some of the ideas you put forth in them.
> Let's put the human mind to good use and develop a Christian
> philosophy worthy of the knowledge and power of the 21st century.
> Let's do it right, or not at all.
If this is your intention, it is a surprise to me based upon the notes
you've entered here thus far. What interest would you, an agnostic,
have in developing a Christian philosophy for the 21st century?
And how could an agnostic provide leadership in Christian philosophy?
Karen
p.s. My opinion is that discussions of Satanism are appropriate
for the Religion conference.
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9.19 | explanation of recent moves | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Oct 16 1990 16:05 | 5 |
| I just moved a whole bunch of notes between Mikie Morgan and
myself, in my moderator capacity, from the "Apparent Errors
in the Bible" topic to this one (Processing).
Bob
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9.21 | continue discussion | BTOVT::BEST_G | you are living in eternal mind | Tue Oct 16 1990 16:58 | 20 |
|
The discussion of Satanism here does not seem totally out of place.
If one was to go to counseling sessions trying to "get to the bottom"
of his/herself, then would it be wise to simply ignore the shadow side
of oneself?
Jung (who some might say was a Christian mystic, as well as a psych-
iatrist) would probably have been all for such discussions (FWIW).
I think it's this inability to face this side of things that cripples
Fundamentalist Christianity.
This is not to suggest that we become Satanists - just that we be
allowed to question with good intentions the firmly held convictions
of old.
Who's afraid of the big, bad wolf? :-)
guy
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9.22 | | SA1794::SEABURYM | Zen: It's not what you think | Tue Oct 16 1990 22:35 | 12 |
|
Here's a radical idea. Let's let those who wish to discuss
Satanism have at it and those who don't want to can ignore
the discussion can note around it.
Mike
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9.23 | Protest to Moderators | ANKH::SMITH | Passionate committment/reasoned faith | Tue Oct 16 1990 22:40 | 42 |
| re: .50
>Blasphemy really isn't such a crime when viewed in a different light.
><Snicker>
>
> I'd also like to remind you that Satanism, like every other religious
> scheme in the U.S. is PROTECTED BY LAW. I'd also like to remind you
> that I am NOT a Satanist, but rather an agnostic. You could stick
> around and try to convince this poor deluded agnostic of the error os
> his ways.
>
> My intentions here were not to destroy the Christian religion (I can't
> do that anyway, it's *beyond* my power) but to expose hypocracy and
> ignorance.
Once again, I strongly protest the *tone* of this note, especially in
this conference. I especially protest it if Mikie's sarcasm and
"smarter-than-thou" attitude is what is driving away those in
3.47-3.49.
Those of us who espouse *Christian* perspectives that differ strongly
with Barry's, Irena's, and Collis's have enough problems -- and cause
enough problems to our more fundamentalist brothers and sisters --
without tolerating Mikie's inappropriate and unacceptable notes.
I just spent several months working successfully to remove an
emotional abuser from my local church community. It was our years of
silent tolerance of his beahvior that kept our church from growing.
Because of that experience and what we learned there, I cannot sit
quietly by without speaking out against what I view as Mikie's
harrassment of people in this file.
I feel no Christian responsibility whatsoever to be hospitable to
harrassment and abuse.
I call on the moderators to take some kind of appropriate action and to
then inform Barry, Irena, and Collis of that action (whatever it may
be), in case Mikie's notes were the precipitating factor in their
leaving.
Nancy Smith
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9.25 | is that appropriate? | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 17 1990 12:19 | 16 |
| re Note 9.22 by SA1794::SEABURYM:
> Here's a radical idea. Let's let those who wish to discuss
> Satanism have at it and those who don't want to can ignore
> the discussion can note around it.
That's certainly an option.
It would also be an option to have a group of notes expressly
for the discussion of Buddhism, or the stock market.
Would either or both be appropriate here, especially when
there are other conferences that expressly allow for such
topics?
Bob
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9.26 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | Ancient Mother I feel Your laughter | Wed Oct 17 1990 12:31 | 21 |
|
It seems to me that Satan and Satanism are concepts held by both
Christians and Muslims (I think? - correct me if I am wrong on the
Muslim faith). Very often I read or hear Christians saying that
Satan has control of the world, or this type of activity is
satanic. IMO, a discussion of Satan and Satanism is very appropriate
here. There are many things in this world that are labeled satanic
that have nothing at all to do with it. Isn't it better to be able
to have information shared on this and to have some clarity on the
different perspectives?
Regarding Mikie's presentation of his material and opinions - yes,
I think that there are many different ways he could express what
he has to share that would be less disruptive and "button-pushing".
I understand what he is doing, but confrontation does not always
go over well. I must say that I always learn something though,
and different feelings get stirred up - and this I appreciate.
Carole
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9.27 | Clarification | ANKH::SMITH | Passionate committment/reasoned faith | Wed Oct 17 1990 12:33 | 13 |
| > < I just spent several months working successfully to remove an
> < emotional abuser from my local church community. It was our years of
> < silent tolerance of his beahvior that kept our church from growing.
>
> Congrats, you did something. Perhaps you'd like to read my Clergy Abuse
> topic in ::Religion. If more persons were like you at least 200 major
> crimes would have be averted.
In case anyone cares, the person removed from office in our local
church was a layman, not a member of the clergy. In our church system,
it is *much* easier to remove a pastor -- with or without cause -- than
to affect the status of a lay member.
|
9.28 | Still here | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Wed Oct 17 1990 12:41 | 13 |
| I'm still here. I have been thinking the last day about how to respond
to Mikie's notes. I *hate* so say that I won't respond, since I often
will. But, in my mind, I think that I'm not very tempted to respond to
what Mike has to say anymore. Because I don't think that he's interested
in an honest pursuit of truth. Rather, he's interested (as far as I can
tell) in bashing this and bashing that. (Or as he might say, "stirring
things up".)
Correct me if I'm wrong, Mikie (which distinguishes you from the other
"Mike's around). You have yet to correct any of the perceptions of you
that I have offered, so I continue to believe what I have said.
Collis
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9.29 | | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 17 1990 12:51 | 12 |
| re Note 9.26 by WILLEE::FRETTS:
> It seems to me that Satan and Satanism are concepts held by both
> Christians and Muslims (I think? - correct me if I am wrong on the
> Muslim faith). Very often I read or hear Christians saying that
> Satan has control of the world, or this type of activity is
> satanic.
I said nothing against a discussion of Satan, just Satanism.
We have had such a topic for quite a while.
Bob
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9.30 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | Ancient Mother I feel Your laughter | Wed Oct 17 1990 13:09 | 10 |
|
Hi Bob,
I guess I don't see a distinction in discussion. Could you explain
for me what you see as the distinction, as far as discussion in
this conference is concerned?
Thanks,
Carole
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9.31 | elaboration | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 17 1990 13:19 | 16 |
| Satanism, by my understanding, is a system or teaching and
belief centered on the worship of and/or following of Satan
as "Lord."
I think that a discussion of "a system or teaching and belief
centered on the worship of and/or following of Satan as
'Lord'" is a non-Christian topic.
Satan is a term used in the Bible for a personification of
evil -- the enemy of the good. As such is is unquestionably
a Christian topic.
While I can understand that you might not agree that the gulf
is as wide as I think it is, certainly they are different.
Bob
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9.32 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed Oct 17 1990 13:28 | 11 |
| Re: .31 Bob
I agree that Satanism and Christianity are different religions. However, I
think that Mikie and others are entitled to write notes countering
misinformation (as they see it) about Satanism entered by other people.
In a mail message Mikie agreed to move his Satanism notes to RELIGION and have
only a pointer to these notes in C-P. However, since then he's written a note
which seems to indicate that he's dropping out of C-P.
-- Bob
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9.34 | a rhetorical response | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 17 1990 13:41 | 11 |
| re Note 9.33 by CSC32::MORGAN:
> I'm asking you to take the tape off the Turing Machine
> and respond to me in genuine dialogue. I'm asking you to think.
Mikie,
I suspect that you misunderstand both Turing Machines and
people.
Bob
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9.40 | don't knock my background, it's almost all I've got | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 17 1990 14:57 | 16 |
| re Note 9.39 by CSC32::MORGAN:
> My point is that it is sometimes difficult to
> determine if I'm conversing with a human or an automation. Automations
> are dull and gray. No life. Humans have spark, fire and passion.
But humanity, and all that is considered human, requires
those "tapes", if by the tapes you mean the individual's and
community's tradition, writings, legends, moral precepts,
culture, etc.
Certainly, those tapes should not be merely recited; but a
human who could not draw from the well of individual and
community background would hardly be human at all!
Bob
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9.42 | | SA1794::SEABURYM | Zen: It's not what you think | Wed Oct 17 1990 23:18 | 12 |
| re.25
My guess is that any such rathole that is so very
far removed from the basic purpose of this conference
would soon die a natural death.
So, I guess you could say that my opinion about any
digression from the intent of this forum would be.
"Don't worry it'll go away soon enough".
Mike
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9.45 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | Ancient Mother I feel Your laughter | Thu Oct 18 1990 11:50 | 17 |
|
RE: .44 Mikie
> I speculate that this is the real meaning of the Garden myth. But that
> wasn't a fall, it was an elevation from animal consciousness to human
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
> consciousness. A climb in status we haven't fully dealt with.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I have been thinking about a similar concept based on something
I read recently. That the so-called fall from the garden may have
been a shift from something similar to 2-dimensional reality to
3-dimensional reality. A shift in consciousness - a shift to
self-awareness. I also feel that humankind is very close to
another shift.
Carole
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9.46 | bridging | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Strength lies in the quiet mind | Thu Oct 18 1990 11:59 | 6 |
| Carole (.45),
Yes, Carole I very much agree with your perceptions.
Ro
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9.47 | radically opposite views | GOLF::BERNIER | The Organic Christian | Thu Oct 18 1990 16:45 | 9 |
| Carole,
well, from my Christian perspective on your reasoning I guess that man
is headed for another low. I believe the Fall to be just that, a fall.
I also believe that the Bible talks about a time great apostacy tat is
coming. If you the Fall as a rising up, then perhaps the next rising up
that you refer to will be seen by me as another falling (apostacy).
Gil
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9.48 | yeah, but... | GOLF::BERNIER | The Organic Christian | Thu Oct 18 1990 17:34 | 20 |
| To the mods,
I just read the definition of Christianity that is to be used for
this conference. Not bad.
A question though, what about the teachings of Paul, John, Peter,
James,etc. - are these to be considered since they are based on the
teachings of Jesus? What about the Old Testament from which many of Jesus'
teaching have their basis?
Again, I am not trying to tell you how to run this conference (I have
enough to kepp tabs on in that "other" one:-) - but I find it hard to
seperate the teachings of Jesus from the other parts of the Bible. They
are intertwined like the threads of a banner proclaiming the Glory of
God.
I admire you for trying to set a usable standard. It's a tough call.
Gil
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9.49 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Oct 18 1990 17:49 | 10 |
| Re: .48 Gil
I don't think "based on the teachings of Jesus" means "based *only* on the
teachings of Jesus". That's why we said that we intended to interpret the
definition in an inclusive way. Different Christian sects accept different
sources of authority. I'd think that Mormonism, Gnosticism, etc. would be
suitable subjects for discussion, and of course the epistles etc. are very
much part of Christianity.
-- Bob
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9.50 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | Ancient Mother I hear Your song | Thu Oct 18 1990 20:25 | 17 |
|
RE: .47
Hi Gil,
Yes, I understand that we are at "radically opposite views" on this
topic. For me, I don't necessarily accept the Genesis story in
the Bible "as is", nor do I accept that humanity "fell".
Actually, I ponder on some possibilities that most would feel are
"way out there" ;-), and don't feel at this time that this is the
forum where I want to get into any discussions about them.
But I can fully accept where you are coming from on this, Gil.
Carole
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9.51 | I do judge beliefs | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Go now and do heart work... | Wed Oct 31 1990 14:08 | 62 |
| I'd like to offer a few thoughts as a participant (not co-mod) on
the concerns Jamey noted in the first paragraph of 91.48:
> First, it seems to me that the level of tolerance for 'fundamental'
> Christian beliefs here is pretty low. I don't mind the questioning
> and disagreeing with the, but the spirit seems to be more derision
> than anything else...
Since this is a conference which welcomes differing viewpoints on
Christianity, questioning and disagreements will be very evident
in the discussions as we've seen. If the questioning becomes a
ridiculing of one for their beliefs it does not serve anyone's best
interest. I have not seen where derision or riduculing is the
pervading spirit of this conference toward fundamentlist beliefs.
I have seen isolated instances where both conservative and liberal
viewpoints have contained language that can be construed as such.
With emotions running deep on some issues, I know I have come close
to writing derisively myself on occasion, although I hope and pray I
have not done this to anyone through my notes.
> I find the label of intolerance offensive...
This is a sincere question - is there another word you would prefer
that isn't offensive? Narrow? Strict?
> The lip service to valuing others beliefs is shallow and
> hypocritical.
The corporate policy (speaking as a moderator now) we seek to adhere
to in this conference is to value others, to value differences, to
appreciate the richness a group offers through the diversity of
hamanity that each person brings to this conference. Some
participants, myself included, also hold this as a personal value in
their hearts. It is difficult, if not impossible however, to insure
that we can extend that policy to people valuing the *beliefs* of
others when those beliefs are contradictory.
I value *you* Jamey, (I think you *know* that I do :-)) and I know
your beliefs have value for you, but it would be hyprocritcal for me
to claim that I value them (all of them) because some of them are in
conflict with my own. Regardless, I try to address you with the
respect and dignity we share as a brethren human beings.
> Most here really do not want to hear the 'fundmental' Christian
> viewpoints and sit in judgement of them.
Speaking for myself, I _do_ want to hear the 'fundamental' Christian
viewpoints; I try to be open to them; I listen, and think about
them, sometimes I've prayed to understand; but yes, in the final
analysis, I do sit in judgement of them. My judgement consists of
determining/feeling whether or not they speak to me more than the
beliefs already in my heart. If they speak to me more, I begin to
change. I try my best to not judge _people_ however, and God sees
to it that I get a chance to work on this everyday. Bless His and
Her Soul.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Jamey and anyone else who feels
similarly.
Love,
Karen
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9.52 | Rethinking... | ANKH::SMITH | Passionate committment/reasoned faith | Wed Oct 31 1990 15:57 | 92 |
|
I am not pleased with myself! I am not pleased with much of my noting in
this conference. It will take a bit to explain my thinking, so please
don't jump to any conclusions until the end.
I came to this conference with false expectations:
- I looked at GOLF::CHRISTIAN and saw (from *my* point of view) a
conference that created a "safe space" for conservative Christians!
I saw (again from *my* point of view) a conference that, because of
its stated beliefs, does not fully value the differences of Gays and
Lesbians, of New Agers, of liberal Christians, etc. But it appeared
to be a place where people of like mind could share and grow. I try
-- not always successfully!!! :-( -- to respect the principles and
foundations of that conference when I note there. I sometimes
strongly state a totally opposite viewpoint, but I try to respect the
differences of the majority.
- I looked at the WOMANNOTES conference and saw a conference that
attempts to create a "safe space" for women and their concerns.
(Its success varies a great deal, but it *does* try and has
guidelines to further that goal.) I participate in that conference
from time to time.
- When I heard about C-P, I was thrilled at the prospect of a conference
that would be a "safe space" for "liberal" Christian sharing and
discussion. At last I could talk about things in a way that was
forbidden in CHRISTIAN! I could avoid, or overlook, challenges
from a Biblical-literalist position. I could hear the experiences
of other Christians who also felt inhibited in the CHRISTIAN
conference. I was excited at the prospects! However, my hopes and
expectations have been only partially fulfilled.
NOTE:
By a "safe space," I mean a place where discussions from the specific
perspective (whatever it may be) can take place without sarcasm, insults,
or condemnations from people who are admittedly outside of that perspective.
I mean a place where "outsiders" (those who *by their own admission* differ
with the conference's perspective) recognize that they are there as "guests"
and so *try* to be polite and considerate, even when they hotly disagree.
Well, what I found here has been interesting (to say the least!). I realize
that many of my *expectations* were unfounded!! What I have experienced
here is *not* the fault of the moderators but of my having unrealistic,
unfounded expectations.
I expected openness and the kind of behavior described above. At times
when I found the opposite, I was quick to jump in and "defend" whatever
group I felt was being "put down," in hopes of protecting that desired
openness and "safe space." It seems to have backfired nearly every time!!
:-(
- When I felt that Mikie was being unfair to conservatives, I strongly
protested -- only to have the person I was "defending" object to my
criticism of Mikie!
- When I felt that Gays and Lesbians were being denied a "safe space"
here, I spoke out, and again felt that other noters considered the
objectionable comments to be proper.
Well, who am I to be defending other folks anyway???? If, in fact,
this conference *isn't* a "safe space" for those at either end of the
Christian spectrum, it also doesn't *feel* as "safe" for me! :-(
That *doesn't* mean I would stop participating!! :-) It has been too
valuable for me to do that! But it *does* mean that I need to rethink *how*
I participate and that I need to let other folks fight their own battles.
Unfortunately, that's something I can't quite figure out how to do! It
seems to me to be a part of my Christian obligation to do defend the
persecuted. But, I have to ask myself, "Whether they want it or not?
Maybe they don't feel persecuted!"
Furthermore, I am *hearing* those of you who are defending free speech and
limiting it only to the degree dictated by corporate policy -- you are
right and I feel ashamed by comparison. More questions that I ask myself:
- How can I contribute with more grace and love (and less antagonism) and
so witness more effectively to my faith?
- How much energy do I want to continue to invest in defending *myself*
in this space that is not as "safe" as I had expected?
- How can I stifle my natural bent to argue and try to convince?
- How can I treat with respect those whom *I* perceive as being
disrespectful of others (and thus dangerous to the freedom of all)?
[In short, how the heck do some of you (Richard, Karen, Mike) whom I admire
so much do it??????]
All in all, I must rethink my expectations and my participation to bring
them more in line with what C-P really *is*!
Sigh,
Nancy
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9.53 | yes | WMOIS::B_REINKE | bread&roses | Wed Oct 31 1990 16:08 | 28 |
| Nancy
I believe that the vision you have/had of C-P is close to that
of the founding moderators.
The question is, is that vision possible.
and I don't know.
I too would like to see a file that is a place were people of
the end of the spectrum of Christianity like yours and mine,
can feel safe. I'd like to be sure that gay Christians could
come here and note knowing they are loved and accepted.
I'd like to see a file where there are not negative notes about
Jewish people.
Etc etc..
and I don't know how to do that either, other than totally restrictive
moderation, which I don't see as an option. The moderators can
prune and encourage and fertilize ways of noting, but I don't think
it is even possible, much less reasonable, to try to control the
direction and content further than that.
Maybe what we need to do is pray for the conference and it's vision?
Bonnie
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9.55 | Maybe it's the NOT that shouldn't be there? | ANKH::SMITH | Passionate committment/reasoned faith | Wed Oct 31 1990 16:31 | 35 |
| Mike,
I am not disagreeing with you! I am just describing (a) how my
expectations were inaccurate and (b) my personal shortcomings and (c)
the issues I am rethinking.
BTW, is this a typo:
>This notes
>conference is a safe space for those who are not welcome in C-P in
^^^
>the sense that we establish no "standard" that excludes them.
I, too, want it to be "open to all points of view concerning
Christianity." (If my note conveys otherwise, then I failed once
again to communicate properly! :-( )
But it hurts, nevertheless, when the expression of a point of view is
harsh toward people who hold some other point of view. And the debates
that sometimes result are tiring and make it harder to find the wheat
amidst the chaff. Yet I participate in those debates. And maybe I
shouldn't. (Or at least not so quickly!! :-\ )
As to your last question:
>Can we be true to corporate guidelines and
>also censor views that we do not like (GOLF::CHRISTIAN
>notwithstanding)?
Yes, evidently you *could* (by adding other restrictions).
*Should* you? No.
Is there any other solution? Probably not.
Sigh (again),
Nancy
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9.56 | visions and frustration | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Wed Oct 31 1990 16:32 | 52 |
| Re: Vision of this conference
Others had a different vision for this conference. At least different
in some aspects. Many of them have gone because they realized their
vision was not shared.
The vision you had, Nancy, is not the vision that I understood others
as having. I never viewed this conference as a "safe haven" for "liberal
Christians". I saw it as a meeting ground for liberal Christians, but
not as a safe haven.
The reason for that is because, although liberal Christians tend to rail
against what conservative Christians profess, they also want to be
"liberal" and allow the conservatives in. Conservatives, on the other
hand, do not have a problem with telling a liberal that his/her
understanding is wrong because it is "clearly" against the Bible.
So, I'm not sure a "safe haven" for "liberal Christians" can exist,
at least without making it quite clear that it is to be a supportive
environment only.
It is interesting that liberals are pressing conseratives in the gay note
for a response to .3. This is *exactly* what happened in Golf::Christian.
And it is *not* what is wanted here. I think. Because the conservatives
will restate how such a such an understanding is Scripturally unsound
and liberals will argue that it is in principle right. Possibly a
liberal will deal with the Scriptural basis (but not to the satisfaction
of the conservative) and possible a conservative will deal with the
liberal principle (like I am trying to do) and perhaps not get a response
or not be able to agree on a general understanding (much less a specific
understanding).
Re: frustration
My frustrations lie elsewhere. They are in a failure to communicate
(despite many notes - which happened in the situational ethics topic)
or in an inability to deal with the base issues (which has happened when
dealing with an understanding of Scripture) or an inability to get a
response (for example, the gay topic - both here and in Gol). All frustrate
me because we never get to understand *why* we disagree at the base level.
I am very appreciative of Mark Sorenson's replies because we *do* get to
this level and understand why we disagree. It is because he chooses a
different interpretation on this verse because this word is interpreted
this way. To reach that point in a discussion is fruitful for
me. To reach a point that simply says, "I believe differently than you
do" and to not know what you are basing your belief on (worse yet, to
*know* what you are basing your belief on and be able to show that it
is inconsistent with other things you believe but not be heard) simply
results in frustration. But it is only minor frustration.
Collis
|
9.57 | community building... | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Strength lies in the quiet mind | Wed Oct 31 1990 16:43 | 26 |
| Nancy (.52),
Your first line in your note states that you are not pleased with
yourself, but I want you to know that I'm pleased with you!!! Your
note expressed exactly how I was feeling. In fact, because I no longer
felt that C-P was a 'safe space' I had intended to quietly walk away
from it. However, some kind messages from some people offline made me
'rethink' my position.
From my involvement with women's groups, a couple of other notesfiles,
and workshops I've attended, I too came into C-P with the expectation
of having it be a 'space space' thinking this was becoming the norm.
I believe someday it will be, but unfortunately we aren't there yet.
What to do in the meantime?! ;') Guess all I can do is, like you,
rethink my expectations and my participation. Perhaps by doing so and
sticking around, we can bring C-P to a place of 'community' (as in F.
Scott Peck's view of the term - getting through the pseudo-community, chaos,
emptiness, till we finally reach true community).
Love and Light to you,
Ro
P.S. And hugs to Karen and Bonnie!!!
|
9.58 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Go now and do heart work... | Wed Oct 31 1990 16:58 | 21 |
| Nancy,
I have and continue to struggle with many of the same questions you
brought up in .52, which the other moderators here can attest to. ;-)
I feel the same way Mike does. The reality of a "safe space" or refuge
and "freedom of speech" or open forum are mutually contradictory. I
know for me personally, I feel I need a "refuge" on some days. Other
days I _thrive_ in an "open forum". Unfortunately C-P is not able to
accomodate my own personal mood swings. :-) So I try to take stock of
where I am on any given day, and if I know its a day that I need refuge,
I tend to seek it by sending a message off-line to a special friend(s)
and share with them what my needs are. I also take a few moments as I'm
able and sit in quiet contemplation, but that's sometimes difficult in
my job.
I really admire your willingness and courage to take a good long look
in the mirror Nancy, and your humbleness in sharing what you see.
That takes a lot of heart.
Karen
|
9.59 | | COOKIE::JANORDBY | The government got in again | Wed Oct 31 1990 17:14 | 64 |
| Hi Karen,
> If the questioning becomes a ridiculing of one for their beliefs it
> does not serve anyone's best interest.
Applying any label essential boxes up a point of view for ridicule.
Especially when the opposing viewpoint is generating the label. In the
current example, the conservative viewpoint on homosexuality is
opposite that of most participants in this file. Why must the liberal
contingent apply the lable of 'intolerant' to somebody elses beliefs.
The irony of this blows me away. Yes, we do have to judge beliefs of
ourselves and others in establishing a framework for ourselves of what
is right. But the hypocrisy of promoting free thinking and
expression while applying labels that amount to judgement and
condemnation is appalling.
Just look at the topic for tolerating the intolerant. One person's
views (mine) were quoted from another topic, labeled as intolerant and
then presented publicly for discussion. Give me a break. A conservative
would have been crucified had he taken a liberal position on
homosexuality, started a new topic, and asked the question: how do we
deal with this 'sinful distorition of God's will'.
> The corporate policy (speaking as a moderator now) we seek to adhere
> to in this conference is to value others, to value differences, to
> appreciate the richness a group offers through the diversity of
> hamanity that each person brings to this conference.
I understand this policy. However, labeling the beliefs of
conservatives as intolerant or anything else is contrary to this
policy. There is also a clear distinction between sharing one's beliefs
and acting in such a way as to violate corporate policy. For example, I
may have some distinct views on homosexuality. However, corporate
policy does not (I believe) prohibit me from having those beliefs, it
merely prohibits me from treating a homosexual poorly (which I hope I
would not do anyway).
>It is difficult, if not impossible however, to insure
>that we can extend that policy to people valuing the *beliefs* of
>others when those beliefs are contradictory.
I am not asking anybody to value my beliefs. I am just very aware of
the tendency to label me (and others) as intolerant for sharing those
beliefs. It is not a matter of tolerant or intolerant, it is simply a
statement of belief about what is right and what is not.
>I value *you* Jamey, (I think you *know* that I do :-)) and I know
>your beliefs have value for you, but it would be hyprocritcal for me
>to claim that I value them (all of them) because some of them are in
>conflict with my own.
If anything, I have demonstrated that I value people and their views
both here and in CHRISTIAN (yes, I have gotten out of hand a time or
two ;). I also know the sincere valuing of myself from most
participants. The intolerant label just set me off a little. Unless
every position desires to have an unflattering label applied to it, I
suggest that it cease. My position on homosexuality does not need its
own label beyond a conservative Christian perspective. If not, we will
end up with the old pro-life/anti-abortion/pro-abortion/pro-choice
situation on every single issue.
Thanks, Karen for taking the time to address this.
Jamey
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9.60 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Go now and do heart work... | Wed Oct 31 1990 17:34 | 3 |
| Big warm hugs to you Ro!
Kb.xo
|
9.61 | A prayer | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | A Higher Calling | Wed Oct 31 1990 18:18 | 18 |
| I, quite frankly, am ashamed of the attitudes that many of my conservative
brothers and sisters in Christ possess towards gays, lesbians, etc..
At the same time, I'm certain I'm seen as a heretic. One person wrote
me offline that I was "spewing Satan's vomit" in response to some
entries I made in another conference.
I get the feeling that some are here as a kind of retaliation. I
get the feeling some are here because because they believe it is
their "mission" to straighten us out. Some, I know, are here to
learn, to share and to grow. Others are here to observe (and I
consider that valid).
Hopefully, when the dust settles, C-P will be a deeply enriching
environment where respect and mutuality prevail. May God grant it.
Amen.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.62 | | COOKIE::JANORDBY | The government got in again | Wed Oct 31 1990 18:26 | 13 |
|
Well, Richard, it's kind of hard to know who this is target towards. I
hope you don't see my presence here as retaliation or to straighten you
out. That would be inacurate.
Without beating around the bush, it has certainly seemed that some were
in CHRISTIAN on their own little mission as well. And please don't be
ashamed, it might be reciprocated.
Jamey
|
9.54 | Typo has been corrected... | CSC32::M_VALENZA | Note in rhythm. | Wed Oct 31 1990 19:24 | 24 |
| Those are tough questions, Nancy. The goals of a "safe space" and
freedom of speech are often mutually contradictory. This notes
conference is a safe space for those who are not welcome in
Golf::Christian in the sense that we establish no "standard" that
excludes them. But unless we want to censor views that we do not
approve of, we cannot exclude the more intolerant or conservative views
from being expressed here.
I think that this is inherent to the nature of notes. I don't believe
that we can legitimately exclude opinions in order to form a "safe
space". To a certain extent, this is also true with Womannotes.
Womannotes tries to create a safe place by its use of FWO-FGD, and
SRO-FGD notes. Perhaps if we did more of that, we could approximate
the same sort of thing. Perhaps we need, for example, an SRO topic on
gays, and another one for group discussion (FGD).
This conference was really not established with the intent of being
just a mirror image of GOLF::CHRISTIAN. Rather than being strictly for
"liberal" Christians, we wanted it to be open to all points of view
concerning Christianity. Can we be true to corporate guidelines and
also censor views that we do not like (GOLF::CHRISTIAN
notwithstanding)?
-- Mike
|
9.63 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | A Higher Calling | Wed Oct 31 1990 19:25 | 20 |
| Note 9.62
> Well, Richard, it's kind of hard to know who this is target towards.
No targets intended. No darts in hand.
> Without beating around the bush, it has certainly seemed that some were
> in CHRISTIAN on their own little mission as well.
Doubtlessly.
> And please don't be
> ashamed, it might be reciprocated.
I know I've infuriated others. I know I'm something of an embarrassment
to some who consider themselves the *real* Christians. The "spewing
Satan's vomit" note made that clear.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.64 | my $.02 | DELNI::MEYER | Dave Meyer | Wed Oct 31 1990 20:27 | 10 |
| Nancy,
when I heard of this conference I understood it would be a "safe
place" for all manner of christians to discuss issues related to their
beliefs. Some of us, you and I included, have occasionally violated the
"safe" of the place, but it could be much worse. It IS hard for people
of strongly held divergent opinions to discuss things and maintain a
civil manner, but we can try. It is possible to segregate some strings
into Conservatives, or Liberals, or Sympathetic Replies Only, but that
limits the breadth of the intellect and learning applied to a subject.
It would also greatly increase the feeling of a "safe place".
|
9.65 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | wooing of the wind.... | Wed Oct 31 1990 20:43 | 16 |
|
Thanks for the honest sharing here! You know, building and
maintaining community is *not* easy...it takes conscious effort
and the willingness to look at ourselves and be honest. It is
usually very easy to have a community where everyone is like-
minded and believes the same things. But that does not truly
reflect the reality we live in. We are a diverse world, and
this is a diverse community. I applaud all of you for looking
at what is really happening and honestly sharing about it.
By doing so, you *are* creating "safeness"....you *are* creating
an environment where people, maybe slowly at first, will be able
to really share where they are at in such a way that it is a threat
to no one.
Carole
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9.66 | from a happy camper | CVG::THOMPSON | Rationally Irrational | Thu Nov 01 1990 10:38 | 22 |
| I admit to being a little unusual (my wife calls me unique)
but this conference has turned out to be just about what I
expected. For me I find it "safer" then the conference of
GOLF (and infinitely "safer" then WOMANNOTES). There is a lot
of give and take here but, and this may relate to the topics
I participate in and who I relate to, I find a lot of love
here.
I wonder it the mail people get offline are from read only Noters.
Especially in the gay topics while there is great disagreement on
the rightness of homosexuality there are strong statements of belief
that gays are in fact good people and are no more sinners then anyone
else. For myself I know I feel great personal affection for my gay
friends just as I do for my heterosexual friends who participate
in activities (sexual and otherwise) that I believe to be Biblically
incorrect. I believe others feel the same way.
There is no truly safe place for Christians BTW. I do believe that
this place is saver for a wider variety of Christian than any other
conference I have seen though.
Alfred
|
9.67 | I need to say this | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Go now and do heart work... | Thu Nov 01 1990 15:46 | 12 |
| I'd like to mention something I see occuring in this file that's
bothering me.
I don't like the continuing negative references I'm seeing to
GOLF::CHRISTIAN, sometimes simply referred to as the 'other conference'.
I do not see how comments such as these add value to the discussions
taking place here, or bring us closer to God or whatever we see as our
highest, most compassionate ideals. In fact, I feel they take something
away from us all and they are beginning to cut into my soul.
Karen
(community member)
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9.68 | | WMOIS::B_REINKE | bread&roses | Thu Nov 01 1990 16:01 | 9 |
| Alfred,
actually I agree very much with something you said in your note! ;-)
If being a Christian is ever 'easy' then we aren't doing it right.
hugs
Bonnie
|
9.69 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Rationally Irrational | Thu Nov 01 1990 17:27 | 5 |
| > actually I agree very much with something you said in your note! ;-)
Accidents will happen. :-)
Alfred
|
9.70 | it paints us badly | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Mon Nov 05 1990 17:47 | 12 |
| re Note 9.67 by CARTUN::BERGGREN:
> I don't like the continuing negative references I'm seeing to
> GOLF::CHRISTIAN, sometimes simply referred to as the 'other conference'.
> I do not see how comments such as these add value to the discussions
> taking place here, or bring us closer to God or whatever we see as our
> highest, most compassionate ideals. In fact, I feel they take something
> away from us all and they are beginning to cut into my soul.
I most definitely am in agreement with this!!!!!
Bob
|
9.71 | some thoughts | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Open the heart to enchantment | Fri Nov 09 1990 11:15 | 46 |
| Re: 104.26 XLIB::JACKSON:
> You are right that different people have different objectives in
> sharing in the notes file. I use it as a forum to discern truth.
> Others want a supportive environment where they may feel free to
> share without being questioned about their beliefs. Maybe I should
> change my focus? Possibly. I'm willing to change if that is
> what's best.
> I'll process this for awhile. Comments welcome.
I *really* admire your openness and willingness to 'change' in
considering the needs of others and striving towards an ideal of what
is best for all concerned, Collis. I personally would not want to
see you change purely on my behalf. I well understand you and I have
world views that, while probably overlapping in some areas, are
extremely divergent in others.
I sense my notion of truth is different from yours as well.
I feel that truth is relative and is always emerging - I believe that
truth is found in everything, but our eyes do not always see it, our
ears do not always hear it. If an 'absolute' Truth does exist, I
think it is beyond my logical mind to grasp and certainly beyond my
ability to bless others with it. I guess I'll entrust that to God.
And yet, that doesn't make my life any less meaningful or chaotic.
Quite the contrary. With all its mystery and wonder this world is
making a whole a lot of sense to me. Strange huh?
Therefore if and when we converse, these differences in world views
and belief systems will quickly rise to the surface of our
conversations. But, <shrug>, so what? Sure, it can lead to
frustration on both sides, (and it has before :-)) but when the
impasses arise we can simply agree to disagree at those points and
then move on. Nothing lost, but could be a lot gained. But that
doesn't depend on you, it depends on me and the value I place on our
conversation and you will apply your own value to it.
That's perfectly okay with me.
So why change? But change if you want to. I don't care. It's all
the same to me. :-) Every experience is an opportunity to learn
whatever the 'form', whomever the teacher.
Thanks for being here :-),
Karen
|
9.72 | | CSC32::M_VALENZA | Lambada while you bungee jump. | Fri Nov 09 1990 12:39 | 6 |
| Karen, I agree with your thoughts. I think that debate can only go so
far among people who don't share the same Weltanshauung. But I also
think it is valuable to understand someone else's Weltanshauung anyway,
and that is where exposure to different ideas can be useful here.
-- Mike
|
9.73 | | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Nov 09 1990 12:51 | 6 |
| re Note 9.72 by CSC32::M_VALENZA:
> I think that debate can only go so
> far among people who don't share the same Weltanshauung.
Or the same language! :-}
|
9.74 | Weltanshauung expositions | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Open the heart to enchantment | Fri Nov 09 1990 14:58 | 13 |
| Mike .72,
> I think that debate can only go so far among people who don't share
> the same Weltanshauung. But I also think it is valuable to understand
> someone else's Weltanshauung anyway, and that is where exposure to
> different ideas can be useful here.
Absolutely! That's why one of my _very_ favorite pasttimes is exposing
myself to other people's Weltanshauungs, and them to mine. I've learned
that contrary to the old saying, once you've seen one, you _haven't_ seen
them all. 8-)
Kb
|
9.75 | Welt- what a mouthful | DELNI::MEYER | Dave Meyer | Fri Nov 09 1990 17:57 | 4 |
| My German is limited to "Hi, how are you" and "Thanks". Does
Weltanshauung translate to mean about the same as what Collis means
when he says Framework ? (knowing enough to not starve in a couple of
languages does NOT equate to being multi-lingual)
|
9.76 | | CSC32::M_VALENZA | Lambada while you bungee jump. | Sat Nov 10 1990 11:31 | 3 |
| The American Heritage Dictionary entry for Weltanschauung:
A comprehensive world view, esp. from a specified standpoint.
|
9.77 | thanks | DELNI::MEYER | Dave Meyer | Mon Nov 12 1990 15:01 | 2 |
| Ah, so the answer is "yes, it means about the same as Collis's term
'framework'". The AHD Office Edition didn't include the term.
|
9.78 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mourning the Carnage | Thu Mar 07 1991 20:03 | 10 |
| Note 162.78
> I'm a Catholic (although admittedly a non-traditional one),
> and I didn't find the above offensive, even though I disagree
> with it.
Sometimes we "bleeding heart" types try too hard to look out for others,
don't I? *<8+}
Richard
|
9.79 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Uncomplacent Peace | Thu Apr 04 1991 21:58 | 15 |
| Note 197.14
> Ok, so what's all this silence about?
There have been notes I thought sure would just take off, but didn't.
It's difficult to predict. And so, I have come to the conclusion that
the volume of responses is frequently not proportionate to the weight
or validity of the topic.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, "Don't let the silence lead you to
believe that nobody cares or that the topic is not an important one to
people."
Peace,
Richard
|
9.80 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Uncomplacent Peace | Fri Apr 05 1991 19:21 | 6 |
| Note 197.46 -< No, don't do it...it is a sign of weakness to them... >-
I regret this allusion to an adversarial relationship. Personally, I don't
consider this an "Us versus Them" conference!
Richard
|
9.81 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Uncomplacent Peace | Sat Apr 06 1991 00:56 | 18 |
| Note 197.44
> I am sorry I even got into this debate now that I have found I have
> been debating with an idol worshipper. Zen Budaism is the worship of
> man.
In all fairness, I feel obligated to point out that the Buddha deplored
and spoke out in no uncertain terms against idolatry. And, to the best
of my knowledge, Buddha never condoned the worship of humanity.
It has never been a secret that there is a Zen Buddhist within our midst.
Personally, I am honored to have Mike's interest and participation here.
Mike has not promoted his religion here, but has shared with us in such
a way as to allow us to see ourselves from outside in, rather than from
the inside out.
Peace in Christ, Who loves the Buddhist as much the Christian,
Richard
|
9.82 | | SA1794::SEABURYM | Zen: It's Not What You Think | Mon Apr 08 1991 16:32 | 25 |
|
Re.81
Richard:
That you feel honored by being stuck with me brightens
my day a great deal.
I am sorry that there seems to be a considerable
misunderstanding about what I believe and that Marshall would
leave this conference rather share his beliefs with all of here
this conference both Christian and non-Christian.
It has never been my intent to proselytize for my
personal beliefs here, but to gain a better understanding of
the beliefs of others.
I am in no way offended by what was written, a bit
bewildered to be sure, but not offended. I will send Marshall
mail and ask him to continue to participate here. I would not
want to be the cause of him leaving because of a misunderstanding
about what I believe.
Mike
|
9.83 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Uncomplacent Peace | Mon Apr 08 1991 20:31 | 22 |
| No one here has a corner on Truth. Neither does anyone here fully comprehend
the nature of God. This is important to keep in mind since some here speak
as though they have God and Truth contained in a neat little package.
Christian-Perspective, as our banner indicates, welcomes those who are
frequently not welcome elsewhere. C-P is a noble experiment. In the
beginning, it was hoped that C-P might become an inclusive haven, a place
where people of many varieties and levels of faith might share and learn
from one another.
It is very discouraging for me to I know that this vision of C-P has been
somewhat tarnished. Some have decided to leave C-P primarily because of
the belligerent way in which notions were presented. The notions themselves
were not the problem. As far as I can determine, it was the way in which the
notions were presented which resulted in 2 noters exiting from C-P.
Another noter left because he judged he was keeping bad, possibly even demonic,
company by being here. I'm not sure *what* to make of *this* situation! :-(
I do not like the idea of excluding fundamentalists, either.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.84 | Plea to newcomers | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Mon Apr 08 1991 22:06 | 37 |
| Recently I have felt particularly hurt by some who have left, because I
am part of this file and feel that all of us are being blamed for the
objectionable noting style of one or two people. I hurt when people I would
like to be in dialogue with leave, directing anger at all of us, not just at
those who caused them pain. It makes me feel helpless because I *couldn't*
protect them and frustrated because apparently they thought I (we) could and
should!
I suppose people note here for a variety of reasons: some come to express
their Christian perspective, some to debate perspectives with others, and some
out of curiosity or out of a desire to learn and grow. I'd like to direct
the rest of these comments to those in the third category:
The difference between this file and GOLF::CHRISTIAN is that the *official*
position of this file is openness. Simply stated, it means that there is
no exclusionary standard that defines "Christian perspective." That, however,
does *not* guarantee that you will not encounter people whose "mode of being"
is exclusionary or closed-minded or offensive. (Nor does it guarantee that you
will not encounter usually-open-minded people who happen to be feeling grouchy
or defensive on a given day.)
If you are new here, please understand that this file does *not* have a
standard of behavior that is different from the standard expected of all
Digital notes conferences! This conference does *not* claim to have all the
right answers -- *nor* all the right behavior! So please don't expect "better
treatment" here than people receive in other notes conferences. That's
unrealistic and, in my opinion, very unfair.
It is impossible for the noters or the moderators to guarantee a safe or
comfortable place for you -- or for anyone. So, if a particular noter offends
you, you have a number of options: you can simply choose to ignore and not
respond to the objectionable entries (hit NEXT USEEN), or you can tell the
person to back off, or you can state that you are not going to continue
discussion with that noter. (You can also request intervention from the
moderators when a note violates DEC noting standards.)
Nancy
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9.85 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | Could be....But I doubt it! | Mon Apr 08 1991 22:51 | 15 |
|
I would like to echo Nancy in the previous reply. My
perspective of my faith, requires me to try to both understand and give
loving care to those who are searching for truth. Those "on the
brink" of truth are fragile creatures and IMHO ought to be given the
chance to find life thru careful study and thought. As a Christian,
I am *required* to state my belief, but just as Jesus tried to "love"
people into heaven and not "scare" them out of hell, so to must I
respect and love my fellow human beings. I can't help but think about
the old-testament truth of "love thy neighbor as thy self" or "do unto
others as you would have them do unto you".
Dave
|
9.86 | | GAZERS::NOONAN | The Giggling Goth | Tue Apr 09 1991 10:40 | 25 |
| I have come back simply to answer these points. The reason I left this
file was the amount of hate-mongering I saw going on. My spirituality
is not new, nor fragile, nor on the brink. I am quite comfortable with
my spirituality and the fact that I still have lots of growing to do.
One of the reasons I left the Catholic Church was the insistance of
that Church that I believe a set doctrine. I didn't. I left. After
many years of searching, I found the Friends. Was I being intolerant?
No. I was taking care of my spirit.
If people want to get offended by the fact that I will not accept
unacceptable behaviour, then people will get offended. That doesn't
mean that I have to accept the unacceptable behaviour. This conference
is not important enough to me to risk losing my serenity. I like
active discussion. I don't even need everyone to agree. But when
people refuse to allow me my own beliefs, then it is time to leave.
This note is probably very disjointed. I'm sorry about that. You see,
I am angry, and that is not an emotion with which I have a lot of
experience. I feel that the messenger is being punished for the
message. I also feel that I was somehow not supposed to step out of my
"sunny disposition", and now that I have, I am no longer credible, and
that I have somehow betrayed people. So, I'll just be leaving again.
E Grace
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9.87 | | ATSE::FLAHERTY | A K'in(dred) Spirit | Tue Apr 09 1991 10:46 | 9 |
| Hugs and Love to you E Grace. I support you in your decision, having been on
the brink of leaving a few times myself. So far I've managed to stick it out,
but that is me and how I feel today. You are correct, you do not have to
accept unacceptable behavior and I'm proud that you have the conviction to
be true to yourself.
Cheers to you Friend,
Ro
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9.88 | | GAZERS::NOONAN | The Giggling Goth | Tue Apr 09 1991 11:03 | 3 |
| My reply .86 was not in response to any one note.
E Grace
|
9.89 | Including exclusion thinking | ISVBOO::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Tue Apr 09 1991 11:49 | 44 |
| Re: 9.84
Nancy,
>That, however, does *not* guarantee that you will not encounter people
>whose "mode of being" is exclusionary or closed-minded or offensive.
>(Nor does it guarantee that you will not encounter usually-open-minded
>people who happen to be feeling grouchy or defensive on a given day.)
It is clear for the above that you view "exclusionary" as being negative
and "open-minded" as being positive.
This is certainly true in some circumstances. Likewise, it is certainly
false in many other circumstances.
I would like you to reconsider this, Nancy, in the area of religious
commitment (where you apparently think that "open-mindedness" is a
benefit and "exclusionary" is wrong). The first and most important
commandment that God gave to all of us is that we be extremely
exclusionary about who we worship.
I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the
land of slavery. You shall have no other gods before me. You shall
not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above
or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down
to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God,
punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and
fourth generation fo those who hate me, but showing love to thousands
who love me and keep my commandments. Ex 20:2-6 (NIV)
The issue, as I see it, is not that exclusionary is wrong and
open-mindedness is right, but rather that following God is right and
disobeying God is wrong. Sometimes this means being exclusionary and
sometimes it means being open-minded. Do you agree?
If so, I would ask that that you not use words such as "exclusionary"
only in negative contexts and "open-minded" only in positive contexts
since this tends to distort the truth you really believe and to put a
barrier between you and other Christians who strongly believe in the
need of being "exclusionary" at times.
Thanks,
Collis
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9.90 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Let the Spirit muse you! | Tue Apr 09 1991 11:52 | 6 |
| E Grace,
You are one of the most credible and authentic persons I've had the
privilege to meet. Like Ro, I am also inspired by the woman you are!
Karen
|
9.91 | I feel... | BSS::VANFLEET | Uncommon Woman | Tue Apr 09 1991 12:04 | 26 |
| I have felt much the same as E Grace at times. Part of that could be a
problem with my expectations of what this file was to be. I had
originally expected it to be a "safe haven" in which to exchange ideas,
a place where I could talk about my own unconventional spiritual path
and the problems I've encountered along the way without being judged by
anyone or having anyone else's beliefs rammed down my throat. As I
have spent more time in this file I realize that I was both right and
wrong.
On one hand I am free to talk about my spiritual beliefs here due to
the open-mindedness of the moderators. On the other hand, because I am
free to discuss my beliefs, others are also free to discuss theirs.
Some belief systems are inherently exclusionary. They are based on
a belief system that does not allow for differences. In order to
follow the guidelines of this conference they must be allowed a voice
just as I must be allowed a voice. This may make me uncomfortable and
conflict with my beliefs and how I choose to respond to that is *my*
choice. For some, leaving the file is the best choice. To those who
take that option I wish them the best. For me, right
now my choice is to stay but do more listening than sharing. I don't
feel safe sharing with some members of this file. This is not a
reflection on most of the membership, nevertheless, because of where I
am I don't feel safe enough to share much here.
Nanci
can freely share in a file where
|
9.92 | No, Collis | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Tue Apr 09 1991 12:33 | 21 |
| re: .89, Collis,
>That, however, does *not* guarantee that you will not encounter people
>whose "mode of being" is exclusionary or closed-minded or offensive.
>(Nor does it guarantee that you will not encounter usually-open-minded
>people who happen to be feeling grouchy or defensive on a given day.)
>>It is clear for the above that you view "exclusionary" as being negative
>>and "open-minded" as being positive.
Your note goes on to attribute to me things I did not say. My view
that "exclusionary" is negative when applied to this Digital notes
conference still stands and I have no reason to reconsider it. This
notes conference is the *only* thing I was referring to.
I am sorry, Collis, but I do not feel like discussing my views on
open-mindedness and exclusiveness "in other circusmtances" within this
file on processing. (That *is* the string I writing it at the moment,
isn't it? I *do* get confused sometimes!)
Nancy
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9.93 | A request | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Let the Spirit muse you! | Tue Apr 09 1991 14:18 | 27 |
| Playtoe,
Re: 204.1
> I am able to "discern the spirit/heart," as this IS one of several
gifts I have received from God, and actually the very first, many years
ago. I use this gift to "admonish my brothers and sisters," and above
all myself.<
This is the crux of my discomfort. Your noting style does not reveal
the presence of this "gift" you speak of. Many times you have not
accurately discerned the spirit/heart in me and have actually distorted
it as you have with Ro and others.
Furthermore it is not keeping in the spirit of this conference, to
"admonish" others. Everyone is encouraged to state and discuss their
views openly, but I draw the line when one takes it upon him/herself
to "admonish" others for their views.
I do admire your intelligence Playtoe and hope you will continue noting
here, but I request that if you wish to continue "admonishing" people you
will do so outside of this conference.
Thank you for your consideration,
Karen
(co-moderator)
|
9.94 | | ISVBOO::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Tue Apr 09 1991 14:59 | 12 |
| Re: 9.92
>Your note goes on to attribute to me things I did not say.
I am sorry, I did not mean to do that. I was only interpreting what
you said as best I could. What I wrote is what I hear you saying.
I am disappointed about your choice as I felt that a change in mindset
(which is what I had hoped for) would allow for a better appreciation
of each other.
Collis
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9.95 | Strength and weakness | ISVBOO::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Tue Apr 09 1991 15:01 | 14 |
| Re: 9.84
>Simply stated, it means that there is no exclusionary standard that
>defines "Christian perspective."
Since all standards are exclusionary to some extent, this really means
that there is no (definable) standard at all that defines "Christian
perspective".
I agree with you that this is true (if indeed you will accept that this
is what you said). It is not only a strength of this notesfile, it is
ultimately the critical weakness.
Collis
|
9.96 | Conjunction of Opposites | WMOIS::REINKE | Hello, I'm the Dr! | Tue Apr 09 1991 15:12 | 5 |
| Re: .95 - Strength and Critical Weakness
That's a paradox I can live with.
DR
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9.97 | Response | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Tue Apr 09 1991 18:02 | 12 |
| >I am disappointed about your choice as I felt that a change in mindset
>(which is what I had hoped for) would allow for a better appreciation
>of each other.
Collis, *this* isn't the string to debate whether or not one's faith
can or should be exclusionary -- or for you and I to come to "a better
appreciation of each other." Please don't feel rejected. You were
asking questions of me that were beyond the scope of my note, which was
directed at my feelings about this conference. If you want to start
another string, fine; I may participate. But *for this time and place*
I have been trying to deal with very strong personal feelings that are
only tangentially connected with the questions you raised.
|
9.98 | | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Tue Apr 09 1991 18:07 | 24 |
| re: .95, Collis,
>Simply stated, it means that there is no exclusionary standard that
>defines "Christian perspective."
>>Since all standards are exclusionary to some extent, this really means
>>that there is no (definable) standard at all that defines "Christian
>>perspective".
*For this notesfile* I believe that that is true.
>>I agree with you that this is true (if indeed you will accept that this
>>is what you said).
Huh? I never denied saying it -- I only said that my statement was
RESTRICTED TO THIS NOTES FILE!!!!
>>It is not only a strength of this notesfile, it is
>>ultimately the critical weakness.
That, of course, has been debated here many times, especially when the
conference first began (which is one reason I have no personal interest
in resuming the debate).
Nancy
|
9.99 | Name calling? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Extended family | Tue Apr 30 1991 21:12 | 37 |
| Re: 91.405
> Perhaps the definition of homophobia could be expanded to
> include the belief that it is sinful to be homosexual and engage in
> homosexual behavior.
Alfred,
I reread 91.382. I still do not see where you personally were
labeled homophobic.
I can see where you *might* feel threatened by the suggestion
which appears above, if your identity is inseparable from your belief
system. Is this what you are referring to?
If so, it puts a curious spin on the argument about being tolerant
of the believer, but intolerant of the belief:
Note 34.133
>I do
>indeed desire to be tolerant in some situations - and intolerant (which
>in my mind is just as important) in others. Not intolerant to the
>person, but totally intolerant to the belief. Some might even consider
>it being "dogmatic". :-)
Note 34.135
> Sometime you'll have to explain how you can tolerate
> a person and not their beliefs.
Note 34.138
>Re: accepting the person, rejecting the belief
>God accepts me but rejects my sin. I do it the same way He does. :-)
Richard
|
9.100 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Which side did you say was up? | Wed May 01 1991 10:20 | 26 |
| > I reread 91.382. I still do not see where you personally were
>labeled homophobic.
If someone were to describe homosexuals in general as "morally deficient"
would you tell a gay person that they personally were not being so
labeled? Would you expect them to remain silent and not protest? I
think not. Certainly the claim that homosexual sex is a sin has not
gone unprotested in this conference.
> I can see where you *might* feel threatened by the suggestion
>which appears above, if your identity is inseparable from your belief
>system. Is this what you are referring to?
Nope, I was referring to the fact that a person does not have to be
named nor do they have to be directly addressed to be labeled unfairly
or their position ridiculed and denigrated.
In the discussion of homosexual sex being or not being a sin the
assertion that it is has to be made or there is no dialogue. Not
permitting the assertion prohibits dialogue so must be allowed if
dialogue is to continue. On the other hand labeling such a belief as
homophobia adds nothing to the discussion. What it is is an ad homomin
case of name calling. As such it acts as a barrier to dialogue just as
repeated use of derogatory names for gays would.
Alfred
|
9.101 | Angry! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Extended family | Fri May 10 1991 16:55 | 8 |
| I am deeply disturbed by the behavior that led to the deletion
of 217.5. It is exactly this kind of behavior which has given Christianity
the hateful and homophobic reputation it presently possesses.
I personally consider it harassment. I've been on the receiving
end of harassment myself, and believe me, it is very distressing.
Richard
|
9.102 | Angry, Appalled and Ashamed | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Fri May 10 1991 18:36 | 13 |
| I feel that the sort of attitude that led to the deletion of
note 217.5 is the antithesis of the kind of vision that led to
the founding of this file. Anyone who reads this file, just to
take advantage of the open environment that people are attempting
to create here, and to send nasty harassing mail to people
who open up, is no Christian. They deserve to be reported to
personnel for harassment. If this happens in the future, *please*
report this sort of harassment to the moderators and to personnel.
I am disgusted that anyone who calls themself a Christian should
act in such a hateful fashion.
Bonnie
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9.103 | hate missing things | 2B::THOMPSON | Which side did you say was up? | Sun May 12 1991 21:06 | 5 |
| I can't believe I missed it all. I haven't a clue of what the last
two notes are about. I'm going to have to think about following the
conference closer.
Alfred
|
9.104 | Christians are not clones of each other | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Proud Sponsor FAWoL | Tue May 21 1991 20:00 | 24 |
| Note 91.470
> Re: 455 & .459
> I don't understand either of these notes. It seems to me from these notes
> that Christians judge not only homosexuals but each other. Are you supposed
> to do that?
Collis and I do not see eye to eye in many areas. We each believe that our own
position is the superior one. Collis places a greater emphasis on the Bible
than I do. I place a greater emphasis on what I believe to be the leadings
of the Holy Spirit in my life.
I love Collis. And, I admire the convictions he demonstrates when he takes a
firm stand for the beliefs he holds. Who knows, perhaps Collis holds me
and others here with a similar regard.
If you are asking if it is alright that Christians do not agree, I'd say the
answer is - yes. If you are asking if is alright for Christians to make
personal attacks towards each other, I would say the answer is - no, but that
it happens anyway.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.106 | Explaining judgment | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Wed May 22 1991 11:30 | 38 |
| Re: .105
John,
I did not enter a note explaining judgment right away because
1) I have done this about 10 times over 1-1/2 years (and it gets
tiresome)
2) I just wrote such a note about 2 weeks ago (although where it is
is beyond me)
But I am aware that you have not read any of these notes and have a desire
to understand this area, so here goes again.
The Bible talks about judgment in two ways. One way I'll call punishment
and the other way I'll call discernment.
The Bible also clearly gives responsibility to three structures of
authority (which are the church, the government and the family) and
gives a different type of responsibility to the individual.
The three structures of authority are not only allowed, but actually
instructed to judge and give punishment when the circumstances call for
it. The individual is NEVER responsible for punishment (as an individual,
as an agent of authority from one of the three structures of authority
he/she may punish).
The individual is ALWAYS to be discerning and loving.
I haven't seen any "punishment" judgment going on in this notesfile. :-)
Just "discernment" judgment. You are right that these discernment judgments
should always be done in love. I ask your and Richard's forgiveness for
failing to always do this.
Collis
(Scriptural references provided on request.)
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9.107 | Nice touch, Collis! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Proud Sponsor FAWoL | Wed May 22 1991 14:34 | 8 |
| >(Scriptural references provided on request.)
Collis,
I *like* this! 8+} I grinned ear-to-ear when I read it!
Peace,
Richard
|
9.109 | Shoulders shrugging | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Proud Sponsor FAWoL | Wed May 22 1991 23:37 | 18 |
| Note 229.67
> can I again echo what I've asked before, why don't Christians
> carry on in here about people who work on Sunday, or dishonor
> their parents, or steal, or .......
Bonnie,
This has caused curiosity within me, as well. Topic 111.*
attempts to explore this a bit. What message is there when the
dominant notes concern sexuality, and by contrast, so little attention
is given to working for peace, healing and Christian service?
Perhaps it doesn't say anything beyond the possibility that
sexual issues seem to easily set off our "hot buttons." I don't know.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.110 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Thu May 23 1991 01:36 | 8 |
| Richard,
lets talk more about healing , and peace, and Christian service.
love
Bonnnie
|
9.111 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Stop picking your notes! | Thu May 23 1991 16:15 | 13 |
| As a C-P moderator, I would like to re-emphasize that sometimes the
moderators participate here as moderators, and other times as
participants. It is important to distinguish between these occasions,
and normally when we are acting in the capacity as moderator we
explicitly say so. Otherwise, we are expressing ourselves as
*participants*. We would not be moderators if we were not interested
in Christianity, and we thus cannot help but have opinions on many of
the subjects being discussed here. Thus we want to stress that merely
expressing a strong opinion on a particular issue does not convey the
force of authority; it is only when we state that we are acting as
moderators that we are exercising moderator authority.
-- Mike (co-moderator)
|
9.112 | Random thoughts | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Thu Jun 13 1991 11:40 | 33 |
| I seem to have struck a nerve in some of my notes about this notesfile.
Some apparently seem to think that it makes sense for me to not note
here if I think that this conference misses the mark. And yet, what I
heard when many conservative Christians left (because they felt this
conference missed the mark) were expressions of regret and invitations
to stay. Perhaps it's just me that you'd like to leave?
Several weeks ago, I tried to distinguish between the expectations of
this notesfile and the expectations of participants. This notesfile,
as a notesfile, has a set of standards apart from the individuals
who participate. They are outlined in the first topic. I found out
by experience how important these standards were when I violated them
out of ignorance of what this conference holds as most important (which
is the right of all to proclaim what they believe without threat of
condemnation regardless of anything that God may say). Perhaps it's the
way I focus on uncomfortable issues and their implications which is
found threatening?
No, I don't really think it is either. I think that people simply
dislike that which disagrees with them and like what agrees with
them. I know I do. :-)
On another note, I do find it disheartening that so many of you have
reached a conclusion on the inerrancy of the Bible without knowing
the facts. I definately plan on pursuing putting in some of the
facts for your perusal (even if it doesn't make a difference :-(),
but right now a move to a new house and new job interviews and
whatever are keeping my occupied.
God bless you,
Collis
|
9.113 | OK by me, but puzzling | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Jun 13 1991 11:56 | 18 |
| re Note 9.112 by XLIB::JACKSON:
> Some apparently seem to think that it makes sense for me to not note
> here if I think that this conference misses the mark. And yet, what I
> heard when many conservative Christians left (because they felt this
> conference missed the mark) were expressions of regret and invitations
> to stay. Perhaps it's just me that you'd like to leave?
I certainly would like you to stay, Collis!
I am a bit perplexed by what appears to be almost an
obsession on your part to discuss this conference as much if
not more than you discuss Christ or Christianity.
On the other hand, such an obsession is far less disturbing
to me than an obsession with "fornication"! :-}
Bob
|
9.114 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Notes cutie. | Thu Jun 13 1991 12:02 | 25 |
| Collis, I am always sorry when anyone leaves this notes conference
when it represents a feeling that C-P doesn't suit their needs. My
reason for feeling that way is that I would like for C-P to satisfy
people's needs; but if that is not the case for some individuals, I
also believe it is best for them to leave. I do recognize the fact
that a notes conference cannot be all things to all people; and if so,
it is reasonable (even if it is also unfortunate) that they should want
to leave.
In your case, I get the impression that you don't draw any value from
C-P, and that it doesn't suit your needs, and yet you participate
anyway. Is it fair to say that you participate here, not in order to
draw personal value from it, but rather to "correct" others or "set the
record straight"--as a sort of proselytizer for your own viewpoint? Is
that why you feel the need to present us with the "facts" (as you see
them), so that you can impart your Superior Knowledge to the rest of
us?
Frankly, Collis, I find it disheartening that so many people believe in
inerrancy of the Bible without knowing the facts. :-) I have no doubt
that you believe that you "know the facts", and that the rest of us
don't, and I guess we should all feel honored by your tireless altruism
in trying to get us to see things your way.
-- Mike
|
9.115 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Thu Jun 13 1991 12:22 | 9 |
| Collis,
I do not wish you to leave this conference. However, I do wish that
you would accept it as it was founded and stop nagging on that
particular topic.
You have a lot of value to offer.
Bonnie
|
9.116 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Jun 13 1991 12:41 | 12 |
| Collis:
I hope you stay, if only to stop certain people from becoming too complacent.
;^)
Mike:
Couldn't you have said the same about me and others about our participation
in CHRISTIAN a while back? We complained about the conference rules and yet
we stayed in the conference anyway.
-- Bob
|
9.117 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Notes cutie. | Thu Jun 13 1991 12:50 | 11 |
| Bob, I never understood why many people participated in CHRISTIAN,
other than the fact that before C-P was formed it was the only
Christian notes file available. Even when it was sole Christian notes
file, I almost always stayed out of it, because it didn't satisfy my
needs. That was why I wanted to start an alternative Christian notes
file, with a different set of rules. There are now alternative
Christian notes files, each with their own approach. I suspect that
many of those who are not satisfied with one of them will be satisfied
with the other, and vice versa.
-- Mike
|
9.118 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Jun 13 1991 13:05 | 9 |
| Mike,
One reason I participated in CHRISTIAN was that I said to myself "Why should
these people own the word 'Christian'"? Another reason is that I like a
good argument.
I left because I got (a) bored, (b) annoyed, and (c) busy.
-- Bob
|
9.119 | Agreement possible? I hope so | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Thu Jun 13 1991 15:43 | 32 |
| Re: 9.115
>However, I do wish that you would accept it as it was founded and stop
>nagging on that particular topic.
Bonnie,
In spite of the amount of discussion I've generated on this topic, we
(that is the particpants in this notesfile) still can't come to an
agreement on exactly what this notesfile is. Personally, I think it
is *very* important to know what this notesfile is because it makes
*all* the difference in the world in terms of what is appropriate or
inappropriate to either say or expect of others.
I think you'll agree with me that there is quite a difference between
calling this a "Christian" notesfile and saying that this is not a
"Christian" notesfile. And yet there is disagreement on even as basic
an issue as this.
The other reason that I want to get this issue dealt with is because
this notesfile does indeed have a standard of what is/is not acceptable
"Christianity". The standard is that any Christianity is "acceptable"
Christianity (since all views are equally welcome). This is a necessary
conclusion from trying to be an all-inclusive notesfile. And yet, I
don't think that there is broad agreement about this either.
Ideally, what I would like is an up front disclosure in the introduction
topic to this notesfile either stating these truths to be the case or
perhaps stating that some (such as me) believe these assertions to be
true.
Collis
|
9.120 | Guilty! | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Thu Jun 13 1991 15:54 | 26 |
| Re: 9.114
>Is it fair to say that you participate here, not in order to draw
>personal value from it, but rather to "correct" others or "set the
>record straight"--as a sort of proselytizer for your own viewpoint?
Certainly there is a desire to accurately present the Word of God
in this notesfile. After all, that is the truth. :-) But I also
am stimulated to discuss and think and grow.
So, I plead guilty to be a proselytizer. Perhaps this is inconsistent
with what I should do from the perspective of your beliefs?
>Is that why you feel the need to present us with the "facts" (as you see
>them), so that you can impart your Superior Knowledge to the rest of us?
If I participated here in the hopes of being admired for my "Superior
Knowledge", I think I failed. But who knows, maybe I have a number
of secret admirers. :-) :-)
>Frankly, Collis, I find it disheartening that so many people believe in
>inerrancy of the Bible without knowing the facts. :-)
I agree. It leaves them open to attack from Satan and room for doubt.
Collis
|
9.121 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | A Different Light | Thu Jun 13 1991 15:57 | 17 |
| RE: .119 Collis,
I *HAD* thought to stay out of this but then again
maybe I shouldn't. In every notes conference I have ever looked at,
there is a statement asking people to look and read 1.* containing the
policy's existing in the file. It, with me, has become a habit
everytime I enter a file that I don't often look at....I read 1.* just
in case there is something different since the last time I went in.
When I first entered C-P, I read the policy's
concerening noting here....I wasn't confused in the slightest. I felt
it was pretty straight forward statement of policy. Now as far as I
know *ALMOST* every moderator has tried to explain what *exactly* this
file is for to you. It is for *ALL* people....including you.
Dave
|
9.122 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Jun 13 1991 15:58 | 28 |
| Re: .119 Collis
>The other reason that I want to get this issue dealt with is because
>this notesfile does indeed have a standard of what is/is not acceptable
>"Christianity". The standard is that any Christianity is "acceptable"
>Christianity (since all views are equally welcome).
Acceptable to whom? Yes, all views (within the limits of corporate policy)
on Christianity are welcome in this file, i.e. the moderators will not (or
at least should not) censor them. This does mean that we are taking a
position on whether those views are "acceptable" in any kind of absolute
sense. The opinions expressed might be dead wrong - we aren't taking a
position on that one way or the other.
You're right that there is disagreement on many points. For example, I don't
consider this a Christian conference (even though many or most of the people
who follow it are Christians). If this was a Christian conference then I
wouldn't be a moderator.
>Ideally, what I would like is an up front disclosure in the introduction
>topic to this notesfile either stating these truths to be the case or
>perhaps stating that some (such as me) believe these assertions to be
>true.
IMO the place for individual noters to state their opinions is in the
processing topic or other world-writable topics, not in the introduction.
-- Bob
|
9.123 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | Thru our bodies we heal the Earth | Thu Jun 13 1991 15:59 | 8 |
|
Collis,
I know what this file is. It just seems to me that you are not
satisfied with how it has been defined so far. Seems like it is
only your issue.
Carole
|
9.124 | What if the shoe was on the other foot? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | El Gallo de Paz | Thu Jun 13 1991 23:35 | 15 |
| Note 9.112
>I seem to have struck a nerve in some of my notes about this notesfile.
Would it not strike a nerve within you if I stated that you "do not claim
to be a Christian person?"
Would it not strike a nerve within you if I said that you could not really
be a Christian because the only proof you have that you are a Christian is
your tenacity to an ancient book?
Please, note that nobody has said these things to you. Why do you suppose
this is?
Richard
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9.125 | | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Fri Jun 14 1991 12:27 | 9 |
| Yes, Richard, it would strike a nerve if you claimed that I was not
a Christian.
However, the subject here is not an individual but a notesfile. As you
have already read, others believe that this is not a Christian notesfile
as well. I don't know why this strikes a nerve with you or even why you
believe that this is a Christian notesfile. Perhaps I'll never know.
Collis
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9.126 | | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Fri Jun 14 1991 12:32 | 16 |
| Re: 9.123
Carole,
You are right that it is an issue for me, but it is not "only" my
issue. Obviously, when Tony was new to the file and expressed a few
opinions, it was an issue for him. In general, I believe it is a
potential issue for any new reader and even sometimes for existing
readers (such as myself) who sometimes misconstrue (with much
attendant hoopla) just what this notesfile is all about.
I am glad that you (and many others) know just what this file is. I
think I do too. Perhaps our understandings are even similar. :-)
(Perhaps not.)
Collis
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9.127 | | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Fri Jun 14 1991 12:40 | 30 |
| Re: 9.122
>Acceptable to whom?
Acceptable to (the standards of) the notesfile. Just as individuals
have standards, so do notesfiles.
The problem is that it is hard (perhaps impossible) to have an
"open" forum without an explicit or implicit standard. Now that
standard could be for example the Bible (whatever that means) or
it could be no limitations (whatever that means) or it could be
something else. But there is a standard. And by being a standard,
it defines what is acceptable to say to others and expect others to
say to you.
There was intense opposition to me appealing to an outside standard
(i.e. God - or should I say my understanding of God :-) ) within
this notesfile because that is *NOT* the standard of this notesfile.
*This* is what I think should be explicitly stated up front. I am
not the first one who has run into this and will not be the last.
But properly positioning this conference and the standards of this
conference should keep these problems to a minimum.
>IMO the place for individual noters to state their opinions is in the
>processing topic or other world-writable topics, not in the introduction.
I agree with you Bob. An opinion in the introduction was not a very
good idea.
Collis
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9.128 | we see better when we see from multiple viewpoints | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Jun 14 1991 13:12 | 39 |
| re Note 9.127 by XLIB::JACKSON:
> The problem is that it is hard (perhaps impossible) to have an
> "open" forum without an explicit or implicit standard. Now that
> standard could be for example the Bible (whatever that means) or
> it could be no limitations (whatever that means) or it could be
> something else. But there is a standard.
A text ultimately resolves to "whatever that means" and no
further. However, it may be very convenient to those in a
power position (such as moderators) to make reference to the
text as if it were unambiguous in significance, meaning, or
application.
The problem with simply regarding the Bible (or any other
text) as the "standard" is that it derives its effective
meaning from consensus of interpretation in a given
community. The moderators, and most of the participants, of
another notes conference have convinced themselves that their
standard is some objective text when in fact the standard by
which they judge conference-related actions is their
tradition of interpretation of that text.
(This is very clear to those who come from a different
tradition of interpretation. It is quite clear that the
standard in the golf::christian file, for example, is not the
Bible but the Bible as traditionally understood by Protestant
conservatives. To a person from within that tradition, there
is in fact no such distinction -- they are effectively blind
to seeing that it could equally validly be some other way.)
I believe that regarding a "tradition of interpretation" of
the Bible as an unchanging objective reality is a fundamental
error (pun intended) (it was also the Pharisaic error), and a
very serious one at that. The moderators of this conference
may make other errors, perhaps equally serious errors, but I
am glad that they are refraining from making that error.
Bob
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9.129 | | JURAN::SILVA | More than words | Fri Jun 14 1991 13:59 | 12 |
| | > The problem is that it is hard (perhaps impossible) to have an
| > "open" forum without an explicit or implicit standard.
I actually thought it would make things even easier Collis. Reason
being is that if there isn't a standard that anyone has to meet, then it may
make more people stand up and speak. With this happening you end up with a
diverse notesfile, which is what I feel this is. Your views quite differ from
mine for example. Some of them may be similar at times, but for the most part
they are different. It still makes good noting to have BOTH styles and views in
here.
Glen
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9.130 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Fri Jun 14 1991 14:14 | 37 |
| Re: .127 Collis
>>>The other reason that I want to get this issue dealt with is because
>>>this notesfile does indeed have a standard of what is/is not acceptable
>>>"Christianity". The standard is that any Christianity is "acceptable"
>>>Christianity (since all views are equally welcome).
>>
>>Acceptable to whom?
>
>Acceptable to (the standards of) the notesfile.
Fair enough, although this isn't quite accurate - not all beliefs are equally
acceptable to all of the moderators. Ideally, though, you're right: all
varieties of Christian belief are equally acceptable under the conference
rules, and this is stated up front.
>And by being a standard,
>it defines what is acceptable to say to others and expect others to
>say to you.
>
>There was intense opposition to me appealing to an outside standard
>(i.e. God - or should I say my understanding of God :-) ) within
>this notesfile because that is *NOT* the standard of this notesfile.
Was there "intense opposition" from (a) the moderators, (b) individual noters,
or (c) "the notesfile", whatever that means?
> >IMO the place for individual noters to state their opinions is in the
> >processing topic or other world-writable topics, not in the introduction.
>
>I agree with you Bob. An opinion in the introduction was not a very
>good idea.
What opinions do you think were stated in the introduction by (a) moderators,
and (b) individual noters?
-- Bob
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9.131 | | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:03 | 13 |
| Bob,
The opposition was from individual noters who had a different understanding
of "the standards of the notesfile" than I did.
I have since adjusted my standards of this notesfile to more closely
conform to theirs. It was, indeed, the standards of this notesfile
which I was violating. It was not my intention to do this and it is
still not clear to me that I was wrong in doing this.
Please don't confuse the standards of the notesfile either with the
moderators or the individual contributors. The standards of the
notesfile stand on their own whether or not anyone agrees with them.
|
9.132 | No trying to change C-P | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:09 | 22 |
| Just thought that this needed to be stated.
I have no goal of changing C-P at all (at this time - I did a while
back). I am certainly not persuing this to suggest that C-P should
be different than it is.
Some of you have noted that there is a different notesfile with
different standards related to Christianity and that is quite right.
We don't need another Golf::Christian.
But I strongly think that we need to be as clear as we can be about
what C-P is. Doesn't this make sense? Admittedly, if you are very
clear about where C-P stands on an important issue such as the authority
of God in this notesfile, some will be offended and will not join.
Of course, if you are not clear then others will join and offend
existing noters creating ill feelings (which have already caused
people to leave from opposite ends of the theological perspective).
As I see it, the choice has been clearly defined. Do with it what
you will.
Collis
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9.133 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | Thru our bodies we heal the Earth | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:15 | 14 |
|
>But I strongly think that we need to be as clear as we can be about
>what C-P is. Doesn't this make sense?
But Collis, it *is* clear to other people.
If people are going to be offended no matter what you do then
why don't we just drop this whole discussion?
I have seen 'standards' used to drive people away instead of having
healthy, honest, and tolerant communication. There are two sides
to every story.
Carole
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9.134 | | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:22 | 12 |
| .133
But Carole, it *isn't* clear to other people. I've referred to those
who it wasn't clear to. Do you deny that this is true?
This notes conference has standards. Period. The only question is,
"what are the standards"? That's what the introduction note is
all about. It defines the standards. All I'm saying is that it is
incomplete and that making it more complete will be a benefit both
to existing noters and new noters in the conference. That's all.
Collis
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9.135 | | JURAN::SILVA | More than words | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:36 | 29 |
| Collis, you first stated:
| This notes conference has standards. Period.
You then go on to say:
| The only question is, "what are the standards"?
How can you say this conference has standards if you can't figure out
just what they are? It is my opinion that you wish there to be standards, but
as you have even told us yourself, "what are the standards?". If you don't
know, maybe there aren't any then. Maybe it's just a bunch of different people
telling others how they perceive God and His works, past and present, and
everyone joins in and compares their thoughts. I don't see any standard here.
Do you? If so, what is it?
I know you take the Bible literally. Maybe this is the standard or
something like it that you wish to see here. It isn't going to work as not
everyone agrees with your logic on the subject. Many do, and many don't. Does
that make you wrong? Heck no! It's just your view of the world and God. Does
that mean you should never note in here? No, please keep noting. All it means
is you are expressing your view of the situation as how you see it, and that's
fine. We're doing the same as well. You must admit we're a very diversified
group. :-)
Glen
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9.136 | and a halleujah, too | MEMORY::ANDREWS | Ecce compostus! | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:45 | 8 |
| re: .132
"We don't need another Golf::Christian"
AMEN to that, Brother Collis ;>)
peter
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9.137 | | DECWIN::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Fri Jun 14 1991 16:49 | 15 |
| Collis,
I agree with Carole: C-P is made up a diverse set of people with different
expectations, so it's meaningless to ask what the standard of the conference
is. You could ask what moderator A's standard is, or what individual noter
B's standard is, but there is no single conference standard. That's why
I've been making a dictinction between the way rules are "ideally" applied
and the way they're applied in practice, or between the way the moderators
respond to the expression of a particular opinion and the way individual
noters might respond.
I don't think the conference introduction is misleading: it makes it clear
that we are not imposing a doctrinal standard on the conference.
-- Bob
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9.138 | | XLIB::JACKSON | Collis Jackson | Mon Jun 17 1991 10:55 | 9 |
| Re: .135
Glen,
I've explained it 5 or 7 or 10 times. Is one more time going to make
a difference? I think not. If you want my explanations, please reread
the notes I've written in the last week.
Collis
|
9.139 | Maybe I'm dense, but... | BSS::VANFLEET | mm-mM-MM!!!! | Wed Jun 26 1991 15:44 | 27 |
| Since I've been on vacation for the past 10 days I managed to
read all of the notes you've written on the subject of C-P
and it's standards or lack of standards in a single shot! Whew!
Collis, it's still unclear to me what your goal is by continuing
your requests for the moderators to define standards for the notesfile.
What exactly do you want? What is your goal? Are you objecting to the
term "Christian" in the conference name? An inanimate object, especially
one as nebulous as a public forum on a network can only be defined as the
sum of it's parts. Since all of us are the parts of this particular entity
and since our viewpoints are so different I don't see how we can define
a standard other than that we are all here to discuss subjects according to
an amorphously defined "Christian" perspective. So, in a way, I would agree
with you in that there is no standard definition of what a "Christian"
perspective as it pertains to this notesfile. On the other hand, because of
the diversity of viewpoints and the conflict that inevitably arises between
those with different viewpoints, it provides a unique opportunity for one to
hone and define his or her beliefs without the fear of a dogmatically based
censorship.
So again, I ask you Collis, what is your goal in trying to define a set of
standards for this notesfile? What do you hope to achieve by setting and
understanding these standards? If you could define the standards of this
notesfile, taking into consideration the multiplicity of beliefs of the
readership and what has been said in 1.*, what would they be?
Nanci
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9.140 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Full of green M&M's | Thu Jul 11 1991 19:07 | 8 |
| >Note 31.201
>COMET::HAYESJ "Duck and cover!"
>re: .198 Richard
I don't know about Bob, but I consider this a compliment!
Richard
|
9.141 | | COMET::HAYESJ | Duck and cover! | Sun Jul 14 1991 06:39 | 10 |
| re: .201 Richard (the real one)
I'm glad you took it that way. I hope Bob did too.
Sorry for the mix-up. Must be this 3rd shift schedule getting to me
again. Or my age. Or both.
Steve
|
9.142 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | SOAPBOX: more thought, more talk | Sun Sep 08 1991 19:24 | 3 |
| What does "SRO" mean in this conference?
How can the last few replies to Note 30 be described as supportive?
|
9.143 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | A moment....in time. | Sun Sep 08 1991 21:09 | 8 |
|
I always treat "SRO" as "sensitive reply's only". IE....state
you own opinions remembering that others might not agree or even like
what you say.
Dave
co-mod
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9.144 | *co-mod response* | DPDMAI::DAWSON | A moment....in time. | Sun Sep 08 1991 21:17 | 18 |
| RE: 9.142 re:30.* Mr. Sweeney,
I just read over the notes you are refering to and
really saw no problem except a discussion about the defination of sin.
IMHO that is a *VERY* valid discussion. I did not read any discussion
that might be termed "hateful".
I *DO* have a problem with the "Supportive" part of the
"SRO" issue. If that is really what it means then only those who agree
with the basenotes premise would be allowed to respond. I do dislike
notes that are nothing more than "back-slapping" and agreement. This
file exists for discussion of *ALL* points of view as ling as you can
respect others opinions....and IMHO thats being done there.
Dave
co-mod CP
|
9.145 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | SOAPBOX: more thought, more talk | Sun Sep 08 1991 22:18 | 6 |
| Looks to me like your moderators really ought to get together and agree
if the "S" in SRO is for sensitive or supportive.
Your note 8.1 here indicates that the "S" is supportive. If you don't
enforce the SRO policy then you might want to disavow it, or am I
reading this wrong and the SRO designation is only a suggestion.
|
9.146 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | A moment....in time. | Mon Sep 09 1991 00:27 | 14 |
| RE: .145 SDSVAX::SWEENEY,
I read your note to say that "supportive"
should, in your mind, mean all should agree. There is *NO* notes file
I know where this is true. So rather than come in here and redefine
our policy's, I suggest you look to your own motives. The word
"supportive" could well have the same meaning as "sensitive" in this
context. If all agree within a file string, then why have it at all?
Discussion of all points of view is the reason for this file. I looked
at the string you pointed out and did not find a problem, are we now to
argue semantics?
Dave
|
9.147 | Again: What does SRO mean? | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | SOAPBOX: more thought, more talk | Mon Sep 09 1991 09:30 | 3 |
| No, we're not arguing semantics, I'm asking questions to understand
exactly what is an what isn't "SRO" here. Hey! It's your policy, not
mine... And you're questioning my motives???
|
9.148 | I think Pat's right on this | XANADU::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Mon Sep 09 1991 09:48 | 11 |
| re Note 9.147 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:
Pat,
I'm inclined to agree with you -- SRO was intended, IMHO, to
mean non-critical responses only, as you say, supportive.
This is especially true for a topic that has two other
companion topics: SRO for the opposition, and general
discussion!
Bob
|
9.149 | | SA1794::SEABURYM | Zen: It's Not What You Think | Mon Sep 09 1991 10:07 | 8 |
|
I thought SRO meant Standing Room Only. Shows how much I know.
The companion topic for follow-up discussion that has evolved
seems to work pretty good.
Mike
|
9.150 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Watch your peace & cues | Mon Sep 09 1991 17:52 | 9 |
| I have moved 30.45 through 30.57 to Note 31, which has been
renamed from "Abortion Debate Note" to "Abortion Discussion &
Debate Note."
While the moderators were not in total unanimity, this action
seems to reflect the consensus of the team.
Richard Jones-Christie
CoModerator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
|
9.151 | | OVER::JACKSON | Collis Jackson ZKO2-3L06 | Mon Sep 09 1991 18:12 | 4 |
| I would have preferred to have left some (if not all) of my notes
where they were, but it's no big deal.
Collis
|
9.152 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Watch your peace & cues | Mon Sep 09 1991 20:40 | 12 |
| .151
Collis,
I'll move the notes you want moved. Just let me know which ones.
You also have the capability to move your own notes via the command
SET NOTE/NOTE=30.XX.
I saw greater continuity in keeping the notes together.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.153 | Not strictly for accumulation of data | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Tue Dec 24 1991 17:48 | 30 |
| Note 91.738
> If, after 737 replies, anyone believes that there is anything new to
> this discussion that would increase the community's collective
> understanding of the various points of view, then by all means please
> share it with us.
I, too, doubt that new evidence, whether empirical, Scriptural or otherwise,
is likely to surface under topic 91 in the foreseeable future.
> But
> one can vigorously disagree with a position that one understands, and
> understanding does not imply agreement. It is acceptable to be morally
> offended.
Verily.
> There is only so much
> that can be said before you repeat yourself. Then what? Butting one's
> head against a brick wall? From my perspective, you don't waste your
> breath (or your fingers) trying to convince the unconvinceable.
I find the spiritual wrestling I do in 91 and other topics to be a worthwhile
thing in most instances. I find the gymnastics I am put through, spiritually
speaking, strengthens and shores up the faith I possess. I have no illusions
about my inability to change other people's minds. If it ever happens that I
do, I will be shocked and surprised, and I will praise the Most High God.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.154 | Are our notes here not examples of philosophizing? | CRBOSS::VALENZA | Gordian knote | Tue Dec 24 1991 23:04 | 8 |
| Good point, Richard. That is probably one reason why philosophy
fascinates me; after at least 2500 years of wrangling over the great
issues, philosophers in the West have not shown much success at
producing any final answers. But that is not really what it is all
about. It is the process of philosophizing that is often its own
reward (Murray Code refers to this process as one of storytelling.)
-- Mike
|
9.155 | A minor nit... (a mousehole?) | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Tue Dec 31 1991 08:25 | 10 |
| Gee, I think philosophizing is discussing our *thoughts and beliefs*,
in other words, the conclusions we have distilled from our experiences,
our life-stories. Story-telling is the telling of our experiences
themselves rather than the conclusions we have reached as a result of
those experiences.
While I enjoy both, story-telling is usually much more powerful for me.
Nancy
|
9.156 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Grab yer candle and dance! | Tue Dec 31 1991 10:41 | 5 |
| Story-telling is more powerful for me too Nancy! :-)
happy holidays,
Karen
|
9.157 | we almost have general pointers NOW | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Jan 02 1992 09:42 | 26 |
| re Note 370.11 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE (and 370.10 by Pat Sweeney):
> Pointers also have their value.
Digital has it now! (well, almost)
The latest version of the DECwindows interface for VAX Notes
supports "linkworks" (a.k.a. Memex) -- Digital's hypermedia
linking mechanism.
However, the links are not associated and shared with the
conference (by default), but are part of each user's private
"linkbase" file. LinkWorks (not sure of the proper
capitalization of the trademark) does allow users to access
additional, shared linkbases over DECnet connections. As of
today, VAX Notes does nothing to support shared link bases
automatically. We could, however, set up a shared linkbase
to the Christian-Perspective conference.
One BIG drawback would be that character cell users of VAX
Notes, and indeed all users who did not use DECwindows VAX
Notes 2.2 and do the setup for the shared linkbase, would see
none of this at all, not even an indication of what they were
missing.
Bob
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9.158 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Jan 10 1992 18:10 | 13 |
| re Note 383.9 by AITE::WASKOM:
> But my stand on this is not that taken by the rest of
> the conference.
It really isn't appropriate to say this -- "the conference"
is not an entity whose position on issues can be easily
ascertained. There are at least as many readers who never,
or almost never, write as there are occasional writers. And
only a small percentage of the total readers and writers are
frequent writers.
Bob
|
9.159 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Tue Mar 24 1992 22:35 | 21 |
| Note 91.867
>You people be patient with me. It's been a long long time since I've
>been in the House of the Lord ... but ... as your conference"welcome"
>message says ... you invited me here, although I am neither a prostitue
>nor a tax collector, I get the general idea :-) ...
And as long as I am employed by Digital Equipment Corporation and as long
as God grants that I may draw breath, your insights and participation will
*always* be welcome in this conference.
In all fairness to you, Jerry, I must also report, with no small degree of
heartache, that some participants here have driven a number of people away
from this conference and have done so without blatant infractions of Digital
policies.
Though I would like to think it an unnecessary precaution, I beg you to wear
your steel-toed shoes.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.160 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Wed Mar 25 1992 12:31 | 20 |
| Note 91.885
> I had no expectation that the same people who complained about my note
> would complain about Jerry's. That would have been hoping for fairness
> that I do not believe exists. And I do not nor have I ever believed
> that my comments equated gays and Nazi's. Jerry's note did seem to
> equate the proposed law to Nazi laws. Thus if anything his comments
> were more objectionable than mine.
Alfred,
I agree that your comments have not equated gays to Nazis, rather
the one note that comes to mind tried to parallel the appreciation of gays
with an appreciation of Nazis.
I did vote you, incidentally. Because I do appreciate you and believe
you to be someone of responsibility and enormous integrity.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.161 | I decide. | MORO::BEELER_JE | Two stepin' wid' dogs | Wed Mar 25 1992 14:03 | 26 |
| .159> And as long as I am employed by Digital Equipment Corporation and as
.159> long as God grants that I may draw breath, your insights and participa-
.159> tion will *always* be welcome in this conference.
Thank you. I appreciate your taking the time to say that. I really do.
.159> In all fairness to you, Jerry, I must also report, with no small degree
.159> of heartache, that some participants here have driven a number of people
.159> away from this conference and have done so without blatant infractions
.159> of Digital policies.
I doubt seriously that I could be "driven away". I, and I alone, will decide
whether or not I stay or leave. I watched with utter disgust as some members
of Christian-Perspective were "driven", in no uncertain terms, from another
conference. I will not enter notes in this aforementioned (and unnamed) con-
ference for the simple reason that there is a 'guilt by association' in par-
ticipating, not to mention the hypocrisy, unprofessional and rude treatment
of members, and blatant double standards. I left. I was not "driven away".
.159> Though I would like to think it an unnecessary precaution, I beg you
.159> to wear your steel-toed shoes.
You think right. It is an "unnecessary" precaution. I thank you for your
concern and "warning".
Bubba
|
9.162 | | COOKIE::JANORDBY | The government wins most elections | Wed Mar 25 1992 14:10 | 5 |
| re .159.
AMEN!
Jamey
|
9.163 | As the world turns .... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Two stepin' wid' dogs | Thu Mar 26 1992 00:17 | 38 |
| I am what is commonly called a Note-a-holic. I love VAX Notes. I love a
good thought provoking discussion. I thrive on diversity for I feel that we
can all learn from each other.
I do not deny but that I entered this conference realizing that I may be "as
an ox goeth to the slaughter, or a fool to the correction of the stocks". I
knew that there would be disagreement - sometimes emotional. Yet, in the
very short time here I've received what I perceive to be a warm welcome:
9.159> .. your insights and participation will *always* be welcome in
9.159> this conference.
A misunderstanding with a prompt and sincere apology:
91.901> I'm sorry for misunderstanding you, then, Jerry.
A comment regarding my integrity:
91.889> It would be great if those involved could handle themselves with the
91.889> integrity that Jerry shows here.
At the same time I have clearly stated my opposition to a proposed political
stance - compared it to the Nazis, no less. Clearly stated that I haven't set
foot in a place of worship in nearly 20 years. Do not subscribe to any
organized religion.... yet I feel welcome. Incredible. I'm impressed.
I'm pleased. I'm flattered.
Oh, knowing VAX Notes and the type of discussions that can result, and, the
inadequacies of this electronic medium .. I'm sure that my trial by fire,
in this conference, will come. Don't worry, Mr. Christie, this battered old
Marine has been shot at before. They haven't got me yet. Close, but, no
cigar.
In the meantime I feel welcome and just wanted to say 'thanks'.
Bubba
PS: However, as George Washington said, "In times of peace, prepare for war".
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9.165 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Thu Mar 26 1992 15:27 | 15 |
| Re: "Driven away" versus "leaving."
People who are tender in the faith are less likely to withstand the
winds of aggression than those whose faith is more deeply rooted.
The person who enters a casino with $10 is less likely to risk and is
more like to depart earlier than the one who enter the same casino at
the same time with $1000.
So, strictly speaking, you are correct. No one is really driven away.
At the same time, some people may leave because they have the feeling
that they can no longer afford to risk. That's all I mean.
Peace,
Richard
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9.166 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Wed Apr 29 1992 14:37 | 9 |
| > Wrong! It's your topic, but you don't control nor own any replies.
Yes, Steven (aka Playtoe). You've got us there. You can certainly disregard
whatever you choose to disregard.
Of course, you may neither win nor come to understand the hearts and minds
of others. But, that's not really a priority for you, I gather.
Richard
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9.167 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | The girl in the mirror | Thu Apr 30 1992 10:38 | 14 |
|
> Wrong! It's your topic, but you don't control nor own any replies.
Yes, Playtoe tis true. They are your opinions, a truly personal part
of yourself you have shared. I respect that they are dear to you.
I have done the same in sharing mine. I was trying to reach the
healing ministry of Christ. I could continue the topic, but to what
point, there is only one true light and we have been subjected to
yours, like a deer in a spotlight.
Peace,
Allison
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9.168 | Warts and all | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Fri May 15 1992 17:23 | 20 |
| Bubba,
Actually, I'm glad you're getting a glimpse of the broad range
of perspectives which Christians hold.
Some Christians are supremely inclusive and reconciling, others are
less so. Some Christians' lives are ruled by unselfish love, others are less
so. Some will hold open the Bible to you in an expression of invitation,
others will beat you over the head with it.
We Christians are not without our blemishes. Neither is our history.
Some of the worst atrocities ever committed have been done in the name of
Christ. Some of the greatest and most compassionate works ever carried
out have been done in the name of the same Christ.
I think Bob Fleischer said it eloquently and succinctly in note
91.1091.
Peace be with you,
Richard
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9.169 | Thanks! I needed that! | MORO::BEELER_JE | One mean Marine! | Fri May 15 1992 18:52 | 10 |
| Thanks, Richard. I have (for the most part) been of the mind that to
be a "Christian" ... well ... I've got to fit into some sort of mold.
Such is obviously not the case. The diversity of Christian beliefs
tends to boggle the mind. Perhaps there is an outside chance that I
may some day wonder back ... you never know.
There is still once side of "religion" and/or Christianity that scares
me though ... perhaps we'll get to that later.
Bubba
|
9.170 | | COOKIE::JANORDBY | next year... | Fri May 15 1992 20:03 | 7 |
|
And some, Jerry, will water it down until it means nothing, pandering
to every human whim and trying to make the Bible say that it is OK.
Surely God would approve.
Jamey
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9.171 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Fri May 15 1992 20:58 | 5 |
| Fortunately (or perhaps, unfortunately), Jerry, there's nobody here that
fits the description in 9.170.
;-)
Richard
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9.172 | A call for self-restraint | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Tue May 19 1992 16:03 | 13 |
| I'm beginning to find statements that say, "I have the only true and correct
answer and your words are simply so much garbage!" unnecessarily
disrespectful and insulting.
I believe such remarks to be in violation of the spirit of corporate
values and policy.
I apologize for any similarly derogatory statements I may have made in the
past. And I urge voluntary self-restraint on the part of all participants
in all future dealings within this notesfile.
Peace,
Richard
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9.173 | does the source matter? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue May 19 1992 18:25 | 11 |
| re Note 9.172 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> I'm beginning to find statements that say, "I have the only true and correct
> answer and your words are simply so much garbage!" unnecessarily
> disrespectful and insulting.
Do you feel any differently about words such as "The Bible
has the only true and correct answer and your words are
simply so much garbage!"
Bob
|
9.174 | Disparity versus Diversity | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Tue May 19 1992 19:14 | 19 |
| Note 9.173
> Do you feel any differently about words such as "The Bible
> has the only true and correct answer and your words are
> simply so much garbage!"
Well, it depends.
What the above really says is, "*My interpretation (understanding, paradigm)
of the Bible* is the only true and correct answer and your words....."
But what really disturbs me is not this so much as the unqualified and
sweeping allegation contained in such statements as, "You have no
understanding of....(Christianity, the Bible, humanity, whatever)."
To me, this is creating disparity, not valuing diversity.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.175 | Also see .172 and .174 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Wed May 20 1992 22:39 | 10 |
| Note 91.1217
> This is amazing, Glen, that you would come to this realization...
There are at least two ways that this remark may be taken. At least
one of the ways to interpret the remark is as an insult.
Would you please explain what you meant by this remark, Jamey?
Richard
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9.176 | Wazzup? | MORO::BEELER_JE | One mean Marine! | Thu May 21 1992 01:45 | 4 |
| What I want to know is ... how's the petition drive going in the State
of Colorady? How 'bout an update.
Bubba
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9.177 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace: the Final Frontier | Thu May 21 1992 12:40 | 6 |
| Bubba,
Enough signatures were gathered. The proposed amendment, as it appears in
91.844, will be on the November ballot in Colorado.
Richard
|
9.178 | | COOKIE::JANORDBY | next year... | Thu May 21 1992 13:40 | 16 |
|
Richard,
To me, amazing is the appropriate word. So many folks, here and in
other places, have tried to convey this concept to Glen over hundreds
of replies. It truly stunned me to see him so succinctly verbalize it
so well. It tells me that he indeed understands the concept. If he
would take it just a step further, he would understand the implications
for those who believe homosexuality to be sinful. The only point of
contention would be that of the sinfulness of homosexuality. Once that
is established, we would be in agreement. The rest of the 'rights'
stuff would fall be the wayside.
Jamey
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9.179 | I'm with Richard... | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Mon May 25 1992 12:26 | 23 |
|
I am going to add my voice to Richards and ask the the
current community, within Christian-Perspective, exercise restraint when
discussions threaten to become heated. The policy and purpose of this file
has been stated on numerous occasions. As in all types of communications,
each individual is required to assume responsibility for what is related
by him/her. This includes the natural feelings of anger and frustration
associated with views contrary to your own. In *THIS* file, and I speak
for this one alone, *ALL* views are allowed except when they cross the
boundries covering issues of entire entities such as an entire religious
organization (the Catholic Church), sweeping and derogatory statements
regarding a race or people (Jews, Blacks, or Women), or personal statements
that are insulting and combative to another. This is a place to learn
of other thoughts and ideas....discuss them and see what might come of them.
I see Christian-Perspective as a place to learn about other
thoughts and religions. I do not see it as a place to "cram" my religion
down someone elses throat, though I will and have discussed what *I*
believe.
Dave
|
9.180 | Reiteration and pointer | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Tue May 26 1992 20:31 | 7 |
| So that there's no confusion, allow me to reiterate that there is a file
where the parameters are defined exclusively by the Bible. This is not it.
Please see Note 7.3 for more information.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.181 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Wed Jun 03 1992 17:10 | 16 |
| Note 463.13
> These have been great REPLYs. Wish some of the other topics (need I
> mention 91 :^/) could be as well mannered!
Alvin,
Yes, Topic 91 has become pretty intense at times. At the same
time, I feel positive about the fact that 91 has been a topic which *could*
be approached at all.
Other sensitive topics which have been addressed fairly well here
include 352, Christianity and Naturism, and 229, Christianity and Sexuality.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.182 | With fear and trepedation ... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Ross Perot for President | Thu Jun 04 1992 15:25 | 14 |
| This conference has actually inspired me. I *think* (undecided as of
yet) that I'm going to find me a Methodist church somewhere in my
neighborhood ... and attend services next Sunday.
Should I advise the pastor (in advance) that he should increase his
insurance on the structure? I have been forewarned that the roof may
indeed collapse when I walk in.
Wish me luck. There's a lot of things that I've lost. I think that I
may well go looking for them again and see if they've aged any in the
last 20 years. I don't know. I'm almost scared. Incredible isn't it,
actually scared.
Bubba
|
9.183 | Nice First Step | MICRON::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Jun 04 1992 15:32 | 3 |
| Don't worry about it Jerry. You will move forward at your own pace.
Marc H.
|
9.184 | RE: .182 - Best of luck, Bubba. Wish I could be there to help. | HLYCOW::ORZECH | Alvin Orzechowski @ACI | Thu Jun 04 1992 16:28 | 0 |
9.185 | | SOLVIT::MSMITH | So, what does it all mean? | Thu Jun 04 1992 16:29 | 1 |
| Think of it as an opportunity to explore, to challenge yourself.
|
9.186 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | heart full of song | Thu Jun 04 1992 17:27 | 4 |
| Good for you Bubba! Another adventure! I'll be sending you
warm thoughts, and a hand to hold as you walk in. ;-) :-)
Karen
|
9.187 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | heart full of song | Thu Jun 04 1992 17:28 | 7 |
| Alfred? Alfred?
I think Alfred has fainted.
|
9.188 | | WMOIS::REINKE | The year of hurricane Bonnie | Thu Jun 04 1992 18:29 | 1 |
| I think so too, Karen!
|
9.189 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Thu Jun 04 1992 20:42 | 9 |
| Bubba .182!
This is phenomenal news! This is great news! I can't help but suspect
that perhaps the Spirit has been nudging you for awhile.
Richard
PS Of course you know that since you announced it you'll be expected to
report back to us on the experience.
|
9.190 | But .. I'm still scared ... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Ross Perot for President | Thu Jun 04 1992 21:15 | 20 |
| .189> Of course you know that since you announced it you'll be expected to
.189> report back to us on the experience.
Well, perhaps in "announcing" it there's a certain element that will nudge
me closer toward doing it....sorta' like now_I've_said_it_I've_got_to_do_it.
Like I said, I'm *thinking* about it. That is, in my opinion, a reasonable
first step.
As to "reporting back" .. Ha! When Alfred hears of this he'll want a call
from the minister of the church, and, in all probability 8" x 10" photos of
everything! I'm sure that he'll provide adequate "after action" reports.
Oh, and, if y'all hear of a magnitude 7 earthquake centered in Bakersfield,
on a Sunday ... don't get all excited ... it's probably God's way of saying
"Beeler, *what* are you doing *here*?"
Bubba
PS - we haven't heard from Alfred yet. If anyone knows where he lives,
best call "911" and get the paramedics over there - quick.
|
9.191 | don't worry, the church will not bite and if the minister does let me know and I take care of it | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Fri Jun 05 1992 10:05 | 18 |
| RE: .187,.188, .190
OK, I'm ok now. I think. Actually I was out most of yesterday. First
with car trouble and then picking my mother in law up at the airport.
So this was strong stuff to read first thing in the morning. But I'm
opening my morning decaf Coke and trying the deep breathing to relax.
Jerry, now don't worry. Attending a church will not automatically turn
you into a sober, boring, Christian like myself anymore than attending
graduation at Parris Island makes one a Marine. And the building will
be fine. I make no such claim for the minister. :-) Though most likely
he/she's seen lots worse come through the door. God BTW will know
exactly why you're there. Knowing things is his "thing." :-)
I've been praying for you (as you know). Now I've got to start praying
for some minister I don't even know. He may need it more then you.
Alfred
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9.192 | | SOLVIT::MSMITH | So, what does it all mean? | Fri Jun 05 1992 11:13 | 8 |
| Hmm, the last time I walked into a church, my daughter's wedding, you
see, the skies became dark and threatening, and eventually opened up
with lightning and thunder as hadn't been seen in October for many a
year. Do you think somone was trying to tell me something, or was it
just a coincidence?
Mike
|
9.193 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | heart full of song | Fri Jun 05 1992 11:39 | 5 |
| Alfred .191,
:-) :-)
Karen
|
9.194 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Tue Jun 16 1992 19:26 | 15 |
| I want to emphasize that topic 463 is in no way intended to bash or
slur either Catholicism or the Roman Catholic Church. But I believe
the Catholic experience to be unique, and strongly suspect that there
is value in focusing on that unique experience.
I would not be opposed to a topic on "Recovering Fundamentalists" or
"Burned by the church." In fact, I've been toying with the idea of
initiating a basenote on "Unitarian-Universalism as 'religious safety
net,'" which would doubtlessly raise eyebrows among UU's.
I would like to believe that this notefile honors its diversity and
is willing to consider difficult topics.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.195 | Are we playing "old tapes"? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Mon Jun 22 1992 17:31 | 23 |
| I suspect there may exist some degree of unnecessary defensiveness towards
Collis, and that his feeling of being unfairly responded to may, to that
degree, be accurate.
I would remind all that Collis Jackson has been a part of C-P practically
since its inception. Though we've not always shared congruent perspectives,
Collis has never denounced anyone here as a heretic or worse.
I have to confess that I felt more than a little uneasy about Jehovah's
Witnesses being labeled a cult in Note 472.5. The term "cult" is fraught
with less than favorable connotations. However, after re-reading it several
times, I concluded that Collis was simply presenting the view of a segment
of Christianity, which may or may not reflect his personal views.
On the other hand, it is perfectly understandable to me that those of us
who've been confronted by zealous guardians of conservative doctrine in the
past may draw conclusions, which may or may not be accurate, based upon the
previous confrontation(s). As Mark Twain once said, "A cat, having sat upon
a hot burner, will never sit upon a hot burner again...but neither will it
sit upon a cool one."
Peace,
Richard
|
9.196 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Mon Jun 22 1992 23:43 | 13 |
| Note 469.26
SDSVAX::SWEENEY "Gotham City's Software Consultant" 2 lines 22-JUN-1992 22:24
> -< Play games with someone else >-
> I won't be baited into some sort of rhetorical trap by people who
> claim to have a knowledge of things Christian and things Catholic.
I perceive no trap here, nor do I perceive a reason to flame on.
Agnus Dei, Dona nobis pacem!
Richard
|
9.197 | What's so bad about feeling good? | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Gotham City's Software Consultant | Tue Jun 23 1992 08:27 | 12 |
| The rhetorical trap is to describe who is not saved.
If we don't start from a premise that the Bible is the word of God, and
that Jesus meant what is recorded in the Bible, then anyone who teaches
what Jesus taught regarding sin is going to be as a crank or worse.
Local orthodoxy in CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is all religions are good
religions if they inspire good feelings: To feel good about oneself is
the ultimate goal.
Every question I enter is answered with a call to examine my own
beliefs. Well, folks, start examining your own.
|
9.198 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Tue Jun 23 1992 09:57 | 10 |
| RE: .197 Pat,
The premis of this file is to allow all peoples and beliefs
a place to express, in public, what they believe. The key word here is
what "they" believe. Statements of Christianity needs to be owned by
the author. I cannot remember when I convinced someone I was right by
stating that they were wrong. Its a matter of perspective.
Dave
|
9.199 | You're kidding, I hope, Richard | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:08 | 11 |
| >> I won't be baited into some sort of rhetorical trap by people who
>> claim to have a knowledge of things Christian and things Catholic.
>
>I perceive no trap here, nor do I perceive a reason to flame on.
I perceive no flame. The rhetorical trap Pat speaks of though is
quite obvious to even to most casual of observers. Assuming they
have any idea of what the Catholic church teaches about salvation.
Or for that matter, what Jesus teaches.
Alfred
|
9.200 | What is the church's position on salvation via other religions? | BUFFER::CIOTO | Lazy, hazy, crazy days... | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:26 | 13 |
| The question I posed in 469.25 about the possibility of salvation via
other religions was a very sincere one. Moreover, it was asked
primarily due to Patrick's 'fundamental question' regarding the way to
salvation in 469.14 and Mike's subsequent inquiries about the church's
written stand on salvation through other religions. Therefore, I am
very interested in finding out whether the Catholic church and
individual Catholics believe that it is possible for people to realize
salvation via other religions. The reluctance on the part of some to
state their opinions/beliefs at face value, and instead accuse others
of playing games and setting traps, pretty much puzzles me.
Paul
|
9.201 | one can get burned in this conference | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:35 | 13 |
| Paul, you have to understand that some of us have had others refuse
to answer our questions while they at the same time demanded we answer
theirs. One gets gun shy after a while until trust is re-built.
You claim to have been raised a Roman Catholic and yet not know the
church's teaching on salvation. I'm skeptical of that claim. It's
sort of like claiming you went to school but don't know how to read.
Sure it happens that people go to school and don't learn how to read
but it's not the normal case. So perhaps you were raised a Catholic
and yet don't know one of the most basic teachings but it's hard to
me to accept easily.
Alfred
|
9.202 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:35 | 45 |
| I admit I was also quite taken aback by Pat's hostile response to Paul's
questions, which struck me as heartfelt and sincere. I suspect that
Paul was simply trying to understand where Pat was coming from.
Simply because a person from a different perspective than asks
a series a questions about one's beliefs, that doesn't necessarily
mean that there is always a hidden motive, a desire to trap or bait,
or otherwise attack. The assumption of hidden motives seems
unnecessary, and the overt hostility unfortunate.
I admit that I am as confused as Paul was about the point of Pat's
questions about salvation and other religions, and I was interested in
hearing the answers to Paul's questions. I honestly don't know what the
point of Pat's criticisms are, so answering questions would help me (and
others, I am sure) better understand what he is saying. I'm pretty
sure he is criticizing something--that much is clear. It would seem,
unfortunately, that further elaboration and discussion doesn't seem
possible, since any questions by any of us for more information are met
with hostility and sarcasm. A give and take of dialogue doesn't seem
to be the order of the day.
Now I am hearing that the question of salvation for non-Christians is a
trap. The only reason I can fathom this view that is that Pat
believes, as his church does, that salvation exists for non-Christians,
but that he also believes, as his church does, in the primacy of
Christianity; and perhaps he feels that when others ask about this
belief in salvation for non-Christians, they are trying to "trap" him
into agreeing to an acceptance of equal theological validity of all
religions. I don't see it that way. I, for one, recognize that his
church takes both of these positions--the theological truth of
Christianity, and salvation for people of non-Christian faiths--and I
understand why his church believes as it does.
Where the confusion lies is that his questions about Christ being the
only source of salvation seemed to be directed criticizing at those who
believe in tolerance of other faiths, as if this is a bad thing. But
since a belief in salvation for non-Christians implies a tolerance for
other faiths--for example, the passage I cited from Vatican II shows
great respect for the relationship with God that Moslems have--it isn't
clear where the criticism is coming from.
And Alfred, correct me if I am wrong, but I was under the impression
that you believe that non-Christians are denied salvation. If so, then
it would seem that you and Pat disagree on this point
-- Mike
|
9.203 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:39 | 7 |
| >You claim to have been raised a Roman Catholic and yet not know the
>church's teaching on salvation. I'm skeptical of that claim. It's
So Alfred, are you calling Paul a liar? Are you questioning the
sincerity and motives of people who participate here?
-- Mike
|
9.204 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Gotham City's Software Consultant | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:50 | 10 |
| The insincerity is in denying knowledge of the answer.
Do you honestly think that I can write into this conference what the
Roman Catholic Church teaches regarding salvation, and have people
reply "Gee, I didn't know that"?
No, the question is a rhetorical trap to trigger hostility towards the
beliefs of Roman Catholics. Many here know what the Roman Catholic
Church teaches regarding salvation and lie in wait for a foil to
mention those beliefs only so that they can be disparaged.
|
9.205 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:52 | 10 |
| > And Alfred, correct me if I am wrong, but I was under the impression
> that you believe that non-Christians are denied salvation. If so, then
> it would seem that you and Pat disagree on this point
I believe that anyone who has never sinned gets salvation. If one
has ever sinned then Jesus is required for salvation. If Pat or the
Catholic church teaches differently then, yes, we disagree. It would
not be the only disagreement I had with the Catholic church.
Alfred
|
9.206 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Jun 23 1992 10:55 | 13 |
| > >You claim to have been raised a Roman Catholic and yet not know the
> >church's teaching on salvation. I'm skeptical of that claim. It's
>
> So Alfred, are you calling Paul a liar? Are you questioning the
> sincerity and motives of people who participate here?
Not calling him a liar. That would require that I know he knows the
church's teachings. Just expressing reasonable skepticism. I do not
question the sincerity and motives of people in general in this
conference. Though I do from time to time question the sincerity and
motives of some individuals here. I thought that was clear already.
Alfred
|
9.207 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jun 23 1992 11:25 | 30 |
| First of all, Patrick, it may surprise you, but not everyone who
participates here is infinitely knowledgeable on Roman Catholic
doctrine. Many of us may very well be surprised by what we learn here.
As for the following paragraph:
No, the question is a rhetorical trap to trigger hostility towards
the beliefs of Roman Catholics. Many here know what the Roman
Catholic Church teaches regarding salvation and lie in wait for a
foil to mention those beliefs only so that they can be disparaged.
Your attacks on the motives of the people who participate here is
really unfortunate, not to mention offensive. I honestly don't
understand why you carry such a chip on your shoulder, and attack
people here simply because many of us (but not all) have different
opinions than you do. The fact that others have different opinions
than you do doesn't mean that their motives are all malicious when they
discuss a subject with you, and such vehement attacks are uncalled for.
Furthermore, I, for one, am not interested in "disparaging" Roman
Catholic beliefs on salvation, particularly since they are generally
more tolerant and respectful of other faiths than the views of many
Protestants; so I actually have a certain degree of respect for the
Catholic position, even if I don't completely agree with it. You are
certainly entitled to your views, and I respect your right to hold your
views, but if you are interested in discussing the motives of people who
participate here, there is no need to assume a priori that they are all
malicious in intent.
-- Mike
|
9.208 | | OFFSHR::PAY$FRETTS | | Tue Jun 23 1992 13:56 | 13 |
| RE: .201
>> -< one can get burned in this conference >-
>, you have to understand that some of us have had others refuse
>to answer our questions while they at the same time demanded we
>answer theirs. One gets gun shy after a while until trust is
>re-built.
Give it a rest, Alfred.
Carole
|
9.209 | thanks for proving my point | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Jun 23 1992 14:14 | 0 |
9.210 | No, I'm not playing dumb. What is the current church position? | BUFFER::CIOTO | Lazy, hazy, crazy days... | Tue Jun 23 1992 14:33 | 33 |
| Gee, can I say something???
;)
Um, Patrick and Alfred, it is unfathomable to me that you think I am
pretending ignorance, pretending to not know about present Catholic
church positions regarding the salvation of non-Christians. Plus
I'm also baffled over how/why you think I am deliberately 'lying in
wait' in an effort to trip you up or make you look bad or whatever it
is you think I am doing.
Alfred, I left the Catholic church in 1972, the year I turned 18.
Back then, my understanding of the church's position on this matter --
given impressions I received from my parish leaders and CCD and other
Catholics in general during the 1960s, the era I grew up in the church
-- was that even *protestants* would not realize salvation, let alone
non-Christians. This was my understanding back then, for better or
for worse.
I've been away from the church for 20 years, so I'm not familiar with
its stances on this or that, in the form of written decrees or
whatever, today. I am not going to pretend to know something when I
really don't know, contrary to what you may surmise about me. So, I
would *sincerely* like to know the church's position on the possibility
of salvation for non-Christians. Is it possible? If so, under what
circumstances?
As for deriving Truth and meaning from, and appreciating, the gospels
and the teachings of Jesus, IMHO, one does not have to call oneself
'Christian' in order to do so.
Paul
|
9.211 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jun 23 1992 14:37 | 10 |
| I don't know, Paul, perhaps it is easier to start from the assumption
that you are lying unless you prove otherwise, than to start from the
assumption that you are being honest. Why give you the benefit of the
doubt when instead one can assume ulterior motives and malicious intent?
But the good side of this is that if you can convince Alfred that you
are not lying, at least then you won't be on his blacklist of insincere
noters--at least not for now.
-- Mike
|
9.212 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Jun 23 1992 15:05 | 8 |
| > But the good side of this is that if you can convince Alfred that you
> are not lying, at least then you won't be on his blacklist of insincere
> noters--at least not for now.
He convinced me. Wasn't too bad was it? Is making a list your goal
Mike?
Alfred
|
9.213 | if I only knew I was ignorant.... | PACKED::PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Tue Jun 23 1992 15:05 | 1 |
| Hey, Paul, I believe you. :-)
|
9.214 | Don't worry, my friend, we know you're ignorant too. ;) | BUFFER::CIOTO | Lazy, hazy, crazy days... | Tue Jun 23 1992 15:15 | 5 |
| Hey Collis, don't worry. We can remind you of what you don't
readily realize yourself. 8)
Paul
|
9.215 | A call for restraint | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Reservist | Tue Jun 23 1992 15:58 | 12 |
| I'm calling for restraint from personal attacks and innuendo. If
the only way you can make your point in this forum is through insult
and belittlement, then your argument carries very little integral
strength of its own.
If it bothers you to engage persons who do not necessarily share the
beliefs you hold as wholly right and true, then I suggest that you
consider a more suitable notesfile. I will ask no one to conform to
any orthodoxy.
Richard Jones-Christie
Co-Moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
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9.216 | | HEFTY::SEABURYM | Zen: It's Not What You Think | Tue Jun 23 1992 17:44 | 10 |
|
Let me rephrase Richard's comments for those of you did
not quite get his point:
Chill Dudes.
Mike
Geeze, play nice, OK ?
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9.222 | Reference 101.47 | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Thu Jul 16 1992 15:28 | 14 |
| RE: .47 Mr Sweeney,
That, Mr Sweeney, is the second time, that I know of, that
you have accused this file with having a "clique". I ask you now to
state your reasons why believe such and name names. Such volitile
statements offends me and belittles a file whose intent and purpose it
to give *ALL* people a voice. Why you would choose to disrupt the
harmony of this file I have no idea.
As for your accusations against Richard, I find them
without any merit what-so-ever. His tone was not one of ridicule, as I
read it, but I do find that your last two notes in this string do.
Dave
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9.217 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace | Thu Jul 16 1992 16:15 | 18 |
| Brother Sweeney 101.47,
> The tone of ridicule isn't an invitation to debate opinion, it's an
I guess if you're referring to my note 101.43, then you're right. It's
not an invitation for debate. It's my own editorial commentary based on
my own Christian perspective.
> Look, if you want to contend that people of New York City would be
> better off _not_ to follow the advice for living Pat Robertson has than
> _to_ follow it, that would be an interesting discussion.
I know very little of what it's like to live in New York City and so I
would be reluctant to initiate such a string myself, but you may feel free
to do so.
Peace,
Richard
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9.223 | Reference 101.47 | WMOIS::REINKE | the fire and the rose are one | Thu Jul 16 1992 16:47 | 12 |
| in re .47
The only reason that there appears to be a clique here, is the same
reason that people have been accused of such behavior in other files,
i.e. that people have been noting here for some time and have come
to know each other. There is no coordinated 'sub group' that plans
actions off line against other people.
We are a friendly group, and we try to be as welcoming as people
will let us.
Bonnie
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9.224 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Thu Jul 16 1992 16:58 | 9 |
| There is no clique here, as has already been discussed in top 479.
This is actually one of the warmer and more welcoming notes communities
on the network. Of course, if one approaches this or any other
community with repeated hostility, sarcasm, and negatively charged
language directed at others, they are not likely to get a positive
response from the community. That isn't cliquishness--that's just
human nature.
-- Mike
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9.218 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Thu Jul 16 1992 17:00 | 32 |
| This issue has popped up here from time to time, but it is worth
repeating that not everyone who participates in this or other notes
files is necessarily interested in debating.
Debating has its place in the world, and for those who enjoy doing it I
say more power to them. But notes conferences are loosely structured
forums for discussion, with few formal rules or procedures governing
what gets said. It thus leaves a lot of room for different styles of
discussion, and people often have clashing motives or agendas implicit
in their noting style. I think there is often a macho ethic in notes
surrounding the alleged superiority of "debates" versus informal
discussion; it often attempts to shame or bait people into playing the
game by one's own rules. This often drives people away from notes
files (including this one).
Debates have winners and losers. Consensus and reconciliation are
irrelevant in debates. Full exploration of the consequences of a world
view or a belief system are discouraged when every step along the way
is derailed. Debates express a "me vs. you" mentality. Debates
encourage endless back and forth wrangling as each party tries to get
in the last word. There is nothing wrong with sharing one's feelings
or perspective on an issue without having to back every single
statement with a citation gleaned from the local public library, and
there is nothing wrong with agreeing to disagree. There is nothing
wrong with starting from an assumption not universally shared by all,
and then expanding on that assumption, without allowing the discussion
to be derailed by the insistence of others that one must justify and
explain to their satisfaction each detail of that assumption. The need
to argue each every point may satisfy some people, but for others it is
a pointless and time-wasting exercise in futility.
-- Mike
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9.219 | | WMOIS::REINKE | the fire and the rose are one | Thu Jul 16 1992 17:35 | 3 |
| Thank you Mike
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9.225 | even without a clique, the perception that it exists may remain | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Thu Jul 16 1992 18:09 | 17 |
| > There is no clique here, as has already been discussed in top 479.
> This is actually one of the warmer and more welcoming notes communities
> on the network.
We must hang around in mostly different conferences. Not that this is
as hostle as say SOAPBOX or worse yet WOMANNOTES but it is more hostle
at times then most of the conferences I read regularly. It's often a
warm and welcoming place, this conference, but it is often hostle
especially to minority ideas. Not that I'm saying that several sides
don't get involved. But just because both sides (actually there is
often more than 2 sides) get hostle doesn't mean the conference is
warn and welcoming. :-)
And BTW perhaps the disagreement is about what makes a clique. A subject
I don't have time to discuss today. Perhaps in a month when I get back.
Alfred
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9.220 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Rum, Romanism, Rebellion | Thu Jul 16 1992 18:24 | 5 |
| The use of ridicule is an intimidation tactic.
You're free to ridicule a public figure like Robertson, but that's not
a sign that this conference welcomes the expression of a diversity of
ideas of Christianity in the United States and in the world.
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9.221 | Could you be more specific? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace | Thu Jul 16 1992 18:53 | 8 |
| .220
And, pray tell, what *would* be a sign, Brother Sweeney? Are you
suggesting that C-P should become more like GOLF::CHRISTIAN? Or perhaps
CATHOLIC-THEOLOGY?
Peace,
Richard
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9.226 | Enjoy your vacation - come back refreshed! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace | Thu Jul 16 1992 20:22 | 18 |
| Alfred 9.225,
First of all, let me say I hope your time off is just as relaxing
and rejuvenating as you anticipate it to be. My prayers go with you.
Secondly, I agree with you. I've noticed that minority opinions
draw more responses here than majority opinions. With this awareness,
I've withheld what I wanted to say a number of times simply because I
didn't want to appear to "dog pile on the rabbit," so to speak.
Though you and I seldom share totally congruent perspectives,
I truly appreciate your input here in C-P. I actually encourage dissenting
opinions, especially when those opinions are framed with ownership and when
those opinions refrain from attacking another noter or the integrity of
another noter.
Pax vobiscum,
Richard
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9.227 | | WMOIS::REINKE | the fire and the rose are one | Fri Jul 17 1992 09:19 | 2 |
| and Alfred, I strongly disagree that Womannotes is less welcoming
than Soapbox.
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9.228 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Fri Jul 17 1992 09:33 | 24 |
| I am not sure how anyone knows which opinions are the minority ones
here, unless they have taken some sort of secret poll that I wasn't let
in on. I see a great diversity of opinion expressed here, and while I
know how certain individuals feel about certain specific issues, I
wouldn't go so far as to characterize any of them as having minority or
majority status among the (presumably) hundreds of people who read and
write here. Furthermore, except when corporate policies are in effect,
the moderators don't formally enforce any theological or political
opinion here, unlike other religiously oriented notes files.
I therefore repeat: there is no clique here. No group of people are
acting in concert here. A lot of individuals express their opinions,
and will respond strongly to opinions that offend them--would anyone
expect otherwise? But the fact that all opinions are not welcomed with
open arms by everyone does not a clique make. For one thing, every
individual here has their own unique set of opinions, so the definition
of who or who isn't in this alleged clique would have to change with
the issue in question. More importantly, disagreement, even strongly
expressed, does not mean that anyone is excluded from participation in
this community. I repeat my earlier comment that anyone here who posts
a prayer request, regardless of their opinions on other issues, gets a
warm response from the community. So much for the alleged clique.
-- Mike
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9.229 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Fri Jul 17 1992 10:42 | 8 |
| > and Alfred, I strongly disagree that Womannotes is less welcoming
> than Soapbox.
I knew that you would. But I don't feel welcome in womannotes but
concider SOAPBOX a friendly place. It often depends on where you're
coming from.
Alfred
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9.230 | | WMOIS::REINKE | the fire and the rose are one | Fri Jul 17 1992 11:58 | 9 |
| While I feel very welcome in womannotes and find soapbox at least
mildly hostile..
Alfred, isn't it great that we can disagree on so much and still
agree that we like each other a lot!
hugs and have a good vacation.
Bonnie
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9.232 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Fri Jul 17 1992 23:22 | 11 |
| Thank you, Friend Richard, for putting it so eloquently.
I might add that the sorts of attacks against Unitarian Universalism in
topic 473 have certainly been a common element of discussions in this
notes file that I somehow suspect are ignored when allegations of
cliques get bandied about. It is interesting to note that Sister
Patricia posted a note here at one time because she felt that *her*
perspective, which is quite different from Alfred's, was not welcome
here.
-- Mike
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9.231 | I'm black, too! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace | Fri Jul 17 1992 23:52 | 52 |
| Note 473.36
> -< talk about the pot calling the kettle black >-
Brother Alfred,
Let's all start on equal footing. Let's just say that, for the
purposes of this conference, we're all black.
> RE: .28 I don't see my note as being anywhere near as hostle as
> those of Richard about Pat Roberson. And both of us pale by comparison
> to your own hostility. Especially towards me.
By your title in .25, you've admitted sarcasm (a form of hostility):
> -< Sarcasm alert >-
And true to your title, it was.
> Oh, get with the program John. You don't have to believe in
> anything to be a Christian. You just have to be a nice guy.
It was, in part, this less-than-complementary remark to which
Friend Valenza was responding (or reacting, if your prefer).
I don't recall anyone saying anything that would lead you to
draw your conclusion about just being "a nice guy" in order to be a
Christian.
Now, there is difference between my editorial about Pat Robertson
and intra-conference criticisms. As Brother Patrick Sweeney pointed out
in note 9.220, Pat Robertson is a public figure. As such Robertson is
subject to severe scutiny and criticism (or ridicule, if you prefer). It
is an occupational hazard of being in the public eye. Like it or not, it
goes with the territory, as I'm sure Pat Robertson knows by now. The
membership of CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE, on the other hand, is not made up of
public figures and therefore, at least in theory, participants are exempt
from the same kind of severe scrutiny and criticism (or ridicule, if you
prefer).
In another part of .28, Friend Valenza addresses the perception of
C-P as a 'clique.' Truly, Alfred, you've not come out and said "yay" or
"nay" on whether you share the position that it is (Note 9.225). Friend
Valenza may have thought you did or perhaps presumed that you do. In any
case, I believe Friend Valenza's motivation was more to affirm the validity
of the participation here of Sisters Patricia and Ro than to express hostility
toward you or any other member of the conference.
But then, who knows? I could be wrong! 8-}
Peace,
Richard
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9.233 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Mon Jul 20 1992 10:26 | 45 |
| Re: 473.26
>Give me a break, Collis.
My feelings exactly, Mike. You're insistence on wrapping my (shared)
beliefs into a little box and isolate them from other beliefs is quite
clearly a strategy (conscious or not) to undermine whatever I say.
It would be a pleasure if you actually addressed *the issues* that
were raised rather than continue this strategy (which you do in nearly
every reply to me). Please, Mike, take the time to review your last
20 replies to what I've said. Look to see if this is what you do.
I'm not making this up!
>I insist that what you share here is a personal perspective precisely
>because you continue to present your own theological opinions as if they
>were the only conceivable theological formulations.
Poppycock. I do accept God's revelation from the Bible and it's claim
as being truth. There are many issues that I don't have the answers to,
but how one can be saved is not one that God has been unclear on.
And because God has been clear on this is, again, no excuse for the
strategy that you continually use to attempt to discredit Biblical
claims.
>You state that by pointing out that what you state is *your* opinion, I
>am denying "the proclaimed truths of God in the Bible as well as the
>validity of the beliefs of those who believe the same." Well gee, if I
>accepted your premise that your beliefs are the expression of God's
>truths, then certainly I would accept your conclusions.
Well, then address the *issue* which is that I have misrepresented
the claims of God in the *Bible*. Go ahead. Please.
But the facts are that I *haven't* misrepresented the Bible, so that
point of attack is fruitless. And to admit that the Bible (and Bible-
believing Christians) totally disagree (in some instances) with what you
believe is not part of what you care to do. Or else you might simply
say, "Yes, indeed the Bible says that and conservative and moderate
Christians accept that today and have accepted it over the centuries,
but I choose not to believe that." What a breath of fresh air this
kind of statement would be! Unfortunately, you instead choose to attack
my reliability and integrity as one who has studied the Bible.
Collis
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9.234 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Jul 20 1992 10:42 | 5 |
| Re: .218
Very good Mike! I agree.
Marc H.
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9.235 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Mon Jul 20 1992 10:51 | 34 |
| Collis, the reason I make a point of establishing that your beliefs are
*your* beliefs is that you continue to use the fact that your beliefs
are shared by others as a kind of argument unto itself. The fact
remains (and this is a fact that you seem to have considerable
difficulty acknowledging) is that it is *your* decision to accept your
interpretation of the Bible as the truth. It is *your* opinion.
Whether or not others agree with you, even a whole large body of
people, makes it no less *your* opinion. Justifying your opinion by
establishing it as the "conservative/moderate" point of view is not
only unconvincing, but it simply adds an unnecessary dogmatic veneer to
the discussion.
We have already discussed ad nauseam the differences of opinion with
respect to how the Bible should be interpreted. But you simply cannot
accept the existence of these disagreements. You cannot agree to
disagree, because that would not coincide with the extreme dogmatism of
your religious views. You implicitly and repeatedly present your
opinions as God's truth, and when people call you on it you accuse them
of a strategy. We never see an "I believe X" from you on matters of
theology, do we? No, it is "God has clearly revealed X". As long as
you continue to write notes in that dogmatic fashion, I will continue
to respond as I do. I will call you on your own implicit strategy,
which is to implicitly present your dogmatically held beliefs as fact.
That is the issue at hand, one that I have addressed in response to
your notes because your notes continue to make the unstated assumptions
that need to be brought out into the open. What you call a "strategy"
is simply my attempt to get to the root of what you are saying, and if
that unmasks your own strategy, that would explain why it irks you
off so much. That's too bad, but it appears that you are clearly not
interested in communicating with others here. Communicating is a
two-way process, but when you are so busy preaching at others by
presenting your opinions as fact, then communication shuts down.
-- Mike
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9.236 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Mon Jul 20 1992 14:55 | 84 |
| Re: 9.235
>Collis, the reason I make a point of establishing that your beliefs are
>*your* beliefs is that you continue to use the fact that your beliefs
>are shared by others as a kind of argument unto itself.
I use this fact simply as a response to the argument (which you
continually argue) that what I say is simply my opinion.
>The fact remains (and this is a fact that you seem to have considerable
>difficulty acknowledging) is that it is *your* decision to accept your
>interpretation of the Bible as the truth.
If this is what's bothering you, I'll clear it up for you. I, now
and forevermore, firmly acknowledge that it is my decision to accept
my interpretation of the Bible as the truth (except where I'm wrong
and, in those instances, the Bible is correct).
>It is *your* opinion.
Firmly agreed.
It is *also* *more* than my opinion. Agreed? Good. Then stop
trying to *limit* it to my opinion. Thank you.
>We have already discussed ad nauseam the differences of opinion with
>respect to how the Bible should be interpreted. But you simply cannot
>accept the existence of these disagreements.
Again, you are wrong. Again, I will cheerfully say that there are
many disgreements as to how the Bible should be interpreted.
>You cannot agree to disagree, because that would not coincide with the
>extreme dogmatism of your religious views.
I understand that your viewpoint forces you to this conclusion of
my unwillingness to "agree to disagree".
Actually, what I am unwilling to do is accept "B" as truth when it
contradicts "A" which God has revealed as truth. Many in this conference
are more than happy to ignore contradictions (or somehow explain them
away as not contradictions). I am not. I also would claim that
Jesus was not.
>You implicitly and repeatedly present your opinions as God's truth..
I explicitly claim the God's revelation through the Bible to be truth
and my opinions are truth as far as they align themselves with God's
revelation.
>...and when people call you on it you accuse them of a strategy.
I thought I explained what *you* do very well. A few others have
once in a while done the same thing, but it is you and you alone who
respond consistently avoiding the issue of what the Bible says and
concentrating your full efforts on attempting to prove that what I
say is simply an individual's opinion devoid of any substance beyond
any other opinion. I deny that this is the case and will *continue*
to deny that this is the case. You know full well that my opinion
is:
- based on what the Bible says
- almost always in agreement with what conservative scholars
interpret the Bible as saying
Really, Mike. If you don't like what I express, it is only a simple
matter of logic to see that you don't like what conservative scholars
express and that you don't like what the Bible says. If indeed you
*do* like what the Bible says and you *don't* like what I say, then
we have an opportunity to discuss - not me - but your differing understanding
of what the Bible says. You (usually) choose not to do so. That
would actually lead to fruitful discussion.
>As long as you continue to write notes in that dogmatic fashion, I will
>continue to respond as I do.
So will I.
>That's too bad, but it appears that you are clearly not interested
>in communicating with others here.
:-) :-) :-)
Collis
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9.237 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Mon Jul 20 1992 16:20 | 48 |
| Actually, Collis, I have never claimed that your opinion is devoid of
any substance beyond any other opinion. What I *have* done is point
out that what you often present here implicitly as God's truth is in
fact not accepted by everyone here as God's truth. It's as simple as
that. Other people in this notes file have just as much right to their
understanding of God as you do. It is one thing to say, 'Let me share
with you my understanding of God's truth.' It is another thing
altogether to chide others for having a different understanding of
God's truth than yours. It is the difference between sharing your
theology and attacking that of others. The former approach is much
more likely to get a positive response than the latter.
The first step to fruitful discussion is to keep it on track. I think
it is a common phenomenon in this notes file, and perhaps in notes
files generally, for a discussion on one subject, which peripherally
relates to another topic, to get bogged down or derailed by arguments
over the secondary subject. The whole point of the original discussion
gets lost. It is one thing to debate endlessly the underlying
conceptual differences on some issue; it is another to say, okay, given
a set of premises that we may or may not accept, where do we go from
here? How do our assumptions drive us in this way or that?
Unfortunately, the latter kind of analysis continually gets turned into
an argument over various premises. Some people would rather argue than
analyze, it seems. Higher level, meta-discussions never get off the
ground, because everyone wants to go back to square one and argue over
the premises.
You already know fully well what my views on the Bible are. Restating
them in the context of another discussion serves no purpose, other than
perhaps the satisfaction of arguing over a favorite topic at the
nearest convenient excuse. You say that you are unwilling to accept
"B" as truth when it contradicts "A" which (you think) God has revealed
as truth. The fact is that no one is asking you to accept what you
don't accept as truth. The problem is that you feel the need to tell
everyone else what they should think is the truth also. In other
words, you are forcing other people to do what you yourself
resent--namely, you are trying to get other people to accept as God's
truth that which they strongly feel is not. The shoe is on the other
foot. Remember the Golden Rule? Why not do unto others here, and
consider how others might feel about being chided for their sincere
beliefs about God? How do you think that makes them feel? How would
you feel about that? And if you give yourself an honest answer, you
might then realize why people are offended.
But presmuably the difference, of course, is that you *know* you are
right and that they are wrong. So that makes it okay.
-- Mike
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9.238 | On ownership | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Climb aboard the Peace Train! | Mon Jul 20 1992 17:56 | 10 |
| Some may wonder what I mean by "opinions framed with ownership" in 9.226.
As an example, I have modified the first paragraph of Note 496.4 and include
it below to demonstrate ownership:
(It is my understanding that) The divinity of Jesus is a defining
attribute of Christians. (I recognize that) Those who believe it are
Christians. Those who do not (to my mind) are not Christians.
Peace,
Richard
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9.239 | p.c. or faithfulness to God? | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Mon Jul 20 1992 18:09 | 78 |
| Re: 9.237
>Actually, Collis, I have never claimed that your opinion is devoid of
>any substance beyond any other opinion.
True enough. Then again, you insist that it not be considered in
the light of what the Bible says and what conservative scholars say.
You insist that it be treated as simply another opinion rather than
an informed exposition of what the Bible says.
>What I *have* done is point out that what you often present here
>implicitly as God's truth is in fact not accepted by everyone here
>as God's truth. It's as simple as that.
No it is not. I recognize already what you are "pointing out". I
acknowledge this. You need not make any more replies to inform me
of this fact. :-)
>Other people in this notes file have just as much right to their
>understanding of God as you do.
God, indeed, gives everyone the right to believe what they will.
>It is another thing altogether to chide others for having a different
>understanding of God's truth than yours.
Indeed, I understand why you desire that everyone say, "Oh isn't
that different expression of Christianity wonderful" or "I hope
they are comfortable with the god they have chosen".
I also understand that God as He has revealed Himself says something
quite different. You have acknowledged in the past that the revelation
in the Bible does indeed have a very different picture of God (particularly
in the Old Testament) than you want. Applying this perspective of
God today makes you (and others) feel uncomfortable. Yes, I know.
>The first step to fruitful discussion is to keep it on track.
Agreed. Are you willing to acknowledge that you *invariably* take
the discussion off-track by focusing on disassociating my statements
from the Bible and conservative scholars?
>You already know fully well what my views on the Bible are. Restating
>them in the context of another discussion serves no purpose, other than
>perhaps the satisfaction of arguing over a favorite topic at the
>nearest convenient excuse.
Perhaps you have nothing relevant to say then?
>The problem is that you feel the need to tell everyone else what they
>should think is the truth also.
I was sharing my general reaction to what revolts me and I understand
as revolting God. If you're not interested in a typical conservative
reaction, then this notes conference should not invite conservatives to
participate.
>In other words, you are forcing other people to do what you yourself
>resent--namely, you are trying to get other people to accept as God's
>truth that which they strongly feel is not.
I hardly expect Patricia or Ro to change their opinions. The problem
is that you are unhappy with my sharing my opinion based on the Bible
in such a way that it is proclaimed as truth. Well, my framework includes
the acceptance of the Bible as God's revealed truth and opinions which
are Biblically-based *are* truth (to the extent that they are Biblically
based). You may (and I'm sure will) continue to object to the noting
style if you wish. There is an absolute standard which has been
revealed to us. I know that doesn't sit well with you.
It's not politically correct to refer to absolute standards in a notes
conference which desires to welcome all opinions and beliefs pertaining
to Christianity. However, one of those beliefs (in fact, one of the
predominant beliefs) is that there is indeed an absolute standard given
to us. And being politically correct was never a goal of mine. Being
faithful to my God is.
Collis
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9.240 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Climb aboard the Peace Train! | Mon Jul 20 1992 20:36 | 17 |
| Note 9.239
I would like to affirm that Collis has consistently maintained that
"There is an absolute standard which has been revealed to us."
I would further affirm that Collis believes that opening a notes conference
which welcomes all opinions and beliefs pertaining to Christianity is a
politically correct (in the negative sense of the term) thing to do.
I would further affirm that Collis believes he is being faithful to his God
by taking the stance that he does.
Please correct me wherever I've misrepresented you, Collis.
Peace,
Richard
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9.241 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jul 21 1992 10:17 | 3 |
| Collis, I realize that you think you are being faithful to God.
-- Mike
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9.242 | p.c. | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Tue Jul 21 1992 10:22 | 17 |
| Re: .240 politically correct
Indeed, there are two sides to being "politically correct".
Since it is primarily a liberal agenda where p.c. is important,
this notesfile fits in well with politcal correctness (in the
positive sense of the term).
On the other hand, you can if you wish also claim that this
notesfile was not well received at all by many in the
conservative camp. The main problem being not politcal
correctness, as I see it, but rather the constant denial of
many essential truths of the Bible that define true followers
of Jesus. As the foreign auto mechanic told Columbo as he
looked over his 15 year old Peugot, "There are limits, man".
Collis
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9.243 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jul 21 1992 10:53 | 9 |
| I think Collis has summarized here why we are such an impasse. Collis
believes that what I and others would describe as intolerance are in
fact expressions of God's will. Thus he feels called to do--he feels
he *must* do--what others here just as strongly find deeply offensive.
There appears to be no resolution of this issue. So the arguments will
continue unabated here.
-- Mike
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9.244 | one "resolution" reached | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Tue Jul 21 1992 11:40 | 6 |
| True enough.
Now maybe we can resolve your strategy of isolating
everything I say as simply my opinion?
Collis
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9.245 | We are blessed | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Tue Jul 21 1992 11:43 | 11 |
| re Note 9.243 by JURAN::VALENZA:
> There appears to be no resolution of this issue. So the arguments will
> continue unabated here.
I appreciate the fact that they may continue.
In many other places and at many other times, the argument
would be settled through political or physical force.
Bob
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9.246 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jul 21 1992 12:15 | 22 |
| Gee, Collis, do you mean to say that what you write isn't your opinion?
So much for my attempt at trying to summarize both sides of the issue
as a way of "agreeing to disagree". I forgot who I was dealing
with--someone who doesn't believe in agreeing to disagree, and who will
let no stone unturned as long as there is anyone with a different
opinion than his own. Let's just continue this discussion endlessly,
shall we?
When you repeatedly write the same types of notes, well then,
maybe--just maybe--they will get the same kinds of responses. And when
you get the same kind of response to various instances of a particular
type of note you then call that response a "strategy". The question
is, of course, who is continually writing those notes that evoke the
response in the first place? Perhaps that is what we should be looking
at when we talk of "strategies."
Now that we've settled that issue, perhaps we can return to the more
important issues at hand, the ones that really matter, like "why my
religion is great and your religion sucks."
-- Mike
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9.247 | Faulty quoting | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Jul 21 1992 15:01 | 7 |
| > Gee, Collis, do you mean to say that what you write isn't your opinion?
He said "simply my opinion."
Deliberately ignoring the word "simply" is something you should apologize for.
/john
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9.248 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Tue Jul 21 1992 15:49 | 5 |
| Thank you, Mike, for your response.
I accept your answer of no.
Collis
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9.249 | Ours is not to determine doctrinal correctness | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Climb aboard the Peace Train! | Tue Jul 21 1992 18:19 | 6 |
| Are 496.8 and 22.137 slams against Jehovah's Witnesses? I confess ignorance.
I have a feeling that a line has been crossed, but I'm not knowledgeable
enough to say for certain. I pray this feeling of mine is inaccurate.
Peace,
Richard
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9.250 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jul 21 1992 22:33 | 6 |
| Come now, Collis. Your question was just as bogus as when the
politician is asked when they stopped beating their spouse. Given the
fact that I rejected your premise (for reasons I stated), I therefore
gave you the appropriate response.
-- Mike
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9.251 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jul 21 1992 22:41 | 9 |
| Uh, /john, I did not "quote" Collis (I see no quotation marks in that
note, nor did I use the noting convention of preceding anything he
wrote with a ">".) The sentence that you objected to was a tongue in
cheek response to his false accusation of a "strategy".
I would think that false accusations, such as Collis's, are deserving
of apologies, if anything.
-- Mike
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9.252 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Jul 21 1992 22:47 | 7 |
| It is not necessary to use quotation marks or other symbols to quote
someone.
In any case, I'll accept that your misrepresentation of what he said
was tongue-in-cheek.
/john
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9.253 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Being and notingness. | Tue Jul 21 1992 23:56 | 4 |
| Well, I did not represent, "mis-" or otherwise, what he said, but I'll
accept that you accept that what I wrote was tongue-in-cheek.
-- Mike
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9.254 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Climb aboard the Peace Train! | Wed Jul 22 1992 20:55 | 24 |
| Note 101.64
> Jesse Jackson and our own moderator are not adverse to making a cheap
> shot aganist Vice President Dan Quayle.
> What motivates the ridicule of Dan Quayle?
My first inclination is to respond to your questions, Brother Sweeney,
as well as you do mine. But upon further reflection, I decided to go ahead
and respond to this one anyway.
I see Quayle not so much as a Herod, but more as one of the Pharisees
to whom Jesus spoke when he said: "You put onto people's backs loads which
are hard to carry, but you yourselves will not stretch out a finger to help
them carry those loads. How terrible for you!"
Of course, some may say Jesus' words were not words of ridicule.
Luke 11.45 seems to indicate that they were indeed insulting, however.
Oh, as kind of a PS, would you prefer it if I stepped down as
moderator? Or perhaps if Jesse Jackson resigned from the ministry?
Peace,
Richard
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9.255 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Rum, Romanism, Rebellion | Wed Jul 22 1992 23:26 | 21 |
| In Luke 11.45 Jesus is delivering a rebuke. He is not attempting to
evoke laughter.
We have a matter of interpretation of the Bible, as Jesus describes a
"burden".
Taxes are a burden to rich and poor alike. In our nation's largest
city our liberal Democratic Mayor David Dinkins didn't file taxes for
three years while taking that political position that they should be
raised. That's a more literal application I think, and you don't have
to be a partisan Republican to see it so. Real prosperity is created
by economic activity not by political advocacy.
Jesus loves taxpayers, tax collectors, and even the tax evaders.
The government is filled with hypocrites, I don't think Dan Quayle is
one of them. If you have a good Republican tale of hypocrisy. I'm
here to listen to it.
I'm not arrogant enough to give advice to the Rev. Jesse Jackson nor
the moderators here. I'll pray for you.
|
9.256 | Just a silly sinner | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Climb aboard the Peace Train! | Wed Jul 22 1992 23:40 | 6 |
| .255 How right you are. How wrong I am. Thanks for clearing things
up for me. I'm certain it's what Jesus would have you do. And thanks
for the prayers.
Pax vobiscum,
Richard
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9.257 | oh, an example of your humor!! | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Wings of fire: Percie and me | Thu Jul 23 1992 10:07 | 9 |
| .255
<< I'm not arrogant enough to give advice to the Rev. Jesse Jackson nor
<< the moderators here. I'll pray for you.
Hmmm, could have fooled me! ;')
Ro
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9.258 | co-mod plea.... | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Tue Aug 04 1992 19:53 | 35 |
|
I write this note with a very heavy heart. Just today we,
in CP, have lost two people because they have the belief that Christians
cannot show love and tolerance to them. How can we truely call ourselves
Christians and ask others to listen and believe when we are unwilling to
return that same consideration? I once heard a very respected and
knowledgeable preacher/pastor talk about fanaticism in Christianity. He
believed, and I agree, that there is as much danger in fanatic beliefs
as there are in atheism.
Our policy in this file is that each and every person "owns"
what they write and believe. We will not, and should not, tolerate persons
who continuously try to put down and call absolutely wrong other belief
structures. For myself, I believe that Christ is so powerful and loving that
my witness is better served, as well as Christianity as a whole, by showing
patience and love to those who do not have the same knowledge as I have.
For several months now I have watched several people in this
file use there beliefs to belittle and chastise this file for the very
openness most of us value so much. To you Christians I ask; What better
opportunity is there than a file like this to share your witness and love?
Bible "thumping" has long proved ineffective in witnessing situations. For
myself I have to say that I have had much better luck *SHOWING* the love in my
heart and expressing the care God has for me.
Beyond all that, Digital *requires*, by policy, that we value
differences. There have been several instances which I belive that the line
between valuing and prejudice has been crossed. Since this is a Digital network
and Digital system, that policy will, in the future, be adhered to strictly.
Dave Dawson
CP co-moderator
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9.259 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Aug 04 1992 23:34 | 13 |
| The affirmation that Jesus is God is a defining characteristic of
Christianity.
DEC policy requires its employees to value the differences of others.
However, DEC policy does not require its employees to value a difference
which asks Christians to give up their belief that Jesus is God.
When a group claims to be Christian and claims in a forum titled "Christian-
Perspective" that Jesus is not God, Christians must point out that such a
claim is erroneous.
/john
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9.260 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Only Nixon can go to China | Wed Aug 05 1992 00:00 | 18 |
| Note 9.259
>However, DEC policy does not require its employees to value a difference
>which asks Christians to give up their belief that Jesus is God.
No one has asked you to give up any belief, John.
>When a group claims to be Christian and claims in a forum titled "Christian-
>Perspective" that Jesus is not God, Christians must point out that such a
>claim is erroneous.
Rest assured, your mission has been accomplished!
I, too, believe Christ to be the Incarnation. However, I am not so compelled
to thrust upon others the beliefs I hold.
Peace,
Richard
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9.261 | Read, or re-read, 1.0 please | CARTUN::BERGGREN | Unexpect the expected | Wed Aug 05 1992 00:18 | 28 |
| > The affirmation that Jesus is God is a defining characteristic of
Christianity. <
In _your_ belief system, John, and for some other Christians as well,
but not all Christians.
Please review the standards and guidelines of this conference outlined
in 1.0.
You will see that, by purposeful design, there is an obvious absence of
such a defining characteristic of Christianity in this conference.
> DEC policy does not require its employees to value a difference which
asks Christians to give up their belief that Jesus is God. <
No one here has said anything to you even remotely resembling a
suggestion, nevermind asking you to give up your belief that
Jesus is God.
In fact, it is quite clearly the opposite.
You have been actively _imposing_ your belief upon others that
Jesus is God -- an activity that the moderatorship and the
foundation of this conference does not support you in.
Karen
Co-Moderator, Christian-Perspective
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9.262 | Christianity is defined by belief in God Incarnate | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Aug 05 1992 03:14 | 28 |
| In reply to:
;an inclusive definition of Christianity should not require that Christians
;believe that Jesus is God.
Phil wrote:
>Jehovah's Witnesses would say that those professing to be Christian would
>recognize that Jesus is not God.
If we allow the above two statements, then we have to allow the statement
"Christianity is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
I have not attempted to silence, through use of policy or other threats,
those who make the above statements. Nor have I claimed any knowledge of
their eschatological fate, for God is more merciful than you or I can
imagine. This is no Inquisition. I do not seek banishment of these people.
All I have done is countered statements like the above by classifying them
according to theological terms assigned to them by respected theologians.
You may continue to claim what you wish. And so may I.
Avoid the Arian heresy. Stay clear of all-inclusive syncretism.
Christianity is defined by the belief that Jesus is God.
/john
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9.263 | | YERKLE::YERKESS | bring me sunshine in your smile | Wed Aug 05 1992 05:11 | 12 |
|
John,
You may voice your opinion, there is nothing wrong with that, in fact this
is encouraged from my understanding by those who moderate this Digital
employee interest notes conference. Where you over step the mark is when
you insist that a certain group makes an Arian claim and it is quite clear
that this group makes no such claim.
How would you feel if someone made a similar attack on your religion?.
Phil.
|
9.264 | that was the objective | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Aug 05 1992 07:56 | 23 |
| re Note 9.259 by COVERT::COVERT:
> When a group claims to be Christian and claims in a forum titled "Christian-
> Perspective" that Jesus is not God, Christians must point out that such a
> claim is erroneous.
There is no such "group" in this conference.
All are participating here as individuals.
It is clear that there are a number of individuals who
espousing the "Jesus is not God" claim, there are more
individuals who are simply declaring tolerance of the "Jesus
is not God" claim, and there are several active writers who
denounce the "Jesus is not God" claim.
This conference exists precisely to allow the above to
occur.
Jesus (and Christ) most definitely is the centerpiece of our
discussions.
Bob
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9.265 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Aug 05 1992 09:02 | 20 |
| Re: .264
Well said Bob. I'm of the camp that believes in the trinity....but...
after stating it, I don't have the need to continue to "fight" against
other noter's who have a different opinion.
Make your point once....then leave it be. Continuing to make THE SAME
POINT AGAIN AND AGAIN , quoting the Bible or other figures again
just comes across as brow beating.
I thought that this file was different from the other files....
it always seemed like a nice, polite gathering of friends.
Lately, it has taken on the flavor of "Sapbox" where one upmanship
and making points is important.
Lets return to the polite gathering of friends.
I'll go to "sapbox" when I want to...
Marc H.
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9.266 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Wed Aug 05 1992 09:45 | 30 |
|
Most of the people in this file know that I am Southern
Baptist and do some fill ins for preachers and teachers. With that said,
let me further state that I am a Christian first and a Southern Baptist
a long distant second. My inclusion to the moderatorship of this file was
based mainly on the fact that I am part of a "fundamentalist" denomination.
The moderators at that time believed that all segments of religion needed
representation. That is one reason this file carries so many moderators.
Far more that the normal file.
So to those who would criticize the policy's here, I would
say that your viewpoints are taken into account as much as possible while
keeping the purpose of this file intact. Some of you have used, what I
would consider, derisive comments about this file and its stated purpose.
My answer to you is that there are files who purpose is to discuss Christian
issues within a purely Christian atmosphere. I invite you to those files.
To those who have the purpose of "purifying" this file to
what you might consider a Christian conference, I say don't. This file
has a purpose and even the other Christian files admit that this file meets
a need. Too many people in this country have been "left" behind in the
witnessing efforts of most Churches. This file invites all to discuss
their beliefs without fear of condemnation. If my belief structure cannot
stand on its own and "win" people to Christ, then it would be time to give
it up, but quite the reverse is true. By showing love and patience, I have
seen many who say "Maybe I need to take a closer look". And they have!
Dave
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9.267 | God Incarnate | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Aug 05 1992 10:23 | 11 |
| >you insist that a certain group makes an Arian claim and it is quite clear
>that this group makes no such claim.
The claim that Jesus is not God is historically classified as an Arian claim.
It is not a claim compatible with Christianity, for it strikes at the root
of almost twenty centuries of what Christianity teaches.
Christianity teaches that Jesus is God.
/john
|
9.268 | | JURAN::SILVA | If it weren't for you meddling kids.... | Wed Aug 05 1992 10:41 | 23 |
|
| My answer to you is that there are files who purpose is to discuss Christian
| issues within a purely Christian atmosphere. I invite you to those files.
Dave, I know all about this one. I have been told by many in the
Christian file that I should come in here for the same reasons. Funny how
they don't always seem to practice what they preach.
| To those who have the purpose of "purifying" this file to
| what you might consider a Christian conference, I say don't. This file
| has a purpose and even the other Christian files admit that this file meets
| a need. Too many people in this country have been "left" behind in the
| witnessing efforts of most Churches. This file invites all to discuss
| their beliefs without fear of condemnation.
Dave, I think this says it all. Thanks for reminding us.
Glen
|
9.269 | Can I ramble for a while | MORO::BEELER_JE | Bush in '92 | Wed Aug 05 1992 11:32 | 53 |
| 67.133> I'm signing out, indefinitely. It doesn't feel good to be here with
67.133> people showing such intolerance to others' beliefs.
Well, since this is somewhat of a "Christian" conference I guess that
it's appropriate to quote Scripture.
Consider (one of my favorite): "He that troubleth his own house shall
inherit the wind...".
I don't deny that there are conferences (that I have walked away from)
because they are intolerant - they preach understanding, acceptance,
tolerance, and all the appropriate words. They practice reverse hate,
non-acceptance of opposing views and are resolutely intolerant of any-
thing but the "politically correct" stance. There is little question
in my mind but that they will most assuredly and ultimately "inherit
the wind".
It is my considered opinion as a long-time participant in VAX Notes
that C-P is at this point in time TOLERANT of and RESPECTS others
opinions. I may not personally agree with everything that I read, but,
I am free to state an opposing opinion without fear of massive personal
attack. There will be those who disagree with me, and, there will be
those who agree with me. There are those who are going to be tolerant
of me and those who will be intolerant. This is called "reality".
I do not seek out those who are tolerant of me and my opinions. I do
not seek out those who agree with me and my opinions. To do so is to
stagnate and cease the learning process. This, in my opinion, is
equivalent to death.
"And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free". I
don't know what the "truth" is ... I keep looking. Who knows where
I'll find it.
Then again ... one cannot attack my faith because I have none. One
cannot attack my God, because I'm not all that sure that I believe in
one. One cannot attack my Church because I have none. One cannot
attack my "Christian" beliefs because I do not profess to be a
Christian. Perhaps I am spiritually dead? For that reason I feel
comfortable in this forum?
Well, I don't intend to "inherit the wind". Not just yet. Perhaps I
find peace in adversity. There are those who do not. I can only urge
the author of 67.133 to be part of the solution and not part of the
problem.
Rambling.
Sorry.
Bubba
|
9.270 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Only Nixon can go to China | Thu Aug 06 1992 19:11 | 12 |
| Yes, it seems there are some vocal individuals who have identified a number
of what they consider problems with this particular conference.
Not one solution has been offered. So, I'm forced to conclude that these
negative criticisms are nothing more than so much noise. An unpleasant
clanging of gongs, to be sure, but that's all.
As Jesus said, "By their fruits ye shall know them."
Peace,
Richard
|
9.271 | When Jesus said that, he was NOT talking about tolerance! | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Aug 07 1992 00:09 | 8 |
| >As Jesus said, "By their fruits ye shall know them."
I suggest you read the rest of that chapter, where our Lord talks about false
prophets, wolves in sheep's clothing, casting pearls before swine, and the wide
and easy road that leads to destruction.
"For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there
are few who find it." -- God.
|
9.272 | Nope | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Sat Aug 08 1992 11:35 | 20 |
| .262:
>Phil wrote:
>Jehovah's Witnesses would say that those professing to be Christian would
>recognize that Jesus is not God.
>If we allow the above two statements, then we have to allow the statement
>"Christianity is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
Sorry, John, that doesn't follow. What *would* be comparable is a
statement similar to the following:
"John Covert and many other Christians would say that Christianity
is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
No one that I know of in this conference would object to *that*
statement.
|
9.273 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sat Aug 08 1992 12:11 | 9 |
| > "John Covert and many other Christians would say that Christianity
> is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
Many? Try "over one and one half billion Christians".
In fact, does any group _other_ than the Jehovah's Witnesses claim to
be Christian yet deny that Jesus is God?
/john
|
9.274 | Nice Side-stepping! | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Sat Aug 08 1992 12:47 | 2 |
| re: .273
|
9.275 | | JURAN::SILVA | If it weren't for you meddling kids.... | Mon Aug 10 1992 10:23 | 14 |
|
| > "John Covert and many other Christians would say that Christianity
| > is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
| Many? Try "over one and one half billion Christians".
John, not to say that jesus isn't God (I believe He is), but to use
numbers as any type of defense is a pretty weak defense. Remember, there were
many Christians who also thought that burning witches was the correct thing to
do.
Glen
|
9.276 | Localized in time and place to actual problem sites | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Aug 10 1992 10:31 | 10 |
| Witch burnings were a local phenomenon.
Belief that Jesus is God is the worldwide belief of ALL Catholics and
Protestants.
Belief that Jesus is God is that which defines Christianity.
Are Jehovah's Witnesses the only group which applies the name "Christian"
to their organization while denying that Jesus is God and claiming that
all of Christendom is mistaken in their belief?
|
9.277 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | movers and shakers | Mon Aug 10 1992 11:05 | 9 |
| John,
A "local phenomenon?" That's a most interesting way of defining
it. That "local phenomenon" was responsible for the deaths of
approximately 8 _million_ people, 75% of which are estimated
to have been women....nevermind how many countless others were
torturted and disfigured as a result.
Karen
|
9.278 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Aug 10 1992 11:34 | 5 |
| Re: .277
Karen, surely you are not just talking about the Salem Witch Trials?
Marc H.
|
9.279 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Aug 10 1992 11:36 | 16 |
| Witchcraft was then and still does remain incompatible with Christianity.
Burning of witches was done in a time when punishments for almost any crime
were, by today's standards, barbaric. In addition, it was done in a time when
"innocent until proven guilty" was not a popular idea.
In Salem, Massachusetts, witchcraft was, indeed, being performed, though not
by all the people who were accused and convicted of it.
Witchcraft is psychological terrorism, and deserves to be punished if it is
used against other people.
A major difference between Witchcraft and Jehovah's Witnesses is that witches
(actual witches) do not claim to be Christian.
/john
|
9.280 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Mon Aug 10 1992 11:43 | 7 |
|
The Crusades and Spanish Inquisition doesn't look well for
the early church. I believe that Karen is refering to the witch trials
in Europe as well as the U.S.
Dave
|
9.281 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Aug 10 1992 11:45 | 1 |
| Bad things done in the name of a Truth do not invalidate the Truth.
|
9.282 | | JURAN::SILVA | If it weren't for you meddling kids.... | Mon Aug 10 1992 11:54 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 9.276 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| Witch burnings were a local phenomenon.
Does that make it any less of a sin? There are many other things that
have been done to inocent people in the name of God. Like I said, using numbers
doesn't make a good defense as the numbers aren't all to good against the past
of some Christians.
Glen
|
9.283 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | the lower I go, the higher I become | Mon Aug 10 1992 12:37 | 21 |
| RE: COVERT::COVERT,
>Bad things done in the name of a Truth do not invalidate the Truth.
Thats true but wondering why people have a "bad
taste" in their mouth because of some of the horrific things done in
the name of Christ is only natural. Even in my own denomination I have
seen people abused for a variety of reasons. When a Church has a
pledge card signed by a member and then that member loses their job and
is unable to pay, for the deacons to arrive on their doorstep and
demand something of equal value is not Christian in my opinion. And if
you think that this is an isolated case come on down to the so-called
Bible belt and I'll show you some things. Too many Churches have
decided to "become" a government and "rule" over their people instead
of loving them.
Dave
|
9.284 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Aug 10 1992 12:44 | 11 |
| > seen people abused for a variety of reasons. When a Church has a
> pledge card signed by a member and then that member loses their job and
> is unable to pay, for the deacons to arrive on their doorstep and
> demand something of equal value is not Christian in my opinion.
No, it certainly isn't.
But we aren't talking about little behavioural problems.
We're talking about the central thesis of Christianity: "Jesus Christ is God,
and by being God reveals God to us."
|
9.285 | | MAGEE::FRETTS | Have you faced a fear today? | Mon Aug 10 1992 13:04 | 7 |
| RE: Witchcraft is psychological terrorism
John, I believe you do not have any idea what witchcraft (aka Wicca)
is all about.
Carole
|
9.286 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | movers and shakers | Mon Aug 10 1992 13:37 | 57 |
| Marc .278,
> Karen, surely you are not just talking about the Salem Witch
Trials? <
You're right. As Dave Dawson kindly indicated, .277 refers to the
majority of "witch trials" which occured in Europe and the millions
of people who lost their lives as a result.
John .279,
> Witchcraft was then and still does remain incompatible with
Christianity. <
Curiously enough, Matthew Fox, a Dominican priest, does not share
this opinion. He appointed Starhawk, a modern-day "witch," to the
faculty of the Institute for Culture and Creation Spirituality at
Holy Names College in Oakland, CA several years ago. Since then he's
been having an on-going "discussion" with the Catholic Church about
the compatibility of witchcraft and Christianity. His books
_Original Blessing_ and _The Coming of the Cosmic Christ_ touch upon
this issue in more depth.
> Witchcraft is psychological terrorism, and deserves to be punished
if it is used against other people. <
This view has been manufactured over the centuries and a little
objective research will show that it is more a product of religious
propaganda and bigotry, with very little basis in fact. However,
your statement contains a degree of truth, though not exclusive to
Wiccans.
Any belief or belief system can, is, and has been used, as psychological
terrorism by some against others. Some Wiccans have most clearly done
this, as well as some Christians, some Muslims, some Jews, etc.
However, speaking of "psychological terrorism," did you know the idiom
"getting the third degree" has its origins in the activities of the
Inquisition? Purported "witches" would be interrogated in attempts
to force them to confess their witch identity. Torture was used to
not only help "encourage," but to insure the confession. If they did
not confess that which the inquisitioners were seeking during this
"first degree" of interrogation, they were then subjected to the second
degree, which as you might suspect, involved an increased level and
intensity of torture. Those who hadn't yet confessed through this
first and second degree were then subjected to the "third degree," an
experience from which many did not survive, a result, however, which
was the essential intention of the "third degree."
A profound example of psychological terrorism at its finest, I'd say.
> Bad things done in the name of a Truth do not invalidate the Truth.
True, they just obscure and render it unintelligible....at best,
temporarily -- at worst...
Karen
|
9.287 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Only Nixon can go to China | Mon Aug 10 1992 15:26 | 6 |
| .273
The majority is always right? I think not.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.288 | The central definition of Christianity for nearly 2000 years! | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Aug 10 1992 16:16 | 9 |
| > The majority is always right? I think not.
We're not just talking about the majority here.
We're talking about all of Christianity, save the Jehovah's Witnesses (noone
has yet named another group calling itself "Christian" and denying that Jesus
is God).
/john
|
9.289 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Only Nixon can go to China | Mon Aug 10 1992 16:31 | 7 |
| Thank you, Brother John .288, but I refuse to allow you or anyone else to
tell me what I am talking about. I would encourage an increased
measure of perceptivity if there is a genuine interest in understanding
what I am talking about.
Peace,
Richard
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9.290 | No | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Mon Aug 10 1992 17:51 | 8 |
| <<< Note 9.276 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
-< Localized in time and place to actual problem sites >-
>Belief that Jesus is God is the worldwide belief of ALL Catholics and
>Protestants.
Please be more careful/accurate in your statements. This simply
is not true.
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9.291 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Aug 13 1992 13:56 | 56 |
| I'm sorry to see that people are dropping out of the conference. I'm no
longer a moderator here, but I can relate to the dilemma the current
moderators are facing.
People have sharply differing beliefs about religion - that's obvious.
Since people feel so strongly about their religious beliefs they tend to
feel threatened or become belligerent when opposing religious views are
expressed. Without intervention from the moderators the natural course of
events (as far as I can tell) is that some people will become angry or fed
up and will drop out of the conference.
What should the moderators be doing? In the past there have been two main
ideas about the kind of conference CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE should be: some
have felt that C-P should be an open forum where anyone could state their
opinions about Christianity and point out the flaws in opposing opinions,
while others would like C-P to be a safe haven where liberal Christians
and non-Christians could be protected from criticism of their beliefs.
It seems to me that for the most part the "open forum" approach has won
out. One reason for this is that C-P was founded as a reaction to the
excesses of the GOLF::CHRISTIAN conference, where the moderators imposed a
doctrinal standard on the conference. In order to make C-P a "safe haven"
the moderators would similarly be imposing a standard on the conference,
perhaps by requiring that statements of beliefs be preceded by disclaimers
such as "in my opinion..." or "others may disagree, but...". In effect
the moderators would be imposing a doctrinal standard that religious truth
is relative rather than absolute.
An open forum works both ways: conservatives are free to criticize
liberal beliefs and liberals are free to criticize conservative beliefs.
It appears that neither side likes having their beliefs criticized!
Conservatives complain about the liberal slant of the conference (because
most noters here are liberal) and liberals complain about being preached
at by the conservatives. It doesn't seem to be possible to satisfy both
sides. Personally I hope that C-P continues to be an open forum, even
though some people have regrettably decided to drop out of the conference,
because I am interested in seeing the free exchange of ideas.
Still, the conference rules do impose restrictions on the form in which
opinions can be expressed. From the John Sims memo of 30-Jan-1992 (note
8.11) "Statements that attribute improper, illegal or immoral motives or
actions to others; statements that cast aspersions on the character or
integrity of others or that amount to libel or slander are not permitted.
... Comments that degrade, devalue or discriminate against others are
also prohibited. ... Employee interest notes files and conferences
provide an electronic forum to share ideas and opinions about matters of
common interest. In supporting these conferences, the company understood
that there would be occasions where employees would disagree on issues
being discussed, but we believed and continue to believe that it is
possible to disagree without being disagreeable."
IMO, the moderators may have to enforce this policy more vigorously. I
hope they will continue to apply it equally to all noters: liberal,
conservative, in between, or none of the above.
-- Bob
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9.292 | How do you define "open"? | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Thu Aug 13 1992 14:51 | 23 |
| I like to think I'm open, but sometimes I'm the one who asks -- or
appears to be asking -- for a "safe haven." Some comments from those
who differ strongly with me are written in a way that I find dismissive
and a put-down -- and thus they are exactly opposite to any kind of
"open" forum. Openness, like lack of discrimination, can sometimes be
in name only.
I am accused of "not knowing what I'm talking about" or of "denying the
implications" of this or that. Or blanket black-and-white statements are
made in such a way as to allow for *no* disagreement, i.e., "ALL
Christians believe such-and-such!" Those who differ are not given the
human respect or courtesy of acknowleding that they have honest,
thoughtful beliefs that differ.
C-P does not have to be as "safe" for liberal Christians as the other
conference has become for fundamentalist Christians, but surely there
must be a way to allow absolutists to maintain their integrity
without insulting the intelligence or honesty of others? If not, then
how can this be considered even an "open" forum?
I don't know the answer, but I truly hope that there *is* one!
Nancy
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9.293 | good insight | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Wings of fire: Percie and me | Thu Aug 13 1992 15:01 | 10 |
| Thank you Nancy (.292)! As always, you have a way of getting to the
'heart' of the matter. You've put your finger on exactly what I've
felt has been happening the last few weeks.
BTW, Collis, I believe your noting style is different than Mr. Covert's
and Mr. Sweezey's. I don't sense that you carry the animosity that
their notes indicate that they harbor.
Ro
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9.294 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Aug 13 1992 18:35 | 54 |
| Re: .292 Nancy
> I am accused of "not knowing what I'm talking about" or of "denying the
> implications" of this or that.
Notes like that could be deleted, but for C-P to be an "open forum" a
policy of deleting hostile notes would need to be applied consistently.
It isn't just conservatives who write hostile notes. Even some notes
written by present or former C-P moderators might need to be deleted under
that standard, and who would do the deleting?
Once you start deleting notes it is all to easy to cross the line into
censorship of ideas rather than just the expression of those ideas.
Personally I'm not always sure I know the difference.
> Or blanket black-and-white statements are
> made in such a way as to allow for *no* disagreement, i.e., "ALL
> Christians believe such-and-such!" Those who differ are not given the
> human respect or courtesy of acknowleding that they have honest,
> thoughtful beliefs that differ.
So you'd like to make it a rule that any time someone states a belief
they must acknowledge that others who disagree with that belief have
honest, thoughtful beliefs that differ? If I say "I am opposed to genocide"
I have to add "but I'm sure that those who favor genocide have honest,
thoughtful reasons for their position"?
The question I have for you, Nancy, is: why does it bother you when
someone says "ALL Christians believe such-and-such"? You can present
arguments to show that person why they are wrong, and if they remain
unconvinced you can just ignore them. Isn't that enough?
> C-P does not have to be as "safe" for liberal Christians as the other
> conference has become for fundamentalist Christians, but surely there
> must be a way to allow absolutists to maintain their integrity
> without insulting the intelligence or honesty of others? If not, then
> how can this be considered even an "open" forum?
An open forum means that everyone is free to state their opinions. It
does not necessarily mean that people are free from having their
intelligence or honesty challenged. Not everyone will feel comfortable in
an open forum, and some will drop out. In my opinion (you may disagree)
this does not mean that the forum is not open.
However, it could well be argued that notes which question another noter's
intelligence or honesty should be deleted in conformance with the
conference rules, and in particular the John Sims memo. Maybe if the
moderators did this, and did it consistently, the conference would become
more pleasant for most noters while still remaining "open". Considering
some of the hostile notes that have been written recently and the fact
that people are dropping out, perhaps it's time for the moderators to start
doing this.
-- Bob
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9.295 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T "sockitome,sockitome" | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Thu Aug 13 1992 20:00 | 12 |
| Collis,
I, too, consider your contributions to be positive ones - well, at
least, *most* of them. I considered most of Alfred Thompson's entries
to be valuable.
I think a key element is the degree of respect with which an entry
is perceptably infused. And, I suppose I, too, am guilty of neglecting
to speak with respect at times. Hell, I ain't perfect! 8-}
Peace & love in Jesus,
Richard
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9.296 | | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Thu Aug 13 1992 21:32 | 46 |
| re: .924
Gee, Bob, seems like you came down pretty hard on me for expressing
how some notes affect me. Notice that I haven't left the conf. (though
I don't note as much as when it first started due to work). And,
frankly, it never entered my mind when I wrote .292 that any notes
should be deleted (at least not at this point)! I was assuming that
if additional **acceptable** guidelines **could** be added, folks
would abide by them! (Was that naive of me?)
>So you'd like to make it a rule that any time someone states a belief
>they must acknowledge that others who disagree with that belief have
>honest, thoughtful beliefs that differ? If I say "I am opposed to genocide"
>I have to add "but I'm sure that those who favor genocide have honest,
>thoughtful reasons for their position"?
C'mon, Bob, that's not what I said -- and you don't usually put words
in other folks' mouths! Your analogy would be a more accurate one if
you stated: "ALL Americans are opposed to genocide." (Probably some
are not opposed to it in every case.)
In fact, when *anyone* says "I..." that's fine with me -- great!! It's
the arrogance that states that "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so"
that I -- please note that this is a personal-feeling-statement here --
find personally offensive (as well as intellectually dishonest and untrue).
I don't even object to someone saying, "I don't consider anyone who
doesn't agree with me to be a Christian." That's fine -- but that's a
lot different from saying "All Christians agree with me."
In .292 I said I find that personally objectionable and offensive and
rude and, for that matter, factually incorrect. I was expressing some
painful feelings about it -- perhaps I didn't do it very well. I know
how difficult it must be to moderate this conference, and I value having
it open.
If you remember, I raised the question of whether there might be *some*
way to *preserve the integrity of absolutists* while creating a more
"non-absolutist-friendly" -- and there *IMO* more open -- file.
(Frankly, I doubt that there *is* a way, and I'm pretty much resigned
to that. I'll probably resort to read-only soon.)
But maybe you'd prefer that I keep my feelings and objections to
myself?
Nancy
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9.298 | | METSYS::GOODWIN | Two things ye must know about the wise woman... | Fri Aug 14 1992 09:44 | 7 |
| I'm not sure if this is the right place but...
I've stopped noting here - for various reasons. One of them being my
feeling of distance between myself and christianity and the other the
feeling that this notesfile is heading down a path I no longer tread.
Pete.
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9.299 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Fri Aug 14 1992 18:00 | 41 |
| Nancy .296,
Some of the recent interactions and exchanges here have truly grieved
my soul. I, too, wish we could find a way to preserve the integrity of
absolutists while creating a more non-absolutist-friendly environment.
I have attempted to address the situation by suggesting that notes
be "framed with ownership:"
>Note 9.226
> Though you and I seldom share totally congruent perspectives,
>I truly appreciate your input here in C-P. I actually encourage dissenting
>opinions, especially when those opinions are framed with ownership and when
>those opinions refrain from attacking another noter or the integrity of
>another noter.
Genuinely, I think it would improve things if we could avoid the
communication pitfalls created by polarity; generalizations spoken as
absolute truths.
I have also tried planting seeds, such as initiating the "When
Christianity is confrontational," "How to make CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE more
hospitable," and the "Homogeneity" topics.
Other times, I have just plain gone toe-to-toe with another noter. I
am least proud of these entries of mine; so much so, in fact, that I have even
gone back and deleted some of my notes later.
Somewhat ironically, I find often myself philosophically at odds with
some people in C-P with whom I communicate extremely well! And I find myself
theologically alligned with others who have nothing positive to say about me,
the conference, and most other noters here!
At this point, I'm simply saying a prayer for this conference. I, too,
am grateful for the existence of this file and its premise. However, I may
go read-only for awhile myself.
Peace,
Richard
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9.300 | Hello, Pete! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Fri Aug 14 1992 18:08 | 10 |
| Pete,
Good to hear from you. I hope you'll continue to browse through
and respond occasionally.
I'm curious about the path you longer tread. What path is that?
Peace,
Richard
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9.301 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Fri Aug 14 1992 18:39 | 53 |
| Re: .296 Nancy
> Gee, Bob, seems like you came down pretty hard on me for expressing
> how some notes affect me.
Sorry, Nancy, I wasn't trying to "come down hard" on you. I was trying to
analyze what you wanted out of the conference to see whether it would be
possible to make the conference both "open" and "safe" (as seen by you and
others).
> I was assuming that
> if additional **acceptable** guidelines **could** be added, folks
> would abide by them! (Was that naive of me?)
I wouldn't say that it's naive, but my own personal opinion is that you
(generic) aren't going to be able to change people's noting styles just by
announcing new guidelines, unless you're willing to enforce those
guidelines. That's where "deleting" comes in.
> In fact, when *anyone* says "I..." that's fine with me -- great!! It's
> the arrogance that states that "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so"
> that I -- please note that this is a personal-feeling-statement here --
> find personally offensive (as well as intellectually dishonest and untrue).
OK, noted. When someone says "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so" then you
find it personally offensive. But the other person may be just as offended
that you said that you felt that their statement was intellectually
dishonest and untrue. You might ask that person as a favor not to make
such sweeping statements, or the moderators might ask people not to make
such sweeping statements, but if the moderators start enforcing that
policy by deleting notes then they'll be letting you dictate the content of
the other person's notes. They'll be deleting notes based on the ideas that
are expressed.
> If you remember, I raised the question of whether there might be *some*
> way to *preserve the integrity of absolutists* while creating a more
> "non-absolutist-friendly" -- and there *IMO* more open -- file.
Well, what the moderators *could* do would be to start deleting notes that
are hostile or question another noter's intelligence or character. Maybe
if they struck the right balance between ruthlessness and tolerance the
character of the conference could be preserved. But based on what you've
written this might not be enough from your point of view, unless I've
misunderstood you: you'll be offended if another noter says "All
Christians believe xxx" even if he stops insulting you.
> But maybe you'd prefer that I keep my feelings and objections to
> myself?
Not at all! Just because I disagree with you doesn't mean that I don't
want to hear what you have to say.
-- Bob
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9.302 | | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Fri Aug 14 1992 21:15 | 44 |
| re .301 - Bob,
For the record, I was musing about "openness" and *not* asking for the
conference to be made "safe."
>OK, noted. When someone says "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so" then you
>find it personally offensive. But the other person may be just as offended
>that you said that you felt that their statement was intellectually
>dishonest and untrue.
Well, I suppose you have a point that I should consider. To my
understanding, saying "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so" violates
a very basic rule of logic, which is why I said it is intellectually
dishonest and untrue. It's like saying that Dobermans are dogs, that
all Dobermans I've ever seen are black, and that therefore all dogs
are black.
I had supposed that this understanding of logic was accepted by others,
but perhaps I was mistaken. I don't have a basis for communicating with
those who don't accept that that kind of logic is false -- perhaps that
is a weakness of my own. In any case, it's clear that I cannot do it
and so should keep quiet.
>Well, what the moderators *could* do would be to start deleting notes that
>are hostile or question another noter's intelligence or character.
I'm *not* asking the mods to delete anyone's notes. You keep
referring to that, as though you are convinced that that would be the
only way to do it. If you are right, then probably it cannot be done.
I do want to emphasize, though, for the sake of others reading this,
that *you* are the one who keeps talking about the deleting of notes.
I have not asked for that (and in fact, wasn't even thinking of it till
you brought it up) and am still not asking for that.
I'm not sure exactly what you disagree with me about, since feelings
just *are* and aren't to be agreed or disagreed with and since *I*
did not ask for other's notes to be deleted. Maybe you disagree with
me on logic -- or maybe just the manner in which I expressed myself.
In any case, it *is* ok with me that you disagree with whatever it is
you disagree with me about! :-)
Nancy
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9.303 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Fri Aug 14 1992 21:53 | 15 |
| Nancy .302 & Bob .301,
I see a kind of parallel going on here with a situation I have come to
recognize in my marriage. :-)
One of the partners will be in "relational" mode, while the other is in
"problem-solving" mode. Needless to say, as long as we continue without
recognizing what is going on, we don't really communicate. We just
wonder at what's is going on in the other's mind and why we can't get
through to the other.
I'll butt out now.
Peace,
Richard
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9.304 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Sun Aug 16 1992 19:47 | 12 |
| Re: .303 Richard
> One of the partners will be in "relational" mode, while the other is in
> "problem-solving" mode.
Oh, so *that's* what's going on. Thanks.
> I'll butt out now.
Sounds like a good idea.
-- Bob
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9.305 | Be glad she's gone to her reward .... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Bush in '92 | Sun Aug 16 1992 21:29 | 6 |
| I wish my grandmother was around ... she'd read this string and head
for the peach tree to find a switch ... and *wow* do they sting. You
boys would be ah' droppin youah' britches and grandmother would cure
this "argument" right quick!
Bubba
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9.306 | | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Sun Aug 16 1992 21:39 | 5 |
| Since I can't figure out which mode Richard thinks I'm in, and since
I didn't intend to *argue* with anyone (in this string, that is), I'll
butt out, too!
Nancy
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9.307 | just a suggestion | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Aug 21 1992 12:14 | 15 |
| re Note 496.80 by JUPITR::HILDEBRANT:
> This series of replies by the "Biblical" Experts, nit pickers, and spell
> checkers, is yet another example of why this notes file is turning
> people *away*.
>
> More and more, people are becoming "read only's" while the self
> proclaimed keepers of the faith continue to argue away and make points
> for themselves.
Well, it usually takes two sides to sustain a continuing
series of points and counterpoints. Either side should be
able to stop it, no?
Bob
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9.308 | just don't get it? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Aug 21 1992 12:28 | 33 |
| re Note 505.9 by COVERT::COVERT:
> It appears the "agenda" of this conference is to apply the label "narrow-minded"
> to those who profess and proclaim that Christianity is defined by the belief
> that Jesus is God.
John,
Would you please give us a break here?
There is no "agenda" to this conference! Never was, never
will be.
Individuals who participate in this conference may or may not
have a personal agenda in so doing. For some the agenda may
be simply to have a challenging discussion about Christianity.
For others the agenda may very well be to call to question
the traditional majority Christian doctrines. For yet others
the agenda may be to defend traditional Christian orthodoxy.
All are welcome to participate regardless of their agenda as
long as that agenda is consistent with Digital corporate
guidelines for such conferences.
If it is fair to infer that the '"agenda" of this conference
is to apply the label "narrow-minded" to those who profess
and proclaim that Christianity is defined by the belief that
Jesus is God', then it is equally true that the agenda of this
conference is to 'proclaim that Christianity is defined by
the belief that Jesus is God', since there are very active
participants who have been doing just this.
Bob
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9.309 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Aug 21 1992 12:29 | 6 |
| Correct Bob,
However, if I want to add something to the conversation, and its
being dominated by these type of people, I will most likely *NOT*
respond...that is what I mean.
Marc H.
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9.310 | Can we talk? | YAMS::FERWERDA | Displaced Beiruti | Sat Aug 22 1992 23:29 | 44 |
| As someone who falls into the camp that has sometimes been labeled as
"narrow-minded", I've been doing a lot of thinking about the dialog
between both sides, especially given the Republican National Convention
this past week.
I see on one side, folks who believe in absolutes that apply to all
people in all times. On the other side are the folks whose only
absolute is that no one should tell them that there are absolutes. The
folks on the absolute side feel they have to confront every example of
an absolute being trashed in order to preserve truth. The folks on the
non-absolute side take it as an insult that someone else insists that an
absolute applies to them.
I believe that there can be dialog but it takes work on both sides.
The disagreement is often much deeper than the issue being discussed
since the fundamental assumptions about the world, man, God, etc. are
so different. We need to make those assumptions explicit where we can
to reduce additional misunderstanding of where we're starting from.
The problem comes when folks on both sides feel insulted or that they
aren't respected. Speaking as someone on the "narrow-minded" side that
sees myself as fundamentally flawed and sinful, I have to remember that
folks who don't accept what to me is a fundamental assumption are not
necessarily going to cheerfully embrace the distinction I make between
the person and their actions. I can say, God's love for an individual
is the ONLY thing that gives them worth, all other sources of
self-worth will eventually let them down, and then say "that action is
wrong", without meaning to insult. The person on the receiving end of
my "point", may see any condemnation of their actions to be a
condemnation of their worth as an individual, which is not what I
intend or condone (sp?).
Both sides, I think see the other as arrogant.
Although I'm not sure we can have a dialog between the two sides, I'm
willing to try. I'm also willing to try to bend over backward to not
insult without being false to what I see as the truth, hoping that
those on the receiving end will cut me a little slack for my "handicap"
of being stuck with absolutes. 8-)
Peace,
Paul
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9.311 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Sun Aug 23 1992 21:40 | 5 |
| re Note 9.310 by YAMS::FERWERDA:
Thanks, Paul; that was quite thoughtful.
Bob
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9.312 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | movers and shakers | Sun Aug 23 1992 23:55 | 20 |
| Re .310,
I agree with you, Paul. Both sides, the absolutist and non-absolutist,
_must_ enter into dialog. It might help if both sides could identify
a reason they both share as to why this dialog is important. This
would help to address the arrogance you speak of and foster a more
"listening and open heart" in both.
Currently in the socio-political arena, that shared reason, or common
ground, has not yet been created or articulated. Instead, it seems
we're polarizing to even further extremes. Given that this country
is composed primarily of a two-party body politic, perhaps polarization
is inevitably the nature of the beast?
Still, I pray for personal courage and Divine Grace to dialog openly,
honestly and respectfully with one another.
*Thanks* for your thoughts,
Karen
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9.313 | on ridicule | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Aug 26 1992 15:23 | 22 |
| The issue has come up, from time to time, that it is unfair
to "ridicule" the beliefs of particular denominations.
"Ridicule", as define by the dictionary I have at hand, is
"speech or action intended to cause contemptuous laughter".
"Ridicule" is therefore defined by intention, and therefore
cannot be directly observed.
The unabridged dictionary I am using (Random House) goes on
to give usage notes. It states that "TO RIDICULE is to make
fun of, either sportively and good-humoredly, or unkindly
with the intention of humiliating" (there goes that word,
"intention", again!).
Thus, to ridicule is not always to be unfair or intend harm.
What is the boundary between ridicule and mere criticism? I
observe that in the U.S. political field, the most common and
apparently successful form of criticism does appear to be
ridicule. Is it unfair?
Bob
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9.314 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Wed Aug 26 1992 15:52 | 9 |
| We're not called by Christ to be "successful". So while we can discuss
if ridicule is successful criticism, that's really besides the point.
The point is that making a person or the beliefs a person the object of
laughter is immoral.
Recall the last sin of men against Jesus was not the crucifixion.
No, after Jesus was on the Cross and dying, he continued to be mocked
to the end.
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9.315 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | deep voices in the amazone | Wed Aug 26 1992 16:20 | 30 |
|
Patrick,
While you have expressed your indignation you have done little else
to defend the Catholic Church. Rather than point out a specific way
to not defend the faith I will suggest how you could and do it in an
enguaging fashon as well.
I would suggest presenting us with a copy of "In Humane Vitae" which
I understand is the clear statement of the Church regarding several
issues here. While I may disagree with Catholic Churches stance on
many things I would be inclined to regard serious presentation of
same as valid and worthy of discussion. Replies generally without
prior substance stating that's just the way it is are uninformative
and devoid of scriptures as backup. By using that document as an
example you would have presented the Catholic interpretation of the
Bible and how it supports the faith. A defense of this kind is logical
and sincere and bridges many Christian faiths. It is likely to be
interesting to those that don't believe as well.
Regarding Menchen, A simple explanations of who he was and what he
is known for would have been informative.
Peace,
Allison
PS: AHD: Bemuse; to confuse, stupify. My comment in 508.37 was not
of amusement, but born out of bewilderment!
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9.316 | Is it the author? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Aug 26 1992 16:55 | 16 |
| re Note 508.47 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:
> Since you asked, the quotation in .27 is not an invitation to
> respectful discussion of the Christian perspective on birth control,
> but a mocking wisecrack of an anti-Christian and anti-Catholic bigot.
>
> It makes Roman Catholic belief the object of laughter.
Pat,
Would it have made any difference if Mike had made a similar
observation to Mencken's in his own words? (In fact, I and
others have done this in the Catholic-Theology and Christian
conferences over the years.)
Bob
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9.317 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Wed Aug 26 1992 21:22 | 10 |
| When you are presented with an ridiculous claim, it's a simple matter
to dismiss it and move on. What serious view of birth control has been
presented in that note that merits a discussion, perhaps Richard's
assertion that natural family planning is also contrary to God's will.
As for the message versus the messenger: It would not be possible for
me to judge the intent of a participant here. Mencken's life was full
of contempt, hatred, and bigotry for Christians, especially Catholics,
Jews, Blacks, Jews, women, in fact, everyone except the native-born
irreligious Americans of whom he is the saint.
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9.318 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | deep voices in the amazone | Wed Aug 26 1992 21:52 | 31 |
|
< When you are presented with an ridiculous claim, it's a simple matter
< to dismiss it and move on. What serious view of birth control has been
< presented in that note that merits a discussion, perhaps Richard's
< assertion that natural family planning is also contrary to God's will.
Patrick,
Responses like that are why some will never be taken serious. To me
there are the sins of religious vanity:
Rather than answer that I'll pray for you...
Because, it says right here...
that ridiculous claim, I'll dismiss that.
Those statements are offensive, rude, contemptous, and condesending
but I've heard them much too often. It contributes nothing to any
discussion, save maybe to send the searcher on their way unanswered.
< As for the message versus the messenger: It would not be possible for
< me to judge the intent of a participant here. Mencken's life was full
< of contempt, hatred, and bigotry for Christians, especially Catholics,
< Jews, Blacks, Jews, women, in fact, everyone except the native-born
< irreligious Americans of whom he is the saint.
Are you sure you really wanted to post that last sentence? It is rather
hateful and bigoted.
peace,
Allison
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9.320 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Wed Aug 26 1992 22:58 | 7 |
| When a claim is made that is ridiculous I will dismiss it.
When a claim is made that I consider to be of merit to discuss, I will.
What standard do you apply to Notes?
Readers can judge for themselves if the claim is serious, ridiculous,
or an appeal to bigotry.
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9.321 | I have to agree | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Wed Aug 26 1992 23:29 | 8 |
| Note 9.320
> Readers can judge for themselves if the claim is serious, ridiculous,
> or an appeal to bigotry.
Verily, most readers and most of the time.
Richard
|
9.319 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Wed Aug 26 1992 23:51 | 35 |
| Note 9.317
> What serious view of birth control has been
> presented in that note that merits a discussion, perhaps Richard's
> assertion that natural family planning is also contrary to God's will.
What I actually said in Note 508.48 was:
> Practicing NFP, after all, could be considered choosing to deny
>life also, could it not? I mean, perhaps I have a false notion of what NFP
>is all about, but NFP seems to me to be a pretty contrived way of
>controlling reproduction.
By introducing the possibility of my own misconception I practically paved the
way for you to explain why you believe NFP is the will of God. You may choose
to ignore that opportunity. It's your decision.
But, please hear this:
I don't hate Catholics. I won't bother with the 'some of my best friends' line,
even though it's true. The last Marriage Encounter weekend my spouse and I
were on was Roman Catholic. I take pride in having served 2 years as a chaplain
in a hospital owned and operated by the Sisters of Charity. I have exchanged
hand written correspondence and had phone conversations with Bishop Thomas
Gumbleton. I have worked closely in conjunction with the Roman Catholic
diocese of Colorado Springs on a number of issues of mutual concern.
We don't hate Catholics here. But I get the distinct impression that you
believe most of us here do. I get the distinct impression that you believe
that one of our primary objectives here is to persecute either Catholicism
or the Holy Roman Catholic Church. If that is so, then you are most
profoundly in error.
That is all.
Richard
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9.322 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Aug 27 1992 09:49 | 9 |
| Re: Pat and catholic bashing....
Pat, you are wrong...period. There is no hidden agenda. Its in your
own mind, really.
I think that you have the feeling that C-P is the same as soapbox.
It isn't.
Marc H.
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9.323 | confused about your standard | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Aug 27 1992 10:14 | 24 |
| re Note 9.320 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:
> When a claim is made that is ridiculous I will dismiss it.
> When a claim is made that I consider to be of merit to discuss, I will.
>
> What standard do you apply to Notes?
I am really confused, then.
As I pointed out elsewhere, I too questioned whether the
choice of technologies involved in NFP vs. chemical vs.
barrier made any substantial difference. Mencken's
statement, as quoted, states what I wrote more concisely but
uses no words or phrasing that is generally used to taunt or
mock. (I confess next to no knowledge of Mencken, thus I
judges his words without reference to his heart, life, or
reputation.)
Mencken's statement is in no way a prima facie ridiculous
claim (in fact, the quote is literally a claim that the
church was making a ridiculous claim -- but that in itself
isn't ridicule or mockery).
Bob
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9.324 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Fri Aug 28 1992 23:53 | 14 |
| Note 508.108
> The overall context here for CP participants to take shots at Roman
> Catholic teaching on marriage and family life.
Allegations of persecution again, eh??
Were it true you could take comfort from Jesus' words about being persecuted.
But you can't.
So, are you ready to propose some constructive suggestions yet?
Pax Christi,
Richard
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9.325 | It has to do with heat and kitchens ... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Bubba for President! | Sat Aug 29 1992 01:41 | 5 |
| I would quote a very famous phrase by Harry Truman .. but it would
serve no purpose other than to alienate people .. so ... you can fill
in the blanks.
Bubba
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9.326 | Welcome to CP: The Church of What's Happening Now | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sat Aug 29 1992 01:55 | 9 |
| It's just not PC here in CP to claim that there is any moral or theological
standard associated with Christianity.
If you do so, people take pot shots.
Jesus commands the faithful believer to stay in the kitchen and face the
heat.
/john
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9.327 | talk about pot shots! | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Sat Aug 29 1992 08:45 | 13 |
| re Note 9.326 by COVERT::COVERT:
> It's just not PC here in CP to claim that there is any moral or theological
> standard associated with Christianity.
Ah, com'on! If there is a Catholic-related issue in these
recent discussions at all, it is whether the Roman Catholic
teaching authority is to be taken as inerrant and binding
without question.
If that's PC, then Martin Luther and Calvin were PC.
Bob
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9.328 | Question | MORO::BEELER_JE | Bubba for President! | Sat Aug 29 1992 14:19 | 3 |
| Was Christ "PC"?
Bubba
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9.329 | | SOLVIT::MSMITH | So, what does it all mean? | Sat Aug 29 1992 15:08 | 1 |
| Christ was actually a bit of a revolutionary, methinks.
|
9.330 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Sat Aug 29 1992 20:29 | 3 |
| Christ was not PC 2000 years ago. He is not PC now either.
Alfred
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9.331 | 10-4 | MORO::BEELER_JE | Bubba for President! | Sun Aug 30 1992 14:07 | 3 |
| Precisely my point, Mr. Thompson.
Bubba
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9.332 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Thu Sep 17 1992 16:33 | 11 |
| Nanci 91.1555,
I understand and appreciate your intent, but if we didn't represent
such an enormous threat, Patrick wouldn't say anything!
He's providing an invaluable service for us as a barometer. And so,
I'd really rather keep him here.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.333 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Sep 17 1992 17:09 | 3 |
| Disparagement and ridicule of Christianity is routine in
CHRISITAN-PERSPECTIVE. It certainly seems "welcome" when the
moderators set the tone for the conference.
|
9.334 | It all depends on whose bull is being gored | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Thu Sep 17 1992 17:34 | 11 |
| I am simply a commentator. I don't claim to be objective. Much of what
I say is supposed to be funny and I believe is funny. My calling is
simply to call into question to the conservative Christian's smug
satisfaction with the status quo.
If I was Rush Limbaugh doing the "disparagement and ridicule", Patrick
would be cheering me on.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.335 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Sep 17 1992 17:44 | 12 |
| I disagree, Patrick, that Christianity is routinely ridiculed here.
Certain doctrines are examined, cross-examined, and/or commented upon,
as well as various Biblical passages, and demoninations such as UU's,
JW's, Quakerism, and Catholicism, to name a few.
Sometimes emotions run high in certain topics and are reflected thusly
in notes written with tones of sarcasm and, yes, sometimes, ridicule.
But from what I've seen, you're no stranger at lapsing into these
types of comments from time to time yourself...as am I.
Karen
|
9.336 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Sep 17 1992 18:13 | 4 |
| I believe Richard has it right. Christianity is the target of
contempt, humor and sarcasm here.
I respect Christianity and the sincere beliefs of others.
|
9.337 | perceptions and expectations... | BSS::VANFLEET | Don't it make you wanna dance? | Thu Sep 17 1992 18:17 | 49 |
| Patrick -
I was merely suggesting that perhaps your expectations of the purpose
of this conference are unrealistic. I see some people who disagree
with what you say and they are called "disparaging and ridiculing
Christianity" and yet I don't see those who disagree with you levelling
the same charges on you. So the conclusion that I came to was that the
reality of what C-P is is not in alignment with your expectations of
what you think it _should_ be.
There are several different ways in which to resolve this misalliance,
so to speak:
1. You can change your expectations of what C-P is.
(In MHO, unlikely given what I've read, but possible.)
2. We can change the nature of C-P to align with your personal
belief system.
(Highly unlikely since, as I see it, C-P in reality is very
closely aligned with the intent of those who conceived it.)
3. You can find a conference that fills your expectations.
(GOLF::CHRISTIAN)
4. We can leave you here, you can make C-P what you think it
_should_ be and we can all go someplace else and recreate the
intent of this conference elsewhere.
(A little ridiculous, don't you think?)
I'm sure there are other alternatives but this was all I could come up
with at the moment.
Patrick, I respect your faith. It is obvious that you hold it with
great fervor and passion. There are others of us who hold our own
faith with no less commitment and passion as you hold yours. I would
not have you change your faith any more than I would change the nature
of God as I understand Him. And I would ask for the same respect for
my faith from you. Granted, you have the right to refuse to honor me
in this request. That is your right. However, as someone once said,
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not
in this world to live up to mine.
And as for God's expectations? Well, I think the best any of us can do
in this world is to live up to what we *believe* God's expectations of
us are as we *perceive* them to be.
Nanci
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9.338 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Sep 17 1992 18:26 | 5 |
| Perhaps the reason that I am not "charged" with disparaging and
ridiculing Christianity by the people I disagree with is because as a
factual matter I do not disparage and ridicule Christianity.
My expectations of CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE are irrelevant.
|
9.339 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Thu Sep 17 1992 18:44 | 7 |
| .336
You are wrong. But I'm sure there is nothing I could say that would
convince you of that.
Richard
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9.341 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Thu Sep 17 1992 18:48 | 10 |
| Note 9.338
> Perhaps the reason that I am not "charged" with disparaging and
>ridiculing Christianity by the people I disagree with is because as a
>factual matter I do not disparage and ridicule Christianity.
Correction. You do not disparage or ridicule traditional perspectives.
Richard
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9.342 | God is *NOT* "Mother, Lover, Friend" | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Sep 17 1992 19:05 | 6 |
| Chrisitianity is a historical religion.
The new secular religion that is not based on the bible or the traditions
of the historical Church is not Christianity.
/john
|
9.343 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Thu Sep 17 1992 19:53 | 9 |
| Thank you, /john (.342). That is one possible perspective. To me
Christianity has a rich history; a history of triumph, of turmoil,
of tragedy. We have much to gain from our history, and much to
avoid repeating.
I believe God *is* Mother, Lover and Friend, among other descriptors.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.344 | Are you willing? | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Sep 18 1992 08:55 | 16 |
| Mr. Sweeney,
Someday, perhaps soon, I would love to have the opportunity
to witness to you about the Jesus Christ I know. The love and care he
brought to the world. The one who came not to condem the world but that
through him it might be saved. The one who commanded that we love our
neighbors as ourselves and show that love to the world. Jesus, who
though reviled continue to love and witness to a lost and dying world.
Ridiculed for his words, he returned hate and condemnation with love and
truth. Who spoke to all of us about turning the other cheek.
Seeing what you have written over the last several months
I feel inclined to ask you if I could witness to you.
Dave
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9.345 | Wrong | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Sep 18 1992 09:02 | 6 |
| Re: .333
No, YOUR version of what YOU think Christianity is is being discuss,
and YOU think its being ridiculed.
Marc H.
|
9.346 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Marilyn Monroe was a Russian spy! | Fri Sep 18 1992 09:23 | 81 |
| After being away from this notes file, I have a few reflections to
offer.
It is not the moderators per se, but *all* of the participants who set
the tone of this conference. In GOLF::CHRISTIAN, where the moderators
are heavy handed and rigidly control what can and can't be said, the
situation is probably different, but here the conference is shaped by
everyone who participates.
Noting styles vary considerably. Some styles are warm and friendly,
others cold and hostile. To what extent various notes personalities
mirror the actual flesh-and-blood personalities probably depends on the
individual. And when a lot of people who are nice to each other get
together into a notes community, they can form a warm and caring
community. On the other hand, when someone comes into that community
with a predisposition of hostility, that also sets a tone--a negative
one, in this case.
It is sometimes hard to judge whether or not those who are impersonal
and unfriendly to others in notes are actually that way in real life.
It is also difficult to judge people who come from different parts of
the U.S. or the world. For example, there is a stereotype among many
Americans about New Yorkers being brusque, rude, and obnoxious. I
think that to a certain extent you have to get beyond superficial
appearances and realize that the stereotypical New York style of
interacting may not be meant to be as obnoxious as it might appear. On
the other hand, I have met my share of nice New Yorkers, so maybe it
isn't fair to the nice ones to say of the others, "Oh, he's not a jerk,
he's just from New York".
But how noting styles affect others in a community is worth
considering. For example, there is one noting style that I will
call--let's see, oh, for want of a better name, the Sweevert style of
noting. It can be characterized by the following traits:
o Identify certain people as the enemy, based on the fact that they
have different opinions than your own.
o Once you have determined who your enemies are, make sure that you
do not engage in any behavior that would break the ice, make the
discussions more personal, acknowledge your enemy as a feeling
human being, or otherwise build a sense of community with them.
Jesus may have said that you should love your enemies, but that
doesn't mean you have to be nice to them. Specifically:
- Avoid all forms of small talk or banter. And NEVER use
a smiley face (it is optionally permissible to use smiley
faces with sarcastic comments, but if smiley faces are not
your style then you should just avoid them altogether.)
- Refuse to address your enemy directly by name. That would
be far too personal and friendly.
- Refuse to engage your enemy directly in a dialogue.
That includes asking no questions of them, and
responding to any questions that they put to you by
accusing them of baiting you or of putting down your
faith, or at best giving them a brusque one-sentence
reply (see below). It doesn't matter what they say to
you, this always works. For example, if someone says to
you, "Hi, how's the weather down where you live?", accuse
them of ridiculing your religion, or tell them that the
weather is not relevant, or that your own opinion of the
weather is not relevant.
o Cast all notes in the form of theological or some other kind of
pronouncements. This means using paragraphs with only one or two
sentences at most, thus giving each sentence greater impact and
meaning. This will also lend an air of talking down to others.
When responding to an individual comment (although not addressing
the author by name) with a simple one sentence paragraph, you
also indicate to them that one sentence is all their comment
deserves.
I think the key point about the Sweevert mode of noting is that a notes
file is not viewed as a community in which you wish to take part. Your
job is to deliver a message, as pointedly and directly as possible, and
you have no time for social interaction with the boors who participate
there. It is spreading your message of the Truth to a wider audience
that matters. The other people in the notes file are sources of
opinions to differ with, no more and no less. Any personal side to the
discussions here are to be dispensed with as irrelevant.
-- Mike
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9.347 | Jesus did not teach his followers that anything goes | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Sep 18 1992 09:24 | 11 |
| re .344
Do you plan to witness to what Jesus Christ taught about obedience to
God and living a life of holiness, or do you plan to witness to the
modern American secular "anything goes" religion? The Church of What's
Happening Now?
Permissiveness towards sin and a denial of the truth of the Holy Scriptures
are not in accordance with the commandment to love thy neighbor as thyself.
/john
|
9.348 | Sure Got that Right! | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Sep 18 1992 09:27 | 5 |
| Re: .346
Well said Mike! Right on target.
Marc H.
|
9.349 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Sep 18 1992 11:08 | 14 |
| RE: .347 Mr. Covert,
I would plan to witness to what the Bible really
said about obedience and judgements. They were/are directed at the
individual and not to be "forced" on groups. In other words....We are
to deal with ourselves as individuals. Kinda like the mote in my eye
while I look at the splinter in other's eyes. The biblical lifestyle
directly refers to the individual. I would witness to the saving grace
of Jesus Christ and not worry about what my prejudices are. I believe
that Jesus can change the individual if its needed if the person has a
relationship with Christ based on love and truth.
Dave
|
9.350 | | JURAN::SILVA | If it weren't for you meddling kids.... | Fri Sep 18 1992 11:45 | 9 |
|
Dave, that was really nice. Thanks for posting that.
Glen
|
9.351 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Sep 18 1992 12:03 | 5 |
| You're absolutely right, Dave.
What makes you think that Pat Sweeney does not see Christ exactly the same way?
/john
|
9.354 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Tue Sep 22 1992 09:24 | 14 |
| RE: .351 Mr. Covert,
Forgive me for not answering before now...Busy
ya know.
To answer your question, I really wish Mr. Sweeney had
deemed to answer, but since your his surrogate so-to-speak, I'll say
this to you. I have sensed a lot of anger in his answers and his many
claims of persecution. I would love to see a change to a more positive
aspect of Christianity....sharing the witnes of Christ for example.
Dave
|
9.355 | Is God's Truth compatible with Individual Truth? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Sep 22 1992 09:57 | 15 |
| Dave,
What do you think the witness of Christ is?
Certainly it is that God loves you and provides salvation to all. That's
the easy part though. Salvation is a free gift, but it requires a response.
The witness of Jesus is that the required response is living a life in
accordance with God's commandments.
Those who bear this witness are often subject to ridicule (and the Bible
even says that this will be so) by those who would prefer to follow their
own definition of God and morality, rather than the commandments of God.
/john
|
9.356 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Wed Sep 23 1992 16:53 | 16 |
| Note 519.81
> In any case, is the new dialog
> suppression tactic for CP to doubt the sincerity of people one
> disagrees with?
I thought you said you didn't engage in ridicule and disparagement.
> You're own position is supported by citing your references and
> diminished when don't.
Thanks for the tactical advice, but I'm not interested in debate. This is
*not* SOAPBOX.
Richard
|
9.357 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Wed Sep 23 1992 21:05 | 14 |
| >Note 516.12
> -< The Christian Perspective >-
There you go again, /john, defining for us all what the one true Christian
perspective is.
It's an interesting approach. But I'm of the firm belief that readers and
contributors in C-P are intelligent enough to make such determinations for
themselves.
In Christ's light,
Richard
|
9.358 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | Formally, recovering well! | Wed Sep 23 1992 21:27 | 34 |
|
> -< The Christian Perspective >-
John,
My understanding of this is you are saying this is how I percieve
it from the Christian perspective as I know it. I am of course
substituting "My" for the "The". I am not saying your alone in your
views either, only that I would expect you speak for yourself not as
the spoksman for everyone.
A sampling of similar statements:
A Christian(s') perspective
One Christian(s') perspective
From a Christian(s') perspective
And we have:
The Christian Perspective
It is easier for me to respect you and your personal views over
someone espousing the official view even if they are the same.
Am I being harsh? Yes, a bit. For that I apologise. The strident
tone is to harsh to me and next_unseen is tempting. You have said
important things and I'm not always receptive to the presentation.
I have to listen hard to hear, why make it harder to be heard?
I bid you well,
Allison
|
9.359 | The Independent Thinker's Perspective | MORO::BEELER_JE | Unity without uniformity! | Wed Sep 23 1992 22:41 | 17 |
| .357> It's an interesting approach. But I'm of the firm belief that
.357> readers and contributors in C-P are intelligent enough to make
.357> such determinations for themselves.
Thank you. My first "impression" of this conference was that of
a great deal of diversity in opinions. Quite frankly, as of late
I've seen a lot of "this-is-the-way-that-it-is" that you reference
Richard. You're right. I have a brain and I intend to use it.
.358> Am I being harsh? Yes, a bit. For that I apologize. The strident
.358> tone is to harsh to me and next_unseen is tempting.
Am I being harsh? Yep. I don't apologize. I'm sick of it. Sure, I
respect it, just that I'm sick of it. <NEXT UNSEEN> is not only tempting
but comes in quite handy as of late.
Bubba
|
9.360 | Not just a perspective, but THE CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Sep 23 1992 23:00 | 3 |
| Is it not the Christian Perspective that there is One and only One God?
Not MY perspective, but THE CHRISTIAN perspective.
|
9.361 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Wed Sep 23 1992 23:47 | 10 |
| .360
It wasn't just that particular note, /john.
It's not about monotheism, /john.
Are you saying you have no idea to what we're referring, /john?
Richard
|
9.362 | A blessing for the lions of Diocletian | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Wed Sep 23 1992 23:49 | 10 |
| Agenda:
How much of what has been taught for nearly 20 centuries in support of
Christ and His Church can be rejected...
How much of what has been taught for nearly 20 centuries in opposition
to Christ and His Church can be accepted...
in order to have a Christian perspective
|
9.363 | Response to "agenda" | LJOHUB::NSMITH | rises up with eagle wings | Thu Sep 24 1992 10:23 | 13 |
| RE: .362
A Christian's perspective cannot be validated or invalidated by measuring
some quantity of teachings. *Most* who note here are interested in
discussing the *meaning and value* of various different Christian
perspectives (note the use of the plural!), not in counting them and
^
assigning them to various "camps." You seem to be interested only in
fighting -- almost literally at times -- for one very narrow and
specific set of beliefs. Thus you frequently alienate others who
might otherwise listen to, and learn from, *your* perspective.
|
9.364 | not rejection but questioning and examination | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Sep 24 1992 10:27 | 38 |
| re Note 9.362 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:
> How much of what has been taught for nearly 20 centuries in support of
> Christ and His Church can be rejected...
>
> How much of what has been taught for nearly 20 centuries in opposition
> to Christ and His Church can be accepted...
As others (and myself) have pointed out, neither numbers nor
longevity prove anything about a specific doctrine or tenet.
As an example, for the last 20 centuries there has been
strong disagreement among believers in the Old Testament
about the nature of the New Testament: some believe it to be
a continuation in complete harmony, others (which a MUCH
longer tradition) believe it to be blasphemy. What does it
prove?
As a consequence, it is quite reasonable for a believer in
the God of Abraham to reject the perspective of "nearly 20
centuries in support of Christ and His Church" as having
anything to do with the God of Abraham.�
The question isn't whether any or all of 20 centuries of
teaching can be rejected or accepted; the question is
whether any or all of 20 centuries of teaching can be
questioned and examined.
Bob
---------------
�(I do not share this conclusion, but I do agree that a
reasonable person could hold this position. Conservative
Christians have always told Jews that "our God is the same as
your God" even while claiming that the God of sects such as
the Mormons, Jehovah's Witnesses cannot be the same as our
God.)
|
9.365 | a good topic for discussion, anyway | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Sep 24 1992 10:32 | 16 |
| re Note 522.1 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> Prompted by Note 23.77:
>
> >For those of you foolish enough to contest this,
> >it's not worthwhile going into details and/or discussions.
> >Can't you see?! Are you so blind?!
>
> I got the impression that some wanted to go into detail and/or discussion
> concerning the creation story.
I think Collis was pulling our leg by giving us his
impression of how some of the other participants have been
noting as of late, but I might be wrong.
Bob
|
9.366 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Sep 24 1992 11:13 | 16 |
| The creation account is a case where there may be several perspectives
that could all be considered "The Christian Perspective," positions that
one could hold and not be in serious conflict with the historic teachings
of Christianity.
However, there are definitely non-Christian perspectives.
"The Christian Perspective" (and for that matter, the perspective of Judaism)
is that a pre-existing, transcendent God created _everything_ that exists
_out_of_nothing_.
How he did it, and how literal (not how true) the biblical account is can lead
to different Christian Perspectives.
Perspectives that make creation a part of God, that have God actually giving
birth to the universe, are not a Christian Perspective.
|
9.367 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Thu Sep 24 1992 11:14 | 10 |
| Re: 9.357
>But I'm of the firm belief that readers and contributors in C-P are
>intelligent enough to make such determinations for themselves.
Ah, but intelligence is not the only (or even the most significant)
part of the equation (which is not a comment on John or his noting,
but only a comment on Richard's response).
Collis
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9.368 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Sep 24 1992 11:45 | 12 |
| re: .366 (/john)
> Perspectives...that have God actually giving birth to the universe,
are not a Christian Perspective. <
Oh, I'm not so sure about that. :-) There's many well-known Christian
mystics who'd disagree with you. (i.e. Meister Eckart, Hildegard of
Bingen, Teresa of Avila, Fr. Matthew Fox)
Does the word "birth" somehow emasculate your image of God?
Karen
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9.369 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Sep 24 1992 11:55 | 7 |
| Oh I get it.
When the tradition of nearly 20 centuries of teaching about Christ and
his Church is rejected is it "questioning" and "seeking validation".
When the tradition of nearly 20 centuries of teaching about Christ and
his Church is defined and accepted it is "fighting".
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9.371 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Sep 24 1992 12:02 | 7 |
| In context, the word "birth" as used by these Christian mystics affirms
the Christian perspective of creation as an act of the Divine Will from
nothing and only by distortion can be used to support pantheism.
Fr. Matthew Fox, as I understand it, has made a formal renunciation of
his Dominican vows, has been released from his order, and is seeking a
release from his obligations as a Roman Catholic priest.
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9.372 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Bat child escapes! | Thu Sep 24 1992 12:06 | 14 |
| >"The Christian Perspective" (and for that matter, the perspective of Judaism)
>is that a pre-existing, transcendent God created _everything_ that exists
>_out_of_nothing_.
That's one man's opinion.
>Perspectives that make creation a part of God, that have God actually giving
>birth to the universe, are not a Christian Perspective.
That is also one man's opinion. In certain ways process theology
presents a conception of God that is closer to the Bible's portrayal
than the theistic philosophy of Anselm and Aquinas does.
-- Mike
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9.373 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Bat child escapes! | Thu Sep 24 1992 12:08 | 7 |
| >In context, the word "birth" as used by these Christian mystics affirms
>the Christian perspective of creation as an act of the Divine Will from
>nothing and only by distortion can be used to support pantheism.
No one here that I know have has advocated pantheism.
-- Mike
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9.374 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Sep 24 1992 12:15 | 11 |
| Re: .369
> Oh I get it.
No, I don't think so, Patrick.
(Are you even remotely interested in "getting it?")
Curiously,
Karen
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9.375 | "birth" and belief | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Sep 24 1992 12:15 | 9 |
| We're dealing here with the inherent ambiguity of "birth" applied to
the denial of Christian belief of God who created everything from
nothing.
What belief system is affirmed by such a denial?
In my reading of works opposing Christianity it is pantheism. Once
people get back the simple denial of Christian beliefs, we'll both see
what beliefs they hold.
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9.376 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Bat child escapes! | Thu Sep 24 1992 14:08 | 5 |
| The distinction is between pantheism and panentheism. While I would
describe myself as a panentheist, I would definitely not describe
myself as a pantheist.
-- Mike
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9.377 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Sep 24 1992 14:18 | 3 |
| <--- And panentheism is both biblically-based and supported.
another panentheist
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9.378 | One more try... | BSS::VANFLEET | Que bummer! | Thu Sep 24 1992 14:29 | 15 |
| The point being that there is not necessarily ONE Christian Perspective
that is recognized and embraced by all of the noters in this file.
Patrick and John, YOUR Christian Perspective is YOURS. It does not
necessarily belong to the rest of the noters here. When C-P was begun
the moderators purposely left a definition of "Christian Perspective"
out of the file's guidelines so that all could present their OWN
Christian Perspective and learn from and share with each other. THAT
is the purpose of this notesfile, not to silence voices or convert or
to define that term for the rest of the noting public.
I don't know if I can be any clearer.
Sigh!
Nanci
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9.379 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Tue Sep 29 1992 21:13 | 15 |
| Note 525.2
> Too many terms have been co-opted by the religious right; I fight each
> attempt... "Born-again" has taken on a connotation that it did *not*
> have 20-30 years ago; "Christian" as defined in the notesfile of that
> name makes be cringe -- but I *refuse* to give up that identity!
I stand proudly beside you in this effort, Nancy.
I guess it's no secret that there are a few who resent the existance
of this conference and would like to see it undone. They're not hard to spot.
In Christ,
Richard
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9.380 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Wed Sep 30 1992 08:29 | 7 |
| > I guess it's no secret that there are a few who resent the existance
>of this conference and would like to see it undone. They're not hard to spot.
This same is of course true of the other conference. That has been
true since long before this one was created.
Alfred
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9.381 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Oct 05 1992 19:10 | 19 |
| > Patricia,
>
> i don't believe that your definition of normal and moral reflect a
> Christian perspective at all. If you think it does then how does it?
>
> thanks!
> jeff
Jeff, you don't seem to have figured out that in this conference, the
perspective on morality is the morality of today's hedonists.
Sort of "If it makes me feel good and I don't think it separates me from
God, then it won't, so it's not immoral." Everyone has their own personal
"Goddess/God" and life is just all hunky-dory.
Forget anything Judaism and Christianity have taught for 4000 years.
That's old fashioned and sexist.
/john
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9.382 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Mon Oct 05 1992 19:24 | 8 |
| .47
Well, that's certainly one possible perspective. Not a particularly
benign one or one that would encourage the participation of others,
but one that's possible, nevertheless.
Richard
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9.383 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Mon Oct 05 1992 21:42 | 4 |
| I'd rather place my beliefs in the words of the patriarchs, prophets,
apostles, and saints of 4000 years than in the trends of the moment.
That's my perspective.
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9.384 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:26 | 5 |
| It is obvious that John Covert neither understands the perspectives of
those he disagrees with in this notes file, nor is he interested in
doing so.
-- Mike
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9.385 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:35 | 8 |
| > It is obvious that John Covert neither understands the perspectives of
> those he disagrees with in this notes file, nor is he interested in
> doing so.
This is obvious and at least as true about Mike Valenza. I
do not believe it is true about John Covert.
Alfred
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9.386 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:37 | 4 |
| Unfortunately, Alfred, his comments in reply .381 show that he clearly
does not understand what he attacks.
-- Mike
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9.387 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:40 | 7 |
| > Unfortunately, Alfred, his comments in reply .381 show that he clearly
> does not understand what he attacks.
I would argue that .381 shows that he clearly *does* understand
what he attacks.
Alfred
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9.388 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:41 | 3 |
| Then you also clearly don't understand it.
-- Mike
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9.389 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:41 | 5 |
| > Then you also clearly don't understand it either.
Explain it to me.
Alfred
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9.390 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:48 | 8 |
| Maybe some other time, Alfred. While I would be interested in
discussing my own religious perspective with those who are interested
in serious and respectful dialogue with people from other perspectives.
Given the tone of .381, a note you have already said that you agree
with, this is clearly not the place for that type of discussion.
-- Mike
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9.391 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:50 | 9 |
| > Maybe some other time, Alfred. I am always interested in discussing my
> own religious perspective with those who are interested in serious and
> respectful dialogue with people from other perspectives.
I wish I could believe you but given the tone of your notes
throughout this conference I do not believe you have respect
for people who disagree with you.
Alfred
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9.392 | Blasphemy against the Holy Ghost is its formal name | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:50 | 24 |
| Oh, but I do understand it:
The sinner must admit to himself that he has done wrong; he must face
the fact that he is a sinner. So long as the sinner refuses to
recognize what he did was wrong, he naturally does not ask for
forgiveness. The sinner has rationalized his actions, and has
convinced himself that his evil is not evil but good. Since he has
lost the sense of the difference between good and evil, he is not
sorry for what he has done.
Sex sinners sometimes are an illustration of this, whether sin be
adultery or homosexual practices, or some other form of sex sin. The
adulterer rationalizes his sin something like this: "I deserve
happiness is this life, and I am not happy with my wife, because she
doesn't do what I want her to do. Now, this other woman is sweet to
me, she wants to please me, she really devotes hersolf to making me
happy. She makes me happy, and I really love her. Therefore, even
though the Church calls our relationship adultery [or homosexual sin,
or fornication, or whatever] it is really a good thing because it
makes me happy. It is not really sin, even if it is contrary to one
of the Ten Commandments [or other constant teachings of the Church
for 4000 years]."
-- The Episcopal Church, Fr. Roy Pettway
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9.394 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 09:57 | 5 |
| Alfred, you obviously haven't been paying much attention to my notes,
then. Since you have admitted that you don't even read the user names
of notes when you read them, that is hardly surprising.
-- Mike
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9.395 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 10:02 | 8 |
| > Alfred, you obviously haven't been paying much attention to my notes,
> then. Since you have admitted that you don't even read the user names
> of notes when you read them, that is hardly surprising.
This reply shows that you don't read mine with any attempt
at understanding as it misstates what I said.
Alfred
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9.396 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 10:07 | 11 |
| Alfred, I find it interesting that when I pointed out that Mr. Covert's
note was nothing but a gross caracature, and an inaccurate attack
against people he disagreed with--even though this did not concern you
directly any sense, you felt the need to rise to his defense by
attacking me.
The Christian love you display in this notes file is enough to make me
want to go down on my knees and say, "Puh-rayze the Loh-ud! Ah've been
say-uved!"
-- Mike
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9.397 | as John has shown, his note was not inaccurate | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 10:15 | 9 |
| > Alfred, I find it interesting that when I pointed out that Mr. Covert's
> note was nothing but a gross caracature, and an inaccurate attack
> against people he disagreed with--even though this did not concern you
> directly any sense, you felt the need to rise to his defense by
> attacking me.
Your unfair attack aroused my sense of justice.
Alfred
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9.398 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 10:27 | 10 |
| Sorry, but John did not "show" that his note was not inaccurate. All
he did was "support" his caricature of views he disagreed with by
quoting from someone else who also shared his views. Note .392 was not
in any sense a "support" for his gross characterization of what those
who disagree with him allegedly believe.
Since unfair attacks arouse your sense of justice, then obviously you
should be aroused by Mr. Covert's vicious attack in note .381.
-- Mike
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9.399 | dialogue takes two - are you interested in it or just shutting down the other side? | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 10:30 | 4 |
| There has been no evidence that what John said was either
unfair or untrue.
Alfred
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9.400 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 11:03 | 31 |
| Let's start from the beginning, Alfred. (May I call you Alfred?)
Dialogue means making an honest effort at understanding what another
party believes, and a willingness to be corrected if one is wrong. It
doesn't preclude offering tentative speculation on what others might
believe, in an attempt at further understanding--as part of the overall
dialogue. But for that to happen, you have to offer your speculation
to the party you disagree with. (Of course, if one is smarter and
knows more than the rest of us, perhaps there is no possibility of him
ever being wrong in any tentative speculation.)
Here's a clue. If Mr. Covert were interested in understanding what
Patricia or others here believed, he could have directly addressed her,
posed a question containing his own interpretation of her views, and
said, "Is this an accurate assessment of what you believe?" But he
didn't address her, did he? He instead addressed a third party, and
offered his own characterization, beginning with the words, "you don't
seem to have figured out that..."
Telling a third party "you don't seem to have figured out that..." is a
time honored tactic for initiating a put down of another set of beliefs
and the people who subscribe to them. The whole point of the note is
to engage in a put down of what people X believe, by offering an
interpretation of where they *really* are coming from, by offering a
negative slant on it. There is no need for dialogue when you have
already offered your snide conclusions to a third party, is there?
Alfred, since you criticize me for being disrespectful of other points
of view, do you really believe that the contents of note .381 are in
any way respectful of the opinions he characterizes?
-- Mike
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9.401 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | waiting for the snow | Tue Oct 06 1992 11:05 | 25 |
| re 9.381
This note is a snide, offhanded attach against me. I am not a
Hedonist. Many of The messages and examples in the bible regarding human
sexuality can certainly be debated. They are absolutely sexist and
some have more regard for male property rights over woman than sexual
moralitly. None of the replies to my note had much to do with the
issue. The typical answer is well that certainly is not a Christian
Perspective, you Patricia certainly are a heretic and a hedonist and
definately not a Christian.
And what is the purpose of a Christian perspective. To attack others
whom are determined to be less Christian. Unfortunately there
has been a lot of that in the 2000 year history of Chistianity.
If I don't interpret the bible exactly the way someone else does than I
must be less Christian than they.
Is dialogue really possible? Is Christianity really one unified
religion.
Patricia
This is clearly name calling and attack and a complete disregard for my
perspective.
|
9.402 | in support | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Ro Reinke | Tue Oct 06 1992 11:32 | 17 |
| Patricia,
I also take Covert's notes as attacks against my beliefs as well.
As an Episcopalian, I find his words harmful as he implies he speaks
for all Episcopalians as well. The quotes he site in .392 which
speaks about adulterers implies that those of us with a different
Christian-Perspective are advocating adultery.
Why when I read his notes do I never feel compassion, concern, caring,
or love all the while he is professing his Christianity? Makes me sad
to feel his heart appears to be so hardened. He is in my prayers.
Please continue sharing your Christian perspective here, Patricia.
Many of us honor, respect, and often, share those views...
Ro
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9.403 | what is justice | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | waiting for the snow | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:05 | 21 |
| RE 9.385
Alfred
"I do not believe it is true about John Covert"
Does John's reply to me seem to either understand my perspective or
be interested in understanding my perspective. Are you interested in
understanding my perspective? You said you agreed with John's
response. Do you think his response was insulting to me?
Did his response ridicule my relationship with Goddess/God?
Do you think it is OK for him to insult me here?
Do you respond out of a impartial sense of justice or only justice to those
who share your views?
Please reread 9.381 before you respond.
Patricia
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9.404 | | FATBOY::BENSON | CLEAN THE HOUSE! | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:13 | 6 |
|
I believe Ms. Flanagan answered my original reply by saying that it was
not a Christian perspective but a human perspective or something like
that. That is enough for me.
jeff
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9.405 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:23 | 10 |
| The position of moral relativism that you advance as a Christian
perspective justifies hedonism.
You personally may not equate the pursuit of pleasure with submission
to the will of God, but if you argue that each person defines morality
according to their own desires and their own idea of the will of God,
they then may reason in this frame of reference that their pleasure is
the primary end of life.
God loves a good party.
|
9.406 | If ye love me, obey my commandments | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:32 | 18 |
| > Why when I read his notes do I never feel compassion, concern, caring,
> or love all the while he is professing his Christianity? Makes me sad
> to feel his heart appears to be so hardened. He is in my prayers.
We are called to love sinners, not to condone their sin or explain
it away with modern hedonistic ideas.
In the sermon preached last Sunday at Trinity Episcopal Church in Rutland,
Vermont, the Rector recalled the words of another Rutland clergyman, a
Roman Catholic Monsignor, who had just been buried last week. When
asked what is necessary to be a member of the Church, the Monsignor
replied, "all that is necessary is to be a sinner."
Condoning denial of the Church's teachings on sin is not love.
Compassion, concern, caring, and love are the call to obey God's
commandments.
/john
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9.407 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:36 | 52 |
| > Does John's reply to me seem to either understand my perspective or
> be interested in understanding my perspective.
Yes. John's reply was very much a restatement of how I interpreted
the perspective you and others have stated.
>Are you interested in
> understanding my perspective?
Of course. I would welcome a discussion that explains how what John
said does not reflect your opinion. Or that of others here. Obviously
what John said is how some peoples perspective is coming across to more
then one reader here.
>Do you think his response was insulting to me?
Insulting is often in the eye of the person being insulted. I do
not believe that John's response was flattering. I do not believe that
insult of a person was intended. John tends, in my experience, to use
a somewhat strident form at times. This tends to make some people feel
uncomfortable. And I do not believe that John's note singled out any
individual. Not you but a pervasive idea that runs though this
conference was criticized. Ideas not people.
> Did his response ridicule my relationship with Goddess/God?
I think John implied that the idea that there was no universal constant
for morality was not one that he believed to be correct and/or Christian.
But no I don't believe he ridiculed anyones relationship with their own
particular idea of God.
> Do you think it is OK for him to insult me here?
It appears to be ok for people to insult him, or me for that matter. If
you are asking if I feel you should have special privilege I would have
to answer no. Do you feel it should be more ok for people to insult him
or me than to insult you? If the answer is no, have you criticized
people who have insulted people you disagree with?
> Do you respond out of a impartial sense of justice or only justice to those
> who share your views?
A sense of justice is based on ones belief in right and wrong. I
respond when I believe justice is wronged. Certainly I respond when
when people who disagree with me are wronged. I would ask you the same
question.
> Please reread 9.381 before you respond.
Several times.
Alfred
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9.408 | Forgive me Father .. er... ah . .John ... | MORO::BEELER_JE | The few, the proud, the Marines | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:38 | 22 |
| .47> Jeff, you don't seem to have figured out that in this conference, the
.47> perspective on morality is the morality of today's hedonists.
Thank you, most omnipotent one, for this thumbnail summary of this
conference: "... in *this* conference ... *the* perspective .. *is* ...".
From all external appearances I need not read the conference, just ask
you for periodic summaries. Mea Culpa.
.47> Sort of "If it makes me feel good and I don't think it separates me from
.47> God, then it won't, so it's not immoral." Everyone has their own personal
.47> "Goddess/God" and life is just all hunky-dory.
Indeed. And from what I've seen as of late from some of the so-called
"Christians" in this conference - it's the same IDENTICAL way. You pick
and choose from the Bible whatever you want - use that to justify whatever
suits your fancy - and ignore the rest - and life is just all hunky-dory.
To use your own words ... "you don't seem to have figured out" ....
My sympathies.
Bubba
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9.409 | in reply to .402, by Ro Reinke, an Episcopalian | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:45 | 17 |
| >The quotes he cites in .392 which speaks about adulterers implies that those
>of us with a different Christian-Perspective are advocating adultery.
The quote is very clear that it speaks to sexual sinners, which is what
much of this conference is about; .381 it was first posted in a topic
advocating tolerance for homosexual sexual intercourse and moved here by
a moderator.
The official position of the Episcopal Church is that the only acceptable
expression of sexual love is within the lifelong union of husband and wife.
This position was affirmed at the last General Convention. Many Episcopalians
are shocked that the moral relativists were able to get a codasyl added which
states that the experience of many members is otherwise. That experience
does not change the constant teaching of the church; it merely shows how
much control the liberals have gained.
/john
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9.410 | Who you callin hedonist? | VIDSYS::PARENT | it's only a shell, mislabled | Tue Oct 06 1992 12:55 | 18 |
|
The official position of the Episcopal Church is that the only acceptable
expression of sexual love is within the lifelong union of husband and wife.
This position was affirmed at the last General Convention. Many Episcopalians
are shocked that the moral relativists were able to get a codasyl added which
states that the experience of many members is otherwise. That experience
does not change the constant teaching of the church; it merely shows how
much control the liberals have gained.
/john
Is that proof the liberals are in force or that the conservatives are
now trying to impose their law?
Polarization is easy to achieve, you have proven that repeatedly.
Pax Roma,
Allison
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9.411 | God loves a good party | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Tue Oct 06 1992 13:02 | 2 |
| Are you agreeing with the position that I entered earlier, namely that
the affirmation of moral relativism is inclusive of hedonism?
|
9.412 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 13:18 | 7 |
| >But no I don't believe he ridiculed anyones relationship with their own
>particular idea of God.
Yeah, right, that note was extremely respectful of the views he
characterized. How could I have missed that? :-)
-- Mike
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9.413 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | waiting for the snow | Tue Oct 06 1992 13:23 | 6 |
| Ro,
Thanks for the support.
Patricia
|
9.414 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 13:24 | 9 |
| >Thank you, most omnipotent one, for this thumbnail summary of this
>conference:
Actually, Jerry, I think the word you are looking for is "omniscient",
not omnipotent. Just because he is so much smarter and more
knowledgeable than the rest of us, that doesn't mean that he claims to
be all-powerful. :-)
-- Mike
|
9.415 | | MORO::BEELER_JE | The few, the proud, the Marines | Tue Oct 06 1992 13:42 | 7 |
| Mike ...
Mea Culpa.
Pastor Bubba
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9.416 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 13:47 | 1 |
| Okay, Pastor. :-)
|
9.417 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 14:05 | 60 |
| A further example of the lack of attempt at serious understanding of
the issues involved is the use of the term "moral relativists" to
characterize those with a different position than their own. Along
with "hedonism" (which has been used despite the fact that no one here
has called him or herself a hedonist, and one--Patricia--has explicitly
denied being a hedonist), these terms are used as a kind of
intellectual shorthand. By attaching these labels, which the people so
labeled don't use to describe themselves, with the intended negative
connotation, people are thus boxed into categories and the depth of
their views ignored.
Who is a moral relativist? The way it is being bandied about here, it
would seem to be "anyone who doesn't share the exact same views on
morality that I do." I don't know of anyone here, including the
alleged "moral relativists", who think that all morality is relative,
that whatever people think is right is okay, or that the pursuit of
pleasure is the highest principle.
For one thing, the basis of the sexual morality that is being attacked
here is a belief in love and compassion. Others may disagree that this
morality is truly loving and compassionate, but the point is that there
*is* a firm principle involved, even if it is one that the critic
disagrees with. This is anything but a morally relative position that
says that everything is okay. In fact, it says just the
opposite--that what hurts is anything but okay, but in fact is very
much in the wrong. Far from an "anything goes" morality, this is a
morality which condemns certain actions as being morally wrong. Now
not every Christian need agree with this morality, and in fact many do
not. But for those who disagree with it to condemn it as "moral
relativist" and "hedonism" is to grossly caricature it and to fail to
understand that it, too, is founded on firm principles.
I come from the Midwest, and some conservative Protestant congregations
think (or used to think) that dancing and playing cards were evil.
Perhaps they label as "moral relativists" those who think it should be
left up to the beholder whether those activities are okay or not. The
fact is that people often identify CERTAIN activities as up to the
individual, and OTHERS as having strong moral content. As a pacifist,
I have my own strong moral beliefs about killing. I do, however,
respect and understand the views of those who are not pacifists and who
believe that killing is a necessary act in certain circumstances. I
don't endorse the idea of going around tossing labels at them and
saying, "you haven't yet figured out that these people are moral
relativists who think blah blah blah..."
The reality is that many of us have a set of firmly entrenched values
in some areas, and a less firmly entrenched set of values in other
areas. When my set of firm values coincides with yours, there is no
problem; but when there is a partial overlap and also a disjunction of
these two sets, that is when problems arise. My firm values are in
some cases the same, and in others different from those held by various
Christians. What I am firmly opposed to in some cases they are not so
firmly opposed to. And vice versa. But somehow *I* am the moral
relativist, and they are not. That is, of course, complete nonsense,
and to accuse people of moral relativist in those instances, and in
particular to accuse them of hedonism even when they explicitly deny
that is what they believe, is to engage in petty name calling and to
attack without attempting to understand.
-- Mike
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9.418 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Tue Oct 06 1992 14:18 | 9 |
| A further example of the lack of attempt at serious understanding of
the issues involved is to begin a reply with...
"A further example of the lack of attempt at serious understanding of
the issues involved ..."
What you deny to be moral relativism seems to be moral relativism. What
defines the boundries of beliefs that you do not hold but nevertheless
"respect and understand".
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9.419 | Let's stop beating around the bush | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 14:23 | 4 |
| Maybe we should stop using terms like "moral relativist" and "hedonist" and
just use the one we all understand: "sexual sinner."
/john
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9.420 | Re: .418 | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 14:25 | 16 |
| I don't know the answer to your question off the top of my head. How's
that for an answer? I suppose it comes from the fact that I recognize
that many moral questions are complicated and difficult to resolve, and
in some cases I sympathize with the reasoning that may have lead
someone to come to a different conclusion than I have. In other cases,
I don't feel that way at all. I can see no reason for sympathizing
with or respecting the morality of mass murder, for example.
However, I stand by my point that if I hold a firm set of values on
certain subjects, and you hold a firm set of values on certain
subjects, but those set of views are not completely identical, then
that does not make me a moral relativist simply because you don't like
what I believe, any more that you are a moral relativist simply because
you don't agree with all of *my* firmly held notions.
-- Mike
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9.421 | polarities | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Ro Reinke | Tue Oct 06 1992 14:48 | 18 |
| -< in reply to .409, by John Covert, an Episcopalian >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
<<This position was affirmed at the last General Convention. Many Episcopalians
<<are shocked that the moral relativists were able to get a codasyl added which
<<states that the experience of many members is otherwise. That experience
<<does not change the constant teaching of the church; it merely shows how
<<much control the liberals have gained.
Many Episcopalians were pleased to see that the experience of many
members is being validated by the Church by the addition of this codasyl.
The members (and pastors) of the Episcopal churches I attend in both
Nashua and Athol that I spoke to about this subject were among those
in support of this codasyl. But then perhaps I only spoke to the
liberals... ;')
Ro
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9.422 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Oct 06 1992 15:28 | 77 |
| Patrick .405,
> The position of moral relativism that you advance as a Christian
> perspective justifies hedonism.
I have to be very honest. This issue of Christian moral absolutism vs
relativism has always confounded me. I have a difficult time understand
-ing how anyone can claim to be, not only a moral absolutist but a Biblical
absolutist. Here's a few examples why...
About 300 years after the death of Christ, a council of the
"Christian fathers" took place. One of their items of business was
to determine whether or not women possessed souls. This was a grave
*moral* issue of their time, for it affected how women were treated,
and how they "should" be treated. Some of the council members argued
that women did have souls, others that women did not. Both camps used
the Bible and Church doctrine to support their positions.
Finally after all the debating was done a vote was taken on the issue
and counted up. Women were declared to have souls. It had passed by a
margin of one vote. It seems almost unbelievable, doesn't it?
In later centuries, the same issue came up again. It was about
ensoulment again, but this time it was not only about women - it
included men as well. But this time it was about other races of
people, for it was generally believed that blacks and other indigenous
people did not have souls either. And because of this, (as with women
of their own race) people's whose ensoulment was in question were treated
little more than animals and "property." Is this moral? Again, the
Bible and church doctrine was cited to support the belief that
indigenous people possessed no souls. (I mean, all you had to do was
consider their obvious lack of self-consciousness and shame around their
own nudity, right? Even Adam and Eve were ashamed of their nakedness,
weren't they...?)
Then we have the Creation story (which was discussed recently in
another topic) and how scientific discovery has contradicted some
passages of what was recorded in the Bible as to how the universe
is "arranged" and "worked."
The Church had also taught that the earth was the center of the
universe. Science later proved it was the sun. Some people who
first aligned with this heretical scientific theory were burned at
the stake (i.e. Giordano Bruno).
Anyway, the point is, how can anyone be an absolutist when it comes
to God, the Bible and matters of faith? Does anyone here adhere to
any of the above early conclusions once found to permeate the Christian
church and most devout of Christian faith?
Looking back over these examples, and there are others, I'm sure, it
seems to me that deeper truths are always being revealed. Our
understanding of the Bible is always changing, is it not? If so, are
we getting "closer" to God or further away, I wonder? (I feel we're
getting closer.)
That these examples demonstrate "truths" that were once acceptable,
but are now generally viewed as errors of interpretation, do you ever
wonder what Biblical truths still remain hidden to us today by our
current "relativist" interpretations?
I also have to say I'm genuinely perplexed by how can anyone claim to
know an absolute truth, absolutely, unless they are the Absolute
themself...? If an Absolute anything exists how can any person's
interpretation and understanding of it be anything BUT relative?
Does moral relativism justify hedonism? As much as moral absolutism
does. We are basically comfort and pleasure seeking creatures, no
matter how profane or pious our faith or "perspective," are we not?
There is the hedonist in each and every one of us. But in either the
profane or pious person's case, we oftentimes wind up shutting the
door in God's face in our zeal to be comfortable and secure. And for
the pious it is doubly unfortunate. For the profane person intends
to shut the door. The pious person believes they are not, that they
are in fact sitting at the feet of God.
Karen
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9.423 | kudos kb | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Ro Reinke | Tue Oct 06 1992 15:41 | 8 |
| Karen (.422),
Your note touched me deeply. Eloquent and well-thought out.
Thank you,
Ro
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9.424 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Tue Oct 06 1992 16:20 | 11 |
| Are you referring to the Council of Nicea?
That this council would discuss whether or not women possessed souls
seems bizarre. What is your source for this claim?
The Church has always taught that men and women possessed souls and were
made in the image and likeness of God.
I don't why you answer questions I raise about what you believe and why
by introducing irrelevant and fictional claims that I have not
asserted.
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9.425 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Tue Oct 06 1992 16:24 | 11 |
| I would like to go on record as one who not "absolutely relativistic."
I have said in this conference that rape is wrong, that rape is always
wrong. That's pretty absolute, isn't it?
I dare say, even our absolutists would say that telling a lie, under
some circumstances, may be morally justifiable.
Peace,
Richard
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9.426 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 16:26 | 9 |
| >But in either the profane or pious person's case, we oftentimes wind
>up shutting the door in God's face in our zeal to be comfortable and
>secure. And for the pious it is doubly unfortunate. For the profane
>person intends to shut the door. The pious person believes they are
>not, that they are in fact sitting at the feet of God.
That is a truly profound statement, Karen. Thanks for writing that.
-- Mike
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9.427 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 16:28 | 10 |
| Although .422 may be eloquent, it is an obvious work of fiction.
The assertion that any of the ecumenical councils discussed a question of
whether women have souls or not, or whether other races have souls, is
clearly a fabrication designed to ridicule Christianity.
"My soul doth magnify the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God my
Saviour"...
/john
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9.428 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Oct 06 1992 16:52 | 27 |
| Patrick,
I assume .424 was written to me.
> What is your source for this claim?
I believe it is in _The chalice and the blade_ by Eisler, but I'll
check and let you know.
> I don't know why you answer questions I raise about what you believe
> and why by introducing irrelevant and fictional claims that I have not
> asserted.
Nice side-stepping, Patrick. :-) I've come to recognize this as a
way you "address" questions which either make you uncomfortable, or you
have no answer to.
If you're uncomfortable with the information I offered on the
ensoulment issues, put it aside, then, for the moment. What remains is
the basic question for me -- what is the thought process involved on how
one views oneself as a moral and/or Biblical absolutist while taking into
account the ultimate relativistic nature of that position?
How have you, if you think of yourself as a moral and/or Biblical
absolutionist, come to reconcile this?
Karen
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9.429 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:06 | 18 |
| Side-stepping?? I was asking the question and letting you know that I
thought your answer was an evasion. We're discussing the linkage
between morality and sin, or at least I thought we were.
My "comfort" isn't the issue. The truth is. We can examine claims
made here based on outside sources by looking it up.
Is this council critical to your worldview of morality? Are you saying
that your position would be reversed if I were to demonstrate to you
that that council which you allege discussed whether or not women had
souls, in fact, did not have any such discussion?
My answer: I believe that Jesus Christ has revealed to us the one way,
the one truth, and the one life. I believe the on the great moral
issues of our time, the Bible and my Church are the source of
inspiration and my teacher which I follow by the grace of God in my
life.
|
9.430 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:22 | 8 |
| It seemed to me that Karen was addressing the general question of moral
relativism, and how we determine what is true and what isn't. It
struck me as very much relevant to the discussion at hand. All this
focus on the existence or non-existence of those council proceedings
seems to be missing the overall point she was making with respect to
the process of discerning theologically based moral standards.
-- Mike
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9.431 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:44 | 31 |
| Mike,
You're exactly right.
Patrick .429,
> Side-stepping?? I was asking the question and letting you know that
> I thought your answer was an evasion. We're discussing the linkage
> between morality and sin, or at least I thought we were.
Your note .405 which I already highlighted and your note .411
where you reiterated your original question is what I responded
to. The specific issue you raised was moral relativism and it's
linkage to hedonism:
from .411,
> Are you agreeing with the position that I entered earlier, namely
> that the affirmation of moral relativism is inclusive of hedonism?
I offered both my views and confusing in understanding the relationship
between moral relativism and absolutism in .422; in the last paragraph
I addressed your question directly, offering my perspective of the
relationship between moral relativism and hedonism.
Now, would you care to answer the questions I raised to you directly on
how a moral and/or Biblical absolutist reconciles the relativism of his
or her position; would you prefer to pass; or would you prefer to
think on it and get back to me?
Karen
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9.432 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:48 | 6 |
| Re: .417
Well explained, Mike. I agree with most of your
objections.
Collis
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9.433 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:50 | 10 |
| /john .427,
> Although .422 may be eloquent, it is an obvious work of fiction.
No, believe it or not, I wrote it myself. I have witnesses. Therefore,
thank you for the compliment. This is BIG coming from you, /john.
:-)
Karen
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9.434 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Support Judeo-Buddhist values. | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:50 | 4 |
| Thanks, Collis (you've been awfully silent here lately, by the way--I
was wondering what happened to you!).
-- Mike
|
9.435 | re .430, importance of existence of proceedings | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 17:51 | 10 |
| But it is important.
If Pat and I maintain that absolute Truth is found by the process of
Revelation through Holy Scriptures and the work of the Holy Spirit
in Ecumenical Councils, and Karen maintains that those councils
determine whether women have souls or not by slim majority vote,
then we have to determine who is right before we can have a meaningful
dialogue.
/john
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9.436 | answers to .422 | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Tue Oct 06 1992 18:10 | 95 |
| Re: 9.422
>I have a difficult time understanding how anyone can claim to be, not
>only a moral absolutist but a Biblical absolutist. Here's a few
>examples why...
O.K. Karen, let's take a look.
>Women were declared to have souls. It had passed by a
>margin of one vote. It seems almost unbelievable, doesn't it?
Yup. What does this have to do with the Bible being accurate?
Assuming that the facts are as you presented, this has not stopped
people from misinterpreting (whether intentionally or unintentionally)
the Bible.
Personally, I think the Bible is clear on this issue. It sure would
be interesting to hear the Biblical "reasons" why women do not have
souls.
>In later centuries, the same issue came up again.
And the same answer applies.
>Then we have the Creation story (which was discussed recently in
>another topic) and how scientific discovery has contradicted some
>passages of what was recorded in the Bible as to how the universe
>is "arranged" and "worked."
I thought the readership of this conference was too educated to
take seriously Richard's "dome" arguments. I honestly mean that.
It wasn't even worth effort refuting - but I guess it is.
Where has Richard shown that the Hebrew word in Genesis means
exactly what you and I think of when we hear the word "dome"? And
must this be interpreted as a dome in the sense of a dome on a
domed stadium? Does the atmosphere provide a "dome" around the
earth? I hear that spaceships returning to earth have to enter
at a specific angle. I still don't know if this is true or not
(although I think it is). If it is (and they could bounce away
if entering at the wrong angle), could we then say that there is
a "dome" around the earth - even if Richard can't see it?
>The Church had also taught that the earth was the center of the
>universe. Science later proved it was the sun.
They're both right. They're both wrong. The center is whatever
you wish to define it as. Because it is easier to consider one
or the other as the center (whether for calculating orbits or
for viewing stars) does not *make* it the center.
>Anyway, the point is, how can anyone be an absolutist when it comes
>to God, the Bible and matters of faith?
The question boils down to whether or not you are willing to believe
the claims that the Bible makes - claims that are consistently assumed
and supported by all the prophets including God's own Son. I choose
to believe BY FAITH, despite the few difficulties that I have not
explained. You choose not to believe BY FAITH what the Bible says
about its own accuracy.
>Our understanding of the Bible is always changing, is it not?
Personal understanding is always changing. The church's understanding
tends to grow upon the building blocks of previous generations.
>If so, are we getting "closer" to God or further away, I wonder? (I
>feel we're getting closer.)
Clearly (in my view), we as "Christians" are getting further away
since more "Christians" are denying what God has revealed.
>That these examples demonstrate "truths" that were once acceptable,
>but are now generally viewed as errors of interpretation, do you ever
>wonder what Biblical truths still remain hidden to us today by our
>current "relativist" interpretations?
Indeed, all interpretation by individuals is biased to some extent.
One advantage of the many factions of the church today (different
denominations as well as spread out over the world) is that it becomes
easier to recognize some biases. For these reasons, I tend to have
more confidence in the interpretations of Scripture made in the
past 100 years than those made 1000 years ago (when made by those
that accept the Biblical claims of inerrancy).
>I also have to say I'm genuinely perplexed by how can anyone claim to
>know an absolute truth, absolutely, unless they are the Absolute
>themself...?
If the Absolute tells someone the absolute truth and tells someone
that it is the absolute truth, why would someone claim to know less than
the absolute truth?
Collis
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9.437 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Tue Oct 06 1992 18:22 | 14 |
| Karen, I had already answered .431 in .429:
from .431
Now, would you care to answer the questions I raised to you directly on
how a moral and/or Biblical absolutist reconciles the relativism of his
or her position; would you prefer to pass; or would you prefer to
think on it and get back to me?
from .429:
My answer: I believe that Jesus Christ has revealed to us the one way,
the one truth, and the one life. I believe that on the great moral
issues of our time, the Bible and my Church are the source of
inspiration and my teacher which I follow by the grace of God in my
life.
|
9.438 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Tue Oct 06 1992 19:06 | 12 |
| RE: 9.435 Mr. Covert,
Part of the problem here is that very few
people that I know...in fact none....would go and "dip themselves seven
times in the river Jordan" if a blemish showed up on their face. Most
women don't "cover" their heads while in church anymore so as humanity
matures I believe that the scriptures are revealed more and more to us.
So placing yourself in the position of having the absoulute truth is
unrealistic at least.
Dave
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9.439 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Keep on loving boldly! | Tue Oct 06 1992 20:51 | 11 |
| Say..uh...Dave .438,
Doesn't overlooking those injunctions sound a lot like "picking
and choosing"?
Since it's likely someone besides Dave will answer, this question
should not be construed as ridiculing Christianity, but rather questioning
the ideas that some people hold of Chrisitanity.
Peace,
Richard
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9.440 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 06 1992 22:51 | 25 |
| Karen,
I went to the library tonight and picked up a copy of "The Chalice and the
Blade" by Eisler. I spent some time looking for a reference to ecumenical
councils, and even with the help of the index, I couldn't find it, or any
other reference to women's or other races' souls. Please let me know where
it is.
The book is openly hostile to Christianity. It proclaims that time still
remains to repent and regain the favor of The Great Mother Goddess. It
calls Mary Magdalene a prostitute and uses such spurious works as "The Gospel
of Thomas" and "The Gospel of Mary" -- works not recognized by the Church --
to make its points rejecting Christianity!
I also read a review of the book in the October 4, 1987, New York Times.
The book purports to be history, yet in the review, Elizabeth Fox-Genovese
writes, "the absurdities of `The Chalice and the Blade' have less to offer
than Isaac Asimov's avowedly speculative `Foundation Trilogy'".
If your perspective of history and creation is formed by reading such strange
books, then it's no wonder it is so far from the Christian Perspective.
Read some C.S. Lewis. It could change your life.
/john
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9.441 | C.S. Lewis in our midst | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Set phazers on stun | Tue Oct 06 1992 23:18 | 18 |
| Note 9.440
>Read some C.S. Lewis. It could change your life.
And Karen,
You may not even need to pick up any books by C.S. Lewis in order to
read C.S. Lewis:
>Note 473.40
> I knew C.S. Lewis, and Bonnie, if there's a C.S. Lewis in this
> conference, it's me, not you.
8*)
Richard
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9.442 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Wed Oct 07 1992 00:03 | 13 |
| RE: .439 Richard,
Well nuts! :-) I guess you caught me out. These
and many other strictures have confused many Christians thru the years.
Yes....There are answers and I believe I have the right one but I was
hoping that our esteemed Mr. Covert or Mr. Sweeney would deem to
answer. Many of the "traditional" values present in the Church today
can be brought right back to these kinds of topics in the Bible. Now
that doesn't make the Bible wrong...just richer and maybe a little more
complicated than most people would like to think.
Dave
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9.443 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Set phazers on stun | Wed Oct 07 1992 00:07 | 9 |
| .442,
Dave,
I tend to agree! :-}
Pax,
Richard
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9.444 | my view | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Oct 07 1992 08:20 | 27 |
| re Note 9.439 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> Doesn't overlooking those injunctions sound a lot like "picking
> and choosing"?
I certainly agree with your observation that we all "pick and
choose" from the Bible.
I would add that what makes a Christian perspective,
historically, is that the picking and choosing is done from
the Bible.
I would also add that what makes a conservative Christian is
that once the picking and choosing is done, nobody gets to do
it again.
A liberal Christian is one who believes that we must continue
to go back to the Bible and each generation gets to pick and
choose.
I don't know which is the more risky and error-prone, but I
believe that Christians are guided by the Holy Spirit in the
above (guided, not forced), and that the liberal approach, to
me, would seem to be more able to recover from error than the
conservative.
Bob
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9.445 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Oct 07 1992 09:44 | 8 |
| I have a lot of respect for both Mike and Alfred. Both seem to have a
clear, straight insight into a topic and have given me a lot.
Hay, even John C. has his moments!!!
Alfred, Mike V. is right this time.
Marc H.
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9.446 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Wed Oct 07 1992 12:16 | 5 |
| > Alfred, Mike V. is right this time.
About what?
Alfred
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9.447 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Oct 07 1992 14:22 | 5 |
| RE: .446
Sorry......reference 9.400.
Marc H.
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9.448 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Oct 08 1992 14:27 | 82 |
| I've not been able to keep up here lately, but I hope to. :-)
Collis .422,
>>Our understanding of the Bible is always changing, is it not?
> Personal understanding is always changing. The church's
> understanding tends to grow upon the building blocks of previous
> generations.
Yes, I agree. What we are both saying, essentially, is that everyone
is a moral relativist, including the church, whether or not some are
aware or care to admit it.
> What does this have to do with the Bible being accurate?
The accuracy or inaccuracy of the Bible was not my point, but I can
see where you might have construed this, both from my note and our
"acquaintance." :-) Actually I find it fascinating that the Bible
has remained constant over the centuries, while _some_ of the
Church's interpretations of morality, and perhaps MORE importantly,
the actions taken by the church to enforce their interpretions of
morality have changed.
[Hmmm...then again, <Digression Alert> maybe things haven't changed
that much. I was just thinking of the Church's sanction of the death
penalty for a variety of offenses, and how regularly it was enforced
in centuries gone by. Does the church put anyone to death today?
No, I guess that's left to the state. But then again....as the
interview with the imprisoned gay bashers pointed out, (which was
entered in topic 91) many of them said, ITO, their church and clergy
condoned, and even encouraged (?) their "gay bashing" actions....so
perhaps SOME churches still believe they should be issuing death
penalties for certain interpretations of moral infractions, and do
so, in a covert sort of way. (Errr...no pun meant there, /john.)]
> Assuming that the facts are as you presented, this has not stopped
> people from misinterpreting (whether intentionally or
> unintentionally) the Bible.
A big statement with major implications, Collis.
If individuals and the Church, (as you say and to which I agree) tend
"to grow" in their understanding, that suggests to me their
_interpretation_ of what they are reading (in this case, the Bible)
changes. So looking back over Church history, and looking into our
own personal lives at these changes, a conclusion may be drawn that
at any point in time, understanding -- at best -- is a mixture of,
what you might say, falsehoods and truths...
But considering that our understanding grows and changes, doesn't
that beg the question of what things we accept or are told to be
morally right today, we may grow to understand are not? (Or vice
versa?)
Yet some people, denying the relativity of their understanding, (and
hence the inherent incompleteness of it) to the Absolute, go to great
lengths to convice others, but more importantly, themselves I think,
that their understanding IS the Absolute Truth, or that they are
<oxymoron alert> moral absolutists. I think that's because for some,
security, (of the existential type) is found there in this notion of
Absolute Truth, which has to be respected, for we all need certain
types and levels of security and stasis and others find their
security in other beliefs and concepts.
So when I hear people, or the church, make pronouncements of Absolute
Truth, I see such pronouncements like a cloak one uses to tightly
wrap around oneself to weather the inevitable storm of life's
ambiguities and paradoxes, as best as one can. Though sometimes the
cloak never seems to come off...
> If the Absolute tells someone the absolute truth and tells someone
> that it is the absolute truth, why would someone claim to know less
> than the absolute truth?
Actually Collis, if the truth really be told, I think that person
would probably be one of the WISEST people on earth. For to make
such a claim, s/he would realize that to be _told_ the truth and to
_know_ the truth are two different things, indeed.
Karen
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9.449 | Another aspect.... | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Thu Oct 08 1992 16:54 | 13 |
| RE: Karen and Collis,
Another aspect of this question might be the "Temporal"
blessing of the Bible Scriptures. For those of you that haven't heard of this
before the simplest explanation of this occurance is after reading a particular
verse and then waiting for a period of time (week or so) and the rereading
it, many times the meaning is different. In Christian circles, we believe
that it is the Holy Spirit that interprets the scripture according to
individual needs at that moment.
Dave
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9.450 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Oct 08 1992 17:06 | 4 |
| Thanks Dave, for that. I've experienced that before, many times.
I didn't know there was a name for it. :-)
Karen
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9.451 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Oct 08 1992 18:56 | 137 |
| Hello /john. Hope you didn't think I'd forgotten you. :-)
re: 440,
I'm really glad you went to the library, picked up a copy of the
highly acclaimed _The chalice and the blade_ and perused it for that
reference. I haven't found it either, btw, but appreciate your effort.
Your cursory glance at the book, however, has given rise to a few
assumptions about the author's treatise which aren't very accurate.
The book is not openly hostile to Christianity, per se, as Eisler
believes Jesus Christ presented Christianity, but rather to the
"dominator model" of social organization orthodox Christianity has
embraced -- the very same model which has suppressed and oppressed
women in practically every sphere of life. The very same model that
equated women to little more than men's personal property, and a
recepticle for their sperm, (despite a woman's willingness to be or
not.)
If you read more deeply into the book, you'll find how the author
identifies with and _highlights_ the teachings of Jesus and his
approach, which clearly views and treats women as equals to men. Her
treatise also states this is what orthodox Christianity has not only
lost, but DELIBERATELY suppressed, contrary to Christ's teachings.
Let me provide a few citations from her book while also answering
the following (negatively implied) charge of yours:
> It calls Mary Magdalene a prostitute....
In Luke 10:38-42, we read how Jesus openly included women among
his companions - and even encouraged them to transcend their
servile roles and participate actively in public life....And in
every one of the official Gospels we read about Mary Magdelene
and how he treated her -- presumably a prostitute -- with respect
and caring.
Even more astonishing, we learn from the Gospels that it is to
Mary Magdalene that the risen Christ first appears. Weeping in
his empty sepulcher after his death, it is Mary Magdalene who
guards his grave. There she has a vision in which Jesus appears
to her "before" he appears in visions to any of his much-
publicized twelve male disciples. And it is Mary Magdalene whom
the risen Jesus asks to tell the others that he is about to
ascend (p 122).
In John 4:7-27 Jesus violated the androcratic customs of his time by
openly talking to women. Even Jesus' male disciples "marveled that
he should talk to women at all, and then at such great length...or
that he would not condone the customary stoning to death of women
who, in the opinion of their male overlords, were guilty of the
heinous sin of having sexual relations with a man who was not their
master."
And Eisler goes on to mention other women Christian leaders: such as
Tabitha or Dorcas, a disciple of Jesus mentioned in Acts 9:36, and in
Romans 16:7 "we find Paul respectfully greeting a woman apostle named
Junia, whom he describes as senior to himself in the movement...
'Salute Andronicus and Junia my kin and my fellow prisoners, who are
of note among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me.'"
Eisler's conclusion: "So, clearly, despite the very strong social
pressures of that time for rigid male dominance, women took leading
roles in the first Christian communities."
And yet the Christian legacy adopted and still very much in place
today, is CONTRARY to Christ's clear teachings on women's equality
and involvement in Christian spiritual affairs:
"Despite the previous public activity of Christian women," Pagels
observes, "by the year 200, the majority of Christian communities
endorsed as canonical the pseudo-Pauline letter of Timothy, which
stresses (and exaggerates) the anti-feminist element in Paul's
views: 'Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. I
permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men: she is to
keep silent'... By the end of the second century, women's
participation in worship was explicitly condemned: groups in
which women continued on to leadership were branded as
heretical."
[Hence, one of the primary reasons for the Christian's intense
"dis-affection" toward the Gnostics, where men and women alike
participated equally as priest, bishop, or prophet.]
> ...and uses such spurious works as "The Gospel of Thomas" and "The
> Gospel of Mary" -- works not recognized by the Church -- to make
> its points rejecting Christianity!
Have you ever wondered WHY these works were not recognized by the
Church, /john? Eisler explores why and this is her conclusion: The
suppressed gospels show time and time again the importance of women
to Jesus Christ, and his consideration of them as EQUALS to the men
in Christian discipleship and spiritual leadership. They also show
that Mary Magdalene was one of the most important figures in the
early Christian movement:
In the Gospel of Mary we again read that she was the first to see
the risen Christ....[and here's part one of the REAL rub, imo]
Here we also read that Christ loved Mary Magdalene more than all
the rest of the disciples, as is also confirmed in the Gnostic
Gospel of Philip. But just how important a part Mary may have
played in the history of early Christianity only comes to light
in these suppressed scriptures. What we read in the Gospel of
Mary is that after the death of Jesus, [and here's rub #2,
the most important one, imo] Mary Magdalene was the Christian
leader who had the courage to challenge the authority of Peter as
the head of a new religious hierarchy based on the claim that
only he and his priests and bishops had a direct line to the
godhead.
Let's face it, /john. After Christ's death, as Christianity entered
"adolescence" it's culture reverted back to misogyny, and though there's
been some improvements since then, it still remains largely that way
today. And we ALL suffer for it, men and women alike.
Eisler's essential criticism of orthodox Christianity can be summed
up in the following:
Jesus' recognition that our spiritual evolution has been stunted
by a way of structuring human relations based on violence-backed
rankings (the dominator model) could have led to a fundamental
social transformation. It could have freed us from the andro-
cratic system. But as in other times of gylanic (egalitarian)
resurgence, the system's resistance was too strong. And in the
end the church fathers left us a New Testament in which this
perception is often smothered by the superimposition of the
completely contradictory dogmas required to justify the Church's
later androcratic structure and goals.
/john, if I were you, I'd put C. S. Lewis down for awhile and read
Eisler's book and others like it, _thoroughly_. It could change your
life.
Karen
p.s. I'm looking through Fr. Matthew Fox's _The coming of the Cosmic
Christ_ for that reference on women's souls....
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9.452 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Thu Oct 08 1992 20:26 | 7 |
| RE: .451 Karen,
Thank you Karen! You have really set my mind to
working and wondering.
Dave.....who is a bit dazed...
|
9.453 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Oct 09 1992 00:34 | 34 |
| > /john, if I were you, I'd put C. S. Lewis down for awhile and read
> Eisler's book and others like it, _thoroughly_. It could change your
> life.
Karen,
Apparently you are unaware that I have, in fact, read quite a few books
on feminism and misogyny. You seem to be unaware that it was not that
long ago, about seven or eight years, that much of what I wrote on the
network was about the sin of sexism. My watchword was and still is:
"In the world, we must treat men and women exactly the same, exactly as
equals, except where their physical procreative roles are concerned."
Eisler's book perpetuates the myth/misunderstanding that the Catholic
Faith is misogynist. That is not true at all. The Church is full of
stories of the holy lives of both men and women. Look at the names of
Roman Catholic and Episcopal churches. Look at a Kalendar of Saints'
days. Look at the great works done by great women of God throughout
the ages. Their works are so great that it completely compensates for
the fact that God Incarnate was, by God's own choice, a man, and that
those who act as his hands and mouth consecrating his Body and Blood
making his sacrifice present for us should, at least for now, also be
men. I think that might change, but if it changes, it will change
quietly and naturally, and not in response to demands from people seeking
power or seeking to reconcile us to Eisler's "Great Mother Goddess".
The world and the Church are full of so many wonderful and important
roles for women. Noone should demand the seat at the head of God's table,
for, in the words of Mary, God exalts the humble and meek. Jesus echoes
Mary's words in the parable of the guests at the dinner party: Take the
lowest seat, and wait to be called to sit with the host in the place of
honor.
/john
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9.454 | | TNPUBS::STEINHART | Laura | Fri Oct 09 1992 10:35 | 22 |
| RE: 525.38
>COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 5 lines 6-OCT-1992 10:23
> -< Begin by considering the position of women in society... >-
>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> I can provide you with libraries full of substantiation.
>
> You can start in the Judaica section of Brandeis.
>
> /john
I find this incredibly condescending. I haven't replied
previously because I simply didn't know how to reply to what I perceive
as rudeness. A long explanation is unnecessary, I believe.
I don't want to get into a joust with you, so even if you have some
smart comeback, I will probably let it go after this reply. Just so
you understand in the future, that if I ignore such condescension, it's
not because I agree with you, but just that such exchanges leave a bad
taste in my mouth.
Laura
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9.455 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Oct 09 1992 10:57 | 16 |
| There was no rudeness intended, and you should not have taken offense.
I made a statement about the relationship between Judaism and Christianity
being closer than the relationship between either of them and Islam.
You asked for substantiation. Since you have often expressed distrust of
the Christian Perspective on Judaism and other religions, I suggested the
Judaica section of the library at Brandeis, an excellent library, I may add,
as a place to look for such substantiation.
One of the best ways for us to live in better harmony in this conference
is to not take offense when none is intended. I would suggest that noone
else reply within the conference to this reply or to Laura's, and that it
be handled in mail, offline.
/john
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9.456 | moral relativist | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | All peoples on earth will be blessed through you | Fri Oct 09 1992 11:35 | 43 |
| Re: 9.448
> Personal understanding is always changing. The church's
> understanding tends to grow upon the building blocks of previous
> generations.
>Yes, I agree. What we are both saying, essentially, is that everyone
>is a moral relativist, including the church, whether or not some are
>aware or care to admit it.
No, that is *not* what is being said.
A moral relativist believes that morality changes. The Bible teaches
the exact opposite. Morality does not change - regardless of what
we may or may not believe is moral/immoral at any given time. In
other words, you can and should deny being a moral relativist if
you believe that morality does not change - even as your understanding
of God's morality does change.
>But considering that our understanding grows and changes, doesn't
>that beg the question of what things we accept or are told to be
>morally right today, we may grow to understand are not? (Or vice
>versa?)
Certainly that is possible. Somehow or other, inerrantists today seem
to be in violent agreement on the *vast* majority of moral issues.
The reason? I expect it is that God has told us clearly what is
right and what is wrong - and we choose to believe it.
>>If the Absolute tells someone the absolute truth and tells someone
>>that it is the absolute truth, why would someone claim to know less
>>than the absolute truth?
>Actually Collis, if the truth really be told, I think that person
>would probably be one of the WISEST people on earth. For to make
>such a claim, s/he would realize that to be _told_ the truth and to
>_know_ the truth are two different things, indeed.
Good point. I revise my statement to contain the idea that someone
knows the truth well enough to tell someone else the truth that he/she
was told.
Collis
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9.457 | taking it a step further | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Oct 09 1992 11:47 | 11 |
| re Note 9.455 by COVERT::COVERT:
> One of the best ways for us to live in better harmony in this conference
> is to not take offense when none is intended.
Actually, one almost never knows for sure whether offense was
intended.
I think the best policy is just not to take offense.
Bob
|
9.458 | one reference on "presence of soul?" | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Oct 09 1992 13:35 | 38 |
| From _Original Blessing_, Fr. Matthew Fox:
Whether we are listening to reasons why women are put down, or
homosexuals, or Jews, or Native Americans, or blacks, the invariable
argument is that in some way these people are or do something against
nature. They are "naturally below" those who pronounce their fate.
For example, the notion that women are to be submissive to men is
given by Paul and Deutero-Paul as the "order of creation" (1 Cor.
11:2-16). The hierachy of male over female is the order of nature,
we are told. After all, women are "misbegotten males" (Aristotle and
St. Thomas Aquinas) who are "made of blood without souls" (John
Marston) and, unlike men, are not made in the image and likeness of
God (St. Augustine).
And the question that preoccupied the theorists while Native
Americans were being slaughtered and enslaved was whether Indians are
human (i.e., have souls) or not. As Native Americans put it, the
Spanish conquistadors reached
a conclusion that Native peoples did not have "souls," and
therefore it was perfectly all right to enslave or murder them.
Much of that same kind of thinking is alive and well today in
such countries as Paraguay, Brazil, Chile and others where Native
peoples are still hunted down and killed....The question at this
point that needs to be addressed is, what kind of theology were
the institutionalized churches propagating that could lead to
such a dehumanizing analysis of missions of peoples? And, is
that kind of theology still functioning in the churches in the
1980's?
A missionary in Brazil told me the story of a bounty hunter in the
Amazon who was paid to kill Indians. In a recent interview about his
work, he said he once shot an Indian who did not die at once but
appeared to be in pain and suffering, "just as if he were a human
being" (Fox, 1983, p. 268).
|
9.459 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Oct 09 1992 15:04 | 52 |
| /john .453,
I must admit to not having picked up on your advocacy of sexual
equality in your writings before. I do not note reguarly in other
conferences, so I wouldn't have bumped into you elsewhere. However,
I have difficulty seeing your advocacy in light of the following two
statements.
> My watchword was and still is: "In the world, we must treat men and
> woman exactly the same, exactly as equals, except where their
> physical procreative roles are concerned."
> ...that God Incarnate was, by God's own choice, a man, and that
> those who act as his hands and mouth consecrating his Body and
> Blood making his sacrifice present for us should, at least for now,
> also be men. ^^^^^^
^^^^^^^^^^^
Why do you believe only men "should" be allowed to perform the types
of clerical roles described above, and why "at least for now"? It
may not be your intention, but that statement as it is, reveals a
bias favoring men. It implies incompetence, and/or perhaps an
intelligence disparity between the genders in performing the same
clerical role. Is that your belief?
Also a comment:
> I think that might change, but if it changes, it will change
> quietly and naturally...
It hasn't changed in almost 2000 years, /john. Jesus was, amongst
other things, a radical social activist and transformer. He set the
precedence for women's equal involvement in relgious affairs and
spiritual leadership. I believe it would be hard to submit a
convincing argument that Jesus intended Christianity to be anything
other than egalitarian: to honor, respect, and value all people
equally. But after his death, Christianity unfortunately reverted
back to a male-based hierachical order, which, advocated by the
church, subsequently installed an impenetrable "glass ceiling" for
women.
> The world and the Church are full of so many wonderful and
> important roles for women.
Oh yes, to be sure. All beneath the glass ceiling, however.
I wish I could agree with you, but I can't: I don't think it
would've changed quietly and naturally. Injustices never do -- do
they...? Besides, I think it's too late to see if you would've been
right anyway.
Karen
|
9.460 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Oct 09 1992 15:17 | 19 |
| It does not imply incompetence. It takes no special intelligence and not much
competence to stand at the altar and recite a prayer.
It merely means that in order to fully represent Jesus Christ (which is what
a priest does at the consecration), the celebrant must be male.
I don't know if this can change. As long as we have people concerned that
the role of an Asian in Miss Saigon must be played by an Asian, as long as
people care about such things, then I think people are incapable of ignoring
such differences, regardless of how unimportant they seem to me.
Why do you want women to be priests? Why can't women do other important
leadership roles? Teach, counsel, lead important organizations. Do roles
which _do_ require intelligence and competence!
Everything but be Jesus's hands and mouth at the consecration.
Everything but be the Bridegroom at the Wedding Feast of the Lamb.
/john
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9.461 | | SOLVIT::MSMITH | So, what does it all mean? | Fri Oct 09 1992 15:17 | 10 |
| Many Conservative Catholics don't even want girls acting as altar
servers during liturgical ceremonies. I can remember when I got to be
an altar boy my sister feeling quite keenly the sense of unfairness
that she couldn't be one, too.
Although, in all fairness, I must say this was hardly a defining issue
for me, and apparently it wasn't for her, either, as she is still a
practicing Catholic. But it does seem a bit unfair, though.
Mike
|
9.462 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Oct 09 1992 15:28 | 13 |
| re women acolytes
Yep, that seems pretty silly. My Episcopal parish (which would not like to
ever have Bishop Harris exercise her office within the parish) uses adult men
and women as servers, torchbearers, crucifers, thurifers, etc.
Since serving a priest may help a young man to discern his calling to be
a priest, and since the Roman Catholic church is having a shortage of men
feeling the calling, I think I understand the reasons for it.
But Roman Catholic women can be readers and even Eucharistic ministers.
/john
|
9.463 | | SOLVIT::MSMITH | So, what does it all mean? | Fri Oct 09 1992 16:07 | 10 |
| The argument that boys might use their experience as altar servers to
consider a priestly vocation would make a bit more sense, I think, if
out of the thousands of altar boys who have served, more actually
tried to become a priest.
On the other hand, were it not for my experience as an altar boy, I may
very well have not gone to seminary, although my classmates there were
by no means all ex-altar boys.
Mike
|
9.464 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Oct 09 1992 16:12 | 5 |
| I'll state it again, women should be allowed to be priests.
There just isn't any reason to deny them. I don't understand,/john
why you take your position.
Marc H.
|
9.465 | curious | ATSE::FLAHERTY | Ro Reinke | Fri Oct 09 1992 16:18 | 10 |
| I don't understand /john's position either, especially since the
Episcopal church allows woman to become priests. That there were two
women priests at the Episcopal church in Nashua was one of the reasons
I came back to my Episcopal roots.
Do you not agree with the church's decision to allow women to become
priests in your religion, /john?
Ro
|
9.466 | The problem relates to the celebration of the Mass | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Oct 09 1992 17:29 | 37 |
| Unless you completely understand the significance of the Eucharist, you
can't understand the significance of the priest. The Eucharist is not
just a memorial, it is a "making present", a "re-presenting" of the
sacrifice of Christ on Calvary.
I do not completely understand why the sex of the person re-presenting
Christ is as important as the Church believes it to be.
I would like to see the Church decide that it isn't important -- that a
woman being the Bridegroom doesn't change the sex of the Bridegroom from
male to female. But there does seem to be a problem for a lot of people.
Some men cannot ignore the sex of a woman if she stands and acts as Christ
stating "This is my Body".
Some women want to change the sex of Christ when they say "This is my Body."
I think we have to get beyond that, on both sides. I think I am beyond
that, but I know other people aren't. Once we get beyond it, maybe women
can be priests.
There is no such thing as "The Episcopal Priesthood". Page 526 of the
1979 Book of Common Prayer says: "... we present you to be ordained
a priest in Christ's holy catholic Church." One small part of the holy
catholic Church really did not have the authority to change the nature
of the historic presbyterate and episcopate without agreement, at least
in principle, from the whole Church. A General Council. Not just a
local council.
I visited a parish in Vermont last weekend which uses women's ministry
in a way that does not cause a problem for the historic priesthood and
episcopate. There is a woman who is an ordained deacon, and there is a
woman who is a "lay pastor". Both are important roles of responsibility
and leadership. But they do not involve standing as Bridegroom before
the congregation.
/john
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9.467 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Oct 09 1992 23:31 | 12 |
| /john -1,
Thanks for offering your views, and the way in which you offered
them. That note shows a different side of you, and it was edifying
on other levels as well. I appreciate that. I also agree with much
of what you wrote.
I can't say the same for .460. If I was a priest I'd probably be
very angry and highly insulted, and down on my knees praying for you,
and me.
Karen
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9.468 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Oct 12 1992 09:00 | 12 |
| RE: .467
Agreed....../john's view on Woman in the church seems to be a
refreshing change from the "party line" that I received in the Roman
Catholic faith.
The Congregational Church that I belong to has an interim Pastor
who happens to be a woman. Having a woman in the church service after
42 years of Roman Catholic men sure was "strange" at first, but
today, it just seems normal.
Marc H.
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9.469 | moderator action | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Wed Oct 14 1992 15:04 | 5 |
| Previous note 9.469 through 9.486 re: Matthew Fox have been moved
to topic 12.
Karen Berggren
Co-Moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
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9.470 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Chew your notes before swallowing. | Tue Oct 20 1992 09:33 | 11 |
| Enough time has passed that I now can reveal one of my deep, dark
secrets.
I voted for Alfred Thompson in the DCU elections.
Yes, that indeed makes me part of a select, albeit *extremely* small,
company of people. :-)
-- Mike
|
9.471 | Thank you Mike. I appreciate your vote | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Oct 20 1992 09:38 | 7 |
| > Yes, that indeed makes me part of a select, albeit *extremely* small,
> company of people. :-)
Well, it may not have been enough to win but it was still over
3000 people. All of whom I offer my thanks for your support.
Alfred
|
9.472 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Oct 20 1992 10:23 | 1 |
| So did I, but then I doubt that surprises anyone.
|
9.473 | surprise! | BSS::VANFLEET | The time is now! | Tue Oct 20 1992 10:36 | 3 |
| So did I.
Nanci
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9.474 | | CRETE::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 03 1992 10:38 | 23 |
| Mike 546.28,
As you know, I've struggled with the same issue of some Christians
considering their chastisements and corrections of others to be a
"virtue." I've found it offensive as well at times, and so can
empathize with you.
As moderators, and when you were one yourself, we struggle with this
issue regularly, and frankly, we're discussing it again off-line. We
want to encourage and support dialogue, and yet it invariably leads to
people offending one another, sometimes intentionally, other times
unintentionally. Some people, we realize, are not interested in
dialogue, or to respect others opinions and beliefs.
So what do we do...?
I feel that name-calling can be easily interpreted as a violation
of Digital's Policies and Proceduces, which we as moderators need to
enforce; so, imo, it would probably be best to find other ways to
communicate frustration and offenses one experiences in this conference.
Peace,
Karen
|
9.475 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Master of time, space & notes. | Tue Nov 03 1992 10:40 | 6 |
| Karen, you are of course correct, and I was wrong to use that term.
My frustration and my anger had reached the boiling point, and as such
I exceeded the proper bounds. My apologies to all concerned.
-- Mike
|
9.476 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Tue Nov 03 1992 10:56 | 5 |
| There are some opinions that can not be expressed without saying
something that someone will take offense at. In fact, some will be
insulted by someone else merely disagreeing with them.
Alfred
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9.477 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 03 1992 14:10 | 10 |
| Jill 546.36,
> For people who value critical thinking and valuing all opinions, you
> sure censor alot of opinions.
I've observed some people objecting to ways in which other people express
their beliefs and opinions, and sometimes disagreeing with the opinions
themselves, but I've yet to see an opinion "censored" here.
Karen
|
9.478 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 14:11 | 7 |
| >but I've yet to see an opinion "censored" here.
I spent several hours last night dissuading a moderator of this conference
from complaining to personnel about an opinion I had expressed of this
conference.
/john
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9.479 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Tue Nov 03 1992 14:21 | 12 |
| RE: .478 Mr. Covert,
First, your opinion was *NOT* expressed
"here" but in another conference not related to this one. I backed
off *ONLY* because of your adherrence to the "worlds" legalisms. Seems
to me to be very contrary to you professed faith as I stated in my last
"offline" letter to you. I resent *VERY* much you bringing up a
subject that had been taken out of the public eye so-to-speak. I am
even beginning to wonder at the "practice" of a faith you so loudly
profess.
Dave....not a moderator at this moment.
|
9.480 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 03 1992 14:26 | 12 |
| /john,
Censoring would take place here, and in other conferences as well
*if* said "opinion" is interpreted by the moderators as infringing
upon or violating Digital's Policies and Procedures. In some
conferences certain subjects are censored - they're not even open to
discuss. That doesn't happen here.
I don't believe the situation you're referring to took place in C-P,
and if so, probably should not be discussed here, unless you'd like to?
Karen
|
9.481 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 15:03 | 71 |
| >I am even beginning to wonder at the "practice" of a faith you so loudly
>profess.
You don't say!
OK, let's process this:
In "Things to Hate Today" in SOAPBOX, I had grumbled that Jerry had written
a note that claimed that "wife" didn't clearly mean a "female wife". I was
accused of being sanctimonious and a few people suggested that I should
delete that note, which follows:
-< SOAPBOX: Not So Humble Opinions! >-
================================================================================
Note 12.5028* Things to Hate Today 5028 of 5102
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 2 lines 1-NOV-1992 16:32
-< Biblical support for homosexual marriage, according to Bubba >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 91.1866 in LGP30::Christian-Perspective written by Jerry Beeler, claiming
that when Jesus says "wife" in Mark 10:7, he must mean a male "wife".
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
In reply to that, I wrote:
|If your definition of sanctimonious includes getting angry about a bunch of
|self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others creating a conference
|called "Christian-Perspective" and using it to ridicule the Bible and many
|of the beliefs and moral teachings of main-line Christianity, then YES, I'm
|sanctimonious. Thank you very much.
|
|That conference has an even larger army of moderators than this.
|
|I'll delete my note when CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is deleted or has its
|name changed to RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM.
Dave Dawson, who has never written a note in Soapbox, became aware of the
above note and asked me to delete it, as it was contrary to company policy.
I disagreed with him on that point, replying:
Now, let's take the parts that reference CP piece by piece:
>a bunch of self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others
I can't see you having a problem with this statement. There are notes
in CP where various people claim to be neo-Pagans or non-Christians, and
then there are others. I trust you are one of the others.
>using it to ridicule the Bible and many of the beliefs and moral teachings
>of main-line Christianity
Is it not a fact that some of the people, some of whom are neo-Pagans,
some of whom are non-Christians (by their own explicit descriptions of
themselves) and others, find CP a good forum to make ridiculous statements
about the bible (e.g. "wife doesn't mean female")? Is it not a fact that
there are many statements which ridicule many of the beliefs and moral
teachings of main-line Christianity?
>That conference has an even larger army of moderators than this.
CP has more moderators than Soapbox. "Army of moderators" is a standard
Soapbox phrase; I doubt you think it violates policy.
>RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM.
Don't so many of the notes in CP fall much more in the category of skepticism
than in the category of edification of Christianity?
Where is the violation of company policy in the note you are complaining
about?
/john
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9.482 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 15:04 | 58 |
| Dave then sent me some more information on how company policy was
violated, but still was not specific about what parts of my note were
a violation of company policy. I replied:
> letters, making defamatory statements, disclosing private facts about any
> -----------------------------
Whom, specifically, have I defamed? What statement defames whom?
In short, what statement is not true and obvious to any reader of CP?
> statements that one may disagree with but statements with the intent
> --------------------------
> of provoking anger, persistent insulting language, or ridicule.
> ----------------------------------------------------------------
This must be a reference to notes in CP about the Bible, right?
> behavior, or compromise the personal integrity of Digital employees.
> -------------------------------------------------------
Show me the statement and explain which employee's integrity is compromised
and how.
>Your last statement concerning the "name" of C-P
(RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM) Is there not an awful lot of skepticism, even some
hostility, to mere belief in God and traditional morality, expressed in an
overwhelming number of notes in C-P?
>Now I am perfectly willing to let an outside, objective group decide this
>matter.
Now wait a minute. We're talking about a note in Soapbox. A note in the
"Things to Hate Today" topic. A topic where people gripe about things that
are annoying them. Sort of like a "Primal Scream" topic.
Are you really thinking about getting someone else (in your other note you
mentioned personnel, I think) involved in this, like, during their working
hours? Over a note in Soapbox? You think a single note in Soapbox is
worth the risk that someone in Personnel might decide to delete not just
my note in Soapbox but half the notes in CP? You really want to involve
that group of people? You want to bring employee interest religious noting
to their attention? Are you serious?
I've never understood why people want notes deleted. It has always seemed
to me that if you don't like a note, you just write a better note, showing
the error in the one you don't like.
You can prove me wrong by future notes in CP. You could write notes that say
things just like what Jill Kinsella says. She's brilliant. You could try to
develop convincing arguments for Christianity. Follow the Great Commission.
Call others to do likewise. That would be a real Christian Perspective.
/john
After this, Dave decided to abandon his plans to complain to personnel.
/john
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9.483 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Tue Nov 03 1992 15:11 | 33 |
|
Here is what I wrote back to Mr. Covert and I stand by it.
_____________________________________________________________________
Mr. Covert,
Ok. I am going to let the matter drop. I suppose
within the "legalisms" of this world, a case may be made for your point of view
about the note you entered. But you and I know different. Your intent was to
hurt and you succeeded. So you win a victory but at what expense? You say
that you believe in the cause of Christ but did that note really inculcate
the patient love that Christ commands us to have?
You seem unable to understand the very people you are
talking to in C-P. Many of them have been hurt badly by missguided Christians
and their Church. You seem to not be able to understand that fact, either that
or you really don't care. There is a terrific book out called Evangelism
Explosion written by Dr. Kennedy. I would strongly suggest you read it. It
gives you a beautiful way to witness the cause of Christ. Most people do not
know how to witness.
Well, at any rate this is my last communication offline
with you unless I truely see a change of attitude. I am sure you will believe
that "the truth hurts". I remind you that its a two edged sword.
Dave Dawson
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9.485 | | JURAN::SILVA | Murphy, it's ONLY Dan Quayle! | Tue Nov 03 1992 15:26 | 22 |
|
John, what if we put in notes about how you view Christianity, how we
may perceive you, whatever? What would it accomplish? No more than what your
note did. Sure, you may actually believe that you didn't do anything wrong, but
unless this is how you treat yourself, then just maybe you should relook at
what was written.
Remember, the way you wrote it the outcome is false. Your explaination
of what you wrote would be great if you could just take part of a sentence
here, part of one there, then everything is great. I've seen you do that with
Scripture too. But let's look at the ENTIRE picture, without the sentences
standing by themselves, but as a whole, what you wrote paints a false picture,
period. Is being false how you really are? Is it what God would want you to be?
Glen
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9.486 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Master of time, space & notes. | Tue Nov 03 1992 15:32 | 43 |
| I can see why Dave objected to that attack against this notes file.
However, it does show exactly what Covert's agenda is here. His snide
attack against C-P illustrates that his purpose for participating here
is anything but amicable--as if there were any doubt about that. If he
wishes to see C-P deleted, as he suggested, then he clearly and
explicitly expresses once and for all his hostility to this notes file
and its participants.
To set the record straight:
>>a bunch of self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others
>
>I can't see you having a problem with this statement. There are notes
>in CP where various people claim to be neo-Pagans or non-Christians, and
>then there are others. I trust you are one of the others.
What, pray tell, are the "others" that he refers to? Could that be a
euphemism for "Christians"? The system host of C-P, without whom this
file could not exist, is a Roman Catholic and a Christian. A phrase
like 'self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others' could just
as easily have been phrased as "a group of Christians and
non-Christians". Phrasing it the way he did was clearly a deliberate
slight against the Christians who have been involved with the creation
of this notes file, and as such is inflammatory. Yes, there are notes
here by people who are non-Christians. The same could be said about
GOLF::CHRISTIAN, for that matter--this is a Digital notes file, and
must be open to all. His use of the word "others" rather than
"Christians" in his sneering description of the spectrum of people who
participate here speaks for itself.
>(RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM) Is there not an awful lot of skepticism, even some
>hostility, to mere belief in God and traditional morality, expressed in an
>overwhelming number of notes in C-P?
While there are many participants who disagree with Covert's moral
beliefs, the only skepticism I have seen expressed here towards a
belief in God has been stated by Bob Messenger, who infrequently
contributes here, and possibly also Jerry Beeler. I don't know of any
other frequent and regular contributor here who has expressed disbelief
in God.
-- Mike
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9.487 | Bottom line was _don't_go_deleting_things_you_dislike_ | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 15:55 | 8 |
| > If he wishes to see C-P deleted, as he suggested, then he clearly and
> explicitly expresses once and for all his hostility to this notes file
> and its participants.
I did not suggest deleting CP until it was suggested that a note I had
written be deleted.
/john
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9.488 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Tue Nov 03 1992 16:02 | 8 |
|
To clear the record Mr. Covert, I did *NOT* ask that your
original note be deleted. Only the one in which you expressed what you
thought of the people who note here, the very same note in which you
asked for this entire conference to be deleted.
Dave
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9.489 | Do not claim I said what I did not say | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 16:14 | 7 |
| I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be deleted.
I said, and you can read that that is what I said, that I would delete
my note (the one various people suggested should be deleted) if this
conference were deleted or changed its name.
I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be deleted.
|
9.490 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Tue Nov 03 1992 16:19 | 6 |
|
Why don't you just "delete" this conference from your
notebook and then you can say its been deleted.
Dave
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9.491 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Master of time, space & notes. | Tue Nov 03 1992 16:24 | 4 |
| Naw, it's so much more fun to participate in a notes file that you hate
so that you can trash it and the people who participate there.
-- Mike
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9.492 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | it's only a shell, mislabled | Tue Nov 03 1992 16:40 | 19 |
|
John,
Yes your right. You did not say to delete the file, your words were
to rename it.
Renaming the file is effectively deletion from the notes client point
of view as the file searched for wounld not exist. Subtle difference,
or implied meaning?
Serious request. Though others may disagree in part or whole, your
opinions are valued by many here. If you dislike the file so much
that you made those comments why note here?
In search of Peace,
Allison
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9.493 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 16:43 | 7 |
| I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be renamed.
I said, and you can read that that is what I said, that I would delete
my note (the one various people suggested should be deleted) if this
conference were deleted or changed its name.
I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be renamed.
|
9.494 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | it's only a shell, mislabled | Tue Nov 03 1992 17:03 | 20 |
| |
|I'll delete my note when CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is deleted or has its
|name changed to RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM.
John,
Is this not a direct extraction from your note posted by you in an
earlier note?
You either want it deleted or renamed as is it a condition to
delete another note. Either that or you don't want it renamed
or deleted and it is not a condition.
You only defended something you believe is in error. There was a
question placed before you. Why do you note here if you dislike it so?
Allison
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9.495 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | | Tue Nov 03 1992 17:42 | 10 |
| I've deleted my previous warning, but I will say that whining in
another conference about this one is both cheap and childish. I
know because I used to be critical of GOLF::CHRISTIAN in this file
until someone pointed out the unworthiness of such actions to me.
Neither do I wish to see CP become a dumping ground for discussions
occuring in other conferences.
Richard
|
9.496 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 03 1992 17:51 | 21 |
| > You either want it deleted or renamed as is it a condition to
> delete another note. Either that or you don't want it renamed
> or deleted and it is not a condition.
Allison, you and I have had this problem before. Obviously we don't
speak the same version of English, because you claim I say things I
haven't said, and I can't parse your sentence above.
I said what is written in ones and zeroes. What stands before says that
I will delete x _if_ y is deleted or renamed. It does not say that I
want anything to happen to either x or y -- it is a response to a demand
that x be deleted.
>Why do you participate here?
For the same reason that Jill, Collis, Alfred, and Pat participate here:
To present the central truths of Christianity: death to sin and new life
in Christ, in the midst of what is claimed to be a Christian Perspective
but which denies millenia of teaching on the calling of Christ.
/john
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9.497 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 03 1992 17:52 | 8 |
| Well, hurt feelings and/or disparaging comments aside, I must say I
think /john was well-baited with a topic named "Things to hate today."
:-)
And so weren't we.
Karen
|
9.498 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 03 1992 17:57 | 10 |
| /john .496,
You're splitting hairs here now. Anyway, I think we understand the
basic gist of your message.
Rest yourself. It's been a loooong day.
Peace,
Karen
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9.499 | smile it's not so grim | VIDSYS::PARENT | it's only a shell, mislabled | Tue Nov 03 1992 19:20 | 10 |
|
John,
Since my native language is assembler, binary will do.
Of course I could resort to Pascal and forget a semicolon or
two... ;-)
Allison
|
9.500 | My "Christian" perspective | MORO::BEELER_JE | Stop the world. I want off | Tue Nov 03 1992 21:12 | 64 |
| .482> I've never understood why people want notes deleted.
If that's the case please help me to reconcile this with your commentary
in SOAPBOX .. Note 12.5034. In 12.5034, your response to an individual
who asked you to delete a note: "...if Bubba offered to delete C-P
91.whatever..."
It appears that you will delete a note if someone named Bubba offered to
delete C-P 91.whatever. Why in the world would you want note 91.whatever
deleted? I've never understood why people want notes deleted.
.482> seemed to me that if you don't like a note, you just write a better
.482> note, showing the error in the one you don't like.
I agree ... why would you want C-P 91.whatever deleted? Why not just write
a better note showing the error in the one that you don't like, 91.whatever?
.482> That would be a real Christian Perspective.
One thing that I have learned from this conference is that there is more
than one Christian Perspective. For this I am forever thankful. I have
learned that my actions speak louder than words - and those actions seem
to label me as a Christian. There are a number of people in this conference
- people that by all reasonable measures would be considered "Christians" ...
that have told me that I exhibit the qualities of a Christian. That made
me feel good. Darned good.
Don't ask me to explain "why" it makes me feel good because if you have to
ask ... you wouldn't understand the answer.
Now, you personally can (and probably will) rant and rave all you want.
Believe it or not I will defend to the death your right to do that ... but
guess to what end it effects me - personally? Try ... a hill of beans. I
am proud to be called a Christian and that's what matters to me.
If the hallmark of Christianity is rooted in lack of common courtesy and
lack of respect - I want nothing to do with it. This conference (and I use
the term 'conference' in the global sense has) shown me that this is NOT
the case. Christianity is indeed rooted in respect and understanding.
Such is the case in my refusal to even respond to the not-so-veiled request
that you made in SOAPBOX for me to delete 91.whatever in C-P. To have
responded to such a pusillanimous request was to give it dignity. This, I
refuse to do. I was not afforded the simple courtesy of correspondence
which would indicate dissatisfaction with the 91.whatever note. I was
not afforded those simple elements of professionalism, and courtesy. I do
not and will not respond to such a decided lack of even minimal professional
and social graces.
If such deficiencies are elements of your "Christian perspective" you
may rest assured that I wholeheartedly and resolutely reject your Christian
perspective. Without reservation. Without hesitation. Without fear.
My personal perspective: You may with all your heart and soul - defile
C-P and/or me. You may do it in any forum that you so desire. You may,
within the limits of P&P, do so in any language that you so desire. For me,
personally, the "hill of beans" syndrome comes to mind. For other participants
of this conference ... I'm sure that they'll pray for your rapid recovery.
John, take a look at St. Luke 23:34. I'm sure that that Jesus will include you
in His request.
Bubba
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9.501 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 03 1992 23:09 | 10 |
| Bubba A Christian, and proud of it?
God has *surely* wrought a miracle.
Amen. I DO believe!
Seriously...I have an inkling as to how big a statement that is
for you to make, Bubba. Wow.
Karen
|
9.502 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 04 1992 00:37 | 14 |
| >I agree ... why would you want C-P 91.whatever deleted?
I don't want any notes deleted.
You know I don't, because you are the author of C-P 91.whatever, and I never
asked you or any one of the moderators to delete C-P 91.whatever. I do not
want it deleted. I have never wanted it deleted. The note was just a "Thing
to Hate Today" one day. There was no request for you to do anything about it.
>to label me as a Christian.
'Lujah, sag i, lujah!
/john
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9.503 | Lemme' think on this .... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Stop the world. I want off | Wed Nov 04 1992 01:33 | 18 |
| .501> Bubba A Christian, and proud of it?
.501> God has *surely* wrought a miracle.
Now .. hold youah' horses there mah' little magnolia. I said that people
had pinned the label on me and I'd be proud to wear it. Yep', I'd be
right proud to wear it ... all this time I thought that I had to do
something special or be something special .. and here I find out that
I don't need to do nothin' but be myself and pretty much keep doin'
things that I've always done. That do make me feel good.
Then again .. I gotta' be real careful right now for I am ..well..
NUI (Noting Under the Influence). Tonights elections results have
caused me to partake in a number of Michelob "Golden Draft" to try to
dround my sorrows. Fure not for I has not done it to excess .. I'm
in fall cuntrol of my facalties - and that's what I tole the ossifer
what brunged me home.
Bubba
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9.504 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Master of time, space & notes. | Wed Nov 04 1992 08:31 | 35 |
| It seems to me, given the sometimes open admission of hostility to this
notes conference, that it might be worth considering the usefulness by
those of us who value it to simply ignore what its attackers write
here.
I know that it is always difficult to remain silent in the face of
absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against one's own beliefs.
Nevertheless, ignoring those individuals who are disruptive and hostile
would have the benefit of making for valid and useful discussions among
the rest of us.
One possible response to this is to simply take note of those authors
who clearly have a hostile agenda against this notes file and its
mission; then, when you are reading notes, simply check the author
before reading the text. If the note is from one of those people who
clearly hate this notes file, simply ignore the note. Don't even read
it. Its content will probably only get your dander up, and responding
to it will accomplish nothing because those individuals have clearly
eschewed any interest in legitimate dialogue and honest communication.
We are their enemy, and their have made clear that consider it a virtue
and a calling from God not to respect theological differences of
opinion with us.
I understand the obvious objection to this approach. By ignoring
them--as hard as I know it must be to let their offensive comments go
without a response--we are not somehow conceding victory to them. That
is a macho way of looking at notes, that implies that one must somehow
always have the last word. By simply choosing to ignore them, we can
build this into the kind of notes file we wish it to be, without
allowing ourselves to be dragged down by such disruption.
Comments? Is this a good or a bad idea? How many people would be
willing to take a vow towards that end?
-- Mike
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9.505 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Nov 04 1992 09:42 | 5 |
| Re: .500
Excellent Jerry!
Marc H.
|
9.506 | Children do like to play ... | MORO::BEELER_JE | Stop the world. I want off | Wed Nov 04 1992 10:23 | 28 |
| .504> One possible response to this is to simply take note of those authors
.504> who clearly have a hostile agenda against this notes file and its
.504> mission; then, when you are reading notes, simply check the author
.504> before reading the text.
I always do this .. as a matter of "habit". It makes reading notes much
easier and faster and at times a lot easier on the blood pressure. Indeed,
the NEXT UNSEEN or NEXT REPLY gets quite a workout at times.
.504> I understand the obvious objection to this approach. By ignoring
.504> them--as hard as I know it must be to let their offensive comments go
.504> without a response--we are not somehow conceding victory to them.
Not at all! I well (WELL) remember the day my first-born used a very
healthy swear word. The wife and I took a very deep breath and didn't
crack a smile, didn't say a word. Totally ignored the incident. Worked
like a charm - she never tried it again.
Same in notes. Some people limply like to be seen and heard and they
use notes to draw attention. The more attention they draw .. the more
they pontificate.
.505> Re: .500
.505> Excellent Jerry!
Thank you, Sir.
Bubba
|
9.507 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | waiting for the snow | Wed Nov 04 1992 14:32 | 7 |
| re .504
Excellent idea Mike. There are lots of questions I sincerely want to
dialogue about. Since I cannot dialogue with those who reject free and
open dialogue, I too choose not to.
Patricia
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9.508 | Re: The Processing Topic | QUABBI::"[email protected]" | | Wed Nov 04 1992 16:30 | 20 |
|
In article <9.504-921104-083102@valuing_diffs.christian-perspective>, [email protected] (Master of time, space & notes.) writes:
X-Note-Id: 9.504 (504 replies)
Date: Wed, 4 Nov 92 08:31:02 EST
Title: The Processing Topic
Reply Title: (none)
> It seems to me, given the sometimes open admission of hostility to this
> notes conference, that it might be worth considering the usefulness by
> those of us who value it to simply ignore what its attackers write
> here.
>
> I know that it is always difficult to remain silent in the face of
> absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against one's own beliefs.
> Nevertheless, ignoring those individuals who are disruptive and hostile
> would have the benefit of making for valid and useful discussions among
> the rest of us.
[posted by Notes-News gateway]
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9.509 | I can search backup tapes, too | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Wed Nov 04 1992 16:44 | 16 |
| re Note 545.36 by CSC32::KINSELLA:
> I believe it's vanished. It was moved from 546 to 23. Now my note
> is no more. <weeping, sobbing> No notification or explanation of
> why, it's just non-existent. Maybe I anger a moderator or two, so
> the gods that be, deleted me. I don't honestly know where it is
> or it's replies. I imagine it didn't fit in with genre. Maybe it
> was relocated again. Oh well.
I'm not 100% sure what your getting at, Jill, but in this
conference I found several notes of yours written since
26 October addressed in part to Dave:
300.83, 300.85, 544.47, 546.47
Bob
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9.510 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Wed Nov 04 1992 17:01 | 1 |
| Thank you Bob.
|
9.511 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | | Wed Nov 04 1992 17:39 | 9 |
| .509 & 510,
I concur. No notes have been lost or deleted. 500.55 explains.
The notes could easily be found by using the command:
SET SEEN/BEFORE=03-NOV-1992<CR> then pressing next unseen <kp",">
through the day's activity.
Richard
|
9.512 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | | Wed Nov 04 1992 20:38 | 9 |
| I recognize my brother in Christ, "Bubba" Jerry Beeler, and welcome
him into the family of God.
Peace,
Richard
PS Actually, I was beginning to wonder, Jerry, if you would ever notice the
family resemblence. ;-)
|
9.513 | :-) | MORO::BEELER_JE | Stop the world. I want off | Wed Nov 04 1992 20:52 | 10 |
| .512> Actually, I was beginning to wonder, Jerry, if you would ever notice the
.512> family resemblance. ;-)
"family resemblance" ... between who and who?
If you're talking resemblance between me and you ... Richard .. whatever
you're sippin' ... it's gotta' be better than any Texas moonshine that I
ever tasted. Hey, save me a quart or so ...
Bubba
|
9.514 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Wed Nov 04 1992 23:50 | 17 |
| Re: 545.62
Patrick,
The original note you're querying Richard on was directed to Jill, not
you, in case you hadn't noticed. Richard never claimed you used any
labels, but rather was describing the ones he used and why.
"Projecting" a C-P speak term? On the slim chance you aren't joking,
it's a common psychological term, the meaning of which you'll
find in any dictionary: to ascribe one's own feelings to others.
Karen
p.s. Richard, you forgot the label "sick." Oh, and "heathen" is
an accurate term, and not just mere projection on your part: We do
have self-professed non-Christians who contribute here regularly.
|
9.515 | Most Likely Tastes Bad! | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Nov 05 1992 08:16 | 5 |
| Re: .513
I didn't think that Texan's knew how to make shine....
Marc H.
|
9.516 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Nov 05 1992 08:54 | 17 |
| re: 545.62
I have no idea what is meant by "the original note". To me and I hope
to other readers, 545.62, 545.60, 545.58, etc. form a discussion of
the Christian perspective.
What motivates a reply like 9.514 with the snide personal comment "in
case you hadn't noticed...", Moderator Karen?
Is the "projection" here I'm too stupid to notice something? Is this a
campaign to intimidate me by insults scattered through the conference
without connection to a discussion of the Christian Perspective?
I write here for myself. I ask direct questions to understand or
disambiguate the statements of others. I do not label, I do not
project, I do not attribute my own opinions into others. This is an
example that others would do well to follow.
|
9.517 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Nov 05 1992 09:47 | 9 |
| Patrick,
It's obvious you're having a "bad" day.
I wish you well.
Adieu,
Karen
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9.518 | | YAMS::FERWERDA | Displaced Beiruti | Thu Nov 05 1992 10:42 | 70 |
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In article <9.504-921104-083102@valuing_diffs.christian-perspective>, [email protected] (Master of time, space & notes.) writes:
X-Note-Id: 9.504 (504 replies)
Date: Wed, 4 Nov 92 08:31:02 EST
Title: The Processing Topic
Reply Title: (none)
> It seems to me, given the sometimes open admission of hostility to this
> notes conference, that it might be worth considering the usefulness by
> those of us who value it to simply ignore what its attackers write
> here.
>
> I know that it is always difficult to remain silent in the face of
> absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against one's own beliefs.
> Nevertheless, ignoring those individuals who are disruptive and hostile
> would have the benefit of making for valid and useful discussions among
> the rest of us.
.
.
.
> -- Mike
Mike,
It was my understanding that John Covert felt that it was "difficult
to remain silent in the face of absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against
one's own beliefs." and that his note in SOAPBOX reflected that. I should
say as someone who as only looked in on SOAPBOX once or twice in the last
few years that it was very apparent to me that the "THINGS I HATE TODAY"
note is clearly a steam-venting note and not to be taking seriously.
The difficult things about this conference is that both
"sides" see the other as carrying out absurd or obnoxious attacks.
The folks who plant themselves in the "orthodox" camp see the
characterization of non-orthodox beliefs as orthodox as an insult
against God. The folks who don't plant themselves in the orthodox
camp see the constant harping of the "orthodox" on a narrow view of
truth as insulting because it implicitly (or explicitly) dismisses
their views as non-truth.
Both sides see the others' statements as devaluing their beliefs.
The answer? I'm not sure, but as I've said in other notes I'm
trying to figure out how to dialog when the other side rejects and demeans
some of my fundamental assumptions about the world.
PS. In a conference like this you have to have thick skin. I try to listen
to what folks say, and think about it. If it doesn't fit then I try not
to get worked up about it as the other person is most likely wrong anyway. 8-)
--
---
Paul [email protected]
Gordon [email protected]
Loptson clt::ferwerda
Ferwerda Tel (603) 881 2221
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9.519 | non-orthodoxy is how Christianity started! | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Nov 05 1992 11:34 | 30 |
| re Note 9.518 by YAMS::FERWERDA:
> it was very apparent to me that the "THINGS I HATE TODAY"
> note is clearly a steam-venting note and not to be taking seriously.
I thought that was true of just about everything in SOAPBOX!
> The folks who plant themselves in the "orthodox" camp see the
> characterization of non-orthodox beliefs as orthodox as an insult
> against God.
Paul,
Are you saying that those who present non-orthodox beliefs
here try to imply that they are actually orthodox beliefs? I
can't recall any examples of that. On the other hand, I have
seen examples of where a non-orthodox belief is presented
with the claim that the orthodox belief is wrong or
incomplete.
I can see that that is challenging, but why is it taken as so
threatening -- can't the holders of orthodox beliefs simply
refute or deny the non-orthodox beliefs without being
offended or worse?
They seem to forget that Christianity in its early years was
unorthodox in its entirety.
Bob
|
9.520 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Thu Nov 05 1992 20:00 | 33 |
| Patrick 9.516,
> What motivates a reply like 9.514 with the snide personal comment "in
> case you hadn't noticed...", Moderator Karen?
I've known Karen long enough and well enough to know when she might be being
snide or not. And she's not this time. If one reads the sentence without the
tag "in case you hadn't noticed," the statement comes across as brutal and
unforgiving; two qualities which "Moderator Karen" seldom, if ever,
exhibits. And further, why did you put the tag "Moderator" in front of
Karen's name?? Do you have a problem with women in positions of authority?
> Is the "projection" here I'm too stupid to notice something?
What motivates you to ask something as insulting as this??
> Is this a
> campaign to intimidate me by insults scattered through the conference
> without connection to a discussion of the Christian Perspective?
I see no evidence of any campaign to intimidate you by insults scattered
through the conference. There is no conspiracy of any kind. There is
an effort here by the moderators to maintain some semblance of order and
continuity. If a topic is becoming derailed, it is not unusual for the
derailing notes to be moved to a more appropriate topic or perhaps placed
under an entirely new topic. Parallel topics are frequently combined. I
know that as a moderator yourself, you already know about these kinds of
things.
Furthermore, the inference that there exists something called "C-P Speak"
is simply bizarre. What motivates you to make such an inference??
Richard
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9.521 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Fri Nov 06 1992 08:09 | 16 |
| >> What motivates a reply like 9.514 with the snide personal comment "in
>> case you hadn't noticed...", Moderator Karen?
>
>I've known Karen long enough and well enough to know when she might be being
>snide or not. And she's not this time.
Alas not all of us know Karen that well. I though she was being snide.
>And further, why did you put the tag "Moderator" in front of
>Karen's name?? Do you have a problem with women in positions of authority?
Gee, are you projecting your own sexist feelings on Pat? Would you
assume that using the tag in front of your name suggested a problem
with men in positions of authority?
Alfred
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9.522 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 06 1992 08:36 | 6 |
|
No Alfred, I don't think so. I believe that Richard was
only using Mr. Sweeney's own tatic of questioning motives.
Dave
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9.523 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Open your note and say 'Ah!' | Fri Nov 06 1992 08:47 | 4 |
| Yes, but when Mr. Sweeney questions people's motives, I am sure that it
is done only in the spirit of Christian love. :-)
-- Mike
|
9.524 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Fri Nov 06 1992 10:44 | 2 |
| A reply like 9.523 is never examined by Karen or Richard or the other
moderators in the processing topic.
|
9.525 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Not necessary the notes. | Fri Nov 06 1992 11:25 | 4 |
| I am sure that Mr. Sweeney's questioning of the moderator's motives is
done in the spirit of Christian love and compassion. :-)
-- Mike (who Mr. Sweeney has characterized as a great evil)
|
9.526 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | it's only a shell, mislabled | Fri Nov 06 1992 11:39 | 7 |
|
Mike,
Please be aware. Patrick did not question the moderators. I saw
no question asked, though I did read the notes in question. ;-)
Allison
|
9.527 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 06 1992 12:26 | 71 |
| My motive in .514 was to resolve a conflict by being clear and concise.
Snideness was not intended, and I thought for several minutes how I should
word my note to be clear and concise. The following is how I saw the
"conflict" unfold which eventually resulted in my note, 9.514:
Richard to Jill in 545.46:
> ...you may feel it your mission to stay and make sure us "heathens"
^^^^
> don't get away with saying anything even slightly heretical or
> extra-biblical.
Richard is _specifically_ addressing _Jill's_ mission, (i.e. motives)
here, no one else's.
Patrick to Richard in 545.58:
> In sincerity, what motivates your description of participants here as
> "heathens and "slightly heretical or extra-biblical"?
> I reject such motives imputed to me.
^^
Patrick reads Richard's note, removes Jill and replaces her with himself
as the recipient of Richard's comments.
Richard to Patrick in 545.60:
> I suppose I'm projecting what I suspect are the perceptions of some.
> I suspect the mere existence of this conference is a source of
> enormous consternation for some.
Patrick to Richard in 545.62:
> I don't have a clue what's meant by CP-speak term "projection."
> As for labels, it is you rather than me who has chosen to apply
> labels, to me and then to yourself. You yourself commit the fault you
> accuse me of.
Patrick is absolutely correct in saying Richard has "choosen to apply
labels," but incorrect in saying Richard "accused him" of using them.
Again, the labels "heathen" and "slightly heretical or extra-biblical"
were in the original note to Jill. Richard plainly owned them and
clarified, when asked by Patrick what his motivations were for using
them. Richard did mention two other labels in 545.60 he's seen used in
C-P such as "A Great Evil" and "Wicked" to describe some participants and
what they share; but I do not read where Richard does what Patrick states,
and that is to accuse Patrick of using them.
So at this time I entered .514, to point out the one detail that
apparently Patrick missed -- a detail which could "potentially" resolve
this escalating conflict, which was that Richard specifically addressed
_Jill_ and _her mission_ in his original note 545.46. I then followed
with "Richard never claimed you used any labels, but rather was describing
the ones he used and why."
Bottom line, .514 was not written to be snide -- it was written to be
clear and concise, with the hopes of illuminating the point at which a
conflict ignited. I am definately open to suggestions as to other ways
I could have said the same thing without having appeared "snide" to some.
If anyone has other alternatives, please write them here or send them to
me off-line. More than likely we'll encounter a similar situation again.
I freely admit what I suspect is obvious to all.
...I did dip .514's p.s. in a bath of salt and satire. Though perhaps
obvious to all, I'm sure it wasn't appreciated by some. But I think
that's a quality I share with everyone here, I don't always do or say
what's appreciated.
Karen
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9.528 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Not necessary the notes. | Fri Nov 06 1992 12:47 | 6 |
| A self-deprecating reference to this notes file with words like
"heathens", "slightly heretical", and "extra-biblical" can be seen as a
response to a recent pejorative description of this notes file as
having been founded by "neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others".
-- Mike (the Great Evil)
|
9.529 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Sat Nov 07 1992 15:47 | 6 |
| .527,
That is one of the most *thorough* explanations I've ever seen in Notes!
8*)
Richard
|
9.530 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 09 1992 23:26 | 3 |
| I think it's very interesting that Richard, when copying news articles
from GOLF::CHRISTIAN to this conference, as he does almost daily, skipped
the Globe article posted there yesterday.
|
9.531 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Nov 10 1992 08:01 | 5 |
| Re: .530
Why don't you copy it? I don't read Golf::Christain
Marc H.
|
9.532 | And why did he skip this particular one? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 10 1992 08:49 | 1 |
| I didn't copy it because Richard usually copies them all.
|
9.533 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Nov 10 1992 08:59 | 3 |
| Still....Why don't you copy it? I'm curious now...
Marc H.
|
9.534 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 10 1992 09:17 | 1 |
| Done.
|
9.535 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 10 1992 09:26 | 5 |
| Thanks /john. Soundbite noted. :-) Btw, I didn't think Richard copied
these over from GOLF::, rather that he posts them directly from CLARInet.
Was this article distributed by that news service?
Karen
|
9.536 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 10 1992 09:36 | 4 |
| I have good reason (and evidence) to believe he copies them from
GOLF::CHRISTIAN.
/john
|
9.537 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Nov 10 1992 09:40 | 3 |
| Thanks /john...interesting article. Interesting quote you gave too.
Marc H.
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9.538 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 10 1992 10:15 | 12 |
| .536,
If he does /john, then he also missed a couple other recent postings
there as well, so I wouldn't automatically feel slighted. I did notice
that CLARInet didn't distribute yours; but knowing Richard as I do, if
he had read your posting and seen your soundbite in it, he would've
been sure to post it here and recognize your contribution.
In any event, please feel free to post news items yourself in the
future.
Karen
|
9.539 | It wasn't in Topic 29 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Tue Nov 10 1992 15:46 | 13 |
| I do gleen the news items that I post from GOLF::CHRISTIAN Topic 29. It's
mostly because I've never been able to successfully access CLARInet directly.
And even those extracted from Topic 29 in GOLF::CHRISTIAN are done so
selectively. After checking topic 29, in recent days I've simply been doing
a SET SEEN.
I regret having missed the article which included John Covert's statement.
It was not intentional. My apologies for any hard feelings my oversight
may have caused.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.540 | 29.457 | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 10 1992 15:48 | 4 |
| > -< It wasn't in Topic 29 >-
>Richard
?????
|
9.541 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:09 | 8 |
| .540
Okay. I missed it. No excuses.
It wasn't deliberate. It's probably due to some malady related to
aging, waning eye-sight, or overall incompetence on my part.
Richard
|
9.543 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 11 1992 23:32 | 32 |
| Well, maybe it wasn't deliberate last time, but it was this time:
From CHRISTIAN:
================================================================================
Note 29.466 Religion in the News 466 of 468
-< Church of England voting on women priests >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
From: [email protected] (PETER SHADBOLT)
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 29.467 Religion in the News 467 of 468
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 5 lines 11-NOV-1992 14:32
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
It passed.
It still has to be approved by Parliament and given royal assent.
/john
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 29.468 Religion in the News 468 of 468
-< UPI: Tilton sues ABC-TV, Prime Time Live >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
And in here:
================================================================================
Note 41.270 Religion in the News 270 of 274
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Strength through peace" 78 lines 11-NOV-1992 18:54
-< Church of England voting on women priests >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 41.271 Religion in the News 271 of 274
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Strength through peace" 42 lines 11-NOV-1992 18:55
-< Tilton sues ABC-TV, "Prime Time Live" >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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9.544 | Lots of revelations | MORO::BEELER_JE | Stop the world. I want off | Thu Nov 12 1992 02:00 | 21 |
| You know ... I checked note 41 and much to my amazement replies are
enabled. What this means is that anyone can enter a reply in note 41.
Truly a revelation!
I also checked the basenote of 41. I read each and every word and
carefully analyzed both the spirit and the letter of what was said.
I found no commitments, expressed or implied, as to the accuracy,
timeliness, or relative content of the "news" notices which were to be
posted in the string. Truly a revelation!
I diligently searched basenote 41 and could not find any indication of
commitments with respect to any detailed comparisons between news items
posted in another conference and similar news items posted in this con-
ference. Truly a revelation!
Perhaps the author of 9.543 takes joy in his folly? Ah ... I recall
Proverbs 15:21 (the first part) ... now I understand.
Bubba
|
9.545 | I have a personal policy about cross-posting personal notes | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Thu Nov 12 1992 14:31 | 3 |
| .543 Yes, it was deliberate this time.
Richard
|
9.546 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Thu Nov 12 1992 17:02 | 11 |
| John Covert,
You do exceptionally well at pointing out the faults of
CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE. There *is* some edifying purpose to it,
isn't there??
The message I get is that your chronic trashing of C-P is
either for its own sake or because the conference fails to embrace
your particular brand of Christianity.
Richard
|
9.547 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 12 1992 18:02 | 7 |
| This conference fails to embrace what any Church which is a member of the
National Council of Churches of Christ in the USA would call Christianity.
References to "Goddess" are extremely offensive in a conference which
claims to represent a Christian Perspective.
/john
|
9.548 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Thu Nov 12 1992 18:15 | 9 |
| John,
I suspect you fail to grasp what CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is all about.
I regret that you are offended by the term "Goddess," but it's use is
not prohibited here.
Richard
|
9.549 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Thu Nov 12 1992 18:21 | 7 |
|
Be it known that I will not be a member of *ANY* church
which belongs to the National Council of Churches of Christ or its "big
brother" the World Council of Churches. Read their "agenda" and you'll
know why.
Dave
|
9.550 | "Goddess" and a "Christian Perspective" are mutually exclusive | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 12 1992 18:29 | 10 |
| Note that I was not affirming the NCC, but merely using that as an easy
way of listing a large number of Churches.
Yes, Richard, I know what this conference is all about. It is about
putting forward a theology which is contrary to historic Christianity
as it is received by Baptists, Catholics (Anglican/Episcopal, Roman,
or Orthodox), Methodists, Presbyterians, Lutherans, or any other mainstream
Christian Church.
/john
|
9.551 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Thu Nov 12 1992 18:41 | 11 |
| .550
John,
That is your perception, and perhaps some others, of what this
conference is all about. However, it is certainly not my perception
of what this conference is all about. Neither do I believe it is what
a number of others who note here preferentially perceive this conference
is all about.
Richard
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9.552 | Bye? | MORO::BEELER_JE | Stop the world. I want off | Thu Nov 12 1992 18:56 | 7 |
| John .. if you wish I'll send you the VAX Notes documentation which
will tell you how to start your own conference.
Personally ... I don't stay in conferences that I don't like. It never
ceases to amaze me that others do.
Bubba
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9.553 | | VIDSYS::PARENT | cracklyn nuts, sweets | Thu Nov 12 1992 19:05 | 11 |
|
John,
Since when does reference to Goddess, or many other things represent
the global view of the conference? We do allow the airing of divergent
views but that is not represent endoresment. You are assigning someones
personal belief or outlook to the conference, we cannot do that.
Regards,
Allison
|
9.554 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Nov 12 1992 19:20 | 16 |
| > References to "Goddess" are extremely offensive in a conference which
> claims to represent a Christian Perspective.
Think again /john. "Goddess" simply refers to the feminine aspect of
God. Have you read about Sophia in the Bible? That's another name for
God's feminine aspect. And may I remind you of Pope John Paul I's
pronouncement shortly before his untimely death: "God is both mother
and father, but God is more mother than father."
Imagine if this visionary Pope had lived longer. What a wonderful
renaissance the church might have experienced.
sigh.
Karen
|
9.555 | This quote attributed to John Paul I is probably spurious | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 12 1992 19:39 | 15 |
| >"Goddess" simply refers to the feminine aspect of God.
>Have you read about Sophia in the Bible? That's another name for
>God's feminine aspect.
Nonsense. Holy Wisdom (Sophia) is generally referred to as "she" but is never
referred to as "Goddess". Just because you might have some masculine aspects
does not mean we can refer to you as Mr. Berggren.
>And may I remind you of Pope John Paul I's pronouncement shortly before his
>untimely death: "God is both mother and father, but God is more mother than
>father."
References? The Holy Father contradicting Jesus? Unlikely.
/john
|
9.556 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Nov 12 1992 20:54 | 11 |
| Unfortunately /john, we have no name that would embrace both the
masculine and feminine aspects of God.
Pope John Paul I's statement is originally cited from _In God's
name: An investigation into the murder of Pope John Paul I_
(Yallop, 1984).
I have a feeling most things you don't agree with are shrugged off
as "probably spurious." I guess I can understand that reaction.
Karen
|
9.557 | Was anyone ever prosecuted for this "murder"? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 12 1992 21:34 | 9 |
| I wonder about the authority of a book entitled "An Investigation into the
Murder of John Paul I".
Clearly someone with an axe to grind.
What is his source for the quote? When did John Paul I say it, and who
else heard him say it? What independent sources quote it?
/john
|
9.558 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Thu Nov 12 1992 22:44 | 5 |
| > Clearly someone with an axe to grind.
Yes, perhaps that's all there is to it.
Karen
|
9.559 | What is the Problem? | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Nov 13 1992 07:59 | 7 |
| /john.......For someone who is as smart as you are, I'm surprised you
have just a warped view of this conference. I don't believe for one
moment in the Goddess labeling and I have a very hard time with
abortion..but....what is the problem with listening to different points
of view?
Marc H.
|
9.560 | bothers me, too, but I accept pluralism | TAMARA::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Nov 13 1992 08:01 | 13 |
| re Note 9.548 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> I regret that you are offended by the term "Goddess," but it's use is
> not prohibited here.
Actually, I am a bit bothered (I wouldn't say "offended") by
the term "Goddess" as well because to me it implies that the
Godhead has gender, which I do not believe. I personally do
not interpret the English word "God" to imply male gender
(although I can understand that some would read the record of
tradition as saying that "God" is a male term).
Bob
|
9.561 | | DEMING::VALENZA | To note me is to love me. | Fri Nov 13 1992 08:14 | 14 |
| It is true that there are individuals here who express theological
points of view that others might find offensive.
It is untrue that this conference is "about" putting forward any
theology, particularly one that anyone happens to disapprove of. The
reality is that anyone who writes a note here objecting to a theology
expressed here is too a participant of this conference, and therefore
is is part of what this conference is "about". The conference has no
theology, and it puts forward no theology; it is the individuals who
participate here who have theologies. The conference offers a forum
where people of diverse theologies, including those being trashed by
certain individuals here, can express them.
-- Mike
|
9.562 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Fri Nov 13 1992 08:27 | 9 |
| > Unfortunately /john, we have no name that would embrace both the
> masculine and feminine aspects of God.
Fortunately Karen, we have a name that embraces both the masculine
and feminine aspects of God. It is "Father." Only the most sexist
or those ignorent of the role of father would deny that role having
both masculine and feminine aspects. Or those trying to insult.
Alfred
|
9.563 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 08:34 | 7 |
| If this conference has no theology, then why is it called
"Christian-Perspective"?
The Christian Perspective is that worshipping a Goddess is
mortal sin.
/john
|
9.564 | | DEMING::VALENZA | To note me is to love me. | Fri Nov 13 1992 08:55 | 20 |
| Perhaps you are confused over the distinction between content and
subject matter. The subject matter of this conference is Christianity;
the content is up to the individuals who participate here. Individuals
can adhere to whatever theology concerning Christianity they want, and
in fact freely do so. There is a notes file that conflates content and
subject matter--it is located on GOLF. In that notes file, not only is
the subject matter controlled by the moderators, but only certain
theologies *about* that subject matter are allowed to be expressed
there.
If you have a problem with the name of this conference, that's
unfortunate, but the fact remains that this conference has no theology.
"This conference" does not worship a Goddess; individuals who
participate here have every right to do so. While we all appreciate
your opinions on what constitutes "The Christian Perspective" on
Goddess worship, this conference exercises no censorship over people
who feel otherwise. If you want to participate in a notes conference
that does exercise this kind of censorship, press keypad 7.
-- Mike
|
9.565 | Or are you suggesting I should be censored? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 09:02 | 2 |
| Perhaps you confuse my rebuttal of and disapproval of non-Christian statements
by moderators of Christian Perspective with censorship.
|
9.566 | | DEMING::VALENZA | To note me is to love me. | Fri Nov 13 1992 09:09 | 13 |
| Since your "rebuttal of and disapproval of" allegedly non-Christian
statements by partipants was made in the context of your false
assertion that this notes file has a theology, it was reasonable to
infer that you wish for the notes file to have a different theology
than it currently has. Since the only way for the notes file to "have
a theology" would be through censorship, such as implemented by the
moderators of GOLF, then your complaints about a non-existent theology
of this notes file could only be addressed through censorship.
But perhaps you now admit that this notes file has no theology. If so,
then there is no disagreement.
-- Mike
|
9.567 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 09:28 | 10 |
| I think it can be quite confusing for people as to whether the discussions in
this conference are to represent primarily a Christian Perspective or not.
Especially considering what 1.0 says -- especially about non-Christian topics.
If we agree that "the Goddess" is a non-Christian topic, maybe we should
consider how _repeated_ references to this pagan concept can and should be
reconciled with 1.0. Especially coming from a moderator.
/john
|
9.568 | | DEMING::VALENZA | To note me is to love me. | Fri Nov 13 1992 09:45 | 29 |
| Whether or not discussions in this conference represent primarily what
you consider to be a Christian Perspective or not is entirely up to the
theological composition of its participants.
Allow me to fill you in on a little history. This notes file was
created in no small part in response to the censorship exercised by the
moderators of GOLF. That notes file imposes certain theological
"standards" that determine which opinions on matters of theology can be
expressed there. For you to wish for this notes file to impose
precisely the censorship that was the purpose for this notes file's
creation would be to eliminate that purpose; this conference would
simply be a GOLF clone.
What you seem to want this notes conference to do is contrary to its
purpose. If you want the imposition of a theological standard, I once
again offer you the opportunity to press keypad 7; I am sure that you
will be happy participating in GOLF. If your complaint is that this
notes file exists at all, that's unfortunate, but the moderators are
not going to impose a theological standard here simply because you want
it. That would defeat the reason for its existence.
If you don't like the charter and purpose under which a notes file
operates, you are always free to create your own. Carrying out a
guerrilla war against it, in the hopes that it will someone become what
it was precisely created not to be, is not going to get you anywhere.
We've been through these discussions from the moment it was created;
participants from GOLF wanted to mold this file in the image of GOLF.
Well, that just isn't going to be--at least I hope not! If it ever
does, I'll be among the first to leave.
|
9.569 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 09:56 | 20 |
| Can you find any notes by me that there should be censorship in this
conference? (Maybe you can; I'm not sure.)
What I have done is deplored the fact that this conference, under the
name "Christian Perspective" and under the charter in 1.0, has become
a forum for certain people in positions of authority in this conference
to present very non-Christian views -- views that most of us can agree
are non-Christian.
The censorship I see is your call for me to go elsewhere when I complain
that certain things being presented here (especially references to "the
Goddess") are manifestly contrary to Christianity, and not just to the
practice of Christianity which I practice, but to _any_ historic definition
of Christianity.
The Christian (and Jewish or Moslem) Perspective is that such a drastic
reformulation of the nature of God is not only not Christianity, but is
paganism, a serious violation of the First Commandment.
/john
|
9.570 | | DEMING::VALENZA | To note me is to love me. | Fri Nov 13 1992 10:09 | 28 |
| You say that you are not in favor of censorship, yet you complain that
people present what you consider "non-Christian" views. Your objection
is over the existence of these opinions that you disagree with, here in
this notes file. Since this conference exists in no small part to
allow a wide range of views to be expressed here, then how do you
propose to prevent those opinions from being expressed here, except by
censorship? What is the purpose of complaining about the existence of
certain opinions you disagree with being put forth, if not to wish for
those opinions *not* to be expressed here?
It is hardly censorship to ask people who object to hearing opinions
that they don't like to simply NOT LISTEN TO THEM. If you don't like
the contents of a magazine, my suggestion is that you don't buy it. If
you don't like the opinions expressed on a television show, change the
channel. And if you don't like the fact that opinions you don't like
are expressed here, go to another notes conference, or else create your
own. Not liking opinions that you hear is simply a null and void
complaint against a notes conference (with the exception of those
expressions that violate P&P). What do you propose for people to do
about this? Not express those opinions? If not, if you accept the
right of various opinions that you object to being expressed here, then
what's the complaint?
It's really very simple. Either these opinions that you object to
should be allowed here, or they shouldn't. If you agree that they
should be allowed here, then there is no problem.
-- Mike
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9.571 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Fri Nov 13 1992 10:10 | 13 |
| Note 1.0 was written by one of the original moderators, Bob Fleischer, and
reflects his perspective. (It's his workstation so he got to write 1.0).
Bob also chose the conference title. But there are other perspectives
here besides Bob's. Even though the moderators agree on many things,
probably each moderator has a slightly different idea of what this
conference is about. For example, Bob Fleischer doesn't seem to be
comfortable with the word "Goddess", while other moderators freely use it.
Yes, it's confusing when there is a mixed message from the moderators, but
diversity is one of the most important virtues (as I see it) of this
conference.
-- Bob
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9.572 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 10:28 | 18 |
| Alfred .562,
> Fortunately Karen, we have a name that embraces both the masculine
> and feminine aspects of God. It is "Father." Only the most sexist
> or those ignorent of the role of father would deny that role having
> both masculine and feminie aspects. Or those trying to insult.
Alfred, then you have here an opportunity to enlighten. Please do so
without the disparaging comments. I don't know if the insights you
have on the word "Father" have been presented here before. I am
interested in hearing them, but I would greatly appreciate you doing
so without pronouncing me as the most sexist or ignorant, or as
deliberately trying to insult, just because I do not see things as
you do, nor had the chance to.
Thank you.
Karen
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9.573 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 10:38 | 12 |
| RE: .562 Alfred,
Again, we slide down into a semantics issue.
Actually "Abba" is more closely translated into "daddy", however
thinking God has only the masculine traits is fostered by the use of a
term associated with a specific gender...."Father". This is why
English is not a very good language to translate into as I have
mentioned many times. These issues constantly arise due to our lack of
sensitivity toward other's. I like Supreme Being.
Dave
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9.574 | rambling... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Fri Nov 13 1992 10:46 | 34 |
| As a member in good standing of a mainstream church (Episcopal) I am happy to
say that I see a healthy mix, for myself, of ideas both within and without my
Christian knowledge and experience. Those within my purview serve to bolster
my foundation and strengthen what is helpful while those without help me to
examine that foundation for cracks that need repairing, and to broaden that
foundation.
I particularly welcome entries that share of the participants' love, pain,
grief, experience and knowledge, especially when presented as their personal
perspective, whether or not they claim to be Christian. For those who share
burdens which have alienated them from Christianity, I would seek, though
imperfectly at times, to demonstrate the love that Christ brought to the whole
world, not focusing on converting that person to Christianity, but simply to
show the love of Jesus in the world.
Many times in the Gospels, Jesus answers questions about what one must do to
follow him, but there are also many times when he takes a person's burden upon
himself with no admonition of "I've done this for you, now you'd better follow
me". Unconditional love, with no strings attached, can be very hard to come
by.
People read what they read and hear what they hear, and then they decide what
speaks more directly to them. It is a function of both the content and the
tone of the words. Lies can be sugar coated, the Truth can be wrapped in
bitterness. Neither serves to allow Love into the world.
Here's a thought. What we have in this conference is basically a collection
of letters to one another. Imagine that they might someday be canonized in a
book that will be read for centuries to come. What missives would you keep,
what would you discard? What would you do differently?
Peace,
Jim
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9.575 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri Nov 13 1992 11:23 | 5 |
| RE: .570
Well said!
Marc H.
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9.576 | | GEMVAX::BROOKS | modified radical feminist | Fri Nov 13 1992 12:47 | 12 |
|
.555 and others -
As I understand it, the Goddess is very much a part of Christianity, in the
figure of Mary, albeit in greatly diminished form.
I believe this is discussed in Marina Warner's recent book Alone of All Her
Sex, for one. Also Matthew Fox talks about it in the 1990 film "The Burning
Times."
Dorian
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9.577 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Fri Nov 13 1992 13:17 | 9 |
| RE: .572 Perhaps you did not mean to suggest that father didn't
cover both female and male aspects of God. But it looked that way.
I was of course insulted by that suggestion. Being a father myself
I don't see a difference in roles of father and mother beyond those
obvious physical ones (giving birth and providing milk). There are no
aspects of being a mother beyond those physical ones that I don't
associate with a father as well.
Alfred
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9.578 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 13:25 | 12 |
| re .573
It's my understanding that "Abba" is not "Daddy", but a very respectful
form of "Father". Can anyone confirm or deny?
re .576
Mary is completely human, not a goddess. As the Mother of the most important
Man that ever lived, she is the spiritual mother of us all, but she does not
give birth to the universe in the manner of the pagan Goddess.
/john
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9.579 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 13:38 | 7 |
| RE: .578
"Abba" is the "diminutive" for of father in the
Greek. Most translate it as closest to "daddy".
Dave
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9.580 | re "positions of authority" | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Fri Nov 13 1992 14:30 | 20 |
| re Note 9.569 by COVERT::COVERT:
> a forum for certain people in positions of authority in this conference
The only authority that the moderators of this conference
have and exercise is the authority to enforce Digital
corporate policy -- period.
There is NO ONE who in this conference has or exercises
teaching, theological, or religious authority -- period.
When a moderator -- or anybody else in this conference --
writes on a religious topic they are not doing so from a
position of authority.
Do not regard any moderator in this conference as having any
religious authority over the religious content of this
conference -- they don't have any such authority.
Bob
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9.581 | Abba - transliterated from the Aramaic "Abw" | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 14:32 | 35 |
| Most Biblical scholars agree that Aramaic was Jesus' native
language.
One of the challenging aspects of this language, (which is still
used today in areas of the Middle East) is that the root word(s)
can have several different meanings, and all can apply; i.e. the
root "shm" (pronounced schem) means: name, light, sound, experience,
and atmosphere that extends through all things.
When the original Aramaic texts were translated into Greek, much
of the full aramaic meanings were lost because of the inequities
between the two languages, and to make the translation task
easier, the Greek translators chose only one interpretation.
(For example the root "shm" appears numerous times in the original
text. One of the Greek translations for it was the phrase "Pray
in My name", however, its meaning expands greatly when one considers
the full meaning of "shm" referenced in the above paragraph.)
Perhaps even more importantly, many Aramaic roots have _both_
masculine and feminine genders identified with them, such as "Abw"
from which the Greek "Abba" is derived. One definition of the
Aramaic root "Abw," for example, is "all sources of parenting."
But the Greek translations, having no gender inclusive terms,
chose the masculine gender for those Aramaic words which were
gender inclusive. (And according to Aramaic scholars Klotz and
Errico, the Greeks choose to transliterate most feminine gender
Aramaic words into a Greek word with neutral gender.) The end
result is that most of the gender inclusive aspects of God which
are obvious in the Aramaic language, get lost as they were
converted into strictly masculine terms in the Greek.
For further reading: Prayers of the Cosmos: Meditations with the
Aramaic Jesus -- Neil Douglas-Klotz.
Karen
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9.582 | | GEMVAX::BROOKS | modified radical feminist | Fri Nov 13 1992 14:59 | 8 |
|
.578
Nevertheless, in the persistence of such pronounced reverence for Mary over
so long a period of time -- and in the proliferation of cathedrals dedicated
to Mary during the Middle Ages -- there are strong parallels with the
reverence for the Pagan Great Mother Goddess.
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9.583 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 15:31 | 10 |
| re .579
>"Abba" is the "diminutive" for of father in the
>Greek. Most translate it as closest to "daddy".
Sources, please. What is the non-diminutive form?
This doesn't seem to agree with Karen in .581
/john
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9.584 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 15:49 | 17 |
| Actually it is very compatible /john. One definition of the Aramaic
"Abw" as mentioned is "all sources of parenting." The Greek "Abba"
meaning "daddy" captures, probably as close as possible, the Greeks
translation of this ultimate "parenting" activity. Again, since they
do not, have a gender inclusive word for "Abw", they opted for daddy
over mommy, and instead of daddy and mommy.
It's common for people to conceptualize God in anthropomorphic terms,
therefore it would've been a challenge to present God as both daddy and
mommy. The Aramaic people did not have that issue, apparently. Notice
too, that many translations of Aramaic language are highly nuanced and
rich in metaphors. Abw, the "source of all parenting" has a more
poetic nature than anthropomorphic. Thus, this points to just some of
the innate challenges, I think, inherent in rendering a comprehensive
translation of some of the old Aramaic texts.
Karen
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9.585 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 15:51 | 1 |
| p.s. non-dimunitive form of daddy -- father.
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9.586 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Fri Nov 13 1992 16:10 | 9 |
| Such "strong parallels" need to be elaborated upon.
The devotion that Roman Catholics and other Christians have to the
Blessed Virgin Mary and to the other saints is not the worship that is
due to God alone.
It is insulting to have my beliefs characterized in such a way so as to
support the idea of a "Pagan Great Mother Goddess". Such a
characterization is pagan by definition and not Christian.
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9.587 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 16:21 | 18 |
| RE: .586
>the devotion that Roman Catholics and other Christians have to the
>Blessed Virgin Mary and to the other saints is not the worship that is
>due to God alone.
>It is insulting to have my beliefs characterized in such a way so as to
>support the idea of a "Pagan Great Mother Goddess".
Ok. Lets talk about insults. I find it offensive that a
person would believe that *ANYONE* other than God needs to be prayed
to. Then you talk about pagan....ok....Catholics pray to "icons" the
Greek word for idol...explain that to me.
Dave
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9.588 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 16:39 | 11 |
| RE .587
Let me explain that I am not belittling *ANYONE'S* belief here
and certainly not the Roman Catholics. But I am trying to point out
that words can be misleading unless you investigate what is meant by
them. God by *ANY* other name is still God and there is only one.
I have heard *NO ONE* claim to be pagan and yet you insist on putting
that label on them.
Dave
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9.589 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 16:49 | 17 |
| re .587
Doesn't this conference have a "Prayer request" topic?
I don't know anything that Catholics do that you described in .587 that
is different than what you do in this conference when you ask (pray)
that someone might pray for you or for an intention.
Christians believe that we can ask other Christians to pray for us.
The Bible says that "not even death will separate us" (this is the
communion of saints), thus, even though someone is no longer alive
in this world, we believe s/he is alive in Christ, and that through
Christ we can pray that s/he pray for us or for our intentions.
"icon" does not mean "idol", it means "picture" or "represenation".
/john
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9.590 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 16:55 | 14 |
| > p.s. non-dimunitive form of daddy -- father.
Very funny.
Though I may be wrong, it is my understanding that "Abba" is a respectful
title for "Father", and not a dimunitive.
If "Abba" is a Greek diminutive, as it is claimed, I would like someone
to provide a linguistic source documenting this. We've just had someone
claim that "icon" means "idol" (which it doesn't) and that "angel" is a
Hebrew word (which it isn't); so I think you can see why I'm skeptical and
am asking for sources.
/john
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9.591 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 17:00 | 10 |
| BTW, I didn't expect to find it in my dictionary, but it's there:
Abba [Middle English, from Late Latin, from Greek, from Aramaic abba]
FATHER -- a title of honor given variously to the Deity in the New
Testament, to bishops and patriarchs in many Eastern Churches, and
to Jewish scholars in the Talmudic period.
I submit the claim that "Abba" is a diminutive is spurious.
/john
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9.592 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 17:01 | 8 |
|
Well I haven't seen anything from you either but I will
check with my Strongs Exhaustive Concordance. Chuck Swindoll, John
McArthur, Dr. Charles Criswell and other agree about "Abba". And I
think your mincing words with the word Icon....but we'll see.
Dave
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9.593 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Fri Nov 13 1992 17:18 | 11 |
| You insult Catholics and myself by claiming that we pray to "icons".
Icons are images of God and the saints and serve the purpose that
photographs and paintings do and in a pious way allow the mind to
focus on prayerful thought.
You used insulting language "icons the Greek word for idol" without even
being certain. The words are distinct in meaning and etymology.
What motivates you to accuse Catholics of praying to idols? Do you
sincerely believe this?
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9.594 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 17:43 | 26 |
| RE: .593 Mr. Sweeney,
So.....you may insult other beliefs but no
one can yours? Interesting. What you fail to see is that your
(Catholics) praying in front of icons can be thought of as "praying
to". Doesn't feel very good does it? But non-the-less its there and
your constant desire to place your belief above all others at their
expense is also insulting. Am I certain of icon being "idol"? Yes I
am! But thats my belief, supported by a priest of your own faith that
I interviewed while I looked into the Catholic Church. But its *MY*
belief and you cannot take that away from me, just as your's is yours.
My *ONLY* motivation is to point out that accusations can
also be made against your beliefs just as you do against others here in
this file. Your calling those who use the word "Goddess" as pagan is
also insulting and yet you still do it. Why? Because you believe that
your right? Ok...have you ever thought that they might think that they
are right?
As a rule I do not discuss others beliefs but I had to in
this case because of your "insulting" statement about "pagans". What
you have been seeing in others, you do.
Dave
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9.595 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Nov 13 1992 17:49 | 29 |
| >And I think your mincing words with the word Icon....but we'll see.
Icon and idol have different Greek roots.
"eikon" means an image or represenation.
"eidolon" means a phantom, shape, type, image of God.
Both the 2nd Council of Nicea (787) and the Council of Trent forbade both
the worship of icons and the desecration of images of saints. Both Councils
differentiated the forbidden worship from the practice of creating images of
saints to recall them and their devotion to God. It is false to claim that
Catholics worship icons; instead, they are used as means of calling ourselves
to imitate their holy lives.
The Eastern Orthodox view, specified by St. John of Damascus, is: "Just as
in the Bible we listen to the word of Christ and are sanctified, ... in the
same way through the painted icons we behold the representation of his human
form ... and are likewise sanctified."
St. Basil wrote: "The honor shown to the icon passes to the prototype." It
guides us to a vision of the divine Kingdom where past, present and future
are one. It makes vivid our faith in the communion of saints. From the
2nd Council of Nicea: "The more frequently [icons] are seen, the more those
who behold them are aroused to remember and desire the prototypes and to
give them greeting and the veneration of honour; not indeed true worship
which, according to our faith, is due to God alone."
/john
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9.596 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | t/hs+ws=Formula for the future | Fri Nov 13 1992 18:03 | 17 |
|
This little exercise has been useful and yes I did it on
purpose because its the only way I could think of to show you what your
doing.
What I neglected to share was what the Priest said to me
when I asked the question "why do you pray to icons?". He related that
"to" was the wrong word, but it was a reminder of what is in your
heart. A beautiful illistration of where you mind and heart should be.
This is a also professed by Christ. Its not enough to *NOT* do
something but you need to not *WANT* to do these things. Its what is
in your heart and not what seems to be physical. The same thing go for
words....its the meaning and not what *YOU* think the meaning is thats
important.
Dave
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9.597 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Fri Nov 13 1992 19:23 | 30 |
| Dave,
If I have insulted others, it is up to them to bring it to my
attention. I claim no license to insult anyone. I strive to be kind,
courteous, and compassionate to everyone that I communicate with in
Notes.
I don't follow what you are asking by "Doesn't feel very good does it?"
Prayer, and the devotion of others, and the churches that are open for
prayer, and the great works of art that reflect Christian themes make me
feel good.
I deny that I place my beliefs above all others. I claim that Jesus
said that He is "the way, the truth, and the life". To find this
belief the subject of unceasing attack in a file called "�Christian
Perspective" makes quite a paradox, doesn't it? To have the devotional
practices of the largest Christian denomination in the world attacked
here is another paradox.
�
I quoted an earlier note of which you were not the author which made an
insulting association between cathedrals and the "pagan Goddess".
That's just bigotry not insight. I didn't invent this association, I
commented upon it.
As for the claim that the use of the term "Goddess" to refer to the God
who is worshiped by Jews, Christians, and Muslims, it is an error.
I leave it to those more expert regarding paganism to demonstrate that
it is compatible with the words of Jesus who called God "Father"
which is clearly the Christian tradition of 20 centuries
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9.598 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 20:40 | 35 |
| Alfred .577,
> Perhaps you did not mean to suggest that father didn't cover both
> female and male aspects of God.
Yes, I did mean to suggest that.
> I was of course insulted by that suggestion.
Sincerely not intended. But why be "insulted"? I've not been
enculturated to conceptualize father as covering male and female
aspects of God. Is that so unbelievable?
> ...I don't see in roles of father and mother beyond those obvious
> physical ones (giving birth and providing milk). There are no aspects
> of being a mother beyond those physical ones that I don't associate
> with a father as well.
Okay. Well if the roles of mother and father are so interchangeable
and so mutually inclusive of each others roles and attributes, (which
btw, I agree with) why do you feel insulted if I or others use the word
"mother" or other feminine descriptives in talking about God. What's
causing your discomfort and the taking of personal offense, Alfred?
I don't understand.
And because I share similar feelings with what you've written in .577,
and I know Jesus referred to God at times in a gender inclusive way,
(looking at Aramaic texts) I don't have any issues at all with conceiving
and talking about God in terms of Father-Mother and/or God-Goddess.
That's my reasoning for using such terms and descriptors.
Can you understand why I do this, and that I do it without intending
offense to you or anyone else?
Karen
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9.599 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 21:03 | 30 |
| Patrick,
I don't know what kind of comparative study or research you've done
into the pre-Christian religions, and I'm not expert, but from the
research I have done, there are many highly-regarded authors which
have made parallels and associations between Christianity and
the early matrilineal or Goddess-based religions. What makes the
sharing of such information "bigotry"??
And as far as attacking the Catholic faith and devotional practices, I
just want to say that as a child growing up non-Catholic, I always
looked forward to the few times I went to Mass with my friends. I
loved the devotional practice of praying with the various saints and
religous icons. My neighbor, this little old lady who I thought was
crazy, had a statue of Mary out in her garden and I used to derive
great comfort praying in its presence. So I just want to say I really
appreciate, and for whatever reason, have always loved, this aspect of
Catholic devotion, even from the little I really know about it -
theologically speaking. (I also treasure two statues I currently have
of Saint Fiacra? and Saint Francis.)
Anyway, I've read similar associations made between recognizing a
divine female form (Goddess) and the devotion showed to Mary. My own
feeling about it is that many Christians will naturally gravitate and
desire to express a devotion and faith to not only a male image but a
female one as well. I believe this because deep in our hearts there
is a knowing that the Most Divine is neither one nor the other, but
both.
Karen
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9.600 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Fri Nov 13 1992 21:21 | 10 |
| Karen,
Catholics often hear from critics of Catholicism that their devotion
and honor f�or the Blessed Mother s a idoloatry. This has never been
taught by t�he Catholic Church and its repetition isa narrow view and
false.
If there is scholarship that "makes parallels", I'm interested in
reading more about it..
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9.601 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Fri Nov 13 1992 22:25 | 17 |
| It's my guess, Patrick, that most of these critics are non-Catholics.
I can see how they might interpret devotion and honor of the Blessed
Mother as idolatory. And there's the crux of the matter, actually
in most matters, I think - people "interpret" other's experience(s)
all the time.
And the Catholic who endeavors to explain it more fully will rarely,
if ever perhaps, be able to "convince" the critic. Not because they're
deficient or inarticulate, but because there's a much deeper truth and
experience of sanctity in the Catholic experience (as with other
faiths) that is ineffable. And so from those people there may always
be criticism. But I think if the critics could experience the sanctity
of this presence themselves, their criticism would undoubtably unfold
into Grace.
Karen
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9.602 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Fri Nov 13 1992 22:56 | 10 |
| Karen,
Roman Catholics don't insist that all Christians practice special
devotion to Mary. There is no special devotion to Mary that is
required of Catholics beyond attendence at Mass on the feast of her
Glorious Assumption and the feast of her Immaculate Conception.
The common ground for belief regarding Mary is the virgin birth of
Jesus.
I'm asking for tolerance of our beliefs, not ridicule of them.
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9.603 | An olive branch? | DLO15::DAWSON | | Sat Nov 14 1992 05:55 | 42 |
| Patrick,
> If I have insulted others, it is up to them to bring it to my
> attention. I claim no license to insult anyone. I strive to be kind,
> courteous, and compassionate to everyone that I communicate with in
> Notes.
With that statement I sincerely apologize to you. It was not my
Intent to insult you or your Church, but to point out that many others
might see things a bit differently than you do and we ask that we all be
aware of others feelings and when we trample on them even without meaning to,
we need to own up to it. Your statement here makes up for a lot that I have
been feeling.
> I don't follow what you are asking by "Doesn't feel very good does it?"
> Prayer, and the devotion of others, and the churches that are open for
> prayer, and the great works of art that reflect Christian themes make me
> feel good.
As a Southern Baptist, I am attacked for my beliefs often by a secular
world that hates Christ. Just for the record, I came *VERY* close to becoming
a Catholic. There is much that I can and do appreciate about the Church.
> I deny that I place my beliefs above all others. I claim that Jesus
> said that He is "the way, the truth, and the life". To find this
> belief the subject of unceasing attack in a file called "�Christian
> Perspective" makes quite a paradox, doesn't it? To have the devotional
> practices of the largest Christian denomination in the world attacked
> here is another paradox.
Here is where the main issue is. I see you attacking this file as a
whole and you see this file as attacking Christianity. I wonder, and I am
willing to, if we can stop this attacking each other and just converse without
being defensive...on both sides? That is my hope and prayer.
Dave
p.s. Are you using a "Scholar" modem by chance? I noticed the noise in your
notes and I had the problem until I got a DF112. Now I have the laptop and its
even better.
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9.605 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Sat Nov 14 1992 10:30 | 11 |
| .602,
Mae culpae, Patrick. I didn't mean to imply that Roman Catholics
insist on special devotion to Mary, rather I was trying to comment
on devotional practices in general. But I can see where my note
may seem to indicate otherwise. (That's the risk when you have
a non-Catholic commenting on the Catholic faith.) My apologies,
and thanks for setting possible misconceptions straight.
Peace,
Karen
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9.606 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Sat Nov 14 1992 11:09 | 8 |
| re: "Abba"
"The relation between Father and child in the term Abba or "papa"
is a deeply intimate one" (Fox, 1983, p. 67).
The translation of Abba as "papa" is also supported by Edward
Schillebeeckx, theologian, who Fox cites several times in _Original
Blessing_.
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9.607 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Nov 16 1992 08:28 | 5 |
| RE: .594
Excellent Dave ! You have made the point quite well.
Marc H.
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9.608 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Mon Nov 16 1992 08:40 | 28 |
| RE: .598
> Sincerely not intended. But why be "insulted"? I've not been
> enculturated to conceptualize father as covering male and female
> aspects of God. Is that so unbelievable?
No it's not unbelievable. It's just that that is such an old fashioned
sexist attitude that I did not expect it from you.
> Okay. Well if the roles of mother and father are so interchangeable
> and so mutually inclusive of each others roles and attributes, (which
> btw, I agree with) why do you feel insulted if I or others use the word
> "mother" or other feminine descriptives in talking about God. What's
> causing your discomfort and the taking of personal offense, Alfred?
> I don't understand.
I don't like the substitution of mother for father in this context
because it implies that the word and role of father is less than that
of mother. The use of father is traditional and what Jesus uses. Why
change it if not to imply that the role of father is not fully good
enough to apply to God? That is what I don't understand and why I
believe it is a put down. There is also the idea that Goddess is very
closely identified with non-Christian religions. Much more so than
God because the use of femenine terms for God are not found in the
Bible. Thus I feel it's use is more confusing than enlightening and
is more detrimental than positive.
Alfred
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9.610 | What(!) is the big deal? | MORO::BEELER_JE | Don't mess with Texas | Mon Nov 16 1992 12:54 | 27 |
| Someone has *got* to help me out here ... I'm lost ... I've seen
conference after conference (non-work-related) that I don't like
or don't agree with. I do my best to "explain" my position with
respect to the subject matter at hand .. and .. well ... if the
result is not to my liking I go somewhere else.
The best description of VAX Notes that I've ever heard was the
comparison to an electronic cocktail party. There's little groups
of conversations going on all over the place .. if you don't really
like and/or agree with one conversation you take your martini and
mingle on over to another conversation. As a final resort if you
don't like anything about the party you take your hat and leave
the party.
It never ceases to amaze me that people continue to hang around
parties that they don't like. Help me to understand why people
do such things? If there are those who are so (obviously) depressed
at what *they* perceive as the purpose of this conference *should*
be and what *they* perceive the conference *is* ... and they are
(literally) voices in the wilderness .. why don't they take their
hat and coat and look for the door?
No, I'm not by the wildest stretch of the imagination suggesting
that I want anyone to leave .. but .. good grief ... it's only
a party.
Bubba
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9.611 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Nov 16 1992 13:08 | 7 |
| RE: .610
Agreed Bubba.....by the way, I've been meaning to talk to you about
the liquor being served at this party. Where's the Old Grandad?
This white wine with breu cheese is not for me.
Marc H.
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9.612 | B Y O B | MORO::BEELER_JE | Don't mess with Texas | Mon Nov 16 1992 14:22 | 1 |
|
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9.613 | re Abba | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 17 1992 01:32 | 29 |
| THE FINAL BLESSING
from
The Divine Liturgy of St. Basil
May God have compassion upon us, bless us, manifest His face upon us and
have mercy upon us. Lord, save Your people, bless Your inheritance, pasture
them and raise them up forever. Exalt the horn of the Christians through
the power of the life-giving Cross, through the supplications and prayers
which our lady, the lady of us all, the holy Theotokos Saint Mary, makes
for us, and those of the three great holy luminaries Michael, Gabriel, and
Raphael; the four Incorporeal Beasts, the twenty four priests, all the
heavenly ranks; Saint John the Baptist, the hundred and forty four thousand,
our lords the fathers the apostles, the three holy youths, Saint Stephen;
the beholder-of-God St. Mark the evangelist, the holy apostle and martyr;
Saint George, Saint Theodore, Philopater Mercurius, Saint Abba Mina, and
the whole choir of the martyrs; our righteous father, the great Abba Antony,
the righteous Abba Paul, the three holy Abba Macarii, our father Abba John,
our father Abba Pishoi, our father Abba Paul of Tammoh, our Roman fathers
Maximus and Domitius, our father Abba Moses, the forty-nine martyrs and
the whole choir of the cross-bearers; the just, the righteous, all the wise
virgins, the angel of this blessed day; and the blessing of the holy
Theotokos first and last.
May their holy blessing, their grace, their might, their favour, their
love and their help be with us all forever. Amen.
O Christ our God, King of peace, grant us Your peace, establish for us
Your peace, and forgive us our sins. For Yours is the power, the glory,
the blessing and the might, forever. Amen.
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9.614 | moderator action | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 17 1992 10:03 | 5 |
| Please be advised, the last 4 notes regarding pre-Christian religions
have been moved to their own topic, #554.
Karen
Co-Moderator, Christian-Perspective
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9.615 | | CARTUN::BERGGREN | drumming is good medicine | Tue Nov 17 1992 10:23 | 7 |
| Alfred .608,
I see.
Abwoon bless you and keep you,
Karen
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9.616 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Go ahead, note my day. | Mon Nov 30 1992 08:35 | 8 |
| >It's part of the clique's routine...
Please identify the members of this alleged "clique", and what criteria
are used to assign them to this clique.
Thank you.
-- Mike
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9.617 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Strength through peace | Mon Nov 30 1992 15:15 | 9 |
| .616
I have come to understand that when our brother says things like that,
he's simply expressing his perception of being the outsider here, as
well as other painful feelings.
Peace,
Richard
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9.618 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Warrior | Thu Dec 31 1992 13:08 | 12 |
| Note 229.142
> It seems fitting that the traditional teaching regarding the
> transmission of human life in marriage remains a object of laughter
> here.
I regret that my remarks continue to be such a thorn in your side, Patrick.
No malice was intended in 229.141
Richard
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9.619 | *clusion | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63) | Thu Jan 07 1993 09:53 | 20 |
| re Note 571.144 by CSTEAM::MARTIN:
> Its funny Mike how your exclusionary statement toward John is the same
> attitude that purported you to leave the "Christian" notefile and aid
> in starting "Christian Perspective".
Individuals in this conference, including the moderators when
participating as individuals, are free to promote, espouse,
and discuss exclusionary as well as inclusionary notions.
The difference I see is that this conference as a forum is
inclusionary rather than exclusionary.
However, individuals are urged to "be true to themselves"
(within the bounds of Digital company policy).
(In fact, the conference's inclusionary policy should allow
all exclusionists, and not just some, to be heard.)
Bob
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9.620 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Celebrate Diversity | Thu Feb 11 1993 12:43 | 11 |
| I can understand the feeling of being overwhelmed by the number of responses
a Notes entry might provoke. At the same time, I understand that it's partly
the nature of the beast (Notes, that is).
If I see that a number of replies to a note have accumulated, I try to withhold
a reply of my own unless I think I can add something to the discussion. I
confess, my sense of restraint is not always the greatest. ;-)
Peace,
Richard
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9.621 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Rise Again! | Wed Mar 24 1993 13:06 | 7 |
| 626.0
I'm concerned that this will lead to confusion. I am, however,
willing to listen.
Richard
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9.622 | | BUSY::DKATZ | I touch the future - I TEACH | Thu Apr 15 1993 08:46 | 22 |
| this seems like the best place to put this:
I wanted to share this news with the friends I've made here --
Last night, I received an informal job offer to participate in the
teacher mentor program at Punahou Academy in Honolulu!!!!
I'M GOING TO BE A TEACHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
8-)
Next Fall, I'll be teaching two sections of high school English and
assisting in the drama program (not to mention -- living in Hawaii!!!)
This has been my dream for *so* long now...and it's finally going to
come true!
anyway, I just wanted to share that!
Daniel
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9.623 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Apr 15 1993 09:05 | 9 |
| RE: .622
I'm really glad to heat that! Congradulations.
I applied to the engineers into education program in the past....
couldn't get in at the time. Its still something that I really
want to do.
Marc H.
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9.624 | Hooray for Daniel!!!! | ROKEPA::REINKE | Atalanta! Wow, look at her run! | Thu Apr 15 1993 10:11 | 11 |
| Wow Daniel! Talk about manifesting one's dreams!!! From your notes
in -wn-, I know how long and hard you've worked towards this goal and
now to have it become a reality in such an unbelievable way! You're
an inspiration to any of us who are working at creating their reality.
Terrific news!!
Bless you!!!
Ro
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9.625 | | MAYES::FRETTS | we're the Capstone generation | Thu Apr 15 1993 10:13 | 6 |
|
RE: .622 Daniel
Now *that* sounds like a great job! :^) Congratulations!
Carole
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9.626 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Thu Apr 15 1993 14:36 | 8 |
| Daniel,
Congratulations!
Now how are you going to note from Honolulu?
Patricia
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9.627 | | BSS::VANFLEET | Helpless jello | Thu Apr 15 1993 17:17 | 9 |
| YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so happy for you, Daniel!!!!
Congratulations!
:-D :-D
Nanci
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9.628 | ...or the highway | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Wed Apr 21 1993 12:05 | 9 |
| Note 637.34
>Please see what I'm saying from my viewpoint so that our discussion
>can amicably and fruitfully be pursued.
This struck me as the most telling remark I've seen here in a long time.
Richard
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9.629 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Sanitized for your protection. | Wed Apr 21 1993 14:13 | 12 |
| >The clique here goes further than to deny that there will a judgment
>and accounting for the way we choose to conduct our lives, they
>insist that this Christian perspective is narrow-minded.
"The" clique? Please identify the members of "the" alleged clique. I
am sure that we would all be interested in seeing the list of names.
And if you are unwilling to be specific and back up that slanderous
comment by naming names, then I suggest that you cut the crap and cease
using that term.
-- Mike
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9.630 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Apr 21 1993 14:15 | 6 |
| RE: .629
I'm with you on that , Mike. Smart A%^ cracks like the one from Pat
do *nothing*, absolutely, *nothing* to foster a Christian Spirit.
Marc H.
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9.631 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Wed Apr 21 1993 14:28 | 2 |
| I regret that you found the term offensive and will not use the word in
the future.
|
9.632 | Sincere Thank You | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Apr 21 1993 14:43 | 5 |
| RE: .631
Thank you Pat. Can't ask for more.
Marc H.
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9.633 | the ol double standard rears its head | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Thu Apr 22 1993 08:55 | 4 |
| Clique is more offensive then sect? Wow, never would have guessed based
on dictionary definitions.
Alfred
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9.634 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Sanitized for your protection. | Thu Apr 22 1993 09:29 | 10 |
| First of all, the word "sect" isn't offensive at all to many of us, and
in any case it is not a direct personal attack in the way that "clique"
is. The comment about the "clique" was contained in a snide commentary
about the noters who participate here, while the discussion of "sect"
was made in the context of a sincere disagreement over the definition
of the word, it was not directed as an attack against the noters here,
and the name "sect" was not applied in a way that was intended to be
demeaning, insulting, or snide.
-- Mike
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9.635 | surely you jest | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Thu Apr 22 1993 11:42 | 7 |
| RE: .634 Clique is not offensive at all to some of us. And I did not
see it as an attack though I did see the use of the word sect that way.
I admit that I find *you* being critical of "snide commentary" as
humorous.
Alfred
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9.636 | | JURAN::VALENZA | Sanitized for your protection. | Thu Apr 22 1993 12:00 | 28 |
| Oh, give me a break. While one might *take* the word "sect" as an
insult, you can't seriously believe that it was intended as such by
those who were using the term. The word was used with innocuous
intention, given a definition that Richard supplied, and, most
importantly, it was not used to characterize the noters here in a
negative way. The use of the word "clique" *was* a commentary on the
participants here, and it was expressed in a negative personal attack
against the participants here. If you can't see the distinction
between taking insult at a personal characterization directed directly
at you, and taking offense at the use of a theological term that
doesn't have any personal implications, then I'm sorry, but there isn't
much I can do to help you.
Of course, since we all know that you *never* write anything snide or
obnoxious in this notes file :-), I can see where your confusion lies.
However, I am glad to take this opportunity to clear it up for you.
I will be the first to admit that I I often say things here that I
probably shouldn't. However, as you are fully aware, that does not
invalidate my point whatsoever about the snideness involved in the use
of the world "clique". Regarding the insult that you directed at me,
all I can say is that while, perhaps, turning the other cheek in
response to your frequently obnoxious notes here would be the proper
response, it is often difficult for we frail humans to live up to that
high standard. I for one will try to be more patient and Christ-like
in response to you.
-- Mike
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9.637 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Thu Apr 22 1993 12:10 | 6 |
| Patrick has always portrayed himself here as an outsider from some
exclusive "in-crowd," hence, a clique. It is entirely imaginary,
a delusion, a lie.
Richard
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9.638 | | DEMING::VALENZA | Sanitized for your protection. | Thu Apr 22 1993 12:17 | 7 |
| It has been my experience that when you are warm to people, they are
more likely to like you than when you are hostile to them. The
negative reaction that one gets from frequently evincing hostility has
nothing whatsoever to do with any alleged cliques. It has everything to
do with human nature.
-- Mike
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9.639 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Tue Apr 27 1993 12:43 | 32 |
| Note 604.63
>> You're probably referring to the term "clique;" the use of which
>> did not offend me, but which I asserted was false.
> Wrong. Your memory is too short. Perhaps you remember topic 91? And
> there have been other times as well. The use of the term "goddess" to
> refer to the one true God is at least as offensive as using the term
> "baby killer" for abortionists, "queer" for Gay and Lesbians, and on
> and on. If you expect people to use non-offensive words for somethings
> you should expect that of everyone.
My problem is that I can understand why someone would take offense at
being labeled a "baby-killer" or "queer," but I do not understand why
the gender identification of the Deity, particularly the female identity,
would be offensive or taken so personally by some.
Surely God is bigger than this.
It reminds me of the complaints Pilate received about the 'crime' for which
Jesus was being punished. Some pleaded for the placard to be changed to
say, "Claims to be King of the Jews," instead of "King of the Jews." A
big thing, yet it is a petty thing, too.
I'm not sure I understand what you're saying about topic 91. Though emotions
have run high at times, I've noticed that, generally speaking, there's a
great deal of self-restraint and maturity practiced there. I sincerely
doubt that you, my friend, would even desire to use the term "queer" in 91.
Peace,
Richard
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9.640 | When you pray, say: "Our Father, ..." | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Apr 27 1993 12:50 | 7 |
|
The issue isn't gender identification, Richard.
The issue is invoking a pagan goddess, rather than God.
And doing so in the Christian Perspective conference.
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9.641 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:35 | 7 |
|
What exactly leads you to believe that the term "Goddess" is pagan?
Is it possible that their belief is that God is androgineous and are
only making a political statement?
Dave
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9.642 | I know.... keep quiet and step to the rear..... | DEMING::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:52 | 8 |
|
But Dave, politics and God don't mix.... well, unless politics = God...
Glen
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9.643 | | JURAN::VALENZA | My note runneth over. | Tue Apr 27 1993 14:09 | 18 |
| My admittedly limited understanding of Hinduism is that its many gods
are perceived as being different aspects of God (if someone more
knowledgeable than I wants to elaborate on that or correct this, please
feel free.)
I think many feminist Christians may look at the Goddess as simply an
aspect of God. The "available God" is what we in our finite
understanding can comprehend about the "actual God", who is infinite
and beyond our complete comprehension. Referring to the Goddess instead
of God the Father would simply involve replacing the lens through which
we view God with another one, no more and no less. Given the pain that
women suffer through the sin of sexism, it may have desirable
consequences and serve as a means for some women to better their
relationship with God. From that perspective, there would be no
contradiction between the Goddess and Christianity, and by invoking the
Goddess one would also be invoking God.
-- Mike
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9.644 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Wed Apr 28 1993 10:33 | 9 |
| >My problem is that I can understand why someone would take offense at
>being labeled a "baby-killer" or "queer," but I do not understand why
So that's it is it? Complaints are valid if you understand them but not
if you don't? It's not enough for people to say they're are offended
and act offended - you know they're not really offended unless you can
understand why they're offended? Frankly I don't understand.
Alfred
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9.645 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Wed Apr 28 1993 10:40 | 10 |
| RE: .644 Alfred,
It occurs to me that this may very well be how
religious wars begin. People become so offended by the semantics of
the situation that any communication is impossible. Don't take me
wrong, I'm not taking sides but looking at both. Very constructive and
interesting conversation.
Dave
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9.646 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Wed Apr 28 1993 10:46 | 4 |
| RE: .645 Also having one side invalidate the feelings of the other
doesn't help things. This invalidation is what my .644 complains about.
Alfred
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9.647 | | JURAN::VALENZA | My note runneth over. | Wed Apr 28 1993 10:54 | 24 |
| I think the issue is, as I pointed out earlier, that there is a big
different (in my mind, anyway) between taking offense at name calling
and taking offense at someone affirming a theology that you don't like.
The former case involves personal attacks and insults against other
people; the latter case involves nothing of the kind. Equating the two
is, in my view, not appropriate at all. It is the difference between
taking offense at "You are a jerk" and taking offense at "I believe
that God has attribute X".
If someone is offended at the first kind of statement, then I think
they have a legitimate complaint--it was a personal insult, after all.
If they are offended at the second kind of statement, my reaction is,
"Well, that's a shame, but that's your problem." Intolerance about
positive theological affirmations expressed by others is simply not in
the same category as being hurt by a personal characterization of other
people. If we started shutting down discussions on that basis, then
there could not possibly be any religious dialogue whatsoever, because
anyone could claim to be offended by anybody else's heartfelt religious
beliefs. Now if one went one step farther and said, "I believe that
God has attribute X, and your beliefs about God are stupid", then we
are getting back into the personal realm once again, and that is a
legitimate issue that needs to be addressed.
-- Mike
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9.648 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Wed Apr 28 1993 11:03 | 20 |
| RE: 646 Alfred,
Ah....theres that word again. Sorry, but I never
did understand the word "invalidate" as it is associated with feelings.
I remember Womannotes trying to drive that into my head but it didn't
quite take. :-) Sure I can recognize what your feelings are but to
"validate" them? Or worse yet to "invalidate" them? Seems to me that
to properly validate someones feelings you need to *FULLY* understand
what they are saying and feeling at the time. Since I cannot read
minds and I'm not a very good empath, I guess I'll always "invalidate"
others feelings.
Now Alfred I went thru all that to show that semantics can
interrupt communication and send it spinning down the abyss. I think I
understand what your saying but I will never be completely aware of
exactly what your trying to say and what that means. When we begin to
pick on individual words it becomes even worse.
Dave
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9.649 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Wed Apr 28 1993 12:58 | 20 |
| Okay, Alfred. Let's say it's valid to be offended by someone referring to
God as Goddess. Whether I understand it or not matters little. I was
merely processing. This seemed like an appropriate string in which to do
that.
Now, for a solution. Since some may be offended by strictly masculine
characterizations of the Deity, we might consider asking all participants
to use simply the letter G. Actually, this might even please some of
our Jewish guests.
But if another way is possible, I would rather not do this.
I would rather simply urge all participants to be sensitive of each others
perspectives.
Anybody got any better ideas?
Peace,
Richard
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9.650 | | 20374::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:32 | 14 |
| Re: .649 Richard
>I would rather simply urge all participants to be sensitive of each others
>perspectives.
>
>Anybody got any better ideas?
What do you mean by "sensitive", Richard? If I am an agnostic and other
people are offended by that fact, do I need to be careful not to write
anything that might suggest that I doubt the existence of God? If Dorian
believes in the Goddess and other people are offended by that fact, does
Dorian need to be careful not to refer in any way to the Goddess?
-- Bob
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9.651 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:51 | 12 |
| .650
Oh, Bob. I don't know.
This is not a sheltered environment. Our shields, to use a Star Trek
term, are never up.
The down side is that the orthodox and unorthodox alike all feel they're
being picked on, invalidated, or worse.
Richard
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9.652 | from Lazarus Long perhaps? | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Apr 28 1993 14:09 | 11 |
| This reminds me of the Two Rules for Utopia (I forget where I first heard
them).
#1. Try not to rile others too much.
#2. Don't be too easily riled yourself.
Very similar to the Golden Rule, I think.
Peace,
Jim
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9.653 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Apr 28 1993 14:52 | 3 |
| Letter G......oh, I don't know....it can't be as bad as that!
Marc H.
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9.654 | | STUDIO::GUTIERREZ | Citizen of the Cosmos | Thu Apr 29 1993 10:50 | 12 |
|
I prefer to call God as " " because it is unpronouncible,
it can't be humanly spoken, that way we don't degrade the
idea. Here is a quote I saw in a book.
When " " thinks, " " makes universes.
When we think, we make ourselves.
Juan
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9.655 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Apr 29 1993 11:10 | 4 |
| "...we make ourselves" That's a perspective that isn't a Christian
perspective. All of us are made by God.
Or you want to want to discuss what "make" means?
|
9.656 | here we go again.... | BUSY::DKATZ | I touch the future - I TEACH | Thu Apr 29 1993 11:11 | 1 |
|
|
9.657 | Is that clear enough ?. | STUDIO::GUTIERREZ | Citizen of the Cosmos | Thu Apr 29 1993 11:24 | 22 |
|
RE. .655
I don't mind answering that question from Pat. What it means
is that as a person thinks so he/she is. If you think you are
a sinner, you are a sinner. If you think you are free, even if
you are in prison, you are free. If you think you are lonely,
even when sorrounded by hundreds of people, you are lonely.
If you think you are never alone even though there is no-one
around, then you are not alone.
If you think you are a failure, then you are a failure. If you
think you can succeed, then you are on the way to success. If you
think you can be better than you are, then you are on your way
to becoming better. It all depends on your mental state.
That is what is meant by "Mind is the Builder".
I hope that's clear enough.
Juan
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9.658 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu Apr 29 1993 11:37 | 8 |
| I believe you have confused "is" with "make", unless you want to apply
a broad definiton of "make" here, like the aphorism "clothes make the
man" and I don't believe you have denied creation by an act of God's
love and will as held by Christians.
Taking what you wrote as I think you meant it to be read, we return to
the recurring theme of relativism, the concept that an act is right or
wrong only in the mind of that person.
|
9.659 | | STUDIO::GUTIERREZ | Citizen of the Cosmos | Thu Apr 29 1993 11:58 | 9 |
|
I afirm that creation was an act of love and *will* of " ", once we
were created, we make (mold) ourselves by what we think, so what I am
today is the result of all my past thoughts and actions. I let my
conscience, intuition and "still" voice within tell me what is
right/wrong for me, which *may/may not* be right/wrong for someone
else. Each individual has to find his/her own answers.
Juan
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9.660 | Perhaps at a later date | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Thu Apr 29 1993 13:32 | 5 |
| I have deleted Note 651 "Francis of Assisi," and all it's replies
(which were all my own) due to lack of participation.
Richard
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9.661 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Tue May 04 1993 17:32 | 12 |
| Collis 662.30,
I'm not some journalist who feels obligated to present both sides
of an issue. Moreover, I believe balance in itself is a matter of relative
perspective.
If someone takes exception to my perspective as a Christian, they're
certainly entitled to verbalize it. It has been my experience that in such
instances there is generally very little hesitation to do this.
Richard
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9.662 | | TLE::COLLIS::JACKSON | Roll away with a half sashay | Wed May 05 1993 11:30 | 13 |
| Re: 9.661
I hardly consider most journalists to be the epitomy of
fairness. Be that as it may, I had some hopes that when your
one-sidedness was pointed out to you that you would reconsider
your decision to avoid saying anything favorable about a
position you ultimately disagree with. In my opinion, this
is an affront to truth.
Instead, you choose propoganda. This is certainly your right,
however it does cause me to lose respect for you.
Collis
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9.663 | nausea from within my stomach | MR4DEC::RFRANCEY | dtn 297-5264 mro4-3/g15 | Wed May 05 1993 11:56 | 10 |
| and Collis, "however it does cause me to lose respect for you" (re .-1)
seems so unnecessary and hurtful to say or write to someone and is that
kind of tone which has driven me to be pretty much "read only" over the
past several months. I really think God weeps and the nails seem
driven further into the flesh when hostilities rage within what once
God had earlier created and had been so pleased with - humans.
Peace, Collis, peace.
Ron
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9.664 | | TLE::COLLIS::JACKSON | Roll away with a half sashay | Wed May 05 1993 12:22 | 16 |
| I am sorry to be seen as hurtful. Indeed, I am not as
sensitive as I should be. The tone that I have is one of
sincerity and honesty - much as I would address a friend
that I disagreed with. There is no malice present on my
part nor is any intended. Perhaps this explanation will
allow you to see this statement in a different light, but
perhaps not.
The statement is true whether or not I express it. I do
believe that we should be pursueing more than simply a sharing
of perspectives or a pushing of our own (or God's) agendas. I
also believe that we should respect truth. I lose respect for
anyone who refuses to do so. I, again, am sorry if this is
insensitive to say.
Collis
|
9.665 | balance depends on where you stand | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Wed May 05 1993 14:23 | 15 |
| Note 9.662
>I hardly consider most journalists to be the epitomy of
>fairness.
Indeed, a common perception. Yet journalists are taught, I assure you,
to be objective and neutral, to present both sides of an issue fairly
and impartially. All perspectives seem to agree that most journalists
fail miserably.
As you doubtlessly know, there is a news segment to every installment of
the 700 Club. Some people actually believe these reports are fair, accurate,
and balanced!
Richard
|
9.666 | | TLE::COLLIS::JACKSON | Roll away with a half sashay | Wed May 05 1993 15:56 | 6 |
| >Some people actually believe these reports are fair, accurate,
>and balanced!
I expect that sometimes they are. :-)
Collis
|
9.667 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Thu May 06 1993 08:25 | 5 |
| The point surely is that while the 700 Club (Pat Robertson's talk show)
is an advocate for Christianity and doesn't conceal that, the three
networks and CNN do try to claim "objectivity" and deny that they are
an advocate for secularism and they deny that they are hostile to
Christianity.
|
9.668 | | DEMING::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu May 06 1993 13:34 | 8 |
|
Richard, I think it might have something to do with anything that comes
from a church will be considered unbiased by most church goers.....
Glen
|
9.669 | no bias there! | TLE::COLLIS::JACKSON | Roll away with a half sashay | Thu May 06 1993 15:34 | 3 |
| Re: .668
Now there's a fair-minded reply...
|
9.670 | In appreciation | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Fri May 07 1993 13:53 | 14 |
| I feel moved to speak up in appreciation of our own Collis Jackson
Yes, Collis and I operate from differing paradigms and I know it's not always
easy to relate with persons who have perspectives very dissimilar to one's
own.
However, Collis has been with us from the outset, now approaching
three years, and I think that speaks very highly of him. Collis' conduct
has been civil and considerate. Yet, Collis has consistently presented his
point of view without apologizing for it. (Nor should Collis or anyone feel
compelled to apologize for their beliefs)
Peace,
Richard
|
9.671 | | TLE::COLLIS::JACKSON | Roll away with a half sashay | Fri May 07 1993 14:11 | 1 |
| Why thank you, Richard.
|
9.672 | Hear! Hear! | WELLER::FANNIN | | Fri May 07 1993 15:50 | 9 |
| Yes, Collis, I appreciate you, too. I have been thinking about how
grateful I am to you for assisting me in working through the pain of my
childhood.
The Christ within you shines.
Love,
Ruth
|
9.673 | Red Herring Alert! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Fri May 14 1993 19:03 | 17 |
| Note 654.55
>>Since women were said to not be created in the image of God ...
>I really wish you would stop proclaiming this without backing it
>up. I have told you before that it is not true. Now, please stop.
>I consider this harassment, this constant lying about my religion.
You haven't got a leg to stand on, John. All that Patricia was indicating
is that, right or wrong, that was the understanding of her friends at the time.
Since it was simply a personal observation, it cannot accurately be called
a lie.
Richard
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9.674 | And I would like to see it stop | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sun May 16 1993 16:29 | 13 |
| It's not a personal observation when Patricia constantly puts forth the
falsehood that the Church has said that women were not created in the image
of God.
The Church has said no such thing. In fact, the Church believes that
God has exalted one particular woman to be considered the greatest of
all created beings, higher than all other humans and all the angels,
crowned in glory.
Patricia has made a deliberate slander of an institution that is very
meaningful to many employees.
/john
|
9.675 | | JURAN::VALENZA | It's flip flop season. | Mon May 17 1993 09:13 | 8 |
| >In fact, the Church believes that God has exalted one particular woman
>to be considered the greatest of all created beings, higher than all
>other humans and all the angels, crowned in glory.
That depends on which "Church" you are talking about. The Christian
church I was brought up in taught no such thing.
-- Mike
|
9.676 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon May 17 1993 09:39 | 11 |
| RE: .674
John, I can understand your dislike...really. The statements make me
uncomfortable also. Howevere, I would really think, that the notes
sections by the agnostics, etc. would be more offensive.
My take? I think that the idea that calling God, father, does *NOTHING*
against women. To me , its silly to insist on a goddess...but....
no the less, Pat has a right to continue to talk about it.
Marc H.
|
9.677 | ? | SPARKL::BROOKS | | Mon May 17 1993 09:42 | 5 |
|
So does this mean that, e.g., instead of saying "Heavenly Father" we
could be saying "Heavenly Mother"?
Dorian
|
9.678 | | JURAN::VALENZA | It's flip flop season. | Mon May 17 1993 09:44 | 23 |
| Following up on this idea of "the Church" teaches, I would argue that a
phrase like that is insulting to Protestants, because the people who
use that phrase are typically slighting or ignoring Protestants. What
they *really* mean is "my church teaches", because they often describe
teachings that Protestants don't accept.
Either Protestants are accepted as Christians, or they aren't. Either
they are part of the greater Christian Church, one with the body of
Christ, or they are not. If one accepts Protestants as legitimately
Christian, then it would seem to be an insult to them to ignore them
and what they believe when one states "the Church" teaches.
Take out the definite article, and replace it with "my", and you solve
the problem. I thus would suggest that contributors to this notes file
would do everyone a service if no longer used the phrase "the Church
teaches", and instead replaced that with a more acceptable phrase, such
as "my church teaches", "my denomination teaches", "the X church
teaches", or "Churches X, Y, and Z teach". Leaving out any description
of *which* church you are talking about implies a universality of
doctrine among Christians which may not exist (such as when describing
the veneration of Mary.)
-- Mike
|
9.679 | Mary, the choir director of heaven! | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon May 17 1993 10:02 | 14 |
| Well, I don't know -- it seems that an awful lot of Protestant Churches
sing the following; I know it's in both the Presbyterian and Methodist
hymnals:
O higher than the cherubim,
O higher than the seraphim,
Lead their praises, Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
Most gracious magnify the Lord!
Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia!
That clearly puts Mary higher than all created beings.
/john
|
9.680 | | JURAN::VALENZA | It's flip flop season. | Mon May 17 1993 10:07 | 7 |
| Presbyterians and Methodists do not constitute all of Protestantism.
The church I was brought up in, which is affiliated with the North
American Christian Convention, and which is theologically similar to
the Southern Baptists, does not put Mary above all other created
beings.
-- Mike
|
9.681 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon May 17 1993 10:11 | 15 |
| Too bad. This loss of the respect due to women and to one woman in particular
is possibly one of the reasons that women feel disenfranchised.
When you take the Whole Faith, women are given equal standing with men, and
many of them are given great honors.
Yet when you rip out a part of the religion, you leave women feeling
disenfranchised.
There is no need to create a new religion; no need to restore goddess
worship. The Whole Faith, the complete Faith of the Apostles, the most
authentic teaching of the Church has honored women and continues to do
so.
/john
|
9.682 | | SDSVAX::SWEENEY | Patrick Sweeney in New York | Mon May 17 1993 10:24 | 8 |
| The foundation argument of Patricia, namely that the Roman Catholic
Church teaches that women are not made in the image of God is
factually false, insulting to my faith, and it is often repeated here.
The consequent discussion is not over if and where this teaching
appears in the Bible or the doctrine of the Church, but in mocking
anecdotes, and my "defensiveness" of what my Church teaches and what I
believe.
|
9.683 | | JURAN::VALENZA | It's flip flop season. | Mon May 17 1993 10:42 | 19 |
| I am sure that the practitioners of my childhood faith would strongly
deny that they are ripping anything out of the religion; I think they
would see the veneration of Mary as something added to the faith. But
I am certainly in no position to expound on their beliefs, since I have
long ago left that church, and am not an expert in their theology.
I think we have to recognize sexism where it exists. Even my current
denomination, which has believed in the spiritual equality of men and
women throughout its 350-year history (in contrast to the official
misogyny of most of Christianity), has not been immune from sexism
in practice. Patricia brought up the issue of ordination of women; it
is a little like comparing apples and oranges, since Quakers don't
ordain *anyone*, but the denomination has believed that men and women
are equally capable in the art of ministry. However, Quakers are as
much a part of society as anyone else. and there have certainly been
sexist attitudes among Quakers over the years. Where that sexism
exists, it can and should be legitimately criticized.
-- Mike
|
9.684 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Declare Peace! | Mon May 17 1993 12:49 | 8 |
| Some would try to cover up the ills of the past, denying they ever existed,
claiming harrassment and insult, and bitterly wailing and gnashing their teeth.
I refused to be intimidated by such behavior. And I am frankly ashamed that
some observers may come to believe that these reactionary behaviors are
the norm among the representatives of Christ.
Richard
|
9.685 | Re: The Processing Topic | QUABBI::"[email protected]" | | Tue May 18 1993 13:59 | 43 |
|
In article <9.684-930517-114856@valuing_diffs.christian-perspective>, [email protected] (Declare Peace!) writes:
|>
|>Some would try to cover up the ills of the past, denying they ever existed,
|>claiming harrassment and insult, and bitterly wailing and gnashing their teeth.
We're all sinners after all.
|>I refused to be intimidated by such behavior. And I am frankly ashamed that
|>some observers may come to believe that these reactionary behaviors are
|>the norm among the representatives of Christ.
I agree that there are times when we should be ashamed. On the other
hand we need to recognize when we should be ashamed and when we shouldn't.
The fact that a behavior is reactionary (if I understand the word) doesn't
say anything about its rightness or wrongness, although we usually mean it
in a negative sense. There are some reactionary behaviors that should be
the norm. For example, I'm confident that you wouldn't be ashamed if friends
believed that it was the norm among Christians to condemn pre-marital sex,
although these days that is an extremely reactionary attitude. That is not
to say that Christians don't fall as well.
I'm pretty sure that in your first paragraph you're refering to
Christ's failure to ignore the sexist stereotypes of his day in his
references to God, but someone less discerning might think you were applying
it to more than just that.
|>Richard
|>
Paul
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9.686 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue May 18 1993 14:52 | 36 |
| re Note 9.685 by QUABBI::"[email protected]"
>I'm confident that you wouldn't be ashamed if friends believed that it was
>the norm among Christians to condemn pre-marital sex, although these days
>that is an extremely reactionary attitude.
A court in Germany just declared biblical morality to be immoral:
>In einer aufsehenerregenden Entscheidung hat das Arbeitsgericht
>Loerrach einem Homosexuellen im Streit gegen ein kirchliches
>Behindertenheim Recht gegeben. Laut Urteil verstoesst die Morallehre
>der katholischen Kirche, die vor- und ausserehelichen sowie gleich-
>geschlechtlichen Sexualverkehr verbietet, nicht nur gegen die guten
>Sitten, sondern auch gegen die Verfassung. Sie sei mit 'wesentlichen
>Grundsaetzen des deutschen Rechts' unvereinbar, heisst es in der erst
>am Freitag (14.5) bekanntgewordenen Entscheidung vom August 92.
In a sensational decision the Loerrach labor court has found in favor
of a homosexual in a dispute with a church operated home for the disabled.
According to the decision, the moral teaching of the Catholic Church,
which forbids premarital, extramarital, and homosexual intercourse, is
not only opposed to good morals but also opposed to the Constitution.
It is irrecocilable with "essential principles of German law", according
to the decision in August 92 first announced on Friday the 14th of May.
>....
>Das Gericht stuetzte sich in seiner Entscheidung auf Erkenntnisse der
>Sexualwissenschaft und schloss daraus:'Die geschlechtliche Betaetigung
>in Formen, die die katholische Glaubenslehre missbilligt, gehoert zum
>Regelverhalten' und somit zur menschlichen Natur. Deren Schutz aber
>sei hoeher zu bewerten als der Moralkodex der Kirche.
The Court based its decision on findings of sexual science and determined
"Sexual activity in forms which Catholic religious teaching disapproves
belong to regular behaviour" and thus to human nature. Their protection
is to be more valued than the moral code of the Church.
|
9.687 | 1939 | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Tue May 18 1993 16:35 | 12 |
| >The Court based its decision on findings of sexual science and determined
>"Sexual activity in forms which Catholic religious teaching disapproves
>belong to regular behaviour" and thus to human nature. Their protection
>is to be more valued than the moral code of the Church.
Sounds like the rights of a few have been protected.
Judaism was likewise deemed "immoral." What followed has been
almost universally condemned. Perhaps the Germans are trying
not to make the same mistake again. A courageous step.
Tom
|
9.688 | Should DEC be forced to employ someone in league with IBM? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue May 18 1993 16:51 | 4 |
| > Sounds like the rights of a few have been protected.
Sounds like the right of the Church to decide whom to employ has been
trashed.
|
9.689 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Tue May 18 1993 16:58 | 12 |
| >Sounds like the right of the Church to decide whom to employ has been
>trashed.
Yes, if its decision is based not on ability or willingness to
work but on "political/religious" correctness. DEC must follow
the same laws
> -< Should DEC be forced to employ someone in league with IBM? >-
What are you implying here?
Tom
|
9.690 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue May 18 1993 17:17 | 6 |
| What am I implying?
Well, should DEC continue to employ me if I tell our customers that DEC
is wrong and IBM is right?
/john
|
9.691 | metaphors? | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Tue May 18 1993 17:27 | 11 |
| >Well, should DEC continue to employ me if I tell our customers that DEC
>is wrong and IBM is right?
Is this an analogy or simply a statement in its own right? If it
is a simple statement, what is it doing here? It seems out of
context.
If, in the analogy, DEC is the church, "you" are the homosexual,
then who is IBM? (all metaphorically, of course.)
Tom
|
9.692 | Or the World? Our Spiritual Enemies? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue May 18 1993 17:36 | 1 |
| The court, maybe?
|
9.693 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Tue May 18 1993 17:53 | 7 |
| So the Church shouldn't accept:
people who live in the world?
people who work on the court?
people who are associated with the Church's
spiritual enemies?
|
9.694 | mod reminder | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO2-2/T63) | Tue May 18 1993 18:12 | 4 |
| The last eight replies or so constitute an interesting and relevant
discussion but do not belong in the "processing" topic.
Bob
|
9.695 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue May 18 1993 19:25 | 3 |
| re .693
Well twisted.
|
9.696 | logical conclusions | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Wed May 19 1993 11:08 | 13 |
| >Well twisted.
Perhaps, but my point here is that if homosexuals are
refered to as in league with "spiritual enemies" of
the Church that's similar to saying they are in league
with the devil. This sort of reasoning has gotten out
of hand in the past with horrific results.
Although the Pope disagrees with the homosexual lifestyle
I don't think he believes they are in league with the devil
nor that they should be mistreated because they are homosexual.
Tom
|
9.697 | | TLE::COLLIS::JACKSON | Roll away with a half sashay | Wed May 19 1993 11:47 | 18 |
| Re: .696
We all oppose God when we sin. In this sense, we are all
"in league with the Devil" who encourages and promotes
disobedience to God (sin).
Those who submit to Jesus through faith in His blood-sacrifice
are filled by the Holy Spirit and have supernatural power to
resist sin as well as an atonement for their sin. They are
in league with God, even when they disobey Him (sin). Those
who have not accepted Jesus through faith are opposed to God
(reference in I John 1:5-9 for all of this is one of many
references) and, as such, are "in league with the Devil".
Those who choose constant disobedience to God are not "in
league with God".
Collis
|
9.698 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed May 19 1993 12:00 | 12 |
| > Although the Pope disagrees with the homosexual lifestyle
> I don't think he believes they ... should be mistreated because
> they are homosexual.
Is it mistreatment for a Church to ask its employees to at least _try_
to live the kind of lifestyle the Church proclaims to be the right way
to live?
Is it mistreatment to refuse to employ someone who actively speaks out
against the philosophy of their employer?
/john
|
9.699 | | JURAN::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed May 19 1993 13:30 | 13 |
|
Sigh..... John, I had thought you base your decision on how well the
person will be able to do the job. Maybe your view of life is different. But
something to think about, this is a huge company. Look at all of the different
types of people that work here, their values, their <insert anything>. Do all
of us = the philosophy of Bob Palmer? I bet we don't, but as a group we are
doing well.
Glen
|
9.700 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed May 19 1993 14:26 | 2 |
| re .699
-
|
9.701 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed May 19 1993 14:31 | 9 |
| Re: .700 John
>re .699
>-
Interesting. This could be interpreted to mean "I have seen your note and
have chosen to ignore it." I guess maybe it's a blessing...
-- Bob
|
9.702 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Wed May 19 1993 14:36 | 9 |
| RE: .701 Bob,
Yeah...I would agree. There is however a part of
me that would like to delete such notes as they only take up disk space
and offer nothing to the subject. But...some people feel the need to
publically inform everyone that they are ignoring them. An odd kind of
editorial.
Dave
|
9.703 | priorities | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Wed May 19 1993 14:39 | 12 |
| I'm going to reiterate what I see as importent here:
When you start painting people as being in league with the
devil because their sexual/racial identity differs from yours
you set up an atmosphere where atrocities can occur. Germany
is especially *painfully* aware of this. The court acted wisely.
I find it is wiser to learn to love your fellow human than to
find reasons to condemn him/her. I somehow remember Christ
saying something similar about priorities.
Tom
|
9.704 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed May 19 1993 14:44 | 16 |
|
RE .699
I'm not John, but I'm curious as to how you would label a Christian organiza
tion, that subscribes to the teaching that certain activities are sinful, that
employs an individual that freely pracitices that sin and shows no sign of
repentance, and said organization ignores that sin.
Jim
|
9.705 | Good and bad distinctions | DATABS::FERWERDA | Displaced Beiruti | Thu May 20 1993 10:03 | 31 |
| re: <<< Note 9.699 by JURAN::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
> Sigh..... John, I had thought you base your decision on how well the
>person will be able to do the job. Maybe your view of life is different. But
>
>Glen
It sounds good in theory but I suspect that nobody really believes that
it works when it comes to organizations that are organized around
fundamental philosophical perspectives. According to your argument,
the NAACP should hire a racist as long as the racist can do her job, or
a Jewish organization should hire a Nazi, or an orphanage should hire
someone who feels there is nothing wrong with having sex with young
children. Even if the employee does the objectionable behavior on
their own time I can't see the NAACP being comfortable with an employee
who marches in KKK marches, nor should they have to. I see a profit-making
corporation as different in that it is organized to make money and
very often it doesn't really see a connection between employee's
behavior or views and their work. The typical corporation isn't
taking a stand (although maybe it should) on what are appropriate and
inappropriate attitudes. It seems to me that by definition, the NAACP,
B'nai B'rith (sp? 8-) ), etc. stand against certain attitudes by
definition, as do most churches.
Am I making distinctions where there aren't any?
Paul
|
9.706 | Does this help? | JURAN::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu May 20 1993 10:13 | 34 |
| | <<< Note 9.704 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| I'm not John,
But you play one on tv? ;-)
| but I'm curious as to how you would label a Christian organiza
| tion, that subscribes to the teaching that certain activities are sinful, that
| employs an individual that freely pracitices that sin and shows no sign of
| repentance, and said organization ignores that sin.
Jim, if <insert person> is sinning by the church standards and shows no
sign of repentance then yes, that church has the right to dismiss the person.
But one thing to remember is the person, using government law can, if they
choose, go after the church if they feel their rights had been violated. I
guess it would depend on what the church viewed as a sin. Take for example on
last nights news. The Church of Christ came under fire from former members as
many felt it was a cult. This one lady mentioned how she was going to go on a
business trip and the church said she was a baby Christian (with the church for
only 10 weeks) and that she should not go because of this reason and that it
would be a sin if she disobeyed the church. Another woman was told she had to
attend church meetings 4-5 times a week. If she missed just one, she was
sinning. So I guess what I am trying to say is just because a church may label
something a sin, it doesn't mean that it really is.
Glen
|
9.707 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu May 20 1993 10:39 | 34 |
| RE: <<< Note 9.706 by JURAN::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
-< Does this help? >-
>| I'm not John,
> But you play one on tv? ;-)
:-)
> Jim, if <insert person> is sinning by the church standards and shows no
>sign of repentance then yes, that church has the right to dismiss the person.
Or by Biblical standards?
>business trip and the church said she was a baby Christian (with the church for
>only 10 weeks) and that she should not go because of this reason and that it
>would be a sin if she disobeyed the church. Another woman was told she had to
>attend church meetings 4-5 times a week. If she missed just one, she was
>sinning. So I guess what I am trying to say is just because a church may label
>something a sin, it doesn't mean that it really is.
That certainly is questionable on the part of the church, IMO. I believe
the Bible should be the standard for what is and is not sin, would you agree?
Jim
|
9.708 | | JURAN::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu May 20 1993 11:48 | 27 |
| | <<< Note 9.707 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| > Jim, if <insert person> is sinning by the church standards and shows no
| >sign of repentance then yes, that church has the right to dismiss the person.
| Or by Biblical standards?
No, I'll explain why further down.
| That certainly is questionable on the part of the church, IMO. I believe
| the Bible should be the standard for what is and is not sin, would you agree?
Now to explain. :-) I would say no for 2 main reasons.
1) The Bible is only as good as the person interpreting it.
2) The Bible has flaws so it shouldn't be used as a standard.
So this is why I don't agree with what you wrote.
Glen
|
9.709 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu May 20 1993 12:21 | 14 |
|
Well, I suppose I could ask the question as to what should be used as a
standard, but we know where that would go, so I'll drop it.
Thanks
Jim
|
9.710 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | We will rise! | Tue Jun 01 1993 13:48 | 11 |
| 689.85
I see nothing in .84 which indicates Daniel's sexual orientation.
Therefore, I take it that either Daniel mentioned it in another entry
or you took it upon yourself to "out" him.
Richard
I read somewhere recently that same-sex marriages could not be denied
in Hawaii.
|
9.711 | | BUSY::DKATZ | Countless Screaming Argonauts | Tue Jun 01 1993 13:56 | 14 |
| Hi Richard,
Actually, I believe I did make mention of my orientation in another
string here. It was in response of a question of John's that had to do
with what gay people "wanted" in a relationship. can't remember the
string, however.
John did not "out" me. I don't mention it often here because there are
far fewer strings where it is of any relevence in C-P than in some
fora.
thanks, though!
Daniel
|
9.712 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Jun 01 1993 14:47 | 5 |
| He tells us his orientation in note 91.2814.
But thank you for your concern, Richard.
/john
|
9.713 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | We will rise! | Wed Jun 09 1993 14:41 | 7 |
| wallie,
Will you stop deleting your entries here, please? These strings
are starting to appear like the teeth of ice hockey players!
Richard
|
9.714 | That's the way God made 'im. | WELLER::FANNIN | | Wed Jun 09 1993 19:56 | 18 |
| Richard,
Like a dadaistic artist, it's just Wal's style.
He deletes notes because the act of deletion is part of his message.
Part of what he is saying relates to the temporal illusion of
everything that we perceive as real. His notes intentionally have a
shelf life.
At first, I also wondered what was going on, but once I tuned into
Wallie's intent I realized that it's his dance.
So, if I want to write a reply to one of Wal's notes, I *extract* it
first!
Ruth
|
9.715 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | We will rise! | Wed Jun 09 1993 20:02 | 6 |
| Yeah, wallie sent me e-mail once explaining his position, but wouldn't you
know it? By the time I was ready to read it, it had already been deleted.
8-)
Richard
|
9.716 | Where have all the noters gone..? | VNABRW::BUTTON | Do not reset mind, reality is fuzzy ! | Wed Jul 21 1993 02:45 | 13 |
| Good morning!
Have I missed something, or has the Digital Exodus reached such
horrifying proportions?
Up to a few weeks ago, it was not unusual to find 60-plus unread
new notes in CP. Now it is rare if the number reaches 10.
At first, I thought it was because of the trouble with the node
change/move, but CP has been back up to normal long enough now
to eliminate that as the cause. Who knows more?
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.717 | perhaps notes authors ARE the prime TFSO candidates! | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO2-2/T63) | Wed Jul 21 1993 08:39 | 15 |
| re Note 9.716 by VNABRW::BUTTON:
> At first, I thought it was because of the trouble with the node
> change/move, but CP has been back up to normal long enough now
> to eliminate that as the cause. Who knows more?
I suspect that the node move does cause some of the less
severely addicted to drop off.
Anybody out there who wants to do a "dir/all/sin=1-may" and
see where the authors are now?
Anybody out there?
Bob
|
9.718 | fewer people doing more work | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Wed Jul 21 1993 09:45 | 6 |
| Speaking for myself, my output here and elsewhere has dropped for
two reasons. One is that I am way behind on a project I'm trying to
catch up on. The other is that I'm trying to comment only when I have
something to say and I haven't had much to say.
Alfred
|
9.719 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Jul 21 1993 09:52 | 6 |
| I'm still around....but, in general with all the layoffs and low moral,
I find my excitement level is way off.
My quest for Christianity hasn't changed..though.
Marc H.
|
9.720 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Jul 21 1993 16:36 | 8 |
| There's definately a lull. Kind of pleasant in a way, isn't it? :-)
In the past I've felt responsible to try to initiate provocative topics.
I'm not feeling so impelled at the moment.
Richard
|
9.721 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | DOS with Honor! | Thu Jul 22 1993 11:41 | 5 |
| >I'm not feeling so impelled at the moment.
Or, do you mean "impaled" ;^)
Tom
|
9.722 | Too tired of struggling... | CSC32::KINSELLA | Boycott Hell!!!!!! | Thu Jul 22 1993 16:27 | 9 |
|
Well...I've pretty much been in read only mode. I just haven't felt
real motivated to come back and have any disagreements. So in a way I
feel like I'm on holiday. That will probably continue as I'm in
training full-time for the first 2 weeks of August and part-time for
the last 2 weeks of August and on short vacations on both ends of
August. Yeah!
Jill
|
9.723 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Jul 28 1993 13:24 | 9 |
| I've noticed some contributors spell Christian with a lower case c (christian),
too. Some use "bible" and "scripture," which are words traditionally
capitalized, as well. Some choose to even spell their own proper name using
all lower case letters.
I detect no agenda.
Richard
|
9.724 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Wed Jul 28 1993 14:06 | 3 |
| Some of us mispell words too.
And our grammar sometimes!!!
|
9.725 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Jul 28 1993 14:19 | 3 |
| I thought that grammer was your mother's mother?
Marc H.
|
9.726 | | DEMING::VALENZA | eman lanosrep polf pilf | Wed Jul 28 1993 16:05 | 12 |
| > I detect no agenda.
Ah, but Richard, the accusation was that there was a *hidden* agenda.
So the fact that you didn't detect it is consistent with its
hiddenness. You obviously don't have the finely honed skills at
finding subtle attacks against your church and your faith.
However, I do demand that you explain and justify your interest in
agendas. I think you are clearly biased against agenda-detectors, and
therefore you have no right to participate in a discussion of agendas.
-- Mike
|
9.727 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Jul 28 1993 16:31 | 5 |
| Re: .726
Sounds like an agenda to me......
Marc H.
|
9.728 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Theologically Impaired | Thu Jul 29 1993 09:02 | 11 |
| Just to come clean, here is my agenda for this notesfile:
1. To discuss differing views of the world with christians, er, I mean
Christians.
2. To help foster tolerance for differing points of view.
3. To engage in lively yet friendly debate with those whose views differ from
mine.
4. **THIS AGENDA ITEM HAS BEEN SET HIDDEN**
5. To learn something.
Steve
|
9.729 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Sun Nov 21 1993 00:21 | 9 |
| Note 91.3082
> I must say you've come along way Baby! :-) :-)
Curious you should choose a phrase commercially engineered by a tobacco
company to target women as consumers of cigarettes.
Richard
|
9.730 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sun Nov 21 1993 12:41 | 11 |
| -1
But you are so predictable Richard, I could've written that response
for you... :-) :-) :-)
Truth is, I almost didn't use that phrase, but it do express what I
meant in a more positive way of course... but even that depends�� on
your personal pov.
God Bless you Richard,
Nancy
|
9.731 | My next entry will be written for me by Nancy | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Sun Nov 21 1993 19:25 | 15 |
| .730
Moi? Predictable?
Is it me who speaks in cliches?!
I didn't realize that about myself. Another blind spot, I suppose.
Funny how predictability is considered a flaw, and yet, it's a synonym
for dependability, consistency, reliability and being well-ordered.
I wonder how many people who've consciously cultivated the latter only
to be labelled the former.
In Jesus,
Richard
|
9.732 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sun Nov 21 1993 20:28 | 6 |
| No Richard, No... it's not a ��flaw. Sorry if it seemed as tho' I was
saying it so. I happen to like predictability.
And I promise I won't write your next note for you.
Nancy
|
9.733 | Oh. <pause> Never mind. :-/ | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Mon Nov 22 1993 13:06 | 1 |
| -1
|
9.734 | | COORS::J_CHRISTIE | War is costly, Peace priceless | Wed Dec 08 1993 20:18 | 11 |
| Note 781.9
> In your opinion. I didn't realize until you said so that this was a
> problem...therefore, as a moderator redirect the discussion and move to
> an appropriate note.
Unlike some other conferences, the moderators here expect each participant
to accept a measure of ownership. You may wish to browse through Topic 8.
Richard
|
9.735 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | War is costly, Peace priceless | Wed Dec 08 1993 21:05 | 24 |
| 781.10
> You never cease to amaze me. I have corresponded with you on and off
> for a year now and my impression is that you promote a humanistic kind
> of doctrine, in a Christian Perspective conference no doubt.
I don't see how that's so amazing. Jesus promoted a humanistic doctrine
in a Jewish culture dominated by Rome.
> Then you
> have the gumption to tell me how offensive I am in that I am derailing
> the conversation.
I said I didn't appreciate it. An important topic was being turned into
"another homosexuality note," as Collis might say (and has said before).
> For what its worth, I have broken bread with some of
> the participants here who are gay. Seems I have more tolerance for
> gays than you have for fundementalists!!!
Bully for you, Jack.
Richard
|
9.736 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Sat Dec 11 1993 16:00 | 24 |
| 4.332,
No. Thanks for asking though, Nancy. I hold no grudges. If you
reread what I said in 4.319, and depending on your connotations of
"fundamentalist," I really didn't say anything to get so bent
out of shape about.
Not visible to you is that for ease of updating, I have my notebook
set up thusly:
MODIFY ENTRY CHRISTIAN/NAME=FUNDAMENTALISM
And so, it was quite natural for me to refer the file as such.
Forgive me if I have sinned. Mea culpa.
In the latter entry I also took the opportunity to demonstate (Not to
Mark, but to other readers) that the PC business and making sweeping
unqualified statements cuts both ways. A pity that the effort apparently
didn't make a dent.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.737 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sat Dec 11 1993 17:24 | 17 |
| Richard,
There are no brooms in my closet... I promise you that. :-)
Uhmmm... I really was poking fun at you. No hard feelings, no reason
to apologize for calling the file or myself fundamental... actually
it's a compliment, for which I thank you endlessly.
I pray you and yours have a wonderful Holiday Season and May God Bless
you Abundantly, Richard. As far as dents are concerned, I've got
assurance, assurance of salvation from a God that doesn't want us to
guess our way into eternity. :-)
Love in Him,
Nancy
|
9.738 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Sat Dec 11 1993 18:13 | 12 |
| Note 9.737
> As far as dents are concerned, I've got
> assurance, assurance of salvation from a God that doesn't want us to
> guess our way into eternity. :-)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I didn't realize anyone was sending you the message that this was the case.
Peace in Christ Jesus,
Richard
|
9.739 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Tue Dec 21 1993 14:24 | 6 |
| 91.3350 If I were Cindy, I'd be thankful you've made clear your
potential antagonism *before* risking on any deeper level of
dialogue.
Richard
|
9.740 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Tue Dec 21 1993 14:28 | 6 |
|
...ah finally someone else to draw Cindy's scorn instead of me :-) :_)
David
|
9.741 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Dec 30 1993 13:14 | 9 |
| 798.57
I'm a lover, not a fighter, Collis. I'm more likely to dry your feet
with a towel than to throw it into some make-believe ring.
This conference is not a boxing match and I resent the equation.
Richard
|
9.742 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Dec 30 1993 15:24 | 13 |
| Riochard,
perhaps you are unaware of the phrases of sarcastic banter that you use
frequently in this conference against certain noters of your
choosing????????????????
There is sarcastic humor ... which is acceptable, but sarcastic banter
is the little jab at the left jawbone, that says, "So, there take
that!"
I've felt it...:-)
Nancy
|
9.743 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Dec 30 1993 15:27 | 15 |
| Note 812.17
> Typically for me though, it won't lead to contention unless ridicule or
> jabs [such as Richard's towards me] begins. Then I'll respond to them.
I did not "jab" you, Nancy. (I did notice how quickly you picked up the
pugelististic metaphor from Collis, though)
I "called" you. (A poker metaphor)
If I have sinned against you, please, forgive me.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.744 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Dec 30 1993 15:38 | 3 |
| You were forgiven before asked. :-) Thanks for asking Richard.
Nancy
|
9.745 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Dec 30 1993 15:40 | 6 |
| .742, Mea culpa. I am sorry for sinning against you. My perception
of the situation is entirely different.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.746 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Dec 30 1993 15:43 | 8 |
| .745
> .742, Mea culpa. I am sorry for sinning against you. My perception
> of the situation is entirely different.
I *believe* you.
Nancy
|
9.747 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Dec 30 1993 20:13 | 22 |
| Note 18.546
> My honest, sincere apologies, Patricia, Richard and anyone else who
> feels I'm taking a jab at them. I was not.
Actually, Jim. Your putdown --
>> It means that in the last 100 years we became intelligent enough
>> to question the authority/accuracy/inerrancy of the Bible.
-- implies, "Anyone who disagrees with my more conservative (authority/
accuracy/inerrancy) posture on the Bible is simply foolish."
> Shall I delete it?
No need, as far as I'm concerned. I believe it was an honest assessment
of your outlook, and I would have taken it that way even if you had singled
me out personally.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.748 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Dec 31 1993 11:29 | 11 |
|
See 1 Corinthians 1:18-25, 2:14
Jim
|
9.749 | Lord, thank you for your patience. | HURON::MYERS | | Fri Dec 31 1993 15:12 | 13 |
| re Note 9.748 by CSLALL::HENDERSON
This reference addresses the trouble many people in Paul's time had with
identifying a man who would submit to crucifixion as being the
manifestation of a powerful and mighty God. It does not refer to the
relatively modern notion of the Bible (i.e. the collection of stories and
letters compiled in the book we call the Bible) as being the complete,
literal and inerrant word of God.
May the humility of Christ be an example to us all.
Eric
|
9.750 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Dec 31 1993 20:30 | 29 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.749 by HURON::MYERS >>>
-< Lord, thank you for your patience. >-
> This reference addresses the trouble many people in Paul's time had with
> identifying a man who would submit to crucifixion as being the
> manifestation of a powerful and mighty God. It does not refer to the
Yes, however it also tells us that worldly wisdom ( on which the Corinthians
placed a great deal of value) is the very antithesis of the wisdom of God.
> relatively modern notion of the Bible (i.e. the collection of stories and
> letters compiled in the book we call the Bible) as being the complete,
> literal and inerrant word of God.
Relatively modern notion? I didn't realize Paul's writings in 2 Timothy was
considered modern.
Jim
|
9.751 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Mon Jan 03 1994 09:49 | 3 |
| Except Paul did not write Timothy.
Patricia
|
9.752 | | HURON::MYERS | | Mon Jan 03 1994 09:57 | 20 |
| re Note 9.750 by CSLALL::HENDERSON
>> Yes, however it also tells us that worldly wisdom ( on which the
>> Corinthians placed a great deal of value) is the very antithesis of the
>> wisdom of God.
I agree with this insofar as worldly wisdom operates under the confines
of our understanding of the natural world and the logic we apply to
that understanding. God's wisdom is of a mystical and spiritual nature,
unburdened by time, space, or natural-physical laws.
>> Relatively modern notion? I didn't realize Paul's writings in 2
>> Timothy was considered modern.
And I didn't realize that Paul had knowledge of the book we call the
Bible.
Eric
|
9.753 | Huh? | CFSCTC::HUSTON | Steve Huston | Mon Jan 03 1994 11:43 | 9 |
| > Except Paul did not write Timothy.
"Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the command of God our Savior and of
Christ Jesus our hope, To Timothy my true son in the faith:" 1 Tim 1:1-2
"Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, according to the
promise of life that is in Christ Jesus, To Timothy, my dear son:" 2 Tim 1:1-2
-Steve
|
9.754 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Jan 03 1994 12:04 | 4 |
| As discussed elsewhere, Timothy was probably put together by a loyal disciple
of Paul from unpublished Pauline writings.
/john
|
9.755 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Mon Jan 03 1994 13:00 | 6 |
| Boy,
What hoops we go through when the Bible misreprents facts.
Patricia
|
9.756 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jan 03 1994 14:00 | 14 |
| >As discussed elsewhere, Timothy was probably put together by a loyal disciple
^^^^^^^^
>of Paul from unpublished Pauline writings.
There doesn't seem to be any proof whatsoever that Paul DID NOT write
Timothy... instead there seems to words used such as "likely" or
"probably"... all assumptions.
Why does your assumption lend more credit then the verses themselves?
Incredible logic ...
|
9.757 | Paul wrote Timothy. Did Too! Did Too! :-) | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Mon Jan 03 1994 14:15 | 48 |
| Getting back to processing :-)
Richard,
Our interactions often follow a similar pattern. To wit:
- I make a claim
- you dispute the claim in a way that often includes
a comment that I perceive as belittling (not to me personally,
but to those who accept the Biblical claims of inerrancy)
- I respond with evidence for the claim
- you back away from making a comment
Sometimes, I push on to the next stage:
- I, again, show why I believe your comment to be wrong
covering most of the bases and note that you are avoiding
the issue
- you distance yourself further from the issue
As I reflect upon this pattern of communication, I view your
role as simply one who sits back and criticizes while rarely
putting your reasons to the test (since you rarely enter your
reasoning, only your opinions). This is one of the reasons why
many of us with different viewpoints (myself certainly included)
from you are frustrated or upset at you. Your hit and run style
promotes such feelings. Note that this is not dependent on your
viewpoint - Patricia and I, for example, differ in our viewpoints
more than you and I differ, yet I rarely feel frustrated in
talking with Patricia (other than the fact that we disagree :-) ).
I'm not trying to say that you should always attempt to justify
your beliefs or comments. But I think that it is reasonable to
usually share enough so that one might understand why you believe
what you believe. The tactic of rarely sharing why you believe
something leads one (leads many of us) to conclude that you have
few reasons to actually believe that and that your comment is mostly
put in to offend (which it often does) rather than to share (since
you rarely follow up in the sharing).
I hope this helps you understand not only how you are perceived,
but why you are perceived this way (at least from my viewpoint).
I recognize that you rarely are attempting to offend (just as I
rarely attempt to offend), but your success at promoting the peace
you sign your messages with is hampered by the content (or lack
thereof) that you include.
Collis
|
9.758 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Tue Jan 04 1994 13:46 | 17 |
| .757
I refuse to respond with evidence which I already know you will not
accept.
And I refuse to participate with my every note structured like a term
paper.
I've also refrained from answering on occasion because I *know* I
could not answer without that answer coming across as insulting.
If you want to read something else into my silence, you are free to.
Meaning, even when wrong, is in people.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.759 | just being analytical me | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Tue Jan 04 1994 14:26 | 36 |
|
>I refuse to respond with evidence which I already know you will not
>accept.
You are right that I will not accept your evidence. And I will
make it quite clear what I *cannot* accept your evidence. I
will point out the flaws, the hidden assumptions and the bias
that the evidence is presented with. Surprisingly, sometimese I
actually change my mind or my views based on the reasons that
people (including yourself) present. Your choices are:
- stop "hitting and running" by being willing to discuss
the reasoning behind your opinions
- be viewed as someone with an agenda constantly being
pushed who makes comments without justification and
with little desire for real communication
You have chosen the second option and many (not simply myself
by any means) have decided that this is what you are often
doing. That is why when you open a new topic (which really was
a reasonable topic to open), you get only comments about your
agenda rather than a discussion on the topic. We *know* you,
Richard - even better (in some ways) than you know yourself.
I believe that you do not even see yourself in this light. The
real problem with that is that you are very unmotivated to change
because you don't see a problem with just "being you". And I don't
write this to bash you - just to explain the constant frustration
that I (and sometimes others) have in attempting to have *meaningful*
communication. It doesn't happen often with you. Things will
probably not change. (I also admit that changes are needed from
my end for more meaningful communication at times. It is certainly
not all your fault.)
Collis
|
9.760 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jan 04 1994 14:39 | 13 |
| We are a way too fragile society. While I believe that we should not
seek out to destroy someone with our words, honesty wrapped in
compassion is better for me, then words being withheld so that
assumptions can destroy the relationship.
I have a friend who says one thing because she can't say not and
express what her needs are, and then when the commitment that she
really didn't want to make comes around, she resents having to follow
through. Why? Because she couldn't say no and hurt someone's
feelings. This same inhibition in other forms, destroys the ability
for intimacy, true intimacy with friends, mates and loved ones.
Nancy
|
9.761 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Tue Jan 04 1994 14:43 | 8 |
| .759 Should I leave payment for this session with your receptionist?
I guarantee you, anything I might add at this point would be perceived
as an insult, so you leave me no choice but to praise God.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.762 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Tue Jan 04 1994 14:46 | 7 |
| 814.50
Wrong. You're free to produce all the evidence you want whether or
not I ever do.
Richard
|
9.763 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Jan 04 1994 14:53 | 15 |
| Collis,
I am afraid that I cannot accept your "dissection" of
Richard. I feel that you have attributed beliefs and conduct that are
erroneous and differ wildly from my experience. I have known Richard
to be both loving and caring in his concern for truth. While the
Bible is a beautiful book written as a way of life it cannot hold all
of God that we can learn and the belief that the Bible is the first and
last word of God is both dangerous and narrow minded. It is this very
narrow mindedness that I feel we need to change and relize that a living
God speaks thru people as well as books.
Dave
|
9.764 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Tue Jan 04 1994 15:07 | 24 |
| Re: .763
Dave,
Since I don't believe the Bible is the first and last word
of God, that is not the issue.
Yes, I am narrow-minded. I believe Jesus is the Savior. I
exclude all others. I am narrow-minded. Broadmindedness in
some areas is an open invitation to disaster.
I believe the prophets of God. I am narrow-minded. To disbelieve
them was wrong 100% of the time (as related in the Bible). To
be broadminded in this area is an open invitation to disaster.
In terms of Richard, I agree with you that Richard is a loving
and caring person. He *wants* to follow God. None of that
negates what I said in the slightest (as I see it). Perhaps
you do not understand how Richard could be loving, caring
and as I describe him in my previous note. Then again, many
do not see how God can be fully loving, caring and send most
of us to hell for our unrepented sin.
Collis
|
9.765 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Jan 04 1994 15:28 | 13 |
| Collis,
Fine. I would just ask that you "allow" people their
belief and not belittle them for it. And I am sorry but your thoughts
about Richards beliefs and thoughts got very close to the line on a
personal attack within the context of this discussion. You are and
have been allowed room for your thoughts and beliefs but when those
discussions turns into a personality discussion, its time to end it.
Not only is it not Christian (as you have defined it) but it also might
very well come close to crossing the line for digital notes policy.
Dave
|
9.766 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Jan 04 1994 15:40 | 4 |
| As a neutral observer, I feel that the discussions, while somewhat
rough at times, sure have made me think!
Marc H.
|
9.767 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jan 04 1994 16:38 | 14 |
| I don't see where Richard has been maligned but his noting behavior as
Collis views their interaction being called out. And if I know Collis
at all [which isn't completely intimate], I do believe he's asking for
change in their communication by bringing out the frustration areas.
I find this Biblical, even Christianlike, I would that more cared
enough about relationships to try and smooth the contentiousness that
oftimes exists.
Perhaps a better way to have handled it may have been offline. I have
respect for Richard, but I do agree that he oftens throws out tidbits
of inflammatory remarks on purpose. Fight and Flight.
Nancy
|
9.768 | Some of us don't have as much time as Collis. | WELLER::FANNIN | | Tue Jan 04 1994 17:00 | 17 |
| Y'know, it's like having kids...they wear you down because they got
nothing better to do. They'll win every time.
I like Richard's tidbits. I find them interesting and
thought-provoking. I know Richard on a personal basis and the Light
shines in his eyes.
And Collis, I'm praying for you too. I really feel sorry for those
Christians who are still caught in the entanglements of the Law. But I
trust that seeds that are planted in this conference may someday grow
in your heart and bear the fruit of grace and freedom.
For me to return to your beliefs would be idolatry. It would be making
something (The Bible) more important than God.
Ruth
|
9.769 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Tue Jan 04 1994 17:07 | 12 |
|
>For me to return to your beliefs would be idolatry. It would be making
>something (The Bible) more important than God.
I'm just giving the Bible its due according to God's
prophets. I expect you realize that, but you may not
have been thinking in those terms.
Collis
P.S. The Bible isn't more important than God. But I know
what you are trying to say.
|
9.770 | | HURON::MYERS | | Tue Jan 04 1994 17:07 | 13 |
| I see Collis as the scholarly brother, formally trained and well versed
and Richard and the self-taught brother, reading scripture and
interpreting it as his common sense would dictate. And true to form,
like brothers, they will spar. One prefers detailed exegesis, the
other witty repartee. One works very hard to stay between the line,
and the other views all of life as his canvas. Each striving to live a
life in a way they understand to be the will of God.
I have the image of Collis as a Banker and Richard as a hippie! :^)
Go figure... When they're not engaged in tit-for-tat noting, each adds
tremendously to this conference.
Eric
|
9.771 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Tue Jan 04 1994 19:14 | 11 |
| Note 9.770
> I have the image of Collis as a Banker and Richard as a hippie! :^)
| |
Thomas Aquinas Francis of Assisi
Hmmm. Forgive me for toying with your image, Eric.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.772 | | HURON::MYERS | | Tue Jan 04 1994 19:50 | 6 |
| re 9.771
Funny. It hadn't occured to me to cast the two of you as saints...
A thousand "yuks",
Eric
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9.773 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Tue Jan 04 1994 20:07 | 5 |
| .772 Consider me duly humbled, Eric.
Peace,
Richard
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9.774 | is THAT your personal stand? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Wed Jan 12 1994 10:30 | 23 |
| re Note 824.23 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> However, in practice of this premise, I see the term Christian
> being perverted.
>
> Therefore, I believe as stated this conference stands for nothing.
> But, also see sincere, caring and loving individuals participating.
The question is, Nancy, what do YOU stand for?
Is your message to this conference "this conference stands
for nothing"? If so, we hear you loud and clear -- you are
able to say that (and others are able to challenge you on
that, too).
Is your message to this conference "I see the term Christian
being perverted"? If so, we hear you -- you are free to say
that.
Is that what you stand for, Nancy? If not, perhaps you
should be writing something else.
Bob
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9.775 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jan 12 1994 13:16 | 19 |
| .774
I'm sorry but your note doesn't say very much to me. If you wish to
know what I stand for read the notes in which I pour my heart. See my
introduction...this will give you what I *stand* for.
However, if you cannot surmise based on my in-depth responses what I
stand for, then perhaps eyes are closed as your reading the notes...
oh, I'm not talking physical eyes, but the spiritual eyes needed for
discernment.
Yes, I am against the term CHRISTIAN being used for anything other then
for CHRIST.. and I will not apologize for having said so.
In His Love,
Nancy
His = Jesus
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9.776 | Request - Lee Lafferty's address | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Jan 12 1994 18:02 | 10 |
|
This isn't exactly a processing topic...
Does anyone know Lee Lafferty's most recent address? He sent me a card
a few months ago, however I've lost it in the piles at home and can't
find it anywhere.
Thanks,
Cindy
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9.777 | and what does God think of all this? | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Wed Jan 12 1994 18:38 | 10 |
| Yes, Nancy, those who accept the Bible as true see the
term "Christian" perverted in this conference. This
subject came to somewhat of a head several years ago in
the "Fornicators - and proud of it" topic. To get a
feeling for the depths that those who like to be called
Christian will sink to, it is worth browsing in that
note. On the other hand, the title just about sums it
up.
Collis
|
9.778 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Thu Jan 13 1994 10:53 | 6 |
| I still miss Mike.
Does anyone know how he is doing?
Patricia
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9.779 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:26 | 6 |
| .776
I don't remember Lee Lafferty, Cindy. Sorry.
Richard
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9.780 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:29 | 6 |
| .777 As if Evangelicals never commit sins of perversion. As if
other conferences were blemishless and truly representative of the
will of Yahweh.
Richard
|
9.781 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:30 | 9 |
| Cindy,
Probably the CHRISTIAN conference is the best place to ask about Lee.
If you send a note or card to Lee, say "hi" from me too. I enjoyed the
conversation we had at the CHRISTIAN noters party we attended a few years
ago.
-- Bob
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9.782 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:31 | 7 |
| .778 Mike's birthday was last week. Another January baby, like
Limbaugh, Ali, Elvis, Nixon and me.
Haven't heard hide nor hair of him.
Richard
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9.783 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:33 | 5 |
|
Will do, Bob. Yes, I remember that party! That's where I think you
and I first met too.
Cindy
|
9.784 | | ILLUSN::SORNSON | Are all your pets called 'Eric'? | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:36 | 20 |
| re .776 (TNPUBS::PAINTER)
> Does anyone know Lee Lafferty's most recent address? He sent me a card
> a few months ago, however I've lost it in the piles at home and can't
> find it anywhere.
Boy ... there's a blast from the past. I remember Lee.
A few years ago Lee moved to Nashua, NH (from upstate NY -- he lived in
Maryland when he worked for DEC), and we got together once. I haven't
talked to him since, but the Nashua phone book lists a:
Kim & Lee Lafferty 29 Congress Nash
There's no zip code, naturally; and Nashua has several. I'll e-mail
you the phone number if you'd like. I don't remember his wife's name,
so this is just a guess (but it makes sense).
-mark.
|
9.785 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:45 | 21 |
| Re: .780
Richard,
Why are you putting down other conferences? Perhaps you
see this as a battle between the two conferences?
If you feel the way I do about some of what has happened
here in this conference, then confess the sins, ask for
forgiveness and move on.
If you are unhappy with my beliefs that all kinds of
perversion have been and are embraced by some of the
participants of this conference, then feel free to make
comments to me and defend those activities.
But what has another conference to do with this?
This conference was not started to condemn other conferences.
Collis
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9.786 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Jan 13 1994 13:58 | 12 |
| .785 It is apparent to me from your chronic criticisms
of this conference that you assume a superior one must
exist.
If you'll re-read .780 you'll see that I put down no other
conference, but indicated that a blemishless one doesn't exist.
Neither did I indicate that there were only two conferences.
Perhaps you could use a little word study in this area.
Richard
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9.787 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Jan 13 1994 14:01 | 4 |
|
Why do you put down 'liberals', Collis?
Cindy
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9.788 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Thu Jan 13 1994 14:30 | 10 |
|
> why do you put down liberals
I know this was for Collis, but I could not resist. I find liberals
far to often in opposition to christianity. I associate the word
liberal with the word Hollywood..
David
|
9.789 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jan 13 1994 14:37 | 9 |
| .788 good answer
Richard, just what did you mean by your comment? It sure sounded as
though you were using a comparative statement to me. What were you
comparing to and were you referring to conferences like SOAPBOX? :-)
Very interesting dance move I must say.
Nancy
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9.790 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Thu Jan 13 1994 17:07 | 10 |
| >why do you put down liberals
I strongly oppose many beliefs of liberal Christians.
It is very hard to consistently question and disprove
the beliefs without also putting down the individuals,
although I try. I apologize for any unkind comments
that may have hurt you and will try to show my respect
for you despite your beliefs.
Collis
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9.791 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Jan 13 1994 17:09 | 12 |
| .789 I don't dance, not with my legs anyway.
I was not skirting the issue. I am not a devious person. I was not
referring to any other conference specifically. If you cannot accept
that, it is you that has the problem, not me.
FYI, there are a multitude of conferences both inside and outside
Digital which deal with Christianity and related topics, including
SOAPBOX.
Richard
|
9.792 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jan 13 1994 18:21 | 26 |
| > .789 I don't dance, not with my legs anyway.
That's why it was interesting. Legs had nothing to do with it.
> I was not skirting the issue. I am not a devious person. I was not
> referring to any other conference specifically. If you cannot accept
> that, it is you that has the problem, not me.
I would never use the word devious, mischievious maybe, but devious
never!
Richard, your note had a connotation of a snideness towards ANOTHER
conference. Now the inferred can never be proven, which is the reason
its inferred and not named... right? :-)
BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
*nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
have the term CHRISTian in its name.
> FYI, there are a multitude of conferences both inside and outside
> Digital which deal with Christianity and related topics, including
> SOAPBOX.
Tell me is that the ol' slip and slide move? :-) :-)
Nancy
|
9.793 | aren't you, for example, a "regular participant"? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Thu Jan 13 1994 18:56 | 22 |
| re Note 9.792 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
> *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
> have the term CHRISTian in its name.
Nancy,
Which regular participants?
Are you saying that the "consensus of regular participants"
is that the conference stands for *nothing* (whatever it
might mean for a conference to stand)? Or are you saying
that there is no consensus among "regular participants" about
what this conference stands?
It seems to me that the "regular participants" of this
conference range rather evenly across the
liberal-conservative spectrum, and also range across the
believer-non-believer spectrum.
Bob
|
9.794 | you are welcome, but if being here bothers you | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Thu Jan 13 1994 19:07 | 28 |
| re Note 9.792 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
> *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
> have the term CHRISTian in its name.
The Home_Work conference has "home" and "work" in its name.
While that conference is VERY rigidly moderated, almost
anything related to homes, by almost any definition, is
acceptable there.
This is that type of conference and I believe it is entirely
legitimate for our name to reflect the fact that ANY
discussion regarding Christ as the participant understands
Christ is acceptable here.
It would be absurd for the name of this conference NOT to
have "Christ" in it. It would be absurd for the name of this
conference to imply a bias or favor to a particular
understanding of Christ since this conference was established
precisely not to be so oriented.
If you are disturbed by the fact that many in this world
understand Christ differently than you do, there's little
anyone can do to help you other than avoiding the occasions
for hearing such contrary views.
Bob
|
9.795 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Thu Jan 13 1994 19:23 | 21 |
| .792 So, Nancy, you distrust me. I can live with that.
I believe the name Christian is entirely appropriate for this conference,
as much as any other, whether or not all participants claim to be Christian,
and whether or not the fundamentalists like it.
I believe many of the participants here are more genuinely Christian in
thought and deed (belief and action, faith and works) than, say, Jerry Falwell.
You, on the other hand, might have a problem with Bishop John Spong.
> BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
> *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
> have the term CHRISTian in its name.
Again, conferences do not have stands, people do. I do not have a "nothing
stand" any more than you do.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.796 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jan 13 1994 20:12 | 16 |
|
Well, you so neatly have taken this conversation and interspersed into
about 3 topics; lets see if memory serves me the topics are/were 824
originally 22, 9, 34, ... hmmm where else... so for me to go back show
you the *nothing* statements from which I pulled the *nothing* [oooh,
anybody see that movie?] it seems rather a waste of time.
Bob, no-one has indicated that noting here is discomforting, what has
been said very clearly is that the perversion of the term Christian
will be challanged by this noter.
My purpose isn't to antagonize this conference but to discuss, challange
and be challanged on spiritual Truths.... the question is can you take
the challange without inferring that I should leave?
Nancy
|
9.797 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jan 13 1994 20:24 | 37 |
| >.792 So, Nancy, you distrust me. I can live with that.
Now Richard what gave you that idea!
>I believe the name Christian is entirely appropriate for this conference,
>as much as any other, whether or not all participants claim to be Christian,
>and whether or not the fundamentalists like it.
No problem for me that you believe this... absolutely. Richard you are
the only one on the mod team who says they believe in the Trinity or
deity of Christ... [if someone else on the mod team does, nows the time
to step up.]
However, I reserve the right to challange the term CHRISTIAN when
beliefs other then in CHRIST are being incorporated into that term.
>I believe many of the participants here are more genuinely Christian in
>thought and deed (belief and action, faith and works) than, say, Jerry
Falwell.
You may not believe this, but I have difficulty with Falwell myself...
as I also do with many Television preachers perverting the word of God
for worldly gain.
>You, on the other hand, might have a problem with Bishop John Spong.
I might, don't know him though. :-) Tell me is he married?
>Again, conferences do not have stands, people do. I do not have a "nothing
>stand" any more than you do.
Agreed, but the moderators of this conference concurred that *nothing*
was exactly what it stood for...
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.798 | OK | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Fri Jan 14 1994 09:57 | 24 |
| re Note 9.796 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> Bob, no-one has indicated that noting here is discomforting, what has
> been said very clearly is that the perversion of the term Christian
> will be challanged by this noter.
OK -- I understand.
I hope that you too will understand that I will challenge the
perversion that the traditional orthodox understandings of
Christ and the Bible are the only reasonable ones.
> My purpose isn't to antagonize this conference but to discuss, challange
> and be challanged on spiritual Truths.... the question is can you take
> the challange without inferring that I should leave?
It seemed to me that you were bothered more than you were
bothering those who disagreed with you -- perhaps you
aren't. I don't mind you attacking my (or any other
person's) doctrine or positions. I do mind when you seem to
challenge not just others' positions but the appropriateness
of even having such a forum for such discussions.
Bob
|
9.799 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Fri Jan 14 1994 09:58 | 24 |
| re: Note 9.797 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
Hi Nancy,
> However, I reserve the right to challange the term CHRISTIAN when
> beliefs other then in CHRIST are being incorporated into that term.
I hope you are as thankful for that "right" as I am. I've participated in
other conferences (no names, of course) where such "rights" only extended
to a very narrow range of beliefs.
> Agreed, but the moderators of this conference concurred that *nothing*
> was exactly what it stood for...
Huh? I'm a co-moderator of this conference and I certainly never concurred
with anything like that. I've read several notes (not necessarily from you)
stating that the "conference" has this view or that view. I see conferences
as nothing more than a playing field, and this one I find much more level
than many others. I think the players here have a wonderful range of beliefs
and are very sincere about them.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.800 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Fri Jan 14 1994 10:29 | 28 |
| I am a moderator.
I believe in a couple of trinities. I believe in the trinity of God in
so far as I perceive three separate complementary natures of God.
God the Transcendent God, The Other, The Father/Mother
God the Immanent God, The God in us and around us and immediately
available to us, The Holy Spirit
God, the God we meet in human relationships, The God at work through
others, The Christ.
I guess I believe in the Divinity of Christ.
I do not believe in the Divinity of Jesus except in so far as he
represents the perfect example of the Incarnation of God in a human
personality . In the same way I can accept the divinity of Jesus, I
also accept the divinity of all men and women who accept the
incarnation of God into their hearts and lifes.
Yes I do accept that some of you feel that I pervert the name
Christian. As long as I think Christianity in a live and vibrant
religion, I will continue to "pervert" the name. When those who see
the errors of fundementalism stop "perverting" the name, then
Christianity will truly be in trouble.
Patricia
|
9.801 | in a word, "discussion" | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Fri Jan 14 1994 11:08 | 22 |
| re Note 9.797 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> Agreed, but the moderators of this conference concurred that *nothing*
> was exactly what it stood for...
I was taken aback by this one, too.
I have been a moderator from day 1, and we have never taken
such a position (although it seems that some traditionalists
assume from the nature of discussion here that we somehow
must have taken such a position).
In note 824.23, you quote approvingly from this conference's
introduction in note 1.0.
That is it, THAT is the "consensus of the moderators"
concerning this conference. In a phrase, this conference
"stands" for "discussion from a Christian perspective"
(having no other definition of "Christian" than that found
in an English dictionary).
Bob
|
9.802 | some thoughts | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Fri Jan 14 1994 11:50 | 32 |
|
Re.790
Collis, it's not so much me specifically, as it is the problem
that comes in when you label individuals as 'liberal' (for example),
then assign all these characteristics to them that don't even apply
in many cases.
For example, some of the things you have said/assumed about 'the
liberal position' don't even apply to that which I, or others,
actually believe. And yet continually I see your notes, and the notes
of others, this lapse into 'well, liberals believe...' when the going
gets difficult. I feel cheated at times like that, because you're
putting assumptions onto me based on your own concept, rather than
trying to understand my position more clearly...or the position of
whoever you are having a note exchange with.
Yes, I am guilty of doing a similar thing, having just used the label
'fundamentalist' in a note a few moments ago. (It was before I read
your apology here.) So perhaps from now on, we can do our best to not
let labels get in the way of trying to understand what's really going
on.
Not all liberals agree with abortion, for example. And not all
fundamentalists support the actions of the group that blocks clinics.
So while there are generalizations that one can make, if we can try to
have a little less of them here, we may be able to eventually come to
some common ground that we *do* agree on, and all in all, that would
be a wonderful thing to have happen, actually.
Cindy
|
9.803 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jan 14 1994 11:57 | 19 |
| Thanks... Again exactly where the *nothing* comments were [and they
were from moderators] is beside the point. You've come forward and
stated what you believe and this is exactly what I wanted from the very
first question for what does this conference stand. Thank You.
It is very clear that the conference is not here to make a distinction
about the CHRISTIANITY of CHRIST, but to use the term CHRISTIAN to
promote an acceptability of multiple beliefs in the CHRISTIAN world
[not meaning el mundo]. And yes, Jim, I do like the right to voice my
challanges to this unacceptable trend happening today. However, I do
not want to and need to be held accountable should I cross over that
fine line from challange to insult. I think it is important that all
pov are discussed as long as insult or personal insult is not a part of
that discussion.
In CHRISTian Love,
Nancy
|
9.804 | you're reading too much into it | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Fri Jan 14 1994 12:47 | 22 |
| re Note 9.803 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> It is very clear that the conference is not here to make a distinction
> about the CHRISTIANITY of CHRIST, but to use the term CHRISTIAN to
> promote an acceptability of multiple beliefs in the CHRISTIAN world
> [not meaning el mundo].
Conference policy promotes the "acceptability of multiple
beliefs" only in the sense that we do not suppress or muzzle
certain beliefs.
(Throughout history free speech and free thought have been
suppressed on the grounds that "error has no rights" and that
to permit error is somehow to endorse it. That is not the
policy here.)
Again you personify the conference: "the conference is not
here to make a distinction..." -- the conference IS here and
has ITS policy specifically to allow ANYONE to make ANY
distinction they wish regarding CHRIST.
Bob
|
9.805 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jan 14 1994 13:01 | 5 |
| .904
Thanks Bob for your clarification.
Nancy
|
9.806 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Fri Jan 14 1994 13:09 | 8 |
| Nancy,
Are you willing now to say that you may have been in error in
asserting that the people of this conference have a "*nothing*
stand," as you declared in 9.792?
Richard
|
9.807 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jan 14 1994 13:22 | 7 |
| No, I'm not in the context of what was written and the question being
asked about a SPIRITUAL STANCE of this conference...the nothing is
accurate.
This conference does stand for what Bob has declared it to in the
previous notes, which is something... wish that had been my first
answer instead of the last, sure coulda saved a lot of notes.
|
9.809 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jan 14 1994 13:44 | 10 |
| .808
What a pompous remark!! Richard where do you get off being judge?
Does a noter who believes in the inerrant word of God and has the guts
to challange those who don't, considered a hip-carrying gun slinger?
Sheesh!
You are rude and insulting...
|
9.810 | | ILLUSN::SORNSON | Are all your pets called 'Eric'? | Fri Jan 14 1994 14:31 | 3 |
| I think the title of the basenote should be changed to
"The Bickering Topic"
|
9.811 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jan 14 1994 14:40 | 4 |
| I second the motion. :-)
Those of you who have seen me, imagine me with guns on hip... actually
its sounds fun... now where is that video game haven?
|
9.812 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Fri Jan 14 1994 14:52 | 11 |
|
Richard,
While in a way I do agree with you (not fully with your observation on
Nancy, but definitely with other people here who clearly more
interested in preaching than in real listening), I have this aversion
to being called a 'young woman'. Whenever someone says that to me -
except in very rare circumstances - it feels patronizing and somewhat
condescending.
Cindy
|
9.813 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Jan 14 1994 14:54 | 11 |
|
If a "conservative" had made such a statement (young woman) regarding a
"liberal" I'm sure the heat from such a statement would be felt 'round the
world.
Jim
|
9.814 | Retraction and Apology | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Fri Jan 14 1994 16:38 | 25 |
| I retract the "young woman" portion of my remark and I apologize for
having used it, though Nancy is in fact younger than me and a woman.
I do understand how "little lady" or "missy" or "sweetie" would have
been more genuinely condescending. None of these, you'll note, did
I use nor did I intend.
I also apologize for sounding pompous.
At the same time:
o Nancy has consistently ignored references and pointers to any matter
which was discussed extensively prior to her arrival.
o Nancy has consistently ridiculed this conference, not caring whether
or not it might mean something to anyone else.
o Nancy holds this unwavering notion: Inerrantist = "CHRISTian"
non-inerrantist = non-Christian
I apologize most thoroughly, but I've just become a little weary of
the clanging gong I am chronically hearing as of late.
Peace,
Richard
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9.808 | This entry edited and re-entered | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Fri Jan 14 1994 16:41 | 6 |
| 9.807 And you, Nancy, could have saved a lot of notes if
you had come into the conference with intentions of listening,
rather than with "righteous" guns blazing!
Richard
|
9.815 | Something else to bicker about for awhile | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Fri Jan 14 1994 16:59 | 14 |
| Note 800.59
> ..yuh huh pardner, Paul did however predict the little fellows
> would make an appearance towards the end times.
I think it's real curious that no one of the "conservative" persuasion
has bothered to set David straight on this assertion.
Could it be that the conservative Christians are happy to let people
believe something which is false just so long as it's in keeping with
the conservative perspective (agenda)? God help us if that's so.
Richard
|
9.816 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jan 14 1994 17:29 | 18 |
| 800.59
Wasn't following the discussion and still do not know in what context
it was written.
Richard,
You don't like me I can live with that... and no where have I stated
that this conference has no value... what I have tried to ascertain is
how the term CHRISTian which is near and dear to my heart is being
used.
BTW, I'm still praying for you... even though I don't know for what I
am praying. May God enrich your life, bring healing if necessary and
preserve your heart in Him.
In His Love,
Nancy
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9.817 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Fri Jan 14 1994 17:37 | 11 |
| .816 Thank you, Nancy. You remain in my prayers as well. For
as often as you and I seem to butt heads here, I hold up a higher
hope for you than for anyone else active in the conference right
now.
Why? Because I know you are a genuinely tender-hearted person. And
if there was ever a shortage of anything in this world, it is tender-
hearted people.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.818 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Sun Jan 16 1994 09:47 | 12 |
|
> I think it's real curious that no one of the " conservative "
What were they supposed to say? That I was right about there having
been a prediction but wrong about it being Paul? Then when the fight
really gets interesting you claim that a particular scripture used by
your opponent was not interpreted correctly? It's worthless to argue
with you.
David
|
9.819 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Sun Jan 16 1994 11:18 | 7 |
| .818
God knows where you acquired such a notion about gays and the
so-called end times. I don't.
Richard
|
9.820 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Sun Jan 16 1994 15:20 | 8 |
|
> God knows where you acquired such a notion
..perhaps your opening suggest where I got it :-)
David
|
9.821 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Sun Jan 16 1994 16:39 | 9 |
| .820 Not!
;-}
Richard
|
9.822 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Sun Jan 16 1994 17:32 | 5 |
|
-1
...did to
|
9.823 | Please | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | On loan from God | Sun Jan 23 1994 21:20 | 14 |
| Note 830.18
> > methinks you have it backwards
> No doubt anyone who does not swim in the grey area of new agedom is
> thought of this way.....
Can we dispense with the non-productive, for-slurs'-sake slurs
and putdowns?
And I'll try to watch it, myself.
Richard
|
9.824 | more fun than a tilt-a-whirl | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Sun Jan 23 1994 22:37 | 5 |
| so many windmills, so little time
.-)
Jim
|
9.825 | long day...anyway, hope this clears it up | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Sun Jan 23 1994 23:48 | 29 |
|
Ah, OK, I guess David was perceiving that I was calling *him*
backwards. (Not.)
Whereas I was merely referring to the fact that in the original
CHRISTIAN conference, those of us who were perceived as 'liberal' were
in there to convert the 'true believers' to something 'less' or
'unpalatable', when most of the time we were just in there presenting
our views. At least I was. I could have cared less about converting
anybody to anything.
I recall the general circumstances around this conference being formed
as a place where the more liberal view could be presented (as opposed to
said notes being set hidden a lot of the time, which they were, and
still are on occasion. But now this conference exists, so we have a
place to express our views without being perceived as crashing the
tea party in the other conference.)
Paraphrasing from memory here...
Richard stated that when he goes into certain places, he does not go
with the intention of converting. David mentions something about
him refraining from doing that here. I said that I think David has it
backwards (and was implying that David is the one who has come into a
more liberal place trying to educate us on the err of our ways. Etc.)
Hope this makes things more clear.
Cindy
|
9.826 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jan 24 1994 00:47 | 4 |
| Hmm... I wonder if this is a good reason why employees shouldn't work
longer then 2 years in one place. :-) :-) Memories pressed between
the keyboard of my mind. :-)
|
9.827 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Mon Jan 24 1994 09:01 | 9 |
|
Cindy,
..and if you look real hard you can see a smiley on the end of the
remark I made toward Richard, just like this one :-)
David
|
9.828 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Feb 03 1994 11:26 | 9 |
| Note 840.1
> Nancy,the simpleton
Nancy, Why is it you refer to yourself this way? I do not think you're
a simpleton.
Richard
|
9.829 | Welcome! Hope you'll say Hello! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Feb 03 1994 11:27 | 7 |
| I would appreciate it if our newer participants would take a moment to
introduce themselves in Note 3. It's not mandatory, of course, but a
social amenity.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.830 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Feb 03 1994 13:57 | 10 |
| Simpleton? Why? Because I believe God said what he said and meant
what he said and gave the writers of the Bible divine inspiration to
get that point across.
I think too often we go on a supposed treasure hunt in the Word, when
the SIMPLE TRUTH stares us in the face. Exegesis has its merit, but
for the most part its intellectual banter.
IMHO,
Nancy :-)
|
9.831 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Thu Feb 03 1994 14:12 | 1 |
| I do agree with you Nancy that Exegesis is intellectual banter.
|
9.832 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Thu Feb 03 1994 14:17 | 10 |
| I agree that Exegesis at times can be intellectual banter.
However, I think that exegesis the vast majority of the time
is simply taking the time to truly understand what was
originally written. My experience has consistently been
that those who put forth the time and energy to understand
the relevant text usually have a much better grasp on the
meaning than those who do not.
Collis
|
9.833 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Feb 03 1994 15:24 | 6 |
|
>Exegesis
Isn't that a video game?
Cindy
|
9.834 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Feb 03 1994 16:24 | 8 |
| -1
Cindy,,,, did you get hit by lightening last night or sumpin'???? :-)
This is the second note in about 2 seconds that I've read where your
wonderful sense of humor has shown through! Thanks for the smiles.
Nancy
|
9.835 | you musta misunderstood | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Feb 03 1994 16:40 | 6 |
|
Oh no, Nancy...I was *serious*.
[Not.] (;^)
Cindy
|
9.836 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Feb 03 1994 17:51 | 7 |
| -1
-< you musta misunderstood >-
Seems I've heard that before. :-)
|
9.837 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Feb 03 1994 20:42 | 18 |
| Note 839.33,
> You can read a little more in note 1085 in VAXWRK::INDIA to get
> another perspective on the topic.
I read 1085.11. It speaks quite truly.
While it is reprehensible, there are plenty of reprehensible things
happening to women in this culture.
In parts of Africa the practice of female circumcision persists.
When the western cultures of the UN pursued the barbaric practice,
the African people pointed to how we "enlighted" people slice up
women for such unnatural "enhancements" as breast implants - all
for the sake of vanity in a sexist society.
Richard
|
9.838 | written with great sadness | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Fri Feb 04 1994 15:39 | 23 |
| Re.837
Richard,
There is more on female circumcision in last month's Reader's Digest
in an article entitled, "All In The Name Of Islam". It's called FGM -
female genital mutilation.
This is a far more widespread practice than just in parts of Africa.
Apparently, in certain subgroups, it even continues in the US.
At times I often wonder if it better for female children to be aborted
or killed in infancy, rather than live a life of being hated for their
gender, having their bodies mutilated, and suffering the tremendous
cultural subjugation that goes on throughout their entire lives.
I'm sure there must be mothers out there who do this, not because the
don't love and want their daughters-to-be, but out of their own suffering,
they do it *for* the love of their daughters, knowing that their death
for them would be easier to bear than the life they would have if they
lived.
Cindy
|
9.839 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Fri Feb 04 1994 16:29 | 10 |
| Note 839.48
> Re. venomous whatever....
> I suggest just ignoring notes like that.
I already do. :-)
Richard
|
9.840 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Fri Feb 04 1994 16:32 | 11 |
| Killing in the name of love is still killing.
We are indeed a misguided society when we start to believe
that individuals have the right to determine when others live
and die.
It is not an individual's decision and should never be. It
is God's decision and, in some instances, the decision of
God's instituted authorities.
Collis
|
9.841 | The New PC = Being Anti-PC | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Sat Feb 05 1994 17:34 | 12 |
| 839.55
Dyben,
Do you always view things through the new PC (anti-PC) glasses?
How come you won't allow yourself to see how serious the issue
is instead of offering ridicule or pretending such matters are not a
problem?
Jones-Christie
|
9.842 | C-P renamed = Blame America/Traditional Church | COMET::DYBEN | | Sun Feb 06 1994 11:17 | 19 |
|
Richard,
As some of my fellow noters have alreay discovered a jab is just as
inneffective as a prolonged study. The people in this conference strain
gnats but swallow camels. You choose to believe whatever tickles your
ears. Look at the liberal crowd and their lifestyle and you will see
why they can never be led to the truth... You fancy yourselves to be
the philosophical arm of the church but I say you are the crowd that
Paul(?) warned us about, forever wrangling over words not for the
sake of learning, but rather to create grey area to swim in. I choose
to jab because I have not the patience that my older brothers do for
the sheer silliness that typifies( new word) this conference..
Deleting this conference for an unspecified time,
David
|
9.844 | God be with you | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Sun Feb 06 1994 17:40 | 24 |
| David,
I know your departure is in haste and anger, and perhaps that
is the best way to handle the situation right now.
Perhaps I am a little too critical of paradigms and institutions
you might hold tenaciously as good and right and true. The way I see it,
if a wall cannot withstand having a few tomatoes hurled against it, it
wasn't constructed very well or it wasn't made of substantial materials
to begin with. (House built on sand)
I don't see myself as the philosophical part of anything. But
I appreciate the underlying compliment.
My vocation is to be a Christian. I'm constantly pushing the
limits of what that means.
I hope that when you return and we can have a more meaningful
exchange, next time "with our shields down" (A Star Trek expression, for
our non-US readers).
Peace,
Richard
|
9.843 | we probably know different "liberals" | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Mon Feb 07 1994 09:30 | 65 |
| re Note 9.842 by COMET::DYBEN:
> The people in this conference strain
> gnats but swallow camels. You choose to believe whatever tickles your
> ears.
I know you can't see this, David, but that is PRECISELY what
I see when I look at conservative Christians and forums such
as the other Christian notes conference. However, we see
different things as gnats and different things as camels.
Your ears are tickled by different things, and you delight to
hear them and call them "belief".
(Please note that I am not describing ALL conservatives by
the above statement. I have come to know many conservatives,
including many who participate in this conference, to whom
the above does not seem to apply. It is quite possible that
I am judging conservatives at least in part by some of the
more extreme examples I see in the media and then trying to
understand how the attitudes expressed by conservatives in
this and other conferences could lead to the excesses I see
in conservatives elsewhere. David, is it possible that
conservatives are judging liberals in general by the same
round-about processes?)
At least in this conference we have no rules to ensure that
the ears of the majority are not offended from time to time
by what they hear. There were two major arguments at the
time of the founding of this conference. One, suggested by
the conservatives, was whether this conference should
establish a "standard" for judging the appropriateness of
entries. The other, suggested by some more liberal, was
that this conference should have rules against entries that
offend people on sensitive religious issues. Neither was
adopted. Sometimes the conservatives are offended by what
the liberals are free to write. Sometimes the liberals are
offended by what the conservatives are free to write.
This is not a feel-good conference for either liberals or
conservatives. (Nevertheless I hope that free and caring
discussion about Christ can help lead the wounded to feel
better.)
> Look at the liberal crowd and their lifestyle and you will see
> why they can never be led to the truth...
One of the reasons I pay a lot of attention to the so-called
"liberal crowd" is because I and many others have looked at
the conservative crowd and their lifestyle and can see that
it is not based entirely upon truth and I saw positive
aspects of the way the so-called "liberal crowd" lived that
was rooted in what they believed.
(I suspect that even when we say "liberal crowd" we are
thinking of different things. You probably are thinking of
gay activists and the like. I'm thinking of Martin Luther
King, the Berrigan brothers, and some Paulists I've known who
work in reconciling divorced Catholics with their church.)
> Deleting this conference for an unspecified time,
Whatever pleases your ears, David...
Bob
|
9.845 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Feb 07 1994 19:39 | 1 |
| What's an Honorary Lesbian?
|
9.846 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Mon Feb 07 1994 20:27 | 6 |
| .845 You asking anyone in particular, Nancy?
;-)
Richard
|
9.847 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Feb 08 1994 01:03 | 3 |
| Nope... just thought the guy with the label *might* answer! :-)
I'd like to be the HONORARY PRESIDENT for one day...
|
9.848 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Feb 08 1994 09:02 | 5 |
| Re: .845
Thought I had heard it all....that's a new one!
Marc H.
|
9.849 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Tue Feb 08 1994 11:32 | 7 |
| .847 Honorary President? Of what?
Cindy Painter, you out there? What do you think I mean by using
the "p_n" Honorary Lesbian?
Richard
|
9.850 | I know.... it's not the same.... :-) | DEMING::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Feb 08 1994 11:35 | 8 |
|
I have a male friend who has a shirt that says, "Nobody knows I'm a
lesbian". I really luv that shirt! :-)
Glen
|
9.851 | a try at it | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Feb 08 1994 13:58 | 11 |
|
No, I'm here, Richard. heeheeheehee! [LETMEOUTOFHERE!!!!!]
It means just what it says....you are an honorable friend to lesbians,
you have been recognized for your work in dispelling myths and putting
forth what they are faced with continually (among other things), and
are therefore worthy of the title 'honorary'.
Just like I'm an honorary Hindu Gujarati Indian. (;^)
Cindy
|
9.852 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Tue Feb 08 1994 16:02 | 7 |
| .851 Thanks, Cindy. I hoped it would be understood as you've
articulated.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.853 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Feb 08 1994 18:13 | 6 |
| .852
Funny I thunked that was what you meant too. :-) But just wanted to
make sure it wasn't a NEW LIFESTYLE.
|
9.854 | Let's identify the *real* Sodomists! | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Tue Feb 08 1994 19:31 | 14 |
| .853 Lesbians and I share at least one thing in common. We're
affectionally attracted to women.
My lifestyle is the style in which I live. I struggle with it because
of the sinful degree to which I'm materially entrenched. I trust my
concern over lifestyle is not one that's disturbing to the average
Christian conscience.
I am concerned over the sins of Sodom, the sins as cited by Ezekiel.
(Chapter 16, verses 49-50)
Peace,
Richard
|
9.855 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Feb 09 1994 00:53 | 3 |
| -1
Real sodomists [as I understand the word] are not lesbians.
|
9.856 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Wed Feb 09 1994 14:29 | 6 |
| .855 In fact, according to Ezekiel 16.49-50, Sodom's sin had zip to do
with sexual orientation.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.857 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Wed Feb 09 1994 15:17 | 7 |
| And, of course, according to Jude 7-8, Sodom and Gommorah
gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion and
now serve as an example of those who are in hell.
(Might as well include this meaningful piece of information,
right, Richard?)
|
9.858 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Feb 09 1994 15:30 | 7 |
| One doesn't have to look just at Jude.
According to Ezekial Sodom and Gomorrah did abominable things.
And according to Genesis, we know what those abominable things were.
/john
|
9.859 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Honorary Lesbian | Wed Feb 09 1994 16:06 | 8 |
| .857 Well, Hell! Why bother with Ezekiel when you can get it
straight from Jude, right?!
.858 That's not quite true, John. It's still speculative.
(And I take it you do know the correct spelling of Ezekiel's name.)
Richard
|
9.860 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Thu Feb 10 1994 09:51 | 6 |
| Does the list of sexually immoral and perverse things contain only one
element: homosexuality? I bet if we used a little imagination we could
come up with a list we'd find really immoral and perverse yet, didn't
include a single homosexual act.
Eric
|
9.861 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Thu Feb 10 1994 12:47 | 11 |
| .860
Rape, involuntary violation, sexual abuse -- the list is limitless.
These things are not to be ignored.
But what gets me about the moral interest of so many is the concentration
on the pelvic area. There's so little interest in confronting the sins
of Sodom as Ezekiel expressed them.
Richard
|
9.862 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Feb 10 1994 13:23 | 24 |
| Perhaps for another discussion...
Richard, I believe that our sexuality and spirituality are deeply
connected. There are many references in the Bible of an "adulterous
nation" and fornication and adultery... sexual impurity breeds
spiritual impurity...
Think about it for just a moment...
What is the strongest human drive?
D E S I R E
1. SEX is usually the one on top for most people
2. MONEY - greed
3. LOVE - Agape [unconditional]
And typically the order in which I have listed desires is the order in
which *most* people live there lives.
Just think about it...
|
9.863 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Thu Feb 10 1994 13:31 | 8 |
| >.857 Well, Hell! Why bother with Ezekiel when you can get it
>straight from Jude, right?!
Why should it bother you that I add the facts you chose to
omit? The only one pursuing half the picture (instead of
the whole picture) is you; I affirm what Ezekiel says.
Collis
|
9.864 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Thu Feb 10 1994 15:11 | 21 |
| re: Note 9.862 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
> I believe that our sexuality and spirituality are deeply connected.
Hmm... You've been reading Freud, haven't you :^) Only teasing, but
Freud did observe a strong connection between human sexuality and human
spirituality.
> What is the strongest human drive?
Hunger. Or rather the desire to satisfy the urges for hunger. Perhaps,
this is why we see fasting as a form of submission to God through self
denial.
The Donner party was concerned about who was going to fornicate whom...
The second strongest desire is for power -- to achieve superiority over
ones neighbor.
Eric
|
9.865 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Feb 10 1994 16:51 | 12 |
| Nope haven't been reading Freud.. but can't say I'm necessarily
surprised...
As a matter of fact, just FYI the only books I've read on psychology
have been Dobson's Dare to Discipline, and Love Must be Tough. I've
skimmed a few others and must confess to having watched Bradshaw on
TV...
I believe HUNGER and DESIRE are very closely related and at times can
be interchanged in its word usage.
:-)
|
9.866 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Thu Feb 10 1994 21:19 | 10 |
| .863 Here I go again, getting in hot water with biblical inerrantists
just like I pointed out in 18.666 and 843.81.
I'm glad you affirm the Ezekiel passage. I've not noticed your passion
previously concerning the "weightier matters of the Law" when they're
discussed within this forum. Perhaps I've been inattentive.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.867 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Fri Feb 11 1994 15:55 | 10 |
| >I've not noticed your passion previously concerning the "weightier
>matters of the Law" when they're discussed within this forum.
I expect that this is because our definitions of the weightier
matters of the Law differ. I include essential beliefs of the
Christian faith as well as the actions associated with these
beliefs under this definition (doctrines such as who God is
and what is required for salvation).
Collis
|
9.868 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Fri Feb 11 1994 17:11 | 11 |
| .867
I suspect you're right, Collis. At the same time, let me add that
it was Jesus who defined the weightier matters of the Law as justice,
mercy and honesty (Matthew 23.23). Perhaps Jesus could have and
should have added more, to include doctrines about who God is and
what is required for salvation.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.869 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Feb 11 1994 17:19 | 3 |
| so Richard,
You ignoring my spirituality/sexuality note?
|
9.870 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Fri Feb 11 1994 17:27 | 6 |
| .869
I don't think I am, Nancy. I'll go back and make sure.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.871 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Fri Feb 11 1994 17:46 | 8 |
| .869 No, I wasn't ignoring it.
I created a response and entered it in the Christianity and Sexuality
topic.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.872 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Feb 11 1994 18:28 | 1 |
| Where is that? I use next unseen and never saw it.
|
9.873 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Fri Feb 11 1994 21:12 | 5 |
| .872 It looks like you found it. ;-}
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.874 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sun Feb 13 1994 16:23 | 3 |
| -1
Yupperama!
|
9.875 | :-} | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Mon Feb 14 1994 11:04 | 8 |
| re Note 839.77 by TFH::KIRK:
> doesn't sound like �opposite� to me.
To a true conservative, "neo-" (and all forms of "new") are
by definition "non-", opposite, false, bad, ....
Bob
|
9.876 | picking, choosing, and changing definitions... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Mon Feb 14 1994 11:19 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.875 by Bob "without vision the people perish
> To a true conservative, "neo-" (and all forms of "new") are
> by definition "non-", opposite, false, bad, ....
Is "neo-" a politically correct prefix? .-)
.-)
Jim
|
9.877 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Tue Feb 15 1994 12:53 | 10 |
| 850.10 I know Mike personally and already knew him to be an honest
person. I guess I take Mike's and other's basic honesty within the
conference for granted.
That doesn't reduce one's responsibility toward tactfulness and
sensitivity. The ones who pride themselves on their "honesty" usually
fall short in the area of courtesy and respect.
Richard
|
9.878 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Feb 15 1994 13:08 | 4 |
| .877
Agreed Richard. Tact is important. Why do you follow me around and
pick a part everything I write? :-)
|
9.879 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Feb 15 1994 13:12 | 8 |
| RE: Note 9.878 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
> Why do you [Richard] follow me around and pick a part everything I
> write?
Hey, I thought that was *my* job? :^)
Eric
|
9.880 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Feb 15 1994 13:14 | 4 |
| .879
Well that's the spirit, spread it around a little bit, lace it with
plum jelly and you got sandwich! :-)
|
9.881 | Christian-Perspective | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Tue Feb 15 1994 17:05 | 11 |
| re Note 856.12 by TNPUBS::PAINTER:
> While the definition of 'goddess is pagan' may be *A* Christian
> Perspective (yours, for example), this is the Christian Perspectives
> (note the plural) conference, and therefore *all* perspectives are
> welcome to be presented and discussed.
Well, it is now and has always been Christian-Perspective
(singular, see note 1.0).
Bob
|
9.882 | Re.881 | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Feb 15 1994 19:13 | 11 |
|
Bob,
Thanks - you are right. Technically it is not a pluralized word,
however 1.0 indicates, to me anyway, that in principle my assertion
is correct. If not, let me know.
I still say that the idea of 'goddess is pagan' is 'a' Christian
perspective, and not 'the' Christian perspective.
Cindy
|
9.883 | Read with a calm voice.... | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Wed Feb 16 1994 20:51 | 38 |
| RE: file issues
Lately, acrimony has increased in this file. As a Christian
this saddens me because of what I see as the purpose of this file. So in a
few short words let me explain what I see as our purpose and charter for
Christian-Perspective.
Originally, Mike and Karen and the others believed that there
needed to be a file where people could discuss alternative beliefs that they
related as Christian. An alternative, if you like, to YUKON::CHRISTIAN
where they believed views were stricter than were their beliefs. So they
came up with an idea for a notes file where all perspectives were sought
and allowed without the normal outcry against it. Those of you who have been
in this file for a while will notice that the moderators (myself included)
have had to play "referee" far too often because of an escalation of the
discussion.
As a fundamentalist Christian, there are of course views
stated that I have a hard time grasping let alone believing. However,
My beliefs are just that...mine. And while I might believe that the people
here are many times forgetting Biblical principles or might even have
rejected those principles, the purpose of this file is to allow all beliefs.
I am sure that many Christians here believe that I am some
sort of traitor to the cause of Jesus. Nothing could be further from the
truth but rather than defend myself, I want to encourage the Christians in
this file to use this conference as an opportunity. When we, as Christians,
act like we are angry, holier than thou, or refuse to converse in a civil
manner we only drive off these opportunities. It is the human dynamic that
makes us not like to be "nailed to the wall" in public. Without harassing
people I would suggest that witnessing situations be taken offline. Not
because its not allowed but I have found much more success without the
entire conference looking in. The old axiom "praise in public and chastise
in private" might be worth thinking about.
Dave Dawson
|
9.884 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Thu Feb 17 1994 15:38 | 13 |
| >I suspect you're right, Collis. At the same time, let me add that
>it was Jesus who defined the weightier matters of the Law as justice,
>mercy and honesty (Matthew 23.23).
Agreed. I suspect that these are the elements included because
these are the issues that they neglected most. We still have a
problem with these today (as a body of believers).
I think Jesus didn't address the issues I raised because
there was a fair amount of agreement on them (unlike today
in this notesfile).
Collis
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9.885 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Thu Feb 17 1994 15:49 | 11 |
| Note 9.884
>I think Jesus didn't address the issues I raised because
>there was a fair amount of agreement on them (unlike today
>in this notesfile).
Perhaps. But I get another impression of the times from reading the
Gospel accounts and supplemental resources.
Richard
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9.886 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | I'm 2 sexy 4 my chair | Thu Feb 17 1994 15:55 | 7 |
| 9.883
Thanks for the gentle reminders, Dave.
Shalom,
Richard
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9.887 | | DEMING::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Feb 18 1994 11:08 | 10 |
|
Dave, you're some kind of guy! You make perfect sense. I know I for one
would never think of you as a traitor to God, even though we disagree on many
things. Talking with you in the past has always been just that, talk. I really
like that and as Richard said, thanks for reminding us. :-)
Glen
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9.888 | Pointer to discussion on Immorality | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Feb 22 1994 00:52 | 14 |
| In YUKON::CHRISTIAN I have started a topic on adulter/infidelity. The
first of the series of lessons [from my Pastor, with a flair of Nancy
intermixed] is on the Myths surrounding Affairs. The topic #414 with
discussions in #415. The only reason for not cross posting is my
inability to keep up with two discussions.
The reason I am mentioning it in here, is because I believe this issue
of morality runs very deep in our homes. The statistics are that 75%
of all marriages suffer an adulterous affair. And in our churches
today it runs around 50%.
Each week as my Pastor teaches, I'll enter the notes from his lessons.
|
9.889 | when quoting other's notes... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Mar 02 1994 09:12 | 16 |
| Folks,
When quoting another noter's notes, could you please quote the author's
name as well? It would certainly help me keep my bearings when reading
strings, I wouldn't have to keep scanning backwards until I find the note
being quoted.
> author's name and note number
> blah blah blah blah blah blah
> blah blah blah blah blah blah
> blah blah blah .-)
Thanks,
Jim
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9.890 | support for prejudice? :-} | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Wed Mar 02 1994 11:10 | 13 |
| re Note 9.889 by TFH::KIRK:
> When quoting another noter's notes, could you please quote the author's
> name as well? It would certainly help me keep my bearings when reading
> strings, I wouldn't have to keep scanning backwards until I find the note
> being quoted.
I actually agree with you -- and practice accordingly -- but
I wonder how often we judge the words by our perception of
the person who wrote them, e.g., "I know where Collis [or
Richard] is coming from."
Bob
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9.891 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Mar 02 1994 13:48 | 14 |
| re: Note 9.890 by Bob "without vision the people perish"
> -< support for prejudice? :-} >-
Well, there's that. But since the quoted words still exist *somewhere*,
why not make them easier to find?
> I actually agree with you -- and practice accordingly
As those guys from Bartel & James used to say, "thank you for your support"
.-)
Jim
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9.893 | The Re: Way is the Best Way | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Mar 02 1994 15:02 | 7 |
| RE: .892
Sounds cumbersome.
I just like the RE: .....
Marc H.
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9.892 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 02 1994 15:53 | 10 |
| My snag is that sometimes I'm not addressing the writer whom I'm
referencing in my reply. If I use a name, it might be interpreted
as a request for a response to my reply -- which I'm not always
looking for.
So, what I'll start doing is putting the note number and name within
parenthesis if I'm not looking for a response, and leave same off
if I am. Howzat?
Richard
|
9.894 | to what are you referring? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Fri Mar 04 1994 11:08 | 20 |
| re Note 867.30 by PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON:
> The C-P conference cannot both be an open conference for theology
> while totally rejecting the presentation of classical Christian
> theology down through the ages. I think you need to reconsider
> what is right or appropriate in this conference.
Well, this "conference" (to the extent that a conference can
do any such thing) does not reject in whole or in part "the
presentation of classical Christian theology down through the
ages".
It is specifically allowed by the guidelines.
It was certainly the intention of at least one of the
founders that this would take place.
So why do you raise this issue, Collis?
Bob
|
9.895 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Fri Mar 04 1994 11:28 | 20 |
|
>So why do you raise this issue, Collis?
I'll try again to explain why I raise this issue (although
I thought my explanation the first time was clear).
People can be (and are sometimes) offended by the message
of the gospel. The Bible, in fact, indicates that this
will be the case. Therefore, there is sometimes a call
to cease and desist with this offensiveness. Sometimes
that call is made in regards to the presentation of the
message, sometimes to the message itself and sometimes
a combination of both.
I just want to make it quite clear that the message of the
gospel should be discussed even when it is considered
offensive.
Collis
|
9.896 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Fri Mar 04 1994 18:23 | 9 |
| Several of you have suggested that I am being overly sensitive. I
thank you for the feedback and have deleted most of the notes where I
may have been oversensitive. The ones I could find anyway.
I do think it would help if each of us strive to create a noting
community in here where everyone is accepted for who they are. I will
attempt that more earnestly in my noting.
Patricia
|
9.897 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Mar 04 1994 18:38 | 12 |
| > I do think it would help if each of us strive to create a noting
> community in here where everyone is accepted for who they are.
Our Lord loved people no matter who they were.
But he did not accept them for who they were. He called them to radical
change, to lead a new life, following God and living according to His
commandments.
As Christians we can do no less.
/john
|
9.898 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Mar 07 1994 09:01 | 9 |
| RE: .897
What does that mean? Will you cause dis-harmony here because you have
the correct inside track to salvation?
Come on /john......there is a spirit in here to keep the dialog open.
Surely that is a Christian ideal.
Marc H.
|
9.899 | We all work for the same company, don't we? | RDGENG::YERKESS | bring me sunshine in your smile | Mon Mar 07 1994 09:18 | 37 |
| RE .986
; I do think it would help if each of us strive to create a noting
; community in here where everyone is accepted for who they are. I will
; attempt that more earnestly in my noting.
Patricia,
It has been said before (Bob Fleischer I think) but is worth reiterating,
the common factor that we all have is that we work for Digital. This is
is a Digital employee interest notes conference so we should show the
respect that is owing to fellow work colleagues. This should be especially
true for those that profess to be Christian. So I would commend you for
what you wrote above. Fellowship is something else however.
A little bit of decorum is required, rather like that shown by the
Moses when told by Pharoah that they could sacrifice their lifestock
to Jehovah on the condition that they did not leave. In reply Moses
said that this would not be proper for it would offend the Egyptians.
How would the Egyptians feel if the Israelites openly sacrificed animals,
in their worship, whom the Egyptians revered?, Exodus 8:25-27.
Personally, what I like to hear is peoples hopes or fears. I switch off
when people go round putting someone elses beliefs down so as to elivate
themselves (the self-righteous Scribes and Pharisees where a good
example of this as the constantly laid traps for Jesus and his disciples.)
Many who note here profess to be Christian and so the following words from
Jesus come to mind "Let your light shine before men, that they may see
your good works" and "For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds
that of the Scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of
heaven." Mathew 5:16a, 20 RSV.
Phil.
|
9.900 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Mar 07 1994 09:23 | 12 |
| > What does that mean? Will you cause dis-harmony here because you have
> the correct inside track to salvation?
The Bible is not just an "inside track" -- it is the proclamation of God's
love for mankind and his commandment to them on how to live their lives.
In a conference entitled "Christian Perspective" we can do no less than
to teach what the Bible teaches.
Love. And radical change.
/john
|
9.901 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Mar 07 1994 09:33 | 12 |
| RE: .900
Sure.....All agree, but, how are *you* going to be effective as
a Christian?
When people have real questions about their faith, when people are
looking for a warm, comfortable place, when people are open to
discussing what is in their heart of hearts.....will you just
throw quotes from Bishops at them or take the time to try and
understand what they are asking?
Marc H.
|
9.902 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Mar 07 1994 09:59 | 16 |
| re .901
Is that what Patricia was asking for?
Or was she asking for people to be silent about the Gospel and accept
New Age fallacies? To fail to love New Agers by sharing the Truth.
Why is it OK for liberal points of view to be expressed in this
conference (even when they are intolerant of traditional positions),
but everytime someone attempts to present what Our Lord has said to
His Church through the ages, cries of "intolerance" go up?
Love is teaching the Truth that Jesus taught. He taught both Love
and Right Living. He spoke out against falsehoods. So must we.
/john
|
9.903 | Last Try | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Mar 07 1994 10:43 | 13 |
| RE: .902
Yes, That is what Patricia and I and others are asking for.
As far as conservative goes, I'm a little to the right of Attilia
the Hun...but...quoting Bishop's statements from 302 AD, doesn't
help most people along their spiritual journey.
The former DEC employee Pat Sweeney and I bumped heads too on this
point, too....so I don't expect you to change. But, if you want to
help people get back to Christ, you will need to change your method
of presentation.
Marc H.
|
9.904 | wrong | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Mon Mar 07 1994 10:57 | 10 |
| re Note 9.902 by COVERT::COVERT:
> Why is it OK for liberal points of view to be expressed in this
> conference (even when they are intolerant of traditional positions),
> but everytime someone attempts to present what Our Lord has said to
> His Church through the ages, cries of "intolerance" go up?
I do not believe that this is true.
Bob
|
9.905 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Mar 07 1994 11:34 | 13 |
| .904
Bob, I'd disagree with you... Patricia was talking about her belief
system and I spoke of my belief system.. of course which contradicts
hers....
And then I was accused of being intolerant, UnChristian and the whole
gammit...
All I did was simply state what I believe God's word says about said
subjects... Is this or is this not a forum in which to have this kind
of dialogue... ?????????????
|
9.906 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Mon Mar 07 1994 13:13 | 12 |
| (re .902 COVERT)
>Is that what Patricia was asking for?
Patricia is asking for nothing. She says she is not a Christian.
She is presenting her viewpoints on a number of issues and sometimes
she asks questions. She almost always frames her assertions with her
own ownership, saying, "I believe...," rather than this is the way it
is -- take it or leave it.
Richard
|
9.907 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Mon Mar 07 1994 14:26 | 13 |
| Note 9.905
> And then I was accused of being intolerant, UnChristian and the whole
> gammit...
Much to the chagrin of some, this conference imposes no particular credo. At
the same time, that doesn't mean contributors don't have their own ideas about
what constitutes being tolerant or being Christian.
I have been accused of the same things.
Richard
|
9.908 | What differing view do you tolerate? | HURON::MYERS | | Mon Mar 07 1994 14:54 | 21 |
| re: Note 9.905 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
> And then I was accused of being intolerant, UnChristian and the whole
> gammit..
How is this any different than accusing someone of being *over-tolerant*
and un-Christian? Although I'll grant you that two wrongs don't make a
right.
By the way, I thought one of the themes of your message WAS
intolerance. Intolerance to: alternate views of Christ's message and
purpose, alternate views of what is required for salvation, alternate
view of the nature of the Bible, alternate view of the Biblical
interpretations... I'm not criticizing, but aren't you intolerant of
these thing's.
(By tolerant I mean that one would disagree with the alternative
position but still grant the other person has not lost redemption
or is not a Christian.)
|
9.909 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Mon Mar 07 1994 16:56 | 17 |
| >(By tolerant I mean that one would disagree with the alternative
>position but still grant the other person has not lost redemption
>or is not a Christian.)
This seems strange to me.
Someone who believes the Bible should feel free to disagree with
someone who espouses views very differently than the Bible, but
then deny the gospel message by acknowledging that someone who
has chosen to not trust in the shed blood of Jesus for forgiveness
of sins is a child of God?
I guess I'm just intolerant. But, then again, so is Jesus so
I'm not in such bad company.
Collis
|
9.910 | some thoughts | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Mon Mar 07 1994 17:42 | 34 |
|
Perhaps using statements such as:
"I believe, according to my interpretation/understanding of the Bible,
that you are not a Christian, or that you have lost redemption."
would go a long way toward making such statements less offensive.
Since this is the processing topic, I'll also say that I find such
holier-than-thou comments to be very obnoxious, whether the person
believes they are 'absolutely' right 'since the Bible says so', or not.
I truly feel that only God can determine if a person is a Christian or
not, because ultimately it is in a person's heart what truly matters,
and not in the opinion of another person or words in a book - even the
Bible.
Several years ago - back in 1987 - when I first took a peek into the
CHRISTIAN conference, I looked at some of the entries and thought to
myself, "This is what Christian behavior is all about? If that's
the case, then no thanks." and promptly deleted the conference from
my notebook. But then I added it back in, and participated actively
for a few years until time no longer permitted. Occasionally I look
over there from time to time even now, and there are still many notes
that my original impression can still apply to. I wish it weren't so,
but it is.
In short, I do not see the problem being so much the message (of Christ,
the Bible, God, etc.) as many who have proclaimed it have claimed here.
Rather, most of the time I feel that it's the really messenger, attitude
of the messenger, and the way the message is presented, that cause the
majority of the problems in this conference.
Cindy
|
9.911 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Mon Mar 07 1994 19:12 | 12 |
| (Note 9.909 Collis)
>I guess I'm just intolerant. But, then again, so is Jesus so
>I'm not in such bad company.
Jesus also had an inclusive side, a side that embraced the last, the
least and the lost. He rejected the ones who behaved as though they had
the correct slant on God and the Law. Jesus' harshest words were directed
toward these.
Richard
|
9.912 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 12:32 | 16 |
| I guess Chris by your standards I'm intolerant of heresy.
Patricia,
Yes, only God can judge the heart... I agree with you. But he has
given us a clear path via His Word and when that path is distorted we
can rightfully divide the word of Truth and discern what is on that
path and what is parallel.
It doesn't take God to judge what is written by someone else when it
clearly contradicts His word.
No, I won't get into another inerrancy discussion.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.913 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 12:37 | 24 |
| Richard,
You are correct in that Christ called the Pharisees hypocrites. He was
not tolerant of the religion of works versus faith.
On the same hand, he was very clear about sin versus tolerance. Jesus
likened himself as to a door... knock and it shall be opened. Belief
in Christ and his identity was, during his walk on the earth and is
today after his ressurection, the single point of faith that *he*
required.
Just believing Jesus existed is not enough. You must embrace his
*identity* completely, as part of Trinity, the Son, the Sacrifice and
the Resurrection. Without any of those in your belief around Christ it
is not enough. Many will say Lord, Lord, and he will say he never knew
them.
Before you start pointing fingers at holier then thou... be sure that
your not looking at the 4 pointing directly back at yourself.
It is *not* holier then thou to espouse the Bible way to salvation.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.914 | Chris? | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Mar 08 1994 12:39 | 6 |
|
Re.912 (Nancy)
Who's Chris?
Cindy
|
9.915 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 12:44 | 4 |
| er, uh... myers.. or is that eric? most folks don't sign there first
names to notes more then naught and I can't remember ... blush
:-) :-)
|
9.916 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Mar 08 1994 12:50 | 14 |
|
Re.913 (Nancy)
>It is *not* holier then thou to espouse the Bible way to salvation.
Correct. True. Absolutely right. Couldn't agree more.
It is the ************* WAY *************** you and others do it most
of the time that causes the problems.
It's the *messenger*, NOT the message. It's the *salesperson*, NOT
the product.
Cindy
|
9.917 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 08 1994 13:29 | 18 |
| Note 9.913
> You are correct in that Christ called the Pharisees hypocrites. He was
> not tolerant of the religion of works versus faith.
Yes, he was tolerant of works. Jesus was not tolerant of hypocrisy, lack
of compassion and failing to address the weightier matters of the Law.
> It is *not* holier then thou to espouse the Bible way to salvation.
I believe Jesus is the way. There is no way to Jesus - Jesus is the way.
And you've yet to define exactly what salvation is and why anyone should
want salvation.
In Christ Jesus,
Richard
|
9.918 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Tue Mar 08 1994 13:58 | 13 |
| re Note 9.913 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> Just believing Jesus existed is not enough. You must embrace his
> *identity* completely, as part of Trinity, the Son, the Sacrifice and
> the Resurrection. Without any of those in your belief around Christ it
> is not enough. Many will say Lord, Lord, and he will say he never knew
> them.
So Jesus didn't say "Many will say Lord, Lord, and he will
say THEY never knew HIM" (which is what you are claiming is
one test for salvation)?
Bob
|
9.919 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Mar 08 1994 14:02 | 23 |
| re Note 9.912 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
> I guess [Eric] by your standards I'm intolerant of heresy.
No. By *my* standards you are intolerant of interpretations of Bible
that do not agree with your personal views. By *your* standards you are
intolerant of heresy -- where heresy, apparently, means Biblical
understanding different than your own.
By *my* standards your view's are simply different than mine. I assume
your heart is in the right place, that you are doing you very best to
understand and follow the message of Christ. So am I. I have a clean
conscience that when I am judged by God he will forgive my human
failings and see what is in my heart. So if I'm to be labeled a heretic
-- as was Jesus in the eyes of the Pharisees -- then I consider myself
in good company (as Collis pointed out).
Eric
PS Sorry for not "signing" my other note. Purely accidental.
PPS Do you view heretical opinions as blasphemous as well? Just trying
to clear up any problems with semantics.
|
9.920 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 14:45 | 11 |
| Eric,
No, I happen to believe very much in your God-given right to choose or
to reject the Christ of the Bible.
Heresy = Beliefs that do not align with God's plan for salvation
Jesus was not tolerant of *works* Mr. Christie.. Show me where he was.
I can show where he wasn't.
|
9.922 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Mar 08 1994 14:57 | 9 |
|
Re.921
Nancy,
Are you replying to Patricia or me? Please also reference the note
number(s) you are replying to.
Cindy
|
9.923 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 15:15 | 6 |
| Seem to be getting names confused, note numbers would delineate more
accurately...
To you Cindy... I humbly beg your forgiveness Patricia.
|
9.921 | Corrected/reposted | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 15:16 | 24 |
| Cindy,
So when one speaks in ABSOLUTES as defined by God's word, you are
offended... because this creates something called "exclusion".
God is very clear that those who do not accept Christ [for all that he
is] are excluded. This is the Biblical view as *anyone* can read it,
not just my interpretation.
The bottomline is what do you accept as AUTHORITY and then do you place
yourself under submission to that AUTHORITY. I *choose* to place
myself under the *AUTHORITY* of the Bible as I believe it is the ONLY
ABSOLUTE alive today.
Others choose differently, again, that is their GOD GIVEN right. So as
long as I don't speak the ABSOLUTE OF GOD"S WORD, then I will be
considered tolerant?
Sounds to me as though you are INTOLERANT of my INTOLERANCE [as you've
defined it]... so who is the interolerant?
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.924 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 15:16 | 3 |
| Fixed it to address the *right* person.
Again apoligies.
|
9.925 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 08 1994 15:37 | 19 |
| Note 9.920
> Jesus was not tolerant of *works* Mr. Christie.. Show me where he was.
> I can show where he wasn't.
If you must, it's accurately Mr. Jones-Christie.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Matthew 23 and Matthew 25.31-46.
Luke 10.25-37.
These are off the top.
Don't misinterpret me. I never said Jesus accepted "works" as a substitute
for faith.
In Christ's service,
Richard
|
9.926 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 16:12 | 21 |
| .925
I did misinterpret you... but let's get some definitions of tolerance
I believe most folks think that tolerance means acceptance...
Therefore cries of INTOLERANCE are shouted when one does not ACCEPT
another's beliefs as *T*ruth.
I believe that I am tolerant in that I respect EVERYONE's God-given
ability to choose or reject the Christ of the Bible.
I am tolerant not accepting... this is the rub.
I don't embrace or accept another's pov of Christ [when it contradicts
the Bible] and therefore, I am considered intolerant.
I believe that this is a sad semantics, but nonetheless how I perceive
things to be.
|
9.927 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees? NO!!! | Tue Mar 08 1994 16:27 | 19 |
| Those who tend to believe in all paths leading to salvation
often define tolerance to mean accepting that what the
other person believes for themselves will work for them
(to get to God). In other words, being "tolerant" means
(in some sense) re-affirming their own belief that all
paths lead to God.
Those who believe what the Bible says are often occused as
being intolerant because we forthrightly deny that all paths
lead to God; Jesus and all the prophets make it clear that
this is a totally wrong. By disbelieving the claims of
another, we are accused of intolerance.
I don't know how to deal with the issue of tolerance. I
do not that it is difficult to hold to absolute truth
(and even share it at times) while being considered
tolerant.
Collis
|
9.928 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 08 1994 16:56 | 22 |
| Note 9.926 Ms. Morales
> I believe most folks think that tolerance means acceptance...
It doesn't to me. I believe that in reality there's a continuum.
> I don't embrace or accept another's pov of Christ [when it contradicts
> the Bible] and therefore, I am considered intolerant.
I don't agree with your point of view frequently, Nancy. I'm sure this
comes as no surprise. Now, am I perceived by you as intolerant of your
point of view? Perhaps I am.
I see my own faith as being incongruent in some areas with yours. However,
I do not see my Christian faith as better than yours and, correct me if your
perception is to the contrary, I've not endeavored to persuade you to change
or discard your beliefs. Does that mean I embrace or accept your points of
view? (No)
Peace,
Richard
|
9.929 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 17:11 | 10 |
| .928
Richard quite frankly you *do* insult Christians quite regularly. :-)
I often log into CP with the little jingle, "Have you had your insult
today?" [from Richard Jones-Christie].
:-) I am smiling, even though it truly is how you come across.
|
9.930 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 08 1994 18:50 | 14 |
| Richard,
You said something that really was eating at me ...
"Better Than" yours... it's the better than that got me.
No, I don't think I am better than anyone, of sinners as Paul said I am
the chiefest. The difference between you and I is...
"The *only* way to salvation"
versus
"One of *many* ways to salvation"
|
9.931 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 08 1994 19:12 | 10 |
| Note 9.929
> Richard quite frankly you *do* insult Christians quite regularly. :-)
I admit taking fundamentalism to task. I am no harsher (imo) than those who
imply there-are-no-true-Christians-other-than-the-fundamentalists.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.932 | When you get as old as Reagan, the memory slips, I guess | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 08 1994 19:18 | 17 |
| Note 9.930
> No, I don't think I am better than anyone,
I don't recall saying this. I reread my note and it doesn't say that, either.
> "The *only* way to salvation"
You've yet to tell me what you believe salvation to be.
> versus
> "One of *many* ways to salvation"
I don't recall saying this, either.
Richard
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9.933 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Mar 09 1994 09:08 | 8 |
| RE: .931
Seems correct to me, also. I would say that in the "Big Picture", the
scale is just about balanced in here.
I'll continue to watch the scale, as a public service....
Marc H.
|
9.934 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Wed Mar 09 1994 09:18 | 7 |
| re Note 9.933 by JUPITR::HILDEBRANT:
> I'll continue to watch the scale, as a public service....
Thanks.
Bob
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9.935 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Wed Mar 09 1994 13:46 | 14 |
| Note 9.920 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
> No, I happen to believe very much in your God-given right to choose or
> to reject the Christ of the Bible.
But that's just it. I *don't* reject Christ or the Bible. Please, show
me where I have.
> Heresy = Beliefs that do not align with God's plan for salvation
Then my view's are not heretical... unless you're saying that your
understanding of the Bible and Christ are perfect and without flaw.
Eric
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9.936 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 09 1994 16:26 | 16 |
| I have spoken time and time again on what salvation is per the word of
God...
You take the cake fellas... really do... and eat it too I bet!
The intolerance of my beliefs are recognized, noted and received. For
a conference the proclaims the receipt of *all* beliefs, you've not
demonstrated this to me... not at all.
:-)
Your intolerance has silenced this lamb.
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9.937 | No Problem Here | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Mar 09 1994 16:30 | 7 |
| RE :.936
I don't know Nancy.....I sure don't think that I am "intolerant"
of your beliefs. I don't *agree* with everything you say, but I'm
not one to stop you from saying whats in your heart.
Marc H.
|
9.940 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 09 1994 20:47 | 11 |
| Note 9.936 Nancy Morales,
> I have spoken time and time again on what salvation is per the word of
> God...
I confess my own density then. Could you give me a pointer (topic and reply
number)?
Shalom,
Richard
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9.941 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Mar 09 1994 21:34 | 46 |
| Re.a few
Nancy,
OK, let me try once again.
For the most part, it's not WHAT you (and others) say, it's ***HOW***
you say it.
For example, there may be the most magnificent product in the world
available to me. But if the salesperson comes across as being
obnoxious, condescendng, holier-than-thou, (etc., and so on), chances
are that no matter how great the product is, I will walk away. THIS
is my point. It's not necessarily the message, but the *messenger*
and how the messenger acts, that is the problem. I'm not aiming this
solely at you (although I did try long ago to make this point with you
offline, and clearly I failed even then), but to all that behave like
this.
Now the second point. Let's take an example from the Bible that to me
is absolutely crystal clear in its statement. "Thou shalt not kill."
This, to me, means quite simply, Do Not Kill. Black and white. Open
and shut case. And it's often used when supporting the case against
abortion. However, it doesn't seem to apply to Christians who support
the death penalty.
Now, me, as a liberal-sort, looks at that "Do Not Kill commandment and
I have put it into my life and do not support the death penalty because
of it. I've even taken it a step further and to the best of my ability
I do not consume or wear animal products (I'm a vegetarian and avoid
purchasing leather and fur products, or items that are tested on
animals.)
I guess I could go around, Bible in hand, and find out here just who is
not a vegetarian and be completely righteous in my reasons to continue
to preach at them until they 'convert' and steer away from their
'sinning' ways. Because the Bible says, "Do Not Kill."
But I don't do this. Because I know that it is not the most effective
way of convincing people to change their lifestyle. I believe that by
living my life as a vegetarian, and others seeing the benefits in my
life, that I have both won and influenced more people toward
vegetarianism than any amount of pointing at a Bible verse or being
self-righteous about it could ever do.
Cindy
|
9.942 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 10 1994 11:54 | 44 |
| .941
Cindy,
I confess to being extremely convicted and sure of my beliefs. While
as an individual I am very insecure within myself. This is the side
that doesn't come across in notes. The side you see is the side I
reveal of ABSOLUTE certainty of my belief in Christ Jesus, the ONE way
to SALVATION.
I apologize if that seems harsh and unacceptable to you. But clearly
you do not know me very well and your judgement is based solely and
understandingly on these *few* interactions in regards to Christianity.
Let me state very clearly, compassion is probably my downfall, passion
most definitely an achilles heel for me.... but as I am imperfect, God
is perfect and when our hearts condemn us, God is greater then our
hearts and when I fail as a parent, I claim Psalm 27:10 for my
children....
You know Cindy, you've seen my testimony [I think] that my life has had
some atrocities of its own... most of which I was a victim, and much of
which I must take ownership and blame.... God is *real* to me for He
has been reproven in my life over and over again. I've seen miracles,
I've seen healings [and I'm not talking evangelistic ones either] and
I've seen heartache enough for anyone's lifetime....
I know its hard to see the tender side of me in a battle for Truth....
but its there and my heart grieves... When I talk to you, Patricia or
others about Truth, while my words may seem strong, my heart is
breaking... but you don't see my eyes which show the depth of the
heart...
I believe there is a time for tenderness and there is a time to *stand*
and always on the side of *love*. In other words, firmness with love
is a much better presentation, then firmness with love hidden...
perhaps as I note longer and more, I will learn how in notes to show
the inflection of gentleness in my voice and the tenderness in my eyes
and the heart that is full of compassion while in a battle for Truth...
I am just a child in Him... and I'm learning.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.943 | pointer | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 10 1994 12:32 | 6 |
| Notefile CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE Note 9.938 by Jill Kinsella, containing a
description of salvation, has been moved to 220.77.
Richard Jones-Christie
Co-Moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
|
9.944 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 10 1994 13:02 | 12 |
| Richard,
You're erratic movement of notes is rather irritating... Continuity is
important... you asked a question in THIS topic about salvation. The
ANSWER should remain in this topic.. if you wish to cross post for
whatever reason.. so be it..
I'd like to request that continuity be left in its place and if you
must move notes to their appropriate topic, move ALL THE NOTES
associated with that note.
|
9.945 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 10 1994 13:12 | 14 |
| I will try to honor your request Nancy, .944.
I'm sometimes asked the whereabouts of a note. I sometimes wonder
myself where to find a certain note again. It sure makes it easier
for me to find if it's at least under a relevant topic.
I sometimes copy a note into a relevant topic, but you've remarked
that doing that is annoying, also.
I will make a conscious attempt at restraint.
Richard Jones-Christie
Co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
|
9.946 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Mar 10 1994 13:34 | 4 |
| Actually, moving ALL THE NOTES in the latest rathole wouldn't be a bad
idea...
-- Bob
|
9.947 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 10 1994 13:42 | 9 |
| crossposting isn't annoying... I promise you that... as long as the
crosspost shows the topic # that in which it was originally written...
communication such as this *can* and *should* have an audit trail...
but that audit trail gets convuluted when a discussions starts one
place and ends in another... then in the middle of the discussion
someone says, "Show me where I said that!" and you go well, I remember
it but where *was* that comment?" :-) :-)
Thanks for understanding.
|
9.948 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 10 1994 14:36 | 45 |
| Note 9.947
JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> crossposting isn't annoying... I promise you that... as long as the
> crosspost shows the topic # that in which it was originally written...
Here's where I got the impression it was less than appreciated. Note 248.23:
> I think you must, you sure do spend a lot of time duplicating, moving
^^^^^^^^^^^
> around notes in order to avoid continuity of discussions.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Your words immediately followed a note (my own) which I had cross-posted:
===============================================================================
<<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
-< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 248.22 Why should I believe what you believe? 22 of 25
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat" 23 lines 4-MAR-1994 18:43
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<<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
-< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 820.125 The Bible: Totally Inerrant or Not? 125 of 125
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat" 17 lines 4-MAR-1994 18:36
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.124 JACKSON
Are you saying you and Nancy can answer for each other?
I was really quite serious, Collis.
If you want someone to believe what you believe, I would hope you
would have a good reason for wanting that.
Nancy hasn't offerred anything enticing, desirable, or even intriguing
for me (or anyone) to *want* to believe what she believes. Frankly,
neither have you. And I am probably just as guilty of this as anyone.
I don't know.
Pax,
Richard
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9.949 | Thanks, Richard | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | DCU fees: Vote | Thu Mar 10 1994 15:32 | 6 |
| In general, I appreciate the moving of notes to
a better topic.
just_to_make_things_more_complicated,
Collis
|
9.950 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 10 1994 16:39 | 5 |
| Richard,
The duplicating remark was indicative of dual discussions in more then
one topic with no continuity not the duplication of notes.
Are we clear now?
|
9.951 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 10 1994 16:47 | 7 |
| .950 Nancy Morales,
There's an everpresent risk with crossposting that one (duplicating)
will lead to the other (dual discussions). Surely you recognize this.
Richard
|
9.952 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Thu Mar 10 1994 16:55 | 8 |
| I suggest you create a note call "Discussion of Conference Issues" and
move the preceding string of replies to that note. Just to make things
interesting, I suggest the you move the replies in reverse order to how
they appear here :^)
Eric
|
9.953 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 10 1994 17:03 | 8 |
| .952
It's a funny thing, Eric, but if you read 9.0 it says pretty much
what you had in mind for a new string. Were yew jest a'pullin'
my lag? :-)
Richard
|
9.954 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 10 1994 17:10 | 7 |
| Yep you is correct that it *could* happen...
Nonetheless for continuity [beginning to hate that word] can we try ?
I accidentally typed for Collis.. Coolis :-)
Collis, wanna fight? :-) :-)
|
9.955 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Mar 10 1994 20:48 | 18 |
|
Re.942
Nancy,
Ok.
Please do trust me though - my note was not aimed solely at you, though
it may seem it - but it was aimed to all those who are trying to sell
the idea of Christ=Salvation=Love and completely make a mess out of it
due to their presentation, and end up driving away the very people that
are in need of the central Message (of Divine Love) the most. It
bothers me greatly when this happens, and so *I* may come across
equally as hard when I see this going on.
With God's Love,
Cindy
|
9.956 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Mar 11 1994 12:03 | 14 |
| Thanks for the acknowledgement Cindy. As I was reading your note this
phrase really struck out to me:
>central Message (of Divine Love)
I'm curious what you define as Divine Love and why it is the central
message. If you feel inclined to help me understand your belief, I
would appreciate it.
I would like to discuss it... even with possibly our different views
and hope that it could remain a discussion, not sparring match.
Thanks,
Nancy
|
9.957 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Fri Mar 11 1994 12:30 | 18 |
|
Re.956
Nancy,
Christ came to present the two most important commandments, which are
(paraphrased), "Love God, and love your neighbor as yourself."
Divine love is what Christ showed when all the men were ready to stone
the prostitute in their self-righteousness. The idea that God loves
and accepts us, no matter what, is what I call Divine love. Too often,
people withhold love from other people until they 'sin no more'. This
is conditional love. But Christ showed Divine love, and showed that
first we love and accept the person as they are, and as a result of that,
the Divine love will transform.
Cindy
|
9.958 | Yahoo got anudder x58 number! | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Mar 11 1994 13:10 | 6 |
| Just FYI, I am studying I John at the moment and God is doing a very
deep work within me regarding "uncondtional love", or "Diving love" as
you have written.
What other ways do you believe Jesus demonstrated unconditional love
or "Agape". Also in your opinion is Divine Love only from God?
|
9.959 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Fri Mar 11 1994 13:44 | 6 |
| Allow me to *suggest* turning this recent exchange into its own
topic -- perhaps "Divine Love"? (If you have a problem with this,
just blaim it on the J of my ENFJ, okay?)
Richard
|
9.960 | Go ahead | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Mar 11 1994 13:48 | 5 |
| WAIT... DOES THAT MEAN I LOSE X58 POSITION??? :-) :-)
Blame it on the P of my ENFP, kay?
|
9.961 | I'm smiling... kinda...:-} | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Mon Mar 14 1994 15:52 | 15 |
| RE: Everyone...
Could we *PLEASE* play nice? Wouldn't it be great
if we *ALL* assumed that everyone else was in a great mood and wrote
every note with a smile on their face? It seems to me that we are all
taking these discussions much too seriously. And people? Can we first
ask about percieved insults before we go ballistic? Forgive me but I
am sick and tired of note after note after note after note of "you said
this and you said that". It may be an erronous assumption but I
*THOUGHT* we were all adults here. There are some wonderful discussion
topics being trashed by questions of intent. Assume the best and go
on.
Dave No mod....just me. :-)
|
9.962 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Mar 14 1994 16:13 | 3 |
| .961
Good reminder
|
9.963 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 22 1994 12:28 | 11 |
| (877.68 MORALES_NA)
> Of course, we have gotten into insults more lately in this conference,
> then not...
I deliberately avoided saying anything that might be construed as an insult.
I've been on my very best behavior for the past week. But if merely saying,
"I disagree," is an insult, then we're all in trouble.
Richard
|
9.964 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 12:43 | 8 |
| .963
What did you disagree with? It is a fact that rumors of untruth start
but a whole host of people will jump on the bandwagon who are convinced
its truth...
That was the only point. If you are saying that this *doesn't* happen,
then I'd say we are all in trouble....
|
9.965 | Removed from 877.72 | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 12:46 | 57 |
| Let's look at the progression here.
>>Note 877.58 Timothy And Titus 58 of 70
>>JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 13 lines 21-MAR-1994 13:33
>> GREAT and I get .58 to boot! THanks for asking Marc!
Friendly tone set here.
>> In other words just be "questioning" I can cause doubt to have folks
>> looking at Hillary differently then before.
Point made without being pajorative
>> The "questioning" behind the authorship of said books in the Bible,
>> doesn't deem it truth, just as with Hillary.
If anything, Nancy is on Hillary's side here!!
>> BTW, this has happened. A Rumor started that Hillary was really
>> bi-sexual, but preferred women and now there is a whole host of people
>> saying stupid things like, "So that's why she cut her hair so short!"
>> Ridiculous, eh?
Nancy has again defended the first lady and is supporting the fact that rumors
can cause division and pain in peoples lives.
Now, let's see the response.
>> -< argument lacks integrity >-
>> What is really offensive is a scholarly discussion
>> degenerating into mischevous labelling and insinuation.
As Nancy replied...Huh??? Like...uuuhhh...where did this come from?
>> It is a means of argumentation that lacks integrity.
It does lack integrity. Too bad it never took place here and is a figment
of one's imagination.
>> If the facts and rational arguments are incontestable, why not just use
>> accusations, defamation, and homophobia to prove that Paul wrote
>> Timothy and Titus.
Can't do that...that would be using a liberal method of debate. Kind of like
Clinton's no no no no No No No NO NO NO NO... speech last week (Slam that
podium!!) I didn't hear Nancy defaming anybody and ...homophobe??? Since
when is Nancy scared of gays? You lost me when you used the word homophobe
because it is a stupid meaningless term used by the left in this country.
Absolutely no substance.
-Jack
|
9.966 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 12:48 | 15 |
| Richard, et. al.,
As you have stated, that you have tried for the last week to be on your
good behavior... well, as have I.
And since we are trying [and I'd say together], let's not be too quick
to dismiss wounds that aren't completely healed by poking and prodding
each other in subtle ways.
Now Richard if you wish to give me an invitation to leave and not
participate here [Patricia that includes you], then do so. Be up
front, say that you wish I wasn't here, or let's continue our
discussions for the value that they *can* have.
Otherwise, this will not end.
|
9.967 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:04 | 28 |
| RE: the last few...
I have (once again) been asked to step in
and restore order. Guess its my Football ref's background. :-) So I
am going to be very direct.
Insults are the responsibility of *BOTH*
the giver *AND* the reciever. If you choose to take insult then you
surely will. Its hard for me to personally believe that "I disagree"
could be insulting under *ANY* circumstances. On this one I am asking
all of you to "convince me".
To my knowledge *NO ONE* has been asked to
leave and if anyone is you can rest assured I will fight that incident
to the best of my abilities....to the point of resigning as a
moderator. Thats a promise you can take to the bank. Now I will say
that I have *INVITED* one person to leave but never asked.
I tried the "play nice" note and it doesn't
seem to be working. From now on, as much as work will allow, I will be
serving as moderator as much as is possible. Up and to the point of
deleting notes and hiding them as they deserve. I had expected adult
behavior but maybe I was wrong. I encourage *EVERYONE* to reread the
policy's of this conference and be warned.
Dave Dawson
C-P co-mod
|
9.968 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:06 | 6 |
| RE: .966
You will never get someone to tell you to leave, Nancy. Never.
Other conferences, most likely, here. never.
Marc H.
|
9.969 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:13 | 9 |
| David:
If it was implied that you use accusations defamations and homophobia
as the foundation for your position, would you be quick to call it
nonsense?....I would!
Thx.,
-Jack
|
9.970 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:22 | 11 |
| .968
So in other words, no-one will be up front with their desires, they
will use other tactics in which to get the message across???
Or did you have another meaning?
Dave, I asked you to step in... and I respect your
choices/decisions/moderation of this conference as you are well aware.
|
9.971 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:23 | 3 |
| .969
Actually, I *tried* to let it pass...
|
9.972 | Means What It Says | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:25 | 5 |
| RE: .970
No, no, no. I didn't mean anything else. Don't be paranoid.
Marc H.
|
9.973 | No paranoia here that I can tell | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:27 | 1 |
| Which is what? What are the reasons I won't be asked to leave?
|
9.974 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:31 | 7 |
| Nancy,
Because while I am a moderator, It won't be
allowed. This is a file for *ALL* which includes you .
Dave
|
9.975 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:57 | 5 |
| RE: .973
Dave's answer in .974 is quite simple.
Marc H.
|
9.976 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:15 | 17 |
| Well, if its conference policy, sobeit. Thanks Dave.
However, fwiw, I am very well aware that my position of morality in the
family [God's way, Adam and Eve] and my position on Salvation through
no other venue but Christ as the Son of God, creates an aura of
unacceptance from *most* of you towards myself.
As I've honestly and with much integrity [despite what others may
think] tried to note in here, I've too, sense the same honesty and
integrity from others. While we disagree on much, I still value each
and every one of you.
I have a belief that each human entity, created by God, is valuable,
loveable and valid... and I mean *EVERY* individual.
Nancy
|
9.977 | And I quote... | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:35 | 37 |
| I'd like to address a point around noting syntax. What do quotes ("")
mean? When someone uses quotes around a single word or phrase, e.g.
The "questioning" behind the authorship of said books in
the Bible...
The implication is that the word in quotations means something more
than, or other than, its face definition to the writer. The word in
quotations is read:
so-called questioning
or
alleged questioning
If all the writer wants to do is use the word, then quotes are not
necessary. For example the following two sentence pairs insinuate
different things:
1) The anti-abortion protesters were "non-violent."
2) The anti-abortion protesters were non-violent.
or
1) Some people who "love" their children will use spankings as a
form of discipline.
2) Some people who love their children will use spankings as a
form of discipline.
The first sentences imply that the writer himself would not use the
quoted term to describe the actions or characteristics. The writer
can come along later and claim that they didn't qualify peoples
actions.
This is a pet peeve of mine. It a root of contention and/or
misunderstanding in some note streams.
Peace,
Eric
|
9.978 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:41 | 8 |
| It denotes emphasis... that's all.. for me. sometimes I use asterisks
* ... this is for voice fluctuations as well if you read that way.
Petpeeves are hard to break, considered a Petpeeves anonymous group?
:-) :-)
|
9.979 | " Pet Peeves" | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:44 | 5 |
| RE: .977
"O.K."
Marc h.
|
9.980 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:49 | 20 |
| re: Note 9.976 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
> However, fwiw, I am very well aware that my *POSITION* of morality in the
> family [God's way, Adam and Eve] and my position on Salvation through
> no other venue but Christ as the Son of God, creates an aura of
> unacceptance from *most* of you towards myself.
In the most calm and gentle way I possibly can, I wish to point out
that Cindy P., Mark H., Patricia F. and others (myself included) have
told you explicitly, and more than once, that it is your *PRESENTATION*
and not your *POSITION* that, on occasion, raises some peoples hackles.
Now I know you used the qualifying word *most*, so perhaps you were
not speaking of these folks. I just wanted to make sure you understood
that some people find certain *presentations* more grating than the
positions being put forth.
Eric
|
9.981 | "Peace" | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:52 | 8 |
| re Note 9.978 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
Well in that case, I feel "much better." :^)
But I'll still get confused if you use quotes as opposed to CAPS or * *
for indicating emphasis.
Eric
|
9.982 | once again... | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:58 | 7 |
|
Re.980
Thank you, Eric. Yes, Nancy, it is the *PRESENTATION*, and not the
*POSITION*.
Cindy
|
9.983 | Learn From Us Nancy!! | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:08 | 12 |
| Nancy has a real problem in this area. Nancy, it is the way you
present your position, not the position itself.
Nancy, I would strongly recommend you read some of the gentle replies
from the rest of us, particularly those with a liberal point of view.
Most importantly, please please Please go into womannotes and try to
learn from their style also. There is nothing sweeter than the gentle
persuasion of a radical feminist!
Love,
-Jack
|
9.984 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:12 | 9 |
| RE: .983
Jack,
Your reply does nothing to help. All it does is cause division and
more resentment.
Think about it.
Marc H.
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9.985 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:22 | 9 |
| Just when I thought some barriers were falling, along comes a note like
that.
I was going to enter a real pithy sarcastic response, but I thought
better of it. I'm going to try to be more respectful of the people who
end up reading my notes.
Sad,
Eric
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9.986 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:29 | 5 |
|
"And they cried Peace....Peace...but there was no peace".
Dave
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9.987 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:35 | 9 |
| Marc:
I said the same thing as everybody else. Even if I was being a cynic,
I think I made a valid point!
Believe me...None of us are the epitomy of virtue in the methods we
bring our position to the table...None of Us!
-Jack
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9.988 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:42 | 10 |
| Jack,
I appreciate what your trying to say but unfortunatly the
very process by which you said it belies the point you were trying to
make. In other words you did exactly what your asking Nancy not to do.
Gentle persuasion avoids the temptation of being a "cynic". And your
right. None of us are perfect...but we try. :-)
Dave
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9.989 | Words alone do not equal the message... | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:43 | 11 |
| Jack,
> I said the same thing as everybody else.
No you didn't. Your cynicism, as you call it, says the *opposite* of
what the other noters were saying.
You confuse the words use with the message you convey...
Eric
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9.990 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 15:54 | 18 |
| Okay, fair enough. Now that I got everybody's attention, let's ask a
serious question.
My dear colleagues, how do we deal with serious problems of today
without being called a racist, unfeeling, homophobic? This is on the
level. It seems that whenever a subject gets brought up that involves
alittle controversy, one side of the pendulum starts with the name
calling. I have proven this just this morning.
As an opinion of an inddividual contributor, I respectfully submit that
the big lies of our society such as multiculturalism, etc., have turned
our countries brains into mush. It has robbed us of the honest dialog
that we need to have in order to make our world better for our
children.
Best Rgds.,
-Jack
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9.991 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Mar 22 1994 16:15 | 9 |
| RE: .990
I'll give you a serious answer. You deal with serious problems
by talking about them in an adult way. This isn't soapbox or
other forums where points are scored and kept.
And do yourself and others a favor. If you don't agree with someone,
just say, I don't agree without adding a psuedo dialog or dragging
in labels like racist that will inflame feelings.
Marc H.
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9.992 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 16:17 | 15 |
| Jack,
You bring up some interesting questions. In the Navy we
used to have seminars dealing with racist beliefs. Without fail they
turned into finger pointing sessions and served to promote racist
attitudes rather than disperse them. So when I hear "lets all talk
about this or that", these instances come to mind. I would dearly love
to have an open and honest discussion about these issues but I sense a
danger. Frank discussions tend to get out of hand quickly so before I
could participate in them I would want some pretty firm ground rules
governing conduct. Digital has and is very careful about these kinds
of conversations.
Dave
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9.993 | on the money | RDVAX::ANDREWS | is you is or is you ain't? | Tue Mar 22 1994 16:24 | 4 |
|
.991..eggsactly..thanks, marc
peter
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9.994 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 16:27 | 10 |
| Hmmm.. interesting feedback. I guess its the fingerpointing at
Christians that fires my logs and then in haste I react to it, which
then points the finger at *me*...
Interesting concepts... albeit one-sided. Reminds me of childhood as
well.
You chide, make fun of and humiliate a child until they finally react
and punch the chider in the nose... then the child who punched is now
reprimanded, suspended and told again HE/SHE is the unacceptable one.
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9.995 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Mar 22 1994 17:05 | 16 |
|
Re.994
Not once has anyone ever said here, Nancy, that you are the
unacceptable one. If they have, please provide the note reference.
You told us that we have a problem with you and your position,
despite repeated attempts by many of us that it is NOT your
position that we have a problem with. Please tell us - HOW can
we be clear to you about this?
I don't particularly like the swipes and stereotyping in here
that the conservatives take toward the liberals either. It goes
*both* ways.
Cindy
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9.996 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 17:14 | 39 |
| Re: Note 9.991 The Processing Topic 991 of 994
Marc:
>> RE: .990
>> I'll give you a serious answer. You deal with serious problems
>> by talking about them in an adult way. This isn't soapbox or
>> other forums where points are scored and kept.
>> And do yourself and others a favor. If you don't agree with someone,
>> just say, I don't agree without adding a psuedo dialog or dragging
>> in labels like racist that will inflame feelings.
>> Marc H.
Okay Marc, let's talk about adult dialog for a minute. Do you know the
distinguished gentleman from New York, Senator Patrick Moynihan? During
the Johnson Administration, Senator Moynihan was chairman I believe of
somwthing equivalent to Housing and Urban development. The Senator wrote an
official document regarding minorities in urban regions and developments.
In this document, he hit head on in regards to issues. His final analysis
was this. There are serious problems in Black America and if something isn't
done, there are going to be serious problems in the next 20 years.
(Jesse Jackson affirmed this in his black on black crime forum on CSPAN.)
Back in the late 60's,
Mr. Moynihan was labelled a racist...a bigot...unfeeling...and shunned by
black leadership. Marc, it is now 25 years later. Mr. Moynihan was very un
PC...but he stood by his convictions and history has proven him right.
Would you say that it was the content of what he said or was it the way he
said it that annoyed people? I say it was the content. Maybe if we had
listened back then, things would be better today, but we didn't.
Now in regards to noting, you are right. Perhaps political arguments and
the like need to be left in Soapbox. May I remind you however, that I wasn't
the one who brought in the words like homophobe into the conversation...
somebody else did. I was just responding to it!
-Jack
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9.997 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Tue Mar 22 1994 17:28 | 21 |
| re Note 9.977 by APACHE::MYERS:
> The first sentences imply that the writer himself would not use the
> quoted term to describe the actions or characteristics. The writer
> can come along later and claim that they didn't qualify peoples
> actions.
That has always been my understanding of the use of quotes as
well.
Today, in MSO2, the Tobin corporation (which runs the
cafeteria) had a "chowder fest" in which they gave samples of
12 different chowder recipes created by twelve members of
their cooking staff from various facilities (non-Digital as
well as Digital). Each of them had a small sign in front of
their chowder giving their name with the word "Chef" -- in
quotes, in front of the name!
It figures.
Bob
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9.998 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 17:37 | 6 |
| Cindy,
I understand what you are saying.. and your last sentence is the one on
which I'd like to place the most emphasis, "it swings both ways".
We do agree.
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9.999 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 22 1994 17:45 | 1 |
| Is it possible to be firm and loving at the same time?
|
9.1001 | Feelings...nothing more than feelings.... | CSC32::KINSELLA | Why be politically correct when you can be right? | Tue Mar 22 1994 19:22 | 30 |
|
You know I've hestitated in saying something about this, but I feel
I must anyway...
I've been back in this file more consistently for the last few weeks
and have caught up on most strings and I few I just blew off. I don't
see a problem with Nancy's initial presentation of what she believes.
I do see things unravel when she's been attacked. It takes awhile to
develop a tough skin in this file and other times it takes being able
to walk away from it. I've felt some of the treatment that Nancy
received was extremely harsh and I have addressed this offline with the
offending party as not to drag all this through the mud. I think we
need to do that more. I think we need to work individual issues offline
to help keep a more peaceful atmosphere in this conference.
Most of all, along the same lines as Dave, we need to practice
forgiveness. There are many here that I don't agree with. So what.
That doesn't mean we can't converse without name calling. I think all
of us can be reasonable.
One last word...I do think that part of the flack that Nancy and other
conservatives receive is because of the message of the gospel...which
lets face it is definitely exclusive by nature. This grates on the
nerves of those who feel there are many ways to God. But beware that
is inherent to her belief system and is not meant to offend. I find
there to be a great deal of intolerance over this not only in this
conference, but in this nation.
Jill
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9.1002 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 20:50 | 6 |
| RE: .1001 Jill,
Thank you. Sanity at last. :-)
Dave
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9.1003 | Cross-posted from a relevant topic | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 22 1994 20:57 | 30 |
| <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
-< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
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Note 313.12 Exclusive versus Inclusive 12 of 12
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat" 23 lines 22-MAR-1994 20:52
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(Note 9.1001 KINSELLA)
> conservatives receive is because of the message of the gospel...which
> lets face it is definitely exclusive by nature.
I disagree utterly and completely, though I know some, perhaps many, would
prefer that Christianity was indeed exclusive by nature.
In fact, it grated on the nerves of Jesus' detractors that he was so inclusive.
My guess is that it still goes against the grain of those who believe they
have the correct handle on God, and that anybody who is out of sync is a
deceiver.
Be aware that the inclusive nature of Christianity is inherent to my belief
system (Christian) and it is not meant to offend.
Richard
PS The notion of exclusivity is the main reason I cannot get enthused
about the resurrection of the dead. I mean, if only the people there
are the ones who are sure they're going to be there, I'm not so sure
I have any reason to want to be there with them.
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9.1004 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 21:13 | 11 |
| RE: .1003 Richard,
You bring up an interesting contrast. By what do
you percieve are the requirements to enter heaven? In other words, If
you were standing before God right this minute and God asked you why
you should be allowed into Heaven what would your answer be? :-)
'Course this might be better as a topic in itself.
Dave
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9.1005 | Cross-posted to topic 351 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 22 1994 22:01 | 27 |
| .1004 Deacon David Dawson,
I'm not so sure Heaven is a realm which is realized after bodily
functions cease. I've spoken of this in the Salvation topic and
the Everlasting Life topic.
Heaven, to me, is God's Kingdom. Moreover, it is God's Kingdom
come, God's will be done on earth. Jesus spoke of the Kingdom of God
in terms of both the present and future, of both the already and the
not yet.
I don't believe Peter stands at the pearly gates of the cloud-
carpeted entrance to Heaven directing admissions and rejections of
deceased souls.
As a bit of an aside:
I remember hearing about a famous man (whose name doesn't come to
mind) who had a dream. In his dream, he had died and gone to Heaven.
Shocked and alarmed, he told the beings there that he had been an atheist
while alive and that some dreadful mistake had been made that he was
actually gaining admittance to Heaven. The angelic beings said to him
something like, "We're sorry, but that's really something you don't get
to decide."
Peace,
Richard
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9.1006 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 22 1994 22:18 | 14 |
| RE: .1004 Richard,
Thank you Richard. Sincerely. I've heard that
idea before and its a popular one. I hope and pray that your right,
I really do. And to tell you the truth I like the idea. Unfortunatly
its not what I believe and experienced but you know all about that one,
right? :-) Not because your all knowing but I am sure people here have
introduced you to conservative viewpoints. :-) I truly do believe that
there is a God in Heaven preparing a place for me. Too many miracles
have happened to me to believe otherwise.
Peace brother,
Dave
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9.1007 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 22 1994 23:53 | 7 |
| .1006,
I can honor that, Dave. Especially coming from you.
Shalom,
Richard
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9.1008 | ditto... | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Tue Mar 22 1994 23:59 | 22 |
|
Re.1001
Jill,
It also grates on the nerves of conservatives that liberals say they
believe there are many paths to God, that homosexuality is not
necessarily a sin, and so on and so on, and they tend to feel that it's
their God-given duty to 'present the Truth' as they see it. It's even
gone so far as for some to say this conference is not about Christian
Perspectives at all, in fact. Or certain members who choose to call
themselves Christians and happen to have a liberal stance, have been
told that they are not. And so on.
Presenting the Truth as you/they interpret it is fine, but it's when you/
they get downright obnoxious and self-righteous about it that it really
is exasperating and frustrating. I'm sure I could find just as many
entries in this conference to support my point as you can for yours.
It goes both ways.
Cindy
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9.1009 | re .1003 | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Mar 23 1994 00:23 | 11 |
| re Richard.
Jesus was very inclusive -- of people.
Wide embrace of all the world.
Jesus was very exclusive -- of ideas -- of the way to the kingdom of heaven.
Narrow road to heaven.
/john
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9.1010 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 23 1994 01:05 | 23 |
| That is why we have two conferences. I do not expect to be embraced in
here. I expect opposition.
BTW, I agree with Jill's writing of exclusivity, I've mentioned that
very same thing in here before, even mentioned today to another noter
in here.
Cindy, your perception of self-righteousness is yours. I've not seen
it demonstrated since I've been participating. If you are referring to
me, then please let me say right here. Of sinners, I am the chiefest,
much like Paul. No self-righteous indignation from this venue.
Christ rightfully divided the ones whose hearts were turned toward him
from those who gave lipservice. While you don't know me all too well,
I can tell you that liperservice is not my tea. I am a person who like
others has every founding principle to believe there is *no* God. But
despite the events of my life, I've embraced Him, which means facing my
sinfulness, my ugliness if you will.
No, there is no *self* righteousness here.... and I don't see it
elsewhere.
|
9.1011 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Mar 23 1994 08:39 | 22 |
| re: Note 9.1010 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> That is why we have two conferences. I do not expect to be embraced in
> here. I expect opposition.
Could this be a case of `you find what you're looking for'?
> I can tell you that liperservice is not my tea. I am a person who like
> others has every founding principle to believe there is *no* God. But
> despite the events of my life, I've embraced Him, which means facing my
> sinfulness, my ugliness if you will.
Good for you, I can identify with that.
> No, there is no *self* righteousness here.... and I don't see it
> elsewhere.
Good to hear.
Peace,
Jim
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9.1012 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Mar 23 1994 09:17 | 14 |
| RE: .996
Moynihan is far from the Christian-Perspective...but.
I am old enough to remember lots of similar statements made in the
60's. Yes, sometimes the actual truth is hard for people to accept,
and as such labels of racist and liberal are thrown out. Equally
on both sides...I should add.
Moynihan? I don't like him...he is anti second amendment and to much
of a liberal for me. Although he is correct about Clinton's Health
Care.
Marc H.
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9.1013 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Mar 23 1994 10:17 | 55 |
| Re: Self Righteousness. Please see below. I think humility has been more the
norm than self righteousness by far. Perhaps we are all guilty of reading into
other notes alittle too much.
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>>Note 879.3 Prayers for Pagans and Hypocrites 3 of 8
>>AIMHI::JMARTIN 8 lines 15-MAR-1994 12:44
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>> I pray for Jack Martin. Although he has eternal life through faith in
>> the savior, spiritual growth is an ongoing process and will be
>> throughout his life.
>> Help him to build his testimony through integrity and character,
>> becoming a witness for the risen redeemer, Jesus Christ.
>> Thank You!
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>>Note 879.4 Prayers for Pagans and Hypocrites 4 of 8
>>JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 11 lines 15-MAR-1994 12:45
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>> .0
>> Well, it sure seems like there could be very little entered here at
>> least for myself, as I'm sure I've been a hypocrite at least once in my
>> lifetime... perhaps you can pray for me. I've oftimes known to do
>> right and even taught the principle and then found myself failing
>> miserably in that area. :-(
================================================================================
>>Note 879.6 Prayers for Pagans and Hypocrites 6 of 8
>>CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready" 8 lines 15-MAR-1994 13:11
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>> What .3 said
>> Jim
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Marc:
I agree with you about Moynihan. I hope some of us see the main point of
what was being said. If people are labeled for speaking their convictions
just as Moynihan was, or even Noah for that matter, history will teach us
that it is not prudent and can be detrimental in the end. Just so you will
understand where I am coming from, this is why I am so hard on the
sensitivity advocates. Well meaninged they may be; however, communication
and truth is stunted and we all suffer the consequences. That's all I'm saying.
Rgds.,
-Jack
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9.1014 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed Mar 23 1994 11:04 | 7 |
| Re: .1010 Nancy
> Of sinners, I am the chiefest, much like Paul.
So no one in all the world sins and much as you and Paul, eh? Braggart! ;^)
-- Bob
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9.1015 | reply | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Mar 23 1994 11:35 | 32 |
|
Re.1010
Nancy,
As Jim said, it is your perception that you do not expect to be
embraced here, and that you expect opposition. One typically gets and
sees what they expect to see. I recall my entry into the other
conference many, many years ago. I entered quite a few things from
Scott Peck's "The Different Drum", because I thought they would be
genuinely welcomed and considered for the discussion. But among the
responses I got were openly hostile in many cases (typical anti-New Age
comments), there was one in particular that said I was 'cold as a stone'
(however I will refrain from citing who that person was.) Tell me,
Nancy, has anyone ever said that to you here?
The one time that comes to mind for you is when you told Patricia she
was not a Christian (back when she was calling herself one), and that
she did not have the Holy Spirit.
It's fine for you to measure your own self up against that which you
read in the Bible, to determine if you are a Christian or not, and if
you have the Holy Spirit or not. But I really have a problem with
your doing this to another. Only God knows who the real Christians
are, since it is not on the outside, but what is inside one's own heart
that is truly the place where the difference lies. Who are you to
judge?
As for other examples, see the Christian and Gays topic, for starters.
Cindy
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9.1016 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:14 | 7 |
| .1015
Ah.. now lets jump on the ol' you get what you expect wagon? I should
have stated, "I *learned* to expect oppostion after having noted in
here for a short time." This is EXACTLY what my sentence failed to
portray... I didn't come in here noting expecting to be jumped on..
truly I didn't. I came because of an invitation.
|
9.1017 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:24 | 35 |
| .1015
In regards to my statement regarding Patricia... the discussion at hand
warranted the measurement of the Bible's way to salvation. If this is
offensive, there is not much I can do about it. It is my conviction
and a part of my belief as much as my fingers are a part of my hand.
If I am rejected for citing the Word of God. Praise Him!
There was no malice, no hate, at all in the conversation. I again ask
the question how do be *firm* in what you believe/know is Truth and
*loving*. I said all the cognitive words of "I believe"... what more
can a person do? This is a CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVES conference
supposedly to embrace all beliefs, right? Now I'm not allowed to state
that when someone boldly says that Jesus is not deity, that I BELIEVE
that belief is wrong and what I BELIEVE the consequences are as a
result of said belief?
Here it is and here is what I will defend regardless:
Jesus Christ is Deity, earth born Son of God
Jesus Christ is Lord, the only way for salvation
The Holy Spirit only indwells those who receive Jesus Christ
The Bible is inerrant
I will not relinquish one iota of the above to make friends in here. I
accept you as you are, though we believe differently. I value each
person in here, though we believe differently. When you state your
beliefs, I will challange said beliefs as long as I'm noting in here,
if they are not congruent with the Bible. When I state my beliefs, I
expect [now] that you will do the same.
Now what? Shall we stop all discussions? Shall we not struggle for
better understanding of one another, regardless of conversion?
Your call Cindy [and others].
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9.1018 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:35 | 6 |
| (.1017 MORALES_NA)
Actually, this is the CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE (No S on the end) conference.
Richard
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9.1019 | not quite... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:39 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1017 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> This is a CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVES conference
> supposedly to embrace all beliefs, right?
No one is asked by the conference to embrace any particular belief.
Peace,
Jim
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9.1020 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:43 | 12 |
| Geez you guys are pedantic...! :-)
Unbelievable... haven't you got anything better to say?
Richard, I am truly offended at your inability to communicate properly
with me.. so there is an S missing, big hairy deal!
Jim... let's see now how shall I re-word this so as to make it non
confrontational and kind.... The conference was formed to *allow* all
beliefs to be freely discussed... Crimoney I used the word embrace not
convert!
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9.1021 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:49 | 10 |
| .1019
Buddhists, agnostics, atheists, pagans and hypocrites are allowed
to participate without requirement by the conference to change.
Strangely enough, from time to time people have changed. Is it
not true?
Shalom,
Richard
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9.1022 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Mar 23 1994 13:13 | 5 |
| RE: .1021
Change? You bet. I've changed.
Marc H.
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9.1023 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Mar 23 1994 13:18 | 43 |
| Cindy:
As one who has participated in this kind of dialog, I would like to
participate in this discussion if it is alright. I know you are
speaking to Nancy so I am here as another who takes interest in what
you have to say.
It has become apparent to me from reading in here the last few years
that the standards by which we measure ourselves and others are quite
different. This is the case throughout the world. As an example, what
a private school may call average work, a public school may call
excellent work, or vice versa. We see things differently because we
don't share the same foundation and hence our scopes aren't in parity
with one another.
Patricia has stated to me anyway as far back as a year ago that her
truth and my truth are not the same. I respect her for that, it's her
God given right to believe as she wishes. John Covert hit it right on
the head a few replies back. Christianity is inclusionary in that the
invitation of eternal life is available to all. It is also
exclusionary in the sense that "...not all who say to me Lord Lord will
enter the kingdom of God."
Since I believe eternal life to be completely by God's grace and not of
our works, it stands to reason that acting Christian and being
Christian are two completely different things. I believe the atoning
death of the cross is the absolute crux of the Bible. We are all
adults here and I presume we are striving for truth, even through
challenge to one another.
My standard of belief is on the cross, no other. There have been and
are millions of spiritual leaders in the world, all of different
religions, who were great mral teachers...but that's as far as it goes!
Now for a little bit of medicine...If somebody challenges you as I have
been challenged in my life, for crying out loud let's stop whining.
Just write back and say..."Nancy..your full of prunes and here's
why!!!" This isn't a sensitivity exercise.
Rgds.,
-Jack
-Jack
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9.1024 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 23 1994 14:02 | 5 |
| A friend has said that PC really stands for Plain Courtesy.
Peace,
Richard
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9.1025 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Wed Mar 23 1994 14:14 | 18 |
| Nancy,
I ask the same question that you ask. How to be firm but loving.
There is no doubt that your remarks about Hillary are defamatory,
gossipy, and homophobic. There was no need for the remarks. They
have nothing to do with the point being debated. Conservatives and
Liberals universally recognize the questions about those letters.
The remarks imply much about Hillary and much about Homosexuality. The
remark was inappropriate. I am committed to the worth and Dignity of
each person as a basic tenent of my faith. Your remark supported the
basic worth and dignity of Hillary or of people who are Lesbian.
I cannot in good conscience let insults like that pass in a conference
which does have standards. Nancy, I have no desire to insult you.
Your statement was inappropriate.
Patricia
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9.1026 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Mar 23 1994 14:21 | 12 |
| Patricia:
This is what's so annoying about the dialog here. Nancy NEVER SAID
IT!!! She was telling you what the media was saying and how idol
gossip sometimes appears as fact. If anything, Nancy was supporting
Hillary but you jumped to conclusions.
I for one could care less who Hillary sleeps with or who her preference
is toward...that is her business, until it affects her husbands ability
to lead. Just keep it out of our faces, that's all we ask. Thank you.
-Jack
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9.1027 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 23 1994 14:45 | 7 |
| .1026
"Idol" gossip, eh? I realize it's a mere misspelling, but it conjures
up some interesting implications.
Richard
|
9.1028 | Well..here they are. | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Wed Mar 23 1994 15:12 | 49 |
| RE: .1025 Patricia,
Below are the two notes in which you seem
concerned. After reading these two I am kinda wondering how you might
have interpreted them to read that Nancy was homophobic? Her point,
and I think well made, was that evil rumors can destroy a person and
color how people react to them. Now before you say anything understand
that I voted for and support our President and his wife so I am not
doing any "ax grinding" here.
Dave
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.53
My faith is unshaken as well... so what's the point?
I could start questioning whether or not Hillary is a lesbian... and
get that spread out over the country so that it leaves the "question"
in folks minds... that doesn't mean its true.
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Note 877.58 Timothy And Titus 58 of 96
JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 13 lines 21-MAR-1994 13:33
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GREAT and I get .58 to boot! THanks for asking Marc!
In other words just be "questioning" I can cause doubt to have folks
looking at Hillary differently then before.
The "questioning" behind the authorship of said books in the Bible,
doesn't deem it truth, just as with Hillary.
BTW, this has happened. A Rumor started that Hillary was really
bi-sexual, but preferred women and now there is a whole host of people
saying stupid things like, "So that's why she cut her hair so short!"
Ridiculous, eh?
|
9.1029 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 23 1994 15:38 | 11 |
| Patricia,
I understand how you could jump to those conclusions about my note. I
really can. I hope you can see now that what you think you read and
what was said are two different things.
Sensitivities play a big part of our reactions... and I'm just as
guilty of reacting without thoroughly understanding at times.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.1030 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Mar 23 1994 17:36 | 11 |
|
Re.1017
Nancy,
>When I state my beliefs, I expect [now] that you will do the same.
>[challenge my beliefs]
Great. We have an understanding, then.
Cindy
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9.1031 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 23 1994 17:43 | 10 |
| .1030
Uh,er,I *think* so. Not sure.. the way you picked this out is
strange... Now I'm getting paranoid.. :-) :-) :-)
Perhaps a routine will be written to bomb conservatives,
and it will be christened, "Nancy"!
Eeeps! :-)
|
9.1032 | It is better to break bread | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed Mar 23 1994 19:45 | 5 |
| .1031 Some us us don't believe in bombing others.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1033 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Mar 23 1994 20:09 | 6 |
| Richard:
If we all believed that way, you'd most likely be speaking either
German or Japanese right now.
God Bless America!!!
|
9.1034 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Thu Mar 24 1994 09:18 | 9 |
| > If we all believed that way, you'd most likely be speaking either
> German or Japanese right now.
Some people believe it's more important to follow Christ than to follow
politicians.
God save America from its own pompous selfrighteousness.
Eric
|
9.1035 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Thu Mar 24 1994 09:33 | 29 |
| Putting in a remark about Hillary being a Lesbian in a discussion that
has nothing to do with the topic is a rhetorical method. To imply, I
don't believe this but I am going to quote it anyway in a publlic place
is to give space to an unfounded mischievous defamatory homophobic
rumor. Nancy has already made clear her personal belief that
homosexual acts are an abomination. Even while denying it she is
spreading a rumor about Hillary that she considers an abomination.
The analogy of a spurious defamatory rumor about Hillary and a
recognized scholarly debate about the authorship of three books of the
Bible is no valid analogy. Every Biblical Scholar regardless of what
there opinion recognizes the issues with those three books. I have no
problem with anyone either agreeing or disagreeing with my opinion
about the authorship. Many people put excellent legitamate arguments
in here both supporting and contending with my opinion. That is
valuable interchange.
It is a common rhetoric device by those who oppose the feminist movement to
insinuate that powerful women are Lesbian. This creates a delemma for
most Feminists who affirm a women's right to their own sexual
orientation but who like everyone else struggle with their own
homophobia.
I for one would like to make sure that this conference does have
standards. One of the standards I would propose is to not pass on
unfounded rumors even in the pretense of not really passing on the
rumor. Particularly a rumor that one has already stated represents in
their oppinion abomination.
Patricia
|
9.1036 | Sigh | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready | Thu Mar 24 1994 10:48 | 2 |
|
|
9.1037 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 24 1994 12:51 | 11 |
| .1033
Jack:
Your speculation is based in fear and not the Gospel.
God bless the world!!! Not just a few, the ones with the money
and the might.
Richard
|
9.1038 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Mar 24 1994 12:56 | 45 |
| RE: Note 9.1037
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat" 10 lines 24-MAR-1994 12:11
>> Jack:
>> Your speculation is based in fear and self-preservation.
>> God bless the world!!! Not just a few.
Richard:
God bless America has a deep interpretation. It means, God, I pray for
America because we are going down the toilet!! It is a prayer for America.
I'm surprised that you of all people would attempt to discredit the strong
possibility of my statement. The Germans had a very intelligent team of
scientists working on the A Bomb and with the help of their V2 rockets
would surely have put a strike on the United States, definitely England.
You were around in the early 60's and surely must remember the emotions during
the Cuban missle crisis. Richard...Fear is an international language. Don't
forget that. Ever see the add on TV which said...NATO...the only thing that
has kept Europe from going up in flames. We are to be the light of the
world, no doubt but we must be prudent in our decisions.
Re: Note 9.1034 The Processing Topic 1034 of 1037
APACHE::MYERS 9 lines 24-MAR-1994 09:18
XX > If we all believed that way, you'd most likely be speaking either
XX > German or Japanese right now.
>> Some people believe it's more important to follow Christ than to follow
>> politicians.
Eric:
Jesus said to be as innocent as doves but as cunning as wolves. Tell me,
had we not interceded in WW2 and built up a strong defensive posture in a
wicked world, where do you think you would be right now?
>> God save America from its own pompous selfrighteousness.
Yes, without Jesus we can only proclaim ourselves as righteous. Thank God
I was paid for with an expensive price. I am worth little but of great value.
-Jack
|
9.1039 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 24 1994 13:07 | 10 |
| .1035
From this point forward all I can say to you is..
Regardless of our differences, I still value you. Trash me if you
like, it won't change one penny of your value to me.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.1040 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 24 1994 13:08 | 16 |
| .1038 Jack,
Documents revealed in recent years have indicated that Hitler's Germany
had given up on plans to build the A-bomb, believing it was years away.
I know this puts some holes in the rationale for all those who believe
the U.S. has always done what is right and good, but so be it.
There also exists a body of evidence that the Japanese would have
ceased the war anyway within 3 or so months of dropping Little Boy and
Fat Man on populated areas. I know this puts some holes in the
rationale for all those who believe the U.S. has always done what
is right and good, but so be it.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1041 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Mar 24 1994 13:38 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 9.1039 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Regardless of our differences, I still value you. Trash me if you
| like, it won't change one penny of your value to me.
I guess I don't see where she is trashing you. But Patricia has
explained it the clearest way possible, so if ya don't understand her, then
there is nothing I could do to help.
Glen
|
9.1042 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Thu Mar 24 1994 13:46 | 21 |
|
> Jesus said to be as innocent as doves but as cunning as wolves.
And in your mind that means meeting violence with greater violence?
Jesus was addressing the twelve apostles as he sent them out to preach
his message... he was not referring to military strategy.
FWIW, the KJV uses "...wise as serpents" and the NIV says "... shrewd
as snakes." I'm not sure it matters, but for me the "cunning as wolves"
statement brings a different, more predatory image to my mind.
> Tell me, had we not interceded in WW2 and built up a strong defensive
> posture in a wicked world, where do you think you would be right now?
I really don't know. Maybe we'd be like the Swiss. I'm not really upset
that we did what we did, I'm just not sure Jesus would support our
actions. I think He places a higher value on dying young and pure than
old and compromised.
Eric
|
9.1043 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 24 1994 13:55 | 3 |
| .1041
Well Glen, perceptions are like fingerprints.
|
9.1044 | arms and security | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:04 | 6 |
|
Maybe we should build and give a nuclear bomb to every person on Earth,
then we'd feel so infinitely secure that we'd all sleep better at
night...
Cindy
|
9.1045 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:07 | 25 |
| Richard:
I believe Japan's whole motive for attack against the US was for
territorial rights in the Pacific, i.e. the Allusian Islands, etc.
I concede the fact that Japan did not have the resources to conquer the
United States.
Whether Germany did or did not come close to developing the ABomb
doesn't really matter. You may very well be right. You bring a
perception to me that I don't fully understand.
Richard, you have always impressed me as an activist, not a pacifist.
Do you believe FDR's intervention in Europe was correct or incorrect?
There is no question that the US will pour resources only into that
which has National interest; Kuwait is a good example. There are
currently about 24 conflicts going on in the world today. Certainly
we cannot become involved in all of them!
Eric:
No, it means to be a testimony but have a solid defense. Our country
would not exist without it...face it!
|
9.1046 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:09 | 8 |
| Cindy:
North Dakota and Vermont have the lowest government intrusion on gun
control and firearms. Guess which two states have the least crime??
Go on...take a guess!!
-Jack
|
9.1047 | don't fix it if it ain't broken | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:13 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1046 by Jack
> North Dakota and Vermont have the lowest government intrusion on gun
> control and firearms. Guess which two states have the least crime??
Which is the cause, which is the effect?
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1048 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:14 | 9 |
|
How many big cities do they have Jack? Do you think a city like Boston
could work under the same rules for guns as Vermont and North Dakota?
Glen
|
9.1049 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:20 | 6 |
| RE: .1048
I'll give you my opinion...yes, it would work in Boston too. I trust
the people of Boston as much as Burlington , VT.
Marc H.
|
9.1050 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:27 | 7 |
| Per Capita, Vt. and North Dakota have the lowest crime rates.
If every law abiding citizen in Boston was armed, crime in the city
would drop dramatically.
Fear is an International language!!!
-Jack
|
9.1051 | conference policy? I think not. | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:30 | 10 |
| re Note 9.1040 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> .1038 Jack,
>
> Documents revealed in recent years have indicated that Hitler's Germany
Please move to the Politics and Christianity topic (or, I
would prefer, SOAPBOX).
Bob
|
9.1052 | musing... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Thu Mar 24 1994 14:32 | 10 |
| re: note .1050 by Jack
> If every law abiding citizen in Boston was armed, crime in the city
> would drop dramatically.
"--and then there was one" just popped into my head when I read this.
.-)
Jim
|
9.1053 | Drove my spell checker crazy on this one ;-} | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 24 1994 16:24 | 13 |
| Note 692.27
> I think this is nothing more than an interesting word play where in
> English word can be convoluted into a French-like word --
I see this quite a bit, especially is such forms as Sonshine, Sonrise,
Son worshiper, etc..
Homonyms, puns and such don't translate very well into other languages.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.1054 | big difference | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Mar 24 1994 16:30 | 4 |
|
I was talking about nuclear weapons, not guns, Jack.
Cindy
|
9.1055 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 24 1994 18:03 | 13 |
| Having written this:
> perceptions are like fingerprints
I made a framed picture out of it with in smaller print underneath the
larger print
PERCEPTIONS ARE LIKE FINGERPRINTS
Don't be shocked when mine doesn't match yours
and pinned it up on my wall.
:-) Lotsa folks LIKE it. :-)
|
9.1056 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Mar 24 1994 19:48 | 17 |
| Note 9.1020
> Richard, I am truly offended at your inability to communicate properly
> with me.. so there is an S missing, big hairy deal!
I wanted to wait until things cooled off a bit before responding to this.
The question of CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE versus CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVES is
one which has arisen before. Because it has, I thought it wise to clarify
the matter right away.
I can see how you might have thought I making a big deal out of nothing.
However, it was truly not my intention to nit-pick.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1057 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 24 1994 19:51 | 5 |
| .1056
Thanks for clarifying Richard. Cool off, huh? I hope you're right.
|
9.1058 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 24 1994 19:52 | 3 |
| P.S.
I hope you know that I value you too, Richard.
|
9.1059 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Mar 29 1994 17:31 | 7 |
| The personal, negative remarks are to cease at once no matter what
is going on in any other file.
I'm just enough of a bully to delete the offending entries.
Richard Jones-Christie
co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
|
9.1060 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Tue Mar 29 1994 17:43 | 5 |
| <--- Me too!
Dave Dawson
C-P co-mod
|
9.1062 | | 38099::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Mar 29 1994 18:22 | 18 |
|
| You know Nancy, in many different notes you have said things. When people ask
| you to explain it you seem to say it can't be done.
How many people have had this happen to them? If many feel it has, then
it is a true statement.
| If you aren't gonna answer the questions so people will understand you, why
| don't you not make the statements?
This is a real question wondering why she will not answer others
concerns for her views.
Where does the sweeping/etc stuff come in?
Glen
|
9.1063 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 29 1994 20:10 | 17 |
| Glen, I will not justify myself to you. Quite frankly, I've not had
to turn down conversations from anyone other then yourself up until
recently. In case you don't know, I have a REAL job here at Digital
and am rated a 1 performer by my boss [who has never rated any peer of
mine a 1 before]. You know why I'm a 1 performer? Because I know when
to say No... and when to say Yes.
And I always give everything I do my whole heart... and if I can't give
it my whole heart, then I won't do it halfway.
If who I am, what I believe is not apparent to you by now, then there
is definitely a problem which is not of my own. I don't believe in
notes you will find many who are as open and as direct as I am in
communicating. Albeit not errorless, but certainly the effort is made.
I will not allow myself to be measured by your instruments. Besides
they don't work on me. :-)
|
9.1064 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Mar 30 1994 09:59 | 27 |
| | <<< Note 9.1063 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Glen, I will not justify myself to you. Quite frankly, I've not had
| to turn down conversations from anyone other then yourself up until
| recently. In case you don't know, I have a REAL job here at Digital
| and am rated a 1 performer by my boss [who has never rated any peer of
| mine a 1 before]. You know why I'm a 1 performer? Because I know when
| to say No... and when to say Yes.
Uhhhh.... yeah..... errr.... thanks for sharing that with us Nancy. But
isn't bragging wrong?
| And I always give everything I do my whole heart... and if I can't give
| it my whole heart, then I won't do it halfway.
There ain't nothin' wrong with that. But don't get upset or anything
when you are called for it.
| I will not allow myself to be measured by your instruments. Besides
| they don't work on me. :-)
Yeah.... I know....
Glen
|
9.1065 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Mar 30 1994 12:41 | 5 |
| Glen, it's not bragging for one to recognize their own strengths and
commenting when it is appropriate. It is bragging when you come in
boasting about yourself just for the sheer joy of it.
But you knew that, didn't you?
|
9.1066 | Thoughts on TOLERANCE.
these strategies can be f | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Tue Apr 05 1994 08:51 | 80 |
| There has been long discussions about tolerance in these notes
and I would like to add my 2c.
It struck me that there was some confusion of terms in the
debate:
Tolerance was related to *belief*
Tolerance was related to *acceptance*
Tolerance was related to *patience*
Unless I missed it, I did not see tolerance related to understanding,
yet I feel that this might have come closest.
It is very clear that any discussion which focuses on (a) religious
topic(s) will be permeated with differing points of view. These
pov's may arise from different conclusions from a common starting
point (various braches of Christianity from the same Jesus: or
differing weight on specific biblical texts, etc.), or they may
arise from a differing starting point (Judeo-Christians versus
Pauline Christians, for example), or they may arise from a mix
of both.
Whatever the reasons, it is clear that each of us has a given
postition based on a choice that we each, as individuals have
made.
We adopt our position based on an act of faith.
*We adopt our position based on an act of faith.*
Whether we believe historians, scientists, theologians or the
oracles, at the final step, there is *faith* that those in whom
we have placed our trust "got it right".
Tolerance, IMO, is the *understanding* that, no matter how divergent
the opinions are, the basis for them is this faith.
From this follows:
* Belief in the opinion of the other is not a requisite.
* Acceptance (or the adoption) of the other opinion is not a
requisite.
* Patience with the other's opinion is not a requisite.
* Understanding that the opinion arises from faith is a requisite.
The non-requisites are not excluded as a result of the discussion.
It also follows that:
* It is out of order to attack the position of the other. His
position, based on faith, is his own, personal and individual
choice. To attack it is to attack the person. (Some might also
see it as an attack on God, since this free, personal and
individual choice is from God).
* It is misplaced to defend one's own position since defense is
required only in the face of attack and because a position
based on faith cannot be rationally defended by any argument
other than "my faith put me here".
Finally, it follows that:
* If your motive for discussion is to change the position of the
other, the strategy requires that those in whom he has put his
trust "got it wrong." or
* If your motive is to examine your own position, the strategy
is to examine the reasons why the other's faith is so strong.
* If your motive is "pure interest", the strategy is to ask
questions and/or to listen carefully.
In all cases, this adds another dimension to the word "tolerance"
and that is *love*. For, without love and understanding, none of
these strategies can be fruitful.
(Of course, tolerance can be exercised in spheres other than
discussions)
I know that, in some of my notes, I have allowed these thoughts
on tolerance to become somewhat defocussed. But I do try to
abide by them.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1067 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Tue Apr 05 1994 10:25 | 7 |
| Derek,
Wow.
Those are real fruitful thoughts on tolerance.
Patricia
|
9.1068 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Apr 06 1994 13:49 | 10 |
| Derek,
It's funny I've been saying that tolerance doesn't equal acceptance of
another's value system, but understanding is much better accomplished.
If I understand what motivates you, then I can tolerate your beliefs,
values, standard of living, etc., while not accepting it for myself.
But when I said it, I was called a liar. :-) :-)
Nancy
|
9.1069 | commendable | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Wed Apr 06 1994 17:31 | 15 |
| Note 9.1068
> But when I said it, I was called a liar. :-) :-)
Nancy,
I know not what note(s) called you a liar. I have no doubt in my
mind that you felt accused, and unjustly at that, by whatever it was that
was said.
It speaks highly of your character to risk further with us.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1070 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Apr 06 1994 19:44 | 26 |
| Richard,
I have been wondering how to respond to your note. Thank you is one
way, perhaps even the best way, but it just didn't feel right to say
thank you alone.
Risk is a funny word... I learned about Rock Climbing in Yosemite,
actually met Mike Corbett who climbed [hmm was it Half Dome or El
Capitan, I think it was El Capitan] with then park ranger, paraplegic
Mark Wellman a few years ago. And of course risk is a big factor with
Rock Climbing.... and you know I actually would *like* rock climbing
and the funny thing is Mike Corbett spoke to me after the group left
and identified that I would like it. :-) We spoke for a while... and
quite frankly it as well, er, uh, rather stimulating. You see I also
enjoy parasailing, which has a risk factor involved as well.
So, I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm a risk taker, always have
been, probably always will be... to some extent [and No I ain't gonna
climb Half Dome :-)], besides believe it or not, I actually have a very
tender heart and care deeply about people, all people and this
motivates me to take risks even with people.
Now don't send me any pet rocks, okay? :-) :-)
and BTW, thanks.
|
9.1072 | To Nancy: On truth. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Thu Apr 07 1994 04:52 | 54 |
|
Re: 1068: Nancy.
Hello, Nancy!
I am truly sorry that you feel that you have been called a liar.
Frankly, I would be very disenchanted with CP (or any other
forum) if such an expression had been allowed to pass unchallenged.
However, I have re-examined the notes in this string (you did not
say that it was here, but I cannot scan the whole conference) and
did not find that. There are notes which reject your views on
tolerance, true. But I do not find the accusation, or even the
implication, that you were lying. However, I am aware that feelings,
especially in the face of "negative appendages" are highly
subjective; which means that if I don't find the accusation, it
does not prove that it is not there for you. That -- as I am sure
you are aware -- is one reason why a moderator's job is not easy
and frequently thankless.
To call someone a liar, or to imply it, is a massive affront. Why?
A lie is when one says or does) something *which is contrary to his own
belief or knowledge*. Any other expression of opinion is truth.
It may not be correct, it may not conform to majority view but,
if the opinion is stated from a position of personal conviction,
it is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth! The
very worst that can be said is that the opinion is erroneous (and
even this statement, could be, objectively, incorrect).
I try to assume that everyone with whom I communicate expresses
his own opinion and, thus, by definition, speaks the truth. I
may not agree, I may find his opinion to be wrong, but it is the
truth and I cannot deny that.
Thus;: to accuse a person of lying is to accuse that person of
denying his own person. At the very least, an infamous charge.
Similarly, one who lies -- deliberately says (or does) something
while beleiveing something else is guilty of self-abuse of the
worst possible kind. (IMO)
In this vein -- and this will raise some eyebrows -- I hold the bible
to be 100% true. But not inerrant!
This leads to another point. You may have seen that I use the
abbreviation IMO and never IMHO. The H is for "humble". But I
have spent a (relatively) long and eventful life, have read widely
and tried to be an example to my peers. When called, I have "gone
the extra mile." My opinions are not humble! Right or wrong, they
are mine and are as valuable to me as my eyes. I will not pluck
out my eyes; neither will I humiliate my*self*.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1073 | Communicating Properly is Difficult at Best | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 07 1994 12:46 | 45 |
| .1072
Derek... was there a point to your dissertation? Subjective reading,
emotional intonations [accurate or inaccurate] are all apart of this
forum and I am as subject to these things as the next person.
You are correct it was not in this string when I was told I was liar...
oh the person was very careful to not use the word lie, but just that
my statements were contradictory and impossible. They could not
understand that tolerance [to me] comes through understanding, not
accepting.. period and therefore BLASTED me with very derogatory
statements.
You can play semantical games in notes, but the bottom line is
perspective and as I have stated before, perspectives are like
fingerprints.
My perspective is valid to me and your perspective is valid to you.
The crux of communication is understanding the perspective of another
regardless of agreement or disagreement. An *understanding* brings
about a calmness in communicaton, that butting heads will never bring.
My Pastor taught a series on communication and he said the key question
to ask when in conflict is what is motivating your opponent? Is it
anger, greed, hate or sincerity. If a person is truly sincere with
their position on something, cut them some slack, they aren't trying to
make you look like a fool, they truly believe in their cause. If they
are just being rude, then you choose to be rude back or walk away. I
often have trouble walking away when someone is rude... but I'm still
growing... and hopefully learning.
I realize that this takes quite a bit of discernment on a person's
part, but I'm a believer if we *know ourselves* we can appreciate
other's inadequacies much better.. because they are no different then
me... we all cry, we all hurt, we all have wounds, we all have trials,
and so on....
Crimoney... we're all flesh and blood .... and worth the effort to
communicate properly.
IMHO [the h for humble simply means TO ME that my opinion isn't BETTER
than anyone elses, it is MINE] See how that works????
Nancy
|
9.1074 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Apr 07 1994 16:25 | 10 |
|
Nancy, I really think Derek hit the nail on the head. No one disputes
that you actually believe what you say. They may not agree with your views, but
I don't remember anyone even coming close to calling you a liar. Could you
perhaps give us a pointer to a specific note or even just the topic?
Glen
|
9.1075 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 07 1994 17:45 | 2 |
| -1
no.
|
9.1076 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 07 1994 18:03 | 6 |
| addendum
Since I know you'll ask why... because, glen, I have nothing further to
say or prove to you, it's over, buddy, argue with someone else.
|
9.1077 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Thu Apr 07 1994 18:18 | 9 |
| Glen .1074,
It's water under the bridge. There's no benefit to dredging it
up, unless the offending note is in unquestionable violation of Digital
policies and conference guidelines.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.1078 | Yes and no, | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Fri Apr 08 1994 08:52 | 14 |
| re: .1073 Nancy.
>Derek... was there a point to your dissertation?
Yes, I did tend to go on a bit, didn't I? :-)
However, I do believe that I made a point.
> IMHO [the h for humble simply means TO ME that my opinion isn't
BETTER than anyone elses, it is MINE] See how that works????
Frankly, no! Why is it necessary for anyone to put a value
judgement on his own opinion?
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1079 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 08 1994 16:08 | 5 |
| .1078
It appears as though you are putting a value judgement on a phrase that
is intimated for a good purpose... Why? This seems a bit argumentative
over a very insignificant thing.. [imho] :-)
|
9.1080 | Let's agree to differ. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Mon Apr 11 1994 05:08 | 11 |
| RE: .1079 Nancy.
Hello Nancy!
OK, I was being a bit argumentative: but, just as you do not
allow certain things to go unchallenged, neither do I. My
opinions are -- to me -- no "insignificant thing."
Let's agree to differ.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1081 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Apr 11 1994 09:46 | 7 |
|
Errrr... Nancy, if it was so insignificant, why did ya bring it up?
Glen
|
9.1082 | Don't blame Nancy. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Mon Apr 11 1994 10:00 | 9 |
| Re: -1, Glen
>...why did ya bring it up?
I think *I* brought it up, Glen: I tend to ramble a bit from time
to time. (So did Methusela when he was as old as I am .-) )
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1083 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Apr 11 1994 12:06 | 3 |
| Thanks Derek.
|
9.1084 | The reposting of entries within a string | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Thu Apr 14 1994 17:34 | 11 |
| I can understand and appreciate cross-posting notes to related and/or
more appropriate topics. I don't think it adds much value to repost
whole notes within the same string. All it takes to move to a reply
within a string is to type the period, the reply number, and carriage
return. (.1084<CR> for this note, for example)
I may be alone in my feeling about this. How do others feel?
Pace Y Bene,
Richard
|
9.1085 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 14 1994 17:49 | 8 |
| I would agree with you Richard for the most part...
But all rules have exceptions...
and we know how I feel about perceptions which may determine
exceptions, right?
Fingerprints...
|
9.1086 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 14 1994 17:49 | 1 |
| Why is 890 writelocked?
|
9.1087 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Thu Apr 14 1994 17:59 | 5 |
| RE: .1086 Nancy,
See 890.131
Dave
|
9.1088 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 14 1994 18:15 | 3 |
| Dave,
Thanks... somehow I knew it was you. :-)
|
9.1089 | | SNOC02::LINCOLNR | No Pain, No Gain... | Thu Apr 14 1994 23:33 | 15 |
| Yes. You can also flip to the note mentioned and then back to the one
you are currently reading by hitting the "Previous Note" key. So if
you are reading note 111.11 and they refer to note 222.22 and you want
to quickly look at it and then return to 111.11 just do the following:
Reading 111.11
Type: 222.22 <return>
Read note 222.22
Hit <previous note> key to return to 111.11
The <previous note> key is the "-" key on the numeric keypad on non-PC
keyboards, and <ALT> numeric keypad "+" on the PC keyboard.
Rob
|
9.1090 | Thanks for the lock. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Fri Apr 15 1994 03:58 | 7 |
| Thanks for locking 890, Dave.
I most sincerely hope that I have not been witnessing *real*
Christianity action. If so, my search ends here and I will look
further in Pagan Perspectives.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1091 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Sat Apr 16 1994 12:34 | 15 |
| <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
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Very well. In the future, I shall leave off the note number and
name to any note to which I am replying and not seeking further
response from that particular individual.
This is an announcement only. Any response to it is unsolicited.
Thank you,
Richard
|
9.1092 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Tue Apr 19 1994 13:15 | 5 |
| 890.203 is not the note to which 890.204 responded. The original 890.203
was evidently deleted and re-entered.
Richard
|
9.1093 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 19 1994 13:18 | 4 |
| You are right I reworded .203 so as to truly get the answer I was
desiring versus letting my emotion drive my response...
I'd still appreciate the answer.
|
9.1094 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Fri Apr 22 1994 19:47 | 14 |
| Note 96.32
> The truth is there is a
> one-sided-I'll-defend-you-no-matter-what-you-say kinda mentality in
> here that leaves out fairness to all noters.
I cannot agree with this blanket statement. There's no one here in
CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE who hasn't chastized me when they thought I was
out of line. I have always appreciated that genuineness, whether I
agreed with them on the issue or not.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1096 | Cross-posted for context | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 22 1994 19:50 | 28 |
| <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
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Richard,
I refused to put a pointer online for anyone because it seems childish
to me...
The truth is there is a
one-sided-I'll-defend-you-no-matter-what-you-say kinda mentality in
here that leaves out fairness to all noters.
When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
Richard, that was unkind. But when it is reversed many pile in...
The point is we all err. I forgive you your errors before you even
ask.. I care about you as a person, as an eternal being and as an
overcomer.... Blessed are the overcomers.
May God's light rest on you Richard... may His loving arms hold you
close to his bosom, I believe He has touched your life... His hand is
on you... hold tight as I know you have.
|
9.1095 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 22 1994 19:54 | 9 |
| > When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
>Richard, that was unkind. But when it is reversed many pile in...
I shooda added since I've been online... and in our interactions... not
ONline.. maybe offline, but not on...
I may have missed one buried in the pile of arrogant accusations and
other derogatory notes directed my way.
|
9.1097 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Fri Apr 22 1994 19:55 | 12 |
| .1095
We're not into attaboys/attagirls very much here, though it
happens from time to time.
We're not much into snarfing, either. I did it once. I
later deleted it.
I guess we're just lacking in depth.
Richard
|
9.1098 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 22 1994 20:21 | 7 |
| .1097
Another derogatory remark from you Richard? When does it end?
>"Lacking in depth"????
|
9.1099 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Fri Apr 22 1994 20:31 | 26 |
| Note 9.1096,
Well, I'll probably regret not ignoring this one, but here goes...
> I refused to put a pointer online for anyone because it seems childish
> to me...
And you don't think it's childish to bring up a misunderstanding that has
supposedly been resolved?
> When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
> Richard, that was unkind. But when it is reversed many pile in...
Consider the time of day. It's after 4:00 your time and most of our
readers have gone for the day. A lot of folks dropped out more than
an hour ago. Our Australian and British friends may be kicking in pretty
soon, though.
I know you think you are being picked on, Nancy. I know you think you
don't get the reinforcement you deserve here.
I, too, keep you in my most loving thoughts and prayers.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.1100 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 22 1994 21:04 | 15 |
| Richard,
I don't think I'm being picked on... heck I'm full of holes! :-)
Then that would make me holy wouldn't it. :-)
Sheesh, I don't have a mean bone in body that lasts longer then 2
seconds...
Time of day of noting of no consequence btw, I often don't start until
well after everyone else. While this is a realtime conference, few
participants are realtime.
|
9.1101 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 22 1994 21:06 | 7 |
| Making a pointer to a resolved conflict in this written forum and with
our communication pattern is not at all childish...
The reasons necessitating it ... is very much childish of which I am
50% of the picture.
|
9.1102 | | HURON::MYERS | | Fri Apr 22 1994 21:30 | 31 |
| <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
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> I refused to put a pointer online for anyone because it seems childish
> to me...
All I asked is that you to do was provide a reference for your
accusation, which you sort of did offline. I am at a loss as to why you
would consider it childish to support your statements online? I'm
confused, not upset, BTW.
> The truth is there is a
> one-sided-I'll-defend-you-no-matter-what-you-say kinda mentality in
> here that leaves out fairness to all noters.
I respectfully, yet vehemently, disagree with this characterization
applies to ANYONE in this file. Speaking for myself, I try my very best
to call 'em like I see 'em. I'll spare you the childish pointers to
replies where I raised a flag of caution to both Cindy and Richard.
> When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
> Richard, that was unkind.
Neither Jack, nor Jim, nor Collis, nor Roger, nor... This says
something different to me that it does to you.
Peace,
Eric
|
9.1103 | Time of day *is* of consequence | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Fri Apr 22 1994 22:56 | 16 |
| .1100 I'm afraid you've misunderstood, Nancy. What I was saying is
that 890.250 through 890.260 took place during a time when most noters
weren't around to validate you and tell me what an incredibly insensitive
dolt I am online. (18:45 [6:45PM] to 19:49 [7:49PM] EDT on April 20th)
By the time a greater audience was online, the matter had supposedly been
resolved. Now, I suppose somebody *could* have raked up and regurgitated
it again. However, since the matter was supposedly resolved, it would
have been in pointlessly poor taste to have pursued it any further.
96.19 through 96.29, on the other hand, were entered between 13:48 [1:48PM]
to 15:14 [3:14PM] EDT today, when plenty of folks would have still been
around to provide their active input.
Richard
|
9.1104 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sat Apr 23 1994 00:43 | 7 |
| .1103
I see what you are saying.
Eric,
One word - disproportionate.
|
9.1105 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sat Apr 23 1994 00:50 | 7 |
| Eric,
Was Richard's remark about "depth" acceptable to you?
You say Inerrancy bashing is loaded, so was that remark.
disproportionate
|
9.1106 | Re-read .1095 and then .1097 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Sat Apr 23 1994 13:23 | 12 |
| My remark about the depth of this conference was just plain sarcasm.
I guess I grow weary of the seemingly chronic negativity about this
conference, how unfair and unbalanced it is, and how lacking it is.
It seems to me the ones who are the most vocal in their criticisms of
CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE have also been the ones least likely to promote
a healthy exchange of ideas, least likely to initiate positive new topics,
and most likely to speak of others in terms like "agenda" and "politically
correct."
Richard
|
9.1107 | Invitation for input | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Sat Apr 23 1994 21:58 | 12 |
| I can see how one could "bash" a human being or class of human
beings.
Inerrancy is not a human being.
And I'm not sure doctrine, dogma, pedagogy and paradigms should
ever be exempt from critical examination.
I would welcome input from others. My mind is not made up on this yet.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1108 | | HURON::MYERS | | Sun Apr 24 1994 13:04 | 14 |
| > It seems to me the ones who are the most vocal in their criticisms of
> CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE have also been the ones least likely to promote a
> healthy exchange of ideas, least likely to initiate positive new
> topics, and most likely to speak of others in terms like "agenda" and
> "politically correct."
In an effort to be even-handed, I think this paragraph, although surely
Richard's sincere belief, push the conversation into a we-they
confrontation. It specifically refers to participants in this
conference as opposed to general ideas and/or beliefs. It qualifies
certain participant's replies as healthy or not, as positive or not,
etc.
Eric
|
9.1109 | | HURON::MYERS | | Sun Apr 24 1994 13:16 | 15 |
| > Was Richard's remark about "depth" acceptable to you?
Yes. Perhaps I don't see the personal indictment of character that you
do in this remark. I saw it as sarcastic and not a personal
condemnation.
> You say Inerrancy bashing is loaded, so was that remark.
In the context that it was used, I disagree. Bashing, racist,
anti-Semitic, ultra-left, ultra-right, denying God, lair... these are,
in my opinion, charged words; words that paint another noter's ideas or
intent as radical or extreme. Depth is not.
Eric
|
9.1110 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Most Dangerous Child | Sun Apr 24 1994 17:04 | 26 |
| Note 9.1108
> In an effort to be even-handed, I think this paragraph, although surely
> Richard's sincere belief, push the conversation into a we-they
> confrontation.
Interesting exercise, Eric. While you indicate the paragraph pushes the
coversation into a we-they thing, I maintain that such a dynamic was already
in place.
> It specifically refers to participants in this
> conference as opposed to general ideas and/or beliefs.
Actually, it refers to the tone, attitude, and behavior of participants,
rather than to actual persons.
> It qualifies
> certain participant's replies as healthy or not, as positive or not,
> etc.
Indeed, but without specifying which is which, leaving that to the
judgment of the reader.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1111 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sun Apr 24 1994 19:44 | 10 |
| Well, Eric,
Since the comment was directed towards *me*, it was most definitely an
insult as though I cannnot hold a conversation at a deep level, or at
least as in depth as Richard.
You can disagree all you like, but since it wasn't direct towards you,
you really cannot speak for how it made me *feel*.
Richard often guises his insults in what appears to be innocent.
|
9.1112 | On questioning dogma etc. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Mon Apr 25 1994 05:45 | 19 |
|
Re: .1107 Richard
>And I am not sure doctrine, dogma, pedagogy and paradigms should
>ever be exempt from critical examination.
I am sure that critical examination of all this, and more, is
essential. This, I think, is especially true of one's personal
paradigms.
However: the force driving the critical examination should be
neutrally vectored, allowing a shift in any direction, or no shift
at all: (objectivity).
On a theological level, I would find it very hard to accept that
intellectual blindness can be any part of God's intent.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1113 | Simple..Really | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Apr 25 1994 10:02 | 5 |
| RE:.1111
Maybe the insults aren't there at all, Nancy.
Marc H.
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9.1114 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Mon Apr 25 1994 10:08 | 12 |
| > Note 9.1111 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
I don't agree with your reading of this note. In fact I think Richard
was saying something quit the opposite of what you read into that note.
In my view, Richard was saying, albeit sarcastically, was perhaps this
conference is too shallow for a person possessing such depth, as
yourself.
In my opinion you may have got flustered just at the sight of Richard's
name and went off half-cocked... but what the heck do I know.
Eric
|
9.1115 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Apr 25 1994 10:26 | 21 |
|
Nancy, why is it in this and other notesfiles you feel you have been
picked on? Could it possibly have to do with your always expressing your
opinions? I think you need to understand that if you state your opinions, people
who don't agree will say something to refute your words. There will be times
even where people will say things they may not really mean or you may interpret
things wrong, and some who will just want to pull your leg to get you going.
There will also be times where people will interprete what you are saying in
the wrong manner (which seems to happen a lot for some reason). You can either
make an issue out of the situation and continue to make yourself look like the
damsel in distress, or you could look past it and continue on with the topic.
It would seem that if you would do the latter more often instead of the former,
you could probably finish more conversations with people. We all know this may
not be a great place to always understand what another is saying (notes in
general, not just CP), but if we could stop using, "I feel you're attacking me"
stuff and just let it slide or ask in a NON-confrontational manner what the
person meant, things would run a whole lot smoother.
Glen
|
9.1116 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Mon Apr 25 1994 13:22 | 15 |
| RE: Glen,
I truly wish we could back off this issue. It is very
natural for someone who believes in the perfection of the Bible to take
offense at being told it isn't. Just like others who believe it isn't
perfect taking offense when they are told it is. I cannot help but
think that some of the heat is from past experiences with Christians.
While it is interesting to discuss all these issues, there does come
the point of deminishing returns...and I think we have reached that
point.
I will also request that we not take issues all over the
file. There is a topic for inerrency so lets use it. :-)
Dave
|
9.1117 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Apr 25 1994 13:34 | 7 |
| Eric,
I will accept that you believe what you believe and validate your
opinion of said disagreement.
Thanks,
Nancy
|
9.1118 | | HURON::MYERS | | Mon Apr 25 1994 13:59 | 8 |
| Note 9.1117 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
val-i-date: v. To substanciate; to verify.
Here's one of those nouveau-chic words. I'm not sure you mean you agree
with my opinion, or merely agree that I have a right to have an opinion.
Eric
|
9.1119 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Apr 25 1994 14:13 | 8 |
| No, Eric, I don't agree and yes I do validate your right to have your
opinion... I don't wish to argue anymore... I will say what I believe
is right and truth, if anyone disagrees.. they too have the right to
their opinion of said subject.
That's all, hands down.
Nancy
|
9.1120 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Mon Apr 25 1994 14:39 | 7 |
| Thank you for substantiating my right to have an opinion.
Eric The Validated
PS I don't wish to "argue" either. I do wish to understand, however. If
asking for a clarification of ambiguous statements equates to arguing...
awww skip it. I'm getting too weary of all this anyway...
|
9.1121 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Apr 26 1994 11:54 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 9.1116 by DPDMAI::DAWSON "I've seen better times" >>>
| I truly wish we could back off this issue. It is very natural for someone who
| believes in the perfection of the Bible to take offense at being told it isn't
Agreed. But I was refering to the many notes that Nancy seems to feel
attacked. Not for her beliefs, but just that people are attacking her
personally.
| While it is interesting to discuss all these issues, there does come the point
| of deminishing returns...and I think we have reached that point.
Agreed Dave. As usual, you're the level headed one! :-)
Glen
|
9.1122 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 26 1994 12:19 | 18 |
| Nancy doesn't feel like everyone is attacking her personally.
I feel attacking the Bible, and diminishing to Jesus to be
insulting at best to those around us.
What RJC has done is taken Patricia's advice and is repeating his
attack on the fundamentals of Christianity as often as he can, whilst
still claiming to be a Christian who believes in Christ.
Since Jesus lives in me and I am a temple of Him, this attack often
feels very personal... another example would be if you began to
ridicule my sister. I'd come to her defense.
But then again I don't expect for you to value this in me. After all
we only value diversity of the PC kind, right?
|
9.1123 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 26 1994 12:20 | 10 |
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This is so insulting I could regurgitate..
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9.1124 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Apr 26 1994 12:24 | 6 |
| RE: .1122
The mistake here (IMHO), is that you are equating Christian with
Fundamentalism *ONLY*.
Marc H.
|
9.1125 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | It will be worth it all | Tue Apr 26 1994 12:35 | 18 |
|
Those of us who are baseball fans groan when a team fails in the fundamentals
of the game, and we praise those who fail to observe the fundamentals..when
a business is in trouble we talk about their failure to observe the
fundamentals of business..when a marriage fails, we find its due to the
failure of the man or wife, or both, to observe the fundamentals..on and
on we can cite examples of fundamentals we all practice in life..
However, those who observe the fundamentals of the Christian faith are subject
to ridicule, chastisement and anger (and FA Hotlines)...
Jim
|
9.1126 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Sister of Amaretto | Tue Apr 26 1994 12:51 | 10 |
| Nancy and Jim,
I wish I could unveil the truth in a fashion that you would
understand it. I have not demeaned the Bible or Jesus or Christianity
as you say I have.
I am a Christian. Jesus is my Sovereign. I take the Bible seriously.
Richard
|
9.1127 | Can ya see why there could be an uproar? | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Apr 26 1994 14:30 | 24 |
|
Marc H. I think we have finally agreed on something. I was gonna write
pretty much the same thing. Scary, huh? :-)
| However, those who observe the fundamentals of the Christian faith are subject
| to ridicule, chastisement and anger (and FA Hotlines)...
Jim, ya don't have companies, marriages, etc telling you unless you do
it there way you will end up in Hell. The funny thing is that what you may view
as the fundamentals, someone else may not agree. Hense there is your problem.
You are trying to align something that is not perfect (people's version of
fundamentalism) to something that is perfect (God's version of the same). In
all the other ones you have mentioned there are a varrying degree of difference
because not everyone thinks the fundamentals are cut and dry. Walt Reniack (sp)
has his set of fundamentals to hitting, while someone like Mike Easler has
another set. They and the rest of the world knows that there will be
differences and don't try and come off and say their way is the only one that
is acceptable.
Glen
|
9.1128 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 26 1994 14:31 | 6 |
| .1126
Richard,
I guess its hard for me to tell.
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9.1129 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Apr 26 1994 15:01 | 5 |
| RE: .1128
Why? Its clear to me that both of you are.
Marc H.
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9.1130 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 26 1994 15:02 | 5 |
| Marc,
That was kind of you.
Nancy
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9.1131 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 26 1994 15:06 | 14 |
| P.S.
:-)
The difference perhaps between you and I is that Christianity is
defined for me. When Christianity is undefined or all inclusive
everyone looks the same.
I believe as you've heard me state before that God is inclusive in that
He sent Jesus for all. He is exclusive to those who reject what is
given freely.
Can a person be saved and not believe in the inerrant word of God?
This is probably where I battle the most with those who claim to be
Christian. This is a *barrier* for me.
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9.1132 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Apr 26 1994 15:24 | 10 |
| RE: .1131
That is indeed the key. The way you said it, though, is interesting.
"Inerrant word of God" or "Inerrant words in the Bible of God".
To me, they are different. God's word is inerrant, but the Bible's
words have to be studied.....and then you find the correct, true
meaning.
Marc H.
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9.1133 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Tue Apr 26 1994 16:01 | 68 |
|
< What RJC has done is taken Patricia's advice and is repeating his
< attack on the fundamentals of Christianity as often as he can,whilst
< still claiming to be a Christian who believes in Christ.
Nancy,
I believe that you are missing the whole intent and purpose of this
notes file with this statement. In this file, The "Fundamentals of
Christianity" have been deliberately left open so each of us can decide
for ourselves what it means to call oneself Christian. I note in here
so I can dialogue with a variety of people who have different notions
of what it means to call themselves Christian or to not call themselves
Christian while still having a strong interest in Christianity and why
they do not call themselves Christian even when inspired by J.C.
If you are offended by persons not accepting the "fundementalals of
Christianity" then you are in fact offended by the very existence of
this conference. You are a moderator of the other conference where
there is some agreement of what the "Fundementals of Christianity are"
I believe it is an attack on the best of what Christianity is to insist
on the inerrancy of things in the Bible that are in fact very small.
There are many things in the Bible that are very small. By allowing
for a human perspective on the Bible I can find integrity and benefit
in a book that in fact allows for the rape of women, the acceptance of
slavery, the equation of the slave master with Christly authority, the
acceptance that God created some humans only for damnation to be used
as a tool for the grace of others, the supremacy of men over women, the
holiness of first born males children over female children, the ritual
impurity of childbirth and menstruation etc etc etc. It is heresy in
my opinion to equate any of these things as the Word of God. That is
why I believe that inerrancy is wrong. I am not attacking you by
saying inerrancy is wrong. I am not suggesting that you a less
Christian than anyone else for believing in inerrancy.
Nancy, I read your last note to Richard(.1128) as saying it was hard
for you to tell that Richard was a Christian. If I have read your
statement correctly, you are saying that Richard is not Christian
because he does not believe in innerrancy. That is insulting and
wrong. That is why I think it is necessary to speak out against
innerancy. Not because of what it does for the "believer" but for what
it does in permitting and encouraging "believers" to bash other peoples
religious self definitions.
I admit to a classic liberal delemma which I think liberals have to
confront. As a liberal I support your right to believe and preach
anything you want. As a liberal however, I do not have to accept your
beliefs for myself that would in fact limit my freedom to believe what
I want to believe or Richard's freedom to believe what he wants.
Every person's freedom to define themselves as they wish to define
themselves in my opinion has precedents over your freedom to define
other people as Christian or non Christian. You have the same freedom
to define yourself as Christian as Richard does. Richard has the same
freedom to define himself as Christian as you do.
Patricia
If that is in fact what you intended it is extremely insulting.
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9.1134 | the human condition | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Tue Apr 26 1994 16:31 | 30 |
| re Note 9.1133 by AKOCOA::FLANAGAN:
> If you are offended by persons not accepting the "fundementalals of
> Christianity" then you are in fact offended by the very existence of
> this conference. You are a moderator of the other conference where
> there is some agreement of what the "Fundementals of Christianity are"
It certainly seemed, at the time of the founding of this
conference, that certain people (I don't know if Nancy was
among them or even active in Notes at that time) were
offended by the very *existence* of this conference with the
word "Christian" in its name.
(Of course, to be fair, those who founded this conference did
so because we were offended by the official position espoused
in another conference that defined "Christian" in such a way
that it clearly excluded many who in fact are followers of
Christ.)
I grew up at a time when Catholics generally didn't consider
Protestants to be Christian (they certainly weren't "saved")
and likewise Protestants considered "Catholic" to mean
something other than Christian.
It wasn't that long ago.
We shouldn't be surprised if such attitudes are with us
always.
Bob
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9.1135 | Been There | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Apr 26 1994 16:42 | 6 |
| RE: .1134
I had those very idea's drilled into me by nuns, Bob. I have finally
removed them, after 40 years!
Marc H.
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9.1136 | For whose benefit is Christianity? | CFSCTC::HUSTON | Steve Huston | Tue Apr 26 1994 17:16 | 24 |
| > The "Fundamentals of
> Christianity" have been deliberately left open so each of us can decide
> for ourselves what it means to call oneself Christian.
Do you mean that "Christianity" can mean different things to different
people?
For whose benefit, ultimately, is Christianity?
> the
> acceptance that God created some humans only for damnation to be used
> as a tool for the grace of others
Why is this a problem for you?
>a book that in fact allows for the rape of women
Huh? I'm assuming you're talking OT here? The neat thing about the OT is
that it shows a long-term view. The rapist does not always get slammed
at the time, but it comes around somewhere down the road. God does not take
rape lightly.
-Steve
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9.1137 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Tue Apr 26 1994 17:18 | 21 |
| We can all agree on some facts:
Patricia does not accept the atoning death of Jesus on the
Christ as necessary for salvation.
Neither does Richard.
Nancy does.
Jim does.
Collis does.
How this stacks up in terms of whether we believe another
is a Christian depends on:
- how we view the Bible
- what we hear the Bible saying
- miscellaneous other info
Collis
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9.1138 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Tue Apr 26 1994 17:22 | 19 |
| The point is that it seems to me that the very existence of this
conference is to have a friendly place to discuss multiple approaches
to Christianity.
Given that understanding of the conference, I don't think participants
should be criticized in here for accepting multiple approaches to
Christianity.
To be accepting of others does not mean we should be accepting of a
philosophy that says we should not even exist. Sure we accept that
others have a right to question our existence. But we don't have to
take that questioning as an equally valid arguement.
I personally would like to see a voluntary ground rule in here that
states that no persons individual self identification should be
questioned in here. If I decide to call myself a Christian, nobody
should tell me I cannot do that. If I decide not to call
myself a Christian nobody should question that either.
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9.1139 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Tue Apr 26 1994 17:36 | 10 |
| Hi Patricia,
I can accept that you call yourself a Christian.
However, that does mean I accept that you are a
Christian (because IMO the Bible does a very good
job of defining a Christian and you have done a very
good job defining where you stand).
Collis
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9.1140 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Tue Apr 26 1994 17:44 | 6 |
| All voluntary organizations are for the benefit of the particants.
Asking for whose benefit is CHristianity is like asking for whose
benefit is God's Grace.
Patricia
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9.1141 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | It will be worth it all | Tue Apr 26 1994 17:58 | 12 |
|
Christianity can benefit everybody..God' grace can also benefit everybody
except there are those who refuse to accept it.
Jim
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9.1142 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Apr 26 1994 19:14 | 18 |
| First off, Patricia your note .1134 is very well written and
expressive. However, you are stating exactly to me what I feel Richard
does with his notes constantly picking Christianity apart bit by bit.
That is extremely insulting to me.
If we are going to live insult free in this file, then the fact that
more then even myself from the fundamentalist pov feels this icepick
chipping away sensation, says a lot about the concept.
I wasn't around when CP was created. I accidentally happened into
notes about 2 years ago. So, I cannot speak for any attitudes that
existed between Christian and CP. Sorry.
I can tell you my offense at the name of Christ being used in the term
Christian to represent anything but complete faith in Him would be
natural whether CHRISTIAN existed or not.
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9.1143 | | HURON::MYERS | | Tue Apr 26 1994 20:01 | 14 |
|
If one is insulted when their statements are critically examined, then
they are doomed to certain disappointment the moment they leave the
security of the company of those who parrot their beliefs. If one finds
insult in the mere existence of alternate viewpoints, that person is in
the doomed to play the martyr till the end of their days.
Eric
PS. This note is not directed at anyone in particular. Any feelings of
personal insult are strictly in the mind of the insulted. This shoe
applies only to those feet on which it fits. If it doesn't fit don't
wear it... it's not for you
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9.1144 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Sister of Amaretto | Tue Apr 26 1994 20:42 | 22 |
| Collis, you seem particularly cranky today.
I don't recall discussing with you or anyone here the details
of the doctrine which you've indicated that I do not accept.
I realize that you and Nancy and others believe you have the inside
track, the real truth, and that by defending the Bible as being
inerrant, for example, you are defending God, Jesus, and the one
true Christian faith.
The truth of the matter is that Christianity, even from the outset,
was far more varied and diverse in its range of beliefs and opinions
than Christianity has ever been since.
For nearly 400 years after Jesus death there was no NT canon to call
inerrant. And not until Gutenburg (sp) was the Bible widely available
and accessible to nearly everyone.
Christianity does not revolve around the inerrancy of the Bible.
Praise God,
Richard
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9.1145 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Sister of Amaretto | Tue Apr 26 1994 21:30 | 10 |
| 820.261 It is not your usual habit, Collis, when having difficulty
with something said, that you choose to make allegations about the
noter rather than focusing on the content of the note.
You are much more convincing and successful (imo) at the latter than
the former, not that you won't improve with practice.
Blessings,
Richard
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9.1146 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Sister of Amaretto | Tue Apr 26 1994 21:34 | 10 |
| .1143
Eric,
Is it okay if I agree with you?
:-)
Richard
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9.1147 | | HURON::MYERS | | Tue Apr 26 1994 21:46 | 11 |
| Great... just great. As if I don't have enough problems, now I've got
Jones-Christie agreeing with me! Marc H. I can handle, but that nuts-o
Richard... oy!
A thousand :^)
Eric
BTW, how'd it go today?...
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9.1148 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Apr 27 1994 01:32 | 70 |
| Richard incorrectly stated:
> For nearly 400 years after Jesus death there was no NT canon to call
> inerrant.
This is incorrect. The writings in the NT became available to the Church
before all the Apostles had died, and there were very early canons which
included much of today's NT.
The way inerrancy worked in the early Church was a little different, though.
The standard was being able to answer the question "Who told you that?" with
the name of an Apostle or another person of high standing among the Fathers.
Here is the history of the early canons:
New Testament Canonization
Around 140, Marcion, who had Gnostic tendencies, set up a canon which
totally repudiated the Old Testament and anything Jewish. His canon
consisted of "The Gospel" (a version of Luke, the least Jewish) and
the "Apostolikon" (ten epistles of Paul with Old Testament references
edited out, excluding Hebrews, I and II Timothy, and Titus). Because
of this heresy, the Church decided it needed to form a canon more in
line with the thought of the universal church.
By the end of the 2nd century, Irenaeus used the four Gospels, 13 letters
of Paul, I Peter, I and II John, Revelation, "Shepherd of Hermas", and Acts.
The first clear catalog of authoritative New Testament writings is found in
the so-called Muratorian Canon, named for its modern discoverer, L.A.
Muratori (1672-1750). Written late in the second century, it included the
four gospels, thirteen Pauline epistles (not including Hebrews), Jude, two
of John's letters, and Revelation. It mentions the "Apocalypse of Peter",
saying that it may be read, but that some object, and rejects the "Shepherd
of Hermas" as lacking any connection with the apostolic age. It includes
The Wisdom of Solomon.
Clement of Alexandria, in the 2nd century, was essentially unconcerned about
canonicity, and made use of the "Gospel of the Hebrews", the "Gospel of the
Egyptians", the "Letter of Barnabas", the "Didache" and other extracanonical
works.
Origen (died c. 254) listed works based on his travels as "undisputed in the
churches of God throughout the whole world": the four Gospels, 13 Pauline
letters, I Peter, I John, Acts, and Revelation, "disputed": II Peter, II and
III John, Hebrews, James, and Jude, and "spurious": Egyptians, Thomas, and
others. He used the term "scripture" for "Didache", the "Letter of Barnabas",
and the "Shepherd of Hermas", but did not consider them canonical.
Eusebius shows the situation in the early fourth century: Universally
accepted: the four Gospels, Acts, 14 Pauline letters (including Hebrews),
I John, and I Peter. He divided the disputed writings into two classes:
those known and accepted by many (James, Jude, II Peter, II and III John)
and "spurious" but not "foul and impious" (Acts of Paul, Shepherd of Hermas,
Apocalypse of Peter, Letter of Barnabas, Didache, and possibly Gospel of the
Hebrews). He calls "Gospel of Peter" and "Acts of John" "heretically spurious".
Revelation is listed both as fully accepted "if permissible" and as spurious
but not impious. Eusebius makes authoritative use of the disputed writings,
showing that canon and authoritative revelation were not the same thing.
Athanasius, Bishop of Alexandria in the fourth century, delimited the canon
and settled the strife between East and West. On a principle of inclusiveness,
both Hebrews and Revelation were included, even though some felt that they
contradict each other as to whether those who have heard the Gospel and turn
away from it can ever be saved from their apostasy. At this point, the
definitive 27 books of the New Testament were canonized. In the Greek
churches there was still controversy over Revelation, but in the Latin
Church, under the influence of Jerome, Athanasius' decision was accepted.
It was not until the 7th century that the Syriac canon came into agreement
with the 27 books.
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9.1149 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Apr 27 1994 03:04 | 18 |
| Sitting back tonight thinking about this...
Patricia,
I need to thank you for being careful to make an effort to speak with
me about faithfulness. When I look back on that string, I realize that
we went from being rather antagonistic to finding some common ground on
which to note... I'm sorry that something as beneficial as this got
covered in mire of fundamentalist attacks to which I reacted.
I got so incensed at Richard's notes, that I failed to see the value of
real discussion... Yeah I got emotional, but you all know that.
I don't know... but I do know a very fruitful discussion was let go
because of the defocus of these notes... My fault, I apologize to you.
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9.1150 | We can all agree...? | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Wed Apr 27 1994 03:18 | 10 |
| re: .1137 Collis
>We can all agree on some facts:
Kindly refrain from making decisions for me.
I dislike the "broad brush" tactic in any context. I abhor it when it
touches on my personal feelings/opinions.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1151 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Apr 27 1994 09:24 | 6 |
| ER: .1137
In my opinion, dividing people in that manner with the accompanying
"message between the lines", is not done in a Christian spirit.
Marc H.
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9.1152 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Apr 27 1994 09:26 | 5 |
| E: .1144
I agree, Richard.
Marc H.
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9.1153 | still feisty | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Wed Apr 27 1994 10:15 | 15 |
| Rre: .1150
>>We can all agree on some facts:
>Kindly refrain from making decisions for me.
The statement is there just so others such as yourself can
respond. Since you offer no disagreement with the facts
themselves, I assume the issue you have is simply with the
audicity of my proclamation that you and I can agree on
something. But perhaps your knowledge of what others have
proclaimed differs from mine - and you don't wish this to
be explored.
Collis
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9.1154 | it is so difficult to always be silent on such a common topic... | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Wed Apr 27 1994 10:32 | 40 |
| Re: .1144
>I don't recall discussing with you or anyone here the details
>of the doctrine which you've indicated that I do not accept.
It is indeed true that you have consistently refused to discuss
the details of this ages old and Biblically-solid doctrine of
have to be saved.
However, since this issue comes up time after time, week after
week, day after day, you have occassionally shared a little
insight now and again. Since I believe that an
individual's standing with respect to their acceptance of Jesus
death on a cross as an atoning sacrifice for their sins is
critical, my senses are heightened whenever someone addresses this
issue, no matter how obliquely.
You, once, several years ago, indicated that you did not believe
that Jesus' death on a cross was an atoning sacrifice for sins.
I immediately picked up on this and questioned you about it. You
changed the subject.
A number of months later, I indicated that you did need believe that
Jesus' death on a cross was an atoning sacrifice for sins. You
questioned why I said that (since you work very hard at not
sharing your thoughts on this subject). I pointed out this
past reference. You subsided.
This same scenerio played itself out again some time later.
And now again. In fact, I would have been almost disappointed
had you not questioned me again this time. :-) Given all this,
I fully expect this to happen more in the future. :-)
Of course, you are free to share any or all of your beliefs on
this subject at any time in this notesfile. I have no reluctance
in sharing my understanding of what you have stated in the past on
this very important topic. In fact, I think it is helpful in
trying to understand who you are and where you are coming from.
Collis
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9.1155 | reasons and explanation for summary in .1137 | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Wed Apr 27 1994 10:50 | 57 |
| Hi Marc,
>In my opinion, dividing people in that manner with the accompanying
>"message between the lines", is not done in a Christian spirit.
I certainly think there is some truth to this. Our goal should
not be to categorize and compartmentalize one another, but rather
to share ideas, feelings and reasons as we encourage and support
one another with appropriate rebuke, apologies and forgiveness
thrown in.
However, there is more to the story than simply this. We are
*also* to be wise and discerning. We are to divide truth
correctly. Personally, I think a noter's relationship to Jesus
Christ is very important information to know in this conference.
For one thing, there are Biblically different approaches that are
to be applied between a fellow believer and a non-believer.
My goal in sharing such obvious information (at least all of
it is well documented and admitted except for Richard's position)
was the following:
- this was precisely the issue under discussion
- this note summarized positions and put it on the table
that we are going to view each other's claims differently
based on where are beliefs come free
I have often found that a summary clears the issues and settles
down the discussion. If you have noticed, this summary did
exactly that. Admittedly, it brought up different issues
such as:
- Evidently not everyone agrees with the facts of the summary
although no fact was ever refuted
- the purpose of the summary (being answered in this note)
I fully expect that after these issues are dealt with that
this discussion will promptly die down.
In summary, I don't think anyone who believes something is
true has anything to be ashamed of (regardless of whether they
are right or wrong). When we start acting as if our beliefs
may not be freely aired because there is something wrong with
them, then I think we have lost quite a bit. That is all I
did. A statement of facts of beliefs and how we interpret
these facts to mean different things based on our individual
choices of truth.
Does this give you a different perspective on the relevance
and usefulness of .1137? I still think it was an appropriate
note and that it has actually accomplished its purpose (which
was not to divide - hey, this conference is divided already;
but rather to put the facts on the table and have everyone
acknowledge them so that we can move on - just like we're
about to do).
Collis
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9.1156 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Wed Apr 27 1994 11:38 | 50 |
| Nancy,
Re: 9.1142
I respect and appreciate your note. Our continuing conversation is
helpful to me as well as you. I am learning that there are a lot of
things that we agree on in spite of some essential differences.
I am also beginning to appreciate that your own self identification is
so closely tied to your identity as a Christian that to argue against
those principles that you define as essential to Christianity become
very personal.
I can understand that while at the same time knowing that the some elements
that I consider essential to Christianity are directly opposite to
those you determine to be essential. I know also that the Bible itself
contradicts some of those elements that I consider essential to
Christianity. I have more Faith in what I call Christianity than in
the Inerrancy of the Bible, so I have concluded that the Bible is a
Fallable instrument.
Let me provide an example.
The Goodness and excellence of God is a key principle in my theology.
A good and excellent God does not create some humans for destruction.
If a good and excellent God is all powerful, that God could save all
humanity. If that God choose not to, then God would not be faithful to
goodness and excellence. Since I know that God is always faithful then
I know that God did not create some people for destruction. Romans
does clearly say that God created some humans for destruction.
Therefore Romans is wrong.
In my opinion the principle of the Goodness and excellence of God
contradicts the principle of the inerrancy of the Bible and I choose
the first principle.
I know that you and I do not reason the same way on this issue but I
also accept that our differences are reality. I am going to be just as
faithful to my religious beliefs as you are to your religious beliefs.
I am going to defend everybodies right to there own beliefs. My reason
for asking people to proclaim the untruth of Biblical Inerrancy is not
because I want to attack anyone's beliefs but because I truly believe
that that belief prevents people from accepting and understanding
"real" Christian truths about the nature of God and the nature of
humanity created in the image of God.
In spite of our differences I do appreciate your sincere effort to
understand my perspective.
Patricia
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9.1157 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Wed Apr 27 1994 11:57 | 14 |
| Collis,
I have no issue with the way you summarized my beliefs about the
atoning sacrifice. I do not believe that Jesus literally needed to die as
an atoning sacrifice. Mythically, metaphorically, or allegorically, I
don't know.
I also have become biblical enough to understand that Romans does
explain Jesus' death that way as does some of non pauline letters.
I do not believe that accepting this doctrine is required to define
myself as a Christian.
Patricia
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9.1158 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Wed Apr 27 1994 12:06 | 20 |
| E: .1155
Your reply helps to explain your comments. And, most I can accept,
but ( there is always a but)....
For many people, myself included, I struggle to understand the Bible
and my own faith. I can not understand the *why* of Christs death
on the cross as atonement for sins. Its not a question of faith
per say, rather it doesn't make sense to me. Why torture and kill
your son for someone elses sins?
Honest questions that should be discussed, not questions that allow
someone to then label you as non CHristian or an Unbeliever.
Maybe its a fine line...but it's a very important line.
For many here, our faith journey is still evolving. I find Richard's
and others questions as helpful in exploring idea's. Nothing else.
Marc H.
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9.1159 | This point of view makes it hard to see the truth of the Bible | CFSCTC::HUSTON | Steve Huston | Wed Apr 27 1994 14:42 | 55 |
| I quote Patricia's notes here. I do that not to be a Patricia-basher, but
because her responses are honest, and illustrative.
In .1136, I asked for whose benefit, ultimately, is Christianity.
In .1140 Patricia responded with:
> All voluntary organizations are for the benefit of the particants.
>
> Asking for whose benefit is CHristianity is like asking for whose
> benefit is God's Grace.
Saying, in essence, that Christianity is for the good of us humans.
Many people (not singling out Patricia) have this view that comes down to
people being the most important, and God is there to do good for us and
validate us.
I'd like to turn the view around and state that God is in the central point
of all, with his plans, rights, views, and justice being most important.
From the beginning this has been the case - God gives us great freedom, but
defines the proper way to live. Also from the beginning we have gone against
what God declares. God says the penalty for that is death.
But we're still here.
Is God just?
In Romans 3:21 and following Paul is saying that righteousness is by faith in
Jesus. In v25-26 Paul makes the central point:
"God presented him [Jesus] as a sacrifice of atonement (the one who
would turn aside his wrath, taking away sin), through faith in his
blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his
forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished -
he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to
be just and the one who justifies the man who has faith in Jesus."
So, Christianity is for God's benefit, ultimately. He has upheld his
justice.
Yes, we who believe benefit greatly, unspeakably. But only on God's terms.
Jesus, himself God, paid the death penalty for our sin. Aside from that,
we are under the penalty.
The danger in all this is redefining God to be who or what we want. Even
accusing him of injustice. Why? I believe that from Cain on down, it is to
avoid the penalty - to avoid the guilt - of sin. I am guilty of this approach
often also - redefining situations to get me out of a jam - ask my wife (well,
no, don't do that ;-)
I'm not saying all this to jab at people. I say this because at some point,
the games are going to be over, and then the judgement will come. By the
merit of Jesus' death, I'm going to be with Jesus. I want to see you there
too.
-Steve
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9.1160 | | AKOCOA::FLANAGAN | honor the web | Wed Apr 27 1994 14:58 | 19 |
| Actually Steve
The question was
"Who's benefit is Christianity"
my answer "Humanity's.
Another way to ask the same question is
Does God need humanity or does Humanity need God?
To answer "Humanity needs God" is the same as to say that "Christianity is
for the benefit of Humanity".
Of course I have not pursued Process thought yet, so I reserve the
right to change my mind. Perhaps God really does need us!
Patricia
|
9.1161 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Wed Apr 27 1994 15:02 | 9 |
| re Note 9.1159 by CFSCTC::HUSTON:
> So, Christianity is for God's benefit, ultimately. He has upheld his
> justice.
You probably believe that the Sabbath was for God's benefit,
too.
Bob
|
9.1162 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Sister of Amaretto | Wed Apr 27 1994 15:39 | 11 |
| .1148 John is correct to a degree. The materials which became the
canon for the NT were around long before 400 years after Jesus death,
along with a lot of other materials culled in the canonization process.
If you interpretted what I said in any other way when I said that 'for
nearly 400 years after after Jesus death there was no NT canon to
call inerrant,' you misinterpretted what I was saying (which really
doesn't surprise me).
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1163 | | CFSCTC::HUSTON | Steve Huston | Wed Apr 27 1994 16:00 | 8 |
| re: 1161
> You probably believe that the Sabbath was for God's benefit,
> too.
I don't follow... could you explain this please?
-Steve
|
9.1164 | Cross-posting under "Salvation" | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Sister of Amaretto | Wed Apr 27 1994 16:14 | 30 |
| Note 9.1154
>It is indeed true that you have consistently refused to discuss
>the details of this ages old and Biblically-solid doctrine of
>have to be saved.
The fact of the matter is that the doctrine of Jesus' death and
atonement for sin lights up something in my head, but lights up
nothing in my heart. That's kind of a signal to me that the matter
has become too cerebral, too sterile, too flat; that rationalization
has kicked in and taken over, akin to explaining emotions like love
and anger in terms of chemicals and neural transmitters.
For me to fully embrace a particular doctrine, to drink it in and
incorporate it, the light must come on in both my head and my heart.
I realize this is probably yet another handicap I have to deal with
in my humanness. If my soul was more advanced, I suppose my faith might
mirror more perfectly that of others who not only embrace the doctrine,
but have made it the litmus test of the true Christian faith.
So, what it really boils down to on the doctrine is that I've
not really made up mind. I'm still waiting for clearness. If it
causes me the loss of right relationship with God and to lose out
on salvation, then I guess you won't be hearing from me again after
this earthly life. No great loss.
Jesus is Sovereign.
Richard
|
9.1165 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Wed Apr 27 1994 16:47 | 5 |
| Re: .1164
Thank you for sharing that, Richard.
Collis
|
9.1166 | Agreement? | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Thu Apr 28 1994 02:59 | 20 |
| Re: .1153 Collis.
Hi Collis!
The facts as you stated them would never get my agreement, simply (and
only) because I would never be so presumptious as to summatize another
person's belief system as simply as you did.
My issue, however, was not (and cannot be) whether or not I agree with
you on this point. It was your statement that I (we all) would agree.
If you has stated: "I think that there will be wide agreement..." or
"Are we in general agreement that...?", I would have had no bones to
pick.
I am sure that you did not intend it as arrogantly as it came across
to me. My reaction was, therefore, probably too sharp. If so, I
apologize. I am, futher, sure that there will be thing upon which we
would agree: we just haven't found them yet.
Greetings, Derek
|
9.1167 | Is God even exclusively rational? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Thu Apr 28 1994 08:03 | 25 |
| re Note 9.1166 by VNABRW::BUTTON:
> The facts as you stated them would never get my agreement, simply (and
> only) because I would never be so presumptious as to summatize another
> person's belief system as simply as you did.
Derek,
Most of what passes for rational discourse (in this or any
other forum, on these topics or any other) is actually
rhetoric. (I am not addressing this to Collis or anyone else
in particular: it is a general observation, and applies to
myself as well.)
It is a common rhetorical approach to claim as much as one
can get away with in the process of making the argument. We
all do it. Preachers and demagogues do it. We rarely claim
merely what can be rigorously proven.
I despair that human beings can really engage in totally
logical argument -- after all, we are not totally rational
beings, thus to be totally rational would be "against human
nature"!
Bob
|
9.1168 | Thanks, Bob. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Thu Apr 28 1994 08:25 | 9 |
| re: .1167 Bob
>rhetorical practice... declare as much as one can get away with...
Point taken, Bob. That's why I drew my particular line: This far and
no further. I'm not mean and I enjoy a good discussion. It can even be
fun when the dirt hits the fan occasionally. But there are limits.
Greetings, Derek
|
9.1169 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Thu Apr 28 1994 17:01 | 8 |
| Well, I sure thought we could agree on those things.
It turns out that maybe we do agree on them - but
that Derek doesn't wish to necessarily agree with
anything. :-) At least, that's how I've processed
what he's said.
Collis
|
9.1170 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Power Ranger | Thu Apr 28 1994 22:50 | 14 |
| Note 9.1169
> At least, that's how I've processed
> what he's said.
An excellent demonstration on how two (or more) people can read the
same thing and yet process it very differently.
Perhaps the Holy Spirit doesn't aid us with Notes like it's supposed
to with other materials.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1171 | sad! | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Fri Apr 29 1994 04:27 | 13 |
|
Re: .1169 Collis
I thought that I had presented you with a rare opportunity to make a
retraction. What I wrote was neither scriptural nor theological dogma,
so a retraction by you would not have been a sin. :-). In my previous
reply, I offered an apology for the sharpness of my original reaction.
You apparently decline to accept it.
Sad! I would be sincerely happy if we could find a piece of ground where
we both could lie down with the lions in peace.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1172 | Didn't know where else to put this! | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Apr 29 1994 13:25 | 15 |
| O' to grace how great a debtor
daily I'm constrained to be
have they goodness like a fetter
bind my wondering heart to thee
Prone to wander
Lord I feel it
Prone to leave the God I love
Here's my heart oh take and seal it
seal it to thy court's above!
Man that song wells up sumpin fierce in my soul...
Just had to sing it... :-)
|
9.1173 | | PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON | Live freed or live a slave to sin | Fri Apr 29 1994 13:40 | 20 |
| Well, I'm not looking to retract, but I'll happily
modify Richard's position in light of what he has
since shared.
You viewed what I wrote as summarying a person's belief
system. I viewed it as restating beliefs. You are quite
right in thinking that a belief system is much more than
1 or 2 beliefs. However, I never said that these facts
constituted a belief system (nor do I think that they do).
It puzzles me. What facts about beliefs can we agree upon
that won't hit the same objection that it is (apparently)
improper from your point of view? I don't see any - and
thus think your objection is not a good one.
It makes no sense to me why we can't agree that certain
people believe certain things. But then again, perhaps
this isn't really the issue you are objecting to?
Collis
|
9.1174 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Power Ranger | Fri Apr 29 1994 18:03 | 9 |
| In .1166, Derek was stating his autonomy, in effect saying, "Don't
put that blanket over my head. With regards to this issue, it would
be a lie for me to be included there."
That's how I processed it. But then, of course, I'm not a terribly
perceptive person. I may have missed the mark.
Richard
|
9.1175 | Moved to appropriate topic | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Peace Power Ranger | Mon May 02 1994 17:58 | 5 |
| 9.1175 and 9.1196 have been move to 864.4 and 864.5.
Richard Jones-Christie
Co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
|
9.1176 | Moved to appropriate topic | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Copernicus 3:16 | Mon May 09 1994 17:25 | 5 |
| 9.1176 through 9.1178 have been move to Note 91.3623: Christianity and Gays
Richard Jones-Christie
Co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
|
9.1177 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Be there | Fri May 13 1994 10:28 | 23 |
|
RE: <<< Note 732.116 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking Pacifist" >>>
-< Do you really desire to understand? >-
>Mike,
> If you're truly interested in a dialogue, I suggest that statements
>such as that which appears above are counterproductive.
> It clear that the propaganda you've gotten a hold of is biased
>and intended to weaken and crush some of the basic tenets held by Jehovah's
>Witnesses
Based on the above, how would you categorize the material you posted in
topic 908, and what if any differences are there between what Mike posted
and what you posted in 908?
Jim
|
9.1178 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking Pacifist | Fri May 13 1994 13:30 | 27 |
| Note 9.1177
>RE: <<< Note 732.116 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking Pacifist" >>>
-< Do you really desire to understand? >-
>Based on the above, how would you categorize the material you posted in
>topic 908, and what if any differences are there between what Mike posted
>and what you posted in 908?
Jim,
I regret that this somehow managed to evade you and others. Mike
asked for clarification. His was a solicitation for opposing viewpoints.
In 732.116, I asked Mike about the sincerity of his request and suggested
that the material he presented was less than conducive to an unhindered
exchange.
I presented material in 908 from the book, "Fundamentalism: Hazards
and Heartbreaks," providing viewpoints opposing the fundamentalist mindset
and did *not* solicit clarification from fundamentalists. Of course,
fundamentalists were free to respond.
I might add that the material used from the book in 908 was neither
disrespectful nor malicious in its assertions.
Richard
|
9.1179 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri May 13 1994 14:55 | 3 |
| -1
not disrespectful or malice??? In Your Opinion, perhaps.
|
9.1180 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking Pacifist | Fri May 13 1994 15:02 | 6 |
| .1179 Well, I just scanned my quotes from the book in 908 again,
and yes, in my opinion the quotes are neither disrespectful nor
malicious. And I doubt that that is solely my opinion.
Richard
|
9.1181 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Be there | Fri May 13 1994 15:12 | 28 |
| re .908
Are you saying then, that the topic in 908 is not intended to weaken
and crush the tenets held by "fundamentalist Christians" and is not biased,
which seems to be your point regarding Mike's posting?
-< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 732.116 Jehovah's Witnesses 116 of 129
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking Pacifist" 16 lines 12-MAY-1994 15:09
-< Do you really desire to understand? >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Mike,
If you're truly interested in a dialogue, I suggest that statements
such as that which appears above are counterproductive.
It clear that the propaganda you've gotten a hold of is biased
and intended to weaken and crush some of the basic tenets held by Jehovah's
Witnesses.
Richard
|
9.1182 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking Pacifist | Fri May 13 1994 15:22 | 15 |
| Note 9.1181
> Are you saying then, that the topic in 908 is not intended to weaken
> and crush the tenets held by "fundamentalist Christians" and is not biased,
> which seems to be your point regarding Mike's posting?
No, that was *not* my point regarding Mike's posting.
How can I make this any clearer to you than I did in 9.1178?
I have no problem with presenting opposing viewpoints here. You certainly
haven't been prevented from expressing yours.
Richard
|
9.1183 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Fri May 13 1994 16:18 | 4 |
| Actually, the replies in the processing note by the "fundamentalists"
have given me more insight then the parts quoted from the book!
Marc H.
|
9.1184 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue May 24 1994 12:30 | 28 |
| Greg,
> I've been out of town (for what seems like forever) again. I spent a
> couple of hours yesterday and some time this a.m. wading through the
> 130+ notes added to this string in the last couple of weeks. I came to
> a conclusion:
> Nothing whatsoever has been gained, **by anybody**, through the supposed
> conversation had in this note. It's a waste of time.
Greg,
It sounds like you may have wasted a few hours but it is pretty
presumptious of you to state that "Nothing whatsoever has been gained
by anybody through the conversion." I would prefer you speak for
yourself and not for everybody.
I gained quite a bit from the conversation. I gained a better understanding
of what it means for my brothers who are Gay and Christian. I
have gained a better understanding of how deep the gulf is among
Christians on this issue. I have gained a deeper understanding of how
real and deep the lack of acceptance of gay and lesbians is. I have
gained an increased commitment for myself to be an advocate for Gay,
Lesbian and Bisexual rights.
Those are all significant gains for me.
Patricia.
|
9.1185 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue May 24 1994 12:36 | 5 |
| RE: .1184
I had just the opposite result.
Marc H.
|
9.1186 | On topic 91 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue May 24 1994 13:55 | 9 |
| .1185
Throughout your time noting here, have you always had that same
feeling about that particular string, Marc? Or is this something
more recent?
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1187 | I've moved all around | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue May 24 1994 14:26 | 20 |
| RE: .1186
Richard,
To tell you the truth, in the beginning I found myself moving more
and more away from my previous ( before C-P) position...I.E. starting
to accept homosexual behavior/life style/etc. as just another dimension
to being a human. Later on, I found myself moving back to the more
"conservative" view of out right rejection of homosexuals.
Maybe the earlier replies were more "balanced" or something, but the
mid to late section has been much more "agressive" and confrontational.
At first, we could talk as people, almost face to face. Lately, its
just one challenge after another...picking notes apart sentence by
sentence.
For me, the quiet, steady method works.
By the way, a was an anti-gun person a couple of years ago....since
then I have reformed, and the method was a "notes file". So, people
can change.....
Marc H.
|
9.1188 | | POBOX::DIERCKS | Not every celebration is a party! | Tue May 24 1994 17:44 | 7 |
|
You're correct -- I stated my feelings rather poorly. I apologize for
that. For me, it was a waste of time. But then, as a Gay Christian,
I'm tired of doing battle here.
Greg
|
9.1189 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue May 24 1994 17:49 | 7 |
| Greg,
I can understand that. Sometimes I speak in generalities too and
represent more than just my own opinion. I am sorry that you have to
do battle here.
Patricia
|
9.1190 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue May 24 1994 21:29 | 13 |
| I can appreciate your feelings, Greg.
I, too, have experienced 'battle fatigue' at times. I use the martial
expression metaphorically, as I do not wish to cause my opponent's
suffering or demise.
Is it sometimes wise to distance oneself and pray, "Abba, forgive them..."
I know this prayer has been prayed by others on my behalf countless times.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1191 | from a different perspective | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Wed May 25 1994 09:39 | 11 |
| re Note 9.1190 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> Is it sometimes wise to distance oneself and pray, "Abba, forgive them..."
This is perhaps one instance in which we *shouldn't* pray
just as Jesus prayed.
We perhaps should pray instead: "Father, forgive them, and
me, for they, and I, know not what we do."
Bob
|
9.1192 | foot washing | SOLVIT::HAECK | Debby Haeck | Wed May 25 1994 11:24 | 19 |
| This is what I saw when I flipped the page of my perpetual calendar
this morning:
Surely to wash on another's feet is to cleanse them completely in our
thoughts, and to find through the lowly but adventurous service of
love a means of helping them.
Kingdom of Love, p. 105
Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also
should wash one another's feet. I have set you an example that you
should do as I have done for you.
John 13:14-15 NIV
Which got me to wondering why this didn't become a sacrament, like the
Eucharist (Communion). In our church (Episcopal) we do feet washing on
Maundy Thursday, but that is the only day. And it is not considered a
sacrament.
Any thoughts?
|
9.1193 | serve others | RDGENG::YERKESS | bring me sunshine in your smile | Wed May 25 1994 12:12 | 23 |
|
re .1192
Debby,
Sorry but not being Episcopal I can't answer your question. But you did
say, any thoughts?.
Jesus wasn't saying that one should literally wash each others feet, but
that they should show humility, ready to take the lead and *serve* the other.
In Jewish society at the time it was important to have prominence, and this
rubbed of onto Jesus' disciples as they often would argue who was the greatest
among them. However, they all recognised Jesus as their master, hence Jesus
washing their feet was an excellent way of Jesus showing the need for those
taking the lead to serve the others rather than "lord it over them" as was the
case with the Pharisees and their flock.
So it's not so much the washing of feet that should be copied, but that of
learning the lesson that Jesus taught and making application of it in every
day life.
Phil.
|
9.1194 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Wed May 25 1994 15:19 | 7 |
| .1191 :-}
Agreed. As certain as I sound here sometimes, there's always within
me a nagging question: Could I be wrong about this?
Richard
|
9.1195 | | DPDMAI::DAWSON | I've seen better times | Fri Jun 03 1994 13:29 | 14 |
|
Well folks, this is my last day so I'll say so-long! :-) I already
have two kob offers one of which I'll have internet access so maybe
you all will be hearing from me again...at any rate...Good bye.
I do wish this file well but I think all here are going to have to be a
lot more accepting than they have been in the past. I am not speaking
of changing your beliefs but understanding that others might have
different beliefs and respecting their right to have them without anger
and guilt trips. Good luck.
Dave
|
9.1196 | Words escape me | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Fri Jun 03 1994 13:33 | 4 |
| Farewell, friend. Farewell!
Richard
|
9.1197 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Be there | Fri Jun 03 1994 13:39 | 3 |
|
Best of luck, Dave..
|
9.1198 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jun 03 1994 13:54 | 5 |
| Good Bye, Dave.
I will miss you.
Patricia
|
9.1199 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jun 03 1994 14:28 | 5 |
| Dave, it sounds like God had opened doors in both directions for you.
Praise Him for his faithfulness.
You will be missed,
Nancy
|
9.1200 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Be there | Fri Jun 03 1994 14:33 | 4 |
|
The processing snarf
|
9.1201 | bye | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Fri Jun 03 1994 15:56 | 5 |
| Dave, you'll be greatly missed!
Farewell, and continue to walk with the Lord!
Bob
|
9.1202 | A call for cessation | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Fri Jun 03 1994 19:06 | 11 |
| I request Glen and Nancy to take their opposing viewpoints offline.
It's obvious that you two are irresistably irritated by each other's entries.
As a casual observer, I think I can safely say that neither of you are
"winning," nor are you gaining the respect of the readership by continuing
to poke and probe at each other.
Richard
(temporarily filling in for Marc H.)
|
9.1203 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sat Jun 04 1994 13:16 | 3 |
| Just one question... cessation? :-)
Is that the fizz in my pepsi?
|
9.1204 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Sun Jun 05 1994 10:33 | 7 |
| re Note 9.1203 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> Just one question... cessation? :-)
>
> Is that the fizz in my pepsi?
???
|
9.1205 | Need more than just the Bible sometimes | HURON::MYERS | | Sun Jun 05 1994 12:50 | 9 |
| re Note 9.1203 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> Just one question... cessation? :-)
>
> Is that the fizz in my pepsi?
Where would you like me to send the dictionary?
Eric (only half joking)
|
9.1206 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sun Jun 05 1994 22:53 | 4 |
| I like the way the word sounds when you pronounce it...
cessssssssssss ation :-)
Sounds fizzy to me.
|
9.1207 | Richard is Right | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Mon Jun 06 1994 11:34 | 6 |
| RE: .1202
Correct Richard. I'm back from a short vacation, and after reading
the Glen/Nancy exchange, clearly the discussion hurts both sides.
Marc H.
|
9.1208 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Jun 07 1994 01:00 | 4 |
| .1207 Welcome back, Marc. I gladly return to you your hat. ;-}
Richard
|
9.1209 | | JUPITR::HILDEBRANT | I'm the NRA | Tue Jun 07 1994 10:30 | 5 |
| Re: .1208
Thanks......hat back on.
Marc H.
|
9.1210 | Side conversations | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Thu Jun 09 1994 20:17 | 5 |
| 932.64 seems like the kind of question which might be better asked
offline or, at least, in the appropriate notesfile.
Richard
|
9.1211 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jun 10 1994 13:14 | 8 |
| I do believe it was this notesfile from which the discussion began...
and it is very relevant to the discussion at hand. When noting on
subjects such as these, it is good to know the background of the
personw with whom you are noting... something about them that clicks
and says, "Oh, now I understand." That is why I believe we have an
introduction note?
Your sensitivity is noted.
|
9.1212 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Fri Jun 10 1994 14:14 | 8 |
| Well, asking things like, "Aren't you the one who said such and such a
while back in this or another conference?" seems like clutter to me.
But as long as introductions were brought up, allow me to invite Jim
(SLBLUZ::DABLER "Is it 1996 yet?") to introduce himself in Topic 3.
Richard
|
9.1213 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sat Jun 11 1994 12:06 | 25 |
| Richard,
I noticed that you are following me around this conference again
nitpicking my notes in .933. Is because Dave is gone you feel more free
to antagonize me?
I'm putting this out here right in the open. I told Dave that with him
gone, that I wouldn't last in this conference because you guys would do
exactly what Richard you are currently attempting.
I just got out of .933 and saw your, "Don't you think it's rather.."
note and I thought to myself, "Don't you think it's rather obsessive to
continue this with me? I am having a discussion with someone else, not
you, if you wish to talk with me about something, then talk to me, but
why interrupt the flow of a discussion that has no antagonism
whatsoever and attempt to stir some up.
And FWIW, Absolute Morality was in reference to God, Jehovah and the
Bible... although, I detest the fact that I have to explain this to
you.
BTW, I didn't read any notes after yours before coming into this topic.
|
9.1214 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Sat Jun 11 1994 18:05 | 14 |
| I take it you are saying in .1213, in so many words, "Get off my back,
Richard." It sounds like you're almost accusing me of persecuting you
or harassing you.
I don't see it that way. I tend to comment after entries which are of
some interest to me or catch my attention. Isn't that pretty much how
it works for everyone?
I regret Dave is gone, but I also regret that he was apparently something
of a crutch for you in this conference.
Shalom in Jesus,
Richard
|
9.1215 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Sat Jun 11 1994 19:50 | 3 |
| .1214
Not a crutch, just a balance.
|
9.1216 | Like Richard I reply to what catches my eye | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Jun 13 1994 10:25 | 8 |
|
Nancy, you're claiming the victim again. Maybe ya should stop reading
attack in others notes and just read the note itself.
Glen-who-is-not-following-you
|
9.1217 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jun 13 1994 15:26 | 1 |
| Well, it's apparent that antagonism runs rampant in this file then.
|
9.1218 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Mon Jun 13 1994 17:59 | 5 |
| There are less antagonistic files, I suppose. Of course, the price
is likely to be increased censorship.
Richard
|
9.1219 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 14 1994 01:26 | 5 |
| Ohhh, ooooh, here we go with the battle of the conferences again.
:-) :-) This really is hilarious..
|
9.1220 | This is funny, eh? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Jun 14 1994 11:28 | 8 |
| It's funny (odd). The people who complain the most about how awful and
unfriendly C-P is, seem to me to be the same ones who rarely or never
say anything positive about the file.
I'm not so amused. :-{ :-{
Richard
|
9.1221 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 14 1994 13:46 | 8 |
| Richard,
It's hard to be positive, with negativity nippin at your heels in an
unpredictable fashion.
I truly wish it were different.
|
9.1222 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jun 14 1994 14:39 | 4 |
| There is negativity in this conference, but I have seen very
little lack of predictability in here.
Patricia
|
9.1223 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 14 1994 14:42 | 3 |
| .1222
Thank you.
|
9.1224 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Pacifist Hellcat | Tue Jun 14 1994 20:03 | 8 |
| I wish things were other than they are, also. However, as long as
I as truly care about having others hear me, I'll not label an entire
conference filled with individuals of diverse backgrounds, experiences,
loyalties, pre-suppositions, communication skills, stages of spiritual growth,
and a bevy of other variables, in exclusively negative terms.
Richard
|
9.1225 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Wed Jun 15 1994 10:42 | 27 |
| Richard,
I hope you do not feel that I have labelled this whole conference in
negative terms. I am continuing to learn the value of the interchange
in this conference even when the interchange is not pleasant.
The negativity in this conference can speak to the negativity that is
within me and help me to comprehend how I at times project my own
negativity onto others.
THe negativity has promoted some gut wrenching exchanges that help me
and hopefully others understand the complexity of moral delemma's that
we encounter in our lifes.
A lot of the negativity and heated exchange has been regarding Gay,
Lesbian, and Bisexuality. I hope and pray that everyone of us, gay and
straight have learned something from that interchange. I have learned
that it is a complex issue that all people of faith must wrestle with.
None of us can ignore the delemma.
I guess I ultimately believe that any honest exchange of views is
better than no exchange of views. Nobody grows from leaving a
difficult issue undiscussed.
Shalom,
Patricia
|
9.1226 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Wed Jun 15 1994 14:07 | 18 |
| .1225 Not at all. I expect, and actually welcome, negative
criticism. I also expect, and welcome even more, favorable
comments regarding CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
Marc Hildebrandt, Alfred Thompson, and even Collis Jackson
could hand out both.
Others, perhaps more reform-minded, enter the file with a mission to
straighten out the wayward ones among us; to fix us; to bring us in
line with their particular orthodoxy (brand of Christianity). If not
wholly successful, the reformers often 'shake the dust from their
sandals' and cerebrally distance themselves by refering to
CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE as "this file," as if it were an unclean or
disgusting thing.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1227 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jun 15 1994 14:21 | 3 |
|
But they always come back for more... :-)
|
9.1228 | signing out | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Jun 15 1994 14:24 | 24 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1227 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
> But they always come back for more... :-)
Not this reformer...
I've been outta here before, and now I'm outta here again.
have fun
Jim
|
9.1229 | | HURON::MYERS | | Sun Jun 19 1994 12:25 | 34 |
| re 91.4061 -- Jim Kirk
> *sigh*,. Geez, Nancy these sound kind of like "fighting words" to me.
> Again, I did not mentaion any single person ion my musin, yet you seem
> to take it quite personally. I find that interesting.
Jim,
I have observed that, generally speaking, the extreme right-wing
fundamentalist is unable to separate criticism of the theology from
criticism of the individual. This is ironic since it is this camp who
most often throws out the "love the sinner, hate the sin" sound bite
after making disparaging remarks about other people's behavior.
In my experience, this "born again" group is generally made up of the
once down and out: the one-time substance abuser, the victim of child
abuse, the person who has lost all (family, money, home). The Bible, or
I should say a particular view of the Bible, gives them the means to
rationalize their past and the strength to go on. For another person
the criticize or even question that view, is to rock the very
foundations of their raison d'�tre. It is a view of absolutes and
extremes; with us or agin' us, grace of God or eternal damnation, the
literal inerrant word of God or a meaningless dime novel.
By and large discussion of theology and philosophy is painful and
fruitless and I have given up for some time now. I would get too angry
and later regret my words. I see this in Richard some times (no
offense, my friend.)
Although I shouldn't have to say it, this is all just my opinion based
on personal experience. If I'm wrong in my generalities, then fine. I
am not wrong, however, in what I have experienced.
Eric
|
9.1230 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Sun Jun 19 1994 16:27 | 13 |
|
..and my experience has shown me that God accepts all who come to him
even with a partially impure motive. I to have seen those that you
describe. I have also seen God take the drug addict loser and turn him
into a fine person. Those who know they are broken and lost souls are
deemed by others to be weaklings, perhaps God, who can see into the
future, can see the clay after he is done molding it. He also probably
knows that some clay is to high in its own estimation to be molded at
all......
David
|
9.1231 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jun 20 1994 20:26 | 15 |
| Eric,
It's the age old question of submission. The reason that we have
abusive males is lack of submission to God [imho]. The role model of
the male in the Bible is not one of tyranny, but of agape. If a man
is truly surrendered to the Lord, he will not abuse usurp authority
over his wife in this fashion.
We all choose to whom we submit, all of us. I choose the Bible and
believe it to be right... God gives you the right to not choose the
Bible as well... So, if you choose Jesus, but you don't choose the
Bible... well, I'm told by those more scholarly then myself that this
does not stop one from having eternal life.
I find it conflicting... very conflicting... but that is me.
|
9.1232 | I question Man's ability, not God's power. | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Jun 21 1994 11:20 | 9 |
| re Note 9.1230 by COMET::DYBEN
My note was referring to how some people latch on to a particular
dogmatic view of the Bible. How they react to any alternate reading of
the Bible as an assault on them, and God himself. I wasn't questioning
God's ability to profoundly affect people's lives (which is what I
think your note addressed).
Eric
|
9.1233 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jun 21 1994 11:54 | 21 |
| Actually God is the role model of the Male as potrayed in the Bible.
In the Old testament in Issiah, Jeremiah, Hosea, there are many
instances of the role model as being one of tyranny and abuse. In the
prophets , the disobedient Israel is potrayed as a disobedient wife and God
punishes this disobedient wife by abandoning her, abusing her, killing
her children, allowing her to be raped. When this disobedient wife has
been punished enough, God is potrayed as forgiving her and accepting
her back and displaying love for her. Many feminists believe this
potrayal of God in the prophets provides divine justification for Abuse
of women and children.
Going into the new testament, Paul borrows extensively from Isaiah and
Jeremiah. His treatment of women, while certainly chauvanistic is not
quite as bad as in the OT.
Paul relies heavily on the figure of Abraham. Questions regarding the
Abraham story thus also become questions relevent to understanding
Paul.
Patricia
|
9.1234 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Jun 21 1994 11:59 | 3 |
| >Issiah
Isaiah.
|
9.1235 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 21 1994 12:52 | 3 |
| .1233
Do you ever do anything without your "I am woman" badge?
|
9.1236 | random questions | SOLVIT::HAECK | Debby Haeck | Tue Jun 21 1994 13:55 | 13 |
| I vaguely remember hearing once that Paul, when measured by the
standards of his day, was actually pro-women. That he permitted and
encouraged participation of women in the church far more than was
normal for that period. This is NOT the feeling I get from the
epistles, but I wonder if anyone more familiar with history might be
able to elaborate on this.
Also, we had a minister once who pointed out that Paul's epistles, read
in chronological order, show that he believed the second coming would
come in his lifetime, and that is at least part of why he preached
celibacy. And that as time went on, and it become clear that the end
wasn't that near after all, he changed his tune some. Again, can
anyone comment on this from a historical perspective?
|
9.1237 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jun 21 1994 14:01 | 36 |
| Nancy,
I am proud to be a feminist. I am proud of the work feminist
Theologians are doing. I would be proud to consider myself a feminist
theologian or Biblical Scholar someday.
The task of the feminist Biblical Scholar is to understand that the
Bible is completely Male dominated and then find ways to use the Bible
to affirm the humanity of both women and men.
I am proud of the work that I have done in analyzing and understanding
Paul. I can admire him in spite of his errors and in spite of his
chavanism. I have decided to move into the Old Testament and one of
the ways I am reading the OT is in light of Paul. It is fascinating to
read in Isaiah and Jeremiah the passages that Paul later edits and
quotes in his letters. It is fascinating how Paul modifies and uses
this material. Paul speaks right out of the prophetic tradition.
Isaiah and Jeremiah are hard books to read and be inspired by. Yes
there are some wonderfully inspiring passages, but most of the books is
God delivering punishment to his "wayward bride". One cannot understand
the prophetic books without confronting this metaphor. Isaiah and
Jeremiah like most of the books of the Bible contain allusions to the
Patriarch's and there wifes. The books are neatly tied together.
Feminist Theologians read the Bible with a "Hermeneutic of Suspicion"
A suspicion of the Male Bias within the book. For every story I read,
I ask the question, how would that story be told if the woman were
telling it. How would Lot's daughters tell the story. How would Sarah
tell the story. How would Hagar tell the story. Any one who has
studied literature learns to discuss the narrators point of view. How
would the stories change if we change the narrators. By the way, this
perspective denies that God is the narrator. God is revealed only
indirectly in the Biblical stories.
Patricia
|
9.1238 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jun 21 1994 14:16 | 45 |
| Debby,
I don't know whether Paul was more accepting or less accepting of women
than others. He certainly was less accepting than Jesus. In Paul's
letters there are examples of women Apostles and women deacons. Paul
worked side by side with women leaders Prilla being the most famous.
There is a big difference in the attitude toward women in the
undisputed letters of Paul and in the disputed letters. I believe that
the disputed letters were written after Paul's death. In Paul's
undisputed letters we see a charismatic kind of church. Life in Christ
and all that means is what is emphasized. In Christ there is not Male
or Female as is stated in Galatians. There are some liberating words
in Paul. The institutionalization of the church is reflected in the
psuedo Pauline letters.
The Hebrew religion excluded women almost completely from
participation. Much of the idolatry identified in the Old Testament is
about women participating in ritual in which women were invited to
participate. The women were "baking Cakes to the Queen of Heaven" as
emphasized by Jeremiah.
In Paul's time, the mystery religions were very popular. The mystery
religions had a very large participation by women particulary the Inana
cult.
Paul drew heavily upon the Old Testament. Some of the most offensive
words attributed to Paul, are believed by some scholars to have been
added when the letters were edited. Of the undisputed letters, 1
Corinthians is the most harsh to women telling women to be silient in
church and ask their husbands if they have a question. 1 Corinthian
also suggests that only men are created in the image of God and women
in the image of men. Some scholars believe that the statement for
women to be silient in church is an addition dating to the same time as
the book of timothy.
Timothy, a letter almost universally believed to
be written by someone other than Paul, is perhaps the worst of the
disputed letters.
I believe that Paul is a man of his time and definately had his biases.
I also believe that Paul is accused of being a lot more chavanistic
than he was.
Patricia
|
9.1239 | | SOLVIT::HAECK | Debby Haeck | Tue Jun 21 1994 18:19 | 4 |
| Thank you, Patricia. That was very enlightening.
+++
Debby
|
9.1240 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Tue Jun 21 1994 21:25 | 11 |
|
> The task of the feminsist Scholoar is to understand that te bible is
> completely male dominated
It's not a task its an inherant(sp) preconception that all feminsists
spout at every nauseating(sp) opportunity. Men are child molesting wife
beating testosterone drenched sexist pigs, or atleast I think thats in
feminist handbook of undeniable truths.....
David
|
9.1241 | but of course! | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Wed Jun 22 1994 02:23 | 14 |
| re Note 9.1240 by COMET::DYBEN:
> > The task of the feminsist Scholoar is to understand that te bible is
> > completely male dominated
>
> It's not a task its an inherant(sp) preconception that all feminsists
> spout at every nauseating(sp) opportunity.
I certainly don't think of myself as a feminist, but I find the claim that the
Bible is male-dominated to be patently obvious. I find it incredible that one
would think it were otherwise (unless, of course, one had some agenda that
would be disrupted by such a recognition).
Bob
|
9.1242 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jun 22 1994 23:58 | 1 |
| There is a difference between domination and leadership.
|
9.1243 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jun 24 1994 12:11 | 23 |
| Jill in her notes 938.71, 938.95, & 938.97 accuses me of being very
negative about men, displaying Hatred in my heart, and displaying
bigotry.
I find these comments offensive and I do not think they are true.
Perhaps that is a defensive reaction.
I appreciate the comments by Glen, Bob, and Jim K which I find very
supportive.
If any of you feel any of these accusations are true, I would
appreciate your pointing to the comments and how you hear them.
I am commited to a world where men and women are equal and in harmony
with each other. This is part of my vision of what it means to be a
feminist.
If my notes come across otherwise, I would like to
understand where and how.
Thanks
Patricia
|
9.1244 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jun 27 1994 14:03 | 17 |
| .1243
Perceptions are like fingerprints... :-)
I remember not too long ago saying that your perception on one of my
comments was incorrect... but you insisted on your truth, Patricia, not
mine.
It seems that perhaps, and I hope that you would learn that when
someone such as myself states that a perception is wrong, that you
would be more flexible in accepting the error.
I accept the fact that you believe in equality for all men and women,
albeit some of your notes *seem* to say differently.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.1245 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Jun 27 1994 14:05 | 6 |
| Nancy,
I am asking for specifics. In which notes do I appear bigoted and
filled with Hatred?
Patricia
|
9.1246 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jun 27 1994 14:39 | 13 |
| .1245
Patricia,
That will be addressed by Jill. I believe one person addressing this
is enough, don't you?
However, I had hoped that with this current situation, you would relax
your insistance on a perceived statement that was incorrect. I was
hoping that you could see commonality. Perhaps I hope for too much.
Sadly,
Nancy
|
9.1247 | | 25286::SCHULER | Greg - Acton, MA | Mon Jun 27 1994 15:08 | 9 |
| For the record (and as a man) - I'd like to say that I haven't
seen anything in any of Patricia's notes that even *hints* at
bigotry or hatred towards men.
I am completely baffled as to where this perception is coming from
and would like to echo Patricia's request for references and
clarification.
/Greg
|
9.1248 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Jun 27 1994 15:10 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 9.1246 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| That will be addressed by Jill. I believe one person addressing this is
| enough, don't you?
Then why did you jump into the middle of it, make a comment, and then
when Patricia asks for you to back your claim you write this stuff? If one
person addressing this is really enough, one would have thought you never would
have responded. You opened the can of worms Nancy, how about backing your
claims about Patricia? Is it that you can't? From reading her notes that would
be my guess.
| However, I had hoped that with this current situation, you would relax
| your insistance on a perceived statement that was incorrect. I was
| hoping that you could see commonality. Perhaps I hope for too much.
Perhaps you opened a new can of worms.
Glen
|
9.1249 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Jun 27 1994 15:22 | 45 |
| Nancy,
You don't give up, do you?
I was very specific about the statement. I weighed that statement
against other statements that you have made and your long standing
dispute with Glen. My perception there holds. Nancy, It's only my
perception. If it is not true then disregard it.
I personally don't care if someone continues to have a misperception of
me after I make an honest attempt to communicate my true feeling. If
they continue to have a misperception it is their issue and not mine.
I'm proud to be liberal, proud to be a Feminist, and proud to be a
liberal, feminist Christian. Some people in this conference are
offended by me because I am a liberal and a feminist. You are offended
if I call myself a Christian. Neither is my issue.
I do however care about my own stereotypical thinking and
communications and my noting. If I am truly communicating a negativity
or bigotry, I would like to understand where I am doing that so I can
change my behavoir. Paul is my guide to how I note. All things should
be for building up. Holding fast to one's principles is for the
building up and not tearing down. Exposing Idolatry for idolatry is
for building up and not tearing down. Exposing oppression for
oppression is for building up. I accept that you and I and everyone
else in here are all part of a holy community and responsible for each
other.
I am very interested in the emerging men's movement and its coexistence
with the women's movement. Men do have a legitimate gripe about a lot
of men bashing done by women. I do understand the frustration behind
many negative comments that women make, but I believe it is
unacceptable to bash women or men, gay or straight.
I also know there is a phenemonon of violence against women that is
epidemic in our society. To state that is not male
bashing. It is a fact in society. I believe that The Bible
particular when viewed as the "Innerrant Word of God" encourages
violence against women and encourages women to stay in abusive
relationships. This is sinful.
Patricia
|
9.1250 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Jun 27 1994 15:26 | 7 |
| Thank you Greg. Thank you Glen.
It is particularly important for me to get feedback from men in here
because you are the once who would know it and feel it if I were saying
something offensive.
Patricia
|
9.1251 | | 31224::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jun 27 1994 17:21 | 81 |
| > You don't give up, do you?
Not easily...
> I was very specific about the statement. I weighed that statement
> against other statements that you have made and your long standing
> dispute with Glen. My perception there holds. Nancy, It's only my
> perception. If it is not true then disregard it.
You were specific and wrong....
> I personally don't care if someone continues to have a misperception of
> me after I make an honest attempt to communicate my true feeling. If
> they continue to have a misperception it is their issue and not mine.
The only point to make is that you are capable of misperception,
Patricia.. something that with me at least you are unwilling to
concede.
> I'm proud to be liberal, proud to be a Feminist, and proud to be a
> liberal, feminist Christian. Some people in this conference are
> offended by me because I am a liberal and a feminist. You are offended
> if I call myself a Christian. Neither is my issue.
You are correct I am offended that you would call yourself Christian.
The other two are inconsequential to me. As we've been over this
before, when Christ is not the only way for salvation, calling yourself
Christian is misleading.
> I do however care about my own stereotypical thinking and
> communications and my noting. If I am truly communicating a negativity
> or bigotry, I would like to understand where I am doing that so I can
> change my behavoir. Paul is my guide to how I note. All things should
Changing even towards me? Can you change your attitude towards me, can
you not make assumptions about my notes? Can you ask if you are making
an assumption instead of accusing one?
> be for building up. Holding fast to one's principles is for the
> building up and not tearing down. Exposing Idolatry for idolatry is
> for building up and not tearing down. Exposing oppression for
> oppression is for building up. I accept that you and I and everyone
> else in here are all part of a holy community and responsible for each
> other.
Tearing down the Word of God is for building up?????????
We do differ greatly don't we?
> I am very interested in the emerging men's movement and its coexistence
> with the women's movement. Men do have a legitimate gripe about a lot
> of men bashing done by women. I do understand the frustration behind
> many negative comments that women make, but I believe it is
> unacceptable to bash women or men, gay or straight.
I agree with you...
> I also know there is a phenemonon of violence against women that is
> epidemic in our society. To state that is not male
> bashing. It is a fact in society. I believe that The Bible
> particular when viewed as the "Innerrant Word of God" encourages
> violence against women and encourages women to stay in abusive
> relationships. This is sinful.
It is sinful to view the Bible this way... agreed. I see nowhere in
God's word where it is okay to harm a woman... nowhere. If you see it,
you are truly straining or taking things out of context, imho. I've
read the Bible from cover to cover, no I haven't memorized it... but
this tearing down of the Bible, is not building up imo.
You can justify your position all you want Patricia... but the fact is
God's love does not condone nor does the Bible condone the mistreatment
of women. Men are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and
gave Himself for it.
To say anything less then this, is blasphemy against God.
Imo,
Nancy
|
9.1253 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Mon Jun 27 1994 17:35 | 27 |
| re Note 9.1251 by 31224::MORALES_NA:
> > I also know there is a phenemonon of violence against women that is
> > epidemic in our society. To state that is not male
> > bashing. It is a fact in society. I believe that The Bible
> > particular when viewed as the "Innerrant Word of God" encourages
> > violence against women and encourages women to stay in abusive
> > relationships. This is sinful.
>
> It is sinful to view the Bible this way... agreed. I see nowhere in
> God's word where it is okay to harm a woman... nowhere. If you see it,
> you are truly straining or taking things out of context, imho. I've
> read the Bible from cover to cover, no I haven't memorized it... but
> this tearing down of the Bible, is not building up imo.
We *clearly* have an impasse here -- Patricia reads a text,
and sees how others have read it, and concludes one thing,
and Nancy reads the same text and concludes the opposite.
Could I ask both of you to please refrain from simply
reiterating these positions? You have both stated your cases
as clearly as I suspect either of you can, we hear you.
Not all differences of opinion -- including differences of
interpretation -- can be resolved.
Bob
|
9.1254 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Jun 27 1994 17:41 | 28 |
| Nancy,
Are these facts or assumptions?
1. You have stated your belief that the homosexual act is an
abomination.
2. You have stated that effeminate men make you naseus.
3. You have posted a memo in here about a rumor that Hilary may be a
Lesbian.
4. You have continue a long standing dispute with Glen in here.
5. You have continually refused to answer Glen's request for
clarifications around some of these issues.
Nancy, I do try to accept you as you are. There are lots of things
that I admire you for. Your affirmation and acceptance of Gay and
Lesbians is not one of them. I am not dealing with assumptions. I am
dealing with the facts as noted above. I am more than willing to let
drop the discussion around just one of those items. You keep bringing
it up asking me to change my opinion. My opinion stated was not about
you. It was about a rumor that your reposted in here which I believe
is homophobic. Period. Keep bringing it up all you like.
Patricia
|
9.1272 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jun 27 1994 18:14 | 63 |
| Are these facts or assumptions?
Some are facts, some are assumptions.
>1. You have stated your belief that the homosexual act is an
>abomination.
I have stated the Bible calls the act an abomination and I believe in
the Bible. To balance this, I have also stated that God loves
homosexuals as well as he does anyone else... AND that I'm teaching my
children to not be prejudicial against anyone... which is my value
system.
>2. You have stated that effeminate men make you naseus.
A tad exageration of my own... I do not like being around effeminate
men, it is offensive to me. Not fearful of them nor do I hate them...
I just don't like it. There are exceptions to every rule, you know.
For example, my cousin [by marriage] who is both gay and effeminate is
an exception, we get along very well.
>3. You have posted a memo in here about a rumor that Hilary may be a
>Lesbian.
Fact.. but in context, it was example of something, not a malicious
desire to spread a rumour.
4. You have continue a long standing dispute with Glen in here.
Wrong.. Glen and I only began bumping heads seriously a few months ago.
I have many times come to Glen's defense in other conferences. I love
Glen through Christ and while we may go at it, I hope deep in his heart
he remembers that I do care.
>5. You have continually refused to answer Glen's request for
>clarifications around some of these issues.
Wrong... after two years of noting I believe that my position speaks
for itself, I am unwilling to go into a time sink hole around it.
>Nancy, I do try to accept you as you are. There are lots of things
>that I admire you for. Your affirmation and acceptance of Gay and
>Lesbians is not one of them. I am not dealing with assumptions. I am
>dealing with the facts as noted above. I am more than willing to let
>drop the discussion around just one of those items. You keep bringing
>it up asking me to change my opinion. My opinion stated was not about
>you. It was about a rumor that your reposted in here which I believe
>is homophobic. Period. Keep bringing it up all you like.
So, as I read this you didn't mean to call me homophobic, but that the
rumour itself is homophobic????
Well, now that's a whole different ball of wax... cause I'd agree with
that.
Nancy
Patricia
|
9.1271 | mod action | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Tue Jun 28 1994 01:25 | 4 |
| I moved the recent discussion sparked by a non-US participant asking
about "liberals" to Topic 388.
Bob
|
9.1273 | for clarity | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Jun 28 1994 09:44 | 11 |
| re: Note 9.1272 by NANCY "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> A tad exageration of my own...
How can we tell when you're stating what you really believe and when you're
exaggerating? Perhaps something similar to the ubiquitous "smily face"?
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1274 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 28 1994 12:16 | 8 |
| .1273
It's not something I do often... I know that not much grace is given me
in here... but considering what my physical health has been like over
the last 8 months, Praise God I didn't do worse.
:-(
Nancy
|
9.1275 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Tue Jun 28 1994 12:54 | 5 |
| She's always being picked on, even though she never picks on anyone else.
C'mon, guys! Have a little charity and respect!
|
9.1276 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 28 1994 14:11 | 5 |
| .1275
Humorous, kind and loving comments...
Thanks Richard.
|
9.1277 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jun 28 1994 14:30 | 6 |
|
Richard, sort of a "victim" scenerio would you say?
|
9.1278 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jun 28 1994 14:47 | 11 |
| .1277
Glen,
The same goes for you... though we have very different views, I still
care and value you. I pray that you enjoy an enriching, joyful and
peaceful life.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.1279 | Perception check... | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Thu Jun 30 1994 19:20 | 41 |
|
I decided to put this note in just so people know that it didn't get
dropped. I decided this issue with my perception of Patricia's
comments was getting way too volatile, so I took it off line and
sent her mail. In hindsight, perhaps I should have voiced my
perceptions offline. Although, I don't think that would have kept
her from being upset. Sometimes that's unavoidable. Sorry that you
felt unjustly treated Patricia. I think Nancy's point was, haven't
you done the same thing stating your perceptions about me. What's
the difference? Sometimes and I'd say this has happened with most
of us we express our perceptions about someone. I mean for most of us
we've noted together for 2 years plus. And while we're not all
friends, there is respect on some level for everyone. If we really
have the openness that we claim, someone should be able to say "I see
this in you." Now...none of us always like what others see in us.
But if we're going to be honest with each other that includes good
and bad traits. I've learned more about myself from what others say
they see. I don't always agree with it, but it makes me analyze myself
closer and hopefully honestly. We are all adults and while we might
get angry for a time, we should be able to process the comments and
decide if it has or doesn't have merit. I'm sure there are times
when it's more appropriate to tell someone something offline and I
guess each of us has to judge that for themselves.
I will state however that too many times others jump in and really
pound on one person or the other. Sometimes people jump in on their
own, other times a person asks for input. I think this is where things
start getting really volatile. Sides are taken, lines are drawn,
unhealthy rivalries continued, and sarcastic barbs harpooned at people.
I think it's important to remember that just because your hammering a
person doesn't mean they are going to change their perception or that
just because you disagree they are wrong. I'm talking to myself as
much as anyone here. All that this hammering does is stir up
hostilities. I think other comments are supportive (whether they
agree or disagree) because they just state whether they agree or not
and don't take on hostile tones.
What do you all think? Are we a healthy enough group to voice our
perceptions openly or should we take ALL such comments offline?
Jill
|
9.1280 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jun 30 1994 19:31 | 38 |
| Jill,
Voicing opinions about a person specifically can be touchy. For
instance, I've heard everything commented on me from homophobic to
incredibly perceptive :-), I can take it, but if I feel it is in error,
I want the ability to flesh it out and come to an agreement. Oftimes
this agreement is accepting that each perception is valid though that
doesnt necessary equal truth or as they say agree to disagree.
I think for the most part unless a person has been open about
themselves, that such comments are not fruitful in the public
environment.
Now for instance, I've said that I'm divorce, a victim of child abuse
and a born-again Christian. I've opened the door to discuss any of
those subjects, but hopefully without *attack*. But if attack occurs,
my choices are very few, respond or not respond. And if I choose to
respond, then my decision is to decide in what intonation.
We all get emotional about these subjects because, I believe, that our
spirituality cannot be separated from who we are as a whole individual.
If you attack my God, you've attacked me.
I've tried desperately to not be emotional about said notes and find
that my failure rate is too high. For this, I humbly apologize to said
reader/particpant population.
For me, even though I may respond emotionally, after the fact, I can
reason better. Also, I take none of this home with me, it doesn't
effect my personal life whatsoever. It enhances it, my friends are
rather intrigued and ask me often to let them read a sequence of
conversations.
But for the most part, my life is fulfilling. This conference and said
discussions are exactly that, this conference.
With love,
Nancy
|
9.1281 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Thu Jun 30 1994 19:54 | 8 |
| Yeah! *THIS* conference!
The one with the clique-ish moderators.
The one where they twist Scripture.
The one where they spew lies while bearing the name CHRISTian!
|
9.1282 | Not appreciated. | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Thu Jun 30 1994 19:59 | 6 |
|
Did you have a point Richard? Do you have anything productive to
add to help us process this issue? Or can we just expect you to
continue to pop up in notes with your **humor**?
Jill
|
9.1283 | Still unsure. | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:20 | 21 |
| Thanks Nancy for the response.
Yes, emotions do tend to run hot sometimes. I do try not to write in
anger. If I have to take a day or a week away, I've learned that is
better. Although, I do note in frustration at times. I guess we
wouldn't be a very active notesfile if we didn't. ;^)
Hmmm...I'm really torn. In some ways I feel working this offline would
have been better, but at the same time I felt the cumulative negativity
of the comments made at least in my perception warranted a rebuttal.
If the comments were public, why not the rebuttal? I've gone off line
at other times. Actually, thinking back I'm not sure either way is
very successful with some people and any way successful with others. I
do try to work issues I see with people who I think are reasonable and
have the maturity to handle it. There are those I wouldn't even bother
raising issues with because it's pointless. So I guess in some ways I
usually only risk rebutting those I respect. A point that I'm sure
does not help the receiver process what I've said any easier.
Jill
|
9.1284 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:20 | 12 |
| Yes, there's a point. The contempt and disdain in this conference
for this conference has been chronic since it's very inception.
Is there anything in .1281 you've not heard here before? Are you
not guilty of making similar such remarks within this conference
yourself?
Oh, we might reconcile for a while. But sooner or later, someone
on a mission, perhaps someone we've not even met yet, will come in
and it'll be .1281 all over again.
Richard
|
9.1285 | Kind of ironic... | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:28 | 10 |
|
So then you're point in doing this is why keep the peace if it's
eventually going to disintegrate anyway? I wish you were as much
of a pacifist in your noting as you strive to be with the rest
of your life. If there is to be peace, peace starts with a
conscious choice on the part of each one of us. If we hold on
to the past, there will never be peace.
Jill
|
9.1286 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:28 | 7 |
| .1284
FWIW, just for you Richard. That note could and does apply in *any*
conference in which I participate up to and including CHRISTIAN.
Sincerely,
Nancy
|
9.1287 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:34 | 17 |
| Jill,
For me the the key to successful noting is the ability to forgive.
Forgiveness has a lot to do with being able to have discussions that
though may run hot and near unforgiveable, but are reconciled
through looking in the mirror and seeing my own imperfections. This
allows for me to forgive others easily.
Life is too short and too much love is lacking in this world. May God
forgive my unforgiveness... though those situations have been few. I
mean my goodness, if I could forgive my father, there ain't nothing in
here that beats that!
:-)
Sincerely,
Nancy
|
9.1288 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:45 | 8 |
| Jill,
I'm open to reconciliation. And I'm of a mind that your desire
is sincere.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1289 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jun 30 1994 20:57 | 18 |
| Richard,
On reconciliation:
I don't believe this to be 100% possible. Our beliefs are too
different. But I do believe that while we may never be aligned, we
don't have to rude to each other. I think that forgiveness as I stated
in my previous memo is key to this. In other words, I don't hold
anything against you for your differing view...or perhaps insults.
This helps me to reconcile and accept you as who you are.
Does that mean we won't disagree?? No, but *how* we disagree can be
handled differently...
Can you see this?
Nancy
|
9.1290 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Thu Jun 30 1994 21:32 | 6 |
| It would be refreshing to me to simply experience an absence of the
sentiments echoed (mirrored) in .1281.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1291 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 00:44 | 17 |
| Richard,
I mean this with all due respect, but it would be refreshing to me to
not see the cynicism towards fundamental Christianity, as well.
Can't you relinquish the fact that your view isn't the only view? I
certainly can. If you wish to see the absence of such opinions, it
would then mean the absence of *your* opinion. :-) Can you see how
ridiculous this can become.
That is why reconciliation can only be as good as the intonation of the
words used in discussion.
I pray you see that and the mirror in which I am looking...
With love,
Nancy
|
9.1292 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Jul 01 1994 10:40 | 14 |
|
Nancy, something you should look at though is everyone has their view
of what Christianity is. If I, Richard, or anyone else has a different view on
Christianity and you disagreed with it, I'm sure we could live with it. It is
when you come right out and say we do not serve the same God that will always
cause the problems. I mean, when have we ever said that to you? You see, in
your note you talk about different opinions, but then it appears that those
opinions are really one sided. We have the opinions on Christianity and you
have the facts. The only one who is capable of having all the facts is God
Himself. We can all have beliefs, but only God can have the facts.
Glen
|
9.1293 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jul 01 1994 10:55 | 48 |
| Jill,
I have received no mail from you regarding you accusations against me.
I have no hostility toward you. I feel if you are going to say in your
notes that my notes display bigotry and a hatred toward men, you should
back those notes up with specifics.
Because you have not done that, I am left with the assumption that
because I am an outspoken feminist, that you think I hate men. I
believe that somehow you have the impression that all feminists hate
men. Without any other knowledge of why you feel about me the way you
do, that is the only conclusion I could draw.
I personally prefer that these issues be resolved in here so that we
can get feedback from others. I find that feedback invaluable. When
anyone says anything about me, I try to listen. I don't have to agree.
I asked for feedback from others to test my own perceptions. Many
Persons whose opinions I respect indicated that they saw nothing in my
notes to agree with your conclusions. I review some of my notes
particularly the notes on the Biblical view of women. I found one note
that I probably should have qualified. It discussed "White Men" during
the days of slavery in the U.S. feeling it appropriate to use female
slaves and asked whether the story of Abraham and Hagar provided
justification for abusing female slaves. It should have said "some
white men". A minor offense I believe. Other than that I could find
nothing that would cause you to draw your conclusions.
David Dyden has jumped in occasionally to the conversation with
adjectives such as asanine, pathetic, disgusting refering I believe to
all liberals. I not sure I find that feedback terribly helpful.
Nancy may also support your conclusion. I don't exactly recall right
now. She too has given no specific reason for the conclusion.
So Jill, I am reasonable comfortable, that you see something in my
noting that is not there. I don't hold that against you, I affirm your
right to believe what you want to believe. I don't need for you to
agree with me. I'm willing to let the whole thing drop. I'm also
willing to listen to specifics. I will be careful that my noting does
not reflect an anti male bias because I am personally committed to be
anti bigoted. If I am not doing that I appreciate someone pointing
that out.
Shalom
Patricia
|
9.1294 | Cynacism | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jul 01 1994 11:06 | 37 |
| Nancy
re 9.1291
"It would be refreshing to me to not see the cynicism towards
fundamental Christianity, as well"
As a result of noting in this conference I feel that fundamental
Christianity threatens some deeply held beliefs that I cherish. The
most important belief that it threatens is my belief in religious
freedom. The right and duty of each one of us to decide for ourselves
our own relationship with Goddess/God.
You have been vocal in here about your opposition to anyone who
worships differently than you calling themselves a Christian. You have
personally told me you are offended by my calling myself a Christian.
If you in support of your fundementalist Christianity hold believes that
are radically non accepting of the beliefs of others, how can you
expect others not to be cynical about fundamental Christianity?
If fundementalist Christianity espouses a relationship between Husbands
and Wife where the wife always makes meal time special and never offers
criticism to her husband, How can Feminists be anything but cynical of
fundemental Christianity.
If fundementalist Christianity take active steps to threaten the civil
rights of Gay and Lesbians, how can anyone who is Gay or Lesbian or
anyone who supports the rights of Gay and Lesbians not be cynical about
fundamental Christianity.
Fundamental Christians appear to me to be cynical about anyone and
everyone who does not agree with their beliefs. How can you as a
Fundamental Christian not expect that cynicism to be returned.
Patricia
|
9.1295 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 12:48 | 11 |
| Patricia,
The answer to your question is already located in .1291, I believe
around the 3rd paragraph.
Please let me know if you see it and how you feel about it... it is in
regards to reconciliation. Also, I would like your comments about
forgiveness, if you would.
Thanks,
Nancy
|
9.1296 | Perhaps this should be a topic of its own? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 13:08 | 8 |
| Two opposing paradigms:
1. Fundamentalist Christianity isn't *all* of Christianity.
2. If you're not a fundamentalist Christian, then you're not really
Christian at all.
|
9.1297 | internal pointer | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 13:14 | 5 |
| 9.1296 has been given its own topic. Note 945.0.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1298 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jul 01 1994 14:30 | 47 |
| Nancy,
I accept and respect you Nancy. You seem to be seriously and sincerely
struggling with some issue in here. I don't believe you would be
noting in here if you did not take the discussions seriously.
If by reconciliation, you mean that you accept that others in here may
define their own Faith differently than you do and you intent to
practice taking everyone's faith commitments as a serious expression of
who they are, then reconciliation is possible. If you continue to
lambast my faith, Richard's Faith, Glen's Faith, then no reconciliation
is possible.
I will totally accept you as who you are and I will accept your faith
as an expression of who you are as long as the expression of your Faith
does not criticize my own expression of Faith. I will defend and stand
up for the freedom of expression of my Faith as well as the freedom of
expression of anyone else's faith as long as those faith's do not put
others into jeopardy.
Based on my experience here, I do not think I can be reconciled to your
expression of Fundementalist Faith because I believe that part of the
very essence of that faith is the believe that opinions different than
it are evil. I cannot be reconciled to a faith that claims that which
I know to be beautiful and good is evil.
so yes, I can be reconciled to you as a person. I hold no ill feelings
toward you. I accept that both you and I have our shortcomings and as a
human being it is often easier to see the shortcomings of others than
it is to see my own shortcomings.
I cannot be reconciled to fundemental Christianity as it
has been expressed here. It defines as evil that which I know is good
and defines as good some expressions which I believe to be evil. It
allows for the victimization of Gays and lesbians, Women, Jews, Pagans
and other non Christians, and in the past People of Color. If you
cannot separate out my criticism of fundementalism from personal
criticism, then you most likely will continue to have real issues with
my noting. I don't like the possibility of disagreements, but I will
stand firm for my principles just as I know you will stand firm for
your principles.
I hope I have answered your question as seriously and truthfully as I
can.
Patricia
|
9.1299 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 14:38 | 21 |
| .1298
You did answer my question and proved my point... reconciliation is not
possible, but discussion with proper intonation can be reconciled. I
appreciate the tone of your note, but I do not appreciate your taking
this opportunity to once again list your agenda against fundamental
Christians.
I didn't use this opportunity to do so towards anti-Christian dogma.
I chose not to so that emotions could remain stable and perhaps gain a
foundation on which to note.
I am saddened and grieved by your note, Patricia. What it said to me
more then a statement of our differences, was that you will not cease
in your battle against that which I consider to be good. I also see
that while you are true to your noble cause, you condemn fundamental
Christians for being true to theirs.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.1300 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jul 01 1994 14:44 | 11 |
| I guess that your answer suggests that you are not serious in you
desire for reconciliation.
I do not have any agenda against persons practicing fundamentalism.
I have a definate agenda against any doctrinal belief system that
lambasts other belief systems.
|
9.1301 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 15:00 | 16 |
| Your guess is wrong...
Please read carefully what I am proposing. I am not proposing you
change your agenda.beliefs, I am proposing that noting be done
without inuendo or insult.
I am saying you will not change, I am not changing. A better
understanding can be beneficial, but not at the expense of raucous
bantering. I believe that each time you state "A", and I state "B"
there is potential for emotional rubbing. I don't think it can be
avoided entirely, I do think it can be maintained at an acceptable
level... but then again I am an optimist. :-)
Richard, where are you with me in this process?
Nancy
|
9.1302 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Fri Jul 01 1994 15:21 | 21 |
| Nancy,
You asked a question and I answered it as honestly as I could.
When you started your reply,
"You did answer my question and proved my point...reconciliation is not
possible"
you admit insincerity and games in asking the question. By your
admission you did not ask the question to bring about reconciliation
but to prove your point.
Do you feel good saying to yourself, well I tried to reconcile, but
nobody wants to. Perhaps nobody believes that you are trying to
reconcile, but only prove a point.
My anger is apparent. I don't like playing games. You ask me a
question and I answer it. I also know that there is nothing wrong with
anger when directed appropriately. It is the most powerful emotion we
have.
|
9.1303 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Fri Jul 01 1994 15:27 | 15 |
|
Flanangan 9.1298
What you have asked for is a relationship in a vacumn. Let me have
my space and I will let you have yours. This is, in my opinion, empty
and shallow. If someone truly believes that what you espouse is wrong
they cannot for the sake of having you approve of them remain silent..
David p.s. Somewhere in the bible it mentions truth that seperates the
bone and the marrow, husband and wife. Jesus did not
advocate peace at any price. I and others are morally
opposite of some of your positions and remarks and must
say so...
|
9.1304 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Fri Jul 01 1994 15:28 | 10 |
|
> I guess that your answer suggest that you
More emotional manipulation....
sad,
David
|
9.1305 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Jul 01 1994 15:30 | 37 |
| | <<< Note 9.1299 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
RE: .1298
Patricia, what a well written note. I really enjoyed reading it.
RE: .1299
Nancy, Patricia answered you very honestly. She also listed those areas
where she did not think reconciliation would be possible, and she also included
why. But you take it as listing her agenda against the fundamental Christians.
Would it have been better maybe if she just said certain areas would not have
reconciliation and left it at that? I'm sure someone in here would have asked
her to list those areas. She did so, did it in a tone that we could all learn
from, and above all she was open and honest. What else would you have liked her
to do?
| I didn't use this opportunity to do so towards anti-Christian dogma.
Nancy, funny how she mentioned this in her note. :-) You see, your
beliefs are just that, yours. You are one who believes if anyone drinks any
alcohol, they are sinning. Does this mean anyone who believes differently is
now part of the anti-Christian dogma of yours? Only God knows what is 100%
right/wrong. You have your beliefs, and if you want to state them then please
do. But if you would not critisize others beliefs and make them out to be
non-Christian, things would be much better. Tell them their beliefs do not
match yours, but do not tell them they aren't Christian. You, or anyone else on
this planet do not have a lock on what is or is not Christian. If you did then
you would have no disagreements in ANY area. Only God has it down pat.
Glen
|
9.1306 | back to read only | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Jul 01 1994 15:43 | 14 |
| RE: <<< Note 9.1305 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
>this planet do not have a lock on what is or is not Christian. If you did then
>you would have no disagreements in ANY area.
> Only God has it down pat.
And He's keeping it a secret from us, right?
Jim
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9.1307 | Abandoning the experiment | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:15 | 17 |
| I, too, refuse to compromise with the truth.
I've tried to help certain readers see how others see them by mirroring
and mimicking their slurs, attitudes and less than benevolent approaches
within this conference. Perhaps some have seen, but in a mirror darkly.
I'm prepared to abandon this effort, which is either in itself ineffective
or I'm lacking the skill to make it work successfully.
I know this much. This ones who claim to be Christ's truest ambassadors
are the very ones who drive away from the arms of Christ not the liars,
but the seekers; not the demons, but the last, the least, and the lost
for whom Christ came.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1308 | Sorry for the redundant comment in para #1, also see .1309 | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:19 | 12 |
| .1302
This is where my frustration level gets extremely HIGH. My note said
originally that reconciliation under the false belief of 100% alignment
is false and unattainable.
You never commented on this statement you just took an opportunity to
voice once again your IRRECONCILABLE differences with me. :-) :-)
This is ALMOST comedic.
|
9.1309 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:19 | 6 |
| Bottom Line
Can you and RICHARD specifically note in here without inuendos and
insults?
That is where TRUE reconciliation begins, imho.
|
9.1310 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:26 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 9.1306 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| >this planet do not have a lock on what is or is not Christian. If you did then
| >you would have no disagreements in ANY area.
| > Only God has it down pat.
| And He's keeping it a secret from us, right?
Jim, be real, will you? We are only as good as our interpretations of
whatever signs, etc God has or will give us. Only God has it right. Clearer
now?
Glen
|
9.1311 | And exactly whom is insulting whom? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:31 | 2 |
| Where is the innuendo in .1281?
|
9.1312 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:39 | 12 |
| .1307
Richard,
You are correct, it is some of those who *think* themselves to be the
purest that can be the most corrupt. I do not at all exclude myself
from being over zealous at times. My mirror should be Christ himself
through the Spirit. If you find fault with me, I ask that you pray for
me.
In His Love,
Nancy
|
9.1313 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 16:47 | 18 |
| I just read the rest of the replies from .1302. Glen, it's a mule
point. :-)
Richard,
I am confessing my sins and asking for forgiveness, you can choose to
either forgive or not. Tell me do you see insults in any of your
noting?
et.,al.,
God is not a cloaking device. He has revealed Himself. Those who
choose to see his revelation as mere historical legend with some truth
scattered therein, can only suppose what God is or isn't like, can only
hope they're doing right. I thank my God that his revelation is full
and allows us to KNOW our eternal life through Jesus Christ.
|
9.1314 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 17:43 | 8 |
| Forgiveness was granted even before asking.
As I indicated before, I am open to reconciliation. Reconciliation
does not mean jumping into bed with anyone.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1315 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 18:55 | 10 |
| .1314
Jumping into bed?????????????????????????
Wow, a slumber party!
:-)
But you didn't answer my question, oh well.
|
9.1316 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 20:08 | 10 |
| Nancy,
I may not have answered your question to your satisfaction,
but answer it I did.
I think we're going to need to play this out and see what happens.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1317 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 20:14 | 6 |
| > Tell me do you see insults in any of your noting?
Can you point me to where you answered this?
Thanks,
Nancy
|
9.1318 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 20:29 | 7 |
| Nancy,
If I believed it would be beneficial to provide a response to that
particular question, I would. I don't, so I won't.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1319 | Finally caught up... | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Fri Jul 01 1994 20:29 | 43 |
|
Richard,
You are correct. I do not desire to fight with anyone here. The
reason I left this file sometime last year was to take a break from
all the hostilities and to decide if I could come back and not stoop
to the same level as this file has apparently sunken to again. I
personally would welcome you abandoning your mirroring techniques in
favor of a more sincere style. As much as we disagree, I at least
used to respect your noting. I would like to again. As we both
know, God will confirm who His true followers are, not us. But we
also know that He didn't leave us in the dark on how to become a
follower.
Patricia,
I thought I sent the mail, must have goofed somehow. I sent it now
with specifics. I think it's find that you asked others there
opinions, it might have been better to do offline as might my
accusations. The ones who agreed with you know you better and
probably know your heart better than I do. I was basing my comments
strictly on your notes and how they hit me. Perhaps sharing those
specifics with a few people you respect offline will bring a true
judging of what I saw and why I react the way I did. I do not think
I have you stereotyped. You are one of the most unique people I know.
Some questions about your "discussion" with Nancy. How does the fact
that any of us "fundamentalist" Christians voicing our beliefs threaten
your religious freedom? Does it prevent you from speaking out or
practicing your faith as you please? Don't we all have the same right
to voice our beliefs and practice our faith? It doesn't matter what any
of us say, your expression of faith is still your own choice. Just like
it doesn't matter what anyone says about my faith, I still express it
as I believe I should. We deal with each other in a small environment
and we need to be careful not to draw conclusion based on movements
outside this file. For instance, I based my comments about my
perception specifically regarding the notes you wrote as you will
see in my mail and not on anything to do with the feminist movement
at large. Perhaps we can limit our discussions to what each other
says and our responses, instead of saying that anyone of us is to
blame for larger movements (on either side) sweeping this country.
Jill
|
9.1320 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 01 1994 20:48 | 9 |
| .1318
That is your call and I respect it. I have admitted my error in at
least 3 different notes in this string and hope that as Jill has stated
that we can abandon the past methodologies and begin anew. Isn't that
part of what being Christian is truly all about... new beginnings.
Nancy
|
9.1321 | | NITTY::DIERCKS | I just am, that's why!!! | Fri Jul 01 1994 22:21 | 12 |
|
<<If fundementalist Christianity take active steps to threaten the civil
<<rights of Gay and Lesbians, how can anyone who is Gay or Lesbian or
<<anyone who supports the rights of Gay and Lesbians not be cynical about
<<fundamental Christianity.
Excellent statement. Even one of my pastors has made the comment
that if she were in my shoes she isn't sure she'd have been able to
maintain her faith. My cynicism is, if you will, earned. Plus, it
helps to know that I'm right! 8-)
Greg
|
9.1322 | ever-revealing | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Fri Jul 01 1994 23:10 | 12 |
| re: Note 9.1313 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> God is not a cloaking device. He has revealed Himself.
I would say that God is still in the process of revealing the Divine.
I hold the Bible as a monumental witness of God, but I believe God
is not bound by a book.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1323 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 01 1994 23:12 | 5 |
| .1322 Thee has spoken my heart, friend.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1324 | People can only handle so much | CFSCTC::HUSTON | Steve Huston | Fri Jul 01 1994 23:50 | 12 |
| >I hold the Bible as a monumental witness of God, but I believe God
>is not bound by a book.
No, God is not bound by a book. He is all-everything, infinite, etc.
But, we people are bound by limits - the Bible says everything we need to
know about God, who He is, and how to approach and relate to Him.
Sure, there are things not spelled out in the Bible that are, and would
be, neat to know. But it's not necessary.
I'm thankful for that, since I often have a hard time groking the Bible. ;-)
-Steve
|
9.1325 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Sat Jul 02 1994 00:53 | 14 |
| .1324
Steve,
Is that notion, the one that the Bible says everything you need
to know about God, etc., is that something you concluded on your own,
something you've been taught, or something you believe the Bible
says about itself?
In other words, how did you come to your conclusion?
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1326 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Sat Jul 02 1994 00:59 | 10 |
| .1324
PS Steve,
When you have a moment, would you do us the honor of introducing
yourself in topic 3?
It's a courtesy.
RJC
|
9.1327 | | CFSCTC::HUSTON | Steve Huston | Sat Jul 02 1994 16:43 | 24 |
| > Is that notion, the one that the Bible says everything you need
> to know about God, etc., is that something you concluded on your own,
> something you've been taught, or something you believe the Bible
> says about itself?
Richard, I don't remember what I had for breakfast yesterday, and I always
have the same thing... ;-) Let me think about this for a minute...
All of the above, I think. At the start, I think I remember learning that
from a pastor, and I've heard it a few more times along the way. Also,
the Bible says that about itself, I believe, not so explicitly. Places
like Deut 29:29 ("The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things
revealed belong to us and to our children forever...") tell me that there's
only so much I'm going to know, no matter how hard I look. Places like
Psalm 1 tell me that studying God's written word will do me quite well.
And, I've been satisfied with all I have learned from studying the Bible,
and the ways it has taught me to relate to God, to Jesus Christ. There
are things I don't understand that I'd like to. But they aren't central,
or critical, to being secure in my relationship with God through Jesus.
re: introduce myself - sorry - I forgot I hadn't done that.
-Steve
|
9.1328 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Sat Jul 02 1994 20:38 | 6 |
| .1327 Thanks, Steve. Yes, I've heard as much from certain pulpits
myself.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1329 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Sun Jul 03 1994 15:44 | 38 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1310 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
| > Only God has it down pat.
| And He's keeping it a secret from us, right?
> Jim, be real, will you? We are only as good as our interpretations of
>whatever signs, etc God has or will give us. Only God has it right. Clearer
>now?
No, its not clearer..God has given us a standard. And I don't believe that he
gave us a standard that is ambiguous and dependant upon how we interpret it.
There are standards all around us..we have standards for baseball, business,
driving our cars along the road and they are not subject to interpretation.
We have standard of measurment..how about building a house when the carpenters
argue over the interpretation of what an "inch" is, or the interpretation of
a blueprint..how about running a track meet, where the participants are told
to determine the distance they are required to run and they aren't given
the rules..the officials say "OK..just start running when you feel like it, and
when you feel like you've run enough, stop. And the rules? Well, I'm not
going to tell you what they are..you figure it out, and we'll let you know
at the end of the race if you were right"..
God's word is clear..it is the standard. The God who created the universe
is capable of delivering to his people the standard by whcih He expects us
to live..Some choos to reject it and to twist it..but it remains the standard
Jim
|
9.1330 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Sun Jul 03 1994 17:41 | 14 |
| Note 9.1329
> No, its not clearer..God has given us a standard.
I take it you're speaking of the Bible as the standard. I'm not quite
as confident as you that the canon (and there are some variations in
which set of Scriptures constitute the full canon) was given by God so
much as the canon was selected by human beings.
For me personally, Christ Jesus is the standard.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1331 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Mon Jul 04 1994 11:10 | 22 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1330 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking pacifist" >>>
>I take it you're speaking of the Bible as the standard. I'm not quite
>as confident as you that the canon (and there are some variations in
>which set of Scriptures constitute the full canon) was given by God so
>much as the canon was selected by human beings.
>For me personally, Christ Jesus is the standard.
And for me as well...however, what is the source of our knowledge about
Jesus?
Jim
|
9.1332 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Mon Jul 04 1994 13:43 | 12 |
| The Gospels are sources of knowledge.
So is the witness of others.
But probably the most powerful is the first-hand encounter with the
Living Christ.
The Way is greater than the Map, don't you agree?
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1333 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Mon Jul 04 1994 22:12 | 19 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1332 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking pacifist" >>>
> But probably the most powerful is the first-hand encounter with the
> Living Christ.
> The Way is greater than the Map, don't you agree?
Aye, but without the map we are liable to take a wrong turn and become lost.
Jim
|
9.1334 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 05 1994 00:13 | 6 |
| It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so willing to believe in
a God that hasn't the power to pass down through men, His revelation.
Why believe in God at all?
|
9.1335 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Tue Jul 05 1994 01:25 | 8 |
| .1333 As you well know, I've never advocated eliminating the Bible.
I've read and studied it, and continue to do so. I own several copies
myself.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1336 | what I hear | SOLVIT::HAECK | Debby Haeck | Tue Jul 05 1994 10:58 | 3 |
| I don't remember reading in here a denial of God's power. Rather I
hear people questioning whether or not He used that power. But maybe
my reading is colored by my beliefs, and my questions.
|
9.1337 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Tue Jul 05 1994 11:08 | 18 |
|
I don't mean to engage in a back and forth debate on this issue..but I
gathered from Glen's note a few back that there is a belief that God
knows what He expects of us and has left us here hanging in the breeze
to try to figure it out and maybe we'll get it right, and maybe we won't,
and that He left us no clues as to what those expectations are.
I believe that the God who created the universe has the power and has used
that power to ensure that we can hold in our hands His very words to mankind,
through which He is revealed, and a standard upon which we should base our
lives.
Jim
|
9.1338 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 05 1994 12:43 | 3 |
| .1337
Jim, you are correct.
|
9.1339 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 06 1994 09:23 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 9.1329 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| No, its not clearer..God has given us a standard. And I don't believe that he
| gave us a standard that is ambiguous and dependant upon how we interpret it.
Jim, does everyone interpret that standard you talk of exactly the same
way? Look at all the wrongs that have been caused because people wrongly
interpreted that standard. Only God has it right, we are only as good as an
interpretation.
| There are standards all around us..we have standards for baseball, business,
| driving our cars along the road and they are not subject to interpretation.
Because we wrote them Jim. There isn't all this hype that God wrote any
of this stuff. But to play along with this, look at how the Constitution has
had many interpretations....
Glen
|
9.1340 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 06 1994 09:24 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 9.1334 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so willing to believe in
| a God that hasn't the power to pass down through men, His revelation.
| Why believe in God at all?
Because He gave us free will......
|
9.1341 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jul 06 1994 12:11 | 1 |
| How do you know he gave us free will?
|
9.1342 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jul 06 1994 13:32 | 3 |
| 945.37
Thanks Richard.
|
9.1343 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Wed Jul 06 1994 22:20 | 2 |
| 9.1342 You're welcome.
|
9.1344 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 06 1994 23:59 | 6 |
|
I read it in a guide.
Glen
|
9.1345 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 08 1994 12:33 | 24 |
| >Note 945.47 Two opposing paradigms 47 of 47
>CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking pacifist" 6 lines 7-JUL-1994 23:30
> This topic, it seems, has drifted considerably from the basenote
> proposition, as well.
> Shalom,
> Richard
Richard,
This happens all the time... in EVERY topic.. and in EVERY conference.
As a mod in another conference, I wonder if it can EVER be corrected...
do you think Richard that we could like shake some OJ over our terminal
screens and say something like "uja bookga eegee", that people wouldn't
stray?
:-) :-)
I just live with it and I stopped trying to correct every diversion
that happens. I believe that most of the time if it gets to be 20 or
more notes about said diversion, then I'll move it.
What do you think?
|
9.1346 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Heat-seeking pacifist | Fri Jul 08 1994 13:34 | 19 |
| Nancy,
I only made a comment comparable to the following. Perhaps you
intended to address your remarks in .1345 to multiple persons?
Ex-moderator Richard
================================================================================
Note 942.41 women in the Bible 41 of 41
CSC32::KINSELLA "A tree with a rotten core cannot s" 16 lines 7-JUL-1994 18:31
-< Outside influence... >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Excuse me gentlemen...
The topic is women of the Bible...maybe we could turn this note back
around in that direction. Why don't someone start a new string on
Christianity and Rush Limbaugh and go debate all this stuff over there.
|
9.1347 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Jul 08 1994 13:37 | 7 |
| No, I meant it towards you. As an ex-moderator, I just wondered if
you had a rule of thumb by which you went by? I don't know whether
Jill has ever moderated or not.
But since it seems you didn't like the interaction... let it drop.
|
9.1348 | hee hee | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Fri Jul 08 1994 17:51 | 9 |
|
Yes Richard I caught the inference. It was duly noted and received
warmly with a chuckle.
Jill
P.S. I've never been a moderator but that has never stopped me from
saying "Yo...back up, turn right, look out for the edge." ;^)
|
9.1349 | My Spiritual Journey | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Jul 11 1994 12:50 | 90 |
| Jill did send me a mail response and I am posting my answer to Jill here
because Jill asked some great questions and I would like to share my
response with the rest of you too.
Patricia
Thank you for the time and thought that you put into your response. It is
important to me that I understand where you are coming from and how I do
treat you as a sister even if your beliefs and assumptions are different
than mine.
Spiritual truth and understanding what Goddess/God wants from me is very
important to me. I do have resentment toward those who assume they have
a correct handle on Divine truth and anyone who comes up with conclusions
that are different than theirs are wrong and damned and whatever. That was
the basis of our disagreement when I started noting in hear. I felt that
you and others were telling me that I was evil for my beliefs and I
resented that. My search for truth is as valid as
your search for truth. Your search for truth is as valid as mine.
I strongly believe that my spiritual journey is propelled by the Divine and
I will follow that journey wherever it leads.
At the heart of our disagreements really is the different assumptions that
you and I make about the nature of the Bible. You believe that the Bible is
is the unerrant word of God. As such it is the source of your Faith. I
believe that the Bible is a fallible human attempt by the men who wrote it
to document their relationship with the Divine and document the meaning of
their life and historical events in terms of their relationship with the
Divine.
I believe that the Bible is only indirectly a source of Divine Revelation.
Because of this assumption, a big piece of my study and journey right now
is to understand what the Bible does mean to me. First I accept that it is
written by men and not women. It excludes the experience of women as written
by women. In the stories of women written by men it tells us much about how
men felt about and treated women at that time. The way men treated women as
recorded in the Bible is very negatively. My intent in the Abraham string was
to say, Hey, let's look at the Bible stories. How are woman treated. Why?
How might these stories be reconstructed if written by women? How do these
stories relate to the issues faced today by women and men. If I accept that
there are major parts of the Bible that are patriarchal and chauvanistic in
their treatment of women, can I still find meaning in those stories. What do
I do with those stories. If I can help it, I certainly will not allow those
stories to be a model of how woman should be treated. In honestly reading
those stories, I am curious as to how you and Nancy and other "Bible believing"
women can accept those stories and regard them as sacred.
I don't believe that looking at these stories and saying "Look, these stories
are abusive to women" is male bashing. I believe the stories are sacred
legend and not historic truth. The question I ask, is why are these stories
about giving women to strangers to be raped and killed incorporated into sacred
legends. What do they tell us about the relative value of women and men in
700 BC culture. What does it mean that it was considered entirely
legitamate by women and men, that slave women be used as baby making machines
for infertile couples.
I believe that how we use the Bible today can be a source of inspiration. I
also believe that identifying these stories as God ordained can also be used
as a source of oppression and evil. My noting is to identify the stories, and
use them as a source of discussion about the nature of the Bible and how we use
it for inspiration today.
Jill, you also asked how I viewed the Goddess. Today I pray to Goddess/God.
That is an affirmation for me that each of us, man and woman is created in
the image of the Divine. For this to be true then the divine is neither
exclusively Male or Female but both. I struggle with exactly what this means.
I do believe that there is One Divine reality and that Divine reality is
available to all people in all times. There were times when that reality was
worshipped as a woman. There were times when that reality was worshipped as
a series of different women and men in relationship with each other. Judaism
and Orthodox Christianity worship the Divine as a Asexual Man. I believe that
there is value in all religions and that no religion truly understands the
mystery of Divine Reality. I believe that how each of us images the Divine
has enourmous consequences on our personal lifes. I actually have more
difficulty imaging the Divine as a woman than I do as a man even though I
know that the Divine is neither Man or Woman and Man and Woman. As I
continue to grow, to read, to study, I will obtain a greater and greater
understanding of the Wisdom I seek. I don't believe the fullness of the
mystery will ever be totally revealed to me or anyone else. An essential
element of my Faith is the Pauline belief that Faith is a belief and trust in
that which we cannot know.
I hope this helps.
I may also post this in the note file to share with others.
peace and love
Patricia
|
9.1350 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 13:29 | 7 |
| .1349
This statement about women being given to be raped just jumped out at
me. Why you insist on this interpretation is beyond me... I'd sure
like to see where rape is described as something permissable in God's
word. If you care to point me to scripture that describes a rape
situation following a blessing from God.
|
9.1351 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Jul 11 1994 14:34 | 9 |
| There are two stories. The lot story is the one I am most familiar
with. When the crowd was going to rape the Male strangers visiting
Lot's house, Lot in order to protect the strangers offered his Virgin
daughters to the crowd.
There is a similiar story in the historic books, which I need help in
citing here.
Patricia
|
9.1352 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 14:38 | 4 |
| .1351
Could you provide me the references, please. I'd like to read this for
myself. Thanks.
|
9.1353 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Jul 11 1994 14:43 | 8 |
|
I believe you'll find it in Leviticus? It's all tied in with the story
of Sodom & Gommorah (sp?).
Glen
|
9.1354 | Lot's daughters are NOT touched by the men of Sodom | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Jul 11 1994 15:12 | 7 |
| The story of Lot and his experience with the Sodomites is in the 19th
chapter of Genesis.
God makes it quite clear that offering his daughters to be raped is
not acceptable.
/john
|
9.1355 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Jul 11 1994 15:28 | 10 |
|
John, thanks fer the clarification. BTW, who ever said that the
daughters were raped by the townspeople? Can't figure out why you wrote about
that. Also, could you show us where God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
up to be raped?
Glen
|
9.1356 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Jul 11 1994 16:51 | 22 |
| re .1355
>John, thanks fer the clarification. BTW, who ever said that the daughters were
>raped by the townspeople?
in .1349 "given to be raped"
>why are these stories about giving women to strangers to be raped and killed
>incorporated ...
re .1355
>Also, could you show us where God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
>up to be raped?
The angels drew Lot back into the house and removed him and his daughters
from the city. Then God destroyed the city for all of its various forms
of sexual depravity. This is an important story for anyone involved in or
tempted to be involved in sexual immorality: God will save you from it if
you trust in Him.
/john
|
9.1357 | my reading of the phrase | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Mon Jul 11 1994 17:25 | 9 |
| re: Note 9.1356 by /john
>in .1349 "given to be raped"
"Given to be raped" does not mean that they were in fact raped.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1358 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 17:30 | 9 |
| "given to be raped" implies it is explicitly known as fact.
I'd like to see this substantiated or brought forth as a
"suppositional" statement. If in fact, this is a misrepresentation of
scripture, and is just a "the way I read it" kind of statement. Then
let's get the scripture on line and let folks see for themselves.
|
9.1359 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Mon Jul 11 1994 17:43 | 11 |
| re: Note 9.1358 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> "given to be raped" implies it is explicitly known as fact.
Huh?
If I hand you a book, "given to be read", that does not mean it will be read.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1360 | a distinction that isn't there | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Mon Jul 11 1994 17:46 | 14 |
| re Note 9.1358 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> I'd like to see this substantiated or brought forth as a
> "suppositional" statement. If in fact, this is a misrepresentation of
> scripture, and is just a "the way I read it" kind of statement. Then
> let's get the scripture on line and let folks see for themselves.
When you're talking about one uncorroborated textual report
of an incident, "the way I read it" is the *only* kind of
*substantiated* statement one can make about it.
You're trying to drive a wedge between one thing!
Bob
|
9.1361 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 18:01 | 16 |
| If the distinction is not there why imply something so contradictory to
God's nature?
This is a very inflammatory statement to make as a fact...
If you say, "The way I read it, or I see this" it is one thing, but to
just blatantly say that it was God-blessed to offer these women to be
raped is well... irresponsible.
If you are going to make a claim like this put up the proof or qualify
so that you are defining factor and not the Word of God.
Put it on display. I'd like to request again instead of bantering over
the point of contention, for Patricia to give me the text from which
she derives her accusation.
|
9.1362 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 18:03 | 11 |
| .1359
Your argument is moot. I'm not questioning said results, I am question
said intent.
I've given you this book to read it...
I've given you these girls to rape...
Whether you read or rape isn't what we are talking about. It's the
giving that is in question.
|
9.1363 | you just didn't want her to write it at all | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Mon Jul 11 1994 18:35 | 28 |
| re Note 9.1361 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> This is a very inflammatory statement to make as a fact...
>
> If you say, "The way I read it, or I see this" it is one thing, but to
> just blatantly say that it was God-blessed to offer these women to be
> raped is well... irresponsible.
It's inflammatory only because of a third-party's perspective
(yours) -- you view the text as God's own writing, so you
view any reading of the text similar to Patricia's to be
defamatory to God.
Patricia has repeatedly stated that the texts are mankind's
recording, to the best of their ability given their
viewpoint, prejudices, and other human limitations, of their
experience of God's working in the world. She has been very
open and expressive about her view of Scripture. She has not
been concealing it or pretending that she accepts Scripture
as God's own writing.
Patricia seems to be saying that the human writers assumed
that such an action was morally acceptable. In fact she
explicitly denies that the text can be used to claim that the
true Godhead endorsed such action. So don't put such words
into her mouth (or onto her keyboard :-).
Bob
|
9.1364 | Good Grief Charlie Brown | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 19:03 | 10 |
| .1363
Why are you defending her? Can she not speak for herself? I'm not
putting words into her mouth and your just arguing for the sake of
arguing. :-)
I am asking for a SCRIPTURE REFERENCE to back up her VIEW of the
Bible's view on rape. Why is this bothering you?
|
9.1365 | Patricia's pernicious claim that Genesis supports rape is false | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Jul 11 1994 19:28 | 14 |
| HEY!
I never said that they were raped, or even GIVEN to be raped. That was
Patricia. I provided what Patricia said in response to Glen's question.
Patricia's statement was what started the discussion going down this path.
I said that they were NOT touched by the men.
They were offered, but before they were given, the angels of the Lord
pulled Lot back into the house.
So don't misrepresent what I said, OK?
/john
|
9.1366 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 19:40 | 3 |
| /john
who are you writing to?
|
9.1367 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Jul 11 1994 19:46 | 21 |
| In his human wisdom, Lot tried to intervene where he had no business.
It was Lot that offered his daughters to the men of Sodom and Gomorrah
and it was the angels who by the power of God struck the men with
blindness. They were well in control of the situation and in my
opinion, offered these men grace by simply striking them blind. Heck,
Elijah had three men mauled by a bear for calling him baldy! :-) Kind
of sick humor if you will.
Lot was well aware of who these two men were and realized these were
not just men but angels sent by God. There is no question here that
the culture of that time was a far cry from today but consider this.
For Lot to have two virgin daughters in a city as permiscuous as Sodom
tells me that Lot had quite a handle on his role in the family as a
spiritual leader. My opinion is that knowing who these two men were,
Lots reverence for these messengers must have been very strong for him
to consider what he offered the men of Sodom and was willing to do so
as to not defile the messengers of God. What Lot didn't realize was
that these angels had the power of God in them and werequite capable of
taking care of the men of Sodom.
-Jack
|
9.1368 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Jul 11 1994 20:19 | 39 |
| Patricia:
I believe the other incident you are referring to is from the book of
Judges and involved a female servant or concubine. The text is Judges
chapter 19 and in all honesty, I must agree with you wholeheartedly on
this one. This is probably one of the most hideous parts of the Bible.
The scenario:
1. Man travels with his concubine.
2. Concubine wants to lodge for the evening among the Jebusites.
3. Older man comes along and says, "Stay at my house, don't lodge in
the streets."
4. They go to old mans house.
5. Exactly like Sodom, band of men bang on door and demand sex with
male traveler.
6. Old man entreats them, "Please take the concubine and my daughter
and do as you see fit, but not the man"
7. Band of men don't listen.
8. Old man puts concubine (female servant) out his doors.
9. Band of men abuse her all night, found dead next morning.
10.Man finds her, chops her up into 12 pieces, sends each piece of her
to one of the tribes of Israel.
Does this say that God's word condones this action? Certainly not. It
records it as Biblical history. There are a few possible conclusions
we can draw from this.
A. Women in that particular society were treated as chattel.
B. The man found homosexuality far more offensive that sexual
intercourse among men/women.
I'm not choosing one or the other. This is open to speculation.
I am of the belief that women overall were treated more as property in
those times and are no better off in the middle east than they were
3000 years ago.
-Jack
|
9.1369 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Jul 11 1994 20:22 | 4 |
| .1368
So while God was not in agreement with said action, he allowed the
truth to be recorded for what purpose?
|
9.1370 | Lot | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | The rocks will cry out! | Mon Jul 11 1994 21:43 | 6 |
| Great traditional family values that Lot had. Say, where's it
say Lot *knew* these men were really angels (in advance of them
blinding the crowd, that is)??
Richard
|
9.1371 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Jul 11 1994 21:56 | 17 |
| re .1370
Not sure why it's important that Lot knew they were angels -- but he did
bow down with his face to the ground and address them as "my lords", so
he knew they were important.
Re .1368
Note that the "old man" who took the travelers in and who sent the
woman out to the marauding crowd was a foreigner -- i.e., not one
of God's people.
The sending of the pieces of the dead women to each of the tribes was
a method `before television' of publishing the gruesome truth of the
horrendous deed of the Benjaminites.
/john
|
9.1372 | Ancient Hebrew hospitality customs | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | The rocks will cry out! | Tue Jul 12 1994 00:03 | 11 |
| .1371 The reason why it might be important: Providing hospitality to
the stranger was an extremely important custom to the ancient Hebrews,
though it is not written in as such a way that this message comes down
through the ages to us with great clarity in the Hebrew Bible. And
only the best and the freshest was to be offered to one's guests.
Saying Lot knew they were angels is saying Lot would have done less
for others.
Richard
|
9.1373 | True, Lot is not mentioned by name, but... | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | The rocks will cry out! | Tue Jul 12 1994 00:10 | 9 |
| PS The author of Hebrews appears to have believed Lot didn't know
the men were angels:
Hebrews 13:2 Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby
some have entertained angels unawares.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1374 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 09:18 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 9.1356 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| re .1355
| >John, thanks fer the clarification. BTW, who ever said that the daughters were
| >raped by the townspeople?
| in .1349 "given to be raped"
| >why are these stories about giving women to strangers to be raped and killed
| >incorporated ...
John, it would appear that you tied this in with Lot on your own,
doesn't it? You did specify Lot's daughters. Don't you think you jumped
the gun?
| re .1355
| >Also, could you show us where God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
| >up to be raped?
| The angels drew Lot back into the house and removed him and his daughters
| from the city. Then God destroyed the city for all of its various forms
| of sexual depravity. This is an important story for anyone involved in or
| tempted to be involved in sexual immorality: God will save you from it if
| you trust in Him.
Gee John, sounds like it's Twister tm time again. The towns people
were about to attack Lot, the angels pulled him in before they could. Could you
try again, where does it say that God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
up to be raped?
Glen
|
9.1375 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 09:22 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 9.1361 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| If the distinction is not there why imply something so contradictory to
| God's nature?
Nancy, your entire faith is based on what you wrote above. You do not
see the distiction, so if anyone else does then they are contradicting God's
nature. My question to you is if you believe something in the Bible to be true,
do you allow any other interpretation of the same thing to be true or is it the
word according to Nancy?
| If you say, "The way I read it, or I see this" it is one thing, but to
| just blatantly say that it was God-blessed to offer these women to be
| raped is well... irresponsible.
Psssttt.... who said it was God blessed?
Glen
|
9.1376 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 09:26 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 9.1365 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| I never said that they were raped, or even GIVEN to be raped. That was
| Patricia.
No, that was you. John, it was in YOUR title of YOUR note. Patricia
never mentioned Lot in her note, yet you tied it into that.
| They were offered, but before they were given, the angels of the Lord
| pulled Lot back into the house. So don't misrepresent what I said, OK?
John, we would never do that. But I think you misrepresented the Bible.
Glen
|
9.1377 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 09:44 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 9.1368 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| Does this say that God's word condones this action? Certainly not. It
| records it as Biblical history. There are a few possible conclusions
| we can draw from this.
| A. Women in that particular society were treated as chattel.
| B. The man found homosexuality far more offensive that sexual
| intercourse among men/women.
Jack, aren't there a few more we could choose from this? How about the
man did not want the stranger that he took in to be hurt? That women were
lesser human beings than a man, so they were offered? We could go on. Please
don't try to make it into a one or two thing for conclusions Jack. Many
conclusions could be made from the passage.
Women being treated as slaves (which you said) or as even less, would
very much back up Patricia's viewpoints. Thank you so much for helping out
Jack. :-)
Glen
|
9.1378 | you seem to want a fight | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&T) | Tue Jul 12 1994 10:03 | 29 |
| re Note 9.1364 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> .1363
>
> Why are you defending her? Can she not speak for herself? I'm not
> putting words into her mouth and your just arguing for the sake of
> arguing. :-)
I do not argue for the sake of arguing -- I argue because you
stubbornly ignore what another says in favor of pursuing your
own notions of some sort of mission you have in this
conference and I realize that I could easily be your next
target, since my position has some similarity with
Patricia's.
> I am asking for a SCRIPTURE REFERENCE to back up her VIEW of the
> Bible's view on rape. Why is this bothering you?
Genesis 19:8 has been so frequently referenced in this
conference, and the story of Lot offering his daughters to be
used sexually by the men of Sodom so often alluded to, that
it hardly seems necessary to cite it to somebody who claims
familiarity and reverence for Scripture!
What bothers me is that you clearly just want to pick a fight
with Patricia, will say anything to accomplish that, without
regard to the content of the conversation.
Bob
|
9.1379 | at.,ku! nfue!; fjheiu! | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Jul 12 1994 10:21 | 6 |
| Glenn see .1351
And furthermore
asldkfj aslkdwq aoiweroqrn asdiuwi.asjrey aaoueoua aidsokr
akajbn ais.ka asyt.e ataf lakjeya alkey abbfqakk aqlqleucyaq!
|
9.1380 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jul 12 1994 10:38 | 65 |
| I think this discussion is a wonderful discussion regarding the two
passages.
John thank you for the Genesis 19 citation for the Lot story, Jack thank
you for the Judges 19 citation for the other story. Those are the two
stories that I was referring to and I trust the citations are accurate.
Nancy,
re 9.1364. Why are you so upset that Bob is expressing his opinion in
here and supporting me. I find it very important that Bob support me
here because he is a man for one and I have been accused of male
bashing for my interpretation of these scriptures and he is more
conservative in his theology and more learned in his study of
scripture. His affirmation helps me to know that I am not an off the
wall angry feminist in reading what I read in scripture.
I note in here to generate discussion for everybody. We all grow from
a serious honest discussion of scripture. Liberal or conservative, we
all must deal with these stories and seek to understand why they are
part of the scripture and what they tell us culturally and historically
about the relationship between women and men and what they tell us
about the relationship between men and God and woman and God.
Bob has very accurately restated my position. What each of us believes
about the nature of scriptures and the nature of the Divine critically
impacts how we interpret these passages.
Goddess/God loves both women and men and wants both women and men
treated with dignity and respect. Goddess/God does not advocate Rape or
violence to women as a punishment or a way to protect men. This I know
intuitively. This is contrary to how I read scripture. There are many
instances in Genesis and the passage in Judges where women's bodies are
given and used to protect men. No where in these passages does it
indicate that God is doing the giving but no where does it indicate
that God is specifically opposed to the practice. To me these passages
clearly indicate that the men of the culture felt it was OK to barter
with women's body and did not think it was sinful to do so. To me
these passages also show that the scripture is the work of men and not
directly the work of God. I respect that many of you do not agree with
that conclusion.
The way women's bodies have been traditional thought of as property and
used for the benefit of men is evil. It always has been evil. In the
twentieth century our culture is addressing that evil and calling it
what it is. This is prophetic witness occuring now. It seems that
from this discussion here, everyone is offended by the thought that women
could be given over to be raped. That is a common assumption that we
all share and that is progress. We all share the assumption that God
is good and that God does not want woman's bodies to be used. That is
progress. What we differ on is our own answers to why these passages
are in scripture and what these passages tell us. I think that we all
may agree that based on these passages women were in fact used as
property in this period. That is a lot of common ground for
discussion. Perhaps we do need to focus more on what we agree in
common and not on what our differences are.
The issue of violence against women and children is an issue that
plagues our country and our world. To know and to affirm that this is
an issue that is at least 3 thousand years old tells us how difficult
it is to resolve this issue. Hopefully it will make each of us more
prophetic around this issue.
Patricia
|
9.1381 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 10:49 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 9.1379 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| Glenn see .1351
John, she said offering, not that it happened. You have still yet to
prove that anyone said anything about Lot's daughters being raped. The reason I
am harping on this is because you say and say a lot of things. To show us that
others actually said these things are totally different.
| And furthermore
| asldkfj aslkdwq aoiweroqrn asdiuwi.asjrey aaoueoua aidsokr
| akajbn ais.ka asyt.e ataf lakjeya alkey abbfqakk aqlqleucyaq!
John, did you know that you used 23 "a"'s in that? Why 22.3% of all the
letters were the letter "a"! AmAzing John!
Glen
|
9.1382 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Jul 12 1994 11:11 | 20 |
| Glen:
All your possibilities fall under the guise of choice A, that being
that women were treated as chattel. Anything that demeans a woman as a
second or third class citizen falls under selection A.
It is apparent to me that selection B offends you. It is most
certainly possible that homosexuality was looked upon as detestable
over fornication of men and women so please Glen, don't put any victim
hats on yet. I said it was just a possibility and a strong one at
that.
Nancy:
To answer your question regarding why God recorded this incident in
Judges, the answer is that I'm not really sure. Perhaps it is yet just
another piece of the historical puzzle that proves the period of the
Judges to be the darkest portion of Israel's history.
-Jack
|
9.1383 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jul 12 1994 11:38 | 26 |
| 9.1368
The problem with the second alternative
B. The man found homosexuality far more degrading than other sexual
evils is
That this is NOT about homosexuality. It is about Rape and violience.
B needs to become that
B. That the man found rape and violance against Men as far more
degrading than rape and violence against women. This makes B.
equivalent to A.
It is a very far stretch to equate this story with the love and
intimacy between any two people, man with woman, woman with man or man
with man. woman with woman is not even considered here.
THIS IS A STORY ABOUT RAPE AND VIOLENCE AND NOT ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY.
Patricia
|
9.1384 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Jul 12 1994 12:06 | 16 |
| re .1381
ewrtiu cizoi zxoi, rezusd.
re .1383
God makes it clear that the entire situation in Sodom is wrong, not only
by having his angels prevent the daughters from being delivered to the
mob, but by destroying the city.
In the case of the Benjaminites, it is a foreigner who delivers the woman
(not someone whose actions are approved of by God); the sending of the news
of what happened is yet another clear indication that depravity is not to be
tolerated.
/john
|
9.1385 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 12:18 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 9.1382 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| Glen:
| All your possibilities fall under the guise of choice A, that being
| that women were treated as chattel. Anything that demeans a woman as a
| second or third class citizen falls under selection A.
No. A slave is a personal property at the time, but were male slaves
offered before the women? I mean, even with the women who were not slaves to
begin with? There is a difference between the two, there is a difference
between personal property and 3rd class people.
| It is apparent to me that selection B offends you. It is most certainly
| possible that homosexuality was looked upon as detestable over fornication of
| men and women so please Glen, don't put any victim hats on yet.
Jack, please show me where I have put a victim hat on. I did say there
are many other possibilities for the offering of a woman over a man. I didn't
say a word about the homosexuality part of it. I DID say that more than TWO
reasons were possible. Hope this helps! :-)
| I said it was just a possibility and a strong one at that.
And uhhhh... how do ya know that?
Glen
|
9.1386 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 12:24 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 9.1384 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| God makes it clear that the entire situation in Sodom is wrong, not only
| by having his angels prevent the daughters from being delivered to the
| mob, but by destroying the city.
The angels PULLED Lot into the house because the mob was gettin', shall
we say, a leeeetle upset. The towns people already rejected Lot's offer John.
And the angels went to the city to destroy it for many reasons. It was up to
Lot to find just one person in the town who was good. The towns people wanting
to rape the strangers (angels) was the last straw. Sodom was NOT a good place
to be in. That was known from the start. But your analogy above seems to be
wrong according to what the book says.
Glen
|
9.1387 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Jul 12 1994 12:57 | 5 |
| Yes, Potipher's wife is an example. Joseph was a servant in the house
of Potipher. The sequence of events reveals that Potipher's wife had
reign over the servants of the household.
-Jack
|
9.1388 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:09 | 21 |
| Bob,
Actually, all I wanted was for her to give me the reference in
Scripture that says that the Bible condones women to be given in Rape.
Reporting something doesn't mean it is condoned. Her note could be
used as a way invalidate the Bible and if their is truth in her
writing, I for one, want to see it.
Is this not a conference in which to explore, discuss and perhaps learn
about such things????
Why is that construed as picking a fight?????
Bob, it truly seems as though you wish to pick the fight with me.
I have not "target" and your even mentioning such a thing is
ridiculous. I've stated it very clear what I believe, where I stand
and who I am... there is no hidden target or agenda.
Bob, why are you so angry with me?
|
9.1389 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:27 | 21 |
| Patricia I just found your .1380.
First off, I don't have a problem with Bob contributing to the
discussion at hand. But instead he was "questioning" the intention of
my participation. That's the difference and a very distinct one imho.
Secondly, I agree with everything you've written about women and the
sinfulness of man's perversion of God's intent for the roles of men and
women. The only point of contention is that you seem to think the
Bible lauds this. I do not. Again as news is being reported does that
mean the publisher agrees with everything in the paper?
God allowed for the truth to be told, so the Truth could be received.
The scriptures do not condone in any way, shape, or form the abuse
towards women.
God's word states that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved
the church and gave himself for it. This is the God that you speak
of in your note and He is alive and well through His word.
|
9.1391 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:31 | 14 |
| Thirdly,
You stated that your view of God's word is predetermined by the
attitude you already hold. In other words, you *can* look at even recent
history of how women were treated in this country by their husbands,
and form a belief that religion played a role in this behavior.
I agree.
Again, when the Bible is examined closely as a whole and not in
microcosms, this predisposition is false and it has clouded eyes,
hearts and ears to the Truth of God's nature as revealed in His word.
Nancy
|
9.1392 | Bible condoning violence | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:35 | 24 |
|
As to your question, Where does the Bible condone violence toward
women.
1. Genesis indirectly condones violence toward women. This book is
very clear on stating that some things are very sinful. By never
specifically stating that the giving of daughters, the rape of slave
women, the taking of many concumbines, the offering of wifes, the rape
and murder of women are evil, it indirectly makes these acts less
offensive than acts against men.
2. Issiah, Hosea, and Ezekiel directly condones violence against
women by using the metaphor of God as an authoritarian Husband and
Israel as a "whoring bride". God punishes Israel by raping her,
killing her children, casting her out and accepting her back only when
she is sufficiently punished. THis provides a divine model of a
relationship between husband and wife that is scandelous.
Does a man have a right to beat and abuse an unfaithful wife?
These points do not invalidate the Bible. They point to how the Bible
can be used to understand the cultural reality of women and men. I do
agree that these points could invalidate certain reading and
interpretation of the Bible.
|
9.1393 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:43 | 18 |
| re: 9.1391
When the Bible is reviewed as a whole it confirms the view of the Bible
being patriarchal and capable of being used to condome oppression of women,
slaves, persons not of "the chosen people", and Gays, Lesbians, and
Bi-sexuals. When read as literal truth, oppression is inevitable.
THis notes file bears witness to that in the discussions regarding
homosexuality. When history is reviewed, the opposition to the
abolition of slavery and the slaughter of non Christians bares witness
to how the Bible has been used as an instrument of oppression.
There is a need for all Christians to band together and make sure that
Holy Scripture is not allowed to be used as a weapon of oppression.
There is a need for Christians to be faithful enough to the "Word" of
God written on their hearts to oppose all abuses in the name of
Christianity.
Patricia
|
9.1394 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:46 | 25 |
| > When the Bible is reviewed as a whole it confirms the view of the Bible
> being patriarchal and capable of being used to condome oppression of women,
> slaves, persons not of "the chosen people", and Gays, Lesbians, and
> Bi-sexuals. When read as literal truth, oppression is inevitable.
> THis notes file bears witness to that in the discussions regarding
> homosexuality. When history is reviewed, the opposition to the
> abolition of slavery and the slaughter of non Christians bares witness
> to how the Bible has been used as an instrument of oppression.
There are evil men who use the Holy Book for many things. Let me see
Patricia, by this same logic, I ask you, would you throw out the use
medicines to treat illnesses, that many use on the streets illegally?
After all the medicine must be what is evil, right?
>There is a need for all Christians to band together and make sure that
>Holy Scripture is not allowed to be used as a weapon of oppression.
>There is a need for Christians to be faithful enough to the "Word" of
>God written on their hearts to oppose all abuses in the name of
>Christianity.
AMEN to that! I agree wholeheartedly.
Nancy
|
9.1395 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Tue Jul 12 1994 13:57 | 16 |
| Nancy,
I am not suggesting throwing out the use of the Bible. I am suggesting
studying the Bible carefully and accepting as revelation that in the
Bible which is truly inspirational.
I am suggesting the extreme danger of using the Bible as literal truth
and suggesting the extreme danger of accepting everything in the Bible as
equally revelatory.
"Slave obey your master" "women obey your husband" "Endure in your
Suffering" are all literal messages that are or can be abusive messages.
|
9.1396 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 12 1994 14:18 | 16 |
| Balance those scriptures with the duty of a master to a slave or a
husband to a wife and then you have a Truth... not a microcosm of a
Truth.
Did you know that a parallel can be drawn between the Master and Slaves
as with Digital and you?
Do you believe that your employment with Digital requires that you
perform certain tasks, at a certain level and expectations are very
real?
If so, then a slave or employee has a responsibility to their master or
employer.
There is balance.
|
9.1397 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 14:24 | 8 |
|
Nancy, do you really think that a master/slave type of relationship is
anything like Digital/employee?
Glen
|
9.1398 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 12 1994 14:30 | 2 |
| I think there are parallels... especially in the Bible. Remember I am
not speaking of Black slavery.
|
9.1399 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Jul 12 1994 14:33 | 8 |
| Glen:
Isaac served his Father n law 7 years to get the hand of Rachel.
Master/Slave relationships were not as oppressive in the Bible as they
were in the 17/1800's in America. Most of the slave market was either
to pay debt or for monetary compensation.
-Jack
|
9.1400 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 12 1994 14:52 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 9.1398 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| I think there are parallels... especially in the Bible. Remember I am
| not speaking of Black slavery.
Nancy, I too was not speaking of black slavery. Could you provide some
examples?
Glen
|
9.1401 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:27 | 14 |
|
Along the lines of woman and men and who was treated worse. I think the
men were given the short end of the stick. We have always been cannon
fodder. Sent to do battle torn to sheds by mortars. When I hear an
American woman crying " I am mistreated" I am reminded of the fact
that per year in America more is spent on womans apparel and make-up
then on one years worth of military hardware.. Perhaps the best thing
that is happening in America is the tide is turning against the Fems.
Woman are waking up to the destructive force the Feminist really stands
for. Forever bashing men is is any wonder that 30 to 40 % of the N.O.W.
gang are lesbians and bisexuals.
David
|
9.1402 | who decided this? | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:48 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1401 by David
> We have always been cannon fodder. Sent to do battle torn to sheds by
> mortars.
Of course it was men who came up with this system...
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1403 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:52 | 10 |
|
> of course it was men who came up with this system..
Yep, and because of their willingness to stand and fight for what they
believed your able to be here today and bad mouth them. If it were left
to the liberal ilk there would never have been any wars becuase you
have a transitional value system.
David
|
9.1404 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:54 | 8 |
|
Good note David. Honest good that is. I don't see it the same way as
you, but at least you're honest.
Glen
|
9.1405 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:55 | 6 |
| Jim:
This only proves the point that there can be no peace without the
Prince of Peace.
-Jack
|
9.1406 | trying to pick a fight? | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:56 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1403 by David
> Yep, and because of their willingness to stand and fight for what they
> believed your able to be here today and bad mouth them.
Excuse me, David? When did I bad mouth them. Supply references.
Please do not put your words in my mouth.
Jim
|
9.1407 | yes, but... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:58 | 11 |
| re: Note 9.1405 by Jack
> This only proves the point that there can be no peace without the
> Prince of Peace.
I agree that there can be no real peace without the Prince of Peace, but how
is that point proved?
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1408 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 12:59 | 11 |
|
Jim,
You right Jim, I just ass-u-me-d that your criticism of men and their
willingness to develop the weapons of war would naturally follow into
a criticism of war and warriors. If you actually support war and
warriors then I openly extend my apologies to your sir.....
David
|
9.1409 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 13:04 | 5 |
| The point I am making is that the world is trying in vain to establish
a lasting peace without Christ. We are seeing the fruits of this in
our society today.
-Jack
|
9.1410 | thanks for explaining yourself | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 14:44 | 16 |
| re: Note 9.1408 by David
Thank you for explaining that David. Do I actually support war? Well, I
sadly believe that sometimes war is the only response humans have been able to
come up with. On the other hand, I have great respect for the men and women
who truly believe that they are fighting for some Good. To give or be willing
to give one's life to a cause one believes in is a heroic act. I also respect
those who were drafted into the armed services and served their country from
that standpoint. Yet on the other, other hand, I am saddened when these
people are caught up in a war that turns out to be not so glorious, but
motivated by politics, greed, and deceit. But my respect for the individual
soldiers, nurses, ... does not waver.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1411 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 13 1994 14:53 | 7 |
|
What are some of those fruits you see Jack?
Glen
|
9.1412 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 14:57 | 9 |
|
JIM,
Not quite sure I undertand you. Is war okayh sometimes? Under certain
circumstances??
David
|
9.1413 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 15:32 | 7 |
| Glen:
As mentioned in the past, divorces, STDs, Racism, Murder, Crime,
Godlessness. I can get the US Beureau of Statistics data on this.
Grief has grown rampant since the 1960's. Too bad nobody listens to
me! :-)
|
9.1414 | to war or not to war | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 15:35 | 16 |
| re: Note 9.1412 by David
David, It's a topic I'm a bit uncertain of, myself. I've heard the concept of
a "Just War", when it is plain and clear that a country or group must defend
themselves or another. Many times, however, wars are fought for the wrong
reasons. I guess I can believe that in this world, war may be necessary as a
last resort. However, I believe that too often, that "last resort" comes far
too quickly.
I'm reminded of a quote from Abraham Lincoln that goes something like
"The question is not whether God is on our side, but are we on God's side?"
This was an answer to a question regarding the War Between the States.
I hope this helps,
Jim
|
9.1415 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 13 1994 16:33 | 29 |
| | <<< Note 9.1413 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| As mentioned in the past, divorces, STDs, Racism, Murder, Crime, Godlessness.
Jack, I can see what you mean. And with what you put above it was all
caused by many many different reasons. The last one bothers me some though. Do
you mean Godlessness as in atheist or is someone who believes differently than
you do on spiritual things thrown into that catagory too?
| I can get the US Beureau of Statistics data on this.
No need fer that Jack. I know the numbers have risen. But I wish you
weren't so blind about the past. Today everything is made public. Back then
everything was hidden. A perfect example is you heard very little about a
parent physically or mentally abusing their child. It still happened, but it
was just not talked about.
| Grief has grown rampant since the 1960's. Too bad nobody listens to me! :-)
Nobody listens to you because ya ain't got the right picture about the
60's and stuff. I'd much rather have everything out in the open and try to deal
with the problems of the world that way instead of trying to keep things hidden
like it will go away or something.
Glen
|
9.1416 | A bit of history all too easily dismissed | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | The rocks will cry out! | Wed Jul 13 1994 17:30 | 8 |
| The so-called "Just War" notion evolved over time. For the first 300
years (nearly 100 longer than the U.S. has existed as an entity),
Christianity was a virtually pacifistic movement. It was only when
the church jumped into bed with the state under Constantine that the
church acquiesced to the martial interests of the state.
Richard
|
9.1417 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 17:40 | 6 |
| Didn't the state actually jump into bed with the church? My
understanding was that Constantine proclaimed all to be Christians.
(He actually worshipped Rah the sun god).
-Jack
|
9.1418 | jumped into bed together | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | The rocks will cry out! | Wed Jul 13 1994 19:29 | 5 |
| I don't know what your experience is when it comes to jumping into bed,
Jack. Doubtlessly, to some degree, it was consensual.
Richard
|
9.1419 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 19:54 | 8 |
| I believe at the time the church existed underground, in hiding from
persecution. It seemed the more the church was persecuted, the more
it grew. Constantine's edict was ingenious because by proclaiming the
whole world to be Christian, it took most of the persecution away.
Christianity was infiltrated by Baal worship and Christianity was like
salt that lost its savor.
-Jack
|
9.1420 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Wed Jul 13 1994 20:02 | 5 |
| And it became acceptable for Christians to kill and do unto others as
they had been done to in prior times.
Richard
|
9.1421 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 20:03 | 17 |
| Darn, I wrote a whole thing to have the link aborted...bummer.
Glen:
I should have used the word lasciviousness instead of Godlessness.
Kind of like the men of Sodom and Gomorrah.
I am not hiding my head in the sand; I realize throughout history
things have been just as bad or worse. Lord knows the apostles went
through far worse social problems than we have encountered. Yes,
I do believe things should be in the open. I see leadership pushing
conformity instead of responsibility. I see leadership looking for the
quick fix and similarly flushing us down the toilet with them. Again
I submit that this is why parents are abandoning the public schools in
droves. I'm not happy about this either but it is a fact we need to
deal with.
-Jack
|
9.1422 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Jul 13 1994 20:24 | 31 |
| --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>> And it became acceptable for Christians to kill and do unto others as
>> they had been done to in prior times.
This statement is painted with an extremely broad brush. That would be like
saying that all Israelites during Christ time were paumpous and arrogant
because of the actions of the Pharisees. It would be like saying all
Germans during WW2 were ruthless butchers because 6M Jews were killed in
Germany. The fact is that most Israelites in that time were humble and
poor; and most Germans in Germany feared reprisals and grew to hate what
Germany had become.
It would be a hasty generalization to say that it was acceptable for
Christians to kill.... I believe it was the Acts of Constantine that laid the
foundation for Papacy in the world, something that lead to the claiming of
being the only ones to interpret scripture and eventually the self given
right to kill based on who was a heretic and who wasn't. I would have been
considered a heretic had I lived in those times and would have eventually
been martyred by those who claimed to be Christians. Constantine was
no less than an idol worshipper.
"Truly I say unto you, you will know a tree by its fruit. A good tree
cannot produce bad fruit and likewise a bad tree cannot produce good fruit."
Gospels Someplace!
You may also note that some of the epistles like third John address the issue
of false bretheren in the Church.
-Jack
|
9.1423 | thanks | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 22:36 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1416 by Richard "The rocks will cry out!"
> -< A bit of history all too easily dismissed >-
Thanks for the history. As I said, I've heard of the concept but I am not
very comfortable with it.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1424 | thanks | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Jul 13 1994 22:38 | 5 |
| Jack, thanks for your input as well.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1425 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Thu Jul 14 1994 01:55 | 9 |
| Jack,
I didn't say all Christians instantly bought into the legitimization
of state sponsored warfare. Not all Christians ever have.
So please don't read more into it than what I said.
Richard
|
9.1426 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Thu Jul 14 1994 02:03 | 8 |
| >Thanks for the history. As I said, I've heard of the concept but I am not
>very comfortable with it.
Indeed, it's part of what makes Jesus' life and teachings so radical even
still.
Richard
|
9.1427 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Jul 14 1994 09:44 | 9 |
|
Thanks for clarifying Jack. I appreciate it. Lust was part of the
problem with the cities, but not the entire thing. Far from it. But then you
did list other things too. :-)
Glen
|
9.1428 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Jul 14 1994 10:35 | 11 |
| --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>> And it became acceptable for Christians to kill and do unto others as
>> they had been done to in prior times.
The statement needed to be clarified. I assumed from the way it looked
that there is a definite article that should be placed before the
word Christians. You have now clarified that the word "some"
belongs in there.
-Jack
|
9.1429 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Thu Jul 14 1994 12:52 | 6 |
| .1428 I'm not here to discuss the subtleties of the English language,
Jack. Just because something becomes acceptable doesn't mean that all
will participate in it.
Richard
|
9.1430 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Jul 14 1994 13:13 | 4 |
| Normally I would agree; however, subtleties in grammer and nomenclature
can cause miscommunication and misunderstanding.
-Jack
|
9.1431 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Thu Jul 14 1994 13:15 | 5 |
| I think it's more than that, but don't care to expend the effort to
explore it further here.
Richard
|
9.1432 | Pacifists all of us? | CSC32::KINSELLA | A tree with a rotten core cannot stand. | Thu Jul 14 1994 13:28 | 25 |
| Hi Richard,
I hesitate to respond right now because I don't know if I'm truly at
the end of my search yet, but I will anyway. I respect that you are
called to be a pacifist. What I'm not sure I'm as crazy about is your
denigrating attitude towards Christians who aren't pacifists. I have
tried this week to let go of any beliefs I have about peace, war,
fighting, etc....and search God's Word for what He has to say and I
just don't see this clear cut of a call to all Christians. I've
searched on the word peace, war, fighting, soldier, centurion, and
probably a few others I don't remember, but just can't come to this
conclusion that you claim. Indeed God established Israel as a warring
nation. In Acts, Cornelius, a Roman centurion, is called a devout man,
so devout in fact that God hears His prayers and responds... here he is
in soldier in one of the most corrupt governments and yet he's not
condemned for that. We're not told that after he here's the message
that he feels led of God to leave His post. And the nation of Edom is
even punished by God for not coming to Israel's defense when it was
invaded. I just don't find a peace about all Christians being called
to this pacifist role. I have no trouble with the fact that you are
called to it, indeed we probably need reminders about peace in this
world, but I think you need to be sensitive to the fact that God may
not have called all of us to that stance.
Jill
|
9.1433 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Thu Jul 14 1994 14:01 | 9 |
| I cited Christian history. And yes, I believe the church compromised
itself beginning about the time of Constantine, about 300 years after
Jesus.
You are free, of course, to continue to call this a "denigrating
attitude."
Richard
|
9.1434 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Thu Jul 14 1994 15:07 | 5 |
|
> I didn't say all christians
You didn't say they they didn't either, oh sly one :-)
|
9.1435 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Thu Jul 14 1994 15:24 | 2 |
| I like to credit the reader with the ability to think. ;-)
|
9.1436 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Thu Jul 14 1994 17:16 | 9 |
|
When reading you for the totality of your thoughts I believe they
had valid concerns and reasons to questions you meaning...
ping and pong and ping and pong :-)
David
|
9.1437 | | 3737::JMARTIN | | Mon Jul 18 1994 12:59 | 11 |
| Richard:
Sorry, your initial response was not straightforward. It called for an
assumption on the part of the reader.
You may recall that John 1:1's meaning is interpreted by other faiths
to refer to small god verses large God. All of this because I believe
it says, "The God" verses "a god". Amazing how one little article can
make such a drastic difference.
-Jack
|
9.1438 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Mon Jul 18 1994 13:57 | 6 |
| John 1:1 is one of the most complex assertions in the entire Bible.
To genuine appreciate it, I believe one must have firm grasp of both
Logos Theology and Genesis 1:1.
Richard
|
9.1439 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Mon Jul 18 1994 14:00 | 6 |
| Not everything is as straightforward as we would like to believe it is.
I assure you, Jack, I was as straightforward as the situation which it
addressed. And I resent the underlying implication.
Richard
|
9.1440 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Jul 18 1994 19:10 | 14 |
| Richard:
Tell me something, what DON'T you resent in life? I mean, everytime
somebody says something to you in the slightest admonition, you resent
it.
Richard, you didn't state it clearly. You said Christians, not just
some Christians, and you're not at least dealing with this is hurting
the cause of Christ. There are Read Only individuals ya know!
Please make your statements clearly so that others will not misread
them.
Thank you!
|
9.1441 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Tue Jul 19 1994 01:14 | 7 |
| 91.4149 & 91.4151
What, if anything, do you believe you were contributing to the topic by
making the remarks you did, Jack?
Richard
|
9.1442 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Tue Jul 19 1994 01:45 | 16 |
| 9.1440
More accurately, I said it became acceptable for Christians. Now,
I believe the average reader is intelligent enough to recognize
that, at minimum, Christian children, the Christian elderly, the
Christian infirmed, and Christian women at that time in history
would have been excluded from participation in killing at the
direction of the state through military service. It might or
might not have excluded a lot more.
If you continue to have this problem with my notes, I suggest you
just skip over them. I refuse to make a habit of this.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.1443 | just musing... | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Mon Jul 25 1994 10:07 | 15 |
| On more than one occasion, I've heard people say "your just arguing semantics"
in a disparaging way, as if that was somehow disingenuous or being too picky.
Semantics is "the study or science of meaning in language forms, especially
with regard to its historical change" (American Heritage Dictionary.)
It seems to me, that as many of us base our beliefs on a collection of books
written many centuries ago, and subject to many translations, semantics can be
very important.
Why is it so objectionable to some people to try to understand what a person,
or indeed God, means by a particular word or phrase?
Just musing...
Jim
|
9.1444 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Jul 25 1994 13:15 | 13 |
| That was the point I was making. There is a difference between these
two statements.
Christians is Colorado are religious bigots.
Some Christians in Colorado are religious bigots.
The indefinite artcle changes the meaning of the comment drastically.
Furthermore, Richard and I miscommunicated. I thought he was referring
to the crusades but based on a few replies ago, he seems to be
referring to military conflicts.
-Jack
|
9.1445 | It works for other things too! | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Jul 26 1994 10:52 | 14 |
|
Jack, I don't think you will find anyone in here to disagree with what
you are saying between some and all. I think from time to time some of us will
use a blanket term to describe something when it should not be done so. In our
minds we may know what we mean, but if we don't speak clearly we will give off
a wrong impression. That's why I am glad there are people like you who will
make sure the some and all are distinguished to prevent all Christians from
getting a bad rap.
Glen
|
9.1446 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Wed Jul 27 1994 14:19 | 89 |
| <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;2 >>>
-< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
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.101
> You just don't stop with your character assasination of the God of the
> Bible do you? This is your goal, your mission in life... to say it
> over and over and over and over and over again.
> You think are "thought provoking", but most of the time you are just
> provoking.
>Oxymoronic is a paradoxical statement such as, "cold hot".
> You have more conclusions than you are readily admitting. This whole
> q & a is a farce, a venue for you to repeat yourself over and over and
> over and over again.
> This is what *I* think.
The question for me is what really are my objectives in the string
Women in the Bible.
Yes I do like take an uncommon perspective of an issue and arguing it.
The devil's advocate position. I will not take a devil's advocate
position unless I find merit to the position.
Yes, I do have a deep rooted attachment to the Unitarian Universalist
perspective. To the Religious Liberal Perspective. It is my Faith and
I define myself by my Faith.
Yes, I do take a consistent Feminist position. The feminist position
is the source of many of my assumptions and influences my views on
other issues. Because of my feeling that men are treated as normative
and women are treated as other, I relate these feelings to other kinds
of oppressions such as the oppressions of Gay and Lesbians, and Racial,
Ethnic, and Class Oppressions.
All of my assumptions are stated up front.
Now why have I invested perhaps 80 hours over the last month reading
the prophets and noting about some of my perspectives. Why am I
commited to read and study the entire old testament in spite of my
negative reactions to some of the material that is in that book.
1. To understand from a literary and historic perspective what the
Bible is all about.
2. To determine how the Bible informs my own Faith.
3. To understand how the Bible informs the Faith of others.
4. To determine whether I as a Feminist can continue to call myself a
Christian. To determine whether I want to.
5. To understand the fundementalist personality.
6. To defend myself and my world view from any real, reactionary threat
based on anti women and other negative material in the Bible.
I have done my best to state all my assumptions and to answer all real
questions to me as honestly as I can.
Before I posed the question on Jezebel, I had not read the material in
Kings for at least 2 years. As a result of the discussion, I reread
that material. I read and enjoyed Isaac Asinov's interpretation as
posted in here. I read the Encyclopedia write up on Jezebel and I read
my woman's Bible commentary on those passages of Kings.
Nancy, it is quite a set of assumptions on your part to assume that my
questions were a farce. In spite of your accusations I have enjoyed
much of this interchange and have learned a lot from it. I have
learned enough to feel the time spent was worthwhile.
I can appreciate and respect some elements of Jezebel's personality
without condoning everything she did. I like strong women and I like
seeing strong women identified in historic records and in the Bible. I
like reading behind the obvious to discover new things. I know Jezebel
a lot better today than I did a month ago? If a few of us now know a
little more about Zezebel and about feminist interpretation of the
scriptures than the discussion in my opinion has been worthwhile.
Patricia
|
9.1447 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jul 27 1994 14:44 | 8 |
| I'm glad it was personally satisfying for you. Unfortunately I cannot
tell you the same. Your noting from the "devil's advocate" only allows
me to see you as an antagonist. It does not show any sincerity in a
serach for truth, but more in search of what you can find to prove your
way of thinking is better.
Based on your previous note... I'd say this view is rather correct.
|
9.1448 | WYSIWYG ? | DNEAST::DALELIO_HENR | | Wed Jul 27 1994 14:51 | 21 |
|
Patricia,
Ok lets accept the fact that Israel is likened to an unfaithful wife
with Jehovah being the betrayed. The fact is that Israel and Judah
were both taken away into captivity, suffering a great deal of persecution
and destruction. However the prophets were speaking prophetically (did you
lose sight of that fact?) warning Israel and Judah of their impending doom.
They chose to ignore these warnings and the allegories came to pass.
He chose to use *meaningful and contemporeous* allegories to warn them of
their soon-to-be demise. So what?
Your complaint about the bible portrayal of women as being negative losses
somewhat of its sincerity and impact, as I remember you pointing out
(and rightfully so) that Wisdom is personafied as a woman in the Book of
Proverbs. The allegories, types and word pictures of the Bible are rich
and varied. We all (thumpers included) need to look at the deeper message
and not use the the surface message to promote an agenda.
Hank D
|
9.1449 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Jul 27 1994 15:22 | 21 |
|
Nancy, did you read Patricia's entire note or did you stop at the
devil's advocate part? I think if maybe you read the entire note you would have
realized just where Patricia is coming from. Like she said, she has been very
honest and upfront.
Oh, the accusations you made towards her were pretty funny as well. She
told you what she meant, but now you are telling her what she meant. She bases
herself on her faith, you say she really is an antagonist. As the U2 song goes:
Have you come here to play Jesus, to the lepers in your head!!??
In other words, you seem to know what the reasons Patricia has for her
beliefs even though she is telling you differently.
Glen
|
9.1450 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Wed Jul 27 1994 15:25 | 12 |
| Hank,
I have only read small portions of the Wisdom literature. Some feel
that it is the most conducive to the feminist perspective. I am eager
to get on with my study. I started reading Job last night.
Based on Genesis, The prophets, and the Historic books which I remember
from two years ago, I find overwhelming evidence that the OT is
unfriendly to women. Perhaps I will change my mind after reading the
Wisdom books. I promise to let you know.
Patricia
|
9.1451 | You reject the whole concept of punishment for wrong | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Jul 27 1994 18:25 | 6 |
| Patricia,
What you seem to reject is the concept that there is a penalty for wrong
behaviour.
/john
|
9.1452 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jul 27 1994 22:21 | 13 |
| At 11:30 A.M. today, I as in a car accident. I hit a car turnin front
of me. I was going around 30 mph. I found out today I have no car
insurance. My van is going to require at least a minimum of $3000.00
to fix. The van currently is not drivable. I do not have the money to
fix it.
My body is in shock, my neck, back and shoulders are as well. My knees
are bruised.. but by a miracle of God, my chest and ribs are unharmed
as though something was between me and the steering wheel that is bent
forward.
Nancy
|
9.1453 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Accept no substitutes! | Wed Jul 27 1994 23:02 | 8 |
| Nancy,
I'm glad you were not injured any worse. It sounds like it
could have been very serious. Was anyone else injured? Other
than prayer, is there a way we can help you?
Richard
|
9.1454 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jul 28 1994 00:43 | 15 |
| Richard,
Pray... pray that the guy I hit doesn't sue me. Pray that through a
miracle of God I find the money to repair my van... The van itself is
worth about $13,000 and its paid for.
If it cost $3K to repair, I think it's worth it... I called asking if
anyone would take a payment plan for fixing the van... and of course
the answer is No. So that's a matter of prayer.
Perhaps God will send someone who can loan me the money who doesn't
need it back very quickly. I can't afford much, but I can afford to
pay about $200 per month... it'll be tough, but I think I can manage.
Nancy
|
9.1455 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Jul 28 1994 08:55 | 9 |
|
Nancy, I'm sorry to hear about your news. I do hope that things fall
into place for you. You'll be in my prayers.
Does California allow cars to not have insurance?
Glen
|
9.1456 | praying | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Thu Jul 28 1994 09:32 | 7 |
| Nancy,
I'm praying for you.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1457 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Mon Aug 01 1994 12:48 | 9 |
|
..pray for me please, I am stuck in Schewsbury(sp) Mass for several
weeks and these liberals are killing me :-) :-)
lord it is humid here,
David
|
9.1458 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | Resident Alien | Mon Aug 01 1994 16:39 | 10 |
| David,
I am praying for you.
Hoping you might go back home thoroughly convinced of the liberal
position.
That may be quite a challenge for the liberals in SHR.
Patricia
|
9.1459 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Tue Aug 02 1994 07:49 | 9 |
|
>that might quite a challenge for the liberals in SHR
...just the price of a frontal labotamy :-)
David
|
9.1460 | welcome to New England! | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Aug 02 1994 09:44 | 16 |
| re: Note 9.1457 by David
David,
Are you free for lunch? Thursday this week, any day except Friday next week
are open for me. dtn 237-3269 / SHR1-3/B9, look for the pink flamingos.
Peace,
Jim (one of those Shrewsbury liberals, and I won't even try to convert you .-)
> lord it is humid here,
Yeah, but you should be here when it's HOT! .-)
p.s. Can we arrange a CP dinner in honor of David?
|
9.1461 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Tue Aug 02 1994 10:56 | 10 |
|
Yes.
> can we arrange a c-p dinner
Oh no need to fuss over me :-)
David
|
9.1462 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Aug 02 1994 11:02 | 4 |
|
That would be cool!
|
9.1463 | | COMET::DYBEN | | Tue Aug 02 1994 13:38 | 9 |
|
I can do the lunch but would prefer to hold off on the cp dinner.
Jim,
Thursday for lunch in the cafeteria 11:30 a.m.? I will stop by your
office beforehand and meet with you.
David
|
9.1464 | Thursday it is | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Aug 02 1994 13:54 | 7 |
| re: Note 9.1463 by David
I'll be waiting for you Thursday.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1465 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Aug 02 1994 14:12 | 5 |
| Actually,
I wish we could all do lunch...I'd like to meet you all.
I told Patricia if I ever get down to the Mill I am going to look her
up!
|
9.1466 | [string moved from 938.134 and following] | CSC32::J_OPPELT | decolores! | Fri Aug 19 1994 15:07 | 1 |
| What a pathetic topic in an equally pathetic conference.
|
9.1467 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Aug 19 1994 15:19 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 938.134 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "decolores!" >>>
| What a pathetic topic in an equally pathetic conference.
Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile you seem so nice. Why do you
come in here and spew off the venom that this note of yours projects? Are you
one of those chameleons? I mean, you're like this in SOAPBOX too. Such a loving
Christian.....
|
9.1468 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | decolores! | Fri Aug 19 1994 15:35 | 22 |
| > Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile
This isn't "another Christian notesfile". You only delude
yourself when you pretend to believe it. Oh, it may have
the word "Christian" in the name, but anyone can call
himself Christian.
This conference's welcoming banner "Prostitutes and tax
collectors welcome" has much more meaning that you might
think. It is one thing to know you are a sinner and to
then seek forgiveness. It is another to revel in that
sinfulness.
>I mean, you're like this in SOAPBOX too. Such a loving
>Christian.....
And are Christians barred from expressing their opinions?
Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
This conference is as degenerate as soapbox and requires a tougher
demeanor. Deal with it.
|
9.1469 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Fri Aug 19 1994 16:25 | 8 |
| Re: .136 Joe
> This conference is as degenerate as soapbox and requires a tougher
> demeanor. Deal with it.
The "Next" command works quite well...
-- Bob
|
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|
9.1471 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | decolores! | Fri Aug 19 1994 17:11 | 4 |
| Well maybe it wouldn't be set hidden if you placed it is a
truly pathetic conference.
Thus mine remains unhidden.
|
9.1472 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Aug 19 1994 17:27 | 7 |
| re Note 938.138 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> What a pathetic topic for an equally pathetic conference.
They don't want you reveling in your pathos!
Bob
|
9.1473 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 19 1994 18:14 | 18 |
| Note 938.134 Abraham & Sarah : Sexual Morality in the OT 134 of 134
Joe,
While I agree with you and have gone round and round in this conference
over the use of the term Christian to include things which have nothing
to do with Christ, I have to admit I am aghast at your expression here.
Richard,
Why would you come over to the CHRISTIAN notes conference and put such
a thing when your grievance is with a single individual?
Joe is not a moderator of the conference, is there some misperception
about this?
Nancy
|
9.1474 | Avoid the near occasion of sin... | CSC32::J_OPPELT | decolores! | Fri Aug 19 1994 18:35 | 4 |
| re .1469
Actually the DELETE ENTRY command would be more useful. I'll
probably do that sooner than later.
|
9.1475 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Fri Aug 19 1994 19:19 | 2 |
| Such an articulate defense. Jesus and Paul Wicker would be proud.
|
9.1476 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | decolores! | Fri Aug 19 1994 19:35 | 5 |
| Frankly I think they would.
And am I suppose to be impressed that you know who my pastor
is? I think you know, then, that he would be embarrassed for
you if he saw what you write in here.
|
9.1477 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 19 1994 19:46 | 2 |
| Care to answer my note, Richard?
|
9.1478 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Fri Aug 19 1994 21:23 | 9 |
| re: Note 9.1466 by Joe "decolores!"
> What a pathetic topic in an equally pathetic conference.
I love you, Joe.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1479 | See new topic 960 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Sat Aug 20 1994 16:33 | 7 |
| 9.1476
I really don't care whether you're impressed or not. And, as you
probably already realize, I question the veracity of your conclusion.
Please, do continue your persecution.
|
9.1480 | A postscript to 9.1479 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Sun Aug 21 1994 18:32 | 8 |
| Incidentally, I do not place the names Jesus and Paul Wicker in close
proximity casually.
I look up to Paul Wicker as a deeply spiritual human being and think
of him as one of Christ's more faithful servants.
No, I'm not saying this to impress anyone.
|
9.1481 | ? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Mon Aug 22 1994 08:05 | 9 |
| re Note 9.1480 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> Incidentally, I do not place the names Jesus and Paul Wicker in close
> proximity casually.
>
> I look up to Paul Wicker as a deeply spiritual human being and think
> of him as one of Christ's more faithful servants.
Who is Paul Wicker?
|
9.1482 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 22 1994 12:28 | 43 |
| | <<< Note 9.1468 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "decolores!" >>>
| > Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile
| This isn't "another Christian notesfile". You only delude yourself when you
| pretend to believe it. Oh, it may have the word "Christian" in the name, but
| anyone can call himself Christian.
Ahhhh..... so that means because you believe it is not a real Christian
notesfile, then you believe it is ok to rip people apart. Now I get it. Sounds
like in front of those who you perceive to be real Christians you act one way,
towards anyone else you act another. Do I have this right Joe? If not, then
please explain how you SEEM to have a double standard when it comes to treating
people.
| This conference's welcoming banner "Prostitutes and tax collectors welcome"
| has much more meaning that you might think.
I think what might be happening is you have projected your own thoughts
into the meaning. Tell us what you believe it means, and I'm sure that the
person who origionally wrote it will explain it to you. Why do I get the
feeling we're gonna see two different definitions....
| >I mean, you're like this in SOAPBOX too. Such a loving
| >Christian.....
| And are Christians barred from expressing their opinions?
In a nondemeaning manner would be helpful. Stop being so condensending
and people might actually see that your heart is filled with love.....
| Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
Huh?
| This conference is as degenerate as soapbox and requires a tougher demeanor.
| Deal with it.
The Word according to Joe......can't deal with it my friend...
Glen
|
9.1483 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Aug 22 1994 12:38 | 14 |
| There is quite a distinction between acting Christian and being
Christian.
Christian- (My own definition) - One who has surrendered their life to
Jesus Christ. One who acknowledges that we are eternally separated from
The Loving Holy God without accepting Christ' death and resurrection as
an atoning sacrifice and payment for sin.
If you do not believe this, then in my mind, one has a religious
perspective. There is nothing wrong with this but the word Christian
as a noun is different from using "Christian" as an adjective. I know
athiests who act Christian.
-Jack
|
9.1484 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 22 1994 13:02 | 10 |
|
But Jack, there will be those who would consider you a non-Christian by
your definition. Why? Because you did not include they have to believe the
Bible is the inerrant Word of God. It seems to be more than just a faith thing
for some.
Glen
|
9.1485 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | decolores! | Mon Aug 22 1994 13:30 | 33 |
| .1482
>| > Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile
>
>| This isn't "another Christian notesfile".
>
> Ahhhh..... so that means because you believe it is not a real Christian
>notesfile, then you believe it is ok to rip people apart. Now I get it.
My initial reply that precipitated this particular discssuion (now
posted in .1466 and elsewhere) was not intended to "rip apart" any
particular individual, but the conference itself. Appropriate,
wouldn't you say, for a confernce by its design exists to rip
apart real Christianity.
>like in front of those who you perceive to be real Christians you act one way,
This conference reaps what it sows. By its very nature it is
confrontational. So confrontation you get. You chide me to
"act Christian". What is that really? Are you looking for me
to be silent and meek in the face of your attacks on my religion?
Is that "acting" Christian to you?
> In a nondemeaning manner would be helpful. Stop being so condensending
>and people might actually see that your heart is filled with love.....
You first.
>| Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
>
> Huh?
That you don't understand this says a lot.
|
9.1486 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Aug 22 1994 13:33 | 11 |
| Well then, while we're at it...how about Baptism, the need to attend
church, communion. The prophets foretold the coming of the Messiah,
this is the pivotal point of the salvation message.
If there is disagreement then it is worthy of discussion. The
inerrancy issue has been discussed in the past. I see it as the Word
of God, you see it as a book. The old...Your Truth..My Truth illogic.
If I rely completely in it with confidence, then you as believing it
only a book must rely on it with somewhat a lack of confidence.
-Jack
|
9.1487 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 22 1994 15:48 | 40 |
| | <<< Note 9.1485 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "decolores!" >>>
| >like in front of those who you perceive to be real Christians you act one
| way,
| This conference reaps what it sows. By its very nature it is confrontational.
| So confrontation you get.
Let's see, you entered lashing out. That's a heck of a hello.
| You chide me to "act Christian". What is that really? Are you looking for me
| to be silent and meek in the face of your attacks on my religion? Is that
| "acting" Christian to you?
Nope. You can have your beliefs, you can speak out when you believe
others have twisted what you believe to be the truth. It's the condensending
manner that you have chosen to do it. That is what would be great to see
changed. Do you feel it is impossible to get God's message out without being in
attack mode, without having a hateful tone?
| > In a nondemeaning manner would be helpful. Stop being so condensending
| >and people might actually see that your heart is filled with love.....
| You first.
wow.... this was origional....
| >| Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
| >
| > Huh?
| That you don't understand this says a lot.
So splain it to me.
Glen
|
9.1488 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 22 1994 15:51 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 9.1486 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| Well then, while we're at it...how about Baptism, the need to attend
| church, communion. The prophets foretold the coming of the Messiah,
| this is the pivotal point of the salvation message.
Exactly Joe. I am not trying to turn this into your belif vs my belief,
you believe the Bible to be the Word of God, I do not. What I was pointing out
was you did not include tat in your definition of Christianity. Because of that
many could think you don't quite have the whole picture. But does that make you
any less a Christian to God if you do not believe everything another Christian
does?
Glen
|
9.1489 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Aug 22 1994 16:10 | 7 |
| Certainly not. I am just amazed at how you put your faith in something
you don't believe to be of authority. In your mind then, how do you
separate the Bible from the Book of Mormon as an example? They are
both religious books yet you choose the doctrine of the bible over the
doctrine of the BoM.
-Jack
|
9.1490 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Mon Aug 22 1994 16:46 | 13 |
| Note 9.1481 Bob,
> Who is Paul Wicker?
Father Paul Wicker is or was at one time the pastor at Holy Apostles
(Roman) Catholic Church in Colorado Springs. He is or was at one time
connected with the pastoral care staff at Penrose Hospital.
But seeing how I'm so painfully wrong and so sinfully wayward in so many
ways, according to at least one of his parishoners, I'm probably going to
wet my pants when it finally dawns on me how wrong I am about Paul Wicker,
too!
|
9.1491 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 22 1994 16:53 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 9.1489 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| Certainly not. I am just amazed at how you put your faith in something you
| don't believe to be of authority.
I don't put my faith in the Bible. I have stated many times that I put
my faith in God Himself. That He will lead me where He believes I should be. I
do think that He does use the Bible, but he could also use a theif as well. It
is a guide to me, not something I would put my faith in.
Glen
|
9.1492 | | LEDS::LOPEZ | A River.. proceeding! | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:06 | 13 |
|
Not sure what all the fuss is about. Joe is expressing himself with
conviction as do many others who frequent this conference. That he is making
assertions about the conference itself is no less valuable than the thousands of
other topics discussed here. Maybe it's more valuable. Based on the reaction
toward Joe, I'm inclined to believe he may be on to something. It seems to me
that there is a fair amount of denial going on here.
I find Joe's perspective refreshing. Perhaps we could learn something
about ourselves if we are willing.
ace
|
9.1493 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:37 | 20 |
| Ace,
Hello! Good to see you, as usual.
How would it be if I were to enter a meeting where you were present
and, without even introducing myself, to "take a dump?" How would it
be if I told you that you were under the influence of Satan and that
someday you'll wet your pants when you realize the Truth (which,
incidentally, I already possess)?
Perhaps it would be okay with you. I don't know. I do know that
when a little sauce applied to the goose was then applied to the
gander, it was SET HIDDEN unapologetically and without excuse.
I find it more than a little queer that you should define such a
perspective as "refreshing".
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1494 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:40 | 5 |
| > Perhaps it would be okay with you. I don't know. I do know that
> when a little sauce applied to the goose was then applied to the
> gander, it was SET HIDDEN unapologetically and without excuse.
How is Joe Oppelt = to the CHRISTIAN notes conference?
|
9.1495 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:44 | 16 |
| Whoever ran those statistics about particpation in this conference,
should do a check on Joe Oppelts particpation over the last 6 months!
Richard, this is exactly the reason why I wrote the note I did to you,
which you so eloquently side-step.
Deal with the root problem man, not the symptoms!
Joe is no way represents the CHRISTIAN notes conference. How you can
equate the two is merely a reflection of your emotional dilusion about
the two conferences still being at odds with one another.
Get into 1994 and put the past behind you! There's barely a remnant of
particpants that even existed back then!
|
9.1496 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:48 | 15 |
| RE: <<< Note 9.1493 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Luke 1.78-79" >>>
> Perhaps it would be okay with you. I don't know. I do know that
> when a little sauce applied to the goose was then applied to the
> gander, it was SET HIDDEN unapologetically and without excuse.
The author was notified. Conference policy also describes the process
of hiding notes.
Jim
|
9.1497 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:53 | 18 |
| .1494
Nancy, (sigh),
Joe Oppelt does not = CHRISTIAN.
Neither do I = CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
You've heard this same message echoed here, yet you still do not hear
it. Methinks perhaps you're a little too attached to that other conference.
Shalom,
Richard
PS I already know you'll reply to this, perhaps with some of your
typically insightful analysis of me and/or the human condition.
Please understand, I do not promise to respond any further.
|
9.1498 | I never said I wasn't notified | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 14:57 | 29 |
| .1496 I can certainly verify that!
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|
9.1499 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Tue Aug 23 1994 15:02 | 8 |
|
Thank you.
|
9.1500 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Aug 23 1994 15:07 | 27 |
| Richard:
Greetings from the Northeast. Maybe it might be best instead of
allowing anger in your heart (that is if you have it), to just bring it
out and say it.
---------------------------------------------------------------------
This was the response to the set hidden question.
>> RE: what's with all the 'set hidden' replies....?
>> Oh, I caught one before "set hidden"... there was some incredibly nice
>> employee who valued our christian difference so much she/he had to take
>> the opportunity to express his/her feelings and opinions here in the
>> christian conference. I just know the Lord loves that person as much
>> as everyone else...
I read some of the Chit Chat a few replies before and a few replies
after. Apparently the noter above who carried the dialog at the time
was completely thrown off guard by your message that was set hidden.
The discussion was on political party distinctives.
So our fellow co-laborers can better understand, what was the
provocation?
Rgds.,
-Jack
|
9.1501 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Aug 23 1994 15:10 | 2 |
| Sorry, never mind...Now I see how Joe explained it a few replies later.
I'm slow...sorry!!
|
9.1502 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Aug 23 1994 16:42 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 9.1501 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| I'm slow...sorry!!
Gee Jack... you were always quick to point out things before!!! You
must be slippin... :-)
Glen
|
9.1503 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 16:43 | 32 |
| > Joe Oppelt does not = CHRISTIAN.
Fine, then why on heaven's earth did you post that note in the
CHRISTIAN notes conference?
> Neither do I = CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
Then why did you start that last note?
> You've heard this same message echoed here, yet you still do not hear
> it. Methinks perhaps you're a little too attached to that other conference.
I've heard only Glen Silva state this... others have indicated that you
have kept it alive. This doesn't negate my belief.
> PS I already know you'll reply to this, perhaps with some of your
> typically insightful analysis of me and/or the human condition.
> Please understand, I do not promise to respond any further.
Why wouldn't you get into some meaningful dialogue? Instead of arguing
over the statement, why not understand the pain behind the statement?
You don't like insightful? Why not? I see you as very insightful and
on occasion I have enjoyed your wit and pov.
Let's neither of us be hypocritical here Richard. I want to get over
this US vs THEM syndrome that appears to be perpetuated by you.
|
9.1504 | Check out the topics RJC started in CHRISTIAN | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 16:44 | 8 |
| It didn't take a rocket scientist to understand why the note in
chit-chat was deleted.
BTW, out of the two notes that I started in this conference, can anyone
tell me which of them were sarcastic or antagonistic to this
conference?
|
9.1505 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 16:57 | 10 |
| > I am skeptical of any who would limited discussion. I wonder how this
> question would be handled in the other conference.
We've had a whole lot more controversial subjects than this one in the
conference. The difference would have been the number of responses
from Bible believing Christians, thats all.
Why do you ask Patricia? Do you wish to also perpetuate a wedge that
need not exist?
|
9.1508 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 17:15 | 12 |
| .1503 & .1504
You've missed the point again, Nancy. And, realizing the
limits of my ability to communicate with you, I have decided not
to pursue it with you any further.
You wish I would see the light. And I wish you would see the
light. I will pray that God will bring about one or the other, or both.
Shalom in Jesus,
Richard
|
9.1509 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 17:16 | 10 |
| .1501
Jack,
It takes great strength of character to admit error. You'll
never see me ding you for it or praising anyone who does.
Your brother in Christ,
Richard
|
9.1510 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 17:27 | 12 |
| >Fine, then why on heaven's earth did you post that note in the
> CHRISTIAN notes conference?
What point have I missed. I've asked direct questions and received one
answer. The question above continues that discussion.
Why would you not continue? What have you to hide. Answer the
question, Richard and lets put to rest this ridiculous fude [sp].
Please...
Nancy
|
9.1511 | Wake-up Call... | LEDS::LOPEZ | A River.. proceeding! | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:09 | 15 |
|
re .1493
Hi Richard,
I know there is a lot of history between conferences. And there have
been a lot of personal attacks. I don't think focusing on those matters is
beneficial to anyone.
Joe's perspective was refreshing in the sense of a wake-up call. 8*)
We all need that.
regards,
ace
|
9.1512 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:10 | 10 |
| Richard wrote me offline and said "No thanks" to my attempt at coming
to an understanding...
I, for one, would like to see this childish rivalry end. I'm weary of
battles from long ago, in which I did not participate.
My feeling is let it go and move on....
I hope Richard you can do this.
|
9.1513 | my 2 scents | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:11 | 14 |
| re: Note 9.1510 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> What point have I missed. I've asked direct questions and received one
> answer. The question above continues that discussion.
My guess is that while such a note was entered here and was not set hidden and
was discussed (well, some of us tried to discuss it), it was set hidden in
Yukon::Christian. If it doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand why it
was hidden there, it doesn't take one to understand why it was NOT deleted
here. Hope that helps...
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1514 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:14 | 13 |
| Jim,
My question is "why was it entered there?"
What was the purpose, intent, motivation?
My question is what equated JOE to Christian notes conference? I was
told that he wasn't equal to.. my next logical question is then why was
that note entered into Christian?
I appreciate your attempt at answering the question, but I don't think
you understand the question in its entirety.
|
9.1515 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:30 | 6 |
| .1513 Thanks, Jim. I'm certain any attempt by me would not have
come out so well.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1516 | more dialogue | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:37 | 32 |
| re; Note 9.1514 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> My question is "why was it entered there?"
My guess is that Richard was using it to point out one of the differences
between the two files. It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than
C-P. My guess is that Richard used the wording of Joe's note to vividly point
that out, knowing that such a statement would not be tolerated there.
What equates Joe with Yukon::Christian? My guess is that he seemed
representative of many Yukon::Christian noters. (I'm not saying I agree with
that. From what I've seen, I think Joe is on the right hand fringe of the
folks in that conference.) There were several notes in the beginning days of
this conference by more "conservative" Christians asking that more ground
rules be spelt out. My memory is that some people wanted a literal view of
the Bible to be a cornerstone. These ground rules were intentionally left
blank.
I view Richard as a very bold Christian, ready to enter a challenge face to
face, one might even say "in your face". I think he wanted to point out one
of the differences between these two conferences.
> I appreciate your attempt at answering the question, but I don't think
> you understand the question in its entirety.
I hope this helps. If not, ask more questions till we come to an
understanding of what happened over the last few days.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1517 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:40 | 20 |
| Nancy,
The wedge exists. The wedge is perpetuated by every response that
instead of addressing the issue raised addresses the motivation for
asking the question, makes values judgements regarding the question and
the conference, complains that the question is an attack upon the Bible
etc.
I have been dissappointed in this conference in expecting to find a
kind of electronic spiritual community to find instead an arena where
people instead of being encouraged and pushed and positively challenged
in there journeys are instead condemned and disparaged for their
journeys whether the questions involved theological issues, ethical
issues, or spiritual issues.
I guess I do in a way feel badly that the liberal position of valuing
everyone right to free speech, means that the liberal must support the
right of free speech of someone who comes in here only to disrupt the
meeting so to speak.
|
9.1518 | He's accountable for his actions, not you | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:41 | 6 |
| Why should you guess? Why can't Richard answer this? You are enabling
his behavior by covering up for him.
Co-dependancy does not become you. :-) :-) :-)
|
9.1519 | didn't know the question was just for Richard | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:47 | 18 |
| re: Note 9.1518 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> -< He's accountable for his actions, not you >-
This is true.
> Why should you guess? Why can't Richard answer this? You are enabling
> his behavior by covering up for him.
see 9.1515 .-)
> Co-dependancy does not become you. :-) :-) :-)
.-)
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1520 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:57 | 18 |
| Nancy,
There is a difference between co-dependence and support. Each of us
must examine only our own hearts and motivations to know whether our
behavoir is supportive which is positive or codependent which is
harmful to ourselves and others.
I stand here in support of Richard, and Jim, and Bob, and Glen and many
others. They
are each in here struggling for intellectual and spiritual principles
which they hold dear. No one likes to come under attack. Richards tactics
of going into the Christian Notes file are direct. In a way they are
similiar to him entering the Air Base. I deeply support Richard's right
to use his own conscience to judge the extent of direct challenge he applies
to abusive structures. I deeply support Jim's right to support a friend
being challenged.
|
9.1522 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 18:59 | 38 |
| Patricia,
I've been disappointed much in my lifetime. I am not bitter, nor do I
disappoint others as way of "getting even". :-) [And I'm not
suggesting you do]
But disappointment will abound in life, we have expectations and many
of them are "pipe dreams", this will lend to much disappointment. Then
there are those expectations that are reasonable, and when they are
unfulfilled can lead to anger.
I'm sorry you find disappointment in the lack of "spiritual energy"
in this conference, but there can be no less when there is no unity.
You call yourself "Unitarian", however, are you unified with me? Are
we one in Spirit? I don't think so, do you? It's this diversity
because we worship totally different Gods that lends to alienable
feelings.
In CHRISTIAN, whether we be of one CHRISTIAN faith or another, i.e.,
"Evangelistic, Baptist, Catholic, Nazarene, etc., we are unified by the
common belief in Jehovah and the Word of God.
Yes, we are desparaging in our beliefs on the Word, but we are unified
that is the Word. Chit-chat has been criticized in here as being
fruitless. I beg to differ. It's a place away from our "differences"
where we can unify in our "likenesses" as workers, parents, husbands
and wives, and Christians.
I see no wedge between here and there... I really don't. I see room in
this company for both conferences. I have no need to destroy or trash
this place. And I certainly have no desire to trash RJC. But I do
call for a higher standard in him coming to terms with the co-existence of
CHRISTIAN. I think it's imperative to closing this issue with RJC.
Nancy
|
9.1524 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Tue Aug 23 1994 19:01 | 9 |
| re: .1516 TFH::KIRK "a simple song"
>It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
>noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than
>C-P.
Doesn't it? I've read the ground rules there and by my interpretation I would
not even be permitted to post.
|
9.1525 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 19:02 | 9 |
| .1518 Nancy,
It is because of that kind of response that I know that you
will not hear anything I might say. Label it what you will (and I
know you will). I know my limits, at least concerning our abilities
to communicate.
Richard
|
9.1526 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 19:16 | 10 |
| .1521
Your running away from confrontation. I'm surprised. You are a very
confrontational person by nature... but your shrinking from my
confrontation, why?
No-one should speak for you. It was your action, not Jim's or anyone
elses.
Why is it in 1994, accountability is such an issue?
|
9.1527 | Sorry if you don't like my logic, but its here | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Aug 23 1994 19:41 | 14 |
| .1515
Jim,
This is merely RJC wiping hand off brow, going "Whew" you fixed my
dilemma.
It's not adequate. Your postulation should have never been entered to
give RJC a way out of being accountable for his action.
When we care about someone we tend to do this for them... but it's not
healthy and it undermines growth.
|
9.1528 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 23 1994 23:50 | 13 |
| .1526 & .1527
I saw both of those coming.
I've already explained why I won't engage you further on this matter.
Reject it as you see fit.
I already know where it will lead and I will have nothing to do with
it. Accuse, poke, fish and falsify all you like. (And then assert that
your real purpose is to overcome an adversarial mentality.) You might as
well bay at the moon. The moon will pay no attention and will continue
to reflect the light it receives.
|
9.1529 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Tue Aug 23 1994 23:52 | 50 |
|
Re .1524
>>It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
>>noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than
>>C-P.
>Doesn't it? I've read the ground rules there and by my interpretation I would
>not even be permitted to post.
Have you ever read the ASKENET Conference? There are groundrules posted in
there which state the purpose of the conference. Among other things, there
is a statement that it is not a conference where one should ask about the
whereabouts of another conference. Notes are (or were when I frequented
that conference) nonetheless entered asking about the whereabouts of this
of that conference and they are met with a message to read the guidelines,
and once in a while someone comes along to challenge such an intollerant
policy.
Its similar in the Christian Conference to a point. It states in the
guidelines what the purpose of the conference is, and the intended audience
and its premise..the belief that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God, etc..
Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference. Do you argue with
the moderators of the ASKENET conference about their stated premise..do
you go into other conferences and complain about the intollerant bigoted
moderators who won't entertain questions that are clearly mentioned as
not meant for that conference? I would guess not. Then why harrangue
the CHRISTIAN conference for doing essentially the same thing?
Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
conference guidelines, do you even care? Do you blast the baseball conference
for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes? Do you blast the book
conference for not allowing talk about how to fix a leaky faucet?
If you don't agree with the premise of the conference that's fine..we are
there because we DO.
Jim who is typing this while valiantly trying to keep his cat from walking
on the keyboard.
|
9.1530 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Wed Aug 24 1994 01:41 | 5 |
| .1529 A cat? I *love* cats! Wish we could have one. Allergies,
you know.
Richard
|
9.1531 | I'm very surprised at you Richard | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 02:00 | 32 |
| > I saw both of those coming.
See I knew you were perceptive.
> I've already explained why I won't engage you further on this matter.
> Reject it as you see fit.
You've explained nothing other than not being willing face
confrontation, period.
> I already know where it will lead and I will have nothing to do with
> it. Accuse, poke, fish and falsify all you like. (And then assert that
You know more than I at this point than. I have no idea where it will
lead, however, my hope is to stop this Us vs. Them theme that runs so
cold in your bones.
> your real purpose is to overcome an adversarial mentality.) You might as
Amen! You got that right. That is our job to be overcomers, right?
You are an overcomer, I've learned that much about you. Why not
overcome this adversarial mentality? I don't have to prove it's there,
it's not a false observation, it's real.
> well bay at the moon. The moon will pay no attention and will continue
> to reflect the light it receives.
If the reflection includes further rivalry towards the CHRISTIAN notes
conference, then it is not light you are reflecting, but a grudge. A
grudge that has no pall bearers at this time, but should.
|
9.1532 | a multilogue | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Aug 24 1994 11:00 | 22 |
| re: several notes entered by Nancy
Nancy, your entry .1510 was addressed to Richard, I volunteered some verbiage
I thought might be helpful.
Your entry .1514 was addressed to me. I answered it.
I don't see where Richard went "'Whew' you fixed my dilemma".
It is very common in notes for others to enter their views on the discussion
of others. I take exception to your position that my note should never have
been entered. Yes, I care about Richard, and I care about you, that is why I
entered into the conversation. You may look at it as letting Richard off the
hook, I look at it as conversation, mediation. Perhaps you can look at it as
"couple's counselling".
I stand by what I write as my perspective in a topic that interests me. You
may accept it or not, Richard may accept it or not.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1533 | Guidelines for Confrontation | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Aug 24 1994 11:25 | 22 |
| It's funny but I sit at my terminal and type reply...then I sit for a
few minutes and ask myself..."How can I communicate this without
truly offending the other party? How can I communicate partisanship
for the betterment of myself and the individual to whom it is
addressed? I fail to see how I can do this other than stating two
rules I believe everybody can agree on...hopefully.
Rule #1: When an individual, man or woman, conservative or liberal,
writes questionable or controversial statements in a string, then said
person is accountable by ALL participants and is fair game to all
scrutiny and challenge thereof.
Rule #2: All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
and completely devoid of ambiguity. This means no metaphors, no
analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
NO AMBIGUITY.
I think this guideline will help us to better communicate.
In Christ and Faithfully Submitted,
-Jack
|
9.1534 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:05 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 9.1505 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| > I am skeptical of any who would limited discussion. I wonder how this
| > question would be handled in the other conference.
| We've had a whole lot more controversial subjects than this one in the
| conference. The difference would have been the number of responses from Bible
| believing Christians, thats all.
And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
that was completely deleted in there....
Glen
|
9.1535 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:09 | 13 |
| RE: <<< Note 9.1534 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
> And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
>that was completely deleted in there....
Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?
Jim
|
9.1536 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:09 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 9.1510 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Why would you not continue? What have you to hide. Answer the
| question, Richard and lets put to rest this ridiculous fude [sp].
Nancy, why do you refuse to answer some of the things I ask you? Now
reread the above question, but this time, put some of that same reasoning into
it. There are many scenerio's that can come from it I'm sure. Four that I can
think of off the top of my head are:
1) you'll realize that it is ok for Richard to NOT answer the question
2) you'll realize that YOU should answer all questions asked of you
3) you'll have a seperate reasoning than the 2 listed
4) you'll learn absolutely nothing from this
Guess which one I think it will be....
Glen
|
9.1537 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:14 | 6 |
| Glen:
There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
asks themself..."What's the dif".
|
9.1538 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:16 | 16 |
| I am not going to let this get lost in the pile. Response
please!!!
---------------------------------------------------------------------
Rule #1: When an individual, man or woman, conservative or liberal,
writes questionable or controversial statements in a string, then
said person is accountable by ALL participants and is fair game to all
scrutiny and challenge thereof.
Rule #2: All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
and completely devoid of ambiguity. This means no metaphors, no
analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
NO AMBIGUITY.
I think this guideline will help us to better communicate.
|
9.1539 | it's happened before | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:18 | 16 |
| re: Note 9.1535 by Jim "Friend will you be ready?"
>Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?
Some time ago (before Nancy was a co-moderator) I had entered a note
concerning the mythological value of Genesis. I had also explicitely defined
the meaning of the word "myth" meaning, basically, a story telling of the
interaction between a deity and mortals.
My notes were set hidden because I used the words "Bible" and "myth" in the
same sentence. Of course that was then, this is now, and I do not know how
the current moderatorship would handle it.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1540 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:25 | 44 |
| | <<< Note 9.1522 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| You call yourself "Unitarian", however, are you unified with me? Are we one
| in Spirit?
Nancy, you probably will not like what I have to say, but I do feel
compelled to say it. There is only one reason why Patricia and you are not
unified at this time. It is you. I have seen Patricia time and time again try
to hold conversations with you, where she has tried again and again to answer
your questions, tried to push away the attacks, and tried very very hard to be
as open as she possibly could be. No one says the two of you have to agree with
each others religious thoughts, beliefs, faiths. But you can't even come to
grips that she, like you, is a Christian. Patricia, on the other hand, while
not agreeing with everything you say, seems to still accept you as being a
Christian. (at least that is what I gathered from her notes) So if there is no
unity, it is because YOU will not allow it.
| In CHRISTIAN, whether we be of one CHRISTIAN faith or another, i.e.,
| "Evangelistic, Baptist, Catholic, Nazarene, etc., we are unified by the
| common belief in Jehovah and the Word of God.
How many different interpretations of that book are there in that file
Nancy? Everytime someone has a different belief as to what Scripture means,
major discussions start, but more often than not it leads to either people
saying YOU'RE WRONG or it ends in an argument. Belief in God is what matters
most. Faith in Him is what will save you. He will use many things in your
lifetime to show you this, including the Bible, but even you will agree that
without Faith in Him, you have nothing.
| Yes, we are desparaging in our beliefs on the Word, but we are unified
| that is the Word. Chit-chat has been criticized in here as being
| fruitless. I beg to differ. It's a place away from our "differences"
| where we can unify in our "likenesses" as workers, parents, husbands
| and wives, and Christians.
Ahhhhh.... I agree with it not being fruitless. There is a lot that
goes on in there. I think you tend to see more of how the people of that file
really are. It's a place where people seem to be themselves, and aren't out
trying to make themselves seem unhuman.
Glen
|
9.1541 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:29 | 19 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1539 by TFH::KIRK "a simple song" >>>
-< it's happened before >-
>My notes were set hidden because I used the words "Bible" and "myth" in the
>same sentence. Of course that was then, this is now, and I do not know how
>the current moderatorship would handle it.
A quick glance at the conference guidelines will show you that the Christian
conference is not a place where the Bible is considered "myth". We hold the
Bible to be the inerrant Word of God, and the conference is a place where
those who share in that belief gather.
Jim
|
9.1542 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:30 | 24 |
| Jim K.,
BTW, perhaps I misread your attempt at mediating as "answering for",
after all you did come to some conclusions about Richard's entry.
Mediating would remain without conclusions, perhaps??? Well at least I
think so.
Glen, eat bugs! :-) The reason you don't get answered every time you
ask is because it's a round robin of the same debates. I get weary of
covering the same ground under new guises.
Now back to Jim K.,
In regards to Genesis having mythological value... :-) :-) I can see
where the previous moderatorship would set that hidden. I, for one,
would probably lean more towards stating the premise of the conference
and explaining that there is no mythology in Genesis and therefore, no
value in discussing something one which the premise cannot be accepted.
Deleting it??? Questionable... each case is different... but it would
have to be a concensus of all the mods before such an act would take
place.
Nancy
|
9.1543 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:32 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 9.1529 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| Its similar in the Christian Conference to a point. It states in the
| guidelines what the purpose of the conference is, and the intended audience
| and its premise..the belief that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God, etc..
| Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
| the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
| premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
| purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference.
Jim, why don't you post the rules as they should be. Only one way of
thinking is allowed. Any other way of thinking will not be tolerated and or
deleted. That is what it comes down to, doesn't it?
| Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
| conference guidelines, do you even care? Do you blast the baseball conference
| for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes?
If I want to talk about baseball in the baseball conference, I can talk
about all aspects of it. I can talk about my own perceptions of rules, discuss
variations of play, etc. In Christian you can only talk about a one sided view
of being a Christian. See the difference?
Oh, and to have a one sided view of Christianity kind of makes it cult
like... imho
Glen
|
9.1544 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:34 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 9.1531 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| > I've already explained why I won't engage you further on this matter.
| > Reject it as you see fit.
| You've explained nothing other than not being willing face confrontation,
| period.
Psst.... Nancy.... that's how YOU have explained it.... I hope this
helps....
Glen
|
9.1545 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:34 | 31 |
| Rule #1: When an individual, man or woman, conservative or liberal,
writes questionable or controversial statements in a string, then
said person is accountable by ALL participants and is fair game to all
scrutiny and challenge thereof.
I agree 100%
Rule #2: All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
and completely devoid of ambiguity. This means no metaphors, no
analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
NO AMBIGUITY.
I 100% disagre
1. Each of us chooses what we answer and don't answer.
2. Succint answers are not always possible.(They also represent a
strong Male bias-re. Men are from Mars, Women from Venus)
3.devoid of ambiguity-No communication is ever devoid of ambiguity.
4. No assumptions-No communications is devoid of assumptions
5. No metaphor-Metaphor is a viable form of communication that
appeals to the heart and soul and not the rational mind. (another
strong Male bias)
6. No analougous remarks-Another valid form of communication(And
another Male bias)
(In identifying Male bias I do recognize that each of us has a male
and female side of us. I know this is controversial with both women
and men, conservative and liberal)
I too am frustrated by this string but rule number 2 is not the answer.
|
9.1546 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:34 | 21 |
| .1540
Is that supposed to offend me?????
Glen, eat bugs!
There is no way on earth Patricia and I could spiritually unite! Her
God is different than mine, period.
Have you noticed that in the last few months all that you have done is
attack me? You've got a burr in your saddle and the intials are NM.
:-) :-) :-)
I remember our interactions differently, as I believe Patricia would as
well, she and I have several times come to a place of palatable and
beneficial dialogue, for which I am most appreciative.
But conflict will exist and unity isn't brought about through manners.
It's brought about through the Spirit.
|
9.1547 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:35 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 9.1535 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| > And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
| >that was completely deleted in there....
| Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?
The premise was changed and the topic deleted.
|
9.1548 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:36 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 9.1537 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
| asks themself..."What's the dif".
splain please...
|
9.1549 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:40 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 9.1539 by TFH::KIRK "a simple song" >>>
| My notes were set hidden because I used the words "Bible" and "myth" in the
| same sentence. Of course that was then, this is now, and I do not know how
| the current moderatorship would handle it.
Jim, to add to that there was a topic in one of the versions of YUKON
that was called, "Why believe the Bible?" You could talk about many things in
there. Whether the Bible was true, or false. But you know what? Once they
changed the premise of the conference you had to look at that topic one way
only, as in why SHOULDN'T we believe the Bible, and NOT both that and why
SHOULD we believe the Bible. Again, this was something they changed in
midstream.
Glen
|
9.1550 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:42 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 9.1541 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| A quick glance at the conference guidelines will show you that the Christian
| conference is not a place where the Bible is considered "myth". We hold the
| Bible to be the inerrant Word of God, and the conference is a place where
| those who share in that belief gather.
Jim�, maybe it was one of those midstream changes that happened?
Glen
|
9.1551 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:44 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 9.1542 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Glen, eat bugs! :-) The reason you don't get answered every time you
| ask is because it's a round robin of the same debates. I get weary of
| covering the same ground under new guises.
I take it you did not apply your reasoning to why Richard won't answer
you....
Glen
|
9.1552 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:47 | 10 |
| Richard and I have not gone round robin over the "same" subjects.
Granted we take entirely different points of view [on occasion agree]
in most topics, but nonetheless, the same logic doesn't apply.
And furthermore, my interaction with Richard doesn't go back 2 years,
as it does with you. :-) :-) Crimoney Glen... push that ol' burr off
yer saddle and git along leetle doggy! :-)
|
9.1553 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:56 | 43 |
| | <<< Note 9.1546 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Is that supposed to offend me?????
It was not meant to offend you, but to possibly help you see the answer
to your question.
| Glen, eat bugs!
Boy, think of all the protien I'm gonna get from eating all these bugs
Nancy wants me to!
| There is no way on earth Patricia and I could spiritually unite! Her God is
| different than mine, period.
This is the first time I have seen you use a G when refering to
Patricia's God. Did you slip? :-) I guess what I don't understand is you say
this, like you have the one and only way God should be known. God has been
known so many different ways and it has always come back to being the same God.
If someone is dieing and calls out for God to save them, and they never read
the Bible, but in their hearts they are calling out, will God save them? You
bet He will. Even though they saw God in a different light than you, is it not
the same God that will save them?
| Have you noticed that in the last few months all that you have done is
| attack me? You've got a burr in your saddle and the intials are NM.
Nancy, I'll be frank with you. Ever since you wrote that note to the
mod ripping apart my character, I decided that from now on I will speak up if I
see you doing this to anyone else. I guess it happens often.....
| I remember our interactions differently, as I believe Patricia would as
| well, she and I have several times come to a place of palatable and
| beneficial dialogue, for which I am most appreciative.
Dialogue is not the same as you not allowing the two of you to unify. I
specifically said you do not have to agree with each other. I also specifically
said that you not seeing her for what she is, a Christian, is what is keeping
the two of you ununited.
Glen
|
9.1554 | ambiguity | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Aug 24 1994 12:58 | 29 |
| re Note 9.1533 by AIMHI::JMARTIN:
> Rule #2: All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
> and completely devoid of ambiguity. This means no metaphors, no
> analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
> NO AMBIGUITY.
I would second what I think Patricia said in another string:
communication without ambiguity is extremely difficult, and
may be impossible in practical situations.
I think we are all familiar with "legalese" -- the
excessively wordy, clause-filled prose riddled with arcane
words used in legal contracts (which includes a lot of
everyday situations such as the back of admission tickets,
product guarantees, and the like).
The whole reason for such prose is to be precise -- to avoid
ambiguity or misunderstanding (in a court of law, not by the
general public).
Even such difficult writing, as practiced by those who spend
years to learn it, is not 100% effective in eliminating
ambiguity. After all, many issues in the courtroom stem from
ambiguities.
Ambiguity is an unavoidable part of human communication.
Bob
|
9.1555 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 13:01 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 9.1552 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| And furthermore, my interaction with Richard doesn't go back 2 years,
| as it does with you. :-) :-)
Nancy, it isn't time that is the problem, it's how you interact with
others. You do the same thing with me, Richard, Patricia and Cindy to name a
few.
| Crimoney Glen.. push that ol' burr off yer saddle and git along leetle doggy! :-)
Kind of funny how you keep saying this to everyone, huh?
Glen
|
9.1556 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 13:03 | 9 |
| -1
Glen, no it's not funny, it's atypical of human behavior. Forgiveness
for perceived wrongs is not readily given by individuals. We tend to
cling to the hurt, the wrong whether it is real or not.
Forgiveness and moving on sets you free... grudges do not.
|
9.1557 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 13:07 | 61 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1543 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
>| Its similar in the Christian Conference to a point. It states in the
>| guidelines what the purpose of the conference is, and the intended audience
>| and its premise..the belief that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God, etc..
<| Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
>| the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
>| premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
>| purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference.
> Jim, why don't you post the rules as they should be. Only one way of
>thinking is allowed. Any other way of thinking will not be tolerated and or
>deleted. That is what it comes down to, doesn't it?
How you think is of no consequence to me (though I do care about your eternal
soul). You are free to think as you wish. However, we in that particular
conference believe a certain way, and that conference is where we share our
beliefs. So, what it comes down to is..why would anyone who does not hold the
beliefs as described in the conference continue to participate there, when there
is a conference (this one) where one is free as a bird to believe whatever
they wish? Have you been in the Mormonism conference arguing with them about
their beliefs? I haven't. Why? Because I don't share their beliefs and my
presence their would be antagonistic to the premise of that conference.
>| Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
>| conference guidelines, do you even care? Do you blast the baseball conference
>| for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes?
> If I want to talk about baseball in the baseball conference, I can talk
>about all aspects of it. I can talk about my own perceptions of rules, discuss
>variations of play, etc. In Christian you can only talk about a one sided view
>of being a Christian. See the difference?
OK..how about the Red Sox conference? That conference is set up for discussion
of the Boston Red Sox..a more specific subset of baseball. Do you go in there
and start a topic on the San Diego Padres and then argue with the moderators be-
cause you don't believe the Red Sox are the only baseball team that should be
talked about in there? Do you go into the Baseball conference and complain
about how intollerant the Red Sox conference is because they only allow
conversation related to the Red Sox in there?
> Oh, and to have a one sided view of Christianity kind of makes it cult
>like... imho
Right..
Jim
|
9.1558 | wasn't there then anyway | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 13:09 | 23 |
| RE: <<< Note 9.1547 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
>| > And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
>| >that was completely deleted in there....
>| Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?
> The premise was changed and the topic deleted.
Oh...well, I would have typed "DELETE ENTRY CHRISTIAN" and gone back to
work.
Jim
|
9.1559 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 13:09 | 25 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1550 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
>| A quick glance at the conference guidelines will show you that the Christian
>| conference is not a place where the Bible is considered "myth". We hold the
>| Bible to be the inerrant Word of God, and the conference is a place where
>| those who share in that belief gather.
> Jim�, maybe it was one of those midstream changes that happened?
Maybe...I wasn't there then
Jim
|
9.1560 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Aug 24 1994 13:36 | 42 |
| >> | There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
>> | asks themself..."What's the dif".
>> splain please...
Glen, please take this constructively. Lord knows I have my faults.
Glen, in your dialog with people, you reach a point of critical mass.
Since Patricia disagrees that we should be able to use analogies...
you can be like an annoying relative who comes over to visit...
and then stays for dinner. I don't know why I perceive this...I can't
explain it...but there you have it. Sometimes you can be like a gnat
on a hot July day. Now, feel free to rebutt and tell me I give a new
meaning to the word hemerhoids!!! :-)
Also, I want to touch on another issue. In your note to Nancy you
stated:
>>No one says the two of you have to agree with
>>each others religious thoughts, beliefs, faiths. But you can't even
>>come to grips that she, like you, is a Christian.
Glen I have discussed the attributes of being Christian and acting
Christian. One may act more Christian than an actual Christian, yet
may not be a Christian at all. I myself have challenged Patricia
on her belief that Christ' death and resurrection in an atoning act for
our sin. She has openly denied this belief. I admire her openness
and respect her right to believe as she wishes. I would think
anyway, that your statement above might be presumptuous and could
possible annoy Patricia, but Patricia should speak for herself.
Glen, what to you in one or two sentences makes a Christian? Since the
Bible is a guide to you, I assume you must respect its contents.
Your belief based on the gospel according to...........
-Jack
Cordially,
-Jack
|
9.1561 | I was an eye witness | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Aug 24 1994 14:31 | 20 |
| re: Note 9.1559 by Jim "Friend will you be ready?"
>>| A quick glance at the conference guidelines will show you that the Christian
>>| conference is not a place where the Bible is considered "myth". We hold the
>>| Bible to be the inerrant Word of God, and the conference is a place where
>>| those who share in that belief gather.
>> Jim�, maybe it was one of those midstream changes that happened?
> Maybe...I wasn't there then
But I was. Only in a very narrow interpretation of the guidelines was the
topic outlawed, and only via an erroneous or narrow definition of the word
"myth", for which I offered a concise definition as to my usage.
Having said and re-read that, I think we should cool off in this topic.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1562 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Aug 24 1994 14:50 | 25 |
| Nancy,
Your notes are downright insulting to both Glen and Richard and to me.
I have difficulty reading those notes and then reading your response on
Christian forgiveness and cringe.
As an onlooker I listen to your tell Glen to "go away little Doggy" and
two notes later ask glen whether he will forgive you for acrimony two
years ago. I don't know the basis for your feud with Glen but I sure
do see a lot of very "Unchristianlike insulting going on". But then
perhaps that's because my brand of Christianity is different than
yours.
Nancy, I will paraphrase John here. Let those without Sin cast the
first stone. Let all those with sin stop casting stones at their
brothers and sisters. I feel a lot of stones being cast in here
against me, against Glen, and against Richard.
Nancy, although you may not know, you and I have the same God and it is
the God of the Christian Scriptures. Just as I recognize that I am
fallible and do not have a perfect handle on the nature of that God, I
also allow for your fallability in interpreting who God is. Please be
careful how you try to limit God.
Patricia
|
9.1563 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Aug 24 1994 15:21 | 37 |
| To me, comparing Christian to Christian-Perspective is like comparing
a set of encyclopedias for knowledge to calling a well rounded Radio
Talk Show host for knowledge. The two serve different purposes.
When I am teaching an adult Sunday School class on...apologetics for
example, I will go to Christian as a source of information to get
input from a likeminded believer. I don't care about different
opinions on apologetics from different readers...this doesn't interest
me.
Now, if I want to get into a debate on the validity of apologetics, a
very noble and informative exercise, then I will come to
Christian-Perspective. Christian = Fellowship/Unity in doctrine;
Christian Perspective = Inquiry/Proslethyzing of POV. Absolutely
nothing wrong with the two but very very different in nature.
Based on this and I hope we somewhat agree, Joe's initial remark was
not warranted, but permissable...lawful but perhaps not profitable.
The other party who did the same in the other forum...well, that may
have been meant to make a statement, however, it was not lawful.
Likened to the idea we have the right of free speech but not the right
to yell fire in a crowded theatre; the proposal of hiding clear signs
of non-edifying remarks may be in order. Not as PC police but as an
electronic conscience if you will.
Look, we're all adults here! Two years of bantering has gotten
us...what...absolutely nowhere. Let's concede that right now. I am
however, a firm believer that God's Word will not return unto Him
void, but will accomplish what He purposes it to do. Disagreement with
Civility; if not, then I urge those to consider dropping out of this
forum. If a worldly godless Congress can do it, there is absolutely
no reason why we can't do it!!
Cordially,
-Jack
|
9.1564 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Aug 24 1994 15:31 | 24 |
| Re: Patricia - Cross Posted from the Abraham/Sarah String
>> I was going to reply to your note in the processing topic regarding
>> complete, unambiguos, concices communication without metaphor or
>> assumptions. I was going to ask whether you were joking because I
>> believe such a standard for communication would mean no one would
>> ever be allowed to talk with anyone because such is impossible.
I concede that. Let me put it this way.
When somebody makes an vehement inflamatory statement, they must be
held accountable and either satisfactorily justify it or apologize.
Secondly, when said person is justifying, they MUST NOT:
A. Refuse to answer to the charges. It is part of developing
Christian maturity and is a cop out to avoid or go through denial.
B. Said person must answer questions clearly and not leave the reader
scratching his/her head wondering what the heck the individual has
just said. It is nonsense to make inuendos and flowery, feel good
replies that lack substance. This is all I'm saying!!
Cordially,
-Jack
|
9.1565 | What attack? | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Aug 24 1994 15:59 | 40 |
| re: .1529 CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?"
>>It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
>>noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than
>>C-P.
>Doesn't it? I've read the ground rules there and by my interpretation I would
>not even be permitted to post.
Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference. Do you argue with
the moderators of the ASKENET conference about their stated premise..do
you go into other conferences and complain about the intollerant bigoted
moderators who won't entertain questions that are clearly mentioned as
not meant for that conference? I would guess not. Then why harrangue
the CHRISTIAN conference for doing essentially the same thing?
Jim, I think you read a *whole* lot more into my post than I meant. All I was
asking was doesn't it have a narrower viewpoint than this conference. I wasn't
arguing about it, it doesn't bother me. Because I do not share the stated goals
of the conference, I do not participate, out of respect for the groundrules.
Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
conference guidelines, do you even care? Do you blast the baseball conference
for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes? Do you blast the book
conference for not allowing talk about how to fix a leaky faucet?
I don't care. There was no blast! I am personally glad that you have a forum to
share your beliefs in. I simply asked if the viewpoint wasn't narrower than that
of this conference, since it seems that way to me. I don't even mean to imply
that narrower has a negative conotation in this case.
If you don't agree with the premise of the conference that's fine..we are
there because we DO.
And that is why I leave you in peace to post there.
Steve
|
9.1566 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 16:02 | 62 |
| > Your notes are downright insulting to both Glen and Richard and to me.
Insulting????? We've been over this before, haven't we. I'd say that
perceptions are equal in that area. You will find I have "responded"
to insult not created it. This is ajoke. You fling your accusation,
as though you have no part in the communication. Typical.
> I have difficulty reading those notes and then reading your response on
> Christian forgiveness and cringe.
Then you can empathize with my cringe each time you tear down the Bible
and it's precepts. I forgive, I have no problem with forgiveness, each
time you insult, I forgive, and that goes for the others as well.
> As an onlooker I listen to your tell Glen to "go away little Doggy" and
> two notes later ask glen whether he will forgive you for acrimony two
> years ago. I don't know the basis for your feud with Glen but I sure
Patricia you don't know very much at all about this. That was a
playful way of dealing with a very irritating reoccurance. If you have
no grace whatsoever your heart for me, then I can see where you would
find this insulting. Did you fail to see the smiley face, which is an
accepted symbol for light heartedness?
> do see a lot of very "Unchristianlike insulting going on". But then
> perhaps that's because my brand of Christianity is different than
> yours.
Amen you got that right. Our brands are totally different.
Yours teaches tolerance, while you are intolerant of my pov. :-) You
have just spent this entire memo doing exactly what you accuse me of.
[insert chuckle here, genuine incredulous chuckles]
> Nancy, I will paraphrase John here. Let those without Sin cast the
> first stone. Let all those with sin stop casting stones at their
> brothers and sisters. I feel a lot of stones being cast in here
> against me, against Glen, and against Richard.
I'm not casting stones, that fact that you see it that way, must mean
I've come very close to the truth.
> Nancy, although you may not know, you and I have the same God and it is
> the God of the Christian Scriptures. Just as I recognize that I am
> fallible and do not have a perfect handle on the nature of that God, I
> also allow for your fallability in interpreting who God is. Please be
> careful how you try to limit God.
No we do not and we've been over this multiple times. Your insistence
does not make for truth. My God has a son Jesus Christ who is also One
with Him and another spiritual entity called the Holy Spirit. My God
required the blood and life of Christ for the sins of mankind and he
alone is to whom we are to be "faithful"... no other gods.
The crux of your insult is that you wish to call yourself Christian and
I refuse to accept this from you. If you feel that it is insulting
that I do so, so be it. I will not lie about God's word.
Nancy
|
9.1567 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 16:04 | 14 |
|
re .1565 (I think)
My apologies for reading more into your note than I should have..
Seriously
Jim
|
9.1568 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Aug 24 1994 16:17 | 12 |
| .1567 CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?"
No apology needed, I just wanted to set the record straight.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I would like to suggest that we start a 'bash' note. This topic would get all
notes that have, as the primary topic, other people in the conference, ie. where
the discussion is around someone's behavior rather than their beliefs. Maybe the
processing note is the right place, but other interesting notes come along often
enough that I don't want to use next unseen from here, if possible.
Thanks, Steve
|
9.1569 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Aug 24 1994 16:59 | 47 |
| | <<< Note 9.1557 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| How you think is of no consequence to me (though I do care about your eternal
| soul). You are free to think as you wish. However, we in that particular
| conference believe a certain way, and that conference is where we share our
| beliefs. So, what it comes down to is..why would anyone who does not hold the
| beliefs as described in the conference continue to participate there, when there
| is a conference (this one) where one is free as a bird to believe whatever
| they wish?
People can learn in both conferences Jim. I see good and bad in both
places, I learn in both places. But if I disagree with something, in any
conference, I will say something. Do I think everyone in this file has the same
belief system as me? Nope. Do I think everyone in here enjoys every note I put
in? Nope. Same goes for the YUKON conference.
| > If I want to talk about baseball in the baseball conference, I can talk
| >about all aspects of it. I can talk about my own perceptions of rules, discuss
| >variations of play, etc. In Christian you can only talk about a one sided view
| >of being a Christian. See the difference?
| OK..how about the Red Sox conference? That conference is set up for discussion
| of the Boston Red Sox..a more specific subset of baseball. Do you go in there
| and start a topic on the San Diego Padres and then argue with the moderators be-
| cause you don't believe the Red Sox are the only baseball team that should be
| talked about in there?
Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.
| Do you go into the Baseball conference and complain about how intollerant
| the Red Sox conference is because they only allow conversation related to
| the Red Sox in there?
No need to, as there is more that gets talked about in there than the
Red Sox. Oh, what is the cute little message that is displayed everytime
someone logs into the file? "Hallelujah, it's football season"
Glen
|
9.1570 | my kids are better disciplined than... | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Aug 24 1994 17:50 | 28 |
| re Note 9.1566 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> > As an onlooker I listen to your tell Glen to "go away little Doggy" and
> > two notes later ask glen whether he will forgive you for acrimony two
> > years ago. I don't know the basis for your feud with Glen but I sure
>
> Patricia you don't know very much at all about this. That was a
> playful way of dealing with a very irritating reoccurance. If you have
> no grace whatsoever your heart for me, then I can see where you would
> find this insulting. Did you fail to see the smiley face, which is an
> accepted symbol for light heartedness?
Nancy,
A bit of advice: if your interaction with another person
requires some knowledge of the history of the interactions
between you two that is not generally known, don't do it in
front of others. OK? We will judge your public interaction
with Glen by what we know. If that will lead to wrong
conclusions, don't interact in front of us, please! If you
need to respond to Glen in such circumstances, send Email.
Or just grit your teeth, clench your fist, say a prayer --
and then forget about it (advice we all might follow).
I really am getting tired of the Glen-and-Nancy show (this
message is to Glen as much as to Nancy).
Bob
|
9.1571 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 18:01 | 46 |
| RE: <<< Note 9.1569 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
> People can learn in both conferences Jim. I see good and bad in both
>places, I learn in both places. But if I disagree with something, in any
>conference, I will say something. Do I think everyone in this file has the same
>belief system as me? Nope. Do I think everyone in here enjoys every note I put
>in? Nope. Same goes for the YUKON conference.
OK, that's fine. But you do understand the premise of the YUKON conference
do you not? And you do understand that those who participate there share
a common belief? And you do understand that the reason they participate there
is that it is a place where they can share in that common belief? Thus, one
who comes in NOT sharing in that common belief, and proceeds to attack or
present a belief other than that common belief can be viewed as antagonistic,
do you not?
> Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
>entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
>1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
>Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
>note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
>narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.
OK..I'll ignore the fact that the first 100+ notes were entered in 1989 and
state that perhaps I chose a poor example. Do you participate in the
Catholic Theology conference?
> No need to, as there is more that gets talked about in there than the
>Red Sox. Oh, what is the cute little message that is displayed everytime
>someone logs into the file? "Hallelujah, it's football season"
Well, I'm not sure when the last entry was placed in the Texas Ranger topic,
but the "Hallelujah...." message is, I'm sure satirical in nature as it
gives some relief to those of us who are fans of the Olde Towne Team.
Jim
|
9.1572 | Here's an analogy for ya, Glen | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 18:03 | 44 |
|
Fishing.... (religion)
This notes conference is dedicated to fresh water fishing. (Christian)
Salt water fishing can be discussed elsewhere. (Other)
"Hey, salt water fishing is fishing, and what about aquatic life in
the estuaries where fresh water meets salt water?"
"This conference is for fresh water fishing."
"No, I think it should be for all kinds of fishing. Fresh water fishing isn't
the only kind of fishing, you know."
"That doesn't matter. We want to discuss fresh water fishing; not salty water
fishing; not fishing in the briny estuaries."
----
Note xx.x
"Yesterday, I fished in on a lake and caught some wide-mouthed bass..."
"Yeah, but if you fished on the bay, you could catch some flounder..."
"This notes conference is about fresh-water fishing."
"It should be about all fishing."
"It isn't. We don't want to talk about that kind of fishing."
"Are you intolerant of salt water fishing?"
"What!? Look, we just want to talk about fresh water fishing. We don't want
to talk about other fishing."
"You are intolerant! This is a double standard! You can talk all you
want about fresh water fishing but don't allow talking about other fishing.
And after all, the world is covered with salt water, and more fish are in
salt water than fresh water, and there are many more different kinds of fish..."
"This notes conference is about fresh water fishing."
|
9.1573 | we don't have to like each other to be civil | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Aug 24 1994 18:18 | 28 |
| I wish folks, especially those folks that don't particularly
like the other conference with "christian" in its name, would
just quit poking fun or taking jabs at the other conference.
(I know, I know, I've done it, too -- it's so easy ... aahh,
stop it, Bob!)
Such criticism serve no purpose -- there simply are two
conferences with two very different moderation policies. As
far as I can tell, both are operating within Digital policy.
If you don't like the other one, my advice is to stay out
(which is precisely what I've done for many months).
However, it is very hard for participants to have sufficient
self-discipline to refrain from such comments when people
come into this conference and spend most or all of their
energy criticizing this conference.
Please, feel free to criticize anything written in this
conference. But please don't write just to make blanket
condemnations of this conference, its participants, or its
right to even exist.
OK?
It's really hard to be a verbal pacifist when people keep
lobbing insults your way.
Bob
|
9.1574 | Bottom Line RJC was out of line, imo. | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 18:39 | 41 |
|
>my kids are better disciplined than..
your frustration is showing. :-)
Bob,
It's very difficult to take something offline that is being projected
from one direction online. I do agree that much of the discussion
between Glen and myself should've been taken offline. But let's
remember, I didn't start this conversation.
I've started one conversation in this string and it was to RJC. Now
he's gone into hiding from it.
Some facts to bear in mind:
1. Joe Oppelt slung a slur against this conference.
2. RJC slung the exact same slur against the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
3. Joe Oppelt no more represents the CHRISTIAN notes conference than
I do this one.
4. I questioned the reason behind such an action taken against the
CHRISTIAN noters by RJC.
5. RJC has never answered the question.
6. Others have attempted to answer the question.
7. The question is still outstanding to RJC.
What I'd like to see happen [wish list if you will]:
1. RJC apologize for his emotional outburst.
2. Reconcile his emotions about said conference and move on.
Those two items have about as much chance of happening as my being in
two places at once!
This saddens me, because I grow weary of the same old, same old, that
keeps going on about these two conferences.
|
9.1575 | good company .-) | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Aug 24 1994 18:59 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1518 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> Co-dependancy does not become you. :-) :-) :-)
I suppose Jesus is co-dependent as well,
being our mediator and advocate to God.
.-)
Jim
|
9.1576 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 19:03 | 14 |
| Jim Kirk,
If you truly have yourself equated as the "great mediator", well no
comment.
I answered that already... did you see my definition of a mediator.
A mediator never takes sides, never forms an opinion, simply calls for
order and set a direction towards better communication.
Jesus doesn't take our words to God and change them... he simply
presents them to God as we have stated.
|
9.1577 | peace to you | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Wed Aug 24 1994 19:13 | 7 |
| re: Note 9.1576 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
Nancy Morales, did you see my smily faces?
Geesh!
Jim
|
9.1578 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 19:17 | 13 |
| You know Joe Oppelt has deleted this conference from his notebook as he
cannot reconcile himself to the premise on which this conference
stands.
It would lend to reason, although I am echoing Jim H., that if you feel
the same about the CHRISTIAN notes conference, that you do not agree
with the premise in 2.1 of that conference, then don't go there.
It's as simple as taking alternate road that is better suited to get
you where you wanna go.
I will do the same...
|
9.1579 | :-( | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 19:18 | 6 |
| .1577
oops guess in the embroilment of reading Fleischer's note, I missed it.
Sorry,
Nancy
|
9.1580 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Aug 24 1994 20:44 | 31 |
| >Nancy, I'll be frank with you. Ever since you wrote that note to the
>mod ripping apart my character, I decided that from now on I will speak
>up if I see you doing this to anyone else. I guess it happens often.....
Now we are getting somewhere in communication.
I'm sorry that you feel as though your character was maligned. Quite
frankly I don't recall your character coming into question. What I
recall was your written communication style... which really does get to
me... honesty is sometimes not the best policy???
Glen, you have a tendency to go over the same arguments over and over
and over again...this what I called into question and declared as
being personally irritating and frustrating. :-(
Now, if you equal that to your character we have differing opinions.
Even knowing that you can also be a burr in my saddle :-), it doesn't
cause me to value you any less. I may not put a high value on our
ability to communicate, but imo that doesn't effect your character.
Character to me is somewhat synonymous with integrity. Your integrity
does not come into question for me.
I hope that you understand now that never was my intent to malign your
character.. I was merely expressing frustration.
Thank you for bringing this to my attention.
Nancy
|
9.1581 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Aug 24 1994 22:29 | 34 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1569 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
> Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
>entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
>1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
>Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
>note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
>narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.
FWIW, the Red Sox conference was in place ~1 year before the Baseball conference
so there was no other place to talk about the Rangers, but the Red Sox conf.
(with apologies to all, but I couldn't help but point this out.
Jim who will bid C-P adieu after this note.
(again)
|
9.1582 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 10:07 | 67 |
| | <<< Note 9.1560 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| >> There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
| >> asks themself..."What's the dif".
| >> splain please...
| Glen, please take this constructively. Lord knows I have my faults. Glen, in
| your dialog with people, you reach a point of critical mass.
Please splain, as it might make the rest of it clearer.
| you can be like an annoying relative who comes over to visit... and then stays
| for dinner.
Ahhhh.... is it you feel I go where I haven't been invited?
| Now, feel free to rebutt and tell me I give a new meaning to the word
| hemerhoids!!! :-)
Can't do that until I know exactly what you're talking about.
| >>No one says the two of you have to agree with each others religious thought
| >>beliefs, faiths. But you can't even come to grips that she, like you, is a
| >>Christian.
| One may act more Christian than an actual Christian, yet may not be a
| Christian at all.
Agreed. Faith in Him is what I believe is needed. I know for a FACT
that BOTH Nancy & Patricia have faith in Him.
| I myself have challenged Patricia on her belief that Christ' death and
| resurrection in an atoning act for our sin. She has openly denied this belief.
SO WHAT!!?? You are talking about why things happened in the past, you
have your beliefs, she has hers. You may not agree that she is right, she may
do the same. You're making a book of words, and it's meanings, come between two
people who believe in Him, love Him, try their best to serve Him. Discuss the
words all you like, but don't let the words drive something between the 2 of
you (or anyone) as the thing you BOTH have in common is faith in God Himself.
Why is it that you can't see this?
I think I'll jump the gun here, as if you don't bring it up Jack, I'm
sure someone will. It will more than likely be said that the 2 of you are
serving seperate God's. I do NOT believe this is true. While I am sure the
belief is there, it is being said so by humans. God will let anyone who wants
to know if they are serving Him. We can all do better I'm sure, but in our
hearts, where He will be looking, we do serve the same God.
| Glen, what to you in one or two sentences makes a Christian? Since the Bible
| is a guide to you, I assume you must respect its contents.
It's a book Jack. If God leads me to it for help, whether it be help
for me or another, then I will find an answer. But you know what? And this has
happened to me before. He has led me to the same Scripture for 2 different
problems. Same answer, but totally different situations. But to put the book
equal to or above Him, which I see a lot of people doing, is doing Him an
injustice.
| Your belief based on the gospel according to...........
God.
Glen
|
9.1583 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 10:19 | 55 |
| | <<< Note 9.1566 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Patricia you don't know very much at all about this. That was a playful way
| of dealing with a very irritating reoccurance. If you have no grace
| whatsoever your heart for me, then I can see where you would find this
| insulting.
Nancy, if I say rub your face in dog poo, and put a smiley afterwards,
would you get upset? I see it exactly the way Patricia did. The only thing I
did differently is to ignore it, as it's something that appears in a lot of
your notes.
| > do see a lot of very "Unchristianlike insulting going on". But then
| > perhaps that's because my brand of Christianity is different than
| > yours.
| Amen you got that right. Our brands are totally different. Yours teaches
| tolerance, while you are intolerant of my pov. :-)
Is that a lighthearted response Nancy? :-) <-- is that? Patricia has
on MANY occasions stated that she does see where you are coming from, but she
does NOT agree with it. You have done the same. Why do both of you do this?
Because your faith tells you that the other is wrong on this area. But Patricia
still sees you as a Christian. Something you won't do for her. There is where
any intolerance comes into play.
| > Nancy, I will paraphrase John here. Let those without Sin cast the
| > first stone. Let all those with sin stop casting stones at their
| > brothers and sisters. I feel a lot of stones being cast in here
| > against me, against Glen, and against Richard.
| I'm not casting stones, that fact that you see it that way, must mean
| I've come very close to the truth.
Wow, I bet you play Twister a lot, huh?
| No we do not and we've been over this multiple times. Your insistence
| does not make for truth. My God has a son Jesus Christ who is also One
| with Him and another spiritual entity called the Holy Spirit. My God
| required the blood and life of Christ for the sins of mankind and he
| alone is to whom we are to be "faithful"... no other gods.
I think you are then serving the same God...
| The crux of your insult is that you wish to call yourself Christian and I
| refuse to accept this from you. If you feel that it is insulting that I do
| so, so be it. I will not lie about God's word.
Let me know when you find something that claims to be God's Word that
uses something other than itself to prove that point....
Glen
|
9.1584 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 10:27 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 9.1571 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| And you do understand that the reason they participate there is that it is a
| place where they can share in that common belief? Thus, one who comes in NOT
| sharing in that common belief, and proceeds to attack or present a belief
| other than that common belief can be viewed as antagonistic, do you not?
Jim, the premise changed in midstream. One of the reasons for the
change was purely estetics. It did not "look good" to have Christians arguing.
Go back and read some of the old versions of Christian. You'll see this.
| OK..I'll ignore the fact that the first 100+ notes were entered in 1989 and
| state that perhaps I chose a poor example. Do you participate in the Catholic
| Theology conference?
Are you saying that religion is where things are most narrow? BTW, I do
not participate in the Catholic Theology conference.
Glen
|
9.1585 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 10:30 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 9.1577 by TFH::KIRK "a simple song" >>>
| Nancy Morales, did you see my smily faces?
Jim, you would think Nancy of ALL people would pick up on those smiley
faces!!! heh heh...
|
9.1586 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 10:38 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 9.1580 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| I'm sorry that you feel as though your character was maligned. Quite frankly
| I don't recall your character coming into question.
I guess this statement you made was just something you deemed a
non-character issue:
Glen, just is taking cheap shots wherever he can to express the hate he has for
me. :-( I expect it... He cannot and will not accept me as I am with my
convictions about his lifestyle... and I understand that too.
Everything in what was written above is a lie. It is a slam against my
character.
| I hope that you understand now that never was my intent to malign your
| character.. I was merely expressing frustration.
Uh huh.....
Glen
|
9.1587 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 10:54 | 27 |
| | <<< Note 9.1581 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| > Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
| >entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
| >1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
| >Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
| >note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
| >narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.
| FWIW, the Red Sox conference was in place ~1 year before the Baseball conference
| so there was no other place to talk about the Rangers, but the Red Sox conf.
Let's look from topic 400-533, shall we? (533 is the last topic) 24
out of 134 notes (17.9%) are about things not pertaining to the Red Sox. Note
400 was entered March 16, 1993. Some titles that come to mind are, "Astros
Rangers remaining home games", "La Russa-itis", and "Toronto Blue Jays tix
info". Let's see, 17.9% for the red sox notesfile that do not deal with them,
and 0% for yukon. Are you sure you want to use that file as a comparrison Jim?
Glen
|
9.1588 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Aug 25 1994 11:03 | 62 |
| | Glen, please take this constructively. Lord knows I have my faults.
Glen, in
| your dialog with people, you reach a point of critical mass.
Please splain, as it might make the rest of it clearer.
For example Glen, we discussed one time in Soapbox whether or not
marriage was an institution strictly for Christians. My reply was
a wholehearted NO. It was union between a man and a woman and was
ordained to Adam and Eve, the parents of all humanity if you will.
Then we got into gay marriages, etc. My point was then that a marriage
is a marriage when it is sanctified by God, Christian and atheist
alike. Certain marriages IMO are sanctified, others are not. Well
Glen, about twenty questions by you and finally Tine had to break in
and tell you to stop making a pest of yourself. In other words, you
were, perhaps without realizing it, attempting to manipulate the
conversation in any way to get me to throw in the towel....and I have,
with all due respect, seen you do this a number of times in both
Soapbox and in C-P.
| I myself have challenged Patricia on her belief that Christ' death
and
| resurrection in an atoning act for our sin. She has openly denied
this belief.
>>SO WHAT!!?? You are talking about why things happened in the
>>past, you have your beliefs, she has hers.
I realize this Glen and I respect her right to believe as she does.
Unfortunately there is a dichotomy here. But let me cross post a small
sentence that says it all...
>>>>>>>It's a book Jack.
Therein lies the whole dispute. Our foundations are vastly different,
therefore we cannot come to a consensus on this issue. Ya see, I
believe that Jesus death and resurrection was the paramount reason for
coming here. I believe that only by receiving Christ through his death
and resurrection does one inherit eternal life. Furthermore, I believe
that this is the ONLY door to God and absolutely no other exists. To
spell it out, I believe that an individual can go to church all their
life, recite prayers all their life, tithe all their life, visit the
sick and elderly all their life, feed the poor all their life, even
join the clergy....and yet, without receiving Christ as their personal
savior, fall into a Christ-less grave. I am spelling it out Glen
because quite frankly, my perception is that you don't fully realize
the consequences of sin...and I really don't either by some degree.
Otherwise, I would stop!
Getting back to the Bible...I believe the Bible is 100% inspired by God
and was written by man through the Holy Spirit. I believe the
unpopular writings have equal footing to the popular ones. I believe
the scripture reveals that God is a loving and merciful God yet at the
same time a just and Holy God and will not let sin go unpunished. It
is either dropped off at the cross or we will have to pay for them
ourselves. No, I spurn the notion that the Bible is simply a book, a
guide to better living. To say this would put it on equal footing
with Joyce Brothers, Norman Vincent Peale, and James Dobson.
Respectfully,
-Jack
|
9.1589 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Aug 25 1994 12:11 | 21 |
| Glen,
There is a problem with your logic. One very transparent flaw. You
claim that you began your attack of me due to this message that was
offline. BTW, there are guidelines about publishing private mail in a
public forum, have you read them? You need to ask the author's
permission to post.
The context of my note was an expression of the already existing attack.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
So who's telling the truth here? What is truth? Can it be known? Is
it your truth or my truth? :-) :-)
If you find that expression of frustration at your persistent attack as
a malignment of your character, you should be careful how you
participate in notes, because Glen I'm not the only one that feels this
way about you.
Nancy
|
9.1590 | | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Thu Aug 25 1994 12:13 | 10 |
| re: Note 9.1579 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
Apology accepted.
Let's all of us try to moderate ourselves and remember that we are not
responding to screens of text, but to real, honest to God, people.
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1591 | I wanted YOU and I to talk, not You for someone else and I | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Aug 25 1994 12:14 | 12 |
| Glen,
Obviously, you have no intention whatsoever of attempting to come to a
resolution of our communication/value/spiritual differences. I thought
there was some glimmer of hope that there could be. But alas, you must
participate and speak for everybody else in the conference..
How many times I've read your notes, I'm not "so & so", BUT...
I next unseen them now...
|
9.1592 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Aug 25 1994 12:15 | 1 |
| Thanks Jim.
|
9.1593 | Truce! | SOLVIT::HAECK | Debby Haeck | Thu Aug 25 1994 12:21 | 22 |
| How about this people - If you feel like an issue is in a repetitive
cycle, then don't add another revolution. If you feel you've already
explained something to the best of your ability then let it go. Say
that is what you're doing if you don't want to leave people wondering
if you have changed your mind.
If you're going to use a specific person's name in your reply - first
insert your name in the sentence and see how it feels. If it would
hurt your feelings, don't say it.
If your name was used and you are responding - is there any anger in
your reply? Or indignation? Then wait. Let the sun set. Watch it if
you can. Calm down. Then compose a reply. Don't just write it -
compose it.
Please - be gentle with each other. We are all here, I hope, to learn
and share and grow. And I for one have found support in some of my
darker hours. Thank you, my friends, for your loving support of a
faceless sister.
+++
Debby
|
9.1594 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Thu Aug 25 1994 14:01 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 9.1589 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| There is a problem with your logic. One very transparent flaw. You claim
| that you began your attack of me due to this message that was offline.
To start off with, there was no attack. I was correcting what you
stated earlier. The message said it all.
| The context of my note was an expression of the already existing attack.
A mod stepped in and asked 3 people to control their anger. You and I
were 2 of them. Your note then responed with that paragraph in it. What you had
said attacked my character, and it was false. You made claims that were all
untrue.
| So who's telling the truth here? What is truth? Can it be known? Is it
| your truth or my truth?
The words you wrote was the truth as you saw it. But in reality, in
this case, your truth was 100% false.
| If you find that expression of frustration at your persistent attack as a
| malignment of your character, you should be careful how you participate in
| notes, because Glen I'm not the only one that feels this way about you.
Nancy, I would have thought that by showing you that the context of
your note was false, that you could realize that I do not hate you, and
regardless of how you feel about my lifestyle, it doesn't matter to me. You
have the right to think what you want, but let the truth be known that I do not
hold it against you. I do disagree with a lot you have to say about it, but
that is something entirely different. I guess showing you the truth did no
good, I can only hope that God can open your heart to the truth in this matter.
Glen
|
9.1595 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Aug 25 1994 16:21 | 16 |
| .1594
Glen,
You are refusing to accept any part of the blame in our communication,
but putting it completely on me.
There has been the same thing said about you just today by someone else
and yet you stay in denial of it.
Communication must be two ways...
This is it for me...
God Bless you all,
Nancy
|
9.1596 | Isaiah 53.7 | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Thu Aug 25 1994 23:02 | 1 |
|
|
9.1597 | No victimization in here/simple unrefuted facts | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 14:39 | 12 |
| Some facts to bear in mind:
1. Joe Oppelt slung a slur against this conference.
2. RJC slung the exact same slur against the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
3. Joe Oppelt no more represents the CHRISTIAN notes conference
than I do this one.
4. I questioned the reason behind such an action taken against the
CHRISTIAN noters by RJC.
5. RJC has never answered the question.
6. Others have attempted to answer the question.
7. The question is still outstanding to RJC.
|
9.1598 | hard to discuss forbidden topics | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Aug 26 1994 14:59 | 18 |
| re Note 9.1597 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> 2. RJC slung the exact same slur against the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
...
> 4. I questioned the reason behind such an action taken against the
> CHRISTIAN noters by RJC.
> 5. RJC has never answered the question.
As a moderator of *this* conference, I would suggest that the
only appropriate place for RJC to answer such a question
(should he choose to answer it) would be in the conference he
allegedly slurred -- *not* here.
It would seem that moderation policy of the other conference
would make that unlikely/impossible, but that is not our
concern here.
Bob
|
9.1599 | Simply amazing the dance routine | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 15:02 | 8 |
| You can think all you want about where it should be discussed, but that
doesn't make you right.
FACT!
It started here! Read #1 of my list.
|
9.1600 | you're too modest, you should take more credit! | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Aug 26 1994 15:19 | 6 |
| re Note 9.1599 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> -< Simply amazing the dance routine >-
As they say, "it takes two to tango" -- and you're one of the
best!
|
9.1601 | Would you like to be added to my dance card, Bob? | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 16:31 | 11 |
| Yes, I am one of the bests.
Now what!
:-) Sheesh, you guys just simply refuse to accept the FACT that RJC
was in error in his flaming note at CHRISTIAN noters...
He got caught with his pants down and now everybody wants to pull
them up for him.
You can insult all you want but the FACTS there!
|
9.1602 | you can't demand that which you won't allow | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Aug 26 1994 17:03 | 19 |
| re Note 9.1601 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> :-) Sheesh, you guys just simply refuse to accept the FACT that RJC
> was in error in his flaming note at CHRISTIAN noters...
I'm hardly defending him.
I'm merely saying that it is unrealistic of you to expect an
explanation, much less an apology, to the aggrieved members
of the other conference if RJC is not allowed to discuss the
offense in that conference.
He can't apologize or justify his action to them here.
Here's not there.
It's that simple.
Bob
|
9.1603 | I didn't! | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 17:28 | 10 |
| Bob,
The note was deleted due to its volatile nature. I came over here to
find out what was going on, when in fact I saw Joe's note and RJC's
reposting of his note from CHRISTIAN.
Now who brought it in here?
|
9.1604 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 17:29 | 9 |
| P.S.
If you didn't want it discussed in here, you should have deleted RJC's
reposting or set it hidden...
It stands as he posted it.. .and now you can't stand the heat its
drawn.
|
9.1605 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Aug 26 1994 17:45 | 26 |
| re Note 9.1604 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
> If you didn't want it discussed in here, you should have deleted RJC's
> reposting or set it hidden...
I'm not objecting to your notes being in here. (You are
seeing this through the eyes of the other conference's
moderation policy. It's OK here as long as you are not
mounting a personal attack or are disruptive though frequent
repetition.)
> It stands as he posted it.. .and now you can't stand the heat its
> drawn.
Don't fool yourself -- I'm not feeling any heat from your
banter. However, I feel like I'm dealing the logic of
pre-school age child: you claim RJC offended another group,
you want him to explain or apologize, yet you don't seem to
understand that he is not allowed to communicate on this
subject to the aggrieved group. Instead you want him to
apologize to you personally instead of to that group.
I'm simply saying that you are demanding something that isn't
likely to happen, for patently obvious reasons.
Bob
|
9.1606 | Defocusing is a great communication tool,nice dance moves | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 18:47 | 10 |
| Bob, I was part of the offended group. Had RJC not reposted the note
here, I would have not entered the discussion. Simple.
Now you wish to somehow use twisted logic and insult [school-age] as a
way to discredit my response to said note.
I am not vicitmizing RJC, what you and others wish to do is throw
diversions from the topic-at-hand to defocus the topic.
|
9.1607 | why isn't the matter closed? | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Fri Aug 26 1994 18:51 | 17 |
| re: Note 9.1603 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> The note was deleted due to its volatile nature.
As a moderator of YUKON::Christian, did you (or the other moderators) contact
Richard about his offending note and come to a course of action (deletion)?
The fact that the note was deleted sort of implies that some moderator action
occured over there and that the matter is closed.
Peace,
Jim
p.s. If somebody says "I beleive Richard's motive was xxx" and Richard
acknowledges that it was indeed xxx, then you have your answer, albeit not
first hand.
|
9.1608 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 19:12 | 8 |
| Because he brought it over here as another aspersion against the
CHRISTIAN notes conference. It's not the first attack that I've heard
since being involved in this conference.
Do you believe that I have "no reason" to believe that this behavior
would continue just because this one note was deleted in the CHRISTIAN
notes conference?
|
9.1609 | I hate to interrupt, but... | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Fri Aug 26 1994 19:15 | 5 |
| If nobody minds, I'm going to initiate another new basenote in C-P.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1610 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 19:17 | 16 |
| Jim,
All I'd like to see happen is for this "rivalry" to be put to rest.
RJC has made it abundantly clear that there is "sour grapes" in his
heart towards the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
But that conference has long since been gone. There are no moderators
that I know of that are still on board on the CHRISTIAN notes
conference when the supposed "split" occured. Andrew Yuille was only a
participant then, not a mod. He was a mod previous to the "split".
I've said it before, I'll say it again. If RJC had not posted his note
in here, I would have written him offline.
|
9.1611 | Stubborn to a fault | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Aug 26 1994 19:24 | 20 |
| Richard,
You interrupted the peace of this conference when you took me on, dear
sir. I'm sorry to be the hurricane at this given time. But your lack
of acknowledging the wrong you've committed, and furthermore, being
unwilling to let go of bitterness is what is rabid here.
Your rabidness towards a "conference" infected me. Now the squeaky
wheel gets the grease [the criticism]... and I'm the squeaky wheel.
I know after this repertoire of songs, that a request for another song
perhaps more melodious won't be forthcoming, but God knows my heart...
my only intent was to try and put to rest this disease of bitterness.
Perhaps I'm creating more bitterness from you and others... amazing how
this sinful behavior increases, even from one who just wished to stop
the disease... I got infected.
Sorry folks,
Nancy
|
9.1612 | stop playing the game | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Sun Aug 28 1994 19:23 | 11 |
| re: Note 9.1610 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> All I'd like to see happen is for this "rivalry" to be put to rest.
As Cindy Painter once said,
"the only way to stop playing the game is to stop playing the game."
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1613 | I think it is an infinit loop...... | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 29 1994 11:08 | 18 |
|
Nancy, here is a list. Maybe you can make sense of it finally:
1) You want RJC to apologize for the actions he took in YUKON.
2) RJC can not discuss what he wrote in that file or he will be set hidden, so
therefore he can not do anything in that file.
3) We all wonder what about this you can't see.
4) Reread 1-3 until you feel pleased.
|
9.1614 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Aug 29 1994 13:38 | 9 |
| >I've said it before, I'll say it again. If RJC had not posted his note
>in here, I would have written him offline.
Glen, one would wonder who cannot understand. This is sad... very sad
that you wish to perpetuate ill will.
But I'm reluctant to say, I am not surprised.
|
9.1615 | In amazement... | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Aug 29 1994 13:40 | 8 |
| >Bob, I was part of the offended group. Had RJC not reposted the note
>here, I would have not entered the discussion. Simple.
Glen another one for you.. though I found several more...
|
9.1616 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Aug 29 1994 13:54 | 23 |
| Debby,
You were the moderator who was involved in the offline discussions
between Glen and myself. I'd like to first of all say that it was a
3-way conversation, not 2-way. Glen was copied on all of my memos, it
was an attempt at that time to come to terms with my interpretation of
hate being directed towards me.
I saved several of what I would call "hateful" memos that Glen wrote,
but recently deleted them. :-( I'm like that... I tend to want to
forgive and let it go...
Glen, maybe you don't have hate for me.. but at *that* time it
certainly felt that way... you were not being talked about behind your
back, it was not an attempt to put you down and your insinuation that
it was this is an emotionally charged statement.
Back up and remember... it was an attempt at trying to come to
reason... which obviously failed.
I have no reason to believe that it would succeed now.
|
9.1617 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Aug 29 1994 14:48 | 51 |
| | <<< Note 9.1616 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
This will be my last note in this file on this subject. If anyone would
like to discuss it further, send mail to BIGQ::SILVA.
| I saved several of what I would call "hateful" memos that Glen wrote, but
| recently deleted them. :-( I'm like that... I tend to want to forgive and
| let it go...
I have that whole conversation Nancy. If you want, anyone who sends me
mail can see what it was we talked about. It's up to you though, if you want
people to see what happened.
| Glen, maybe you don't have hate for me.. but at *that* time it certainly felt
| that way...
Nancy, what was being talked about at that time had NOTHING, to do with
my lifestyle. But that was the reason you gave for why I hate you. No way of
side stepping that one Nance.
| you were not being talked about behind your back,
No one said it was.
| it was not an attempt to put you down
To bear false witness is one of the best ways to put someone down. You
said I hate, then you gave the reason why. You were 100% wrong at what you
said. You should not have made mention of what you thought to anyone, and
especially when you made it sound like it was a FACT, unless you know for sure
you are correct. Otherwise, without proof, you could, and were in this case,
bearing false witness. So yeah, it was a put down.
| Back up and remember... it was an attempt at trying to come to reason... which
| obviously failed.
Yeah, by saying I hate you for X reason is going to make me come to
reason with you on any subject.... uh huh...
| I have no reason to believe that it would succeed now.
Then I guess you're right about something Nancy, we can't possibly
serve the same God. I know with the God I serve all things are possible. Me
thinks in this case, and many others that have gone on in your life, you have
been applying the human thinking to it all, which really puts limits on things.
Let God handle it for you Nancy....
Glen
|
9.1618 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Aug 29 1994 15:03 | 14 |
| Glen,
It boils down to the fact that Nancy isn't allowed to be human.
I'm not allowed to have feelings about "how" and "what" you said.
So you wish to hold me to a higher standard than you hold for yourself?
Interesting... but typical.
You didn't even acknowledge what I wrote about my "perception" of your
notes being hateful... did you?
|
9.1619 | Anyone wishing to keep in contact with me, send mail | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Aug 29 1994 15:04 | 6 |
| It's been less than fun being in this conference, it's been a burden..
one in which I no longer wish to participate.
Some of you will say good riddance... so be it.
delete/entry
|
9.1620 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 30 1994 01:45 | 4 |
| I have written Nancy offline, as I'm reasonably certain others have.
Richard
|
9.1621 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 30 1994 17:22 | 2 |
| Hello, Mike Heiser! Haven't heard from you in quite some time!
|
9.1622 | So...Who Wins?! | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Aug 30 1994 17:23 | 27 |
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|
9.1623 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 30 1994 17:28 | 7 |
| .1622 Cute graphic.
I didn't know it was about winning or losing, Jack.
I bid you peace,
Richard
|
9.1624 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Aug 30 1994 17:36 | 14 |
| >> I didn't know it was about winning or losing, Jack.
I know...I put it in there strictly for laughs. But at the same time,
I am also making a statement.
"Knowing this, we now have Peace through Jesus Christ our Lord."
Are we a reflection of the abundant life that Jesus promises us? I
think it can be forgotten that the conference is also a ministry to
read-only's.
Peace back,
-Jack
|
9.1625 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Luke 1.78-79 | Tue Aug 30 1994 17:43 | 5 |
| I think so. Abundant life does not mean constantly blissful and
lack-luster lives. Neither is peace the mere absence of conflict.
Richard
|
9.1626 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Tue Aug 30 1994 18:36 | 7 |
| Just as there is no temptation that cannot be overcome; likewise there
is no spat that cannot be resolved. I believe the outcome Christ calls
us to come to is dialog and concensus.
In Christ,
-Jack
|
9.1627 | tough to come back | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Tue Aug 30 1994 18:48 | 1 |
| Hi Richard! I was on vacation for a large chunk of the summer.
|
9.1628 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Fri Sep 09 1994 14:44 | 19 |
| ================================================================================
Note 966.5 The Two Crosses 5 of 5
FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" 5 lines 9-SEP-1994 13:07
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Tony, you use too many Biblical references for that article to be valid
in here.
hope this helps,
Mike
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
Please, I beg you, can we stop the ad hominem slamming of this
conference and it's noters. I don't mind spirited disagreements,
but this crosses the line. Let's give it a rest, ok.
Peace,
Eric
|
9.1629 | speaks for itself | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Sep 09 1994 15:02 | 15 |
| > ================================================================================
> Note 966.5 The Two Crosses 5 of 5
> FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" 5 lines 9-SEP-1994 13:07
> --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> Tony, you use too many Biblical references for that article to be valid
> in here.
>
> hope this helps,
> Mike
This is patently false, and says a lot more about the mind
and character of Mike Heiser than any words I could have
entered.
Bob
|
9.1630 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Fri Sep 09 1994 15:51 | 7 |
| Okay...point well made! We've been doing good over the last few weeks.
Mike, your input is valuable...now Knock it Off!!
The issue is closed...let's move ahead!
-Jack
|
9.1631 | speaking of character | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Fri Sep 09 1994 16:03 | 5 |
| It actually says nothing about my character. I was just propagating
the theme of recent days to prove a point - the Bible is only accepted
as God's Word in CP when it's convenient.
Mike
|
9.1632 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Fri Sep 09 1994 16:22 | 4 |
| Well then, this reenforces my premise that the scriptures used COULD be
perceived as "Not God Breathed", this is quite a dangerous assumption.
-Jack
|
9.1633 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Sep 09 1994 16:34 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 9.1631 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>
| the Bible is only accepted as God's Word in CP when it's convenient.
I tend to see it that the Bible is accepted as God's Word in CP when
one believe's it is.
You see, in here people can share their beliefs, no matter how
different. No one has to agree with them, and that's ok too. But to be
able to share, well, that's a real plus, and that makes this file much
more sharing oriented. No one has to hide anything. Doesn't mean they
won't get a challenge or two, but a challenge is MUCH better than getting
a deletion....
Glen
|
9.1634 | | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Fri Sep 09 1994 17:01 | 26 |
| Re: -2
Not sure I understand what you're saying.
Re: Glen in -1
> I tend to see it that the Bible is accepted as God's Word in CP when
>one believe's it is.
I don't agree that's a positive. If we believe in Christ, we should
believe in His Word. I don't think you can separate the two or have a
right to pick and choose as you will.
> You see, in here people can share their beliefs, no matter how
>different. No one has to agree with them, and that's ok too. But to be
>able to share, well, that's a real plus, and that makes this file much
>more sharing oriented. No one has to hide anything. Doesn't mean they
>won't get a challenge or two, but a challenge is MUCH better than getting
>a deletion....
Sharing is fine, but where's the common bond? What is the mission of
CP? Love of religion? Love of God? Doing God's Will? Spreading the
Gospel?
thanks,
Mike
|
9.1635 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Fri Sep 09 1994 18:01 | 6 |
| Mike:
There is very little common bond...But, it is an opportunity to plant
seeds!!!
-Jack
|
9.1637 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Sep 12 1994 10:57 | 50 |
| | <<< Note 9.1634 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>
| > I tend to see it that the Bible is accepted as God's Word in CP when
| >one believe's it is.
| I don't agree that's a positive.
According to your belief system, yeah, I can understand that. But let
me ask you Mike. Do you think that two people can discuss what any passage from
the Bible means to them without having both, or either person believe that the
book is the Word of God? If not, why?
| If we believe in Christ, we should believe in His Word.
That is your belief, and that's fine. But not everyone will follow your
belief. I know you realize that there are gray areas for each and every
individual when it comes to beliefs in God, and in the interpretations of the
various verses in the Bible. Do you feel these gray areas should be held
against everyone? A book alone will not change most people's mind. A book,
along with all the wonderful things God has for us, the problems, sometimes
VERY difficult that He guides us through, how hHe has helped others, all help in
our belief in Him. If we spend our lives arguing that one can not believe in
Him unless the believe in a book, then a lot of people will be driven AWAY from
Him, not to Him. If we need belief in Him to join Him in Heaven, then do I have
it correct that your belief also says that you must believe the Bible to be the
Word of God in order for entrance of Heaven to happen?
| I don't think you can separate the two or have a right to pick and choose as
| you will.
I have never understood how the pick and choose thing gets applied. Is
it possible in your eyes Mike to view the Bible as a history type book?
| Sharing is fine, but where's the common bond?
I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is the common
bond that I have seen in here.
| What is the mission of CP?
Again, from what I have seen the mission is simple. Bring people to, or
closer to, Jesus Christ.
Does this make sense to you?
Glen
|
9.1638 | | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Mon Sep 12 1994 14:22 | 56 |
| > According to your belief system, yeah, I can understand that. But let
>me ask you Mike. Do you think that two people can discuss what any passage from
>the Bible means to them without having both, or either person believe that the
>book is the Word of God? If not, why?
If one of them doesn't believe it's the Word of God, their views on the
passage will not only differ most of the time, but the discussion will
turn into a debate. This doesn't edify the Body of Christ.
> That is your belief, and that's fine. But not everyone will follow your
>belief. I know you realize that there are gray areas for each and every
>individual when it comes to beliefs in God, and in the interpretations of the
There are no gray areas in John 14:6.
>various verses in the Bible. Do you feel these gray areas should be held
>against everyone? A book alone will not change most people's mind. A book,
There are no gray areas in Proverbs 30:5-6
>Him, not to Him. If we need belief in Him to join Him in Heaven, then do I have
>it correct that your belief also says that you must believe the Bible to be the
>Word of God in order for entrance of Heaven to happen?
Salvation is only conditioned on accepting Jesus and His atonement -
but you have to read the Bible to realize that. The map to the door of
salvation is in there. Not everyone finds it or looks for it on their
own. Bottomline: you can be saved without the Bible, but you won't
grow without it.
> I have never understood how the pick and choose thing gets applied. Is
>it possible in your eyes Mike to view the Bible as a history type book?
The Bible's historical aspect is but one of many aspects. It can be
used as a historical reference (and is at some educational
institutions), but you're cheating your growth as a Christian by
limiting it in this way.
> I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
>place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is the common
>bond that I have seen in here.
Than why all the New Age and non-gospel overtones? You're big on
Jesus-only and He had a lot to say about this in John 14:6.
> Again, from what I have seen the mission is simple. Bring people to, or
>closer to, Jesus Christ.
That's admirable, but He said He's the only road and I see people
trying to build new/alternate roads in here.
> Does this make sense to you?
Nope. We're called Christians because we follow Him, not ourselves.
Mike
|
9.1639 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Sep 12 1994 14:52 | 17 |
| >I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
>place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is
>the common bond that I have seen in here.
Glen, I beg to differ. Not in an insulting way, it's just that
different people in this conference have a different view of what Jesus
came for. I believe he came to seek and save that which was lost.
Sanctification - To be made holy. (Done by Jesus)
Redemption - To be bought with a price. (Done by Jesus)
Atonement - To satisfactorily meet the requirements of the blood
sacrifice. (Done by Jesus)
Propititation - To satisfactorily meets God's wrath. (Done by Jesus)
Kind of makes us charity cases, doesn't it?!
-Jack
|
9.1640 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Sep 12 1994 15:54 | 68 |
| | <<< Note 9.1638 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>
| If one of them doesn't believe it's the Word of God, their views on the
| passage will not only differ most of the time, but the discussion will
| turn into a debate. This doesn't edify the Body of Christ.
Oh.... one is just supposed to roll over and believe? A debate may very
well be needed. A debate can very much edify the Body of Christ. If you think
about it, people read/hear the debate, they can see what others think. It will
either clear up problems some may have had, or even prompt others to ask other
questions. In the end a person can very well see the light. Oh, it may not be
either of the 2 debators, it could just be someone completely different.
| There are no gray areas in John 14:6.
Mike, do you really believe that everyone interprets the Bible in the
exact way on every single verse, that everyone's beliefs system is exactly the
same on every level?
Hmmm... something just came to me. Is it your belief that the Bible is
what has no gray areas, and it is only the humans who have the gray?
| Salvation is only conditioned on accepting Jesus and His atonement but you
| have to read the Bible to realize that. The map to the door of salvation is
| in there. Not everyone finds it or looks for it on their own. Bottomline: you
| can be saved without the Bible, but you won't grow without it.
Thank you for clarifying that. Let me ask you something. If God knows
you believe in Him with all your heart, and He knows up front that you do not
believe the Bible to be the Word of God, do you believe He will use other means
to show you what one might see in the Bible?
| The Bible's historical aspect is but one of many aspects. It can be used as a
| historical reference (and is at some educational institutions), but you're
| cheating your growth as a Christian by limiting it in this way.
Mike, do you feel it is wrong for people to say that without the belief
the Bible is the Word of God, you can not enter the Kingdom of Heaven? In other
words, they are putting limits on what God can use to help one grow?
| Than why all the New Age and non-gospel overtones? You're big on Jesus-only
| and He had a lot to say about this in John 14:6.
Mike, prove the Bible is the Word of God without using the Bible as
proof. Now, to answer your question. I am big on Jesus only, and I am also big
on my belief that the Bible is not the Word of God. What you have done is take
my belief of this file, which is a place where people believe Christ is our
Saviour, and looked at it through your own belief colored glasses. If I believe
as I do, why would I include just the gospels? He uses everything. NOTHING is
left out. Jesus only to *me* does not mean Jesus and the Bible. It means Jesus,
AND whatever He wants to use to convey the message.
| > Again, from what I have seen the mission is simple. Bring people to, or
| >closer to, Jesus Christ.
| That's admirable, but He said He's the only road and I see people trying to
| build new/alternate roads in here.
New to your belief, or new roads period? If the end result is that this
file brings people closer to Jesus, what is the problem?
| Nope. We're called Christians because we follow Him, not ourselves.
Mike, how are people following themselves in here?
Glen
|
9.1641 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Sep 12 1994 16:00 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 9.1639 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>
| >I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
| >place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is
| >the common bond that I have seen in here.
| Glen, I beg to differ. Not in an insulting way, it's just that different
| people in this conference have a different view of what Jesus came for. I
| believe he came to seek and save that which was lost.
Jack, if people learn from each other, if people ask questions, if in
the end they still believe in Him, then doesn't that make this a conference
where people believe Christ is our Savior? We may not all have the same
beliefs, but if one common thread is Christ, then there is common ground. It's
Him. Otherwise it would be total chaos as the person who is speaking at the
time can be the only one who has the correct vision of Christ, well, if you are
one that thinks you belief is correct, and anothers isn't.
| Kind of makes us charity cases, doesn't it?!
See, there is another common ground..... :-)
|
9.1642 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Crossfire | Mon Sep 12 1994 16:03 | 3 |
| Glen, haven't you learned yet? Homogeneity is what's edifying, even
when it's enforced.
|
9.1643 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Sep 12 1994 16:20 | 3 |
|
I KNEW there had to be a reason! :-)
|
9.1644 | | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Mon Sep 12 1994 17:24 | 94 |
| >well be needed. A debate can very much edify the Body of Christ. If you think
these kind don't because they're endless, like this one. God isn't the
author of confusion, Satan is (1 Corinthians 14:33). These divide the
Body of Christ, not unite them.
> Mike, do you really believe that everyone interprets the Bible in the
>exact way on every single verse, that everyone's beliefs system is exactly the
>same on every level?
No because religion (beliefs system) is man-made. The Bible is a
spiritual book and must be spiritually discerned. To spiritually
discern it you must be spiritually alive. To be spiritually alive, you
must have God's Holy Spirit within you. To be filled with the Holy
Spirit, you must be born again by accepting Jesus Christ as God and
Savior. God came to man via the cross because He knew belief systems
were man's feeble and fallible attempt to reach Him. Religion will get
you nowhere.
> Hmmm... something just came to me. Is it your belief that the Bible is
>what has no gray areas, and it is only the humans who have the gray?
God and His Word have no gray areas. It is humans who try to
compromise His Word and rationalize their sinful ways.
> Thank you for clarifying that. Let me ask you something. If God knows
>you believe in Him with all your heart, and He knows up front that you do not
>believe the Bible to be the Word of God, do you believe He will use other means
>to show you what one might see in the Bible?
It's possible and I know people it has happened to. Those that don't,
continue to struggle with the flesh and don't grow. Most usually
backslide to a point where they lose their joy of their salvation.
Then they feel inadequate, unworthy, and guilt-ridden and give up
serving God altogether.
> Mike, do you feel it is wrong for people to say that without the belief
>the Bible is the Word of God, you can not enter the Kingdom of Heaven? In other
>words, they are putting limits on what God can use to help one grow?
Good question. People that say these things probably believe that one
can lose their salvation. I'm not so sure at this point if I believe
one can lose their salvation. I lean toward the position that states
that if someone backslides to that point, they probably weren't really
saved to begin with (no commitment or half-hearted). Another difficult
position your question puts you in is knowing when you're being led by
God or not. 1 John 4 is good for testing the spirits and knowing when
you are being led in the right direction. Generally speaking, God will
never contradict what's in His Word when leading you. If you don't
stand on the foundation of His Word, you've lost that advantage and are
prone to the winds of false doctrine and cultic beliefs. God has no
limits in dealing with people, but you're putting yourself on dangerous
ground. You have to know how to determine that what you are doing is
God's Will beyond *any* doubt. As the saying goes, "Where God guides,
God provides..."
> Mike, prove the Bible is the Word of God without using the Bible as
>proof.
I've supplied you with lots of facts and information on prophecies,
probabilities, evidences of changes lives, original and copied manuscript
tests, etc., and we're still debating. This proves that the Gospel of
Jesus Christ is truly a matter of the heart and not the mind. Read
about Paul's visit to Athens in Acts 17:16-34. Paul tried to reason
with them too, but received the same reaction that people have to the
gospel today: some believed, some sneered, some said maybe later on
your next visit. Paul never returned there. I may be way off base
here, but I sense by your participation in various conferences that you
still are searching and don't have 100% peace in your soul. Given all
this, my advice to you would be to pray to God to reveal Himself to you
through His Word and prove to you that the Bible is for real. Pray for
Him to show you and give you that peace that you know beyond any doubt.
Pray that He will fill you with His Holy Spirit so that you may gain
wisdom in discerning His book.
>Now, to answer your question. I am big on Jesus only, and I am also big
>on my belief that the Bible is not the Word of God. What you have done is take
>my belief of this file, which is a place where people believe Christ is our
>Saviour, and looked at it through your own belief colored glasses. If I believe
Actually I look at it and compare what I see to what God's Word says.
Your debate isn't with man, it's with God.
>as I do, why would I include just the gospels? He uses everything. NOTHING is
>left out. Jesus only to *me* does not mean Jesus and the Bible. It means Jesus,
>AND whatever He wants to use to convey the message.
When all else fails in your mind, you still have the quotations of
Jesus in the Bible. Jesus excluded EVERYTHING but Him in John 14:6.
Like I said before, you better be sure you *KNOW* everything that's
extra-Biblical is from God. Otherwise, you're in the Devil's
playground.
Mike
|
9.1645 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Sep 13 1994 11:02 | 96 |
| | <<< Note 9.1644 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>
| No because religion (beliefs system) is man-made. The Bible is a spiritual
| book and must be spiritually discerned. To spiritually discern it you must be
| spiritually alive. To be spiritually alive, you must have God's Holy Spirit
| within you. To be filled with the Holy Spirit, you must be born again by
| accepting Jesus Christ as God and Savior.
Mike, I have accepted Jesus Christ as our Savior. Would you agree then
that I have God's Spirit within me?
| God and His Word have no gray areas. It is humans who try to compromise His
| Word and rationalize their sinful ways.
I agree with this. But I think it is done on both sides of the fence.
Both by those who are perceived to be Christians, and by those who are
perceived to NOT be Christians.
| > Thank you for clarifying that. Let me ask you something. If God knows
| >you believe in Him with all your heart, and He knows up front that you do not
| >believe the Bible to be the Word of God, do you believe He will use other means
| >to show you what one might see in the Bible?
| It's possible and I know people it has happened to. Those that don't, continue
| to struggle with the flesh and don't grow.
Mike, are you saying you never struggle with the flesh? I didn't think
that was possible for humans to do.
| Most usually backslide to a point where they lose their joy of their salvation
| Then they feel inadequate, unworthy, and guilt-ridden and give up serving God
| altogether.
About how many people have you seen that did not believe the Bible to
be the Word of God, and then how many have you seen back slide?
| > Mike, do you feel it is wrong for people to say that without the belief
| >the Bible is the Word of God, you can not enter the Kingdom of Heaven? In other
| >words, they are putting limits on what God can use to help one grow?
| Good question. People that say these things probably believe that one
| can lose their salvation. I'm not so sure at this point if I believe
| one can lose their salvation. I lean toward the position that states
| that if someone backslides to that point, they probably weren't really
| saved to begin with (no commitment or half-hearted).
I have a hard time with part of your answer. I have seen some very good
people with very strong faiths go through some extremely difficult times that
back peddled. I can't believe that they weren't really saved to begin with.
Circumstances can play a BIG part in everything, especially when you're dealing
with humans.
| Another difficult position your question puts you in is knowing when you're
| being led by God or not. 1 John 4 is good for testing the spirits and knowing
| when you are being led in the right direction. Generally speaking, God will
| never contradict what's in His Word when leading you. If you don't stand on
| the foundation of His Word, you've lost that advantage and are prone to the
| winds of false doctrine and cultic beliefs.
Well, I guess we just believe differently. I don't think you have an
advantage either way.
| God has no limits in dealing with people, but you're putting yourself on
| dangerous ground.
If He has no limits, as you say, how am I on dangerous ground?
| > Mike, prove the Bible is the Word of God without using the Bible as
| >proof.
| I've supplied you with lots of facts and information on prophecies,
| probabilities, evidences of changes lives, original and copied manuscript
| tests, etc., and we're still debating.
But Mike, you have not given any facts that the Bible is the inerrant
Word of God. Prophecies is using the Bible. Probabilities is anything but fact.
Someone changing their life is not proof that the Bible is the inerrant Word of
God, but more that God used the Bible as one of His tools to save a life. The
origional text give no proof, without using itself, that the Bible is the
inerrant Word of God. It is impossible to prove the Bible is the inerrant Word
of God without using the book itself. It would be like trying to prove a liar
is telling the truth by using the liar as your proof. It ain't gonna happen.
| >Now, to answer your question. I am big on Jesus only, and I am also big
| >on my belief that the Bible is not the Word of God. What you have done is take
| >my belief of this file, which is a place where people believe Christ is our
| >Saviour, and looked at it through your own belief colored glasses. If I believe
| Actually I look at it and compare what I see to what God's Word says.
| Your debate isn't with man, it's with God.
The debate IS with man, the belief is with God.
Glen
|
9.1646 | as I read it | TFH::KIRK | a simple song | Tue Sep 13 1994 16:03 | 12 |
| re: Note 9.1644 by Mike "Maranatha!"
> Generally speaking, God will never contradict what's in His Word when
> leading you.
The phrase "generally speaking" means "as a rule of thumb", or "usually".
You are saying that indeed *sometimes* God *will* "contradict what's in His
Word when leading you".
Peace,
Jim
|
9.1647 | | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Tue Sep 13 1994 17:08 | 1 |
| Sorry Jim. Poor choice of words on my part.
|
9.1648 | His Word is Alive and will make you Alive | FRETZ::HEISER | Maranatha! | Tue Sep 13 1994 17:16 | 7 |
| A wise man once said, "Try it, you'll like it." Another wise one once
told you to allow the Bible to filter your life, instead of you
filtering it. Like I said, this is a matter of the heart, not the
head. Further discussions are futile until you seek the Lord in prayer
and ask for the discernment you are searching for.
Mike
|
9.1649 | moderator action | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Sep 16 1994 16:29 | 3 |
| Notes 960.114-117 have been set hidden.
Bob
|
9.1650 | The Bible says that Satan is seeking whom he may devour | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Mon Sep 19 1994 17:00 | 31 |
| I have remained silent during the monologues from Greg, however, I find
it important to let everyone in here know.. that I told Greg in an
offline mail, [actually opened my heart up to him] regarding what
happened to me here in CP. The note basically was to help him
understand something very vitally important; a lesson that I learned
from my experience here.
I said that I found myself wound up emotionally and spiritually while
discussing the rivalry between these two conferences as held by
Richard. That in the process of trying to reason, I became rather
unreasonable and had to apologize and bow out of here. Why? To grow,
to assimilate, to refresh my commitment to the Lord as He called us to
peace, and to reflect.
I'm sorry that in my sharing of this with Greg, he chose to disrespect
that trust. I feel rather violated, but then again, I believe
that we are known by the words of our mouth... and oftimes I hang my
head in shame at what comes out of this orifice.
I learned that being right about something doesn't necessarily equal
righteousness. And I believe that Richard will understand what I mean
by this. :-)
BTW, Richard wrote me offline and I responded.. and I apologized again
to Richard I told him, " I'm sorry, very sorry for not having more
wisdom about this."
Again, I apologize to all for this fray...
Nancy
|
9.1651 | mod action | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Sep 21 1994 14:58 | 4 |
| Notes 960.190-.193 have been set hidden (and the topic
temporarily set nowrite for some cooling-off).
Bob
|
9.1652 | introductions are *not* required | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Sep 23 1994 11:30 | 10 |
| re Note 974.76 by YIELD::GRIFFIS:
> I'd like to stop discussing an entry of
> 3 so that we can continue on with this discussion. Whether
> or not I have an entry in 3, is not going to change the
There is absolutely no requirement that you or anyone else
place an introduction in topic #3.
Bob
|
9.1653 | Introductions optional | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Crossfire | Fri Sep 23 1994 14:13 | 9 |
| .1652 I'll affirm that. Mine was only an invitation, which I gave
only once to Greg and after that explained why it might be a good
thing to do.
I figure Greg will enter an introduction when and if he's ready.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1655 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Sep 26 1994 13:04 | 25 |
| Greg:
If I am one of these conformists in your eyes, i.e. one who is calling
you luner, an idol worshipper, etc., then let me set the record
straight.
I see you as a contributor, and one who is capable of applying
scripture to certain situations or topics. I like that, I find alot of
merit in this and I would like to see more of it.
What really turns me off is when I see an individual harbor sin in his
heart...having a score to settle if you will. Now, say a woman came
over to my cube and started telling me about her visit to the
gynocologist today. Do you really thin it is proper, appropriate
behavior? I don't. I think it goes against gender protocol...but
that's me.
Now I'm glad that your glad that everybody is happy once again. But
Glen, if a person in Yukon made false accusations about you in another
file, please don't bore us with it. We're not interested.
Oh, and as far as being dangerous...no, you're not dangerous. Just too
outspoken at times.
-Jack
|
9.1656 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Sep 26 1994 13:06 | 1 |
| Sorry Glen. I meant to say Greg in the 3rd paragraph!!
|
9.1658 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Sep 26 1994 14:46 | 4 |
|
Do you have me on your mind Jack? heh heh... I'm flattered!
|
9.1660 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Mon Sep 26 1994 15:04 | 3 |
| Greg:
Please write whole song...I like that one!!!
|
9.1662 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Sep 28 1994 11:54 | 5 |
|
Jack, I saw that coming, and STILL found it quite humorous. Good one
Greg!
|
9.1663 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Wed Sep 28 1994 14:44 | 1 |
| Okay, you got me on that one!! :-)
|
9.1666 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Sep 29 1994 13:29 | 3 |
| Does this count as a snarf?
-- Bob
|
9.1668 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | | Thu Sep 29 1994 14:11 | 2 |
| You're right...Mr. Kimball is offensive. How bout Hank Ziffel or Mr.
Haney!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????
|
9.1669 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor! | Sat Nov 19 1994 12:56 | 7 |
| Well, the conference certainly seems to me to be in decline.
Could this be simply an ebbing of the tide? Or could it be something else?
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1670 | couldn't resist! :=} | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Sun Nov 20 1994 18:03 | 5 |
| re Note 9.1669 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:
> Well, the conference certainly seems to me to be in decline.
What's your point?
|
9.1671 | The rise and fall of ... | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Mon Nov 21 1994 02:32 | 40 |
| Re: .1669 Richard.
> Well, the conference certainly seems to me to be in decline.
How does one objectively measure decline? The number of times a
moderator needs to intervene in a given time-span? Or the ratio
set-hidden : not-hidden?
I cannot believe that you mean that the decline is because, in recent
months, there has been less conflict than in the period before that,
since that would run contrary to my image of you as a pacifist.
I wondered if your perception of decline is related to the ratio of
"fundies" : "libs" which appears to have slightly increased recently?
Maybe! Personally, I welcome a more balanced participitation: I
have a better chance to digest the pros and cons of the presented
arguments without being swamped by one side or the other.
It could be that the decline, as you percieve it, is a natural result
of the loss of some very fine and knowledgeable noters in the last
year (concomitant with the real decline of another "group"). In
this, I would concur. I, too, miss Collis and Mike and a few others
quite a lot.
Personally, my "bright-light-euphoria" tends to go into decline at
the end of Summer , reaching a low about mid-January and curving
upwards as Spring and Summer draw nearer. I wonder if you see the
world through "seasonal" spectacles, too. "Dark nights make dark mood
make dark thoughts make dark deeds. Turn on the lights!" (Quote from
my Aunt Maria, anno ~1950).
> Could this be simply an ebbing of the tide?
Most probably.
> Or could it be something else?
Maybe you just wanted to hear yourself type? ;-)
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1672 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Mon Nov 21 1994 09:22 | 6 |
| What we need is for somebody to make an inflammatory remark here or
perhaps in another conference so that somebody will be victimized and
deeply offended. Personnel will possibly be contacted...something like
that!!!
|
9.1673 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 21 1994 09:35 | 10 |
| The latest word from Corporate Personnel is that they are out of the
notesfile business.
If someone is offended, or if a moderator has a problem with a participant,
they are to go to their own management and human resources person to resolve
the problem. Only if their own management feels it is appropriate to contact
the management of the other party directly (not via corporate) will anything
be done.
/john
|
9.1674 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Mon Nov 21 1994 11:29 | 7 |
| You mean...womannotes is vulnerable now?!!??!
Thanks John....that's all I wanted to know `..'
^
`--'
|
9.1675 | How's that for controversy!!?? | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Nov 21 1994 11:35 | 9 |
|
Well John, if you didn't cry to them about everything it wouldn't have
been this way. Maybe someday when you grow up and accept the punishments for
the problems you've caused, the notes world will be a better place.
Glen
|
9.1676 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Mon Nov 21 1994 15:36 | 9 |
| Glen:
John didn't cause any problems. It was the ladies flaming rampant
sensitivity crowd-like attitudes that caused the problems. They were
unable to take in truth because it would marr their falso ideological
outlook on the way the world is...hence their counterfeit utopia would
be shattered!!!
-Jack
|
9.1677 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Mon Nov 21 1994 16:13 | 4 |
|
Jack..... you've just stepped into the world of the Right..... :-)
|
9.1678 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor! | Thu Nov 24 1994 12:30 | 19 |
| Note 9.1671
> How does one objectively measure decline? The number of times a
> moderator needs to intervene in a given time-span? Or the ratio
> set-hidden : not-hidden?
I thought of this after I entered the question, but decided to accept whatever
subjective responses the question might generate.
> I cannot believe that you mean that the decline is because, in recent
> months, there has been less conflict than in the period before that,
> since that would run contrary to my image of you as a pacifist.
The Christian pacifists I know do not avoid conflict, but realize that conflict
is an inevitable, even necessary part of life.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1679 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor! | Tue Nov 29 1994 16:03 | 14 |
| Note 176.13
> Thanks for the welcome Richard, I added my intro to the Christian
> Notes thinking it would cover both files.
> Bruce
Oooo! Not true, Bruce. Some here hardly ever visit our sister conference.
You're welcome to extract and copy your intro there into here though.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1680 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Nov 30 1994 18:05 | 7 |
| .1679
Oooo! Not true, Bruce. Some here hardly ever visit our sister conference.
Some here are not allowed in the sister conference by the conference by-laws :^)
Steve
|
9.1681 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Dec 01 1994 01:03 | 6 |
| >Some here are not allowed in the sister conference by the conference bylaws :^)
Does sticking a smily face after making a bogus statement always mean that
you're just kidding?
/john
|
9.1682 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Dig a little deeper | Thu Dec 01 1994 08:45 | 12 |
|
>Some here are not allowed in the sister conference by the conference by-laws :^)
There are no "by-laws". There are conference guidelines and statements of
the purpose for the conference. Those who do not agree with those guidelines
and/or the purpose of the conference are not compelled to participate.
Jim
|
9.1683 | | DNEAST::MALCOLM_BRUC | | Thu Dec 01 1994 09:53 | 4 |
| somehow I can't do an extract.....???
Bruce
|
9.1684 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Thu Dec 01 1994 10:08 | 55 |
| .1681 COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"
>>Does sticking a smily face after making a bogus statement always mean that
>>you're just kidding?
.1682 CSLALL::HENDERSON "Dig a little deeper"
>>Those who do not agree with those guidelines and/or the purpose of the
>>conference are not compelled to participate.
In this case the smiley means that we have been over this before, but I am not
kidding and the statement is NOT bogus.
According to Digital guidelines employee interest notesfiles are to be respected
regarding the intent of the noters, ie. respect diversity. This means that the
guidelines to the conferences should be taken seriously.
From the guidelines to the other conference:
THE BIBLE THE BIBLE, GOD'S WORD, IS THE STANDARD. As such it
becomes the standard by which entries will be judged.
Any entries that are derogatory, attempt to alter it,
or attack Biblical beliefs will be be set hidden and/or
deleted.
---
Entries that are deemed to be in conflict with Biblical
beliefs, and/or not in the spirit of the conference
guidelines, will be set hidden and/or deleted.
Arguments that repeatedly deny any of the basic
tenets as put forth in the Statement of Faith and
Conference Guidelines will not be entertained.
Such arguments will be viewed as not valuing the
difference of belief, and will be handled as the
situation requires.
These groundrules are essentially repeated in other notes, such as 2.8. The
Bible (God's word) is the standard. I do not believe that the Bible is God's
word. I cannot make the 'Statement of Faith'. My views cannot possibly be in the
spirit of the conference guidelines (by definition). The last paragraph
basically says that if I do note, stating any of my true beliefs, my management
may be notified.
Jim says that I am not compelled to participate. I maintain that by the rules, I
am basically barred from participating because of MY beliefs.
Now don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with this. You have a right to
form this kind of forum for discussion among like-minded individuals, just as
you have a right to form community churches (I believe that church-crashing as
practiced by some gay groups recently is wrong). But I don't see how you can
argue that I would be able to participate given the guidelines. The reality of
the conference may be different, but the guidelines are quite clear...
Steve
|
9.1685 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Dig a little deeper | Thu Dec 01 1994 10:15 | 11 |
|
Perhaps Patricia would comment (which I believe she already has) on
her recent experiences in "the other conference".
Jim
|
9.1686 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Thu Dec 01 1994 10:21 | 10 |
| I was respected and treated well in the "other notes conference". I
was however very much aware of the rules of the Christian Conference
which meant I could only argue based on what was recorded in the Bible.
That is not my worldview so ultimately I do not note there.
I do respect the right of a group of persons to define the limit of the
conversation and be left alone to converse within that limit.
Patricia
|
9.1687 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Dig a little deeper | Thu Dec 01 1994 10:40 | 16 |
|
RE: <<< Note 9.1686 by POWDML::FLANAGAN "I feel therefore I am" >>>
> I do respect the right of a group of persons to define the limit of the
> conversation and be left alone to converse within that limit.
Thank you for that.
Jim
|
9.1688 | it shouldn't be a stumbling block to you | FRETZ::HEISER | Grace changes everything | Thu Dec 01 1994 12:52 | 5 |
| Every conference has guidelines. Despite the "by laws" there have been
many discussions in there that deal with subjects that aren't strictly
Biblical.
Mike
|
9.1689 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Thu Dec 01 1994 17:20 | 20 |
| .1688 FRETZ::HEISER "Grace changes everything"
Title: it shouldn't be a stumbling block to you
Every conference has guidelines. Despite the "by laws" there have been
many discussions in there that deal with subjects that aren't strictly
Biblical.
I don't disagree, as I said, the reality of the conference may be different from
the guidelines. Just like the letter and the practice of the law can vary.
I assume, however, that some level of thought went into the guidelines, and they
were meant to define the types of discussions the originators wanted to have.
Based on my interpretation those discussions are to take place between people
that base thier beliefs on the Bible. As my beliefs are not based there, I do
not feel that this is a conference that wanted to deal with folks such as
myself. That's OK, and I've respected what I believe their wishes to be by
staying out. (I do believe I would be subject to disciplinary action if I noted
honestly there, but that has played no part in my decision to not participate).
Steve
|
9.1690 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Dec 01 1994 23:03 | 16 |
| The purpose of the ::Christian guidelines is to make it clear that those
who participate there are not to argue against the authority of the bible
as being divinely inspired, against the existence of God, or against the
revelation of God in Jesus Christ.
There are frequent discussions of exactly what that means -- are words
completely literal, are they for individual or community interpretation,
which translations are most accurate, are the truths physical or spiritual,
is time literal and absolute, etc.
But the conference presumes that there are other forums on the network for
attempting to prove that God doesn't exist or that Christianity is not the
unique divinely established religion by Jesus Christ for all humanity and
for all time, until the end of the world.
/john
|
9.1691 | but in practice one must stay far from the edge | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Dec 02 1994 09:15 | 35 |
| re Note 9.1690 by COVERT::COVERT:
> The purpose of the ::Christian guidelines is to make it clear that those
> who participate there are not to argue against the authority of the bible
> as being divinely inspired, against the existence of God, or against the
> revelation of God in Jesus Christ.
>
> There are frequent discussions of exactly what that means -- are words
> completely literal, are they for individual or community interpretation,
> which translations are most accurate, are the truths physical or spiritual,
> is time literal and absolute, etc.
The problems arise, John, when an argument that a certain
text is literal, or about the nature of inspiration itself
(not whether "inspired", but what "inspired" means), or any
of a dozen other issues is interpreted by some as equivalent
to attacking the authority and inspiration of the Bible
itself, or questioning the nature of Christ.
While such discussions may be tolerated, I have witnessed
over the years (and I was one of the first participants in
the first CHRISTIAN conference) that honest discussions on
such things do bring some regular and vociferous participants
to the point of at least suggesting a violation of the ground
rules. I think in some cases it has gone a lot farther than
that (notes hidden and deleted).
I know that I, for one, cannot comfortably participate in the
chilling shadow of such possibilities.
Certainly one of my motivations in helping to establish this
conference was to allow discussions to take place "on the
borderline," primarily by eliminating the formal border!
Bob
|
9.1692 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Fri Dec 02 1994 09:45 | 19 |
| Re -1
>The purpose of the ::Christian guidelines is to make it clear that those
>who participate there are not to argue against the authority of the bible
>as being divinely inspired, against the existence of God, or against the
>revelation of God in Jesus Christ.
John, if that is the purpose of the guideline, then I can personally agree
with that guideline. However, there is a huge difference between
saying that the Bible is divinely inspired and the Bible is inerrant.
There are frequent discussions of exactly what that means -- are words
completely literal, are they for individual or community interpretation,
which translations are most accurate, are the truths physical or spiritual,
is time literal and absolute, etc.
Those discussions are narrowed by the concept of inerrancy which is
also part of the conference.
|
9.1693 | Spiritual inerrancy vs. physical inerrancy | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Dec 02 1994 09:53 | 7 |
| But there is quite a bit of room for discussion, even within the scope
of "inerrancy".
For example, one can consider the bible to be inerrant, but not consider
the seven day creation story to be inconsistent with the Big Bang theory.
/john
|
9.1694 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Fri Dec 02 1994 10:11 | 3 |
| But if you assume that the Bible is innerant, it is pretty difficult to
argue that God did not create women to be subordinate to men.
|
9.1695 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Dec 02 1994 11:15 | 24 |
|
Steve, if you look at the discussions that have come from your note,
you should be able to clearly see that your participation if valued and
welcomed here. We have seen many people talk about what this conference means
to them, what can be discussed, possible problems that could arise. each one
has a little different view of it all. Each one is welcomed, and each one of
their views has and will continue to be discussed. Please don't think you
shouldn't discuss your views in here. Your views are another piece of the pie.
If we are truly to be a nation that follows God, then ALL views, ALL people
must be heard, and loved. You are not right, wrong, or anything else. You have
your beliefs. In the end, you'll find if they are right or wrong. But
discussion will help you see other venues that are out there. It really is
amazing.
Think about the peace talks that have happened this past year. Did
either side think the other belonged? At one time, no. But through dialogue
they have STARTED to open up. So please, stay in the file and discuss your
views. It may get heated from time to time, and if it does too much, step back
for a bit. But please don't stop participating.
Glen
|
9.1696 | | FRETZ::HEISER | Grace changes everything | Fri Dec 02 1994 11:20 | 10 |
| > But if you assume that the Bible is innerant, it is pretty difficult to
> argue that God did not create women to be subordinate to men.
It's not difficult at all. Eve is called a "helpmeet" or partner for
this very reason. If Eve was a subordinate, she would've been made
from Adam's feet. If she was superior, she would've been made from
Adam's head. They're equal because woman was made from man's side.
It's all really very simple.
Mike
|
9.1697 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Fri Dec 02 1994 13:50 | 11 |
| .1695 BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....."
Glen,
Thanks. I feel comfortable in this file, by and large this group is pretty
understanding.
My comments were directed to the other Christian notesfile. I would not (out of
politeness) participate in that file because the guidelines clearly leave me out.
Steve
|
9.1698 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Fri Dec 02 1994 14:02 | 3 |
| "helpmeet" and Subordinate mean the same things.
|
9.1699 | help meet | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Dec 02 1994 14:10 | 20 |
| re Note 9.1698 by POWDML::FLANAGAN:
> "helpmeet" and Subordinate mean the same things.
I'm not so sure that the word rendered "help meet" implies
"subordinate" (unless you always consider a "helper" to be
subordinate to the "helpee" :-).
On the other hand, probably less ambiguous and more
problematical for you, Patricia, might be Ephesians 5:23 --
"For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is
the head of the church..."
(Of course, this only applies to the marriage relationship,
and one could argue that the meaning of "head" is unclear,
but the comparison to the Christ-Church relationship probably
leaves little doubt who is the "superior".)
Bob
|
9.1700 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Fri Dec 02 1994 14:36 | 14 |
| Ephesians and Timothy are good examples too!
I was thinking of things like
Electrician
Electrician's helper
Nurse
Nurse's Aid
Vice President
Assistant to the Vice President.
It is clear in each case, who is on top!
|
9.1701 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Fri Dec 02 1994 15:51 | 5 |
|
Steve, that never stopped me..... :-)
|
9.1702 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | I'm an orca. | Fri Dec 02 1994 16:16 | 15 |
| > On the other hand, probably less ambiguous and more
> problematical for you, Patricia, might be Ephesians 5:23 --
> "For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is
> the head of the church..."
Sure, when taken as a single sound-bite, this one line can
be very problematic. But what is the line before it? "Submit
to each other..." And what comes after it? "Husbands, love
your wives as Christ loved the Church ***AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR
HER***" (Clearly these are paraphrases, and the emphasis is
mine...)
Why do people refuse to pay attention to the whole passage, and
the spirit of that passage? Why must they home in on the one
line that, standing alone, is so volatile and so misunderstood?
|
9.1703 | must be my male bias on the issue of "helper" :-) | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Dec 02 1994 16:49 | 26 |
| re Note 9.1700 by POWDML::FLANAGAN:
> I was thinking of things like
>
> Electrician
> Electrician's helper
>
> Nurse
> Nurse's Aid
>
> Vice President
> Assistant to the Vice President.
"Help meet" isn't a title, but a description.
I was thinking like:
the teacher helps the student,
the doctor helps the patient,
the parent helps the child,
the manager helps the employee get what is needed to get the job done. :-}
Bob
|
9.1704 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Fri Dec 02 1994 17:02 | 16 |
| We are getting off the subject. We are talking about the differences
of the two conferences.
In this conference, I can argue that it is my belief
1. That the Bible calls for the subordination of women to men,
2. That the subordination of women to men is erroneous and not
divinely inspired.
I am not allowed to link those two statements together in the other
conference. The only way I can argue that women should not be
subordinate to men, is to pretend that the Bible does not really say
they should be in Corinthians, Timothy, Titus, Ephesians and who knows
where else.
Patricia
|
9.1705 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | I'm an orca. | Fri Dec 02 1994 17:12 | 13 |
| > 1. That the Bible calls for the subordination of women to men,
> 2. That the subordination of women to men is erroneous and not
> divinely inspired.
>
> I am not allowed to link those two statements together in the other
> conference.
Sure you are, because the Bible does NOT call for subordination
as you see it. It *is* erroneous, and *NOT* divinely inspired!
But I see your point. I agree that there are certain things
one cannot say/profess/argue in ::CHRISTIAN, and personally
I like it that way.
|
9.1706 | | FRETZ::HEISER | Grace changes everything | Fri Dec 02 1994 17:51 | 10 |
| > 1. That the Bible calls for the subordination of women to men,
I don't think anyone in here has proven this. helpmeet <> subordinate.
> 2. That the subordination of women to men is erroneous and not
> divinely inspired.
Agreed and God's Word supports this.
Mike
|
9.1707 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Dec 06 1994 10:52 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 9.1705 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "I'm an orca." >>>
| Sure you are, because the Bible does NOT call for subordination
| as you see it. It *is* erroneous, and *NOT* divinely inspired!
The Bible????
| But I see your point. I agree that there are certain things one cannot say
| profess/argue in ::CHRISTIAN, and personally I like it that way.
It does make it easier to see just one side of anything that way.
Personally, I like the openess of everyone in here.
Glen
|
9.1708 | Help Meet <> Subordination | FRETZ::HEISER | Grace changes everything | Tue Dec 06 1994 11:51 | 5 |
| I checked out "helpmeet" in my Hebrew dictionary last night. The
Hebrew word used there means "to surround, protector, aid, to succor."
None of these sound like subordination at all to me.
Mike
|
9.1709 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | I'm an orca. | Tue Dec 06 1994 11:52 | 16 |
| >| Sure you are, because the Bible does NOT call for subordination
>| as you see it. It *is* erroneous, and *NOT* divinely inspired!
>
> The Bible????
I hope you're just PRETENDING to be stupid.
>Personally, I like the openess of everyone in here.
What you see as "openess" I see as something else. I need not
say more on that. It's OK that we see it differently. That's
the beauty of the two conferences -- to meet different needs,
which is why you spend more time in here than I do.
Glen
|
9.1710 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Tue Dec 06 1994 14:38 | 8 |
| .1709 CSC32::J_OPPELT "I'm an orca."
What you see as "openess" I see as something else.
Joe, of course you don't have to elaborate, but I would be real interested in
what you see it as...
Steve
|
9.1711 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Tue Dec 06 1994 16:21 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 9.1709 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "I'm an orca." >>>
| I hope you're just PRETENDING to be stupid.
It was a joke Joe. Why do you feel the need to always be so insulting?
| >Personally, I like the openess of everyone in here.
| What you see as "openess" I see as something else.
Joe, maybe we have a different opinion on what openess is. I was
looking at it from the viewpoint that people in this file seem to open up and
tell us exactly what their beliefs are, how they came to their conclusions, how
it has effected their lives. Not whether it was right or wrong. Were you
thinking along the lines of either of the two I mentioned, or something else
entirely?
| the beauty of the two conferences -- to meet different needs, which is why you
| spend more time in here than I do.
What need do you think I am searching for Joe?
Glen
|
9.1712 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor! | Tue Dec 06 1994 19:21 | 5 |
| This is *not* SOAPBOX.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1713 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Memories..... | Wed Dec 07 1994 10:08 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 9.1712 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor!" >>>
| This is *not* SOAPBOX.
Richard, just curious, what about that last note made you think it was
a SOAPBOX type note?
Glen
|
9.1714 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor! | Thu Dec 08 1994 10:32 | 9 |
| 271.292 and 271.294
Ray,
Thank you. Permit me to extend the hand of Christian reconciliation.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1715 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Tue Dec 20 1994 09:38 | 43 |
|
Jack, let's continue here, seeing we're not talking about demons.
Please explain what you meant in note 1020.10. I've included that note,
the note you were referring to, and the note I had been referring to below:
================================================================================
Note 1020.10 Demons 10 of 22
AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" 5 lines 19-DEC-1994 15:19
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Right Glen...let's keep the old liberal skeleton's in there that seem
to live by this notion that your too stupid to make decisions for
yourself!!
-Jack
================================================================================
Note 1020.9 Demons 9 of 22
BIGQ::SILVA "Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box!" 4 lines 19-DEC-1994 15:09
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Richard, I liked that analogy! :-)
================================================================================
Note 1020.7 Demons 7 of 22
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Unquenchable fire" 10 lines 19-DEC-1994 13:48
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I've changed my mind a number of times about demons, their existance and
the nature of their existance. I wouldn't doubt that I'll change my mind
again.
I've personally never seen a demon, unless you count Gingrich and Helms.
(But I would prefer to believe these two are simply "Dumb and Dumber") ;-}
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1716 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Tue Dec 20 1994 12:31 | 23 |
| Okay Glen...
It has been two weeks since the election, and I have seen nothing but
demonization of Gingrich. Even when Bill Clinton was elected, I at
least stated that I hope he succeeds (selfish reasons only).
I realize Richards posting was done in humor...probably with a tad of
genuineness in the reply. That's okay, but what baffles me is why Newt
Gingrich is demonized by everybody...when he hasn't even done anything
yet.
I am a big proponent of debate of the issues. I have found this
contract, political or not, will AT LEAST bring the issues to the
floor. Remember that there are democrat reps who have always wanted to
debate things like the Line Item veto, Term Limits, etc. Foley and his
ilk have been holding these things up for years.
I hear people decry change but when change comes along...meaningful
change that will make a difference, I see people belly aching.
Remember, Clinton has the veto power and I believe the Senate can still
fillibuster...So Newt and Dole aren't as in control as people think.
-Jack
|
9.1717 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Learning to lean | Tue Dec 20 1994 12:36 | 3 |
|
Its been about 6 weeks since the election, FWIW
|
9.1718 | double standard | FRETZ::HEISER | Grace changes everything | Tue Dec 20 1994 13:03 | 1 |
| Jack, I think that shoe only fits when we have to wear it.
|
9.1719 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Tue Dec 20 1994 13:16 | 70 |
| | <<< Note 9.1716 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>
| It has been two weeks since the election,
Jack, this explains it. You've taken about 4 weeks off of your life
somewhere so you probably didn't hear the stuff he said. :-)
| and I have seen nothing but demonization of Gingrich.
True, because of the things he has said.
| I realize Richards posting was done in humor...probably with a tad of
| genuineness in the reply. That's okay, but what baffles me is why Newt
| Gingrich is demonized by everybody...when he hasn't even done anything yet.
I think it's based on what he has said he would do. Does it make sense
if you know that what a person says doesn't fit your views to wait until said
person does the action they're talking about before you mention that you don't
like it? That you think it will hurt more than help? To voice the opinions may
or may not prevent something good/bad from happening. But seeing in this case
Gingrich has stated he is for the people, then he should listen to what the
people say.
| I have found this contract, political or not, will AT LEAST bring the issues
| to the floor.
You're right about that Jack, it will bring it to the floor. I wonder
how many people who voted GOP because of the contract, did so because they
thought these things would pass?
| Remember that there are democrat reps who have always wanted to debate things
| like the Line Item veto, Term Limits, etc. Foley and his ilk have been holding
| these things up for years.
As well as he and the others should have. We have term limits now Jack.
They are called elections. The line item veto will give the party in charge the
power, which is wrong. If you have a bill that is about crime, then it has to
have ZERO attatchments. Large chunks of bills have stuff that isn't related to
it added on just so people will vote for it. Let each bill stand on its own,
and if it means more hours are put in voting issues, so be it. But the 2 things
you've talked about are things that should never come to pass.
| I hear people decry change but when change comes along...meaningful change
| that will make a difference, I see people belly aching.
Jack, apparently not everyone views the changes as meaningful, and that
some may even view some of the changes as useless, or hurting. Welfare reform
has to happen. But it has to be done the right way, not a way that will harm
people. It's kind of funny. They say they don't want to allow mothers extra
money if they are on welfare and have another kid. I agree with this. BUT, then
they offer a middle class tax break that deals with so much money being taken
off of your taxes based on how many kids you have.....does this make sense?
| Remember, Clinton has the veto power and I believe the Senate can still
| fillibuster...So Newt and Dole aren't as in control as people think.
The fillibuster should be done away with as well. People working
together is what is needed. Getting the neighborhoods back to what they should
be is one area that I would like to see done. That will involve state gov & the
people themselves.
But Jack, you still haven't answered my origional question. The, "can't
think for themselves" one? I mean, you stated that you thought Richards remark
was humor, yet your reply towards my comment, which had a :-) with it to show
it too was humor, was kind of harsh. So could you clear that up as well?
Glen
|
9.1720 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Tue Dec 20 1994 13:17 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 9.1718 by FRETZ::HEISER "Grace changes everything" >>>
| Jack, I think that shoe only fits when we have to wear it.
| -< double standard >-
Mike, could you explain the double standard?
Glen
|
9.1721 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Dec 20 1994 13:52 | 13 |
| re .1716
> Newt Gingrich is demonized by everybody...when he hasn't even done
> anything yet.
This is a false statement because:
1) Everybody is *not* demonizing Newt. Given the election results
I would say that a minority disagrees with him and even fewer
"demonize" him.
2) Newt is *not* a new face in congress. He is a senior member who
has done plenty.
|
9.1722 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Tue Dec 20 1994 14:08 | 36 |
| Glen:
Apparently Newt is listening to the people...otherwise, it would stand
to reason that the pubs would have lost.
It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better.
Problem is that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along
the problems in the first place. It's all a matter of perspective. I
find the great society started by LBJ has been one of the great evils
of our time. Wealth redistribution...welcome to downtown Roxbury...we
know you'll enjoy your stay.
Surely you can understand that a thirty year dismal failure is going to
leave the country skeptical of governments answers to poverty. No
Glen...you just think your helping people. Fact is, your setting a
paradigm of entitlements and government dependency. If you were a
Heroin addict, the last thing I'd do is encourage you to stay on
heroin!
As far as thinking for yourself...the democrat party for years has been
preying on the weakminded and the utopia seekers. Now you know why the
democrats want illegal aliens to be able to vote. Hey...just come to
America...register at the Registry of Motor Vehicles (Because your too
stupid to register anywhere else and hence you won't vote for me)...and
I will give you these goodies. You need me because your not
intelligent enough to think for yourselves...you need me on Beacon Hill
or Capitol Hill because I'm for you...I'm for the little guy! Glen,
your reps think your an idiot! But guess what, I don't and that's why
I'm so against the liberal establishment. For example...Leon Panetta,
one of the biggest patronizers of our time! I loathe him as a
politician because he thinks you're a chump and I resent that. I've
never seen a bigger bunch of elitists than I have in this current
administration. Every cabinet is a millionaire...but they feeeeel your
pain!
-Jack
|
9.1723 | good luck | FRETZ::HEISER | Grace changes everything | Tue Dec 20 1994 14:45 | 3 |
| > Mike, could you explain the double standard?
Glen, I think you can figure it out.
|
9.1724 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Tue Dec 20 1994 14:55 | 10 |
| > the democrat party for years has been preying on the weakminded and the
> utopia seekers... [etc.,etc.]
And you think the Republican congress-critters are any different!?
The joke's on you my friend. (Exactly who the weakminded are is up for
debate.)
Eric
|
9.1725 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Tue Dec 20 1994 15:53 | 34 |
| | <<< Note 9.1722 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>
| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| first place.
STOP. :-) This is your first mistake. What the reality of the
situation is that I think Newt is to the far right, while many of the people
who have been running the country are to the far left. We need a middle ground.
The BASIC ideas Newt has, well... some of them are good. Welfare reform is
needed. His ideas on it leave me with a bad taste in my mouth. The way it is
now leaves a bad taste in my mouth. What we need is a middle ground to solve
the problems, not create new ones like Newt and the Left will do.
| Surely you can understand that a thirty year dismal failure is going to leave
| the country skeptical of governments answers to poverty.
If you state it as that, yeah. But if people listen to the answers the
government is now saying, you'll see it is NOT saying the same thing it was
before.
| No Glen...you just think your helping people.
STOP. Again you have made an incorrect statement about my position.
| Fact is, your setting a paradigm of entitlements and government dependency.
Jack, I wish you knew what you were talking about here. Truth is, all
of the things you have said I thought, have been wrong.
Glen
|
9.1726 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Tue Dec 20 1994 15:54 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 9.1723 by FRETZ::HEISER "Grace changes everything" >>>
| > Mike, could you explain the double standard?
| Glen, I think you can figure it out.
Mike, if I could figure it out, believe me, I would have said so.
|
9.1727 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Tue Dec 20 1994 19:07 | 8 |
| .1716 AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"
I hear people decry change but when change comes along...meaningful
change that will make a difference, I see people belly aching.
Clinton has proposed a lot of change. To him I'm sure it was meaningful, and it
would have made a difference. The key is whether or not you agree with it :^)
|
9.1728 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Tue Dec 20 1994 19:18 | 12 |
| Example: Universal Healthcare.
End Result: 14% of the GNP handed over to the federal government and
alot of red tape that you didn't ask for. I see this as a change...for
the worse. All it's doing is accelerating the same direction we've
been going in LBJ. That isn't change...thats the same Santa Claus
rhetoric we've been hearing for years.
Universal coverage is an admirable goal but I'm not willing to sell out
the country to get it.
-Jack
|
9.1729 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Tue Dec 20 1994 19:23 | 6 |
| Yes, people tend to vote with their checkbooks, not the Good Book,
in mind.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1730 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Tue Dec 20 1994 19:44 | 8 |
| .1728 AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"
Example: Universal Healthcare.
As I said, it is a change, it would have an difference, you just don't agree
with it.
Steve
|
9.1731 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Wed Dec 21 1994 09:32 | 5 |
|
Jack, will you be addressing .1725?????
|
9.1732 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Wed Dec 21 1994 11:54 | 40 |
| Re: Note 9.1725
BIGQ::SILVA "Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box!" 34 lines 20-DEC-1994 15:53
| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| first place.
>> STOP. :-) This is your first mistake. What the reality of the
>>situation is that I think Newt is to the far right, while many of the people
>>who have been running the country are to the far left. We need a middle ground.
>>The BASIC ideas Newt has, well... some of them are good. Welfare reform is
>>needed. His ideas on it leave me with a bad taste in my mouth. The way it is
>>now leaves a bad taste in my mouth. What we need is a middle ground to solve
>>the problems, not create new ones like Newt and the Left will do.
I disagree. What exactly is wrong with Newts idea on welfare reform? The
churches will have the onus of picking up the slack. I see this as very good.
What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.
It has continually been proven time and time that the government does a poor
job managing money...getting the most bang for the buck. Schools are a good
example. Typical cost of educating a child in Boston is 5 to 7K. A private
Christian School does a better job for 3200.
| No Glen...you just think your helping people.
>>> STOP. Again you have made an incorrect statement about my position.
Glen, you seem to communicate that government is the answer on alot of issues.
I tend to disagree.
| Fact is, your setting a paradigm of entitlements and government dependency.
>> Jack, I wish you knew what you were talking about here. Truth is, all
>>of the things you have said I thought, have been wrong.
Oh, so you believe the status quo, which is something Bill Clinton et al has
not addressed too much, will stop the continuing paradigm of government
dependency? I don't.
-Jack
|
9.1733 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Wed Dec 21 1994 11:58 | 15 |
| >> Yes, people tend to vote with their checkbooks, not the Good Book,
>> in mind.
Richard, there is nothing Godly or even prudent in disorganized
spending. There are 100s of alternatives...better than the ones put
forth by both parties. God tells us to be prudent with our finances.
You act as if it is not virtuous to not trust government with something
as important as healthcare.
As it stands, my wife is diabetic. I cannot get life insurance and
health insurance would be impossible without a company like Digital.
I AM NOT willing to prostitute America in the name of a little
security...and I do stress the word, little!
-Jack
|
9.1734 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Wed Dec 21 1994 13:13 | 65 |
| | <<< Note 9.1732 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>
| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| first place.
Jack, the part I was hoping you would address is above. The part where
you say I am looking to rely on the same people etc. I explained that I thought
Newt was too far to the right for me, and even stated that I thought others
were too far to the left. So it's the claim you made that I wish you would
address.
| I disagree. What exactly is wrong with Newts idea on welfare reform?
I want you to read the entire thing before you respond to it. The poor
will get pooer for starters. To take everyone and tell them work or lose
benefits is not a good plan. I agree that people need to get back to work if
they are able. But I think training will need to be implimented, child care for
those who need it (but couldn't afford it otherwise), job placement programs
(like they have for the unemployed) things like that. Taking children away from
teen mothers is wrong (imho). Newt is of the cut and save money, but does
nothing to address the real problems involved. Different locals will have
different problems. People in the burbs may have fewer, and different problems
than those of the inner city. A cut and dry program will not address the
problems.
| The churches will have the onus of picking up the slack.
Jack, can they handle the way it is right this very second? We both
know that overall the answer is no. Some may do better than others, but some
may be in areas that aren't too hard hit. So by putting more of a burden on
them is somehow better?
| What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.
If a church has no charity to give, then how will it be better?
Government charity has to go as well, but lets do it the right way, and not so
the problems and the number of people living in the streets goes up. God can do
a lot, but He will use us, our minds, our bodies, everything, to fix the
problems.
| | No Glen...you just think your helping people.
| >>> STOP. Again you have made an incorrect statement about my position.
| Glen, you seem to communicate that government is the answer on alot of issues.
| I tend to disagree.
Jack, your statement is wrong about me. If you can prove this, please
do. But it is incorrect.
| >> Jack, I wish you knew what you were talking about here. Truth is, all
| >>of the things you have said I thought, have been wrong.
| Oh, so you believe the status quo, which is something Bill Clinton et al has
| not addressed too much, will stop the continuing paradigm of government
| dependency? I don't.
That's just it Jack. Neither do I. I don't support the status quo. I
have stated that in here and in other notesfiles we have participated in. You
have even participated in some of those conversations. I'm guessing you weren't
paying attention, or confusing me with others AGAIN, as how I have stated my
opinions in there and here do not match your portayal of me.
Glen
|
9.1735 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Wed Dec 21 1994 14:13 | 83 |
| | It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| first place.
Glen, I guess I am gambling here. I would assume you voted for Kennedy, your
incumant Congresscritter (Kennedy or Moakley...not sure which). Is this the
case? Did you vote all the democrat incumbents in...even for Beacon Hill?
If so, I understand that you voted for who you feel best represents your
interests...the beauty of America. Only problem is...you voted for the same
o ld crowd!!!
>> I want you to read the entire thing before you respond to it. The poor
>>will get pooer for starters. To take everyone and tell them work or lose
>>benefits is not a good plan.
Is this really as overt as that...or is he just making the timeframe for
accepting aid shorter. I know when people lose jobs, you can lose the
aggressiveness to find another. What better way to motivate people than to
shorten the safety net?
Glen, there are low skilled jobs available. I know this for a fact. Help
wanted signs all throughout Boston!
>>Taking children away from
>>teen mothers is wrong (imho). Newt is of the cut and save money, but does
>>nothing to address the real problems involved. Different locals will have
>>different problems. People in the burbs may have fewer, and different problems
>>than those of the inner city. A cut and dry program will not address the
>>problems.
Glen, the liberal DSS (Dept. of Social Services) has been taking kids away from
abusive mothers for years. Still going on today.
| The churches will have the onus of picking up the slack.
>> Jack, can they handle the way it is right this very second? We both
>>know that overall the answer is no. Some may do better than others, but some
>>may be in areas that aren't too hard hit. So by putting more of a burden on
>>them is somehow better?
Yes. It is their resposibility foremost...not the governments. Besides,
giving will be on the increase when tax relief comes.
| What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.
>> If a church has no charity to give, then how will it be better?
Glen, who have you been listening to? Boston is basically owned by two
entities...that being Harvard University and the Catholic Church. The Arch
Diocese in Boston is not as poor as you have been lead to believe.
Not picking on the catholic church only. Consider the fact that most of the
medical institutions in Boston are affiliated or owned by a church or
synagogue. Glen, ther is money Money MONEY!!!! Oh what a difference the role
of the church would make if government would just mind its own affairs...
defending the borders and legislating.
>> Jack, your statement is wrong about me. If you can prove this, please
>>do. But it is incorrect.
Correct me if I'm wrong...you are pro...
ACLU
Affirmative Action
Taxation of Churches and Religious Institutions
Bill Clinton
Choice even if you wouldn't have one if you were a woman.
Goals 2000 and Prophyllactic distribution in schools.
Government controlled healthcare
Gun Control
Now I realize that alot of these things have alot of pull while in your mind
some have less. However, you are still far more pro government intervention
than I am.
>> That's just it Jack. Neither do I. I don't support the status quo. I
>>have stated that in here and in other notesfiles we have participated in. You
>>have even participated in some of those conversations. I'm guessing you weren't
>>paying attention, or confusing me with others AGAIN, as how I have stated my
>>opinions in there and here do not match your portayal of me.
Okay, I concede on that...unless you voted all the incumbents in!
-Jack
|
9.1736 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Dec 21 1994 15:48 | 18 |
| .1732 AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"
>>Schools are a good example. Typical cost of educating a child in Boston is 5
>>to 7K. A private Christian School does a better job for 3200.
An interesting point. In Colorado Springs we are experimenting with 'charter
schools'. In these schools a private organization comes in, takes over a school
building (gratis) and implements there own program, if approved by the local
school board. Of the organizations that have applied for a charter, all have
asked for the complete allotment per student available (ie. what the public
schools get), most have asked for more free assitance (administrative support,
etc., although I don't believe they will get it) and they still claim they will
lose money overall. The hook, of course, is that they will do a much better job
on education. I'm sure that districts effective use of money varies widely
across the U.S.
Steve
|
9.1737 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Wed Dec 21 1994 15:55 | 98 |
| | <<< Note 9.1735 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>
| | It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| | that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| | first place.
| Glen, I guess I am gambling here. I would assume you voted for Kennedy, your
| incumant Congresscritter (Kennedy or Moakley...not sure which). Is this the
| case? Did you vote all the democrat incumbents in...even for Beacon Hill?
You see, this is what puzzles me. Maybe ya just skip over some of the
notes or somethin... :-) I voted for Kennedy, and I voted for Weld. I voted
Malone. 1 dem, 2 repubs. I vote for who I think can do the best job. I've
stated that in my notes about voting. I've stated voting the party line is not
always voting for the best candidate. I'm an independant anyway, so I get the
best of both worlds. Jack, do you have a bad memory or do you just skip notes?
I know you've replied to some notes dealing with voting, so possibly it's your
memory?
| >> I want you to read the entire thing before you respond to it. The poor
| >>will get pooer for starters. To take everyone and tell them work or lose
| >>benefits is not a good plan.
| Is this really as overt as that...or is he just making the timeframe for
| accepting aid shorter.
There is nothing wrong with shortening the timeframe Jack. Nothing
unless that's all you're doing. Training and stuff like that is needed as well.
| Glen, there are low skilled jobs available. I know this for a fact. Help
| wanted signs all throughout Boston!
Low skilled jobs, low wages. How can someone who is on welfare to begin
with expect to get off of it if they have kids? You can't leave them at home
alone, they can't afford to pay to have someone take care of them. You end up
with no answer, just more problems.
| >>Taking children away from
| >>teen mothers is wrong (imho). Newt is of the cut and save money, but does
| >>nothing to address the real problems involved. Different locals will have
| >>different problems. People in the burbs may have fewer, and different problems
| >>than those of the inner city. A cut and dry program will not address the
| >>problems.
| Glen, the liberal DSS (Dept. of Social Services) has been taking kids away from
| abusive mothers for years. Still going on today.
Does abusive = teen mothers in your mind?
| Yes. It is their resposibility foremost...not the governments. Besides,
| giving will be on the increase when tax relief comes.
You can say that and mean it? Look at what will be given back. Not much
Jack. Will people really take that little amount and give it to the churches?
Come on Jack. You still haven't answered the question if churches can handle
things as they are right this second.
| | What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.
| >> If a church has no charity to give, then how will it be better?
| Glen, who have you been listening to? Boston is basically owned by two
| entities...that being Harvard University and the Catholic Church. The Arch
| Diocese in Boston is not as poor as you have been lead to believe.
Got proof Jack? Why don't we have more shelters then Jack? Why are
people turned away night after night? Sorry Jack, if they got it, they ain't
sharing it. (but ya gotta prove they got it first)
| >> Jack, your statement is wrong about me. If you can prove this, please
| >>do. But it is incorrect.
| Correct me if I'm wrong...you are pro...
| ACLU - y
| Affirmative Action - y
| Taxation of Churches and Religious Institutions - n
| Bill Clinton - y/n
| Choice even if you wouldn't have one if you were a woman. -n
| Goals 2000 and Prophyllactic distribution in schools.- n/y (goals 2000?)
| Government controlled healthcare - y/n
| Gun Control - y
| Now I realize that alot of these things have alot of pull while in your mind
| some have less. However, you are still far more pro government intervention
| than I am.
Well, with things like murder and such going on, which we both would
agree the government should have laws against, it's easy to see why gun control
should be in place. :-)
| Okay, I concede on that...unless you voted all the incumbents in!
I vote for who I think is best. If I thought all the best were the
incumbents, your statement would still be false.
Glen
|
9.1738 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Wed Dec 21 1994 16:09 | 3 |
| Okay Okay Okay...I give up...Uncle Uncle Uncle!!!!! You Win...I lose.
Now...how do I get deprogrammed>!!!???
|
9.1739 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Thu Dec 22 1994 09:54 | 3 |
|
but will you remember..... :-)
|
9.1740 | | AIMHI::JMARTIN | Barney IS NOT a nerd!! | Wed Dec 28 1994 09:30 | 5 |
| Remember what?! What are you talking about my friend?
I haven't a clue as to what you are referring to.
I'm not a schitzo and neither am I!
|
9.1741 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Tue Jan 03 1995 10:55 | 4 |
|
<grin>
|
9.1742 | is mention of disbelief inappropriate? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Jan 04 1995 09:25 | 38 |
| re Note 1023.12 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:
> .9>> else while I was there.) I've been told that my doubt will
> >> keep me blind to them.
>
> >As an aside (or a rathole if you prefer :^), I have the same problem with belief
> >in God, and have heard the last line more often than I can count.
>
> What does that have to do with CHRISTIAN perspective? That's
> supposed to be the subject matter of the conference, isn't it?
Joe,
I just want to point out that the passing remark made by
Steve in .9 that your observation regarding visions in .6 was
*precisely* Steve's observation regarding faith in general is
*entirely* appropriate in *any* discussion of Christian
faith. How can one discuss faith if the mere mention of
disbelief (and that is all that .9 was -- just four lines!)
is not allowed?
Is your faith so insecure that those four lines *identifying
with you*, albeit in a different faith context, are cause for
generalized bashing?
> I can see your point of view regarding God. I can respect it too.
> I just question the appropriateness of including such a point of
> view among "Christian perspectives", and that's what keeps me
> wary of this conference.
And it is the prevalence of attitudes such as this that keeps
me so wary of the other Christian conference that I don't
even read it (although I was, in many ways, a "charter
member" of the original CHRISTIAN conference).
Bob
|
9.1743 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 12:18 | 50 |
| > I just want to point out that the passing remark made by
> Steve in .9 that your observation regarding visions in .6 was
> *precisely* Steve's observation regarding faith in general is
> *entirely* appropriate in *any* discussion of Christian
> faith.
Belief in God MUST BE A PREQUISITE of Christianity. If you
disagree, we simply have nothing more to discuss. I'm not even
pushing a belief in the Bible here. Merely a belief in God
Himself.
> How can one discuss faith if the mere mention of
> disbelief (and that is all that .9 was -- just four lines!)
> is not allowed?
He did not express a "mere mention of disbelief", but rather
an absolute disbelief in God (at least as I interpreted it.)
There is a big difference between doubting certain practices
or manifestations of a religion, and doubting God Himself, and
somewhere in between lies the doubt of certain doctrines.
Encouraging discussion of Christian practices, of differences in
various Christian faith expressions, even discussion about the
validity of universal doctrine, would seem to me to be appropriate
fare for a conference that purports to embrace Christianity.
Fostering discussion that espouses disbelief in God Himself,
or discussions that rend the very fabric of Christianity, is
simply not appropriate *IF* this conference is really a
Christian conference. Rename it FAITH_PERSPECTIVES if you
really want to be honest.
What I'd expect from a truly Christian conference is one where
non-believers can come to learn about Christianity and perhaps
find Christian faith. As it stands today, this conference is
one where the non-believer comes to defend and explain his
non-belief to the Christian so that believers can come to
understand non-belief. That's not "Christian perspectives".
It's "non-Christian perspectives."
>> I just question the appropriateness of including such a point of
>> view among "Christian perspectives", and that's what keeps me
>> wary of this conference.
>
> And it is the prevalence of attitudes such as this that keeps
> me so wary of the other Christian conference
What attitude? Honesty? Is including atheism/agnosticism
among "Christian perspectives" really honest? That's all I'm
trying to point out.
|
9.1744 | are you thinking? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Jan 04 1995 12:48 | 44 |
| re Note 9.1743 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:
Why don't you address Steve's objection, rather than
objecting merely to the fact that he mentioned it? Or is the
problem that you have no answer to Steve, so you just bash
the conference?
> > How can one discuss faith if the mere mention of
> > disbelief (and that is all that .9 was -- just four lines!)
> > is not allowed?
>
> He did not express a "mere mention of disbelief", but rather
> an absolute disbelief in God (at least as I interpreted it.)
I can assure you most solemnly, Joe, that I will have no part
of any conference in which atheists/agnostics cannot
participate or in which they cannot use four lines to state
that they are atheists/agnostics and why.
It is hardly "fostering" disbelief to allow such statements.
> Rename it FAITH_PERSPECTIVES if you
> really want to be honest.
... but then some jerk will chime in "how can someone espouse
a position of no faith in a conference named
FAITH_PERSPECTIVE" -- believe me, you can't win in this game.
> > And it is the prevalence of attitudes such as this that keeps
> > me so wary of the other Christian conference
>
> What attitude? Honesty? Is including atheism/agnosticism
> among "Christian perspectives" really honest? That's all I'm
> trying to point out.
Do you really think it is wise to allow a non-believer into a
discussion of Christianity but never allow them to say *why*
they don't accept Christianity? Won't this put an incredibly
large hole in your ability to evangelize, if nothing else?
Bob
|
9.1745 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed Jan 04 1995 13:00 | 51 |
| Re: .1743 Joe
> What I'd expect from a truly Christian conference is one where
> non-believers can come to learn about Christianity and perhaps
> find Christian faith. As it stands today, this conference is
> one where the non-believer comes to defend and explain his
> non-belief to the Christian so that believers can come to
> understand non-belief. That's not "Christian perspectives".
> It's "non-Christian perspectives."
In other words, you'd like CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE to be more like
CHRISTIAN. I hope that never happens.
Steve Bittrolff and I have been completely open about the fact that we do
not consider ourselves to be Christians. There is no dishonesty here; the
fact is that both believers and non-believers have been welcome in C-P
from its inception. (Otherwise, how could I have been one of the original
moderators?) From note 1.0:
The purpose of this conference is to discuss various doctrines,
teachings, and spirituality and their application to living from a
Christian perspective, in which all denominations are welcome, and in
fact, those who have no denominational affiliation are equally
welcome as well....
It is to be expected that from time to time, other religions or
spiritual philosophies will be discussed in order to compare and
contrast them with Christianity. This is entirely appropriate. We
would ask all participants to refrain from lengthy exchanges that are
primarily about non-Christian topics. Instead, we encourage the
placement of "pointers" to other notefile conferences, including, but
not limited to RELIGION, where such discussions might take place at
greater length.
Yes, the primary subject matter of C-P is Christianity, as defined in note
8.7. When Mikie Morgan wrote an extended series of notes about Satanism a
few years ago he was asked to take the discussion to the RELIGION
conference. But it's certainly within the scope of C-P for a non-Christian
to explain his or her reasons for not believing in Christian doctrine.
The conference rules do not impose any kind of doctrinal standard on the
participants. As stated in note 8.19:
The only authority that the moderators of this conference
have and exercise is the authority to enforce Digital
corporate policy -- period.
Do not regard any moderator in this conference as having any
religious authority over the religious content of this
conference -- they don't have any such authority.
-- Bob
|
9.1746 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 13:01 | 27 |
| > I can assure you most solemnly, Joe, that I will have no part
> of any conference in which atheists/agnostics cannot
> participate or in which they cannot use four lines to state
> that they are atheists/agnostics and why.
It is more than just a matter of one person entering "4 lines"
(BTW, the header of the entry in question says 18 lines...)
It is a matter of the entire tenor of the conference. One
reply is but a fragment of the whole. The conference seems
to me to be more geared towards disbelief and dissent than
towards understanding true Christian perspectives. Read the
last line of 1023.9. *THAT* seems to me to be the real
purpose of the conference, at least what it has evolved to
today...
> It is hardly "fostering" disbelief to allow such statements.
I see more than just "allow" here. And it's more than just
disbelief I've mentioned, so you are missing the point if
that's all you've read in my replies.
> Do you really think it is wise to allow a non-believer into a
> discussion of Christianity but never allow them to say *why*
> they don't accept Christianity?
You miss the point entirely, I see.
|
9.1747 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Jan 04 1995 13:13 | 30 |
| In the call to the great commission in Matthew Jesus calls the
disciples to go out to the world and teach the world what he has
taught.
1/2 of the Gospel of Matthew is about ethical living and a radical
demand to love. To love neighbors, to love enemies, to turn the other
cheek, to not seek revenge.
The great commission can easily be interpreted as going out and
creating a world community where people live in love and harmoney.
Where all people are connected by this sisterly/brotherly love.
Instead, some have interpreted this great commission to mean rounding
up an exclusive body of "believers" that can band together and hold
themselves in isolation from the evil world. THis is in my opinion a
perversion of the message of Jesus.
I see the purpose of this conference as fulfilling the foundemental
message of the Great Commission. Create a community that is accepting
and welcoming and members are urged and encouraged everyone who
participates to treat every participant as a neighbor and with love.
The purpose need not be to believe in doctrines about Christ, but to
determine if we can live our lifes, just a little bit like Jesus lived
his life.
That is the "true" Christian Perspective. But only my "true" Christian
Perspective.
Patricia
|
9.1748 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 13:22 | 33 |
| .1745
Bob --
>In other words, you'd like CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE to be more like
>CHRISTIAN. I hope that never happens.
No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
Let the subject matter and participant mix and focus stay as
it is.
Now, I realize that I don't have a chance of seeing my preferences
in this matter come to fruition, so I choose to do what I can. I'm
entitled to hold an opinion, and I'm being vocal about calling it
as I see it. Nothing more.
> It is to be expected that from time to time, other religions or
> spiritual philosophies will be discussed in order to compare and
> contrast them with Christianity.
In my opinion, "time to time" is disproportionately represented
in this conference. You may not see it as being that way. I do.
Sorry if my opinion bothers you, but that opinion will not be
going away. I was directly challenged in 1023.9 to "understand
where [he is] coming from", and I took that opportunity to
voice my concerns about the prevalence of that call throughout
the conference. Since my return to this conference I have been
silent on this point, but a direct challenge was enough to
resurrect my concerns.
Again, if this is to be a prevalent theme in the conference, then
the conference is misnamed.
|
9.1749 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 13:25 | 7 |
| > In the call to the great commission in Matthew Jesus calls the
> disciples to go out to the world and teach the world what he has
> taught.
Great. To believe in that Great Commission, you must believe in
the bible, or at the very least believe in Jesus (and therefore
God.)
|
9.1750 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Wed Jan 04 1995 14:13 | 6 |
| I thank God atheists and agnostics are welcome to participate so fully
in a conference built around Christianity.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1751 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Wed Jan 04 1995 14:17 | 6 |
| I feel sorry for those who would exclude, as if that somehow would be
doing God a favor.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1752 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Jan 04 1995 14:23 | 43 |
| 1023.12 CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?"
Joe,
This has been covered before. When I first joined this conference I made sure
that I would be welcome as a participant, despite my views. My goal was to
attempt to learn how something that seems so obviously false to me could have
such a huge impact on such a large number of people, and thus on me through
their actions. At the same time I hope to help others understand where I am
coming from. I see a dangerous polarization in society today, and it is getting
worse. I believe that in almost all cases of this sort of thing an us vs. them
mentality, without understanding the them, is a requirement and a prerequisite
to possible violence. I also believe that once you get to know the other side
they are no longer 'them' and both can learn to live together. This conference
gives me an opportunity to do this, and I was assured when I began that I would
be welcome here.
Reading the guidelines for the other conference, it was clear to me that I would
not be welcome there, so I do not participate there. If you want a conference
where everyone agrees with your baseline, I would suggest that you participate
(only) there. If you want honest debates and questions where everything is open,
please stick around.
However, if you would like, I will no longer respond to your notes.
Specifically to my note, I was trying to make a point, to give you (and any
other interested reader) of where I am coming from and why, in the hopes that
common understanding can't hurt and might someday help. I don't believe that
atheists are 'congregating' here (there are three active participants including
myself, that I am aware of, that more or less share my non-belief) nor do I
claim my views as a Christian perspective, and I am certainly not promoting them
in the name of Christianity (just the thought of this makes me smile). If I rub
you the wrong way, well, that's the way it works in this conference sometimes.
If you want me out of the conference it's easy. Call for a vote of participants.
If after a week the majority decides that they do not want me noting here, I
will respect that and (sadly) bow out.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
.1742 LGP30::FLEISCHER "without vision the people perish
Title: is mention of disbelief inappropriate?
Bob,
Well said, thanks.
|
9.1753 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Wed Jan 04 1995 15:01 | 37 |
| By and large this conference consists of discussions that explore ideas
of God, Jesus and scripture in an effort to better understand the
message of Christ. These ideas, affirmations and beliefs may not fit
into what *you* call "Christian". They may not fit what I might call
"Christian", but the point is they are the best humanly possible
beliefs that person has in striving to fulfill the message of Christ.
Now, there are those who participate in this conference that deny the
existence of God and the holiness of Jesus and his message. It is their
perspective on Christianity. Do those statements attempt to fulfill the
message of Christ? No. Do they cause us to reflect on our beliefs? Yes.
Steve's comments certainly have caused you to react on your beliefs, if
not reflect on them. Steve said "here's why I believe the way I do."
Rather than responding in kind ("here's why I believe the way I do")
you scream "throw the heretic out." But that, I suppose, is your
Christian perspective.
This conference explores what it means to be a Christian from very
personal and individual points of view, rather than from a parochial,
institutional point of view. The beliefs held by atheists and
agnostics cannot be countered or addressed unless they are raised. No,
I think this conference is aptly named; all are welcome to express
their perspectives of Christ.
From 1.0 (the conference "Welcome" note)
"It is to be expected that from time to time, other religions or
spiritual philosophies will be discussed in order to compare and
contrast them with Christianity. This is entirely appropriate."
Regards,
Eric
|
9.1754 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Jan 04 1995 15:08 | 29 |
| re: .several by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?"
Joe,
I have no interest in 'unconverting' anybody. Even were it possible, I would not
feel good about yanking something away from somebody that helped them cope. I am
here to understand the Christian perspective, not agree with it. And I would
hope that others might understand my perspective, even if they don't agree with
it.
going away. I was directly challenged in 1023.9 to "understand
where [he is] coming from", and I took that opportunity to
voice my concerns about the prevalence of that call throughout
the conference. Since my return to this conference I have been
silent on this point, but a direct challenge was enough to
resurrect my concerns.
Intereting. In no way did I mean this as a challenge. It was simply a query, you
had mentioned something that I also felt applied to me from a somewhat different
angle. I was simply wondering if I had made the point, or missed it. (BTW, did
I make the point or miss it :^)
This note is moving too fast for me. My previous reply was supposed to go in
about 10 notes before it actually made it, so my context might have been off.
Having read those 10 notes I would have left off the vote suggestion, as it
comes off sounding sort of smug...
Steve
|
9.1755 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 15:28 | 60 |
| .1748> (me) No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
.1748> (me) Let the subject matter and participant mix and focus stay as
.1748> (me) it is.
------------------------------------------------------------------
.1750> I thank God atheists and agnostics are welcome to participate so fully
.1750> in a conference built around Christianity.
Of course I didn't say that anyone should be excluded. Hopefully
your reply, Richard, wasn't meant to imply that I did.
.1751> I feel sorry for those who would exclude, as if that somehow would be
.1751> doing God a favor.
Of course I didn't say that anyone should be excluded. Hopefully
your reply, Richard, wasn't meant to imply that I did.
Shalom to you too, Richard.
.1752> However, if you would like, I will no longer respond to your notes.
Surely you don't mean to imply that I ever said I don't want
you to reply to my notes! Where did you get that idea? Why
attempt to villify me with this statement?
Please refer back to my statement quoted at the top of this reply.
Thank you.
.1752>I don't believe that
>atheists are 'congregating' here
Again I repeat, it is more than just an issue of fostering
non-belief. If that's all you seem to see in my entries, it
shows to me either an over-sensitivity to this one point, or
a stubbornness in refusing to see beyond it.
>If I rub
>you the wrong way, well, that's the way it works in this conference sometimes.
...as I have already stated today myself. Just don't take my
disagreement personally, and we may just get along better than
you seem to expect!
.1752>If you want me out of the conference it's easy.
Now really. As I said before, surely you don't mean to imply that
I ever said I don't want you in the conference! Where did you get
that idea? Why attempt to villify me with this statement? Please
go back to my statement quoted at the top of this reply.
.1753> you scream "throw the heretic out." But that, I suppose, is your
> Christian perspective.
And you too, Eric. See my statement quoted at the top of this
reply. You are being totally unfair, if not dishonest, in saying
that I've even SUGGESTED throwing anybody out.
Reading these witch-hunt-type replies, I expected to see Connie
Chung's name in the headers!
|
9.1756 | what a nit! | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:07 | 17 |
| re Note 9.1755 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:
> .1748> (me) No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
> .1748> (me) Let the subject matter and participant mix and focus stay as
> .1748> (me) it is.
Look, Joe, I don't like the way the other conference has the
name ::CHRISTIAN, since that implies a breadth covering all
branches of Christian thought which is painfully not the case
(although was the case at the start of Christian V1, I might
add).
However, I don't go in that conference, and if I should ever
do so, I wouldn't use some flimsy excuse to react to some
other topic by suggesting the conference be renamed.
Bob
|
9.1757 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:21 | 2 |
| So you are admitting that the "breadth of thought" in here is
covered under Christianity?
|
9.1758 | | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:23 | 43 |
| re .1755
you make an important point with your objection - you'd like to see the
conference renamed. if i think your objection through to the bottom, in fact,
you'd like to see the participants who don't agree with you in here, rename
the christian faith!
seriously though, i can understand that you feel upset.
this won't be of any real help what i am going to write now, but maybe
it can give some consolation (sp?)
several mentions have been made of the CHRISTIAN conference. always the
same story as it would appear - i too looked around for a place where i can
share views of christianity, for a place of growth. i looked first in the
CHRISTIAN file, as the name looked promising, and i was immediately befallen
by an all to familiar depression - the first notes in that file make it
quite clear that disagreement is not welcome. the depressing bit for me
though, how can i discuss christianity in that CHRISTIAN conference if i
have an unusual homegrown and ever evolving interpretation of the life and
meaning of christ.
and i sure as hell resent to be depressed, have no doubt about it. i know,
my problem. i wish i had the diginity of some of you in here, to deal
differently with resentment. but i haven't. maybe you can understand how
i feel?
in contrast, what a relief, what a discovery this place turned out to be.
the welcome notice touches me like a fresh breeze every time i look here
- "prostitutes and tax collectors welcome", what more is there to say, this
place is wide open, this is where we can get to know our faith!
i think you're doing a good job by airing your objections. you've got
to be vocal, you've got to voice your disagreement when you are DRAWN
to object. this is what i would have done (maybe a year ago) in that
CHRISTIAN conference (in the meantime i have however experienced the limits
to my wisdom so i perfer to limit myself to constructive dialogue).
well, not sure if this helped, if it didn't just yell! :-)
regards,
andreas.
|
9.1759 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:30 | 5 |
| >you'd like to see the participants who don't agree with you in here, rename
>the christian faith!
Not exactly. I think that certain participants want to redefine
what Christianity is.
|
9.1760 | | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:34 | 1 |
| coming to think of it, the thought is quite revolutionary!
|
9.1761 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:42 | 28 |
| re: 1023.12
> What does that have to do with CHRISTIAN perspective? That's supposed
> to be the subject matter of the conference, isn't it?
.
.
> I just question the appropriateness of including such a point of view
> among "Christian perspectives"
re: 9.1743
> Belief in God MUST BE A PREQUISITE of Christianity. If you disagree,
> we simply have nothing more to discuss. I'm not even pushing a belief
> in the Bible here. Merely a belief in God Himself.
These are some of the comments that I read that led me to believe you
do not think atheists and non-believers should be allowed to share
their beliefs in this conference. The above statements make my
assertion that you wish(ed) to silence the non-believer (i.e. "throw
the heretic out") a reasonable one.
I am troubled that you chose to call me "totally unfair" and "dishonest"
rather than simply state that I was mistaken. I think you over-reacted.
Eric
|
9.1762 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Wed Jan 04 1995 16:56 | 10 |
| re Note 9.1757 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:
> So you are admitting that the "breadth of thought" in here is
> covered under Christianity?
Yes (or at least we try).
However that name was taken. :-}
Bob
|
9.1763 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed Jan 04 1995 17:40 | 26 |
| Re: .1748 Joe
> I'm entitled to hold an opinion, and I'm being vocal about calling it
> as I see it. Nothing more.
Fair enough.
> Sorry if my opinion bothers you
It doesn't. I just wanted to make sure you understood that non-Christians
have always been welcome in CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE, at least by the
moderators and the more liberal participants, despite the wrong impression
that might be given by the conference's name. Many conservatives before
you have claimed, explicitly or implicitly, that non-Christian
perspectives shouldn't be welcome in a conference named
"CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE".
As for changing the name, it's difficult to sum up the entire scope of a
conference in one or two words. As Bob Fleischer pointed out, CHRISTIAN
isn't a very descriptive name for the other Christian conference, either,
since the name implies that the conference is for all Christians instead
of just "Bible-believing" Christians (evangelicals and fundamentalists).
The name CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE doesn't bother me since I know that
non-Christian perpectives are also welcome here.
-- Bob
|
9.1764 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Jan 04 1995 18:05 | 13 |
| .1755 CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?"
Surely you don't mean to imply that I ever said I don't want
you to reply to my notes! Where did you get that idea? Why
attempt to villify me with this statement?
[also replies to other parts of my note along the same lines]
No implication, and no attempt to villify. It was a sincere offer, based on a
misunderstanding (from your later notes) of your position. I wrote that reply
before I read your clarification (conference name changing), so I was operating
under incorrect assumptions.
Steve
|
9.1765 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Jan 04 1995 18:13 | 13 |
| > I am troubled that you chose to call me "totally unfair" and "dishonest"
> rather than simply state that I was mistaken. I think you over-reacted.
Maybe I did. My apoligies.
I think that what it all comes down to is a disagreement (as
further demonstrated in .1762 and .1763) about what exactly
Christianity is.
I think we'll all just have to agree to disagree, because I
see little chance of either side of this difference bending
much at this time. But, if we all agreed on everything, then
that would make this meduim pretty boring, huh?
|
9.1766 | Untimely Comment from Europe | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Thu Jan 05 1995 02:34 | 29 |
| This note sure is moving fast: there's no way a European can get
a timely entry in here.
However, I must say this:
There is no way that I, as a moderator, would ever agree to a vote
on Steve's continuing participation in this conference. You are as
welcome here as all other current participants (as is implied by
the message on our "doormat").
As for renaming the conference: I can see that the occasional note
(especially some from the fairly recent path) could be used as
evidence to support this. However, the overwhelming majority of
notes in this conference either directly present a Christian
perspective or are such as to provoke thought and responses within
the scope of Christianity. On balance, therefore, I view the
conference to be appropriately named.
I would ask all participants in this conference to avoid "bashing"
CHRISTIAN. We are all, in the meantime, well informed about the
"terms and conditions" for participation there. If you don't like
them, stay away; it's as simple as that. It is no part of the
"mission" of this conference to reform (or antagonize) that
conference or its participants. Frankly, I feel that there are
more important things to discuss.
Thank you.
Greetings, Derek.
|
9.1767 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box! | Fri Jan 06 1995 09:28 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 9.1748 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
The conference IS named appropriately. Many different perspectives of
Christianity are allowed in here. But wait, this conference also adds in one
other thing, non-believers can speak their mind. That is something that can not
be done in the Christian conference to the degree it is done here. In that
conference as soon as it's brought up, the guidelines are thrown at you. In
here, as soon as it is brought up, it's discussed. The many perspectives of
Christianity in this file are great. Non-believers can learn a lot from those
who believe. It doesn't mean they are going to convert. It doesn't mean they
won't. But what this conference does is allow everyone to see the many
different perspectives Christians have, without having to worry about being a
non-believer, or as being perceived as a non-Christian because your perpective
is different from the fundamentalist's view.
Glen
|
9.1768 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Fri Jan 06 1995 09:58 | 3 |
| Maybe we should call it 'Perspectives on Christian Perspectives'? :^)
Steve
|
9.1769 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Jan 06 1995 16:11 | 2 |
| Buy. I thought the issue was already resolved. Why are we
bringing it up again?
|
9.1770 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Jan 06 1995 16:21 | 11 |
| Note 9.1769
> Buy. I thought the issue was already resolved. Why are we
> bringing it up again?
A part of being human, I guess. We sometimes continue to process things
long after they're over.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1771 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Fri Jan 06 1995 17:06 | 10 |
| Well since everything is in process anyway, its not a bad idea to
reflect upon our identity on a regular basis.
ARe we a community?
What is it that makes us a Community?
patricia
|
9.1772 | pointer | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Jan 06 1995 18:56 | 10 |
| Note 9.1771
> ARe we a community?
> What is it that makes us a Community?
Questions worthy of their own topic, methinks. See new note 1034.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1773 | when were nominations open? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Fri Jan 20 1995 14:30 | 16 |
| re Note 1030.22 by DECALP::GUTZWILLER:
> .20> Lately the tenor of this conference has appeared to me to be outright
> .20> attacks of Christianity, not discussion or promotion thereof.
>
> if any of my notes caused offence, i kindly request you to show me which notes
> offended and why they offended. i don't enter my notes with the intention to
> offend. most often i enter my notes with the intention to provoke discussion,
> since i am myself unclear on the issue.
Apparently, Andreas, you have been appointed official
spokesperson for "this conference"!
How did it happen?
Bob
|
9.1774 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Jan 20 1995 15:06 | 6 |
| Give it a rest, Bob.
If your entry was intended to be a stab at me (and I give you
plenty of leeway here to deny it) you would be interested to
know that my response to Andreas in 1030 left plenty of room
for you to wear that spokeperson hat if you want it.
|
9.1775 | | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Fri Jan 20 1995 15:24 | 13 |
| re .1773
no bob, i just don't like global accusations (whoever makes them). a global
accusation always leaves me as an individual reader with that nagging feeling
of "am i meant with this?! what is my part in this?!" i think global
accusations, wherever they come from, are a cowardly approach. i'd rather be
told straight and take the 'stick' for whatever i put about! :-)
have a nice weekend squire!
andreas.
|
9.1776 | My name is Nobody | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Wed Feb 01 1995 19:37 | 4 |
| Why is it that some don't sign their entries? Is it simply another
way of maintaining a measure of detachment, like wearing sunglasses
at night?
|
9.1777 | Octal snarf | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Feb 01 1995 22:44 | 1 |
| My name is at the top of every entry I post.
|
9.1778 | | HURON::MYERS | | Wed Feb 01 1995 23:46 | 3 |
| -< Octal snarf >-
Cool! I haven't used octal since my PDP8 days!
|
9.1779 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I lied; I hate the fat dinosaur | Thu Feb 02 1995 09:44 | 7 |
| In other conferences when somebody doesn't sign their note, I write
Dear ?
or Mr./Ms.
-Jack
|
9.1780 | ooops....forgot to sign (see 3.150 for name) | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Thu Feb 02 1995 09:57 | 4 |
| yes, the thought did indeed cross my mind that
Mrs. J_OPPELT may just be a bit shy.
:-)
|
9.1781 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Thu Feb 02 1995 11:10 | 28 |
| RE: Note 217.138
> As Joe said and as I initially stated at the onset before my
> friends here in CP started brow beating me...
I think "brow beating" is too strong a term for the vigorous
exchange of ideas, terminology, and ideology that goes on in this
conference. Upon reviewing of the exchange in 217, and using your
measure of what constitutes brow beating, one would have to
conclude there was no monopoly of brow beating on the part of your
friends in CP. I reject this of course, and am not suggesting that
you or Joe (I think that's his name) were brow beating anyone:
merely passionately stating you point(s) of view.
This may be a bit knit picky, but I think this is where the heat
starts to rise. One person refers to another group, albeit
obtusely, as committing some indiscretion and a counter
insinuation ensues. The next thing you know people stomp off in a
huff shouting character insults at each other.
> So please don't shoot me, I'm only the messenger!
This is just it; don't confuse repudiation of a point of view
(real or perceived) as "brow beating" the messenger.
Peace,
Eric
|
9.1782 | Emily Dickinson | SOLVIT::HAECK | Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa! | Thu Feb 02 1995 11:18 | 11 |
| I'm nobody. Who are you?
Are you nobody too?
Then there's a pair of us!
Don't tell. They'd banish us you know.
How dreary to be somebody.
How public like a frog.
To tell your name the live long day.
To some admiring bog.
:-)
|
9.1783 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Feb 02 1995 11:53 | 16 |
| I simply don't (as a general practice) sign my name. I don't
know why. I just don't. I used to, but haven't been doing so
for the past few years.
Perhaps I see notes conversations as just that -- conversations.
I don't give my name through conversational discussions when I
speak directly to people, and I see notes as speaking directly
to people, albeit electronically.
When I send email I usually sign my name unless the exchange
becomes conversational, and then I stop tacking my name to
the end.
Don't expect me to change, TYVM.
Joe (for the sake of this particular exchange).
|
9.1784 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I lied; I hate the fat dinosaur | Thu Feb 02 1995 11:55 | 38 |
| Thank you Emily!! :-)
Eric, I too have seen this sequence. If you recall the exchange, it
went like this in my mind.
Jack: We must stop the PC Talk in dealing with AIDS. AIDS is
propogated by immoral behavior. We must make a paradigm shift and
teach our children that what is acceptable is now uncool!
Person A: Jack you insensitive individual you. How dare you judge who
is moral and who is immoral.
Person B: Yes, how could you kick and kick somebody when they're down?
Jack: I'm not kicking anybody. I am stating that by the scriptural
tone measuring right and wrong, drugs and free sex is immoral
and we as a society need to change the way we're teaching.
Person C: Who are you to decide what is moral and what isn't?
Jack: Good point, but I am in a Christian Perspective conference and
am echoing a scriptual tenant on the issues of free sex.
So my big curiosity here is that I haven't seen any affirmation from my
fellow noters here that I am not judging the poor victims of AIDS. I
have been since the beginning judging society for its poor handling of
the teaching of Christian morals. Silence is the real killer. It
deprives children of the proper education they need.
Monogamy and abstinence are very very cool.
Premarital sex, particularly of adolescence is not cool.
What is wrong with this process?
To continue in the AIDS topic!
-Jack
|
9.1785 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Fri Feb 03 1995 17:49 | 22 |
| .1784 MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I lied; I hate the fat dinosaur"
Making some assumptions...
Jack: We must stop the PC Talk in dealing with AIDS. AIDS is
propogated by immoral behavior. We must make a paradigm shift and
teach our children that what is acceptable is now uncool!
Person A: Jack you insensitive individual you. How dare you judge who
is moral and who is immoral.
Assuming I am person A...
You completely missed my point. I was not reacting to your judging of other
people, I was reacting to your claim that you *weren't* judging.
So my big curiosity here is that I haven't seen any affirmation from my
fellow noters here that I am not judging the poor victims of AIDS. I
Because I, at least, believe you are.
Steve
|
9.1786 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Feb 03 1995 18:12 | 12 |
| >> Person A: Jack you insensitive individual you. How dare you judge who
>> is moral and who is immoral.
>> (Jaack) So my big curiosity here is that I haven't seen any affirmation from my
>> fellow noters here that I am not judging the poor victims of AIDS. I
>
>Because I, at least, believe you are.
There is a big difference (at least to me) between judging
WHO is (im)moral judging WHAT is (im)moral.
I've only seen Jack speak about the "what".
|
9.1787 | Makes me wonder how I'll be spoken of when I'm gone | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Feb 03 1995 20:46 | 12 |
| Note 217.179
> Is Greg back again!!! :-)
Greg Griffis is not back and is not likely to be back. I don't think it's
right or fair to keep bringing him up. I realize these recent remarks are
rooted more in ribbing and SOAPBOX-style hazing than in mean-spiritedness.
But enough is enough and I hope such references to Greg will subside.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1788 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Sun Feb 05 1995 16:38 | 12 |
| .1786
There is a big difference (at least to me) between judging
WHO is (im)moral judging WHAT is (im)moral.
I've only seen Jack speak about the "what".
The impressiong I was left with from Jack's earlier notes is that he was judging
both. He seems to be making an effort to say that he did not mean it that way.
That's fine with me, now we can discuss the what.
Steve
|
9.1789 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Mon Feb 06 1995 10:29 | 12 |
| >> Greg Griffis is not back and is not likely to be back. I don't think
>> it's right or fair to keep bringing him up.
Richard,
Not to worry, Greg and I correspond regularly. I put the smiley face
after my inquiry on Greg being back because Greg was notorious for
making puns and what not! I wasn't degreding Greg. I usually forward
notes to Greg. In Soapbox note 20 on abortion, I spent about 50
replies defending Greg.
-Jack
|
9.1790 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Mon Feb 06 1995 10:30 | 2 |
| I mentioned Greg's name 6 times in that short paragraph. What poor
grammer habits! :-)
|
9.1791 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Mon Feb 06 1995 11:18 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 9.1790 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| I mentioned Greg's name 6 times in that short paragraph. What poor
| grammer habits! :-)
I don't think your gram had anything to do with it Jack!!! :-)
|
9.1792 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Mon Feb 06 1995 11:50 | 1 |
| Ha ha ha hhaaaaaaa you slimer!! :-)
|
9.1793 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Mon Feb 06 1995 14:32 | 16 |
| Note 9.1789
Jack,
> In Soapbox note 20 on abortion, I spent about 50
> replies defending Greg.
I'm hearing SOAPBOX echoed quite a bit here lately. I guess the boundries
become blurred after awhile.
I'm glad you and Greg are on good terms. I've only had a couple of mail
messages from him since his departure.
Peace,
Richard
|
9.1794 | why? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16) | Tue Feb 07 1995 13:28 | 20 |
| re Note 908.111 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:
> I guess that Fundamentalism is one Christian perspective that
> is not welcome in this conference.
What makes you say that?
Fundamentalism *is* criticized by some of the participants in
this conference -- do you interpret that as "not welcome"?
If so, please note that liberalism is *also* criticized by
some of the participants in this conference.
So I would guess that the answer is that fundamentalism is as
welcome as liberalism.
This is in accordance with the stated objectives for this
conference.
Bob
|
9.1795 | Do we feel it only when our own toes are stepped on? | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Tue Feb 07 1995 16:52 | 9 |
| .1794
I would be quick to affirm that fundamentalism is not the only
version of Christianity which has been subject to critical remarks
within this conference.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1796 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Feb 07 1995 19:48 | 5 |
| > -< Do we feel it only when our own toes are stepped on? >-
I assume that this is for me.
I do not consider myself fundamentalist, so you missed the mark.
|
9.1797 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Feb 08 1995 10:25 | 33 |
|
Below is a good example of someone crossing the line and saying how a
person is this or that because of their beliefs. I know Jack Martin was looking
for an example of it, so here is one that just came in today.
<<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;2 >>>
-< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 91.4636 Christianity and Gays 4636 of 4639
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 17 lines 8-FEB-1995 02:29
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
It is extremely dishonest
1. to bring up the specific people that homosexual advocates
frequently cite
2. to refer to them as "same sex couples"
3. to speculate on whether they were "more than just friends"
4. to do this in a topic discussing homosexuality
5. and then to claim that you were not implying that their
relationship was homosexual.
Offensive, dishonest, and shameful.
/john
|
9.1798 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Wed Feb 08 1995 11:30 | 5 |
|
John said it is dishonest to make an implication or insinuation, and
then deny the insinuation was made. What do you disagree with this?
Eric
|
9.1799 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Feb 08 1995 12:25 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 9.1798 by APACHE::MYERS >>>
| John said it is dishonest to make an implication or insinuation, and
| then deny the insinuation was made. What do you disagree with this?
Eric, that is what John said in his note. What people were disagreeing
with is the term he origionally used, erotic.
Glen
|
9.1800 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Feb 08 1995 12:32 | 5 |
| You're going to have to search a little harder, Glen, to find
something really indicting. Too often you are so interested
in attacking the PEOPLE who oppose your point of view that you
have to stretch stuff like this into weak accusations as you
just did here.
|
9.1801 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Wed Feb 08 1995 12:46 | 9 |
| Note 9.1796
> I do not consider myself fundamentalist, so you missed the mark.
If by my comment I stepped on your toes, I extend to you my apologies.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1802 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Wed Feb 08 1995 12:50 | 10 |
| re Note 9.1799 by BIGQ::SILVA
> Eric, that is what John said in his note. What people were
> disagreeing with is the term he origionally used, erotic.
I'm confused. I thought you include John's note in your reply because
that's what you were objecting to. It would have been clearer to me if
you had pointed to the note to which you actually took exception.
Eric
|
9.1803 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Feb 08 1995 12:57 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 9.1802 by APACHE::MYERS >>>
| > Eric, that is what John said in his note. What people were
| > disagreeing with is the term he origionally used, erotic.
| I'm confused. I thought you include John's note in your reply because
| that's what you were objecting to. It would have been clearer to me if
| you had pointed to the note to which you actually took exception.
Eric, that IS the note. He stated it was dishonest, which is false.
Let's look at what you wrote though:
John said it is dishonest to make an implication or insinuation, and
then deny the insinuation was made. What do you disagree with this?
No one made an insinuation, and then denied it. John seemed to equate
it to erotic. Nobody said anything about erotic. So the part about his note
that said people were denying what was implied, is another thing that is false.
|
9.1804 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Wed Feb 08 1995 13:06 | 10 |
|
Describing a relationship as heterosexual or homosexual indicates
physical sexual desires. Without sexual desires it makes no sense to
identify a relationship as being hetero- or homosexual. Therefore, there
is indeed an erotic element to relationships characterized as such.
What is the issue with using the word "erotic" to describe physically
amorous relationships?
Eric
|
9.1805 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Wed Feb 08 1995 13:49 | 14 |
| Glen:
Erontic implies a negative element, i.e. erotic dancing, the combat
zone. etc. It could be that John meant fulfilling sexual desire...be
it sanctified or unsanctified. The bottom line is that when I read the
note about the love of Jesus and John...in THIS venue, the first
message that came to me was that John and Jesus were sexually attracted
to each other...or, they had an eros love for each other. Not that
they did anything but they did have it. You're going to get mad but I
have to say it. I reject the teaching because I believe it is
impossible for a Holy Messiah to exchange that which is natural for
that which is unnatural.
-Jack
|
9.1806 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Feb 08 1995 13:58 | 13 |
| Glen,
Learn to read.
What I said was dishonest was to do items 1, 2, 3, and 4, and THEN to do
item 5.
You cannot deny that items 1, 2, 3, and 4 were done.
It is dishonest to deny that there is a clear implication made by items 1, 2,
3, and 4.
/john
|
9.1807 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Feb 08 1995 14:03 | 21 |
| Jack,
Using your argument, you reject the possibility only because of your
preconceived opinion that homosexual attraction is unnatural.
If there is nothing unnatural about homosexual attraction as both Glen
and I are claiming, then there would be nothing unnatural about an
attraction between Jesus and the Beloved Disciple.
THe examples that Peter gave (Ruth and Naomi, and David and Jonathan)
as well as the example of Jesus and the Beloved disciple, are examples
of deep love and intimacy between members of the same sex.
Any speculation regarding what kind of physical feelings or non
feelings between these individuals is pure speculation.
It is only when someone has already pre determined that for David to
have a sexual feeling about Jonathon would be evil, that they are
insulted by the suggested possibility.
Patricia
|
9.1808 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Feb 08 1995 14:05 | 12 |
|
I can now recount three specific incidents in notes where I have been
labelled demonic, participating in the demonic, or under the influence
of the demonic for my notes. The first time I was enraged. The second
time, challenged. This time I am amused. Amused in a sarcastic way
though.
Behind the amusement it is frightening how quick "Christians"
are to judge others as demonic. Any one who can embrace something that
they cannot comprehend most be under the influence of the Devil!
Patricia
|
9.1809 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Wed Feb 08 1995 14:15 | 6 |
| Patricia:
A person can follow a demonic doctrine without any intent to be
demonic.
-Jack
|
9.1810 | not really a matter to be amused by | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Wed Feb 08 1995 14:23 | 15 |
| .1808> Behind the amusement it is frightening how quick "Christians"
.1808> are to judge others as demonic.
a more serious fear is, how quick are "Christians" to kill others which they
call demonic.
the question was raised in 369.160, and reasked in 692.37
i would like john covert to answer the question in 692.37
as i see it, the man has an infantile notion of evil.
i stand to be corrected.
andreas.
|
9.1811 | WHat is a demonic doctrine? | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Feb 08 1995 14:43 | 14 |
| Jack,
What is a demonic doctrine?
Who determines that it is a demonic doctrine?
How do you know that it is a demonic doctrine?
Given that a good number of "Christians" believe that Feminism is a
collection of demonic doctrines, how does this knowledge impact the
answers to the above!
Patricia
|
9.1812 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Feb 08 1995 16:00 | 30 |
| | <<< Note 9.1804 by APACHE::MYERS >>>
| Describing a relationship as heterosexual or homosexual indicates physical
| sexual desires.
One can be het/homosexual without ever having sex with anyone. One can
have a relationship based on the same thing. It does not state in the Bible
that they ever had sex, so why does it default to erotic?
| Without sexual desires it makes no sense to identify a relationship as being
| hetero- or homosexual.
Eric, I really feel sorry for you. If you need sex as an identifier,
they you aren't looking at the whole picture.
| Therefore, there is indeed an erotic element to relationships characterized
| as such.
I disagree.
| What is the issue with using the word "erotic" to describe physically
| amorous relationships?
No one stated the relationships were such. There was a question of
whether they were more than friends, but no one mentioned sex. Maybe it's just
a default now a days....
Glen
|
9.1813 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Feb 08 1995 16:07 | 27 |
| | <<< Note 9.1805 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| Erontic implies a negative element, i.e. erotic dancing, the combat zone.
Yes, erotic CAN imply a negative element. But I wasn't thinking on
those terms.
| The bottom line is that when I read the note about the love of Jesus and
| John...in THIS venue, the first message that came to me was that John and
| Jesus were sexually attracted to each other...or,
Maybe sex is the default...
| I reject the teaching because I believe it is impossible for a Holy Messiah
| to exchange that which is natural for that which is unnatural.
Jack, your belief says to reject this teaching. It's ok to have your
belief on this. I believe Jesus could make the switch, He can do anything,
unlike humans. I do not think He would WANT to give up what is natural for
unnatural though. But it comes down to what was natural for Him? Heterosexual
or homosexual? I haven't given it much thought. Until Patricia brought it up, I
had never heard it before.
Glen
|
9.1814 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Feb 08 1995 16:12 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 9.1806 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| What I said was dishonest was to do items 1, 2, 3, and 4, and THEN to do
| item 5.
John, that's just it. #5 was never done. Unless you equate
homosexuality to = sex ONLY, your statement is false. No one claimed they were
NOT homosexual. What was done was to say it did not = erotic. Homosexual does
not = erotic. A homosexual relationship does not have to = erotic. When you see
that, you will understand how #5 never happened. Maybe if you provided pointers
to those notes that say it didn't happen John, it would back up your assertion
of dishonest.
Glen
|
9.1815 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Wed Feb 08 1995 16:31 | 70 |
|
Hi Patricia:
>> What is a demonic doctrine?
Good question and is actually answered in scripture.
"For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but
after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having
itching ears; and they shall turn their ears from the truth and shall
be turned unto fables. But watch thou in all things; endure
afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy
ministry. For I am now ready to be offered and the time of my
departure is at hand." 2nd Timothy 4:3-6.
We know that other gospels and other doctrines do exist. I believe
the source of these gospels is demonic.
>>> Who determines that it is a demonic doctrine?
As you go through the Old Testament you will read in Deuteronomy, the
book after Leviticus, that we are to test the Spirits of a prophet.
John, the beloved follower and apostle of Jesus Christ also wrote
the following.
"And this is the love, that we walk in his commandments. This is
the commandment that, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should
walk in it. For many deceivers are entered into the world who
confess not that Jesus Christ has not come in the flesh. This is a
deceiver and an antichrist. Look to yourselves, that we do not lose
things which we have wrought, but that we receive a full reward.
Whoever abideth not in the doctrine of Christ hath not God, He that
abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both God and the Son.
If there come any to you, and bring not this doctrine, receiveth him
not into your house, neither bid him Godspeed. For he that biddeth
him Godspeed is a partaker of his evil deeds." 2nd John 6-11.
I believe that the Word of God is to be our measure in testing the
Spirits of true doctrine and false doctrine. This is why I was
exhorting you to continue your discussion in Yukon on the feminism
issue. Being a disciple of Christ is not an easy task. It involves
affliction and perseverance. It was your responsibility to set them
straight.
>>> How do you know that it is a demonic doctrine?
Of the 50 lines I wrote regarding Jesus' purpose, I took a passage
from Matthew 16. Jesus told of how he was to be delivered unto death.
Peter, another of Jesus' close followers stated, "Oh Lord, may this
never happen." Jesus said, "Get Thee Behind Me Satan for Thou art a
Rock of Offense to Me." So my answer Patricia is simply this and
is actually redundant to what the apostle John stated above. Any
gospel that is not in accordance with the gospel of Jesus Christ...
His coming, his death and resurrection, and his future coming,
anything not of these matters is a false gospel.
>> Given that a good number of "Christians" believe that Feminism is a
>> collection of demonic doctrines, how does this knowledge impact the
>> answers to the above!
Good point. Alot of Christians believe speaking in tongues in the
pentacostal movement is demonic. It is not in accordance with what Paul
teaches in 1st Corinthians. But tongues and feminism are only temporal
because the social ills of our society are going to burn. The gifts of the
Holy Spirit are of no consequence once we're dead. I believe that social
issues of today can help mold bad doctrines...or they can mold good
doctrine. That's why knowledge of the Word is so important. To help us
discern good from bad.
-Jack
|
9.1816 | Go in peace... | HURON::MYERS | | Wed Feb 08 1995 17:14 | 11 |
| re: Note 9.1812 by BIGQ::SILVA
I wrote "sexual desires" you read "having sex." I describe the
criterion for labels ending in "-sexual," you read that as my entire
world picture. What you read from my notes is not what I said in my
notes. I will concede that I am a poor communicator and bow out of the
discussion. To continue would be frustrating for both of us.
Peace my brother,
Eric
|
9.1817 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Feb 24 1995 13:00 | 8 |
| Is there a conspicuous absence of female voices in C-P in the last few
days? Or is it my imagination?
But then, there seems to be a conspicuous absence of any voices today! :-?
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1818 | | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Fri Feb 24 1995 15:18 | 12 |
|
> But then, there seems to be a conspicuous absence of any voices today! :-?
work is known to have its occasional toll on victims :-)
and besides, do you mean patricia and the 'rare' debby haeck by "female voices",
or are there more female noters participating in here?
have a nice weekend!
andreas.
|
9.1819 | Alas, and alas | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Feb 24 1995 18:29 | 8 |
| .1818
Yeah, maybe you're right. Maybe I've got my expectation levels set
too high.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1820 | for posterity | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:36 | 8 |
|
in case any one wonders, i have moved my 91.4810, 91.4811 to the more
appropriate topic.
the new notes are now 1060.15, 1060.16 respectively
andreas.
|
9.1821 | 1053.6 (re revelations) moved to 1061.5 | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Mon Mar 06 1995 13:18 | 0 |
9.1822 | A Noter's Prayer | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Mon Apr 03 1995 21:10 | 6 |
| Forgive me the times I rathole topics as I forgive others who've rathole topics
I'd rather not have ratholed.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1823 | gilded rule | HBAHBA::HAAS | recurring recusancy | Tue Apr 04 1995 11:49 | 3 |
| Rathole others as you would have them rathole you.
TTom
|
9.1824 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Tue Apr 04 1995 12:10 | 5 |
| Greet one another with an unholy rathole.
Ahhh forget it! I tried!@
-Jack
|
9.1825 | | TINCUP::BITTROLFF | Creator of Buzzword Compliant Systems | Wed Apr 05 1995 19:35 | 1 |
| A rathole a day keeps discussion away?
|
9.1826 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Apr 06 1995 10:02 | 1 |
| Hmmmmmmmmm....okay...we'll accept that one!!
|
9.1827 | A plea | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Thu Apr 06 1995 12:20 | 6 |
| I'd appreciate it if everyone would at least check the title of the
topic before adding their entry.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1828 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Apr 06 1995 13:21 | 1 |
| Awwww....you don't want to play this game????
|
9.1829 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Thu Apr 06 1995 13:23 | 2 |
| It's just a request.
|
9.1830 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Thu Apr 06 1995 16:44 | 9 |
| But Richard, it goes against the grain of us UU's
We tend to be oppositional and anti authoritarian.
What do you mean, we can only talk about what is in the title of the
string. That is too many rules for me!!
Patricia
|
9.1831 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Thu Apr 06 1995 17:10 | 5 |
| It's only a request. It's not compulsory.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1832 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Thu Apr 06 1995 18:53 | 2 |
| That's good then. Rules that nobody has to follow. I like it.
|
9.1833 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed May 10 1995 23:43 | 12 |
|
Well, after softball practice tonight we went and had dinner at Wendy's
in Hudson. I ran into my friend Chris, and went to sit with my friends, who
happened to be sitting next to Chris. Chris then intoduced me to her friend,
who ended up being none other than our own former DEC employee Jim Kirk! I
nearly died! He told me to tell everyone he is doing fine, and he says hi to
everyone! Even to Jack Martin, who he said he has had many a good conversation
with! He like ya dude!
Glen
|
9.1834 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu May 11 1995 11:34 | 4 |
| I honestly find that gratifying. Apparently I'm not the old oger
everybody thought I was!!!! :-)
-Jack
|
9.1835 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu May 11 1995 16:17 | 3 |
|
I didn't tell you everything he said Jack..... :-)
|
9.1836 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Sat Jun 03 1995 13:31 | 7 |
| My views and stances as a Christian on a variety of issues are hardly a
well-kept secret here in CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
If one is genuinely curious, one can do a little research.
Richard
|
9.1837 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Mon Jun 05 1995 12:27 | 6 |
| Richard:
No offense...you write ambiguously and there are still alot of things I
don't know where you stand on.
-Jack
|
9.1838 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Jun 07 1995 11:45 | 5 |
| Boy, does it feel good to be back!
Patricia
|
9.1839 | I never claimed to have all the answers | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Wed Jun 07 1995 17:40 | 9 |
| > No offense...you write ambiguously and there are still alot of things I
> don't know where you stand on.
On some issues I am ambiguous. On some issues I've not determined a stand.
I am a human being, not a binary digit.
Richard
|
9.1840 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Jul 07 1995 14:40 | 6 |
| Interesting who has decided to resurface in recent weeks after lengthy
absences.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1841 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Jul 07 1995 15:07 | 9 |
| Yeahhh...What a troublemaker!!!
Shoooe....
Go..way!
|
9.1842 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Jul 07 1995 20:12 | 2 |
| Simply an observation, Jack.
|
9.1843 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 10 1995 10:55 | 1 |
| Yeah Yeah Yeah...I'm kidding!
|
9.1844 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Jul 14 1995 16:45 | 2 |
| Snarfing is not simply assinine, it's *not* Biblical.
|
9.1845 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Learning to lean | Fri Jul 14 1995 16:49 | 9 |
|
Yes, and we certainly don't want Christians having a little fun either.
Jim
|
9.1846 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Jul 14 1995 16:49 | 1 |
| Time for a snarfy confession!
|
9.1847 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Unquenchable fire | Fri Jul 14 1995 19:46 | 2 |
| So, snarfing is your idea of a Christian having fun, eh?
|
9.1848 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | watchman on the wall | Fri Jul 14 1995 20:01 | 1 |
| most fun I've ever had with my clothes on.
|
9.1849 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Learning to lean | Sat Jul 15 1995 02:14 | 9 |
|
Yeah, we're kinda old fashioned that way, I guess. Its a religious
right thing, I guess.
Jim
|
9.1850 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Demote Moronity | Sat Jul 15 1995 14:30 | 6 |
| Note 9.1848
> most fun I've ever had with my clothes on.
I believe it.
|
9.1851 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Mon Jul 17 1995 10:09 | 12 |
|
> most fun I've ever had with my clothes on.
Oops... you mean you're supposed to have your clothes *on* when you
snarf. Well now I'm with Richard; I fail to see the point or the fun in
that. :^)
While I don't see the understand the joy of snarfing, it seems harmless
enough. Sort of like when the giggle my younger kids get when the both
say the same thing at the same time, like "are we there yet."
Eric
|
9.1852 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 17 1995 10:30 | 7 |
| Hey, this is a choice issue. Roe v. Wade has set a precedent in this
country and by golly snarfing is certainly included within the scope of
the freedom to choose. I choose to snarf because it is one of the most
intimate actions one can do in the box...staking your territorial claim
for a reply that is the turn of a century of a millineum!
-Jack
|
9.1853 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 17 1995 10:31 | 3 |
| ZZZ intimate actions one can do in the box.
Ooops....I'm in C-P....nevermind!
|
9.1854 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Mon Jul 17 1995 10:37 | 10 |
| I'd never admit to snarfing!
But please don't refer to 1111.1
Thanks
Patricia
|
9.1855 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Jul 17 1995 10:55 | 3 |
|
Wow.... Jack Martin forgot where he was noting...... too funny! :-)
|
9.1856 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 17 1995 11:09 | 4 |
| Patricia:
I know exactly where one or two of your snarfs are so you'd better
behave or else!!!! :-)
|
9.1857 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Mon Jul 17 1995 11:34 | 4 |
| Shhhhh!
Patricia
|
9.1858 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Jul 21 1995 15:38 | 12 |
| For the record:
o I did say snarfing is not biblical.
o I did say snarfing is assinine.
o I did not say snarfing was "original sin."
o I did not say snarfing is a sin, which is not to say it isn't.
Richard
|
9.1859 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Fri Jul 21 1995 16:18 | 9 |
| Common Richard,
You mean when good old King David was sitting down writing all those
psalms he did not say to himself, now I am at Psalm 100. What is a good
snarfing psalm for the number 100?
Now wouldn't that make it biblical?
Patricia
|
9.1860 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Sat Jul 22 1995 16:16 | 13 |
| 1114.1
Tony,
I have to confess, issues of systematic doctrine don't usually peak my
interest. But that doesn't mean that such issues won't somebody's.
Consider giving the topic a little nudge the beginning of the week. It
sometimes works for me. And sometimes it doesn't.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1861 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Aug 03 1995 10:57 | 1 |
| I believe snarfing is spiritually uplifting!
|
9.1862 | A recapitulation | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Sep 08 1995 23:32 | 99 |
| ================================================================================
Note 1134.3 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 3 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" 6 lines 7-SEP-1995 13:59
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Incidently, I consider their ministry highly honorable. I am just
curious as to their methodology...i.e. do they consider themselves
potential martyrs, do they try to speak to multiple people as Paul did,
do they do it more on a personal level as Mother Theres does, etc.
-Jack
================================================================================
Note 1134.4 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 4 of 16
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10" 2 lines 7-SEP-1995 14:15
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
How nice.
================================================================================
Note 1134.5 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 5 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" 5 lines 7-SEP-1995 14:27
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Either you are being genuine here, which I would appreciate, or this is
a knee jerk reaction to a discussion we are having in another string.
Which is it?
================================================================================
Note 1134.6 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 6 of 16
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10" 4 lines 7-SEP-1995 15:22
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Or it's something else.
Richard
================================================================================
Note 1134.7 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 7 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" 10 lines 7-SEP-1995 15:30
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Great, care to let me in on it?
It is a Godly act to confront somebody who has wronged you. It is an
ungodly principle to harbor ill feelings and not confront your brother.
Therefore, I would appreciate the same consideration you would afford
anybody wlse here in this forum!
Hold no punches please. I have been known to apologize!
-Jack
================================================================================
Note 1134.8 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 8 of 16
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10" 11 lines 8-SEP-1995 12:20
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
.3
> Incidently, I consider their ministry highly honorable. I am just
> curious as to their methodology...i.e. do they consider themselves
> potential martyrs, do they try to speak to multiple people as Paul did,
> do they do it more on a personal level as Mother Theres does, etc.
I neither seek nor want your pat-on-the-head approval.
Richard
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Note 1134.9 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 9 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" 5 lines 8-SEP-1995 13:14
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Richard:
Stop walking in the flesh and start walking in the Spirit!
-Jack
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Note 1134.10 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 10 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" 6 lines 8-SEP-1995 13:16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
ZZ I neither seek nor want your pat-on-the-head approval.
In fact, I am not going to let you get away with this. I think you owe
me an apology.
================================================================================
Note 1134.15 Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams 15 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" 16 lines 8-SEP-1995 16:56
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So do I Eric. Yesterday I challenged by brother on some of the issues
regarding Mario Cuomo's policies, he didn't want to answer...that's
fine. Then in other notes such as this one, I started getting
condescending replies back from my entries. I then followed by asking
if there was something I did and even stated I would apologize.
Richard not only refused to tell me what I did wrong but then continued
with the snide remarks. I then told him he was being cranky and needed
to walk in the Spirit. Finally, I thought to myself, "I'm being
treated like dirt in this forum and I don't appreciate it." To me,
this is malicious and based on a carnal attitude."
Richard, either tell me what I did wrong or apologize. It is part of
manhood Richard and it is what Jesus taught about resolving conflict
with your brother. How about it?!
-Jack
|
9.1863 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Sat Sep 09 1995 20:40 | 35 |
| Look, Jack. After revisiting 1134.3 and granting you the benefit of the
doubt, I extend to you an apology. It's possible I misread it.
At the same time, I recognize that people very rarely acknowledge their
own patronizing attitudes.
> Richard, either tell me what I did wrong or apologize.
I'm having a hard time believing you're as clueless about this as you
portray, Jack.
Nevertheless, I apologize.
Shalom,
Richard
PS I figure you said --
> It is part of manhood Richard and it is what Jesus taught about
> resolving conflict with your brother.
-- just to yank my chain (get my goat, or whatever). But if that's not the
case, let me make it clear that I neither seek nor desire your counsel on
manhood, thank you very much.
PPS I find your most recent emphasis characterizing me as your brother
fascinating. I guess maybe this exchange has evoked some of your more
fraternal impulses.
PPPS I don't know the weather conditions are in Hell, but it sure has
cooled off locally.
|
9.1864 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Sat Sep 09 1995 20:41 | 15 |
| About note 1048.25, Jack, I'll remind you this one time that I decided to
delete my entry even *before* you entered yours. Notice there's no gap in
the numerical reply signatures.
Moreover, metaphorically speaking, just because the tune is familiar and
you're feeling frisky doesn't mean I'm willing to dance with you every
time you approach me.
Richard
PS Since Mario Cuomo has been out of office for awhile, I've got to
suspect that the situation you cite has arisen out of one of Rush's
reruns or some such.
|
9.1865 | well, I'll be - you did apologize, Richard! | USAT05::BENSON | Eternal Weltanschauung | Mon Sep 11 1995 09:17 | 1 |
|
|
9.1866 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Sep 11 1995 10:16 | 34 |
| zz I'm having a hard time believing you're as clueless about this as you
zz portray, Jack.
Well I am Richard. Please
COMM-UN-I-CATE
next time so this sort of thing won't happen again. Nevertheless, the
fact is I WAS NOT trying to be patronizing at all. You started two
topics...one on war, another on peace. EXPECT people to participate
and stop getting cranky every time somebody disagrees with you. It
doesn't become you and quite frankly all it tends to prove is that you
do not value diversity like you claim to. You need to work on
communicating Richard, you really do.
Now regarding the use of the word brother, I have nothing to say about
that since I assumed you were saved, but that's between you and God.
Paul and Barnabbus did not get along either and yet they were co
laborers in Christ.
Finally, would you PLEASE get off this Rush Limbaugh kick. You
completely lose your credibility when you continually harp on the same
fallable generalizations you continually make. Rush is on too late for
me...Rush is on the radio when I am here at work, I don't subscribe to
the Limbaugh letter...GET OFF IT! You're being a pain Richard.
I apologize for seemingly coming across patronizing. I will not
challenge your beliefs anymore.
Rgds.,
-Jack
|
9.1867 | This thread belongs here. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 13:10 | 48 |
| <<< Note 1138.147 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, you do realize many feel the same exact way about your theology,
> right? And you won't be making a fuss anymore when people continue to point
> that out to you, right?
Oh, I have no doubt about it, and I do not seek to silence
those critics by sending them off to other conferences.
All I'm pointing out is that my "harassment" of someone's
theology is no different from that person's "harassment" of
the religion I follow.
>| I suppose that you fail to see that your style of participation here is viewed
>| by people like me as constant harrassment on your part.
>
> That's bunk, Joe. This is a file where people aren't tied into a little
> corner and driven one way. This is a file that allows many perspectives to be
> talked about.
Ah, but if I speak out in defense of attacks on my religion, I
am attacked for that. It seems to me that in this conference
I am expected to flushed out of the corner I want to occupy, and
I am expected to embrace the "theologies" that I disagree with.
Attack of Catholicism is OK here. I saw no outrage from the
core supporters here when the Catholic Church was called an
exclusive men's club, but definite outrage when I challenged
that opinion as originating from someone's personal agenda.
> I know you know this, so if you continue to note here, how can it
>be considered harrasment when you know the rules going into it? Sorry Joe, you
>make no sense here.
It sounds to me like you are condoning this harassment, and that
I should simply ignore it and go away without defending it.
>| Why then, Patricia, do you harass the Yukon conference? Quite a hypocritical
>| stand you are taking here!
>
> Joe, she does not harass in the YUKON file. She is not being
>hypocritical. What you did above was to bear false witness. Why?
Dump this "bear false witness" garbage, Glen. I can provide
you a dozen notes -- perhaps even a dozen topics -- where
Patricia is taken to task for violating the conference rules,
and where she continues with her tact even after having it
pointed out to her. (Spare me the "prove it" request. You
know where those notes are as anyone else does.)
|
9.1868 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:10 | 68 |
| | <<< Note 9.1867 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Ah, but if I speak out in defense of attacks on my religion, I am attacked for
| that.
Joe, am I right in saying that when you talk about pointing out the
holes in one's theology, it isn't supposed to be viewed as an attack? If that
is true, why can't you view that others are pointing out holes they see in your
theology and leave it as that? Why is it if one disagrees with you, all of a
sudden it is an attack? Again, this victim stuff is getting quite old. First it
seemed to be that it was just me who you thought was attacking you, but now it
seems to have spread to others as well.
| It seems to me that in this conference I am expected to flushed out of the
| corner I want to occupy, and I am expected to embrace the "theologies" that I
| disagree with.
I could be wrong, but I don't believe anyone has asked you to embrace
the "theologies" you disagree with. Your faith is built up on <insert reasons>.
You live by that faith. Others do the same. Can everyone be right? No. But we
all go based on our beliefs. That is the BEST anyone can do. Stick by your
beliefs, as will other people. If you do not want to embrace another's
theology, then by all means, don't. We will all have our differences in
religion, denominations, etc. We have to live how we believe He is telling us
to. I don't agree with a lot of your beliefs. (like that wasn't obvious :-) I
will not embrace a lot of what you have to say. You will do the same as well
towards me. Why is that? Because our beliefs are different.
But if you could provide a pointer that shows where someone has
expected you to embrace their theologies, it would help make it easier to
understand where you are coming from.
| Attack of Catholicism is OK here. I saw no outrage from the core supporters
| here when the Catholic Church was called an exclusive men's club,
I guess if you take it as just the words, it's hard to understand what
was meant. I think Bob explained it quite well when he said that it probably
had to do with women are supposed to not really have a say in what goes on,
can't be a priest, etc. With that in mind, it is a true statement.
| but definite outrage when I challenged that opinion as originating from
| someone's personal agenda.
I think maybe you should ask the person what they mean, and not tell
them what they mean. If everyone could do just that, a lot of confusion, anger,
etc could be avoided.
| It sounds to me like you are condoning this harassment, and that I should
| simply ignore it and go away without defending it.
There is no harassment Joe, that is what I am saying. In a file where
the sky is the limit, you can't seriously take someone's belief and make it
into a case of harassment. This file is set up to talk about the many
perspectives people have. You know that is what it is about. No one is telling
you to not point out your ideals, etc, but to don't put labels on something
that isn't so. In other words, this is not harassment, just a discussion of
people's perspectives. Again, drop the victim stuff.
| I can provide you a dozen notes -- perhaps even a dozen topics -- where
| Patricia is taken to task for violating the conference rules, and where she
| continues with her tact even after having it pointed out to her. (Spare me the
| "prove it" request. You know where those notes are as anyone else does.)
There are not any notes there Joe. So please go prove it.
Glen
|
9.1869 | | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:16 | 22 |
| re .1867
joe, you are asking for feedback. it would be unkind not to provide it.
as regards me, your recent entries in here are next to unreadable
due to the level of aggression and noise in them.
personally i hold the catholic faith in high esteem and i haven't seen
much catholic harassing going on. i am quite sure that the several noters
in here which are also close to catholicism would have pointed this out.
are you going through a rough patch or what's up with you? why are you
so agressive? your current behaviour doesn't make that harrassement
claim of yours very credible. what's up with you joe?
chill out, man!
andreas.
|
9.1870 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:02 | 23 |
| <<< Note 9.1868 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, am I right in saying that when you talk about pointing out the
> holes in one's theology, it isn't supposed to be viewed as an attack?
True.
> Why is it if one disagrees with you, all of a
> sudden it is an attack?
I don't know. Why is that? I didn't say it.
> There is no harassment Joe, that is what I am saying.
And that is what I'm saying too. I didn't harass. Or if
my entry is declared to be harassment, then Patricia's is
equally so. I will not allow myself to be subjected to a
double standard. The claim of harassment was definitely
started against me, not the other way around.
> There are not any notes there Joe. So please go prove it.
Forget it, Glen.
|
9.1871 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:18 | 14 |
| Joe,
If I tell you that I am not Catholic and you insist that I accept the
authority of the Pope, then that is Harrasment.
If I tell jack that I don't believe that Bible to be the innerrant Word
of God, and he insists that I read the Bible as the innerrant Word of
God, then that is harrasment.
If I tell you that I seek God in the "Still Small Voice", and your tell
me that that is riduculous, that is harrasment.
THat is the sense in which I use the Word.
|
9.1872 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:28 | 18 |
| <<< Note 9.1871 by POWDML::FLANAGAN "let your light shine" >>>
> If I tell you that I am not Catholic and you insist that I accept the
> authority of the Pope, then that is Harrasment.
Maybe it would be. Where have I done this? I have only
expressed what *I* do with regards to authority, and I've
made the argument that one must find (or at least test
against) some larger authority than oneself. My argument
has always left room for people to find that authority in
some Church other than the Catholic Church. In fact I've
specifically said that this argument is valid for Jews,
Muslims, etc., too.
> If I tell you that I seek God in the "Still Small Voice", and your tell
> me that that is riduculous, that is harrasment.
Maybe it would be. Where have I said this?
|
9.1873 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:34 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 9.1870 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Why is it if one disagrees with you, all of a sudden it is an attack?
| I don't know. Why is that? I didn't say it.
People showed where they believed holes were in your theology. You made
the claim they were attacking you. So in essence, yes, you did make the claim.
| > There is no harassment Joe, that is what I am saying.
| And that is what I'm saying too. I didn't harass.
I was refering to your claim of harassment by others in here Joe. If
you can see it from your own perspective, why is it you don't seem to see it
with other people's perspectives?
| > There are not any notes there Joe. So please go prove it.
| Forget it, Glen.
Of course Joe. Why go prove what you know can not be proven.
|
9.1874 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:58 | 6 |
| <<< Note 9.1873 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> I was refering to your claim of harassment by others in here Joe.
I explained myself in the very note you quoted here. (.1870)
Your continued assertion to the contrary is dishonest.
|
9.1875 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:04 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 9.1874 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| I explained myself in the very note you quoted here. (.1870)
You explained that you did not harass as a starting point. I was not
referring to you at all. You already stated that you were harassed. In .1870
you state if you were looked at as harassing, then others were doing the same.
Yet you're the one who made the claim.
| Your continued assertion to the contrary is dishonest.
No, it is more that you're looking at it from a different standpoint
than I am. You made the claim. That was what I based it on.
|
9.1876 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:06 | 1 |
| Bye, Glen.
|
9.1877 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:08 | 3 |
|
It's about time! :-)
|
9.1878 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:50 | 35 |
| ZZ If I tell you that I seek God in the "Still Small Voice", and your
ZZ tell me that that is riduculous, that is harrasment.
Patricia:
No....I never said that and you KNOW I never said that. What I said
was something similar to this.
----------------------------------------
Patricia, I find the term "Still Small Voice" as a warning sign. I
assume that you are referring to the "Still Small Voice" as your
conscience. Based on that, it is fallable because a conscience is only
as reliable as the person who has it. Since man is in a perpetual
state on sin, then the still small voice cannot be trusted. A guard
for example who worked at a concentration camp, was able to throw the
babies into the fire and then dauntlessly go home to his family is an
example of one listening to his Still Small Voice" Therefore,
I tend to rely on God's Word as my source for truth.
----------------------------------------
This is a far cry from your accusation Patricia. You make it sound as
if I carelessly flaunt your ideas off as ri-diculous (insert snobby
elitist voice here).
No..no...no...I heard your idea, I reasoned it out, I drew a
conclusion, and I explained to you why I drew that conclusion. I want
you to admit this please so I will be assured you are hearing me!
I wait with eagerness.
Thanks,
-Jack
|
9.1879 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Sep 21 1995 18:55 | 32 |
|
I WISHED PEOPLE WOULD GET THIS STRAIGHT!
Joe is NOT being harassed; never claimed to be. He is being attacked.
Patricia, on the other hand, IS being harassed... and oppressed, I
think.
Jim Henderson is neither being harassed nor attacked. He is being
sexually, racially and religiously victimized. He is also being oppressed
and maybe even persecuted.
Jack is simply misunderstood.
Richard is hounded by hypothetical "what if's" and redundant questions
(but I think secretly he too is misunderstood).
John Covert... he moved out, shaking the dust from his shoes. He was
neither attacked, harassed nor misunderstood; however his notes were
not met with the gasps of awe his intellect and stewardship of
tradition so richly deserved. So, I'd have to say he was insulted.
Me? I'm attacked, harassed, misunderstood AND victimized. People just
don't show me the respect my witty repartee deserves, either. Too
oblique, I guess. But I'm happy.
:^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^)
Peace, dudes,
Eric
|
9.1880 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Sep 21 1995 19:09 | 8 |
| .1879
<laughing to the point of making snorting noises>
Thanks, Eric.
Richard
|
9.1881 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Sep 21 1995 23:47 | 9 |
|
Jim Henderson was being more tongue in cheek than anything else,
but I'm sure no one will believe that.
Jim
|
9.1882 | | HURON::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Fri Sep 22 1995 00:16 | 12 |
|
> Jim Henderson was being more tongue in cheek than anything else,
And you think I wasn't? Duh. *Mostly* tongue in cheek anyway.
> but I'm sure no one will believe that.
Is this another example of your wry wit? Hard to tell without the
customary :^) symbol.
Eric
|
9.1883 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Sep 22 1995 00:21 | 8 |
|
Apologies..my humor switch seems to have been stuck, and the
effects of a rough week are settling in.
JimK�
|
9.1884 | | HURON::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Fri Sep 22 1995 00:36 | 6 |
|
See guys, humor and civility diverts another potential flash point :^)
I wish you peace, Jim.
Eric
|
9.1885 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Sep 22 1995 14:01 | 5 |
| Perhaps we need to take the back and forthing to the perception topic.
I think this is where most of the problems originate.
-steve
|
9.1886 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Sep 22 1995 15:25 | 8 |
| 1138.195
> Sometimes your disposition leaves alot to be desired!
Ahem! Who among us is without fault in this area?
Richard
|
9.1887 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 15:49 | 9 |
| Nobody. It's just that there are times when I shower Patricia with
great compliments...like comparing her to Kissenger and all that.
She did say though that I was likable...of course there was that part
about strangling me. Ohhh never mind!
Patricia, didn't mean to speak for you. I assumed you were over it.
-Jack
|
9.1888 | conclusions based on faulty assumptions | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Mon Sep 25 1995 17:16 | 18 |
|
Re.1887
Jack,
While you really are a likable sort (;^), still you DO have this
uncanny ability to assume something about a person and their beliefs,
then draw your own conclusions based *on your assumptions*, and state
the conclusion here.
So your logic is airtight most of the time, but the problem lies in
the premises you are using to draw the conclusions that you come up
with, which are, at times, quite false. Both Patricia and I have
pointed this out to you on several occasions...but if you want an
updated example, I'm sure you'll come through with a suitable one
in a day or two that we can reference for you. (;^)
Cindy
|
9.1889 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Sep 25 1995 17:35 | 7 |
| Yes, and Patricia has this uncanny way of putting me into a box, i.e.
anybody who disagrees with her is either a racist or oppressive. There
may be times when I make faulty assumptions but I simply refuse to
believe there isn't a communication problem on the other persons
part...at times that is!
-Jack
|
9.1890 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 25 1995 20:28 | 7 |
|
WOW, Cindy. Who would have thought it would have only taken one note
for him to do that! You have some gift there Cindy! :-)
Glen
|
9.1891 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 26 1995 10:21 | 1 |
| Glen....Excellent note!!!!!
|
9.1892 | line limit, please | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO2-3/E8) | Wed Sep 27 1995 00:55 | 4 |
| May I remind writers that we have an informal limit of 100 lines per
posting (some recent postings have been several times bigger).
Bob, as co-mod
|
9.1893 | will do | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Sep 27 1995 17:15 | 4 |
|
Sorry Bob - I completely forgot about that.
Cindy
|
9.1894 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Tue Oct 17 1995 21:12 | 6 |
| *This* is not SOAPBOX.
SOAPBOX is SOAPBOX.
Richard
|
9.1895 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Oct 18 1995 11:09 | 2 |
| Oh for crying out loud Richard...lighten up. Silly? Perhaps, but I
thought it was humerous. Maybe you didn't but...oh well!
|
9.1896 | Help wanted. | VNABRW::BUTTON | Another day older and deeper in debt | Thu Oct 19 1995 03:51 | 14 |
| This note is outside the scope of CP, I know, but I was at a loss to
know where to post it.
When I leave Digital, I am seriously considering returning to my
homeland, UK. (Around 1 year from now).
After 22 years in Austria, I am a bit our of touch with things there.
Are there and Brits in this forum who, via VAXmail, would be willing to
answer occasional questions on life in UK?
If so, I would be grateful if you would mail me on VNABRW::BUTTON
Thanks and regards, Derek.
|
9.1897 | | DECALP::GUTZWILLER | happiness- U want what U have | Thu Oct 19 1995 07:36 | 14 |
| re 1.11
congratulations on your appointment to your second term as moderator,
richard!
will you be continuing the policy of non-intervention and of nurturing
diversity?
andreas.
|
9.1898 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Sun Oct 22 1995 11:50 | 18 |
| Note 9.1897
Andreas-Barnabas,
>congratulations on your appointment to your second term as moderator,
>richard!
Thank you.
>will you be continuing the policy of non-intervention and of nurturing
>diversity?
Well, I would have put it in terms a little different from the ones you
used, but I think you've got the idea.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1900 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Oct 26 1995 22:19 | 9 |
| 1170.2
> Funny you say that, Cindy. Some people in the LitterBox(tm) claim that
> SRA is a fabrication of Christiandom.
Exactly what is "the Litterbox(tm)?"
Richard
|
9.1901 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Oct 27 1995 09:22 | 1 |
| No doubt he's referring to Soapbox!
|
9.1902 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Sat Oct 28 1995 12:30 | 9 |
| I have a doubt, Jack.
The way it's phrased, 1170.2 would make more sense if Cindy participated
in the conference in question, which from SOAPBOX she has the uncommon
wisdom to refrain (at least, in its present incarnation).
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1903 | Re.1902 (;^) | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Mon Oct 30 1995 11:49 | 1 |
|
|
9.1904 | Still waiting, Mike Heiser..... | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Mon Oct 30 1995 20:43 | 1 |
|
|
9.1905 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:27 | 12 |
| Richard:
The clue which lead me to believe it is Soapbox was the (tm). Over in
the box, some of the participants (tm) phrases or words they use and
are very protective of their trademarks. No where to my knowledge in
any other conference does this occur.
Soapbox is like the city where Obe Juan and Luke met Hans Solo and
Chewbaka. Nowhere in all of Digital will you find a bigger consortium
of scum and villiany!
-Jack
|
9.1906 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | watchman on the wall | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:12 | 1 |
| Richard, what are you waiting for?
|
9.1907 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:19 | 1 |
| He wants to know what litterbox (tm) is referring to!
|
9.1908 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | watchman on the wall | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:37 | 1 |
| Soapbox of course, what else?
|
9.1909 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Tue Oct 31 1995 20:18 | 6 |
| .1908
Thanks, Mike.
Richard
|
9.1910 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Oct 31 1995 23:40 | 3 |
| Well, that was more exciting than "who shot Mr. Burns"...
:^)
|
9.1911 | | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:54 | 1 |
| I always called it Sandbox.
|
9.1912 | request for slight change in noting style | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 01 1995 14:33 | 14 |
|
I didn't know what it was either, until I was thinking about it 2 days
later and finally realized that litterbox=soapbox.
You all might want to put in parenthesis what some of these things
really mean for those of us who truly do not know, or those not
following the string actively. Something like:
Litterbox(tm) (Soapbox)...for example.
There was one other one too - the Evita and Bubba comment - you could
write Evita (Hillary) and Bubba (Bill)...well, you get the idea I hope.
Cindy
|
9.1913 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 01 1995 14:38 | 11 |
| Cindy, I promised I would not refer to Hillary as Evita in this
conference...but I understand you were using it as an example.
And by the way, Evita (Eva) was the first lady of a dictator in
Argentina, cheap actress, hung around rabble and other malcontents,
and of course was mourned by the peasantry when passing away.
No more said. Just mentioned this to clarify what I was thinking at
the time.
-Jack
|
9.1914 | Re.-1 | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 01 1995 14:39 | 5 |
|
Huh? Well, if it makes you feel better, I don't even remember the
original topic.
Cindy
|
9.1915 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 01 1995 14:40 | 1 |
| It was political babble on my part, that's all.
|
9.1916 | Venting | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Tue Nov 14 1995 16:54 | 65 |
|
Some folks talk about logic a lot. I really haven't approached matters
of faith from a formal logic system. But, for what it's worth, I've
been unimpressed with some the examples of self-described logic posted
here. I don't mean to be insulting, it's just that I don't think my
demonstration of logic would fit what some have demonstrated as their
system of logic.
From an admittedly defensive point of view, here is how the
Fundamentalist logic system appears to me.
-------------------------------------------------------------
From the point of view of the Fundamentalist --
My_View = Literal_Inerrant = TRUE
IF Verse1 .CONFLICT. Verse2 THEN
IF (CONTEXT_AVAILABLE == TRUE)
IF ALTERNATE CONTEXT THEN
My_Context > Your_Context
END_IF
ELSE
Verse1 + Verse2 = Divine_Mystery
END_IF
END_IF
IF SUGGESTED(My_View) == UNREASONABLE THEN
My_View = TRUE
Your_View = FALSE
PRINT "Paul said the faithful will be called foolish"
END_IF
IF SUGGESTED(Your_View) == UNREASONABLE THEN
Your_View = FALSE
My_View = TRUE
PRINT "Your view is illogical"
Logical = My_View
END_IF
------------------------------------------------------
From Jeff Benson..
> So, you're almost a deist, huh? It's nice to have a context for
> framing your presentations here.
Here's a suggestion for anyone who cares: frame my notes in the context
of someone who has been through a lot of "stuff"; who has seen the
power of faith and prayer; who has no need for labels; who abhors the
divisiveness that accompanies religious absolutism. Read my notes as
from someone who has strong beliefs in some things but is struggling
for growth and understanding in others. Read my notes as from someone
who believes that Satan/evil is as active in ultra fundamentalist
circles as he/it is in the ultra liberal circles. Read my notes as from
someone who believes that Christ came to heal the weak in spirit and
not to praise the saint; that the banner of the Cross should be waved
like the symbol of the Red Cross -- as a sign of hope for all -- and
not like the symbol of a nation -- as a sign of separation or
superiority.
Sneer at my lack of having a neat cubby-hole in which to frame myself,
but it's not your validation I seek. I know that without an
off-the-shelf ideology it makes it harder for people to say "A-ha I got
you! You say this and yet claim to be a mumblefratz?!"
Eric
|
9.1917 | | USAT05::BENSON | Eternal Weltanschauung | Tue Nov 14 1995 17:08 | 5 |
|
I believe that spilling one's guts is as unpleasant as it sounds, and
recommend against it.
jeff
|
9.1918 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Tue Nov 14 1995 17:11 | 5 |
| Jeff,
you can get downright nasty can't you!
Patricia
|
9.1919 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Nov 14 1995 17:35 | 22 |
| Eric:
Again as stated in the past, it is difficult to have dialog when there
is no likemindedness.
It seems to me that there are people who want to be a Christian but at
the same time also be something else. This something else in my view
needs to be tested with fire. As somebody with, although limited
knowledge of scripture, have enough knowledge to recognize a
counterfeit when I see it, one does not have to be a rocket scientist
to detect the holes in the DNA strand if you will. DNA strand being
symbolic of one's belief system.
Now we can all feel gooey, warm and cozy in our own little incubators
of comfort, you believe your thing and I'll believe mine...all that
good stuff. I don't believe this is what Jesus has called for us. I
believe there is accountability amongst those who profess Christianity
and I believe that accountability needs to be surfaced.
I find false doctrine to be just as nasty as a nasty disposition.
-Jack
|
9.1920 | Thanks for the uplifting fellowship :^( | HURON::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Tue Nov 14 1995 22:53 | 26 |
|
> Again as stated in the past, it is difficult to have dialog when there
> is no likemindedness.
Which is why I replied here in "Processing." I didn't want to propagate
the discussion, if you can call it that, I just wanted to express my
feelings... spill my guts, dump a load, or what ever bodily analogy one
wishes to apply.
> Now we can all feel gooey, warm and cozy in our own little incubators
> of comfort, you believe your thing and I'll believe mine...all that
> good stuff.
I believe that knowing Christ *should* be a warm and cozy experience. I
don't subscribe to the "if it feels good it must be wrong" mentality any
more than I subscribe to the "if it feels good do it" mentality. Like
you, I too believe that I am accountable... but to my God, not to those
who claim to be his standard bearers here on Earth. I would be offended
if I thought you were implying I'm copping out -- rationalizing a
loosey-goosey, amoral, spiritual free ride.
> I find false doctrine to be just as nasty as a nasty disposition.
Me too.
Eric
|
9.1922 | | HURON::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Wed Nov 15 1995 08:37 | 5 |
|
I believe that spilling one's guts from time to time is a healthy thing
to do. Not doing so results in emotional constipation.
Eric
|
9.1923 | | USAT05::BENSON | Eternal Weltanschauung | Wed Nov 15 1995 08:43 | 8 |
|
Like I said, Eric, I recommend against it - for others' sake.
But spilling one's guts to Jehovah, assuming belief in, and covering by the
blood of, Jesus, the Christ, is called for and quite appropriate. No
need ever for the Christian to be emotionally constipated.
jeff
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9.1924 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Wed Nov 15 1995 09:59 | 5 |
| Re: .1921 Jeff
What an unbelievably sexist statement.
-- Bob
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9.1925 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:06 | 2 |
| Well, is it or is it not a proven fact that men and women have different
emotional responses?
|
9.1926 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:17 | 19 |
|
RE .1925
> Well, is it or is it not a proven fact that men and women have
> different emotional responses?
Ah, but that's not the question. The question is do women suffer a
"malady.. to exaggerate, to misunderstand, to blow out of proportion,
to emotionalize that which is not inherently complicated."
Now we can discuss if men and women have different emotional responses,
or we can discuss the inferiority of the female psyche, which is what
was raised.
Saying the American and Japanese cars handle differently is one thing.
But there is a great leap from that statement to saying American cars
handle like trash. Any reasonable person would see this :^).
Eric
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9.1927 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:29 | 8 |
|
I have to agree with Erik here. I wonder if someone said in return to
Jeff's response, "Typical Christian reaction", if Jeff would have seen fault in
that?
Glen
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9.1928 | so? | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO2-3/E8) | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:08 | 14 |
| re Note 9.1925 by COVERT::COVERT:
> Well, is it or is it not a proven fact that men and women have different
> emotional responses?
Well, it is certainly *not* a proven fact, and contradicted
by everyday experience, to imply that every woman's response
is different from every man's.
As far as this particular woman, Patricia, and this
particular man, Jeff, they both seem at times to more alike
than different in emotional response.
Bob
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9.1929 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:11 | 9 |
|
Re.9.1921
Next I suppose we'll hear some similar choice stereotypical
observations about our brothers and sisters with darker skin
from you as well? Because that's the level to which .1921
managed to stoop to.
Cindy
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9.1930 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:20 | 10 |
|
I never thought I would hear such talk in this file. Especially from
those who are doing the topic. The *good* thing this does show us is that we
are all far from being infallible. I just wonder if those who made the
comments they did see what is wrong with them?
Glen
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9.1931 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:27 | 4 |
| Actually, I find it revealing.
Richard
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9.1932 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:55 | 27 |
| ZZ As far as this particular woman, Patricia, and this
ZZ particular man, Jeff, they both seem at times to more alike
ZZ than different in emotional response.
Bob, I will say I admire your objectivity here. Thank you for this.
On one side, I can honestly say that to draw the conclusion that women
become more emotional over (fill in whatever), would be termed a Hasty
Generalization in any critical thinking course. Speaking for myself,
there is a man in my organization who is a perpetual pain in the neck,
emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to women.
On the other hand, I reject the belief that women and men are the same.
They are most assuredly not. I think this has been discussed and
perhaps not necessary to rathole here.
Cindy, I do have to comment on something you just mentioned. You also
are guilty of a hasty generalization and without possibly realizing,
inciting trouble by inferring that one would make perjorative remarks
against people of color. First, there is no evidence of this being a
habit here in C-P. Secondly, it presumes the old victim mentality
again...the concept that if somebody makes a hasty generalization
regarding women, then they in fact are a racist, a bigot, a homophobe,
or a republican. This is fallacious thinking, especially from a woman
with your intellect!
-Jack
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9.1933 | | TINCUP::inwo.cxo.dec.com::Bittrolff | Read a Book! | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:13 | 12 |
| .1923 BENSON
But spilling one's guts to Jehovah, assuming belief in, and covering
by the
blood of, Jesus, the Christ, is called for and quite appropriate. No
need ever for the Christian to be emotionally constipated.
Covered in the blood of Jesus, you're right, that is a much nicer image
than spilling your guts... :^}
Steve
|
9.1934 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:32 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 9.1932 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| On the other hand, I reject the belief that women and men are the same.
Jack, you pretty much summed that up when you said:
| emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to women.
Glen
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9.1935 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:40 | 9 |
| | emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to
|women.
Thanks for pointing out my sincere typo. Should read...
...and all these other labels that are being misapplied to women.
|
9.1936 | we are what we do? (think?) | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO2-3/E8) | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:51 | 31 |
| re Note 9.1932 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN:
> On the other hand, I reject the belief that women and men are the same.
> They are most assuredly not. I think this has been discussed and
> perhaps not necessary to rathole here.
I'll go further than you -- I reject the belief that any two
people are the same.
> habit here in C-P. Secondly, it presumes the old victim mentality
> again...the concept that if somebody makes a hasty generalization
> regarding women, then they in fact are a racist, a bigot, a homophobe,
> or a republican. This is fallacious thinking, especially from a woman
> with your intellect!
That's kind of like calling it "victim mentality" to say that
if some individual makes a hasty act to kill another, that
therefore they are a murderer.
For some reason, we are willing to characterize a person by a
single act for certain acts, but some of us bristle at doing
the analogous characterizing as a result of other acts.
If a person becomes a murder by one act of murder, why don't
they become a sexist by one act of sexism? As suggested by
Jesus, perhaps they become a sexist by one sexist thought!
(Doesn't one act of "republicanism" make one a republican?
What if one has a republican thought? :-)
Bob
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9.1937 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:06 | 14 |
| ZZ I'll go further than you -- I reject the belief that any two
ZZ people are the same.
Well, what the heck....we'll rathole! Speaking on observation of the
genders, I believe there are certain traits women portray more than men
and likewise there are traits portrayed by women more often then
men.
If a man does one act of sexism, then he may unfairly be labeled a
sexist for life; however, he should not be clumped in with racists.
Furthermore, one who disagrees with political policy does not make them
a racist or a sexist.
-Jack
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9.1938 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:20 | 17 |
|
Re.1932
Jack,
That was no 'hasty generalization' made. I've known the writings of
said person in notes files for well over 8 years now, and this is most
definitely not the first time it's happened.
There is a very strong parallel between racism and sexism, and I put
the note in to show just that. You may - quite literally - not be old
enough to remember the stereotypical generalizations of darker skinned
people in the 1960s, but they sound an awful lot like what was said
about women in that note I referenced. Yet it's still OK to say such
things about women.
Cindy
|
9.1939 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:23 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 9.1937 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I believe there are certain traits women portray more than men
| and likewise there are traits portrayed by women more often then men.
Am I missing something or do these two things say the same thing?
Jack....thanks for clearing up your misque.
Bob, God has certainly gave you the capability of writing and getting
right to the point. Great note!
Glen
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9.1940 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:24 | 14 |
|
Re.1932 (again)
>This is fallacious thinking...
Yes, Jack, it is. You might want to correct some of your incorrect
premises, and then you won't arrive at the conclusion that you did.
Again, another case of you assuming something incorrectly, using it
as part of a logical deduction, arriving at a faulty conclusion, and
projecting it back onto the person you are referring to.
Cindy
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9.1941 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:27 | 7 |
|
> Yet it's still OK to say such things about women.
Only in some circles, but do you think this sort of thing is accepted
in normal society?
Eric
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9.1942 | Yes... | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:31 | 75 |
|
This from the U.K.
The Electronic Telegraph Friday 29 September 1995 Home News
Woman airline pilot settles in sex bias case
By David Graves
A WOMAN pilot with one of the country's largest holiday companies, who
claimed she suffered a "relentless onslaught" of sexual harassment and
discrimination from her colleagues, ended her two-year battle for
compensation yesterday.
Sandra Valentine, 36, one of 178 pilots at Airtours International,
withdrew her claims of sexual discrimination at an industrial tribunal
against the company and a senior employee.
The case, which was heard for three weeks in January, was due to
resume for a further 17 days of evidence in Birmingham yesterday, but
her lawyer said in a statement that a "mutually acceptable settlement"
had been reached and, as a result, Miss Valentine had withdrawn her
application.
The statement was issued jointly by Miss Valentine's solicitor, Rachel
Wolf, the British Airline Pilots Association, which supported her, and
Airtours International. All three parties said they had agreed not to
comment further.
The statement did not say whether any compensation had been offered by
the airline or who would pay the costs of the hearing so far,
estimated at more than �50,000.
Miss Valentine, a First Officer, of Knowle, West Midlands, who has not
worked since being dismissed for alleged gross misconduct in December
1993, had claimed that Mike Lee, the company's chief executive, had
described her as the "token woman pilot."
She said that she was sent pornographic material at work, suffered
suggestive remarks and was insulted in front of passengers and
colleagues after she joined the company in August, 1992.
"The discrimination was relentless"
She told the tribunal: "The discrimination was relentless. I felt my
colleagues were being treated as professional pilots, but I was being
treated as a silly woman more interested in lipstick and false
fingernails."
Miss Valentine maintained that the senior member of the company, who
the tribunal ruled could not be identified, had attempted to
proposition her.
She also alleged that on a seven-hour training flight she was not
allowed to take the controls of the aircraft and was told to make "the
coffee and sandwiches".
On a flight from Birmingham to Izmir, Turkey, she claimed Capt John
Porter shouted at her: "Women should not be let loose with anything
more technical than a knife and fork."
On another flight the same captain was alleged to have announced to
passengers: "Our first officer is Sandra Valentine. We have them at
the front as well as the back these days, so don't blame me."
Airtours had disputed her claims and claimed she was dismissed for
gross misconduct in December, 1993, after failing an inspection.
Miss Valentine had described the case as a "nightmare" and claimed she
had since been unable to find another job because of the publicity.
She said: "I am relieved it is over but the whole thing has ruined my
life. I just wanted to fly a plane for a living, look where it got
me."
|
9.1943 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:42 | 3 |
| so what is an effective way to deal with a note such as 9.1921?
|
9.1944 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:45 | 6 |
|
Yes, I'm wondering that too, Patricia. Thanks for asking the question.
Waiting for replies...
Cindy
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9.1945 | | USAT05::BENSON | Eternal Weltanschauung | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:57 | 18 |
|
there are so many options for dealing with a note like .1921.
- ignore it.
- overlook it.
- stew over it.
- accept it.
- forget it.
- get mad about it.
- if you think its evil, return good as Jesus commanded.
- think about it.
- respond to it thoughtfully.
- cry a little.
- show it to your friends.
- frame it so you can look back on it.
....
jeff
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9.1946 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 18:13 | 14 |
| ZZ Yes, Jack, it is. You might want to correct some of your incorrect
ZZ premises, and then you won't arrive at the conclusion that you did.
Cindy, since you are the only one of about 50 noters that I communicate
with, seemingly to have this problem, I would be most glad if you would
assist me.
What was my incorrect premise on this one? I was just a babe in the
early 60's and missed much of the parellels between racism and sexism
of that time. Judging from what you wrote, it was you that brought
racism into the equation when racism wasn't even mentioned. I had no
choice but to make some sort of premise...correct or incorrect.
-Jack
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9.1947 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 18:16 | 7 |
| ZZZ so what is an effective way to deal with a note such as 9.1921?
Show that you have the integrity to look beyond it. I do it all the
time.
-Jack
|
9.1948 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 19:34 | 1 |
| <---would you do the same for abortion?
|
9.1949 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 09:03 | 16 |
|
> so what is an effective way to deal with a note such as 9.1921?
Normally, I would respond voicing my strong disagreement with the views
stated in such a note. However, one must consider not just the text of
any given note, but also its author. If you believe the author is open
to discussion, to the possibility of error, then I would go ahead and
respond. If you believe the author is absolutely closed minded, or
worse, may in fact feed on the rebukes he or she receives... the old "I
wear your condemnation as a badge of honor", then I would not respond
directly to the note.
The goal should be to squelch evil ideas, not fertilize them.
Eric
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9.1950 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 09:10 | 16 |
| re .1942
Cindy,
I wasn't denying that sexual harassment exists, I was just wondering if
it was tolerated in normal society. Since the case you cite was
settled to the satisfaction of Ms. Valentine, I'd say it is an example
of how normal society does *not* tolerate debasing women.
It appears, however, the impolite society is larger than I might have
expected.
Eric
PS. I bet you have some opinions on the Hooter's Restaurant sexual
discrimination charges! :^)
|
9.1951 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Thu Nov 16 1995 09:10 | 13 |
| Jack,
Cindy is not the only one. The way you make an incorrect assumption
then draw bizarre conclusions from that assumption is obvious to me as
well as cindy.
In you noting I do see an very strong link between sexism and
homophobia. Those are the two that I see as strongly linked. And as
you have admitted in here, you have gotten yourself in hot water
several times in notes files for referring to men using female
allusions in a derogatory way.
That is an example of both sexism and homophobia
|
9.1952 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Thu Nov 16 1995 09:15 | 13 |
| For me, that note is just another fairly typical example of how deep
rooted sexism really is.
My response to sexism is anger and frustration. It is very real and
just beneath the conscious level.
Of course as a woman, almost any response I make could be viewed as
overreacting and being "too emotional".
I personally have spent a lot of time and effort getting in touch with
my feelings and honoring my feelings. All of them. My feelings are
what make me human. I hate being put in a position where I need to
defend being a feeling person.
|
9.1953 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 16 1995 09:31 | 15 |
| Glen:
If somebody called me the poster boy for abortion...or said that it is
the existance of the likes of me that add merit to the abortion debate,
then I would...as you are well aware, reply with a...
Grrrrrrrrrrrr.........
Equating the act of abortion with an insult doesn't parse.
-Jack
|
9.1954 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 16 1995 09:53 | 45 |
| ZZ Cindy is not the only one. The way you make an incorrect assumption
ZZ then draw bizarre conclusions from that assumption is obvious to
ZZ me as well as cindy.
Or perhaps the incorrect assumption is based at times on poor
communication. I seem to communicate well with everybody else.
I think "bizarre" is a bit strong; considering some of the ideas
brought forth here by yourself, Cindy, and others are, with all due
respect, quite foreign to logic and critical thinking. It's all about
perspective and although I disagree, with it, or make it a point to
challenge it, I at LEAST give you the benefit of respecting your right
to believe it. In other words, I don't give you the silent treatment,
ignore you...you know...the silly things we as humans do to hurt each
other from time to time.
ZZ In you noting I do see an very strong link between sexism and
ZZ homophobia. Those are the two that I see as strongly linked. And
ZZ as you have admitted in here, you have gotten yourself in hot water
ZZ several times in notes files for referring to men using female
ZZ allusions in a derogatory way.
Actually Patricia, it happened one time. ONE time. And I shared it in
here, with you. I certainly didn't have to do this. You never asked
me to but I did so for two reasons. The first reason Patricia is to
show you that people evolve, mature, and learn. Secondly, I am
attempting to demonstrate that in a forum of differing points of view,
one can openly humble themselves and admit when they are wrong...or
admit when they have learned something. I referred to a certain
individual in Soapbox as "Senorita", with the intent to passively
demean his manhood, not to demean women. It had been pointed out to me
that although this might have been my intent, it is not taken that way.
After thinking it through, I found I was without recourse and had to
admit my oversight. I did so and the matter came to a close.
That is an example of both sexism and homophobia.
You mean how they are linked together? I suppose this can be the case.
Needless to say however, I find the term homophobia a misused term. I
would say it is a matter of hate more than fear. I still don't believe
however that racism and sexism can be interchangable; at least not in
all cases.
-Jack
|
9.1955 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Thu Nov 16 1995 10:33 | 83 |
| > considering some of the ideas
> brought forth here by yourself, Cindy, and others are, with all due
> respect, quite foreign to logic and critical thinking.
Jack, this is a common example of sexism which can be found in your
writing.
|
9.1956 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 16 1995 10:46 | 9 |
| ZZ Jack, this is a common example of sexism which can be found in your
ZZ writing.
No...thats plain cold observation Patricia. I directed it at you and
Cindy because YOU stated YOU agreed with Cindy. You didn't bring up
anybody else. It was gender neutral and nonsensical for you to bring
it up.
-Jack
|
9.1957 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 11:30 | 22 |
|
> Of course as a woman, almost any response I make could be viewed as
> overreacting and being "too emotional".
Of course as a man, almost any response I make could be viewed as
typical male arrogance and dominance... but then *they'd* be acting
irrationally, illogically, and emotionally. :^)
Sexist stereotypes, as you yourself have said, hurt *everyone*. And in
fact sexual stereotypes swing both ways (there's a double-entendre for
you :^)). One claims to merely be stating factual observations and when
rebuffed, claims the rebuke is proof of the original stereotype
assertion.
Stereotypes and generalization need not be a bad thing. As I have said
in the past we all use stereotypes. They are the framework for
evaluating new experiences and making course decisions. It is only when
we treat stereotypes as unyielding absolutes that we get into trouble.
Eric
|
9.1958 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 11:40 | 11 |
|
Jack,
> I seem to communicate well with everybody else.
And you base this on...?
*I've* got no problem with you personally, Jack, but I think you're
over reaching here.
Eric
|
9.1959 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 16 1995 11:46 | 12 |
| ZZ And you base this on...?
I don't claim I have no enemies Eric. I most assuredly do. I am
basing it on the fact that people know where I stand, I don't speak in
riddles, I don't flower my language lest I trample on somebody's flower
garden, and it would seem that because I am unable to always decifer
peoples hidden riddles here in C-P, I am accused by one person of
basing a response on a presupposition. I was pointing out that
interestingly enough, this certain person is the only one who has a
consistent habit of pointing it out to me; therefore, either the masses
suffer fools gladly or there isn't a communication gap between me and
everybody else. How's that for logic?
|
9.1960 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Nov 16 1995 12:49 | 4 |
| As my communications teacher insisted, "You cannot NOT communicate."
Richard
|
9.1961 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Nov 16 1995 12:55 | 60 |
|
Re.1932
Jack,
OK - here's my response...
>On one side, I can honestly say that to draw the conclusion that women
>become more emotional over (fill in whatever), would be termed a Hasty
>Generalization in any critical thinking course. Speaking for myself,
>there is a man in my organization who is a perpetual pain in the neck,
>emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to women.
Comment duly noted...and appreciated.
>Cindy, I do have to comment on something you just mentioned.
Very well.
>You also are guilty of a hasty generalization
False, Jack. It was based on 8 years of noting experience,
with said person, and therefore (unless you call 8 years 'hasty')
warranted.
>and without possibly realizing,
>inciting trouble by inferring that one would make perjorative remarks
>against people of color.
"...inferring that one *would*..." No, Jack, I inferred
that one 'could' and 'might'...and not 'would'.
Sexism and racism go hand in hand. There's no difference to
me whether you label a woman 'emotional' and 'not logical',
and labeling someone having darker skin of being (insert your
stereotypical labels here, etc. - and here are where all the
old stereotypes apply that you probably missed, having not
lived much into the 60s). Even I missed a lot, having been
born in 1957, but still once I actually saw a segregated
bathroom in the south.
>Secondly, it presumes the old victim mentality
>again...the concept that if somebody makes a hasty generalization
>regarding women,
It wasn't 'hasty' Jack. False.
>then they in fact are a racist, a bigot, a homophobe, or a republican.
It wasn't 'hasty' Jack. False again. Also, I did not label the
*person* in my note...I only referred to the *conversation
direction*. You used the labels, and rather unfairly at that,
since I'm very careful never to refer to anyone by a label.
Remember we went through that already, where I said to you that
I've never labeled you as 'sexist', yet you assumed that I had,
and were responding accordingly?
>This is fallacious thinking, especially from a woman with your intellect!
And therefore, this is a false conclusion based on false premises.
|
9.1962 | | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Nov 16 1995 12:57 | 8 |
|
Re.1950
Eric,
Hooter's Restaurant? I missed that one. Sounds intriguing!
Cindy
|
9.1963 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:19 | 3 |
| Born in 1961 by the way. Thanks for your reply!
-Jack
|
9.1964 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:27 | 19 |
|
re 9.1962
Hooter's Restaurant openly and exclusively hires young, attractive
women as waitpersons and requires them to wear short-shorts ("hot"
pants) and halter tops. Four(?) men in the Chicago area want to bring
changes of sexual discrimination for denying them employment. The Labor
Department (or some federal labor interest) is backing the men on this.
The surprise, to me anyway, is that the Hooter's women are rallying
against the men, saying that Hooter's *should* fight to maintain it's
ban on male waitpersons. One outraged waitress said that there were
plenty of *other* job opportunities within the restaurant for men. One
of the protest signs I saw charged the *men* of sexism, saying that the
men were trying to "steal" jobs from women. (I found this, as Jack
would say, bizarre and illogical). Now pretend it's 1962 and instead of
"men" they were taking about women or "colored folk."...
Eric
|
9.1965 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:31 | 14 |
| ================================================================================
Note 9.1917 The Processing Topic 1917 of 1963
USAT05::BENSON "Eternal Weltanschauung" 5 lines 14-NOV-1995 17:08
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> I believe that spilling one's guts is as unpleasant as it sounds, and
> recommend against it.
> jeff
I say that, in keeping with the metaphor, it actually takes guts to do.
Richard
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9.1966 | re: a few | TNPUBS::PAINTER | Planet Crayon | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:51 | 10 |
|
Yes, I know your age, Jack. You admitted it at the dinner. (;^)
I've found it the case that even 4 years can make a tremendous
difference when there's such a major societal turning point taking
place.
And here I thought it was a sitcom, Eric. (;^) I don't really have
an opinion on it, at least at this moment.
Cindy
|
9.1967 | | GRIM::MESSENGER | Bob Messenger | Thu Nov 16 1995 14:09 | 9 |
| Re: .1964 Eric
> The Labor
> Department (or some federal labor interest) is backing the men on this.
EEOC = Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, an agency which is
temporarily out of business due to the government shutdown.
-- Bob
|
9.1968 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 14:18 | 14 |
|
> ...therefore, either the masses suffer fools gladly or there isn't a
> communication gap between me and everybody else. How's that for logic?
Weak. You come up with two possibilities and arbitrarily chose the
latter to be fact. I would have chosen the former :^)
What I see happening quite frequently, myself included, is a thought
process passed off as logic, as in: I have a thought process therefore
I am logical. You have a different process therefore you are illogical.
It's like starting off a proof with the statement "Given that I am
correct..."
Eric
|
9.1969 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Nov 16 1995 15:31 | 21 |
| Not to turn this into Pick on Jack Day (oops, too late) but given
>Note 9.1959 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN
>
> I am accused by one person of basing a response on a presupposition.
and...
> Note 641.102 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN
>
> Sorry but I'm not a mind reader and I act impulsively based on
> ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
> expectations!
> ^^^^^^^^^^^^
You seem to prove your accuser's case! :^)
If I'm wrong then you have a communication problem with me. :^)
Eric
|
9.1970 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Fri Nov 17 1995 10:25 | 7 |
|
I'd like to suggest that noters not drag conversation and disagreements
for Soapbox, or other conferences, into Christian-Perspectives. Not
only is it confusing for the rest of the readership, it also tends to
lower the degree of civility.
Eric
|
9.1971 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Nov 17 1995 11:05 | 6 |
| Normally Eric, this would be the case. Since my word, "Senorita"
created mass (I want to say hysteria but I won't), lynch mobs, it
probably was an appropriate example to bring here. Otherwise, you're
right.
-Jack
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9.1972 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Fri Nov 17 1995 11:15 | 6 |
| Eric,
I agree there are plenty of examples of dehumanization of women and the
accompanying sexism right here in this file.
meg
|
9.1973 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Nov 17 1995 11:21 | 10 |
| Meg:
Then let's focus right in our own media. Considering the media is the
biggest propoganda tool used in this country, how do you feel when
Clinton uses terms like Radical Right, Mean Spirited, and other
perjorative words to describe his opponents? Do you consider this to
be sexist against males/females? By your definition, again I expect
you will show objectivity here...unless of course you have an agenda.
-Jack
|
9.1974 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Nov 17 1995 13:03 | 7 |
| > I'd like to suggest that noters not drag conversation and disagreements
> for Soapbox, or other conferences, into Christian-Perspectives.
Amen! Set mode=NOSOAPBOX
Richard
|
9.1975 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Nov 30 1995 18:37 | 10 |
| 1182.203
Six new entries in a topic in one day is what you call silence?
What makes you so itchy, Jack?
Try giving folks a few days before figuring they're not going to respond.
Richard
|
9.1976 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 10:54 | 1 |
| Sorry, I have this thing about accountability.
|
9.1977 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:25 | 3 |
| Jack,
Just own it as your own problem. No one elses.
|
9.1978 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:48 | 1 |
| Okay Doctor.
|
9.1979 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:54 | 6 |
| No one here is accountable to you, Jack.
Participation is voluntary. I suggest you honor that.
Richard
|
9.1980 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:04 | 14 |
| Richard, when somebody begins a topic, particularly a volitile one,
then I expect accountability. I see the one starting the topic as the
inviter to a lecture, or a party, or a discussion. When somebody
arbitrarily makes blanket accusations and then says, "I'm not going to
talk about it anymore", I see this as discourteous. When somebody
arbitrarily makes accusations of sexism and is then asked to justify
why something good for the goose is not good for the gander, my
conspiracy suspicion arises and the inviter is left with an image of
unreliability. I expect more of people here.
Furthermore, if we are all believers, then I believe we ARE accountable
to one another. Not only as Christians but also as a community.
-Jack
|
9.1981 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:09 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 9.1976 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Sorry, I have this thing about accountability.
Since when? :-)
|
9.1982 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:15 | 10 |
| 9.1980
See it as you will.
No one here is accountable to you, Jack.
Participation is voluntary. I suggest you honor that.
Richard
|
9.1983 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:19 | 1 |
| I honor the right but I don't have to respect it!
|
9.1984 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:33 | 11 |
|
We should respect the fact that people are participating here while on
the job (for the most part.) It should be expected that replies may not
always suit our expectation of expediency, particularly if the
respondent is expected for form a coherent, thoughtful note.
I know of at least one noter who, in his haste, has followed up with a
"what I meant to say.." clarification note on more than one occasion.
:^)
Eric
|
9.1985 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:53 | 1 |
| Gosh, and I've talked to Glen about this so many times!!!!!!!
|
9.1986 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Fri Dec 01 1995 14:19 | 4 |
|
Hey, I'm not pointing fingers... :^)
Eric
|
9.1987 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 15:36 | 1 |
| Ho ho....!
|
9.1988 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 16:12 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 9.1985 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Gosh, and I've talked to Glen about this so many times!!!!!!!
This is true...and each time your note started with, "what I meant to
say was...." :-)
|
9.1989 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 21 1995 10:50 | 12 |
| I seriously doubt that 1193.1 originated with John Covert.
It smacks of a parody written most probably by a Unitarian-Universalist.
It would have a whole different meaning if it had been entered here by
a Unitarian-Universalist, but it wasn't.
Dick Gregory can entitle his book, "Nigger," but Mark Fuhrman is a
racist for his use of the word.
Richard
|
9.1990 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Dec 21 1995 10:59 | 16 |
| Richard:
This is exactly the point I brought up in the other conference. I took
a Val Div course a few years back and brought up the point that a joke
isn't validated by one group and not by another. The example I used
was rap singers using pejorative terminology toward women of African
American descent. It matters not that the singer is black, it is still
classless and pejorative.
Likewise, parody's like Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor, JC,
Superstar, Godspell, etc., are sanctioned parodies put out by Broadway
and supported by tax dollars. Therefore, a parody of this type should
be viewed as humorous, light hearted, and anybody being offended at
such things needs to take a chill pill!
-Jack
|
9.1991 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 21 1995 12:28 | 11 |
| .1990
I don't think the point I'm making is the point you're making at all, Jack.
I don't think spirit, intent and motivation can be summarily dismissed.
And I think in so many cases those who claim to be 'color blind' are
really just turning a blind eye.
Richard
|
9.1992 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Dec 21 1995 12:32 | 14 |
|
par�o�dy (p�r�e-d�) noun
par�o�dies
1. a. A literary or artistic work that imitates the characteristic
style of an author or a work for comic effect or ridicule. See Synonyms
at caricature. b. The genre of literature comprising such works.
2. Something so bad as to be equivalent to intentional mockery; a
travesty: The trial was a parody of justice.
Jesus Christ Superstar is not a parody. I found it, and still find it,
very moving. Now 'The Life of Brian' on the other hand...
Eric
|
9.1993 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 21 1995 12:38 | 8 |
| .1992
I felt the same way about Godspell. One person's gargoyle is
apparently another's spire.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.1994 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Thu Dec 21 1995 16:55 | 9 |
| Richard,
Thank you for understanding the basis of my feelings about the note.
It is precisely that it is posted by John who seems to abhor Unitarian
Universalism and has posted his Gem in no fewer than three conferences.
If it were UU's laughing at themselves or other religious liberals
joking at a likeminded organization, it would have a whole different
feel.
|
9.1995 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Dec 21 1995 17:08 | 15 |
| Z If it were UU's laughing at themselves or other religious liberals
Z joking at a likeminded organization, it would have a whole
Z different feel.
Oh, so you affirm that there is in fact a barrier or a line between
those of different faith, ethnicity and the like.
Thank you for affirming what I have suspected all a long. Diversity is
a convenient buzz word when it becomes a tool of convenience for the
sensitive type. But my oh my, let me make disparaging remarks about
people of my club but God help you if you do likewise.
Just shows the whole diversity thing can be a big sham when misapplied.
-Jack
|
9.1996 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Dec 21 1995 17:11 | 8 |
| >...John who seems to abhor Unitarian Universalism ...
I am absolutely certain that I have nowhere near the hostility
towards UUism that you obviously have towards the Church founded
by Jesus Christ, as you constantly demonstrate in your slanderous
attacks on the catholic faith and its followers.
/john
|
9.1997 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 21 1995 17:31 | 10 |
| .1995
Is that what you learned in your 'Val Div' class? That valuing
diversity is about blurring the lines that make us distinct and
unique from one another?
It is a very shallow understanding, at best.
Richard
|
9.1998 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Fri Dec 22 1995 09:35 | 20 |
| Jack,
I don't think you could have learned a thing in your valuing diversity
class. Maybe another one might help.
An insider can be critical of themselves, should laugh at themselves.
An insider does it out of respect for themselves.
When someone outside of a group decides to make fun of the group, then
the question of motivation comes up. And if the motivation is to tear
down, that the act itself is to tear down.
You have asked me a number of times why I am critical of sexism within
Christianity and not within Islam. I have tried telling you without
your hearing, that because Christianity is my heritage, my criticism of
it has the intent to want to make Christianity better. With someone
else's religion, I need to be much more careful that my motivation is
not to deride.
|
9.1999 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Fri Dec 22 1995 10:00 | 65 |
| >I am absolutely certain that I have nowhere near the hostility
>towards UUism that you obviously have towards the Church founded
>by Jesus Christ, as you constantly demonstrate in your slanderous
>attacks on the catholic faith and its followers.
First of all, Jesus Christ did not found a church. Jesus Christ from
his birth to his death was a Jew. Jesus Christ' mission on earth was
to reform Judaism and not to start a new religion.
The Apostles, Paul, and the author of "John" "Matthew" "Luke" and
"Mark" all contributed to the founding of Christianity. Christianity
was not founded until after the death of Jesus.
Second, I was baptised into the Roman Catholic Church as a baby. My
father and my Grand parents were Catholic. I found my way into the
Congregation Church as a child. I was educated for four years at
Stonehill College, a Catholic College. As an adult, I consider myself
a Christian Unitarian Universalist and am studying to become a
Unitiarian Universalist minister, at Andover Newton Theological School,
a thouroughly Christian Seminary. This is hardly evidence of hostility
toward the Church.
There is one practice of the Catholic Church that I believe is very
wrong and that needs to be corrected. I will do whatever I can to see
that that evil practice is corrected, not out of hostility toward the
church but out of love and respect for the church. The Physical church is
a human organization and is subject to all the sins that humans are
subject too. The systematic sin, the Original sin that the catholic
church is guilty of is sexism, and the catholic church is the world's
largest practioner of institutional sexism. This sin, if not
corrected will destroy the church.
I believe that the Catholic Church is good for Protestant Churches and
that Protestant churches are good for Catholic Churches. They balance
and influence each other. There is a tremendous pull in Christianity
toward the reforming of itself. The vision and ideals of Christianity
are high. They are beyond that possible for any individual and for any
institution. There is also the presence of forgiveness and grace.
So each of us both individually and institutionally are encouraged to
"be perfect as your God in heaven is perfect" even as we know,
individually and institutionally that we will never achieve perfection.
We are forgiven for not achieving perfection, but never relieved of our
responsibility to seek perfection.
Perfection is visioned within Scripture itself. "Within Christ, there
is no male of female, Jew or Gentile, Slave or Free" All people are
equal within Christ. The church itself is held up to that standard and
each of us are called to help pull the church in that direction.
Identify sin as sin is not destructive. It's purpose is the
elimination of sin. I have faith that the Catholic Church and all
other Christian Churches that descriminate against women, will repent
and reform themselves. These churches absolutely need members who
constantly remind those in the church of its vision, and of the
possibility of moving toward that vision and establishing the Reign of
the Divine, here on earth.
I do not criticize sinful practices of Christian Churches out of
hostility. I name sinful practices sinful, because I desire to see the
Church become all that it can become.
Patricia
|
9.2000 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Fri Dec 22 1995 10:02 | 1 |
| So be it!
|
9.2001 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 22 1995 10:32 | 41 |
| You missed a snarf there Patricia! I congratulate you on your self
control!
First, let,s touch on the church thing. The Church was MOST DEFINITELY
founded by Jesus Christ. Jesus spoke in Matthew 16 as saying, "...and
upon this rock I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH, and the gates of hell shall not
prevail against it." Yes, the first church in Acts was established as
a body after the resurrection, but the church was operated and
controlled under the command and direction of the Holy Spirit.
Otherwise, it would have faded out in a relatively short time.
Now for the fun stuff, Val Div... In regards to taking it again, no
thank you. I found the course for the most part to be made up of a
consortium of whiners and malcontents who had nothing better to do than
to bicker, argue, and most definitely devalue anything the other person
had to say. Why would I want to subject myself to that again? Oh and
by the way, the whining came from both white and black alike. Now in
reference to your statements regarding the inherent right for people
within their own group to poke fun...since the name Flanagan tends to
be Irish or possibly have a little Irish in it, does this make it
within protocol for me as one who is part Irish to carry on with
drinking jokes or some such? No, I find this to be condescending and
whats more, I find it to be an attitude which goes against the very
objective you have, that being to build one another up instead of
tearing each other down. In the Val Div course, quite frankly, I
brought up the very fact that the greatest racist and sexist attitudes
portrayed toward African American women in this country come from black
men and not white. The example I used was this unsophisticated noise
on the radio called rap music. Apparently, the singers feel since they
are black that they have this inherant right to refer the "N" word on
many occasion not to mention the frequent use of the terms, "ho's and
*%itches", to wit I stand by your side and condemn such messages as
pejorative, barbaric, and condescending. You DO agree with me on this
do you not? This was the point I was making about tearing one another
down. I realize lighthearted humor toward one's one tribe, be it
white, black, catholic, hebrew...is all in fun. But I DON'T believe
across the board that people of one's own race has the inherent right
to exploit their own race in this manner. The utopia of solid race
relations will never be equitable if we are cutting each other down.
-Jack
|
9.2002 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | let your light shine | Fri Dec 22 1995 10:43 | 5 |
| Jack,
The idea was that you focus on yourself and how stereotypes affect your
own life and not that you focus on someone else and how the stereotypes
affect them.
|
9.2003 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 22 1995 10:49 | 11 |
| You'll be surprised to know that I sat in the course and did more
listening than speaking. Sounded like there were alot of people there
that needed to vent. I interjected at times but found meself to speak
soberly and circumspectly. I found some of the videos to be
interesting and admittedly, I had the teacher pegged after the first
hour. Sorry but she fit the stereotype of a lesbian woman...her hair
style, her interests and her own attitudes. Sometimes, you can tell a
person by patterns and she had them. She was a very nice individual
and she and I seemed to respect what the other was saying.
-Jack
|
9.2004 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 22 1995 10:55 | 13 |
| Thinking about this a few minutes ago while getting my tea. I get my
hair cut at National Hair Care Center. A few months ago the stylist, a
man relatively new there, signed me in. He has quite a different hair
cut, five ear rings, and I'm sorry but he struck me as having the
pattern. Well, he cut my hair a few weeks ago and this is what I
learned about him....
He's an X Marine and he is married.
So much for patterns!
-Jack
|
9.2005 | Sort of sounds like a campaign | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Fri Dec 22 1995 14:16 | 6 |
| 9.1994
> and has posted his Gem in no fewer than three conferences.
Let me guess. One of them is SOAPBOX.
|
9.2006 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 22 1995 17:19 | 1 |
| Correct.
|
9.2007 | If it's not too much to ask | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 28 1995 13:15 | 6 |
| I request that cross-conference talk be avoided, that exchanges
initiated elsewhere remain there.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.2008 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Dec 28 1995 13:47 | 12 |
| Richard, a third option may be to start a string entitled, "Why
Witchcraft?" Which I may do in about a month or so. Some time after
January 1.
There is a string in womannotes where somebody who is a believer in
Jesus Christ wants to feel more comfortable in the area of witchcraft
or wicca. Instead of addressing this in womannotes where it most
likely would have been deleted for insensitivity, I thought it more
appropriate to ask the question here. Most people in WN probably
wouldn't want to indulge or listen to a conversation of that nature.
-Jack
|
9.2009 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 28 1995 15:58 | 5 |
| The Box keeps coming up, too.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.2010 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Dec 28 1995 16:34 | 6 |
| Richard, who are we kidding here? I defy you to go back a thousand or
so replies in this very string. Go into ANY of these strings and you
will find a flavor of cynicism here...just like your reply to me not
one hour ago.
-Jack
|
9.2011 | It's a request, not a jest | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Thu Dec 28 1995 16:37 | 11 |
| ================================================================================
Note 9.2007 The Processing Topic 2007 of 2010
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10" 6 lines 28-DEC-1995 13:15
-< If it's not too much to ask >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I request that cross-conference talk be avoided, that exchanges
initiated elsewhere remain there.
Shalom,
Richard
|
9.2012 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Wed Jan 17 1996 13:25 | 26 |
| re 14.387
> MLK's heirs can't even stand in his shadow, and they have espoused the
> very opposite concepts MLK had about peaceful dissent. I believe my
> comments regarding the three I mentioned are NOT backbiting, they are
> truth. They squandered what MLK stood for.
It would have been better, my friend, if you had said this to begin
with. We too often conserve words at the expense of clarity. We may
still disagree about the "truth" of the above statement, but what you
have said here is far different the the message you gave in your
original retort to Richard.
Your reflex to see symbolism and hidden meaning in Richard's notes
seems to have caused you to reply in an unnecessarily defensive way. I
am also guilty of this malady of defensiveness. On a day when we should
reflect on the noble civil rights struggle as exemplified by Dr. King,
I felt your indictment on *exclusively* black men as racist bigots was
in bad form. We have all year to vilify controversial black men. Do you
understand why some of us found the use of MLK's birthday to spotlight
what you see as what's wrong with the black community's leadership was
unnecessary.
Peace,
Eric
|
9.2013 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Jan 17 1996 14:06 | 15 |
| Z Your reflex to see symbolism and hidden meaning in Richard's notes
Z seems to have caused you to reply in an unnecessarily defensive way.
Eric, yes, I do see how that can be the case. Richard has this
way at times of not revealing his intent. It wasn't so much defensive
as it was an observation. I believe it is truly sad that MLK's legacy
ended up as it did. I kept it exclusively to black men because
frankly, the plight of civil rights was pretty much exclusive to blacks
and therefore, I thought it an appropriate line of discussion regarding
how people like Farrakhan and Sharpton actually promote the opposite
of what MLK espoused to. I see more segregation being promoted today
than ever before and I think it is a tremendous waste that the younger
generation are getting exposed to this.
-Jack
|
9.2014 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Ps. 85.10 | Wed Jan 17 1996 15:33 | 19 |
| re 14.387
> MLK's heirs can't even stand in his shadow, and they have espoused the
> very opposite concepts MLK had about peaceful dissent. I believe my
> comments regarding the three I mentioned are NOT backbiting, they are
> truth. They squandered what MLK stood for.
Jack,
My request to cease the backbiting was NOT in response to your note concerning
the three black men.
I didn't want to mention names, but it was actually in response to the
exchange of January 16 between you and Glen.
You'll notice the request was entered as a separate posting.
Richard
|
9.2015 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Jan 17 1996 15:39 | 3 |
| Fair enough. Sorry Glen.
-Jack
|
9.2016 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Psalm 85.10 | Tue Mar 05 1996 19:23 | 6 |
| >Note 1222.0 I'll let Richard choose a title
I'm flattered, Dave. But you need not defer to me.
Richard
|
9.2017 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jul 03 1996 15:22 | 1 |
| Have a nice weekend everybody!
|
9.2018 | Yellow light | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Psalm 85.10 | Sat Jul 20 1996 00:39 | 9 |
| I would caution participants against ad hominum slurs and insults.
In addition to being unconvincing, such entries reflect poorly on
the participants who use them.
The moderators have not received any complaints, but that doesn't mean
the line hasn't been crossed.
Richard
|
9.2019 | | HURON::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Tue Jul 23 1996 11:15 | 22 |
|
I must strenuously object to the collapse of civility I see creeping
into this conference. Let me suggest that people start using statements
like "I strongly believe...," "It seems clear to me that...," etc.
rather than absolute declarations of superiority.
Let me further suggest that we not tempt another into increasing
incivility by pushing their buttons. Sometimes you've just got to draw a
line and bow out. Just as anger is a sin, so to is tempting (taunting)
another to the point of anger. Be aware of how your words affect
another, even if you thing them benign. You will not bring someone
closer to Christ by pushing them to sinful emotions.
If you feel so strongly about a point, and so upset that people are not
receiving your message, perhaps it is time to shake the dust from your
sandals and move on. I'm not suggesting that any one butt out of the
notesfile, just that a break may serve one well if they are consumed by
frustration, anger and loathing.
Peace,
Eric
|
9.2020 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Psalm 85.10 | Wed Jul 24 1996 19:39 | 12 |
| Note 1243.380
> Why does it seem that just about every topic with frequent entries
> winds up being ratholed with the homosexuality issue, he asked rhetorically..
I suppose I'm guilty of doing this myself.
To the degree that it's possible, can we stay on the topic of the string and
continue tangental issues under their respective topics?
Richard
|
9.2021 | Am I too sensitive? | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Sep 05 1996 16:04 | 23 |
|
From Note 1269.30
> Oh, it should be mentioned that in the South everyone who is not a Jew
> considers himself a Christian, mostly a Baptist. It's much like
> Catholicism in the northeast.
>
> jeff
This note could be read in at least two ways. One way is with the
implication that in the Northeast, if one is not a Jew they consider
themselves a Christian, mostly Catholic.
The other reading is that in the Northeast, if one is not a Catholic
they consider themselves a Christian, mostly Baptist.
While I find both options sadly generalistic, I find the latter
personally offensive.
Jeff, could you please clarify what your assumptions of the Northeast
are with regard to this note.
Eric
|
9.2022 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I Need To Get Out More! | Thu Sep 05 1996 16:11 | 9 |
| Eric:
Yes, you're too sensitive. :-) Jeff's on vacation by the way.
Consider the following. If Saudi Arabia is generally Moslem, then in
their eyes, I am a dog. But that's okay...they're entitled to their
opinion.
-Jack
|
9.2023 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Thu Sep 05 1996 16:23 | 20 |
| > Consider the following. If Saudi Arabia is generally Moslem, then in
> their eyes, I am a dog. But that's okay...they're entitled to their
> opinion.
But, they're not noting with us and not calling us dogs in here.
If they were to note in here then they may not call us dogs,
even if it is their opinion.
As far as I know, it is against Digital policy to call others
within Digital names.
That's why notesfiles are moderated by wise and learned
moderators, whose judgment no one can question, whose insight
is beyond the comprehension of mere mortals, whose grace
and style we can but hope to emulate, whose wisdom...
You get the idea :*)
Tom
|
9.2024 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I Need To Get Out More! | Thu Sep 05 1996 16:28 | 17 |
| Z As far as I know, it is against Digital policy to call others
Z within Digital names.
This isn't true you tinplated sarcophagus!!!! :-)
Z That's why notesfiles are moderated by wise and learned
Z moderators, whose judgment no one can question, whose insight
Z is beyond the comprehension of mere mortals, whose grace
Z and style we can but hope to emulate, whose wisdom...
Richard and other's job is to make sure we don't say dirty words! :-)
But seriously, I personally could care less if a moslem came in here
and called me an imperialist dog. It shows integrity to speak one's
mind!
-Jack
|
9.2025 | | APACHE::MYERS | He literally meant it figuratively | Thu Sep 05 1996 17:33 | 3 |
|
I am concerned that Jeff may be differentiating Catholicism as
something other than "christian" if the second example is his meaning.
|
9.2026 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I Need To Get Out More! | Thu Sep 05 1996 17:42 | 10 |
| Eric:
Patricia thinks I'm an idol worshiper. In other words...even if Jeff
does think this...oh well...
Michele worked for Campus Crusade for Christ as a staff member ten
years and Jeff had no problem expressing his opinion on parachurches to
her. Hey, everybody has an opinion!
-Jack
|
9.2027 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Thu Sep 05 1996 18:38 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 9.2026 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I Need To Get Out More!" >>>
| Patricia thinks I'm an idol worshiper.
Yeah, you worship yourself!
|
9.2028 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I Need To Get Out More! | Thu Sep 05 1996 19:01 | 4 |
| Yes, I have a big picture of David Schwimer on my dresser and bow down
to it every night!! :-) Or I'm a secular humanist...pick yer poison!
-Jack
|
9.2029 | Chapter, verse, quote | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mirthful Mystic | Mon Jan 20 1997 19:01 | 5 |
9.2029 | Chapter, verse, and what it says | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mirthful Mystic | Tue Jan 21 1997 00:43 | 5 |
9.2030 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Ebonics Is Not Apply | Tue Jan 21 1997 11:13 | 2 |
9.2031 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mirthful Mystic | Tue Jan 21 1997 15:08 | 6 |
9.2032 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Ebonics Is Not Apply | Tue Jan 21 1997 16:26 | 4 |
9.2033 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mirthful Mystic | Tue Jan 21 1997 17:49 | 8 |
9.2034 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Ebonics Is Not Apply | Wed Jan 22 1997 09:26 | 7 |
9.2035 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mirthful Mystic | Wed Jan 22 1997 11:58 | 10 |
9.2036 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | R.I.O.T. | Wed Jan 22 1997 12:06 | 12 |
9.2037 | source document cited too? | SALEM::RUSSO | | Wed Jan 22 1997 12:06 | 4 |
9.2038 | | SUBSYS::LOPEZ | He showed me a River! | Wed Jan 22 1997 12:23 | 8 |
9.2039 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | R.I.O.T. | Wed Jan 22 1997 13:22 | 1 |
9.2040 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Wed Jan 22 1997 13:29 | 4 |
9.2041 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Ebonics Is Not Apply | Wed Jan 22 1997 14:12 | 8 |
9.2042 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Mirthful Mystic | Wed Jan 22 1997 17:31 | 9 |
9.2043 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | Maranatha! | Thu Apr 03 1997 20:12 | 1 |
| What would Ghandi do if he were a moderator?
|
9.2044 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Thu Apr 03 1997 20:41 | 21 |
| .2043
Is it that I'm a moderator that's got you upset, Mike?
Everytime I have done something as a moderator I have made it clear
that I doing it as a moderator. Most of the time I don't wear that
hat.
I believe there should not be separate standards, one for moderators,
one for participants. I realize many would agree with me cerebrally,
but would draw decisive lines between the two in practice.
I am prepared to relinquish my moderator hat altogether. That would
not change much, however.
Would it be satifying to you?
Richard
PS Gandhi spelled his name this way: Gandhi ;-)
|
9.2045 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | Maranatha! | Thu Apr 03 1997 20:48 | 3 |
| | Is it that I'm a moderator that's got you upset, Mike?
not even close.
|
9.2046 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Thu Apr 03 1997 21:45 | 10 |
| Note 9.2045
> | Is it that I'm a moderator that's got you upset, Mike?
> not even close.
What would be closer?
Richard
|
9.2047 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Fri Apr 04 1997 11:02 | 16 |
| What if Richard had done this:
RE: 1339.22
> |And it's amazing what they get into when they do.
>
> yes, this conference is a perfect example.
Would it have been such a "damnable" offence?
Tom
|
9.2048 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Apr 04 1997 12:16 | 1 |
| So....how bout them Red Sox!!!
|
9.2049 | DUH | PHXSS1::HEISER | Maranatha! | Fri Apr 04 1997 12:52 | 2 |
| No wonder we can't discuss doctrine! I spelled out the offense for you
clearly, several times, and you still want to know what's wrong!
|
9.2050 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Fri Apr 04 1997 13:49 | 11 |
| Mike,
when a person is asked why they are upset about something and the
person will only cite dogma, I tend to smell a large furry rodent with
a naked tail.
If this had been something that showed you or your metaphysical beliefs
in a good light, would you have been so quick to jump Richard about
this?
meg
|
9.2051 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Fri Apr 04 1997 14:16 | 11 |
| .2049
> No wonder we can't discuss doctrine! I spelled out the offense for you
> clearly, several times, and you still want to know what's wrong!
The letter is clearer than the spirit. At least it's in black and white.
Not everyone, not even every Christian, comprehends or knows the spirit
(even though they'll tell you otherwise).
What would Jesus have done if he were as participant?
|
9.2052 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Fri Apr 04 1997 16:54 | 7 |
|
What does "repost" mean in commandment, "thou shall not repost..."?
And in the strictest sense, wouldn't it mean *any* copy-paste action
taken by a non-author?
Eric
|
9.2053 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Fri Apr 04 1997 17:02 | 4 |
| What would Jesus do if he were a participant?
Richard
|
9.2054 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Fri Apr 04 1997 17:21 | 8 |
| > What would Jesus do if he were a participant?
Blast some. Comfort others and pray for the lot of us.
We'd be really hard pressed to agree who He's blast and
who He'd comfort. :-)
Tom
|
9.2055 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Fri Apr 04 1997 17:29 | 2 |
|
DELETE ENTRY C-P
|
9.2056 | too true | JAMIN::TBAKER | DOS With Honor | Fri Apr 04 1997 17:46 | 5 |
| RE: .2055
> DELETE ENTRY C-P
I'm afraid you're probably right...
|
9.2057 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Apr 04 1997 18:00 | 3 |
| Eric:
You leave and I'll get you back!!! :-)
|
9.2058 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Fri Apr 04 1997 19:03 | 13 |
| The reader must decide which participants are bearers of good fruit and
which are not. It's not decided for the reader in advance like it might
be elsewhere or like some might prefer.
One need not be doctrinally correct to be able to tell good fruit from the
not so good.
Jesus failed to fit the filters of the faithful of his time, also. In fact,
it raised their ire to hear Jesus point to people outside the faithful as
favored by God.
Richard
|
9.2059 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Fri Apr 04 1997 19:11 | 12 |
| > RE: .2055
> > DELETE ENTRY C-P
I don't think Jesus would pull the plug on us.
He would probably allow us to make accusations against him, spit on him,
demean and ostracize him, place a crown of thorns on his head, and crucify
him....again.
Richard
|
9.2060 | rules | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Mon Apr 07 1997 16:04 | 16 |
| So, do we want to run this conference by the book or don't we?
In the web page on Digital policy that Mike so kindly pointed
out it includes the following line of things not acceptable
over Digital's network:
>Promoting discrimination, disrespect for an individual, or
>making personal attacks
By saying someone doesn't belong here due to their beliefs,
someone is violating this rule.
It doesn't matter if the victum does or doesn't mind. It still
isn't allowed.
Tom
|
9.2061 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Mon Apr 07 1997 16:10 | 8 |
| What gets me is that the ones most likely to do this think they're
somehow helping or enlightening us by culling the sheep from the
goats.
The way I see it, there's room for both and more.
Richard
|
9.2062 | | APACHE::MYERS | | Mon Apr 07 1997 16:21 | 22 |
|
Re 1341.95
Jeff,
You have been misled and I pray for those how have done so. Roman
Catholics do not believe that "one's redemption is directly tied to
one's participation in the seven sacraments of the RC church." We
believe that it is only through faith and by the grace of God that any
one is saved. This has been mentioned numerous times before, and it
troubles me that you persist in spreading this venom.
There are many things with which one may take exception to in the
Catholic church. We Catholics do it all the time. But to resort to
centuries old misinformation and bigotry merely casts that detractor
not as a reformer, but in the light of a mad-man shaking his fist and
demanding that up is down and down is up.
Peace be with you,
Eric
|
9.2063 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | Maranatha! | Mon Apr 07 1997 16:54 | 9 |
| | In the web page on Digital policy that Mike so kindly pointed
| out it includes the following line of things not acceptable
| over Digital's network:
|
|>Promoting discrimination, disrespect for an individual, or
|>making personal attacks
...but Tom, you still had a good ole time at my expense last week,
making light of the situation in several replies.
|
9.2064 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | Maranatha! | Mon Apr 07 1997 16:56 | 12 |
| | You have been misled and I pray for those how have done so. Roman
| Catholics do not believe that "one's redemption is directly tied to
| one's participation in the seven sacraments of the RC church." We
| believe that it is only through faith and by the grace of God that any
| one is saved. This has been mentioned numerous times before, and it
| troubles me that you persist in spreading this venom.
Eric, didn't Vatican I & II condemn anyone that believes in salvation by
grace through faith in God *alone*? If true, this pretty much excludes
all Protestants/Evangelicals from salvation in the RCC view.
Mike
|
9.2065 | | LGP30::FLEISCHER | without vision the people perish (DTN 381-0426 ZKO1-1) | Mon Apr 07 1997 17:28 | 4 |
| Please take any discussion of "what Catholics believe" to a
more appropriate note.
Bob (as mod)
|
9.2066 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Apr 07 1997 18:13 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 9.2063 by PHXSS1::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>
| ...but Tom, you still had a good ole time at my expense last week,
| making light of the situation in several replies.
Are you the pot, or the kettle, Mike. Oh wait, when you do it the
tables are turned as you are doing it, "in God's love".
|
9.2067 | | PHXSS1::HEISER | Maranatha! | Wed Apr 09 1997 13:01 | 2 |
| SET NOTE /NOTE_ID=
works much better for notes moved by a moderator.
|
9.2068 | | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Wed Apr 09 1997 13:32 | 7 |
| Thanks!
I don't know if my DOS based notes reader can do that.
I'll try it if I get another chance.
Tom
|
9.2069 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Wed Apr 16 1997 22:44 | 9 |
| 531.158
> Jack does need to work on his delivery when addressing those of
> different ideologies, though. 8^)
Are you listening, Jack?
Richard
|
9.2070 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Thu Apr 17 1997 11:06 | 13 |
| Why would I do that?!
Haven't you all figured out the intent by now? I may be one of the
more disliked individuals in the notes conferences...but one little
condescending inuendo in a discussion spawns a series of at least 50
replies at times. Hundreds in many cases over in the other file.
Good omlettes require the breaking of eggs and the making of a pearl
requires irritation. But in the interest of understanding others
better, dialog must take place. Therefore, it has been a pleasure to
become the sacrificial lamb and dress up in the clown outfit.
-Jack
|
9.2071 | gored or not.... | THOLIN::TBAKER | Flawed To Perfection | Thu Apr 17 1997 11:25 | 1 |
| Sometimes it's more like a bull in a china shop.
|
9.2072 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Thu Apr 17 1997 13:16 | 1 |
| Yeah but that's for effect Tom.
|
9.2073 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Thu Apr 17 1997 13:47 | 5 |
|
Jack, you once told me before sometimes you note to make others respond
by flying off the handle. I will have to admit you are quite good at it. But
maybe a little bit too convincing.
|
9.2074 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Thu Apr 17 1997 15:18 | 1 |
| Personally, I've always enjoyed Jack's "take no prisoners" approach.
|
9.2075 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Thu Apr 17 1997 19:22 | 13 |
| There were times when I went home thinking I would be barred from
noting again...perhaps even fired! But my instincts proved me
correct...that being anyone who notes is in there for a reason...and
has the fortitude and integrity to transcend perceived insults..which
weren't really meant as insults but was pretty sure it wouldn't be
received too well.
It's risk...because you can either come out of it having made valid
points or with mud in your face...to which both happened frequently!
I still feel it was worth it because I got to know people alot more
intimately!
-Jack
|
9.2076 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Thu Apr 17 1997 21:49 | 8 |
| Jack,
I've been called a fire-starter, myself. But I like to think that
with time I've learned to stimulate rather than to stab at, and to provoke
rather than to, well, piss off.
Richard
|
9.2077 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Apr 18 1997 10:13 | 6 |
| Well, don't worry Richard...you still piss people off!! :-)
Seriously though, I wouldn't say I've been that abrasive in the last
half a year!
-Jack
|
9.2078 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Fri Apr 18 1997 11:13 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 9.2075 by ASGMKA::MARTIN "Concerto in 66 Movements" >>>
| It's risk...because you can either come out of it having made valid
| points or with mud in your face...to which both happened frequently!
When did you ever make a valid point? :-)
|
9.2079 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Fri Apr 18 1997 11:14 | 3 |
|
Richard... you were upset about me using butt? :-)
|
9.2080 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Apr 18 1997 11:23 | 2 |
| You're jealous Glen, because I've made more valid points than you
have!! :+)
|
9.2081 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Fri Apr 18 1997 12:04 | 14 |
| .2079
> Richard... you were upset about me using butt? :-)
It ain't what ya say, it's the way that you say it.
"Baby's butt, rifle butt, cigarette butt, Beavis & Butthead..."
"You're talking out your butt..."
Hear the difference?
Richard
|
9.2082 | | CSC32::J_CHRISTIE | Spigot of pithiness | Fri Apr 18 1997 13:15 | 10 |
| .2079
Incidentally, Glen, I was speaking to you at the time as a fellow
participant and not as a moderator.
It's mostly that I know you are capable of better that I bring
such things to your attention.
Richard
|
9.2083 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Fri Apr 18 1997 14:16 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 9.2081 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Spigot of pithiness" >>>
| Hear the difference?
except I was comparing it to you pissing people off. The wording you
used was wording that I never expected from ya.
|
9.2084 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Apr 18 1997 14:39 | 4 |
| Yeah but Glen, you could care less anyway so forget about the
titfortat!
-Jack
|