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Title:Psychic Phenomena
Notice:Please read note 1.0-1.* before writing
Moderator:JARETH::PAINTER
Created:Wed Jan 22 1986
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:2143
Total number of notes:41773

1368.0. "On the Illusion of Fun and Suffering" by REGENT::WAGNER (HOW CAN I HELP) Sun Sep 30 1990 01:31

There seems to be some confusion about the meaning and use of fun and 
suffering on one's path to enlightenment.  

For me, Desiring fun can be like visiting a three ring circus, getting 
caught up in the side show and thus missing the main event.  Sure, there can 
be moments of fun on your path of enlightenment  but getting caught up in 
seeking the fun can deter you from  a deeper inner joy of the 
main event; Illumination, Samadhi, Nirvana, Cosmic Consciousness and beyond.

Ram Dass , in Grist for the Mill writes:

	Our suffering awakens us more than pleasure.  If we seek out suffering 
then we are called masochists.  So we don't seek it out because that wouldn't 
be honest on the psychological level.  But when it comes along, we work with 
it.  When we don't get lost in our meladrama we stop creating more karmas for 
ourselves.

From The Myth Of Freedom, by Rinpoche Choygam:

	The Spiritual path is not fun-better not begin it.  If you must begin, 
then go all the way. Because if you begin then quit, the unfinished business 
you left behind begins to haunt you all the time.  ...So stepping on the path 
involves you in continual growth, which may be tremendously painful since you 
sometimes try to step of the path.  You do not really want to get on it fully; 
it is too close to the heart.  Your experiences become too penetrating, 
naked, too obvious.  Then you try to escape, but your avoidance creates pain 
which in turn inspires you to continue on the path.  So your setbacks and 
suffering are part of the creative process of the path....  Your suffering is 
Truth, it is intelligent.... Confusion and pain are viewed as sources of 
inspiration, a rich resource....  You are willing to have an operation without 
anesthetics.  Constantly unfolding, unmasking, opening on and on and on.  You 
are willing to be a lonely person, a desolate person, are willing to give up 
the company of your shadow, your twenty-four-hour-a-day commentator who 
follows you constantly, the watcher.


	I see the Buddhist concept of suffering, not as self pity, nor self 
deprication.  Facing what is painful in yourself is an act of tremendous 
courage. Discovering that which prevents you from enlightenment takes the act 
of a warrior.  This inner warrior continues on inspite of the hurt.  Seeking 
fun to avoid the pain of self discovery can be seen as stepping off your path 
    as the Rinpoche described it.


Ernie
       

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1368.1NSDC::SCHILLINGTue Oct 02 1990 06:135
Ernie, I find the notes that you enter very helpful and inspiring.
Thank you!

Paul
1368.2It's true, it's true...SOLANA::WALSHTue Oct 02 1990 20:2512
RE: .0

Oh so true...at least for me.  I know many who would argue and say we
should avoid conflict and pain if at all possible...I feel very sad for
them because it is only after the thunder storm that we are able
to see the rainbow and it's many bright colors.

Thank you for entering the base note...it was wonderful.

Peace,

susan
1368.3CSC32::M_VALENZANote with fluoxetine hydrochloride.Thu Oct 04 1990 11:506
    I've been reading Matthew Fox's book _Original_Blessing_, and he speaks
    of this in his section on the Via Negativa.  He believes that we should
    embrace suffering rather than run away from it--not for masochistic
    reasons, but rather so that we can then deal with it and overcome it.
    
    -- Mike
1368.4On suffering...UTRTSC::MACKRILLBrian @UtrechtThu Oct 04 1990 12:527
    
    " In the intense heat of the furnace, the gold is purified..."
    
    "The tree that only knows fair weather, may be lost in a raging
    storm "
    
    -Brian
1368.5On Non-suffering..DNEAST::PUSHARD_MIKEThu Oct 04 1990 14:3713
    
    
    "He,who fails to move out of the way of a moving vehicle,is likely to
    be run over"
    
    
   "The tree that will know only fair weather,need not fear the raging
    storm"
    
    
    Peace
    Michael
    
1368.6On reality, balanced somewhere inbetweenDICKNS::STANLEYWhat a long strange trip its been...Thu Oct 04 1990 14:498
    
    "He, who lives in the woods, never learns to move out of the way of a 
    moving vehicle"
    
    
   "The tree that will know only fair weather, probably lives in a
    restaurant"
    
1368.7And then there's the nonsense alternative. :-)CSC32::M_VALENZANote with fluoxetine hydrochloride.Thu Oct 04 1990 14:586
    "He who lives in the woods, probably lives in a restaurant."
    
    "The tree that will know only fair weather, never learns to move out of
    the way of a moving vehicle."
    
    -- Mike
1368.8Oh, yeah?MISERY::WARD_FRGoing HOME--as an AdventurerThu Oct 04 1990 15:186
    "The tree that lives in restaurants never need fear moving vehicles."
    
    "He who lives in restaurants, probably doesn't care about the weather."
    
    Frederick
    
1368.9:-)DICKNS::STANLEYWhat a long strange trip its been...Thu Oct 04 1990 15:466
    "The restaurant that lives in the woods, need never fear weather
    vehicles"
    
    "He who drives a restaurant, probably doesn't care about the woods"
    
    Mary
1368.10AND NOW,BACK TO OUR PROGRAM. :^)DNEAST::PUSHARD_MIKEThu Oct 04 1990 16:043
    
    
    
1368.11BTOVT::BEST_Gyou are living in eternal mindThu Oct 04 1990 16:412
    
    And I thought *I* was twisted....;-)
1368.12Am I off base? (Who's on second...) ELMAGO::AWILLETOTAHNEZAHNII DINEHThu Oct 04 1990 22:1831
        The progress of this  topic is an illustration of the illusion of
        fun-and-suffering.  Suffering is a serious matter, and it doesn't
        present itself as a reward in  itself  but  rather  more  as  the
        outcome of something unfortunate.  Fun can be a  serious  matter,
        and it's applications to any situation requires a bit of reserve.
        
        To suffer is really a way to measure  your  resilience.  Although
        conflict  may  come at inconvenient times of our lives  (and  the
        greater the conflict the greater the suffering);  if when we have
        the  fortitude  to  face it and use it to our advantage  then  we
        truly  are  greater  than the power of the adversity we had faced
        earlier.  If  earlier  we  faced  the conflict with *dread*, then
        *dread* no longer empowers us, and so on.
        
        To enjoy fun is  another  measure  of  your  resilience.  And the
        adages and re-worded adages showed  in  a  very simple way how we
        can use fun to deal with  even  the  most  serious  situations in
        life.  This is not disrespect but rather just another plane which
        we find a challenge and (again, if we have the fortitude) welcome
        it with a smile.
        
        Both  fun  and  suffering    are   meters  that  help  gauge  our
        survivability.  The better we  use  these  meters then the better
        our lives become -- that is, we are less confronted with the need
        to survive and become aware of the need to thrive.
        
        When  we come closer to accomplishing our potential we  make  the
        illusion reality.

        Tone
1368.13Embrace Suffering=IronMan Tri.EXIT26::SAARINENFri Oct 05 1990 14:5025
    This weekend is the IronMan Triathlon. What these men and women do for
    fun and suffering is, if you don't know, swim 2.2miles in the ocean,
    than run to their bicycles and ride them for 112miles and than right
    away run 26.2 miles. Last years winner was Mark Allen, and from what
    I've read from his book and in magazines, is that he uses the vehicle
    of triathlon as a way of self realization and discovery. I guess one
    gets to really know ones inner way of working thru physical and 
    emotional suffering by this method. The victories and defeats in racing
    these kinds of races test your metal so to speak.
    
    So Allens "spiritual path" is one of fun, because you get the sense
    that he does enjoy what he does, despite the toll of suffering and
    emotional exhaustion one can be dealt with after a race like this. 
    
    If your ready for it, anything you do can be a way towards
    self-discovery and enlightenment. From sweeping the floor and hearing 
    the sound of the pebble "ping" as its swept across the floor, to 
    competing in races like Mark Allen does. If while performing your
    effort in action, awakens something within you....the traditional forms
    like yoga, meditation, and chanting....there also are the ways of
    sweeping the floor, surfing a wave or skateboarding a halfpipe, that
    can also awaken the sleeping giant of your mind.
    
    ConTempo Mystic
    -arthur
1368.14TRNPRC::BOWERSTue Oct 23 1990 12:3212
    re: .3
    
    Mike,
    
    Could you tell some more about _Original_Blessing_?  It's one I've
    never heard of, and it seems time for some new reading material.  Does
    the entire book deal with the subject of suffering, or just the one
    chapter you mentioned?  
    
    Many thanks,
    Nancy
    
1368.15CSC32::M_VALENZANoting with alms.Thu Oct 25 1990 12:5319
    Nancy,

    _Original_Blessing_ is a book about spirituality that discusses Mathew
    Fox's "Creation Spirituality" is detail.  It does not just deal with
    suffering.  The book has four sections:  the Via Positiva, the Via
    Negativa, the Via Creativa, and the Via Tranformativa.  The section on
    the Via Negativa is the one that primarily discusses embracing
    suffering and darkness in order to overcome it (although Fox touches on
    that subject in other sections as well).

    Fox is a Roman Catholic priest who has faced the wrath of the Vatican
    for his independent thinking.  Among his "crimes" are a belief in
    feminism, his acceptance of homosexuality, and his acceptance of the
    value of Native American and Wiccan spiritualities.  He is an
    interesting person, and his book "Original Blessing" presents an
    alternative spirituality to what he calls the "Fall/Redemption"
    spiritualities of much of orthodox Christianity.

    -- Mike
1368.16Speaking first-hand...ATSE::FLAHERTYStrength lies in the quiet mindThu Oct 25 1990 13:4610
    Having just spent last weekend with Matthew Fox  ;') (he presented a
    Friday night lecture and Saturday day-long workshop in Watertown, MA),
    I highly recommend reading his books or if the opportunity presents 
    itself, to see him in person.  What I admired most about Matthew Fox
    is that he doesn't just 'talk' about Creation Sprituality, he 'lives'
    it and enables those who meet him to 'experience' it as well (through
    art, dance, and music).
    
    Ro
    
1368.17Another first-hand speakerCARTUN::BERGGRENHaven't enuf pagans been burned?Thu Oct 25 1990 15:1924
    Re Matthew Fox and Original Blessing
    
    I pretty much rejected Christianity during my adolescent years only to
    return again (joyfully!) through the not-so-new theology of Creation 
    Spirituality.  In _Original Blessing_ and _The Coming of the Cosmic 
    Christ_ Matthew Fox acquaints you with the creation-centered Christians 
    of times gone by and the philosophy they all shared that creation is 
    blessed, including all humanity, and that Christianity was founded on 
    the notion that we are all born with "original blessing", not Augustine's 
    doctrine of original sin which many Christians have been force fed for
    centuries.
    
    I also have had the opportunity to spend time with Matthew Fox both
    during the summer and most recently this past weekend at the same event
    Ro mentioned (.16).  For anyone who wishes to expand upon their
    understanding of Christianity, I **highly recommend** Creation 
    Spirituality and Matthew Fox's books.
    
    If anyone is interested in reading a couple of excerpts of an 
    interview with Matthew Fox feel free to contact me off-line.  You may
    also want to consider looking at note 12 "Creation Spirituality", in
    notesfile conference LGP30::CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE. 
    
    Karen  
1368.18(0)(0)ROYALT::NIKOLOFFSome things must be believed to beThu Oct 25 1990 15:309
>>    also want to consider looking at note 12 "Creation Spirituality", in
>>    notesfile conference LGP30::CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE. 
    
	Thank you Karen.   

	I will take a look see.

	8^)
	Mikki
1368.19Matthew Fox booksCGVAX2::PAINTERAnd on Earth, peace...Fri Oct 26 1990 10:595
    
    His books are readily available at the Toadstool Bookstore in Milford,
    NH.
    
    Cindy
1368.20HITPS::BOWERSMon Oct 29 1990 12:079
    re:  last few
    
    Thanks everyone for putting in more information.  Matthew Fox sounds 
    like a *very* interesting man.  I also "gave up" on Catholicism - about
    sixteen or more years ago.  I feel like there's a bit of a void where 
    there needs to be some beliefs....maybe what I need are some new ideas.
    
    Nancy
    
1368.21Half pointerCGVAX2::PAINTERAnd on Earth, peace...Mon Oct 29 1990 13:068
    Re.20
    
    Hi Nancy,
    
    You might be interested in the new CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVES notes
    conference.  Sorry, don't have the node handy...anyone know it?
    
    Cindy
1368.22Accessing Christian-PerspectiveCARTUN::BERGGRENGo now and do heart work...Mon Oct 29 1990 15:049
    For those interested in more information on Creation Spirituality and
    Matthew Fox, and/or the relatively new notesfile Christian-Perspective,
    read note 1368.17 and hit KP7 to add it to your notebook.  Creation
    Spirituality is note #12.
    
    And as one of the co-moderators of Christian-Perspective, I offer a 
    very warm welcome to you!
    
    Karen
1368.23Any plans for the weekend? Be an Artist!GLDOA::PAGELPeekin' under the rocks ... Fri Dec 07 1990 11:3221
Came across this this morning ... think I'll go make some signs 8-}
    
    
    
     			How to Be an Artist

Stay loose.  Learn to watch snails. Plant impossible gardens.  Invite 
someone dangerous to tea.  Make little signs that say YES! and post 
them all over your house.  Make friends with freedom & uncertainty.  
Look forward to dreams.  Cry during movies.  Swing as high as you can 
on a swingset, by moonlight.  Cultivate moods.  Refuse to "be 
all grown up."  Do it for love.  Take lots of naps.  Give money away.  
Do it now.  The money will follow.  Believe in magic.  Laugh a lot.  
Celebrate every gorgeous moment.  Take moonbaths.  Have wild 
imaginings, transformative dreams, and perfect calm.  Draw on the 
walls.  Read everyday. Be magic.  Giggle with children.  Listen to 
old people.  Open up. Dive in.  Be free.  Bless yourself.  Drive 
away fear.  Play with everything.  Entertain your inner child.  
You are innocent.  Build a fort with blankets.  Get wet.  
Hug trees.  Write love letters.  
          
1368.24HKFINN::STANLEYWhat a long strange trip it's been...Fri Dec 07 1990 11:453
    Gee... sounds good to me. :-)
    
    Mary
1368.25I want to be an artist - I do I do!CARTUN::BERGGRENThere is a shared center...Fri Dec 07 1990 11:579
    That's great Cindy, lots of creative suggestions in there...  Some I've
    done already, some I'm inspired to do in the future...
    
    Speaking of which, I've never had tea with a dangerous person before,
    but I have had coffee with a few... Yes!  Who know who you are! :-)
    (Carole, Frederick, Terry, Nanci, Mary, Dave...)  Now is there anyone 
    dangerous out there I can have tea with sometime?
    
    Kb.:-)
1368.26Tea for two...BSS::VANFLEETChased by my Higher Self!Fri Dec 07 1990 14:166
    Actually we have had tea together, Kb, but it was iced tea.  Does that
    count?
    
    :-)
    
    Nanci
1368.27A bag's the *real* thing :-)CARTUN::BERGGRENThere is a shared center...Fri Dec 07 1990 14:389
    Hi Nance,
    
    Does iced tea count (Liptons)?
    
    Naw... I feel I've gotta do a 'bag' with someone.
    
    Next time you're out here okay? :-) :-)
    
    Kb
1368.28WILLEE::FRETTSPlays with Elephants!Fri Dec 07 1990 15:565
    
    
    Thanks Cindy!  That was great!
    
    Carole
1368.29...think I'll remember this one!RAVEN1::PINIONHard Drinking Calypso PoetMon Dec 10 1990 00:145
    re: last few...
    
         I did all that this past weekend....What now? ;-) ;-) ;-)
    
                                                        Capt.Scott
1368.30Care for tea, oh Dangerous One??? :-)BSS::VANFLEETlove needs no excuseMon Dec 10 1990 11:483
    You're on, Kb!  :-)
    
    Nanci
1368.31Vive l'artiste!CARTUN::BERGGRENThere is a shared center...Mon Dec 10 1990 18:3617
    Captain .29,
    
    > What now?
    
    Congrats man, you're an artiste!
    
    Nanci,
    
    Okay - let's get dangerous next time you're out here.
    
    Kb
    
    p.s.  Funny thing happened this past Friday night after posting that
    	note (.2?) I attended a workshop with 2 definitely dangerous people, 
    	(Carole and Ro) had a pizza afterwards and they ordered tea!  Now 
    	that's a dangerous combination if you ask me... pizza & tea.  I
    	abstained...from the tea. :-)
1368.32RAVEN1::PINIONHard Drinking Calypso PoetTue Dec 11 1990 00:196
    re: -1
    
        Strange....I have the sudden urge to create!!  I always knew i had
    it in me! oh yeah, hi KB!
    
                                                               Capt. Scott
1368.33CARTUN::BERGGRENThere is a shared center...Tue Dec 11 1990 09:299
    Hi Captain!
    
    It's nice to see you again.  A sudden urge to create?  I bet I have an
    idea:  Biosphere III located somewhere in the Carribean...? :-) 
    Under the water perhaps?
    
    Keep in touch creative friend :-)
    
    Kb
1368.34CSCOAC::CONNER_CTue Dec 11 1990 12:2710
    
    
    	You said you came across this this morning: were you wandering in
    your mind, down a little used pathway and discover it there?
    
    	Or did you read it somewhere?  If so, do you remember where?
    
    Craig
    
    
1368.35GLDOA::PAGELPeekin' under the rocks ... Tue Dec 11 1990 21:335
    Yes, I read it somewher ... on a scrap of paper underneath many others.
    Where it originated, heaven knows  8-) ...
    
    C.
    
1368.36MidsummerGLDOA::PAGELIn a New York minute ...Tue Jun 04 1991 15:5813
    Published in our local "phenomeNEWS" for June ...
    
    Historically, at Midsummer, Nature Spirits become more visible and
    magic is at its most potent.  It is a Midsummer tradition to clean the
    home and decorate it with flowers and boughs, to bathe at Sunrise in a
    lake or river, to prepare water with flower blossoms for morning
    washing, to leap over an open fire to clean the aura, to burn sage and
    cedar for purification, to light candles for meditation.  Midsummer is
    a good time to weed gardens because sap has risen to its highest level;
    little life force remains in in roots.  Similarily, little vitality
    remains in the roots of the psyche; an excellent time to weed yourself
    of unhealthy habits and partners.
    
1368.37WILLEE::FRETTSThru our bodies we heal the EarthTue Jun 04 1991 16:035
    
    Oh, I like that Cindy!  Is Midsummer meant literally....halfway 
    between the summer solstice and the autumn equinox?
    
    Carole
1368.38perhapsATSE::FLAHERTYA K'in(dred) SpiritTue Jun 04 1991 16:5920
    Hmmm, Carole if it the same as Teltane, then it is.  From the
    Essene Book of Days:
    
    Teltane, halfway between Summer Solstice and Autuman Equinox,
    derives its name from the Celtic fire festival and is celebrated
    on July 31 or August 1.  Traditionally a time for games similar
    to the Olympics, it was considered the first day of autumn.  The
    purpose of the fire (Ro: the word fire comes up again!) festival was to
    marry the sun to the earth, thus rejuvenating the sun until the harvest
    was complete.  On Teltane, or Lammas, the first grain harvest was 
    also celebrated, as grain was the sacred symbol of death and
    resurrection.  In this way, Teltane also marks the time when the
    Celtic God of Light, Lugh, buried his foster mother Tailltiu
    beneath a great mound of earth, signifying the withdrawal of the
    Mother Goddess as she prepares for the falling seeds of autumn.
    Blackberries are the traditional fruit to be gathered at this time,
    and baked and eaten in pies.
    
    Ro
    
1368.40Midsummer's Day *IS* the solsticeWBC::BAKERJoy and fierceness...Wed Jun 05 1991 11:2628
>some people who actually call the solstice itself Midsummer's Day, which
>is odd considering that we think of it as the first day of summer.

	The summer solstice is, indeed, Midsummer's Day.  The (modern)
	custom of referring to the solstice as the "first day of summer"
	is a mistake.  The summer solstice, the point when the sun reaches
	its highest elevation and then begins its descent into darkness,
	very clearly fits the symbolism of the Midsummer pagan festival.

	Likewise, the winter solstice is in fact Midwinter's day, and not
	(as it is currently called) "the first day of winter" -- the darkness
	has reached its maximum, and the light begins to return.

	My own suspicion is that this kind of confusion results from the
	way modern folk have gotten out of touch with the movement of the
	sun during the year.  No one who really experiences the solar year
	could make that kind of error.

	By the way, the half-way holidays (between a solstice and an
	equinox) appear to be derived from a separate calendar than the
	planting/harvesting holidays.  That is to say, the solstice/equinox
	holidays are clearly related to planting/harvesting, while the other
	four seem to be derived from the breeding cycles of various domesticated
	animals (cows, hogs, etc).  At some point, they were probably lumped
	together to form the eight-fold pagan calendar.

	~art
1368.41GLDOA::PAGELIn a New York minute ...Wed Jun 05 1991 16:216
    Re.  .37
    
    What .40 said.
    
    :-)