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Conference hydra::dejavu

Title:Psychic Phenomena
Notice:Please read note 1.0-1.* before writing
Moderator:JARETH::PAINTER
Created:Wed Jan 22 1986
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:2143
Total number of notes:41773

549.0. "you answer this ?????????" by CEODEV::FAULKNER (You already read this !) Tue Nov 03 1987 12:46

    Hi All,
    		
    	I am new to this file (but since many of you know me 
    definetly not new to noting) and I would like an explanation of
    this particular type of dream experience.
    
    	I have a 14 year old daughter. Lisa Marie Faulkner.
    
    	Nothing unusual in her name (with the possible exception being
    neither my ex or I having any Italian ancestory) that is notable
    but for this detail......
    
    	My ex was about 8 months pregnant when one morning she came
    to me and said "Kerry, I had a dream last night .... we are going
    to have a daughter... her name will be Lisa Marie...."
    	
    	I being a total wimp skeptic or paranormal events said "go with
    the flow and our daughter was born three days later......in room
    801 of St. Vincents hosp in Bpt,CT......7/30/83
    
    	Four years after her birth we sponsered an Easter egg hunt for
    Lisa's nursery school group and a woman was there with her daughter
    named Lisa Marie.....
    
    	Her name was Smith-Rodgers
    	She told us the strangest story of how neither she nor her husband
    were of Italian descent but three days before her Lisa was born
    she had a dream .......
    
    	She delivered her daughter on 8/2/83 in room 801 St. Vincents
    etc..... the room my ex just vacated.........
    
    Now for the dramatic 
    My Lisa was born in the middle of a raging thunderstorm for the
    drama critics out there
    
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549.1Three possibilities.PBSVAX::COOPERTopher CooperTue Nov 03 1987 13:4847
    First off, so as to avoid confusion, there is an obvious typo
    in the previous.  It would seem that either Lisa Marie Falkner
    is *4* years old (rather than 14) or that both dates should have
    said /73 (rather than /83).  It doesn't matter much to the story.
    
    Anyway...
    
    I can think of three explanations for the apparent synchrony:
    
    	1) Outlandish coincidence.  The odds against any particular
    	   outlandish coincidence are, by definition, outlandish,
    	   but there are so many, many possible outlandish coincidences
           that it is *highly* likely that some outlandish coincidences
    	   will take place.
    
    	2) Subliminal suggestion.  Something in the shared environment,
    	   perhaps in an obstetrical examining room at the hospital
    	   for example, produced a subconscious suggestion as to the
    	   name of the child.  It could have been a magazine cover,
    	   with the name on it tucked away in a corner.  The common
    	   suggestion source might have more to do with being 9 months
    	   pregnant at the same time in the same town rather than the
    	   simple coincidence of using the same delivery room.  For
    	   example, something said on the radio when both mothers had
    	   it on but were not listening to it.
    
    	3) Psi.  You are welcome to believe this explanation or not.
    	   As I have said elsewhere in this conference, the existence
    	   of psi (but not its nature) has been repeatedly demonstrated
    	   under conditions which would clearly be sufficient to establish
    	   scientifically the existence of a less controversial notion.
    	   The informed debate is over whether special standards are
    	   applicable because of the "a priori" unlikelihood of the
    	   phenomena -- which is a subjective judgement.  Of particular
    	   relevance is the experiments by Kripner, et. al. at the
    	   Maimonides Sleep Research Laboratory, which demonstrated
    	   "dream telepathy" under conditions which would rule out
    	   subliminal suggestion and put a precise figure for the size
    	   of coincidence which would have been necessary for the given
    	   results.  The experiments demonstrated that one person could
    	   apparently influence the dream content of sleeping people
    	   without any conventional communication between them (alternately
    	   it could be described as demonstrating that people could
    	   choose to dream about a subject when they did not know by
    	   conventional means what that subject was).
    
    						Topher
549.2CEODEV::FAULKNERYou already read this !Tue Nov 03 1987 15:1611
    oops
    re.1
    yup i typo-ed 2 timses 
    both dates should have been /73
    and to make a disclaimer for the argument in .1
    neither women in question had ever met each other
    neither one used the same ob-gyn clinic
    neither one had ever toured the hospital they were in
    no subliminal messages were heard that I know of
    no particular celebrity with the name of Lisa was in the news -
    to my knowledge
549.3Welcome to DejavuAOXOA::STANLEYSteal your face right off your head...Tue Nov 03 1987 15:276
Hi Kerry,

It sounds like a pretty interesting "coincidence" in any case.  Has your
wife had any other dreams along this line?

		Dave
549.4CEODEV::FAULKNERYou already read this !Tue Nov 03 1987 15:515
    re.3 EX - WiFe dave *EX* :^)
    
    re.4 my ex, as I, hate Elvis pelvis.
    
    Can't talk for the other lady.
549.5Another StoryHPSCAD::DDOUCETTECommon Sense Rules!Tue Nov 03 1987 16:446
    
    When a friend met her roommate for college, she discovered that
    they met once before, their mothers shared a semi- private suite 
    when they where both born in the hospital.
    
    Anyone else know any stories like this?
549.6Lisa Marie PresleyGEMVAX::BUEHLERWed Nov 04 1987 12:548
    I presume you know of LISA MARIE PRESLEY?
    
    At any rate, I too, thought of naming my daughter (born in 1971)
    either Lisa Marie, or Michele Lee, or Elizabeth Ann, or , or...
    I settled for Laura Dawn.  In other words, there are certain
    names that seem to "go together" in stages; not sure of what
    the popular names today are but there seem to be more "Joshua's,
    Jasons, Amy's," etc.
549.7Not So Dramatic, But..ATFAB::VINDICITue Nov 10 1987 10:119
    This is not so dramatic, but the same name.  When I was 14 years
    old, I DECIDED I was going to have 3 children.  A boy first named
    Michael Scott and twin daughters, Lisa Marie and Lauren Michele.
    
    At 26, I married and at 30 had my son, Michael Scott.  My husband
    at the time had been married previously.  His wife miscarried twins,
    but soon after had a daughter whom they named Lisa Marie.
    
    H
549.8me tooVIDEO::MORRISSEYI had the time of my lifeMon Nov 30 1987 15:4414
    
    
    re: .5
    
    		Yes.  When I was a little girl in grade school I had
    	a best friend named Andrea.  We later found out that we were
        born on the same day, in the same hospital, and only minutes
    	apart.  Could be the reason we were so close.
    
    			Unfortunately we have lost touch.
    
    					Judy
    
    	
549.9Sounds familiarCLUE::PAINTERImagine all the people...Mon Nov 30 1987 16:248
    
    Back when I was in high school, I dated a fellow for a little while, 
    and it turned out that he was born the next day in the same hospital 
    I was born in (we were from different towns, 15 miles apart).  The 
    chances were good that we and our mothers were in the hospital at 
    the same time.
    
    Cindy