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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

5012.0. "2 different visitors close together" by BAHTAT::HILTON (How's it going royal ugly dudes?) Tue Oct 15 1991 08:00

    We have a unique situation which will develop at the beginning of the
    next year.
    
    We have 2 4 month old brothers, before we got them I committed to
    looking after my mums 7 year old cat for 3 months while she's off ona
    cruise.
    
    Now my wife's mum is off on hols for a month and we were wondering if
    we could look after her as well. 
    
    We are a bit concerned that 2 visitors will disrupt the kittens, and
    they may feel threatened. The potential diary is:
    
    1st cat comes from 15th DEC to 10th JAn
    2nd cat comes from 18th Jan to 4th April
    
    I've committed to the 2nd cat, but do people thing it would be ok to
    have the 1st as well!
    
    We don't like the idea of any of the cats having to go to the cattery
    for a long time!
    
    Any tips on how to introduce thewm would be much appreciated
    
    Thanks alot,
                                                                
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5012.1Give it a try, but find a backupGEMVAX::WITTINGTue Oct 15 1991 10:2710
    It's tough to know in advance how the four cats would get along. 
    Obviously, they're all individuals, with their own personalities.  But
    generally speaking, it's not the kittens you have to worry about--they
    tend to be much more flexible than adult cats.  Since the adult cats
    would not be on their own turf, it might work out just fine.  I think I
    would worry more about how the two adults would get along.  If
    necessary, could you separate everybody in different rooms?  Perhaps
    you should think about a "backup" home--a friend or relative who would
    be willing to take one of the adults in if things weren't working out. 
    Good luck!
5012.2GEMVAX::WITTINGTue Oct 15 1991 10:363
    oops--just re-read your note and saw that the adults WON'T be together,
    since they're coming in shifts.  I would say give it a try--it might be
    good to give the "kids" experience with other cats.
5012.3TENAYA::KOLLINGKaren/Sweetie/Holly/Little Bit Ca.Tue Oct 15 1991 15:033
    I'm a little confused about which of tehse beings are feline and which
    human....
    
5012.4KittiesBAHTAT::HILTONHow's it going royal ugly dudes?Wed Oct 16 1991 05:317
    I dont know if .3 is winding me up, but the 2 kids and the 2 potential
    visitors are all cats.
    
    :^)
    
    
    Greg
5012.5Vet's adviceBAHTAT::HILTONHow's it going royal ugly dudes?Thu Oct 17 1991 07:176
    Well my Mum asked the vet and he thought it was better if my mum's cat
    stayed home with a cat flap and a neighbour to feed her morning and
    night. He seems to think the cat would be happier in it's own
    surrounding although it will be for 3 months!
    
    Greg
5012.6My thoughts...PROSE::GOGOLINThu Oct 17 1991 10:2744
    Re: .5

    I don't agree with the vet's advice. Too many things could go wrong in 
    a 3 month period. What if the cat was injured/ got sick but only showed 
    symptoms of, say, being very quiet and maybe not eating? Would the neighbor
    notice? Do you know anyone who would be willing to visit the cat twice a 
    day for 3 months? I feed friends' cats when they go away occasionally 
    and doing it even once a day for a week can be a real pain (but they do 
    it for me, too). I also don't think a cattery is a good solution for 
    this length of time; the cat may feel it's been abandoned. The strange 
    surroundings and strange people would surely stress the cat(s) and 
    stress can cause illness.

    I don't think there would be any problem (that could not be overcome) 
    with housing your relatives' cats (sequentially). Even though your house 
    would be strange to them, they know you and your wife, and you would 
    presumably give them more attention than they would get in a cattery or 
    from a neighbor.

    It is nearly guaranteed all the felines would act a little hostile at 
    first, but that doesn't usually last. Kittens, especially, tend to get 
    over it very quickly because they are so curious and playful. 

    There are many notes on introductions in this file; check the keywords
    or directory. There seem to be two schools of thought about introducing 
    new animals. One is that you keep the new cat separated for a while (at 
    least a couple of days, but more if necessary) and introduce the cats 
    gradually. The other is that you just bring in the new cat, plop it down,
    and let them work out their differences. I believe in the former method; 
    it has always worked well for me. Also, I wouldn't like someone to use 
    the second method on me. But to each his own.

    You didn't mention if kittens and cats would be indoor-only or in and 
    out. If the latter, you run the risk of the visiting cats trying to 
    return to their homes. 

    Another thing to think about in caring for your relatives' cats is 
    communicable diseases. You probably should consider having all cats 
    examined by the vet and vaccinated (if they are not up to date) before 
    exposing them to one another. 

    Good luck with your decision.

    Linda and Misty, Cubby, Tweetie, Toby, Peanut, Sunny, Wrigley, & Jumper
5012.7WR2FOR::CORDESBRO_JOset home/cat_max=infinityThu Oct 17 1991 13:0513
    Linda brings up some good points, especially about letting the visiting
    cats go outside, and the risk of communicable diseases.  
    
    It is my opinion that the visiting cats would suffer less stress in a
    cattery situation where they aren't exposed to a lot of other cats that
    they don't know, than in your home with two sets of cats they don't
    know (yours, and the other visiting cats).  The cattery tenders would
    look after them well, and could get them veterinary care if needed.  If
    your mom sent them to the cattery with some of their toys and bedding,
    they would be right at home and she wouldn't have to worry about
    something happening to them while she's away.
    
    Jo
5012.8More opinions and some questionsPROSE::GOGOLINThu Oct 17 1991 17:0767
    Re: .7, Jo

    I really don't trust boarding facilities, due to bad experiences I've had 
    and heard about from others. I'm not trying to argue with you, but...

    >   It is my opinion that the visiting cats would suffer less stress in a
    >   cattery situation where they aren't exposed to a lot of other cats that

    Is this the case? I would think that a cattery would have a lot of cats 
    coming and going over a 3-month period. I don't board my cats so don't 
    know how catteries are set up. Unless the cats are kept in separate 
    rooms they could spread an upper respiratory infection, for example. Do 
    catteries have the space to separate the cats like this? How do they 
    handle it? 

    If the kittens and cats in the base note are indoor-outdoor I suppose
    exposure to other cats really isn't an issue, since they are exposed 
    to other cats anyway.

    >   they don't know, than in your home with two sets of cats they don't
    >   know (yours, and the other visiting cats).  

    I don't know if this makes a difference to you, but the visiting cats 
    are not going to be there at the same time. There is a time gap between 
    the end of one cat's visit and the start of the next, so that makes it 
    a little less complicated. 

    >						 The cattery tenders would
    >   look after them well, and could get them veterinary care if needed.  If

    Now this I question. You can't assume they will do this, and have to make 
    pretty durn sure that the cattery people really will do this, that they
    are knowledgeable about cats, and that they will do what's necessary if 
    and when it's necessary. 

    A friend's family once boarded their cat, who was a brother to one of 
    mine, for a week while they went to Bermuda. When they returned they 
    discovered their cat had died. The kennel owners told them the cat had 
    pined away and would not eat. A week is too short a time to make this 
    explanation believable. I don't think it's possible for a healthy cat 
    to starve to death in a week. Maybe the cat was sick without showing 
    symptoms before he went to the kennel. The kennel people should have 
    taken action instead of letting him sit there not eating. The point 
    here is there are good kennels and bad kennels and you need to find 
    out which is which beforehand. 

    >   your mom sent them to the cattery with some of their toys and bedding,
    >   they would be right at home and she wouldn't have to worry about
    >   something happening to them while she's away.

    I still think 3 months is too long to leave a cat in a strange place with
    strange people, unless there are no good alternatives. I don't think you
    can assume nothing will happen -- or that something WILL happen -- but
    it's wise to consider the possibility and make provisions in case it 
    does. (Actually, this applies no matter who takes care of your cat.) For 
    example, leaving explicit written instructions for potential problems 
    that may arise -- if the cat gets sick and needs vet care. What if it's 
    serious? How much do you want to spend? (That sounds awful, but 
    financial limitations are an ugly fact of life for most people.) 

    There is also the expense of boarding to consider.

    I guess what it boils down to is I don't trust strangers, and this,
    combined with some bad experiences, influences my feelings on boarding. 
    We each have to weigh all the factors and decide what is best for us.

    Linda
5012.9no doubt there are bad ones/check aroundWR2FOR::CORDESBRO_JOset home/cat_max=infinityThu Oct 17 1991 18:2546
    I do think that I prefaced my previous reply with "it is my opinion..."
    It isn't important to me whether others agree with my opinion or not, I
    thought I would share it with the base noter so that he could see that
    there are other sides to consider.  All of what follows is my opinion.
    
    In this situation, I am assuming that by cattery the base noter is
    refering to a licensed boarding kennel/cattery.  If that is the case,
    then the kennel/cattery would have separate boarding facilities for the
    visiting cats and they would not be exposed to any cats not from their
    own household.  This would greatly reduce the risk of exposure to
    communicable disease.
    
    In a boarding kennel/cattery, the cats would be confined to their own
    space (area, cage, whatever you wish to call it), and there would be no
    risk of them a)getting loose b)having any of the usual dangers
    associated with being outdoors during the owners absense c)being
    stressed by the presence of unfamiliar animals.
    
    I agree that there would be some separation stress from being away from
    the owner, but you wouldn't be compounding it by forcing them to live
    with a couple of cats they are unfamiliar with.  I suggested leaving
    bedding and toys to help reduce the separation anxiety.  These items
    would carry the scent of the missing owner, as well as the scent of the
    cats familiar household.
    
    Licensed boarding facilities usually have a vet that visits daily to
    check on the health/well being of the animals.  Any problems that arise
    are dealt with immediately.  Also, in licensed boarding facilities, the
    owners/operators are usually very versed in animal health care and
    can recognize signs of problems readily.  A person not well versed in 
    animal care might not be as capable of recognizing problems during their 
    early stages.
    
    As with any business, there are good ones and bad ones.  It is up to
    the owner involved to select a boarding facility that is well
    maintained and reputable.  
    
    If I were going to be gone for an extended period of time, I would
    choose a reputable boarding kennel/cattery for my cats rather than have
    them move in with friends/family.  I would want animal professionals
    caring my cats.
    
    This file wouldn't be of much use to people if we all held the same
    opinions.
    
    Jo
5012.10My thoughtsBAHTAT::HILTONHow's it going royal ugly dudes?Fri Oct 18 1991 05:5824
    Many thanks for the replies, now I'm really confused! I reckon my
    options are:
    
    a) Leave my Mums cat at home for 3 months with a friend feeding her. 
    Benefits=No strange environment, no upheavel
    Problems=Hard on the neighbour, could get sick and no-one would notice
    
    b) Put cat in cattery for 3 months
    Benefits=Safe, ie in a cage
    Problems=No 'loving care', little human contact. With people she
    doesn't know
    
    c) Take cat to ouir home.
    Benefits=with someone she knows
    Problems=Might get jealous of our cats, may try and go home
    
    If we had her at ours we would keep her in for 2/.3 weeks before
    letting her out.
    
    I'm inlcined to go for c 'cos at least she's under my control with
    people who will look after her.
    
    
    Greg
5012.11PROSE::GOGOLINFri Oct 18 1991 09:4849
    Jo, I'm sorry if I hit a sore point with you, or maybe it was the way 
    my reply was worded. It's hard to be objective about how one's writing 
    sounds sometimes, especially when you don't have much time to write in 
    the first place.

    Your information on licensed boarding facilities was very informative. 
    I wonder, though, how many people realize there is a difference in 
    kennels. Taking a quick look at our local phone book yellow pages, I 
    see that there are about 20 ads for places that do boarding. None of 
    them states that they are a licensed boarding facility; actually, there 
    may be no such thing in NH, where I am located. The state of Calif. may 
    have higher standards, and may have people who inspect facilities and 
    enforce regulations. I have not heard of any facilities around here 
    that operate the way you describe, but again, I don't board my cats 
    so just may not know they exist.

    I believe the base noter is in the UK, so things could be totally 
    different there as well. Since he did not state "licensed boarding 
    facility", I didn't assume he meant that, although I did assume it 
    would be multiple cats in separate cages in one room (or more). I only 
    wanted to point out that anyone considering boarding their cat(s) that 
    it *might not* be the great solution it appears.

    Probably trillions of cats are boarded every day all over the world in 
    all types of facilites with no problems. I agree that a cat boarded at a 
    good facility most likely won't come into *direct contact* with a strange 
    cat, unless there is human error involved. However, I'm skeptical that the 
    people caring for the cats will always wash their hands after touching one 
    cat and before touching another. If each cat is in a separate cage but the 
    cages are in the same room, it is my opinion that that is not totally safe,
    and the stress factor is there, too. 
    
    I can understand that you, as a breeder, would prefer to entrust your
    cats to professionals rather than rely on others in your absence, though. 


    I could say more about this but have run out of time (much to everyone's 
    relief, no doubt :-). As I stated in my previous reply, we each have to 
    weigh all the factors and decide what is best for us. I acknowledge that 
    Jo and I have different opinions about boarding cats and will let it rest. 


    Greg, I hope you don't feel like you're in the middle of a tug of war. :-)
    We do have strong opinions on some issues!

    At least you, your wife, and your mums have time to think it over. It pays
    to plan in advance. 

    Linda
5012.12this is spirited discussion, not argument :^)WR2FOR::CORDESBRO_JOset home/cat_max=infinityFri Oct 18 1991 13:0462
    You didn't hit a sore point with me.  After seeing your reply I felt
    that I may have not been clear enough in the first statement of my
    opinion.
    
    As with any other consumer industry, there are bound to be bad
    catteries and kennels.  It is up to the consumer to check out the place
    that they intend to board their animals with.
    
    I do not think it is fair to make blanket statements as to the amount
    and type of care given in boarding facilities.  I have used a couple of
    boarding facilitites and have had nothing but good experiences.  The
    best way to find a good boarding facility is to ask your vet for
    recommendations.  Many vet hospitals have boarding kennels on the
    premises.  
    
    >>However, I'm skeptical that the people caring for the cats will always 
    >>wash their hands after touching one cat and before touching another
    
    If the people at the facility are professionals, not only will they
    wash their hands, they will wash any equipment that gets used from one
    confinement area to the next.
    
    >>If each cat is in a separate cage but the cages are in the same room, 
    >>it is my opinion that that is not totally safe, and the stress factor 
    >>is there, too. 
    
    Most cattery boarding facilities have the type of cages that most vets
    do, the only open side is the front, the sides are solid so that the
    cats can't see the cat in the next pen, or stick their feet through and
    touch the cat in the next pen.  In the facilities that I have visited
    out here, the pens are arranged side by side down a long hall.  There
    is a solid stone wall that separates the two sides of the room, and it
    is about 4 feet high.  The cattery operators can see over the wall, but
    the cats can't see the other cats on the other side of the room.
    
    Just from the mention of the word cattery in the base note, I assumed
    that the noter *was* in the UK.  Over here, most of us refer to
    boarding facilities as kennels.  From what I understand, the UK has
    strict standards for licensed kennels and catteries.  But, the thing
    is, I was not trying to argue down your suggestion, just offering an
    opposing view.  The purpose of this note is not to debate the relative
    merits of boarding facilities, but to offer suggestions to a noter who
    asked for help.
    
    One of the best examples of the type of facility I am talking about was 
    when my mother went away and had to board her dog.  Prince is an older dog,
    and has suffered an injury that caused partial paralysis in his hind
    legs.  He walks with a stiff legged gait.  My mom dropped him off at a
    boarding facility at 10:00 P.M. (by special arrangement) the night
    before she left on her trip.  She listed my name to call in case of an
    emergency.  At 7:30 A.M. the next morning, I got a call from the
    Kennel's vet asking about my mom's dog's lameness!  He had come in for
    his rounds, and in the course of checking out Prince noticed his gait
    and checked him over.  Then called me to notify me of the problem.  I
    explained that we knew that the dog had this problem, but that I was
    glad that he had called since it showed me that they were paying
    attention at the kennel.
    
    Another point that hasn't been brought up is what affect the visiting
    cats will have on the resident cats in the house.  
    
    Jo