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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

4733.0. "We Miss Her!" by --UnknownUser-- () Tue Jun 18 1991 10:43

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4733.1JJLIET::JUDYMy body says yes but my mind says noTue Jun 18 1991 11:0216
    
    
    	Sharon,
    
    	Maybe if you tell us where you live someone who lives in that
    	area can keep their eyes open.
    
    	Also, ask the kids in the neighborhood.  They always know
    	what's going on.  Call the police, local vets, and animal
    	shelter if there's one near you.  Also ask your neighbors
    	to keep an eye out.
    
    	Good luck!  I hope she comes home soon.
    
    	JJ
    
4733.2SSVAX::DALEYTue Jun 18 1991 11:0410
    Sharon - where do you live so we can keep our eyes out for her???
    
    Sometimes they are really close to home and just too scared to come out
    from hiding - I know that happened to mine. Eventually she did come
    out. 
    
    I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and her. 
    
    PAt
    
4733.3Thank You!ROULET::BOUSQUETTue Jun 18 1991 11:5412
    
    Hi...
    Thanks for all your help.  I'm going to the house across the street
    and talk to my neighbor if she has seen her.  Her cat and my cat
    play togrther.  We talked about this also.  Last night when we
    were looking for her we saw the other cat but not her!
    
    I live in Worcester on Pilgrim Ave. off of Hamilton St.  I know she
    is afraid of other people because she was mostly a house cat until
    this spring.  She's a little over a year old.
    
    Thank You.......Sharon
4733.4Keep searchingEXIT26::MACDONALD_Kno unique hand plugs the damTue Jun 18 1991 11:5826
    Sharon,
    
    I know how you feel - one of my cats disappeared once, but the vet
    told me not to start worrying til she was missing for a month.  She
    was right too, because Florence came home after an 8 day vacation!
    I lived near a lake at the time and a few blocks away there were some
    summer homes.  On labor day, Florence went out and didn't return.
    It turns out that she got into someone's summer home by accident and
    they were closing it up for the winter.  She stayed in the house
    alone without food or water and finally hurled herself against a
    window to get out.  She was none the worse for wear (she was an
    overweight cat at the time and wasn't even dehydrated - she probably
    drank from the toilet) except for a gash on her belly where the
    window cut her.  I had all of the neighborhood kids out searching
    for her, put ads in all the local papers and offered a reward. 
    She ended up coming back all by herself (brave little thing) and the
    owner of the house (who returned to shut down all the water and other
    stuff) even came by to see her.  He refused to let us pay for the
    window she had broken.  I was so relieved to hear her meow at the
    back door the night she came home.  It's amazing, but they always
    know how to get home.  Perhaps your kitty just went out to seek a
    little adventure???  Keep the faith.
    
    - Kathryn
    
    and the owner of the house returned 
4733.5I'll keep my fingers crossedISLNDS::GASKELLTue Jun 18 1991 12:458
    Check at all the shelters in town, visit if possible and with a
    photo, describe any features particular to your kitty.  A few weeks
    ago, in the Boston Globe, some kook decided to rid the neighborhood
    of an excess of pets (dogs and cats) by taking them to shelters with 
    a variety of stories (that sounded legit).  They were discovered and 
    are being charged.  
    
    The very best of luck.
4733.6WILLEE::MERRITTTue Jun 18 1991 13:058
    My heart goes out to you....
    
    Please look at note 4139.  there are many helpful hints on
    what to do if your cat is missing.
    
    I wish you all the luck in the world....and please keep us posted.
    
    Sandy (who lost CAM a year ago...and still looking)
4733.7TENAYA::KOLLINGKaren/Sweetie/Holly/Little Bit Ca.Tue Jun 18 1991 13:5617
    Talk to your neighbors for some distance around -- cats roam over a
    several block area, I think -- at least leave Xeroxed notes at under
    their doromats, etc. (not in the mailboxes -- that's illegal and
    some noot nice mail carriers will confiscate them).  Ask the neighbors
    to check their garages, basements, sheds, any place a cat could get
    accidentally shut in.  That's often what happens when a cat goes
    missing.
    
    Also visit (as opposed to calling) local shelters.  They
    have so many cats that they often can't do an accurate id over the
    phone.
    
    Send posters to vet's offices, police animal control, put an ad in the
    local paper.
    
    good luck.
    
4733.8How about your house?RUTLND::NRAPAGLIATue Jun 18 1991 14:518
    
    Look all over your house too.  Our kitty was stuck in the basement for
    a week straight.  We searched all of the outside, but never thought he
    could of been in the house somewhere.  We hardly used the basement in
    the winter and that's why we didn't know he was there.
    
    nancy
    
4733.9SCRUZ::CORDES_JASet Apartment/Cat_Max=3Tue Jun 18 1991 15:0022
    It's a horrible thing to have to do but check the Humane Society
    DOA list as well as the found listings as often as possible.  And
    look in an approx. 10 mile radius around your house.
    
    When my sister's (Jaci's) dog got lost it was suggested that we
    look for her in a 10 mile radius around her house.  We circulated
    the area handing out flyers with her pictures, and posting them
    in stores and on telephone poles.  It had been more than a week 
    when we found her and we hadn't thoroughly seached more than about 
    1-1/2 miles of the area.  She was found at the local Humane Society.  
    Jaci had been going daily and checking all the found animals and 
    the DOA listing.  Duchess had been hit by a car (unfortunately she 
    was on the DOA list) in an area about a mile or two further out than 
    we had searched.  Her description on the DOA list was not very detailed
    but we just had a feeling it might be her so we went to identify
    the body.  Our local Humane Society keeps the animals that are killed 
    for up to 10 days for any chance of identification before they send 
    them to be buried/cremated.  We were able to claim the body and 
    arrange for burial/cremation.  It was a very sad ending but at least 
    there is some comfort in knowing what happened.
    
    Jan
4733.10Thank YouROULET::BOUSQUETWed Jun 19 1991 10:4412
     
    Good Morning......
    
    I just want thank everyone that wrote in.  My daughter and myself went
    out at dusk last night looking for the cat and found her across the
    street in the neighbors yard.  She was hurt very bad and crying.  She
    got hit by a car probably the day before yesterday.  We took her
    to Tufts and....... We had to put her to sleep.
    
    We're so sad...
    
    Thanks      Sharon
4733.11BOOVX1::MANDILEWhat about valuing MY differences?Wed Jun 19 1991 11:005
    Sharon...
    
    Our condolences.
    
    Lynne & crew
4733.12SSVAX::DALEYWed Jun 19 1991 12:103
    I am so sorry for you and for your little cat. My sympathies go out to you.
    
    Pat 
4733.13What do you say at a time like this?MCIS2::HUSSIANBut my cats *ARE* my kids!!Wed Jun 19 1991 12:115
    I'm so sorry Sharon. It must have been awful...Hugs, and warm thoughts
    go your way....
    
    Bonnie  :*(
    
4733.14JJLIET::JUDYMy body says yes but my mind says noWed Jun 19 1991 12:397
    
    	Oh Sharon, how awful!
    
    	our sympathies...
    
    	JJ and the gang
    
4733.15WILLEE::MERRITTWed Jun 19 1991 13:096
    So sorry....my heart aches for you.  Wish the ending could have
    been happier.
    
    Sincere sympathy....
    
    Sandy
4733.16So SorrySANFAN::FOSSATJUWed Jun 19 1991 13:124
    Sharon - I am so sad for you - our sympathies as well.  Lots of hugs -
    be strong.
    
    Giudi + Pippin, Gino & StiTch
4733.17TPMARY::TAMIRACMS design while-u-waitWed Jun 19 1991 13:123
Us, too.  We're so sorry.

Mary & the seven wonders of the world
4733.18ICS::ANDERSON_MWed Jun 19 1991 14:187
    Sharon,
    
    Was hoping your news would be better.  Please accept my heartfelt
    sympathy.
    
    Marilyn, Otis and Tiffany
    
4733.19BOMBE::HEATHERWed Jun 19 1991 16:115
    Sharon,
    
      So sorry, please accept my condolences as well.  This is so sad.
    
    Heather + Muff,Oscar,Pandora + Cocoa
4733.20I'm thinking of youEXIT26::MACDONALD_Kno unique hand plugs the damWed Jun 19 1991 16:1312
    Sharon,
    
    What terribly sad news...  I know how badly you feel and what a
    tough decision it was that you had to make.  I'm sure your kitty
    knows that you love her and miss her very much.  It will take a
    long time for this pain to go away, but as so many of the great
    folks in this file have already told me "someday when you think
    of her, the tear in your eye will be replaced by a smile on your
    face."  You have all of my sympathy...
    
    - Kathryn
    
4733.21us tooPARITY::DENISEAnd may the traffic be with youWed Jun 19 1991 18:174
       
         Condolences for you and your kitty. What a sad story.
    
         Denise and the gang of 10
4733.22SORRY SHARONCANYON::WARKMEISTERWed Jun 19 1991 19:296
    Sharon,
    
    I too, was sorry to hear about your cat.  God Bless!  Keep
    on smiling.
    
    Julie + Heather kitty
4733.23CRUISE::NDCPutiput Scottish Folds DTN:297-2313Thu Jun 20 1991 10:397
    Our sympathies too.  At least you know what happened and you had
    a chance to say goodbye to her.  I'm sure she knew you loved
    her very much and that she had a good life with you.
    
    She's got lots of good company where she is now.
      Nancy DC
    
4733.24AIMHI::OFFENThu Jun 20 1991 16:2815
    I just read this note and understand totally how you feel.  My Black
    Thunder got out sometime around 1:00 AM and I didn't realize it until
    2:00 AM when I was getting ready for bed (I work evenings).  I
    *FINALLY* found her around 3:00 AM and was so glad to see her...  I was
    so worried about her being out with all the late speeders and the dogs
    and the skunks and the racoons, etc...  She is an indoor, declawed, has
    no fear, kitty.  Thank goodness I live in a Mobile Home Park where
    there isn't alot of traffic but the late nighters still go roaring past
    my home.
    
    My condolences for your loss.......
    
    Sandi and the Storm Troopers
    
    
4733.25FSOA::LCHESTERFri Jun 21 1991 09:5012
    Sharon,
    
    We too lost a cat who went way away from home and out into a busy 
    street.  I was on a business trip and my husband found her.  He
    didn't dare tell me over the phone, so he picked me up at the
    airport and I had a good cry on the way home.  It was so sad
    not to be able to say goodbye, but probably easier not seeing
    her hurt so badly.
    
    Deep sympathies to you and your family.
    
    Laura