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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

4673.0. "wild baby abyssinian HELP" by KAOFS::J_GREGOIRE () Thu May 23 1991 16:12

    
    	
        	
          There is something that is bothering me lately,as you all know       	
          i got an Abyssinian a few weeks ago, he is so cut he use to cuddle 
          with me, but now he is 11 weeks of age and i'm unable to pick him  
          up and just love to bites our hand when he get a chance and he
          never stop running around and keeps attacking my old siamese cat 
          who is very patien with him.
                                      	
          is this normal with baby Aby, I thought they were suppose to be
          very affectionate, with their master , I hope this is a just a                              	
          phase that he is going trought, I don't remember my Siamese cat
          when he was a baby to be so highstrong.
                                                 	
          Please I need your advice, so if you are an owner of an Aby                                              	
          let me know how was your baby at this age, was he just like mine 
          ,do they mellow down as they grow older and get more affectionate
                  	
                  	
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4673.1TENAYA::KOLLINGKaren/Sweetie/Holly/Little Bit Ca.Thu May 23 1991 16:265
    A couple of suggestions:  Kittens are extremely high energy;  he may
    need you to play catch the catnip mouse with him to work off some
    of that energy.  Is he due in for a vet visit, just in case he has
    a tooth bothering him or somesuch (no idea when kitten teeth come in).
    
4673.2SANFAN::FOSSATJUThu May 23 1991 16:4310
    A freind of mine has an 18 year old Aby who still acts like and has the
    energy level of a teenager - she's really something to observe - she'll
    jump straight up to the top of the china closet - up to the beams in
    the celling - hang out up there for a while and drop in your lap for a
    quick nap and then starts in again.  I don't know if this is typical of
    the breed but I understand that Abys are supposed to be full of energy.
    
    Good luck,
    
    Giudi
4673.3WR2FOR::CORDESBRO_JOset home/cat_max=infinityThu May 23 1991 17:4813
    Kittens go through a stage in which they do not crave human attention
    that much. During this time, they don't want to be held and
    cuddled...there are too many things to explore and play with.  It is a
    phase of their development.  With my Birman kittens, this stage starts
    around 8 weeks and lasts to about 12 weeks.  They grow out of it.  But,
    you still want to try and give the kitten attention while he is in the
    stage, cuz this is also the time that habits start to form (like
    biting).  
    
    Aby's are very high energy.  They may slow down a bit in adulthood, but
    they are still more active than most cats.
    
    Jo
4673.4what a releifKAOFS::J_GREGOIREThu May 23 1991 18:0814
    
    	
        	Thank you Jo, that's all I wanted to know.
                                                         	
                I know that Abyssinian are full of energy and stay like
                that most of their life but i was afraid about the
                affection part to me it is very important that my cat is                                                	
                affectionate with me. 
                                     	
                Just one more thing, should I let him do what he wants for                        	
                now, or should I try to pay alot of attention so he does
                not forget me.....
                                  	
                                 	
4673.5handle the kitten if u want to hold the catFORTSC::WILDEwhy am I not yet a dragon?Thu May 23 1991 18:407
>                Just one more thing, should I let him do what he wants for                        	
>                now, or should I try to pay alot of attention so he does
>                not forget me.....
                                  	
kittens need to be handled -- failure to do so makes for an unfriendly
aloof cat.  While he isn't in the mood for cuddling, make sure he gets
picked up and cuddled for a brief session, at least, several times a day.
4673.6BAGELS::MATSISIt aint over till all the snow melts!Mon Jun 17 1991 16:0116
    My Aby (Zula) is EXTREMELY affectionate, but on his terms.  He doesn't
    like to be picked up and held but he loves to cuddle with you (he just
    wants to be the boss of when he is cuddled).  When I first come home
    from work, he follows me around for at least an hour.  He doesn't leave
    me alone.  He purrs up a storm and keeps head butting me if I stop
    patting him.  He also sleeps cuddled up with me all night long.  He
    sleeps on top of the comforter, right between my legs.  Sometimes I'll
    have a restless night.  I'll roll over, knocking him aside.  He just
    waits patiently until I reposition myself and then he gets cozy again. He
    just turned 2 years old.  I got him when he was 14 weeks old.   He
    didn't like to be picked up then either.   He is still VERY active and
    playful.   I do have another cat (one year old mutt) and they keep
    each other young.  They are constantly in high speed chases.  They're a
    riot to watch.
    
    Pam