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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

1231.0. ""Don't say it!!"" by CIVIC::JOHNSTON (I _earned_ that touch of grey!) Thu Mar 31 1988 16:17

    the 'Portland Show' note has made me feel compelled to being a topic
    to stockpile all those I-could-die-happy-if-I-never-heard-THAT-again
    things that people say when meeting the cats.
    
    To begin:
    
    I used to take Maggie [have blanket, will bask] to the beach with
    me from time to time.  It never, not _once_, failed that someone
    would come and say, "What a beautiful cat! I've never seen a Persian
    like this one before."  Sure Maggie has long hair; but she also
    has a pointy nose, a heart-shaped face, and orange tiger markings.
    Give me a break!!
    
    To continue:
    
    At the only show I ever attended saw me trying to console a friend
    of mine, who bred Himi's, after an encounter with a tactless, albeit
    completely sincere, nitwit in search of a designed-to-specification
    pet.  Her baby boy, the result of generations of effort, a GORGEOUS
    tiger-point Himilayan had just won 'Best Kitten of Show' [or whatever
    the right words are].  A gentleman attendee approached her to discuss
    purchasing a future kitten with the following requirements [I am
    not making this up]:  "I want a kitten that looks just like this
    one, except I want a female...and don't you think that green eyes
    would be more striking?...and maybe not _quite_ so much of a striped
    effect..."  Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
    
    
    Up to you guys now...
    
      Annie
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1231.1*He* is a *Persian*HLIS07::VISSERSCeterum CenseoThu Mar 31 1988 16:435
    When meeting Omar:
    
    "Oh...*she* is an *angora*!"
    
    Oh well....
1231.2EDUC8::TRACHMANThu Mar 31 1988 17:358
    When folks came up to Pashenka's cage, they would say, "Our cat
    looks just like this one, EXCEPT ours has skinny stripes, and
    all white face, all four paws are white and "her" belly is white."
    Hmm, I say and look at Pashenka who is a classic tabby (fat
    swirls), no white on his face, just the tips of his toes are
    white, very litle white on his belly, and a small neat white
    bib and a very RED ringed tail, and of course "HE" is a boy!
    Once or twice a weekend is not bad, but 30 - 40 times, oh well...
1231.3Our Himi is not a SiamesePOET::BURLEWPurr is my favorite sound!Tue Apr 05 1988 16:034
    Whenever we take Sherlock anywhere, people always say what a beautiful
    Siamese cat!  Sherlock is a seal-point Himi.
    
    Ande (Sherlock, Serena, and Sky's mom)
1231.4SCRUZ::CORDES_JAJanTue Apr 05 1988 21:5026
    Since Amelia has gotten a little overweight, I am constantly subjected
    to comments from spectators that "...she looks pregnant..."
    
    Amelia cannot be pregnant.  She is shown in the Household Pet category
    that requires spaying and neutering of the animals at 8 months.
    Amelia is now 2 years old.
    
    At the San Francisco show last month this actually happened.  Dave
    McAllister can verify this.
    
    Man and woman spectator walk up to cage, man looks into cage, nods
    his head and says "That cat is going to have kitties".  I say "No,
    she's not going to have kitties."  Woman looks into cage and says
    "yep, she's going to have kitties."  I say "No, she's not going
    to have kitties." (a little firmer).  Man looks at woman as they
    are walking away and says "Yep, she's going to have kitties."  As
    they walk down they aisle I say "NO, She's not going to have kitties.
    She's just fat."  By this time Dave is having to keep me from strangling
    some innocent spectators.
    
    I also get the comment "that cat looks just like..."  This
    is easier for me to deal with since Amelia is your basic mixed breed
    (Brown mackeral tabby and white) but still I believe that I have
    unique kitties even thought I know better.
    
    Jan
1231.6last time I opened the door to a salesmanCIRCUS::KOLLINGKaren, Sweetie, Holly; in Calif.Tue Apr 05 1988 21:576
    This reminds me of the time my (formerly male) Pussycat got out
    of the house when some salesman came to the door.  As I was
    calmly/hysterically trying to simultaneously keep the salesman away
    so Pussycat wouldn't panic and also coax Pussycat back, the salesman
    said "Is she pregnant?".
                                        
1231.7Guilty as charged!!GRECO::MORGANDoris Morgan DTN 223-9594Thu Apr 14 1988 01:0915
    Uh oh!  I feel so guilty and so gauche!!!  I'm sure I'm one of those
    unknowledgeable cat-lovers who makes these dumb comments.  Let me
    give you a perspective on why we may say such dumb things...
    
    First of all, although I've lived with many, many cats over many, many
    years, they have all been stray, mixed breeds.  I don't really know the
    different pure-breeds, so may easily refer to your cat's breed
    incorrectly.  Secondly, as a cat lover, I enjoy finding something in
    common with other cat lovers, so I look for likenesses between your
    champions and my mongrels!  This helps me identify what might be in
    their background somewhere, as well as helps me reaffirm that they are
    indeed "special". 
    
    Anyway, we're all friendly and love cats, so we can't be all bad!!!
    Just be patient with us, and educate us! 
1231.8experts !CLEVER::SULLIVANThu Apr 14 1988 17:003
    re: .7 I will second that note, many of us have cats and love them,
    this does not mean we are experts, nor should people be expected
    to be.