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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

1135.0. "My ANGEL is now a DEVIL!" by BOEHM::C_SANDSTROM () Wed Feb 24 1988 09:46

	My lovable charming furface is turning into a terror...
	...did someone swap cats with me?!  This is a very long
	note, so please bear with me.

	Jake used to (past tense) have the run of the house - he
	loved to sleep on our bed in the afternoon sun or climb
	up onto the kitty-ledge we installed on one of the bedroom
	windows.  But Jake is becoming more and more tormenting
	and destructive and I'm at my wits end!

	Jake lives with two dogs who are crated during the day and he 
	has taken to teasing them - sitting right in front of them 
	meowing, swiping his paw through the grate, being generally 
	unpleasant.  I don't think it's particularly fair that the dogs
	are crated while Jake runs around, but if they aren't all hell 
	breaks loose as they play tag all around the house.

	OK fine, I can deal with that - close the door to the dogs room.

	Jake took a liking to my plants and has destroyed each and every
	one of them.

	OK fine, I can deal with that too - I knew when we got a cat 
	that the plants wouldn't last long.

	I can't leave any food on the kitchen counter - not even for two
	minutes!  I learned real quick that I can't de-frost anything 
	over night or during the day - it "gets missing".  One time we 
	were having company for dinner and I took the stuffed porkchops
	out of the oven and turned my back for seconds to get the wine 
	out of the fridge and the corkscrew from the drawer.  When I 
	turned back one chop was on the floor and Jake was merrily chewing 
	away at a second one right there on the counter - not even trying 
	to hide!!!  Needless to say I was furious!

	Jake ruined one control for our electric blanket, not just by
	chewing into the wire, but chewing them into several pieces!  My
	husband put them back together and Jake proceeded to chew the
	repaired control apart again, and the other one two!  We've had
	to buy two new controls.  I'm also trying to ignore the holes
	he's chewed in my quilts, dustruffle and throw pillows!

	OK, now I'm really annoyed so we put up a gate and the upstairs
	is now off limits to Jake.  Problem solved - no.  The gate didn't
	stop him so now all the bedroom doors have to be closed.

	Jake has chewed holes in both of my expensive stiffel lampshades,
	not just tooth marks - big chunks are missing!  Because these
	were specially designed they're going to cost a small fortune to
	replace (they can't be repaired).

	Now what...the door to the living room is kept closed.

	I've gone through two bottles of tabasco sauce and lots of cotton
	swabs, a spray bottle of bitter apple, and even some alum/water
	solution trying to discourage him - all to no avail.  The rooms
	in my house are getting very cold because circulation has been
	practically cut off by keeping all the doors closed.  We thought
	about leaving him in the cellar which is warm enough, has lots
	of places to climb and play, but also has lots of wires to chew
	(like for the heat, hot water, telephone, cable, etc...) so we
	can't do that either.

	Now Jake has lots of toys, all of which he seems to enjoy (while
	we're there) and lots of attention when we're home.  He gets lots
	of praise when he plays with *his* toys and reprimanded when he's
	caught in the act of chewing wires (he doesn't even try to run when
	he hears us coming).  Our schedules haven't changed, his schedules 
	haven't changed, neither has his diet.  The vet says there's nothing 
	organically wrong with him.  But as soon as we're out of site he 
	becomes a different cat.

	What do I do next????  We're becoming prisoners in our own house!
        I really love Jake, but he's *really* trying our patience and
    	seems to be getting progressively worse instead of better. 
        
    	Conni
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1135.1playmatesFIDDLE::HTAYLORCat lovers are a special breedWed Feb 24 1988 10:189
    Connie,
    
    I think that the best solution to your problem is to get Jake a
    friend.  They may not get along at first, but eventually Jake will
    be too busy playing with his friend to even think of chewing on
    wires.  I have a feeling that others in this notes file will agree.
    
    Holly
    
1135.3I agree...ITSBIG::VACCARIWed Feb 24 1988 11:044
    I also agree!  Get a friend for him.  It really does work; thats
    why I have two!  Plus, two are always better than one :-)
    
    Erin
1135.4MEMV02::HASTINGSWed Feb 24 1988 11:454
    Yes, get another cat.  We went thru something similar for about
    a year until we got another cat.  It took only three days for them
    to get used to each other and have been the best of buddies ever
    since (14 years!).
1135.5What's fun? -- 2 mischievous ones!!WELKIN::STRONACHWed Feb 24 1988 15:1417
Yup, that's the ticket!! :^) Get another cat -- and believe me you think you
have problems now -- just wait -- what one doesn't think of the other one will!! 
This is experience speaking -- our two kittens are real terrors -- and we have
3 older cats besides -- even the "Old Buck" gets fed up with them and goes
over and bangs them on the head (something like bouncing a ball) to quiet them
down!!  

I'm hanging in there hoping maturity will mellow them!!

I can empathize with you as we just redecorated with all new furniture and 
everything is covered as if we didn't live there!!

But seriously, it may help -- I know I wouldn't have an "only" kid again -- they
really are company for each other.



1135.6Possible AlternativesDPDMAI::BALLI AM standing up!Wed Feb 24 1988 15:1910
    Just in case a "playmate" isn't feasable, your vet can talk with
    you about various medications that he can prescribe to calm him
    down.  In some cases I believe female hormones are given and in
    severe cases (I had a male cat that bit anything that moved), he
    was on phenobarbital.  Some animals just develop an awful mean streak
    and there isn't anything physically wrong.  Drugs have their draw
    backs too, but it's better than giving away your furface!
    
    Pat
    
1135.7Is it unanymous?BAGELS::ALLENWed Feb 24 1988 15:3721
    
    If I may "sixth" that motion, Sebastion has mellowed out immeasurably
    since we got Claude, and he has her company during the day now. I think
    they both just sleep all day anyway (Sebastion didn't used to, believe
    me), but they feel happy because they have company. And they are best
    buddies. Don't you feel more happy with someone else in the house?  I
    know I do. 
    
    The other thing to mention is that you know the old adage "two can
    live as cheaply as one?"  Well, I also found that two cats are as
    easy to care for as one.  EASIER when you consider all the damage
    that ISN'T being done.
    
    Good luck.  I would suggest trying to find a kitten if you can.
    Kittens aren't usually as territorial and don't mind being hissed
    at.  Two older cats may mean twice the hissing and spitting.  In
    our case, Sebastion hissed and spit, and Claude ignored him completely.
    I was able to give him all the attention because she didn't need
    any help adjusting. 
              
    Amy.
1135.8CIRCUS::KOLLINGKaren, Sweetie, Holly; in Calif.Wed Feb 24 1988 15:448
    Re: .6
    
    Um, Jake doesn't sound "mean" to me, just high-spirited.  I mean,
    two doggies to tease, who could resist?  And a pork chop right in
    front of me here, what fun.  Maybe your vet might prescribe a
    mild tranquilizer, but Jake seems to be in a different class from
    a cat who "bits everything that moves".
    
1135.9i hope it helps somewhatSCOMAN::DAUGHANfeel like jumpin the gun!Wed Feb 24 1988 17:4014
    well i got out my cat book to read up on care of kittens and happened
    on   a chapter-cats and food...
    it says(not me mind you the book does)
    cats are inveterate food thieves,and yelling no will do no good
    so it becomes necessary to out smart your cat.
    it says to leave a piece of food within easy reach of the cats paw
    but to tie(some how) a piece of string to it.attach to the string
    cans,bells or anything to startle the cat,and after a couple times
    of being startled the cat will leave food alone that is on the counter.
    
    you dont want to know what it says to about wastebasket tipping...
    
    kelly
    
1135.10CIRCUS::KOLLINGKaren, Sweetie, Holly; in Calif.Wed Feb 24 1988 18:508
    Re: .9
    
    Um, unless it eats the food, and swallows the string, and gets it
    tangled around its intestines, and so forth.
    
    P.S.  God put the shift key on keyboards for a reason.
    
1135.11ok, let's go for it!BOEHM::C_SANDSTROMThu Feb 25 1988 08:4018
    
    Looks like the "adds" have it.  
    
    Jake is not mean by any stretch, just very mischevious and sometimes 
    it gets the best of me.  I talked to my husband last night and it
    looks like we're in the market for another special furface to add
    to our family.  I guess if we have two dogs we should have two cats!
    
    Sooo, does anyone know of a special kitty that needs a home?  I know,
    I know, *all* kitties are special, but Jake (for those of you who
    don't remember) is the three legged kitty I got last fall with the
    help of Kim Robbins and Karen Kolling.  (Yes, can you believe all
    that destruction on three legs..!)  We have an extra large soft
    spot for kitties who wouldn't otherwise have a home.  You can be
    sure that it will be an indoor kitty, spayed/neutered and lots of
    love!
    
        Conni