Title: | Meower Power is Valuing Differences |
Notice: | FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY |
Moderator: | MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO |
Created: | Sun Feb 09 1986 |
Last Modified: | Tue Jan 11 1994 |
Last Successful Update: | Fri Jun 06 1997 |
Number of topics: | 5089 |
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This is my first time in Feline file, but I'm an ole timer in Canine. My daughter moved back home a few months ago with her three cats. My Dobie has been super about accepting them after we slowly intoduced them to each other for three weeks. Now the problem - the oldest male cat (2 yrs.) is just plain MEAN. He beats up one of the other cats terribly. It now has a mean looking scratch across it's face. All the cats have been neutered when they were young and all have lived together for the last 2 yrs. This older cat HATES everything! I can occassionally pick him up and pet him, but when he wants down I better do it immediately or my hand is at stake. He constantly has his tail swishing, never seems to be relaxed. He'll be laying on the rug and just jump up fast meowing and just shoot pass you 100 mph for no reason. I've had cats all my life, the last one lived to 16 yrs. old. (another orphan we found on the street). So I'm not new to cat behavior, but this cat is unbelieveable. I personally wouldn't own a cat like this, but I brought my kids up to keep an animal till death and with our luck this beast will live forever. My question - is there sure a thing as a MEAN temper cat. Physically he is find - even the Vet asked her to not bring him back because he was so bad while he was there to be neutered. No body can handle him, but our daughter and sometimes he is nasty to her. Why? He gets as much attention as the other two, has free run of the house and the dog does NOT bother him. He was mean when she was living alone. Is there any solution, or do we have to put up with the meany forever. I would be interested in your comments. Thanks -Dee
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908.1 | love conquers all, plus hormones | CIRCUS::KOLLING | Karen, Sweetie, Holly; in Calif. | Thu Nov 19 1987 16:14 | 12 |
When I first adopted my first cat, Pussycat, he had been feral. I walked around for several months with scratches up to my elbows, and a couple of vets said "Don't bring him back." What fixed this? His being neutered, then being treated with what I think was a female hormone, and a lot of patience. When he acts mean, you act like Dag Hammerskold -- no anger, infinite patience, so emotional reactions of anger. I think the female hormone shot actually was a _big_ help. The vet said it was an experiment, and I don't recall what it was called. P.S. going to a new vet who did the Dag Hammerskold number solved the vet problem; you have to find one who _really_ cares about cats. | |||||
908.2 | p.s. | CIRCUS::KOLLING | Karen, Sweetie, Holly; in Calif. | Thu Nov 19 1987 16:27 | 6 |
P.S. The reason the vet thought the female hormone (which was a one time shot, by the way) might help was that Pussycat was already a mature cat 3? 4? years old who I got him. So, he'd been set in male behavior patterns for quite awhile, and just neutering, the theory went, wasn't enough to turn things around. | |||||
908.3 | the "mother-love" hormone | ERASER::KALLIS | Remember how ephemeral is Earth. | Thu Nov 19 1987 16:32 | 5 |
Re .1, .2 (Karen): I believe the hormone in question was prolactin. Steve Kallis, Jr. | |||||
908.4 | Other possibilities | SHARE::SSMITH | Fri Nov 20 1987 11:54 | 6 | |
Theres also the possibility that the cat has an emotional problem, or is suffering from stress. I believe that when a cat all of a sudden jumps up off the floor and goes ballistic, and the fact that you say he never seems relaxed are signs of this. Steve | |||||
908.5 | Try a cat massage! (note 909) | BAGELS::ALLEN | Fri Nov 20 1987 11:57 | 0 | |
908.6 | CIRCUS::KOLLING | Karen, Sweetie, Holly; in Calif. | Mon Nov 23 1987 20:13 | 2 | |
You may want to read notes 106 to 106.3, which I just happened to run across. |