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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

639.0. "Advice on Kitty Companions" by TSG::MCGOVERN (Szechuan Vanilla) Fri Jun 26 1987 11:42

    Recently, a friend of ours moved and had to give up a two-year-old
    spayed female cat.  We took her in.  She is nice, but VERY demanding of
    affection.  We want to get her a companion, but I
    am not sure if we should get a kitten or a full grown cat, a male
    or a female.
    
    Ideas and comments?          
    
    Michael
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639.1Kitty Companions don't always work...DONJON::SCHREINERGo ahead, make me PURRR...Fri Jun 26 1987 12:0116
    I would suggest getting a kitten.  Usually Cats will be more tolerant
    of a new kitten than they will be of a new cat.  It sorta depends
    on the cat though, we all know their all different.
    
    Unfortunately, if you have a very people affectionate cat, getting
    her a companion may or may not help.  I had an overly affectionate
    cat that lived with 5 others....she still couldn't get enough people
    attention.  Finally, feeling sorry for her, I looked for a home
    for her because I didn't feel I could give her what she required.
    An elderly retired couple took her and now Look Alike (cat's name)
    spends all day sitting in one or the others lap.  When one gets
    up she goes and sits with the other, if no lap is available, she
    follows at the persons heels.  They love her, and I feel great for
    giving her what she really needed.  
    
    
639.2Two are better than one!PRIMES::LPOSEYMon Jun 29 1987 14:4917
    Michael,
    
    	My brother just recently took in a year-old cat that is also
    very demanding for affection.  In addition, this cat came from a
    home where people were always around, and my brother and his wife
    are never home.  Well, the problems have begun because their cat
    is so LONELY.  The cat has started urinating on the rug when they
    do not acknowledge her.  So I am glad you have made a wise decision
    to get your cat a companion.  I think you should get a kitten for
    your cat; it is easier for the kitten to adjust to your 2-year-old
    than for you to get another adult that already has its
    personality/habits developed (which may cause a lot of conflict
    between the 2).  As far as whether to get a male or a female, I
    can only go on my personal experience.  I have 2 females, and they
    are best friends!
    
    Good luck with your decision!