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323.1 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Mar 01 1995 19:41 | 50 |
| Study Confirms Drug Epidemic Is Top AIDS Worry
/ Addicts largest group of new HIV infections
Gina Kolata
The AIDS epidemic, continuing its demographic evolution, is becoming
ever more closely tied to the drug epidemic, a new study shows.
Not only are intravenous drug users becoming infected, but so are crack
addicts and other drug abusers, many of whom are women.
An extensive, unpublished analysis by researchers at the federal
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta has found that
nearly three-quarters of last year's 40,000 new infections with HIV,
the virus that causes AIDS, were among addicts.
Many of the addicts are IV drug users who share infected needles, but
an increasing number are crack addicts who are contracting the AIDS
virus through unprotected sex, often with multiple partners. Men and
women alike often go on binges, having sex with many partners in
exchange for crack or the money to buy it. ``Maybe as much as half of
the new infections among heterosexuals are occurring in relation to
crack cocaine,'' said Dr. Scott Holmberg, a CDC epidemiologist who
conducted the study.
Data and analyses from the CDC show that the people diagnosed with AIDS
in 1993, the most recent year for which statistics on the disease are
available, are a very different group from those the 1994 statistics
show are now being infected with the virus. Development of AIDS
generally occurs about a decade after infection.
Of those whose new diagnosis of AIDS occurred in 1993 -- who were
probably mostly infected in the early to mid-1980s -- about half were
gay men and a little more than a quarter were intravenous drug users.
Fewer than 10 percent were heterosexuals. The remaining cases were
hemophiliacs and gay men who injected drugs.
Now, in his analysis of national data for new HIV infections in 1994,
Holmberg finds a very different pattern, which is continuing this year.
Only a quarter of the most recent infections are in gay men. About half
of the new infections are among drug users who shared needles. And
about a quarter are heterosexually transmitted.
Holmberg said 70 percent to 80 percent of people who are getting HIV
infections through heterosexual transmission are women, and the
majority of those are women who had sex with men who got infected when
they injected drugs.
Published 2/28/95 in SF Chronicle
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323.2 | ... for the sake of discussion: | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Mar 01 1995 19:59 | 2 |
| People with AIDS should be quarrantined or at least isolated
in AIDS hospices.
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323.3 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Mar 01 1995 20:06 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.2 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> People with AIDS should be quarrantined or at least isolated
> in AIDS hospices.
Joe, You are so full of [colloquial term for excrement] that it amazes
me that any of your co-workers can stand the smell.
Jim
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323.4 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Mar 01 1995 20:07 | 6 |
| <<< Note 323.0 by SX4GTO::OLSON "Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto" >>>
It cost me a brother.
Jim
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323.5 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Mar 01 1995 20:11 | 4 |
| I'm sorry to hear it, Jim. While I know several people with AIDS, I
haven't lost anyone near and dear. Yet.
DougO
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323.6 | | LJSRV2::KALIKOW | TechnoCatalyst | Wed Mar 01 1995 21:44 | 2 |
| My sympathies too, Jim.
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323.7 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Mar 01 1995 21:55 | 5 |
| My sympathies as well, Jim.
Joe,
Are you actually so obtuse as to genuinely mean that?
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323.8 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Mother is the invention of necessity | Thu Mar 02 1995 00:34 | 15 |
| Well, we're talking about about someone who thinks it's
a hoot to equate homosexuals and pedophiles, so the
equation here is skewed.
As for AIDS, I have known its victims, and it is horrible.
The most difficult part for me has been looking into the
face of people my age or younger than myself and seeing
a disease which makes them look very old. AIDS is an
ugly mirror to look into, and I have nothing but the
deepest heartfelt sympathy for anyone with this disease,
regardless of how they got it.
-b
(who, frankly, is bordering on PO'd at some of the mean and
hateful garbage he reads here.)
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323.9 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 02 1995 00:38 | 6 |
| I heard a report that aids is rising in teenagers today and that they
believe that it is being transmitted through =kissing=.
Anybody else heard this?
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323.10 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Thu Mar 02 1995 00:55 | 4 |
| Nancy,
I had herd something along those lines to. They have always contested
that it can not be transmitted by saliva (sp?) though....
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323.11 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | One if by LAN, two if by C | Thu Mar 02 1995 07:39 | 6 |
|
My family doctor is dying of aids (he has left his practice since
being diagnosed).
jim
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323.12 | Hideous disease. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Mar 02 1995 08:27 | 9 |
|
An aquaintance recently died of it - I didn't know he was gay.
What an absolutely apalling way to die ! As bad as cancer, and I
have had numerous friends die horribly in pain from that.
Bring back heart attacks !
bb
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323.13 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 02 1995 08:33 | 32 |
|
A sincere thanks for the kind sentiments.
David was the best and the brightest of us. The first one in
our family to achieve a graduate degree. Talented in his chosen
profession. Respected by his peers, loved by his friends and
mourned by all those who knew him.
He was the Technical Director of the Houston Opera when he died.
The only show of his that I ever saw was the memorial performance
that the Company invited us to the day after he died. I had not
realized, up to that point, just how talented David was. He was
responsible for those little things in a show that, if done REALLY
well, you never notice. Lighting effects, sound, etc.
I was with him when he died. after having spent 3 weeks watching
him suffer the effects of ever progressive pneumocystitis. Talking
to the doctors with my Mother (a R.N.), knowing that there was
nothing they could do (this was pre AZT).
David contracted the disease at a time before AIDS even had a name,
long before anyone had heard the term HIV, but it killed him
nonetheless.
Today the NIH is still searching for treatement. A report this morning
talks about the use of interluekin therapy that can double the white
blood cell counts of those that are HIV+. It doesn't help Dave, but
hopefully it will prevent some other person from suffering the
horrible death that he experienced.
Jim
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323.14 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alledged Degirdification | Thu Mar 02 1995 08:36 | 4 |
| AIDS is terrible.
One good thing about it though is that it's a virus. Eventually it will
be possible to control it.
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323.15 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member in good standing | Thu Mar 02 1995 08:59 | 6 |
|
Sorry to hear about your brother, Jim. He sounds like he was a
wonderful person.
Mike
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323.16 | | ROWLET::AINSLEY | Less than 150 kts. is TOO slow! | Thu Mar 02 1995 09:05 | 3 |
| Joe,
You ceased to amaze me a long time ago, but ...
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323.17 | | POBOX::BATTIS | Contract Studmuffin | Thu Mar 02 1995 09:45 | 6 |
|
joe, you sound like you need to be quarantined, from the rest of us.
I don't know of anybody with Aids or related diseases, but it
definitely is a hideous disease.
Mark
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323.18 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Mar 02 1995 09:45 | 4 |
| > One good thing about it though is that it's a virus. Eventually it will
> be possible to control it.
Explain.
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323.19 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:17 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.2 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| People with AIDS should be quarrantined or at least isolated in AIDS hospices.
I'm trying to figure out if he means it, or if he is just trying to get
some sort of reaction out of the crowd. One never knows for sure with someone
who stated that notes is a game to him.
Glen
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323.20 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alledged Degirdification | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:18 | 14 |
| A vaccine.
Look at what was done to the small pox virus. It now only exists in a
container at the center for disease control in Atlanta.
Now, if it was possible for people to be a little, or a lot, more careful
about sex and intravenous drug use, AIDS would even be easier to control.
It's not like cancer, the AIDS virus can be controlled to a certain extent
now in that we know how it's transmitted. Imagine if it was an airborne
virus, or transmitted by touch or ingestion? We'd all be dead.
Glenn
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323.21 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:22 | 2 |
| From what I've heard, HIV has a remarkable ability to mutate. I don't believe
this is the case with smallpox.
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323.22 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:33 | 9 |
|
Just out of curiousity, what is the big problem with using quarantine for
AIDs victims?
Jim
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323.23 | Not a logical response. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:37 | 7 |
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Because, Jim, it isn't a contagious disease. And isolation cannot
be a good for treating people who are terribly depressed.
Quarantine is only justified if the disease is "catching".
bb
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323.24 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alledged Degirdification | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:53 | 1 |
| If the AIDS virus was an airborne type, they'd be quarantined.
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323.25 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 10:56 | 20 |
| ZZ Well, we're talking about about someone who thinks it's
ZZ a hoot to equate homosexuals and pedophiles, so the
ZZ equation here is skewed.
NO NO NO think damit!! See, this pisses me off. First of all, I was
the one who brought up the pedophile issue here. Secondly, I was
equating pedophilia with predispositions. I wasn't saying that all
homosexuals can not control themselves as a pedophile can't. This is
what you implied above and I resent this because you are using this as
a toll for miscommunicating my intent. Homosexuals have a
predisposition toward attraction to their own gender. The argument was
that this is OK. I was merely stating that pedophiles have a
predisposition to children. We all know this is not good. The bottom
line is just because something comes naturally to a person DOESN'T
necessarily make it okay, good, or moral. The way you worded it above,
you twisted this point to make it sound like I was saying homosexuals
are uncontrollable sexaholics like pedophiles are. What were you
thinking about here?!
-Jack
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323.26 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Mother is the invention of necessity | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:18 | 14 |
| Jack,
Calm down, I wasn't talking to you. I was talking to Joe, who
made it a point to mention that he enjoyed taking a poke at
Glen with the pedophilia analogy (look in 56. from yesterday).
It wasn't the analogy that I was responding to, it was the idea
that in order to game some "points" in the debate around here,
anything goes, even cruelty. This is an extremely sad commentary
on this conference, extremely sad. Sadder still, in that it
frequently comes from those who are supposedly under the guidance
of the Holy Spirit.
-b
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323.27 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | aspiring peasant | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:21 | 13 |
| RE: Kissing and AIDs.
The question is whether or not saliva is the carrier. I can see where
two younsters in the heat of teen passion cut themselves on their
braces drawing blood or some similar mechanism. Then again it could
be a rumor started by the keep the chidren chaste crowd.
RE: .2
If this was a wind up, it's in bad taste IMO. I strongly disagree with
the opinion but am open to hearing the rationale.
Brian
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323.28 | | CASDOC::HEBERT | Captain Bligh | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:36 | 37 |
| re: .23
Therein lies the problem.
> Because, Jim, it isn't a contagious disease.
False. The CDC (and respected medical centers) found - and reported - the
conditions under which it can be communicated, which include simply
transmitting body fluids from one who is afflicted, onto mucous membranes
of another person.
The variables include the viability of the virus during the time of
communication. In other words, if someone coughs in your face, can the
virus live in the air (what temp, humidity...) between you and the person
in front of you? Common cold germs certainly can.
>And isolation cannot be a good for treating people who are terribly
>depressed.
If the world had always followed this liberal line of thought, man would
have died off (like Dutch Elms and other living things that have
succumbed to disease) from tuberculosis or leprosy. But calmer heads
prevailed, and highly communicable diseases were treated in isolation.
My sons caught mumps at the same time. So, instead of isolating them in
their bedroom, I should have minimized their depression by staying with
them and conducting family business as usual, and just cluck-clucked when
the inevitable happened, and I caught it from them? Too bad, what happens
when an adult male catches mumps. You don't want to make the boys feel
bad. (Do I hear Barney in this?)
The political correctness of AIDS says that we're not supposed to expect
-or force- carriers to alter their behavior. So, despite the knowledge
that we do have have a cure, we also give up any chance of controlling
the spread.
Art
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323.29 | | WMOIS::GIROUARD_C | | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:43 | 4 |
| i read somewhere that there is no confirmed case that was caused by
simple saliva exchange...
Chip
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323.30 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member in good standing | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:49 | 8 |
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It's the confirmed case thing that bothers a lot of people. Some of
the fear is irrational and some of it is not. Anyone who thinks the
government is telling us everything about this and other things (IMO)
is foolish.
Mike
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323.31 | Would you quarentine your KID! | BRAT::MINICHINO | | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:53 | 15 |
| So which one of you "sick" people (if you can be called that) will
"quaurentine" (sp) your child with AIDS. You guys need some serious
help in the Humane dept. People are dieing form this disease. Instead
of casting judgement on them, doing away with them by quarentining them
and forgetting they exist, do something. Your child could be next!!
God help you if your infant needs a transfusion, God help you if you do
too..I hope YOUR not judged too harshly when that happens. LIVE with
AIDs or the ravages of it, then tell me you'll quarentine them....
give it a rest. Ignorance is obviously something you cure. Learn
alittle about the disease, because ignorance and fear could kill you or
a loved one. Would YOU take that chance.
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323.32 | | POBOX::BATTIS | Contract Studmuffin | Thu Mar 02 1995 11:55 | 4 |
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<-------- calm down friend, its only joe who believes in quarantine
Mark
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323.33 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:02 | 19 |
| .31
Emotionalism.
You tell me would you be happy if your child infected another?
I wouldn't. I'd rather keep my child at home and away from other
children especially at the younger age where biting is common. If I
had a baby at this time, there is absolutely NO WAY I'd take my child
to a community daycare.
The mothers don't even have to tell their daycare parents that the
child is HIV +. And if they do, the daycare mother CANNOT reject
caring for them on that basis... nor can the daycare mother tell other
mothers that she's caring for a child who is HIV+.
Something's wrong with this.
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323.34 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:02 | 19 |
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RE: <<< Note 323.31 by BRAT::MINICHINO >>>
-< Would you quarentine your KID! >-
> help in the Humane dept. People are dieing form this disease. Instead
> of casting judgement on them, doing away with them by quarentining them
> and forgetting they exist, do something. Your child could be next!!
Who said anything about judging anybody?
Jim
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323.35 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Mother is the invention of necessity | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:05 | 20 |
| Well gosh by golly, if we're gonna do this quarantine thing,
we better get going on it right now, because there's
a potential incubation period of 5 to 10 years and, well,
we better make sure we separate them all out now... of
course, if they've contracted the virus in the last six
months we have no test to even detect its presence so we'll
have to keep testing them.
Oh, and let's start with those grandmothers who had hip
replacements, or those athletes that had orthopedic surgery,
' cause it just so happens that many of them may have been
given tainted bone material; seems they use crushed bone
matter or bone parts in such surgery and the companies
that supply it weren't always dilligent about checking
their sources.
Not to mention those sinful hemophiliacs and EMTs. Nasty,
evil people, the lot of them.
-b
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323.36 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:11 | 10 |
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> Not to mention those sinful hemophiliacs and EMTs. Nasty,
> evil people, the lot of them.
Who the heck has said anything about "sinful" anything?
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323.37 | didn't mean to generalize. | BRAT::MINICHINO | | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:17 | 36 |
| re. Nancy,
No as a matter of fact I wouldn't like my Infant in a daycare where
your child could be bitting her/him. So this is the deal.. you quarentine
your infant and tell me what it's like. If my kid has AIDS they are
well past the HIV infection. I would keep them home for their last
days.
You quarentine your child..
Different histeria I guess. I would give my child the best protection I
could, because they would be more apt to catch something from another
child if they are HIV + because of the decreased immune system.
.34
you don't think separating someone from others because of their disease
is making a judgement. Wake up, before people knew what cancer was,
they separated them too. My mother has terminal cancer, would you have
separated her from her family say.....20 years ago...yeah.
AID patients know the capacity of their disease, HIV+ people also know
what is in store for them. They have seen many with the disease die a
very painful and horrible death. I have compassion not judgement for
these people. They are fighting a battle they can't win and doing it
with more pride and honor than most of the people that would quarentine
them, forget them or separate an infant.
Ps...didn't mean to generalize about the quarentine..I just didn't want
to corner someone who obviously doesn't have control of their OWN
environment....
Nancy, did your infant crawl out of it's basinette to bite another
child..boy if your INFANT can do that...i give you credit.
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323.38 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:19 | 4 |
| Nobody did.. we're talking about disease and the filters begin just
cause we admit that we believe in God.
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323.39 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:21 | 11 |
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RE: <<< Note 323.38 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
> Nobody did.. we're talking about disease and the filters begin just
> cause we admit that we believe in God.
yeah, I guess so..
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323.40 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:27 | 40 |
|
> you don't think separating someone from others because of their disease
> is making a judgement. Wake up, before people knew what cancer was,
No, I don't. Are we interested in ridding ourselves of the disease,
or in people's self esteem?
> they separated them too. My mother has terminal cancer, would you have
> separated her from her family say.....20 years ago...yeah.
Mine died of cancer 35 years ago. I also had relatives with TB who
were quarantined..at the time I didn't understand it, but it did seem
to rid us of the disease.
> AID patients know the capacity of their disease, HIV+ people also know
> what is in store for them. They have seen many with the disease die a
> very painful and horrible death. I have compassion not judgement for
> these people. They are fighting a battle they can't win and doing it
> with more pride and honor than most of the people that would quarentine
> them, forget them or separate an infant.
And I have compassion as well..however, my compassion for them is not
ridding us of the disease, nor is your's.
Get rid of the "judgement" mindset. I judge nobody.
Jim
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323.41 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:28 | 6 |
| Well, I'm sorry but medicine is NOT an exact science and I'm sorry if
it offends others needlessly but I will continue to approach AIDS
cautiously. I don't believe the scientific community knows enough and
I don't believe we know the whole truth is being put forth.
-Jack
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323.42 | | SWAM2::SMITH_MA | | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:37 | 9 |
| I used to teach AIDS awareness some time ago and, at the time, it was
not believed that the HIV virus could be transmitted through kissing.
There was suspicion that if a person was in the advanced stages of AIDS
and his/her saliva came into direct contact with another persons blood
stream, ie an open sore or wound, then the virus could be transmitted.
_However_, this was only a suspicion. There was not then, nor do I
believe is there now, any proof of this. It was simply a possibility
that was being argued by the CDC.
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323.43 | | MKOTS3::MACFAWN | My mother warned me about you... | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:44 | 22 |
| What really urkes me is the drug addicts who are receiving free needles
to help in preventing the spread of AIDS, but diabetics like myself
have to pay for their needles.
I met this woman in the drug store a few years ago that looked like she
was rather poor. She was getting a presciption for syringes. I looked
at her and said, "You're a diabetic too?" She wasn't, but the little
girl standing next to her was. This little girl looked like she needed
a warm bubble bath, some fuzzy pajamas and a good hot cooked meal. The
mother was paying for the needles with change. Why can't the
government help people like this woman who obviously needs help? No,
they want to help prevent a deadly disease by giving out free clean
needles to drug users, but the rest of us poor bastards have to buy
ours if we want to survive until tomorrow.
We're talking life and death here. I need the needles to administer
the insulin to keep me alive. The drug users don't need the drugs to
live! They won't die without it.
I don't know where the government's head is when they think up these
"brilliant" ideas. Well, yes I do know...
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323.44 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Thu Mar 02 1995 12:58 | 3 |
| Re: .43
How many diabetics share needles?
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323.45 | | MKOTS3::MACFAWN | My mother warned me about you... | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:09 | 8 |
| Diabetics don't share needles...obviously you missed my whole point.
Diabetics NEED the needles, drug addicts don't. The drug addicts know
damned well that sharing the needles will probably result in the AIDS
virus, but they don't care, they do it anyway. Why should we give
these stupid people free needles?
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323.46 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:11 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.28 by CASDOC::HEBERT "Captain Bligh" >>>
>False. The CDC (and respected medical centers) found - and reported - the
>conditions under which it can be communicated, which include simply
>transmitting body fluids from one who is afflicted, onto mucous membranes
>of another person.
And those same agencies have determined that transmission
is extremely difficult. A direct transmission of body fluid,
ususally blood, is required. There is no medical research that
would support the use of quarruntine regulations for HIV+,
or even full blown AIDS, patients.
Jim
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323.47 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | no, i'm aluminuming 'um, mum | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:13 | 7 |
| >>Why should we give
>>these stupid people free needles?
Because their stupidity might cause the disease to spread even more?
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323.48 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:15 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.28 by CASDOC::HEBERT "Captain Bligh" >>>
Art, are you comparing the spread of AIDS to how a cold is spread? I
hope I read that wrong.
Glen
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323.50 | And hope it doesn't touch someone you love | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:29 | 16 |
| Quarantine will never work because there is a large percentage of
our population that is HIV+, BUT THEY DON'T KNOW IT!!
The gay community is probably the most responsible portion of our
population regarding HIV & AIDS at this point in time. It's teen-
agers who don't/won't believe it can touch them, and others like
them who are continuing to spread the disease. As was pointed out
in an earlier article, drug use is tied to the current leap in
the spread. The disease is spreading fastest within the female
population (is this because women are resorting to sex to support
drug habits?)
No matter how you look at it, the disease is a hideous way to die.
Forget about the moralizing and lectures; just pray someone finds
a cure for it, and fast!!
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323.51 | Not bubonic plague... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:31 | 11 |
|
Re, contagion...I'm no doctor, and know little about this disease
except that it is mostly sexually transmitted. I agree with the
earlier comment, that if it were spread through the air, then the
public safety would justify quarantine. But my amateur understanding
has been that the mere presence of HIV+ people poses no health
threat.
I'd change my mind and run away fast if I feared catching it !
bb
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323.52 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:33 | 52 |
| .31
> So which one of you "sick" people (if you can be called that) will
> "quaurentine" (sp) your child with AIDS.
I would, just as I would for any other disease that warrants
it.
> You guys need some serious
> help in the Humane dept. People are dieing form this disease.
Precisely. People are dying from the disease. And people
are still contracting the disease -- at an alarming rate.
People with AIDS are still giving it to others. It seems
that we can't count on their behavior to stem the spread,
so I can see no other choice.
> Instead
> of casting judgement on them, doing away with them by quarentining them
> and forgetting they exist, do something. Your child could be next!!
Who said anything about forgetting about them? Quarantine
doesn't mean tossing them in a box. The "boy in the bubble"
was quarantined, for example. (FOR EXAMPLE, OK? Don't go
ratholing this by suggesting that this is what I propose
for AIDS victims.) A quarantined patient can have all the
comforts that everyone else has.
> God help you if your infant needs a transfusion, God help you if you do
> too..I hope YOUR not judged too harshly when that happens.
Today's blood supply is very safe, and very monitored. It is
a miniscule vector (if even one at all) of the disease.
> LIVE with
> AIDs or the ravages of it, then tell me you'll quarentine them....
Live with the ravages of ANY disease that requires quarantine.
What's your point? Actually, I'm not as concerned with those
in the last stages of the ravages of AIDS. They are less likely
to spread it through dangerous behavior, and are treated with
the utmost of caution by society as a whole. It is those who
are still sexually/IV-drug active, who don't show the outward
signs of the disease, that need to be quarantined.
> give it a rest. Ignorance is obviously something you cure.
What's your purpose of this statement. Show me where I have
expressed anything ignorant about the disease. Rather than attack
me, perhaps you should put your efforts into showing real reason
(other than your emotionalism) that quarantine would not be
effective.
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323.53 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:39 | 23 |
|
RE: <<< Note 323.50 by DECLNE::REESE "ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround" >>>
-< And hope it doesn't touch someone you love >-
> The gay community is probably the most responsible portion of our
> population regarding HIV & AIDS at this point in time. It's teen-
> agers who don't/won't believe it can touch them, and others like
Wasn't there an article in the WSJ or NYT earlier this week that
stated that the gay community has become lax in their prevention
habits? I recall hearing this on Monday, but didn't catch all the
details, but the jist seemed to be that the gay community was not
being all that responsible of late.
Jim
|
323.54 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:41 | 49 |
| .35
> Well gosh by golly, if we're gonna do this quarantine thing,
> we better get going on it right now, because there's
> a potential incubation period of 5 to 10 years and, well,
> we better make sure we separate them all out now...
Good point. If those who could spread the disease within
society were removed from contact with the general population,
we could virtually eliminate the disease in this society
in that 5 to 10 years.
For that matter, we could eliminate it if we could count on
all those with AIDS to refrain from the behavior that spreads
it. We could have eliminated it by now (it's been 10 years
since the basic vectors were identified) but that hasn't worked,
and continues to fail to work. What else would you suggest in
the absence of a cure (or even the reasonable hope of a cure at
this point.)
> of
> course, if they've contracted the virus in the last six
> months we have no test to even detect its presence so we'll
> have to keep testing them.
There are plenty of identified cases that continue to spread
the disease. As more are identified, they can be added to
the program. For that matter, as each case is identified,
their sexual partners should also be identified and tested,
though I'm sure that idea will also go over like a lead
balloon with this crowd.
> Oh, and let's start with those grandmothers who had hip
> replacements, or those athletes that had orthopedic surgery,
> ' cause it just so happens that many of them may have been
> given tainted bone material; seems they use crushed bone
> matter or bone parts in such surgery and the companies
> that supply it weren't always dilligent about checking
> their sources.
Medical companies certainly are diligent now, and have been
so for quite some time. As I said in another reply, transmission
of HIV through medical blood and tissue transfer is practically
nil now.
> Not to mention those sinful hemophiliacs and EMTs. Nasty,
> evil people, the lot of them.
Stick to the facts if you want to be taken seriously.
|
323.55 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:49 | 31 |
| .50
> Quarantine will never work because there is a large percentage of
> our population that is HIV+, BUT THEY DON'T KNOW IT!!
So test for it! Don't you remember in grade school getting
an annual TB test? Where was the public outcry against
testing for that? This is a killer disease, just like TB.
Why doesn't society do all that it can to find it and
remove it from society?
> It's teen-
> agers who don't/won't believe it can touch them, and others like
> them who are continuing to spread the disease. As was pointed out
> in an earlier article, drug use is tied to the current leap in
> the spread. The disease is spreading fastest within the female
> population (is this because women are resorting to sex to support
> drug habits?)
Well we could work to get society to accept sexual responsibility
and drug prevention, but it is clear that society does not want
to address them either. So if promiscuous sex and drug use are to
be accepted as commonoplace, we'd better protect society from a
disease that is becoming rampant through those behaviors.
> No matter how you look at it, the disease is a hideous way to die.
> Forget about the moralizing and lectures; just pray someone finds
> a cure for it, and fast!!
We have a cure in our midst today -- sexual responsibility and
drug use prevention.
|
323.56 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:51 | 4 |
| > The gay community is probably the most responsible portion of our
> population regarding HIV & AIDS at this point in time.
Nonsense. Celibates and monogamous couples are more responsible.
|
323.57 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:51 | 37 |
| | <<< Note 323.49 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| > Quarantine is only justified if the disease is "catching".
| It doesn't develop in someone all by itself.
That has to be one of the most intelligent statements I have ever seen
you write. With the diseases that required a quarantine, it was because they
were easily spread and unless the people were put seperate, it would keep
spreading. AIDS is not that type of disease. Education could do wonders for
people, and could do wonders for learning about this disease.
| Had we been quarantining those who have been diagnosed with AIDS and or HIV+
| since the disease was identified, we wouldn't have anywhere near the
| prevalence of the disease as we have today.
If we had recognized it in this country as a real disease to begin with
it would have helped immensly with the spread of AIDS. But Reagan did not think
it was that important cuz in this country it had not gotten around to the hets
is large numbers. The numbers for this disease started to grow, but until they
grew involving hets, nothing was done about it by the country. Within the gay
community, education became the best weapon. New AIDS cases for gays dropped,
while they grew at a great rate for hets. So realizing earlier in this country
that this was indeed a terrible disease would have cut the numbers down
drastically. Of course if Reagan and co. looked at the worlds numbers, they
would have seen hets had the disease at a far greater % than did gays. Why in
North America it was the oppisite is unkown.
| Instead we have merely been relying on the sensible behavior of those who have
| the disease, and that has failed miserably.
No Joe, it has not.
Glen
|
323.58 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:55 | 44 |
| <<< Note 323.52 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> So which one of you "sick" people (if you can be called that) will
>> "quaurentine" (sp) your child with AIDS.
> I would, just as I would for any other disease that warrants
> it.
Just how often do you children exchange body fluids with
other people?
> Precisely. People are dying from the disease. And people
> are still contracting the disease -- at an alarming rate.
> People with AIDS are still giving it to others. It seems
> that we can't count on their behavior to stem the spread,
> so I can see no other choice.
So your answer is to isolate the entire population of HIV+
patients because of the irresponsible actions of only a
portion of that population. For someone who is always
telling us that people should be respnsible for their
own actions, it seems illogical that you intend to punish
people for the actions of others.
> Who said anything about forgetting about them? Quarantine
> doesn't mean tossing them in a box. The "boy in the bubble"
> was quarantined, for example. (FOR EXAMPLE, OK? Don't go
> ratholing this by suggesting that this is what I propose
> for AIDS victims.) A quarantined patient can have all the
> comforts that everyone else has.
Then what is YOUR quarrantine proposal. the number of infected
people right now is roughly equivalent to the population of
Colorado Springs. Do you plan on isoalting them all in the
same place, or will each city and town have its own ghetto?
> Today's blood supply is very safe, and very monitored. It is
> a miniscule vector (if even one at all) of the disease.
According to the CDC, you chances of contracting AIDS via
a transfusion is about 1 in 75,000. Not high, but not zero
either.
Jim
|
323.59 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 13:59 | 5 |
|
Jim, lets hope Joes doesn't quarentine them to Colorado Springs. It
would be bad enough to be quarentined, but to have him in the same town???
That's too much burden for any one person to take.
|
323.60 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Thu Mar 02 1995 14:08 | 67 |
| > For that matter, we could eliminate it if we could count on
> all those with AIDS to refrain from the behavior that spreads
> it. We could have eliminated it by now (it's been 10 years
> since the basic vectors were identified) but that hasn't worked,
> and continues to fail to work.
1,000,000. That's the conservative estimate of infected individuals
in the US. Where you planning on keeping these people while the
disease takes it toll? Are you planning on giving them medical
assistance during this time?
This number represents less than 5 percent of the estimated
cases worldwide. You're gonna need a hell of a big leper
colony Joe.
What else would you suggest in
> the absence of a cure (or even the reasonable hope of a cure at
> this point.)
There will likely never be a cure. Viral diseases are rarely
cured. Most likely, DNA research will find a mechanism for
blocking the T-cell receptors that HIV uses to replicate.
However, this requires genetic manipulation of the cell, and
such therapy has its own consequences. Chief among them is
that 10 or 20 years down the road, such manipulation could
trigger other immuno responses such as cancer. Therefore,
the "test" period for an AIDS vaccine (several such tests
are underway) is likely to be the longest in medical history.
So, the answer is Joe, there is no answer. Nature is a bitch.
Get used to it. Quarantine, aside from being a logistical
impossibility, has certain Constitutional and ethical
implications.
> There are plenty of identified cases that continue to spread
> the disease. As more are identified, they can be added to
> the program. For that matter, as each case is identified,
> their sexual partners should also be identified and tested,
> though I'm sure that idea will also go over like a lead
> balloon with this crowd.
Your "plenty" is believed to be in the small minority. Only
a small portion of our population is tested; a vast majority
of those who carry the AIDS virus are unaware of it. Are
you about to mandate world-wide testing to go along with
your identification process? Where are you planning on
having your AIDS test conducted, Joe?
> Medical companies certainly are diligent now, and have been
> so for quite some time. As I said in another reply, transmission
> of HIV through medical blood and tissue transfer is practically
> nil now.
But the point is, that until the middle 1980s, there was no
test at all and many people were infected. Until the last
few years, there was no DNA test, which is the only
effective way to identify the virus in most tissue. So,
all of the potential victims in this group are still within
the standard incubation period.
> Stick to the facts if you want to be taken seriously.
History has shown that I have no hope of being taken seriously
unless I agree with you, in which case, I'm more than happy
not to be taken seriously.
-b
|
323.61 | ....ignorance becomes fear. | NEMAIL::BULLOCK | | Thu Mar 02 1995 14:14 | 19 |
|
re.54
Just round em' up,.....huh?? Sounds like Gestapo.
I can envision this "future security force" roping off
a particular neighborhood,...dressed in environmental
suits with bullhorns and sidearms. "...ATTENTION,....ATTENTION
ALL MALES AND FEMALES WHO'VE HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A CASUAL
PARTNER WITHIN THE LAST SIX MONTHS ARE ORDERED TO THE FOLLOWING
STAGING AREAS........,FAILURE TO COMPLY WITH THIS ORDER WILL
RESULT IN YOUR IMMEDIATE ARREST,.........RESISTANCE WILL RESULT
IN AN INDEFINITE INCARCERATION,.....DRUG ADDICTS ARE SUBJECT TO
BEING SHOT ON SITE,....WE KNOW WHO YOU ARE"!
Ed
|
323.62 | | SWAM2::SMITH_MA | | Thu Mar 02 1995 14:18 | 6 |
| RE .56
And there aren't celibate or monagamos homosexual men and women?
Give me a break!
|
323.63 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Mar 02 1995 14:25 | 5 |
| > And there aren't celibate or monagamos homosexual men and women?
Certainly. But "the homosexual community" as a whole isn't celibate or
monogamous. Assuming that the CDC knows what it's talking about, celibate
homosexuals and celibate heterosexuals have equally low risk of contracting HIV.
|
323.64 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member in good standing | Thu Mar 02 1995 14:27 | 7 |
|
The scarlet letter perhaps?
This sounds terrible, I know, but there have knowingly put other people
at risk. Is there an answer to this type of problem?
|
323.65 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 14:34 | 17 |
| Re: Reagan and Company
I hope you include Ted Kennedy in that company because he didn't do
chit either.
ZZ Just round em' up,.....huh?? Sounds like Gestapo.
Ed:
Recently, Fidel Castro sent quite a few AIDS patients to the shores of
Florida...exiled them if you will. You may make jokes about the
gestapo but it is currently the Clinton ilk that is the most open to
allowing AIDS patients in the United States. As an American citizen, I
resent this.
-Jack
|
323.66 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:19 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.63 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>
| But "the homosexual community" as a whole isn't celibate or monogamous.
HO HO! And those non-gay people are oh so celibate (pregnancy rate for
unmarried is sooooo high) and monogomous (how many people get a divorce because
they cheated on the spouse). Sacks.... you are quite funny...
| Assuming that the CDC knows what it's talking about, celibate homosexuals and
| celibate heterosexuals have equally low risk of contracting HIV.
Now that's very intelligent of you to say. :-)
|
323.67 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:21 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.65 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| I hope you include Ted Kennedy in that company because he didn't do chit
| either.
Jack, I'm glad you stated this. Now, if you would prove it, I'd be
surprised. I would really like to see you prove this, or let us know if this is
just a gut feel of yours. I got the .com warming up.... DOH!
Glen
|
323.68 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Consultants Of Swing | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:25 | 5 |
|
Joe, do you feel that you or your family are at risk of contracting
AIDS? If so, why? How?
|
323.69 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:28 | 15 |
| Re: .45
>Diabetics don't share needles
Yes, I know.
>obviously you missed my whole point.
I got it. I just don't think it's a very good one. The reason drug
addicts get free needles is to discourage needle sharing. Sharing
needles promotes the spread of AIDS. People with AIDS can spread it to
other people. People with AIDS require treatment, often times
expensive treatment. That is why we should "give these stupid people
free needles" -- because a small expense now helps avoids huge expenses
down the line.
|
323.70 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:32 | 11 |
|
I have a hard time with this one. On one hand it makes sense to hand
out needles to help stop the spread of the disease, but on the other hand it
promotes the use of drugs. I guess it is like the condom abstinance thing.
Abstinance will automatically keep <insert disastor> from happening, but in
this day in age, who can believe that everyone will follow the abstinance
message?
Glen
|
323.71 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:34 | 19 |
| Re: .54
>If those who could spread the disease within society were removed from
>contact with the general population, we could virtually eliminate the
>disease in this society in that 5 to 10 years.
That means no one travels to or from Africa or southeast Asia.
That means that we have to fund multiple HIV tests (a single test is
inconclusive) for every single person in this country, since the
disease can take years to manifest itself.
That means that hundreds of facilities will have to be staffed and
maintained around the clock.
That means that Ryan White and hundreds of other children would not
have been allowed to be with their parents and families as they died.
That means that _all_ AIDS patients die with only medical practitioners
in attendance.
|
323.72 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:37 | 39 |
| .57
>were easily spread and unless the people were put seperate, it would keep
>spreading. AIDS is not that type of disease.
AIDS **IS** that type of disease. It is spreading, and at
increasing rates. What more do you need to see it?
>Education could do wonders for
>people, and could do wonders for learning about this disease.
We've been educating for more than a decade. People are
still getting contracting it today. What more do we need
to "learn"?
> If we had recognized it in this country as a real disease to begin with
>it would have helped immensly with the spread of AIDS. But Reagan did not think
>it was that important cuz in this country it had not gotten around to the hets
>is large numbers.
Blaming Reagan is bogus. How is it Reagan's fault that hundreds
(thousands?) will contract it this very day? And just as many
more tomorrow...
Virtually everybody (in this country at least) knows about AIDS.
We all know how it is transmitted. We all know it is deadly.
But it continues to spread.
We need to remove the infected from the general population. I
see no other way to stop the spread, given society's morals and
values.
>| Instead we have merely been relying on the sensible behavior of those who have
>| the disease, and that has failed miserably.
>
> No Joe, it has not.
You can say "it has not" ONLY when the spread has stopped.
Today you cannot.
|
323.73 | reply | BRAT::MINICHINO | | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:41 | 18 |
| .58
In response to your obvious one eyed look at HIV spreading....blood
products, BLOOD PRODUCTS....this includes plasma, platelets, or any
other BODY fluids. So Those infants so unlucky enough to be born with
hemophilia or other blood diseases, are at high risk..
So ten or fifteen years ago, your child receives a blood transfusion
from a car accident, just last week......they find they are HIV+. So
now what, We need to put this on a personal level. We need to get these
people help by finding a cure.
As for the needles, I don't think that diabetics should have to pay for
the syringes...but I don't think that drug programs don't help.
I've never been a drug addict, but yes..DT's could kill you.
|
323.74 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:48 | 42 |
| .58
> So your answer is to isolate the entire population of HIV+
> patients because of the irresponsible actions of only a
> portion of that population.
That seems to be our only resort.
> For someone who is always
> telling us that people should be respnsible for their
> own actions, it seems illogical that you intend to punish
> people for the actions of others.
True, I espouse personal responsibility. The problem is (as
I previously stated) that society seems to have decided that
it will condone and even embrace the absence of that
responsibility. At the same time we as a society seem to
want to refuse to address the results of that absence of
responsibility, but we sure like to do a lot of complaining
about the tragic individual devastation that comes from
the result of that absence of responsibility.
You can't have it both ways.
> Then what is YOUR quarrantine proposal.
I don't have a specific proposal. Yes, the numbers are high.
I propose taking the logistical hit now (and manage it for
the 10 years it takes for the majority of current cases to
run their course) rather than have to deal with the continued
spread and propogation of the disease for the unforseeable
future.
> According to the CDC, you chances of contracting AIDS via
> a transfusion is about 1 in 75,000. Not high, but not zero
> either.
I believe I used the term "virtually nil". We can quibble over
semantics, but I think we both agree that this is no longer a
significant vector at all. And taking known cases out of
the general population will further reduce the chances of
contracting it through transfusions.
|
323.75 | | BRAT::MINICHINO | | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:51 | 17 |
| .70
So by handing out needles does this make YOU want to do drugs????
that line "promotes the use" always gets me. We are not all going to
run out and do IV drugs because the government decided to give needles
to drug abusers...
but you're right. Do we give the drug users needles
to help them do drugs and stop the spread of HIV or do we allow the
drug users to spread the disease (however conscious of the disease they
may be). I think I'd go for the Needles free thing. It seems like it
would help, even save one person...isn't that what prevention is all
about.
|
323.76 | | SMURF::BINDER | vitam gustare | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:52 | 11 |
| .74
>> So your answer is to isolate the entire population
>
> That seems to be our only resort.
UNCLEAN! UNCLEAN!
gee, we could rebuild the leper colony in hawaii, and maybe the one off
the coast of massachusetts, too. show our kids the dirtier side of our
history by actual example.
|
323.77 | | ICS::VERMA | | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:52 | 21 |
| Not too long ago PBS traced AIDS history on Frontline or some such
program. one of the conclusions was that if San Fransisco had the
political courage to close Turkish baths and isolate known HIV+
gays and drug addicts in time, spread of AIDS would have been
contained. It was not done and rest is history.
Then last year 60 minutes did a piece about AIDS in Cuba, which at
the time was the ONLY country where spread of AIDS was declining.
It was revealed that Cuba had a quarantine policy for AIDS patients.
One of the US doctors interviewed by 60 minutes agreed that quarantine
can reduce spread of AIDS but USA cannot muster political will to
do that. Knowledge of Cuban quarantine promptly led the Human Rights
organizations to criticise Cuba and forced it to relax quarantine
policy. Since then AIDS is on the rise in Cuba.
Cuba is not a country worthy of any praise but the ONLY one that
used quarantine and proved that it can work. PC crowd in USA made
sure Cuba dismantled it, and so it was.
Is quarantine cruel? yes. But it should not be condemned because
it ain't PC.
|
323.78 | | SMURF::BINDER | vitam gustare | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:55 | 3 |
| and china has an effective policy against drugs, too. it's called a
bullet in the brain if you're convicted of possession. maybe we should
try that one, too. clean that ol' drug problem right up, it would.
|
323.79 | .....too many chiefs. | NEMAIL::BULLOCK | | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:57 | 19 |
|
The thing that bothers me to no end about this disease is
the number of "factions" and "collaboratives" that are
working on a "cure" seems endless. Do these scientist really
share information?
There was piece in Time magazine last week about Salk, his
HIV/AIDS research and a "vaccine" that he's trying to get
approved for testing. The article was followed by a ton of
skeptics who doubted the research. At the conclusion of every
worldwide AIDS conference,.....the message is that things are
getting a lot worse. It appears that everyone wants to get there
first,......what about getting there together?
Ed
|
323.80 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 15:59 | 11 |
| Oh yeah Glen...I remember the outcries of the democrat controlled
Congress throughout the Reagan years and even as they controlled the
Senate during the second term. There was such an outpouring of
compassion in those days by the democrat leadership...NOT!!
The democrat party was just as befuddled as Reagan was. They didn't
know what kind of plague was going to hit the country, or even the
world for that matter. Believe me Glen, there was no agenda to wipe
out the gay population...okay!?
-Jack
|
323.81 | knee jerk reaction! | ICS::VERMA | | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:02 | 5 |
|
Re: .78
that happens to one of your least thoughtful responses, Binder.
|
323.82 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:03 | 5 |
| Chite. I never realized I was PC. Always thought I was just about
the opposite really. Never realized that being PC meant respecting
the Constitution or not treating people like garbage.
-b
|
323.83 | eddie speghetti | BRAT::MINICHINO | | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:06 | 25 |
| I am with you eddie, there is another note in here about the government
and what are they doing for a cure. You want to bet, any of those
officials in the upper mucky muck get HIV and they'll be misteriously
cured of the disease or we won't hear of it anymore.
Does it really matter where the disease orginated from or who started
it or what SHOULD have been done.....guess not for those of us who know
someone with HIV or someone that's died of AIDS or AIDs related
diseases.
Ignorance does equal fear. If you are fearful of something to a point
of ignorance of the subject, then fear will cloud your thoughts.
So how do the health officials keep from catching the disease if it's
so CATCHY.....they take precautions, they were gloves and they are VERY
VERY careful with needles, no matter who you are...even the dentist
wheres face mask and gloves.
Precautions and more valid and useful research, the spread of HIV isn't
just rising in the gay community, it could kill anyone we know. I
thought I heard (sorry can't PINPOINT the statement) but by the year 2000
all of us will know atleast know of, one person with HIV. That is
stifling for me to hear.
|
323.84 | | SMURF::BINDER | vitam gustare | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:06 | 7 |
| .81
no, actually, i thought about it carefully. i put it there to point
out, by offering a concrete example, that emulating another country's
policy of human rights violation just because doing so happens to solve
a rather sticky problem may not necessarily be the appropriate course
to take. too bad you missed the point.
|
323.85 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:07 | 74 |
| .60
> 1,000,000. That's the conservative estimate of infected individuals
> in the US. Where you planning on keeping these people while the
> disease takes it toll?
In quarantine. AIDS communities. Whatever. Just because
the idea hasn't been worked out in detail doesn't mean that
it should be discarded. Glen joked about shipping them all
to Colorado Springs. Maybe he'd be interested to know that
Colorado Springs was once a prime location for TB sanatoriums.
(Sanitoria?) That history is preserved in some of the locations
of the institutions as well as the Pioneer Museum downtown.
Why can't there be similar AIDS sanatoriums?
These people all have to be cared for in the latter stages of
the disease anyway. As the number of cases grows, we may some
day be faced with 1,000,000 victims all in the latter stages who
need hospice care. Why not do a million now instead of 100,000
per year forever. Make the investment in logistics now, and
we can practically mark an end to the disease.
> Are you planning on giving them medical
> assistance during this time?
Why not? Why do you even suggest this?
> This number represents less than 5 percent of the estimated
> cases worldwide. You're gonna need a hell of a big leper
> colony Joe.
Do nothing and the whole world can end up being a leper colony.
Why are you against stopping the spread of the disease? You
haven't proposed a better alternative.
> There will likely never be a cure.
So all we can do is stop the spread, and let the current cases
run their course. I see two ways to stop the spread.
1) Behavior modification. (Has failed miserably so far.)
2) Remove those whose presence cause risk to others in the
absence of behavior modification. (Unworkable due
to sensitivity issues)
I'd be willing to hear your additions to the list.
> So, the answer is Joe, there is no answer. Nature is a bitch.
> Get used to it.
Maybe you can get used to the continued spread of the disease.
I can't.
> Quarantine, aside from being a logistical
> impossibility, has certain Constitutional and ethical
> implications.
Bull. They quarantine lots of people today for other diseases.
Why isn't it a constitutional or ethical problem in those
cases?
> Your "plenty" is believed to be in the small minority. Only
> a small portion of our population is tested; a vast majority
> of those who carry the AIDS virus are unaware of it. Are
> you about to mandate world-wide testing to go along with
> your identification process? Where are you planning on
> having your AIDS test conducted, Joe?
Yes. Not worldwide, but certainly nationwide, and other
countries are willing to join in. And you can't enter this
country unless you are tested.
We do no less for TB and other diseases.
|
323.86 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:12 | 11 |
|
In the 10+ years since AIDS appeared on the scene, what has been done to
rid ourselves of it, and how effective have those measures been?
Jim
|
323.87 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:13 | 47 |
| | <<< Note 323.72 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| >were easily spread and unless the people were put seperate, it would keep
| >spreading. AIDS is not that type of disease.
| AIDS **IS** that type of disease. It is spreading, and at
| increasing rates. What more do you need to see it?
Joe, if you had AIDS and were talking to me, would I get the disease?
If I gave you a hug, would I get the disease? If I gave you a kiss good-bye,
would I get the disease? Hell, if I slept naked with you, would I get the
disease? The answer to all of these is NO. So there is your difference Joe.
| We've been educating for more than a decade.
Joe, when did Magic Johnson come out and say he had the disease?
199.... education only started for a lot of heterosexuals because the last
couple of years because most thought it was the gay plague.
| > If we had recognized it in this country as a real disease to begin with
| >it would have helped immensly with the spread of AIDS. But Reagan did not think
| >it was that important cuz in this country it had not gotten around to the hets
| >is large numbers.
| Blaming Reagan is bogus. How is it Reagan's fault that hundreds (thousands?)
| will contract it this very day?
I'll give you a hint. If you take all that Reagan did during his
administration to educate people about AIDS, and put it up against what Magic
Johnson did by telling people he had contracted the disease, Reagan loses by a
landslide. Magic Johnson was the KEY person who made many heterosexuals wake up
to the fact they could catch this disease too.
| Virtually everybody (in this country at least) knows about AIDS.
They have heard the word. It does not mean that they know anything
about it. You're a prime example of that with you quarentining AIDS patients.
| We need to remove the infected from the general population. I see no other way
| to stop the spread, given society's morals and values.
That's only because you refuse to look.
Glen
|
323.89 | you assumed too much | ICS::VERMA | | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:18 | 11 |
|
re: .84
reread my note. everyone was criticizing Joe for proposing quarantine.
I merely pointed out that quarantine was considered but rejected even
though it was thought to be able to contain AIDS. Cuban exmaple was
to show that quarantine was used by a country and it worked. you made
the assumption that I proposed emulating another country's policies.
Did no such thing.
|
323.90 | "ATTENTION,....ATTENTION".... | NEMAIL::BULLOCK | | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:20 | 15 |
|
If the US tried to quaratine 1,000,000 people,....the civil
unrest in this country would be staggering. Do you think people
are just gonna' stand around and watch their families taken
away? Like I said earlier G E S T A P O! Round em' up. Once
the "authorities" begin the "AIDS quarantine",...what's gonna'
prevent "them" from "quarantining"[sp] other "people",....for
"other" things.
Ed
|
323.91 | | CSOA1::LEECH | beware of flaming gerbil projectiles | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:21 | 8 |
| re: .69
These programs have not proven to be effective...especially if earlier
figures posted in here are true. If anything, it encourages them to
continue in their lifestyle.
-steve
|
323.92 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:22 | 32 |
| .71
> That means no one travels to or from Africa or southeast Asia.
Not necessarily. Those who travel out of the country could be
required to have a post-return test at 6 months and 12 months.
If they turn up positive, quarantine them.
For that matter, a nationwide periodic testing for all residents
would be sufficient to catch those cases returning on the backs
of travelers who participate in behaviors whiel outside the
country that expose them to the disease.
> That means that we have to fund multiple HIV tests (a single test is
> inconclusive) for every single person in this country, since the
> disease can take years to manifest itself.
Whatever it takes. It's better than doing nothing and watching
the disease continue to spread.
> That means that hundreds of facilities will have to be staffed and
> maintained around the clock.
Whatever it takes. But after 10 years, once all the cases have
run their course, we can disassemble most of the structure
developed to handle it. A skeleton structure can remain in
place to handle the inevitable reduced flow.
Still, it's better than doing nothing, which would only result
in the contunied spread of the disease. Eventually we will have
to have SOMETHING ELSE anyway to handle all the end-of-life cases
we will be having.
|
323.94 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:26 | 36 |
|
Joe, you've been given a number of 1,000,000 people. You want to see
them quarentined. Yet you state you do not know how to go about this. Meg made
some real good points a few notes back, and hopefully you've gotten to them.
But even if you don't, this is still something you want. So give us a plan that
you feel will work. Remember, your plan should include the following, if not
more:
1) finding all those who are hiv
2) finding a way to escort them from their families/friends
3) finding a place to house them
4) finding a way to set up the housing (buildings, bathrooms, etc?)
5) finding a way to feed and clothe them
6) finding medical personel who can take care of 1 mil people
7) finding medical supplies for this quarentine area
8) finding seperate housing to keep the uninfected medical staff
9) finding a way to keep all americans in the country and all illegal aliens out
10) finding new cases every year
11) finding the funding
Can you answer these things Joe?
|
323.95 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | no, i'm aluminuming 'um, mum | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:28 | 3 |
|
.94 bah... details! ;>
|
323.97 | | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:31 | 46 |
| .77 Closing the bath houses would have reduced the spread of AIDS
in the SF area, but that wouldn't have prevented it elsewhere.
The CDC has traced the initial spread of the disease to a flight
attendant for Air Canada who flew an international route. CDC in-
vestigators traced the outbreaks in every major city in the US and
several other countries to stops on this man's schedule.
I remember watching a special about this; after they identified the
attendant they contacted him about the disease (thinking he might
not know he had it). By the time the CDC contacted him he was
experiencing symptoms (but his onset was long after that of some
of his partners). Unfortunately, he was mean spirited as well as
promiscuous and continued to have sexual contacts after the CDC
indicated to him that he was spreading the infection. He died from
Karposi's Sarcoma; before he was too ill to leave his house they
said he sought out partners in the darkness of certain gay bars and
he also used body make-up to try and hide the Karposi's.
However, this man is the exception, not the rule of individuals
who KNOW they are HIV positive. When this happened, there was no
laws on the books to address such behavior, now there are. Just two
weeks ago a man was arrested here in Atlanta after 2 women from
Arkansas traced him here. They claim he had sexual contact with
them knowing he was HIV positive; he has been placed under arrest
and returned to Arkansas.
Jim, it was the during the coverage of this local issue that the
reporter indicated the AIDS is spreading much slower within the gay
community than in the hetero. The guy arrested is thought to be
an IV drug user; he is not gay. I find it difficult to believe that
the gay community is getting lax about safety issues; here in
Atlanta they are pro-active in educational programs etc. Also, most
gay folks have lost too many friends and loved ones to get cavalier
about safety now.
I still don't know how a quarantine could be carried out; since many
people HIV positive are not having symptoms and not ill, it would
take armed guards and a prison-like setting to contain them (again,
assuming they could be identified).
I can't believe people would go along with INvoluntary testing;
especially when I see so many notes in here spouting off about our
constitutional rights :-)
|
323.98 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:32 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.80 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| The democrat party was just as befuddled as Reagan was.
Jack, why did you switch from Ted Kennedy to the democratic party?
Could you please go back and prove how Ted Kennedy did nothing please? That WAS
what I asked.
| They didn't know what kind of plague was going to hit the country, or even the
| world for that matter.
Jack, it had already hit the world hard before it hit us hard. All they
had to do was open their eyes. North America was the ONLY place where the
disease hit gays is higher numbers. EVERYWHERE else it hit the heterosexual
population FAR greater. Go read the CDC's results once in a while.
| Believe me Glen, there was no agenda to wipe out the gay population...okay!?
I didn't say there was. I did say there was no hurry by Reagan to do
anything because he thought it was a gay disease.
Glen
|
323.99 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:33 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.82 by MPGS::MARKEY "Send John Thomas some doughnuts" >>>
| Chite. I never realized I was PC. Always thought I was just about the opposite
| really. Never realized that being PC meant respecting the Constitution or not
| treating people like garbage.
I'm glad you're PC on this Brian.... :-)
|
323.100 | | SMURF::BINDER | vitam gustare | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:34 | 20 |
| .88
> If someone is found
> to have bubonic plague...
which is perhaps the most contagious disease we have ever been
confronted with. aids isn't in the same league in this regard.
> And they are quarantined
> if found to have the disease.
but only until they are cured, not for the rest of their lives. there
is adifference of magnitude here, joe. for the plague, you are taking
their liberty for a short period to prevent them from spreading a
HIGHLY contagious disease. you simply have no idea how fast the plague
spreads if not contained - if someone in colorado springs has it today,
and there is no treatment, the entire city will have it in two weeks.
aids is not like this. obtw, the plague's fatality rate is something
in excess of 99 percent if it is left untreated, right up there with
aids but a lot faster.
|
323.101 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:35 | 15 |
| Glen:
If you believe AIDS is a national epidemic, then do you believe
education will work fast enough? Is the trend changing for the better
or is it getting worse? If AIDS grows into a greater epidemic, this
would tell me that all the education in the world will not reverse the
trend; therefore any solution that WILL reverse the trend would be
considered. We know pissing money down the toilet is doing no good.
We're too proud to bend knee and ask God to remove this plight from us,
therefore, don't be surprised if something radical is done if AIDS
becomes a major epidemic or even becomes a threat to National security.
Right now the status quo isn't working fast enough! Or is AIDS really
as epidemic as the gay lobby wants to admit.
-Jack
|
323.102 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alleged Degirdification | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:39 | 4 |
| Aren't there more deaths caused by breast cancer?
It was no. 1 woman killer in Canada up until last year, now it's lung
cancer.
|
323.103 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:40 | 34 |
| .87
> Joe, if you had AIDS and were talking to me, would I get the disease?
>If I gave you a hug, would I get the disease? If I gave you a kiss good-bye,
>would I get the disease? Hell, if I slept naked with you, would I get the
>disease? The answer to all of these is NO. So there is your difference Joe.
The vectors for AIDS spread in this society are currently
commonplace practices. We *COULD* (as a society) change that,
but it appears that society doesn't want to do that. Either
we change the practice, or change the risk in the practice.
Since the practices aren't likely to be changed, I only see
quarantine as the way to change the risks. Do you have a
better solution?
>| We've been educating for more than a decade.
>
> Joe, when did Magic Johnson come out and say he had the disease?
Magic Johnson isn't any magical timeline event. When did Ryan
White die? Well practically everyone in this country (we can
never say EVERYONE) knew the basic disease vectors long before
his death. They were making AIDS quilts well before I moved
to Colorado in 1989, and you know how important it was to the
AIDS lobby that non-gay victims be highlighted on those quilts.
We as a society have known for a long time what was what. Don't
try to kid us into believing otherwise.
> They have heard the word. It does not mean that they know anything
>about it. You're a prime example of that with you quarentining AIDS patients.
You still haven't proposed anything better, nor shown how
quarantine would not be effective.
|
323.104 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:41 | 9 |
| Glen:
Ted Kennedy's ilk is what I meant. Ted Kennedy WAS the democrat party
Glen, and he did zilch! Remember, they are the ones who appropriate
funding to the various departments. There was no writhing dissent in
appropriations to AIDS research and this was CONTROLLED by Ted Kennedy
et al.
-Jack
|
323.106 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:46 | 17 |
| .94
>you feel will work. Remember, your plan should include the following, if not
>more:
> Can you answer these things Joe?
We as a society are currently doing those things, Glen, only
we are just dealing with those at the end of their lives.
Every AIDS patient needs care. All million of them will
eventually need it, and by permitting the disease to continue
to spread we are assuring ourselves that we will continue to
have to do all those things. Forever. For the next million,
and the next million. And what's worse, the number of cases
aren't remaining constant, but increasing, so that some day
we will be dealing with a million patients a year at the end
of their lives. Can't you see this?
|
323.108 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:53 | 47 |
| | <<< Note 323.101 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| If you believe AIDS is a national epidemic, then do you believe education will
| work fast enough?
Yes. And it will be MUCH cheaper than quarentining people.
| Is the trend changing for the better or is it getting worse?
Better.
| If AIDS grows into a greater epidemic, this would tell me that all the
| education in the world will not reverse the trend; therefore any solution that
| WILL reverse the trend would be considered.
Education has and will continue to reverse the trend.
| We're too proud to bend knee and ask God to remove this plight from us,
You know, this is a piece of chite Jack. Tell me right now that no one
has done this. Tell me and mean it. You know you can't, so don't go spewing
that crap please.
| therefore, don't be surprised if something radical is done if AIDS becomes a
| major epidemic or even becomes a threat to National security.
And don't be surprised at the radical uproar that will happen from the
family/friends of those you want to radically take away.
| Right now the status quo isn't working fast enough!
Jack, education for heterosexuals got started in a big way in 93 when
Magic came out. Numbers will go down once we get past those who once thought
they were invincible before he talked all get tested.
| Or is AIDS really as epidemic as the gay lobby wants to admit.
This has got to be one of the most assinine things I have ever had the
displeasure of reading from you. You don't even know who the hell is stating
what it is. You go off and state things that are not even happening. The CDC is
reporting many things about this disease Jack. Gee, what # killer is it for
people 25-40??? Could that tell you anything?? For once Jack, really, think
before you open your mouth.
Glen
|
323.109 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:55 | 11 |
|
So, in the 10+ years since AIDS appeared on the scene, what has been done
to rid ourselves of the disease, and how effective have those efforts been?
Jim
|
323.110 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:55 | 12 |
| .108
>| Is the trend changing for the better or is it getting worse?
>
> Better.
The number of new AIDS cases continues to grow. You are only
fooling yourself.
> Education has and will continue to reverse the trend.
The trend is far from reversing. You are only fooling yourself.
|
323.111 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Thu Mar 02 1995 16:58 | 54 |
| > In quarantine. AIDS communities. Whatever. Just because
> the idea hasn't been worked out in detail doesn't mean that
> it should be discarded. Glen joked about shipping them all
> to Colorado Springs. Maybe he'd be interested to know that
> Colorado Springs was once a prime location for TB sanatoriums.
> (Sanitoria?) That history is preserved in some of the locations
> of the institutions as well as the Pioneer Museum downtown.
> Why can't there be similar AIDS sanatoriums?
> Are you planning on giving them medical
> assistance during this time?
> Why not? Why do you even suggest this?
Because, it is part of the overall equation. AIDS takes a
long time to runs its course, a long time. OK, so you
manage to find a place to put all these people (highly
unlikely, but I'll play along). So you can accept the
morality of isolating them, but not the morality of letting
them die quickly. Would it be acceptable to you if we
saved all the time and money and logistical nightmare
and just executed people when they are identified as
HIV+.
> Do nothing and the whole world can end up being a leper colony.
It very well may Joe. It's not like it's in anyone's control
at this point. New viral strains are identified all the time.
Epidemics are on the rise. Some think its because of end-
time prophecy, others because it's what happens in any population
which exceeds the capacity of its environment (which is what
I believe), but either way, its there, its happening, it
would be nice if we could do something, but it's extremely
unlikely.
> So all we can do is stop the spread, and let the current cases
> run their course. I see two ways to stop the spread.
> 1) Behavior modification. (Has failed miserably so far.)
> 2) Remove those whose presence cause risk to others in the
> absence of behavior modification. (Unworkable due
> to sensitivity issues)
> I'd be willing to hear your additions to the list.
I'm sorry Joe, I don't have the answer. I'm pretty much along
for the ride, I'm afraid God hasn't clued me in here and
neither has medical science. I hope a treatment will be produced
someday.
More later...
-b
|
323.112 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:00 | 57 |
| | <<< Note 323.103 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| The vectors for AIDS spread in this society are currently commonplace
| practices. We *COULD* (as a society) change that, but it appears that society
| doesn't want to do that.
Education has been doing that Joe.....
| Since the practices aren't likely to be changed,
Even though if you would open your eyes you would see they are....
| I only see quarantine as the way to change the risks.
I know you only see that, but now it is time to open your eyes.
| Do you have a better solution?
Education.
| Magic Johnson isn't any magical timeline event.
Oh yes he is. He got the disease from SEX. Up until that point, most
heterosexuals did not think they could get it that way.
| When did Ryan White die?
Ryan White got it from a transfusion Joe. People were scared about the
blood, not sex.
| They were making AIDS quilts well before I moved to Colorado in 1989,
Yeah, by friends and family members of those who died from AIDS.
| and you know how important it was to the AIDS lobby that non-gay victims be
| highlighted on those quilts.
I don't quite understand this one.
| We as a society have known for a long time what was what.
Yeah, the gay plague....then reality set in.
| Don't try to kid us into believing otherwise.
Don't need to kid anyone Joe. The facts back it all up. You equate Ryan
White to hets realizing they could get AIDS from sex, and you talk about
kidding?
| You still haven't proposed anything better,
E D U C A T I O N !
Glen
|
323.113 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:02 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.104 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| Ted Kennedy's ilk is what I meant. Ted Kennedy WAS the democrat party Glen,
He was part of it Jack, but many other cogs made up the dem party.
| and he did zilch!
No Jack, he fought for funding, he fought for education. Again, it
appears you are talking without looking at the facts....why should I find this
surprising????
Glen
|
323.114 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:09 | 7 |
| Kindly blow it out your shorts Glen. First you say things are getting
better and then you get offended when I infer it isn't a rising
epidemic. If things are getting better and education is working, then
why are the numbers continuing to climb? No, it wasn't a stupid
question Glen. You just presented a knee jerk reaction!
-Jack
|
323.115 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:10 | 40 |
| | <<< Note 323.106 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| We as a society are currently doing those things,
No Joe, we are not. We are not going around and testing EVERY
individual, we are not going out rounding them all up and putting them in one
centerally located area, we are not rounding up all these health care workers
and shipping them off to one central location, etc.
| Glen, only we are just dealing with those at the end of their lives.
Have you even been to a hospice Joe? Do you even know what they do?
Based on what you have been saying, I think not. Families are not split up like
you would have it. (or are you gonna cart them away too?) You are not looking
at reality Joe, you are looking at something without taking into consideration
what it entails.
| Every AIDS patient needs care. All million of them will eventually need it,
Joe, just a hint, the 1 mil number includes all who are HIV+ as well.
You know, the ones who can still take care of themselves, who you want to
isolate.
| and by permitting the disease to continue to spread
No one is permitting anything Joe.
| And what's worse, the number of cases aren't remaining constant, but
| increasing,
Joe, where are they increasing? In the het community. Why are they
increasing? For the same reason they did back with the gay community before.
Some people get tested who have had the disease for quite some time. So while
the numbers go up, it is only because more people are getting tested. People
are far more cautious now. The numbers will be going down for the het community
like they have for the gay community.
Glen
|
323.116 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:12 | 23 |
| .111
> Would it be acceptable to you if we
> saved all the time and money and logistical nightmare
> and just executed people when they are identified as
> HIV+.
You proposed this. I didn't. This statement almost made
me ignore the rest of your reply.
> > Do nothing and the whole world can end up being a leper colony.
>
> It very well may Joe.
And that's what my little debating exercise is attempting to
address.
> would be nice if we could do something, but it's extremely
> unlikely.
I also agree that it is unlikely that we would be able to
quarantine AIDS patients. However I believe the biggest
roadblock to doing it is not logistical, but political.
|
323.117 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:13 | 10 |
| .112
>| practices. We *COULD* (as a society) change that, but it appears that society
>| doesn't want to do that.
>
> Education has been doing that Joe.....
You are sorely mistaken, and it would be fruitless to even
continue reading the rest of your reply.
|
323.118 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:14 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.114 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| Kindly blow it out your shorts Glen. First you say things are getting
| better and then you get offended when I infer it isn't a rising epidemic.
No Jack, I get PISSED OFF when you infer the gay community is making a
big deal about it, when it's people, straight and gay, who are doing this. And
it is the CDC that rates what kind of epidemic it is. You make a lot of
statements Jack and try to tie them to certain groups, when they really aren't
from that group.
| If things are getting better and education is working, then why are the
| numbers continuing to climb?
Read a couple of notes back for your answer.
Glen
|
323.119 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:16 | 4 |
|
Joe, will you please tell us your plan? I and others are waiting to see
how you would handle this. Thank you...
|
323.120 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:18 | 24 |
| > Would it be acceptable to you if we
> saved all the time and money and logistical nightmare
> and just executed people when they are identified as
> HIV+.
> You proposed this. I didn't. This statement almost made
> me ignore the rest of your reply.
Ignore it if you like, I'm not holding your hand to the flame
here. It was a serious question (and was intended as a question,
even though I forgot the ?).
I'll try again. If you can you accept the morality of isolating
a portion of the population (and you seem to be able to accept
it as that is what you are arguing for), can you accept the
notion of executing this same population, and if not, why
not?
I can't take you further down this road until you answer this
question, and again, it is a serious questions, so please
answer it (especially the why not part, as I already assume
you will say no to the first part).
-b
|
323.121 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:26 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.59 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
> Jim, lets hope Joes doesn't quarentine them to Colorado Springs. It
>would be bad enough to be quarentined, but to have him in the same town???
>That's too much burden for any one person to take.
Luckily, I live outside the city limits.
;-)
Jim
|
323.122 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:28 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.60 by MPGS::MARKEY "Send John Thomas some doughnuts" >>>
> 1,000,000. That's the conservative estimate of infected individuals
> in the US. Where you planning on keeping these people while the
> disease takes it toll?
Ooops, my estimate was off my a factor of 3.
Joe, We'll need the city of Denver, not the Springs.
Jim
|
323.123 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Consultants Of Swing | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:33 | 10 |
|
Joe, is AIDS spread by casual contact or by specific behaviours?
Since you know the answer, lets carry on...
Do you think it is right to punish those who have AIDS (by depriving
them of their liberty and civil rights) simply because they MAY at
some time in the future participate in one or more of those specific
behaviours?
|
323.124 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:40 | 44 |
| <<< Note 323.74 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> So your answer is to isolate the entire population of HIV+
>> patients because of the irresponsible actions of only a
>> portion of that population.
> That seems to be our only resort.
Just how many pairs of jackboots do you own?
> True, I espouse personal responsibility. The problem is (as
> I previously stated) that society seems to have decided that
> it will condone and even embrace the absence of that
> responsibility. At the same time we as a society seem to
> want to refuse to address the results of that absence of
> responsibility, but we sure like to do a lot of complaining
> about the tragic individual devastation that comes from
> the result of that absence of responsibility.
Then anyone that dirnks and has a driver's license should be
arrested? and sentenced to life in prison? After all they too
have the POTENTIAL for causing great harm.
At first I thought your statement was just a windup. But now I see
that you are actually arguing in favor of this inane proposal.
> I don't have a specific proposal.
Look at MY suprise. The impact on the national budget alone
should make you realize that your proposal is about the
stupidest suggestion that has ever been made. Let alone the
issue of Constitutional rights.
> I believe I used the term "virtually nil". We can quibble over
> semantics, but I think we both agree that this is no longer a
> significant vector at all.
Define "significant". 1 in 75,000. Just how many pints do you
think are transfused in this country every year? I'll give you
a hint, it's in the MILLIONS.
Jim
|
323.125 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:44 | 18 |
| .119
> Joe, will you please tell us your plan?
I don't have a specific plan. All I've done is propose the
idea. It's rather narrow-minded of society to reject an idea
simply because Joe Oppelt doesn't have all the details worked
out. But you seem perfectly willing to do that.
Glen, I know very well that this idea doesn't have a snowball's
chance in hell. The biggest drawback, though, isn't logistics,
and it isn't even the emotional cost of "breaking up families"
(which I don't understand why that issue couldn't be addressed).
The biggest drawback is the political sensitivity that causes
knee-jerk reactions as were so amply demonstrated in this
topic, starting with the very first reply to mine.
Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?
|
323.126 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Consultants Of Swing | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:46 | 7 |
|
Note 323.125
>Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?
Why do you see AIDS as such a threat to you?
|
323.128 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Consultants Of Swing | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:53 | 10 |
|
Note 323.127
>...but someone
>who has contracted AIDS (or HIV) has not perpetrated a crime
>against society.
...therefore... ?????
|
323.129 | | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Thu Mar 02 1995 17:55 | 9 |
| .127 Joe, how did Ryan White perpetrate a crime against society?
As was pointed out, he was infected via a blood transfusion, also
Elizabeth Glazer and many, many others.
BTW, people ARE being prosecuted for knowingly putting others at
risk and/or infecting them. Most states now have laws to address
this issue.
|
323.131 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Thu Mar 02 1995 18:26 | 65 |
| > can you accept the
> notion of executing this same population, and if not, why
> not?
> No, I cannot. I have a hard enough time trying to justify to
> myself the idea of executing the worst of criminals, but someone
> who has contracted AIDS (or HIV) has not perpetrated a crime
> against society.
Thank you Joe. Now, here's the rub. What happens when you
break the law? Society incarcerates you. In some cases,
if the nature of the transgression is severe enough, society
may incarcerate you for life.
As it stands today, AIDS is a death sentence. But it is a
death sentence carried out by nature, not man. While the
sentence is "pending", the individual goes about their
life with some level of normalcy for a number of years.
What you propose is essentially "taking over the adminsitration
of the death sentence", to, in essence, treat HIV+ individuals
in such as way as if they had committed a crime. What do
criminals do? They try to avoid prosecution. In this case,
prosecution is the knowledge of the HIV status. If someone
turns up HIV+ they get whisked off to some place that they
are not allowed to leave - they are not allowed to return
to the general population. Unlike other people in quarantine,
they are probably not particularly sick, for years. Yet,
they can no longer pursue their livelihood or otherwise
allowed to contribute to society. This doesn't sound like
a big incentive to me Joe. Once (whoever is in charge...)
finds out you're HIV+, off you go.
So, what would you do? Go and get tested, or _avoid_
getting tested as best you could, for fear your number
might come up? Make testing mandatory. Well, fine,
any time you make something mandatory, you have to come
up with an "or else" clause? Or else what? What carrot
and/or stick are you going to use to get the entire
population of the US to submit to testing?
You mentioned previously that TB testing is mandatory;
yes it is in public and (most) private schools. So fine,
you have TB, you can't go to school. What "you can't..."
are you going to use to get the entire country to
submit to testing? Whatever it is, it's probably a
fairly hefty whack at those pesky civil rights, wouldn't
you say?
As it stands now, some portion of the population is tested,
on a voluntary basis. Confidentiality is insured and
people feel comfortable knowing their status. But start
mandatory testing programs, with a guaranteed trip to
the behavioral leper colony for the happy lottery winners,
and you'll see virtually everyone trying as best they
can _not_ to be tested.
This is just one of many logistical arguments against
your proposal. But, you must also consider that it's
not just your proposal. It's been discussed many times,
but the flaws are so gargantuan that it never gets
past the talking phase. Good thing too, I'd rather not
live in a country where such things happen.
-b
|
323.132 | (*) | ICS::EWING | | Thu Mar 02 1995 18:36 | 10 |
|
.130
> Probably some place warmer. :^)
So you're suggesting some place like Mojava desert, right? That way
the Buzzards can do all the dirty work. And I thought I've seen
it all in the 'box.
|
323.134 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Thu Mar 02 1995 18:44 | 24 |
| After wading through all of the replies since I left earlier today, it
was nice to see that Brian just summarized some of the nightmare aspects
I'd been considering.
Imagine for a moment, the number of folks who may be HIV+ but are
unaware of it. Some may not even want to know, because they're already
scared silly by the disease and have just coccooned themselves in
a lifestyle which will both keep them clean if they are and prevent
them from spreading it if they aren't. They just want to continue to
enjoy a productive life for as long as they can. Now they get herded like
cattle into testing sites and take a crap roll that they can have their
lifestyle whisked away from them (and how 'bout them false positives, eh?)
If they have a job, and a home, and responsibilities, what happens to all
of that? Can't keep the job, even though they're still able to work. I
expect we'll have to give them their LTD bennies if we force them out
the door. They've got to leave their house behind. Who's responsible for
mortgage and other financial responsibilities if they can't sell? And,
now that you've taken them away somewhere against their wishes, I suppose
you get to confiscate their assets and disability income to subsidize
their upkeep even though this wasn't their idea?
Sounds to me like being treated like garbage.
|
323.135 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 18:50 | 51 |
| .124
> Just how many pairs of jackboots do you own?
I see that theatrics are your only answer too.
> Then anyone that dirnks and has a driver's license should be
> arrested? and sentenced to life in prison? After all they too
> have the POTENTIAL for causing great harm.
We as a society are working to change this behavior (drunk
driving). We as a society are **NOT** working to change
the behaviors that spread AIDS, and in fact are (arguably)
encouraging them.
In addition, prison terms are used for rehabilitation (supposedly).
Drunk driving can be "cured". AIDS cannot.
> At first I thought your statement was just a windup. But now I see
> that you are actually arguing in favor of this inane proposal.
I'd be interested in hearing what you have to offer that is
better.
I have answered many of the opposition points raised against
the idea. You have primarily contributed emotional sound
bites and insults.
> Look at MY suprise. The impact on the national budget alone
> should make you realize that your proposal is about the
> stupidest suggestion that has ever been made.
And what is the imact on the national budget for AIDS care
today, and as an ongoing program that will only grow with
the epidemic?
> Let alone the issue of Constitutional rights.
I fail to see how constitutional rights are impacted by
disease testing and quarantine. We have exactly that for
other diseases. Why is AIDS different. If anyone can
show me, it would be you. (And I ask you that with the
utmost of sincerity.)
> Define "significant". 1 in 75,000. Just how many pints do you
> think are transfused in this country every year? I'll give you
> a hint, it's in the MILLIONS.
Removing a larger percentage of the AIDS victims (through
routine and regular national testing) from the donor pool would
serve to reduce that percentage even more drastically.
|
323.138 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 19:12 | 55 |
| .131
> What you propose is essentially "taking over the adminsitration
> of the death sentence", to, in essence, treat HIV+ individuals
> in such as way as if they had committed a crime. What do
> criminals do?
Again, quarantine does not have to be like prison.
> they can no longer pursue their livelihood or otherwise
> allowed to contribute to society. This doesn't sound like
> a big incentive to me Joe. Once (whoever is in charge...)
> finds out you're HIV+, off you go.
Through all the arguments, this is the first that has any
validity to me, and unfortunately one that shows a terrible
flaw in the idea. Jack's addition about paying the mortgage
and all those dependent upon the quarrantined person adds to
it.
This still doesn't put up a roadblock for me against a national,
mandatory testing program though. I think that anytime someone
gets blood drawn, for any reason, a sample should be taken if
that person hasn't already been tested within the last 12 months.
> Make testing mandatory. Well, fine,
> any time you make something mandatory, you have to come
> up with an "or else" clause? Or else what?
You can't give blood, for starters.
> population of the US to submit to testing?
It doesn't have to be as heavy-handed as "submitting". As I
proposed above, any time a person gets blood drawn and hasn't
been tested in the last 12 months, a sample goes to the AIDS
test lab. And the government should entirely fund the program.
> But start
> mandatory testing programs, with a guaranteed trip to
> the behavioral leper colony for the happy lottery winners,
> and you'll see virtually everyone trying as best they
> can _not_ to be tested.
Previously it was stated that most people become very responsible
with their behavior once they know they are HIV+. If we had a
national testing program without the consequences of the "leper
colony", wouldn't such a program allow the majority of HIV+
people who otherwise didn't know their plight to then become
more responsible and, in effect, "self-quarantine" through
responsible behavior modifications?
Couple that with laws that make it illegal to knowingly transmit
HIV, and we might very well achieve a significant reduction in
the spread of AIDS.
|
323.139 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Thu Mar 02 1995 19:42 | 40 |
| Joe,
You're crossing over into a whole other area here. Good. I'm
glad you seem to be putting this quarantine thing to rest. In
fact, we are close to agreeing.
It's a very simple matter to ask for an AIDS screening when
blood is drawn... and it happens automatically in a number
of cases.
I've had it done several times as part of insurance physicals,
and my local hospital has a clinic that does screening for $20.
So, even if for some reason people would prefer to be checked
by someone other than their regular physician, they can.
I guess the only thing we don't agree on is the "mandatory".
Sure, you definitely want to keep HIV+ people out of the
blood and tissue banks. But, there's already 2 step (over
the mimimum incubation period) blind DNA testing for that
anyway. But the problem with mandatory testing is what is
done with the information? If it is used to inform the
individual of their status and is held confidential, then
I suppose testing would be OK.
What I would like to see happen is the development of a
home test, that could be self-administered. The ideal
test would be one that worked quickly and identified
several common STDs (as well as HIV). If two people are to
have sex, they can take a few minutes to make sure they're
not infected. Such tests are under development. If the
cost could be kept to a minimum, it could join all the other
boink paraphenalia we already put up with... (the condoms,
the foam, etc. etc.).
Also, making people aware of the combined benefits,
not only to birth control but disease prevention,
of condoms and contraceptive foam, is further help.
-b
|
323.140 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Thu Mar 02 1995 19:50 | 14 |
| Re: .92
>Those who travel out of the country could be required to have a
>post-return test at 6 months and 12 months.
They can infect a lot of people in 6-12 months. Not a very effective
quarantine. If you want a quarantine, then stick to it.
>a nationwide periodic testing for all residents
Well, so much for balancing the budget.
I notice you didn't address the human aspects. If your child had AIDS,
could you really stand to not be there?
|
323.141 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Thu Mar 02 1995 19:54 | 7 |
| Re: .110
>The number of new AIDS cases continues to grow
Given the latency between infection and development of AIDS, the number
of new cases today does not reflect the effectiveness of today's
policies. We'll see the effect a couple of years down the road.
|
323.142 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 20:01 | 29 |
| .140
> >Those who travel out of the country could be required to have a
> >post-return test at 6 months and 12 months.
>
> They can infect a lot of people in 6-12 months. Not a very effective
> quarantine. If you want a quarantine, then stick to it.
In defense of the quarantine idea, allowing a 6-12 month lag time
is still better than allowing a 10-year lag time (which is what
is currently in place, given the approximate 10-year average
life expectancy once you get it.)
> >a nationwide periodic testing for all residents
>
> Well, so much for balancing the budget.
The budget currently pays for a significant portion of AIDS
treatment anyway, considering that many in their end stages
are no longer employed and don't have insurance. Medicaid,
medicare, welfare. And you can top that off with hospitalization
costs that get absorbed by the hospitals for people who die
broke and have rung up serious treatment costs.
> I notice you didn't address the human aspects. If your child had AIDS,
> could you really stand to not be there?
If you bothered to catch up before writing you would have noticed
some other things too.
|
323.143 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 02 1995 20:08 | 27 |
| .139
> I guess the only thing we don't agree on is the "mandatory".
It would have to be mandatory to be effective.
> But the problem with mandatory testing is what is
> done with the information? If it is used to inform the
> individual of their status and is held confidential, then
> I suppose testing would be OK.
I understand your concern. I even harbor the same doubts --
even paranoia -- that you might about the government misusing
the database. Ideally it should remain confidential.
Yet at the same time it wouldn't be unreasonable to have
uniform laws that make the transmission of AIDS a serious
crime. If one person were to contract it from another, the
database could easliy be used to determine if the first
infected person knew s/he was infected at the time s/he
passed it on to another.
> What I would like to see happen is the development of a
> home test, that could be self-administered.
Not an unreasonable option at all. It eliminates the
national database.
|
323.144 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Thu Mar 02 1995 21:08 | 11 |
| Do you people realise, that in 143 replies you have got absolutely
nowhere ?
May I suggest that somebody researches the answers to Jim's (muppetman
- couldn't resist :*)) question. The question he has asked twice. The
last was note .109. I believe that if you look at what the professionals
(key word) have done over the last 10+ years you will be able to
provide your own possible solutions. Solutions that are just and humane
and solutions that society as a whole (not just yourself) would agree on
The answer lies within these answers.
|
323.145 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 02 1995 21:47 | 11 |
|
Any comments on Monday's WSJ (or NYT) article stating tht the homosexual
community is not doing enough to police themselves wrt AIDS prevention?
Jim
|
323.146 | Lots of money is being spent... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Fri Mar 03 1995 07:58 | 12 |
|
Well, actually there are now 3 competing drugs that extend the
prognosis from 5 to 6-7 years. Two have FDA approval, and Merck's
application is in process. Not cures, but shown to have beneficial
effects. The reason the private companies do not co-operate is that
there are big bucks in successs, not to mention fame. Not that only
capitalistic motives have proven at all effective so far, although
many governments are sponsoring research into this. I don't think
anybody can claim the drug researchers aren't trying as hard as they
can. It is a very difficult bioengineering problem.
bb
|
323.147 |
| SUBURB::COOKS | Half Man,Half Biscuit | Fri Mar 03 1995 08:21 | 3 |
| People who are found to have AIDS should have their bottoms branded
with an 'A' to warn others.
|
323.148 | | MKOTS3::MACFAWN | My mother warned me about you... | Fri Mar 03 1995 08:53 | 11 |
| .147
Sure...then we should brand all the jerks in this world with "A$$",
all the prostitutes with "P", all the drunk drivers with "D", all
the child molesters with "C", all the rapists with "R"....
And what about those people who don't know if they have AIDS or not?
You would have to brand EVERYONE with "A?"
|
323.149 | | MAIL2::CRANE | | Fri Mar 03 1995 08:58 | 3 |
| .148
I think they are truing the "C" for child molesters in N.J. and are
having a very hard time with it.
|
323.150 | Kids are angels... | MKOTS3::MACFAWN | My mother warned me about you... | Fri Mar 03 1995 09:38 | 23 |
| Besides, branding people isn't going to solve the problem. Sure it
would help minimize it, but then again you're faced with the issue that
a bazillion people don't even know yet.
I have a friend who is a foster parent for AIDS babies. The mothers
have abandoned their babies, and now the little guys are going to die
without their mother. So my friend tries to give them as much love and
hope and comfort she can while they are still here. She says it's the
only thing she can do for them. She feels horrible because the
children are in so much pain and are so sick, but at least she can hold
them and let them know that they are loved.
Just because someone is sick, you can't abandon them. You must show
them that they are cared for and loved just the same as when they're
not sick.
Children didn't do anything to get this disease except for being born
or needing blood. How could anyone condemn them?
Thank God there are people like my friend who care more about the
children than the disease they are carrying.
|
323.151 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 09:43 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.125 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| I don't have a specific plan. All I've done is propose the idea. It's rather
| narrow-minded of society to reject an idea simply because Joe Oppelt doesn't
| have all the details worked out. But you seem perfectly willing to do that.
I think if Joe Oppelt did work it out he would see how unfeasible of a
plan it is. Another thing you can add into the equation is law suits. Joe, if
you can't come up with the plan that will work, why bring it up and push it
like it's a good idea? How can an idea that isn't even formulated past the word
quarentine be considered as something real?
| The biggest drawback is the political sensitivity that causes knee-jerk
| reactions as were so amply demonstrated in this topic, starting with the very
| first reply to mine.
Gee Joe, people would like to one, try and understand where you're
coming from, two, see a plan (DETAILS) laid out, and three, have a real reason
for doing this. You have provided us with #1, but the other two are real
important as well. Hey, what if Congress had a way to solve the budget
problems, but never said what the details were. Would you feel a little
worried? I would. Would you be one of the people who would vote for this plan?
A plan without details is really just a dream, isn't it?
| Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?
How did you come up with this one Joe?
|
323.152 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 09:52 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.133 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| then the only thing to do is to prevent those who have the disease from
| participating in those behaviors with those who do not have the disease.
Joe, why is it that you don't seem to hold the uninfected person at
fault in any of this? I mean, if they are going to have sex, doesn't that mean
they could be potential carriers? Shouldn't we now wisk all of them off too to
prevent their behaviors from harming them?
And you know, now that you're talking about it, we should also take all
the smokers of the world and put them in a big bubble. This way none of us will
have to get lung cancer because of their behaviors. We should ban cars too, or
take those who drive and stuff them into a bubble or two as well....
| Can you think of a better way?
Yeah, education.
|
323.153 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:00 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.125 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> The biggest drawback is the political sensitivity that causes
> knee-jerk reactions as were so amply demonstrated in this
> topic, starting with the very first reply to mine.
Just goes to show how out of touch you really are. The biggest
drawback is the COST.
Let's assume that we can isolate these patients for the same
cost as incarcerate criminals, about $30k per year. No medical
care, no frills. You're looking at a cost of $10 BILLION bucks
every year. Where are you going to find the $10 BILLION.
> Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?
Any proposal that threatens the civil liberties of ANY population
threatens me. I have an automatic response when I hear the sound
of jackboots.
Jim
|
323.154 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:01 | 34 |
| | <<< Note 323.135 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| We as a society are working to change this behavior (drunk driving). We as a
| society are **NOT** working to change the behaviors that spread AIDS, and in
| fact are (arguably) encouraging them.
Let's see, the beer companies talk about how one should not drink and
drive. The AIDS commercials are talking about the disease and what it can do.
Sounds like both are doing the same things, yet one is acceptable to you, one
is not. It might be that in AIDS commercials they are talking about condoms as
well. But what is the #1 way people hear about beer? By these clever ads that
has people drinking at the beach, having parties and drinking, going to bars
full of people drinking, athletes promoting the stuff. Why don't you see this
as being in the same boat as AIDS Joe? I think out of the two, AIDS commercials
do much more to help stop the disease, than one out of 5 beer commercials
talking about no drinking or driving. EVERY AIDS commercial talks about it.
| I have answered many of the opposition points raised against the idea.
Joe, you have answered nothing until you provide details. You can't
even do that!
| You have primarily contributed emotional sound bites and insults.
Has anyone noticed that Joe plays the victim routine when he can't
answer questions? I mean, things like theatrics, sound bites, insults, etc.
| Why is AIDS different.
People have shown you Joe. You just keep those eyes squeezed shut so
you can't see the obvious answers.
Glen
|
323.155 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:03 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.133 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> I can't think of another way to prevent the spread through
> those behaviors.
So because YOUR mental proccesses are inadequate, we should
lock them all up?
Well I'M convinced.
Jim
|
323.156 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:04 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.139 by MPGS::MARKEY "Send John Thomas some doughnuts" >>>
| What I would like to see happen is the development of a home test, that could
| be self-administered. The ideal test would be one that worked quickly and
| identified several common STDs (as well as HIV).
Brian, a plan like this would definitely get more people to do testing.
That would be a real good idea. I also think if it's accurate, it could very
easily save the medical community big $$$$.
Glen
|
323.157 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:11 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.142 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| In defense of the quarantine idea, allowing a 6-12 month lag time is still
| better than allowing a 10-year lag time (which is what is currently in place,
| given the approximate 10-year average life expectancy once you get it.)
Joe, you just shot your quarentine idea in the foot. Now how about
addressing the people who visit here, or those who sneak into the country, etc.
Glen
|
323.158 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:14 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.143 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| I understand your concern. I even harbor the same doubts -- even paranoia --
| that you might about the government misusing the database.
Joe, are you one who trusts the government now? IF your answer is no,
why would you want them to run a database?
Are you one who believes the government should get out of our lives? IF
yes, why would you want them to run the database?
|
323.159 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:15 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.144 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>
| May I suggest that somebody researches the answers to Jim's (muppetman
| - couldn't resist :*)) question. The question he has asked twice. The
| last was note .109.
Jim's question has been addressed over several notes in this topic. All
the muppet man has to do is read.
Glen
|
323.160 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:16 | 53 |
| <<< Note 323.135 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> Just how many pairs of jackboots do you own?
> I see that theatrics are your only answer too.
I see that you did not answer my question. That many, huh?
> We as a society are working to change this behavior (drunk
> driving). We as a society are **NOT** working to change
> the behaviors that spread AIDS, and in fact are (arguably)
> encouraging them.
It has been pointed out to you on a number of occasions that
there ARE laws dealing with someone who, knowing that they
are HIV+, engages in that behavior. So your statement is a
simple lie.
>You have primarily contributed emotional sound
> bites and insults.
That's about all your propsal deserves.
> I fail to see how constitutional rights are impacted by
> disease testing and quarantine. We have exactly that for
> other diseases. Why is AIDS different. If anyone can
> show me, it would be you. (And I ask you that with the
> utmost of sincerity.)
Joe, you keep harping about "other diseases". Please give us
a list of the diseases that are subject to quarrantine that
are as difficult to transmit as is AIDS. TB? easily transmitted
throught the air. Pneumonic plague? Same. Bubonic plague,
beleive it or not is not quarrantined, it has to be transmitted
via flea bites.
Give us a list. You ask why AIDS is different. Look at the
transmission vectors and you will find the answer.
> Removing a larger percentage of the AIDS victims (through
> routine and regular national testing) from the donor pool would
> serve to reduce that percentage even more drastically.
Joe, EVERY ONE of those pints has been tested for HIV and they
STILL slip through. Tell me why you believe that testing of
the population will be any more effective.
Oh and BTW, the test costs about $40, there's another $10 BILLION
that you have to come up with.
Jim
|
323.161 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:16 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.145 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| Any comments on Monday's WSJ (or NYT) article stating tht the homosexual
| community is not doing enough to police themselves wrt AIDS prevention?
Actually Jim, that's the 1st I heard of it.
|
323.162 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:21 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.142 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> In defense of the quarantine idea, allowing a 6-12 month lag time
> is still better than allowing a 10-year lag time (which is what
> is currently in place, given the approximate 10-year average
> life expectancy once you get it.)
More ignorance. The virus itself can have a 10 year latent
period before the patient develops symptoms (AIDS). From
the onset of symptoms to death varies widely but 3 to 5 years
is not unusual.
Jim
|
323.163 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:21 | 24 |
|
RE: <<< Note 323.159 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
| <<< Note 323.144 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>
| May I suggest that somebody researches the answers to Jim's (muppetman
| - couldn't resist :*)) question. The question he has asked twice. The
| last was note .109.
> Jim's question has been addressed over several notes in this topic. All
>the muppet man has to do is read.
I've been reading. the only answer I've seen is "education", but I haven't
seen how effective education has been in curbing the problem.
Jim
|
323.164 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member in good standing | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:22 | 27 |
|
Glen,
Why do you question him when you just reprinted his answer with regards
to the same subject?
It seems that the concerns here all revolve around the fear of you or
of someone you know dying from the disease.
Well, people die of this disease every day, we don't really have to
deal with it until it hits close to home. This point was driven home
to me in the last week, with the death of Ryan. Children and adults
die of this and other diseases every day and I don't give it a thought
because I don't know them or of them. It has been a lesson to me to
be more cognizant of what is happening in the lives of others that I
do not know. To say a prayer for the sick and the dying. To enjoy
the time I have with the people in my life and to let them know how
I feel about them. Sorry for the tangent, but this has been on my mind
quite a bit lately.
Mike
|
323.165 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:24 | 20 |
|
RE: <<< Note 323.161 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
>| Any comments on Monday's WSJ (or NYT) article stating tht the homosexual
>| community is not doing enough to police themselves wrt AIDS prevention?
> Actually Jim, that's the 1st I heard of it.
I haven't read the article myself, but I heard bits and pieces of it on
Monday.
Jim
|
323.166 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:24 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.153 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
| Let's assume that we can isolate these patients for the same cost as
| incarcerate criminals, about $30k per year. No medical care, no frills. You're
| looking at a cost of $10 BILLION bucks every year.
Steve, if you have 1,000,000 people who are infected with AIDS, at the
cost of 30k/year, doesn't that come out to 30 BILLION, and not 10 BILLION? I
wonder what the actual cost will be to add in the cost of medical? The cost of
doctors/staff? Police to keep crime in order? Sounds like Joe really hasn't put
much thought into this at all.
Glen
|
323.167 | | POBOX::BATTIS | Contract Studmuffin | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:24 | 5 |
|
Finnally!!!! A well thought out answer, to the point and poignant to
boot!!
Mark
|
323.168 | | POBOX::BATTIS | Contract Studmuffin | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:25 | 2 |
|
.164's I mean
|
323.169 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alleged Degirdification | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:29 | 1 |
| finally
|
323.170 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:30 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.163 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| I've been reading. the only answer I've seen is "education", but I haven't
| seen how effective education has been in curbing the problem.
Jim, the answers are there. When Magic Johnson came out as HIV+, he
educated the world that hets could get it too. When gays were getting infected,
THEY went out and educated the masses. Part of that education is to get tested,
what one should or should not do.
Glen
|
323.171 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:31 | 1 |
| Don't screw around!
|
323.172 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | aspiring peasant | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:33 | 22 |
| As an interesting side note to this (IMO) a new movie is coming out
called Outbreak (I think) that deals with an Ebola type outbreak and
the subsequent panic/containment measures used. Not unlike the Stand
in some ways.
I personally believe that a disease, any disease in uncontainable due
to the sheer numbers of exposures that will occur in a very short
period of time. There is no practical way of starting/enforcing a
quarantine. The numbers worldwide are too large and movement or the
population is too frequent. The TB sanitaria were adequate though the
disease was not that contagious and virulent as to pose a threat to the
entire population of the world. It was containable through vaccinations
and segregation of those that caught it.
I will agrgee with Joe on one point and that is the need for behavior
modification by both sides of the sexual preference fence and the IV drug
abusers. IMO it is the only way short of a vaccine or treatment after
the fact that will halt the advance of the disease. To round up and
place HIV+ in a single place is incomprehensible numerically and
economically, if not socially. No practical way to do it.
Brian
|
323.173 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:37 | 32 |
| | <<< Note 323.164 by GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER "NRA member in good standing" >>>
| Why do you question him when you just reprinted his answer with regards
| to the same subject?
Could you specify who "him" is?
| It seems that the concerns here all revolve around the fear of you or of
| someone you know dying from the disease.
How is that?
| Well, people die of this disease every day, we don't really have to deal with
| it until it hits close to home.
I guess the same could be said about any disease. But doesn't it make
sense to educate oneself to this or any other disease so they can know the
warning signs?
RE: tangent
Mike, there is nothing wrong with what you have said. It can take a
death to have people realize about a situation, whether it be a disease or
something entirely different. But does it always make sense to wait until
something happens before one does anything about it? Education alone, about
this and other diseases, can save lives. 20 years ago women weren't really
educated about checking from breast cancer, were they? Look what education has
done for them. Fewer and fewer women die as a result of breast cancer each
year.
Glen
|
323.174 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 10:45 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.166 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
> Steve, if you have 1,000,000 people who are infected with AIDS, at the
>cost of 30k/year, doesn't that come out to 30 BILLION, and not 10 BILLION?
See what happens when I try to do math before I have my coffee.
> I
>wonder what the actual cost will be to add in the cost of medical? The cost of
>doctors/staff? Police to keep crime in order? Sounds like Joe really hasn't put
>much thought into this at all.
Let's not forget the LOST tax revenues from these 1 million
people.
Wait a minute, didn't Joe tell us some time back that Gays
were particularly affluent. Average $60k a year jobs? Doesn't
that work out to $16.8 million a year in lost revenues? Over
10 years, another 1.68 BILLION bucks.
Geez, this is getting expensive.
Jim
|
323.175 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member in good standing | Fri Mar 03 1995 11:33 | 19 |
|
Glen, Only the first line was directed at you and your previous reply
to Glen.
Has education been working? Are you saying that education hasn't been
going on for the last 10 or so years? Talk to any child 10-12 years
old and ask them if they know what AIDS is and how it is contracted,
I'll bet you 80-90 percent could tell you the answer. AIDS is still on
the rise. I'm not saying that education should stop or that it's a bad
thing. I'm saying that maybe we need something to shock these people a
bit more. I wonder if Magic will be out there when his health starts
to deteriorate. I think he should be out there if he is serious about
showing others what the disease can do. (I use Magic because his name
has been used before)
Mike
|
323.176 |
| SUBURB::COOKS | Half Man,Half Biscuit | Fri Mar 03 1995 12:21 | 5 |
| Er,.147 was a joke.
Don`t ask me what to do about AIDS. Except take up gardening instead
of sex. Like Hilda Ogden of Coronation Street fame did.
|
323.177 | | POWDML::LAUER | Little Chamber of Fuzzy Faces | Fri Mar 03 1995 12:25 | 2 |
|
As well she should have; I wouldn't have done Stan.
|
323.178 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:33 | 20 |
| .153
> Just goes to show how out of touch you really are. The biggest
> drawback is the COST.
Jim, we as a society are already absorbing the cost of AIDS
treatment. Without an end to the spread of AIDS we are
destined to absorb that cost in ever growing amounts for the
unforseeable future.
As for the rest of your replies -- laced with jackboots and
insults but little substance -- and the same for Glen's
volumes of vitriol, you two are arguing with your own demons
because I've already dropped the quarantine idea thanks to
Jack and Brian. That you attempt to continue to argue the
issue with me tells me that you are only interested in
arguing (for whatever personal reasons you have). Were you
really interested in any sort of resolution to the discussion,
you would have acknowledged my change in position (which
neither of you did), accepted it, and moved on.
|
323.179 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:37 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.178 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Jim, we as a society are already absorbing the cost of AIDS
> treatment. Without an end to the spread of AIDS we are
> destined to absorb that cost in ever growing amounts for the
> unforseeable future.
Joe, the costs we are discussing are INCREMENTAL to the
costs for health care.
Jim
|
323.180 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:40 | 13 |
| Re: .142
>In defense of the quarantine idea
Only it's _not_ a quarantine idea. It's a sort of quarantine idea. If
you're going to propose a quarantine, if you really believe that we
have to do whatever it takes, then shut down travel to foreign areas,
particularly those where AIDS is nearly endemic.
>The budget currently pays for a significant portion of AIDS treatment
>anyway
So what? "We already spend a lot of money. So let's spend more."
|
323.181 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:43 | 10 |
| How about this, anybody who passes on the HIV virus through sex will
have committed a felony and will be exiled to a remote
Island...provided, they haven't been tested in the past 4 months.
Greenland might be a good choice. Consider the fact that this would
eliminate prostitution one way or the other and would...yes you guessed
it, force morality on the public.
Better get tested!
-Jack
|
323.182 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:44 | 43 |
| | <<< Note 323.175 by GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER "NRA member in good standing" >>>
| Glen, Only the first line was directed at you and your previous reply to Glen.
To Glenn or did you confuse me with who you meant?
| Has education been working?
Yes, look at the decline for gays in new cases of HIV. Like it was
stated earlier, it will take a couple of years for the results to be seen. The
study that was talked about has stated that 3/4 of all new AIDS cases for
heterosexuals is due to drugs. If this is true, then it shows that education IS
working for transmitting the disease sexually for heterosexuals as well.
| Are you saying that education hasn't been going on for the last 10 or so
| years?
In the mainstream? Not really. I heard of peoples doctors who said
straight people had nothing to worry about. Until Magic Johnson told the world
he had the disease, most of mainstream America (het) thought they could not get
the disease. You did not see commercials on tv until about 3 years ago.
| Talk to any child 10-12 years old and ask them if they know what AIDS is and
| how it is contracted, I'll bet you 80-90 percent could tell you the answer.
Errrrr.... Mike, what does this have to do with education happening 10
years ago? It's out there now, so I hope they are hearing about it.
| I wonder if Magic will be out there when his health starts to deteriorate.
I guess that will depend on how far he is willing to let it go before
he wants his privacy.
| I think he should be out there if he is serious about showing others what the
| disease can do. (I use Magic because his name has been used before)
You get to a point Mike where you will want to have your privacy. I
would bet he would want to still be out there, but it will be far less.
Glen
|
323.183 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:44 | 1 |
| Have you asked the Greenlanders?
|
323.184 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:47 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.178 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| because I've already dropped the quarantine idea thanks to Jack and Brian.
| That you attempt to continue to argue the issue with me tells me that you are
| only interested in arguing (for whatever personal reasons you have).
I think we were responding to your notes. That might have something to
do with it Joey.
| Were you really interested in any sort of resolution to the discussion, you
| would have acknowledged my change in position (which neither of you did),
| accepted it, and moved on.
Joe, if we see a note, why would we not respond to it. Keep cryin pal.
It fits ya.
|
323.185 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:48 | 4 |
|
Jack, the last line of your note was beautiful, and I agree with it
100%! The rest of that note was pure crap though.
|
323.186 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Fri Mar 03 1995 13:57 | 7 |
| Of course it was crap to you Glen...you didn't disappoint me once
again! So Glen, how many prostitutes do you think go to planned
parenthood clinics for advice? My guess is very few. But hey, if you
don't care for the lives of the prostitute or the Jon, then let's keep
playing the game your way Glen!!
-Jack
|
323.187 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 14:04 | 37 |
| <<< Note 323.178 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> As for the rest of your replies -- laced with jackboots and
> insults but little substance -- and the same for Glen's
> volumes of vitriol, you two are arguing with your own demons
> because I've already dropped the quarantine idea thanks to
> Jack and Brian.
Oh Really? In .135 you were still defending it. In .138 you
appear to disavow it, admitting that your proposal was fatally
flawed. BUT, then in .142 you come back with "in DEFENSE of
the quarantine idea" (empahsis added). .143 is the last entry
of yours prior to .178 and it does not deal with quarantine.
> That you attempt to continue to argue the
> issue with me tells me that you are only interested in
> arguing (for whatever personal reasons you have).
I continue to argue with you about because your last statement
on the subject was "in DEFENSE of the quarantine idea". I
don't know about others, but a statment defending an idea
does not imply to me that you have changed your position.
> Were you
> really interested in any sort of resolution to the discussion,
> you would have acknowledged my change in position (which
> neither of you did), accepted it, and moved on.
It's tough to acknowledge a position that changed 49 minutes
later.
Now maybe a CLEAR statement that you disavow quarantine for HIV+
or AIDS patients would be helpful for Glen an I in determining
just exactly what position you now hold (assuming that you don't
reverse yourself again after you make it).
Jim
|
323.188 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 14:05 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.186 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| So Glen, how many prostitutes do you think go to planned parenthood clinics
| for advice?
How does PP get dragged into all of this Jack?????
| But hey, if you don't care for the lives of the prostitute or the Jon, then
| let's keep playing the game your way Glen!!
Uh huh.... whatever Jack...
|
323.189 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Mar 03 1995 14:10 | 1 |
| That's john, not Jon.
|
323.190 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Fri Mar 03 1995 14:20 | 10 |
| Glen:
PP was established to offer reproductive health aid to the inner city.
(Margaret Sanger hated human weeds remember?) Prostitutes mainly hang
around the metropolitan areas of the country Glen, that's why I brought
it up. You said education was the key...well, it is a key but what I
was saying was prostitutes won't flock to PP to find out how not to
spread the disease.
-Jack
|
323.192 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 15:17 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.191 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Were quarantine to work, it would eliminate perpetual costs
> that we are currently destined to bear. Consider it an
> investment. A stitch in time.
I take it that you are back on the quarantine bandwagon?
Jim
|
323.193 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 03 1995 15:21 | 26 |
| .187
> Oh Really? In .135 you were still defending it. In .138 you
> appear to disavow it, admitting that your proposal was fatally
> flawed. BUT, then in .142 you come back with "in DEFENSE of
> the quarantine idea" (empahsis added). .143 is the last entry
> of yours prior to .178 and it does not deal with quarantine.
I would hope that one is still allowed to address specific
mistakes/misunderstandings of something he no longer supports.
> I continue to argue with you about because your last statement
> on the subject was "in DEFENSE of the quarantine idea".
I guess some of us are more contextually challenged than
others.
> I don't know about others, but a statment defending an idea
> does not imply to me that you have changed your position.
idem.
> Now maybe a CLEAR statement that you disavow quarantine for HIV+
> or AIDS patients would be helpful
You now have it. Again.
|
323.195 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 15:30 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.190 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| PP was established to offer reproductive health aid to the inner city.
| Prostitutes mainly hang around the metropolitan areas of the country Glen,
| that's why I brought it up.
Thanks for clearing that up Jack.
| You said education was the key...well, it is a key but what I was saying was
| prostitutes won't flock to PP to find out how not to spread the disease.
No, but people do go to the prostitutes and talk to them.
|
323.196 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 15:41 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.193 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> I would hope that one is still allowed to address specific
> mistakes/misunderstandings of something he no longer supports.
Certainly. Of course clarity of communication is primarily
the responsibility of the communicator.
> I guess some of us are more contextually challenged than
> others.
Well I didn't want to make the accusation, but if you are willing
to confess, that's OK by me.
>> Now maybe a CLEAR statement that you disavow quarantine for HIV+
>> or AIDS patients would be helpful
> You now have it. Again.
Does this statement precede or supercede .191?
Jim
|
323.197 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 03 1995 15:43 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.194 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Since I figure that's pretty well cleared up, can I ask if
> you disagree with the statement you took erroneously?
Since you appear to be having a case of "Clinton Flip-Flop" in
stating your true position on this matter, it is hard to figure
out what to respond to in your various replies.
Jim
|
323.198 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Consultants Of Swing | Fri Mar 03 1995 15:45 | 3 |
|
Joe firmly believes in <mumble>. :^)
|
323.199 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 03 1995 16:00 | 16 |
| .196
>> You now have it. Again.
>
> Does this statement precede or supercede .191?
Neither. You already know what's what based on the beginning of
.196, namely:
>> I would hope that one is still allowed to address specific
>> mistakes/misunderstandings of something he no longer supports.
>
> Certainly.
Any further claim of lack of clarity is now a problem on your
part. I'll let .197 slide.
|
323.200 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 03 1995 16:10 | 3 |
|
how snarf of you
|
323.201 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Fri Mar 03 1995 16:38 | 13 |
| Re: .190
>Margaret Sanger hated human weeds
She was also not psyched about women suffering the aftereffects of
do-it-yourself abortions.
>You said education was the key...well, it is a key but what I was
>saying was prostitutes won't flock to PP to find out how not to
>spread the disease.
If Planned Parenthood were the only source of education about AIDS,
that would be a problem.
|
323.202 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Fri Mar 03 1995 16:41 | 15 |
| Re: .191
>it would eliminate perpetual costs that we are currently destined to
>bear
First, you don't know that AIDS will persist into perpetuity. Second,
you don't know what the future costs will be. Third, you don't know
how much of those costs would come out of public funds. Fourth, you
don't know what a quarantine would cost. Fifth, you don't know if the
cost of a quarantine would, in fact, offset the public cost of dealing
with AIDS.
This is why people are made to submit detailed proposals before
proceeding to the implementation phase. Right now, it looks like you'd
have a really tough time getting past the design phase.
|
323.203 | | BRAT::MINICHINO | | Fri Mar 03 1995 16:43 | 17 |
| .191.. Oppelt
Are you suggesting that we put these people to work after we quarantine
them....how pretell can we get SICK AND DIEING people up and atom and
working...so what about the infants, toddlers and young adults, should
we make them work too, gee, take away their families, friend and any
other contact that is familiar to them, then make them work!!!
Brilliant..so who's going to pay these people?
come on, you seem somewhat intelligent...think this through.
If you're not in a high risk group, you're taking precautions to
prevent the spead of HIV, then guess what, your chances of aquiring
HIV are about as good as YOU working in the AIDS COLONY!!!!!
Again, How come the health officials are not aquiring the virus
everyday?
|
323.204 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 03 1995 16:55 | 8 |
| .203
> Are you suggesting that we put these people to work after we quarantine
> them....how pretell can we get SICK AND DIEING people up and atom and
> working...
I don't know how you got that (or anything else you said in .203)
from my .191 or anything else I've said.
|
323.205 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 03 1995 17:09 | 41 |
| .202
> First, you don't know that AIDS will persist into perpetuity.
Perhaps. But wouldn't you consider it rather shortsighted
to assume it won't, given current knowledge and trends of
AIDS?
> Second, you don't know what the future costs will be.
True, but given the current knowledge and trends, wouldn't
you expect it to at least remain the same, if not increase
due to inflation? (Nevermind the current trend in the increase
in cases...)
> Third, you don't know
> how much of those costs would come out of public funds.
Wouldn't it seem reasonable to assume that given the current
political trends, public funding will at least remain the
same if not increase? And what public funding does not
absorb, society itself will be forced to absorb (insurance,
hospital-absorbed defaults, etc.)
> Fourth, you don't know what a quarantine would cost.
First thing I agree with 100%.
> Fifth, you don't know if the
> cost of a quarantine would, in fact, offset the public cost of dealing
> with AIDS.
Of course I don't. And you don't know the converse.
> This is why people are made to submit detailed proposals before
> proceeding to the implementation phase. Right now, it looks like you'd
> have a really tough time getting past the design phase.
Well if I ever intend to take this anywhere beyond the DISCUSSION
stage (nevermind the design phase) I'll be sure to let you know
first, OK? Sheesh.
|
323.206 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Fri Mar 03 1995 18:58 | 14 |
| Re: .205
>But wouldn't you consider it rather shortsighted to assume it won't
But you must then consider how common it will be.
>Nevermind the current trend in the increase in cases...
That is not a current trend; we have always seen an increase. However,
the rate of growth is decreasing.
>Of course I don't.
Then you cannot claim reduced costs as a justification for quarantine.
|
323.208 | DNA vs RNA viruses | CSC32::D_STUART | | Fri Mar 03 1995 20:54 | 19 |
| well I did about 40+ replies.....going to skip the rest but I would
like to address the statement/question raised back there somewhere
about aids being a virus thus a cure is soon to happen...
I don't think there will be a cure in the near future if ever as the
aids virus seems to be of the DNA varity (of viruses) which can mutate from
generation to generation thus making it very hard to develope vaccines
and anti-bodies. The other common varity is RNA based and does not
mutate and vaccines can be made that work over generations.
Examples of the RNA type are polio,small pox I think, and other
diseases that have been irradicated from mankind. DNA types are
represented by colds and flu's and of course the aids virus. Why they
can develop a flu vaccine even though it is DNA based I'm not sure but
I will ask our Dept's physician advisor next time I see her.
If this was already addressed between .40 and here then ..oh well!!
dick
|
323.209 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alleged Degirdification | Sat Mar 04 1995 15:56 | 1 |
| it wasn't.
|
323.210 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Sun Mar 05 1995 10:07 | 7 |
|
Joe, I'm still looking for an example of a disease that is as
difficult to transmit as AIDS, ever having a quarantine
imposed on its patients.
Jim
|
323.211 | "If we can put a man on the moon..." | HELIX::MAIEWSKI | | Sun Mar 05 1995 11:13 | 8 |
| Even though AIDS may be a DNA type virus I see no reason why there will not
one day be a cure.
Very few technological problems have proven too hard to solve once the
problems were understood. I think it' just a matter of time before AIDS,
cancer, and other diseases are cured.
George
|
323.212 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Alleged Degirdification | Sun Mar 05 1995 15:45 | 4 |
| Cancer will take longer to beat, but gene therapy will be more and more
common in the next decade.
Glenn
|
323.213 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Sun Mar 05 1995 16:43 | 22 |
| Re: .207
>It would then be very UNcommon under that scenario.
Under a proper quarantine (which you have yet to require), certainly.
But in order to show benefits, you must contrast the situation with a
quarantine to the situation without a quarantine. You do not know how
common cases will be in the future, at least not past a time frame of
some 5-10 years.
>Quarantine would have to have a tremendous one-time cost
And tremendous ongoing costs. The ongoing costs must be at least as
high as the costs of treating and caring for AIDS patients now, for a
period of at least 5-10 years.
>to outweigh perpetual
Again, you do not know that the current rate of cases will persist into
perpetuity. Therefore, you don't know that there will be perpetual
costs; therefore, you don't know that you will show significant
savings, especially given your enormous ramp-up costs.
|
323.214 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Mon Mar 06 1995 21:50 | 15 |
| .213
> >to outweigh perpetual
>
> Again, you do not know that the current rate of cases will persist into
> perpetuity. Therefore, you don't know that there will be perpetual
> costs;
As it stands today, and as most medical sources believe today,
we will not have a cure.
If it doesn't persis into perpetuity, society is the big winner.
To treat it as if it were not going to be perpetual with the
knowledge we have today would be terribly shortsighted and
incredibly foolish.
|
323.215 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Mon Mar 06 1995 21:59 | 18 |
| re .210
Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself. You're not
going to find another disease like it for the comparison of
respective social policies.
And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is
difficult to transmit. We as a society would be doing an
awful disservice to impressionable youth (just to name one
group) if we started declaring the disease to be difficult
to transmit.
I'm still looking for an explanation from you why quaranitine
would be unconstitutional. If anyone could demonstrate it,
Jim, it would be you. We trivilaize the constitution when
we randomly and improperly start declaring what we don't
like to be unconstitutional. Don't be the boy who cried
wolf.
|
323.216 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Mar 06 1995 23:25 | 59 |
| <<< Note 323.215 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself. You're not
> going to find another disease like it for the comparison of
> respective social policies.
But the concept of quarrantine is used for diseases that ARE
easily transmitted, not for those that are not.
> And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is
> difficult to transmit.
And you are being particularly gullible to believe that
it is not. Accept the fact that due to a very personal
interest, I know a fair amount more about AIDS than you
do.
> We as a society would be doing an
> awful disservice to impressionable youth (just to name one
> group) if we started declaring the disease to be difficult
> to transmit.
Better that we LIE to them then? Why not tell them the truth?
You can catch it from sex, you can catch it from sharing needles,
you even take the risk of catching it from a blood transfusion.
You MUST share body fluids, one way or the other. There is NO
other way. You can't catch it from being in the same room, you
can't catch it from shaking hands. You can't even catch it from a
toilet seat.
> I'm still looking for an explanation from you why quaranitine
> would be unconstitutional. If anyone could demonstrate it,
> Jim, it would be you.
AIDS is not a contagious disease in which a quarrantine is
medically required. It CAN be transmitted between to people
that engage in some of the practices listed above. But
casual contact is not a risk. You can outlaw those behaviors
and be within the Constitution, but you can not incarcerate
a person because they MIGHT engage in a behavior. Under our
laws, you can only punish someone for what they DO, not for
what they MIGHT do.
>We trivilaize the constitution when
> we randomly and improperly start declaring what we don't
> like to be unconstitutional.
We destroy the Constitution when we ignore the protections
that it provides. Even if those protections cover a group that
we may personally dislike.
> Don't be the boy who cried
> wolf.
Don't be so willing to don the brownshirt and jackboots.
Jim
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323.217 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 07 1995 00:16 | 34 |
| This one always concerns me; You can't catch it from a toilet seat.
What about a woman on her menstrual cycle who has aids or is HIV+?
What about urine?
Jim, my heart goes out to those folks who are HIV+ and those with aids.
If quarantine is questionable, would you be in favor of some
restrictions regarding employment for those who carry this disease
[which is still virtually a mystery to the medical association]?
Example:
HIV+ or Aids persons not being allowed to work in food preparation or
service [waiter waitress]
Daycare parents being able to turn away HIV+/Aids children who are at
the biting age?
That disinfectants that kill the aids virus be required for use for
janitorial purposes in all public places, including schools and
daycares.
That if one can be proven to be HIV+ prior to having unprotected sex
with another person that they be charged with attempted murder?
I'm just tossing these things out there as they come to mind...
The bottom line for me is that we've proven that this generation and
the one's following that sexual activity is encouraged, not
discouraged. And with this attitude permeating our youth, what kind of
responsibility can we see being enacted by those who are HIV+?
|
323.218 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Mar 07 1995 08:25 | 58 |
| <<< Note 323.217 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
> This one always concerns me; You can't catch it from a toilet seat.
Actually, I put that one in as a bit of a joke. The "toilet
seat" excuse was a favorite explaination of those that contracted
other "social diseases". The truth is that the HIV virus can not
survive outside the human body for the length of time that it would
take for the transmission to occur.
> If quarantine is questionable,
There is no "if" about it.
>would you be in favor of some
> restrictions regarding employment for those who carry this disease
> [which is still virtually a mystery to the medical association]?
Only in cases where there was sound medical science to back up the
restriction. Far from being a mystery, the transmission vectors
for the HIV are well understood.
> HIV+ or Aids persons not being allowed to work in food preparation or
> service [waiter waitress]
No particular problem with requiring this restriction. Of course
normal food handling precautions would also suffice.
> Daycare parents being able to turn away HIV+/Aids children who are at
> the biting age?
"The biting age"? What age is that? Is this stage universal to
all children? If so, my daughter seems to be an underachiever.
> That disinfectants that kill the aids virus be required for use for
> janitorial purposes in all public places, including schools and
> daycares.
Any of the common cleaning products will do the job. Nothing
exotic is required.
> That if one can be proven to be HIV+ prior to having unprotected sex
> with another person that they be charged with attempted murder?
I think that laws that prohibit those with the disease from
having sex are OK. Not sure that you could make a case
for attempted murder though.
> The bottom line for me is that we've proven that this generation and
> the one's following that sexual activity is encouraged, not
> discouraged. And with this attitude permeating our youth, what kind of
> responsibility can we see being enacted by those who are HIV+?
The same as you will find in the general population, they are
no better or worse than the rest of us.
Jim
|
323.219 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | proud counter-culture McGovernik | Tue Mar 07 1995 08:27 | 14 |
| Nancy,
Are you planning on testing every individual in the US for HIV?
Chances are you have eaten food prepared or served by someone who is
HIV+. It can take years for a person to become ill enough to manifest
any o the outward signs of HIV infection.
Have you caught syphillis, gonnorhea, clamydia, herpes, or NSV, from a
toilet seat? Your risks are no greater for catching HIV from one.
Besides why do you sit on a toilet that looks filthy.
meg
|
323.220 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 07 1995 10:36 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.215 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself. You're not going to find
| another disease like it for the comparison of respective social policies.
Then why did you spend so much time telling us we did the quarentine
thing for other diseases, when it doesn't even compare with those diseases?
| And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is difficult to transmit.
| We as a society would be doing an awful disservice to impressionable youth
| if we started declaring the disease to be difficult to transmit.
It is difficult to transmit Joe. We have the answer to prevent it from
spreading. No, not quarentine. The TRUTH is what is needed to combat the
disease, not hysteria.
| I'm still looking for an explanation from you why quaranitine would be
| unconstitutional.
I'm glad to see you really gave up this idea Joe....
Glen
|
323.221 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 07 1995 10:46 | 18 |
|
Nancy, do you see what you just did? You asked questions about the
disease, you had concerns and got answers about them. You were just educated
about the disease. Do you think this will help you in the future when you talk
about ways of getting the disease? My guess would be yes, but please correct me
if I am wrong. Can you now see where education can actually be of some real
good use?
One thing that has always bugged me is about people saying, "What about
those who know they're HIV+, but go out and have sex anyway?". While this is a
TRUE statement, people have forgotten about the other person. In this day and
age, who is going to have unprotected sex with a stranger? The answer to that
question is the target audience for education. BOTH people play a part in all
this, don't they?
Glen
|
323.222 | Room 222 | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 07 1995 10:56 | 5 |
| .221
Most of the time it's not a stranger, Glen. :-(
|
323.223 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 07 1995 11:02 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.222 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| Most of the time it's not a stranger, Glen. :-(
Nancy, what leads you to believe that?
|
323.224 | | OOTOOL::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Tue Mar 07 1995 12:35 | 8 |
| Re: .214
>To treat it as if it were not going to be perpetual
That's not what I said. I said the current rate of cases might not
persist. The incidence of AIDS could easily go down in the future.
Without knowing what the incidence will be, you cannot predict future
costs and cannot promise any savings.
|
323.225 | | LABC::RU | | Tue Mar 07 1995 13:22 | 8 |
|
I believe those easy HIV test should be available in
drug store. A lot of people don't know about their HIV
status because they believe they are clean. Any they keep
spreading the HIVS to others. I can't understand why those
self-labeled know-everything want to ban the availability of
the tests. Also the government should have records of all
HIV positive on file through the reporting process of doctors.
|
323.226 | Very narrow band of transmission possibilities ... | BRITE::FYFE | Never tell a dragon your real name. | Tue Mar 07 1995 16:08 | 19 |
| | And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is difficult to transmit.
| We as a society would be doing an awful disservice to impressionable youth
| if we started declaring the disease to be difficult to transmit.
My understanding is that this virus needs a host cell to survive. Outside
the body, a blood cell deforms rather quickly and the virus is 'dead' in short
order.
Since a blood cell in a pool deteriorates quickly the possibility of
transmission is infintesimal. Injestion of infected blood is also not
likely to transmit the disease.
Transfer of infected cells into an environment where the cell can survive is the
only way I know of to transmit the disease. Sex, transfusions, needles.
It's not like TB or Rabies or plague ... It is difficult to transmit (casual
contact doesn't pass the infection).
Doug.
|
323.227 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:15 | 15 |
| .220
>| Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself. You're not going to find
>| another disease like it for the comparison of respective social policies.
>
> Then why did you spend so much time telling us we did the quarentine
>thing for other diseases, when it doesn't even compare with those diseases?
To show legal precedent for quarantine. TO show that it is
not unconstitutional.
> It is difficult to transmit Joe.
One day you tell us (not in this topic) that this disease is
an epidemic, and now you tell us it is not difficult to transmit.
|
323.228 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:19 | 12 |
| .218
> The truth is that the HIV virus can not
> survive outside the human body for the length of time that it would
> take for the transmission to occur.
If true, then why does it survive in shared needles or unsterilized
medical instruments? If HIV can't survive outside of the human
body for a certain length of time, wouldn't it be sufficient to
simply let the needles or medical instruments sit out for a day
or so (or even just the length of time that it takes for one
person to get off the toilet and the next to get on)?
|
323.229 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:31 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 323.227 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| > Then why did you spend so much time telling us we did the quarentine
| >thing for other diseases, when it doesn't even compare with those diseases?
| To show legal precedent for quarantine.
Joe, if it does not even come close to the other diseases, which it
does not, then you have set nothing.
| > It is difficult to transmit Joe.
| One day you tell us (not in this topic) that this disease is an epidemic, and
| now you tell us it is not difficult to transmit.
Wow.... talk about taking stuff out of context Joe. Yes, I said both
things.
1) It is an epidemic
Because people do not have all the facts on the disease, or feel that
they can't "get it". Education will cure this.
2) It is not difficult to transmit
The ways of getting the disease are known. If you do not participate
in these things, you will not get the disease. Education would show
people this.
Good twistin Joe. Someday maybe people will be able to hold real
conversations with you. But then I guess the game won't be as fun for ya.
Glen
|
323.230 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:31 | 44 |
| .216
>> And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is
>> difficult to transmit.
>
> And you are being particularly gullible to believe that
> it is not. Accept the fact that due to a very personal
> interest, I know a fair amount more about AIDS than you
> do.
And frankly, you are letting the emotionalism of your involvement
with the disease to tarnish your participation here. Even our
court system recognizes that people with direct (and even
indirect) connection to the case often allow emotionalism to
cloud their thinking and participation, and such people are
excused from being on a jury for the case.
> Better that we LIE to them then? Why not tell them the truth?
> You can catch it from sex, you can catch it from sharing needles,
> you even take the risk of catching it from a blood transfusion.
> You MUST share body fluids, one way or the other. There is NO
> other way.
I guess that you fail to realize that in our society, the sharing
of body fluids is becoming rather commonplace. We have evolved
into a sexual society, Jim, where "getting" sex as early and as
often as you can is becoming the norm. We are bathed in sex from
the media and advertising industries. We also have a growing
movement against the control of drugs because "it's just a
victimless crime".
> AIDS is not a contagious disease in which a quarrantine is
> medically required. It CAN be transmitted between to people
> that engage in some of the practices listed above. But
> casual contact is not a risk.
Sexual contact is becoming as casual as going to dinner.
By our society's standards today, AIDS *IS* a risk of a
contact that is becoming more and more casual. Even Glen
agrees with me in .223, and I think you'll find that more
people that you appear to suspect would agree with me.
I don't agree with your assessment that AIDS quarantines
would be unconstitutional.
|
323.231 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:36 | 25 |
| <<< Note 323.228 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> If true, then why does it survive in shared needles
In the case of needles, you are talking only a few seconds
between parties.
> or unsterilized
> medical instruments?
There is no documented case of any person contracting HIV from
unsterilized medical instruments.
> If HIV can't survive outside of the human
> body for a certain length of time, wouldn't it be sufficient to
> simply let the needles or medical instruments sit out for a day
> or so (or even just the length of time that it takes for one
> person to get off the toilet and the next to get on)?
Yes. Of course there are other bacteria that CAN survive for
a day and you risk infecting a person with some disease other
than AIDS.
Jim
|
323.232 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:37 | 5 |
|
Joe, what note am I supposed to be agreeing with you again? .223 is my
reply to Nancy. Wanna specify so I can see if I really do agree or if you have
twisted my words again? Thank you
|
323.233 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:41 | 8 |
|
Joe, while you're at it, why don't you also explain why you sent me a
note from SB in mail that is no longer listed in this file? Do you mind if I
post it so others can see?
Glen
|
323.234 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:42 | 28 |
| <<< Note 323.230 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> And frankly, you are letting the emotionalism of your involvement
> with the disease to tarnish your participation here.
Yes, some of my comments to you are emotionally driven. But the
facts that I have given you are facts nonetheless.
> I guess that you fail to realize that in our society, the sharing
> of body fluids is becoming rather commonplace.
Does not adress the issue as to whether or not we should lie to kids
about AIDS. Education vs. Ignorance.
> Sexual contact is becoming as casual as going to dinner.
> By our society's standards today, AIDS *IS* a risk of a
> contact that is becoming more and more casual.
Different use of the term "casual". If you want to make a case
concerning too much casual sex, fine. But that is a completely
seperate issue than requiring a quarrantine for HIV+ patients.
> I don't agree with your assessment that AIDS quarantines
> would be unconstitutional.
Then you would, of course, be wrong.
Jim
|
323.235 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Mar 07 1995 17:53 | 22 |
| .231
>> If true, then why does it survive in shared needles
>
> In the case of needles, you are talking only a few seconds
> between parties.
So if needle users let the needles sit for a week or so,
there would no longer be a risk if HIV transmission? The
last part of you .231 seemed to indicate that this would
be the case, but current "education" tells us that any
used needle is a risk.
>> or unsterilized
>> medical instruments?
>
> There is no documented case of any person contracting HIV from
> unsterilized medical instruments.
So why the strong push for sterilizaton? And how did those
patients get HIV from that dentist? He certainly didn't have
sex with them.
|
323.237 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Mar 07 1995 18:06 | 20 |
| .234
> Yes, some of my comments to you are emotionally driven. But the
> facts that I have given you are facts nonetheless.
> Does not adress the issue as to whether or not we should lie to kids
> about AIDS. Education vs. Ignorance.
Your "fact" says that HIV is not easy to transmit. I guess
that the current "education" out there is a lie, because any
grade school or high school sex-ed class will say that HIV is
likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex with an infeted
partner.
Just because you discount the likelihood of that happening does
not make your opinion fact. Just ask your brother.
> Different use of the term "casual".
Not the way I intended it.
|
323.238 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Tue Mar 07 1995 18:41 | 66 |
| Some facts:
In males, the chances of contracting HIV in highest to lowest
order of probability are:
1. Sharing needles
2. Being on the receiving end of anal intercourse with an
unprotected male partner.
3. Performing oral sex on an unprotected male partner.
4. Unprotected sex of any kind with a menstruating women.
5. Performing unprotected anal sex on a male partner, with
transmission via the penis.
All other sexual practices, including heterosexual intercourse
with transmission via the penis, oral sex with a female partner,
and receiving oral sex from either a male or female partner,
pose lesser probability of infection.
In females, the list is:
1. Sharing needles
2. Anal or vaginal intercourse with an unprotected male partner.
3. Performing oral sex on an unprotected male partner.
All other sexual practices, including oral sex with a female
partners, pose lesser probability of infection. There is little
statistical data to suggest a high degree of risk amound lesbian
partners, while the risk is somewhat higher among bisexual
women. A vast majority of women who contract AIDS through sexual
contact do so from a man.
In heterosexual sex, the use of a condom is statistically
more significant to an uninfected woman having sex with an
infected male, than vice versa.
Vaginal secretions in infected females generally pose a lower
risk than does semen from an infected male.
For both men and women, the probability of transmission
during intercourse is greatly reduced with the use of
a latex condom; while simultaneous use of contraceptive
foam and a condom provide a significant improvement in
protection over the use of a condom alone.
The greatest risk of infection occurs during the two
peaks in viral reproductive activity. The first peak
occurs between three weeks and six months of initial
infection, and is accompanied by an antibody response
in the infected individual. Generally, the infected
individual is unaware of the infection at this time.
The virus then lies dormant for an extended time
(possibly as long as seven years in some individuals).
During the dormancy period, the concentration of
the virus in body fluids is reduced, but can still
be identified through testing. With the onset of
AIDS related symptoms, the viral concentrations
rise again and remain high throughout the course
of the illness.
And finally, let me say that the person who suggested that
all HIV+ people be reported to the government... I thought
I'd already heard a lifetime supply of bootlicking fascist
tripe, but I guess I hadn't... a new low in Soapbox. What
a distiction.
-b
|
323.239 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Mar 07 1995 21:35 | 26 |
| <<< Note 323.235 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> So if needle users let the needles sit for a week or so,
> there would no longer be a risk if HIV transmission?
True.
>but current "education" tells us that any
> used needle is a risk.
Not true. Several programs provide bleach to sterilize needles
in between "customers". Your ignorance is showing again.
> So why the strong push for sterilizaton?
Get yourself a dictionary. Look up the word SEPSIS. Get back
to us.
> And how did those
> patients get HIV from that dentist? He certainly didn't have
> sex with them.
The last theory that was put forth was that he infected them
deliberately. More ignorance.
Jim
|
323.240 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Mar 07 1995 21:57 | 46 |
| <<< Note 323.237 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Your "fact" says that HIV is not easy to transmit.
True. Like the other "social diseases" it is so difficult
to contract you have to have sex in order to get it.
> I guess
> that the current "education" out there is a lie, because any
> grade school or high school sex-ed class will say that HIV is
> likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex with an infeted
> partner.
"Likely". Can you provide proof of this statement? I have seen
information that lists HIV as a RISK. I have not seen any that
says that it is LIKELY.
A little "embellishment" here Joe? Or just more ignorance?
> Just because you discount the likelihood of that happening does
> not make your opinion fact. Just ask your brother.
Joe, I have a suggestion for you. But I doubt that you are limber
enough to pull it off.
My brother was a homosexual living in San Fransico in the 70s and
80s.
He had a number of partners. One of those partners was HIV+
(before anyone knew what that meant). He had sex with him on
more than one occasion. They lived together for 6 months.
Now for the other side. I spent 3 weeks living in the same room
with my brother at the Traub Medical Center. I took care of him,
bathed him, helped him to the bathroom until he couldn't walk,
then I emptied his bedpan. I held his hand and was holding it
when he took his last breath.
With all that contact, I didn't contract HIV (and yes, before
you ask, I HAVE been tested).
So when you are ready to put aside your ignorance and fear
get back to us. Until then, refer back to my previous suggestion.
Jim
|
323.241 | Lost in the fog? | BRITE::FYFE | Never tell a dragon your real name. | Wed Mar 08 1995 11:03 | 11 |
| > I guess
> that the current "education" out there is a lie, because any
> grade school or high school sex-ed class will say that HIV is
> likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex with an infeted
> partner.
The likely hood of herterosexual transmission of HIV is less than 2% for
partners with no open wounds. It is higher for those with cuts/abrasions/tears -
/sores ...
Its possible, but not likely ...
|
323.242 | guide me, preacher | CLYDE::KOWALEWICZ_M | The Ballad of the Lost C'Mell | Wed Mar 08 1995 11:52 | 6 |
|
So where to I have to park my car to get one of these tracts that will
enlighten me to the _real_ dangers of catching AIDS and why "they" all
should be quarrantined?
kb
|
323.243 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | proud counter-culture McGovernik | Wed Mar 08 1995 13:08 | 9 |
| If you feel frisky and risky, park a car with a gay rights sticker on it
near some of the more virulent churches in ne colorado springs.
meg who recieved a pamphlet of trash whne taking a basket weaving class
at a school near one of said same churches. "Hate is Not a Family
Value" was apparently interpreted to mean my car was owned bby "on fo
them dangerous critters"
meg
|
323.244 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Mar 08 1995 15:23 | 9 |
| .241
>The likely hood of herterosexual transmission of HIV is less than 2% for
>partners with no open wounds. It is higher for those with cuts/abrasions/tears -
>/sores ...
>
>Its possible, but not likely ...
So you are saying that is really *IS* a gay disease?
|
323.245 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Send John Thomas some doughnuts | Wed Mar 08 1995 15:32 | 7 |
| That 2% figure, I don't know where it came from, but... the chance
of a woman becoming infected from an infected male's semen is
much greater than the chance of a male becoming infected
from an infected woman's normal (non-menstrual) vaginal discharge.
Depends on who the infector/infectee is...
|
323.246 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Mar 08 1995 15:42 | 66 |
| .239
>> And how did those
>> patients get HIV from that dentist? He certainly didn't have
>> sex with them.
>
> The last theory that was put forth was that he infected them
> deliberately. More ignorance.
"The last theory ... more ignorance"
We were talking about medical instruments. Deliberately or
not, even "the last theory" says that the vector of infection
was unsterilized instruments.
.240
> True. Like the other "social diseases" it is so difficult
> to contract you have to have sex in order to get it.
And again, the fact that you don't want to recognize the prevalance
of HIV-spreading practices does not negate the existence of it.
(Should I also deride you about ignorance and remind you that
there are other vectors besides sex? I won't. I know what you
meant.)
>> Just because you discount the likelihood of that happening does
>> not make your opinion fact. Just ask your brother.
>
> Joe, I have a suggestion for you. But I doubt that you are limber
> enough to pull it off.
> My brother was a homosexual living in San Fransico in the 70s and
> 80s.
> He had a number of partners. One of those partners was HIV+
> (before anyone knew what that meant).
Somebody else's brother will get HIV today. It will be easy
for him. It will be a commonplace practice for him that will
introduce the virus into his body.
And somebody else's sister will catch it tomorrow. She won't
expect that it can happen to her. She won't know about it
until a long time from now.
Everybody knows what HIV and AIDS are. Yet people still easily
get it.
> A little "embellishment" here Joe? Or just more ignorance?
You know, Jim, we've been pretty civil as of late, but I enter
something that touches you emotionally and you lose your usual
decorum. Now you seem to need to hurt me with your writing, and
you are willing to prostitute yourself to your emotions and twist
anything I say into claims of ignorance or insults. You are a
big boy, Jim. You should be able to deal rationally with subjects
that raise your emotional hackles. Check your own embellishments
at the door, TYVM.
I realize that we are getting nowhere between us here. I'd like
to bow out of this discussion with you and let you cool off a
bit. I'm sorry for you about your brother. Attacking me won't
bring him back. Being truthful about what is happening today
would be much more fruitful.
|
323.247 | incredibly rude | AXPBIZ::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Mar 08 1995 15:56 | 5 |
| You think you were civil, Joe, when you told Jim to "ask your brother"?
That went way beyond the pale. You certainly didn't deserve a civil
response.
DougO
|
323.248 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Mar 08 1995 16:57 | 57 |
| <<< Note 323.246 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> We were talking about medical instruments. Deliberately or
> not, even "the last theory" says that the vector of infection
> was unsterilized instruments.
A deliberate act does not equate to a blanket indictment
of AIDS transmission via unsterilized instruments.
> And again, the fact that you don't want to recognize the prevalance
> of HIV-spreading practices does not negate the existence of it.
I freely admit that certain practices can transmit HIV. But
you are arguing for quarrauntining people whether they participate
in those practices OR NOT. THIS is where we disagree.
> Somebody else's brother will get HIV today. It will be easy
> for him. It will be a commonplace practice for him that will
> introduce the virus into his body.
> And somebody else's sister will catch it tomorrow. She won't
> expect that it can happen to her. She won't know about it
> until a long time from now.
And they will contract tthe disease because they will participate
in one of the behaviors that are already known to be high risk.
THAT'S why a number of us favor education about the disease.
> Everybody knows what HIV and AIDS are. Yet people still easily
> get it.
You'd be suprised about how many people DON'T know. More
importantly they do not understand the information about
transmission of the diesease.
Look at the reports about the critical shortage of blood in the US
today. People are not donating blood because they THINK they can get
HIV from donating. Now you and I know this is wrong, but enough people
believe it that it is affecting the supply dramatically.
> You know, Jim, we've been pretty civil as of late, but I enter
> something that touches you emotionally and you lose your usual
> decorum.
You throw a bomb like "ask your brother" and you expect
decorum? Guess again. Shoot at me, I shoot back.
>Being truthful about what is happening today
> would be much more fruitful.
One statement on which we agree. I suggest you take the time to
educate yourself. THis will help immensely in helping you to
see the truth about this disease.
Jim
|
323.249 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Wed Mar 08 1995 19:03 | 32 |
| .248
> And they will contract tthe disease because they will participate
> in one of the behaviors that are already known to be high risk.
> THAT'S why a number of us favor education about the disease.
Are you suggesting that those who so participate eventhough
they know the risks would then have only themselves to blame?
Or is society in part to blame because we as a society, while
paying lip service to the risks, at the same time enables and
encourages those very same behaviors?
> You throw a bomb like "ask your brother" and you expect
> decorum? Guess again. Shoot at me, I shoot back.
First of all, you've been uncivil from your very entry into this
discussion. Laying all the blame for your behavior now on a
single statement made near the end is rather unfair, wouldn't
you agree?
But let me apologize for a remark that was out of line. It did
not come across as I intended.
>>Being truthful about what is happening today
>> would be much more fruitful.
>
> One statement on which we agree. I suggest you take the time to
> educate yourself. THis will help immensely in helping you to
> see the truth about this disease.
Our "truths" do not agree in all areas.
|
323.250 | | RICKS::TOOHEY | | Wed Mar 08 1995 19:30 | 46 |
|
RE: .208 (types 0f viruses)
There are 3 types of viruses - DNA, RNA, Retro. HIV is a retrovirus.
HIV consists of two single strand RNA molecules, which are enclosed by
a lipid coated protein shell. Once inside the host cell (by a membrane
fusion process) the RNA molecules undergo reverse transcriptase. This
process converts the RNA to DNA molecules. These DNA molecules then
insert themselves into the host cell's genome, and is now called a
provirus. The provirus then commandeers the host cell's 'manufacturing
machinery' and assembles virus RNA. Viral protein is also manufactured.
The viral protein encloses the viral RNA and leaves the host cell by a
mechanism know as 'cell budding'. The lipid coat is 'donated' by the
host cell, as the new virus leaves the host cell (lipid is part of the
cell membrane). This is an ongoing process, until the host cell dies.
Long before cellular death, the host cell can no longer do its normal
cellular functions, so it is in effect physiologically useless.
There are several reasons why HIV is so intractable a problem. As
pointed out earlier, it mutates rapidly. All types of viruses (DNA,
RNA, Retro) are subject to mutation, but HIV excessively so. (HIV
mutates during reverse transcriptase). I don't know if rapid mutation
is a characteristic of all retroviruses or not. A vacine is very
problematic because of this mutation factor.
Another negative factor is the type of cells HIV infects. It infects
helper T cells and monocytes. These cells are immune system cells. Both
of these cells have CD4 protein recepters, which are what HIV binds to.
Helper T cells regulate killer T cells and also B cells. Killer T cells
attack cells which are infected by pathogens, B cell produce
antibodies. Moncytes are precursors of macrophages, another type of
immune cell. (This is how HIV infects the brain, by the way. HIV gets
to the brain riding inside monocytes, thereby bypassing the blood/brain
barrier.) Anyway, the final result is a complete collapse of the immune
system and death by opportunistic infection.
The long asymptomatic latency period of HIV results in infected people
infecting other people, before they themselves are aware they are
carriers.
Paul
subject to mutation, by HIV (I'm not sure if all retroviruses
|
323.251 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Mar 08 1995 22:22 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.249 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Are you suggesting that those who so participate eventhough
> they know the risks would then have only themselves to blame?
I favor people taking personal responsibility for their actions.
I thought that you did as well. I must have been mistaken.
> Or is society in part to blame because we as a society, while
> paying lip service to the risks, at the same time enables and
> encourages those very same behaviors?
I've not seen the ads placed by "society" that say "Go ahead
and have unprotected sex". I HAVE seen ads that warn people
of the dangers of doing so.
> Our "truths" do not agree in all areas.
As I have suggested, do some research, read the literature.
The our truths will have much more in common.
Jim
|
323.252 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Wed Mar 08 1995 22:28 | 2 |
| Hey you, don't be silly,
Put a condom on your willy.
|
323.253 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 09 1995 00:45 | 4 |
| Bumper Sticker:
A tisket a tasket
a condom or a casket.
|
323.254 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 09 1995 09:56 | 11 |
| Just as an FYI...and it may already be in here. The article about AIDS
rising due to irresponsibility in New York came from an article from
the Village Voice. It was written by Mike Warner, a homosexual himself
who stated that HIV is 4 times higher than in 1987, and alot of it is
because people know there is a risk but have unprotected sex anyway
because the danger or the risk of death adds to the sexual experience.
Great sex lies in the ability to take a chance. I'm just telling you
what the report said. The problem is with heteros as well.
-Jack
|
323.255 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 09 1995 10:01 | 10 |
|
I've referred to that article in here (however I had thought it was in
the WSJ or NYT)..
Jim
|
323.256 | | BRITE::FYFE | Never tell a dragon your real name. | Thu Mar 09 1995 10:57 | 15 |
| >>The likely hood of herterosexual transmission of HIV is less than 2% for
>>partners with no open wounds. It is higher for those with cuts/abrasions/tears -
>>/sores ...
>>
>>Its possible, but not likely ...
>
> So you are saying that is really *IS* a gay disease?
No I'm not. Perhaps I should have used the word vaginal instead of heterosexual.
But to add to this, anal intercouse (hetero or homo) has a much higher rate
of transmission that does vaginal intercourse (for obvious reasons).
Doug.
|
323.257 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 11:25 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.235 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| but current "education" tells us that any used needle is a risk.
During drug use, yeah, as they don't wait long enough for the disease
to die. They shoot up, pass the needle, and shoot up some more.
Glen
|
323.258 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 11:38 | 44 |
| | <<< Note 323.236 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| You can figure it out, Glen.
If I knew what note you were talking about I could easily see what you
mean. But I do not. It's kind of funny, really, that you make the claim I
agreed with you, but can't back it. Might be because you realized you once
again took it out of context Joe?
| re .233
| What I sent you in mail was a reply to your own .229. You'll see your own
| name in the header if you look closely. I sent it in mail because they were
| primarily rathole issues that are better handled offline.
Let's look and see:
1) You talked about how the other quarentines set a precident for one being
called for AIDS, and how it would not be unconstitutional. Of course you
failed to tell me how it relates to other diseases, which is what I had
asked.
2) You said that you were getting tired because I tell you that not all people
have the facts on the disease, and that education would cure that, and then
I turned around and said that the ways of getting the disease are known. You
then state that I am contradicting myself. Yet with what you did, you once
again took what I said out of context. The ways are known for contracting
the disease, but not everyone knows them.
3) When I call you on twisting the words from your .227 note, you responded
with the word loser.
One and two DO have EVERYTHING to do with this topic. But #3 really
doesn't. Sounds like there might have been other reasons than the rathole issue
Joe.
| Therefore I'm not surprised that you want to dump it in here.
No, I'd rather dump it in here to address the issues you brought up.
But I guess I have done that anyway, without having to dump it in.
Glen
|
323.259 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 09 1995 12:18 | 31 |
| .251
> I favor people taking personal responsibility for their actions.
> I thought that you did as well. I must have been mistaken.
You're not mistaken at all. Glad we agree.
>> Our "truths" do not agree in all areas.
>
> As I have suggested, do some research, read the literature.
> The our truths will have much more in common.
Case in point:
> I've not seen the ads placed by "society" that say "Go ahead
> and have unprotected sex". I HAVE seen ads that warn people
> of the dangers of doing so.
The ads are the "lip service" that I mentioned. So are many
so-called "abstinence-based" sex education classes. Feel-good
buzzwords are fine, but whether you are willing to accept it
or not, society embrace and encourages many of the behaviors
that spread HIV. For instance, whether art imitates life or
life imitates art, our entertainment industry is rather hostile
to the monogamous, married lifestyle that will practically
ensure safety from AIDS. It condones, if not glorifies,
promiscuous and casual sex. No, Jim, there aren't any specific
ads that say "Go ahead and have unprotected sex," but you'd
have to be blind not to see that we are bathed in the message,
and in some circles even totally immersed.
|
323.261 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:13 | 26 |
| | <<< Note 323.237 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Your "fact" says that HIV is not easy to transmit. I guess that the current
| "education" out there is a lie, because any grade school or high school sex-ed
| class will say that HIV is likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex
| with an infected partner.
I wish I knew when you were being serious or not. Joe, if one is
instructed to know about your partner before having sex with them (know as get
tested after 3 months), to not have sex at all (which is also part of the
education), then there will be no way they will contract the disease. If one
wears a condom properly, it cuts down the risk of contracting HIV almost 100%.
(even with a condom one should not ejaculate in someone) So yeah, it is very
hard to transmit, but it is very easy to transmit to someone who has not been
educated on the disease. Something I wonder if you have taken the time to do.
Judging by your entries, my GUESS would be you've learned things from what
other people have said, but never taken the time to look into it. If I am
wrong, please correct me and tell me where you actually got training from.
| Just ask your brother.
I've seen you go low, but this low?
Glen
|
323.262 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:17 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.244 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| So you are saying that is really *IS* a gay disease?
I swear your game playing gets better and better Joe. Of course I guess
it could be your ignorance.
|
323.263 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:21 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.246 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Now you seem to need to hurt me with your writing, and you are willing to
| prostitute yourself to your emotions and twist anything I say into claims of
| ignorance or insults.
Your own words do that Joe. You are either being very non-funny with
more of your "game", or you are very ignorant to this disease. It doesn't make
you a lesser person to not know about something, but you'd probably get more
respect if you didn't try to make it seem like you did know. And who are you to
talk about twisting words Joe?
| Being truthful about what is happening today would be much more fruitful.
Then why don't you start?
|
323.264 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:31 | 33 |
| | <<< Note 323.249 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Are you suggesting that those who so participate eventhough they know the
| risks would then have only themselves to blame?
Is it any different for anything Joe? If one gets lung cancer through
smoking, if they knew the dangers, they have themselves to blame for it to
happen. If you or I were to catch HIV through a way we knew it could happen
from, we would only have ourselves to blame.
| Or is society in part to blame because we as a society, while paying lip
| service to the risks, at the same time enables and encourages those very same
| behaviors?
Let's see, we talk of abstinance, we talk about condoms, we talk about
knowing your partners status, we talk about being monogomous, etc. Sounds to me
like we are trying to get the right message out Joe. You see, two people can
have any type of sex they want, unprotected at that, and they will NEVER get the
HIV virus if 1, both partners are uninfected to begin with, and 2, they are
monogomous. Pretty simple, huh?
| First of all, you've been uncivil from your very entry into this discussion.
| Laying all the blame for your behavior now on a single statement made near
| the end is rather unfair, wouldn't you agree?
Joe, for one who threw the comment out to bitch about how you feel they
let emotions get involved and skew their answers and how it led to them
insulting you has got to be one of the lamest things you've tried to pull off.
Glen
|
323.265 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:35 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.260 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| precedent.
HAAA!!! I knew you would avoid that one. It would only show that you
are wrong once again. HAAAAA!!!!
Glen
|
323.266 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:42 | 5 |
|
It appears Mr. Silva has dropped his obsession with Mr. Benson, in favor
of Mr. Oppelt
|
323.267 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Mar 09 1995 13:50 | 1 |
| :-) Nice radio announcing Jimbo.
|
323.268 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:02 | 19 |
| .261
>So yeah, it is very
>hard to transmit, but it is very easy to transmit to someone who has not been
>educated on the disease.
Greg Louganis said that he was educated about the disease.
Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.
Almost anyone in this country who gets the disease today is
educated on it -- especially those who get it through needle-
sharing and sexual contact. It will happen today. And tomorrow.
And each day of the forseeable future.
The education you espouse has limited benefit. If education is
the solution, the education it really takes is to see your best
friend die from it. And given the lag time between contracting
HIV and its manifestation, even that education often comes too
late.
|
323.269 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:10 | 34 |
| .264
> Is it any different for anything Joe? If one gets lung cancer through
>smoking, if they knew the dangers, they have themselves to blame for it to
>happen.
Yet we have so many suits against the tobacco industry on behalf
of people who died from smoking.
And can you say that there is any significant number of people
in this country who smoke but do not know the risks? Yet they
continue to do so. It is no different for people who participate
in behaviors that expose them to HIV. More "education" won't
help either group.
>If you or I were to catch HIV through a way we knew it could happen
>from, we would only have ourselves to blame.
Yet you were blaming Ronald Reagan just the other day.
>You see, two people can
>have any type of sex they want, unprotected at that, and they will NEVER get the
>HIV virus if 1, both partners are uninfected to begin with, and 2, they are
>monogomous. Pretty simple, huh?
Yet you were trying to convince me that having one partner at
a time, say a year at a time, was monogamy. Surely you agree
that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation --
especially if all the people participating in this chain were
practicing the same.
And how are we supposed to know if our next partner does/doesn't
have HIV? Are you willing to support regular testing for all
sexually-active people?
|
323.270 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:14 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.266 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| It appears Mr. Silva has dropped his obsession with Mr. Benson, in favor
| of Mr. Oppelt
Could it be that Mr. Oppelt is not accurate with the stuff in his notes
have anything to do with it Jim? Me thinks that's the whole reason.....
|
323.271 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:15 | 19 |
| Glen:
I don't think it is a gay disease but I certainly believe it used to be
one and then propogated into the straight community. I'm not saying by
any means that it is a judgement or anything like that...simply that it
started amongst the gay community then branched out.
Question is Glen, if the gay community doesn't think it's a gay
disease, then why is the gay community treating this disease above all
others.
I have this theory Glen...and it is just a theory.
The AIDS industry is a 6 billion dollar industry and I believe the gay
lobby is attaching itself to this disease for political reasons. I
have no doubt but that many are personally effected by deaths of
friends, etc. But I believe the gay lobby needs to champion something
to stay powerful. 6 Billion dollars is very powerful.
-Jack
|
323.273 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:24 | 44 |
| | <<< Note 323.268 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Greg Louganis said that he was educated about the disease.
Greg Louganis got the disease before education even game out on it.
Greg Louganis also caught the disease from his longtime lover. Someone he
thought he could trust.
| Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.
Magic Johnson said he thought he was invinsible. While he knew sex was
a way to transmit the disease, he considered it a gay disease. Being partially
educated about AIDS will not stop it from spreading, will not stop people from
spreading untruths, will not stop the hysteria. I'm not sure where you got your
information from Joe, but it certainly isn't complete by any means.
| Almost anyone in this country who gets the disease today is educated on it
You base this on what information Joe? Your own view or something that
you can back with facts? And once you know the amount of people who are
educated, can you tell us how many of these people are only partially educated
Joe? You mentioned Magic was educated, but not completely. You mentioned
Louganis was educated, but he got the disease before education was even out
there, and got it from someone he trusted.
| -- especially those who get it through needle sharing and sexual contact.
A source will be good. Hopefully your source won't be the same thing I
keep receiving in the mail from you. The source where you call me a loser.
| The education you espouse has limited benefit.
No, the education has a 100% chance of working.
| If education is the solution, the education it really takes is to see your
| best friend die from it.
An extreme is one way of making one open their eyes. Look what it took
Magic Johnson to open his eyes. Through education it will hopefully not take
that kind of extreme to open one's eyes. But through Magic, many hetersosexuals
have opened their eyes.
Glen
|
323.274 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:33 | 31 |
| .273
>| Greg Louganis said that he was educated about the disease.
>
> Greg Louganis got the disease before education even game out on it.
There was no education in 1986-88? ESPECIALLY among gays?
>Greg Louganis also caught the disease from his longtime lover. Someone he
>thought he could trust.
And the same thing continues to happen today. In spite of
education.
>| Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.
>
> Magic Johnson said he thought he was invinsible. While he knew sex was
>a way to transmit the disease, he considered it a gay disease.
That doesn't mean that he was "partially educated" as you claim.
>I'm not sure where you got your
>information from Joe, but it certainly isn't complete by any means.
Both made the statements themselves. Why deny their statements?
>But through Magic, many hetersosexuals
>have opened their eyes.
Sure looks like it, considering that the disease is spreading
fastest among hets, according to recent reports posted here.
|
323.275 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:40 | 56 |
| | <<< Note 323.269 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| And can you say that there is any significant number of people in this country
| who smoke but do not know the risks?
Yeah, kids.
| It is no different for people who participate in behaviors that expose them to
| HIV. More "education" won't help either group.
Education has already helped Joe. Getting education will and is
helping.
| >If you or I were to catch HIV through a way we knew it could happen
| >from, we would only have ourselves to blame.
| Yet you were blaming Ronald Reagan just the other day.
Again, taking what I said out of context. Why is it you always do this
Joe? Explain to me, if you would, how you can compare Reagan not pushing for
education about the disease which led to more people catching it to someone who
KNOWS HOW IT IS CAUGHT getting the disease and having it be their fault? You
simply amaze me.
| Yet you were trying to convince me that having one partner at a time, say a
| year at a time, was monogamy.
HELLO McFLY!!!!!!????? If a marriage, a relationship lasts for 1 year,
1 day even, and no one has cheated, then it was a monogamous <insert correct
label>. If it is not, then what was it in your eyes?
| Surely you agree that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation
No, it can not. If you follow what is being taught, it will not. If you
just jump into bed without knowing your partners history, you could. This is
why it would be nice for you to get yourself educated on this disease so you
would not go around and spread falsehoods.
| And how are we supposed to know if our next partner does/doesn't have HIV?
Follow what is being taught, you will have no problems. Don't, and what
you mention above could actually come true.
| Are you willing to support regular testing for all sexually-active people?
No. It is not needed. Those who engage in sex without following what
has been taught should be tested. Take for example me. I went to the doctor
yesterday to get my physical. During it he asked me about my sex life. I told
him the types of things I have engaged in, and he told me that I did not need
an HIV test. I had gotten one with him before, and it was negative. If I follow
what is being taught, I will NEVER need another test again.
Glen
|
323.276 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:49 | 34 |
| .275
> Yeah, kids.
Ask any 7-year-old and he'll tell you that smoking leads to
cancer.
>| More "education" won't help either group.
>
> Education has already helped Joe. Getting education will and is
>helping.
Yes, it has already helped. More (for those who are alread
educated) won't be effective.
> Again, taking what I said out of context. Why is it you always do this
>Joe? Explain to me, if you would, how you can compare Reagan not pushing for
>education about the disease which led to more people catching it to someone who
>KNOWS HOW IT IS CAUGHT getting the disease and having it be their fault
No wonder you think it was out of context. I didn't say that.
> HELLO McFLY!!!!!!????? If a marriage, a relationship lasts for 1 year,
>1 day even, and no one has cheated, then it was a monogamous <insert correct
>label>. If it is not, then what was it in your eyes?
There you go. Serial monogamy. One day even. This is not
a safe practice.
>| Surely you agree that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation
>
> No, it can not.
Yet you insist it is.
|
323.277 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:49 | 39 |
| | <<< Note 323.271 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| I don't think it is a gay disease but I certainly believe it used to be one
| and then propogated into the straight community.
Jack, if you looked at the world wide figures of 2 years ago, you would
see an 11-1 ratio for the disease leaning towards the straight people. In North
America though, it had hit the gay community at first far greater than the
straight community. So for North America, you would be right to say that it
effected gays first. Why North America is the only place this happened is
something I can not explain.
| Question is Glen, if the gay community doesn't think it's a gay disease, then
| why is the gay community treating this disease above all others.
That's easy Jack. Take the North American stats, combine it with a
President who didn't push education because it seemed to infect gays and or
drug users, and you can see that unless we educated the masses ourselves, this
was going to be one hell of a disease. We could see where it was going, but it
would appear that Reagan did not. Like I said, until Magic Johnson got the
disease, most of the heterosexuals of our nation didn't wake up. The rest of
the world knew long before that, but somehow we didn't.
| The AIDS industry is a 6 billion dollar industry and I believe the gay lobby
| is attaching itself to this disease for political reasons.
Interesting theory. But one that is not true I'm glad to say. Reread
what I wrote above Jack. That is the real reason behind everything. Are women
lining up to jump on the Breast Cancer bandwagon?
| But I believe the gay lobby needs to champion something to stay powerful.
Believe me Jack, watching what others do, listening to what others say
that is derogatory towards gays is a big enough champion to hang onto. Jumping
on a disease bandwagon absolutely makes no sense.
Glen
|
323.278 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:52 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.272 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Could be, but I'd be more apt to believe it if it were someone else who had
| the obsession.
It just looks worse cuz I was out yesterday and am still catching up.:-)
|
323.279 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:58 | 22 |
|
RE: <<< Note 323.270 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
>| It appears Mr. Silva has dropped his obsession with Mr. Benson, in favor
>| of Mr. Oppelt
> Could it be that Mr. Oppelt is not accurate with the stuff in his notes
>have anything to do with it Jim? Me thinks that's the whole reason.....
I suppose that's possible. However it seems to me that Mr. Oppelt and/or
Mr Benson could enter a note stating that today is Thursday March 9 and
you'd carry on a 15 reply spiral disagreeing with them
Jim
|
323.280 | You knew that last week for that matter | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 14:58 | 42 |
| | <<< Note 323.274 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| There was no education in 1986-88? ESPECIALLY among gays?
I was watching Oprah last week and he said he had the disease around
1980.
| >Greg Louganis also caught the disease from his longtime lover. Someone he
| >thought he could trust.
| And the same thing continues to happen today. In spite of education.
There was no education out there then.
| >| Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.
| >
| > Magic Johnson said he thought he was invinsible. While he knew sex was
| >a way to transmit the disease, he considered it a gay disease.
| That doesn't mean that he was "partially educated" as you claim.
If he knows sex will transmit it, but equates it to homosexual sex,
then he is only � educated about it Joe.
| Both made the statements themselves. Why deny their statements?
Both are partial statements made by them Joe. Why do you take them out
of context?
| >But through Magic, many hetersosexuals have opened their eyes.
| Sure looks like it, considering that the disease is spreading fastest among
| hets, according to recent reports posted here.
Let's see now.... this was explained to you last week. The #'s have
been going up because more people are being tested. The #'s are going up
because those who were unsafe before are coming out positive. But you knew
that.
Glen
|
323.281 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:05 | 43 |
| | <<< Note 323.276 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| > Yeah, kids.
| Ask any 7-year-old and he'll tell you that smoking leads to cancer.
Be real Joe. That is not true. If it is, what's your source?
| Yes, it has already helped. More (for those who are alread educated) won't
| be effective.
You lost me on this one. I came up with several scenerios. Could you
explain it again? Thanks.
| No wonder you think it was out of context. I didn't say that.
Go read your note Joe....
| > HELLO McFLY!!!!!!????? If a marriage, a relationship lasts for 1 year,
| >1 day even, and no one has cheated, then it was a monogamous <insert correct
| >label>. If it is not, then what was it in your eyes?
| There you go. Serial monogamy. One day even. This is not a safe practice.
You were talking about monogamy. I was addressing that. The above IS
manogamy.
BUT, with serial manogamy alone, you're right. Add in the education, and
you're wrong. What one might do with someone for one day will not be the same
with someone who they have a lifelong commitment with if they follow what they
have learned with education.
| >| Surely you agree that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation
| >
| > No, it can not.
| Yet you insist it is.
No, I am insisting that those who are not educated will. Again, you
twist the words.
Glen
|
323.282 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:07 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.279 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>
| I suppose that's possible. However it seems to me that Mr. Oppelt and/or
| Mr Benson could enter a note stating that today is Thursday March 9 and
| you'd carry on a 15 reply spiral disagreeing with them
No, cuz that would be a true statement.
Glen
|
323.283 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:11 | 51 |
| <<< Note 323.259 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> I favor people taking personal responsibility for their actions.
>> I thought that you did as well. I must have been mistaken.
> You're not mistaken at all. Glad we agree.
Yet we have all this verbiage rfom you about how "society"
is somehow to blame for the spread of AIDS. There seems to be
a conflict in your beliefs.
> The ads are the "lip service" that I mentioned.
The ads are the public stand taken by many organizations, the
CDC, the NIH, etc. You would ratther that these groups remain
silent?
> So are many
> so-called "abstinence-based" sex education classes.
You are coming out against abstinence?
>society embrace and encourages many of the behaviors
> that spread HIV.
We need your definition of "society".
> For instance, whether art imitates life or
> life imitates art, our entertainment industry is rather hostile
> to the monogamous, married lifestyle that will practically
> ensure safety from AIDS. It condones, if not glorifies,
> promiscuous and casual sex.
Is your definition of "society" then confined to Hollywood
producers?
My definition is a whole lot broader than that.
> No, Jim, there aren't any specific
> ads that say "Go ahead and have unprotected sex,"
I didn't think so.
> but you'd
> have to be blind not to see that we are bathed in the message,
> and in some circles even totally immersed.
And "society" (my definition) is trying to spread the word
about how risky this behavior can be.
Jim
|
323.284 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:14 | 27 |
|
RE: <<< Note 323.281 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
>| Ask any 7-year-old and he'll tell you that smoking leads to cancer.
> Be real Joe. That is not true. If it is, what's your source?
I'm not Joe, but I'd be willing to wager that just about any parent who smokes
and has kids in grade school, 7 year-olds included, has heard their kids
say "Mom (and/or) Dad, why do you smoke? don't you know it causes cancer..
when my son Scott was about 7 he was very well aware that smoking causes
cancer and other ills. Heck, he was even talk that if his parents drink
they could be alcoholics!
Jim
|
323.286 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:20 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.282 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
> No, cuz that would be a true statement.
Unless they post it tommorrow. ;-)
Jim
|
323.287 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:24 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.285 by CNTROL::JENNISON "Oh me of little faith" >>>
| Greg Louganis tested positive in 1988. I don't think he made any claims to
| having had the disease in 1980.
I only repeated what I heard.
|
323.288 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:24 | 14 |
|
RE: <<< Note 323.287 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
| Greg Louganis tested positive in 1988. I don't think he made any claims to
| having had the disease in 1980.
> I only repeated what I heard.
And your source was...?
|
323.289 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:30 | 3 |
|
In my note, which you apparently did not read, he was on Oprah.
|
323.290 | Kids and smoking ... | BRITE::FYFE | Never tell a dragon your real name. | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:31 | 5 |
|
Both my 3 and 5 year old will tell you smoking is bad for your health
and it will kill you (cracks me up!).
They pick it up from TV.
|
323.291 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | aspiring peasant | Thu Mar 09 1995 15:36 | 2 |
| Sounds like you have two smart kids and this is also a great argument
as to why T.V. is good for you. :-)/2
|
323.293 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 09 1995 16:02 | 48 |
| .283
>> You're not mistaken at all. Glad we agree.
>
> Yet we have all this verbiage rfom you about how "society"
> is somehow to blame for the spread of AIDS.
You misread.
> You would ratther that these groups remain
> silent?
You said that, not me.
>> So are many
>> so-called "abstinence-based" sex education classes.
>
> You are coming out against abstinence?
Ditto.
I *do* stand against labeling some of the so-called "abstinence-
based" sex ed classes as truly abstinence-based. I'm surprised
that you seem willing to simply settle for just what's on the
cover of the book, Jim.
> Is your definition of "society" then confined to Hollywood
> producers?
Far from it. All I did was mention the correlation between
art and society. Regardless of which mirrors which, the
mirror is there. It was just one of the most glaring examples
(which I notice you couldn't deny.)
> And "society" (my definition) is trying to spread the word
> about how risky this behavior can be.
I really haven't been fair to the efforts that have been made.
I called them lip service. At times this is true, but at times
it is quite sincere. I just think that the overall message from
society is much stronger in pushing the behaviors that spread
HIV than it is in emphasizing the risk. There is a big difference
in impact between being bathed in one message, and having that
bath momentarily interrupted with public service announcements.
Morbid as it seems, I think the risk message will only overcome
the hedonism when we watch a beloved idol like Magic succumb
to the virus.
|
323.294 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 16:24 | 7 |
|
Joe, your .292 is your being avaisive at your best. Thank you for
posting it.
Glen
|
323.295 | evasive | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Be vewy caweful awound Zebwas! | Thu Mar 09 1995 16:26 | 1 |
|
|
323.296 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 09 1995 16:34 | 4 |
|
That too!
|
323.297 | | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Thu Mar 09 1995 16:41 | 27 |
| Louganis was just here in Atlanta on his book tour and was interviewed
on noon news. Greg said he found out he was HIV+ 6 months before the
'88 Olympics. He got tested because his long time SO (he calls him
Tom in book) was really getting ill. Louganis could have been
infected at least 10 years before. I don't think even the gay
community knew WHAT was taking its toll on their community in the
late '70s early '80s, they just knew SOMETHING horrible was going
on (and they couldn't get anyone in the straight community to listen
to them).
There has been a lot of education going on in the last few years
(apparently it hasn't penetrated in some areas though).
As was already pointed out, Magic proved no hetero is immune if
they engage in promiscuous behavior and I do believe this message
is starting to penetrate (just not fast enough).
Louganis said he went public because he'd heard over and over,
people innocently saying they would never be affected by AIDS. He
said everyone who cheered him on in his quest for the gold really
can't say AIDS has not affected them.
I watched him win all 4 gold medals and it was a thrill; we won't
see another diver like Louganis any time soon. I just hope his
health holds out so he can get to a place of peace and serenity in
his life.
|
323.298 | 2 hours a day tops (Ghost Write, Bill Nye the Science Guy, Family Matters mostly) | BRITE::FYFE | Never tell a dragon your real name. | Thu Mar 09 1995 16:48 | 11 |
| > Sounds like you have two smart kids and this is also a great argument
> as to why T.V. is good for you. :-)/2
Actually they watch al good deal of CPB and a small amount of the rest of
it (Their environment is highly controlled :-).
It doesn't take much.
I'll clue them in when they're a little older ...
Doug.
|
323.299 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 09 1995 17:11 | 37 |
| <<< Note 323.293 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>It was just one of the most glaring examples
> (which I notice you couldn't deny.)
Well, I thought the questions I raised would indicate a position,
but if you insist.
I deny that Hollywood represents "society". Anyone making claims
to the contrary is taking far to simplistic an approach to the
definition.
>I just think that the overall message from
> society is much stronger in pushing the behaviors that spread
> HIV than it is in emphasizing the risk. There is a big difference
> in impact between being bathed in one message, and having that
> bath momentarily interrupted with public service announcements.
So then one possible solution is to increase the warning messages.
More education in other words. Seems to me that I remember someone
suggesting that approach.
Glen, do you remember who it was? ;-)
> Morbid as it seems, I think the risk message will only overcome
> the hedonism when we watch a beloved idol like Magic succumb
> to the virus.
You mean someone like Arthur Ashe?
Actually, I'm probably less optimistic than you. I believe that
no matter the message, no matter the education, there will STILL
be those that choose to behave irresponsibly. The difference
between you and I is that I beleive that ONLY those people should
be punished.
Jim
|
323.301 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Mar 09 1995 22:06 | 33 |
| <<< Note 323.300 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> I deny that Hollywood represents "society". Anyone making claims
>> to the contrary is taking far to simplistic an approach to the
>> definition.
> You are too transparent. Sometimes these seem clever, but
> this one failed miserably.
You said that I didn't deny it, so I denied it. What do you want?
I don't believe that Hollywood represents "society:. You do.
We disagree.
> Would you be against that message from a moral perspective? The
> goal is the same.
Actually yes. The message it far more likey to be recieved by
those that need to hear it if we do not couch it in any
moralistic terms. The goal is success, not conversion. Unless
you have an agenda that you have not shared with us.
> So you see AIDS as a punishment? Surely I'm misinterpreting
> you.
Surely you are. Your intitial representation was quarrantine,
and however much you deny it, this is still an issue that you
defend. Quarrantining those that do NOT participate in activities
that promote the transmission of the virus can most certainly be
classified as punishment.
Jim
|
323.302 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Be vewy caweful awound Zebwas! | Fri Mar 10 1995 08:44 | 11 |
|
RE: .301
Jim,
Why do you see something from a moral perspective as "conversion"?
Is that a personal bias or just one stereo-type you're fond of?
Andy
|
323.303 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 10 1995 09:30 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.302 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Be vewy caweful awound Zebwas!" >>>
> Why do you see something from a moral perspective as "conversion"?
> Is that a personal bias or just one stereo-type you're fond of?
Presenting the message in "moral" terms brings an unneccessary
element into the equation. Because this element is uneccessary
there must be some other motive than simply preventing the
spread of the disease. That goal can be accomplised without
even refering to morality. So I view an attempt to bring morality
into the picture as an attempt to convert people to a more moral
lifestyle, not to merely stop the transmission of HIV.
If that's bias, so be it.
Jim
|
323.304 | | ASDG::GASSAWAY | Insert clever personal name here | Fri Mar 10 1995 09:39 | 7 |
| FWIW, lesbians have a very low AIDS transmission rate.
AIDS is a "create a wound where the disease can have direct access to
the bloodstream type of disease". Women aren't normally born with the
optimal equipment to tear flesh. Men are. Needles tear flesh too.
Lisa
|
323.305 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 09:57 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.299 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
| So then one possible solution is to increase the warning messages.
| More education in other words. Seems to me that I remember someone
| suggesting that approach.
| Glen, do you remember who it was? ;-)
That person's name is on the tip of my tongue..... :-)
Glen
|
323.306 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 10:02 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 323.302 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Be vewy caweful awound Zebwas!" >>>
| Why do you see something from a moral perspective as "conversion"?
| Is that a personal bias or just one stereo-type you're fond of?
Andy, look at how the word Christian is perceived by many people. The
extreme is what they think about. While it is true that most Christians do not
fit this bill, until the transformation has been done on the pr side, people
will continue to get turned off, they will automatically feel the stuff is
being thrown down their throats (regardless of whether it really is), etc. To
reach everyone, it would be easier to keep to moral issue out of it. Through
the help that is given, through the people getting to know others, the word
Christian can change from it's present state to it's real meaning.
Glen
|
323.307 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Mar 10 1995 10:58 | 5 |
|
What is the real meaning of the word "Christian", Glen?
|
323.308 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:04 | 5 |
|
The word itself is someone who believes in and follows Christ. What I
was referring to though is the perceptions people have of the word.
|
323.309 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:05 | 5 |
|
...and your source for that definition is?
|
323.310 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:09 | 3 |
|
God.
|
323.311 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:10 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.239 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>> So if needle users let the needles sit for a week or so,
>> there would no longer be a risk if HIV transmission?
>
> True.
<<< Note 323.257 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
>| but current "education" tells us that any used needle is a risk.
>
> During drug use, yeah, as they don't wait long enough for the disease
>to die. They shoot up, pass the needle, and shoot up some more.
Well then maybe one of you two can help dispel some more
"ignorance". Why do we have needle exchange programs? You'd
think that by the time they get the used needles to the exchange
site (probably days after their use) that the HIV isn't a
problem with them any more. Or maybe in my ignorance I didn't
know that these needle exchanges are being transacted right
at the shoot-up site, and the administrator gives the sharing
group a new needle as each new sharer gets ready to shoot...
|
323.312 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:27 | 5 |
| And how did you determine that it came from God?
Answer: The part of the Bible that really counts.
-Jack
|
323.313 | Makes the do-gooders feel good about themselves ... that's about it. | BRITE::FYFE | Never tell a dragon your real name. | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:32 | 11 |
| > Well then maybe one of you two can help dispel some more
> "ignorance". Why do we have needle exchange programs?
Needles get old/rust/break or otherwise fail. Has the number of available
needles dwindles the remaining needles are shared. If eveyone has their
usable needle there is no need to share. When it fails, get a new one.
Just another ineffective, illogical, emotional based liberal response
to the growing problems in this country.
Doug.
|
323.314 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 10 1995 11:59 | 68 |
| <<< Note 323.301 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> You said that I didn't deny it, so I denied it. What do you want?
> I don't believe that Hollywood represents "society:. You do.
> We disagree.
I said that you didn't deny that THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY (as
just one example) bathes us in messages that encourage HIV-risk
behavior.
Not only have you been obstinate in avoiding addressing that,
but counter to your call to a broader view of things, you insist
that Hollywood is "the entertainment industry". You leave out
Detroit and Nashville (music), New York (theatre). The magazines
our kids read, and the morning radio DJ and evening news anchor
are also part of the entertainment industry. Madison Avenue,
an industry in itself, is also intimately involved in the
entertainment industry. All of these and more bombard us (and
more importantly our kids) with messages that ridicule abstinence,
that glorify promiscuity, that tell us we ought to be "scoring"
more. From Calvin Klein ads to Joe Camel's nose, from erotic body
parts hidden in whiskey bottles and snack food ads to scantily-
clad women running in the background of video games and painted
on pinball machines, from overt messages in pop music lyrics to
depiction of casual sex between first-tile aquaintances on
prime-time TV, we are immersed in it, Jim, to the point that
we can't avoid it. Just today in our local paper was an article
about a study that profanity on prime-time TV has doubled from
1990 to 1994, and in that same time complaints about it have
dwindled, indicating that we are becoming desensitized to it.
We are likewise desensitized to all the sexual depictions --
whether innuendo or overt -- because it has become part of our
culture. And also in our local paper today was an article about
Nancy Reagan's plea to return to the messages of her husband's
administration regarding drugs. We've turned away from that too,
and drug use among kids is up. Our heros and leaders in all
arenas -- sports, entertainment, politics, business, etc. -- are
swapping partners more frequently than the tabloid industry can
keep up. Major magazines post headlines ridiculing marriage ("Is
There Sex After Marriage?") and marriage itself is one of the
most popular subjects for derisive jokes.
**THAT** is what I'm talking about when I say that society
condones -- even embraces -- the behaviors that spread HIV.
Momentarily breaking the sexual mantra with periodic messages
about condom use, and passing mention of abstinence in sex-ed
followed by emphasis on the "but" clause that always follows
it, will NOT outweigh the constant diet of sexual encouragement
we as a society have adopted.
>> Would you be against that message from a moral perspective? The
>> goal is the same.
>
> Actually yes. The message it far more likey to be recieved by
> those that need to hear it if we do not couch it in any
> moralistic terms. The goal is success, not conversion.
It is the loss of the moral guidelines that society used to
hold that is the reason for our current problems. The experimental
discarding of the moral fabric has failed miserably. Shouting
out even louder the safety messages in the absence of moral
reasoning will not work. You fear the moral message because
you have some problem with religion. Well morality does not
work because it is religious, it works because it is right,
and works in the absence of any particular religion. You blind
yourself to the benefits of it because you see some bogeyman
"agenda", but while you scramble to villify religion, society
continues to crumble.
|
323.316 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 12:50 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.315 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| Kind of works the same way for "gay rights", eh Glen?
You're right Joe. Both have people who think the extreme equals the
group as a whole. Both have people who hate them just because they are
different than they are. So for those two things which give people an
inaccurate picture of who these people are, you're right.
Glen
|
323.317 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 12:51 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.312 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| And how did you determine that it came from God?
| Answer: The part of the Bible that really counts.
Jack, why did you ask if you were gonna provide the answer? Not an
accurate one, but an answer none the less.
|
323.318 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 10 1995 13:08 | 36 |
| <<< Note 323.314 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> **THAT** is what I'm talking about when I say that society
> condones -- even embraces -- the behaviors that spread HIV.
> Momentarily breaking the sexual mantra with periodic messages
> about condom use, and passing mention of abstinence in sex-ed
> followed by emphasis on the "but" clause that always follows
> it, will NOT outweigh the constant diet of sexual encouragement
> we as a society have adopted.
Then increase the messages that tell about the risks. I mentioned
this before and you ignored it.
>Shouting
> out even louder the safety messages in the absence of moral
> reasoning will not work.
And you think that telling a herion addict that drug use is
immoral WILL work? What color is the sky in your world?
> You fear the moral message because
> you have some problem with religion.
I do not fear the moral message. And I don't have a problem
with religion, per se. I do have a problem with most organized
religions. And I have a REAL problem with religious zealots.
What is wrong with a nice straightforward message that says
"If you do this, you may DIE"?
Kindly tell us how this is less effective than a message that
says "When you die, you'll go to hell".
Jim
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323.319 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 10 1995 14:16 | 46 |
| <<< Note 323.318 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> Then increase the messages that tell about the risks. I mentioned
> this before and you ignored it.
And I answered it, and you dismissed it. Impasse. Next point.
> And you think that telling a herion addict that drug use is
> immoral WILL work? What color is the sky in your world?
You are reacting to the symptoms rather than preventing the
disease.
What is the moral atmosphere that allows so many people to
require drug use? Do you think that increasing the message
"You may DIE" (I borrowed from your words below) to *any*
volume or frequency will change the heroin addict?
Or even most cigarette smokers?
> What is wrong with a nice straightforward message that says
> "If you do this, you may DIE"?
Because we have already made that message. Who hasn't already
heard it?
> Kindly tell us how this is less effective than a message that
> says "When you die, you'll go to hell".
Who said anything about hell? That is a strawman of your own
making. I said that morals could be practiced without religion.
Many have argued that very point in SOAPBOX over the years.
Instead of "You will go to hell," what's wrong with the message
"It is wrong!" But it has to be more than just a message. It
has to be a whole societal paradigm shift. Just as the message,
"You may DIE" has proven to be ineffective, the mere message,
"It is wrong," will be equally ineffective. At any decibel
level and with any frequency. Instead we will have to make
a decision as a society that "We don't do that. We don't
accept that. We don't tolerate it." It has taken decades to
throw away that mindset and get to the point where we are today.
I have no delusions that it would take less time to return to
that.
But we must.
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323.320 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 10 1995 14:59 | 37 |
| <<< Note 323.319 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> Then increase the messages that tell about the risks. I mentioned
>> this before and you ignored it.
> And I answered it, and you dismissed it. Impasse. Next point.
You didn't answer it. You suggested (actually you inquired as
to what I thought about) adding a "moral" message. This does
not adress the issue of increasing the amount of education,
it only addresses content.
> You are reacting to the symptoms rather than preventing the
> disease.
I am reacting to the current reality.
> Instead of "You will go to hell," what's wrong with the message
> "It is wrong!" But it has to be more than just a message. It
> has to be a whole societal paradigm shift. Just as the message,
> "You may DIE" has proven to be ineffective, the mere message,
> "It is wrong," will be equally ineffective. At any decibel
> level and with any frequency. Instead we will have to make
> a decision as a society that "We don't do that. We don't
> accept that. We don't tolerate it." It has taken decades to
> throw away that mindset and get to the point where we are today.
> I have no delusions that it would take less time to return to
> that.
It has only taken AIDS two decades to reach the rate that
we have now. So while we are waiting for a return to your
June Cleaver society, how many more people will become
infected, how many more will die?
And just how do you propose to force this paradigm shift?
Jim
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323.321 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 10 1995 15:03 | 8 |
|
| And just how do you propose to force this paradigm shift?
Jim, I thought he was clear about that. Quarentine. :-)
|
323.322 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 10 1995 15:17 | 29 |
| <<< Note 323.320 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>> You are reacting to the symptoms rather than preventing the
>> disease.
>
> I am reacting to the current reality.
Agreed. But doing that and nothing more locks us into
merely reacting forever.
> It has only taken AIDS two decades to reach the rate that
> we have now. So while we are waiting for a return to your
> June Cleaver society, how many more people will become
> infected, how many more will die?
I've never said to ignore today's problems.
And you are welcome to get nasty and deride the "June Cleaver
society", but it's better than what you have to offer -- which
is the status quo.
> And just how do you propose to force this paradigm shift?
It can't be mandated. It can't be legislated. It can only
occur from within. Grassroots. I can only hope that the
silent readers who have followed this string or other discussions
like it elsewhere can see the difference between a return to a
sensible morality versus the status quo versus a continued decline
in society.
|
323.323 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 10 1995 15:20 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.321 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>
> Jim, I thought he was clear about that. Quarentine. :-)
We move from a quarrantine for HIV+ status to a quarrantine
for having "impure thoughts"?? Yeah, that's the ticket!
;-)
Jim
|
323.324 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 10 1995 15:45 | 26 |
| <<< Note 323.322 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
> Agreed. But doing that and nothing more locks us into
> merely reacting forever.
Agreed. But the discussion was about increasing education
and the content of that education. It was not about other
proactive activity.
> I've never said to ignore today's problems.
But the only "solution" that you have offered to deal with
today's problems you have publicly repudiated.
> And you are welcome to get nasty and deride the "June Cleaver
> society"
Nasty, you call that nasty?
>but it's better than what you have to offer -- which
> is the status quo.
Better than favoring ignorace? Better than lying to potential
victims of this disease? Both of which you have offered us.
Jim
|
323.325 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Fri Mar 10 1995 15:52 | 18 |
| Jim:
You can have all the impure thoughts you want. Just keep your pants
on...I think that's the bottom line.
The base message of Christianity is that we do have impure
thoughts...the Spirit battling against the flesh and all that
stuff...so you can dispell the myth that we say you can't have impure
thoughts. However, as Christians I see a need for a daily renewal of
the mind. This can take a lifetime of can happen in a short period.
The paradigm shift is needed Jim. You screw...you could die...end of
story. What I don't like is peoples assumptions that the human race is
destined to act like a bunch of uncontrolled barn animals and
that...we're going to do it anyway! That isn't the case and it can
be curbed as is plainly shown in other societies.
-Jack
|
323.326 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Mar 10 1995 15:58 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.325 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
> You can have all the impure thoughts you want.
Why thank you. I know my weekend will be much more enjoyable.
> Just keep your pants
> on...I think that's the bottom line.
Ooops, there goes the weekend. Should I have my wife call you
if she doesn't understand this new paradigm?
Jim
|
323.327 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Fri Mar 10 1995 16:12 | 19 |
| <<< Note 323.324 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> Agreed. But the discussion was about increasing education
> and the content of that education. It was not about other
> proactive activity.
Says who?
> But the only "solution" that you have offered to deal with
> today's problems you have publicly repudiated.
You haven't been reading.
> Nasty, you call that nasty?
Oh, true. You can get much nastier. (I'm not sure if you
are proud of this or not...) You did real well yesterday,
but I noticed you falling back again, so I made a mention
of it. That's all.
|
323.328 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Sat Mar 11 1995 09:34 | 26 |
| <<< Note 323.327 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
>> Agreed. But the discussion was about increasing education
>> and the content of that education. It was not about other
>> proactive activity.
> Says who?
Are truly this obtuse? I asked you about increasing the AMOUNT
of education to offest the, according to you, inundation of
behavioral signals from the "entertainment industry". You
chose to NOT answer the question by diverting the discussion
to content.
>> But the only "solution" that you have offered to deal with
>> today's problems you have publicly repudiated.
> You haven't been reading.
It is true that you came up with an inane Pollyanna idea
about changing the mores of the entire society "in a few
decades". But that suggestion does not deal with the current
reality.
Jim
|
323.329 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Sat Mar 11 1995 11:18 | 1 |
| Now *THAT* is the Jim Percival we've come to know and love!
|
323.330 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Mon Mar 13 1995 10:22 | 3 |
|
But will you answer him Joe or just keep up the diversion?
|
323.331 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Mon Mar 13 1995 10:27 | 5 |
| Jim:
Obviously a message directed to the promiscuous.
-Jack
|
323.332 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Fri Mar 17 1995 18:40 | 73 |
| Woman with AIDS sues S.J. dental clinic
By Donna Alvarado
Mercury News Staff Writer
A Mountain View couple filed suit Wednesday in Santa Clara County
Superior Court alleging that a San Jose dental clinic refused to serve
the woman after she said she has AIDS.
The clinic, South Bay Health Center, denied that it discriminated
against the 33-year-old woman, Nanette Sanchez -- or anybody else who
has AIDS. ``It didn't happen,'' said Michael Bradley, a San Francisco
attorney representing the clinic.
But Sanchez and her husband, Michael, contend in their suit that they
were turned away from the clinic Dec. 10 after they came in response to
a promotional offer for a $25 ``two-for-one'' teeth cleaning.
The couple's attorneys, from the non-profit Public Interest Law Firm,
said the suit was filed as a way to ``declare war'' on health care
facilities that violate laws prohibiting discrimination against
patients with acquired immune deficiency syndrome. ``No longer will we
sit by while the law is violated,'' Patricia Price, one of the
attorneys, said at a news conference Wednesday to publicize the case.
Price said she did not know of any previous AIDS-discrimination suits
filed against a health care provider in Santa Clara County.
According to the suit, the Sanchezes arrived at the clinic and were
given health questionnaires. Nanette Sanchez filled out hers, stating
that she had AIDS, and returned it to the receptionist with a $25
check.
Several minutes later, the suit said, the couple were shown to a
cubicle, were told that the clinic did not treat patients with AIDS and
were given the name of a clinic that accepts those with AIDS.
``It's an outrage,'' Price said at the news conference as she displayed
the $25 check the Sanchezes wrote to the clinic. She said the clinic's
action violated federal, state and local laws.
The suit seeks a preliminary injunction prohibiting the clinic from
discriminating against patients with AIDS. Superior Court Judge Richard
Turrone on Wednesday scheduled a hearing on the matter for April 4.
Price said the couple would not have filed the suit if the clinic had
been willing to adopt a policy banning AIDS discrimination. But
Bradley, the attorney for the clinic, said it was unnecessary to have
such a policy.
``The people at South Bay Health Center will testify they don't have
any policy against treating AIDS patients -- never have and never
will,'' Bradley said. ``The allegation that Mrs. Sanchez was declined
treatment because she had AIDS was not true, and we'll prove it.''
Price said the Public Interest Law Firm has handled eight similar cases
since 1991, all of which were settled out of court before a suit was
filed.
In most of those cases, she said, the facility either acknowledged a
mistake or agreed to adopt a policy prohibiting any discrimination
against AIDS patients. ``This is the first defendant that has not been
cooperative,'' she said, referring to South Bay Health Center.
A spokesman for the California Dental Association said refusing to
serve AIDS patients is considered unethical under guidelines adopted by
the American Dental Association.
``Dentists aren't supposed to discriminate against HIV-infected
patients,'' John Galbraith said. ``They could be bounced from our
association. It's something we don't put up with.''
Published 3/16/95 in the San Jose Mercury News.
|
323.333 | | WMOIS::GIROUARD_C | | Mon Mar 20 1995 07:17 | 12 |
| interesting story on 60 Minutes last night about a diagnosed case
from which a man died in England in 1959. he probably contracted it
in 1948 - 1949 while a teenager (25 yrs old when he died). by all
accounts, he was a healthy heterosexual male.
opinion is that the disease could've been around 80-200yrs ago. it
simply was diagnosed under other known illnesses.
they also stated there is no hope in determining how he contracted/
developed the disease.
Chip
|
323.334 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Mar 22 1995 15:58 | 13 |
|
Well, I just got my mail and got something from the Living Center. It
is a safe haven for people struggling with HIV/AIDS in Boston. They have talked
about where they are getting the funding from.
1% Other
18% Foundations and Corporations
21% Individuals
60% Government
It would seem while the government does fund 60% of their total budget,
it surely could not fund it all if we went by the way of quarrentine.
|
323.335 | A Learning Time | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Fri Mar 24 1995 18:37 | 35 |
| A Crosspost from Yukon::Christian
I had a discussion this week with both of my boys regarding Aids and
HIV. I was surprised at the amount of misinformation they had and as
well lack of understanding just what *is* the disease.
Overall we spent 1.5 hours me with marker in hand diagramming and
writing things on a white board. I found this to be one of the most
positive experiences of parenting that I've enjoyed so far.
I used a book entitled FACTS of LIFE which have pop out pages of both
the male and female reproductive organs, including pull tabs that make
certain parts move. But no it doesn't simulate intercourse!!!
However it does have a sperm page with a pull tab that makes the sperm
wiggle! The kids were a little concerned they had something ALIVE
developing in them. But as we moved on in the discussion, they
became more comfortable not only with their own bodies, but in
understand a woman's.
The kids asked *so* many questions... and were blunt as usual with
their own personal experiences. :-) As limited as they are, what a joy
to have the opportunity as a parent to guide them in this way.
The end result was a question I asked them.
What is safe sex?
Their responses were unanimous.
WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin or HAVE blood tests.
|
323.336 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Fri Mar 24 1995 21:56 | 7 |
|
Nancy, GREAT note! Thanks for posting it.
Glen
|
323.337 | | SUBURB::COOKS | Half Man,Half Biscuit | Mon Mar 27 1995 12:51 | 8 |
| .335 no offense intended,but praise be that I haven`t got parents who
talked to me about the facts of life for 1.5 hours,and showed me a pop
up pork sword.
|
323.338 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | proud counter-culture McGovernik | Mon Mar 27 1995 13:02 | 15 |
| nancy,
One thing bothers me about the following:
>>What is safe sex?
>>WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin *or* HAVE blood tests.
Or have blood tests? What. no discussion of defenses while waiting for
the blood test to come back? You need at least a couple over six
months to have an idea that you are, indeed HIV -. since this was an
*or*, not an and, I am concerned that your boys may not have all the
facts here.
meg
|
323.339 | | SMURF::MSCANLON | oh-oh. It go. It gone. Bye-bye. | Mon Mar 27 1995 14:44 | 13 |
| re: .335
Nancy, I think you must be one courageous woman. :-)
When I think of the possibility of my poor mother, who couldn't
even say the word "sex" without dropping her voice to a whisper,
handing me a pop up book about the facts of life, I have
to get a napkin to wipe my eyes. And no, I'm not crying.... :-)
I'm sure your boys will considered themselves blessed many
times over in years to come for the gifts of your strength
and frankness.
Mary-Michael
|
323.340 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Mon Mar 27 1995 19:11 | 3 |
| re .338
meg, are you just being sarcastic with this note or do you mean it ??
|
323.341 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 28 1995 01:13 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.340 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>
| meg, are you just being sarcastic with this note or do you mean it ??
I can't speak for meg, but what she has said is absolutely true.
Glen
|
323.342 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Tue Mar 28 1995 01:34 | 6 |
| Do you not think that the information Nancy had provided her children
with was enough for one day ??? I mean talk about over load !!!!
I do agree with what Meg has said regarding the additional information
but think that what Nancy had discussed with her kiddies was quite
enough. Especially considering how old they are.
|
323.343 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Tue Mar 28 1995 01:53 | 6 |
| Coming away from that discussion..... I read an extremely small
articale in a Sydney newspaper the other day (less than 15 words) which
announced that the Chinese had developed a cure/vacine for AIDs that
had a 52% success rate.
Anyone know anymore information ??
|
323.344 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Tue Mar 28 1995 01:53 | 1 |
| Vaccine..yes I know.
|
323.345 | | SUBURB::COOKS | Half Man,Half Biscuit | Tue Mar 28 1995 09:48 | 5 |
| Martin,you mean your Mum never showed you a book with a pop up
bell-end?? A deprived child hood you must of had.
|
323.346 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 28 1995 09:51 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.342 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>
| Do you not think that the information Nancy had provided her children with was
| enough for one day ??? I mean talk about over load !!!!
If you read my .336, you would see I made no mention of anything except
praise for the note. But when meg brought it up, I agreed that what she said
was 100% true.
| but think that what Nancy had discussed with her kiddies was quite enough.
| Especially considering how old they are.
At one time age might have meant something. In todays world, does it
really? The younger a child can learn about life, the better prepared they will
be. Remember back when all you had to do was tell your kids don't talk to
strangers? Now you gotta tell them that and MUCH more.
Glen
|
323.347 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | proud counter-culture McGovernik | Tue Mar 28 1995 11:18 | 11 |
| No I wasn't being sarcastic. The "or" has me concerned that these kids
don't know about condoms, and their use in assisting in the prevention
of disease, and I don't just mean AIDS. There is another incurable
disease which can be fatal which is transmitted with the same vectors
as HIV. fortunately there is now an immunization for it, and the same
basic protection methods against it also work for HIV and a cousin of
this one. Can you say Hepatitis B, and Non-A Non-B hep? Non-A nonB
has now immunization is tranmitted sexually and goes choronic with
major liver damage quite easily.
meg
|
323.348 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! | Tue Mar 28 1995 11:25 | 22 |
|
Just an aside and for FYI...
I know someone who works for a plastics company and was related the
following by the owner...
It seems the owner was approached last year by a maker of latex gloves
and asked if there was some substitute for those (latex) gloves that
could be marketed and sold.
It seems this latex glove maker found out that latex would not stop
the HIV virus and was frantically searching for a substitute.
The plastics company owner told them he knew of none that would be
commercially viable for him to produce...
There were never any follow-up conversations/calls by this glove
maker...
Wonder what happened?
|
323.349 | MEDICAL note 1667 | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Mar 28 1995 11:27 | 3 |
| I suspect you have the story wrong. There are people who are severely allergic
to latex. Medical personnel need non-latex gloves to treat them. There are
substitutes. This was discussed in the MEDICAL notesfile a few months ago.
|
323.350 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! | Tue Mar 28 1995 11:38 | 7 |
|
No Gerald... I remember the allergic problem...
This was entirely different...
The owner was specifically told about the HIV problem verbally, and
when he asked for them to send something written, they refused...
|
323.351 | | ODIXIE::CIAROCHI | One Less Dog | Tue Mar 28 1995 15:12 | 4 |
| I'd be amazed if the gloves did not filter a virus.
It's probably more like they do not provide sufficient protection
against needle pokes, scalpel cuts, or bites.
|
323.352 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Tue Mar 28 1995 16:31 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.335 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
> What is safe sex?
>
> Their responses were unanimous.
>
> WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin or HAVE blood tests.
Pretty much anything you could put after the "or" jeopardizes
what safe sex really is.
|
323.353 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Tue Mar 28 1995 16:38 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.352 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>
| > WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin or HAVE blood tests.
| Pretty much anything you could put after the "or" jeopardizes
| what safe sex really is.
I think the "or" already did that.
Glen
|
323.354 | | SMURF::MSCANLON | oh-oh. It go. It gone. Bye-bye. | Tue Mar 28 1995 16:49 | 3 |
| Of course, if you take into consideration that people
can and do lie.....nothing is really safe, is it?
|
323.355 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Tue Mar 28 1995 19:52 | 19 |
| > . Can you say Hepatitis B, and Non-A Non-B Hep?
Errrr... yeah I can actually, you see I'm quite clever that way. Do I
get a medal now ?
Anyway...
Re: Your last note... That has nothing to do with the point I was
trying to make. How much information can children take on at any one
time ??? I, for sure, would probably have been quite bored after a
long discussion on something that really didn't interest me too much.
There are loads of diseases which can be transmitted by un-protected
sexual interaction (cool word, huh?). I mean VD didn't die out in the
'60s. These deseases may be treatable but they can still cause a great
deal of discomfort and quite a few problem.
Herpes.. my dick is ruined.
|
323.356 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | And monkeys might fly outa my butt! | Tue Mar 28 1995 19:53 | 1 |
| By the way I missed of a few :*) :*) by mistake in my last note.
|
323.357 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 28 1995 19:59 | 12 |
| Good point Meg..
We actually did discuss protection or condoms by my using a latex glove
over my hand. :-) The 1.5 hours wasn't my doing, it was their
responses and desire to ask questions that led to the length of the
discussion. I was the one who said, ENOUGH! :-)
BTW, I've heard reported that the HIV virus is .04 in size and that the
pore size of most condoms are .06. Anybody else have information
regarding this?
Nancy
|
323.358 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Mar 28 1995 20:04 | 1 |
| I'll grab a snarf when it hits me in the eye!
|
323.359 | | BOXORN::HAYS | I think we are toast. Remember the jam? | Wed Mar 29 1995 08:35 | 11 |
| RE: 323.357 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"
> BTW, I've heard reported that the HIV virus is .04 in size and that the
> pore size of most condoms are .06. Anybody else have information
> regarding this?
Water is made of particles much much smaller than an HIV virus. Fill your
glove with water and see what happens.
Phil
|
323.360 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Mar 29 1995 11:09 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.358 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
| I'll grab a snarf when it hits me in the eye!
Make sure that snarf is wearing a condom!
|
323.361 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Wed Mar 29 1995 11:10 | 3 |
|
Hey Nancy, is that a pop-up snarf??? :-)
|
323.362 | News affects this... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Mar 30 1995 11:21 | 7 |
|
I put something about the miraculous self-cure being reported
of an infant born HIV+ in the News Boxers note. If there exists
SOME means for a human body to eradicate the virus, even though
we dunno what it is, how does this change things ?
bb
|
323.363 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | aspiring peasant | Thu Mar 30 1995 11:30 | 22 |
| A. The child will be hunted down by AIDS research zealots and kept as an
experiment in a secret lab in the bowels of Montana searching for the
cure.
B. Neoconservatives will squeal with delight at the opportunity to
reduce funding since a cure has been found.
C. The religious right will claim it is an act of God and point to it
as a harbinger of His good grace and the last call for people to flock
towards salvation.
D. The moral decay will decline as everyone sighs collectively in
relief that the previous levels of debauching can now resume. Look for
swingers club franchise opportunities in a school district near you.
E. It will be poo-pooed by research funding recipients as a freak of
nature and a funding feeding frenzy will ensue as we are on the
threshold of major breakthrough, if we only had more money.
F. Paramount will make a movie of it.
|
323.364 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Go Hogs! | Thu Mar 30 1995 11:33 | 1 |
| I pick C! 8^)
|
323.365 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | aspiring peasant | Thu Mar 30 1995 11:33 | 8 |
| In all seriousness, I hope this does accelerate the reasearch since
there appears to be a naturally occuring mechanism to fight this.
Maybe a trigger can be found. I hope this does not provide a
relaxation on the education and awareness. Even though there may be
some hope however small, it will be years and many more victims dead
before a cure/effective treatment is found.
Brian
|
323.366 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | aspiring peasant | Thu Mar 30 1995 11:34 | 1 |
| You and Andy already did Steve. See, my prediction was right. :-) :-).
|
323.367 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | | Thu Mar 30 1995 11:38 | 3 |
|
I woulda picked "A"...
|
323.368 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Go Hogs! | Thu Mar 30 1995 14:10 | 1 |
| Actually, A & C could both be correct at the same time...
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323.370 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The Completion Backwards Principle | Thu Mar 30 1995 14:33 | 27 |
|
I'm not sure why this particular child has been so newsworthy,
there have been several "self cures" in HIV+ people. Actually,
there's no "self cure" involved here or in the other cases,
the antibodies to the virus (which is what they test for)
simply "went away". Now the real question is, is the child
(and the other people who were "cured") still carrying the
virus?
Most of the "cured" people are participating in a study
to determine what is happening. Of course, there may be
many "cured" people. It could turn out that most people
that have been infected manage to overcome the virus,
without wide-spread testing, it can't be determined.
It's worth noting that one of those that were "cured"
was a gay man who, prior to learning of his HIV+ status,
was quite promiscuous. After learning he was HIV+, he
joined a New Age religious group and took up holistic
healing. You can deduce what you want with regard to
"miracles" in this case... :-)
I believe the real answer to the question, however, will
be in some genetic variation in these individuals which
thwarts the replication of the virus.
-b
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323.371 | | POWDML::LAUER | Little Chamber of Fuzzy Faces | Thu Mar 30 1995 14:50 | 36 |
|
See how the fates their gifts allot
For "A" is happy, "B" is not
But "B" is worthy, I dare say,
Of more prosperity than "A".
(Is "B" more worthy?)
I should say he's worth a great deal more than "A".
Yet "A" is happy
Oh so happy
Laughing, ha ha
Chaffing, ha ha
Nectar quaffing, ha ha ha!
Ever joyous, ever gay
Happy undeserving "A".
Ever joyous, ever gay
Happy undeserving "A".
If I were Fortune, which I'm not
"B" should enjoy "A"'s happy lot
And "A" should die in misery
That is, assuming I am "B".
(But should "A" perish?)
That should he
Of course, assuming I am "B".
"B" should be happy
Oh so happy
Laughing, ha ha
Chaffing, ha ha
Nectar quaffing, ha ha ha!
But condemned to die is he
Wretched, meritorious "B"
But condemned to die is he
Wretched, meritorious "B".
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323.372 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The Completion Backwards Principle | Thu Mar 30 1995 14:57 | 5 |
| .371
A way _cool_ G&S ditty that!
-b
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323.373 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Mar 30 1995 15:23 | 1 |
| Was its inclusion inspired by the multiple choice question or by "ever gay?"
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323.374 | | POWDML::LAUER | Little Chamber of Fuzzy Faces | Thu Mar 30 1995 15:29 | 4 |
|
{rolls eyes}
8^)
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323.375 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Squirrels R Me | Thu Mar 30 1995 17:04 | 7 |
|
Deb, very nice..... how about gettin someone famous to sing with ya? A
duet of some sort. I would choose Bon Jovi, as at one time you had the same hair
|
323.376 | Illustrates a point... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Mar 30 1995 17:39 | 26 |
|
Well, I dunno the truth of the report. But it demonstrates what
is wrong with the "You reap what you sow" argument, for me anyway.
It's not that I think highly of promiscuity. It is no surprise to
me that some people who do outlandish things end in misery.
It's that disease-as-avenging-angel seems illogical. Suppose there
is a cure found ? You reap something different ? Recall they used
to say the same thing about syphilis, until a cure was found.
No, diseases are diseases. All the politicians and theologians and
victims and relatives can jump up and down and scream, "The problem
is hate !!" But they are wrong.
And all the anti-gays and religious moralists and scared-speechless
leper-stay-aways can scream, "The problem is immorality". And they
are just as wrong.
The problem is a virus, a thing. It is not immoral. It hates
nobody. The solution will be found as usual, by looking closely,
for a long time, figuring it out, and devising a counter.
And in the meantime, we'll all get mad at each other, to no purpose.
bb
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323.377 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Whatever happened to ADDATA? | Thu Mar 30 1995 18:05 | 41 |
| <<< Note 323.376 by GAAS::BRAUCHER >>>
> Well, I dunno the truth of the report. But it demonstrates what
> is wrong with the "You reap what you sow" argument, for me anyway.
How so?
> It's that disease-as-avenging-angel seems illogical.
That *IS* illogical. Reap-what-you-sow is not the same
as disease-as-avenging-angel!
> Suppose there
> is a cure found ? You reap something different ? Recall they used
> to say the same thing about syphilis, until a cure was found.
Cure or not, people still reap syphilis through many of the same
behaviors that they can reap AIDS from. Unwanted pregnancies are
also fruits of reap-what-you-sow. So too many times are divorce,
broken homes, child and/or spouse abuse, bankruptcy, drug
dependence, and so many other things. Reap-what-you-sow doesn't
have to end in death, nor does it have to be related to anything
sexual at all. It just means that if you put yourself in harm's
way, you may end up harmed.
> All the politicians and theologians and
> victims and relatives can jump up and down and scream, "The problem
> is hate !!" But they are wrong.
Who is actually saying that?
> And all the anti-gays and religious moralists and scared-speechless
> leper-stay-aways can scream, "The problem is immorality". And they
> are just as wrong.
Many immoral things are precisely what put people "in harm's way."
you are correct, the immoral behavior doesn't cause AIDS. A
biological process does. The point about reap-what-you-sow is
that without those "harm's way" immoralities, that biological
process rarely gets started. (And to limit that call to morality
as being merely directed at gay behavior is unfair.)
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323.378 | | SHRCTR::DAVIS | | Fri Mar 31 1995 11:06 | 19 |
| <<< Note 323.370 by MPGS::MARKEY "The Completion Backwards Principle" >>>
-b,
From what I've read/heard, the reason this case is newsworthy is that it is
the first and only instance of "cure" that is clinically demonstrated.
There have been numerous other reports of once-positive people turning up
negative, but these have all been rather loosely documented. Whereas this
one was watched closely. The child was tested at birth (born of an AIDS
mother). Tested again a few months later with the most sophisticated tests
available, and still tested positive - not just to antibodies but to
identify the actual virus, I believe. Then, at one year, it was tested
again. All the the same tests. No virus. No antibodies. Now, at 5 years,
still no sign of HIV. Never happened before. Other cases could be explained
as false positive (or false negatives). No doubt on this one.
That's news.
|
323.379 | | RDGE44::ALEUC8 | | Fri Mar 31 1995 11:12 | 3 |
| natural selection
ric
|
323.380 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The bottom end of Liquid Sanctuary | Fri Mar 31 1995 11:36 | 18 |
| >mother). Tested again a few months later with the most sophisticated tests
>available, and still tested positive - not just to antibodies but to
>identify the actual virus, I believe. Then, at one year, it was tested
>again. All the the same tests. No virus. No antibodies. Now, at 5 years,
>still no sign of HIV. Never happened before. Other cases could be explained
Tom,
My understanding is that no test which directly tests for HIV
is available... that only indirect evidence -- the presence
of antibodies -- can be tested for.
However, using this indirect test they can infer the presence
of HIV. They mix blood from an infected person with blood
from someone who is known not to be infected; if antibodies
appear in the mixed blood, the first person is still infected.
-b
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323.381 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | luxure et supplice | Fri Mar 31 1995 11:56 | 6 |
| Brian-
I believe that the "HIV test" tests for antibodies as you stated.
However, they are able to isolate the virus and check its DNA. So there
is a method of finding the virus when it's present, it's just expensive
so it isn't done as a test for HIV.
|
323.382 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Apr 25 1995 11:27 | 2 |
| David Duke said in an interview that people with AIDS should be given
glow-in-the-dark tattoos.
|
323.384 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Trouble with a capital 'T' | Tue Apr 25 1995 13:20 | 3 |
|
Wherever they stand out best, of course.
|
323.385 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Special Fan Club Butt Tinkering | Tue Apr 25 1995 13:30 | 1 |
| The right hand or the forehead.
|
323.386 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | You-Had-Forty-Years!!! | Tue Apr 25 1995 15:19 | 1 |
| Stop making references to h e with double hockey sticks :-o
|
323.387 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Apr 25 1995 19:28 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.386 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>
| Stop making references to h e with double hockey sticks :-o
But Jack, they had to mention who said it... :-)
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323.388 | Pre-Registration for the AIDS Walks | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri May 12 1995 19:04 | 39 |
|
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|d|i|g|i|t|a|l| I N T E R O F F I C E M E M O R A N D U M
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TO: Remote Addressee DATE: May 12, 1995
FROM: Glen Silva @HLO
BIGQ::SILVA
EXT: 225-6306
LOC/MAIL STOP: HLO2-1/C12
SUBJECT: Notice re: AIDS Walks Pre-Registration
Pre-Register for the Boston and/or Worcester AIDS Pledge Walks
Employees taking part in either the, "From All Walks of Life" in Boston
on Sunday June 4th, or the "Walk for Life" in Worcester on Sunday, June
11th, can pre-register at the Digital HLO facility on Friday, June 2nd,
from 1:00 - 5:00pm for the Boston Walk, and on Friday, June 9th, from
1:00 - 5:00pm for the Worcester Walk in the OLD HLO1 Lobby. Bring your
checks and/or cash along with your pledge sheets. (The OLD HLO1 lobby
is on the right side of the facility if you are facing the front of it)
All Digital walkers will receive any incentive prizes earned from both
the Boston and/or Worcester organizers.
For pledge sheets, directions, or more information, contact either Glen
Silva (BIGQ::SILVA or DTN 225-6306) or Chris Conran (BIGQ::CONRAN or DTN
225-4749). Also, check out the AIDS Walk notesfile for the latest
information about the Walks. You'll find it at WECARE::AIDS_WALK
Please remember that Digital Equipment Corporation will NOT be matching
funds this year.
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323.389 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri May 12 1995 19:09 | 1 |
| <----feel free to distribute if you would like
|
323.390 | Talk Hard | SNOFS1::DAVISM | Happy Harry Hard On | Mon Jun 19 1995 20:51 | 9 |
| I have a question !
I forgot to post this...... I was watching this program on TV a while
back and someone on this program (fiction) said "I'm HIV Positive, I was
involved in a bar fight and got bitten by this man" Now my question is
how did he become HIV+ from a bite ? Would the guy who bit him have to
have had blood in the general area of his mouth for the virus to have
transfered ?
|
323.391 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Jun 19 1995 21:37 | 7 |
| I don't know how the knowledge around this has changed recently, but I
recall as many as eight or nine years ago that HIV was found to be carried
in all bodily fluids, including saliva and tears. If that's still expected
to be true, saliva to the blood stream in an open wound seem to be a perfect
vector. The point of entry generally needs to be direct transmission to
the blood stream, as opposed to through intact mucous membranes.
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323.392 | Listen! AIDS Kills! | NETCAD::WOODFORD | USER ERROR::ReplaceUser/PressAnyKeyToCont. | Tue Jun 20 1995 09:42 | 71 |
| Not in reference to the last question, but I had to put my two cents worth
in on this topic......
It doesn't matter how much information you have about AIDS, if you
don't use that information, you could die. It is not the lack of sexual
awareness, but the failure to live by that awareness, that is devastating
today's society. Young adults hear the statistics relating to the dangers
of leading a promiscuous life. They don't listen to the reality that it is
all too likely they will become part of the statistics themselves unless
they change their ways. This is an international problem which occurs in
all classes of society. It needs to be dealt with on a grand scale.
As Robert C. Noble points out in his essay, "There is No Safe Sex",
a recent study shows the percentage of sexually active college women who
use condoms rose from twelve percent in 1975 to forty one percent in 1989.
Though this is a large increase, it is still a minority. These are intelligent
young women. Yet fifty nine percent of these educated young people choose
to partake in threatening sexual activities. They know the risks involved.
Still, they tell themselves 'it can't happen to me'. In every case it can
happen to them, and in a growing number of those cases, it does happen. They
put their lives on the line every time they have sex.
In the book, Voices That Care, compiled by Neal Hitchens, there is an essay
by Jackie Iszard. Ms. Iszard tells about how her brother Daniel contracted
the AIDS virus. Daniel, a postal worker, was diagnosed with AIDS in 1986.
A woman he had dated on and off for several years had become pregnant from
another man. She gave birth to the child then gave the baby up for adoption.
A short time later the baby was diagnosed with AIDS, and the adoptive parents
contacted the birth mother. She was tested right away. The tests came back
positive. She then had the task of informing Daniel. He was tested, and
found to have the AIDS virus also. Because Daniel thought he was 'safe'
from this disease, he never used any type of protection. His girlfriend felt
the same about herself. This irresponsible way of thinking led first to an
unwanted pregnancy, and ultimately to the deaths of three people. They knew
what the risks were, yet they chose to ignore the facts.
The information contained in the book, Women In The World: An International
Atlas, is revolting. Whole governments of countries ignore the fact that
loose sex is deadly. They have elected or hired officials that see the
medical reports every day, yet they still choose to look the other way. Even
with the evidence stacking up daily about AIDS, these governments legalize
prostitution. With or without their so-called government regulations,
legalized prostitution is a breeding ground for sexually transmitted diseases.
The devastation this could cause is far greater than another world war.
Prostitution is legal and regulated in such countries as Canada, Australia,
India, Burma, Finland, Sweden, Norway, Germany, Austria, Hungary, Greece,
and Mexico, to name a few. You can charter a 'Sex Tour' from the U.S.A.,
Japan, or the Netherlands. These tours go to all the famous brothels in
Thailand, Manila, and South Korea. Before you go booking a trip on one of
these excursions, remember that no government regulations can guarantee
you will be safe from AIDS. These prostitutes have sex with literally
hundreds of men and women each year. This is potentially deadly activity.
It only takes one indiscretion to ruin your entire life. All of your goals
could be shattered in an instant for the benefit of an orgasm. Young educated
people ignore these facts daily. Entire nations condone activities that have
proven fatally harmful time and time again. Someone dies from AIDS or AIDS
Related Complex every twenty three minutes in this country. Don't allow
yourself to be its next victim. Listen to what you are hearing. It may save
your life, or the life of someone you love.
(You guessed it....this was my last essay assignment for school.)
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323.393 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member | Tue Jun 20 1995 10:03 | 6 |
|
Good note, Terrie, thanks.
Mike
|
323.394 | | ROWLET::AINSLEY | Less than 150kts is TOO slow! | Tue Jun 20 1995 10:15 | 3 |
| Uh Terri, you left out one country...the U.S.
Bob
|
323.395 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Jun 20 1995 10:29 | 7 |
| If anybody has this, I would be interested in some sort of chart
stating the current known numbers of HIV infected individuals
throughout the country. Anybody have this?
Thanks.
-Jack
|
323.396 | And people vote for him! | TLE::PERARO | | Thu Jul 06 1995 13:36 | 14 |
|
Senator Helms wants to cut federal funding for AIDS research
and treatment because he says...
"AIDS patients engage in deliberate, disgusting, revolting conduct"
(Helms is really out of touch)
Newt was asked about Helms comments and Newt suggested AIDS funding was too
high. He says "The amount we spend on AIDS compared to Alzheimer's is
grotesquely out of proportion to the number of people affected by the
research".
Newt feels the matter should be looked into by a scientific panel.
|
323.397 | Newt is right, Helms isn't. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Jul 06 1995 13:49 | 18 |
|
The last time I looked, the two leading medical research areas were
still heart disease and cancer (between 15-20 billion), just like
they should be. AIDS was third, like 8-9 billion, which is mildly
overfunded compared to other second-tier diseases. But is this
really a good test - how many sufferers/deaths ? I don't think so.
I think that to do a real cost/benefit, you have to estimate the
likelihood of success - which once again leads to cancer, the Big C,
as number one priority. So Newt is correct if you want the rational
answer, scientists ought to be in on the decision, as at NASA. But
politically, of course, this is hopeless.
As to Helms' remark - well, it's irrelevant. We're not about to
apportion medical care by some sort of moral calculus. Of course,
coming from a tobacco state, you can see where Helms might be coming
from politically. He's not as dumb as he tries to sound.
bb
|
323.398 | | GAVEL::JANDROW | Green-Eyed Lady | Thu Jul 06 1995 13:54 | 4 |
|
is helms the person i heard quoted as saying something along the lines
of "...people with aids only have themselves to blame..."???
|
323.399 | Probably him | TLE::PERARO | | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:20 | 5 |
|
Probably. He is known for saying such things.
Mary
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323.400 | snarf | CBHVAX::CBH | Lager Lout | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:21 | 0 |
323.401 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:25 | 18 |
| Raq:
AIDS propogated itself through illicit behavior. Now I have no use for
Mr. Helms methods and his way of communicating...but let's stop kidding
ourselves. Let's remove the PC hats we tend to put on from time to
time.
AIDS is mainly spread through activities that the right considers
immoral. One need not be a rocket scientist to avoid AIDS...it is
quite easy to do. You don't sleep around, and you don't do drugs.
Heck, even the AIDS activists recognize this by promoting the myth
of Safe Sex. Now I agree that there are many victims of AIDS who
contracted it through no fault of their own. Babies born with it,
blood transfusions, etc. But let's focus on the majority...the ones
who contracted it through their behavior. Now I ask you, if they don't
have themselves to blame, then whose fault is it?!
-Jack
|
323.403 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Whirly Twirly Naps | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:30 | 1 |
| <--- Good point. Very good.
|
323.404 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | M1A - The choice of champions ! | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:36 | 11 |
|
> who contracted it through their behavior. Now I ask you, if they don't
> have themselves to blame, then whose fault is it?!
The Republicans ?
But seriously, very few people will EVER admit that they are wrong. I
believe Al Capone referred to himself as "misunderstood." He believed
that he was a philanthropist.
Dan
|
323.405 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:40 | 17 |
| ZZ By Jack Martin's logic, we should also cut spending for lung
ZZ cancer and heart disease -- those smokers and overweight people
ZZ have only their behavior to blame.
Topes...my old friend!!! How was your weekend?? How are your
hemmerhoids doing these days??
No, actually I didn't say whether or not we should cut spending. I was
simply addressing the issue of personal responsibility and that nobody
wants to take ownership for their own mistakes these days! Incidently,
sure...why not???! Smokers and people who don't take care of
themselves have nobody else to blame! My dad had two massive heart
attacks in the early 80's. Now I love my father and always looked up
to him...but the man was 70 lbs overweight and he liked his beer when
the Bruins were on. It was HIS fault kimosabe!
-Jack
|
323.406 | | SMURF::BINDER | Father, Son, and Holy Spigot | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:49 | 1 |
| hemorrhoids.
|
323.407 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Gone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes. | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:49 | 3 |
|
WHERE?!?!
|
323.408 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:50 | 9 |
| Helms is, was, and will continue to be a narrow minded, spiteful
buffoon. Along with suing tobacco companies, folks should sue him as
well for lobbying in their favor. After all, he is promoting
irresponsible behavior. IMO etc.
Jack, please readdress your statement that AIDS victims are such because
of their irresponsibility. I'm sure you meant some victims now didn't
you. You are also aware that some drug use exposes one to the
possibility of contracting AIDS aren't you?
|
323.409 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Jul 06 1995 14:53 | 4 |
| > You are also aware that some drug use exposes one to the
> possibility of contracting AIDS aren't you?
Are you talking about hemophiliacs or junkies?
|
323.410 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:12 | 34 |
| Brian:
I can walk along the side of Rt. 128 and there is the possibility that
while attempting to hitchhike, I will be struck by a car and die. If I
get drunk and walk along Rt. 128 in a stupor...wallowing in the
pleasure of being drunk...and I stagger over the white line, then the
chances of getting killed have risen exponentially higher...and I will
most likely die.
I wanted to address the MAJORITY of people dying from AIDS...because
the MAJORITY are appropo to my second example. People don't think,
they succumb to their instinct, dark side, whatever you want to call
it. They screw around or they shoot up...then they get AIDS and wonder
why. Those are the ones I am addressing here, not the incidental
victims of the disease who acted with a sense of propriety.
I find Helms generalizations equally repugnant but what I find to be
worse is societies hell bent on having a good opinion of
themselves...and will lie through their teeth to keep feeling good
about themselves. So let's spell it out.
- AIDS is propogated through illicit behaivior.
- Anybody can avoid AIDS if they try.
- Most people can live a long life in general if they try.
- Most HIV infected individuals throughout the world contracted AIDS
by sleeping around and doing drugs.
- Chastity and monogamy are the best ways to avoid the disease.
- Human beings don't have to succumb to peer pressure and current
social trends.
Conclusion: Don't screw around and keep away from drugs and you won't
have to blame yourself for anything.
-Jack
|
323.411 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | M1A - The choice of champions ! | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:19 | 5 |
| Minor nit.
> - Anybody can avoid AIDS if they try.
Almost anybody, remember hemophiliacs
|
323.412 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Whirly Twirly Naps | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:26 | 1 |
| hemophiliacs can avoid AIDS if they die.
|
323.413 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:34 | 4 |
| Correct. I am speaking of people who are at risk because they choose
to be!
-Jack
|
323.414 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Gone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes. | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:36 | 3 |
|
Driving is risky. I just say no.
|
323.415 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:40 | 5 |
| > I am speaking of people who are at risk because they choose to be!
"Hey man, let's exchange bodily fluids with potentially HIV+ strangers."
"But we could get AIDS!"
"Whatsa madda, wimp? Afraid of AIDS? I _choose_ to take the risk."
|
323.416 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | He said, 'To blave...' | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:48 | 16 |
| Hemophiliacs are less likely to get AIDS than ever before. Most
of the cases among hemophiliacs were contracted before there was
decent blood supply testing.
--------
Recently it was reported that junior high students are most
concerned about getting AIDS from unsterile medical practices
(such as the 6 cases contracted from a dentist.) They estimate
that upwards of 10% of all AIDS cases are contracted this way,
and this vector is the one over which they have the least
control. In reality only a miniscule proportion of AIDS
cases are contracted this way.
I contend that this misconception is propogated by the politically
correct and virtueless way that AIDS education is handled.
|
323.417 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The bottom end of Liquid Sanctuary | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:49 | 26 |
|
The truth is, there are _thousands_ of sexually transmitted
viruses, most of which have only _suspected_ links to other
health problems, and most of which are undetectable given
present technology. Among the viruses in this class are one
or more which are suspected of causing cervical cancer.
Some of these viruses are believed to cause genetic damage
which may take generations to actually manifest.
Thus, the idea of "safe sex" is of equal mythology when
applied to AIDS _and_ marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble
binky, but there's no such thing as "safe sex" under any
conditions.
On the other hand, AIDS is now identifiable, has a fairly
well-understood (and detectable) genetic mutation process,
and a significant enough population upon which to experiment.
The understanding that scientists are gaining relative to
HIV will have profound effect on cancer and other disease
research. HIV is the perfect "laboratory" for really getting
down to the nitty gritty of virology, and every penny we
put into it as _science_ will benefit us immeasurably.
On the other hand, money spent on rubbers for school kids
is wasted...
-b
|
323.418 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:51 | 5 |
| > Hemophiliacs are less likely to get AIDS than ever before. Most
> of the cases among hemophiliacs were contracted before there was
> decent blood supply testing.
Of course, there aren't all that many uninfected hemophiliacs out there.
|
323.419 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:54 | 9 |
| > Thus, the idea of "safe sex" is of equal mythology when
> applied to AIDS _and_ marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble
> binky, but there's no such thing as "safe sex" under any
> conditions.
Since you have to have sex with an infected partner to get an STD, the more
partners the greater your chances of getting infected. Do you agree that
married people tend to have fewer sexual partners that unmarried sexually
active people?
|
323.420 | Error ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:58 | 5 |
|
"Than ever before" ? Um, wasn't there a time when the chance
was zero ? AIDS wasn't reported in humans till the seventies.
bb
|
323.421 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The bottom end of Liquid Sanctuary | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:58 | 10 |
| >Since you have to have sex with an infected partner to get an STD, the more
>partners the greater your chances of getting infected. Do you agree that
>married people tend to have fewer sexual partners that unmarried sexually
>active people?
I agree that there is "safer" sex... but there is no such thing
as a risk-free roll in the hay. On the other hand (pun intended)
the risks of a good wank are greatly exaggerated! :-)
-b
|
323.422 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | He said, 'To blave...' | Thu Jul 06 1995 15:59 | 2 |
| Lifelong-monogamous women even get fewer yeast infections
than multiple-partnered women.
|
323.423 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 06 1995 16:14 | 8 |
| Z "Hey man, let's exchange bodily fluids with potentially HIV+
Z strangers."
Z "But we could get AIDS!"
Z "Whatsa madda, wimp? Afraid of AIDS? I _choose_ to take the risk."
That's it in a nutshell. Alot of teenagers anyway!
-Jack
|
323.424 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Thu Jul 06 1995 16:22 | 16 |
| re: <<< Note 323.410 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
Ok, Jack, so let's assume for a moment that we're willing to buy into
your summary on the MAJORITY of AIDS victims. The issue at hand is
Helm's claim that we should drastically cut AIDS research funding
because MOST of the AIDS sufferers are lowlife scum. Do you feel that
that approach is appropriate? If we drastically cut the funding - say
by 90% - leaving enough with which to do virtually nothing of any import,
what do you expect is to be gained for the MINORITY of AIDS sufferers who
contracted it through no fault of their own? Do we just sit back and tell
these people "Tough noogies - eat feces and die" and then go spend the remaining
10% on National AIDS Research Foundation office parties? You don't somehow
feel that we'll still have enough left to save "just the good folks" do you?
(I ask the last only because I believe Helms to be braindead enough to
have reached that conclusion.)
|
323.425 | No room for anyone | TLE::PERARO | | Thu Jul 06 1995 16:27 | 8 |
|
Helms statement doesn't seem to leave any thought for those who
contracted AIDS under different circumstances. He just throws everyone
with AIDS into his narrow minded opinion of how it is their fault, so
tough on them.
Mary
|
323.426 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Thu Jul 06 1995 16:36 | 5 |
| Yes, exactly. Some AIDS victims have only their own actions to blame,
others do not. Not all AIDS sufferers are guilty of irresponsible
behavior. To broad brush them in that fashion is ignorant at best.
Brian
|
323.427 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member | Thu Jul 06 1995 16:44 | 6 |
|
Funny how slick scumbag felt he had to respond to Helms assinine
comment.
|
323.429 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | proud counter-culture McGovernik | Thu Jul 06 1995 17:13 | 14 |
| Joe,
Hospice, etc care is covered by medicare/medicaid when the person is
too disabled to manage to work and/or their insurance company, (if they
were insured) drops the person.
The money being spent that Helms is up in arms about is for research
and prevention efforts. Obviously from the sounds of the survey you
cited, we need to work harder on getting the message of how AIDS is
spread out to kids. Considering that there are rarer viruses that also
kill people after years of quiet growth, the research could save
others' lives as well as those "undeserving" HIV + people.
meg
|
323.430 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 06 1995 17:21 | 16 |
| Jack:
I think Helms made a generalization and I don't think his communication
was well thought out at all.
I believe that AIDS in todays society is mainly propogated through acts
of free choice. I find the political correctness surrounding the
disease as deplorable as any put foot in mouth politician...EQUALLY
Deplorable. Putting our heads in the sand is criminal in my book.
I would be interested in knowing the exact figures amongst AIDS victims
as to who contracted the disease through drugs or promiscuous sex...and
who got it through no act of their own free volition. Anybody have
this?
-Jack
|
323.431 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | He said, 'To blave...' | Thu Jul 06 1995 18:19 | 3 |
| Jack --
That is a politically impolite question to ask.
|
323.432 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | Jack Martin - Wanted Dead or Alive | Thu Jul 06 1995 18:22 | 5 |
| Duuuhhhhhhhhh, I tink he ment does amybuddy got da numbaas, of who
gots da sickness, an' hows dey got its......
8_)
|
323.433 | Food for thought | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Thu Jul 06 1995 19:38 | 16 |
| Interesting commentary (partially) heard on Howie Carr this evening.
The caller was an MD involved in research (though not on AIDS). He
pointed out that medical research for viral diseases have three main
areas of concentration -
Epidemiology - the ecology of the disease, how it's transmitted,
how it functions, etc.
Cure - Very rarely found for most viral infections
Prevention - vaccine development
He then went on to point out that since AIDS is known to be a disease
with practically 100% mortality (unlike polio, measles, influenza, etc.)
and since a typical characteristic of vaccines is that they present a risk
of actually inducing the disease in some small percentage of treated
cases, how many people who are HIV negative do you think would be willing
to roll up their sleeve for the vaccine if it were discovered tomorrow?
|
323.434 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | We the people? | Thu Jul 06 1995 20:19 | 70 |
| Gingrich says scientific panel should decide AIDS funding
(c) 1995 Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.
(c) 1995 Associated Press
WASHINGTON (Jul 6, 1995 - 12:12 EDT) -- House Speaker Newt
Gingrich says scientists, not politicians, should decide how much money
the government spends fighting AIDS and other diseases.
Responding to a suggestion by Sen. Jesse Helms that the government
should spend less on AIDS, the speaker said Wednesday in an interview
with The Associated Press that a scientific panel should make that
decision based on where medical advances are most likely to be made.
"It's got to be done by scientists," Gingrich said.
Gingrich said such a panel might say: "Here are the next seven major
breakthroughs -- we ought to make sure we have the money going into
these places. If AIDS is one of the seven, then it ought to go into AIDS.
But I think I'd like to de-politicize research decisions about biology as
much as we can."
Helms' comments in an interview with The New York Times prompted
outrage from AIDS activists.
"I think the majority of the American people want to help people who are
sick -- whether they're sick with cancer or with AIDS, said Mark Barnes,
executive director of the AIDS Action Council. "What he said was
un-American."
Helms suggested the government should think about spending so much
money fighting a disease brought on by "deliberate, disgusting, revolting
conduct," the Times reported.
"We've got to have some common sense about a disease transmitted by
people deliberately engaging in unnatural acts," Helms said.
Gingrich, asked whether he agreed with Helms, said: "In the first place
it's clear that there's a lot of people with AIDS for whom that's not true,
and secondly, I'm not going to get involved in an argument with Jesse
Helms."
In a broadcast interview Wednesday night, Gingrich described himself as
"a strong supporter of the Ryan White Act."
"I think that the example of Ryan is one we can all identify with," Gingrich
said on Mutual Radio's "Jim Bohannon Show," simulcast on the C-SPAN
cable TV network. "He was a young person who through no fault of his
own ended up contracting AIDS. And many hemophiliacs have AIDS."
The Senate soon will consider reauthorization of the Ryan White CARE
Act, named after an Indiana teen-ager who died after contracting AIDS in
a blood transfusion.
The act, for which Congress authorized $633 million this year, provides
grants to communities to help people with AIDS. It expires in September.
Reauthorizing legislation was approved unanimously by the Senate Labor
and Human Resources Committee in March, and has 61 Senate sponsors,
including Majority Leader Bob Dole. The House Commerce Committee
plans to take up similar legislation soon.
Since 1993, AIDS has been the leading cause of death among both men
and women age 24 to 44, according to the Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention.
|
323.435 | re .433 | CSC32::J_OPPELT | He said, 'To blave...' | Thu Jul 06 1995 20:21 | 3 |
| I wouldn't personally. However if I lived a lifestyle that
is apt to expose me to the disease, I probably would consider
it.
|
323.436 | | DECLNE::SHEPARD | It's the Republicans' fault | Thu Jul 06 1995 20:24 | 6 |
| Joe Oppelt:
Curiosity is driving me nuts. I must know what is "to blave".
Tanx
Mikey
|
323.437 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Thu Jul 06 1995 21:14 | 30 |
| re: .435, Joe
I tend to agree with you, Joe. (Again???? :^)
The interesting aspect is with regard to society in general, and kids in
particular. I suspect that there's a whole lot more known about the
epidemiology of AIDS in 1995 than was known about the epidemiology of
polio in the '50s. While I think it's relatively well known that there
weren't necessarily suspect vectors of Poliomyelitis/infantile paralysis
which centered on the transmission of bodily fluids, and that certainly
does appear to be the characteristic with AIDS, I wonder if that was the
possible difference in impetus for parents of the '50s and '60s (and since)
to ensure that they adhered to vaccination guidelines for their kids?
(Ditto smallpox, etc.)
And, perhaps more interestingly, since polio has virtually been eradicated,
would we be willing to bite the bullet and take the risk if an AIDS vaccine
were available?
The hypothesis is, if you get the innoculation while HIV negative, there's
a 99.999% probability that you can never be affected by the virus. This leaves
a .001% chance that you will get it from the innoculation itself, be capable
of transmitting it to others susceptible to it (presuming you don't die before
having said opportunity), and that you will eventually succomb to it.
What's the best solution for society if that happens to be among the options?
I believe there are currently laws regarding what vaccinations children in
'Murrica and other countries must receive. If there were an AIDS vaccine,
with the associated risk, should there be such laws regarding same?
|
323.438 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:01 | 37 |
| | <<< Note 323.410 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| - AIDS is propogated through illicit behaivior.
It can be if one does not be careful. And I mean more than safe sex.
Not sharing needles, KNOWING your partners status.
| - Anybody can avoid AIDS if they try.
That applies to the above.
| - Most HIV infected individuals throughout the world contracted AIDS
| by sleeping around and doing drugs.
True.
| - Chastity and monogamy are the best ways to avoid the disease.
True.
| - Human beings don't have to succumb to peer pressure and current
| social trends.
True
| Conclusion: Don't screw around and keep away from drugs and you won't
| have to blame yourself for anything.
If by don't screw around means having one night stands with one you
don't know, I agree. If you include pre-marital sex, I disagree. See my reply
to your 1st statement.
Glen
|
323.439 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:07 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.430 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I would be interested in knowing the exact figures amongst AIDS victims as to
| who contracted the disease through drugs or promiscuous sex...and who got it
| through no act of their own free volition. Anybody have this?
Jack, I could give this to you, but I won't. What I will do is tell you
where you can find it. The CDC has this information. You can get it from them.
The reason why I asked you to find out the information is because I'd like to
see you personally get involved in this, and not just look at a bunch of
numbers.
Glen
|
323.440 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:08 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.431 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>
| That is a politically impolite question to ask.
Actually, it is not. A little less of the stuff above, and a little
more fact, and we might be able to do away with people who think like Helms.
Glen
|
323.441 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:12 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.435 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>
| I wouldn't personally. However if I lived a lifestyle that is apt to expose me
| to the disease, I probably would consider it.
Well lets hope that you never get it any of the other ways that you and
Helms seem to be forgetting about.
Glen
|
323.442 | | GIDDAY::BURT | DPD (tm) | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:25 | 11 |
| Haemophiliacs have a somewhat more difficult time - they can't really ASK who
the donors are, and theirs is NOT a lifestyle choice (apart from choosing to
live). There has been a case reported in Australia whereby a number of
patients attending the same doctors' surgery were infected with HIV. Theirs
was not a lifestyle choice either.
Finger pointing doesn't help - education of those who _do_ have choices,
patience, tolerance, research and $$$$ WILL help.
Chele
|
323.443 | | WECARE::GRIFFIN | John Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159 | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:43 | 8 |
|
I think we're probably overspending on AIDS research too, given the
actual numbers of people infected/dying, and the costs of all that
treatment and care.
But it's not an issue I'd take with me into the ballet box; maybe there
are social benefits from the expenditure that provide sufficient
payback.
|
323.444 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | He said, 'To blave...' | Thu Jul 06 1995 23:58 | 45 |
| <<< Note 323.440 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| That is a politically impolite question to ask.
>
> Actually, it is not. A little less of the stuff above, and a little
> more fact, and we might be able to do away with people who think like Helms.
Actually, Helms was pretty close in his statement. He just said
it in a politically impolite way.
Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the
disease -- and not just for a simple majority of cases. Those
who want to continue to encourage, support and participate in
those behavior choices need the exception cases to legitimize
their behavior choices. Nobody -- even Helms I'd wager --
believes the exception cases don't exist. Not paying homage to
them is the political impoliteness, and the speaker is then
demonized as not having "all the facts."
I believe that emphasizing the extreme cases is what leads
junior high students to believe things like 10% of all AIDS
cases are a result of unsterile medical practices, and fearing
such things more than the real primary vectors. But at least
they have "all the facts"!
Note 323.441
>| I wouldn't personally. However if I lived a lifestyle that is apt to expose me
>| to the disease, I probably would consider it.
>
> Well lets hope that you never get it any of the other ways that you and
> Helms seem to be forgetting about.
Any of the other ways are statistically insignificant when compared
to the lifestyle choices that ARE the primary vectors. Any of the
other ways are not **APT** (that means likely) to expose me to
AIDS. Yet.
Let's hope that NOBODY gets AIDS. Through any vector. How do
we achieve that dream? Many people will say "education", but I
suspect that the only education that will work for most people
is seeing a loved one die of it. By then it is often too late.
I say abstinence and morality (if perfectly adhered to I know
that the disease will be wiped out within a generation) but
the modern world will not allow that solution to take hold.
|
323.445 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | He said, 'To blave...' | Fri Jul 07 1995 00:02 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.442 by GIDDAY::BURT "DPD (tm)" >>>
>Finger pointing doesn't help - education of those who _do_ have choices,
>patience, tolerance, research and $$$$ WILL help.
Recognizing that the fault for the spread lies squarely on the
shoulders of those who do have choices is an important step.
Being able to say it without being villified would be good.
(Being able to articulate it without putting one's foot in
one's mouth as Helms did would help one not be so readily
villified...)
Let me ask you. What should we be patient and tolerant of to
help eliminate AIDS?
|
323.446 | re .443 ... BTW, can one mail billets-doux in a "ballet box?":) | LJSRV2::KALIKOW | Buddy, can youse paradigm? | Fri Jul 07 1995 00:06 | 5 |
| Considering that left unchecked, HIV *ultimately* might well produce a
"Masque of the Red Death" scenario for Homo Sapiens in its entirety,
I don't begrudge a penny of the R&D $$s being spent on it. Not to
mention the CURRENT humanitarian tragedy that AIDS represents. Imho.
|
323.447 | | WECARE::GRIFFIN | John Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159 | Fri Jul 07 1995 00:21 | 3 |
|
Billets-doux and Masque of the Red Death -- The Jane Asher fan club
speaks.
|
323.448 | Just a gift :^) | GIDDAY::BURT | DPD (tm) | Fri Jul 07 1995 00:50 | 18 |
| re <<< Note 323.445 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>
> Let me ask you. What should we be patient and tolerant of to
> help eliminate AIDS?
OK, let me modify and expand:
love
joy
peace
patience
kindness
goodness
gentleness
faithfulness
self-control
Chele
|
323.449 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Fri Jul 07 1995 09:34 | 13 |
| For once I am semi-impressed by Newt's apparent level headedness
regarding funding levels. I also do not believe Helms' statement to be
a mere lapse of political courtesy. It would not surprise me to hear
him expound upon his ignorance by proclaiming it to be God's will that
low lifes should die a horrible death because they sinned. The fact of
the matter is that the disease is here, among us, right now, maybe in
the next cube. We either deal with it and all the attendant
unpleasantries or risk as Dr. Dan suggests a far more serious threat to
humanity. Education and prevention go hand in hand with searching for
a cure or preventative vaccine. Pontificating about the immorality of
the majority of the current victims is a waste of time, at best.
Brian
|
323.450 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Jul 07 1995 10:05 | 3 |
|
.446 ah, the level-headed Dan'l comes through again. i am wichoo,
o sagacious one.
|
323.451 | Never say it can't strike close to your home | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Fri Jul 07 1995 10:42 | 3 |
| .449 Well said!!
|
323.452 | Shock value | TLE::PERARO | Sell My Soul for Rock n' Roll | Fri Jul 07 1995 11:01 | 9 |
|
All the guys complain about "shock jocks". Someone should start
watching out for these "shock senators". Sometimes I would if Helms
just says these idiotic things for shock value.
Keeps him in the press now doesn't it??
Mary
|
323.453 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | the countdown is on | Fri Jul 07 1995 11:07 | 2 |
| I think Helms says things like that because he believes them. The media
enjoy the shock value, so they love to publicize such gems.
|
323.454 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Jul 07 1995 11:35 | 59 |
| ZZ > Let me ask you. What should we be patient and tolerant of to
ZZ > help eliminate AIDS?
Followed by the Fruit of the Spirit.
Chele, I'm sorry but I also believe there is a place in the Christian
community for righteous indignation...and Jesus was a user of this. I
believe that the AIDS community would be an excellent outreach for
ministering to people with AIDS...and I also believe it is being sorely
neglected.
However, I find compassion with the political process to be abhorrant.
I see alot of irresponsibility and promoting the wrong message.
Planned Parenthoods pamphlets with diagrams attached are a very good
example .
"Intercourse isn't the only way. Kissing, hugging, touching,
masturbating, oral sex, are often very exciting and stimulating."
SEX, THE FIRST TIME OR ANY TIME. Pamphlet distributed by Planned
Parenthood.
"Safer sex for lesbians includes: Use of a dental dam for oral-vaginal
and oral-anal stimulation...use of surgical gloves when sticking your
fingers into your partners vagina or ass...and all other wonderful
things that lesbians do together."
From Planned Parenthoods Brochure, "I THINK I MIGHT BE A LESBIAN...
NOW WHAT DO I DO?"
As Planned Parenthood's so called "Safety Dance" program designed to
raise the awareness of AIDS among 13-18 year olds, the teacher
instructs the kids to tape signs on the wall listing various possible
sexual activities. The kids are asked to rank these activities from
least risky to most risky for contracting HIV infection. Activities
on the list include massage, french kissing, phone sex, sex toys,
erotic films and magazines, showering together, masturbation, mutual
masturbation, oral sex, intercourse with a condom, oral/anal contact,
and anal intercourse without a condom.
Finally, there is a booklet called "The Problem with Puberty",
distributed by Planned Parenthood to teenage boys. A picture appears
with a man in a bathtub with two women, a man and woman putting in a
dental dam, and for some reason there is a dog in the picture and I
don't even want to know what the dog is doing there.
---------------------------------------
Okay Chele, you still think we should exercise the Fruit of the Spirit
with these people? Let me tell you something sobering, YOUR TAX
DOLLARS are paying for this Chele, and what's more, our teenage
children are the target audience. I find posting this sort of stuff
distasteful at best and disgusting at worst...and yet I keep hearing
societies still somber voice in the wind saying..."Be tolerant, display
love and random acts of kindness, don't be a bigot"
Well, that's fine and good Chele but the sobering reality, your
children and mine are being propogandized.
-Jack
|
323.455 | | LJSRV2::KALIKOW | Buddy, can youse paradigm? | Sun Jul 09 1995 09:25 | 2 |
| Whatsis "Fruit of the Spirit" then?
|
323.456 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | the countdown is on | Mon Jul 10 1995 08:36 | 1 |
| a close relative of Fruit of the Loom
|
323.457 | What prize for winning answer ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | | Mon Jul 10 1995 11:14 | 4 |
|
The grape ?
bb
|
323.458 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Jul 10 1995 12:13 | 66 |
| | <<< Note 323.444 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>
| Actually, Helms was pretty close in his statement. He just said it in a
| politically impolite way.
If you believe that Joe, then you must believe the man is a hypocrite
as well. How can he say what he did, when he has been lobbying for the tabbacco
industry all these years? Do you think he is a hypocrite Joe?
| Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the disease
Agreed.
| and not just for a simple majority of cases. Those who want to continue to
| encourage, support and participate in those behavior choices need the
| exception cases to legitimize their behavior choices.
I actually agree with the above. Anybody who wants to continue and or
support unsafe sex without knowing (as in test) their partner's status should
be included in the behavior group. They may not have it yet, but they are
risking theirs, and others lives. Two people who are hiv- can have sex with
each other without spreading the disease, and would not fit into your grouping.
That is regardless of the genders.
| Nobody -- even Helms I'd wager -- believes the exception cases don't exist.
It's just easier for him to push his hate onto homosexuals, who he
despises.
| > Well lets hope that you never get it any of the other ways that you and
| > Helms seem to be forgetting about.
| Any of the other ways are statistically insignificant when compared to the
| lifestyle choices that ARE the primary vectors.
Yeah, Ryan White was just an insignifigant statistic. Anyone who
contracts the disease is not an insignifigant statistic. Regardless of how they
get it.
| Let's hope that NOBODY gets AIDS. Through any vector. How do we achieve that
| dream? Many people will say "education", but I suspect that the only education
| that will work for most people is seeing a loved one die of it.
I agree and disagree. I agree there will be people that will have to go
to that length before they get the message. I also think that won't stop all
people. I disagree with that because it did not take a loved one dieing to make
me change. Throughout the gay community the change has been made. Some due to
deaths, and some through the education. I think the education works because
with the education, you have involvement. From making a poster, to addressing
an audience, to getting out into the streets. Involvement is was makes
education work.
| I say abstinence and morality (if perfectly adhered to I know that the
| disease will be wiped out within a generation) but the modern world will
| not allow that solution to take hold.
Joe, if person A & person B want to have sex, they will have it. If
they do not do anything dangerous (vaginal/anal sex), they will be fine. If
they get to that point, they had better be prepared. Getting tested together is
the best way to go, as you find out right then and there, together, what the
status of each person is. If each person is HIV-, then there is no problem. The
key word here is monogomy. One night stands should be a thing of the past.
Glen
|
323.459 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Jul 10 1995 12:16 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.455 by LJSRV2::KALIKOW "Buddy, can youse paradigm?" >>>
| Whatsis "Fruit of the Spirit" then?
It might be me cuz I believe in the Holy Spirit..... :-)
|
323.460 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 10 1995 12:43 | 23 |
| I was listening to Peter Meade the other night on the Brudnoy show. As
a guest, he had the AIDS Action Committee Chairman on who was taking
calls. He frequently mentioned that Helms message was a message of
hate.
One of the callers was up in Provincetown last week. There was a sign
being held up by a gay individual which said, "Oral Sex is Safer".
This caller thought this message was wonderful. That the AIDS message
of days past was one of total abstinence, i.e. if you have HIV, then
you can do nothing. This sign was a beacon of hope that HIV infected
individuals can now indulge in something...
Well here's my message. Society speaks of hatemongers and the
like...particularly Jesse Helms. If you partake in sexual intercourse
and in any way open up the possibility of infecting your partner...even
if you are both informed of the situation, then I submit to you that
this is one of the most debased forms of hate. It is an act of
selfishness and unconditional love is removed from the picture. The
word "Safer" to me means that it is still unsafe so if you really want
to show love to your fellow man, abstain and don't share your "love
with anybody who isn't infected.
-Jack
|
323.461 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Jul 10 1995 14:33 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 323.460 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I was listening to Peter Meade the other night on the Brudnoy show. As a
| guest, he had the AIDS Action Committee Chairman on who was taking calls. He
| frequently mentioned that Helms message was a message of hate.
He was correct.
| Well here's my message. Society speaks of hatemongers and the like...
| particularly Jesse Helms.
Well, he IS one of the more vocal ones. :-)
| If you partake in sexual intercourse and in any way open up the possibility of
| infecting your partner...even if you are both informed of the situation, then
| I submit to you that this is one of the most debased forms of hate.
Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate.
| It is an act of selfishness and unconditional love is removed from the
| picture.
Now you have it right with the selfishness part. If the other person is
willing to partake, that is her/his decision. If the infected partner told them
up front, I'm sorry, it can not be warped into hate. I think you need to look
up what the word means.
| The word "Safer" to me means that it is still unsafe so if you really want
| to show love to your fellow man, abstain and don't share your "love with
| anybody who isn't infected.
I would agree with the above if they do not tell the partner. I would
not agree with the above if they did tell the partner.
Glen
|
323.462 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 10 1995 15:11 | 6 |
| ZZ Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate.
Then Jesse Helms is not showing hate. He's just showing his
stupidity...stemming from his homophobia which is born of fear.
-Jack
|
323.463 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Jul 10 1995 16:09 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.462 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| ZZ Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate.
| Then Jesse Helms is not showing hate.
He is allowing his hate for homosexuals to cloud the issue of AIDS. It
is hate based.
| He's just showing his stupidity...
That too.
| stemming from his homophobia which is born of fear.
One can be a homophobe AND hate gays. Homophobia can be the reason for
the hate to develop.
I asked Joe this Jack, but I guess he isn't noting yet. So I will ask
you. Do you feel Jessie Helms is ALSO being a hypocrite with this?
Glen
|
323.464 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 10 1995 16:59 | 23 |
| Z I asked Joe this Jack, but I guess he isn't noting yet. So I
Z will ask you. Do you feel Jessie Helms is ALSO being a hypocrite with this?
To a point, yes...I do.
The bottom line here is the almighty dollar Glen. Cigarette sales may
go down and the Clinton Administration et al may seem to really care
for the health and welfare of Americans and particularly teenagers by
taking a stance on cigarette smoking. However, nations in Asia are
importing American cigarettes in droves and Corporate America is
profiting from them. I find this hypocritical for government to do
this...both democrats and republicans.
Now the almighty buck part. Our government propogates the sale of
cigarettes and people contract lung cancer. However, irresponsible sex
brings NO money into the economy and hence AIDS is the great evil
because it offers no return for it's ravage over society. Hence, the
irresponsible members of society are adding no value by their actions.
At least people who smoke themselves to the grave buy cigarettes.
So yes, I do think it's hypocritcal!
-Jack
|
323.465 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Gone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes. | Mon Jul 10 1995 17:01 | 3 |
|
<----- I'm speechless.
|
323.466 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Jul 10 1995 17:05 | 1 |
| Jesse. NNTTM.
|
323.467 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Jul 10 1995 17:24 | 1 |
| How's that for logic???
|
323.468 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Mon Jul 10 1995 17:42 | 54 |
| <<< Note 323.458 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> If you believe that Joe, then you must believe the man is a hypocrite
>as well. How can he say what he did, when he has been lobbying for the tabbacco
>industry all these years? Do you think he is a hypocrite Joe?
From his standpoint on his support of Tobacco, absolutely.
Personally I'd prefer to see tobacco subsidies cut before
anything else in the federal budget. And yes, I believe
that cancers and other diseases brought on by tobacco use
are equally at-fault as most AIDS cases.
> | Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the disease
>
> Agreed.
Then you also agree with Helms on that point too.
> Yeah, Ryan White was just an insignifigant statistic. Anyone who
> contracts the disease is not an insignifigant statistic. Regardless of how they
> get it.
As an individual human being, and to his family and friends, he
was far from insignificant. As a matter of statistics his case
and his vector are STATISTICALLY not significant when compared
to those of sex- and drug-behavior cases. There is a diference
between "statistically insignificant" from an actuarial point
of view (from which I was speaking) and being "an insignificant
statistic" from a human point of view. I find it somewhat
cruel for behavior-related cases to prey upon the statistically
few cases like Ryan White's.
I wonder how much support the Ryan White Bill would have received
had it been called the Rock Hudson Bill....
> Throughout the gay community the change has been made.
Perhaps throughout your limited circles of the gay community.
Safe sex is NOT practiced "throughout the gay community" any
more than it is outside the gay community.
> Joe, if person A & person B want to have sex, they will have it.
I disagree. Maybe you think we are unable to control ourselves,
but I still have hope for humankind.
> The key word here is monogomy.
We've already discussed this before, Glen. I do not agree with
your use of the term "monogamy". What you have supported in the
past is nothing better than serial monogamy, and that will not
protect you from HIV as real monogamy will.
|
323.469 | You're both wrong! | DECWET::MPETERSON | Max Overhead | Mon Jul 10 1995 20:38 | 17 |
| | If you partake in sexual intercourse and in any way open up the possibility of
| infecting your partner...even if you are both informed of the situation, then
| I submit to you that this is one of the most debased forms of hate.
Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate.
| It is an act of selfishness and unconditional love is removed from the
| picture.
Now you have it right with the selfishness part. If the other person is
willing to partake, that is her/his decision. If the infected partner told them
up front, I'm sorry, it can not be warped into hate. I think you need to look
up what the word means.
Wrong, both of you. It's called negligent homicide!
/mtp
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323.470 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Jul 11 1995 11:31 | 4 |
| Well, I find lack of caring and indifference to the life and welfare of
another a form of hate. That's just me though!
-Jack
|
323.471 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 14:34 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 323.464 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| The bottom line here is the almighty dollar Glen. Cigarette sales may go down
| and the Clinton Administration et al may seem to really care for the health
| and welfare of Americans and particularly teenagers by taking a stance on
| cigarette smoking. However, nations in Asia are importing American cigarettes
| in droves and Corporate America is profiting from them.
What the heck does this have to do with whether or not Helms is being
hypocritical or not? Helms was the one who stated because of their actions, the
nation should not fund their hospital bills. Yet he has been lobbying for
something that has a warning right on the side of the package. Now you said he
is a little bit hypocritical, and I would like you to explain how HE, not
anyone else now, JUST HELMS, is only a little hypocritical. Just stick with him
right now Jack, as we are discussing what he said. I asked the question about
him. Thanks you.
Glen
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323.472 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 14:39 | 26 |
| | <<< Note 323.468 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > | Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the disease
| >
| > Agreed.
| Then you also agree with Helms on that point too.
No, Helms tried to get away with saying all cases were that way. So I
do not agree with him.
| I wonder how much support the Ryan White Bill would have received had it been
| called the Rock Hudson Bill....
I read something today that was similar to what you wrote. The article
asked why do you think it was called the Ryan White Bill, and not the Robert
Maplethorpe?
| Safe sex is NOT practiced "throughout the gay community" any more than it is
| outside the gay community.
How can you make the above statement? You don't even know what is going
on throughout the gay community, do you?
Glen
|
323.473 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 14:41 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.470 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Well, I find lack of caring and indifference to the life and welfare of
| another a form of hate. That's just me though!
Jack, if the person has said nothing, yes. If they have told the
partner, no.
Glen
|
323.474 | | WMOIS::GIROUARD_C | | Wed Jul 12 1995 14:46 | 11 |
| .472 Glen, you would agree with that statement if a word like
"generally" practiced (safe sex)?
Statistically, the gay community numbers as the highest category.
A recent program researched "the" community. There was an alarming
fear that there was a digression toward more casual (unprotected)
sex than there was just 5 years ago.
You're right, I know I don't know exactly what goes on with the
exception of the information I'm exposed to...
|
323.475 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Jul 12 1995 14:50 | 8 |
| >| Safe sex is NOT practiced "throughout the gay community" any more than it is
>| outside the gay community.
>
> How can you make the above statement? You don't even know what is going
>on throughout the gay community, do you?
According to the organization Gay Men's Health Crisis, 50% of homosexual men
who are 20 years old today will contract HIV.
|
323.476 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 15:07 | 26 |
| | <<< Note 323.474 by WMOIS::GIROUARD_C >>>
| .472 Glen, you would agree with that statement if a word like "generally"
| practiced (safe sex)?
Yes.
| Statistically, the gay community numbers as the highest category.
Of total numbers, yes. Of new comers, no.
| A recent program researched "the" community. There was an alarming fear that
| there was a digression toward more casual (unprotected) sex than there was
| just 5 years ago.
They have started combatting that a while ago. They are becoming even
more specific in their education. I saw one sign over a urinal that said
something to the effect that you should not have unprotected sex with a
stranger, and it went into more detail that a lover is not someone you have
known for 2 weeks. Being tested before you try anything without a condom is
being stressed more and more, and it is working.
Glen
|
323.477 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 15:08 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.475 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>
| According to the organization Gay Men's Health Crisis, 50% of homosexual men
| who are 20 years old today will contract HIV.
I must be getting old.... I never heard of that group I'm sorry to say.
Gerald, did they go into the "why" they would contract the disease?
Glen
|
323.478 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Jul 12 1995 15:11 | 5 |
| I'm surprised you've never heard of them. They've been around for years --
I think since the beginning of the AIDS epidemic.
I just the figures in passing in a recent issue of the Globe -- probably within
the past week. I don't think I read the whole article.
|
323.479 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 15:13 | 10 |
|
Bummer Gerald. It would have been nice to know why they thought they
would have such a high %. A guess would be the invincable thing, but I can't be
sure about that. Knowing what they based it on too would be cool.
Glen
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323.480 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease! | Wed Jul 12 1995 16:47 | 7 |
|
The problem is, that a disproportionate amount of money is going into
AIDS research/funding...
The fact and figures do not warrant it. The political correctness of
the situation does...
|
323.481 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The bottom end of Liquid Sanctuary | Wed Jul 12 1995 16:51 | 9 |
| > The problem is, that a disproportionate amount of money is going into
> AIDS research/funding...
> The fact and figures do not warrant it. The political correctness of
> the situation does...
I disagree Andy. Check out .417 for my reasoning...
-b
|
323.482 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease! | Wed Jul 12 1995 16:59 | 21 |
|
re: .481
Brian,
That's why I stated "research/funding"...
The Ryan White Care Act of 1990 has nothing to do with research, but
with care...
Now, I'm not denying that people with AIDS should not receive the best
of care...
What bothers me is that there's no Lou Gehrig Care Act for those with
that disease (just an "off the top of my head" example..)
What is the figure involved here... 3 point something billion over 5
years? For care of no one other than an AIDS victim?? Seems kind of...
unfair... doesn't it?
|
323.483 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | proud counter-culture McGovernik | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:01 | 9 |
| AIDS is communicable, incurable, and 100% fatal. While in the US, it
may have started in the gay and IV drug using sectors, it is spreading
and is now the leading cause of non-violent death of women of
childbearing age in several large cities on the eastern seaboard.
To me a communicable disease needs money for research, prevention
programs, and treatment.
meg
|
323.484 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease! | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:03 | 8 |
|
re: .483
Pretty general there meg...
Just as if I generally stated that these women could be (mostly) drug
users or sexual partners of drug users (which AIDS seems to be [mostly]
confined to, along with homosexuals).
|
323.485 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:17 | 15 |
|
Andy, look at the world wide numbers for the last 10 years. Look at the
various groups infected. Look at the genders of those infected. You will be
amazed how the US differs from the rest of the world. It's very interesting
reading. The CDC has all the info you want. You could also try the AIDS Action
Committee in Boston. I'm sure they have the CDC stats as well.
And speaking of the AAC, Gerald, I found out the Gay Mens Health Crisis
group is the NY version of the AAC.
Glen
|
323.486 | | MPGS::MARKEY | The bottom end of Liquid Sanctuary | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:23 | 5 |
|
I think GMHC predates AAC, and started in SF, not NY. But that's
MHO and of course subject to CRI. :-)
|
323.487 | | SMURF::MSCANLON | alliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogether | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:33 | 40 |
| Helms will always continually amaze me with the depths he is
willing to sink to in order to make a point.
But aside from that, his remarks have an interest for
fueling a fire which many polititians feel the American
voting public has lit: "personal responsibility". I predict
in about 10 years time we will learn to love this phrase
as much as we do "politically correct" now. "Personal reponsibility"
isn't about compassion, or empathy, or sympathy or even
fairness or equity. It's about mean-spirited thrift,
miserliness, and ethinic and cultural hatred all wrapped up
in a overwhelming fear of difference. People seem to love
this term. They spit it at welfare mothers, homosexuals,
AIDS victims and people who smoke in public. In fact, people
use it to describe most people's behavior, with, or course,
the exception of their own. Yeah, sure, some people never
grow up. Hey that's life. But now, all of a sudden, we
as a nation have taken a perverse delight in taking all these
people and rubbing their noses in what is considered their
"lack of personal responsibilty". This is not only not
compassionate, it is not what I would consider Christian
behavior from people who consider themselves Christians.
Sure, lifestyle choices cause AIDS. Lifestyle choices
also cause emphasema (sp?), lung cancer (smoking, working
in mines, handling asbestos), psorosis of the liver in some
cases (alcohol), amputation (working with dangerous
machinery), and premature death or paralysis (bungee jumping,
race car driving, etc.). You want to stop paying for these too?
Ok how about people with "bad genes"? We are getting to
the point where we can pinpoint genes which cause birth
defects. Should people with bad genes reproduce? If they
choose to, should we pay for it?
It never stops with one thing. And before you choose to
pursue that one thing, think about that real hard. Once
someone's got their foot stuck in the door, it gets a lot
harder to shut it again.
Mary-Michael
|
323.488 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:36 | 3 |
| Emphysema.
Cirrhosis.
NNTTM.
|
323.489 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Jul 12 1995 17:40 | 21 |
| <<< Note 323.485 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Andy, look at the world wide numbers for the last 10 years. Look at the
>various groups infected. Look at the genders of those infected. You will be
>amazed how the US differs from the rest of the world.
If you look at what is culturally acceptable among the African
peoples most affected by AIDS (many destined for decimation)
you can see why it has spread so readily there among all sexual
orientations.
Consider that the same permissive promiscuity was a characteristic
of the gay community of the late 1970s and early 1980s, and you
don't have to wonder why it spread like wildfire there and not
among the (by comparison) puritanical heterosexual community.
Now consider that liberalism aims to lead this culture down the
same path of permissive promiscuity. I am not amazed that this
country has fared differently so far, and I am also not amazed
that AIDS is only now showing up more and more in the general
population.
|
323.490 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Jul 12 1995 18:02 | 6 |
| Okay Glen...Jesse Helms is very hypocritical and he makes stupid
generalizations...and he doesn't present himself as an intellectual
source of information for the right. I don't condemn what he stands
for but I don't think his method of communicating is prudent!
-Jack
|
323.491 | | SMURF::MSCANLON | alliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogether | Wed Jul 12 1995 18:05 | 6 |
| re: .488
Ah, thank you. I think I was confusing it with psoriasis, which, while
it is a heartbreak, is really nobody's fault.... :-)
|
323.492 | | CSOA1::LEECH | dia dhuit | Wed Jul 12 1995 18:27 | 14 |
| re: .487
I think you are politicising "personal responsibility" a bit much.
When I think of personal responsibility, I think of accepting the
consequences for ones actions without doing any finger pointing or
whining, or asking the government to bail them out of a problem they
brough upon themselves.
It has nothing to do with miserliness or hate, but has a
lot to do with common sense- something that has long gone out of style
in this nation.
-steve
|
323.493 | uh, Looks like we're in agreement. | DECWET::MPETERSON | Max Overhead | Wed Jul 12 1995 18:58 | 51 |
| re .487
Mary-Michael Writes:
>"Personal reponsibility" isn't about compassion, or empathy, or sympathy
>or even fairness or equity.
You are correct. Personal responsibility has very little to do with
these matters. But what does that matter? Nuclear physics, or the
sex-life of hamsters are similarly irrelevant. Nevertheless, the
rhetoric sounds cool, tho'.
Similarly, she contends that...
>[personal responsibility is] about mean-spirited thrift, miserliness, and
>ethinic and cultural hatred all wrapped up in a overwhelming fear of
>difference.
Accepting personal responsibility has little to do with these issues, as
well.
Fortunately, she then says...
>Sure, lifestyle choices cause AIDS. Lifestyle choices also cause emphasema
>(sp?), lung cancer (smoking, working in mines, handling asbestos), psorosis of
>the liver in some cases (alcohol), amputation (working with dangerous
>machinery), and premature death or paralysis (bungee jumping,
>race car driving, etc.).
Well, we're cool again. I thought for a moment that we were going to
continue to argue but luckily we're on the same page here. Whew!
Always on point, Mary-Michael gets to the heart of the matter...
>You want to stop paying for these too?
Not sure to whom the "You" in your question is referring. I guess my
answer is that people in dire distress, whether by their own hand or
not, merit society's consideration. On the extent to which that
consideration should amelioriate their misfortune is where the
argument lies. Personally, I believe that there exists the concept of
the "deserving" and the "undeserving". If resources are limited, my
inclination would be to allocate my care to the "deserving" first, then
only see what can be done for the "undeserving".
If you disagree with this principal, I would consider it a favor if
you would provide an answer to the scenerio I posed earlier about
the Doctor, his two aids patients, and the desert island (#453.203).
Regards,
/mtp
|
323.494 | | SEAPIG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Jul 12 1995 23:27 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.492 by CSOA1::LEECH "dia dhuit" >>>
> It has nothing to do with miserliness or hate, but has a
> lot to do with common sense- something that has long gone out of style
> in this nation.
Then you believe that all the money spent on cancer research,
research into heart disease, research into lung/heart/liver/kidney
transplants was all spent unwisely.
Right?
Jim
|
323.495 | | SMURF::MSCANLON | alliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogether | Thu Jul 13 1995 00:56 | 59 |
| re: .492
First I do not believe that there is a person in this country
who could not benefit from some help from the government at
some point or another in their lives for something they
allegedly brought upon themselves.
Remember, help from the government isn't limited to
welfare. Help is also Medicaid, student loans, government
grants, Head Start programs and the like. The governemnt
provides many services and subsidizes many more. All the
people lining up to use them are not "bad people" with no
sense of "personal responsibility" (whatever the heck that
may be).
Second what is personal responsibility anyway? I'd be
willing to bet two people couldn't agree on a definition,
but I'd also be willing to bet that the same two people each had
an intensely personal idea of what "personal responsibilty"
was as well as a list as long as your arm of types of people
who didn't have it. It's really nothing more than a
catch phrase which polititians love, since everyone knows what
it "should" mean, and no one will ever agree on it enough to
bring it to law.
This country is devoid of compassion and empathy. We can't
contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction. We'd
rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
actively participate in making this world a better place.
We look down long noses at people who don't hold up under
the scrutiny of our "values", blithely ignoring the fact
that our "values" say we shouldn't be the ones doing the
judging. Some even comb the Bible looking for justification
of "righteous anger." There is no justification for anger,
I don't care what the book says. This country is really in
a pathetic state of affairs, and not because of welfare
mothers. This country is looking for scapegoats, people to
blame for the confusion we find ourselves in. And people
are pointing fingers at those who do not live as they live,
believe as they believe, and quite honestly, vote as they vote.
Finally, what is the difference between a drug addict and an
alcoholic? An alcoholic and a smoker? A smoker and an
overweight person with a heart condition who refuses to eat
sensibly? Nothing really. Each person made lifestyle choices
that affected their health and the overall quality of their life.
But to society, there is a big difference. Society nods to
the overweight person, yes we all overeat, we understand. Until
very recently society accepted the smoker and turned their head
the other way for the alcoholic. Some may say the person who
contracted AIDS through drug use "deserved it." But some of these
same people might feel a pang of empathy for the alcoholic who
"got caught" (hey, people sometimes drink a little too much).
The behaviors are no different. They only difference is perception.
So, what does the Bible say about perception, Mr. Helms? Are we
to pass our our help and compassion only to those who strive for
perfection? That's a real feel-good piece of fluff, isn't it?
Mary-Michael
|
323.496 | | WECARE::GRIFFIN | John Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159 | Thu Jul 13 1995 01:11 | 8 |
|
Tuesday's Globe ran a column by Jeff Jacoby on AIDS spending. It had
some interesting numbers within.
Further back in the same issue was an article about gay bodybuilders.
The article mentioned, but did not explain, the claim that 50% of
young gay men will get AIDS.
|
323.497 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | Jack Martin - Wanted Dead or Alive | Thu Jul 13 1995 08:52 | 48 |
|
re:.495
Minor Nit:
> welfare. Help is also Medicaid, student loans, government
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I thought that these were provided by banks,..... I got mine from a
bank, and paid back a bank.....
> This country is devoid of compassion and empathy.
I don't think so, I think that we're just compassioned out. The 1st,
2nd, and 3rd time you see someone in need, you might help. The 4th,
5th, and 6th times you see them, you feel bad. But after number 12 or
13 you just don't really care much anymore. You have become
desensitized to the suffering of others.
> We can't contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction.
I believe that that is because people have come to believe (mistakenly
IMO) that it's the governments responsibility to take care of people.
> We'd rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
> actively participate in making this world a better place.
I believe that this is partially a result of the previous comment...
The government has provided more and more services to more and more
people. To do this they have taxed and taxed us to the poor house.
"Take an active role in making the world a better place, are you
kidding, I'm working X number of jobs just to put food one the table
and have someplace to live!" This is the feeling I keep getting from
the people that I talk to. The government take between 30% to 40% of
my income for run their foolish (IMO) programs, give me 25% of it back,
and I'll be able to give 10% of my income to charity and still be 15%
ahead!
> There is no justification for anger,
You forgot the IMO.....
> But some of these same people might feel a pang of empathy for the
> alcoholic who "got caught" (hey, people sometimes drink a little too
> much).
Please clarify this for me, are you implying that people who sometimes
drink too much are alcoholics?
Dan
|
323.498 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Gone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes. | Thu Jul 13 1995 09:15 | 8 |
|
Heard on CNN last night about a letter carrier in Charleston (?)
who was refusing to deliver mail to the house of a couple with
AIDS.
He claims he might get the disease from their mail slot (if he cuts
himself), or from an envelope they may have licked.
|
323.499 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | contents under pressure | Thu Jul 13 1995 09:31 | 1 |
| real bright sort, he.
|
323.500 | He would find peers in the Carolina delegation.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Thu Jul 13 1995 09:33 | 4 |
|
Did I hear right that he is considering running for the US Senate?
-mr. bill
|
323.501 | | CSOA1::LEECH | dia dhuit | Thu Jul 13 1995 10:23 | 5 |
| re: .494
How did you get that from my note?
-steve
|
323.502 | | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Thu Jul 13 1995 10:26 | 2 |
| Sounds like Jesse Helms is contagious :-(
|
323.503 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 13 1995 10:53 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.489 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| If you look at what is culturally acceptable among the African peoples most
| affected by AIDS (many destined for decimation) you can see why it has
| spread so readily there among all sexual orientations.
Joe, the people of Africa are a part of the world. The people of North
America are a part of the world. Combined they are still only a part of the
world. I believe I said look at the world numbers, not part.
Glen
|
323.504 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 13 1995 10:54 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.490 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Okay Glen...Jesse Helms is very hypocritical and he makes stupid
| generalizations...and he doesn't present himself as an intellectual
| source of information for the right. I don't condemn what he stands
| for but I don't think his method of communicating is prudent!
Thanks for speaking up Jack.
Glen
|
323.506 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 13 1995 10:56 | 6 |
| Dan:
Your bank collected the student loan from you and then they forwarded
it to ELSI (Education Loan Services Inc.) I think they're government!
-Jack
|
323.507 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 13 1995 10:56 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.496 by WECARE::GRIFFIN "John Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159" >>>
| Further back in the same issue was an article about gay bodybuilders.
| The article mentioned, but did not explain, the claim that 50% of
| young gay men will get AIDS.
It said based on current numbers, 50% of the men in their 20's now,
will contract AIDS when they are 50. With the new education that's out there,
the numbers will drop.
|
323.508 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease! | Thu Jul 13 1995 11:17 | 6 |
|
re: .485
What are you trying to tell me vis. my reply about selective funding
(which I believe Helms is addressing)??
|
323.509 | | SMURF::MSCANLON | alliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogether | Thu Jul 13 1995 12:30 | 6 |
| Ok, where did .509 go? Here I was composing this brilliant,
eye-opening rebuttal, and Steve deletes his reply! Now my
paragraph by paragraph analysis will go unread.... :-(
Stop applauding.....
|
323.510 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | Jack Martin - Wanted Dead or Alive | Thu Jul 13 1995 12:34 | 9 |
|
> Your bank collected the student loan from you and then they forwarded
> it to ELSI (Education Loan Services Inc.) I think they're government!
Jack, are you telling me that ALL student loan are funded by the
Federal Government ???
Dan
|
323.511 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Jul 13 1995 12:58 | 1 |
| I dunno.
|
323.512 | | EVMS::MORONEY | The gene pool needs chlorine.... | Thu Jul 13 1995 13:07 | 13 |
| The student loans are GUARANTEED by the government. That means the
banks lend the money to you but if you don't pay they assign the loans
to the government and then THEY come after you. The banks are willing
to lend money since now there is little risk.
This is just like the so-called Chrysler bailout, the US never lent
a dime to Chrysler, they just guaranteed the loans to those who did.
The government might pay the difference between the going rate and
the student loan interest rate, I'm unsure.
The loans also tend to be resold to a quasi-government agency
(Sallie Mae) just like most home mortgages are.
|
323.513 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Jul 13 1995 13:12 | 5 |
| >This is just like the so-called Chrysler bailout, the US never lent
>a dime to Chrysler, they just guaranteed the loans to those who did.
It's not _just_ like the Chrysler bailout. The gummint's paid out plenty
because of student loan deadbeats.
|
323.514 | Sorry I wasn't clear... | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 13 1995 13:37 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.508 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!" >>>
| What are you trying to tell me vis. my reply about selective funding
| (which I believe Helms is addressing)??
I thought it would make interesting reading for you. I wasn't
addressing the selective funding issue. World wide numbers would be useless for
an issue that deals with the US.
Glen
|
323.515 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Jul 13 1995 13:38 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.513 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>
| It's not _just_ like the Chrysler bailout. The gummint's paid out plenty
| because of student loan deadbeats.
Lee Iacoca was no deadbeat, that's for sure!
|
323.516 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Jul 13 1995 14:54 | 12 |
| re: .509
Sorry about that. There were a few areas of my long diatribe that I
simply couldn't parse on a re-reading. I've extracted it for
correction, but haven't gotten around to de-bugging it yet. That's
what happens when I note on an empty stomach. 8^)
I'm now well fed and should have that note posted in no time.
Keep your rebuttle handy. 8^)
-steve
|
323.517 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Jul 13 1995 15:43 | 43 |
| <<< Note 323.495 by SMURF::MSCANLON "alliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogether" >>>
> Second what is personal responsibility anyway? I'd be
> willing to bet two people couldn't agree on a definition,
> but I'd also be willing to bet that the same two people each had
> an intensely personal idea of what "personal responsibilty"
> was as well as a list as long as your arm of types of people
> who didn't have it.
How much you wanna bet? I'll bet you that there are quite
a few "two people"s who read this reply today who could so
agree.
> This country is devoid of compassion and empathy. We can't
> contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction. We'd
> rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
> actively participate in making this world a better place.
Though I see nothing wrong with giving money as opposed to
time (what many here can earn in an hour -- were we to donate
it -- would hire multiple hours of others' labor) in general
I agree with what you wrote. Oh, I don't fully accept the
extremes that you portray, for then they would include you
and me, but yes, we as a society are less giving than we
used to be. Less compassionate. Less concerned. An example
of this is a radio commercial I heard for "The Club" (auto
security device.) In the ad they mentioned how often we hear
a car alarm going off in a parking lot, but nobody does anything
to attend to it. And yes, while not all of us structure our
charity giving around tax implications, it is certainly a
consideration for far too many people.
> that our "values" say we shouldn't be the ones doing the
> judging.
Where do our values say that?
> And people
> are pointing fingers at those who do not live as they live,
> believe as they believe, and quite honestly, vote as they vote.
One must wonder here if you are pointing fingers, and if so
at whom.
|
323.518 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Jul 13 1995 15:46 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.503 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> I believe I said look at the world numbers, not part.
I believe you know that I don't often obey your commands.
I notice you could not argue with what I did say in .489.
I also believe that you'll find that what I said in .489 also
applies to AIDS spread (in general) anywhere in the world.
|
323.519 | My long-winded reply returns! And it's even BIGGER, now. | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Jul 13 1995 16:27 | 274 |
| re: .495
This was not directed towards me, but that's never stopped me
from responding before. 8^)
Mary-Michael, the following comments are not directed at you
personally, but at the mindset I see within this particular note. You
are a compassionate person, from what I've read of your notes, and I
respect that, so don't take this personally.
> First I do not believe that there is a person in this country
> who could not benefit from some help from the government at
> some point or another in their lives for something they
> allegedly brought upon themselves.
Probably right for the most part, with a few exceptions. The problem lies
in the fact that the government should not be in the business of bailing
people out of their misfortune- whether brought about by their own
actions or not.
New Deal, the forefather of all our entitlement programs, was economic
suicide, and many of those who opposed these programs
quite loudly warned about 'opening up the federal coffers' in such a
way. Once opened, they said, it would be impossible to close them
again. What was not known at the time was the cumulative affects these
programs had on society in other areas (including the 'personal
responsibility' term in question).
We are just now beginning to realize just how far down the wrong path we
have gone. The November election, IMO, seemed to show that Americans are
beginning to realize this en mass, and are trying to force correction
(smaller government). If we do nothing, we WILL run out of credit
eventually. Our debt is already costing us $260B/year to finance.
Of course, what the GOP is doing is using a bandaid where a tournaquet
is more appropriate. They simply don't have the political nads to do
what they KNOW has to be done (i.e. massively reform all entitlements,
including SS, medicare & medicade).
> Remember, help from the government isn't limited to
> welfare. Help is also Medicaid, student loans, government
> grants, Head Start programs and the like. The governemnt
> provides many services and subsidizes many more. All the
> people lining up to use them are not "bad people" with no
> sense of "personal responsibility" (whatever the heck that
> may be).
The whole point, to me, is that the government should not be in the
business of subsidizing any particular group of people. It is not the
government's job to coddle citizens in every way. It is the ridiculous
amounts of taxation that is at FAULT for many people not being able to
afford college, insurance, etc. Unfortunately, Congress doesn't seem
to look at this part of the equation of 'cause and effect' and neither
do most Americans. They see people who cannot afford to get ahead and
say that something aught to be done!
Guess what? When something else is done to help these people, WE pay
for it. This causes increased amounts of taxation which only spreads
the original problem out to more people (the problem being insufficient
funds for necessities/education/whatever). The more everyone pays in
taxes, the worse off this nation will be in regards to most any
variable you can come up with: economy, standards of living, poverty,
etc. You cannot help the poor by bringing everyone else down the the
least common denominator.
Without the heavy taxation to support these programs, we wouldn't NEED
these programs to begin with, at least not in the form of government
subsidies.
The entire problem revolves around personal responsibility. You are
responsible for your own finances, your own retirement, your own
medical insurance, your own housing and your own family. This should
be the law, but it isn't. The current law says it matters not what you
do because you will be taken care of regardless. This promotes
irresponsibility and the wrong mindset for getting ahead in this world.
Any subsidizing should come from the private sector, not by government
tax-nabbing and redistribution. It is the only fair way to do it.
[Charity is another topic. I'm only mentioning what I see as a problem
with current mindset- a minset that has gotten us into bad financial
straits as a nation.]
> Second what is personal responsibility anyway? I'd be
> willing to bet two people couldn't agree on a definition,
> but I'd also be willing to bet that the same two people each had
> an intensely personal idea of what "personal responsibilty"
> was as well as a list as long as your arm of types of people
> who didn't have it.
You are responsible for yourself and your actions. This is the essense
of "personal responsibility". You own up to your failures without
blaming your hardship on others.
> It's really nothing more than a
> catch phrase which polititians love, since everyone knows what
> it "should" mean, and no one will ever agree on it enough to
> bring it to law.
This is what the left would like us to believe. Reduce it to a catch
phrase, rather than putting it into policy.
> This country is devoid of compassion and empathy. We can't
> contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction.
Oh, this is utter nonsense. I give to my church and to other
organizations. I do not file for the tax deduction for it. My
rationale for giving has never included tax deduction considerations.
The problem is, modern mentality says that compassion comes in the form
of a government bail-out/subsidy program, rather that in any personal
way. I can't even begin to address the ramifications this attitude has
had on our nation (it would be a good subject for a book, though).
Tell me, how is it compassionate or fair to subsidize, via LAW, certain
groups of citizens at the expense of others? How is it compassionate to
continue with programs that only exasparate the problems they are meant
to solve (at the expense of taxpayers)?
From my personal perspective, I could not only live better, but I could
give a lot more money to charity if the government would just get off my
back (and out of my paycheck). I would also be planning on giving more
of my time to worthwhile organizations, rather than contemplating a second
job.
Let ME decide where my money (over x% for constitutional government
expenses) goes! Let me decide for myself what programs (via charity)
warrent my money. Let me decide who to help and for how long. Let me
help in a way I feel is moral and ethical and effective (no to mention
cost effective and efficient).
Oh, but we can't have that. We have to have daddy government take care
of everyone. We all know that unless tax $$ are ripped from the
wallets of us immoral, stingy taxpayers, that people would be dying in
the streets of starvation (of course, they do anyway WITH daddy
government taking care of the situation, but of course that matters not
in the collective mind of the left). We are an uncaring lot, we
are, only concerned with our spending money.
> We'd
> rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
> actively participate in making this world a better place.
Well, since all we have to do is vote for tax-and-spend dims, rather
than be personally resposible for our community, I'm not surprised that
this mindset is so prevalent. We need not take responsibility, only
delegate our obligations to daddy fedgov via more doomed-to-fail
federal programs. We don't care that they don't work, as long as we
feel that we did something. We also don't care about the damage the
increased tax burden will do directly and indirectly to the rest of the
nation.
I find nothing wrong with writing a "sterile" check to a charity
agency in need of funds to help people. Nothing wrong at all.
I do agree that more people should give their time to a cause they
believe in, though. It helps the community as well as the individual
who donates their time. I find the "sterile" check scenario much more
compassionate than supporting failed programs that expound the misery.
> We look down long noses at people who don't hold up under
> the scrutiny of our "values", blithely ignoring the fact
> that our "values" say we shouldn't be the ones doing the
> judging.
Wrong. As a matter of course, we ARE to judge behaviors. If someone
is very promiscuous, we SHOULD tell them that this is wrong and
dangerous behavior. If someone murders their neighbor, we certainly tell
them (via death penalty or life imprisonment) that this behavior is
unacceptable.
The problem is, we are too permissive as a society. We stopped
condemning behaviors and began rationalizing them, accepting them.
Why? Because if society begins to accept them, we begin to feel better
about those things/behaviors in our own life that we know deep down
are wrong. With a society that accepts most any behavior with a wink
and a nudge, we can rationalize most anything we do, taking away and
guilt we may have.
The envelope gets pushed farther and farther every year, too. It is now
frowned upon to even suggest that certain behaviors are wrong. How
dare we make such 'judgements'! How dare we call something that we
know to be wrong, wrong! No wonder we are in such bad shape.
> Some even comb the Bible looking for justification
> of "righteous anger." There is no justification for anger,
> I don't care what the book says.
But there *is* justification for anger. What there is no
justification for is hatred (of people). You can be angry without hating,
something that the government and all too many people seem not to
understand. Even God hates things (not people), and is angered when
His word is ignored. Israel found this out on several occations, if
the OT is to be believed.
> This country is really in
> a pathetic state of affairs, and not because of welfare
> mothers. This country is looking for scapegoats, people to
> blame for the confusion we find ourselves in. And people
> are pointing fingers at those who do not live as they live,
> believe as they believe, and quite honestly, vote as they vote.
No, the welfare mothers (even those having additional children while on
welfare) are not the problem. They are a symptom of a much larger
problem. The problem is spiritual, as well mental (attitudes and
philosophies).
By looking at all the current symptoms, we can see that the disease is
well advanced today. Unfortunately, our doctors' recommendations are
analogous to taking a couple of aspirin for a large, malignant tumor,
rather than surgically removing it. Some doctors don't even recognize
the huge, discolored lump as a tumor- whether purposefully so or not,
I do not know. They try to ignore it, suggesting that if we treat it
with the very same ointment that caused it to form in the first place, it
will magically disappear.
> So, what does the Bible say about perception, Mr. Helms? Are we
> to pass our our help and compassion only to those who strive for
> perfection? That's a real feel-good piece of fluff, isn't it?
Actually, the Bible says to love and to help one another. I, of
course, agree with the Bible. 8^) We should help those in need.
However, you have to remember where this ideal comes from. The Bible
does not say "force your neighbor to love his neighbor" or "force your
neighbor to help others", it speaks to the individual only. You have to
decide if you are going to help, and if so, how you are going to help
your neighbor.
The Bible, as many have pointed out (unnecessarily), is NOT the law of the
land, the Constitution is. Though much of our law was originally based
upon Biblical precepts, we are not a theocracy, therefore the Bible has
no sway in public law (and has recently had less sway in personal
behavior, as well).
We both agree that we should help others. What we disagree on is HOW
that help should be applied. I personally think it is immoral to force
someone to give money to a charity. This is no different than being
forced to pay for a massive number of federal 'entitlement' (I hate
that word) programs, IMO.
To add to the questionable morality of said federal programs, they are
rife with waste, corruption (which includes theft of monies through
defrauding the government) and are becoming a more and more burdomsome
load to carry. Not one entitlement program has solved any problem in
America, even though we've spend in the neighborhood of $3 trillion
on them since New Deal. In fact, most have added to the very
problems they were created to solve (sometimes magnifying the problem
so badly as to spawn huge infusions of tax $$ to keep up with it).
It simply makes no sense to continue on our current path.
I still laugh when I read FDR's outcry for his welfare programs: "They
will end poverty within ten years!" (paraphrased from memory).
Today, as we try and undo the damage done, I find comment as to the
'miserliness' and 'lack of compassion' that those who oppose entitlement
programs, as disengenuous. We have been anything but miserly, as a nation,
if you look at how much of our tax $$ goes into entitlment programs
each year (some 1/4 or so of our national budget, currently, if not more).
How about having some compassion for the working stiffs who are finding
it harder and harder to make ends meet since it takes them from January
through mid July just to pay their tax burden. Imagine what just three
months of this tax money, on a broad scale, could do for the economy
and private charity!
Enough is enough already. It is time to admit that our social
engineering, though perhaps well intentioned originally,
has failed miserably. We now need to work to intellegently reduce
entitlement spending and change our mental image of what compassion
really is. Compassion is not a government subsidy to make us feel
like we've done something to help.
-steve (who's somewhat long-winded today) 8^)
|
323.520 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | We the people? | Thu Jul 13 1995 20:25 | 62 |
| Helms says he's been incorrectly characterized in AIDS
funding debate
(c) 1995 Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.
(c) 1995 Associated Press
CHARLOTTE (Jul 12, 1995 - 18:12 EDT) -- Sen. Jesse Helms stands
by his comment that gay sexual conduct is "revolting" but says he is
being misrepresented on why he opposes an AIDS funding bill.
Helms, R-N.C., said his aversion to the homosexual lifestyle is not
keeping him from backing the Ryan White Care Act of 1990, which
would provide $633 million for federal care and treatment of people with
AIDS over the next five years.
He said he is against the measure because it grants gays and AIDS
victims better treatment than patients with other diseases.
"I have not fought homosexual rights. They have the same rights any
other American has," he said. "What I have fought and oppose with all
my being is giving them special rights."
Last week, Helms, was quoted as saying AIDS is spread through
"disgusting, revolting conduct."
"We've got to have some common sense about a disease transmitted by
people deliberately engaging in unnatural acts," Helms said.
Helms is not sorry about those statements, The Charlotte Observer
reported Wednesday.
"I meant it. It is disgusting," he told the paper.
People who suffer from heart disease, cancer and other maladies do not
have special legislation giving them financial assistance, Helms said.
Helms said gay lobbyists are trying to discredit him.
"I would not have to say these things if they would keep their mouths
shut and their bedrooms closed," he said. "No, they parade, naked. They
commit sodomy on the streets of San Francisco."
Mark Barnes, executive director of the AIDS Action Council, said
Helms is wrong to contend that the AIDS relief gives HIV-infected
patients special treatment. Many AIDS sufferers are prevented from
qualifying for existing government relief programs and usually are not old
enough to obtain Medicare.
"This isn't special rights -- this is taking care of people who wouldn't
otherwise get treatment," he said.
The AIDS law, named after an Indiana teen-ager who died after getting
the AIDS virus from a blood transfusion, expires at the end of
September. North Carolina has received $10.8 million through the act.
Helms acknowleged that people other than gays contract Aids. But he
said the bill still is primarily for homosexuals because "every case of
AIDS in the United States had its origin with homosexual contact,"
Helms said.
|
323.521 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member | Fri Jul 14 1995 08:56 | 8 |
|
I think using Ryan White's name for this is in bad taste. The reason
being is that it is using one of the (comparatively) few cases of
contraction of the disease to whitewash the fact that a change in
behavior could all but eliminate the spread of this terrible virus.
Mike
|
323.522 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Jul 14 1995 09:43 | 6 |
| Mr. Helms has a point about the special treatment for those who
contract AIDS. I don't see any government relief bills for cancer
patients or the like.
-steve
|
323.523 | Deja Vu... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease! | Fri Jul 14 1995 09:54 | 4 |
|
And here I thought people were paying attention!!!
|
323.524 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Jul 14 1995 09:58 | 1 |
| Gabh mo leithsce'al.
|
323.525 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Jul 14 1995 10:15 | 5 |
| > <<< Note 323.524 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Gabh mo leithsce'al.
Speaking in tongues again, Steve? Which deli did you find them at?
|
323.526 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Jul 14 1995 10:33 | 1 |
| <--- Ni' cheapaim e'.
|
323.527 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Jul 14 1995 10:35 | 2 |
| Latka Gravis?
|
323.528 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Jul 14 1995 10:42 | 1 |
| <--- Cad e' seo?
|
323.529 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Jul 14 1995 11:55 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.518 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| <<< Note 323.503 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
| > I believe I said look at the world numbers, not part.
| I believe you know that I don't often obey your commands.
And I believe I didn't even ask you to. I believe I was making a
suggestion to Andy before you popped in. You remind me of Endora sometimes. :-)
| I notice you could not argue with what I did say in .489.
Not that I couldn't argue, but that I don't need to waste my time on
you.
Glen
|
323.530 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Jul 14 1995 11:58 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.520 by SUBPAC::SADIN "We the people?" >>>
| Helms acknowleged that people other than gays contract Aids. But he said the
| bill still is primarily for homosexuals because "every case of AIDS in the
| United States had its origin with homosexual contact," Helms said.
A man who is not playing with a full deck......
|
323.531 | don't underestimate ol' Jesse | HBAHBA::HAAS | improbable cause | Fri Jul 14 1995 12:48 | 14 |
| I think a lot of people are either misunderstanding ol' Jesse or
seriously underrating him.
Jesse didn't get to his position of power, both real and influential,
because he's as stupid as he sounds or as dumb as he looks. He strikes a
chord in a large number of people and plays them like a master.
While no fan of the man, his spell over North Carolinians and much of the
conservative persuasion is overpowering. You can bet you hat, ass and
overcoat that he will successfully (on his terms) complete this term and
be re-elected to another. Only his failing health will end his stay in
the Senate.
TTom
|
323.532 | a greatly misunderstood man | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Jul 14 1995 13:21 | 30 |
| The Ballad of Jesse Helms.
Jesse Helms is a man,
(Or so we understand),
His mouth it can't be trained.
Thus it came to pass
He talked out through his *ss,
Said "AID$ i$ $uch a drain!"
Oh Jesse get a life.
What if it was your wife?
Or children that were ill?
But, Jesse does deny:
"Good people they won't die,
Jes' those I'd like to kill."
Now Jesse likes tobacco,
Says the F-D-A are wacko,
For causing such a scare,
"It brings the body ease,
Don't cause heart disease,
And buys mah congress chair."
With Jesse at the helm,
Then right would overwhelm,
The nasty, ee-vyl and gay.
When Jesse smokes a fag,
I don't mean "takes a drag",
He blows them all a-wayyyyy.
[
|
323.533 | goodun | HBAHBA::HAAS | improbable cause | Fri Jul 14 1995 13:26 | 14 |
| re: .532
Goodun there!
You might wanna something about sugar cause ol' Jesse makes more money
from them then he ever got from tobacco. You don't think that he
advocates boycotting sugar from countries that deal with Cuba cause he
don't like Fidel, now do you?
And of course, the sugar industry in NC is very big, NOT. It definitely
lags way behind tobacco, reefer and manure, a major source of income to
his cause as well.
TTom
|
323.534 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:08 | 3 |
|
Didn't Helms win by a small margin in the last election?
|
323.535 | won rather easily | HBAHBA::HAAS | improbable cause | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:16 | 16 |
| Jesse challenged by the former Mayor of Charlotte, Harvey Gannt who was
thought to be close because of some of the polls before the election.
Either these polls were in error or they motivated Jesse's fans, cause he
won fairly handily, something like 58%-42% of votes cast.
The onliest ray of hope is that Jesse and The Congressional Club, his
PAC, have parted company and are suing each other. This may not bring
Jesse down but it bodes poorly for his clone, Lauch Faircloth, pig farmer
and junior senator. Faircloth, who won mainly because his democratic
opponent, the then Senator Terry Sanford, nearly died afore the election,
is gonna face a very tough primary from another former Charlotte mayor,
Sue Myrick. The Congressional Club spent more money defeating her in the
primary than it did to defeat Sanford. It's pretty hard to actively
campaign from the ICU.
TTom
|
323.536 | | MAIL2::CRANE | | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:18 | 2 |
| Didn`t Andy Griffith (sp) think about running against Helms a couple of
years ago?
|
323.537 | nope, but Petty is running for something | HBAHBA::HAAS | improbable cause | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:25 | 8 |
| I hadn't heard about ol' Andy.
The one "celebrity" that's going into politics is Richard Petty. He's
currently a county commissioner, having positioned himself far to the
right, somewhere near Jesse and the very senior senator from south o' the
border, Strom "Red" Thurmon.
|
323.538 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease! | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:25 | 7 |
|
Well... I'd like to take the focus of the messenger for a minute and
focus on the message...
Is he right to pursue cutting the funding for the reasons stated...??
|
323.539 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:26 | 1 |
| Thurmond. Who's Richard Petty?
|
323.540 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:28 | 2 |
| Richard Petty, stock car driver/owner/sponsor, good ol' boy. He is now
vying for poll position.
|
323.541 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:31 | 5 |
| > Richard Petty, stock car driver/owner/sponsor, good ol' boy. He is now
> vying for poll position.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
good 'un.
|
323.542 | that's racin | HBAHBA::HAAS | improbable cause | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:39 | 3 |
| King Richard Petty of NASCAR fame.
TTom
|
323.543 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:43 | 6 |
| >King Richard Petty of NASCAR fame.
No Title of Nobility shall be granted by the United States; And no Person
holding any Office of Profit or Trust under them, shall, without the Consent of
the Congress, accept of any present, Emolument, Office, or Title, of any kind
watever, from any King, Prince, or foreign State.
|
323.544 | the emolument has left the building | HBAHBA::HAAS | improbable cause | Fri Jul 14 1995 14:47 | 5 |
| Actually, this is a title shared by Petty and Elvis.
And shouldn't that be Nobility formerly called Prince?
TTom
|
323.545 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | We the people? | Sat Jul 15 1995 17:51 | 101 |
| Early treatment for HIV doesn't prolong survival,
study finds
(c) 1995 Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.
(c) 1995 N.Y. Times News Service
WASHINGTON (Jul 15, 1995 - 15:06 EDT) -- Treatment of HIV
infection before it causes symptoms may delay progression to AIDS
but does not prolong survival, a new study has found.
The study, reported Saturday in the British Medical Journal, supports
findings from the Concorde study in Europe that in 1993 called into
question a standard practice of prescribing the drug AZT for people
infected with HIV, or human immunodeficiency virus, which causes
AIDS.
The British study involved 436 AIDS patients at St. Mary's Hospital
Medical School in London. Its authors said they hoped it would raise
more discussion about the relative merits of treating HIV early or
after symptoms develop and stimulate scientists to focus more
studies on the quality of life among those treated for HIV-infection.
"We are hoping to move the debate on about what we are actually
doing for patients" such as whether benefits of early treatment
outweigh adverse effects such as nausea, vomiting and bleeding, Dr.
Mark Poznansky, a co-author of the study, said in a telephone
interview.
Although the study is not definitive, the findings have "a sobering
effect," said Dr. James W. Curran, a top AIDS official at the Centers
for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta.
Another top AIDS expert at the centers, Dr. Harold W. Jaffe, said
"we are starting to get a fairly consistent message" from studies
that anti-HIV drugs and antibiotics against AIDS-related infections
"have a benefit, but survival is not prolonged depending on whether
they are given early or late."
The report comes at a time when growing competition from managed
care is increasing pressure on American health care providers to
justify costs for many standard treatments.
The findings also highlight cultural differences between many
American and European patients and doctors over the optimal time
to begin treatment of AIDS. Doctors in the United States, acting on
studies conducted by American scientists, tend to start treating
HIV-infection earlier in the course of the disease than European
doctors. Also, European AIDS patients have generally clamored less
for early treatment than American patients.
Proponents believe early treatment improves the quality of life by
reducing hospitalizations for the potentially fatal AIDS-related
illnesses like pneumocystis carinii pneumonia. But others say
treatment with AZT or similar anti-HIV drugs makes some users
sick.
Poznansky's team in London studied 436 AIDS patients who
developed AIDS from 1991 through 1993. Of these, 97, or 22 percent,
learned they were infected with HIV when they developed their first
AIDS illness and had no previous treatment for HIV or
AIDS-related illness. The remaining 339 patients were followed in
clinics after they tested positive for HIV during the preceding eight
years.
A comparison showed that those who received early treatment
suffered fewer AIDS-related infections. Yet once they became ill
they died, on average, a year sooner than those who were not treated
until severe symptoms began. The overall time from acquiring
infection to death was similar and the later diagnosis of AIDS "did
not have a detrimental effect on survival," the British authors said.
Dr. Merle Sande, an AIDS expert who is chief physician at San
Francisco General Hospital, said he was not surprised by the
findings. He headed an independent panel of experts created by the
government that in 1993 said AZT was no longer necessarily
recommended for early treatment of uncomplicated HIV-infection.
"Most doctors feel when they are giving AZT early, they are
increasing the asymptomatic period, but again and again they have
learned that survival is the same," Sande said. "Nothing that has
delayed progression to AIDS has ever been shown to alter survival."
There are many aspects to HIV treatment, such as presumed
differences in the virulence of different strains of the virus. But the
British study was not designed to determine whether such viral
differences existed among the participants.
Despite public education programs aimed at encouraging people to
get a blood test to learn whether or not they have HIV, many
Americans first learn they are infected when they go to the hospital
for a serious AIDS illness.
Dr. Jonathan Weber, a co-author of the British study, said his team
realized that the findings raised questions about the benefit of early
diagnosis and having medical checkups every few months. But
Weber and other experts said early diagnosis of HIV had important
public health benefits because it helped infected individuals prevent
transmitting the virus to their sex partners.
|
323.547 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Jul 28 1995 10:46 | 1 |
| Easy solution to this one...
|
323.548 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:19 | 2 |
|
So, don't hold them in jail. Put them in concrete.
|
323.549 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Prepositional Masochist | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:35 | 2 |
| This is Italy, where a pornstar can become an elected member of parliament and
where an entire island is run by criminals.
|
323.550 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:37 | 4 |
| Please do not disparage the people of Italy.
Your next personality could be Vincenzo.
|
323.551 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:40 | 1 |
| Hmmmm, sounds like NYC too.
|
323.552 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Prepositional Masochist | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:47 | 1 |
| Ah! You gotta a gooda pointa there Jack!
|
323.553 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:52 | 2 |
| Omigawd! It's Father Guido Sarducci!
|
323.554 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Careful! That sponge has corners! | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:53 | 3 |
|
Yo, Vinnie! Vinnie Vega! Vinnie Barbarino!
|
323.555 | | POWDML::CKELLY | The Proverbial Bad Penny | Fri Jul 28 1995 11:55 | 2 |
| oh dear. does that mean he'll have, like, lotsa chest hair; mega
gold chains, shiny polyester shirt unbuttoned to his navel?????
|
323.556 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Fri Jul 28 1995 12:00 | 3 |
| And what pray tell is wrong with lotsa chest hair? Hmmm? Hmmmm? Hmmm?
I'll skip the Mr. T starter set and polyester shirt though.
|
323.557 | | POWDML::CKELLY | The Proverbial Bad Penny | Fri Jul 28 1995 12:01 | 3 |
| Nothing, Brian, nada, zip, zilch. Actually, it's one of my
requirements :-))). Agreed, tho, on the Mr. T starter set
and shirt :-))))))
|
323.558 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | It ain't easy, bein' sleezy! | Fri Jul 28 1995 12:21 | 5 |
|
Ba ba ba, ba Barbarino....
:-)
Dan
|
323.559 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Prepositional Masochist | Fri Jul 28 1995 12:23 | 1 |
| Hey, youa guysa better cutta that out!
|
323.560 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Careful! That sponge has corners! | Fri Jul 28 1995 12:23 | 3 |
|
Geyser?
|
323.561 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Prepositional Masochist | Fri Jul 28 1995 12:26 | 1 |
| <--- Youa unafaithful guy!
|
323.562 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Fri Jul 28 1995 14:01 | 1 |
| The Don Ricardoson has spoken.
|
323.563 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Prepositional Masochist | Fri Jul 28 1995 14:20 | 1 |
| Whata youa meana buya that?
|
323.565 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Aug 09 1995 15:46 | 3 |
|
Great!! Give him (them) fuel for another personna!!!
|
323.566 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Thank You Kindly | Wed Aug 09 1995 15:52 | 1 |
| Whatta you meana?
|
323.567 | Information | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Tue Sep 05 1995 11:46 | 80 |
| WHO chief warns of women's vulnerability to HIV
(c) Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.
Reuter
BEIJING (9:02 a.m.) - Women face the bleak reality of being infected by
the deadly HIV virus more quickly than men, due in part to their
economic dependence on men, the World Health Organisation (WHO) said on
Tuesday.
"The number of infected women with HIV is increasing more rapidly than
men in Africa, in southern Asia," Hiroshi Nakajima, WHO's
director-general, told a news conference.
"The bleak reality is that the sexual and economic subordination of
women fuels the HIV/AIDS pandemic," WHO said in its position paper at
the Fourth United Nations World Conference on Women in Beijing.
"Women's vulnerability...is linked to their low status in society, and
their economic, cultural and social dependence on their male partners,"
it said.
Women were almost absent from the pandemic in 1980 of the HIV virus
that can cause Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), but now
total as many as eight million.
Some one million more are infected each year, mainly through
unprotected sexual intercourse, WHO said.
Every minute, two women are infected with HIV, it said
And every two minutes, a woman dies of AIDS.
WHO said the number of women infected with HIV will have reached 14
million by the year 2000, and about four million will have died.
Studies in some countries show that up to 30 percent of HIV infections
are occurring in women whose only risk behaviour is sexual intercourse
with a single male partner who in turn has had or continued to have
unprotected sex with other partners, it said.
WHO said providing women, especially young women, with the personal
skills and confidence to refuse sex when they do not want it was
essential to battling the pandemic.
"This will be possible, however, only when women have sufficient status
and economic opportunities to reduce their dependence on men for
survival and relative wellbeing," WHO said.
However, women at a grassroots forum on the outskirts of Beijing that
is running parallel to the U.N. conference said WHO was following the
wrong policies to combat the disease.
They called for rapid development of microbicides that women could use
to combat the deadly HIV virus, instead of relying on male partners
often reluctant to use condoms.
"The strategy of the WHO against AIDS is not working and is irrelevant
to the women of Africa," said Priscilla Misihairabwi, co-ordinator of
the Women and AIDS support network of Harare, Zimbabwe.
One in four sexually active women in Zimbabwe is HIV-infected, she
said. "The situation is catastrophic. It is a life and death issue.
African women want to try microbicides."
Microbicides are inserted into the vagina like spermicides and would be
able to kill the HIV virus carried in the sperm of their male partner.
Lori Heise, of WHAM, Women's Health Advocates on Microbicides, told the
seminar that 10 different microbicides were in the development stage
and that it would take a further five years before they became
commercial products.
But major pharmaceutical companies were not interested in developing
these microbicides since they do not believe they are commercial
products and fear litigation if they do not have the promised results,
Heise said.
|
323.568 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Tue Sep 05 1995 11:51 | 2 |
| Unless it has changed in the past two years, women are the group being
infected with AIDS fastest right here in the gold ol' US.
|
323.569 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Sep 05 1995 20:35 | 21 |
| <<< Note 323.567 by CSC32::M_EVANS "nothing's going to bring him back" >>>
> BEIJING (9:02 a.m.) - Women face the bleak reality of being infected by
> the deadly HIV virus more quickly than men, due in part to their
> economic dependence on men,
> "Women's vulnerability...is linked to their low status in society, and
> their economic, cultural and social dependence on their male partners,"
> it said.
I think it has more to do with them being the catcher rather
than the pitcher.
> Women were almost absent from the pandemic in 1980 of the HIV virus
> that can cause Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), but now
> total as many as eight million.
If the cause in the statement quoted at the top of this reply
is truly the reason for the spread of AIDS among women today,
then should we assume that those conditions for women didn't
exist in 1980 and earlier? What really changed that made women
absent in 1980 but so vulnerable now?
|
323.570 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 05 1995 23:03 | 3 |
|
Joe, I hadn't realized we were talking baseball. :-)
|
323.571 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Petite Chambre des Maudites | Tue Sep 05 1995 23:50 | 11 |
|
>What really changed that made women
>absent in 1980 but so vulnerable now?
It was much more a disease of homosexual men in 1980, and they weren't
pitching to women.
Once it spread to the intravenous drug user sorts, women became
involved.
|
323.572 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Wed Sep 06 1995 10:35 | 10 |
| That's right. And no matter how women's involvement got its start, it
is now spreading by normal sexual contact, from men to women and from
women to men. Especially tragic among young people, especially when
its spread could be prevented by use of condoms.
In parts of Africa where the total infection rate is very high, and
where homosexuality is virtually unknown, women are at just as high
a percentage infection rate as men.
It's everybody's disease now.
|
323.573 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 06 1995 10:38 | 5 |
|
And to add one more thing, with the exception of North America, it has
always been heterosexuals that were in the majority of those who got the
disease. Might be why they took the disease so seriously from the beginning.
|
323.574 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Sep 06 1995 10:54 | 8 |
| > ... especially when its spread could be prevented by the use of
> condoms.
Not exactly true. The effectiveness of condoms is still in question
with regards to AIDS. Though they can't hurt, they may not be nearly
as helpful as everyone likes to think.
-steve
|
323.575 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Wed Sep 06 1995 11:17 | 17 |
| so Steve,
Are you saying people shouldn't bother with same? "Gee kids, you are
going to die and go to hell for your actions anyway, so don't bother
with the condom, and hurry it up so moralistic dweebs can feel better
about your deaths." is not exactly what I consider a good message
either.
I do look forward to the development of microbicides.
Joe the only difference from 1980 is that the women getting infected at
that point were all in the 3rd world, and the media and many churches
failed to take notice. However a friend did bring back a t-shirt from
some place in Africa in 1985 that referred to AIDS as the white races'
great hope. There are really sick humans out there.
meg
|
323.576 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Wed Sep 06 1995 13:03 | 13 |
| > Not exactly true. The effectiveness of condoms is still in question
> with regards to AIDS. Though they can't hurt, they may not be nearly
> as helpful as everyone likes to think.
The only people who are questioning it these days are the religious
right who want there to be only one way to prevent the spread of
HIV -- their way.
Since the democrats gained control of the executive branch, under which
the Centers for Disease Control operate, the CDC has said that condoms
definitely DO work. During the Bush era they simply refused to say
anything one way or the other.
|
323.577 | Re: condoms... | TROOA::COLLINS | Occam's Paper Towel Dispenser | Wed Sep 06 1995 13:04 | 4 |
|
The FDA tests every batch. What sort of qualifications do you think
that job requires?
|
323.578 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | AREAS is a dirty word | Wed Sep 06 1995 13:19 | 1 |
| Urges in your areas?
|
323.579 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Wed Sep 06 1995 13:46 | 1 |
| Stamina.
|
323.580 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 06 1995 14:54 | 1 |
| nymphos
|
323.581 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | AREAS is a dirty word | Wed Sep 06 1995 15:08 | 1 |
| horny bastiges.
|
323.582 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Sep 06 1995 15:09 | 11 |
| re: .575
I never said they shouldn't bother, that's your twist. I said what I
said. If you feel that the information I posted is incorrect, please
post your reasoning.
Society pushes condoms as THE answer. I merely state that they are a
bandaid solution at best, and at worst is a false sense of security.
-steve
|
323.583 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Sep 06 1995 15:26 | 30 |
| re: .576
> The only people who are questioning it these days are the religious
> right who want there to be only one way to prevent the spread of
> HIV -- their way.
Nonsense. Condoms are not even proof against pregnancy, much less
against a virus much smaller than sperm. There are plenty of
scientific studies out there, if you wish to find out for yourself the
truth. Don't take my word for it.
As far as preventing the spread of HIV, there IS only one way that is
100% effective. Why is it so bad to state this? Because it also
happens to coinicide with moral doctrine?
It would seem to me that if this moral doctrine makes specific mention
of sexual ethics that could have prevented the epidemic of AIDS,
perhaps society should give it a second look- especially since ignoring
these ethics seems to be the main problem (moving away from our
historical ethics on sex, which were Biblically-based).
The only answers society gives is a cover up for the behavior that
spawns the problems to begin with. If everyone would follow *just* the
sexual moral code of the Bible, AIDS would virtually disappear over a
generation or two. Is this such a big price to pay for future
generations? Judgeing by what I hear, it would seem so.
-steve
|
323.584 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Wed Sep 06 1995 16:22 | 24 |
| Steve,
Since you are admitadly not participating in anything which should
require a condom I would expect such ignorance from you. The "studies"
from the national latex institute or some such thing? Seems this
"institute" showed up about the same time certain people began fighting
condom information in the high-schools. The message from them is
exactly what I put in my earlier note.
The Alan Guttmaker institute, the CDC, and many reproductive health
agencies have found condoms to be safe, and effective BC, as well as a
protection against STD's when used correctly. The instructions are
simple enough for any-one who can read at a third grade level to
understand, and most packages now come with visual drawings on the
instructions as well. The problem with condoms is that not enough
people use them consistantly, not that they are being used.
Giving women another avenue in microbicides, as well as spermicides to
protect their health, and those of offspring would at least help
mitigate the fact that far too many "men" are resistant to the one
non-permanent method of BC and disease protection available to them at
this time.
meg
|
323.585 | | BOXORN::HAYS | Some things are worth dying for | Wed Sep 06 1995 16:41 | 21 |
| RE: 323.583 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha."
> Condoms are not even proof against pregnancy,
Condoms vastly reduce the rate of pregnancy, even in the presence of many
thousands of times more sperm than virus.
> As far as preventing the spread of HIV, there IS only one way that is
> 100% effective. ... If everyone would follow *just* the sexual moral
> code of the Bible, AIDS would virtually disappear over a generation or
> two.
Ignoring IV drug usage, if _everyone_ would follow any of a multitude of
sexual moral codes, then HIV would completely disappear over time. Of
course, NO sexual code is 100% protection for an individual: There is,
after all, no such thing as complete safety. Most of the possible sexual
moral codes that would eliminate HIV are non bible based.
Phil
|
323.586 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 06 1995 17:10 | 19 |
|
Steve, there is NOTHING wrong with saying that the only way that has a
100% rate of noninfection is to abstain from sex. Except that is not a correct
statement. One can have sex with an uninfected partner, and not get any
diseases.
I believe what was being talked about, and Mr. Goodwin can correct me
if I am wrong, is that the RR ONLY want the message of abstaining from sex to be
out there. They do NOT want a message that having sex with an uninfected partner
will not cause any diseases from happening. The do NOT want to have a message
that using condoms will cut the risk of contracting the disease greatly. They
ONLY ONLY want one message out there. That message deals with their religious
convictions (not having sex before marriage), not with the reality of what is
going on in the world today.
Glen
|
323.587 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Wed Sep 06 1995 17:27 | 15 |
| Steve,
Would you want someone in an emergency room treating you who didn't
glove up? Do you know that the first training in ANY first aid course
regarding bleeding is to put your LATEX gloves on first? Given the
choice of the information from the "latex institute" and that of
physicians, EMT's, and others involved in universal infection
procedures, who are at far more risk of contracting a blood-and fluid
borne infection than I, I will take the advice of the latter.
Of course an alternative for some of us would be never to be in a
monogomous relationship with a health-care worker. They are, in fact
an at-risk group, however low the chances are.
meg
|
323.588 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Sep 07 1995 11:26 | 27 |
| re:.586
You are speaking individually, I am speaking generically. How many
people really know if their partner is infected? How many people just
met their partner that day/week? How many actually wait until they are
tested before having sex?
Though having sex with an uninfected partner will obviously NOT spread
the disease, it is a strawman argument when applying to the general
sexual habits of this society. Once again, you would have to change
behavior patterns in sexual encounters to insure you do not
spread/become infected with this disease. As I've said many times
before, people do not WISH to change their behaviors, and all will
suffer for it in one way or another (physically or financially).
I would be happy to see even the change you suggest (insuring that your
partner is not infected), it is the intelligent thing to do if you are
going to have sex with them. And by all means, even if they are not
tested positive, wear a condom anyway. You can't be too safe.
Abstinance is still the only 100% way, as tests CAN be wrong. It is
possible to be a carrier and not yet test positive (unless you have a
very expensive test done that actually tests for HIV, rather than the
inexpensive test that only tests for antibodies).
-steve
|
323.589 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Sep 07 1995 11:30 | 9 |
| Look Meg (and others),
I did not say condoms did not help at all. I merely state that they
are not 100%. I think society relies too heavily on a bandaid
solution, rather than addressing the main problem.
ymmv.
-steve
|
323.590 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Thu Sep 07 1995 13:50 | 12 |
| >Society pushes condoms as THE answer. I merely state that they are a
>bandaid solution at best, and at worst is a false sense of security.
How do you know what society says? You are too busy with your own
abstinence-is-the-only-way rhetoric to listen to anyone else.
Condoms are not THE answer, and nobody has ever said they were.
Condoms can help, and are better than having unprotected sex. What is
so awfully difficult for you to understand about that?
And by the way, bandaids work very well. Don't you use them?
|
323.591 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Thu Sep 07 1995 13:58 | 10 |
| >I did not say condoms did not help at all. I merely state that they
>are not 100%. I think society relies too heavily on a bandaid
>solution, rather than addressing the main problem.
Well then, since abstinence from sex isn't 100% guaranteed to keep you
alive either (needles, tainted blood, dentists, getting run over by a
truck, etc. etc. etc.) then I guess it's no use bothering with
abstinence either, by your reasoning.
|
323.592 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Thu Sep 07 1995 13:59 | 4 |
| Actually, AIDS has me so scared, when I have sex I use two condoms,
rubber gloves, and a surgical mask. And that's when I'm by myself!
- Rodney Dangerfield
|
323.593 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 07 1995 14:35 | 55 |
| | <<< Note 323.588 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| You are speaking individually, I am speaking generically.
Then state it as such when ya write! :-)
| How many people really know if their partner is infected? How many people just
| met their partner that day/week? How many actually wait until they are tested
| before having sex?
You can write all that above, but then can say no to condoms? The above
is true. Many don't know about their partner if they just met them. Yet knowing
that, you feel condoms should not be talked about, or handed out in schools? I
know the claim to fame is if you talk about the condoms they will think sex is
ok. Yet you know the above, know that people are going to anyway, but want to
do nothing to help the situation. Astinance will help. It is far from 100%
effective because it is only as effective as the amount of people who use it.
You know the above is still going to be there, so why not mention condoms as
well?
| Though having sex with an uninfected partner will obviously NOT spread the
| disease, it is a strawman argument when applying to the general sexual habits
| of this society.
I never said anything like that. I was applying it to your comment that
abstinance is the only thing that is 100% effective. It is not. At the top of
this note you did explain what you meant though, but that wasn't listed until
after my note.
| Once again, you would have to change behavior patterns in sexual encounters
| to insure you do not spread/become infected with this disease.
Your way seems to be that they just stop. The perfect way yes, but
unrealistic. Wearing a condom would be changing lots of people's behaviours.
| I would be happy to see even the change you suggest (insuring that your
| partner is not infected), it is the intelligent thing to do if you are going
| to have sex with them.
I agree with you 100%.
| Abstinance is still the only 100% way, as tests CAN be wrong.
Steve, you don't go with one test......
| It is possible to be a carrier and not yet test positive (unless you have a
| very expensive test done that actually tests for HIV, rather than the
| inexpensive test that only tests for antibodies).
Steve, don't know which test the Fenway or my Doctor uses. All I know
is if I were to have had sex with someone, I would know within 3 months time if
I became HIV+.
Glen
|
323.594 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Sep 07 1995 14:54 | 29 |
| re: .590
> >Society pushes condoms as THE answer. I merely state that they are a
> >bandaid solution at best, and at worst is a false sense of security.
> How do you know what society says? You are too busy with your own
> abstinence-is-the-only-way rhetoric to listen to anyone else.
You seem to be taking offense to my view, to the point of not reading
what I've said very well. Perhaps it is the way that I said it?
In any case, nothing I wrote above is dishonest, nor misleading.
If you have watched any program, any commercial (public health service
types), seen the adds in magazines, etc.; you will see the main thrust
of the anti-AIDS campaign is condoms. For every time I've seen/hear
the word "abstinance", I've seen/heard "condom" 50 times.
I believe the condom message is self-defeating in the long run. It's
not that it can't or won't HELP, it's just that the message itself
tends to give folks a "carry on" attitude in their sex lives, which
will, IMO, come back to haunt many.
> Condoms can help, and are better than having unprotected sex. What is
> so awfully difficult for you to understand about that?
Nothing at all. I have even said as much. You have obviously missed
the point in your tirade against my view.
-steve
|
323.595 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Sep 07 1995 15:09 | 14 |
| re: .593
Glen,
Why is "the perfect way" (in your own words) not realistic? If society
were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other dibilitating
STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage) Do we
really want to do EVERYTHING we can to stop AIDS, or don't we? If we
do, how can we no concentrate on "the perfect way"?
I guess I have a different perspective than most.
-steve
|
323.596 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Thu Sep 07 1995 15:14 | 7 |
| I wonder if there were people during the black plague or other major
plagues in the history of humankind, who thought that attempts by
doctors or scientists to find cures or preventions were the devil's
work, and that if only people would listen to their religious leaders,
then they would find safety.
I wonder where we would be today if everyone had listened to them.
|
323.597 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Sep 07 1995 16:02 | 1 |
| And your point is? {he asks curiously}
|
323.598 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Sep 07 1995 16:24 | 14 |
| re .-2
Of course, that isn't what's happening.
Noone is saying that attempts to find cures or prevention are wrong.
What is being said is that there is currently no cure and no 100%
prevention other than abstinence. And that's the truth.
And what is wrong is telling people that condoms are prevention, when
in typical usage (which is never ideal) they'll only prevent transmission
of bodily fluids about 80% of the time.
/john
|
323.599 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 07 1995 17:26 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 323.595 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Why is "the perfect way" (in your own words) not realistic?
When I stated that one could have sex with an uninfected partner and
not contract the disease, you went on about how people don't even ask, or just
met the person, etc. That shows me that you're able to see the reasons why
right there. Yet you seem blinded to it with abstinence.
| I guess I have a different perspective than most.
One that deals with what would be the best thing (preventing AIDS), but
not one that uses an approach that is realistic.
Glen
|
323.600 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | I'd rather have Jesus | Thu Sep 07 1995 18:11 | 4 |
|
Safe Snarf
|
323.601 | | TROOA::TRP109::Chris | paradigm shifting w/out a clutch | Thu Sep 07 1995 18:12 | 1 |
| Jim, nothing is 100% safe!
|
323.602 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 07 1995 23:09 | 18 |
| Printed with the permission of the "NAMESletter", a Names Project
newsletter; vol 8, no 3, Fall 1995
AIDS Facts
*The World Health Organization estimates 4.5 million cases and 3
million deaths.
*AIDS is now the leading cause of death among Americans age 25-44.
*It is the sixth leading cause of death among 15-24 year olds in the
US.
*AIDS cases among American women are increasing by 17% a year.
*Worldwide, women are the fastest-growing group with new HIV
infections.
*3,000 women a day become HIV-infected.
*Around the world, 500 women a day die from AIDS.
*By the year 2000, the cumulative total of HIV infections in men, women
and children around the world will be 30-40 million.
|
323.603 | | SCAS01::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Fri Sep 08 1995 03:13 | 1 |
| Operative word : worldwide.
|
323.604 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 08 1995 10:39 | 1 |
| <----- and you were going with that where?????
|
323.605 | | SCAS01::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Fri Sep 08 1995 12:59 | 6 |
| <----- I was going worldwide.
The report doesn't break anything down by country, geographic region,
etc...or else that isn't the whole report. Besides I'm at all
confident with the WHO, considering their previous extrapolation
of data in other cases.
|
323.606 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Sep 08 1995 14:48 | 23 |
| Note 323.599
Glen, you missed a few questions (the hard ones). How about taking a
shot at them?
> Why is "the perfect way" (in your own words) not realistic?
You answered this, but ignored the next sentence which gives it better
context to my point:
> If society were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other
> dibilitating STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)
> Do we really want to do EVERYTHING we can to stop AIDS, or don't we?
> If we do, how can we not concentrate on "the perfect way"?
These were not answered, either. Best to keep them together, since
the last question is contextually dependent on the other.
-steve
|
323.607 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Fri Sep 08 1995 15:19 | 16 |
| Steve,
As has already been pointed out to you, abstinence is not 100%
prevention for AIDS, it only prevents you from catching it through
sexual exchange of infected bodily fluids. It does not protect you
from a dentist who is sloppy with sterilization, and endoscope (which
can not be heat treated at this point and the cemicals used to
"sterilize" the endoscopy tube are useless against HIV.) It doesn't
protect you if you try to give aid to a bleeding stranger or friend who
might be HIV+. It doesn't prevent your being one of the unlucky few
whose bone, organ, or blood donor hadn't yet shown up as HIV+, or whose
screening showed a false negative, when you had surgery. It certainly
doesn't protect you in the case of coerced sex, something women are far
too familiar with.
meg
|
323.608 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | watchman on the wall | Fri Sep 08 1995 15:24 | 1 |
| ...doesn't protect you from mosquitos either.
|
323.609 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Fri Sep 08 1995 15:28 | 7 |
|
re: .607
meg,
The key to your whole reply was the two words "unlucky few"...
|
323.610 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Sep 08 1995 15:31 | 4 |
| > ...doesn't protect you from mosquitos either.
What the hell is that supposed to mean?
|
323.611 | | EVMS::MORONEY | DANGER Do Not Walk on Ceiling | Fri Sep 08 1995 15:32 | 1 |
| Catching AIDS from mosquitoes is an urban legend.
|
323.612 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Sep 08 1995 15:38 | 7 |
| Meg, since the issue of abstinence was raised to compare it's
effectiveness against condoms, you would not be fair if you
did not ask your same questions with respect to condoms...
And regarding the possibility of getting AIDS from your dentist,
the discussion around .231 seems to suggest otherwise. Y'all
need to get your act together on this point, it seems...
|
323.613 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 08 1995 16:53 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.605 by SCAS01::GUINEO::MOORE "HEY! All you mimes be quiet!" >>>
| The report doesn't break anything down by country, geographic region,
| etc...or else that isn't the whole report. Besides I'm at all
| confident with the WHO, considering their previous extrapolation
| of data in other cases.
Errr.... the majority of the report was about the US.
Glen
|
323.614 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 08 1995 16:57 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.606 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| > If society were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other
| > dibilitating STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)
Jim, it is not too much to ask, and it should be asked. But don't
expect it to happen. Do you think if you went out there now and asked everyone
who isn't married to stop having sex that they all would listen? What of those
who some Christian denominations won't allow to get married for <insert a
number of reasons>, or those who don't believe in religion and just want to
live together. You think you're gonna reach them? Not to mention those who are
only interested in getting laid period. Ask, but man, don't expect it.
| > Do we really want to do EVERYTHING we can to stop AIDS, or don't we?
| > If we do, how can we not concentrate on "the perfect way"?
Because it is not the perfect way. People being responsible is the
perfect way. If everyone was responsible, then it wouldn't matter if people
were married or not. No one would be infected.
Glen
|
323.615 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 08 1995 16:59 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.610 by MOLAR::DELBALSO "I (spade) my (dogface)" >>>
| > ...doesn't protect you from mosquitoes either.
| What the hell is that supposed to mean?
Maybe he is talking about anatomy here..... :-)
|
323.616 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Sep 08 1995 16:59 | 7 |
| Okay Meg, 100% proof against obtaining STDs in the usual manner. If
you like, you can change it to 98-99% total effectiveness, if it makes
you feel better. It is ignoring the very essense of my point, but what
the heck, no one really seems to be interested in my point, anyway.
-steve
|
323.617 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 08 1995 17:03 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.616 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| It is ignoring the very essense of my point, but what the heck, no one really
| seems to be interested in my point, anyway.
You're just noticing this now??? Wow....:-)
|
323.618 | | SCAS01::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Fri Sep 08 1995 17:18 | 3 |
| .613
Gee...are we the only country, geographic region, etc ?
|
323.619 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Baddy 48 shoes | Fri Sep 08 1995 17:20 | 1 |
| Well a lot of you seem to think so.
|
323.620 | re:606 What's this, `anything to save one life?' | ALPHAZ::HARNEY | John A Harney | Fri Sep 08 1995 17:47 | 17 |
| re: .306 (Steve)
> If society were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other
> dibilitating STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)
"If society were really interested in doing away with automobile accidents
(and other traffic fatalities), why is a 5mph absolute speed limit too much
to ask?"
The price is too high. We can attempt to control it, and to reduce the harm,
but we can never eliminate it. Extra-marital activities have been going
on since the beginning of recorded time. Your way WILL NOT WORK. No
matter how much we want to get rid of AIDS. We must sadly restort to
treating the symptoms, but there is NO OTHER WAY.
Abstinance is only part of the message. No two ways about it.
\john
|
323.621 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Fri Sep 08 1995 17:56 | 18 |
| .612 .616
OK, then let's compare a couple of things:
Hey guys, abstaining from using automobiles will have the same effect
on your chances of dying in a car as abstaining from sex will have on
your chances of dying from AIDS.
So what?
The problem is that your chances of getting everyone to abstain from
using cars is about the same as your chances of getting everyone to
abstain from sex.
So we have seatbelts and airbags, and we have condoms.
This is a religious issue, and you know it, and we know it, so it's
really no use trying to pretend otherwise. You're not fooling anyone.
|
323.622 | | DASHER::RALSTON | Idontlikeitsojuststopit!! | Fri Sep 08 1995 18:28 | 11 |
| >no one really seems to be interested in my point
I think most understand and are interested in your point Steve. If I'm
not mistaken your point is that abstinence would eventually eliminate
AIDS and other STDs (or is that 98-99%). Some boxers point out that this
isn't the case. They make good arguments. From experience in the box,
other boxers know that the issue with you is premarital sex. You think
it immoral and against god's laws, which makes it a religious issue. It
is difficult to see you making any arguments that don't stem from your
religious beliefs. FWIW, your abstinence point makes sense, but is
very impractical.
|
323.623 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 10:24 | 12 |
| re: .620
I disagree. It has worked in the past, and can work again. The
problem is, we are not WILLING to make the effort.
I realize that extra-marital affairs, pre-marrital sex, etc. happen,
and have always happened; but they were the exception to the rule. Are
you saying the rule should continue to be opposite to what worked in
the past?
-steve
|
323.624 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 11 1995 10:32 | 39 |
| | <<< Note 323.623 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| I disagree. It has worked in the past, and can work again. The problem is, we
| are not WILLING to make the effort.
Let's see.... which is more likely to happen.
Scenerio 1:
Everyone!!!! You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!
Scenerio 2:
Everyone!!!! You must become responsible with sex!
While I believe you will never get 100% out of either, I do believe
that you will get more people to be responsible with sex than you will if you
try to make them abstain altogether. Look at it now. People have become more
responsible. Being responsible is a 100% way to stop the spread of diseases.
| I realize that extra-marital affairs, pre-marrital sex, etc. happen, and have
| always happened; but they were the exception to the rule. Are you saying the
| rule should continue to be opposite to what worked in the past?
To begin with, being responsible will cover the above. Your abstaining
till marriage is a lot of bunk, as it does not cover everyone. Those who can
not marry, will not be covered. And I am talking about more than just
homosexuals.
Glen
|
323.625 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Mon Sep 11 1995 10:47 | 22 |
| Steve,
Are Syphilis, Gonnoreah, and Clamydia 20th century inventions? The
"treatment" for syphilis in the Victorian England was sexual
intercourse with a virgin girl, generally well under what we consider
the age of consent.
Preaching abstinence has not worked in the past, and there is no reason
to believe it will change peoples' behaviors in this day and age.
Education on prevention, including abstinence, safer sex procedures and
universal fluid exchange precautions has lowered the spread of AIDS,
gonnoreah, syphilis and a host of other nasties in the highest risk
groups in the US. Unfortunately that word is not being spread to the
vast majority of people, particularly youngsters where STD spread is at
a very high rate. Far too many hear the message that condoms might
fail and use no precautions, furthering the spread of STD's and unwanted
pregnancies, where the use of condoms, potential use of microbicides,
combined with spermicides might just help to stop this.
meg
meg
|
323.626 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 10:51 | 71 |
| re: .622
> I think most understand and are interested in your point Steve.
So far, the only interest I've seen has to do with telling me that it
won't work.
> If I'm
> not mistaken your point is that abstinence would eventually eliminate
> AIDS and other STDs (or is that 98-99%).
Yup.
> Some boxers point out that this
> isn't the case. They make good arguments.
I disagree. The arguments to the contrary merely back up my assertion that
people are unwilling to take AIDS seriously enough.
> From experience in the box,
> other boxers know that the issue with you is premarital sex. You think
> it immoral and against god's laws, which makes it a religious issue.
Premarrital sex is undoubtedly the major issue, simply because this is
the main thrust of the problem of spreading AIDS- any way you look at
it. I don't need to even bring up my moral stance on this issue, the
facts speak plenty loud to me without any religious filters whatsoever.
The fact that it IS against God's law, merely backs up my faith in
God's word, as I see the results of ignoring His word.
What I argue for need not even be religion related- but one of simple
logic. We know what causes the spread of AIDS. We know how to avoid
catching it. Why not put this knowledge to good use? We won't change
behaviors over night, but if we start with the younger generations and
stress this solution, AIDS will virtually vanish as this becomes THE
THING to do.
> It is difficult to see you making any arguments that don't stem from your
> religious beliefs. FWIW, your abstinence point makes sense, but is
> very impractical.
Where it stems from is irrelevent. The question you should ask is
"is this a logical, effective solution to the problem?". You say it
makes sense, but is very impractical. Why is this impractical?
Look at it logically:
* It is free- no monetary cost involved (unless you wish to count
educational peripherals, which would be very cost effective in the long
run).
* It is simple- even the dimmest bulb can comprehend it.
* It is nearly 100% effective- the MOST effective plan available.
* It would have other good side-effects in society.
* It is moral.
* It is safe and reliable.
No, it is not impractical, it is very practical. The only way it can
fail is if people do not care enough about themselves or society to
make the effort. We cannot say it will fail until we've really tried
to implement this solution. Simply saying it won't work doesn't cut
it. It DID work in the past, for the most part (there are always
exceptions, and there always will be- as long as they are exceptions,
and not the rule, we will be in good shape as a society).
-steve
|
323.627 | preaching abstinance DID work in the past in this nation | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 10:59 | 11 |
| re: .625
You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter. The epidemic
proportions of STD's is a modern drama (and no big surprise,
considering the behavioral changes over the last 30 years).
You suggest that we ignore the behavioral aspect and concentrate on the
bandaid. I disagree with placing the priority on the bandaid.
-steve
|
323.628 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:02 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 323.627 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter.
And you are completely ignoring that being responsible has a far better
chance of succeeding than abstinance does. You're also ignoring that being
responsible has the same 100% chance that abstinance does. Why do you keep
ignoring these things?
| I disagree with placing the priority on the bandaid.
Then why don't you embrace the responsibility thing? It is not a
bandaid.
Glen
|
323.629 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:03 | 9 |
| I'd sure like to see the results of an *independent* survey that would
show how many people who were brought up in a Christian tradition
have sex outside of marriage, as opposed to how many non-Christians do.
Bet that would settle a lot of these arguments real quick.
Since we have such a *big* problem with immoral sexual activity in this
country (according to some people), I wonder whether the majority of
people in this country are Christians or non-Christians. Anybody know?
|
323.630 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:21 | 4 |
| The majority of people in this country (myself included) are Christians
who have not completely lived up to the calling.
/john
|
323.631 | My belief is only God could ever live up to the calling | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:29 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.630 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| The majority of people in this country (myself included) are Christians who
| have not completely lived up to the calling.
I know the numbers say that the majority of people in this country
claim to be Christians. But what I always find pretty amusing is that many
Christians will use these numbers to prove that this is a Christian nation, but
will also say that not everyone who claims to be a Christian, is. So how can
they ever use those numbers to begin with?
But as an aside, I don't believe any Christian can live up to the
calling due to free will. imho
Glen
|
323.632 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:34 | 28 |
| re: .627, Steve
> You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter. The epidemic
> proportions of STD's is a modern drama (and no big surprise,
> considering the behavioral changes over the last 30 years).
Actually, it has far less to do with behavioral changes than it has
to do with "our shrinking planet". It's not at all unlikely for a
carrier of the HIV to be boinking/sharing needles on five different
continents in the space of a week (recall the theories about the
original vector into North America - a flight attendant.) There are
no studies which prove that behavioral changes are strictly, or even
primarily, responsible, regardless of your desire to use that argument
to bolster your moral campaign. 50 years ago, the same sort of
carrier was much less likely to be sharing bodily fluids on a worldwide
basis, but he was just as likely to spread it at home.
And, for the same reason, your moral campaign will not cause AIDS to
"virtually vanish". There are ripe, nasty, teeming pockets of the
disease all over the world at this point. Your goal to "preach and
teach" to all of them to solve this problem, is an unrealisable one.
A preventative vaccine is the only realistic way in which this health
problem will eventually get permanently solved. Just as was the case
with Poliomyelitis. In the mean time, concentrating on things that can
help (including education, condoms, and abstinence) is advised, however
touting one course, at the expense of pushing another behind the door,
is foolhardy at best.
|
323.633 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:37 | 64 |
| re: .624
>Scenerio 1:
> Everyone!!!! You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
>not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!
You are knee-jerking, Glen.
> While I believe you will never get 100% out of either, I do believe
>that you will get more people to be responsible with sex than you will if you
>try to make them abstain altogether.
As long as you are concentrating on pushing condoms, rather than
changing loose mentalities regarding sex, I agree.
> Look at it now. People have become more
>responsible. Being responsible is a 100% way to stop the spread of diseases.
Assuming people have become more responsible, why is the number of AIDS
cases expected to increase so dramatically over the next few years?
Seems so-called "responsible" sex isn't too awfully effective (and
remember, "responsible sex" campaigns have been around for a while now).
| I realize that extra-marital affairs, pre-marrital sex, etc. happen, and have
| always happened; but they were the exception to the rule. Are you saying the
| rule should continue to be opposite to what worked in the past?
> To begin with, being responsible will cover the above.
Not according to the numbers, it won't. As I said above (granting you
your point on "responsible sex"), AIDS cases are going to increase
dramatically over the next few years, according to the experts.
> Your abstaining
>till marriage is a lot of bunk, as it does not cover everyone. Those who can
>not marry, will not be covered. And I am talking about more than just
>homosexuals.
No, it isn't bunk. It is REALITY, Glen. If we are serious about
stopping this deadly disease, then this is the BEST solution- along with
checking for HIV in the blood-tests of those getting married (which may
already be a reality).
Those who cannot marry, can abstain for the good of society (ooh, I
know this one grates, but life is hard, no?). Abstaining beats the
hell out of getting AIDS and dying a horrible death. Society would
benefit greatly by reducing future AIDS cases, which would curtail
the massive increases predicted for medical expenditures- both personal
and governmental. The disease would virtually vanish over
the course of one generation. [FWIW, this is not just me spouting off
words I'll never have to live with. I do not know that I will ever
get married, so this certainly includes me now, and possibly forever;
I'm willing to do this for myself and society.]
Abstinance IS taking sexual responsibility for oneself. It is not
popular, but it is THE most effective solution, by far,
than anything else. To not at least make a good effort at implementing
this solution is irresponsible and illogical. It's akin to trying to
prevent debt by only using low-intrest rate credit cards, rather than
saving up the cash to buy the desired product.
-steve
|
323.634 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 11:38 | 3 |
| re: .629
How is this relevent to the current string?
|
323.635 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 11 1995 12:11 | 106 |
| | <<< Note 323.633 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| >Scenerio 1:
| > Everyone!!!! You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
| >not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!
| You are knee-jerking, Glen.
Steve, please tell me what is false about the above comment. You are
stating you want all sex to stop before marriage, correct? There are many people
in this world who would not fall under the marriage umbrella. Whether it be due
to their having a divorce, being gay, etc. For those people, they can never
have sex under your plan, correct? If the answer is yes to both, then were is
the knee jerking?
| > While I believe you will never get 100% out of either, I do believe
| >that you will get more people to be responsible with sex than you will if you
| >try to make them abstain altogether.
| As long as you are concentrating on pushing condoms, rather than changing
| loose mentalities regarding sex, I agree.
Tell me how you can have a plan that is 100% effective, and that 100%
of the people will go with. Then, if you would, please tell me which plan do
you think the people of this world are more likely to follow:
1) Abstinance
2) Being responsible with sex
| Assuming people have become more responsible, why is the number of AIDS cases
| expected to increase so dramatically over the next few years?
Cuz the straight people of the world had the mentality that AIDS was a
gay disease, and it wouldn't happen to them. So now their numbers are soreing.
Now people are getting the message, and the numbers will drop. Look at the gay
community. The numbers had sored. They came out with the responsibility
message. The numbers eventually dropped. They have just come out with a new
campaign for responsibility. Something I think you need to do. Fresh keeps it
in the minds of people.
| Seems so-called "responsible" sex isn't too awfully effective (and remember,
| "responsible sex" campaigns have been around for a while now).
Steve, the, "it can't happen to me" scenerio comes into play here. I do
believe this attitude is changing though.
Steve, when the gay community first came out with the responsibility
message, the numbers still rose for a while. Main reason is within the big
cities, it was easy to get the message out. In the burbs, it's much harder, or
used to be anyway. Plus people don't always listen right away. Sometimes it
takes a slap in the face to wake them up. And lastly, a campaign can start, but
it takes time to have any effect.
Now, with what you wrote above, how many of those people do you think
would have abstained? Do you think it would be higher than those who were
responsible? (btw, being responsible means you know your partner is not
infected)
| > To begin with, being responsible will cover the above.
| Not according to the numbers, it won't.
Gee.... if Sally meets Dave, and they decide to have sex that night,
what would be the responsible thing to do? Wait until you KNOW what the other
persons status is. How will that not stop the spread of the disease? How is
that not 100% effective?
| No, it isn't bunk. It is REALITY, Glen. If we are serious about stopping this
| deadly disease, then this is the BEST solution- along with checking for HIV
| in the blood-tests of those getting married (which may already be a reality).
If you are serious about stopping the disease, people have to be
responsible before they have sex.
| Those who cannot marry, can abstain for the good of society (ooh, I know this
| one grates, but life is hard, no?).
Abstain for the good of society? That's pretty funny. Have you ever
heard anyone say that two people who are not infected can have sex and never
spread the disease? So uninfected people should abstain for the good of
society? That's ridiculous because they aren't going to cause any harm to
society. Steve, is it religious convictions that is driving this? There are two
ways that I can think of that make having sex not spreadable for diseases.
Abstinance, and being responsible. You seem to be able to only embrace one of
the two versions. Again, is it because your religious convictions only allow
you to? If you were really serious about this, why wouldn't you embrace both
100% effective ways? If you were really serious about this, why wouldn't you
embrace something that has a greater chance of beating the disease than
abstinance because it would be more likely to have more people accept. But you
don't seem to be able to do that. Religious convictions?
| Abstinance IS taking sexual responsibility for oneself.
That is ONE way to be responsible. It is NOT the ONLY way though that
has a 100% effective rate.
| It is not popular, but it is THE most effective solution, by far, than
| anything else.
That is not true. Knowing your partners status is at a 100% level like
abstinance. They are the same, not different.
Glen
|
323.636 | and around and around and around and around.... | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA member | Mon Sep 11 1995 12:23 | 2 |
|
Do I hear the clicking of needles again, Deb?
|
323.637 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Darwinian Trilateralism | Mon Sep 11 1995 12:30 | 1 |
| This type of recidivism is acceptable.
|
323.638 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Mon Sep 11 1995 13:13 | 6 |
| Meg:
Spermacides are not for everyone. The package describes problems for
women, but not for men...
Steve
|
323.639 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Mon Sep 11 1995 13:22 | 12 |
| >> Everyone!!!! You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
>> not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!
> You are knee-jerking, Glen.
What, you don't agree with that now?
If that's not what you're saying, then what excatly ARE you saying?
I think Glen paraphrased you very accurately. The fact that you don't
like it merely indicates that you finally understand what it really
means.
|
323.640 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Mon Sep 11 1995 13:32 | 23 |
| >The majority of people in this country (myself included) are Christians
>who have not completely lived up to the calling.
So how do they figure the abstinence message is going to work on
everyone else if it doesn't even work on themselves?
They don't care $his is just another case of the good old hypocracy
at work -- give people a mandate they are unlikely or unwilling to
follow, then when they fail to obey it, if they have a problem, you can
step back and self-righteously proclaim, "See I told you so. If you
had just listened to me...".
It's a good technique if you're a religious leader -- means you don't
have to offer the flock anything of value, and can blame everything that
goes wrong in the world on their failure to live up to your so-called
standards. But it only works if you make sure to demand of them things
they will never be able to comply with.
That technique also has the happy side effect of keeping people on a
continuous guilt trip, for which you also happen to offer some relief,
so they'll stick with you, without which you'd be out of business.
|
323.641 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Mon Sep 11 1995 13:41 | 41 |
| Steve,
The only person who seems to think including condoms and responsible
sexual behavior means encouraging people to boff whoever, and whenever
they wish seems to be you and others who follow with the abstinence
only message as the only message. What a rich fantasy life some people
must lead about us "immoral," unmarried humans who also happen to be
sexually active. \
With a few glaring exceptions most of the single nonabstinent people I
know are careful, aware of their HIV/HPV status, and use protections of
varying forms, condoms and nonoxynol 9 combinations being the most used
around the people I know. The glaring exceptions are/were glaring
exceptions when they were officially in a monogamous relationship,
sanctioned by the state and church. Marriage doesn't automatically
make nonmonogomous people behave in a monogomous fashion, anymore than
nonmarriage makes many of us slaves to our hormones, another fantasy
many people have about single, nonabstinent people.
Teaching responsibility is more likely to result in long-term
relationships and better use of safer-sex methods, including abstinence
than trying to convince people that sex is evyl and nasty until the
minute you have nailed down another human with a piece of paper that
has a legal/religious sanction for boffing. The abstinence only
message has led kids to being "carried away by the moment," which
doesn't lead to use of even the most basic protections available. I
shudder to think about how many STD's have also been transferred
because of this message and the irresponsible actions following the
breakdown of the message.
My experience with the teen I did raise was that factual information,
along with a pointer to where certain devices were in the house, and
the availability of being able to make an appointment with my doctor
without my knowlege actually did more to delay the beginnings of sexual
activity than the lectures about waiting until marriage did for me. It
also worked for other parents who raised daughters and sons with the
responsibility messages. I expect it will work with the next two as
well, and this should reduce the guilt and side effects when/if they do
decide to become nonabstinent.
meg
|
323.642 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 15:56 | 73 |
| Note 323.632, MOLAR::DELBALSO
>> You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter. The epidemic
>> proportions of STD's is a modern drama (and no big surprise,
>> considering the behavioral changes over the last 30 years).
>Actually, it has far less to do with behavioral changes than it has
>to do with "our shrinking planet".
Though new STDs can be introduced to the US via the "shrinking
planet" scenario, the only way it can spread to epidemic proportions is
by the behavioral changes I mentioned. Look at the rates of Gonorhea
(sp?), Syphillis, and other STDs that we have statistics for over the
last 30-40 years. The only thing that can account for the expanded
rates is behavior. Even if AIDS did come from Africa, from a world
traveller (or whatever), only our behaviors can spread it.
> There are
>no studies which prove that behavioral changes are strictly, or even
>primarily, responsible, regardless of your desire to use that argument
>to bolster your moral campaign.
I don't know if there is a study or not (I bet there is), but in
reality we don't need one. Common sense should suffice. Regardless of
how many STDs are brought into this nation, they can only be spread via
a certain behavior. The looser that behavior, the more people that
will contract the diseases. This is not rocket science.
> 50 years ago, the same sort of
>carrier was much less likely to be sharing bodily fluids on a worldwide
>basis, but he was just as likely to spread it at home.
But not as likely to spread it to epiedemic proportions. If you think
this is not a behaivorally-driven epidemic, you are sadly mistaken.
>And, for the same reason, your moral campaign will not cause AIDS to
>"virtually vanish". There are ripe, nasty, teeming pockets of the
>disease all over the world at this point.
Actually, your "teeming pockets of disease" is the very reason why my
espousing abstinance IS the most effective way. Even if they find a
cure for AIDS, something else is likely to take its place (in the STD
realm). The only reason my "moral campaign" will not work, is that we,
as a nation, are unwilling to curb our behavior FOR OUR OWN GOOD.
Forget religion, it isn't about religion at all. I'm talking about
SAVING LIVES.
> Your goal to "preach and
>teach" to all of them to solve this problem, is an unrealisable one.
You may be right. But I will promote what works best. It's up to the
individual to decide if they want to heed me. I don't propose to make
laws or try to control people in any way, only to tell them that there
is a way to NOT get AIDS. It is 100% effective (exepting the few
non-sexually contracted cases). That condoms are not a cure all, they
do not equal "safe sex", but they do help reduce your chances of
contracting AIDS (I won't ignore condoms, but I refuse to STRESS the
bandaid solution). If we stress this message, and back it up as a
society, then we will make headway.
>In the mean time, concentrating on things that can
>help (including education, condoms, and abstinence) is advised, however
>touting one course, at the expense of pushing another behind the door,
>is foolhardy at best.
Who's doing this? I've never said "don't teach about condoms". You
will not find this phrase in any of my notes. What I'm tired of is the
prominance placed on condoms (the bandaid solution) over the most
effective prevention technique (abstinance). We have our priorities
out of whack, and that's why I'm on my soapbox (so to speak).
-steve
|
323.643 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 16:10 | 6 |
| re: .639
It was the wording that hinted at knee-jerk, not the message itself.
-steve
|
323.644 | sorry, couldn't get past that one sentence... | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Sep 11 1995 16:13 | 4 |
| re: .641
EGAD!!! NOT THE "SEX IS EVYL AND NASTY" STRAWMAN AGAIN!!!
AAAARRGGHHH!!!
|
323.645 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 11 1995 16:47 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.643 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| It was the wording that hinted at knee-jerk, not the message itself.
Was that why you didn't address it? By the above I get the feeling you
got the jist of what was being said. Is this true?
|
323.646 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 11 1995 16:48 | 6 |
|
Steve, if you have time, please address .635. Thanks.
Glen
|
323.647 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Sat Sep 16 1995 13:51 | 5 |
| re .624
So what exactly is "responsibility", Glen.
Does it still include serial monogamy?
|
323.648 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Sat Sep 16 1995 14:01 | 29 |
| <<< Note 323.625 by CSC32::M_EVANS "nothing's going to bring him back" >>>
> Preaching abstinence has not worked in the past,
You repeat it a lot, but you really only present words. Sure,
there were always transgressions against the moral codes, but
nothing like the rates we have today. Preaching abstinence
*DID* work. There are far fewer people entering marriage today
as virgins than there were in the past. There are far more teens
getting STDs, far more out-of-wedlock pregnancies, far more
abortions. And far less "preaching" of abstinence.
Your words ring hollow.
> Education on prevention, including abstinence, safer sex procedures and
> universal fluid exchange precautions has lowered the spread of AIDS,
> gonnoreah, syphilis and a host of other nasties in the highest risk
> groups in the US.
And those high risk groups now rejoice in the spread of it to
other groups as the burden of the disease is diluted from being
primarily on their shoulders. But the spread continues, and THAT
is what really matters! Education has NOT stopped the spread.
> Far too many hear the message that condoms might
> fail and use no precautions,
Where did you come up with this one? Please provide some support
for this statement.
|
323.649 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Sat Sep 16 1995 14:04 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.641 by CSC32::M_EVANS "nothing's going to bring him back" >>>
> than trying to convince people that sex is evyl and nasty until the
> minute you have nailed down another human with a piece of paper that
> has a legal/religious sanction for boffing.
How sad that this is the only thing you see in marriage.
Society has failed you if that's all you see, and to the
extent that this viewpoint is growing today, society has
failed us all in this area.
|
323.650 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sat Sep 16 1995 20:35 | 64 |
| Condoms Don't Work
Despite the positive estimation of condoms offered by past U.S. surgeon
generals and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), scientific research shows
that condoms don't work. Laboratory testing and real-life use have proven
condoms to be failures. Since determining what is a "failure" can be a matter
of opinion, a summary analysis of the research might help.
Dr. Ronald F. Carey, a researcher for the Food and Drug Administration, tested
89 condoms in a machine that simulates sexual intercourse. The condoms were
purchased from retail store shelves and represented major brands. Carey found
that "leakage of HIV-sized particles...was detectable for as many as 29 of 89
condoms" in quantities sufficient to cause infection.4
Dr. Susan Weller of the University of Texas conducted an analysis of 11
separate studies regarding condom efficacy in actual use. Collectively, these
studies show that latex condoms had an average failure rate of 31 percent in
protecting against HIV.5 Weller explains, "Since contraceptive research
indicates condoms are about 90 percent effective in preventing pregnancy, many
people, even physicians, assume condoms prevent HIV transmission with the same
degree of effectiveness. However, HIV transmission studies do not show this to
be true."
Dr. Richard Gordon, associate professor in the Departments of Botany,
Radiology, Electrical Engineering and Physics at the University of Manitoba,
concurs with Weller.
There is "already sufficient quantitative evidence to indicate that condoms, as
presently manufactured, are inadequate from the point of the individual for
lifetime protection for the AIDS epidemic, even with training and high
motivation," Gordon said.6
People Don't Use Condoms
Even if condom makers created the "golden condom" that did work perfectly, it
still would not solve the problem of STDs. The simple reason is that people
don't use them, even with high motivation and quality education. This fact
consistently comes up in research.
Family Planning Perspectives, a former affiliate journal of Planned Parenthood,
reports that "only 17 percent of those with multiple sexual partners and 13
percent of those with risky sexual partners used condoms all of the
time... Among respondents with risky partners, 13 percent reported high use, 4
percent reported moderate use and 70 percent reported no use."7 Dr. Kate Stone,
medical epidemiologist for the CDC, recently stated, "Despite CDC's heavy
promotion of condom use, people are not using them."8
Two particular studies9 widely cited by the CDC, both involving heterosexual,
monogamous couples where one partner was HIV positive and the other negative,
reveal much about the habits of condom usage. To participate in the studies,
couples were required to receive aggressive safe sex counseling. Given these
very favorable conditions - high motivation (having sex with a person known to
be infected with HIV); aggressive education (attending detailed safe-sex
counseling every six months); and concern for the well-being of their partner
(each participant was in a long-term monogamous relationship) - only half could
be motivated to use condoms consistently.
This statistic is even more troubling when one considers that 83 percent of
people having sex with multiple partners believe they are not at risk for HIV,
and that their behavior is safe.10 If the highly motivated, highly educated
group cannot use condoms consistently, why should anyone expect condom use from
those who think their behavior is safe?
Source: http://cc.org/cc/camag/ca0911.html
|
323.651 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Sun Sep 17 1995 10:47 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.647 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| So what exactly is "responsibility", Glen.
| Does it still include serial monogamy?
KNOWING your partners status before you have sex. That works 100% of
the time.
Glen
|
323.652 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | I'd rather have Jesus | Sun Sep 17 1995 16:14 | 12 |
|
> KNOWING your partners status before you have sex. That works 100% of
>the time.
Wonder how many people have been infected when they KNEW their partner's
status..only the partner was lying?
Jim
|
323.653 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Sun Sep 17 1995 22:51 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.652 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "I'd rather have Jesus" >>>
| Wonder how many people have been infected when they KNEW their partner's
| status..only the partner was lying?
Jim, that is not knowing, now is it? Knowing is being tested together.
Glen
|
323.654 | | RUSURE::GOODWIN | We upped our standards, now up yours! | Mon Sep 18 1995 10:57 | 12 |
| .650
Sounds like you can't motivate people much into safer sexual behavior
even when they can still have sex. So how do you figure to motivate
those same people to forgo sex altogether?
I suspect the most good will come out of the fact that people are at
least telling young people *something* about sex, rather than just
ignoring the whole issue as so many parents and schools used to do.
The content of the message may not be nearly as important as the fact
that there is a message.
|
323.655 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Mon Sep 18 1995 14:22 | 9 |
| re .650
More reason for developing microbicides for receptive partners, as well
as continuing to encourage people to use condoms.
Side note: must be one heck-uv-a machine. Wonder who tested it to
make sure it truly mimicked sexual intercourse?
meg
|
323.656 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Petite Chambre des Maudites | Mon Sep 18 1995 14:25 | 4 |
|
<-- I don't EVEN want to think about that.
|
323.657 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Sep 18 1995 14:25 | 4 |
| ZZ Side note: must be one heck-uv-a machine. Wonder who tested it to
ZZ make sure it truly mimicked sexual intercourse?
It worked on the "Sleeper". I think it was called the Orgasmitron.
|
323.658 | Don't know the last line | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Sep 19 1995 00:54 | 6 |
|
There once was a man from Racine
Who invented a *ing machine
Both concave and convex
It could fit either sex
|
323.659 | "Eye Aqqsept zis ShawLounge," as Inspecteur Clouseau would seaay... | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC: ReClaim TheName&Glory! | Tue Sep 19 1995 05:06 | 23 |
| There once was a man from Racine
Who invented a *ing machine
Both concave and convex
It could fit either sex
And was made from organic baleen.
And was burnished to a glossy sheen.
And was furnished in chintz, puce, & green.
And was first shipped to Prince, then to Queen.
And was shipped with a smut magazine.
There once was a man from Racine
Who invented a *ing machine
Both concave and convex
It could fit either sex
But was really a challenge to clean.
|-{:-)
|
323.660 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Rogering and IPA | Tue Sep 19 1995 09:07 | 1 |
| ... and mmm-BOY could it make you scream!
|
323.661 | eeN, not eeM, you NINNY. Feh on .660 ... :-) | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC: ReClaim TheName&Glory! | Tue Sep 19 1995 09:12 | 1 |
|
|
323.662 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 12:04 | 13 |
|
I have been told that if I was really serious about trying to stop the
spread of the disease that I should embrace the only 100% way of stopping the
spreading of the disease, abstinance. I explained that there is another 100%
method, which is KNOWING your partners status. So I have to ask these same
people, will you embrace this method too? If not, what stands in the way of
this other 100% method?
Glen
|
323.663 | Gloom and doom | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Sep 19 1995 12:18 | 3 |
| It just ain't moral, Glen. What with society collapsin' all around us
and all, it's just bound to be nasty.
|
323.664 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 12:53 | 11 |
|
Jack, I have a feeling that religious convictions will come into play
here. But I figure that I was told that if I was to be serious about it, go
with the 100% method. Now if religious convictions is what keeps them from also
embracing, "knowing your partners status", then does that mean their religious
convictions are keeping them from being serious about it?
Glen
|
323.665 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 12:53 | 4 |
|
I wanna
|
323.666 | Terrie, no one will be upset at you for this snarf! :-) | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 12:54 | 4 |
|
DEVIL SNARF!!!!!
|
323.668 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | NRA fighting for our RIGHTS | Tue Sep 19 1995 13:58 | 2 |
|
Shouldn't that be fondle?
|
323.669 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 14:07 | 34 |
| ZZ It just ain't moral, Glen. What with society collapsin' all around us
ZZ and all, it's just bound to be nasty.
Jack, how many abortions does this country experience every year? How
many broken homes and illigitamate children are in the world today? We
haven't even touched on the STD issue here. Your cynical appearance
above leads me to believe you don't have a whole lot of regard for
those who have moral convictions regarding sex and its context.
If you really think about it Jack, premarital sex can be contrued as a
devaluation of the opposite sex...considering this is something I've
been pondering in my own attitudes, perhaps we should all become grown
ups here and consider the possibility. Sex without commitment is in my
opinion, nothing greater than enfatuation and the utilizing of another
person for personal gratification. People don't want to admit it but
it is unfortunately true. Premarital sex erodes the trust factor and
hence there you have it...high divorce rates.
The data and the trends exist and simply can't be ignored.
Re: Glen:
Glen, I believe the ultimate in irresponsibility is not to inform ones
partner as to the status of their health. However, it is not 100%
effective against the fight of AIDS. People still boink regardless.
There was an article in the Village Voice about a year ago written by a
prominent gay rights advocate in New York. He was propogating the idea
of having sex anyway...the idea being the risk of catching AIDS makes
the experience more exciting. Now reasonable people such as yourself
would obviously forego this attitude. However, many many would not!
No boink....no disease!
-Jack
|
323.670 | | DASHER::RALSTON | Idontlikeitsojuststopit!! | Tue Sep 19 1995 14:25 | 6 |
| >Sex without commitment is in my opinion, nothing greater than enfatuation
>and the utilizing of another person for personal gratification.
Sex of any kind between consenting adults can be fun, gratifying and
commitment free. I didn't realize that personal gratification was a
sin.
|
323.671 | I would't say knowing status is 100% safe .... | BRITE::FYFE | | Tue Sep 19 1995 14:27 | 5 |
|
Knowing your partners status is a good thing. But partners can and do cheat and
there is no telling what they will bring home.
Doug.
|
323.672 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 14:40 | 38 |
| | <<< Note 323.669 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, I believe the ultimate in irresponsibility is not to inform ones partner
| as to the status of their health.
Informing is not a 100% way of knowing. Being tested together is.
| However, it is not 100% effective against the fight of AIDS. People still
| boink regardless.
Jack, then I guess we should throw out the abstinance stuff, right? Cuz
people will still boink. I also see now that you must support condoms, as where
people will still boink, they should take any and all precautions that are out
there. So tell me Jack, is this a true picture of you? Or is JUST the
abstinance part of this picture apart of you? And btw, like abstinance, knowing
your partners status is 100% effective for anyone who wishes to use it.
| There was an article in the Village Voice about a year ago written by a
| prominent gay rights advocate in New York. He was propogating the idea of
| having sex anyway...the idea being the risk of catching AIDS makes the
| experience more exciting.
Now there is a stupid man.
| Now reasonable people such as yourself would obviously forego this attitude.
| However, many many would not!
So abstinance is a solution that is more likely to work than boinking
responsibly?
| No boink....no disease!
Boink with an uninfected partner, no disease! Are you going to embrace
it?
Glen
|
323.673 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 14:43 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.671 by BRITE::FYFE >>>
| Knowing your partners status is a good thing. But partners can and do cheat
| and there is no telling what they will bring home.
Doug, I agree. But a piece of paper saying one is married doesn't seem
to stop everyone from boinking outside of the lines either.
Glen
|
323.674 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Sep 19 1995 15:19 | 17 |
| > Your cynical appearance
> above leads me to believe you don't have a whole lot of regard for
> those who have moral convictions regarding sex and its context.
Odd that it didn't lead you to believe how goddam sick
and tired I am of hearing you pontificate about
how_other_people_really_should_oughta_wanna_do_like_you_say,
which would have been more to the point.
For the umpty-umpth time, Jack, ranting on about your moral beliefs
is not going to make people agree with them, no matter how much
you'd prefer to the contrary. This is a fact of life. Get used to it.
We all are painfully aware of your position on these matters. You
may chose to believe it or not, but I can even respect you for your
moral beliefs. But I don't wanna hear about 'em every freakin' time
I hit KP3.
|
323.675 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Sep 19 1995 15:27 | 7 |
| >...nothing greater than enfatuation...
It could be that, I suppose, but I think that infatuation is probably
the word you were looking for. 8^)
-steve
|
323.676 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 16:42 | 29 |
| ZZ But I don't wanna hear about 'em every freakin' time
ZZ I hit KP3.
Jack:
And you don't hear it from me every freakin time you hit PK3. I
imagine the purpose of this string is to discuss the spread of AIDS,
the treatment of AIDS, and possible ways to save our fellow man from
contracting same.
It would appear that you consider the morality aspect of sex a non
issue here. That even though the undeniable fact remains that a no
boink way of life is in fact the best way to curb abortions, disease,
illigitamacy and the like, people seem to be sick and tired of hearing
it.
Like I have said before, I think people should be allowed to act on
their private lives in the quiet of their own home...and do so without
interruptous..err..interruption. Just so long as the outcome doesn't
effect me personally.....ouuuuuuu but there's the rub...IT DOES effect
me doesn't it Jack? People don't realize this but when they are given
creedance by society to act as they wish...without responsibility, then
all of the sudden I am the coniving bigot when my sympathy meter
doesn't exactly break the mercury point. Doesn't this just piss you
off too Jack? I mean...these people in society yell and scream you
aren't minding your business...then when the day of reckoning arrives
we are the bad guy for not having a heart.
-Jack
|
323.677 | ah, yes, commitment... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Frustrated Incorporated | Tue Sep 19 1995 16:45 | 5 |
|
re, "commitment-free" - or, if that doesn't work, you can give
her a commitment, and welsh later
bb
|
323.678 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 16:58 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 323.676 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| It would appear that you consider the morality aspect of sex a non issue here.
| That even though the undeniable fact remains that a no boink way of life is in
| fact the best way to curb abortions, disease, illigitamacy and the like,
| people seem to be sick and tired of hearing it.
Jack, that is one way, not the only. Being responsible is also another
sure fire way. Remember, abortions are legal. So curbing them may not be
something people would want to do cuz it's legal. Disease is not a factor with
being responsible. Maybe if you would include being responsible into your talk,
people would see that you're serious about this. But your flavor of religion
has clouded the issue it appears. If it hasn't, then explain why you won't back
being responsible.
Glen
|
323.679 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:17 | 32 |
| ZZ Jack, that is one way, not the only.
Correct. That is what I said...the BEST way.
Being responsible is also another
sure fire way. Remember, abortions are legal. So curbing them may not be
something people would want to do cuz it's legal.
Correct again. However, it would be extremely hypocritical considering
the pro choice voice in this country is ".....gasp...abortion is a sad
horrible thing...but it is necessary and should be a right....let us
not judge but support these poor unfortunate souls." Spare me!
ZZ Disease is not a factor with being responsible. Maybe if you would
ZZ include being responsible into your talk,
ZZ people would see that you're serious about this.
Glen, how specifically am I being irresponsible in my communication
here? Are you referring to my lack of sensitivity? If so, then the
obvious question is...why is it the onus of society to take care of
those who intentionally act irresponsible?
ZZ But your flavor of religion
ZZ has clouded the issue it appears. If it hasn't, then explain why you
ZZ won't back being responsible.
I do back being responsible...but I'm a realist. AIDS testing isn't
that simple. I understood it to take a few months for accuracy. I
just believe people have convinced themselves that horniness and human
natural conditions supercede the need to wait for an AIDS test.
-Jack
|
323.680 | nnttm | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:20 | 4 |
|
.679 supersede
|
323.681 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:35 | 52 |
| | <<< Note 323.679 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| ZZ Jack, that is one way, not the only.
| Correct. That is what I said...the BEST way.
It is NOT the best way. Each of the 2 ways have a 100% effective rate
when the couple use it. How can 100% be better than 100%?
| Correct again. However, it would be extremely hypocritical considering the
| pro choice voice in this country is ".....gasp...abortion is a sad horrible
| thing...but it is necessary and should be a right....let us not judge but
| support these poor unfortunate souls." Spare me!
Jack, where do you get this stuff?
| Glen, how specifically am I being irresponsible in my communication here? Are
| you referring to my lack of sensitivity?
No. You have 2 methods that both have a 100% effectiveness rating when
used. You will only embrace 1 out of the two. Seeing both are 100% effective,
if you can't back both to stop AIDS, you are being irresponsible. Why would
anyone not embrace all methods that would stop the spread of the disease at a
100% rating is beyond me.
| I do back being responsible...
This is the first I heard of this. Then it should be ok for people to
mention both in schools, right?
| but I'm a realist. AIDS testing isn't that simple.
I take it you have not had one? You go there, you discuss things with
the counselor, you get blood drawn. You go back two weeks later and sit with
the counselor again. You find out your results. Reason for the counselor being
there is because if you are HIV+, you have someone to talk to instantly.
| I understood it to take a few months for accuracy.
3 months.
| I just believe people have convinced themselves that horniness and human
| natural conditions supersede the need to wait for an AIDS test.
Jack, what you wrote above is the same response for abstinence. Yet you
want to push it. If you are willing to push for abstinence, then you should be
willing to push for being responsible. Both are 100% effective when put into
use. Both can have what you wrote above be used against it.
Glen
|
323.682 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:38 | 30 |
| > It would appear that you consider the morality aspect of sex a non
> issue here. That even though the undeniable fact remains that a no
> boink way of life is in fact the best way to curb abortions, disease,
> illigitamacy and the like, people seem to be sick and tired of hearing
> it.
It's most definitely a nonissue when it involves people who act responsibly.
regardless of what their matrital status is. You seem to get off on your
holier than thou "I'm a good married man in the eyes of society and my god"
crappola, when there are plenty of folks out there who are just as responsible
as you are without the papers of your government or your church to grant
them a sanctioned union. And they aren't all spreading disease and creating
unwanted pregnancies. And they aren't all switching partners on a regular
basis. And they aren't all living lewd, promiscuous lives.
> Like I have said before, I think people should be allowed to act on
> their private lives in the quiet of their own home...and do so without
> interruptous..err..interruption. Just so long as the outcome doesn't
> effect me personally.....ouuuuuuu but there's the rub...IT DOES effect
> me doesn't it Jack?
No, it doesn't Jack. It doesn't effect you one damn bit in any number of
cases where people who haven't your religious and moral compunctions,
but who have every bit as much responsibility as you do, live their lives
privately in a situation of which your morals may disapprove. If you
want to complain about people who AREN'T responsible, that would be one
thing, but instead, as is your wont, you decide to take both the responsible
ones AND the irresponsible ones and put them all in the nasty_blasphemous_
sinning_lascivious_worthless_immoral_pigs scummy little box.
|
323.683 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:40 | 15 |
| ZZ It is NOT the best way. Each of the 2 ways have a 100%
ZZ effective rate when the couple use it. How can 100% be better than 100%?
Your way is not 100% Glen unless testing in the whole world has 100%
accuracy rate. Can you claim this?
I can claim that Jesus was born of a virgin but nobody else has to my
knowledge.
Re: Abortion...I was giving an irrelevent answer to an irrelevent
question. Just because it is legal doesn't mean it shouldn't be
curbed...especially by the rhetoric of the pro choice camp.
-Jack
|
323.684 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:43 | 11 |
| ZZ | I do back being responsible...
ZZ This is the first I heard of this. Then it should be ok for
ZZ people to mention both in schools, right?
Tough one to answer. I believe the responsibility lies with the
parents, the local church, and private organizations where parents may
want their children to get this kind of information...yes, like Planned
Parenthood. I don't trust PP enough to take part in the schools.
-Jack
|
323.685 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:46 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.683 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| ZZ It is NOT the best way. Each of the 2 ways have a 100%
| ZZ effective rate when the couple use it. How can 100% be better than 100%?
| Your way is not 100% Glen unless testing in the whole world has 100% accuracy
| rate. Can you claim this?
It's the same test. Of course it is.
| Re: Abortion...I was giving an irrelevent answer to an irrelevent question.
| Just because it is legal doesn't mean it shouldn't be curbed...especially by
| the rhetoric of the pro choice camp.
Jack, it is legal, and a red herring in this discussion. I would like
to see it curbed, but this discussion does not have anything to do with that.
Glen
|
323.686 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:51 | 19 |
| Jack:
Fine. Then help me with this one. e are talking disease here...that's
all. If you have a hooker who sleeps around and after two years
contracts AIDS. Then in the other scenario, you have a young man who
meets a woman at a bar, has a few drinks, brings her home...and
subsequently contracts the AIDS virus.
See Jack, the point here isn't that the young man is just as lascivious
and immoral as the hooker. To me, that was determined at his birth.
The point I am making is that as a human race, there is NOBODY who is
less sinful than another...most assuredly including myself. Yes...I am
just as bad as the hooker and have skeletons in my closet like the next
person. The whole crux of this Jack is since we are ALL susceptible
to the same desires and temptations as everybody else, it seems to me
as an observer of life is to avoid certain situations which may result
in a short life.
-Jack
|
323.687 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Sep 19 1995 17:53 | 8 |
| ZZZ It's the same test. Of course it is.
Trust in the testing methodologies of mankind.
I call that blind faith Glen. Putting one's trust in Abbott Labs is
foolhardy!
-Jack
|
323.688 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Sep 19 1995 18:57 | 6 |
| re: .686, Our Jack Martin
I think I'm coming to the conclusion that I should have quite some time ago,
Jack. The fact of the matter is that you really are incapable of discerning
between immorality and irresponsibility. It's quite sad, actually.
|
323.689 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Sep 20 1995 01:08 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.651 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| So what exactly is "responsibility", Glen.
> KNOWING your partners status before you have sex. That works 100% of
>the time.
You have said that the only sure way to know your partner's
status is testing.
Since it is general consensus here that teens are going to
have sex, should I suppose then that you advocate mandatory
testing for teens?
I KNEW my partner's status (and she knew mine) because we were
both virgins. I find it more likely that people can know
their partner's status if more were virgins.
You see my position as pie-in-the-sky. Fair enough. I equally
(even more so) see as pie-in-the-sky the expectation that
everyone about to engage in sex is going to be concerned
about their partners' status before diving in. This dream
is all the more implausible in your moral-devoid world because
of the turnover of partners over time.
|
323.690 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Sep 20 1995 01:10 | 6 |
| <<< Note 323.667 by CALLME::MR_TOPAZ >>>
> Abstinence makes the hard grow fonder.
You say this with disdain, but it is oh so true. Ask any
couple properly practicing natural family planning (NFP).
|
323.691 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Sep 20 1995 01:11 | 7 |
| <<< Note 323.678 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Remember, abortions are legal.
You might want to be careful with that reasoning.
Remember, denying same-sex marriages is legal...
|
323.692 | | KERNEL::PLANTC | Never tell me the odds! | Wed Sep 20 1995 09:15 | 8 |
|
abstinance isn't 100% effective because there are loads of cases where
people have contracted this disease through tainted blood.
Chris
:)
|
323.693 | | POWDML::CKELLY | The Proverbial Bad Penny | Wed Sep 20 1995 09:57 | 10 |
| glen-
on testing, all in the same note, first you indicate you can get the
results in 2 weeks, then a few lines later, you mention 3 months?
Which is it? And what of the accuracy? We've all heard of false
negatives and the like, so why not enter some more information about
testing rather than just tell everyone to be tested? More specifics
about what's involved, time frames, accuracy, effect of accuracy if
participating in 'safe-sex' during the period in which you are awaiting
the results.....
|
323.694 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:08 | 7 |
| Oh Jack, I most definitely understand the difference between
irresponsibility and immorality. Irresponsibility involves
wrecklessness and immorality deviates from a set standard. I just
happen to see standards as a viable way of measuring ones true
character.
-Jack
|
323.695 | | CNTROL::JENNISON | Revive us, Oh Lord | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:13 | 29 |
|
Glen,
Are you saying that the recommended practice is
1) find a partner 2) abstain from sex 3) wait at least
3 months, with both partners being absolutely sure that
neither is having sex with anyone else 4) receive AIDS test
5) wait for results 6) boink if negative ?
Further, are you saying that this is a common practice ?
Even if the above were practiced, I would not say it's 100%.
Where did you get your figures that state that the AIDS test
is 100% accurate ? This is the first I've heard of it.
****
I was listening to a doctor speaking on a radio program, and
he said that at a doctor's conference in New York, with some
120 doctors present, the speaker asked how many of them would
have sex with a person that they knew was HIV+, using a condom
for protection. Every single doctor there said they would *not*
do so. (I forget the specifics of the event, and can only remember
the final result - none of the doctors would have trusted a
condom to protect them from HIV).
Karen
|
323.696 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:19 | 23 |
| Well, then, why the hell must you continue to drag morality into THIS
discussion?
You said it yourself - this topic is about a disease and how to prevent its
spread. The ways of doing that are practical ways having everything to do
with responsibility and having nothing to do with morality.
Let's assume for a moment that we were talking about polio in the 50's.
People could be as "moral" as you like, but if they didn't act responsibly,
by ensuring that their children and themselves carefully followed the
Salk vaccine/innoculation plans, they would be guilty of continuing to spread
the disease which had plagued humanity for generations but which was within
reason of being eliminated. Was it "immoral" for people to not comply with
the program? IT DOESN'T MATTER! Because the more important matter was that
it was IRRESPONSIBLE.
The same goes for AIDS. So, if you'd like to confine your discussion here
to the issue of RESPONSIBILITY, you'll likely find that we're all reading
the same page. If, on the other hand, you insist on continuing to attack
this whole matter from a standpoint of MORALITY, then you deserve the
catcalls and derision that you will continue to receive.
This is NOT a moral problem, Jack.
|
323.697 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:19 | 6 |
| .694
> Irresponsibility involves
> wrecklessness
No, actually, irresponsibility often involves getting wrecked.
|
323.698 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | I'd rather have Jesus | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:19 | 6 |
|
I bet those doctors were all part of the dreaded religious right (tm).
|
323.699 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:24 | 7 |
|
re: .696
Sorry Jack... bad example...
Polio is not (mainly) a sexually transmitted disease...
|
323.700 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:24 | 1 |
| HIV negative snarf!
|
323.701 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:28 | 7 |
| You miss the point entirely, Andy.
Responsibility is the issue. Preventing the spread of the disease is the issue.
The fact that AIDS may be spread through sexual contact is simply the excuse
that Our Jack Martin and his ilk can use to ram a morality sermon down
peoples' throats, which totally ignores the real problem.
|
323.702 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:31 | 12 |
|
No Jack....
In society, today's and the past, sexuality and morality went hand in
hand...
It continues today...
You have to understand that to many people, morality and responsibility
go hand in hand....
|
323.703 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:31 | 12 |
| ZZ IT DOESN'T MATTER! Because the more important matter was that
ZZ it was IRRESPONSIBLE.
Exactly. I don't deny this. Not immunizing in my mind is wreckless.
Okay....I see your point. Since morality is based on standards, and
since standards vary from person to person, then it might be safe to
assume that wreckless behavior can be driven by ones standards of
conduct (or lack of standards). I don't believe the two are always
mutually exclusive.
-Jack
|
323.704 | reckless... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:34 | 1 |
|
|
323.705 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:35 | 1 |
| Uhhh....sorry
|
323.706 | Don't squash that rathole ! | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Frustrated Incorporated | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:52 | 15 |
|
I don't think it so terrible, logically, to consider the pros&cons
of promiscuity when discussing diseases often resulting from sex.
After all, we've sort of exhausted the topic, no ? AIDS is a 100%
fatal disease with, currently, no known cure. Lots of researchers
all over the world are seeking a treatment, as they should be, but
what do the rest of us do in the meantime ? Sure, promiscuous people
can reduce their risks by various means. But is it not relevant to
consider whether promiscuity is such a wise lifestyle choice in any
event ? There seems to be a contention in here that, in the absence
of such diseases, promiscuity would be everybody's choice. I don't
believe it.
bb
|
323.707 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:54 | 6 |
| > You have to understand that to many people, morality and responsibility
> go hand in hand....
And the point remains that people can live "immorally" by Our Jack Martin's
standards and still behave perfectly "responsibly". So attempting to claim
that they BELONG hand in hand is ludicrous.
|
323.708 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:57 | 10 |
|
>So attempting to claim that they BELONG hand in hand is ludicrous.
Jack... you're not listening....
You may say that... believe it... and live by it. To many people they
do BELONG hand in hand...
Just because you don't think so, is no reason that it doesn't exist...
|
323.709 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 10:58 | 8 |
| re: <<< Note 323.706 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Frustrated Incorporated" >>>
But, no one's attempting to promote promiscuity as an adviseable course.
Responsible people who are not promiscuous can still be immoral by our
Jack Martin's standards. Jack is complaining about their moral turpitude,
which is NOT the issue at all.
|
323.710 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:02 | 13 |
|
>In society, today's and the past, sexuality and morality went hand in
>hand...
More bowdlerised history. During the Victorian era when
"moral" standards reached a peak, so did prostitution in London.
It was so high that economists calculated that every man in London
must have visited a prostitute 2.5 times per week in order to generate
levels of income that would have sustained the population of
prostitutes.
|
323.711 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:03 | 14 |
| re: <<< Note 323.708 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
Uh - run that one past me again?
Someone lives immorally, but responsibly and they become part of the problem
by default because of their lack of morality?
Yes - this is certainly what Our Jack Martin is claiming as he stuffs them
all into his scummy little box.
The fact reamins that Jack is logically and practically wrong to do so.
Those responsible people ARE NOT contributing to the problem, regardless
of their morality in Jack's eyes.
|
323.712 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:07 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.686 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Yes...I am just as bad as the hooker and have skeletons in my closet like the
| next person.
Jack, did they come with the house or are you a murderer on the side?
|
323.713 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:16 | 39 |
| | <<< Note 323.689 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Since it is general consensus here that teens are going to have sex, should I
| suppose then that you advocate mandatory testing for teens?
I hadn't even thought of that Joe. I was looking at it in the line of
abstinance works 100% of the time when used. Being responsible works 100% of
the time when used. I was also looking to see if the same people who promote
abstinence would promote being responsible as well.
But to answer your question, I don't have an answer. To be honest, I
don't think it is a good idea, because while one should get tested, they should
be tested together, so that both people KNOW the others status. So I guess I
would say no.
| I KNEW my partner's status (and she knew mine) because we were both virgins.
Again, like the status of a person, one can tell you anything. It may
not always be true. In your case it appears to be true. What do you do with one
who said they were a virgin, but really wasn't?
| I find it more likely that people can know their partner's status if more were
| virgins.
And add in the disclaimer that the other person did not lie.
| You see my position as pie-in-the-sky. Fair enough. I equally (even more so)
| see as pie-in-the-sky the expectation that everyone about to engage in sex is
| going to be concerned about their partners' status before diving in.
It is pie-in-the-sky. Both ways will only work if people use them. But
abstinence is NOT the only way one can stop the spread of the disease. But I
believe it is the only way you would embrace, or tell others about. Am I
correct?
Glen
|
323.714 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:19 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.689 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
|This dream is all the more implausible in your moral-devoid world because of
| the turnover of partners over time.
Missed this part. You really don't get it, do you. You could have 20
uninfected people involved in an orgy, and the HIV virus will not be spread to
any of them. How many is not the issue, the staus of the partner(s) is. While
you can continue to make claims otherwise, you can not change the fact that 2
uninfected people can have all the unprotected sex they want, and never
contract, or give out the HIV virus.
Glen
|
323.715 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:23 | 29 |
| > This is not a moral problem, Jack.
The lack of morality is what leads to the irresponsibility that Jack is
talking about. Maybe some take precautions to try to limit unwanted
results (disease/pregnancies), but this is only being cautious in my
eyes, not responsible. I'll agree it is better to be cautious than to
not take any precautions.
I think the societal mentality is that wearing a condom is acting
responsibly. Since condoms are far from 100% in preventing pregnancies
or the spread of HIV, just how "responsible" is it really? Leaving
religion out of it entirely, I still see the most responsible behavior
as being that of abstinance until marriage. It is the one pattern that
will do the most in stopping the spread of disease, as well as the
epidemic of unwanted pregnancies.
Logically, if you look at just what the "high-risk" behavior is (for
STDs and unwanted pregnancies), it only makes sense to abstain from
this behavior until a point in time that you will be joined with one
mate for life- and that your future mate does, as well. You need not
be religious at all to see that this is the best way to approach this
problem.
We are obfusicating terms, IMO, by calling high-risk behavior
"responsible" as long as you are wearing a condom.
-steve
|
323.716 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:26 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.693 by POWDML::CKELLY "The Proverbial Bad Penny" >>>
| on testing, all in the same note, first you indicate you can get the results
| in 2 weeks, then a few lines later, you mention 3 months? Which is it?
'tine..... I went back and reread my notes. I did not see anything that
said 2 weeks. The closest I came to 2 weeks was 2 ways. Could you provide a
pointer for me?
| And what of the accuracy? We've all heard of false negatives and the like, so
| why not enter some more information about testing rather than just tell
| everyone to be tested?
'tine, good point.
| More specifics about what's involved, time frames, accuracy, effect of
| accuracy if participating in 'safe-sex' during the period in which you are
| awaiting the results.....
I have some literature at home that will have specifics. I will give
you what I know off the top of my head. Time frames, if it's what I think you
mean, are to not have had sex with anyone for 3 months before getting tested.
Accuracy is 100%. You get tested twice.
Glen
|
323.717 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:28 | 26 |
| | <<< Note 323.695 by CNTROL::JENNISON "Revive us, Oh Lord" >>>
| 1) find a partner 2) abstain from sex 3) wait at least 3 months, with both
| partners being absolutely sure that neither is having sex with anyone else
| 4) receive AIDS test 5) wait for results 6) boink if negative ?
That's how it works.
| Further, are you saying that this is a common practice ?
Couldn't tell you if others do this, but I know many who do.
| Even if the above were practiced, I would not say it's 100%.
I know you wouldn't say it.
| Where did you get your figures that state that the AIDS test is 100% accurate?
| This is the first I've heard of it.
The pamphlets that are handed out from the Fenway hospital that does
the testing.
Glen
|
323.718 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:38 | 12 |
| .702
You're missing the point, too, Andy. The essential problem is DISEASE
PREVENTION. The fact that this particular disease happens to be spread
by sexual transmission, as well as by other vectors, is irrelevant. To
stop spreading a disease, we do whatever it takes. ONE of the possible
methods is sexual abstinence, but that won't prevent infection by any
of the other known methods.
To insist that others, who do not accept even your concept of a god,
let alone your concept of the moral code imposed by acceptance of that
god, should live by that moral code is the height of arrogance.
|
323.719 | Hypothetical... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Frustrated Incorporated | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:45 | 11 |
|
But Binder, it is one of those cases where a very few people
can drastically affect the outcome. Suppose we had an extreme
society, with 50-60 million sexually active women, each of whom
had exactly two partners in a decade - their SO, and Wilt Chamberlain.
All of the SO's are purely monogamous. Do you see how you could
stop AIDS in this extreme case ?
Behavior patterns of the FEW can be critical here.
bb
|
323.720 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Wed Sep 20 1995 11:58 | 11 |
| .719
I agree that behavior pattern is important. But for crissake don't
call it MORAL, call it RESPONSIBLE.
"You screw without protection, you might DIE from it, so KEEP YOURSELF
SAFE. One way to be safe is to use a condom, another is not to screw.
It's your life, it's your decision which way you choose."
Stop dumping this "you're a sinner" crap on people, please, you're
probably turning off many of the people you most want to reach.
|
323.721 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 12:10 | 15 |
| Uhhh...Dick? Jack D started with the cynical tone and there you have
it.
Z To insist that others, who do not accept even your concept of a
Z god, let alone your concept of the moral code imposed by acceptance of
Z that god, should live by that moral code is the height of arrogance.
Nobody has insisted on accepting one's view of God. This is a non
sequitor. The moral code however, no one cannot force it upon another
but I believe it is within the rights of a person to state the fact
that if you develop a standard in your own life regarding abstinence
before marriage, then you won't get HIV and that moral standard seems
to work best.
-Jack
|
323.722 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 12:10 | 44 |
| > The lack of morality is what leads to the irresponsibility that Jack is
> talking about.
While irersponsibility is more likely to result from behavior which Jack
may find to be immoral, it is not the logical consequence of that behavior.
No amount of thumping will change that fact. I'm beginning to believe that
the purpose of the thumping is simply to confuse that issue, since there
really is no logical connection that can be made between the morality of the
matter and the issue of responsibility.
> religion out of it entirely, I still see the most responsible behavior
> as being that of abstinance until marriage. It is the one pattern that
> will do the most in stopping the spread of disease, as well as the
> epidemic of unwanted pregnancies.
Yes - just as abstinence works 100% until it fails, responsibility works until
it's abandoned.
> it only makes sense to abstain from
> this behavior until a point in time that you will be joined with one
> mate for life- and that your future mate does, as well. You need not
> be religious at all to see that this is the best way to approach this
> problem.
And just how many people, in a society which has a divorce rate of nearly
50%, do you presume know for a fact that they will be joined with one
mate for life? Now, what do we do with the rest?
> We are obfusicating terms, IMO, by calling high-risk behavior
> "responsible" as long as you are wearing a condom.
Who's made the claim that calling high risk behavior of any sort is
responsible. The issue here as far as Our Jack Martin was concerned
was morality. I already stated several replies back that people can
be immoral by Jack's standards without engaging in any sort of high
risk behaviors at all. Couples in which one partner is sterile CANNOT
engage in activities which produce unwanted pregnancies. Couples who
do not carry sexually transmissable diseases CANNOT contract or transmit
diseases from/to their partners if they are involved in a monogamous
relationship. These people are not involved in High risk behaviors
and they are not contributing to the spread of any disease regardless
of Our Jack Martin's views of their morality. Morality is most definitely
not the issue regarding these responsible people, other than in Jack's
theocentric mind.
|
323.723 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 12:15 | 7 |
| Jack:
All I know is that I will not be in an AIDS ward due to lack of
forsight. Call it irresponsibility or whatever. A person's standards
determines their conduct.
-Jack
|
323.724 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 12:23 | 8 |
| re: <<< Note 323.723 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
And neither will thousands of people who conduct their lives EXACTLY as
responsibly as do you, but whom you label immoral, due to the fact that
they don't have some silly piece of paper which validates their union.
Why do you fail to simply admit this?
|
323.725 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 12:33 | 11 |
| > A person's standards determines their conduct.
Damn straight. I haven't heard anyone deny that.
But, guess what?
Even when their standards don't match yours, they can behave
identically to you in amny areas.
Far out, eh?
|
323.726 | | POWDML::CKELLY | The Proverbial Bad Penny | Wed Sep 20 1995 12:52 | 13 |
| glen
see your .681. You stated that the partners go together to be tested
and meet with a counselor, then return 2 weeks later for results and
the counselor is on hand (which is good if the result is +). In the
next paragraph, you mention 3 months. This is what I'm wondering
about. I haven't heard anything about a 2 week test.
Any additional info you enter with regard to testing is appreciated.
And to Karen's point, you can both avoid sex for 3 months, be tested as
negative, but again, we have the problem of false negatives, so, this
kind of affects your 100% claim.....
|
323.727 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:35 | 10 |
| Glen:
You yourself have admitted many times to the frailty of humans. I find
it difficult to believe you are being intellectually honest here.
It isn't difficult to admit that abstinence is 100% effective as far as
sexual transmission goes. You can't stop a train that isn't moving
Glen....and that testing even together isn't 100% effective.
-Jack
|
323.728 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:37 | 20 |
|
ANYONE can get AIDS from a transfusion, a dentist, etc. Please accept
this as part of the discussion.
YOU ARE BLOWING SMOKE IF YOU USE THIS FROM NOW ON!
This is an exception. It is a factor that cancels itself out in
this discussion. PERIOD
Having said that. Abstinence, or manomagous sex between 2 people who
have NEVER had sex with anyone else will prevent them from getting AIDS
100% of the time.
Using a condom between two people, either of which who have had sex
with someone else is less than 100% effective in preventing them from
getting AIDS.
Remember the 1st lie: Safe sex? It was proven to be a lie. They now say
safER sex because it is not 100% effective.
|
323.729 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:38 | 5 |
|
I though you were re-posting to spell "monogamous" correctly.
But I guess not.
|
323.730 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:41 | 4 |
|
.728
Thanks - I thought he meant magnanimous.
|
323.731 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:44 | 24 |
| Jack:
I cast no dispersions on people who choose to live together. You may
recall my mentioning I rented our townhouse to a couple who live
together. I know many people...friends of mine who live together.
It's a private choice and I honor their choice.
All I am saying Jack is this. Morality issues can be subliminal or
overt. Be it a nice clean cut college man living with a woman or a
prostitute living with the chief of police, there is virtually no
difference because the standard as a third party observer views it has
been equally broken. It doesn't really matter.
I fail to see why one would take such an offense at another person
pointing out their views on morality issues. As stated, morality can
determine behavior...and eventually people, yes even the nicest people
in the world eventually reap what they sow.
Another thing Jack. I don't really believe I've been that obnoxious
over this. I think I've presented my view in a plausable manner and
have replied to comments as they have come. I don't think I am the
fire and brimstone individual you seem to make me out as.
-Jack
|
323.732 | | DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:52 | 1 |
| "cast aspersions"...
|
323.733 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Wed Sep 20 1995 13:55 | 8 |
|
When is JMARTIN going to realize that no one is saying that a
moral lifestyle is wrong, and is not the ideal way to prevent
the spread of AIDS ... but that it is unrealistic to expect
society as a whole to follow through with it?
A long time from now? Never? You make the call.
|
323.734 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 14:10 | 9 |
|
re: .718
Dick,
I insisted nothing of the sort....
Andy
|
323.735 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 14:13 | 5 |
|
re: .720
"If it saves one life"????
|
323.736 | The big questions are AFTER... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Frustrated Incorporated | Wed Sep 20 1995 14:28 | 14 |
|
Another hypothetical situation :
You go in for your annual checkup, and your doctor takes a
routine blood sample. Out of the blue, he says, "You're HIV+."
Assuming this situation, and you don't even know how you got it,
(1) What would be your moral responsibility ?
(2) What would be the doctor's moral responsibility ?
(3) Ought society to have a say in this ?
(4) If you have an SO, and tell him/her, what is her/his moral
responsibility ?
bb
|
323.737 | | GOOEY::JUDY | That's *Ms. Bitch* to you! | Wed Sep 20 1995 14:36 | 21 |
|
'tine...
In regards to Glen's question.
From what I've been told (from the health care system, directly,
in person).... you go for a test, the results of that test take
two weeks. Where the 3 months comes in.... If you have
unprotected sex with someone who is HIV+, it can take 3-6 months
for anything to show up on *your* HIV test. So if you have
unprotected sex and go for a test, say, within a month, chances
are it will have no effect because the virus will not show up
in the bloodstream yet. You would need to be tested again
in 3-6 months.
Does that make it more understandable?
JJ
|
323.738 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:05 | 4 |
| re: <<< Note 323.731 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
So your point in labeling people as immoral is what? I certainly can't guess,
unless it's to flaunt your self-righteous superiority,
|
323.739 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:11 | 9 |
| .738
It's a cultural thing, DelBlasto. It's immoral to boink with someone
you're not married to, but it's not immoral to shoot with that same
person. This despite the fact that either situation can get you killed
if you're irresponsible.
Solution: If you're gonna boink, protect yourself - cover up.
If you're gonna shoot, protect yourself - unload the piece.
|
323.740 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:23 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.726 by POWDML::CKELLY "The Proverbial Bad Penny" >>>
| see your .681. You stated that the partners go together to be tested and meet
| with a counselor, then return 2 weeks later for results and the counselor is
| on hand (which is good if the result is +). In the next paragraph, you
| mention 3 months. This is what I'm wondering about. I haven't heard anything
| about a 2 week test.
Ahhh.... thank you. You wait 3 months. You go get tested. You get the
results back in 2 weeks. You meet with the councelor beforehand as he goes over
various things with you. You meet with a conselor afterwards when you get your
results.
| And to Karen's point, you can both avoid sex for 3 months, be tested as
| negative, but again, we have the problem of false negatives, so, this
| kind of affects your 100% claim.....
'tine, when the tests were first done, you got false negatives, and
false positives. The reason for that is because the original test was set up
for just a few weeks. It was changed to 3 months.
Glen
|
323.741 | | POWDML::CKELLY | The Proverbial Bad Penny | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:25 | 3 |
| thanks glen and jj. now, jj mentions 3-6 months. see what i mean?
there still seems to be a lot of uncertainty around testing and
waiting periods.
|
323.742 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:26 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.728 by 43GMC::KEITH "Dr. Deuce" >>>
| ANYONE can get AIDS from a transfusion, a dentist, etc. Please accept
| this as part of the discussion.
I think people are zeroing in on how one gets AIDS with sex. I think
that is why the other ways are not being discussed right now.
Glen
|
323.743 | | GOOEY::JUDY | That's *Ms. Bitch* to you! | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:32 | 7 |
|
Ok, now *I'm* confused....
What is the 3 month thing you're speaking of Glen? Sounds
different that what I posted....
|
323.744 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:34 | 8 |
|
Same thing Judy. It was a few weeks, then 6 months (6 months was where
it was at for my 1st test) and now is at 3 months.
Glen
|
323.745 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 15:37 | 20 |
| ZZ So your point in labeling people as immoral is what? I certainly can't
ZZ guess, unless it's to flaunt your self-righteous superiority,
Already addressed this. Said I had skeletons in the closet like most
everybody else and also stated that I am as an individual just as
sinful as anybody else. That dead horse has been stabbed enough.
Let's put this in easier terms Jack. Statistically, individuals with
deep rooted convictions (or morals) regarding premarital sex are less
apt to have to deal with abortion, AIDS and other STDs, and illigitamacy.
People who have a strong moral base or more likely to be on the outside
looking in. People with a strong moral base are more likely to behave
according to their convictions...not always but more likely.
My take on this?? Well, I can't deny it. A strong moral foundation
WILL in fact curb the spread of the disease. I happen to believe it is
a far more effective way than the band aid approaches of the past. Is
it realistic? Maybe not...but I believe paradigms can be changed.
-Jack
|
323.746 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:10 | 15 |
| That didn't answer much, Jack.
No one has said that you don't HAVE strong moral convictions.
No one has said that there's anything WRONG with your having strong moral
convictions.
No one has said that there's anything wrong with ANYONE sharing your moral
convictions.
I'm still waiting to find out what purpose is served by your LABELING
others as BEING immoral.
You claim it's not to set yourself up as their superior. Fine. Then please
tell us what the purpose is, if not that.
|
323.747 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:36 | 20 |
| ZZ I'm still waiting to find out what purpose is served by your LABELING
ZZ others as BEING immoral.
Actually, I have reserved that privilage to the reader...to determine
whether they are immoral or not. What I said was that sleeping around
before you get married is immoral. One then draws conclusions by their
own behavior and then conclude with considering the possibility or
telling me to eff off.
Now let me pose a question to you. Would you consider the act of
pedophilia to be immoral? We can agree it is irresponsible but do your
standards measure it as an immoral act? If so, then you are guilty of
the same thing I am...pre judging the behavior of others based on their
code of conduct or standard of decency. We know it is destructive to a
child and even to society. Well...I believe premarital sex is
responsible for the high divorce rate, abortion rate, illegitamacy
rate, and STD rate. Two different acts and yet we draw conclusions
based on our standards. No difference.
-Jack
|
323.748 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:41 | 6 |
|
Not everyone has premarital sex, but everyone does eat, correct?
Maybe EATING is responsible for all the bad things that you ment-
ioned.
|
323.749 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:44 | 1 |
| Hey....you forgot to put a smiley face after that one!
|
323.750 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:47 | 3 |
|
Hell, if my reply needed a smiley face then so did yours.
|
323.751 | strawman again. | TIS::HAMBURGER | REMEMBER NOVEMBER: FREEDOM COUNTS | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:49 | 5 |
| pedophilia and boinking are nowhere near the same as the first is
non-consenual while the second is usually done by willing partners.
what _is_ immoral is using force on one person to do your will.
so I think there is no disagreement with pedophilia being wrong.
|
323.752 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:54 | 1 |
| <--- and if the child/young teen is willing?
|
323.753 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 16:55 | 22 |
| > Now let me pose a question to you. Would you consider the act of
> pedophilia to be immoral? We can agree it is irresponsible but do your
> standards measure it as an immoral act?
You see, here's the crux of this whole discussion.
I wouldn't label it as "immoral" because I don't use "morality" as a
valid measuring stick, unlike you. The very fact that it's a standards-
based measuring tool, and the fact that everyone's standards, in some
way, either minor or major, are different than everyone else's, quite
clearly, in my mind, makes "morality" a very poor means of objectively
quantifying anything.
So let's agree that some behaviors may be quite certainly irresponsible,
and leave the "immoral" label, which only tends to create distance between
yourself and those with whom you are conversing, where it belongs - in
a discussion with those who SHARE your standards.
Either that, or persist in your useage of "immorality" in defining those
who don't adhere to your standards (regardless of the presence or absence
on any behavior which is irresponsible), and I'll continue to conclude that
you are being a pompous ass.
|
323.754 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Wed Sep 20 1995 17:00 | 6 |
|
Especially when you consider that an 18-year old can be charged
with statutory rape if [s]he has sex with a 17-year old. It's
illegal, yes ... because the law says it is. But how is that
different from a 30-year old having sex with a 29-year old?
|
323.755 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Sep 20 1995 17:13 | 6 |
|
How about a 14 year old having sex with a 13 year old??
and round and round we go....
|
323.756 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Sep 20 1995 18:27 | 25 |
| ZZ So let's agree that some behaviors may be quite certainly
ZZ irresponsible,
ZZ and leave the "immoral" label, which only tends to create distance between
ZZ yourself and those with whom you are conversing, where it belongs - in
ZZ a discussion with those who SHARE your standards.
Oh....I get it. Because the terms moral or immoral might offend
somebody, it is incorrect politically or otherwise to discuss that
issue here.
From biblical history, you might remember that John the Baptist merely
explained to King Herod that it was sin for Herod to sleep with his
brothers wife. He was jailed for his comments...and subsequently
beheaded.
Sorry, but I don't see morality as a non viable alternative. And as
I said, that is all I've brought it up as. A segment of our society
is dying and I'm stating that their actions are propogated by their
standards...and I'm pointing out the obvious. If an irresponsibility
causes death to the masses, it appears the obvious needs to be
implemented which is a change in standards. You may frown upon what is
being said; however, I have yet to see any better ideas. And as I said
before, Glens notion that testing is 100% accurate is foolhardy!
-Jack
|
323.757 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Sep 20 1995 19:28 | 10 |
| > Oh....I get it. Because the terms moral or immoral might offend
> somebody, it is incorrect politically or otherwise to discuss that
> issue here.
This, again, eh?
Fine, Jack. You just keep right on talking about morality and immorality
instead of looking at the issues and we'll take it at face value, and consider
the source.
|
323.758 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 10:37 | 24 |
| ZZ Fine, Jack. You just keep right on talking about morality and immorality
ZZ instead of looking at the issues and we'll take it at face value, and
ZZ consider the source.
Why not?? You always had that outlook anyway...that individuals who
try to promote standards which drive conduct have no validity in a
forum such as this.
Remember everybody, the American Medical Association has deemed central
Africa as "Lost". They drew this conclusion because men who needed to
support their families had to travel long distances and consequently
got involved with prostitutes. Now lucky Jack might consider this a
mere irresponsibility, and from a humanist perspective, he is
absolutely correct. From my perspective and my guess is this is shared
by many of the readers here (the silence is deafening), these men
contracted AIDS because their lack of moral standards drove them act
irresponsibly.
Important point. Lucky Jack is only interested in the symptoms...that
being irresponsibility. I like to go to the next level...that being
the cause. Cause drives the effect Jack. Irresponsibility IS the
effect.
-Jack
|
323.759 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Thu Sep 21 1995 10:55 | 16 |
|
>Important point. Lucky Jack is only interested in the symptoms...that
>being irresponsibility. I like to go to the next level...that being
>the cause. Cause drives the effect Jack. Irresponsibility IS the
>effect.
Could someone translate this to English, please?
Somehow, I think your point might have been a little clearer had
you said "AIDS is the symptom, irresponsibility is the problem.
Fix the problem, not the symptom".
And/or "Irresponsibility is the cause, AIDS is the effect". Cause
DETERMINES the effect.
|
323.760 | I think I heard about this on some TV tabloid. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Frustrated Incorporated | Thu Sep 21 1995 11:03 | 12 |
|
Point of information. Perhaps one of our gay noters (Glen ?)
could say if this is true or urban legend. I have heard that
there was an actual human being, now dead of AIDS for some time,
who was nicknamed "The Angel of Death". I seem to recall reading
he was a young, attractive flight attendant who knew he had HIV.
The story is, he deliberately decided to "go out with many boinks",
thus spreading the disease widely among unsuspecting gay victims.
The theory being, "I'm dead, so nothing matters." Does anybody
else know anything about this ?
bb
|
323.761 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Thu Sep 21 1995 11:22 | 10 |
|
I'm not Glen, and I'm not gay, but anyways:
He was the "center" of the investigation done by the medical team
in "And the Band Played On", a movie about a team's discovery of
the AIDS virus.
The flight attendant was French-Canadian. But the movie didn't
seem to indicate that he did it intentionally.
|
323.762 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | sunlight held together by water | Thu Sep 21 1995 11:23 | 2 |
| Yeah, he was the guy they called patient 0 or some such. He was
Canadian, if I recall correctly.
|
323.763 | FYI | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians... | Thu Sep 21 1995 11:27 | 9 |
| The term 'patient 0' was not meant to imply that he was the first
person with AIDS in the U.S.
It was meant to demonstrate that AIDS could be transmitted through
sexual contact (by showing a lineage of people, starting with this
guy, who got AIDS then gave it to others.)
This all occurred before anyone knew what AIDS was (and before the
disease even had a name.)
|
323.764 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Thu Sep 21 1995 11:31 | 27 |
| re: <<< Note 323.758 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
You don't listen very well, do you, Jack?
> Why not?? You always had that outlook anyway...that individuals who
> try to promote standards which drive conduct have no validity in a
> forum such as this.
The individuals have no validity? No - I've never claimed that. The
STANDARDS of the individual have no validity? Moot point, since your standards
don't apply to everyone, regardless of your desire that it be otherwise.
> Important point. Lucky Jack is only interested in the symptoms...that
> being irresponsibility. I like to go to the next level...that being
> the cause. Cause drives the effect Jack. Irresponsibility IS the
> effect.
No. The disease and it's spread are the effect. No matter how many times
you choose to suggest otherwise, this will remain the case.
It has been demonstrated to you, in this string and others, that people
who do not share or adhere to your morals, can act as responsibly or moreso
than you and not contribute to the problem/effect. Yet you continue to
claim that irresponsibility _IS_ the effect of a lack of morals. Now, Jack,
I can see that there's no logical connection there. Others can see it
as well. You fail to do so. Fine.
|
323.765 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Thu Sep 21 1995 11:53 | 7 |
|
RE: patient 0
No, he wasn't the 1st in the country to get AIDS, but he was the
"center" or "origin" of the cases that they had been sent to
investigate.
|
323.766 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 13:44 | 14 |
| Jack:
Standards drive behavior. You don't beat up a woman unless you have a
standard as to the value of women. You don't cheat in school unless
you have a standard as to your outlook on honesty and character. You
don't abort a child guilt free unless you have a standard driving your
outlook on a fetus.
Standards drive behavior. Behavior brings forth results.
Morals determine behavior. Bahavior can be responsible or
irresponsible.
-Jack
|
323.767 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:00 | 6 |
| .766
> Morals determine behavior.
Not necessarily. I might find it highly moral to waste some jerk, but
ethics prevent me.
|
323.768 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:09 | 3 |
| True. I was thinking more in line of way of life habits.
-Jack
|
323.769 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:17 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.768 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| True. I was thinking more in line of way of life habits.
But Jack, life's habits are driven by behavior...blah blah blah... :-)
|
323.770 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:21 | 12 |
| .768
Then you missed the point. In a hypothetical situation, I might have
AIDS and find it highly moral to boink everyone in sight to get my
revenge. My ethics would prevent such behavior, not my morals. Morals
are a spiritual thing, ethics are a thing of the here and now. The
problem with people like you is that because both morals and ethics
indicate the same proper behavior so often, you can't distinguish
between the two. So you lay a moral guilt trip on everyone who doesn't
buy your version of things. You, sir, are possessed of an inexcusably
inflated cranial region. Were it filled with functional gray matter,
you might have a more realistic take on this argument.
|
323.771 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 14:57 | 5 |
|
Great cranial analogy! Does this mean that because his cranial is so
overinflated, that Jack gives good cranial?
|
323.772 | Cranky Old Fart You Are!!!!! | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:01 | 10 |
| ZZ So you lay a moral guilt trip on everyone who doesn't
ZZ buy your version of things.
That's the amazing thing. I am considered a kook, a lame brain, and
the town crier, and yet at the same time I am accused of having enough
influence to lay a moral guilt trip. That's rich I'll say!!!!
Glen, go back to annoying Joe!
-Jack
|
323.773 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:06 | 5 |
|
Any idiot can "lay a moral guilt trip".
But that doesn't mean that people will take it seriously.
|
323.774 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:09 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.772 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| That's the amazing thing. I am considered a kook,
Yes.
| a lame brain,
Yes.
| and the town crier,
Crier, baby, same thing. :-)
| and yet at the same time I am accused of having enough influence to lay a
| moral guilt trip. That's rich I'll say!!!!
Jack, you don't need influence to lay a moral guilt trip. You need
influence to make the guilt work. So What Jack D. says is true. But I guess
that means ya don't have any influence.... :-)
Glen
|
323.775 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:15 | 6 |
| ZZZ But that doesn't mean that people will take it seriously.
Yeah but considering all the pissing and moaning you guys are doing, I
would choose to believe it's working!
-Jack
|
323.776 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Holy rusted metal, Batman! | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:19 | 4 |
|
If it were working, there would have been a deluge of "You are
right, Jack" replies after you had made your point[s].
|
323.777 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 15:40 | 9 |
|
Shawn, you forgot all the:
:'-(
that would be included with the you're right jack comments. :-)
|
323.778 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:25 | 27 |
| Shawn:
I disagree. The first martyr of the Church age...a man named Stephen
was on trial by the pharisees. He spoke on the history of the
forefathers of Israel. He ended his speech by asking the rhetorical
question, "How many of the prophets have your fathers killed?"
The court was so indignant they yelled aloud, covered their ears
because they couldn't bear hearing what they needed to hear, dragged
Stephen outside and summarily stoned him to death.
Just because a group of individuals disagree in the majority does not
give the messenger any less creedance. It only means they all disagree
with what the message is saying. I don't think it takes a rocket
scientist to make the observation...when a messenger brings forth a
message and alot of people get pissed off at the messenger, then one
can assume the message is having some of effect.
I know what's coming. It's not having a negative effect...I'm just not
making one bit of sense. Well I don't buy that. There are alot of
people who agree with me and Central Africa is testimony to my point.
Men screw without regard to their families because their moral
standards are not where they should be. Now apply that to the
attitudes and paradigms we have here right in good old Godly America
and get back to me!
-Jack
|
323.779 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:49 | 7 |
|
Jack, are you saying that the guy guilted the others into killing him?
That's one hell of a guilt trip...yes it is.
Glen
|
323.780 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 16:55 | 12 |
| Sure as hell is. They knew exactly what he was saying and they were
deeply offended by it!
I find it interesting how I have this knack for getting Soapbox proper
pissed at me alot...but it's always because I don't have a brain and
has nothing to do with exposing things that bring people out of their
comfort zone....Things like the sexism propogated in the conference by
all...things like the bigotry propgogated by ALL...things like
societies dying because of stupidity and not because of
irresponsibility...you know...the usual!
-Jack
|
323.781 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:07 | 5 |
| .780
And *you* *don't* propagate bigotry???
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA {gasp}
|
323.782 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:11 | 9 |
| Oh...apparently I do because people read what they want to read here.
I don't agree with the establishment and therefore I am a bigot. So
noted.
What I get a chuckle out of is our lilly white Soapbox community who
pounces on me for subtle indiscretions when bigotry and sexism are so
overt it's unbelievable.
-Jack
|
323.783 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:15 | 8 |
| Meaty, I don't pounce on you for disagreeing with the establishment. I
don't care what the establishment says.
I pounce on you for your repeated statements that such-and-such a
person is less worthwhile than the next individual because of, for
example, his or her sexual polarity. That is bigotry, and I despise
it - despite the fact that it is, for all intents and purposes, the
"establishment" position.
|
323.784 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:47 | 18 |
| Oh...I see. My ridiculous assertion that gay sex should be avoided
right?
Yes, I see what you mean about that. Dick, there are times in life
when one has to stick by convictions. I am trying to reconcile gay
relationships with scripture and quite frankly I'm having a hard time
doing it. Same with the premarital stuff. Now as a libertarian, I
believe in the sovereign right to choose provided the choices are not
detrimental to society. In the privacy of your domain, do as you see
fit. Doesn't mean I can't tell you what I think of it...or state the
dangers of it...but I support one's right to destruction if they want
it. It's their business as long as they can live with the
consequences. Oh, and please keep your ideologies out of the public
schools. My tax dollars shouldn't be supporting National gay and
lesbian month as the NEA has declared this month. Has no more
creedance than National Jesus month.
-Jack
|
323.785 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | I'll kiss the dirt and walk away | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:48 | 15 |
|
Jack:
I agree that abstinence is the ideal way to prevent unprotected
sex from spreading the AIDS virus.
But that's not going to happen. How many 1000's of years has
this "immoral behavior" been going on? And for how long have
we known that unprotected sex was dangerous, disease-wise? And
for how long have we been doing it anyways?
There are alot of old dogs in this world who aren't interested
in learning new tricks, especially when they aren't even pract-
icing the old tricks.
|
323.786 | | SMURF::BINDER | Night's candles are burnt out. | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:54 | 8 |
| .784
Jack, your position on gay sex is not ridiculous. It is, however, a
position dictated by your personal moral stance. Others' morals are
not necessarily the same as yours. Yet you shove your view on everyone
else as the be-all and end-all, against which only sick people or
amoral SOBs argue. In your insistence that no other way is acceptable
PERIOD, you are wrong, Jack, wrong.
|
323.787 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 17:57 | 19 |
| ZZ There are alot of old dogs in this world who aren't interested
ZZ in learning new tricks, especially when they aren't even pract-
ZZ icing the old tricks.
Shawn:
You just made a wonderful case for the impotence of the UN women's
conference. Trying to set standards amongst a myriad of different
cultures, and enforcing it no less, is impossible. An exercise in
futility...NADA.
Of course there are those who believe it is a small step. Well,
perhaps...just as speaking on abstinence. There is no question about
it. The rate of STD's and illigitamacy amongst teens was
NOTHING...NOTHING like it is today. Therefore, I believe abstinence
can be effective put into the minds of youth. It is a defeatist
attitude to think otherwise.
-Jack
|
323.788 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Sep 21 1995 18:00 | 11 |
| ZZ Yet you shove your view on everyone
ZZ else as the be-all and end-all, against which only sick people or
ZZ amoral SOBs argue.
A bit of a stretch. I just got through saying I'm having a hard time
reconciling gay sex with scripture. I would hardly call that shoving
my view. This only adds to the case I'm making...people a pissed off
more at the message than the messenger...but the messenger gets screwed
for it.
-Jack
|
323.789 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 19:34 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.785 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "I'll kiss the dirt and walk away" >>>
> But that's not going to happen. How many 1000's of years has
> this "immoral behavior" been going on? And for how long have
> we known that unprotected sex was dangerous, disease-wise? And
> for how long have we been doing it anyways?
Your question would be more meaningful if you asked whether
the immoral behavior has been going on to the same degree
and with the same societal sanction as it does today.
Sure, it has always been going on. That doesn't mean we
should just ignore a greater occurrence of it today.
|
323.790 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Thu Sep 21 1995 19:38 | 6 |
| joe,
Can you explain how "immoral" behavior is sanctioned? All I see is
people trying to judge other's moral behavior.
meg
|
323.791 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Sep 21 1995 19:48 | 2 |
| Well, I mentioned a few things in .314 a while back. Certainly
it's not a comprehensive list.
|
323.792 | | DASHER::RALSTON | Idontlikeitsojuststopit!! | Thu Sep 21 1995 19:56 | 3 |
| >All I see is people trying to judge other's moral behavior.
Your right Meg. The entire definition of morals is screwed up IMO.
|
323.793 | | KERNEL::PLANTC | Never tell me the odds! | Fri Sep 22 1995 07:59 | 22 |
|
Not everyone believes or wants to hear the fire and brimstone
message that religion preaches. I believe that the bible
was written to bring about certain ideas and was written for
a certain period of time. I don't believe it should be taken literally.
If anyone out there chooses to do that though, that's fine but do
you really need to drone it over and over ad endum in here.
State your ideas and then go on. I get irritated trying to read
this topic when it is constantly filled with one person's condemnations
of other's moral beliefs.
it has been stated in here before
sex is not the only way that HIV is passed on .
Abstinance may be a good way for some to lessen the chances of getting
the disease but it definitely is not the choice for everyone.
Chris
|
323.794 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 22 1995 11:26 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.780 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Sure as hell is. They knew exactly what he was saying and they were
| deeply offended by it!
Jack, you can't be serious. He guilted them to killing him? Man-o-man!
| I find it interesting how I have this knack for getting Soapbox proper pissed
| at me alot...but it's always because I don't have a brain and has nothing to
| do with exposing things that bring people out of their comfort zone....
I believe the man is starting to understand...... ;-)
Glen
|
323.795 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 22 1995 11:29 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.784 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Oh...I see. My ridiculous assertion that gay sex should be avoided right?
Well, that is ridiculous. If you were to take out the moral issues,
what would be your reasoning for gay sex to not happen?
| My tax dollars shouldn't be supporting National gay and lesbian month as the
| NEA has declared this month.
I agree. But in June the schools are letting out. Can't have it then.
Glen
|
323.796 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:15 | 8 |
| ZZ If anyone out there chooses to do that though, that's fine but do
ZZ you really need to drone it over and over ad endum in here.
No..it isn't necessary. I was under the impression that we were
looking for ideas on how to curb the spread of AIDS.
-Jack
|
323.797 | | KERNEL::PLANTC | Never tell me the odds! | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:23 | 21 |
|
re -1
yes that is the topic...but the ideas we are talking about have been
well stated, not necessarily agreed with..but well stated.
fact is you cannot force people to adopt your way of thinking
especially when it comes to abstinance. Alot of people have very loving
relationships but without the benefit of a marriage certificate and it
doesn't affect the spread of this disease in the least. And the lack
of this certificate doesn't nor should it make any difference in the
scheme of things because what is really important with love is what's
in the heart and not having the church or state send you a paper that
says they say its o.k to be together.
Personally I don't think the church has any business dictating what
goes on in anyone's bedroom. The church should stick to teaching
lessons of peace, love and tolerance.
Chris
|
323.798 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:37 | 38 |
| Z because what is really important with love is what's
Z in the heart and not having the church or state send you a paper
Z that says they say its o.k to be together.
Z Personally I don't think the church has any business dictating what
Z goes on in anyone's bedroom. The church should stick to teaching
Z lessons of peace, love and tolerance.
Chris, perhaps without meaning to, you belittle and make light o f the
whole institution of marriage. The tearing of that insignificant
little paper has caused our society nothing but
misery...misery....misery. Furthermore, I think we need to better
understand the ramifications of premarital intercourse before we can
make light hearted comments. An excellent book you may want to look at
is called, "Why Wait?" by Josh McDowell. Any competent psychologist
will tell you the most important element of a relationship is the trust
factor. Without it, a partnership will ultimately fall. Sex before
marriage counteracts the trust factor, whether you believe it or not,
it's true.
Secondly, I think a better understanding of the local church mission is
in order here. What you stated here...
Z The church should stick to teaching
Z lessons of peace, love and tolerance.
is true from a broad brush perspective. Jesus Christ was in fact the
Prince of peace and was the role model for love and peace. However,
Jesus did not always tolerate...in fact on some occasions his
adversaries were met with righteous indignation. Secondly, you
apparently like Little House on the Prairie since that show portrays
the view of the church you mentioned above. What it fails to address
is the issue of discipleship, admonishing one another toward sanctified
living, dealing with the sinful condition of man, etc. Apparently you
give the martyrs of old who died horrible deaths in the name of Jesus
little regard for what their mission was, not meaning to perhaps but
there you have it!
-Jack
|
323.799 | | KERNEL::PLANTC | Never tell me the odds! | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:43 | 9 |
|
I don't make light of marriage at all...I just don't feel the need
to have a church or civil ceremony before I can make love with my SO.
BTW Little House was a cute show! :))
Chris
:)
|
323.800 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:45 | 1 |
| Little House snarf!
|
323.801 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:48 | 9 |
| Actually, I also liked the show myself.
The need may not be there right now Chris. But let's face it. There
are alot of people out there in the same boat who just may not feel the
need for loyalty and faithfulness either. And by the rules, they are
not bound to their SO. This is the danger of the whole thing and
consequently, AIDS is spread quite a bit from this kind of attitude.
-Jack
|
323.802 | | KERNEL::PLANTC | Never tell me the odds! | Fri Sep 22 1995 12:56 | 18 |
|
>> The need may not be there right now Chris. But let's face it. There
are alot of people out there in the same boat who just may not feel the
need for loyalty and faithfulness either. And by the rules, they are
not bound to their SO. This is the danger of the whole thing and
consequently, AIDS is spread quite a bit from this kind of attitude.
-Jack
You may be right about that ..but I don't think that today's
church speaks to the youth of today, rather it pushes them the
other way.
This is straying from the topic of AIDS but I guess its related.
Chris
:)
|
323.803 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 22 1995 13:53 | 3 |
|
Jack, could you address .795 please?
|
323.804 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 14:41 | 21 |
| |Well, that is ridiculous. If you were to take out the moral issues,
|what would be your reasoning for gay sex to not happen?
There wouldn't be any reasons. It would be as acceptable as two
animals who naturally go at it when in heat. Same for Heterosexual
relationships. For whatever reasons, two living beings are drawn to
one another.
| My tax dollars shouldn't be supporting National gay and lesbian month
| as the NEA has declared this month.
| I agree. But in June the schools are letting out. Can't have it
| then.
I don't believe teachers unions have any rights at all to make
declarations on such matters. I'm sure a good amount of teachers
would agree with me. Secondly, I don't believe it is necessary anyway.
Restrict it to Jersey City in July!
-Jack
|
323.805 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 22 1995 15:42 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.804 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| There wouldn't be any reasons. It would be as acceptable as two animals who
| naturally go at it when in heat. Same for Heterosexual relationships. For
| whatever reasons, two living beings are drawn to one another.
So the whole thing is just moral. Thank you for your honesty. I know
you view that your morals aren't always up to His standards, but it amazes me
that you could try to hold someone else to your version of morals. I mean, how
can you honestly do that? Let God hold people to His morals.
Glen
|
323.806 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Sep 22 1995 15:58 | 11 |
| Morals don't have to be Biblical, so it is wrong to assume
that a moral approach to addressing homosexuality is also
someone's version of a Christian approach.
Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be
immoral.
So yes, the whole thing is moral. Society is going to
determine that morality -- with or without the Bible --
and this whole debate is about maintaining (or redefining)
society's current moral view.
|
323.807 | | BOXORN::HAYS | Some things are worth dying for | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:02 | 8 |
| RE: 323.806 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?"
> Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be immoral.
Haven't read much about classical Greek society, I see.
Phil
|
323.808 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:04 | 2 |
| Who are the sexually active people least likely to give AIDS to each
other?
|
323.809 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:07 | 5 |
| Meg:
Those who use condoms I suppose or are monogamous.
-Jack
|
323.810 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:09 | 3 |
| lesbians, of course.
DougO
|
323.811 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | nothing's going to bring him back | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:10 | 5 |
| I was waiting for that
;-)
|
323.812 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | I'll kiss the dirt and walk away | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:19 | 3 |
|
That was going to be my answer, and I would have been serious.
|
323.813 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Sep 22 1995 16:55 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.806 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Morals don't have to be Biblical, so it is wrong to assume that a moral
| approach to addressing homosexuality is also someone's version of a Christian
| approach.
Joe, what was used to form the moral standards we have today? Well, the
moral standards that you accept as being moral.
| Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be immoral.
And societies of today are changing. Seeing that they were wrong in
thinking so. Who would have thought one could actually be of the same sex and
marry? Who would have thought that you could be openly gay and still serve in
the military? It's slow going, but it is going. If you kind of think about it,
this doesn't appear to be any different than the other things done in the past
which were supposed to have been moral. The Spanish Inquisitions, etc. Slowly
people realized that these things were wrong too. *I* believe the same thing is
happening with homosexuality.
Glen
|
323.814 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Sep 22 1995 18:13 | 18 |
| <<< Note 323.807 by BOXORN::HAYS "Some things are worth dying for" >>>
>> Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be immoral.
>
>Haven't read much about classical Greek society, I see.
Wrong. It is evident that YOU are the one who is ignorant
here.
The truth is that during its Golden Age, Athens made homosexuality
against the law, and punished it severely. Despite what politically
biased scholars try to tell us, the writings of Socrates and Plato
clearly show that they were not only heterosexual, but vehement
opposed to homosexual behavior. Plato was even sodomized by a
homosexual ruler, an experience which he condemned as the most
degrading and humiliating of his life. On homosexuality he
wrote: "Who in their right mind would pass a law to protect such
behavior?"
|
323.815 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Sep 22 1995 18:25 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.813 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, what was used to form the moral standards we have today? Well, the
> moral standards that you accept as being moral.
And your point is...
Do you think that our moral standards today were not influenced by
all of history?
> And societies of today are changing. Seeing that they were wrong in
> thinking so.
I doubt that most of society thinks that moral taboos on
homosexuality have been wrong throughout history, nor are
wrong now. Change today is mostly due to a concerted
effort by a gay movement that has been relentless. Only
now is the rest of society waking up (or at least that's
how I see it. And you have expressed how you see it.)
Yes, society is changing. That's what this battle for
social moral conscience is all about.
|
323.816 | | BOXORN::HAYS | Some things are worth dying for | Mon Sep 25 1995 09:32 | 9 |
| RE: 323.814 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?"
Athens is not all of Greece, not even half. Perhaps a little reading on
Sparta would be in order? Oh, and you might try to find translations of
original texts. I suspect that your tracts may be missing some parts of
the truth.
Phil
|
323.817 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Sep 25 1995 11:22 | 39 |
| | <<< Note 323.815 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Joe, what was used to form the moral standards we have today? Well, the
| > moral standards that you accept as being moral.
| And your point is...
| Do you think that our moral standards today were not influenced by all of
| history?
Joe, please don't divert from the question I asked by asking another.
Please answer my quetion.
| I doubt that most of society thinks that moral taboos on homosexuality have
| been wrong throughout history, nor are wrong now.
I did not say most, did I? If you look at the numbers 20 years ago, and
compare them to today's, there is quite the difference, don't you think?
| Change today is mostly due to a concerted effort by a gay movement that has
| been relentless.
Let's see, when some of the RR scream how evil we are, this is somehow
good? As more and more people come out, people are seeing us for what we are,
people. I think it is THAT reason(s) that has made the impact. I know for my
parents it had worked quite well. As my father said, once he swallowed his
pride, and saw that I was still the same person I was before, he could see
through the clouded perceptions he had towards gays.
Btw, just how is the gay movement relentless?
| Only now is the rest of society waking up (or at least that's how I see it.
| And you have expressed how you see it.)
How do you seem they are waking up Joe?
Glen
|
323.818 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 09:40 | 21 |
|
I saw a quick clip on the Today show this morning about a Haunted House
in Colorado. It is a little different. They showed a kid crawling on the ground
after being hit by a drunk driver, an abortion happening, and a coffin that had
someone in it who died of AIDS. The voice over said something like, "This is
what happens with alternative lifestyles".
Pretty sad to see a message like that spread throughout the place when
the lifestyle doesn't cause any of it, being unsafe does.
All in all it sounded like a place that is definitely different.
Protesters were outside the place, which had long long lines of people wanting
to get in. I wish they showed more of it and I wish I could have listened to
the interview. But I was running late, so I had to run. Anyone hear the
interview? I THINK it was going to be with the person running it. But again, I
was in a rush, so I didn't see.
Glen
|
323.819 | | POWDML::BUCKLEY | A Change of Seasons | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:25 | 3 |
| -1
Only in Colorado!
|
323.820 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:27 | 2 |
| I saw/heard mention that it was sponsored by a Pentecostal Church, and that
the Colorado Council of Churches were condemning their presentation.
|
323.821 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:31 | 3 |
| |sponsored by a Pentecostal Church
well, they sure sound like a real fun group!
|
323.822 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:32 | 3 |
| | Pentecostal Church
That figures. Yes it does.
|
323.823 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:33 | 4 |
|
So, it wasn't all of Colorado and sanctioned by the government?
|
323.824 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:40 | 1 |
| <---say wha?????
|
323.825 | | BSS::DSMITH | A Harley, & the Dead the good life | Tue Oct 31 1995 10:55 | 15 |
|
Re:823
No Mike it wasn't all of Colorado just some Will Perkin fans who think
they should be able to tell everyone how to live and think.
Once you get away from some of these rabid types Colorado is a GRATE
place to live,work and play...
Come out some time and I'll take you to the high country and show you
around...
Dave (going hunting in 2 days)
|
323.826 | Just make sure toys are ready fer me to play wif | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:01 | 7 |
|
I'll be out there one day, Dave. Gotta get out to see a few cronies
from a few different files and ex-deccies. You'll be on the list.
Mike
|
323.827 | across the grate divide... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Frustrated Incorporated | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:01 | 4 |
|
A "GRATE" place ? As in, "GRATEful Dead" ? As in Parmesana ?
bb
|
323.828 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:14 | 6 |
| ZZ Pretty sad to see a message like that spread throughout the
ZZ place when the lifestyle doesn't cause any of it, being unsafe does.
Hasty generalization. Lifestyles in MANY cases cause these problems.
-Jack
|
323.829 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:21 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.828 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Hasty generalization. Lifestyles in MANY cases cause these problems.
GGGAAAANNNNTTTT!!!!! Wrong, Jack. Lifestyles do not cause it. You can
take two people from the same lifestyle. One can be safe, the other not. One
has a much greater chance of contracting HIV than the other.
Glen
|
323.830 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:28 | 6 |
| Glen:
Harry has sex with over 1000 other men. Harry's lifestyle is
wreckless, Harry contracts AIDs, Harry dies.
-Jack
|
323.831 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:30 | 1 |
| Harry's behavior is reckless Jack, no that he is allegedly gay.
|
323.832 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:31 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.830 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Harry has sex with over 1000 other men. Harry's lifestyle is wreckless, Harry
| contracts AIDs, Harry dies.
Harry was stupid. The coffin scene explicitely said alternative
lifestyles, which you listed above. Harry could sleep with 1000 women and
contract HIV. That was missing from the coffin scene. Who you have sex with is
the lifestyle. How many you have sex with is not a lifestyle.
Glen
|
323.833 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:32 | 3 |
| Harry beats his wife every other day. Harry's lifestyle is cruel.
Harry goes to church and sings hymns songs and spiritual songs. Harry
is a monster.
|
323.834 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:33 | 11 |
|
I wouldn't support that display in Colorado. People cannot be frightened
into a relationship with Jesus Christ. People come to Christ through the
work of the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, and the love therein. I'd
strongly disagree were my church to support such a display.
Jim
|
323.835 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:34 | 1 |
| harry should have changed his lifestyle each time.
|
323.836 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:36 | 1 |
| I'm not wild about Harry.
|
323.837 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Being weird isn't enough | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:37 | 3 |
|
But doesn't he have an electrical banana?
|
323.838 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:40 | 4 |
|
RE: .836 Hey, what have either my brother or my father ever done to
you?
|
323.839 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | Freedom isn't free. | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:40 | 4 |
|
do you really wanna know Mike? ;*)
|
323.840 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:42 | 1 |
| Mike, that's a rather private question isn't it now?
|
323.841 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:44 | 3 |
|
Hey, my bro was never in the service and my old man was much higher
than a private.....
|
323.842 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:50 | 1 |
| How high can privates get?
|
323.843 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:57 | 14 |
| ZZ Harry could sleep with 1000 women and
ZZ contract HIV.
True. I was thinking of a man's testimony who went to Fire Island in
New York every weekend. However, being gay isn't a lifestyle as you
have stated so recklessness is attributed to a lifestyle and not a
condition (Being gay or straight).
What prompted me to write here was more your casual remark on unsafe
verses safe in the context of abortion. If my 13 year old daughter
becomes pregnant, then I don't rebuke her lack of safety. I rebuke
myself for allowing her as a parent to be unsupervised.
-Jack
|
323.844 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 11:57 | 1 |
| Correction: Allowing myself as a parent to leave her unsupervised!
|
323.845 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Being weird isn't enough | Tue Oct 31 1995 12:03 | 9 |
|
Jack, you can follow a gay lifstyle or a straight lifestyle.
Within that lifestyle, you can be reckless or you can "play it
safe".
The lifestyle itself has no direct bearing on the spread of
disease.
|
323.846 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 12:07 | 9 |
| ZZ The lifestyle itself has no direct bearing on the spread of
ZZ disease.
Shawn, define lifestyle. Gay participants here have stated that being
gay or straight is NOT a lifestyle, and I agree. Therefore, a
lifestyle is a course of behavior or action in a life. Wearing a
condom does not mean the lifestyle is any good!
-Jack
|
323.847 | pigs is pigs | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 12:08 | 1 |
|
|
323.848 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Being weird isn't enough | Tue Oct 31 1995 12:09 | 9 |
|
This is from Glen:
>contract HIV. That was missing from the coffin scene. Who you have sex with is
>the lifestyle. How many you have sex with is not a lifestyle.
Isn't he saying that "gay" or "straight" is a lifestyle?
|
323.849 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 12:24 | 5 |
| Well...gee I don't know.
Glen, is being gay a lifestyle or is it a predisposition?
-Jack
|
323.850 | toys r us.. | BSS::DSMITH | A Harley, & the Dead the good life | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:09 | 10 |
|
>Just make sure toys are ready fer me to play wif
Just let know what type of toys( I already have an idea or two from
reading some of your notes) you wants play to wif and how much time you'll
have to play..
Dave
|
323.851 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:17 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.834 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>
| I wouldn't support that display in Colorado. People cannot be frightened into
| a relationship with Jesus Christ. People come to Christ through the work of
| the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, and the love therein.
Jim, what you wrote above has got to be one of the best notes I have
ever seen anyone write. Thanks for writing it.
Glen
|
323.852 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:18 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.837 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Being weird isn't enough" >>>
| But doesn't he have an electrical banana?
But no batteries....
|
323.853 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:20 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.843 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| What prompted me to write here was more your casual remark on unsafe verses
| safe in the context of abortion.
Jack, where did I do this?
Glen
|
323.854 | No 666 room, though. | DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:23 | 10 |
| .818
Glenn,
Down in Texas, several churches sponsored or held alternative
"haunted houses" to the same effect. One even boasted of a "Lake
of Fire" room.
Barry
|
323.855 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:24 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.849 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, is being gay a lifestyle or is it a predisposition?
Jack, why do you equate gay to just sex? You would have to be doing
that to come out with the above based on what I said.
Glen
|
323.856 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:25 | 3 |
|
Barry, why do they do this???????????????
|
323.857 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:30 | 2 |
| Some lifestyles have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than
others.
|
323.858 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:37 | 3 |
|
RE: .85 Select Fire would be nice........ :')
|
323.859 | Tumble through room .223. | DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:38 | 2 |
|
.858 The Safety/Semi/Auto Fire room ?
|
323.860 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:39 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.857 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Some lifestyles have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than others.
False.
|
323.861 | | BOXORN::HAYS | Some things are worth dying for | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:39 | 7 |
| RE: 323.854 by DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE "HEY! All you mimes be quiet!"
Did they have a "Mormon Room", as did one church "alternative haunted
house" in New Hampshire? How about a "New Age Room"?
Phil
|
323.862 | | DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:44 | 6 |
|
They had a Jack Martin room. I was paralyzed with stupor.
Just kidding, Jack....
;^)
|
323.863 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:50 | 1 |
| <----heh heh.....
|
323.864 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:54 | 11 |
| Grrrrrrrr............!!!!
By the way Glen, somebody mentioned the haunted house showed an
abortion and it sounded like your use of the word, "unsafe" was
directed at everything the haunted house showed.
And I don't equate gay to just sex. I am asking clarification if gay
is a lifestyle or a predisposition. I believe it is a predisposition
so if anything, I'm NOT equating it to sex!
-Jack
|
323.865 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 13:57 | 2 |
| These people think they're so clever and they feel so good about this.
They are modern day pharisees who encourage hatred.
|
323.866 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:08 | 29 |
| | <<< Note 323.864 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| By the way Glen, somebody mentioned the haunted house showed an abortion and
| it sounded like your use of the word, "unsafe" was directed at everything the
| haunted house showed.
I went back and reread it. I guess it can be taken that way. Not the
way I had intended....sorry bout that.
| And I don't equate gay to just sex. I am asking clarification if gay is a
| lifestyle or a predisposition.
Well, basing your words upon what I said, I had thought you equated it
to sex. Being gay is not a lifestyle. It just is. Same with being heterosexual.
You have some people who have sex, some who don't. If you choose to have
sex, regardless of your orientation, it is my belief that is part of what you
want your life to include. Same would be there for reading, playing softball,
anything. All of these things combined make up your lifestyle. Each one is
different from another, because each person may have other things they include,
or exclude from it all.
I don't view being gay/straight a choice. I mean, I have never seen a
heterosexual who has stated they woke up one day and chose to be straight. So
why do some view that gays did?
Glen
|
323.867 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:15 | 2 |
| glen, you just don't get it do you? The only good sex is
vaginal intercourse within a heterosexual marriage. OK?
|
323.868 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:22 | 12 |
| Richard:
I think the big problem with this, and I include the James Dobsons of
the world, is that they are using the wrong strategy. Instead of
changing each individual so that the overall behavior of society will
change from the heart of mankind, there is currently a civil war that
will temporarily bring forth the concepts of conservatism, but will
ultimately and most likely fail, because the heart condition has not
changed. The civil war is a quick fix but ultimately the sheep will be
ascared again and vote with blinders on!
-Jack
|
323.869 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:32 | 18 |
| Glen;
Okay, so we have established it is NOT a lifestyle, it just is! I
think it would be safe to say people use the word lifestyle
incorrectly.
You seem to equate sex with an activity like reading a book was your
example. I put it more in league with something that out of context
can devastate a person. If I take morpheme in order to bear the pain
after a car accident, then it is proper. If I take it in order to have
a fix, then it is killing me. My lifestyle dictates life or death in
this case. If I have sex with my spouse, then it is an activity in its
context. If I sleep around with prostitutes 100 times a year, then my
lifestyle dictates life, death, or divorce. I can wear a concom while
making it with a prostitute but the ramifications of my lifestyle will
still ultimately catch up with me.
-Jack
|
323.870 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:35 | 1 |
| oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
|
323.871 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:38 | 2 |
|
.870 {pout}
|
323.872 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:39 | 3 |
| ZZ oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
Hey...You said it I didn't!
|
323.873 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:39 | 1 |
| and during sex keep your eyes closed at all times.
|
323.874 | | DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:42 | 1 |
| ...and think of Britannia...
|
323.875 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:42 | 2 |
| And when you disrobe, be sure your body from the neck down is under the
blankee!
|
323.876 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:43 | 1 |
| ...and then afterwards get up and take a shower right away.
|
323.877 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:47 | 3 |
|
Voice of experience???
|
323.878 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:47 | 1 |
| And then remain in seclusion for three days as a time of purification!
|
323.879 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:52 | 3 |
| |Voice of experience???
i dunno, andy. i've never had sex, i'm not married.
|
323.880 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:55 | 4 |
| > If I take morpheme in order to bear the pain
> after a car accident, then it is proper.
What if you take lexeme?
|
323.881 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:57 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.867 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>
| glen, you just don't get it do you?
Who told you!!?? :-)
| The only good sex is vaginal intercourse within a heterosexual marriage. OK?
Sigh....ok..... ;-)
|
323.882 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:59 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.868 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I think the big problem with this, and I include the James Dobsons of the
| world, is that they are using the wrong strategy. Instead of changing each
| individual so that the overall behavior of society will change from the heart
| of mankind,
Jack, change the individual from what to what?
Glen
|
323.883 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 14:59 | 5 |
|
>i dunno, andy. i've never had sex, i'm not married.
Then why all the comments as if they were facts??
|
323.884 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:00 | 2 |
|
.880 mincing words again, gerald? ;>
|
323.885 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Consume feces and expire. | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:01 | 5 |
|
>And then remain in seclusion for three days as a time of purification!
Is 3 days sufficient time to gain your "2nd virginity"?
|
323.886 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:01 | 2 |
|
aagagagag! Oph - are you for real?? ;>
|
323.887 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:02 | 16 |
|
re: .860
>| <<< Note 323.857 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
>| Some lifestyles have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than others.
>False.
When others do this, you're the first one to call them to task...
So... it's false.. huh?
Back it up then... where's your "facts"??
|
323.888 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:04 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.869 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I think it would be safe to say people use the word lifestyle incorrectly.
Yes. Many words get screwed up.
| You seem to equate sex with an activity like reading a book was your example.
| I put it more in league with something that out of context can devastate a
| person.
Jack, if a person read a book on how to kill their parents and get away
with it, wouldn't that be devastating? So that was why I included it in with
sex. All can be good, all can be bad. The key word is, "can".
Glen
|
323.889 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:04 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.870 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>
| oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
what if they wash first?
|
323.890 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:05 | 5 |
| |>i dunno, andy. i've never had sex, i'm not married.
|Then why all the comments as if they were facts??
ooh er, i read it in a book Jack lent to me. 8^}
|
323.891 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:05 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.878 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| And then remain in seclusion for three days as a time of purification!
Let's not forget to kill, and burn a dove......
|
323.892 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:08 | 5 |
| | oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
what if they wash first?
well, ok. it's a dirty job, but someone's got to do it.
|
323.893 | And no fudge-packing!!! | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:10 | 1 |
|
|
323.894 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Dancin' on Coals | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:14 | 3 |
|
Before or after sex?
|
323.895 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:23 | 10 |
|
Fudge Packing can be fun. Let me tell you about the time I did it. I
packed several little boxes full of fudge, and went around and handed them out
at a Christmas party.
So yes, fudge packing can be fun.
Glen
|
323.896 | How about "fisting"?? | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:24 | 1 |
|
|
323.897 | | EDITEX::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:24 | 4 |
|
Did you make the fudge yourself ?
|
323.898 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:25 | 1 |
| hetero or homo fisting?
|
323.899 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:25 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.896 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| -< How about "fisting"?? >-
Fisting is bad. It helps promote violence. Luv, not punches should be
had.
|
323.900 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:26 | 1 |
| fudge snarf!
|
323.901 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:26 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.897 by EDITEX::GUINEO::MOORE "HEY! All you mimes be quiet!" >>>
| Did you make the fudge yourself ?
No, I only fudge packed.
|
323.902 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:27 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.898 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>
| hetero or homo fisting?
We all know there is no hetero fisting....... ;-)
|
323.903 | Pigs is pigs... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:29 | 5 |
|
re: .898
> hetero or homo fisting?
|
323.904 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:35 | 1 |
| I got to hand it to you guys, you sure know how to cycle a cpu.
|
323.905 | | EDITEX::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:37 | 3 |
| Maybe we should go to lunch, or take a smoke break.
Hmmmm.
|
323.906 | new car sticker? | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:40 | 2 |
| Gone Fisting.
|
323.907 | or an ass.... | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:48 | 1 |
| Would it have a picture of a bass on it????
|
323.908 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:51 | 1 |
| How bout a bass looking very, very surprised?
|
323.909 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:51 | 5 |
|
>or an ass....
You got a bunch of extra photos of yourself????
|
323.910 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:55 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.908 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>
| How bout a bass looking very, very surprised?
Now that could work.
|
323.911 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:55 | 1 |
| Brings new meaning to the term `Rod and Reel'.
|
323.912 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:55 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.909 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| >or an ass....
| You got a bunch of extra photos of yourself????
Clothed or unclothed?
|
323.913 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Oct 31 1995 15:59 | 1 |
| andy, you're not being very nice to glen.
|
323.914 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Oct 31 1995 16:14 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.913 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>
| andy, you're not being very nice to glen.
And that is so rare for him to do!!!! :-)
|
323.915 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Oct 31 1995 23:14 | 4 |
| Glen. I noticed you conveniently skipped .887.
Take your mind out of the gutter for a moment and revisit
that one if you'd be so kind...
|
323.916 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 09:29 | 8 |
|
Didn't skip it, Joe, I didn't think I really had to say I wasn't the
one who made the claim that needed backing up. But apparently I guess I was
wrong and it needed to be said.
Glen
|
323.917 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Nov 01 1995 09:30 | 10 |
|
re: .913
>andy, you're not being very nice to glen.
Gee Bonnie.... I don't recall you making these types of comments when
he's on the giving end...
Would you like to see what he wrote about Jack Martin??
|
323.918 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 09:32 | 1 |
| <----I would....it will be nice to see if ya took it out of context...
|
323.919 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 01 1995 09:50 | 1 |
| Fire away...I'm thick skinned!!!!!
|
323.920 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 09:50 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.919 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Fire away...I'm thick skinned!!!!!
especially around the head....heh heh....:-)
|
323.921 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:02 | 7 |
|
You see Bonnie....
I guess my problem is I don't add smiley faces... that would just make
my a hypocrite... no?
|
323.922 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:05 | 10 |
|
re: .918
><----I would....it will be nice to see if ya took it out of context...
Nice bluff....
You wrote it... you should remember what you wrote... I extracted it
verbatim.
|
323.923 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:13 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.921 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| I guess my problem is I don't add smiley faces... that would just make
| my a hypocrite... no?
Andy, Jack and I have a history of going back and forth kidding around.
You and I do not. There is your difference. When I put the smiley faces on, I
mean just that. Do you think you could put a smiley face on and have it mean
that you're only kidding around?
Glen
|
323.924 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:17 | 13 |
|
Bull...
I tell a lot of Polish jokes... many people tell them to me...
I *KNOW* which people are telling me jokes to be funny/friendly/etc.
and which ones tell me those same jokes to jab and twist and to try and
make it hurt... Their crocodile smiles don't fool me, and neither do
yours...
In my ever so humble opinion of course...
|
323.925 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Erotic Nightmares | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:19 | 3 |
|
AIDS, people, AIDS!!
|
323.926 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:19 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.922 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| Nice bluff....
No bluff, Andy.
| You wrote it... you should remember what you wrote... I extracted it verbatim.
Ahhh..... now I know what you're talking about. The Jack Martin is that
word I can not use in here according to Milady. With that, I was pissed at him,
and there were no smileys. Jack & I talked about it in mail. It was cleared up.
Is that something you feel is possible with you and I? Btw, and I'm sure Jack
will clear it up if I am wrong.....but I believe that was the only time that I
was ever pissed like that towards Jack. Was it an over-reaction on my part? Yup.
But is it something that isn't an everyday occurance.
And as far as Bonnie not defending Jack goes, she may not have seen it.
The notes were deleted.....
Glen
|
323.927 | The Fonzie school of apologies... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:21 | 1 |
|
|
323.928 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:24 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.924 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| I *KNOW* which people are telling me jokes to be funny/friendly/etc. and which
| ones tell me those same jokes to jab and twist and to try and make it hurt.
Ahhhh yes.....another who knows what goes on in the hearts of people.
So many Gods in da box.....and I thought there was only one.....live and learn.
Glen
|
323.929 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:25 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.927 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| -< The Fonzie school of apologies... >-
How did apologies get into this? Certainly not towards you, as there is
no reason to apologize to you. All you have done is list your opinions.
Glen
|
323.930 | Clueless... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Wed Nov 01 1995 10:26 | 5 |
|
re: .928
>Ahhhh yes.....another who knows what goes on in the hearts of people.
|
323.931 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Wed Nov 01 1995 11:56 | 5 |
| andy, glen...have you guys ever done lunch?
no, i haven't read the silva/martin thingy in question.
i'll not continue this vermin hole, i'm just curious to
know if you've ever met, that's all.
|
323.932 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:06 | 3 |
|
We almost met once..... at a T-stop..... :-)
|
323.933 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Foreplay? What's that? | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:13 | 5 |
|
A truck stop?
Did Andy try to pick you up or something?
|
323.934 | do lunch! | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:22 | 5 |
| C'mon people now!
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another, right now
Right now! Right now!
|
323.935 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | Compilation terminated with errors. | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:32 | 2 |
| Yeah, The Bonster and I did, and she hardly hates me at all anymore.
:-)
|
323.936 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:41 | 38 |
| .916
You're right, Glen. I made the claim. I'll back it up.
According to Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who
Love Men", (1991, Alyson Publications) the typical homosexual
has between 10 and 110 different partners per year.
According to Dr. Paul Cameron in "The Gay Nineties" (1993,
Adriot Press) the average life span of a married man in the
U.S. is about age 75, while the average for a male homosexual
in the U.S. is about 42 -- and that's if he does NOT die of
AIDS.
"In the gay community, with its emphasis on youth and looks, the
incentive to postpone sexual pleasure for the promise of living
to a ripe old age wears thin..."
Tom Hold and Jim Fishman, "Honesty and HIV",
San Francisco Sentinel, 7-dec-1994.
"Part of it is people won't want to see the reality of gay life,
because they're repulsed."
Jonathan Demme, Director "Philadelphia"
"In the beginning we desperately wanted to believe it was some
big government plot. But the dust settled and the unspoken
horror sank in -- WE unknowingly gave the disease to each other.
Today we know better, yet we are STILL giving this disease to
each other, only now we can't blame Ron and Nancy."
San Francisco AIDS writer Robert DeAndreas, in
"Restoring a Subculture Named Desire," San
Francisco Sentinel, 16-feb-1994.
I'm getting tired of this. I can pick out dozens more quotes
if you want, but I don't see a value in belaboring the point.
Many people out there -- both outsie and within the gay movement
-- say and demonstrate that there is more risk within the gay
lifestyle.
|
323.937 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:47 | 5 |
| I sat right next to the Markster and broke bread. I shall
never forget it. And even though his politics are a bit
weird (as well as his table manners), it made no diff.
Brother, just kidding about the table manners. :-)
|
323.938 | | CALLME::MR_TOPAZ | | Wed Nov 01 1995 12:48 | 3 |
| > I sat right next to the Markster and broke wind.
Hope he had the right wine for that.
|
323.939 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Wed Nov 01 1995 13:11 | 1 |
| I heed not the wind-up, Topaz.
|
323.940 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | Compilation terminated with errors. | Wed Nov 01 1995 14:12 | 4 |
| >And even though his politics are a bit
>weird (as well as his table manners),
With a little practice you, too, can use chopsticks. :-)
|
323.941 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 14:52 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 323.936 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| You're right, Glen. I made the claim. I'll back it up.
No, Mike did I believe.
| According to Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who Love Men", (1991,
| Alyson Publications) the typical homosexual has between 10 and 110 different
| partners per year.
Where is my share? And what did they use as a survey? I mean, you're
big on data points and all. Let's see how important they really are to you.
| According to Dr. Paul Cameron in "The Gay Nineties" (1993, Adriot Press) the
| average life span of a married man in the U.S. is about age 75, while the
| average for a male homosexual in the U.S. is about 42 -- and that's if he
| does NOT die of AIDS.
And did they go into how they concluded this?
Nice to see you're back to the snipets again.
| I'm getting tired of this.
Well, when you're going nowhere, like you are, no wonder you're getting
tired.
| Many people out there -- both outsie and within the gay movement -- say and
| demonstrate that there is more risk within the gay lifestyle.
You can find people from any walk of life that could do this. And your
point being.....
Glen
|
323.942 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:06 | 11 |
| Glen:
The point being that Joe has provided documented proof that the life
expectency and the behavior of the gay population (AS A WHOLE) is
different from that of the heterosexual population.
Therefore, it would seem the ball is in your court to prove these
numbers are false; either by using an alternative source or by
disputung the reputability of Joe's resource.
-Jack
|
323.943 | | EDITEX::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:08 | 2 |
|
<Jack-putting-on-his-referee-uniform noises>
|
323.944 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:09 | 1 |
| That's right!!!!!!!
|
323.945 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:13 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.942 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| The point being that Joe has provided documented proof that the life
| expectency and the behavior of the gay population (AS A WHOLE) is
| different from that of the heterosexual population.
Snipets and opinions are not documented proof.
Glen
|
323.946 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:17 | 43 |
| <<< Note 323.941 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> And what did they use as a survey?
> ...
> And did they go into how they concluded this?
You have the references. Check it out yourself.
Want some more quotes? Here are some more from within your
expressed viewpoint:
"I show 'The Gay Agenda' and 'Gay Rights, Special Rights' (pro-
family videos) to seasoned, hardened gay and lesbian folk and
when we question them afterwards, they have more doubts about
themselves than they have about the videos. They secretly
wonder if maybe those guys aren't right."
Mel White. (!!!)
"It angers me when they say that AIDS is not a gay disease. AIDS
will always be a gay disease.
Robert DeAndreis in "We are as God created
us", San Francisco Sentinel 15-jun-1994
"AIDS is spread primarily in two ways: because of drug users
using unsafe needles and because of unsafe sex -- primarily
homosexual sex."
Bill Clinton (!!!) speaking to a junior
high school audience on Feb 3, 1994.
"I've definitely lived a gay life -- I've been in the bushes
and I've been in the toilets..."
Fashion designer Danilo in "Designing
Men", The Advocate, 18-Oct-1994.
"After six months [Bill and Tim] started living together. Now
six years later, not only are they still in love, they still
make love. What is their secret? Their aphrodisiac? The
answer: outside affairs. According to psychotherapists and
thinkers in the gay community, their experience is hardly
unique..."
Doug Sadownick, "Open Door Policy",
Genre, April 1994.
|
323.947 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:20 | 8 |
|
Say Joe.... the author or participants wouldn't happen to be part of
any religious organization, would they? If so, which one(s)?
Glen
|
323.948 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:35 | 1 |
| They go to your church Glen!! :-)
|
323.949 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | GTI 16V - dust thy neighbor!! | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:38 | 6 |
|
So Bill Clinton says that AIDS is caused by sharing needles and
gay sex.
I guess it IS true, then.
|
323.950 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 15:40 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.948 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| They go to your church Glen!! :-)
I really doubt that, Jack. :-)
|
323.951 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 01 1995 16:21 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.945 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Snipets and opinions are not documented proof.
It's more than you've been able to provide, and results of
studies are neither snippets nor opinions.
So are you asking me to enter the whole of Cameron's book wherein
he shows the relative lifespans? How about you try warming up
that library card of yours...
|
323.952 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 01 1995 16:42 | 26 |
| <<< Note 323.947 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Say Joe.... the author or participants wouldn't happen to be part of
>any religious organization, would they? If so, which one(s)?
Well, none of them seem to identify themselves as affiliated
with any religious organizations. Well, maybe Mel White does,
and Bill Clinton claims to be. The quotes I've provided you
aren't authored by anyone other than the people being quoted.
Want some more?
Apparently the previously mentioned Jack Hart book, "Gay Sex:
A Manual for Men Who Love Men" is one of the most detailed studies
of American homosexual behavior yet. It says that 92% of
respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 29% in sex involving
urine, 41% in fisting, 37% in sex involving deliberate pain,
88% in public sex or orgies, 24% in sex involving minors, and
13% in sex with animals at least once.
"Thailand is a paradise for gay men, and Bangkok -- the filthiest,
smelliest, dirtiest, most exciting city in the world -- has hundreds
of pubs, clubs, discos and gay guesthouses."
From an article of homosexual travel suggestions in
one of Australia's leading gay tabloids. "Around the
world with only gays," Sydney Star Observer, 22-sep-1994.
|
323.953 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 01 1995 16:49 | 6 |
|
41% fisting???? In what country, Joe?
|
323.954 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Go Go Gophers watch them go go go! | Wed Nov 01 1995 16:52 | 7 |
|
Actually, it was a poll of another planet ...
... Uranus.
|
323.955 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 01 1995 17:49 | 6 |
| The book says "American", so it doesn't specifically list a
country, Glen.
So, no comment on the oral/anal or group percentages? Didn't
all this precipitate from the suggestion that some lifestyles
in general have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than others?
|
323.956 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 02 1995 11:12 | 8 |
|
Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.
Glen
|
323.957 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 02 1995 11:18 | 7 |
| ZZ Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books
ZZ themselves. I am in the process of getting both of them Will respond
ZZ real soon.
HA!! I'm going to hold you to this! Don't believe him Joe! He lies!!
-Jack
|
323.958 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Thu Nov 02 1995 11:23 | 1 |
| are the books on order a la martin?
|
323.959 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 02 1995 11:24 | 3 |
|
I may not even have to buy them...... but if I need to, I will.
|
323.960 | Here or in the 'Conspiracy' note? | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Thu Nov 02 1995 15:57 | 35 |
| The Boston Globe Thu. Nov. 2, 1995 pg. 21
In survey of blacks, 35% tie AIDS to genocide
ASSOCIATED PRESS
SAN DIEGO - A survey of about 1,000 black church members in five cities found
that more than one-third of them believed the AIDS virus was produced in a
germ warfare laboratory and has been used to commit genocide against blacks.
Another third said they were "unsure" whether AIDS was created to kill
blacks. That left only one-third who disputed the theory.
The findings held firm even among educated individuals, said one of the
authors of the 1990 survey, Sandra Quinn, a health educator at the school of
Public Health at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill.
Rumors that AIDS was created to kill blacks have circulated in the black
community for years, and the belief is endorsed by some black leaders.
The surveyed group was not necessarily a representative sample of black
population, and the findings cannot be applied to blacks as a whole. But the
researchers were surprised by the prevalence of such beliefs. "They don't
trust our public health data," said Quinn, who is white. She has not surveyed
whits on the genocide question.
Quinn surveyed 1,054 church members in black churches in Atlanta, Charlotte,
N.C., Detroit, Kansas City, Mo. and Tuscaloosa, Ala.
Asked to react to the statement "I believe there is some truth in reports
that the AIDS virus was produced in a germ warfare laboratory," 33.9 percent
of 983 agreed or strongly agreed. Forty-four percent were unsure, Thirty-five
percent of 979 agreed or strongly agreed with the statement "I believe AIDS
is a form of genocide against black people." Thirty percent were unsure.
|
323.961 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:16 | 2 |
| I saw that in the paper too. It's the first I've ever heard of
this. Where did that idea start?
|
323.962 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:19 | 1 |
| why, it's a conspiracy, of course.
|
323.963 | | RUSURE::EDP | Always mount a scratch monkey. | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:26 | 17 |
| Note that the statement in the first paragraph of the story in .960
does not quite agree with the last paragraph. In the first paragraph,
it says more than a third believed AIDS was produced in a lab and has
been used to commit genocide. But the last paragraph shows a third
agreed there was _some_ truth in the statement that AIDS was produced
in a lab. And it says a third -- not necessarily the same people --
agreed AIDS is a form of genocide. They did not necessarily agree that
AIDS was USED to commit genocide; their agreement could simply
constitute agreement that AIDS is killing a lot of people, including
blacks.
-- edp
Public key fingerprint: 8e ad 63 61 ba 0c 26 86 32 0a 7d 28 db e7 6f 75
To find PGP, read note 2688.4 in Humane::IBMPC_Shareware.
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323.964 | | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:26 | 3 |
| re: .961
In a secret government lab, I imagine. 8^)
|
323.965 | I can't believe you sheeple don't believe! | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:47 | 16 |
| All things nutters. The very same people who bring you various nutter
theories:
* brain control
* pineapple bombs
* waffen agents
* weather control
* Foster-was-an-Israeli-spy
* Black helicopters
* NWO
* Queen is a dope dealer
* US was taken over in 1933
* Road sign codes
* blah blah blah blah blah
-mr. bill
|
323.966 | | DECLNE::REESE | ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:50 | 13 |
| Is there any evidence to support the theory that more blacks are
dying/suffering from the disease than other ethnic groups?
I thought white gay males still have the highest mortality rate
from the disease (although this group is bringing the spread of the
disease under control).
I would think before locking onto some nefarious conspiracy theory,
black church leaders should look to unprotected sex (between males
and females) and drug usage as being the culprits for spreading
the disease in their communities.
|
323.967 | Do not taunt happy-nutter-cow... | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Nov 02 1995 16:51 | 9 |
|
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323.968 | All things nutters .... | BRITE::FYFE | | Thu Nov 02 1995 17:10 | 3 |
|
I'm begining to believe it takes one to know one :-)
|
323.969 | One of the one stop nutters sites.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Thu Nov 02 1995 17:22 | 27 |
| Conspiracy Control & ????? has:
The nutter AIDS conspiracy theory.
And the nutter tax theories.
And the nutter Clinton scandals.
And the nutter One World Government theories.
And the nutter OKC bombing theories.
And a whole grab bag of nutter US out of control theories.
And the nutter cold war isn't over theories.
And the nutter FDA's mission is to kill Americans theories.
And the nutter militia's reports on black helicopters and other
absurdities theories.
And the nutter county supremacy theories.
And the nutter on and on and on and on.
"But the "author" of this site, just like the cross posters here,
disavows all responsiblity for the content.
If you all believe that all these wacky conspiracy theories might be
true, why do you reject out of hand the wacky conspiracy theory on
AIDS?
(For the record, *I* believe the nutters LIE. Do you?)
-mr. bill
|
323.970 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Thu Nov 02 1995 17:26 | 2 |
| You forgot the `the nutter donut alien theory'. An impressive list none
the less.
|
323.971 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | watchman on the wall | Thu Nov 02 1995 17:29 | 2 |
| It's true. I know because it was on the X-Files and the TV wouldn't
lie to me.
|
323.972 | | EDITEX::GUINEO::MOORE | HEY! All you mimes be quiet! | Thu Nov 02 1995 17:42 | 1 |
| ...and the nutter long-lunch-break and smoke-break theory.
|
323.973 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Thu Nov 02 1995 23:10 | 6 |
| Joe,
Do you have data that isn't presented out of context by a discredited
psychologist? Even J dobson says he has little in common with Cameron.
meg
|
323.974 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 03 1995 04:51 | 4 |
| Great, Meg. Discard the Cameron stuff. That still leaves
the vast majority of what I've posted.
Why ask, "Do you have any..." when you can clearly see I do!
|
323.975 | | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Nov 03 1995 08:57 | 5 |
| re: .969
>nutter county supremacy theories...
This is a new one on me.
|
323.976 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 03 1995 09:21 | 11 |
|
Joe, is it true that Paul Cameron happens to have been drummed out of
the American Psycology Association and the sociology groups for having made
statements not consistant with good studies?
Glen
|
323.977 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Fri Nov 03 1995 09:52 | 1 |
| and the anti-Paul Cameron conspiracy theory...
|
323.978 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Fri Nov 03 1995 10:12 | 16 |
|
re:.969
The nutter republicans want to starve kids theories.
And the nutter republicans want to throw old people out on the streets
theories.
And the nutter republicans want to make people drink dirty water
theories.
And the nutter republicans want to have dirty air theories.
And the nutter republicans are the real cause of the national debt
theories.
And the nutter republicans want to make all abortions illegal theories.
And the nutter on and on and on and on.
(For the record, *I* believe the nutters LIE. Do you?)
|
323.979 | blame it on the FUNKY MUNKERS! | CSC32::C_BENNETT | | Fri Nov 03 1995 11:09 | 8 |
| Well - heard the other day that it has been found but not announced yet
that HIV has mutated and in these cases HIV is no longer detectable
by current testing techniques. People are dying with full blown
AIDS symptoms but tests reveal that they never had it according
to todays testing standards.
This means that we are at square one again and the entire blood supply
is in question. DAM THOSE FUNKY MUNKERS!
|
323.980 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Nov 03 1995 11:14 | 2 |
| If that's the case, then getting tested together won't be like some
romanticize it!!!!
|
323.981 | | CSC32::C_BENNETT | | Fri Nov 03 1995 11:26 | 3 |
| and getting any type of blood tranfusion will be a gamble again... I
sure hope someone can find a cure for this once and for all!
|
323.982 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 03 1995 11:32 | 7 |
|
Well....before everyone goes ballistic, maybe we should wait and see if
this is even true?
Glen
|
323.983 | Glen, you sheep.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Fri Nov 03 1995 11:57 | 7 |
| | Well....before everyone goes ballistic, maybe we should wait and see if
|this is even true?
It's not true. But hell, nobody here seems to give a damn about truth
anymore, so why not just spread the lies....
-mr. bill
|
323.984 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Nov 03 1995 12:02 | 8 |
| Mr. Bill:
It isn't true because....
I believe there is a strong chance you are correct and I certainly hope
you are!
-Jack
|
323.985 | very real possibility of HIV mutation... | CSC32::C_BENNETT | | Fri Nov 03 1995 12:15 | 8 |
| It could be true -
Viruses commonly mutate... they are smart buggers...
I hope its not true also but researchers have always known this
is a possibility.
|
323.986 | Of course "it could be true." BUT IT ISN'T! | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Fri Nov 03 1995 12:19 | 5 |
|
You are spreading lies. Why?
-mr. bil
|
323.987 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Fri Nov 03 1995 12:55 | 6 |
|
> You are spreading lies. Why?
billy, that's an idiotic statement. There is no way on God's green
earth that you can prove he's lying.
|
323.988 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 03 1995 13:16 | 4 |
|
God's earth has more than just green as the color
scheme....well...except maybe in the 70's....;-)
|
323.989 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Fri Nov 03 1995 13:43 | 5 |
|
> scheme....well...except maybe in the 70's....;-)
I thought that was avocado ?
|
323.990 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Nov 03 1995 13:47 | 1 |
| I thought avocado was the '60s and harvest gold was the '70s.
|
323.991 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't drink the (toilet) water. | Fri Nov 03 1995 13:48 | 5 |
|
Avocado isn't green?
What is it ... purple?
|
323.992 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 03 1995 14:10 | 3 |
|
Horrible is a better word......
|
323.993 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 03 1995 16:36 | 3 |
|
Joe, could you address .976, please?
|
323.994 | Surprised you'd want to bring this back up... | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 03 1995 17:08 | 14 |
| What's to address, Glen? I don't know if he was or wasn't.
He says he left on his own. Show us your proof to te contrary.
Does it matter? Are you saying that you'd rather shoot the
messenger than disprove onece and for all what he claims?
And as I said in .974, does his questionability change what
was said by all the others? Even if you discard the single
Cameron item, what about the stuff by Jack Hart in "Gay Sex:
A Manual for Men Who Love Men", or what was said by your
sainted Mel White, or the gay journalists, producers, etc.
So attack Cameron all you want if it will make you feel better.
The other monkeys are still on your back.
|
323.995 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 03 1995 17:34 | 12 |
|
Well Joe, I guess I will have to take your word on you not knowing about
Cameron. So while I may question it, it's between you and God. But I do find it
surprising that you dropped the Cameron stuff so easily...... even back when
Meg mad a couple of remarks about him. You instantly took him out of the
equation. So if you're wondering why I question it, you now know why.
As far as Hart goes, I am working on that one.
Glen
|
323.996 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Fri Nov 03 1995 17:38 | 9 |
| Glen,
given the amount of publicity that cameron has had in the paper, I find
it difficult to believe that Joe hasn't read something about Cameron in
the local rag. they have had several reports about him, up to and
including Dobson's orgnaization working to rapidly distance thereselves
from him, while CFV is welcoming him with open arms.
meg
|
323.997 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Sun Nov 05 1995 11:21 | 56 |
| | <<< Note 323.952 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Apparently the previously mentioned Jack Hart book, "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men
| Who Love Men"
I have the book in my hands.... Joe, Joe, Joe.... very bad of
you....let's continue on.
| is one of the most detailed studies of American homosexual behavior yet.
We will address this one further down.
| It says that 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex,
I don't dispute this as if you stick vaginal in place of anal, it would
probably be the same with heterosexuals. But the book itself never gives any
numbers on this. But it did happen to mention a study from 1976 that 25% of the
men did not do anal sex. The 70's are a key thing with this book, when they did
list any studies....More on that one later....
| and 13% in sex with animals at least once.
According to a report published in 1977..... yeah...extensive study....
yup....
| 29% in sex involving urine,
| 41% in fisting,
| 37% in sex involving deliberate pain,
| 88% in public sex or orgies,
| 24% in sex involving minors,
Where did you get these numbers, Joe? I did not see them in this book at
all. And I read the whole thing. So please provide us with where these numbers
came up.
Now let's look at this extensive study. There was a chart in there that
had estimated risk of HIV transmission. In the book it states, "It is not
possible with these bars graph to see precisely where a bar starts and ends. We
chose not to give those numbers. This underscres the fact that the graph
illistrates a consensus of opinions, not hard medical fact. The general trends
and relationships shown here are signifigant and, we believe, helpful. The
presise numbers would not be.
What does Jack Hart himself said in his introduction:
"Most of all, though, I want to thank Pat C%%%%. For many years I've
enjoyed reading her, "Advocate Adviser" column, and I was delighted that she
consented to read and comment extensively on the manuscript. It is a much
better book because of her insights. On some issues, however, I have disagreed
with various people who read the manuscript, and opinions expressed in these
pages are strictly my own."
Yup....very extensive study you have here, Joe.
Glen
|
323.998 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Sun Nov 05 1995 22:56 | 32 |
| <<< Note 323.997 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| It says that 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex,
>
> I don't dispute this as if you stick vaginal in place of anal, it would
>probably be the same with heterosexuals.
There is a vast difference hygenically between cunnilingus
and analingus. This point was precipitated by the suggestion
that some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others. Even
here you seem forced to admit it.
>| and 13% in sex with animals at least once.
>
> According to a report published in 1977..... yeah...extensive study....
What makes you think that it is less likely to occur today?
>| 29% in sex involving urine,
>| 41% in fisting,
>| 37% in sex involving deliberate pain,
>| 88% in public sex or orgies,
>| 24% in sex involving minors,
>
> Where did you get these numbers, Joe?
Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be
back to work on Tuesday. Remind me.
Until then we'll just have to rely on the first point in this
reply showing that at least on that point even you agree with
the premise that some lifestyles are more unsafe.
|
323.999 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 08:50 | 33 |
| | <<< Note 323.998 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| There is a vast difference hygenically between cunnilingus and analingus.
What is that difference, Joe? Please tell me.
| This point was precipitated by the suggestion that some lifestyles have more
| <unsafe> than others. Even here you seem forced to admit it.
How you got that from what I wrote is beyond me. Please fill me in...
| What makes you think that it is less likely to occur today?
AIDS, maybe?
| > Where did you get these numbers, Joe?
| Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be back to work on
| Tuesday. Remind me.
You know I will. And if you would, please list the page numbers that
were supposed to have had this stuff.
| Until then we'll just have to rely on the first point in this reply showing
| that at least on that point even you agree with the premise that some
| lifestyles are more unsafe.
Rely on something you say I agree with when I don't? Try again, Joe.
Glen
|
323.1000 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 08:50 | 1 |
| 1000 snarfaroos!
|
323.1001 | \ | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 06 1995 08:53 | 4 |
| > What is that difference, Joe? Please tell me.
Fecal coliform bacteria, for starters.
|
323.1002 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 06 1995 09:01 | 5 |
|
gak
|
323.1003 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 09:01 | 1 |
| <---anymore?
|
323.1004 | Probably a lot more... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 10:28 | 3 |
|
Gak!!!!
|
323.1005 | | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 06 1995 13:38 | 10 |
|
(__)
(oo)
/-------\/
/ | || \
* ||W---|| GAK!!
~~ ~~
|
323.1006 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 06 1995 13:40 | 8 |
|
\|/ ____ \|/
@~/ ,. \~@
/_( \__/ )_\-------GAK!
~ \__U_/ ~
|
323.1007 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Fluffy nutter | Mon Nov 06 1995 13:49 | 10 |
|
\ (__)
(__)\ (oo)
(**) \------\/
/------\/ | || \
/| || ||W---|| GAK!!
/ ||W---|| ~~ ~~
* ~~ ~~
|
323.1008 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 13:52 | 34 |
| From a friend of mine:
don't think heterosexuals don't engage in analinguis either.
first off, as I am sure you are aware, hygeine, (good old fashioned soap
and water) is the best prevention for anyone, but then these idjits should know
that.
Now, as for vagina's while they don't as a general rule have coliform
bugs in them, they can have a host of other nasties.......Gonnoreah, syphilis,
gardenella, Trychimonas, clamydia, candidas just for potential starters. Also
there are bare inches between the vagina and the anus.
No from a personal perspective, I strongly doubt you or anyone else
would be indulghing in oral intercourse with someone who has dingle berries
hanging off theri hairs. (See soap and water) The risk, therefore would seem to
be minimal, unless your partner was less than forthcoming about their STD and
other disease status.
Same stuff, know your partner and their status, and there aren't alot
of problems, IMEO
********************************************************************************
So with the other things that are out there for women & men, men & men,
it would seem that there isn't a higher risk for gay sex.
Glen
|
323.1009 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 13:53 | 3 |
|
Brian, too funny! :-)
|
323.1010 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 13:55 | 9 |
| >From a friend of mine:
So.. one case a theory makes...
How nice...
And to think that others are taken to task for opining something
in similar words...
|
323.1011 | puke | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 06 1995 14:02 | 3 |
|
|
323.1012 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Mon Nov 06 1995 14:07 | 6 |
| things to wonder about today.
How so many men who have been in here saying they are straight seem to
"know" more about gay sex than the people who are openly gay.
Well?
|
323.1013 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Nov 06 1995 14:09 | 1 |
| Easy. We believe in the words from C. Everett Koop!
|
323.1014 | Happy?? | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 14:09 | 6 |
|
I have a cousin who is openly gay and he, his boyfriend and I talk
alot...
|
323.1015 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 14:13 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 323.1010 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| >From a friend of mine:
| So.. one case a theory makes...
Andy, do you dispute the things women can have? I didn't know what
women could have, so I went to one and asked.
| And to think that others are taken to task for opining something in similar
| words...
Andy, this ain't no stinkin scientific survey. And I did not claim any
of it as fact? I don't call people on opinions, just when they say it is a
fact. But I would have hoped that a woman explaining what women could get would
help make things clearer. When I call it a fact, then call me.
Glen
|
323.1016 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 14:18 | 9 |
|
From a friend of mine:
I went to ONE woman and this ONE woman told me how bad and nasty gays
are...
So, because of this ONE womans experience..... etc... etc...
|
323.1017 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:10 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 323.1016 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| I went to ONE woman and this ONE woman told me how bad and nasty gays are...
Andy, please don't tell me you're this stupid. Do you believe it would
be wise to go to a woman to find out what diseases a woman can get? I mean, I
did not see you dispute /john's fecal coliform bacteria. Why is that?
She told what diseases women can get. She is a woman. She should know
what diseases a woman can get. Did she list all of them? I couldn't tell ya.
But she sure listed a lot of them. So, do you disagree with any one of them?
Glen
|
323.1018 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:13 | 13 |
|
>Andy, please don't tell me you're this stupid.
Obviously, you are...
We are not talking about the "CONTENT" but the statistical
improbability of the "NUMBER ONE"...
Got it??
Naaaaaahh... didn't think so...
|
323.1019 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:24 | 14 |
|
Well....that's where you're lost. John answered a question I had. I
went to someone and asked them what can a woman have.
You don't seem to dispute either's content, so that seems fine. Now
tell me how this number thing is supposed to be working. When facts are
presented, and you seem to accept them as facts, where is there a need for
numbers? It would appear that the numbers are already done.
Glen
|
323.1020 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:26 | 3 |
|
Play your transparent little game...
|
323.1021 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:27 | 8 |
|
Andy, you're quite good at accusing people, but how about explaining?
What transparent game am I supposed to be playing? The answer is NONE, but I
would love to know what it is you were thinking I was doing.
Glen
|
323.1022 | How nice... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:28 | 1 |
|
|
323.1023 | puke | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:30 | 4 |
|
|
323.1024 | Contact with anything the mouth wasn't made to lick isn't good | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:33 | 3 |
| Soap and water don't do a very good job of eliminating fecal coliform bacteria.
/john
|
323.1025 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:33 | 1 |
| Glen uses Lysol.
|
323.1026 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Great baby! Delicious!! | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:34 | 3 |
|
Yeah, but how about anilingus with a really coarse tongue?
|
323.1027 | Gak and double gak! | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:35 | 5 |
| re .1026
Could you use a different personal name for this discussion?
/john
|
323.1028 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:36 | 25 |
|
re: .1021
You are a buffoon... aren't you....
If some.. oh.. let's just pull a wild example out of nowhere, "bible
thumper", used your method of anecdotal information and said something
like:
"From *a* friend of mine"... This womAn.. (singular)... etc. etc.
You would be the first with a reply demanding "facts", "where can this
information be found", "what are this person's credentials"... etc.
etc. ad naseam...
But, since this is ONE of your friends, and it's a woman.. well!
that's it then.. isn't it!!
I tried to beat you over the head with that 2X4 back there, but you,
in your normal modus operandi, scudded right over it and went into your
"game face"... ergo, your transparency...
NNTTM...
|
323.1029 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:38 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1024 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| -< Contact with anything the mouth wasn't made to lick isn't good >-
Was a mouth made to lick a woman's vagina?
Glen
|
323.1030 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:39 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.1026 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Great baby! Delicious!!" >>>
| Yeah, but how about anilingus with a really coarse tongue?
My cat has no complaints.... JUST KIDDING!
|
323.1031 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:39 | 1 |
| oh geeziz.
|
323.1032 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Great baby! Delicious!! | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:40 | 11 |
|
RE: John
Sorry, John ... I got the p_n from a Dave Barry column. It'll
be gone in about 1/2 hour or so.
RE: Glenn
Yuck!!
|
323.1033 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:40 | 4 |
|
Well folks, we've hit it, ground 0
|
323.1034 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:41 | 1 |
| re .1029 no.
|
323.1035 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:42 | 10 |
|
Oh, for one of Mr. Room's "flush it" banners.
JIm
|
323.1036 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:42 | 11 |
|
re: .1033
>Well folks, we've hit it, ground 0
Mike...
"we"?????????
|
323.1037 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:43 | 15 |
|
CCCCCCCC RRRRRRRRR AAAAAAAAAA PPPPPPPP
CC CC RR RR AA AA PP PP
CC C RR RR AA AA PP PP
CC RR RR AA AA PP PP
CC RR RR AA AA PP PP
CC RRRRRRRRRRR AAAAAAAAAAAA PPPPPPPPPPP
CC RRRRR AA AA PP
CC RR RR AA AA PP
CC RR RR AA AA PP
CC C RR RR AA AA PP
CC CC RR RR AA AA PP
CCCCCCCC RR RR AA AA PP
|
323.1038 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:46 | 30 |
| | <<< Note 323.1028 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| You would be the first with a reply demanding "facts", "where can this
| information be found", "what are this person's credentials"... etc.
| etc. ad naseam...
HELLO...EARTH TO ANDY!!!! Is a woman a good place to go to learn about
diseases they could catch? Yes or no.
If in my note it claimed these were all the diseases a woman could get,
then your point would make absolute sense. But my note does not. It does give
a list of diseases known to this woman.
You can see the difference between the two, right?
| But, since this is ONE of your friends, and it's a woman.. well! that's it
| then.. isn't it!!
What does that have to do with anything?
| I tried to beat you over the head with that 2X4 back there, but you, in your
| normal modus operandi, scudded right over it and went into your "game face"
| ... ergo, your transparency...
There is no game face Andy. None at all.
Glen
|
323.1039 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:48 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1034 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| re .1029 no.
Then how does it make gay sex more of a dangerous thing than
heterosexual sex, like Joe had stated?
Glen
|
323.1040 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:49 | 4 |
| > HELLO...EARTH TO ANDY!!!! Is a woman a good place to go to learn about
>diseases they could catch? Yes or no.
Is a child a good person to ask about childhood diseases?
|
323.1041 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:50 | 10 |
|
>HELLO...EARTH TO ANDY!!!! Is a woman a good place to go to learn about
>diseases they could catch? Yes or no. [sic]
No...
But do keep trying... there's a few more planets out there for you...
|
323.1042 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Great baby! Delicious!! | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:52 | 11 |
|
Picking a woman at random, you might get her to rattle off a few
diseases that she could contract.
Between 2 women, if you didn't find me, you'd find that there
are maybe 10 diseases that they know they could contract. But
where do these women go to find out what diseases they could
contract?
Maybe THAT'S the right person to ask.
|
323.1043 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:52 | 3 |
|
Why not?
|
323.1044 | It's a plant, isn't it ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:54 | 4 |
|
Yeast. Women bear yeast. Beware.
bb
|
323.1045 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:55 | 8 |
| re: .1043
>Why not?
Take a stab at Gerald's question and you'll have your answer...
I couldn't think of a good analogy at the time... thank you Gerald...
|
323.1046 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:55 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1042 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Great baby! Delicious!!" >>>
| Between 2 women, if you didn't find me, you'd find that there are maybe 10
| diseases that they know they could contract.
Errr....Shawn....where in that note did it say these are the ONLY
diseases a woman could contract? Where in any of my notes did I ever lay a
claim to that? I knew of ZERO. This woman provide me with some. Like I said to
Andy, if I made a claim that these were the ONLY diseases a woman could get,
then he would have a point.
Glen
|
323.1047 | Name that disease! | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:58 | 7 |
| It's time for....
.....beat the Reaper!
|
323.1048 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Great baby! Delicious!! | Mon Nov 06 1995 15:59 | 7 |
|
Glen, do you want to learn about diseases, or are you happy that
she can name a couple of them?
And if the asnwers to these 2 questions are "no" and "yes", then
I guess I missed the point and you are correct.
|
323.1049 | We can be like they are... | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:00 | 4 |
|
Seasons don't fear the Reaper
Nor do the wind, the sun and the rain...
|
323.1050 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:02 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.1045 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| Take a stab at Gerald's question and you'll have your answer...
You don't get it, do you. Why is it when the note never states that
these are all the diseases, why is it that when I even pointed out to you that
ONLY if the note stated these were the only diseases that you would have a
point, that you come back with this crap?
A child is not going to know every disease they can get. Some may know
of none, some may know of some. Same goes for anyone, whether a child or an
adult. But the ones that were listed are the ones that this woman knows about.
Her note even states, "Just for starters". Right there it should have shown you
it did not equal ALL.
If you can not say that these diseases are not real, then you don't
have a leg to stand on due to I never made a claim this is all there are.
Glen
|
323.1051 | | VMSNET::M_MACIOLEK | Four54 Camaro/Only way to fly | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:02 | 5 |
| I thought if you wear one of them condiments you don't get cooties.
I wouldn't know about this stuff unless the thing turned green and
fell off.
PS. Congrats Glenn, you done made me puke on my keyboard.
|
323.1052 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:04 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1048 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Great baby! Delicious!!" >>>
| Glen, do you want to learn about diseases, or are you happy that she can name
| a couple of them?
Actually, my original intent was to show that homosexual sex is no
worse for diseases than heterosexual sex.
Glen
|
323.1053 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Fluffy nutter | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:07 | 10 |
|
Anal sex is Russian Roulette with a penis instead of a revolver.
It is not solely a gay issue. The anus is a nasty neighborhood
and should be avoided. Tongues don't belong there either.
While I realize that some may have a side agenda of ridicule
and hatred of gays, that doesn't change the fact that anal sex
is bad news.
-b
|
323.1054 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | ch-ch-ch-ch-ha-ha-ha-ha | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:07 | 8 |
|
So ask a homo friend to name diseases [s]he's capable of catching,
and then ask a hetero friend to name diseases [s]he's capable of
catching, and the one that names the most diseases is obviously
the one in most danger of catching something.
Seems elementary to me.
|
323.1055 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:07 | 22 |
| lets face it ANY sex is unsanitary and can have unintended
consequences, including STD's which may or may not be curable with a dose
of Antibiotics, pregnancies in some cases, and is generally risky
behavior. People who are not responsible enough to admit sex can carry
unknown risks regardless of the gender(s) of the people involved,
should live as monks and leave the rest of us alone to go to hell or
heaven in our own fashion.
Glen asked someone, he has also told people what he doesn't indulge
in, and there are still people out here who seem to think gay == a fist
in anatomically improbable locations, rather than listening to a person
who is gay and asking him what he is doing, and ignoring the fact that
there are hetero couples who engage in many of the same high-risk
behaviors that some homosexual men (and women) engage in.
The risk of a monogamous relationship among two disease free people is
not going to cause a disease to spontaneiously show up, unless the
creationists think their diety is creating evyl bugs to punish the just
and unjust alike. or maybe their g-d also hates hemoraging women,
hemophiliacs, and people who need surgery where blood-loss is likely.
meg
|
323.1056 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:09 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1053 by MPGS::MARKEY "Fluffy nutter" >>>
Brian, this is where we were at before when I asked what is the problem
with it. John answered (the question was directed at Joe), and so I went
digging. (no pun intended) It would seem that sex, period, can be bad. It
really comes down to the individuals involved, doesn't it?
Glen
|
323.1057 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:16 | 7 |
|
re: .1055
Meg,
If a minute % of heterosexuals engage in unsanitary sex vs. a majority
of homosexuals.... who is at greater risk (monogamy non-withstanding)??
|
323.1058 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:22 | 16 |
| Sex is unsanitary in its whole. body fluids are exchanged (unless
latex or another barrier is used) There is Skin-skin, mouth-mouth and
orifice to orifice contact of all kinds that can and does go on.
when you come right down to it the only way I could see to make sex
sanitary would take all the fun out of it (for me anyway), or to hose
both persons off with lysol and/or clorine bleach (inside and out), not
something I would expose my tender places to, or to practice solo in
the tub where things can be washed down and the surface is easily
disinfected.
slitted latex sheets, condoms, and no kissing or forplay that creates
an exchange of fluids, bleah, rates right up there with sex for
procreation only.
|
323.1059 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:24 | 9 |
|
yeah right meg...
Tell me.... have you given blood lately???
What questions are asked of certain individuals and/or their
practices... and why??
|
323.1060 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:27 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1057 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| If a minute % of heterosexuals engage in unsanitary sex vs. a majority
| of homosexuals.... who is at greater risk (monogamy non-withstanding)??
Glad you said the word, IF, Andy. :-) What is your view on this? Do
you believe that the majority of homosexuals engage in anal sex? Do you believe
licking someone's butt is something that is included in with anal sex?
Glen
|
323.1061 | sheeesh. | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:28 | 5 |
|
Knock it off, already, will ya...
|
323.1062 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:29 | 3 |
|
GLEN! ANDY! Go get me something to beat you both with!!
|
323.1063 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:30 | 3 |
|
Promises...
|
323.1064 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:30 | 1 |
| lunch! lunch!
|
323.1065 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:34 | 9 |
|
>GLEN! ANDY! Go get me something to beat you both with!!
Why me??
I'm not the one with all those cute little anecdotes!!! And I'm not
trying to egg him on either!1 He's too dense for that... He wouldn't
know a "quip" or an "adage" if it hit him in the side of the cranium!!
|
323.1066 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:36 | 8 |
|
Hey, this is getting good. Insulted even when I'm not the one the one
he is replying too! How nice....
Glen
|
323.1067 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:37 | 3 |
|
Don't make me stop this car. I WILL stop this car!!!
|
323.1068 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:38 | 4 |
|
.1065 so, ad hominem attacks are okay if they're against Glen, but
not Nancy? i see. just tryin' to figure out the rules.
|
323.1069 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:40 | 11 |
| >What is your view on this? Do you believe that the majority of homosexuals
>engage in anal sex? Do you believe licking someone's butt is something
>that is included in with anal sex?
My cousin and his boyfriend attest to the fact that this is normal in
their sexual relationship (I don't know about the tongue thing) and
that in their past relationships it was also normal. They also stated
they know of NO gays that do NOT engage in this aspect of sex...
Do you? If not, then you are the exception to the rule...
|
323.1070 | | VMSNET::M_MACIOLEK | Four54 Camaro/Only way to fly | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:42 | 1 |
| Christ, the only thing I'll put up someone elses ass is my boot.
|
323.1071 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:43 | 11 |
|
re: .1068
>.1065 so, ad hominem attacks are okay if they're against Glen, but
>not Nancy? i see. just tryin' to figure out the rules.
So Di.... are you saying that in Topaz's eyes, Nancy deserved them?
In my eyes? Does Glen deserve them? In your eyes (or mine)??
Want to single anyone else out while you're at it???
|
323.1072 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:47 | 7 |
|
>> So Di.... are you saying that in Topaz's eyes, Nancy deserved them?
>> In my eyes? Does Glen deserve them? In your eyes (or mine)??
A basic understanding of the language would tell you that I
was pointing out what I perceived to be a double standard.
|
323.1073 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:49 | 4 |
|
I guess a basic understanding of the language is in the eye of the
beholder...
|
323.1074 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Nov 06 1995 16:53 | 9 |
|
>> I guess a basic understanding of the language is in the eye of the
>> beholder...
so does this mean you didn't understand that i was pointing
out a double standard? i don't know how it could have been more
clear, i really don't.
|
323.1075 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 06 1995 17:04 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1069 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| My cousin and his boyfriend attest to the fact that this is normal in
| their sexual relationship (I don't know about the tongue thing) and
| that in their past relationships it was also normal. They also stated
| they know of NO gays that do NOT engage in this aspect of sex...
I know of many who do not. I do, but there are those out there who
don't.
Glen
|
323.1076 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Mon Nov 06 1995 17:07 | 12 |
|
So there it is.... it's all anecdotal and not worth a hill of beans!!!
So let's get back to facts and not fiction (anecdotes)
Do you give blood? Why/why not?
What/who are those questions aimed at about certain behaviours on the
the donor forms???
|
323.1077 | | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 06 1995 17:09 | 1 |
| The AIDS Topic people The AIDS Topic!!!
|
323.1078 | False Positive | ROWLET::AINSLEY | Less than 150 kts. is TOO slow! | Mon Nov 06 1995 17:13 | 10 |
| re: .1076
>Do you give blood? Why/why not?
Nope. My cholesterol medication triggers a non-specific test for a
blood problem. I guess the specific test is too expensive, so they
reject blood that is otherwise good.
Bob
|
323.1079 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Mon Nov 06 1995 18:40 | 11 |
| Haven't been able to give blood for years. Pregnancy, nursing a child,
have prevented it.
I would imagine that high-risk behaviours for many diseases, such as iv
needle use, and multiple sexual partners in a short time would be
ground also for not donating blood. Question, what is the fastest
growing cause of death (excluding accidents and homocides) for women of
child-bearing years? This ain't just a gay disease here that you are
talking about.
meg
|
323.1080 | Answers your questions in .1060 | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Mon Nov 06 1995 20:24 | 25 |
| <<< Note 323.1008 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> don't think heterosexuals don't engage in analinguis either.
Pigs is pigs.
The types and amounts of bacteria a person is exposed to with
anal sex is unmatched by any other sort of sexual contact because
of the nature if the biological function of that orifice and the
product that is naturally expelled from there. That orifice was
not designed biologically for the stretching and force necessary
for anal copulation. Anal penetration almost invariably results
in small skin breaks in and around that orifice, exposing the
person being penetrated to extreme amounts of bacteria.
The diseases you listed, Glen, are not limited to spread by
vaginal contact, but the disease risks due to bacteria from
anal contact are primarily limited to anal contact.
You have already conceded that 92% participation by gays in
analingus is not unreasonable. You also mentioned that 25%
of gays say they do not practice anal sex (implying that 75% do)
in .997.
That implys a different (greater) level of risk to me.
|
323.1081 | | ACIS03::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 07 1995 08:40 | 11 |
|
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Gak!
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323.1082 | | RUSURE::EDP | Always mount a scratch monkey. | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:13 | 13 |
| Re .965:
> The very same people who bring you various nutter theories:
One-third of black people bring us all those theories? That's very
racist of you.
-- edp
Public key fingerprint: 8e ad 63 61 ba 0c 26 86 32 0a 7d 28 db e7 6f 75
To find PGP, read note 2688.4 in Humane::IBMPC_Shareware.
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323.1083 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:14 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.1076 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>
| Do you give blood? Why/why not?
Yes. I give blood incase others need it.
| What/who are those questions aimed at about certain behaviours on the
| the donor forms???
Anyone having sex.
|
323.1084 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:16 | 7 |
|
Joe... you're back! How about addressing .997 now?
Glen
|
323.1085 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:29 | 11 |
| > Yes. I give blood incase others need it.
If you are giving blood, Glen, then you are (1) telling lies at the
donor center or (2) telling lies here in Soapbox or (3) wasting your
time at the donor center.
If what you have told us in this topic (that you have sex with other men)
is true, and you are being honest with the blood center when they ask you
the required questions, then they are throwing your blood out.
/john
|
323.1086 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:36 | 7 |
|
If they are throwing it out, I doubt they would have taken it in the
1st place.
Glen
|
323.1087 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | I'm a lumberjack and I'm ok | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:39 | 1 |
| He's right, Glen. They throw out high risk blood.
|
323.1088 | Anticipating Glen's next reply | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:40 | 5 |
|
Got any proof?
|
323.1089 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:41 | 7 |
|
John is right.... If you have answered the questions truthfully, then
they will not use your blood... maybe for testing purposes, but never
for a transfusion to another human being.
If you lied... well then, that speaks volumes...
|
323.1090 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:42 | 10 |
|
.1086, Glen:
They will take your high-risk blood, Glen, but they won't use it
in people. They will either throw it out or use it for testing
purposes.
I believe that the policy is to NOT refuse gay donors, as they are
worried about discrimination lawsuits.
|
323.1091 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:46 | 3 |
|
Well, that explains why they take it, but why do they throw it out?
|
323.1092 | | CALLME::MR_TOPAZ | | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:46 | 1 |
| They send it to France to use in soup.
|
323.1093 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:48 | 1 |
| <----what kind?
|
323.1094 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:49 | 1 |
| I don't give blood because I'm afraid of needles.
|
323.1095 | re Topaz's .1092 | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&Glory! | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:49 | 2 |
| G���k!!
|
323.1096 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Act like you own the company | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:51 | 6 |
|
Lawsuits!! Now I've heard everything!!
Who would sue someone for NOT sticking them with a needle and
sucking out a quart of blood??
|
323.1097 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:51 | 5 |
|
re: .1095
He *did* warn you about soapbox.. didn't he??
|
323.1098 | pint | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:53 | 3 |
|
re: .1096
|
323.1099 | Do I remember MrTopaz's warning | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&Glory! | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:53 | 4 |
| (gulps, swallows hard) Yes
(PS, that was NOT soup I was swallowing)
|
323.1100 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:54 | 38 |
| Here are the current questions asked at all blood donor centers:
Do you have AIDS or have you ever had a positive test for the AIDS virus.
Have you had sex with anyone who has had AIDS or has had a positive test
for the AIDS virus.
Have you had sex with another man even one time since 1977.
Have you had sex with anyone who has ever taken illegal drugs with a needle.
Have you taken clotting factor concentrates for a bleeding disorder such
as hemophilia.
Have you had sex with anyone who has taken clotting factor concentrates for
a bleeding disorder such as hemophilia.
At any time in the last 12 months have you given money or drugs to
anyone to have sex with you.
At any time since 1977 have you taken money or drugs for sex.
In the last twelve months have you had any venereal disease such as
syphillis or gonorrhea or been treated for syphillis or gonorrhea.
In the last twelve months have you received blood or blood products
by transfusion for any reason such as an accident or surgery.
Are you a current inmate of a correctional institute or have you been
incarceraterd at a correctional institute for more than 72 consecutive
hours within the last twelve months.
Then a number of symptoms are asked about.
If any of these questions are answered yes, the blood is to be taken but
discarded.
/john
|
323.1101 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:56 | 10 |
|
re: .1100
>If any of these questions are answered yes, the blood is to be taken
>but discarded.
Yes, but we must make sure the donor feels good about giving...
|
323.1102 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Act like you own the company | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:58 | 7 |
|
>Have you had sex with another man even one time since 1977.
I wonder how a woman donor would answer this question?
And which answer is the "correct" one?
|
323.1103 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Nov 07 1995 09:59 | 8 |
| ZZ Are you a current inmate of a correctional institute or have you been
ZZ incarceraterd at a correctional institute for more than 72 consecutive
ZZ hours within the last twelve months.
Just goes to show you what a reputation our penal system has! (No pun
intended!)
-Jack
|
323.1104 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 10:05 | 5 |
|
re: .1102
The questions are broken down into gender on the form...
|
323.1105 | It doesn't make sense | TROOA::trp669.tro.dec.com::Chris | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:07 | 7 |
| I am a regular blood donor as well as white platelets and found out
from the nurses that a regular whole blood donation costs the Red Cross
$110.00 for the tubing, sacs, test tubes etc and that the platelet
donation costs them $250 in material. So I wonder, which would cost
more - the possible lawsuit of a gay male who was turned away before
making the donation, or the costs of taking donation after donation and
then throwing them away?
|
323.1106 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:11 | 6 |
| > So I wonder, which would cost
>more - the possible lawsuit of a gay male who was turned away before
>making the donation, or the costs of taking donation after donation and
>then throwing them away?
You must be Canadian or something.
|
323.1107 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:12 | 3 |
|
So....why do they throw it out?
|
323.1108 | I know you're not as stupid as you pretend to be, Glen | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:14 | 4 |
| To protect the blood supply from contamination by HIV introduced from those
who engage in high-risk behaviours.
/john
|
323.1109 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:14 | 3 |
| Don't you read the stuff they hand you when you give blood? The HIV test they
use isn't foolproof, so they eliminate high-risk donations by not using their
blood. Which sticker do you put on your form?
|
323.1110 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:15 | 8 |
|
.1107
To the best of my knowledge they don't usually throw it out, they
use it to test their testing procedures, and for other experimental
or research purposes, which would seem to have some value in and of
itself.
|
323.1111 | To avoid any chance of mislabeling. | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:18 | 3 |
| According to people I know in donor centers, it's discarded right away.
/john
|
323.1112 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:19 | 3 |
|
yes, but why John???? Why??? Why??? Why???
|
323.1113 | There is no safety... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:21 | 14 |
|
If they don't take it, they'll be sued.
If they use it on people, they'll be sued.
But actually, I think it's just a matter of time before they are
sued for the current policy also.
And in any case, they will lose, the jury routinely awarding treble
punitive damages, most of which will go to the lawyers, who started
the case in the first place and talked some clueless individual into
being plaintiff for a few bucks.
bb
|
323.1114 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:27 | 6 |
|
What a gigantic waste of resources, time and money! Gays know their
blood won't be used (if they're truthful about it), so why bother...
(Glen Silva's pretense non-withstanding)??
|
323.1115 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:49 | 11 |
|
.1111
It could be different here, but I confess I am no expert on the
subject.
It's been a while since I've given; the procedure now (here) is to
be *interviewed* by a nurse, rather than simply filling out the
forms. The time it takes to give has tripled, and I don't really
feel like jawing with some stranger regarding my sex life.
|
323.1116 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Tue Nov 07 1995 11:59 | 1 |
| All this makes the JW's say "See, I told you so!"
|
323.1117 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 12:13 | 17 |
|
re: .115
>the procedure now (here) is to be *interviewed* by a nurse,
It's been that way for quite some time... at least for my last 24 or so
donations...
No big deal... it's very matter-of-fact... The nurses could care less
about your personal sex life.... I believe this is called "aversion
therapy" for them? :)
re: "tripled"
So.. just imagine... if known "at risk" people would just stay away,
that time might decrease... Costs might decrease... etc...
|
323.1118 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Tue Nov 07 1995 12:25 | 10 |
|
.1117
>The nurses could care less about your personal sex life...
I'm not so sure about that. For instance, there's this one thing
we do where I...
...but I digress.
|
323.1119 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Fluffy nutter | Tue Nov 07 1995 12:32 | 15 |
|
There are certain keywords guaranteed to pique the nurse's interest:
siamese twins
cool whip
great dane
mormom tabernacle choir
first cousins
a nun's habit
orthopedic shoes
the anal intruder
rubber undergarments
food processor
-b
|
323.1120 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Working for paper and iron... | Tue Nov 07 1995 12:56 | 3 |
|
...and, of course, "Wankel rotary engine".
|
323.1121 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 12:58 | 1 |
| Oh, a Mazda-slave relationship.
|
323.1122 | Leather's handballing/fisting page | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:01 | 7 |
|
A link I think I won't even bother to follow:
http://www.trends.ca/~leather/public_html/handball.html
(A link off our old friend Charles Haynes's home page.)
|
323.1123 | Why did I think I wanted to see what Charles is up to... | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:03 | 9 |
| Oh, and Charles provides some links to pictures we don't need to see:
Ben biting Charles
Charles's purple dick on the streets of DC
Charles in hair bondage
Anyone want to get fisted?
Joshua and Charles in DC
Long black hair and a naked butt
|
323.1124 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Fluffy nutter | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:11 | 6 |
|
Watch yourself John. By even visiting such pages you may find
yourself on the government's "list"... and if you think you
had trouble with the placard thing...
-b
|
323.1125 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Tootsie Pops | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:14 | 5 |
|
When did they start asking the prison inmate question? I've never been
asked that. It must have been rather recently.
|
323.1126 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:16 | 4 |
| Yep. It's brand new. They added it in the same revision that removed the
question asking if you were from any of the non-Islamic African countries.
/john
|
323.1127 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz! | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:16 | 3 |
|
Why, Deb? Does this mean you won't be giving blood any more?
|
323.1128 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:18 | 4 |
| re red cross:
Yet another indication that some lifestyles have more <unsafe>
than others...
|
323.1129 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:20 | 5 |
| <<< Note 323.997 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Where did you get these numbers, Joe?
Bibliography says HART, p. 179.
|
323.1130 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Tootsie Pops | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:27 | 5 |
|
I usually titter with embarassment when they ask most of those
questions 8^).
|
323.1131 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:39 | 12 |
|
I'll look AGAIN, Joe, but when I read it last time I did not see that.
But seeing you do have the book in front of you, care to comment on why you
thought this was one of the most extensive studies done when he says in the
intro the pages to follow are his opinion? Or how you thought this was one of
the most extensive studies when the one chart they put in had a disclaimer
stating that it is based on opinion, and not fact?
Glen
|
323.1132 | Buffoon... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:46 | 7 |
|
re: .1083
> Anyone having sex.
And you want to be taken seriously??????
|
323.1133 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | I'm a lumberjack and I'm ok | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:47 | 2 |
| I say we lock Andy and Glen in a room together until they learn to play
nicely.
|
323.1134 | .1080 should be sufficient reason | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:47 | 18 |
| .1131
No, Glen, I'd not care to do so. You've already stated bluntly
on several occasions that you doubt what I say, so why should
I bother? And you quite consistently disagree with whatever I
say as a matter of course, so why should I bother? Answering
your questions has no bearing on the point at hand.
Bottom line out of all this discussion is that you disagreed with
my statement that some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others,
and I've shown a broad range of examples that agree with me --
from the President, to Mel White, to gay journalists and others
within the gay community, to other authors, to the Red Cross, etc.
I'm sure that your mother agrees too. And surely that's just a
part of the list.
You're going to end up buying a lot of sources and wasting a lot
of time to nit-pick them all.
|
323.1135 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:55 | 9 |
| joe,
some lifestyles are more dangerus than others.
people who eat char-broiled red meat regularly are indulging in
unhealthy habit that will most likely shorten their lives, as are
people who eat raw seafood, drive beyond the speedlimit, run lights,
and a host of other things. Sex ahbits aren't the only high-risk
factors.
|
323.1136 | Riddle me this... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:57 | 16 |
| re: .1133
Maybe a TTWA???
Why is it a Jack Martin is taken to task for running his mouth
helter-skelter, but a Glen Silva isn't????
>I say we lock Andy and Glen in a room together until they learn to play
>nicely.
Why isn't this suggested of Jack Martin and Mr. Topaz??? Or Nancy and
Mr. Topaz??
Yes... definitely things to wonder about...
|
323.1137 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 13:58 | 4 |
|
re: .1135
Yes, meg, but why aren't these questions asked on blood donor forms??
|
323.1138 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:05 | 6 |
| > people who eat char-broiled red meat regularly are indulging in
> unhealthy habit that will most likely shorten their lives,
Yeah! See 14.4605!
/john
|
323.1139 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | I'm a lumberjack and I'm ok | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:15 | 4 |
| > Why isn't this suggested of Jack Martin and Mr. Topaz??? Or Nancy and
>Mr. Topaz??
Because you're being picked on unfairly. /hth
|
323.1140 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:22 | 4 |
| IMO people who eat raw seafood should be on the list. there is a
significant risk of hepetitus from eating uncooked seafood.
|
323.1141 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:23 | 1 |
| Sushi forever!!
|
323.1142 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:29 | 9 |
|
re: .1140
>IMO people who eat raw seafood should be on the list. there is a
>significant risk of hepetitus from eating uncooked seafood.
So.. there's an "action item" for you meg!! Write to the Red Cross and
voice your concerns....
|
323.1143 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Fluffy nutter | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:32 | 4 |
|
I'll give up my uni when they pry my cold dead fingers...
-b
|
323.1144 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:32 | 5 |
| oh,
and abnormal cholesterol counts (high or low) have caused people to be
sent cards which say "we don't want your blood anymore." So on to the
char-broiled burnt dead cow question?
|
323.1145 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Been complimented by a toady lately? | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:35 | 6 |
|
Now you're reaching meg...
Ummmmm.. how many people across the country would that be perhaps??
|
323.1146 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 07 1995 14:35 | 7 |
| re .1135
Meg, my original statement (.857) was made without qualification.
Examples such as yours were firmly in mind when I posted it. So
too were stunt motorcycle drivers, cocaine users, international
spies, and a bunch of other things. Which makes the initial
response to my statement (.860) all the more incorrect.
|
323.1147 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Nov 07 1995 15:05 | 1 |
| Hepatitis. NNTTM.
|
323.1148 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 16:12 | 41 |
| | <<< Note 323.1134 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| No, Glen, I'd not care to do so. You've already stated bluntly on several
| occasions that you doubt what I say, so why should I bother?
Here we are...when Joe can not answer, he throws this stuff out. At
least you're consistant.
It comes down to this, Joe. Credibility. You stated it was one of the
most extensive studies, and it is a study based on opinions, the authors. He
even states it is not fact. So how can that be one of the most extensive
studies? Answer is, it can't.
It doesn't matter if I agree with you. It would be nice to know how a
book that states it is not fact is this extensive study.
| and I've shown a broad range of examples that agree with me --
You haven't shown anything that is true, yet.
| from the President, to Mel White, to gay journalists and others
| within the gay community, to other authors, to the Red Cross, etc.
Yeah, the snipets...... how credible....
| I'm sure that your mother agrees too.
When I first came out, yeah....she did. But not anymore.....
| You're going to end up buying a lot of sources and wasting a lot of time to
| nit-pick them all.
Why? Your credibility was shot to Hell based on what you've written in
here about that so called extensive study. I mean, first you pushed the Cameron
stuff, but back away as soon as anyone questioned you on it. But you kept
pushing this extensive study stuff.... and now it's trash, too.
Glen
|
323.1149 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Nov 07 1995 16:19 | 1 |
| I wouldn't say it is shot to hell....not by any means.
|
323.1150 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 07 1995 16:43 | 19 |
| Glen, when are you ever going to learn to spell snippet?
And would you be so kind as to nit-pick for us why the Red
Cross chooses to throw our your blood when you donate (that
is, if you are honest in filling out their questionnaire.)
So you've decided that all of Jack Hart's stuff is opinion
(in spite of the fact that you even admitted and quoted
survey results from his book.) For the sake of argument,
I'll work with your assessment. I find it interesting that
you are so quick to throw out his opinion when you are willing
to rely on the opinion of some unnamed friend in .1008. Do
you also reject the opinions of Gay AIDS Columnist Robert
DeAndreis, or even Mel White?
Joe *HAS* answered. What you find important is merely a smoke-
screen to the fact that homosexual sex has more risk that common
heterosexual practices, and I will not cater to your deflections.
Go play with .1080 if you want to debate the real issue.
|
323.1151 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 07 1995 17:07 | 40 |
| | <<< Note 323.1150 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| So you've decided that all of Jack Hart's stuff is opinion
Actually, he did that himself in the intro.
| (in spite of the fact that you even admitted and quoted survey results from
| his book.)
It might have been two studies, both from the 70's. Both pre-aids
dated. Even in his intro he said part of the reason he wanted to write this book
was due to there not really being much out there that wasn't pre-aids dated. But
he still went on to say it is his opinion.
| I find it interesting that you are so quick to throw out his opinion when you
| are willing to rely on the opinion of some unnamed friend in .1008.
You don't get it, do you? YOU made a CLAIM it was ONE OF THE MOST
EXTENSIVE STUDIES ever done. The book is a, "how to" book for having sex. It is
not some extensive study.
| Do you also reject the opinions of Gay AIDS Columnist Robert DeAndreis, or
| even Mel White?
When you can provide the entire article of what was said, and not some
snippet, then we will talk. Until then, you have provided nothing.
Anyone could take the following line, "Religious leaders hate sin" and
turn it into, "Religious leaders hate". So provide the whole thing, or you have
provided nothing.
| Joe *HAS* answered. What you find important is merely a smokescreen
Smoke screen? Come on, Joe. You make claims you can't back, and you
have the nerve to say smokescreen to me? Come on, now...
Glen
|
323.1152 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 07 1995 17:45 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.1151 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| Do you also reject the opinions of Gay AIDS Columnist Robert DeAndreis, or
>| even Mel White?
>
> When you can provide the entire article of what was said, and not some
>snippet, then we will talk. Until then, you have provided nothing.
I provided the publication and the article name and date for
most, if not all of them.
> Smoke screen? Come on, Joe. You make claims you can't back, and you
>have the nerve to say smokescreen to me? Come on, now...
What? That some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others?
You are about the only one disagreeing with that. Eliminating
(in your mind) a fraction of the preponderance of support does
not eliminate the claim. Using your rejection of a particular
phrase I used to demonstrate the absence of backing is merely a
smokescreen.
You conveniently ignore .1080.
|
323.1153 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 08 1995 08:59 | 32 |
| | <<< Note 323.1152 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| I provided the publication and the article name and date for most, if not all
| of them.
Joe, you also provided the publication for that book. You know, one of
the most extensive studies? That proved to be false, too. Like when I went to
look at page 179 of the Hart book (which your note .1129 said contained key
info) which was supposed to be the Bibliography, but was not. That was actually
on page 183. Did you even get this book? I did read the bibliography which
started on 183 and went several pages, and not one thing in there about % of
any kind. And the book is here if anyone would like to check it out for
themselves. What it comes down to, Joe...is seeing these numbers aren't there,
it would seem there is a problem with you listing things as meaning one thing,
when in reality they mean another. So where did those other numbers come from,
Joe?
| > Smoke screen? Come on, Joe. You make claims you can't back, and you
| >have the nerve to say smokescreen to me? Come on, now...
| What? That some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others?
The book, Joe....the book.....
| You conveniently ignore .1080.
Ignore? No. Checking out? Yes.
Glen
|
323.1154 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 08 1995 12:33 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1153 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| What? That some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others?
>
> The book, Joe....the book.....
Still missing the forest for the trees, I see.
Tell me why the Red Cross throws out your blood, Glen.
|
323.1155 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 08 1995 12:53 | 11 |
|
Joe, I told you I was working that issue..... should have the answer by
tomorrow or Friday.
Please answer .1153 please.
Glen
|
323.1156 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 08 1995 13:24 | 19 |
|
Deb, if they bring up fisting anymore..... just break out the fist
buster:
-------\ RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
/--------//--------\\___
[----- / \>->->->->->->->->->_
[ | /_--_\ | )
\ O-- | |- -| | )
\___ |-- \____/ <-<-<-<-<-<-<-<-<-<-/
---\ FIST Buster 100/
---------------/
|
323.1157 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 08 1995 13:59 | 8 |
| > Please answer .1153 please.
I did. See my first sentence of .1154. Your reliance on
this as your only point continues to demonstrate my answer.
Tell us why the Red Cross throws out your blood.
Tell us why gay men have a shorter lifespan that heterosexuals.
|
323.1158 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 08 1995 19:51 | 8 |
| Joe,
Glen said he is looking into it.
You have not answered his questions. I am sure you have page numbers
from Glen's earlier postings.
meg
|
323.1159 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 09 1995 07:44 | 38 |
| | <<< Note 323.1157 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Please answer .1153 please.
| I did. See my first sentence of .1154.
WRONG! You have not told us where you got the numbers of 41% of the men
fist (sorry, Deb), etc. You CLAIMED they were in that book. You CLAIMED they
were on page 179. BOTH claims were wrong. The numbers that I asked about were
NOT in the book. That leaves me with two possibilities. One, is that you got
the numbers from somewhere else, and tried to pass it off as this book, or two,
you lied. Now if it is not either of these two, explain where you actually got
these numbers. Did you take them from somewhere else? Did you lie? Is there
another reason? Only you can clear it up.
| Tell us why the Red Cross throws out your blood.
I called the RC yesterday. The nurse I talked to said that in 1985, the
Food & Drug Administration came out with the guidelines they are supposed to
follow. They do NOT throw out your blood if you are gay. But they do throw out
your blood if you have had sexual contact with a man since 1977. I asked what
were the reasons? She said, AIDS. I asked her why is it tied just in with
homosexuals. She said that in 1985, when they came up with the original
guidelines, gay men were in the majority for AIDS. She did say that due to the
CDC's recent numbers, this policy will be changing. She SUSPECTS that the 1977
stuff will be gone, and a 1 year thing will take it's place. And, stricter
guidelines will be added into the heterosexual population. As it stands now, if
a heterosexual has multiple partners, they will not use the blood. I guess the
CDC is what pushes the FDA on things like this. (according to the nurse)
| Tell us why gay men have a shorter lifespan that heterosexuals.
Joe, that was a claim made by your snipets. After your last claim,
where you have yet to tell us where all these mysterious numbers came from, it
really isn't credible.
Glen
|
323.1160 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 09 1995 07:45 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.1158 by CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" >>>
| You have not answered his questions. I am sure you have page numbers
| from Glen's earlier postings.
He should have had the page numbers period. He has the book, according
to his own words.
Glen
|
323.1161 | Of course we already know the next question... | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 09 1995 13:13 | 6 |
| <<< Note 323.1160 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> He has the book, according
>to his own words.
Oh? Is that so?
|
323.1162 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Got into a war with reality ... | Thu Nov 09 1995 13:51 | 14 |
|
Allow me to put in the next few replies for you 2:
Yes you did.
No I didn't.
Yes you did.
No I didn't.
Yes you did.
No I didn't.
Yes you did.
No I didn't.
Glad to help.
|
323.1163 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 09 1995 13:54 | 1 |
| Thanks. Probably saves us a whole heap of effort. :^)
|
323.1164 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Thu Nov 09 1995 14:01 | 7 |
|
Shawn....
You missed:
"How nice"....
|
323.1165 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Thu Nov 09 1995 14:21 | 4 |
|
Andy, great note!!!! thanks for posting it!!!
|
323.1166 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 09 1995 17:58 | 44 |
| | <<< Note 323.1161 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > He has the book, according to his own words.
| Oh? Is that so?
Then what did you mean when you said....
================================================================================
Note 323.998 The AIDS topic 998 of 1165
CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" 32 lines 5-NOV-1995 22:56
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
-----many lines deleted
> Where did you get these numbers, Joe?
Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be
back to work on Tuesday. Remind me.
********************************************************************************
You said you would have the stuff on Tuesday. I'm still waiting for it.
If you can not produce the numbers, than all I can think of is that you lied.
*IF* you did lie (and seeing I read the book and the numbers were not
in there) then it says a lot about you. It's that type of person that scares
the crap out of me. It's that type of person that spreads stuff and make claims
of where they got the info. When others believe what turns out to be a lie,
then people have misinformation, and think things that are not true. Is this
the type of person you are, Joe? If you can provide where you got the numbers,
it would help show that you are not.
Funny thing about that type of person....if <insert person/group> is
really that bad, why can't they use 100% of the truth?
Hopefully you can clear this up, Joe.
Glen
|
323.1167 | A new tail to chase, or a new messenger to shoot. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 09 1995 18:32 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1166 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Then what did you mean when you said....
>-----many lines deleted
>
>
> Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be
> back to work on Tuesday. Remind me.
The clue you're looking for is in .1129.
|
323.1168 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 08:40 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.1167 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| The clue you're looking for is in .1129.
Oh come on, Joe. You know it was refuted in .1153. Page 179 is not what
you claim it is. And even when looking where you claimed the numbers were at
did not show them. And like I said, I have the book here if anyone wants to
check this out.
Joe, you're going around in circles. The numbers are not there. If
you're not like the person I talked about earlier (gives misinformation), then
please provide where you got the numbers. It certainly wasn't from that book.
Glen
|
323.1169 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Fri Nov 10 1995 09:47 | 11 |
| Glen,
Let's be fair to Joe, he probably got the page numbers from one of Paul
Cameron's "scholarly works." If for no other reason this should point
out to people why neither reputable sociologists, nor psychologists have
anything to do with the man. In this case Joe has a chance to learn
something new, about the agenda of certain people he has aligned
himself with, and how far they are willing to go to create FUD about
certain groups.
meg
|
323.1170 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 10:00 | 8 |
|
Meg, how nicely put. Hey.... could you go and check out Joe's er....
book? You know, page 179?
Glen
|
323.1171 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 10:02 | 11 |
|
Heard on the news this morning that there is another form of HIV. This
form is much slower, and the body can fight it off. They are saying that the
possibility exists that a vaccine could be developed in a few years. Of course
this is just a news report....so I'm not getting my hopes up....yet. Gotta see
the facts.....
Glen
|
323.1172 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 10 1995 13:06 | 10 |
| re .1168
You are not paying attention to the clues, Glen. The clue is
the first word of my reply in .1129. In your zeal to find LIES
you miss the obvious. Meg has the right idea in .1169, but
the wrong guess.
Isn't this fun?
Once you tire of this mystery, we can go back to .1080.
|
323.1173 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Fri Nov 10 1995 13:14 | 10 |
|
Well, it was demonstrated earlier today in another topic that Glen may need
some reading comprehension practice.
Jim
|
323.1174 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:19 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1172 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| You are not paying attention to the clues, Glen. The clue is the first word
| of my reply in .1129.
Joe, I checked page 179 of the book for that. It wasn't there. It was
on page 183. I read that entire section again, just to see if it was there and
I missed it. Not one thing on % is there. And anyone who wants to check this
out, stop by and I will show you. Will you allow Meg to visit your facility to
check out your book?
Glen
|
323.1175 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:21 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1172 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| In your zeal to find LIES you miss the obvious. Meg has the right idea in
| .1169, but the wrong guess.
You mean, it is from Paul Cameron's book, and not the Hart book like
you claimed earlier? Whoa....if this is true, then you truly scare me.
I guess it is very hard for you to list your source, as it is not the
original source you listed. Oh well..... misinformation and lies can be a very
bad and scary thing.
Glen
|
323.1176 | Forget it, Glen. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:23 | 3 |
| re .1173
You were right, Jim.
|
323.1177 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:29 | 8 |
|
Sorry, Joe, I ain't forgetting it until you tell us exactly where you
got the numbers from. They are NOT listed in the Hart book, ANYWHERE. Why not
let Meg look at the book, Joe? What are you afraid of? The truth?
Glen
|
323.1178 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:29 | 9 |
|
re: .1175
>misinformation and lies can be a very bad and scary thing.
"Condoms stop the spread of AIDS"...
|
323.1179 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:30 | 10 |
|
Joe,
Tell him you'll get the info when he publically apologizes to Jack
Martin...
And Joe?... Don't hold your breath...
|
323.1180 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:32 | 5 |
|
I love you Andy. And I love Jack, too. (but in a real sort of way). I
publicly apologize for calling Jack Martin that word that will get this note
set hidden if I use it!
|
323.1181 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz! | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:34 | 3 |
|
"The truth? You can't HANDLE the truth!!"
|
323.1182 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Me, fail English? Unpossible! | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:36 | 3 |
|
"I seriously deride your truth-handling abilities!"
|
323.1183 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:40 | 8 |
|
re: .1180
>I love you Andy.
Awww.... that's so sweet Gwenny...
|
323.1184 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:42 | 3 |
|
I know....shucks.....
|
323.1185 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 10 1995 14:48 | 6 |
| re .1177
What, Glen, are you looking for another messenger to shoot
rather than face the real issue?
See .857, then .1080.
|
323.1186 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Fri Nov 10 1995 15:11 | 9 |
| it appears that the HIV epidemic in CO has levelled off and new cases
are declining rapidly among gay men. Unfortunately the number of new
HIV infections among women of child bearing age has doubled from
the last year stat's were available from the previous year.
It looks like gay men are practicing far safer sex than women of child
bearing age, now in this state.
meg
|
323.1187 | Stupid is as stupid does... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Fri Nov 10 1995 15:14 | 1 |
|
|
323.1188 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 15:52 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1185 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| See .857, then .1080.
That doesn't tell us where you got the numbers from. Why won't you
comment on showing Meg the book?
|
323.1189 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Fri Nov 10 1995 15:54 | 4 |
|
AARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGH
|
323.1190 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Fri Nov 10 1995 16:01 | 4 |
|
North bound horses come to mind....
|
323.1191 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Nov 10 1995 16:22 | 11 |
|
-------|------|------------
++ ++
||---M||
|| |
/\-------\
(00) \
( ) *
/
I'm getting dizzy.
|
323.1192 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 10 1995 17:14 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.1190 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf" >>>
| North bound horses come to mind....
Jim is a northbound horse? WHOA NELLY!
|
323.1193 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 14 1995 19:01 | 52 |
|
Joe, you are a liar. Here is what your 323.952 note said:
| Apparently the previously mentioned Jack Hart book, "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men
| Who Love Men" is one of the most detailed studies of American homosexual
| behavior yet. It says that 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex,
| 29% in sex involving urine, 41% in fisting, 37% in sex involving deliberate
| pain, 88% in public sex or orgies, 24% in sex involving minors, and 13% in sex
| with animals at least once.
That was what YOU said Joe. YOU said these things were in there. Now, in
note 33.1922 you state:
| I do not have the book. I was quoting (is that too large a word) from another
| report.
You specifically said it came from the book, and then changed your mind
later on and told us the truth. Like I said, people like you scare me. Why?
Because you state that <insert group> is bad, and if said group was as bad as
you had stated, why did you have to lie?
| I suppose you are TOO <BLANK> STUPID to figure it out yourself,
No, Joe, I had to hear it from you in order to know if it was the
truth. After reading the book itself I knew the numbers did not come from
there. What's even sader is later on in note 323.1129 you stated:
> Where did you get these numbers, Joe?
| Bibliography says HART, p. 179.
So you carried on this lie. Why the need to lie, Joe?
| I'm done discussing (is that too large a word) it with you because you will
| only choose to attack the source rather than deal with what it contains.
Let's see....you have already proven that the numbers you claimed that
were in one source, weren't really there. Seems to me that where you had already
lied, it would be hard to trust anything you put in, regardless of the source.
| Your only intention in dealing with me seems to be villifying me rather than
| discuss the real issues. That speaks volumes.
What speaks volumes is how you lied. How can anyone expect to discuss
real issues with you when you lied?
Glen
|
323.1195 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 14 1995 20:23 | 59 |
| <<< Note 323.1193 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, you are a liar. Here is what your 323.952 note said:
> [snip]
> That was what YOU said Joe. YOU said these things were in there. Now, in
> note 33.1922 you state:
> [snip]
There is nothing contradictory about the two things you quoted.
Specifically because I told you:
.1129> Bibliography says HART, p. 179.
That should have been clue enough for you that I was drawing
my information from something that was referencing the book.
Meg even explained it to you in .1169, and I confirmed that
for you in .1172. But it seem that your only goal was to
make me out as a liar, so you ignored whatever didn't fit
your agenda.
> You specifically said it came from the book, and then changed your mind
> later on and told us the truth.
I never changed my mind. I told you what was told to me. That
is good enough criteria for you according to 33.1919, so you
ought to afford me the same lattitude.
> Like I said, people like you scare me. Why?
>Because you state that <insert group> is bad, and if said group was as bad as
>you had stated, why did you have to lie?
So do you still think it is a lie on my part? Do you think
that 323.1080 is also a lie? You promised to look into that
issue for us...
Now it appears that I scare you because of boogeymen of your
own making. Go back and reread this string from the beginning
and you will see that I did not mislead you at all. Your
claims such as .1161 are of your own fabrication.
> Let's see....you have already proven that the numbers you claimed that
>were in one source, weren't really there. Seems to me that where you had already
>lied, it would be hard to trust anything you put in, regardless of the source.
Actually, Glen, I haven't proven that. You CLAIM to have proven
that, but we're all taking your word for it. You may have shown
that the source I was using was incorrect, but even then you have
not shown that the author of that source was lying. Certainly
(if you are correct) the source is wrong, but is the source lying?
And you have a far way to go if you intend to show that my use of
the source was lying on my part. Until then, you are BEARING
FALSE WITNESS (to use your own overused phrase) if you persist
in casting this incident as a lie.
>| Your only intention in dealing with me seems to be villifying me rather than
>| discuss the real issues. That speaks volumes.
This statement of mine from 33.1922 still stands. Thanks for
highlighting it for me.
|
323.1196 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 14 1995 22:06 | 7 |
|
Wow, Joe...deflect deflect deflect...that is a sign of yours. You
stated those numbers came from the BOOK. You lied. No if's, and, or buts.
Glen
|
323.1197 | enough already | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 15 1995 09:22 | 29 |
| Who's to say that the information is NOT in the book?
Joe's source *may* be wrong (something you have yet to prove, though it
would be much better for your argument if you at least made the attempt
to do so), but calling Joe a liar for the content of what he sees as a
viable source, is a stretch (especially considering the ref. he posted
in one of his notes).
How about doing a bit of research (I seem to remember a note in this
string in which you promised to do some research on this) and posting
your findings here? Your constant badgering of Joe is not only
baseless, but annoying to read through. Even if he did lie (an
assertion that I do not agree with), it does not help your argument to
deflect from the issues brought up. A better tactic would be to prove
his source wrong, or to post data from another source that counters what
he has posted.
If you don't at least make the attempt at disproving Joe's source (or
posting information that counters his), then you only show that you are
participating in this discussion as an antagonist- preferring to
deflect from the issue at hand to vilify Joe.
If you have a counter argument, let's hear it. Let's discuss it. If
you have an opinion on this DISCUSSION (and I know you do), post it.
Whatever you do, PLEASE stop the witchhunts. Even *I* am tempted to next
unseen, and I normally like to participate in this topic.
-steve
|
323.1198 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 15 1995 09:42 | 6 |
| Steve, Glen has the book himself - as he's already stated several
times - so he knows for an absolute fact that the numbers given by
Joe are not in the book.
He did his research and he found that Joe's statements about the
contents of the book were false.
|
323.1199 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | A Parting Shot in the Dark | Wed Nov 15 1995 09:53 | 5 |
|
Maybe Joe's book somehow misquoted Glen's book?
And if so, I don't see how Joe could know that.
|
323.1200 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 15 1995 09:58 | 14 |
| re: .1198
Sorry, I missed that part. In that case..
SNARF!
I still don't see how Glen is calling Joe a liar, and I still see this
as a deflection, but I take back the "do some research" comment posted in
my previous note. The rest stands as is.
-steve
|
323.1201 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | hysterical elitist | Wed Nov 15 1995 09:58 | 2 |
| well, at least joe had the book in question in his possession.
like, it wasn't on order or anything.
|
323.1202 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:35 | 62 |
| | <<< Note 323.1197 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Who's to say that the information is NOT in the book?
Maybe you should catch up on the topic. I have read the book, I have
the book right here in my office. Those numbers are not IN THE BOOK.
| Joe's source *may* be wrong
Joe's note said that IN THE BOOK it had the numbers he talked about.
Later on he said the numbers were not in the book.
| but calling Joe a liar for the content of what he sees as a viable source,
| is a stretch
No, when one says the numbers are IN THE BOOK, and later says they are
from another source, that person has lied.
| How about doing a bit of research (I seem to remember a note in this
| string in which you promised to do some research on this) and posting
| your findings here?
You do need to stay caught up. The info has been in here for quite some
time. I think it was note .997 that had the original findings. Like I said,
I've had the book here for a while. It wasn't hard to get.
| Your constant badgering of Joe is not only baseless, but annoying to read
| through.
If you had kept up on the string you would have seen why he was
badgered. Anyone who has to lie to make a point about another group is a sad
individual. From reading the book, I knew the numbers were not there. But up
until he admitted that he got it from a different source, I could not say for
sure he is a liar. And as far as being baseless goes, no, it's quite true. But
you would have needed to keep up with the string.
Steve, if I said that % of Christians are hateful, kill others, etc,
you would be all over me, wouldn't you? What Joe had to say was directly towards
homosexual men. I was all over him. What is the difference?
| Even if he did lie it does not help your argument to deflect from the issues
| brought up.
Deflect? If I can't trust him to provide the accurate source of his
data, why would I trust him period?
| A better tactic would be to prove his source wrong,
Steve, a better tactic, for you anyway, would be to catch up on the
string. The above was already done. The source was not what he said it was.
| If you don't at least make the attempt at disproving Joe's source (or
| posting information that counters his), then you only show that you are
| participating in this discussion as an antagonist- preferring to deflect
| from the issue at hand to vilify Joe.
Please catch up with the topic.....
Glen
|
323.1203 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:38 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1199 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "A Parting Shot in the Dark" >>>
| Maybe Joe's book somehow misquoted Glen's book?
The same book misquoted the same book? How does that happen? He said
the numbers came from the book I had. He then said the source of the numbers
were from a different place. He kept claiming what an extensive study this was,
and how I wasn't refuting anything, and then when I do get the book, the
numbers aren't there. He couldn't even get the page right for the Bibliography.
Glen
|
323.1204 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:39 | 2 |
| Has the book in question had multiple editions? Is it possible that Glen's
copy and the one quoted in Joe's source are simply different editions?
|
323.1205 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:50 | 23 |
| Whether I'm caught up or not in this topic (and obviously I've missed a
bit more than I should have) is no longer an issue. I took back my
"go do research" comment already. I also extend my apology for butting
in when I didn't have all the fact.
With that said, the basis of my last response stands. You call Joe a
liar, but I've not seen in this string (maybe I missed this, too?) where
Joe said he actually has the book in question.
You seem more interested in vilifying Joe than in continuing your
arguments. Since you have the book in question, why not post some
excerpts that forward your argument? The only reason I bothered to
respond is that this constant badgering is ANNOYING for me to read
through. Unfortunately, since I like to participate in this topic, I
am pretty much forced to wade through the noise to find anything
worthwhile to respond to.
So, while I'm sorry for butting in without having the whole story, I'm
not sorry for trying to get this topic back on track- which was my
intent. Let's stop this pointless bickering, okay?
-steve
|
323.1206 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:52 | 10 |
|
I believe the key is way back when when Joe said "Bibliography says Hart ppxxx"
Jim
|
323.1207 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:56 | 8 |
| Actually, the key was when Glen asked Joe for some sources and
suggested that they might be from people of a certain ideology,
but then Joe tried to dodge this by offering quotes that he implied
were directly from a book that Glen happens to own.
Glen knew Joe couldn't have this book since the quoted stats
were not contained in the book. It just took Joe a long time
to admit that Glen was right.
|
323.1209 | \ | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 10:57 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1204 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>
| Has the book in question had multiple editions? Is it possible that Glen's
| copy and the one quoted in Joe's source are simply different editions?
Joe has STATED he got the information from ANOTHER source.
|
323.1210 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:02 | 7 |
| >Joe has STATED he got the information from ANOTHER source.
Which still means that Joe's source could be quoting ANOTHER edition of
the book in question, which was what Gerald was trying to tell you.
-steve
|
323.1211 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:04 | 38 |
| | <<< Note 323.1205 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| With that said, the basis of my last response stands. You call Joe a
| liar, but I've not seen in this string (maybe I missed this, too?) where
| Joe said he actually has the book in question.
He said the info was IN THE BOOK. I knew the info was NOT there. I even
asked him if Meg could come look at the book. That was when he said he got it
from another source. If you had caught up, you would have known this.
| Since you have the book in question, why not post some excerpts that forward
| your argument?
The book is a how to have sex book. It listed one study (from 1976)
that backed one of Joe's claims (which I listed in .997 I believe). I even made
mention of the one chart they had in there. How the chart claims to be made of
opinions, and not fact. I mentioned in the authors own words in the Forward
that he stated what follows is not fact, but his own opinion. The only thing
left to go into is the how to.
| The only reason I bothered to respond is that this constant badgering is
| ANNOYING for me to read through.
Well, had you caught up on the reading, it would have helped you a
great deal.
| So, while I'm sorry for butting in without having the whole story, I'm
| not sorry for trying to get this topic back on track- which was my intent.
| Let's stop this pointless bickering, okay?
Steve, you have not answered the question I asked you. If I made claims
that % of Christians hated or killed people, you would be pushing for the truth
any less than I did?
Glen
|
323.1212 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:05 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1206 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>
| I believe the key is way back when when Joe said "Bibliography says Hart ppxxx"
Jim, the key is back at .9 something... (I believe .997 has where it is
listed. 930 something maybe?) where Joe states the book says...<insert
numbers>.
Glen
|
323.1213 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:06 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1210 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Which still means that Joe's source could be quoting ANOTHER edition of
| the book in question, which was what Gerald was trying to tell you.
No, Steve, Joe said he got the other source AFTER he said the info was
in the book.
|
323.1214 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:13 | 1 |
| Glen, do you have reading comprehension problems?
|
323.1215 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:14 | 1 |
| no
|
323.1216 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:28 | 5 |
|
are you sure about that?
|
323.1217 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 11:56 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1211 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| [Steve Leech] but I've not seen in this string where
>| Joe said he actually has the book in question.
>
> He said the info was IN THE BOOK.
Steve asks a very important question. You do not answer it.
I based my statement on something I read elsewhere. NOWHERE
have I stated that I had the book itself, and in fact as far back
as a whole week ago (.1129) I told you that I did not. Another
source said it was in the book. You have already told us that
you find it sufficient to base YOUR statements on what you read
and hear elsewhere. (33.1919). But you now deny me that same
privilege.
I have clearly explained to you my entries. To anyone else
(but Suzanne, apparently) it is clear that I was not lying,
but you choose to continue to propagate that characterization
about me.
Several others are questioning your motives here. You now
stand on your own island to defend them.
|
323.1218 | the real issue | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 15 1995 12:33 | 16 |
| > I have clearly explained to you my entries. To anyone else
> (but Suzanne, apparently) it is clear that I was not lying,
> but you choose to continue to propagate that characterization
> about me.
Hmph. What is clear is that as usual, you felt compelled to hide
your source from scrutiny. You still haven't revealed it. It
isn't the first time. You're busted, Joe- so who is the source that
has now been demonstrated to have (at the very LEAST) MISQUOTED
(deliberately or not) a source Glen could verify? Quit dancing
around it- that's the source of the lie Glen is pursuing. Either
you or your source wears that misquote (a form, for the sake of
arguement, of lieing). You, Joe? or your source? Without taking
responsibility for the misquote, your attribution is meaningless.
DougO
|
323.1219 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 12:37 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1216 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>
| are you sure about that?
yup
|
323.1220 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 12:46 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.1217 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| >| [Steve Leech] but I've not seen in this string where
| >| Joe said he actually has the book in question.
| >
| > He said the info was IN THE BOOK.
| Steve asks a very important question. You do not answer it.
Back in .1153 I asked if you even had the book. So you must have
err...missed that. Of course then there is the rest of what YOU quoted from me
that you cut off. The part where I suggested that Meg go and look at the book.
You keep missing the mark here, Joe.
| I based my statement on something I read elsewhere. NOWHERE have I stated that
| I had the book itself,
What source did you use, Joe?
Glen
|
323.1221 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Act like you own the company | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:00 | 7 |
|
Joe, what was the name of the book that you got the figures
from?
Glen, did you ever post the figures in question? If not, WHY
DON'T YOU DO IT AND SAVE EVERYBODY'S BRAINS FROM EXPLODING!?!?
|
323.1222 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:07 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1220 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| Steve asks a very important question. You do not answer it.
>
> Back in .1153 I asked if you even had the book. So you must have
>err...missed that.
Steve's question asked when I ever said that I had the book.
And you still have not answered that question. And you can't.
I didn't miss the question in .1153. I do not see the need to
answer that question yet again when the answer was clear from
20+ replies earlier. Failure to answer a question is not an
affirmative answer. I also do not see the need to respond to
your every word.
> What source did you use, Joe?
You and Doug. More interested in attacking the messenger than
dealing with the real issue.
To refresh your memory, you can find the real issue that
precipitated all this way back in .857. You'd rather stick
your head in the sand than face that issue.
|
323.1223 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:15 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1221 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Act like you own the company" >>>
| Glen, did you ever post the figures in question? If not, WHY
| DON'T YOU DO IT AND SAVE EVERYBODY'S BRAINS FROM EXPLODING!?!?
They are listed in notes .952, .997, .998 & .1193. :-)
|
323.1224 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:16 | 9 |
|
I was wondering, cuz I never saw it done before..... if Joe got the
info from another book.... has anyone ever seen a book list the bibliography
page of another book?
Glen
|
323.1225 | now, let's move on... | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:17 | 8 |
| re: .1211
Yes, I would push for the truth. No, I would not lock my sights on one
person to vilify them to exclusion of all else, though I would bring into
question their sources of information.
-steve
|
323.1226 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:21 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.1225 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Yes, I would push for the truth.
Which was what I did.
| No, I would not lock my sights on one person to vilify them to exclusion of
| all else,
The locking in on one person was to get him to provide his source. If
any exclusion happens, it's due to his actions.
| though I would bring into question their sources of information.
That was done several times over.
|
323.1227 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:27 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.1226 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| No, I would not lock my sights on one person to vilify them to exclusion of
>| all else,
>
> The locking in on one person was to get him to provide his source. If
>any exclusion happens, it's due to his actions.
No. You are the one excluding .857 and .1080 and choosing
to mischaracterize me -- not even the source I used, but
specifically mischaracterize me.
|
323.1228 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:32 | 4 |
|
No, Joe, I am basing it on where you claimed the info came from. Now
what was that source again?
|
323.1229 | Forest? Or trees? Your choice. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:44 | 7 |
| <<< Note 323.1228 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> I am basing it on where you claimed the info came from.
Oh? So where did I claim that the info came from? And
where did I make that claim?
|
323.1230 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Afterbirth of a Nation | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:49 | 10 |
|
> I was wondering, cuz I never saw it done before..... if Joe got the
>info from another book.... has anyone ever seen a book list the bibliography
>page of another book?
You man, does a book's bibliography list the name AND page numb-
er[s] of the origin of the info? Of course, or at least more
often than not.
|
323.1231 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:51 | 5 |
|
Joe, what is the name of your source (book? article? tract 8^)?) from
which you got the numbers that supposedly came from Glen's book?
|
323.1232 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:54 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.1230 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Afterbirth of a Nation" >>>
| You man, does a book's bibliography list the name AND page numb-
| er[s] of the origin of the info? Of course, or at least more
| often than not.
But do they list anothers book bibliography page?
|
323.1233 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:54 | 3 |
|
Deb, several people have asked, and he has yet to answer.
|
323.1234 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Afterbirth of a Nation | Wed Nov 15 1995 13:58 | 6 |
|
RE: Glen
No, that's highly unlikely, since the bibliography is more often
than not found at the end of the book, and easily recognized.
|
323.1235 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:06 | 3 |
| Joe, what section and shelf can I find this book in the library and
would the grey haired librarian know where to find it better than the
one with the big caboose?
|
323.1236 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:07 | 8 |
|
Then I wonder how he got the page number of John Hart's bibliography
then? Well, off by 4 pages, but it was there......
Glen
|
323.1237 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:37 | 8 |
|
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Off by 4 WHOLE PAGES?????????????????????
You and S. Conlon graduate from the same dork school???
|
323.1238 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:48 | 5 |
| re .1236
Glen, see .1214
Why would Hart's bibliography reference the book it is in?
|
323.1239 | you asked for it | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:53 | 18 |
| > You and Doug. More interested in attacking the messenger than
> dealing with the real issue.
Whoa, there. You're the one dragged me into this by making some
wild claim about how "everybody but Glen and Suzanne" could see
your side of it. That isn't true. What's obvious, as I said, is
that you're desperately ashamed to reveal the MISQUOTING, LIEING
source you used. That isn't attacking the messenger - its demanding
to know the source of the error. And you get to choose, you know-
either you take responsibility for the error yourself, by denying
that your cited authority is any good, and accepting responsibility;
or, you let us know who really made the error, and accept the
responsibility for using that source. It is damningly clear that
the source is unreliable, having handed you provably erroneous
information. It is not unreasonable that we demand you reveal it.
So what's it going to be then, eh?
DougO
|
323.1240 | LYING... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:56 | 1 |
|
|
323.1241 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:57 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.1237 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf" >>>
| Off by 4 WHOLE PAGES?????????????????????
Hell, it makes perfect sense to say where you can find info and have it
not be on that page.
I'm still wondering how another source would list the page of the
bibliography of a totally different book?
| You and S. Conlon graduate from the same dork school???
Sue, did you graduate from Assabet? If so, then the answer to Andy's
question would be yes!
Glen
|
323.1242 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 14:59 | 7 |
|
Joe, why is it that you can drop notes in this topic, but can not
answer the several requests various people have made about your source?
Glen
|
323.1243 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:30 | 33 |
| <<< Note 323.1239 by SX4GTO::OLSON "Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto" >>>
> Whoa, there. You're the one dragged me into this by making some
> wild claim about how "everybody but Glen and Suzanne" could see
> your side of it. That isn't true.
Ok. "Everybody but Glen, Suzanne, and Dougo".
Anyone else to jump in that boat? (Shudder)
> that you're desperately ashamed to reveal the MISQUOTING, LIEING
> source you used.
Misquoting? Perhaps. Then again, maybe there was a printing
error, and it only mis-attributed the source of the information.
In fact, I've placed a call to the publisher of the source to
get a verification of this item.
But you have a long way to go to show that they are "lieing"
about what they printed. How can you claim that? What demons
do you hear that convince you of this claim?
> And you get to choose, you know-
> either you take responsibility for the error yourself, by denying
> that your cited authority is any good, and accepting responsibility;
OK. For now I choose this. That seems pretty obvious already,
doesn't it? Since, according to your title of .1218 and your
continued harping, this was 'the real issue', I guess you can
just go back and play in the pedophilia topic where you seem
much happier anyway.
Next question?
|
323.1244 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:32 | 6 |
| <<< Note 323.1241 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> I'm still wondering how another source would list the page of the
> bibliography of a totally different book?
I'm still wondering why you think it does. Go back to .1214.
|
323.1245 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:33 | 9 |
|
This is driving me nuts.
Joe, PLEASE, tell us the name of your source. Was it a newspaper
article? Was it a magazine article? Was it a CFV flyer? Was it a
religious tract? Was it from an encyclopedia? Just tell us!
You're dodging the question like a wild animal dodges cars!
|
323.1246 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:35 | 7 |
| <<< Note 323.1242 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, why is it that you can drop notes in this topic, but can not
>answer the several requests various people have made about your source?
Because I said I wouldn't. I don't want to have Suzanne all
over me telling me that I committed another LIE, you know...
|
323.1247 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:40 | 6 |
|
re: .1245
You females are all so nosey!!!!!!!
|
323.1248 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:52 | 10 |
|
<-- 8^pPPPpPpP
When someone refuses to name hir source (see - I used a gender neutral
pronoun!) I become suspect of it. Joe's refusal to name his source
makes me think it must be from a "God Hates Gays" tract or something,
you know? And this isn't necessarily true.
|
323.1249 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:54 | 5 |
| re: .1247
Yeah, and she's getting quite hysterical, too.
<running for cover...quickly>
|
323.1250 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:54 | 5 |
|
Could it be that he doesn't want Billy Licea-Kane questioning a
possible "nutter" source????
|
323.1251 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 15:58 | 9 |
|
There should be no harm in listing the source. IF the source he lists
says what he said it does, then it would mean he did not lie, and that I was
wrong.
Glen
|
323.1252 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | hysterical elitist | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:01 | 1 |
| maybe joe's gonna plead the fifth?
|
323.1253 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:03 | 1 |
| If it's a fifth of Goslings, I'll plead anything.
|
323.1254 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:07 | 6 |
|
Goslings are much tastier when fully grown...
:)
|
323.1255 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:09 | 1 |
| er, that'd be Goslings Black Seal rum there Andrew.
|
323.1256 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:11 | 1 |
| Is that sauce for the goose?
|
323.1257 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:12 | 10 |
|
Joe did send me mail asking for a fax number, and he said he would send
me the page. I asked him to put the source in here, and I would gladly look it
up myself. What is so bad about the source? The one thing that could prove Joe
was right, that he did not lie, and that I was wrong.
Glen
|
323.1258 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:55 | 14 |
|
Well, it appears that Joe is not willing to devulge the source he has.
I can't understand why he thinks a piece of paper with no source to verify it
would be the proof that clears his name. I can't understand why he wouldn't
want to clear his name? I mean, so many people are questioning him now.....
Now there was something about me questioning the source itself. What
gets me is why would this be more important than clearing his name? The source
itself would prove HE was not a liar.
Glen
|
323.1259 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:57 | 3 |
| Glen:
You're acting like Jabba's stooley again!
|
323.1260 | Glen is afraid to see it in print, I guess. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 16:59 | 13 |
| Glen is Suzanning. I was willing to fax it to him to show that
I am not making this up, but he must conduct his rock-throwing
in public. I've made a reasonable offer, but he insists on
diverting the topic to his own little vendetta.
This is the AIDS topic, Glen, not the 'Joe's sources' topic.
Providing the source here merely gives you more things to
throw rocks at rather than face the real issues of this topic.
One would think that you, as a gay person, would be concerned
with the issue raised in .1080. You even promised to look it
up and address it, but apparently you find it more important
to throw rocks at sources instead.
|
323.1261 | Earth to Silva!! Earth to Silva!!! | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:01 | 6 |
|
> I mean, so many people are questioning him now.....
|
323.1262 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:14 | 58 |
| | <<< Note 323.1260 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Glen is Suzanning. I was willing to fax it to him to show that I am not making
| this up,
Joe, will the fax INCLUDE the sources name? Surely you can fax that
info as well. A piece of paper that can not be verified is worthless.
| but he must conduct his rock-throwing in public.
You made the CLAIMS in public. But now you won't show your proof in
public. Sorry, Joe....it doesn't work that way.
| I've made a reasonable offer,
UNLESS the fax has the source it came from for verification, you have
NOT made a reasonable offer.
| but he insists on diverting the topic to his own little vendetta.
This is true. I wish the truth, the WHOLE truth, be known. Considering
it started here, by YOU, why would you not want it to end here? Seeing MANY
others have expressed an interest, why wouldn't you list it here?
| This is the AIDS topic, Glen, not the 'Joe's sources' topic.
Joe, you made some pretty harsh claims. You even listed a source of
where the data was supposed to be. That proved to be FALSE. If this is not a
Joe's sources topic, then why did you list the other false source earlier?
| Providing the source here merely gives you more things to throw rocks at
| rather than face the real issues of this topic.
With the amount of people reading this now, do you think that is really
possible? List the source. Allow me to verify that the source exists, and that
the data is in there. IF both can be done, then we will deal with the data they
listed.
| One would think that you, as a gay person, would be concerned with the issue
| raised in .1080.
I am concerned with many things, Joe. But I will not let you deflect
this off somewhere else when YOU made claims that you can easily show where you
got them from. But instead, you deflect. Is that in hopes that this will go
away? IF that is the case....guess again.
| You even promised to look it up and address it, but apparently you find it
| more important to throw rocks at sources instead.
Joe, .1080 will still be there. Considering you started all this back
in the .900's, it makes sense to end this issue first, by you giving us the
source.
Glen
|
323.1263 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:16 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1261 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf" >>>
| > I mean, so many people are questioning him now.....
Andy, do the names Deb, Shawn, Me, Suz, DoubO add up to many for you?
|
323.1264 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:18 | 13 |
|
re: .1262
>Seeing MANY others have expressed an interest,
reads better as:
"Seeing some few others have expressed an interest,"
The AHD
many adj. - Amounting to or consisting of a large, indefinite number.
|
323.1265 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:20 | 5 |
|
The AHD
few adj. - Amoutning to or consisting of a small number. n 1. An
indefinitely small number: 2. A select or elite group.
|
323.1266 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:30 | 2 |
| Well then I'll fax it to anyone else who is not afraid of it
and is interested in seeing that I didn't make it up.
|
323.1267 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:39 | 7 |
|
You may fax it to me, but I'll want the entire thing, not just the one
article 8^).
dtn 223-8353.
|
323.1268 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz! | Wed Nov 15 1995 17:54 | 11 |
|
Glen, before you start grouping me with 1 side or the other,
I'd like to make it known that I think you're both being a
little "vague" here.
Glen says Joe lied. But Glen might have a comprehension
problem.
Joe says he never lied but won't reveal his source, even if
it's not the same source as Glen wants to believe it is.
|
323.1269 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 19:04 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1266 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Well then I'll fax it to anyone else who is not afraid of it
| and is interested in seeing that I didn't make it up.
Joe, with technology of today, I could write the same thing and fax it
out. Without the source itself, it can not be proven to be true. All that can
be proven is that the words were faxed on a piece of paper.
For someone who has always said I was wrong just about all the time,
one would think you would jump at the chance of PROVING me wrong. But you opt
for a method, if without the source listed with it, is just a piece of paper
with words.
Kind of makes me wonder....why?
Glen
|
323.1270 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 19:06 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1268 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz!" >>>
| Glen, before you start grouping me with 1 side or the other,
I was grouping you in with those who have asked for the source.
| Glen says Joe lied. But Glen might have a comprehension problem.
It can be cleared up if the source he says has the information in it.
IF that is the case, then I was the one who was wrong.
Glen
|
323.1271 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 19:14 | 9 |
|
Btw... I thought it was kind of funny that you can throw out these real
neat catch words like, afraid, vendetta, throwing rocks.....nice deflections,
but you still have not listed the source.
Glen
|
323.1272 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 15 1995 19:27 | 1 |
| Empty barrels make the most noise.
|
323.1273 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 15 1995 19:31 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.1272 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Empty barrels make the most noise.
They sure do, Joe.... and considering you're firing blanks.....
|
323.1274 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Wed Nov 15 1995 20:54 | 4 |
|
Hey, are we having fun, or what?
|
323.1275 | 8^) | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Wed Nov 15 1995 21:56 | 4 |
|
Speak for yourself, bucko!
|
323.1276 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Thu Nov 16 1995 08:54 | 9 |
| Joe,
Add me to the list of people who would like the source that you got
your information from. Why are you hiding it? Who knows maybe you
could convert some of us tolerant people if we read the dynamite in
this book, pamphlet, magazine article or whatever. If you truly
believe in it, it can't hurt to let it be shown in the light of day.
meg
|
323.1277 | | TALLIS::SCHULER | Greg, DTN 227-4165 | Thu Nov 16 1995 11:13 | 19 |
| Joe,
Add me to the list as well.
I'll add that I'm not at all surprised you would dump a bunch of
outrageous quotes in this topic. Its part of your homosexual
obsession; your never-ending crusade to demonize gays. And you've
never let facts, honesty, integrity (or any of the Christian values
you profess to uphold) stand in your way.
I'm also not surprised you don't want us to know your source. Its
probably some worthless tract printed by a (so-called) Christian
ministry.
You should be ashamed of yourself.
/Greg
|
323.1278 | email is OK. DTNs are not. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 16 1995 11:53 | 3 |
| re .1276, .1277
Well, give me FAX numbers!
|
323.1279 | | TALLIS::SCHULER | Greg, DTN 227-4165 | Thu Nov 16 1995 12:00 | 2 |
| Will the FAX identify the source?
|
323.1280 | | ROWLET::AINSLEY | Less than 150 kts. is TOO slow! | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:04 | 3 |
| Uh Joe, why won't you identify the source?
Bob
|
323.1281 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:15 | 7 |
|
The list about the source grows....but still no answer. What are you
hiding, Joe??? The truth, maybe?
Glen
|
323.1282 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:30 | 4 |
| FAX will contain the whole thing, cover-to-cover (4 pages).
Even to Glen. I've already sent it to one other requester,
and at my next break (I'm in a meeting) I'll attend to the
next ones.
|
323.1283 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:33 | 3 |
| BTW, I'm not going to post anything here about the source
until I get resolution regarding the quote in question. I've
spoken to them, and they say that the information is accurate.
|
323.1284 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:35 | 7 |
|
Glen, why don't you fax p.179 of the Hart book to me (along with the
title page so we can see the publication date, etc.).
Do you have the Cameron book?
|
323.1285 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:36 | 6 |
|
If you are going to fax the whole thing, the number is:
508-568-4681
|
323.1286 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Thu Nov 16 1995 13:39 | 4 |
|
Glen, my fax dtn is 223-8353. Sorry I forgot to mention it.
|
323.1287 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Thu Nov 16 1995 14:03 | 31 |
|
OK, here's the problem. Joe's source is misleading in that all of the
percentage numbers are in one paragraph, but in two separate sentences.
I quote:
"In the most detailed study of American homosexual behavior to date,
92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 29% in sex involving
urine, 41% in "fisting", 37% in torture sex, an amazing 88% in public
sex and orgies, and 24% in sex involving minors. Add to this roster
about 13% who admit to having had sex with animals at least once." 11
The footnote:
11 Hart, p.179.
Page 179 of Hart is about zoophilia - and it mentions that according to
a 1977 study, 13% of homosexual have had sex with animals.
There is no indication where the other percentages come from - that
specific sentence is not footnoted separately. But those numbers do
NOT come from Hart.
I believe the paragraph is misleading. It gives the reader the
impression that all of the percentages come from Hart's book, when in
fact only the last sentence about sex with animals comes from said
book.
The source should be expected to specify where the other percentages
come from.
|
323.1288 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Nov 16 1995 14:07 | 2 |
| I wonder what percentage of heterosexuals have had experience with bestiality.
(Zoophilia? I like zoos!)
|
323.1289 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Thu Nov 16 1995 14:12 | 3 |
| Having sex with urine doesn't sound like fun. Do you have to take the
urine out for dinner and a movie first? Will the urine get jealous if
you need to pee?
|
323.1290 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 16 1995 14:19 | 1 |
| :-)
|
323.1291 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Thu Nov 16 1995 17:43 | 2 |
| Before I have to read through all these replies, did Joe ever reveal
his source?
|
323.1292 | Whomever? Whoever? Pedants -- help please! | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 16 1995 17:49 | 3 |
| I've faxed it to whomever asked. As I said earlier, I'll
discuss the source here once I get a clarification from
them regarding the discrepancy.
|
323.1293 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Thu Nov 16 1995 17:53 | 5 |
| re .1287- Deb, do you have the source attribution, or merely some
reproduced and unattributed pages? author name, institutional name,
anything?
DougO
|
323.1294 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Fluffy nutter | Thu Nov 16 1995 19:12 | 12 |
|
RE: .1293
They were part of the fax, which Joe was kind enough to send
to me as well. Joe has stated that he will specify the source,
so be patient; I'm confident he will follow through.
Until then, I won't enter my comments, which are numerous.
As far as I'm concerned, it's just as well Joe take his time,
as I'm up to my ass in alligators at the moment...
-b
|
323.1295 | | TROOA::COLLINS | A hayride of hyuks! | Fri Nov 17 1995 12:38 | 15 |
|
WASHINGTON (AP) - An experimental drug has prevented monkeys from
catching the simian form of the AIDS virus even when the virus was
pumped directly into their bodies, prompting hope the medicine could
one day protect people.
The monkeys were completely protected even when the virus floated in
their blood for 24 hours before they got the drug PMPA, a discovery
"too good to believe," said chief researcher Dr. Che-Chung Tsai of the
University of Washington Regional Primate Centre. Repeated tests came
up with the same results.
The drug's maker, Gilead Sciences Inc., hopes to begin testing the drug
in people next year.
|
323.1296 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Fri Nov 17 1995 12:48 | 9 |
|
DougO, I have the entire thing, including author and publication name.
Joe has asked that he be the one to reveal it in public, though, so
I'll defer to him.
As stated previously, it's misleading, and the myriad of percentages
quoted in the article do NOT come from Hart's book.
|
323.1297 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Hooter challenged | Sun Nov 19 1995 13:44 | 5 |
|
I have my reaction to the article typed in and ready to go.
Just waiting at this point for Joe to say the word.
-b
|
323.1298 | How about Jim saying the word? ;*) | SUBPAC::SADIN | Freedom isn't free. | Sun Nov 19 1995 15:00 | 3 |
|
go Brian!
|
323.1299 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 20 1995 09:35 | 7 |
|
I just received it too. Joe, who doesn't work on Mondays, came in to
fax it to me. So when he comes in tomorrow, we will be ready to go.
Glen
|
323.1300 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 20 1995 09:38 | 3 |
|
SNARF!!!
|
323.1301 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 21 1995 09:29 | 8 |
|
Well.....today we will find out what Joe did for that discrepency in
that article. This could very well be the day that I will owe Joe an apology.
Glen
|
323.1302 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz! | Tue Nov 21 1995 10:30 | 4 |
|
I sure hope someone apologizes to someone really soon, before
this discussion ends up in "The Ring".
|
323.1303 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 21 1995 10:32 | 3 |
|
Well, we can't do it without Joe!! :-)
|
323.1305 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 21 1995 16:36 | 6 |
| Well since Joe has been responding to notes of mine in here, baybe he
will deign to answer the questions everyone is asking.
meg
|
323.1306 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 21 1995 16:38 | 9 |
|
Joe, you've been writing in here, and you even responded to my mail.
You know people are patiently waiting for you in this topic. If you want to
reveal the source, present your findings, could you please do it soon before I,
and apparently Brian, do? I'll mail this to you as well.
Glen
|
323.1307 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Career Opportunity Week at DEC | Tue Nov 21 1995 16:42 | 5 |
|
Patiently????
[tap tap tap tap]
|
323.1308 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 21 1995 16:53 | 4 |
| Patience!
I follow the lead of NEXT UNSEEN. I knew it would eventually
bring me here!
|
323.1309 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 21 1995 17:40 | 34 |
| <<< Note 323.1287 by POWDML::HANGGELI "Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries" >>>
Deb wins the observation award:
> OK, here's the problem. Joe's source is misleading in that all of the
> percentage numbers are in one paragraph, but in two separate sentences.
> I quote:
>
> "In the most detailed study of American homosexual behavior to date,
> 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 29% in sex involving
> urine, 41% in "fisting", 37% in torture sex, an amazing 88% in public
> sex and orgies, and 24% in sex involving minors. Add to this roster
> about 13% who admit to having had sex with animals at least once." 11
>
> The footnote:
>
> 11 Hart, p.179.
I heard from the publisher (CFV). What I have is not the final
copy. It is not what was sent to their mailing list, and is not
what is available today. The copy I have has errors, and at issue
here is one of them.
After the first sentence in the quoted paragraph there should be
an additional footnote -- 10. For those to whom i faxed a copy,
you will see that there is no footnote 10, though there is a 10
in the footnotes list.
10 is "Dr Paul Cameron, 'The Gay Nineties' (Franklin, Tennessee:
Adroit Press 1993), p 41.
To get a copy of the final and official printing, contact the
CFV number at the top of the newsletter that was faxed to you.
|
323.1310 | | MPGS::MARKEY | fulla gadinkydust | Tue Nov 21 1995 17:47 | 99 |
| reference:
"Normal Perversions"
Linda Tebedo
Colorado for Family Values (CFV) Report
Volume 30, July 1995
Let me begin by thanking Joe Oppelt for faxing me the article
titled '"Normal" Perversions'. The article is very useful, for
it addresses many of the issues between G&L people and
Christian fundamentalists. I will try my best to avoid
"shooting the messenger." However, in my opinion, the author
of the article does a great disservice to G&L people as well
as a large part of of the heterosexual population.
I was immediately struck by the strong language of the article.
Although the article mentions a "gay agenda", it seems clear
that the author has her own agenda. I sincerely doubt that her
agenda stops at limiting gays from establishing special rights.
The language is strong, the associations are clear. Gay =
pervert. To wit: "the subject matter in this report is known
to cause distress and nausea in normal, healthy people."
If you're not G&L, don't feel left out. Consider the following
quote: "The healthy heterosexual ideal can be best described
as monogamous love between a grown man and a grown woman
whose sexual intercourse is vaginal and private." It seems that
I just went out the window with the rest of the perverts, as
I -- as well as my partner, with whom I share a healthy
monogamous adult heterosexual relationship -- enjoy oral sex.
The article goes on to diagnose my perversion as "sickness of
spirit."
The article makes suspect use of statistics. For example,
on page 5 it mentions that 24% of homosexuals have had sex
with minors, making an association between homosexuals and
pedophiles. While no source is supplied for this statistic,
it deserves scrutiny. In most states, the age of consent is
below the age of majority. The article makes no attempt to
qualify the statistic by stating the age the person was when
they had sexual contact with a minor. I would not be surprised
to find that 24% of the population at large would admit to
having sex with minors, since many people have sexual contact
while in their teens; usually with other teens. Since
virginity and I parted company well before my 18th birthday,
by the CFV's definition I could be a pedophile, even though my
partner and I were the same age and legally capable of
consent. More "spirit sickness" I presume.
There is also a strange double standard at work here. The
sexual acts described in the article are those between
men. No small wonder that; many sexual studies have found
that a significant percentage of men harbor fantasies
regarding lesbian encounters. Men having anal sex? "Faggots!"
Women having oral sex? "Coooooooooooooool!!!!!" This is
the only concession the article makes (by not mentioning
lesbian sex) to the kinky realities of human sexuality.
CFV apparently know where their bread is buttered.
The article describes many sexual acts which are intended
to make the reader uncomfortable. Yes, the idea of having
someone's forearm thrust in my anus makes me uncomfortable.
Yes, the idea of having sex with animals makes me uncomfortable.
Consider this strange dichotomy: I would not solicit someone
to mail me sexually explicit literature that detailed how
I might go about having anal sex with a man, but the CFV,
who espouse Christian values, would have no problem mailing
an unsolicited description to me! Imagine some poor Christian
person who agrees with CFV and sends a donation, only to have
the CFV newsletter intercepted by his/her curious children!
So what can the CFV's purpose be? On the surface it is to
protect Christian values. No special rights for gays, no
teaching the gay agenda in the schools. But if that were
the agenda, why is there the need for such sexually explicit
language? While it may not be the correct conclusion, I
have none the less concluded that the intent of CFV is to
dehumanize G&L people. This is EXACTLY the type of language
that promotes anti-gay violence. If this is not the language
of hate, then what is? The article does nothing to educate
me; I know that gay men have anal sex; I know that some
people think excrement and urine are sex toys (nothing
uniquely homosexual about that, either). Why does the CFV
feel the need to remind me?
The article does score a palpable hit in two areas. The first
regards sexual contact in public places (parks, etc.). I agree
with the author that this practice should be deprecated, but
again, it is not a uniquely homosexual practice. The second
point relates to the health-care costs of unhealthy sexual
practices. However, equally unhealthy practices are not
mentioned: smoking, obesity, lack of exercise. All contribute
to escalating health care costs. Homosexuals are singled out.
To end on a positive note, I think the way CFV chooses to
present its message will confine it to a small constituency
of hard-core anti-gays. Built-in error correction, if you
will...
|
323.1311 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 21 1995 19:55 | 8 |
| Of course, you realize, Brian, that CFV's agenda is to clearly
villify homosexual behavior, so you have to expect their slant.
But you can't simply throw out things they use from other
people on a principle of guilt-by-association, and that was
my hesitancy all along in revealing the source in the first
place. I know how this conference works. I know how CFV
is (and forever will be) received here.
|
323.1312 | | MPGS::MARKEY | fulla gadinkydust | Tue Nov 21 1995 20:38 | 26 |
|
Joe,
I completely understand your point about the perception of
CFV, here and elsewhere. I think we have a little disagreement
on who's to blame for that perception. Let's just say I
don't see a lot of bridge building on their part! :-)
I also feel that they are intentionally deceiving, unwisely
preoccupied with what other people do in their own bedrooms,
insulting and just plain mean. I have a hard time connecting
the dots between these characteristics and so-called "family
values".
That said, I'm really glad we're having this discussion and
I want to repeat my sincere gratitude for faxing the article
to us. Even though I know that you are certainly receptive
to CFV's message, I want to make it clear that in attacking
their articles I am in no way attacking you. I am, however,
relieved to find that a viewpoint which I'm not necessarily
receptive to has to use such blatant and offensive tactics
to forward its argument. I feel much more comfortable now
with my defense of gay rights.
-b
|
323.1313 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Tue Nov 21 1995 20:53 | 1 |
| Good note, Brian!
|
323.1314 | | MPGS::MARKEY | fulla gadinkydust | Tue Nov 21 1995 20:59 | 4 |
|
Thank you, Suzanne!
-b
|
323.1315 | | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&Glory! | Wed Nov 22 1995 00:28 | 8 |
| OK Brian, you are heretofore deemed as NOT fulla gadinkydust.
By this excellent note, I dub thee only 90% fulla gadinkydust.
Bravo, bien fa�t, gut gezugt, and all that...
|-{:-)
|
323.1316 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 07:51 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1311 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
>I know how CFV
> is (and forever will be) received here.
Quite properly. For anyone who has a respect for our system of
government, its Constitution and its laws. that is.
Jim
|
323.1317 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 22 1995 08:30 | 12 |
| re: .1310
I imagine smoking, obesity, et-al were not mentioned because the
article was about homosexuals, not over-eaters, smokers, etc.
You make some decent points, though I don't agree with everything you
posted in this note.
FWIW.
-steve
|
323.1318 | double standard | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 22 1995 08:30 | 4 |
| re: .1316
But it's okay for homosexuals to push their agenda into schools, law,
etc., right?
|
323.1319 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 08:42 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.1309 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| I heard from the publisher (CFV). What I have is not the final copy. It is
| not what was sent to their mailing list, and is not what is available today.
| The copy I have has errors, and at issue here is one of them.
Joe, please explain how you got a version of the newsletter that was
not sent out to the mailing list. And please explain how the ONLY error between
the two happens to be the #10 footnote? You see, I have both copies, yours and
theirs. I've had it for 2 days. So if you would, tell us how you obtained a
copy that did not go out on that mailing list, and how that is the ONLY error
between the 2.
Glen
|
323.1320 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 08:45 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.1311 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| But you can't simply throw out things they use from other people on a
| principle of guilt-by-association,
You are right, but you can throw this stuff out on several counts. Paul
Cameron was thrown out of many psyciatric areas. If you look in note number
87.485, you will see a pointer that shows you this has happened. And then when
you bring in how they misrepresented what the Hart book was saying (which I
will drop a note in after I catch up on this string) in the 1st place, well,
you can throw them out just on their own merits, or lack there of.
Glen
|
323.1321 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 08:47 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1318 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| But it's okay for homosexuals to push their agenda into schools, law,
| etc., right?
List what the agenda is in DETAIL. (you might want to go to the gay
topic for that)
|
323.1322 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:03 | 113 |
| I can comment on the Hart excerpts, as I still have the book. The CFV
stuff is pretty funny. I mean, they only include so much.....
Footnote 4 pg 66 of the Hart book:
Bondage, S/M and humiliation, for example, are seen as valid forms of
sexual expression by most gay men, even those who don't choose such
activities themselves.
What they failed to include in the above were the 2 lines BEFORE the one
sentence they extracted:
Among the gay community, there is a general acceptance of any sexual
activity between consenting and informed adults, provided it isn't
likely to cause serious harm to either person. It is pretty clear
whether most situations fall into this category.
The CFV does not mention that these things are between consenting and informed
adults, just that they are seen as ok. It never mentions the harm part either.
It was there, but they did not include it. The CFV did not include that the
author of the Hart book said in the introduction, which was what followed in
the pages was not fact, but the authors own opinion. The above info they (CFV)
provided has no fact to back it up, just one persons opinion. Yet they present
it like most gay men think humiliation, etc is ok. I believe the CFV is taking
the Hart book out of context in footnote 4.
Footnote 6 pg 112 of the Hart book:
Gay men may not have invented the one night stand, but we certainly
popularized it....Today many men still thrive on one-night stands....
What does the Hart book say?:
Gay men may not have invented the one night stand, but we certainly
popularized it in the decade between the Stonewall Riots and the onset
of AIDS. Today many men still thrive on one-night stands - while others
have never had one, and never want to.
Between Stonewall (1969) and the onset of AIDS (1979). This is what they are
talking about in this book. But when the CFV doesn't list this, it gives the
appearance that this is something that is from TODAY, not back as far as 16
years ago. And what even adds to that is when it says that many men still
thrive on one-night stands, but they do not list others don't, or never want to.
It appears the CFV is only interested in presenting partical truth, cuz they
certainly did not list the whole truth. They seem to do that a lot here. And of
course by not listing the 69-79 stuff, they have taken the Hart book out of
context.
Footnote 9 pg 112 of the Hart book:
Even scatology, while recognized as pretty kinky, seems to merit a page
in the homosexual how-to-manuals with no recriminations whatsoever.
Now the above was their own wording, and not something from the book itself. I
looked up the word scatology in the dictionary. It says:
"An interest in obscenity, esp. in literature."
Now the only thing I see on this page that might fit into this category would
be the entire page is about a one-night stand, the proper etiquette. It doesn't
go into the sex act itself, just what you should tell the person before you go
home with them, if they/you will/can spend the night, etc.
But it is kind of funny that in their literature they say "manualS", and then
only footnote 1 such book. It is also funny that at times they pull a few words
out to try and prove their point, but here they seem to trash the very source
they are using.
Footnote 11 pg 179 of the Hart book:
Add to this roster about 13% who admit to having had sex with animals
at least once.
The Hart book says:
City slickers tend to view the subject as a matter for jokes, but for
boys growing up on a farm, sex with animals is not uncommon.
Thirteen percent of respondents to a 1977 Gay Report said they had
tried sex with an animal at least once. "Living on a farm can be
lovely," wrote one. "I've <insert word which would be deleted if
used> many cows and had calves suck me off."
Now why would the CFV use something that was from a 1977 report for something
that they put out in a newsletter in 1995? That part does not make sense at
all. Would behaviors have changed since 1977? Since AIDS has sprung up, my
GUESS would be yes. And I base my guess on the CDC reports on new AIDS cases,
and what I see happening within the community itself.
Now, what is also weird that they used the book they trashed, to back their
claims of 13%. But the book itself quotes a 1977 study. Why didn't the CFV go
right to the study itself to either prove/disprove it's validity? Why does the
CFV use the information like it is from TODAY, not from 1977?
Now the CFV did hit the nail on the head when they implied this is a sick act.
Footnote 12 pg 112 of the Hart book:
They describe the public bathrooms, bathhouses, and sex clubs, where
anyone can go when they're "in the mood" for easy pick-ups and orgies
to have sex with men they've never met and prefer to never see again.
This one was quite funny, as they list the footnote to the Hart book, while
that page of the book is about one night stands only, not about where anyone
goes, or what they are "in the mood" for. Pretty deceiving, if you ask me.
Why did the CFV only pull out negative snippets from the Hart book to
try and prove their point? Why did the CFV not include the whole message that
the book was trying to convey? I can't know their reasoning. My GUESS is if
they did start including the whole truth, they would not have a platform to
stand on.
Glen
|
323.1323 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:05 | 5 |
| ZZ List what the agenda is in DETAIL. (you might want to go to the
ZZ gay topic for that)
Heather Has Two Mommies read to kindergarten students in the NYC school
system.
|
323.1324 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:06 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1318 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> But it's okay for homosexuals to push their agenda into schools, law,
> etc., right?
Steve, What is so wrong about a group of people working to be
accepted as full citizens of the United States?
What is so wrong about trying to counteract the hateful lies that
are told about them?
What is so wrong about using the legal processes already established
to accomplish these goals?
Jim
|
323.1325 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:23 | 28 |
| re: .1324 (Jim Percival)
>Steve, What is so wrong about a group of people working to be
> accepted as full citizens of the United States?
Nothing at all. But this is not the case as I see it. I guess it
depends on how you view "full citizens". I think this is a deceptive
argument- simplifying that which is not simple.
I'll not detail my thoughts since we've been over this more than a few
times already. 8^)
> What is so wrong about trying to counteract the hateful lies that
> are told about them?
Nothing at all. But if this means spreading their own lies (as with
the much discussed commercial from a gay activist group) and demonizing
people, then I would call such an agenda hypocritical.
> What is so wrong about using the legal processes already established
> to accomplish these goals?
Nothing. But there is also nothing wrong with other groups using the
same established legal processes to protect their way of life, when
they see their community standards being attacked.
-steve
|
323.1326 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:23 | 12 |
| I was poking around the net last night (surfing with "pro-life" as the
search word) and ended up at some Internet Zine for homosexuals reading
an article about "PLAGL".
But anyway, there was an adjacent article where the folks publishing
this gay netzine were all up in arms because of the fact that the most
popular netblocker software (which allows parents to control what their
children reach while netsurfing) restricts their 'zine site.
And they claim they don't recruit. Right.
/john
|
323.1327 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:25 | 21 |
| jack,
"Heather has Two Mommies" is not exactly a detailed agenda.
Glen,
In fairness to CFV, the Tebedo's, or at least Kevin, have left CFV as
it is too mainstream, and only seeks to avoid giving gay people
"special" rights, according to KT. Kevin has made it his mission to
wipe the "scourge" of homosexual behaviors off the planet. He has also
joined sister Linda in the militia movement. Since they gave KT a
severance package, I have a feeling that CFV had decided that KT has
gotten a bit too harsh and explicit even for CFV.
Howeverr, CFV also has not held itself to accuracy when painted into
corners, as could be seen by the blitzkrieg of hateful dreck sent out
the weekend before the '92 election, much of the same information was
in the "informative newsletter" with many references to Cameron, who
isn't noted for backing up his data with anything resembling facts.
meg
|
323.1328 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:25 | 5 |
|
Perhaps Dick Binder can help in getting them shut down if the get out
of line???
|
323.1329 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:28 | 11 |
|
John, while you haven't listed what it is they are talking about, how
can we decide if it really is recruiting or not? Could it be that they are
discussing gay issues that deal with children, and that if they are blocked out
from it, they may not actually get the info that could help them? How would
that equate recruiting?
Glen
|
323.1330 | Are parents allowed to decide what their children read? | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:31 | 3 |
| Maybe parents don't want their little 11-year-olds reading your sex talk.
/john
|
323.1331 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:33 | 8 |
| Glen,
We can't let kids know that there are normal, productive human beings
who also happen to be gay, and that they lead normal and happy lives.
I guess that could be construed as recruiting, just as a pre-aids
survey can be construed as valid in 1995.
meg
|
323.1332 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:38 | 8 |
|
<-------
Bull!!
If I had children at an impressionable age, I certainly would want a
software package that would block what *I* consider dreck...
|
323.1333 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:44 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.1330 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| Maybe parents don't want their little 11-year-olds reading your sex talk.
Describe what you mean by sex talk.
|
323.1334 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf | Wed Nov 22 1995 09:46 | 3 |
|
Ask them...
|
323.1335 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:00 | 13 |
| To begin with, any parent who leaves an 11-year-old alone with internet
access gets what they deserve, just as those who don't monitor what
their kids watch on TV.
I believe the concern with the gay community is with teens. Gay teens
have an alarmingly high suicide rate. (Which is lumped in with
Cameron's life-expectancy for gay men, I am sure. There are far too
many old gay men, out in the world to account for his mortality stats
any other way.) Lack of self-esteem and feeling like you belong
somewhere contributes to early heterosexual behavior, and less-safe
practices; I can't imagine it is any different for gay teens.
meg
|
323.1336 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:28 | 25 |
| <<< Note 323.1325 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Nothing at all. But this is not the case as I see it. I guess it
> depends on how you view "full citizens". I think this is a deceptive
> argument- simplifying that which is not simple.
It is fairly simple. Access to employmenmt, housing and public
accomodations can be denied to GLBs on a whim. In fact the mere
accusation, without proof, to deny these basic rights has actually
been upheld by the courts.
> Nothing at all. But if this means spreading their own lies (as with
> the much discussed commercial from a gay activist group) and demonizing
> people, then I would call such an agenda hypocritical.
Using videotape of religious right activists constitutes a "lie"?
> Nothing. But there is also nothing wrong with other groups using the
> same established legal processes to protect their way of life, when
> they see their community standards being attacked.
Only one side has attempted to deny access to the law by the other
(Note: it was not the GLBs).
Jim
|
323.1337 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:35 | 12 |
| Z To begin with, any parent who leaves an 11-year-old alone with
Z internet access gets what they deserve, just as those who don't monitor what
Z their kids watch on TV.
Meg, I agree with you. I saw Ralph Reed on Nightline trying to get the
government to regulate what goes on the Internet. The opposing view
said we should set it up so parents can control what files their
children will have access to. I see Reeds position but frankly, porn
is available everywhere. The responsibility is on the shoulders of the
parents.
-Jack
|
323.1338 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:40 | 6 |
| Scream!!!
Jack and I agreed on something, should this be in an "on this day"
topic?
meg
|
323.1339 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:43 | 8 |
| Right. And "GLAAD" (the Gay & Lesbian Anti-Discrimination And Defamation
people) were moaning about this piece of software which elinates access to
sexual discussions (both hetero and homo) in the initial set of restrictions.
The software allows parents to add or remove restrictions to have direct
control of what their children access.
/john
|
323.1340 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:51 | 8 |
| I'm not sure that I understand why _ANY_ group that publishes information
on the Internet thinks that they should not be restrictable by software
tools which users desire to employ. There is nothing that gives anyone
the "right" to force their information into my home through my phone
line nor the "right" to prevent me from doing as I please regarding
whether or not I wish to allow it there. This is as applicable to NAMBLA
as it is to the Catholic Church or the Red Cross or the Department of Justice.
|
323.1341 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:54 | 6 |
| Jack,
We are in some agreement here, but I want the choice, I don't want it
to be mandatory software on my home station.
meg
|
323.1342 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:55 | 2 |
| Wait a minute. Maybe I missed something. What's "Mandatory software"?
|
323.1343 | | MPGS::MARKEY | fulla gadinkydust | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:56 | 7 |
|
So John, how do you answer my comment about the sexually
explicit content of the "CFV Report"? I don't know about
your household, but my kids have easier access to the mail
box than they do to Internet...
-b
|
323.1344 | re .1342 -- it's about the UN Convention on Rights of Children | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 22 1995 10:56 | 3 |
| Her mommy still controls her computer at home.
/john
|
323.1345 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 11:07 | 5 |
| Especially since the first mailing I saw from CFV had this same jglop
in it and came in a newpaper bulk-rate format. My kids bring my mail
in. "No honey, I don't know what all those terms are, or why someone
would put them in a newpaper put out by someone who purportadly
believes in family values."
|
323.1346 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 22 1995 11:14 | 6 |
| If the CFV people sent out obscene literature, turn them into the Post Office.
As a general solution to the problem of sleeze mail, I suppose you need to
teach your children not to read their parents' mail.
/john
|
323.1347 | Sheesh. No forests. Just trees. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 12:05 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.1319 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, please explain how you got a version of the newsletter that was
>not sent out to the mailing list.
I'm not on the mailing list. I have a copy that was given to
me by someone else. And it is not an original.
>And please explain how the ONLY error between
>the two happens to be the #10 footnote? You see, I have both copies, yours and
>theirs. I've had it for 2 days.
Well break out your fine-toothed comb and magnifying glass, for
they said that there were other errors as well.
Keep searching for those boogeymen, Glen.
|
323.1348 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 12:07 | 7 |
| <<< Note 323.1324 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> What is so wrong about a group of people working to be
> accepted as full citizens of the United States?
Because they require "acceptance a citizens" to include
acceptance of their behaviors.
|
323.1349 | | MPGS::MARKEY | now 90% fulla gadinkydust | Wed Nov 22 1995 12:42 | 10 |
|
Joe,
I think the point is that _their_ behavior does not require
your approval _or_ disapproval. You put _yourself_ in that
position, and my guess is that you did so without much
solicitation on their part. You always have the option of
simply ignoring their behavior, but you choose not to.
-b
|
323.1350 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 12:55 | 14 |
| Joe,
Excuse me, but the last time I checked I would get fired if I were
having sex at work with anyone, orientation isn't an issue.
Are you talking about firing someone for having a picture of their
committed relationship on their desk, wearing a wedding ring, being (or
my god, we know what she did!) PREGNANT? These are all things that are
behaviours of any orientation. Refusing to rent to someone because
they just look like they might have a different orientation?
I mean what is to accept
meg
|
323.1351 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:05 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.1347 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Joe, please explain how you got a version of the newsletter that was
| >not sent out to the mailing list.
| I'm not on the mailing list. I have a copy that was given to
| me by someone else. And it is not an original.
Joe, what is the name of the publisher? I'd like to see if it matches
the information they gave me.
| Well break out your fine-toothed comb and magnifying glass, for they said
| that there were other errors as well.
Who is they?
| Keep searching for those boogeymen, Glen.
Don't need to search very hard....please answer the questions above.
BTW, was there a reason you didn't address .1322?
Also, did you have a chance to check out the www that was posted in
note 87.485 yet? It does give which associations Cameron was thrown out of.
Glen
|
323.1352 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:13 | 8 |
| We've been through it all already Meg. There are over 1000 notes
in this topic, and just as many elsewhere. I have enough
participation in those thousands of notes for you to already know
the answers to your questions.
You pick loaded examples, and expect me to answer those, but you
fully know where I have placed my efforts in these discussions.
You conveniently ignore them.
|
323.1353 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:16 | 8 |
|
Meg, methinks Joe only means to talk about the sex part of it all. If
he talks about the others, they sound too much like things heterosexuals do, so
it wouldn't help him prove that the behaviours are supposed to be bad.
Glen
|
323.1356 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:23 | 1 |
| DougO -- Do you support parental censorship of anti-homosexual material?
|
323.1355 | teaching self worth is not 'recruiting' | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:24 | 14 |
| I suppose John Covert would say that if adults are bringing up kids to
have such disregard for gay people that the kids kill themselves when
they discover that they themselves are gay and in their parent's view
thereby "worthless", "depraved" or "unchristian", John would say that
it is those parents' right to bring those kids up that way. He defends
the ability of parents to prevent such kids from finding materials
published by gays targetted at helping such teens find a sense of self
worth, after all.
What does it say about Mr Covert that he supports the parental
censorship of gay-teen-suicide-prevention materials? It says
Enough. That "shielding-from-sex-talk" smokescreen is nonsense.
DougO
|
323.1357 | As usual, DougO has no answers, claims none... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:28 | 17 |
|
But, DougO, that makes no sense. SOMEBODY has to select what kids
can see, even if it's the kids themselves.
Do you think the kids should see anything they like ?
Do you think the government should direct what they see ?
If so, can a change in government change what they see ?
Or is it your old shopworn "committee of objective experts",
who the rest of us are convinced don't exist.
Nope, the parents are surely the least of evils. And at least
they are actually around.
bb
|
323.1358 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:29 | 33 |
| <<< Note 323.1351 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
First you say:
> I'd like to see if it matches the information they gave me.
Then you ask me:
> Who is they?
They is they. I'm confused by you.
> Don't need to search very hard....please answer the questions above.
>
> BTW, was there a reason you didn't address .1322?
Yup. You ask far too many questions for someone to address them
all.
And I've already made it clear that I'm not interested in debating
the sources. Throw your rocks and get it over with. I'm only
interested in my original point back in .857.
> Also, did you have a chance to check out the www that was posted in
>note 87.485 yet? It does give which associations Cameron was thrown out of.
I don't www. And you've already thrown your rocks at Cameron
so why beat the dead horse? I've answered your questions
about sources, and that's the end of it. You've thrown your
rocks, and that should be the end of it too.
Now that it's done, you can get back to addressing .1080 as you
said you would once this latest question was cleared up.
|
323.1359 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:29 | 10 |
| anti-homosexual material? you mean, parents censoring the CFV's web
site, or something like that? A bit counter-productive, wouldn't you
say- how can you teach your children about how some people in the world
are filled with hatred and publish lies, without such examples? You
have to explain how the culture of tolerance works by demonstrating
tolerance for some pretty rank stuff some times. I myself wouldn't see
any point to such an act, "censoring anti-homosexual materials," by a
parent. Who would?
DougO
|
323.1360 | | MPGS::MARKEY | now 90% fulla gadinkydust | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:34 | 11 |
| RE: .1359
Doug,
The only reason would be the one I pointed out back in .1310.
In the CFV repoort in question, there is sexually explicit
language. I destroyed the report when I was done with it; I
did not want my children to stumble onto it, even if the intent
of the report was to deprecate homosexual practices.
-b
|
323.1361 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:41 | 17 |
| I try to shelter preteens from graphic sexual terms and actions,
particularly those that paint sex of any kind in a negative light, they
don't need to grow up as twisted as far too many people who only focus
on acts, not the people involved. (this necessarily includes rape,
violent acts, etc.)
They do have to be told that there are people who will not tolerate
other people because the intolerant need something to look down on, be
it melinin content, eye color, hair texture or length, and/or religious
preference, etc.. to make themselves feel better about whatever thing they
have lacking in their lives. I hope that understanding this piece of
intolerance, AKA the "bully factor" in humans, AKA pecking order in
chickens, will give them more understanding, and tolerance of the
intolerant, but not their behaviors.
meg
|
323.1362 | We all see the demons we want to see. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:44 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1361 by CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" >>>
> They do have to be told that there are people who will not tolerate
> other people because the intolerant need something to look down on,
Gee. DOesn't sound like you're very tolerant of those you
attack in .1361... But you probably feel better after writing
that reply!
|
323.1363 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:44 | 42 |
| > But, DougO, that makes no sense.
You think that 'protecting from sex talk' made sense? Have you been
out there and LOOKED AT THESE WEB SITES? There's a lot more than sex
talk.
> SOMEBODY has to select what kids can see, even if it's the kids
> themselves. Do you think the kids should see anything they like ?
Bingo. They have to grow up and live in this world.
Well, ok. Maybe a little extreme. Each kid matures at a different
rate - indeed, soapbox alone tells you that many never do. But
eventually society cuts 'em loose and holds 'em responsible for their
actions. With a car, usually licenses are available at 16. With a gun
and a soldier suit, age 17. With sex, statutory rape isn't charged if
partners are of similar ages, down to 13 or 14. With information
access - lets see, when do *you* think full privileges are warranted?
And if you wouldn't allow for access during teen years, you're for
censoring suicide prevention materials, too, is the way I see it.
Preparing a kid to deal with the world is the biggest responsibility a
parent has. I don't think parents have the right to bring up their
kids without proper schooling. Information access has to be part of
that. Sex talk? Spare me the testrionics.
> Do you think the government should direct what they see ?
>
> If so, can a change in government change what they see ?
>
> Or is it your old shopworn "committee of objective experts",
> who the rest of us are convinced don't exist.
It should be obvious that I agree with none of this.
> Nope, the parents are surely the least of evils. And at least
> they are actually around.
They certainly play a big role in my scheme. But not the sole role.
Proper schooling is a requirement, not an option.
DougO
|
323.1364 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:46 | 9 |
| Joe,
the only thing I can think of intolerant people is they are missing
bits, particularly in the heart area. Feeling sorry for these people
is not teraching my children to hate them.
Oh, but I foreget you are so much more logical abnd unemotional than I,
meg
|
323.1365 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:47 | 5 |
| Joe's .1362 is a classic, equating Meg's words of disdain for the
haters with the savage acts of hatred directed at gays. No need to
wonder what color the sky is in Joe's world.
DougO
|
323.1366 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:49 | 60 |
| | <<< Note 323.1358 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| First you say:
| > I'd like to see if it matches the information they gave me.
The they here is the CFV.
| Then you ask me:
| > Who is they?
I want the publishers name.
| > BTW, was there a reason you didn't address .1322?
| Yup. You ask far too many questions for someone to address them all.
Joe, .1322 deals with the deceptive practices the CFV used when posting
their information. So I can see why you would not want to address it.
| And I've already made it clear that I'm not interested in debating the
| sources.
We're debating the tactics the source used. It wouldn't matter who the
source was, when they use the tactics they did, then the tactics is what is
being addressed.
| I'm only interested in my original point back in .857.
You gave us so called facts that were supposed to prove your point. The
article you gave us does not prove anything except that the tactics that were
used in making this article were deceptive.
| I don't www. And you've already thrown your rocks at Cameron so why beat the
| dead horse?
You stated earlier that there was no information about Cameron being
tossed by the different psyciatric associations. You said that there was no
information that showed Cameron's method of gathering information was faulty.
This pointer proves there is something out there that proves just that.
| I've answered your questions about sources,
No, Joe, you have not answered them all. The publisher....lets have the
name... if it doesn't match the information I got from them, then it would show
that you lied. If it does match the information that they gave me, then it
would show that I was dead wrong in calling you a liar. Key information is
still missing.
| Now that it's done, you can get back to addressing .1080 as you said you would
| once this latest question was cleared up.
It ISN'T cleared up. You have given us a reason, and now you need to
prove it. Giving the publishers name, and HOW you were able to obtain the
information would clear this up. Until then you have cleared nothing. All you
have done was "say".....
Glen
|
323.1367 | minor etymological rathole | CTHU26::S_BURRIDGE | A spark disturbs our clod | Wed Nov 22 1995 13:51 | 5 |
| .1363
"histrionics" doesn't come from the same root as "hysteria," btw.
-Stephen
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323.1368 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Wed Nov 22 1995 14:04 | 3 |
| testrionics - you got it - so will those it was intended for.
DougO
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323.1369 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 14:18 | 41 |
| <<< Note 323.1366 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> The they here is the CFV.
Then THEY are the same people I spoke with.
Tell me. How did you get the mailing list copy so quickly?
I'd like to see a copy if you don't mind. FAX is 719-577-8054.
> We're debating the tactics the source used.
No, YOU are debating it. Maybe you have someone else debating
the counter-point with you, but I haven't seen such entries.
> You gave us so called facts that were supposed to prove your point.
The facts stand as-is. Your choice is to throw rocks at Cameron
instead of disprove his statements. That's your choice, and you
are entitled to it. The red cross also takes a certain stand that
you have shrugged off. My position as posted in .857 stands. And
you promised us that you would address .1080 but have not.
> You stated earlier that there was no information about Cameron being
>tossed by the different psyciatric associations. You said that there was no
>information that showed Cameron's method of gathering information was faulty.
I don't recall that.
>| I've answered your questions about sources,
>
> No, Joe, you have not answered them all.
Like I said, I don't answer all your questions. You don't
like it? Well, tough.
> would show that I was dead wrong in calling you a liar.
I've already shown that you were dead wrong in your allegations
that I was making up the numbers. I have not asked for an apology
for that, and do not do so now. Instead you choose to move to
a different rathole.
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323.1370 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 14:22 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1368 by SX4GTO::OLSON "Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto" >>>
> testrionics -
Ah, yes. To counter the claim that some are immature and sexist
for using a word that can be construed as sexist, you make up
a word that has only one purpose -- reverse sexism.
"I can be unmistakably sexist! That ought to teach you a lesson!"
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323.1371 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 14:28 | 6 |
| Well Joe,
He can't very well say a manly man like use has a uterus, now can he?
Unless you scar makes you look like the mattel Ken doll, I would
imagine you do have testes, right?
|
323.1372 | Fabricated offense is beyond my control. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 14:33 | 2 |
| Meg, the only sexism in this issue over the word hysterics
is the demand for a solo definition of the word.
|
323.1373 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:01 | 85 |
| | <<< Note 323.1369 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > The they here is the CFV.
| Then THEY are the same people I spoke with.
Joe, clear something up, if you would. At what part of the whole
operation did you get your copy?
| Tell me. How did you get the mailing list copy so quickly?
Easy...they faxed it to me. They have every newsletter on hand. The
VERY first one that comes off of the line is given to them for their files.
| I'd like to see a copy if you don't mind. FAX is 719-577-8054.
That will have to wait until after work. We aren't allowed to send
faxes out of Hudson unless they are work related. So going to the mailroom to
fax it would be useless. (but I will try) I'll pay for it out of my own pocket
if I have to use an outside source. It is funny that the only thing missing is
the footnote.
Oh....one other thing I forgot.....they have scatology listed as
handling feces, while the dictionary lists it as an interest in obsenity, esp
in literature. Funny how that one worked out, too.
| > We're debating the tactics the source used.
| No, YOU are debating it.
I believe that Brian called them on the tactics used. But I see you
have not done anything about addressing it.
| > You gave us so called facts that were supposed to prove your point.
| The facts stand as-is.
That's just it...there are no facts. You bring up throwing rocks at
Cameron, when .1322 is ONLY about the Hart book. You seem to refuse to address
the tactics they used. Why?
| Your choice is to throw rocks at Cameron instead of disprove his statements.
Throw rocks at Cameron? You mean when there is something that shows
which associations he was thrown out of for his methods, that becomes me
throwing rocks at him? When there is something that shows he misquoted other
studies (from the mouths of the people who did the studies) to prove his point,
that becomes me throwing rocks at him? Do you really think that just because
Cameron is mentioned, that it automatically equates to rocks being thrown at
him? Be real. His methods is what got him screwed, not his name.
| The red cross also takes a certain stand that you have shrugged off.
Actually, it was addressed. Go back and read.
| My position as posted in .857 stands.
Oh...it stands, but you have nothing to back it.
| > would show that I was dead wrong in calling you a liar.
| I've already shown that you were dead wrong in your allegations that I was
| making up the numbers.
Joe, why is it that I used the word liar, and you used the words,
"making up the numbers"? The liar part goes far deeper than that, Joe. But then
if you said liar, you just might not be able to say that honestly....To be
honest, I believe you took the footnote out so you could prove your point. When
I was checking the footnotes when writing my reply on Monday (which I held until
today), I discovered the huge gap. And the CFV faxed me a copy 5 minutes after
I called. They themselves said that no one should be receiving a copy of the
newsletter until it is completed. So I would like to know, at what part of the
operation did you receive this copy?
| I have not asked for an apology for that, and do not do so now.
I said I would furnish one if you could prove yourself not to be a
liar. You have this big publishing gap to fill in. Who is lying...the CFV, who
say no one gets a copy until it is finished, or you, who said you got a copy
before it was finished?
Glen
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323.1374 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:02 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1348 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Because they require "acceptance a citizens" to include
> acceptance of their behaviors.
If those behaviors are personal and private, what business is it of
yours?
Jim
|
323.1375 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:04 | 4 |
| .1374
That's my question too, Jim. Why do I even have to know about
them?
|
323.1376 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:24 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1375 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> That's my question too, Jim. Why do I even have to know about
> them?
Oh, I get it now. As long as GLBs know their place and keep to
the back of the bus, you are just fine with them. Right?
Maybe you would like to see seperate drinking fountains and lunch
counters too.
Let's review.
Virtually all of the sexually explicit material that has been
posted in this file has been posted by anti-gay noters. The most
blatantly offensive material was posted by you from a supposedly
Christian source.
Seems that it is not the GLBs that you should be angry with. Maybe
you should right Will a letter telling him that you are tired of
his in your face publications.
Jim
|
323.1377 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:25 | 36 |
| ZZ If those behaviors are personal and private, what business is it of
ZZ yours?
Jim,
Therein lies the problem. IT IS none of my business and I don't care
to know about it.
The problem Jim is this. When somebody says they are gay, to me they
are stating they prefer an alternative form of sexual intercouse. Now
it is no secret that humankind is in to a variety of different forms of
sex. Some do the oral thing, others are well versed in the Karma
Sutra, whatever. I have six brothers and sisters and I have absolutely
NO idea what they are into, what positions they like the best, what
fetishes they have...Nothing. I don't want to know because my business
it is not!
Once somebody proclaims their sexual preference, they are in fact
revealing what form of sex they want from their boyfriend, girlfriend,
whatever. When a gay organization demands to take part in a parade,
they are identifying as a group that prefers a certain form of sex.
Penises and Vaginas were made biologically for this specific purpose
amongst peeing and menstruating. If Fred is into anal sex or if Jack
and Jill are into oral sex, then more power to them but please don't
make it my business. I am not interested and when groups demand to
become a class of society because of what sexual identity they have,
then guess what Jim, they are trying to make it my business.
That's the pisser in this whole thing. Stop making it other peoples
business. I keep my opinions to myself unless somebody makes a
statement in order to look for approval, i.e. Jack, I'm gay. There is
no rule or protocol that says I have to answer, "Ohhh...that's nice",
or "Well, whatever works for you!". You're looking for this utopia
where we all conform and think alike Jim. That isn't the real world.
-Jack
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323.1378 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:25 | 43 |
| <<< Note 323.1373 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, clear something up, if you would. At what part of the whole
>operation did you get your copy?
Last June.
> Oh....one other thing I forgot.....they have scatology listed as
>handling feces, while the dictionary lists it as an interest in obsenity, esp
>in literature. Funny how that one worked out, too.
More nits. My dictionary has that as defn #3. Numbers 1 and 2
are as follows:
1: The study of fecal excrement, as in medicine or paleontology.
2: a) An obsession with excrement or excretory functions.
b) The psychiatric study of such an obsession.
Funny how that one works out.
> I believe that Brian called them on the tactics used. But I see you
> have not done anything about addressing it.
Precisely. Maybe you're starting to understand what I've been
saying all along.
>that becomes me throwing rocks at him? Do you really think that just because
>Cameron is mentioned, that it automatically equates to rocks being thrown at
>him? Be real. His methods is what got him screwed, not his name.
No, I think that just because Cameron is mentioned, anything
associated with it is summarily dismissed. You're entitled
to do that. Perhaps you can provide is different/better
statistics regarding sexual practices of gays? I'd be willing
to accept them.
>Who is lying...the CFV, who
>say no one gets a copy until it is finished, or you, who said you got a copy
>before it was finished?
I'm sure they are talking about their mailing list. I didn't
get it (or other issues that I have) through the mailing list.
I've had December's issue for nearly a month.
|
323.1379 | Or GAK! Or Euuuuuww! Or whatever. | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:25 | 1 |
| Gag.
|
323.1380 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:26 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1373 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>I believe you took the footnote out so you could prove your point.
Woah. Now this is getting low, Glen.
First of all, my point was that I didn't make up the numbers
as you claimed I did. It really doesn't matter what source
they came from, so why should I go through all that trouble
as you allege?
I showed you what I have. You can make up charges all you
want. Your purpose is clear. You want to villify me, and
now you even admit that you'll concoct accusations to do that.
|
323.1381 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:29 | 10 |
| ZZ Oh, I get it now. As long as GLBs know their place and keep to
ZZ the back of the bus, you are just fine with them. Right?
Herein lies the pisser. Jim, nobody would know for sure whether or not
I was straight had I not mentioned my wife's name a few times. It
isn't something I have to wave a flag over. Your statement above puts
a victim slant on it and the credibility factor once again goes out the
perverbial poop chute!
-Jack
|
323.1382 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Just say `Oh, all right'. | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:33 | 5 |
|
.1381
Why mention your wife? I don't want to hear about your sexuality!
|
323.1383 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:34 | 12 |
| You have something against wedding rings, pictures of loved ones and
pregnancy?
All of these are examples of active sexual behaviors, particularly the
pregnancy one. Want pregnant wome kept from public site, so you don't
have to know the most likely did a horizonatl bot at some time in the
recent past?
I doubt you would find out from any person what their sexual practices
are beyond that unless you asked, or did research, which is equivelant
to asking.
meg
|
323.1384 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:37 | 5 |
| > Want pregnant wome kept from public site, so you don't
> have to know the most likely did a horizonatl bot at some time in the
> recent past? ==============
Leave Aztec gods out of it.
|
323.1385 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:38 | 48 |
| <<< Note 323.1377 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> The problem Jim is this. When somebody says they are gay, to me they
> are stating they prefer an alternative form of sexual intercouse. Now
> it is no secret that humankind is in to a variety of different forms of
> sex. Some do the oral thing, others are well versed in the Karma
> Sutra, whatever. I have six brothers and sisters and I have absolutely
> NO idea what they are into, what positions they like the best, what
> fetishes they have...Nothing. I don't want to know because my business
> it is not!
All they have told you is that they prefer sex with a partner of
the same gender. Unless they give you details regarding the actual
sexual practices, all else is assumption on your part.
> Once somebody proclaims their sexual preference, they are in fact
> revealing what form of sex they want from their boyfriend, girlfriend,
> whatever.
How so? I am heterosexual. This gives you no information other than
the fact that I have sex with the opposite gender. Again anything
related to actual practices is an assumption that you have to make.
> When a gay organization demands to take part in a parade,
> they are identifying as a group that prefers a certain form of sex.
Assumption. You really have absolutely no idea what actual
practices they may choose.
>If Fred is into anal sex or if Jack
> and Jill are into oral sex, then more power to them but please don't
> make it my business.
It isn't. Only your seemingly obsessive fascination with their
practices appears to be the problem.
>I keep my opinions to myself unless somebody makes a
> statement in order to look for approval, i.e. Jack, I'm gay. There is
> no rule or protocol that says I have to answer, "Ohhh...that's nice",
> or "Well, whatever works for you!". You're looking for this utopia
> where we all conform and think alike Jim. That isn't the real world.
I am not looking for Utopia. I am looking for equal treatment
under the law. I am not looking for you to say "how nice". I am
looking to ensure that a person that DOES state their orientation
can not be denied a job, housing or the use of public accomodations.
Jim
|
323.1386 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:39 | 7 |
| Jack,
Does that mean we have to assume you do things with her too? Oh yeah,
you have children, that mean you,. eeeeew! yuck you use that waste
orifice for impregnating too.
meg
|
323.1387 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:42 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.1381 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Herein lies the pisser. Jim, nobody would know for sure whether or not
> I was straight had I not mentioned my wife's name a few times.
Do you wear a wedding band? Do you have pictures of your wife on
your desk?
What assumptions can I make about your sexual practices based
on the knowledge that you are heterosexual? None. I need more
data.
Jim
|
323.1388 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Just say `Oh, all right'. | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:44 | 5 |
|
The real question is:
Does he do it standalone, clustered, or client/server?
|
323.1389 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:46 | 56 |
| | <<< Note 323.1377 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| The problem Jim is this. When somebody says they are gay, to me they
| are stating they prefer an alternative form of sexual intercouse.
You're right, it is a problem. To me they are stating that their
attraction is towards someone of the same sex. The same thing enters my mind
for heterosexual people (except oppisite gender). I don't default to the sex
part with any of them.
| Once somebody proclaims their sexual preference, they are in fact revealing
| what form of sex they want from their boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever.
GANT Not true. With both you can have oral, but not everyone likes to
do that. With both you can have kinky, but not everyone wants to do that. So
many different things, but from proclaiming your sexual orientation, you can't
know.
| When a gay organization demands to take part in a parade, they are identifying
| as a group that prefers a certain form of sex.
Wow.....this is way out in left field. So you mean when a heterosexual
group demands to take part in a parade, they are identifing as a group that
prefers a certain form of sex? Be real. There are many forms of Irish people.
Some from clans (new meaning for Lucky Charms perhaps?), bars, etc. If you want
to take what they are representing out of the equation, then, and only then can
your statement hold water. Who is more Irish.... the gays who marched, or the
striking union workers?
| Penises and Vaginas were made biologically for this specific purpose amongst
| peeing and menstruating.
Wow.....please explain a penis and menstruating.
| If Fred is into anal sex or if Jack and Jill are into oral sex, then more
| power to them but please don't make it my business.
If Fred is not into anal sex, but he told you he was gay, would you
assume he was into anal sex? You can't equate who is into what without knowing
for sure. You're religious, so I imagine not much movement is involved when you
have sex. Can I really say this? No. How the hell do I know what you do?
| I am not interested
Then why do you default to sex when someone says they are gay?
| and when groups demand to become a class of society because of what sexual
| identity they have,
Jack, be real here. Look at .1132 and tell me that that kind of
distortion of the gay lifestyle is ok to do. Then tell me that people aren't
out to make changes due to that very same thing.
Glen
|
323.1390 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:52 | 34 |
| | <<< Note 323.1378 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Joe, clear something up, if you would. At what part of the whole
| >operation did you get your copy?
| Last June.
Please don't play games. What part of the operation, not when, did you
get your copy.
| More nits. My dictionary has that as defn #3. Numbers 1 and 2 are as follows
What dictionary are you using? Mine only had the one.
| No, I think that just because Cameron is mentioned, anything associated with
| it is summarily dismissed.
Joe, I have given a pointer that shows what Meg mentioned way back
when. You can deflect all you want to make it seem that it is being dismissed,
but the methods he used is what trashed his name, not the name itself.
| I'm sure they are talking about their mailing list.
No, they are not. I talked to them about how the whole letter is put
together, the different stages.
| I've had December's issue for nearly a month.
Fax it to me so I can see if it matches the one they said they will
send me. 508-568-4681.
Glen
|
323.1391 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries | Wed Nov 22 1995 15:56 | 8 |
|
When I think of "heterosexual", I think of someone who prefers members
of the opposite sex for love purposes. I don't think of sex. Same
with "homosexual". I don't automatically think of various forms of
copulation!
Is this a guy thing?
|
323.1392 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Duster :== idiot driver magnet | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:00 | 10 |
|
The average man has sexual thoughts every 6 minutes or something
like that, and an entry about gays or AIDS or heteros is put in
here every 15 minutes or so.
So that means that 40% of the time, most of us are thinking a-
bout homo/heteros in a sexual connotation.
Isn't math fun? 8^)
|
323.1393 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:01 | 1 |
| Copulation very often involves women.
|
323.1394 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:03 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.936 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| According to Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who
| Love Men", (1991, Alyson Publications) the typical homosexual
| has between 10 and 110 different partners per year.
The book does not say that, and there is no footnote in EITHER CFV
listing that has it pointing to this. This is a lie.
|
323.1395 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:08 | 20 |
| Interesting stuff some may not know about Cameron's research.
did you know:
52% of male heterosexuals have shoplifted
34% have committed a crime without being caught
22% have been arrested for a crime
13% have served time in prison
12% of male het's have either murdered or attempted to murder another
person.
?????
One wonders who this man picks on for surveys and why he didn't publish
this information widely. Oh year, its that orientation thing.
FWIW I don't believe he was correct on this part of the survey either.
meg
|
323.1396 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:08 | 8 |
| ZZ If Fred is not into anal sex, but he told you he was gay, would you
ZZ assume he was into anal sex? You can't equate who is into what without
ZZ knowing for sure.
I will concede this point. My understanding was that if one was gay,
then they were into anal intercourse.
-Jack
|
323.1397 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:16 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1380 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| >I believe you took the footnote out so you could prove your point.
| Woah. Now this is getting low, Glen.
Yes, it is.
| I showed you what I have.
Not everything.
| Your purpose is clear. You want to villify me, and now you even admit that
| you'll concoct accusations to do that.
No, Joe, I want the truth. Considering I have stated that if I am
wrong, I would apologize to you, it kills your above theory.
|
323.1398 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:21 | 9 |
| If you got this from people using Cameron's research you should realize
that his "survey" was done on 41 male homosexuals and 24 lesbians. Not
a very large sample to be sure.
so if you got this information from CFV, Focus on the Family, Family
Research Council, Antelope Valley Springs of Life Ministries, or
anyone who cites these groups, you are working from a flawed "study",
the 1983 Institute for the Scientific Investigation of Sexuality
survey.
|
323.1399 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:21 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1396 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I will concede this point. My understanding was that if one was gay,
| then they were into anal intercourse.
Jack, please hand in the assuming part of your brain for destruction.
Here is yet another case where you thought something was one way, and without
ever knowing, you spout it off like it is fact. Maybe if you did not assume,
and you asked, you might actually have a better understanding of things and
wouldn't have so many hang-ups.
Glen
|
323.1400 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:22 | 3 |
|
snarf!!!
|
323.1401 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:23 | 1 |
| Glen, I sent you a fax!
|
323.1402 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Erin go braghless | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:25 | 7 |
|
It'd be really funny if it said something like
"Up yours!!".
Well, I think so, anyways.
|
323.1403 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:26 | 6 |
| Glen:
I think this assumption of anal sex in the male gay community is an
assumption made by a majority of us. I'm not in the minority.
-Jack
|
323.1404 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:27 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1396 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> I will concede this point. My understanding was that if one was gay,
> then they were into anal intercourse.
A good sign. Ignorance can indeed be fixed. Now if we can just get
over the hurdle of equating a particular orientation with particular
sex acts we will have made real progress.
Gays may do it differently than you do Jack. Or they may not. Without
a lot of detail, that I really have no interest in, I certainly can't
make a determination.
Jim
|
323.1405 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:27 | 1 |
| Glen, I did not send you a fax!
|
323.1406 | | MPGS::MARKEY | now 90% fulla gadinkydust | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:29 | 5 |
|
Most assuredly, Mz. Deb, it is not. For I think the same as
you...
-b
|
323.1407 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:34 | 12 |
| An interesting quote from Cameron
When regarding heterosexual sodomy he said "The anus is potentially
'sexy'...Animals don't use the anus, but many humans do"
I think I am going to have to get this book, "Sexual Gradualism" to
find out how much is taken out of context, but this stuff looks pretty
awful. This is obviously not a book I can take home with kids in the
house. The snippets from this book in the paper from the Web site are
not something I want one of my kids reading over my shoulder.
meg
|
323.1408 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 16:49 | 19 |
| <<< Note 323.1390 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Please don't play games. What part of the operation, not when, did you
> get your copy.
Personal contact within CFV. Who knows when they took it?
You're destined for frustration if you want anything more than
that, because I don't know any more than that.
> What dictionary are you using? Mine only had the one.
AHD.
>| I've had December's issue for nearly a month.
>
> Fax it to me so I can see if it matches the one they said they will
>send me. 508-568-4681.
Done.
|
323.1409 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 17:11 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1397 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| Woah. Now this is getting low, Glen.
>
> Yes, it is.
Says it all, dontcha think?
> No, Joe, I want the truth. Considering I have stated that if I am
> wrong, I would apologize to you, it kills your above theory.
I've already answered your accusations (.1159, .1166, .1168.)
Now you make new ones that are even more extreme than the first.
Your motives are clear.
|
323.1410 | Yes, it's been a slow day here. 8^) | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 22 1995 17:13 | 127 |
| It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how
much folks want to crow about this red herring. Fact is, if you are
not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW. No problem with employment,
housing (which I doubt is really an issue, other than with private
owners renting property), etc.
Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more
than others. If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think
badly of us due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is
to be quiet about it. Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow
about their deviant lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it,
but be forced to change its standards.
All I have to say is "life ain't fair", and no amount of legislation
will make it so.
To try and show where I'm coming from, let's look at the situation from
a different angle in the following make-believe parallel:
Let's say that I have fallen in love with a very mature and intelligent
13-year old, and she has fallen in love with me. We want to get
married.
"Too bad, 13-year olds can't get married." Says society.
"Unfair!" I yell, "we have every right to be married, both she and I know
what we are doing! We both love each other."
Society disagrees.
We walk out of the justice of the peace's office arm in arm anyway, and
I notice that folks are giving me dirty looks.
"What's your problem?" I ask.
Their only response is "pervert!".
"Unfair!" I yell. "I am not a pervert, I really love this girl."
"It matter not that you are in love," says society, "but that she is 13
years old and you are 29."
I am considered by society (well, most of society) to be
a pervert/child molester/cradle robber/pedophile/etc.
"Unfair!" I yell. "I'm none of these things! I demand to be
respected."
Society replies, "Sorry, but we do not respect this kind
of union. It goes against long-held standards."
"Well, you need to CHANGE those long-held standards, then, because they
are inherantly UNFAIR! It lacks respect for me and those like me. I
can't help that I am attacted to younger girls!"
Society responds, "It is not you we do not respect, but your form of
relations. We will not change our standards for a difference in who
you are attracted to sexually. We can try to treat you, though, and
those like you."
"There's nothing wrong with me", I say, "I was just born this way!
I'm just different, get used to it."
** ** **
"Unfair!" I whine again, as my boss fires me from my job. He, too
thinks I am a pervert, and he does not want any of my ilk working for
him. "Maybe I should not have come out and said that she is my
girlfriend, rather than my daughter that he thought she was", I think
to myself. No, it is HE who has the problem. He simply is not valuing
my difference. I have every right to keep that picture of her on my
desk, and I have every right to tell folks who she is!
*************
"Unfair!" I yell, as I'm carted off to jail for statutory rape. "I
didn't rape her, she is my girlfriend!"
"Too bad", says the law. "Having sex with a minor is illegal in this
state. We must uphold the standars of the community that is put in the
law."
Since I KNOW that nothing is wrong with me (I am only different,
probably something genetic, which makes it okay), so it is just that
society is bigoted and meanspirited- probably due to ignorance of myself
and those like me, and my lifestyle.
How dare people call me all manner of nasty names! How dare they tell me
I can't have sex with my willing girlfriend! How dare anyone tell me that
I am immoral! UNFAIR! UNFAIR!
Eventually, I will change the laws, as the leader of a very vocal group
(who share this same trait of attraction to young girls). We will
pressure the state to lower the age of consent to 12, on grounds of
discrimination. After all, we all have a right to choose our sexual
partners/spouses, it is unfair to limit these choices, as long as it is
a consentual choice on both sides.
End of parallel.
So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being
accomodating to what it deems as perverted sexual attraction? Should I
be able to force my perversion as acceptable by law, or is that unfair?
I think the crux of the homosexual rights issue is not equal rights at
all. It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their
sexual attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
There is a more subtle aspect of this that simply crowing equal rights.
It is far more than equal right. It is about defining sexual
orientatin as a "race". It is about forced changes in long-held
community standards. It is about state-sanctioned acceptance of a
lifestyle.
I also realize that there are wrongs done to gay men and women that
should not happen. They should not be fired from a job simply because
they are gay, nor should gay people be denied housing, etc.
I'm not sure what the answer is. I do know that forcing change in the
definition of family/marriage is not the way.
-steve
|
323.1411 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 22 1995 17:44 | 49 |
| RE: .1410 Steve Leech
/ It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how
/ much folks want to crow about this red herring. Fact is, if you are
/ not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW.
Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about
our orientation (with wedding rings, photographs of spouses and children
on our desks, kissing and holding hands in public) and it's not a problem.
It's only about SEX if/when people make it apparent that they are not
heterosexual.
/ Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more
/ than others. If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think
/ badly of us due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is
/ to be quiet about it.
Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
we have children. Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
they love someone who happens to be the same sex?
/ Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow about their deviant
/ lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it, but be forced to
/ change its standards.
Some folk don't want to be forced to sit in the back of the bus, that's all.
/ Let's say that I have fallen in love with a very mature and intelligent
/ 13-year old, and she has fallen in love with me. We want to get
/ married.
/ "Too bad, 13-year olds can't get married." Says society.
Actually, 13-year-olds can get married if the 13-year-old's parents
give their consent. Loretta Lynn was 13 when she got married. When
I was a kid, a married 13 year old made it into the papers for being
the youngest woman to give birth at a particular hospital near where
I lived. Her husband was 39 years old.
13 year olds can't legally consent to sex with an adult, but if the
parents give consent, they can get married (and then have sex legally.)
One of the main arguments from the gay rights movement is that they
don't condemn any kind of sex between consenting adults (unless the
sex harms one or both of the individuals in some way.)
Your bringing up the case of having sex with someone who can't legally
consent to sex outside of marriage is not a parallel. It's only a
parallel you wish to CREATE for lack of a reasonable argument.
|
323.1412 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 22 1995 18:00 | 5 |
| P.S. The ages where people can legally marry with or without parental
consent does vary state to state.
The 'age of consent' varies from state to state, too. In Colorado,
the age of consent is either 15 or 16.
|
323.1413 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 22 1995 18:05 | 29 |
| <<< Note 323.1411 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>
> Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about
> our orientation
Of course! And, in fact, society even encourages it. Heterosexual
marriage is a pillar of society. When working properly it provides
family stability, societal propagation, personal satisfaction,
well-socialized children -- all sorts of practical social benefits.
Oh, sure, we can all point to examples where this fails (though it
is important to point out that I did say "when working properly"),
and we can all point to examples where other family arrangements
provide some or all of these social benefits. But by and large
it is clear that the social benefits are more likely to come out
of the standard, traditional marriage arrangement.
To be frank, Suzanne, I don't see enough "extremely" overt
expression of solid marriages in this society, and that is one
reason why so many people think less-positively about traditional
marriage.
> Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
> we have children. Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
> they love someone who happens to be the same sex?
Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
morally repugnant. (Assuming a certain meaning for the word
love -- a meaning that in the heterosexual marriage often
results in the children you hold up as an example.)
|
323.1414 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 22 1995 21:01 | 60 |
| RE: .1413 Joe Oppelt
// Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about
// our orientation
/ Of course! And, in fact, society even encourages it.
Er, that was my point. Revealing ones sexual orientation is not
something that only some gay people do.
/ Heterosexual marriage is a pillar of society.
Honesty, justice and productivity [among other positive attributes]
are pillars of our society, too. A person doesn't have to be married
OR have children to be a vital part of our society's strength. And
I say this as a wife and a mother, myself.
/ When working properly it provides family stability, societal
/ propagation, personal satisfaction, well-socialized children --
/ all sorts of practical social benefits.
When it works improperly, it has people running all over the place
trying to vilify some who do not fit the 'heterosexual marriage'
mold.
/ But by and large it is clear that the social benefits are more likely
/ to come out of the standard, traditional marriage arrangement.
Not when those involved in this arrangement are busy in campaigns
against other 'arrangements'.
/ To be frank, Suzanne, I don't see enough "extremely" overt
/ expression of solid marriages in this society, and that is one
/ reason why so many people think less-positively about traditional
/ marriage.
Well, if you think that people's views of traditional marriage
could be improved by the right 'overt expressions', then you
won't mind it if people use 'overt expressions' to improve views
of other aspects of life in our society.
// Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
// we have children. Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
// they love someone who happens to be the same sex?
/ Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
/ morally repugnant.
As you said earlier, this same society doesn't think much of
traditional marriage, either.
/ (Assuming a certain meaning for the word love -- a meaning that in the
/ heterosexual marriage often results in the children you hold up as an
/ example.)
No, I'm talking about LOVE.
When people love each other, their love exists whether or not they
are capable of creating babies together and whether or not they are
allowed by law to marry each other.
|
323.1415 | (No, this is not an MCI commercial. :>) | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 22 1995 21:31 | 5 |
| Happy Thanksgiving, Joe. Enjoy your family for the next several
days (as others all across America enjoy their friends and their
families.)
Peace.
|
323.1416 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 23 1995 08:56 | 60 |
| <<< Note 323.1410 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how
> much folks want to crow about this red herring.
Steve, It IS about equal protection, plain and simple.
>Fact is, if you are
> not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW. No problem with employment,
> housing (which I doubt is really an issue, other than with private
> owners renting property), etc.
Not overt? Overt like holding hands in public? Maybe having pictures
of the SO on your desk? Other innocent displays of affection?
I do all of these. Am I being "overt" about my heterosexuality?
How about two guys (or gals) trying to rent a one bedroom apartment?
> Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more
> than others. If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think
> badly of us due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is
> to be quiet about it. Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow
> about their deviant lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it,
> but be forced to change its standards.
Lifestyles that cause harm no harm, or if you prefer, no harm to
others besides those consensually involved, should carry no price tag.
That's the whole point of our disagreement. You want to justify your
bigotry, I will continue to call you on it.
> To try and show where I'm coming from, let's look at the situation from
> a different angle in the following make-believe parallel:
Your pedophilic fantasy is the real red herring.
> I think the crux of the homosexual rights issue is not equal rights at
> all. It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their
> sexual attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
> behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
And I think that you are very wrong. The Constitution does not simply
protect those we agree with, or those we approve of. If it did, it
wouldn't be worth the paper it is printed on. It protects everyone,
or at least it should. Those who cause no harm to others should be
fully protected. That's what equal treatment means. You version
is a sad and ugly perversion of the concept.
> I also realize that there are wrongs done to gay men and women that
> should not happen. They should not be fired from a job simply because
> they are gay, nor should gay people be denied housing, etc.
> I'm not sure what the answer is. I do know that forcing change in the
> definition of family/marriage is not the way.
More progress, almost. The answer is fairly simple. Add "Sexual
Orientation" to the list of characteristics protected in the
the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (amended).
Jim
|
323.1417 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 23 1995 09:04 | 20 |
| <<< Note 323.1413 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
> morally repugnant. (Assuming a certain meaning for the word
> love -- a meaning that in the heterosexual marriage often
> results in the children you hold up as an example.)
And so you justify your bigotry using the cloak of the majority.
Amazing how the same arguments were used to justify the Jim Crow
laws of a bygone age and the laws that prohibited inter-racial
marriages.
Even more amazing that you can not see that the only difference
between your assertions and the nightriders with their ropes and
torches is the object of your bigotry.
Jim
|
323.1418 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 23 1995 20:19 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1403 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I think this assumption of anal sex in the male gay community is an
| assumption made by a majority of us. I'm not in the minority.
Jack, the assumptionS I am seeing from you is that because someone tells
you they are gay, you assume to know what kind of sex they have. Because
someone tells you their gay, you assume a thought of sex, PERIOD. If you did
away with the latter, the former wouldn't happen.
Glen
|
323.1419 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 23 1995 20:24 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 323.1408 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Personal contact within CFV.
Which person? (no need for name, just title. I want to see if it
matches the info I got)
| You're destined for frustration if you want anything more than that, because
| I don't know any more than that.
Once the position is given, I will know if it matches what the CFV told
me, and everything will be crystal clear.
Will you be addressing the distortions of the Hart book? I mean, one
would think you would either distance yourself from the source, or try to clear
up their intentions.
Glen
|
323.1420 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 23 1995 21:36 | 96 |
| | <<< Note 323.1410 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how much folks
| want to crow about this red herring.
Wow...... this is pretty funny.
| Fact is, if you are not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW.
Steve, if I wear a ring on my wedding finger, will someone ask me who
the other person is? What if I have a picture of him on my desk? Or people are
talking about what they did over the weekend and I say that John and I went to
the movies on Friday, the beach on Saturday, dancing on Sunday, you really
don't think people are going to know?
How it appears to me, and please correct me if I am wrong, is that you
would rather just not have anyone find out, and that we should just talk our
way around things. Using genderless terms usually doesn't last long. Using the
word, friend, usually doesn't last long. If this is not what you mean, please
tell me just what it is you really do mean.
| No problem with employment,
Tell that to those who worked at Cracker Barrell.
| housing (which I doubt is really an issue, other than with private owners
| renting property), etc.
Ever live in a neighborhood where people found out you're gay, and they
pour gasoline on your house? And if one of them didn't smell it, someone could
have torched their house? I know people this happened to, so please, don't tell
me it is only tied to rental property. It goes a hell of a lot deeper than
that.
| Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more than
| others. If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think badly of us
| due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is to be quiet about
| it.
Gee, Steve...if this were to happen, I'm sure shock therapy would still
be around. Having people think badly about a lifestyle is one thing. Having one
think badly for reasons due to fears, ignorance, "this is the way it always
was", is another. Have their reasoning be factual, not unrealistic. Oh.... but
if everyone stays quiet, then I guess that's out. Cuz we could never clear up
any misconceptions.
| Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow about their deviant lifesyle
Ahhhh..... now we're getting to the crux of it all. Yes, homosexuality
does deviate from the majority of people, who are heterosexual. To put a label
on it like it's bad, then I guess you probably put a lot of labels on things
for being bad, that really aren't. Just a guess.
| and expect society to not only accept it,
Steve, let's go back 50 years. Do you think gays should have been
treated the way they were? Getting people to realize the person, you know,
someone who is being truthful, not hiding, has done a lot to change the
perceptions towards gays. But none of that would have happened under your plan.
| but be forced to change its standards.
Hey, if you want to think it's bad...go right ahead. The only things
that are making changes are getting through the lies, and presenting the truth.
Look at the stuff from the Hart book that Joe hasn't responded to yet? Go read
that Cameron report. Hell, Joe bitches and moans about a sample size I use, and
yet he spouts off these numbers like their golden, and they were from a total
of 41 homosexual men. I know a hell of a lot more gay people than that! But my
sample size is bad.
| All I have to say is "life ain't fair", and no amount of legislation will
| make it so.
On this we agree.
| So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being accomodating to
| what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?
Please compare apples to apples. Children and adults is not the same as
adults and adults.
| I think the crux of the homosexual rights issue is not equal rights at all.
Then I guess you haven't been paying attention.
| It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their sexual
| attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
| behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
Guess again, Steve. That is not it at all. You're kind of like OJ
Martin here. Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different
light.
Glen
|
323.1421 | Geesh | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Thu Nov 23 1995 23:24 | 4 |
|
Give it a rest for cryin' out loud...it's Thanksgiving!
|
323.1422 | | LJSRV2::KALIKOW | Hi-ho! Yow! I'm surfing Arpanet! | Fri Nov 24 1995 11:49 | 6 |
| Yeh, have you no decency Glen... Defending yer rights to exist as a
hyoomin bean when you should be violating the bodily integrity of a
turkey. Instead you insist on exposing the mental flaws of a turkey.
Geesh.
|
323.1423 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Nov 24 1995 13:24 | 4 |
|
Dan...I know... instead of eating a bird that was killed, I was writing
notes......:-)
|
323.1424 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 24 1995 17:32 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.1417 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>> Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
>> morally repugnant.
>
> And so you justify your bigotry using the cloak of the majority.
Being morally offended is not bigotry.
Society is entitled to define itself. That definition will
either come from a vocal minority or a silent majority.
|
323.1425 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 24 1995 17:48 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1396 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> I will concede this point. My understanding was that if one was gay,
> then they were into anal intercourse.
You do not have to concede this, Jack. Glen has already
provided us in .997 with numbers that show 75% of gay men
have anal sex, and he says he does not dispute that over
90% particiapte in annilingus. True, it is not 100%, but
we can rarely say 100% about anything. Were you a betting
man, the odds would heavily favor your assumptions. What
the gay agenda wants to do is backpedal from criticism of
common practices and hide behind the exception to deflect
the rule when faced with social outcry about practices that
are still generally regarded as morally repugnant and are
clearly some of the most physically unhealthy of sexual
contacts.
|
323.1426 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 24 1995 18:03 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.1419 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Which person? (no need for name, just title. I want to see if it
> matches the info I got)
Sorry. Horse and carriage.
Look. You were wrong about your assumption that I had the
Hart book. And you were wrong that I made up the numbers
that you now know are Cameron's. You are equally wrong
about your latest quest, and I am formally severing my
participation in any further discussion of it.
|
323.1427 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Fri Nov 24 1995 18:37 | 87 |
| <<< Note 323.1420 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Steve, if I wear a ring on my wedding finger, will someone ask me who
>the other person is?
Probably not. I doubt that many married people are asked
about their spouses simply because they wear a ring. I
can't recall ever being asked.
>Hell, Joe bitches and moans about a sample size I use, and
>yet he spouts off these numbers like their golden, and they were from a total
>of 41 homosexual men. I know a hell of a lot more gay people than that! But my
>sample size is bad.
I saw what you posted in another conference. I assume it is
from the WWW page you previously referenced.
I noticed that little, if any, of what was in that report was
supported by documentation. It asserts that Cameron used a
small sample size (and if true I agree with their condemnation
of Cameron) but you are willing to take it as gospel without
any support whatsoever. "I read it in the paper, so it must
be true." You put me through the wringer about my reporting
of someone else's newsletter, but you accept without question
someone else's counter report. You are willing to accept the
say-so of some unnamed nurse (see .1159) and what she SUSPECTS
(your emphasis) as a satisfactory explanation of why the Red
Cross no longer sees the gay lifestyle as riskier.
It is clear that you see what you want to see, and expect
others to see it the same way. Way back in this discussion
you said that you would get the Cameron book. Why not do so?
Why not see for yourself what he says his survey sample was!
But one thing I applaud you on. You ARE beginning to realize
that a limited sample size is not sufficient!
>| So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being accomodating to
>| what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?
>
> Please compare apples to apples. Children and adults is not the same as
> adults and adults.
Steve was not talking about pedophilia. Context bears that out.
(To wit, the phrase 'end of parallel'.)
You are introducing the oranges here. Society still deems gay
sexual attraction as perverted.
>| It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their sexual
>| attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
>| behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
>
> Guess again, Steve. That is not it at all.
Well, I just want to record a vote of agreement whth Steve's
statement.
> Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different
> light.
On this I agree. Thus the distinction between behavior and
person. But even more, my opposition is to the agenda as
much as to the behavior. And I'll use you as an example.
About all we have (you and me) in common is our battle of
pushing our agendas in each others' face. Don't fool
yourself into thinking otherwise. What is it that we ever
discuss with each other? Even when we talk abortion, we
end up ratholing into homosexual issues. This is really
all we have in common. I'm sure that if we were to ever
meet in person, we would get along OK. I'd expect nothing
different with you than I have with other gay friends.
Perhaps we should try this some day...
And I'd like to suggest that the gay agenda also loses
focus of the gay person too. What about the push to 'out'
gays who are achievers to use them as positive examples?
What of all the gays who really DO want to keep their
orientation private and think that's the better path?
Look at the NEA's (Nat edu assn) adoption of gay history
month. Look at the agenda's push to discover as many
gay historical figures as possible. They are willing to
use the slimmest of evidence to declare Galileo or
Lincoln as gay so that they can add to their collection.
The orientation becomes more important than the individual's
accomplishment! If that's not true, why do we need a
special recognition month at all?
|
323.1428 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Sun Nov 26 1995 12:55 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.1425 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| True, it is not 100%, but we can rarely say 100% about anything. Were you a
| betting man, the odds would heavily favor your assumptions.
Joe, the above is not the way one should handle things. Find out about
the individuals. Or is it ok to go with what I heard where most Christians are
evil? You can't go on stuff like that. Take each individual on their own
merits. That's the only way one can be sure.
| What the gay agenda wants to do is backpedal from criticism of common
| practices and hide behind the exception to deflect the rule when faced with
| social outcry about practices that are still generally regarded as morally
| repugnant and are clearly some of the most physically unhealthy of sexual
| contacts.
Uh huh...and you haven't addressed the Hart book scam because.... you
stated that you did not want to release the source because you did not think
anyone would talk about the context of what was written. I have talked about
the context with the Hart book. Why won't you address it? You got what you
wanted, but you don't address it when you get it.
Glen
|
323.1429 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Sun Nov 26 1995 13:21 | 102 |
| | <<< Note 323.1427 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| I doubt that many married people are asked about their spouses simply because
| they wear a ring. I can't recall ever being asked.
Well....maybe people in here who are married can address things. I know
women who look for rings, to see if someone is single or not.
| I noticed that little, if any, of what was in that report was supported by
| documentation.
Let's see..... they give the doctors name who he totally took his works
out of context, they list the associations who have kicked him out, but that is
not good enough? Go find out.
| It asserts that Cameron used a small sample size (and if true I agree with
| their condemnation of Cameron)
Go read his study. Go to the people who said that these things are
true. Find out for yourself. Apparently you don't know, as you have said, "if
it were true".
| but you are willing to take it as gospel without any support whatsoever.
Hmmm.... if you said, "if it were true", then you apparently don't know
what he is using. So go check it out. Hell, I checked out what your report said
and saw how they took it out of context with the Hart book. Now it can be your
turn. Btw.... will you address the Hart stuff?
| you said that you would get the Cameron book. Why not do so?
Cuz I'm not going to waste my money on such dribble. Seeing what the
CFV did to the Hart book, I can see that it isn't worth getting the Cameron
book. And, based on that report, it is clear to see he is very questionable.
| You are introducing the oranges here. Society still deems gay sexual
| attraction as perverted.
Uh huh.....
| Well, I just want to record a vote of agreement whth Steve's statement.
Of course you do.
| About all we have (you and me) in common is our battle of pushing our agendas
| in each others' face. Don't fool yourself into thinking otherwise.
Don't need to fool myself, Joe. What you wrote above does not apply to
me. You have been very vocal about your disdain for homosexuals. You say it
only goes as far as behavior, but when you say the above, it makes me wonder.
| Even when we talk abortion, we end up ratholing into homosexual issues.
Huh? Want to explain this one?
| I'm sure that if we were to ever meet in person, we would get along OK.
Wouldn't know. I could go by what others have said about you that know
you, but I wouldn't know for "sure" unless I did meet you. But so far I have
not heard anything good. But one has to do things on an individual basis.
| Perhaps we should try this some day...
You'd have to come out here, cuz there is no way in hell I will ever go
to Colorado.
| And I'd like to suggest that the gay agenda also loses focus of the gay
| person too.
What you consider to be gay agenda, and what really is, are two
different things. Claiming me to be a gay ambassadoor helps highlight that.
| What about the push to 'out' gays who are achievers to use them as positive
| examples?
People come out when they are ready. That is what I believe.
| What of all the gays who really DO want to keep their orientation private and
| think that's the better path?
That's their decision. I have always believed that. What *I* tend to do
is just talk with people, and let them decide.
Now, is it wrong to have someone come out publically when they aren't
ready? On the onset, it could be. But then again, it may not be. It's hard to
say. It really depends on what fears they have. With people like you who spout
off the crap that you do, it is no wonder why some people won't come out. Real
based fears is one thing. Fears based not on reality is another. What ends up
happening a lot of times when someone who is famous comes out, is that they saw
the difference. There are some who are "outed". But that is done by straight
and gay people. That kind of outing is wrong, period.
| Look at the NEA's (Nat edu assn) adoption of gay history month.
What about it? Does it hurt to show that famous and important people in
this country/world are/were gay? Does that show them to be too much like
regular human beings?
Glen
|
323.1430 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 06:46 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1424 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Being morally offended is not bigotry.
Justifying discrimination on the basis of your moral outrage
most certainly is bigotry.
Jim
|
323.1431 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 06:54 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1427 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
>> Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different
>> light.
> On this I agree. Thus the distinction between behavior and
> person.
Bull. You make no such distinction. A person announces themselves as
Gay, you condemn. You want us to believe it is only the behavior that
you have a problem with. If this is so, it raises a question. How
many Gay sex acts have you actually witnessed? If the answer is "none",
as I suspect, then you have only your own fantasies concerning the
"behavior". You condemn the PERSON without any real idea about the
behavior that this PERSON may, or may not, participate in.
Jim
|
323.1432 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 08:43 | 5 |
| <---Jim, great note. Add in his lack of addressing the Hart book stuff, and it
helps back what you say.
Glen
|
323.1433 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 10:59 | 50 |
| re: .1411
> Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about
> our orientation (with wedding rings, photographs of spouses and children
> on our desks, kissing and holding hands in public) and it's not a problem.
So what? This is the accepted norm. Has been since this country was
founded. It is promoted because it is deemed valuable to perpetuating
this nation and the human race.
> Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
> we have children.
Because this is the long-accepted norm for our society.
> Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
> they love someone who happens to be the same sex?
That is their choice. I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
cause reactions not favorable- that is life. Legislation is not going
to change this.
/ Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow about their deviant
/ lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it, but be forced to
/ change its standards.
> Some folk don't want to be forced to sit in the back of the bus, that's
> all.
Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
cannot- either logically or legally).
> Actually, 13-year-olds can get married if the 13-year-old's parents
> give their consent. Loretta Lynn was 13 when she got married. When
> I was a kid, a married 13 year old made it into the papers for being
> the youngest woman to give birth at a particular hospital near where
> I lived. Her husband was 39 years old.
I was unaware a 13-year old would be allowed to legally marry. Of
course, this is really not the crux of my point, in any case. The
point was how the couple- particularly the older 1/2 - is viewed by
society.
> Your bringing up the case of having sex with someone who can't legally
> consent to sex outside of marriage is not a parallel.
Then you missed my point entirely.
-steve
|
323.1434 | | TROOA::COLLINS | The manual is pure fiction. | Mon Nov 27 1995 11:11 | 26 |
|
.1433
>It is promoted because it is deemed valuable to perpetuating
>this nation and the human race.
Yes, I can see the obvious societal value in wedding rings and photos
in the cube.
>That is their choice. I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
>cause reactions not favorable- that is life.
Reactions in *who*, Steve? Space aliens, or people like you, who
*CHOOSE* to react unfavourably? Don't try to distance yourself from
the issue.
>Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
>cannot- either logically or legally).
Here we go again. "If homosexuality *is not* genetic, then there is
no excuse, and if it *is* genetic, then it's in the same league as
Down's or alcoholism." However, Steve, it has been pretty much shown
to be a genetic trait, so the "race" analogy isn't as bad as you'd like
to make out. Of course, the world has been shown to many times 6,000
years old, but certain folks continue to deny reality.
|
323.1435 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 11:11 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.1433 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
>> Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about
>> our orientation (with wedding rings, photographs of spouses and children
>> on our desks, kissing and holding hands in public) and it's not a problem.
> So what? This is the accepted norm. Has been since this country was
> founded. It is promoted because it is deemed valuable to perpetuating
> this nation and the human race.
Steve, When you see a het couple walking down the street holding hands,
do you automatically start imagining the kind of sex acts that
they participate in?
Why not?
Why do you do this when you see a Gay couple doing exactly the same
thing?
Time to face your predjudice. I think.
Jim
|
323.1436 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 11:15 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.1434 by TROOA::COLLINS "The manual is pure fiction." >>>
> Here we go again. "If homosexuality *is not* genetic, then there is
> no excuse, and if it *is* genetic, then it's in the same league as
> Down's or alcoholism."
It really doesn't matter. The Civil Rights Act covers lifestyle choices
already. The argument that we should not proscribe discrimination due
to lifestyle choices has no merit. We already offer such protections.
Jim
|
323.1437 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 11:20 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.1433 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| So what? This is the accepted norm.
So wasn't slavery at one time.
| Because this is the long-accepted norm for our society.
So wasn't slavery.
| That is their choice.
You say this, but then you complain if someone does come out. Accepted
norms do not mean it is the final word. Will you use the accepted norms when
homosexuals are accepted by the majority? Or will you revert back to the old
days norms?
| Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
| cannot- either logically or legally).
It's a good analogy because the two have one thing in common. Both
were/are seen as bad by many people for all the wrong reasons. Both groups are
not the lesser human beings many people make them out to be. That is the common
link.
Glen
|
323.1438 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Catch you later!! | Mon Nov 27 1995 12:16 | 18 |
|
RE: Jim
When I see a het couple walking down the street, and the female
is really attractive, sometimes I imagine the sex acts I'd like
to perform with her. I could care less what they do together.
If I see a homo couple walking down the street, and both are
female and attractive, THEN I might start thinking about what
they do together.
But moving onto more important things, I'd like to start the
"Glen and Joe telephone fund". Anyone who would like to toss
$1 or $2 into a fund to send to Glen and Joe is welcome to do
so. Then they can call each other, for free, and keep this
stuff out of here to free up a slew of CPU cycles.
|
323.1439 | Over reached somewhat in .1431 | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Nov 27 1995 12:41 | 27 |
|
re, .1436 - um, Jim, it is very important to distinguish between
theoretical, or philosophical points, and what is actually being
decided in courts. That is, between what we wish were true, or
think ought to be true, and what the case law is.
The point you are trying to make here is technically true - courts,
particularly some federal courts, have made rulings which interpret
some federal statuts to protect citizens from some forms of bias due
to homosexuality. It is important to note that this area is very
confused, there are contrary cases as well, and as of right now, the
federal court districts differ in their administrative application.
There has never been, to my knowledge, even a limited finding by the
scotus, applying 14th amendment protections to lifestyle biases.
There HAVE been findings that various state constitutions cover this,
and those rulings also differ. Laws governing sexual practices also
differ between the states, and there is no scotus ruling imposing any
requirement that they be the same.
While I differ with you on the proper scope of constitutional views
on this matter, I bet I share with you dismay over the level of
confusion in the case law covering this. It is not now the case that
"lifestyle" is "protected" in some general way, nor is it the case
that it is ruled out.
bb
|
323.1440 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:22 | 36 |
| <<< Note 323.1439 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> -< Over reached somewhat in .1431 >-
Nope, not even a little bit. (I assume you were refering to .1436).
> The point you are trying to make here is technically true - courts,
> particularly some federal courts, have made rulings which interpret
> some federal statuts to protect citizens from some forms of bias due
> to homosexuality.
I never made this claim and was unaware of any such rulings by the
courts. I would be interested in the case citations if you have
them handy.
> There has never been, to my knowledge, even a limited finding by the
> scotus, applying 14th amendment protections to lifestyle biases.
Want to place a small wager? ;-)
>Laws governing sexual practices also
> differ between the states, and there is no scotus ruling imposing any
> requirement that they be the same.
Please note that "lifestyle choices" do NOT invariably involve
sexual practices, or sexual orientation for that matter.
>It is not now the case that
> "lifestyle" is "protected" in some general way,
Certain lifestyle practices are very SPECIFICALLY protected under the
Civil Rights Act of 1964 (amended).
Those practices are labeled "religion" in the law.
Jim
|
323.1441 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:29 | 67 |
| re: .1416
>Steve, It IS about equal protection, plain and simple.
Convincing argument, Jim.
It is not "plain and simple" in any way, shape or form. I've exanded
on this previously, but to no avail it would seem.
> Lifestyles that cause harm no harm, or if you prefer, no harm to
> others besides those consensually involved, should carry no price tag.
> That's the whole point of our disagreement. You want to justify your
> bigotry, I will continue to call you on it.
Ahhh...the bigotry strawman again. I was wondering how soon it would
rear its ugly head. Your argument must be getting pretty thin.
As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*. It
would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.
If I secretly liked little girls in a sexual way, you can bet I would
not be crowing about it, and demanding that my lifestyle be accepted.
I know good and well that society deems such relations as immoral, and
I have no right to try and force them to accept it via legislation.
> Your pedophilic fantasy is the real red herring.
Your reading comprehension level is going downhill, Jim. The
situations, as far as societal acceptance and legislative standpoint,
are not totally dissimilar. Perhaps since we all can easily agree that
pedophilia is wrong, my example was lost on you?
> And I think that you are very wrong. The Constitution does not simply
> protect those we agree with, or those we approve of.
The Constitution does not protect all manner of vices or behavior,
either.
> If it did, it
> wouldn't be worth the paper it is printed on. It protects everyone,
> or at least it should.
This is a strawman. Homosexuals are protected as are any other
citizen- as a citizen.
> Those who cause no harm to others should be
> fully protected. That's what equal treatment means. You version
> is a sad and ugly perversion of the concept.
Well, by your view, any deviant group can force whatever change into law
(by the strawman issue of 'discrimination') they can to make their
lifestyle legally acceptable- regardless of how society feel about it,
morally. Needless to say, I disagree with this.
> More progress, almost. The answer is fairly simple. Add "Sexual
> Orientation" to the list of characteristics protected in the
> the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (amended).
Sexual orientation does not a legal minority make, nor should it.
I don't know if you realize the can of worms this would open up in the
years to come.
-steve
|
323.1442 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:46 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.1438 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Catch you later!!" >>>
| But moving onto more important things, I'd like to start the
| "Glen and Joe telephone fund". Anyone who would like to toss
| $1 or $2 into a fund to send to Glen and Joe is welcome to do
| so. Then they can call each other, for free, and keep this
| stuff out of here to free up a slew of CPU cycles.
Yeah, I suppose it is easier to deal with it offline, so that the
things said so far don't have to be addressed. But that's just keeping things
status quo..... I suppose when it has nothing to do with you, it's much easier
to do.
Glen
|
323.1443 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | This is the Central Scrutinizer | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:56 | 9 |
|
I was just making a motion, and so far it hasn't been 2nd'd,
nor have I received any money from anyone.
So majority rules thus far and the discussion will apparently
stay here.
You win some and you lose some.
|
323.1444 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:58 | 69 |
| <<< Note 323.1441 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Ahhh...the bigotry strawman again. I was wondering how soon it would
> rear its ugly head. Your argument must be getting pretty thin.
No strawman, Steve. Just a simple statement of fact.
> As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.
"But it's the BEHAVIOR", is it not? I'll ask you the same question
I asked Joe. How many Gay sex acts have you actually witnessed?
No one DOES know what goes on behind closed doors Steve. Not you.
Not me. You may make assumptions, but they are YOUR assumptions
and may, or may not, reflect reality. They are certainly not
applicable to EVERY Gay person that you meet. EVEN if you know
they are Gay.
> It
> would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
> as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
> involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.
It seems that the ONLY time I hear about homosexual acts, I hear
it from CHRISTIANS. I don't hear it from Gays. Brother Oppelt
posted the most explicit descriptions and he attributed those
descriptions to a self-proclaimed CHRISTIAN organization.
>Perhaps since we all can easily agree that
> pedophilia is wrong, my example was lost on you?
It was not lost. It was dismissed. You can not see the difference
between actions that involve consenting vs. non-consenting parties.
Your comparison has no merit in this discussion.
> The Constitution does not protect all manner of vices or behavior,
> either.
It protects all citizens, or at least it should. I have not
addressed protected behaviors because, as I have pointed out,
neither you or anyone else can specifically tell me what
behaviors any particular GLB actually performs.
Today it is enough to ACCUSE, not prove mind you, someone of
being Gay and then use that accusation to deny them employment,
housing, or the use of public accomodations. It has NOTHING to
do with their behavior, all that is needed is the LABEL.
> Well, by your view, any deviant group can force whatever change into law
> (by the strawman issue of 'discrimination') they can to make their
> lifestyle legally acceptable- regardless of how society feel about it,
> morally. Needless to say, I disagree with this.
Actually, this is pretty close as far as GLBs are concerned.
As long as they don't do it in the streets and scare the horses.
> Sexual orientation does not a legal minority make, nor should it.
No, "sexual orientation" would cover both hets and Gays. As far
as being a minority, there is no question that GLBs are, statistically,
a minority. As far as legal recognition of this status, obviously
this is where we disagree.
> I don't know if you realize the can of worms this would open up in the
> years to come.
Ah, the "dominoe theory". Talk about strawmen.
Jim
|
323.1445 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:58 | 126 |
| re: .1420
| It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how much folks
| want to crow about this red herring.
> Wow...... this is pretty funny.
Wow, this is really a good counter argument! I've completely changed
my mind, now. 8^)
> Steve, if I wear a ring on my wedding finger, will someone ask me who
>the other person is? What if I have a picture of him on my desk? Or people are
>talking about what they did over the weekend and I say that John and I went to
>the movies on Friday, the beach on Saturday, dancing on Sunday, you really
>don't think people are going to know?
That's your business, Glen. You tell if you like; but if you do,
prepare for the fact that some folks will not take to you very well.
It is your lifestyle, and some simply will not accept it as a viable,
moral relation. Every lifestyle has a price- particularly those that
go against societal norms. This is simply a fact of life.
> How it appears to me, and please correct me if I am wrong, is that you
>would rather just not have anyone find out, and that we should just talk our
>way around things.
Glen, *I* don't care. Really. All I'm saying is that if you do decide
to be open about it, for whatever reason, prepare for negative
reactions. No amount of legislation or argument will change this.
| No problem with employment,
> Tell that to those who worked at Cracker Barrell.
One example. Don't base an argument for legislation over one example.
There is NO group who hasn't been discriminated against on more than
one occation- white heterosexual males notwithstanding.
> Ever live in a neighborhood where people found out you're gay, and they
>pour gasoline on your house?
Which is illegal (arson), and punishable by a good bit of time in the
slammer. This would seem to me to be a good reason to keep quiet about
one's lifestyle, when it goes against the grain.
> And if one of them didn't smell it, someone could
>have torched their house? I know people this happened to, so please, don't tell
>me it is only tied to rental property. It goes a hell of a lot deeper than
>that.
Irrelevent. Such actions are punishable by the same laws that everyone
else is protected under. No amount of legislation will stop this form
of "hate" crime.
> Gee, Steve...if this were to happen, I'm sure shock therapy would still
>be around. Having people think badly about a lifestyle is one thing. Having one
>think badly for reasons due to fears, ignorance, "this is the way it always
>was", is another.
How do you know that all who disagree with the lifestyle do so because
of "fear" or "ignorance"? I think you misunderstand the majority of
those who wish to keep current standards. I think it is the gay
community which misunderstands why most are opposed to legalizing
marriages for gays and such.
> Have their reasoning be factual, not unrealistic.
As defined by Glen Silva?
> Ahhhh..... now we're getting to the crux of it all. Yes, homosexuality
>does deviate from the majority of people, who are heterosexual. To put a label
>on it like it's bad, then I guess you probably put a lot of labels on things
>for being bad, that really aren't. Just a guess.
Being disposed towards homosexuality is not bad in itself, and I have
never stated that it was- so this is a strawman. Acting out on it,
according to Christian morals (which is the basis for our societal
moral traditions and laws regarding marriage and the like), is immoral.
So, according to traditions in this nations- which began long before
this nations was ever founded- homosexual relations is wrong. It seems
to me that you want to not only change this foundation of society mores,
but to have such lifestyles promoted via legal marriage, adoption, etc.
> Steve, let's go back 50 years. Do you think gays should have been
>treated the way they were? Getting people to realize the person, you know,
>someone who is being truthful, not hiding, has done a lot to change the
>perceptions towards gays. But none of that would have happened under your plan.
It isn't about the person, it is about morality and societal standards.
There are many upstanding gay citizens that I would be proud to call
friend. However, I cannot morally accept such *relations* as being on
par with the marital relations of heterosexuals. Apparently, society
is no quite ready to toss traditional morality to the wind, either.
> Hey, if you want to think it's bad...go right ahead. The only things
>that are making changes are getting through the lies, and presenting the truth.
The truth, according to Glen Silva. Of course, everyone who disagrees
is wrong, eh? Convenient, if nothing else.
| So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being accomodating to
| what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?
> Please compare apples to apples. Children and adults is not the same as
>adults and adults.
You missed the point, then.
| It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their sexual
| attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
| behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
> Guess again, Steve. That is not it at all. You're kind of like OJ
>Martin here. Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different
>light.
But I do look at gays as people. I don't care if you are gay, that is
not the issue I have a problem with. Apparently, you have not been
paying attention, so there is little use in repeating what I've already
said.
-steve
|
323.1446 | Here's what I meant... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:58 | 25 |
|
re, .1440 - yes, I meant .1436. As to the federal rulings, the most
recent high-profile cases have been gays-in-the-military, as we all
know. I've read excerpts from some of these rulings, and it is a
very confusing area. The case(s) were NOT constitutionally decided,
but statutory. The implication is that, if some Congress ever gets
around to having a policy, it would be OK, but that the Executive,
by executive order, is limited. That is very likely, considering
that the courts UPHELD the no-combat-for-women law, because it was
clear and passed by Congress. Congress has not passed such a clear
rule on gays.
On the other hand, there are cases which remain precedent (not
scotus), permitting various biased actions by private parties, such
as termination of employment. In fact, even where the Constitution
(Amendment XIV), the statute (Civil Rights 64), and the case law is
clear, there are anomolies you might not expect in the USA. Example :
I can LEGALLY discriminate against you, denying you tenancy in my
own public accomodation, if it is a two-family house with longterm
rental, and I personally occupy the other half. EVEN on the basis
purely of race. Civil Rights Act of 1964 says so. I cannot do this
in a three-family. Weird, eh ?
bb
|
323.1447 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 13:59 | 48 |
| | <<< Note 323.1441 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.
Steve, let me ask you something....should someone be honest? Yes or no?
Your not wanting it mentioned pretty much tells me that you can't believe
honesty is the correct way. If you view it differently, then you would have to
do away with this silence stuff.
| It would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
| as immoral,
Steve, when it changes, will you state that and keep your own concerns
quiet, or will you state the moral decay stuff again? Reason I ask is you keep
clinging to this majority thing. I'm just wondering if it is just selective or
not. Cuz if it isn't, you will have to be quiet soon, under your plan.
| that it would be best (at least at this time) for those involved in such
| relations to keep quiet about it.
Steve, if by relations, do you mean sex? If so, then I don't think you
would have much of a problem here. I don't want to know what you would do, as
you would not want to know what I do. If you mean by relationships, well, it
brings back the honesty thing again.
| If I secretly liked little girls in a sexual way, you can bet I would not be
| crowing about it, and demanding that my lifestyle be accepted.
You really should look at g/l/b's under the true light...human beings,
not sexual objects.
| Homosexuals are protected as are any other citizen- as a citizen.
Is this like that thing where you say homosexuals CAN marry? But then
if a marriage is not based on love, it shouldn't be? The catch 22 thing. Can
you honestly say that *I* could get married and have it meet the standards you
feel a marriage should have? If you say no, then can we really marry?
| Sexual orientation does not a legal minority make, nor should it.
Sexual orientation covers all of us. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.
But you don't or won't see the straight part of it all. So if you were ever
turned down for a job cuz you were straight, you would be covered.
Glen
|
323.1448 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 14:05 | 19 |
| <<< Note 323.1446 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> On the other hand, there are cases which remain precedent (not
> scotus), permitting various biased actions by private parties, such
> as termination of employment. In fact, even where the Constitution
> (Amendment XIV), the statute (Civil Rights 64), and the case law is
> clear, there are anomolies you might not expect in the USA. Example :
> I can LEGALLY discriminate against you, denying you tenancy in my
> own public accomodation, if it is a two-family house with longterm
> rental, and I personally occupy the other half. EVEN on the basis
> purely of race. Civil Rights Act of 1964 says so. I cannot do this
> in a three-family. Weird, eh ?
The CRA64 does not cover all employers either. There are numerical
limits. Stay below the limit, and you can discriminate at will.
Jim
|
323.1449 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 14:23 | 48 |
| re: .1434
> Yes, I can see the obvious societal value in wedding rings and photos
> in the cube.
The object of my comments was "heterosexuality". It was not a
difficult contextual extraction to make from my note.
The above is a strawman.
> >That is their choice. I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
> >cause reactions not favorable- that is life.
> Reactions in *who*, Steve? Space aliens, or people like you, who
> *CHOOSE* to react unfavourably? Don't try to distance yourself from
> the issue.
If I wanted to distance myself from this issue, I would not be
participating in this discussion.
As far as how *I* *personally* "*CHOOSE*" to react, is irrelevent to
the above, which is a generic statement about generic reactions that
may ensue from choosing to reveal a lifestyle deemed to be immoral by
many/most.
Personaly (since you seem to want to make it a personal issue), I can live
with folks being gay just fine. It's none of my business....UNTIL a small
vocal group of activists begins trying to force their moral standards upon
society. I am a part of that society, and have every right to try to
stop such a forced change in social structure.
> >Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
> >cannot- either logically or legally).
> Here we go again. "If homosexuality *is not* genetic, then there is
> no excuse, and if it *is* genetic, then it's in the same league as
> Down's or alcoholism." However, Steve, it has been pretty much shown
> to be a genetic trait, so the "race" analogy isn't as bad as you'd like
> to make out.
So, what race is a white homosexual man? A black homosexual man?
How about an Indian lesbian woman?
The "race" analogy is what I would consider a strawman holding a red
herring, obfuscated by a deflection of irrelevency.
-steve
|
323.1450 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 14:27 | 19 |
| re: .1435
>Steve, When you see a het couple walking down the street holding hands,
> do you automatically start imagining the kind of sex acts that
> they participate in?
Strawman alert. Why would you ask this?
> Why do you do this when you see a Gay couple doing exactly the same
> thing?
I don't. Why would you think I do?
> Time to face your predjudice. I think.
Time to admit that your strawman has no clothes.
-steve
|
323.1451 | Don't tell how you feel about homosexuality, Steve. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Nov 27 1995 14:34 | 46 |
| RE: .1445 Steve Leech
/ That's your business, Glen. You tell if you like; but if you do,
/ prepare for the fact that some folks will not take to you very well.
If you make your attitude against homosexuality obvious, Steve, prepare
for the fact that some folks will not take to YOU very well.
/ It is your lifestyle, and some simply will not accept it as a viable,
/ moral relation.
Some people don't regard it as moral to promote discrimination based on
the prejudice that gays can be presumed to do something 'disgusting'
in bed while hets can be presumed (mostly) to do things that are not
'disgusting' in bed. [Hint: It's not true.]
/ Every lifestyle has a price- particularly those that
/ go against societal norms. This is simply a fact of life.
Bigotry and discrimination go against today's societal norms.
/ Glen, *I* don't care. Really. All I'm saying is that if you do decide
/ to be open about it, for whatever reason, prepare for negative
/ reactions. No amount of legislation or argument will change this.
Those who react negatively to someone simply being honest about his or
her life are receiving increasingly negative reactions.
Steve, perhaps you should keep quiet about your feelings towards
homosexuality. If no one knows you feel this way, you can avoid
negative responses to it.
/ It isn't about the person, it is about morality and societal standards.
/ There are many upstanding gay citizens that I would be proud to call
/ friend. However, I cannot morally accept such *relations* as being on
/ par with the marital relations of heterosexuals. Apparently, society
/ is no quite ready to toss traditional morality to the wind, either.
Gay relations *ARE* on a par with heterosexual relations outside of
marriage, though. The only difference is that gays aren't allowed
to marry their partners of choice, so they don't have marriage as
an option (which makes heterosexual relations outside of marriage
less moral than homosexual relations.)
So why don't you focus more of your energy on heterosexuals who have
relations outside of marriage?
|
323.1452 | re: .1440 | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 14:53 | 34 |
| > Those practices are labeled "religion" in the law.
If you are trying to equate homosexuality with religious type
protection, then I am forced to point out that the First Amendment does
not allow "an establishment" of religion in federal law. Using the
establishment clause in the same way it has been abused in the Courts
over the last 50 years, homosexual marriages could not be legalized
under any federal law. The same restrictions the courts uphold for
religion today, must also be upheld for homosexality (which also means
that no classes may teach about homosexuality in public schools, etc.).
Fair is fair. If you are going to loosely use religion as a
"lifestyle", then you must also be confined by the same laws which do
not allow religion to be taught in public schools.
In order for your analogy to be accepted, you would also have to
convince society that homosexuality, in itself, is beneficial to
society- as religion was specifically deemed as worthy to protect
because it was considered necessary to good government and for the well
being of the people.
Trying to rationalize this word down to a generic "lifestyle choice" is
an olympic caliber abfuscation of law. If any court has done this, I
would hope that such a ruling would be thrown down by a higher court
that has more legal scruples.
Though religion can perhaps be viewed as a lifestyle choice, the words
"religion" (even the watered down definition we use today) and
"lifestyle" is hardly synonymous. "Lifestyle" is too generic to be
useful in a court of law.
-steve
|
323.1453 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 14:56 | 9 |
| re: .1451
I'll not waste time with this note, other than to say "try reading for
comprehension".
I would greatly appreciate this small effort in future discussions.
-steve
|
323.1454 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:01 | 17 |
| But Steve,
The government does interfere in the civil part of marriages.
Marriages are licensed and regulated by the state as to who and how
many people can participate.
Divorce has to be granted in such a way it is much like breaking up a
legal partnership, (which marriage is for all intents and purposes) A
follower of Islam in this country cannot have multiple spouses, nor can
a man following Islam divorce his spouse(s) with "I divorce thee, I
divorce thee, I divorce thee", even though that is perfectly legal
within the Koran. Marital properties are divvied up should one partner
die without a will according to law, not religion.
Or are you saying this is unconstitutional and the courts should not
interfere in marital matters at all, up to and including protection of
minor children?
|
323.1455 | Hope you didn't get whiplash from the way you just dodged. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:08 | 13 |
| RE: .1453 Steve Leech
/ I'll not waste time with this note, other than to say "try reading for
/ comprehension".
I raised my own ideas and suggestions for you to consider. It's
rather disingenuous of you to dodge them with a claim that you
were misunderstood.
/ I would greatly appreciate this small effort in future discussions.
Do you have a problem with the idea of keeping quiet about how you
feel about homosexuality? If so, what's the problem?
|
323.1456 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | This Son of a Gun for Hire | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:09 | 9 |
|
Steve, I believe the sex angle was introduced in this discuss-
ion to show that homosexuality isn't necessarily about sex,
but rather a partnership between people of the same sex. And
therefore the question about whether or not you consider the
sexual acts of a couple you observe walking together. They
have a similar partnership, but they happen to be of different
sexes.
|
323.1457 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | This Son of a Gun for Hire | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:11 | 9 |
|
And keep in mind that the Constitution is amendable, and could
possibly be changed to include some things that are legal to-
day.
I mean, there was a such thing as a 2nd amendment, yes? Which
means that whatever the Constitution said before needed chang-
ing with regard to that subject matter?
|
323.1458 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:15 | 15 |
| > I mean, there was a such thing as a 2nd amendment, yes? Which
> means that whatever the Constitution said before needed chang-
> ing with regard to that subject matter?
Not quite.
The Bill of Rights (Amendments one through ten) was introduced in concert
with the body of the Constitution not in order to modify the wording of
the major document regarding the issues addressed, but to clearly state
the legal status surrounding various principles and issues which weren't
appropriate to specify in the major document, the latter being principally
a description of how the government should be formulated and how it should
operate.
|
323.1459 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:21 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1428 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, the above is not the way one should handle things. Find out about
>the individuals. Or is it ok to go with what I heard where most Christians are
>evil?
Hey, you were the one who provided statistics showing 75%
participation. So if you have a similar statistic showing
that Christians are evil, you could truly argue that most
are evil.
> Uh huh...and you haven't addressed the Hart book scam because....
You keep repeating this, but I don't know what you are talking
about. I've showed you where I was misled. You want to rathole
that into new territory that I refuse to accommodate. You who
pretend to be mr-bear-false-witness-accuser are sure doing your
best to step in your own accusations.
> stated that you did not want to release the source because you did not think
> anyone would talk about the context of what was written.
I released the source. Everyone here knows the source. Why
don't you?
|
323.1460 | TJ demanded them... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:21 | 9 |
|
Or, to put it bluntly, the Bill of Rights was thrown in as a sop
to Jefferson, because the federalists, Hamilton, Madison, etc
feared they couldn't get the 9 states without him.
It was a cynical deal. The amendments I-X are today, imo, more
often the basis of case law than is the main document itself.
bb
|
323.1461 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:25 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1452 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> If you are trying to equate homosexuality with religious type
> protection, then I am forced to point out that the First Amendment does
> not allow "an establishment" of religion in federal law.
Context, Steve, context. My only point was that certain lifestyle
choices have already been included in the CRA64, nothing more.
Jim
|
323.1462 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | This Son of a Gun for Hire | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:28 | 11 |
|
RE: Jack
OK, then move on to the later amendments. Like the "women's
suffrage" amendment, 18 or 19 or whatever it was. That was
an amendment put in place to change the Constitution, not to
"improve the wording". And from then on women could suffr
to their hearts' content.
And we could add amendment n+1 to allow gays to marry.
|
323.1463 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:30 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.1462 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "This Son of a Gun for Hire" >>>
> And we could add amendment n+1 to allow gays to marry.
Unecceessary. There is nothing in the Constitution that prohibits
GLBs from marrying persons of the same gender. The issue can be
dealt with in the statutes. No need to modify the Constitution.
Jim
|
323.1465 | Sure, but why ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:35 | 13 |
|
Jim is correct on that, Dishtowel. Any state, or the Congress,
could pass a law recognizing gay marriage.
When Jim P reveals himself is in his claim that any individual
can force them to do so, outside politics, based on his bogus
reading of Amendment 14.
Anyways, amendments are MUCH harder to pass than laws - why, as a
practical matter, would gays seek an amendment when a law would do ?
Fact is, they seek neither - they seek a court ruling instead.
bb
|
323.1466 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:38 | 14 |
| At least one state (Hawaii) has come close to legalizing marriage
between people of the same sex. (I don't think Hawaii will actually
do this anytime soon, though.)
Two heterosexual men who wanted to marry each other so that they
could qualify to buy a house in Honolulu started a legal challenge
for the right to enter a marriage of convenience (which is certainly
legal for people of the opposite sex to do.) Their challenge could
not be fought on the basis of morality since they do not ever intend
to have sex with each other. They wanted a legally binding contract
with each other in order to be able to combine their incomes to be
one 'family' and qualify for a particular mortgage they wanted.
Any state can legalize marriage between people of the same sex.
|
323.1464 | | TROOA::COLLINS | The manual is pure fiction. | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:43 | 57 |
|
.1449
>The object of my comments was "heterosexuality".
Yet in extolling the virtues of "heterosexuality", you imply that
"homosexuality" lacks those virtues. And therefore...?
>If I wanted to distance myself from this issue, I would not be
>participating in this discussion.
You *are* distancing yourself from it, Steve. From .1433:
>> Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
>> they love someone who happens to be the same sex?
>That is their choice. I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
>cause reactions not favorable- that is life.
Unfavourable reactions don't just *happen*, they don't just fall from
the sky. Someone chooses to react that way. To make it sound like
the weather is to absolve the participants of any responsibility for
their actions. They don't *have* to react negatively to gays, they
*choose* to. You write it as though gays had no-one else to blame
but themselves.
"That is life" is not an intellectual justification, it's distance.
>As far as how *I* *personally* "*CHOOSE*" to react, is irrelevent to
>the above...
Not when you are arguing that gays should remain in the closet.
>Personaly (since you seem to want to make it a personal issue)...
It's personal to Glen, not me. What is it to you?
>I can live with folks being gay just fine...
No you can't...
>...UNTIL a small vocal group of activists begins trying to force
>their moral standards upon society.
...because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.
>I am a part of that society, and have every right to try to stop such
>a forced change in social structure.
I forget...what was it they were trying to force you to do (these people,
who are *also* a part of that society)?
>So, what race is a white homosexual man? A black homosexual man?
>How about an Indian lesbian woman?
Speaking of "contextual" extraction...
|
323.1467 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:45 | 130 |
| | <<< Note 323.1445 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| That's your business, Glen. You tell if you like; but if you do, prepare for
| the fact that some folks will not take to you very well.
On this we have no disagreement. What I have found is most who have
found out THAT HAD A PROBLEM WITH HOMOSEXUALITY, have been pretty good. They
had many misconceptions about gays, and when those misconceptions were cleared
up, they could accept me for being me. My brother inlaw was the worst person
that I had to deal with. He wouldn't even shake my hand. Now he is pretty cool
with it. Real cool. So yeah, the initial reaction may be negative. But based on
the wrong reasons in most cases (for *me* anyway). But I have found that due to
others seeing it live (a homosexual), they have seen a homosexual for what they
are, a human being. That's why the numbers are steadily getting closer and
closer to the majority accepting the homosexual person. If they don't want to
accept the sex, fine. They don't have to. There are things about heterosexual
sex that I wouldn't accept. But then again, I don't have to.
| It is your lifestyle, and some simply will not accept it as a viable, moral
| relation. Every lifestyle has a price- particularly those that go against
| societal norms.
The norms thing rears it's ugly head again. :-) Steve, it is normal for
you when you get married, that person will be a woman. For me, it is normal for
that person to be a man. You seem to confuse norms with good/bad.
| Glen, *I* don't care. Really.
If you don't care, why do you keep bringing up this "keeping it quiet"
stuff?
| > Tell that to those who worked at Cracker Barrell.
| One example. Don't base an argument for legislation over one example.
That's the biggest one I know of. But lets look at the next note I put
in. One that actually had a case against gays for discrimination against a
heterosexual woman. It also sites the numbers of other cases for 93 & 94.
| > Ever live in a neighborhood where people found out you're gay, and they
| >pour gasoline on your house?
| Which is illegal (arson), and punishable by a good bit of time in the slammer.
| This would seem to me to be a good reason to keep quiet about one's lifestyle,
| when it goes against the grain.
This is totally stupid. Hell, you being religious and all could get you
killed. Being left handed could get you killed. There are too many nuts out
there. Under your plan, we all should be quiet, and all should just stay
inside. Sorry, the reason the person poured gasoline on their house was due to
them being gay. And like you, thee people probably thought my firends should
have remained quiet. Sorry Steve, by keeping quiet, things like this happen.
| How do you know that all who disagree with the lifestyle do so because of
| "fear" or "ignorance"?
When did I ever say all?
| I think you misunderstand the majority of those who wish to keep current
| standards. I think it is the gay community which misunderstands why most are
| opposed to legalizing marriages for gays and such.
Yeah... you say we already can marry. But we can't love one of the
oppisite sex in the same light that marriage requires. So if we marry, we're
only doing so to please people like yourself. That is the wrong way to do
things.
| > Have their reasoning be factual, not unrealistic.
| As defined by Glen Silva?
No, as defined by the people I have talked to. Like you and OJ Martin,
they looked at it from a sex perspective. We had a discussion panel a couple of
years back called, "Sexual Orientation: What does this have to do with work?".
This woman from my group didn't go to it. She asked me about it afterwards.
After she heard what it was about she had wished she went. She thought it was
going to be about our sex lives. She got that from the words, Sexual
Orientation. The same words you have a hang-up on. That's one example of the
unrealistic reasoning that I'm talking about.
| Acting out on it, according to Christian morals (which is the basis for our
| societal moral traditions and laws regarding marriage and the like), is
| immoral.
Yes.... so we're back to the marriage thing. Would you like us to lie,
Steve? Because if you don't, then there really is no way for a homosexuals to
marry under your standards. So you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Thank God it isn't Steve Leech we need to follow.
| It isn't about the person, it is about morality and societal standards.
That's just it. It IS about the person. I guess if you go by a group
standard practice, it is easier to deal with. Individuals are much harder to
deal with, classify, etc.
| There are many upstanding gay citizens that I would be proud to call friend.
| However, I cannot morally accept such *relations* as being on par with the
| marital relations of heterosexuals.
Then don't. It's plain and simple. You don't have to accept it. The way
marriage is with heterosexuals these days, it doesn't appear that it's doing
all that well, period. Getting married for the right reasons, and not because
your parents expect you too, would save a lot of divorces, and put a lot of
lawyers out of business.
| > Hey, if you want to think it's bad...go right ahead. The only things
| >that are making changes are getting through the lies, and presenting the truth.
| The truth, according to Glen Silva. Of course, everyone who disagrees
| is wrong, eh? Convenient, if nothing else.
No, Steve. The truth, period. When one views a homosexual as a femme,
they view a lot of things wrong. First off, they assume all homosexuals are
femmes. Then they also assume a femme is bad. Both of these things are false.
When one assumes that a homosexual is going to have sex with everyone they
meet, this is wrong. Individuals might. But you can't apply that anymore to
homosexuals than you could with heterosexuals. If you're a gay male, you will
eventually get AIDS and die. Now that is one of the stupidest things I have
heard yet. Then there are those that equate the words sexual orientation to
mean just gay, or gay sex. More misconceptions. Being friends with someone who
is gay is going to make you look bad. Another sad, but true misconception.
Shall I go on? So please come down off this according to crap, cuz it really
isn't something I would expect from you.
| You missed the point, then.
This seems to be a standard answer to a lot of people, lately.
Glen
|
323.1468 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:49 | 70 |
| Labor Commissioner Rules Heterosexual Employee Suffered Discrimination
In the first ruling of its kind under California law, the Labor Commissioner
determined that an employee of a Palm Springs hotel was illegally fired because
of her heterosexual orientation. She was awarded back wages and reinstatement of
employment.
Kathleen Sturgeon worked as a desk clerk at the Smoke Tree Inn from September
1991 until she was terminated in April 1993. Shortly before her dismissal, a new
group of partners purchased the hotel. According to witness interviews during
the investigation, the new owners intended to market the hotel's accommodations
to gay and lesbian customers.
In her discrimination complaint Sturgeon alleged that she was fired because she
is heterosexual. The hotel's owners responded that she was terminated in an
effort to contain costs. They added that Sturgeon also occupied two rooms at
the hotel, which they sought to rent to guests for additional revenue.
Sturgeon produced two witnesses who indicated that the new owners sought to
replace heterosexual employees. The owner of an air conditioning company hired
to perform service work at the hotel recalled overhearing a conversation shortly
before Sturgeon's termination. He overheard a group of women, whom he later
learned were the owners, state to a visitor that they were "going to get rid of
everyone who is not gay here" and turn the hotel into a resort serving gay and
lesbian guests.
Another employee of the Smoke Tree Inn stated that one of the new owners asked
her sexual orientation. The employee refused to answer. The co-owner then asked
if Sturgeon was a lesbian. The employee said no. Sturgeon's coworker told the
investigator that the co-owner said, "I'll take care of Kathy when the time
comes. But that's between me and you."
Sturgeon was fired a week later. Her coworker also said the co-owner told her
that she wanted to replace all heterosexual employees with gay and lesbian
employees.
The Labor Commissioner concluded that the statements of these two witnesses
"support a conclusion that the primary factor for the complainant's discharge
was because of her sexual orientation and not because her discharge would have
significantly contained costs."
This case is the first in which the Labor Commissioner has found that
discrimination occurred because of an employee's heterosexual orientation. In
California, employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is
illegal under Labor Code Section 1102.1, which was enacted in 1992 when
Governor Pete Wilson signed Assembly Bill 2601.
During 1993, the first year the Labor Code section was effective, the Labor
Commissioner received 159 complaints of sexual orientation discrimination. The
number of new cases has continued at the same pace during 1994. Complete figures
on discrimination complaint investigations will be released in February when the
Labor Commissioner makes a biennial report to the Legislature.
Section 1102.1 prohibits "discrimination or different treatment in any aspect or
opportunity for employment based on actual or perceived sexual orientation."
Under the Labor Code, the Labor Commissioner has four remedies available in a
case in which discrimination is found. Remedies are a cease or desist order,
an order to re-hire or reinstate, reimbursement of lost wages, and requiring
the employer to post notices. The Labor Commissioner cannot award punitive
damages.
When the Labor Commissioner finds discrimination, the employer has 10 days to
comply with the decision. Such cases are referred to the Labor Commissioner's
legal staff for any legal action necessary to ensure compliance.
Determinations issued by the Labor Commissioner in discrimination cases are
subject to appeal to the Director of Industrial Relations within 10 days of the
decision. After that period or a decision by the Director on appeal, the case
is closed.
|
323.1469 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Mon Nov 27 1995 15:53 | 58 |
| <<< Note 323.1429 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| I doubt that many married people are asked about their spouses simply because
>| they wear a ring. I can't recall ever being asked.
>
> Well....maybe people in here who are married can address things. I know
> women who look for rings, to see if someone is single or not.
Looking for a ring when seeking a potential mate and actually
asking to discuss that mate are two very different things, of
course.
>| It asserts that Cameron used a small sample size (and if true I agree with
>| their condemnation of Cameron)
>
> Go read his study. Go to the people who said that these things are
>true. Find out for yourself. Apparently you don't know, as you have said, "if
>it were true".
But you have not done these things either. You are only accepting
others' assessment of his study, just as you accuse me of doing
(and I agree I am doing.)
>| you said that you would get the Cameron book. Why not do so?
>
> Cuz I'm not going to waste my money on such dribble.
So then did you lie in .956? you Said:
> Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
> in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.
You said "I *am in the process of*". Not, "I am planning to"
or anything non-committal like that. You toadied Topaz when
he got all over Jack for a similar statement. Why does this
not apply to you?
But really what you are saying is that you are willing to take
the word of Cameron critics at face value without looking at
his stuff with your own eyes. You are willing to take their
'snipets' of Cameron quotes as they use them, when they very
well may be taken out of context for all we know...
> CFV did to the Hart book,
What did they do to Hart's book?
> You'd have to come out here, cuz there is no way in hell I will ever go
> to Colorado.
Hold you breath. I just may.
> People come out when they are ready. That is what I believe.
>
> Now, is it wrong to have someone come out publically when they aren't
> ready? On the onset, it could be. But then again, it may not be.
These two statements are contradictory.
|
323.1470 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:01 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.1459 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Uh huh...and you haven't addressed the Hart book scam because....
| You keep repeating this, but I don't know what you are talking about.
Of course you do. Note .1322 goes into how the CFV took the Hart Book
stuff out of context. You have been asked many a time to address the context
part, but each time you refuse. It is understandable though.
| > stated that you did not want to release the source because you did not think
| > anyone would talk about the context of what was written.
| I released the source. Everyone here knows the source. Why don't you?
The source that refutes the CFV Hart extractions came from the Hart
Book itself. The stuff that refuted the Cameron stuff was listed in the paper
itself, along with the ending part.
So will you address the Hart stuff in .1322? It deals with the sources
methods, not the source itself.
Glen
|
323.1471 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:04 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1464 by TROOA::COLLINS "The manual is pure fiction." >>>
| ...because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.
I have to admit, Joan...I liked the whole note, but nothing summed it
up better than this one line.
Glen
|
323.1472 | that was an interesting Cal case report, Glen... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:05 | 10 |
|
By the way, Mass also has anti-discrimination laws regarding gays,
though they differ from Cal. Some states have no such laws.
Nor is the support of anti-discrimination laws in employment or
public accomodation for gays incompatible with opposition to any
extension of marriage laws to gays. In fact, that's my own view,
not to mention, the view of our current governor.
bb
|
323.1473 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:19 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1470 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| You keep repeating this, but I don't know what you are talking about.
>
> Of course you do. Note .1322 goes into how the CFV took the Hart Book
>stuff out of context. You have been asked many a time to address the context
>part, but each time you refuse.
You have asked so many questions that I simply can't answer them
all.
So rather than do a line-by-line I'll simply say that I disagree
with most of your analysis there. But you ask one question that
pretty well sums up the whole issue:
.1322> Why did the CFV only pull out negative snippets from the Hart book to
>try and prove their point?
Because CFV has an agenda. And in the same spirit, the negative
report about Cameron springs from an agenda too, and unless you
study Cameron's work yourself you cannot be sure that their
agenda is only taking negative snippets to prove their point.
Obviously you can't see the double standard here.
|
323.1474 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:20 | 61 |
| | <<< Note 323.1469 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Looking for a ring when seeking a potential mate and actually asking to
| discuss that mate are two very different things, of course.
Joe, have you ever talked about your wife at work? Do you ever think
that others will talk about theirs when others are talking? Be real, and stop
playing games.
| But you have not done these things either. You are only accepting others'
| assessment of his study, just as you accuse me of doing
You have been in here touting off these stats like their gold. You have
been trying to paint homosexuals as some sick people, PERIOD. And you have the
gall to put the above in here? Please, Joe, if you or the CFV are going to spout
his numbers, then go check with the APA about Cameron. When you find out what
has been said about him is true, then you will have to stop using his numbers,
and should distance yourself from the CFV if you can't convince them to see the
truth. Hell, you should distance yourself from them now with what they did with
the Hart book.
| > Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
| > in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.
Nope, I was in the process of getting them. I had sent mail out to a
.dis list and asked about both. One was handed to me. The other, no one had.
| You said "I *am in the process of*". Not, "I am planning to" or anything
| non-committal like that.
Please reread the above.
| But really what you are saying is that you are willing to take the word of
| Cameron critics at face value without looking at his stuff with your own
| eyes.
He was thrown out of the APA for pete's sake. People slammed him for
misquoting their works. What else do you need? If you don't feel these things
are true, then go disprove them.
| Hold you breath. I just may.
Yeah.... right...this is a trick... you just want me to hold my breath!
:-)
| > People come out when they are ready. That is what I believe.
| >
| > Now, is it wrong to have someone come out publically when they aren't
| > ready? On the onset, it could be. But then again, it may not be.
| These two statements are contradictory.
No, they are not. You convienently left off the reasons behind the
latter. I saw the CFV do that with the Hart book stuff. I guess that could be
one place you get that from, as you do it quite often. Go back and read.
And you're here on a Monday?
Glen
|
323.1475 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:24 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1465 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> When Jim P reveals himself is in his claim that any individual
> can force them to do so, outside politics, based on his bogus
> reading of Amendment 14.
My argument is should, not can. The difference between the current
interpretation of the law by the courts and what I believe is right,
proper and just.
Given this state of affairs, attempts at statuatory reform are in
order. Hence my call to include sexual orientation in the listing
of protected charachteristics contained in the CRA64.
Jim
|
323.1476 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 16:30 | 33 |
| | <<< Note 323.1473 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| You have asked so many questions that I simply can't answer them all.
Then just address why you would associate with a group of people that
takes other people's writings out of context? It is CLEAR that they took
everything out of context. So yeah, I can see why you wouldn't want to address
it, cuz it only shows that if you believe the newsletter (I assume you do cuz
you kept hounding the stats[but let us know if you do or don't]), and they
presented a false picture of what the book was saying, then that would show you
as either a mislead individual, or someone who helps support the lies. Which is
it?
| So rather than do a line-by-line I'll simply say that I disagree with most of
| your analysis there.
Of course, just brush it aside. Why address the FACT that they took the
Hart book out of context? Even though you stated you thought people would
dismiss this stuff due to the source, not the actual words. The words were
addressed, and you choose to ignore it. Understandable.
| Because CFV has an agenda. And in the same spirit, the negative report about
| Cameron springs from an agenda too, and unless you study Cameron's work
| yourself you cannot be sure that their agenda is only taking negative snippets
| to prove their point.
Err....Cameron has been denounced. Plain and simple. The CFV has used
the same tactics that Cameron did. Taking other people's works out of context.
So I can begin to see what the agenda is.
Glen
|
323.1477 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 17:15 | 10 |
| re: .1461
I realize your intent, Jim. I was merely showing the problems inherant
with trying to use equate religion (specific and exclusive) with a more
generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
You'd open a big legal can of worms by doing this.
-steve
|
323.1478 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 17:16 | 3 |
| re: .1463
On this, at least, we agree. 8^)
|
323.1479 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 17:54 | 76 |
| re: .1464
| >That is their choice. I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
| >cause reactions not favorable- that is life.
| Unfavourable reactions don't just *happen*, they don't just fall from
| the sky.
I disagree. Sometimes, they DO just happen. A reaction may not be
visible, but I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get
a negative gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
> Someone chooses to react that way.
The only reaction that one chooses to make would be an outward
reaction; which can be anything from a hi-five of approval to gay
bashing. THESE are choices. My choice in this matter is to fight
*for* what few current moral standards are left in this nation. You
confuse this with something personal against gay people- which is not
true at all.
> To make it sound like
> the weather is to absolve the participants of any responsibility for
> their actions. They don't *have* to react negatively to gays, they
> *choose* to. You write it as though gays had no-one else to blame
> but themselves.
And you missed my point. Negative reactions are a GIVEN. Period. I'm
not proposing that all such reactions are good, nor am I absolving
anyone's responsibility for their reactions.
That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays. This would be a
non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
into law. I realize they feel they are right in doing so, and it is
their right to TRY, but I do not agree with, nor support the agenda I
see. I can't- either morally or intellectually.
> "That is life" is not an intellectual justification, it's distance.
It's reality. Get used to it. Crying to daddy government will do
NOTHING to change matters- regardless of how much legislation can get
forced through (and the more you push, the more push-back you will end
up receiving).
However, being a good example of a gay/lesbian citizen (rather than the
example set by the most public of gay groups- like in the Gay Pride
parade), showing good character and a caring attitude towards you
fellow man, would do a lot to help people understand and acknowledge that
you are not like what they see on TV- but a responsible, intelligent person.
Maybe being a good example is tough, maybe it will only promote slow
progress, but it will be progress, and it is the point of least
resistence.
> >As far as how *I* *personally* "*CHOOSE*" to react, is irrelevent to
> >the above...
> Not when you are arguing that gays should remain in the closet.
I'm not arguing this at all. Please read what I type in.
I'm saying the choice is *theirs*, but to not whine when they get
negative reactions. In this day and age, homosexuality is still
considered by most to be a deviancy, and anyone "coming out of the
closet" should know good and well that they are bringing themselves
into public view and are subject to negative reactions from the public.
> >I can live with folks being gay just fine...
> No you can't...
Oh great. We have another BOX mind-reader. Don't give up your day job,
your mind-reading skills need a lot of honing.
-steve
|
323.1480 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Nov 27 1995 18:01 | 8 |
| re: .1471 (and .1464)
>....because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.
Please show where I have "insisted" on this.
Another red herring. Or perhaps a red strawfish?
|
323.1481 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 18:17 | 34 |
| | <<< Note 323.1479 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| but I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get a negative
| gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
Notice how you said heterosexual men? Common default. Men tend to have
a bigger problem with it than women. Has to do with a masculinity thing with a
lot of them.
| That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays.
To not lie, and be themselves is their fault? And you say you're
fighting for morals?
| This would be a non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their
| agenda into law.
You keep saying that there are laws to protect everyone, period. No
need for any of these "special" laws. What you ALWAYS fail to address is that
the laws have loopholes, and when they are found, people try to close them up.
If there were no loopholes, then no group, regardless of who they were, would
bother.
| However, being a good example of a gay/lesbian citizen (rather than the
| example set by the most public of gay groups- like in the Gay Pride parade),
Here you go again! You only see what you want to see. You don't see the
parents who are there, you don't see the schools, the companies, etc, you only
see what you view is bad. You see just as much flesh at a public beach for
pete's sake. And that's ALL you generally see there. Go to a Pride parade and
report back.
Glen
|
323.1482 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Nov 27 1995 18:21 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.1480 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Please show where I have "insisted" on this.
Your notes are quite evident of that Steve. When you say it is the gays
fault for anything, that is saying they should have complied and stayed in the
closet. If someone gets bashed, and all they have done is say they were gay,
the only fault it is is the person who did the bashing. For you to even give
any creedance to it being the gay person's fault, it saying what Joan had
commented on (and I agreed with). It would be the same if someone was walking
down the street claiming to be religious, and someone bashed them. It is the
bashers fault, not the bashee.
| Another red herring. Or perhaps a red strawfish?
No, another blind spot you have.
Glen
|
323.1483 | I'm glad your brother-in-law is better now. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Nov 27 1995 18:53 | 24 |
| RE: .1467 Glen Silva
/ They had many misconceptions about gays, and when those misconceptions
/ were cleared up, they could accept me for being me. My brother inlaw was
/ the worst person that I had to deal with. He wouldn't even shake my hand.
/ Now he is pretty cool with it. Real cool.
Do you watch NYPD Blue? They've done a good job of showing people
grow to accept an openly gay male character - and one of the defining
moments of being 'accepted' was that one of the main male characters
was willing to shake his hand in various situations.
I noticed it because when a cop came along who was a mega-jerk, the
main characters in the show wouldn't shake this guy's hand at all.
Some seemed to treat the gay co-worker the same way at first, until
they got to know him. This character did so well on the show that
he's now a permanent character with a small role. They wrote it into
the storyline that he went from the temp job to a permanent job on
another floor in the building.
NYPD Blue doesn't sugarcoat how gays are often treated, though. Some
people still gossip when they find out (or believe) someone is gay on
the show. I think it's good that they deal with the subject in an open
way.
|
323.1484 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Twisted forever, forever twisted. | Mon Nov 27 1995 19:12 | 5 |
|
Shaking a gay's hand?
Isn't that a good way to catch something terminal?
|
323.1485 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Nov 27 1995 19:15 | 45 |
| RE: .1479 Steve Leech
/ My choice in this matter is to fight *for* what few current moral
/ standards are left in this nation. You confuse this with something
/ personal against gay people- which is not true at all.
When gays are fired for being gay or beaten up for being gay, it's
personal. The gay rights movement was created to stop these kinds
of injustices - so when you fight the gay rights movement, you're
fighting against those who are trying to end up-close-and-personal
injustices that gay people have experienced for being gay.
// To make it sound like the weather is to absolve the participants of
// any responsibility for their actions. They don't *have* to react
// negatively to gays, they *choose* to. You write it as though gays
// had no-one else to blame but themselves.
/ That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays. This would be a
/ non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
/ into law.
The gay rights movement started AFTER the negative reactions (including
being fired and/or beaten up for being gay.)
Whether the gay rights movement tries to push legislation or simply
improve public awareness of homophobia, the goal is the same: they are
trying to stop the discrimination and injustices against homosexuals.
If people hadn't treated gays so badly in the first place, there would
have been no need to create a gay rights movement.
The more you fight against gay rights, the harder the gay rights movement
will need to fight you back. Everyone who fights against gay rights
proves why the gay rights movement was needed in the first place.
If all those who fight against homosexuality simply said "OK, it's over.
We aren't going to fight it anymore. Some people are born gay and we
don't intend to give anyone grief about it anymore" - the gay rights
movement would have nothing much left to do.
Those who are born gay would be gay without nearly as much anxiety
about it, and those who are not born gay could go on with their lives
without some people obsessing about what gay people do in their bedrooms.
Our country would be a lot better off if this were possible.
|
323.1486 | re 323.1484 | GIDDAY::BURT | DPD (tm) | Mon Nov 27 1995 19:15 | 5 |
| Monitor that!
\C
|
323.1487 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | Freedom isn't free. | Mon Nov 27 1995 19:41 | 6 |
|
re: .1484
nice...:*\
|
323.1488 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Nov 27 1995 22:38 | 16 |
|
> Do you watch NYPD Blue? They've done a good job of showing people
> grow to accept an openly gay male character - and one of the defining
> moments of being 'accepted' was that one of the main male characters
> was willing to shake his hand in various situations.
Fortunately, these TV programs are for entertainment however, and not
to educate the ignorant massses..
Jim
|
323.1489 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 06:29 | 21 |
| <<< Note 323.1477 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> I realize your intent, Jim. I was merely showing the problems inherant
> with trying to use equate religion (specific and exclusive) with a more
> generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
There is no problem. Your lifestyle, as a Christian, is a matter
of choice. That choice is very specifically protected by the CRA.
Now whether GLBs make a "choice", as you appear to believe, or if
they have no choice about their orientation, as I beleive, matters
little. The CRA covers both situations already. This merely puts
an end to the "choice vs. predisposition" argument when discussing
the law.
> You'd open a big legal can of worms by doing this.
You keep dancing around this one, why not come right out and tell
us what you mean so that we may laugh at you.
Jim
|
323.1490 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 06:38 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1479 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays. This would be a
> non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
> into law.
Steve, Was is the fault of Blacks that they were lynched? That civil rights
workers were murdered? That 3 little girls were burned to death in
a church? Was Dr. King to blame for his own murder?
Do you have ANY idea how you sound? Do you have ANY idea how similar
your argument is to those that fought relentlessly against the
recognition of racial civil rights in the law?
> It's reality. Get used to it. Crying to daddy government will do
> NOTHING to change matters- regardless of how much legislation can get
> forced through (and the more you push, the more push-back you will end
> up receiving).
Oh it caqn and does work. It's not perfect by any means, but you
can not argue that the civil rights laws passed in the last 30 years
have not had a positive effect on the situation for racial minorities.
Jim
|
323.1491 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 08:55 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1484 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Twisted forever, forever twisted." >>>
| Shaking a gay's hand?
| Isn't that a good way to catch something terminal?
Nah.... that's only if you shake his hard drive... ;-)
|
323.1492 | Columbus snarf!!! | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 08:58 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1488 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>
| Fortunately, these TV programs are for entertainment however, and not
| to educate the ignorant massses..
Sometimes, they do both.
|
323.1493 | | TROOA::COLLINS | The manual is pure fiction. | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:25 | 87 |
|
.1479
>...I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get
>a negative gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
The human mind normally permits higher reasoning, even if the ability is
not often utilized. I choose to encourage this ability.
>You confuse this with something personal against gay people- which is
>not true at all.
You never answered my question: It's personal to Glen, not me. What is
it to you? Why do YOU, PERSONALLY, oppose them?
>Negative reactions are a GIVEN. Period.
With people continuing to insist that homosexuality is a "problem", I
can see how these reactions are *sustained*, but they are NOT a given.
To just dismiss these reactions as a "given" is a moral failure, IMHO.
>That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays. This would be a
>non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
>into law.
In a way, in-your-face homosexuality is a fault of the religious right.
This would be a non-issue if religious groups would not try to force
gays to remain in the closet.
>It's reality. Get used to it.
Yeah, just accept it (right or wrong).
>Crying to daddy government will do NOTHING to change matters-
Why not, if they get the legislation they are looking for?
>(and the more you push, the more push-back you will end up receiving).
...and the more you push back, the more in-your-face they will be...
>However, being a good example of a gay/lesbian citizen (rather than the
>example set by the most public of gay groups- like in the Gay Pride
>parade), showing good character and a caring attitude towards your fellow
>man, would do a lot to help people understand and acknowledge that you
>are not like what they see on TV- but a responsible, intelligent person.
Steve, I live in the HEART of gay Toronto, and my neighbours are GREAT
examples of gay/lesbian citizens. They show better character and a more
caring attitude towards their fellow citizens than most "Christians" I
know. Why do you write the above as if it's such an unlikely thing that
gays might be responsible and intelligent?
>I'm not arguing this at all. Please read what I type in.
>I'm saying the choice is *theirs*, but to not whine when they get
>negative reactions.
The effect is the same: "They've no-one to blame but themselves." If
you argued with as much conviction against the *negative reactions*, I
might be more convinced of your sincerity.
>Oh great. We have another BOX mind-reader. Don't give up your day job,
>your mind-reading skills need a lot of honing.
Sorry, Steve, but as long as you promote the idea that gays should not
be seen or heard, you DO have a problem living with them.
.1480
>>....because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.
>
>Please show where I have "insisted" on this.
Your position is clear, Steve. From 323.1441:
>As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*. It
>would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
>as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
>involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
>If I secretly liked little girls in a sexual way, you can bet I would
>not be crowing about it, and demanding that my lifestyle be accepted.
>I know good and well that society deems such relations as immoral, and
>I have no right to try and force them to accept it via legislation.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
|
323.1494 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:27 | 21 |
| re: .1481 & .1482
I guess reading for comprehension (rather than reading your bias into
what is typed in) is out of the question.
Oh well, I didn't really expect anything different, but it would have
been nice. If you decide to address what I have said, rather than what
you read into it, I will be happy to continue this discussion with you.
I will NOT continually repeat that which I've clearly stated
previously, nor will I continually jump in to defend myself from things
I have not said.
I notice in your .1482, that you did NOT show me where I have "insisted"
that gays stay in the closet, but default to "your notes are quite evident
of that"- which completely ignores my request that you SHOW me where I
have specifically said this. This is most telling to me, and shows me
that I would only further waste my time by responding to this note.
-steve
|
323.1495 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:32 | 11 |
|
Joan,
Nice novel.......
Actually, the religious right is against hetero's showing affection in
public as well (I think).
Mike
|
323.1496 | | TROOA::COLLINS | The manual is pure fiction. | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:35 | 3 |
|
I calls 'em as I sees 'em, Mike.
|
323.1497 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:49 | 62 |
| re: .1485
/ My choice in this matter is to fight *for* what few current moral
/ standards are left in this nation. You confuse this with something
/ personal against gay people- which is not true at all.
> When gays are fired for being gay or beaten up for being gay, it's
> personal.
Irrelevent to my point. *I* do not do these things, nor do I condone
them (as I have said previously). The point was quite clear, that I do
not have a personal agenda against gay people simply because I fight
against certain aspects of the gay agenda. You have not been
able to seperate these issues (and you are not alone, it would seem).
> The gay rights movement was created to stop these kinds
> of injustices - so when you fight the gay rights movement, you're
> fighting against those who are trying to end up-close-and-personal
> injustices that gay people have experienced for being gay.
Not true. There are certain aspects of the movement that I do support.
However, the movement in general seems to be more of a political
juggernaught to change the social structure (and moral outlook) of
society. It is this that I object to.
> The more you fight against gay rights, the harder the gay rights movement
> will need to fight you back. Everyone who fights against gay rights
> proves why the gay rights movement was needed in the first place.
Rather black and white world view you have there. You either agree
with the movement, or you are proof as to why it started? Of course,
the gay rights movement couldn't be going too far...nah, could've be
that.
> If all those who fight against homosexuality simply said "OK, it's over.
> We aren't going to fight it anymore. Some people are born gay and we
> don't intend to give anyone grief about it anymore" - the gay rights
> movement would have nothing much left to do.
I don't give anyone grief about being gay now. I do give them grief
when they push to change accepted social standards to fit their
lifestyle.
> Those who are born gay would be gay without nearly as much anxiety
> about it, and those who are not born gay could go on with their lives
> without some people obsessing about what gay people do in their bedrooms.
I used my little strawman phrase too soon, I see. This is a bigger red
herring than the "race" argument a while back.
I don't care what people do in their bedrooms...never have. I do care
when they try and gain acceptance via legislation for relations that go
against current moral standards, though. This is another thing you
seem incapable of separating. For you, my resistence to the gay rights
movement seems to be equated with being obsessed by what gay folks do
in their bedrooms- which is not only beside the point, but is plain
silly. For the record, it is the gay rights movement who is bringing
their sexuality into public scrutiny- demanding acceptance for
a lifestyle that most Americans still find repugnant.
-steve
|
323.1498 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:55 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 323.1494 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| I guess reading for comprehension (rather than reading your bias into
| what is typed in) is out of the question.
Steve, you seem to say this to a lot of people in here. Is it our
reading comprehension or is it maybe that what you are trying to say isn't
quite coming out the way you want it to? Something to think about seeing you've
said this so many times to people in this string.
| Oh well, I didn't really expect anything different, but it would have been
| nice.
Reread the above, Steve.
| I notice in your .1482, that you did NOT show me where I have "insisted"
| that gays stay in the closet, but default to "your notes are quite evident
| of that"- which completely ignores my request that you SHOW me where I
| have specifically said this.
Steve, if you blame gays for what happens to them in the slightest way,
you are advocating just that. Gays are not at fault for the beatings they may
have had just because they are gay. Gays are not responsible for being denied
or kicked out of housing because they are gay. But you seem to hold some of the
fault towards the gays themselves. I suppose the people doing the harm
shouldn't take responsibility for their own actions, right?
And you still ignore the whole marriage thing. You say gays CAN marry.
But under the definition of marriage that most Christians seem to support, can
a gays marry a person of the opposite sex and have it be the kind of love that
is needed?
Glen
|
323.1499 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:57 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1497 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| I don't care what people do in their bedrooms...never have. I do care
| when they try and gain acceptance via legislation for relations that go
| against current moral standards, though. This is another thing you
| seem incapable of separating.
Steve, you know what would help us understand this more? Would you stop
complaining if the moral standard favored gays?
|
323.1500 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 09:58 | 1 |
| snarf!
|
323.1501 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 10:15 | 49 |
| re: .1489
>> I realize your intent, Jim. I was merely showing the problems inherant
>> with trying to use equate religion (specific and exclusive) with a more
>> generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
> There is no problem. Your lifestyle, as a Christian, is a matter
> of choice. That choice is very specifically protected by the CRA.
Right. Religion- whether you view it as a lifestyle or not- is
protected under the CRA. I think it is an obfuscation to try and use
"lifestyle" and "choice" to expand upon this current protection,
however. You said it yourself, above, "that choice is VERY
SPECIFICALLY protected".
The point of contention has nothing to do with "lifestyle" nor
"choice", but with that which is specifically protected (for specific
reasons).
> Now whether GLBs make a "choice", as you appear to believe, or if
> they have no choice about their orientation, as I beleive, matters
> little. The CRA covers both situations already. This merely puts
> an end to the "choice vs. predisposition" argument when discussing
> the law.
Whether sexual orientation is a choice or not is irrelevent to any
point I've brought up in this string. As far as the CRA is concerned,
it does not protect "lifestyle" as you seem to imply. It protects
"religion" specifically. It matters not whether you or I agree that a
given religion can be a "lifestyle". In order for the CRA to protect
homosexual lifestyles, "sexual orientation" would have to be added to
the document's list of protections.
>> You'd open a big legal can of worms by doing this.
> You keep dancing around this one, why not come right out and tell
> us what you mean so that we may laugh at you.
I haven't danced around anything. What I see as future possibilities
in law due to silly expansive readings of the CRA is irrelevent to the
current discussion. I do not want to needlessly rathole this
discussion with what I see as "possibilities".
Of course, your above comments doesn't do much to promt me to
take any time to respond. You have already determined your reaction,
so I would consider any time spent typing in my ideas would be wasted.
-steve
|
323.1502 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 10:30 | 20 |
| re: .1490
You've extracted one snippet of my note without surrounding context
(not to mention out of context of the ideas I've been trying to get
across in this string).
The whole idea behind that snippet was that "when you push, folks will
push back". This is historically accurate, as you have pointed out.
[And as with any cultural movement/war, there are always innocent
casualties].
Not only do you take my snippet out of context, but you use
emotionalism to villify me. You equate my suggestion that by
pushing for X there will be reaction from Y, to blaming 3 little girls
for being burned to death. This is completely unfair, and
misrepresents my position completely.
-steve
|
323.1503 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Robobar: The Future Of Hospitality | Tue Nov 28 1995 11:18 | 11 |
|
.1497
>Irrelevent to my point. *I* do not do these things, nor do I condone
>them (as I have said previously).
You may not discriminate against gays (this is assuming you are in a
position to do so in a way that would affect them), but if you oppose
adding sexual orientation to the CRA, then you support the *right* of
others to do so. That IS condoning (according to Webster's).
|
323.1504 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 11:20 | 112 |
| re: .1493
> >...I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get
> >a negative gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
> The human mind normally permits higher reasoning, even if the ability is
> not often utilized. I choose to encourage this ability.
You are making a moral judgement here. You are saying that the
negative gut-reaction is wrong. I disagree. I think there is reason
for it being there to begin with.
I do agree with you that higher reasoning should be utilized, that such
a gut-reaction does not turn into bashing or unfair treatment.
> You never answered my question: It's personal to Glen, not me. What is
> it to you? Why do YOU, PERSONALLY, oppose them?
I did answer you, but apparently you have ignored my answer. In fact,
I've answered this question over and over and over again- in nearly
every note I've posted in this string.
Your use of "them" above has to refer to "homsexual activists" to be an
answerable question, since this is the only "them" that I resist- and
then not on every front.
> >Negative reactions are a GIVEN. Period.
> With people continuing to insist that homosexuality is a "problem", I
> can see how these reactions are *sustained*, but they are NOT a given.
Hello? Reality check time. It is a given. It is a fact. Right or
wrong, this is reality in America today.
> To just dismiss these reactions as a "given" is a moral failure, IMHO.
I'm not dismissing anything. I am bluntly stating the obvious.
I've not said that negative reactions- outside that of what one thinks
about a given relationship- is good.
> In a way, in-your-face homosexuality is a fault of the religious right.
> This would be a non-issue if religious groups would not try to force
> gays to remain in the closet.
There is truth to this, as well, though I do not see a concerted effort
to try and force gays to remain in the closet. You seem to think that
any resistence to public acceptance of a lifestyle, can be equated to
trying to force gays to stay in the closet. I disagree completely.
> >It's reality. Get used to it.
> Yeah, just accept it (right or wrong).
I didn't say accept it. I said simply and bluntly that this is
reality. Making changes in society is never as neat and clean as one
would hope.
> >Crying to daddy government will do NOTHING to change matters-
> Why not, if they get the legislation they are looking for?
This will not change the way people feel about such relations. I see
the most fundamental part of the gay movement as trying to force
society to accept these kinds of relations, and legislation will not
accomplish this. They want acceptance, and they want society to see
such relations as equally moral to het. marriages. This will not
happen wholesale anytime soon, and will never be accepted as moral by a
good segment of the population.
> Why do you write the above as if it's such an unlikely thing that
> gays might be responsible and intelligent?
I did not, that is simply what you read into it. I think the majority
of gays are probably upstanding citizens. Trouble is, the most vocal
and visible gays that *I* see (and probably most of America sees) is
not representative. In order to offset this bad publicity, you need to
be above reproach in your own life- setting the best of examples for
those around you to see. This is the best way to gain acceptance and
respect.
This is no different than being demonized as a Chrstian because of
the failings of highly visible Christian leaders (a few televangelists
fit this bill). In order to overcome such public adversity, I, as a
Christian, must be above reproach in my personal and public life.
> Sorry, Steve, but as long as you promote the idea that gays should not
> be seen or heard, you DO have a problem living with them.
You are reading too much into my notes.
> Your position is clear, Steve. From 323.1441:
> >As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*. It
> >would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
> >as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
> >involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
"Best" does not equate to "insisting" that homosexuals stay in the
closet. I don't care, personally, and I've said as much previously.
I've said over and over that the choice is *theirs*, I do not insist on
which choice that they make, only commenting on what I think would be the
path of least resistence for them.
Continuing to try and force-fit such a position on me is only
deflecting from the issues I am bringing up. MY position (and even the
position that you feel I take) is IRRELEVENT to the points I have tried
to bring up in this string, in any case.
-steve
|
323.1505 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 11:24 | 7 |
| re: .1498
I think you have me confused with someone else. I have never said
"gays CAN marry".
-steve
|
323.1506 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 12:10 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1505 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| I think you have me confused with someone else. I have never said
| "gays CAN marry".
I could have sworn it was you who stated that under the laws we have
now, gays CAN marry. So there is no law needed for gays to marry other gays,
cuz gays can marry now. You're one who is usually looking at those things
trying to point out that other laws aren't needed, so I had thought it came
from you. I'll look to see who did.
But that aside, do you hold the above condition to be true?
Glen
|
323.1507 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Whiplash! | Tue Nov 28 1995 12:19 | 4 |
|
I think the statement was "The Constitution doesn't forbid it,
but the states would have to OK it individually".
|
323.1508 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 12:22 | 51 |
| <<< Note 323.1474 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> been trying to paint homosexuals as some sick people, PERIOD.
Nope. Just some of the things they do are sick.
> When you find out what has been said about him is true, ...
And when did you find this out? So far you just have the say-so
of those who said the things about him. You still can't see the
double standard, can you...
.956>| > Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
>| > in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.
>
> Nope, I was in the process of getting them. I had sent mail out to a
>.dis list and asked about both. One was handed to me. The other, no one had.
>
>| You said "I *am in the process of*". Not, "I am planning to" or anything
>| non-committal like that.
>
> Please reread the above.
OK. In .959 you said:
>
> I may not even have to buy them...... but if I need to, I will.
So was THAT a lie?
Again, I'm reall not intending to hold you to this. I'm just
pointing out the double standards that you so readily use.
> No, they are not. You convienently left off the reasons behind the
>latter. I saw the CFV do that with the Hart book stuff. I guess that could be
>one place you get that from, as you do it quite often. Go back and read.
Your reasons for accepting the outing of those who don't want to
be outed are mererly justifications in your mind. It's wrong
whether or not you convince yourself to the contrary. And that's
why the two statements are contradictory and why I did not need
to consider your logic gymnastics. You've done no less with bible
teachings regarding homosexual behavior too. Wrong is wrong and
connot be changed by human rationalization (except in the minds of
those humans who fall victim to it.)
> And you're here on a Monday?
Nope. And I noticed you asked me something about this elsewhere
too. Modems are a wonderful technology. You should try one
sometime.
|
323.1509 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Robobar: The Future Of Hospitality | Tue Nov 28 1995 12:25 | 69 |
|
.1504
>You are making a moral judgement here.
:^) :^) :^) :^) I'm not the only one, Steve.
>You are saying that the negative gut-reaction is wrong.
Yes. Yes I am.
>I think there is reason for it being there to begin with.
A reason, yes. A *good* reason, no.
>Your use of "them" above has to refer to "homsexual activists" to be an
>answerable question, since this is the only "them" that I resist...
So, while you do not "insist" that gays remain in the closet, you *will*
resist them if they seek a more equitable status.
>Hello? Reality check time. It is a given. It is a fact.
Yeah, just as it was a "given" that whites don't like to live with
blacks. But that changed, as people refused to accept it as a "given",
as people exercised the moral courage to fight that "given".
>You seem to think that any resistence to public acceptance of a lifestyle,
>can be equated to trying to force gays to stay in the closet.
Lack of public acceptance will have the effect of coercing some gays to
remain in the closet, and will make life difficult for those who do not.
The end speaks volumes about the means.
>I didn't say accept it.
But you *will* "resist" their actions if they don't accept it.
>This will not change the way people feel about such relations.
However, standing up and saying "Such relations are okay. I *accept*
such relations." might change the way people feel. Saying "Society
should not accept such relations" perpetuates the problem.
>This is no different than being demonized as a Chrstian because of
>the failings of highly visible Christian leaders...
Ahhh. Bugs you, doesn't it? To be lumped in with Benny Hinn or
Jack Van Impe or Jack Bakker or Jerry Falwell. So why do you think
it bugs gays any less, to be judged along with Nerf ball murderers
or practitioners of fisting?
>"Best" does not equate to "insisting" that homosexuals stay in the
>closet.
No, you are right. "Insist" may have been a poorly-chosen word, but
your position is still clear: gays are better off in the closet.
Whatever happens if they come out is their own fault, as it was *their*
choice to come out.
>Continuing to try and force-fit such a position on me...
You call it "force-fit[ting]". I say that we're not fooled by the
surgical use of language. "I have no problem with gays, it's the
*behaviour* that I find repugnant, it's the *lifstyle* I won't accept,
it's the *agenda* I will oppose" is a bogus rationalization. They are
as intertwined as crime and criminal. No crime? No criminal. No
criminal? No crime.
|
323.1510 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 12:26 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1476 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Err....Cameron has been denounced. Plain and simple.
So? So has homosexual behavior, but not by people you believe in
so you don't accept it. What's plain and simple is that you show
your stripes in who you will accept without question and who you
question at the expense of the real issues.
|
323.1511 | And who is doing the church desecrations today? | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 12:49 | 42 |
| <<< Note 323.1490 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>Steve, Was is the fault of Blacks that they were lynched? That civil rights
> workers were murdered? That 3 little girls were burned to death in
> a church? Was Dr. King to blame for his own murder?
Spare us the hysterics.
I find it curious that you bring up that era, for it perfectly
demonstrates what Steve is saying. In times past, all sorts of
minorities, groups, and individuals knew when it was inappropriate
to express -- even more, to celebrate -- what it was that made
them identifiable. Right or wrong, there ARE sentiments against
people and groups, and it is not wise to flaunt that identity in
the face of opposing sentiment. Blacks wisely low-keyed their
differences during the era you point out because of sentiment
against them -- wrong as it was. People of given religions in
certain societies must downplay their overt expression of their
faith because of custom and social sentiment. Alcoholics will
never be wise to highlight their disposition except in a social
setting that encourages it (like an AA meeting.) Many read-only
noters do not participate here because of the backlash they
fear their participation will generate in this social setting.
And what Steve is saying is that in today's greater social
environment, overt homosexual expression will generate a response.
Those expressing it must be prepared for whatever response it
generates, and to expect and even DEMAND some different response
is totally unreasonable. Things just don't change that rapidly
to expect something so different.
So it comes down to exacting that evolution in society's outlook.
People like you, Jim, are pushing for change in one direction, and
people like me are pushing for change in an opposite direction.
> Do you have ANY idea how you sound? Do you have ANY idea how similar
> your argument is to those that fought relentlessly against the
> recognition of racial civil rights in the law?
Do you have any idea how much the black community resents the
gay agenda trying to associate itself with the struggles that
their heritage has faced?
|
323.1512 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:01 | 57 |
| | <<< Note 323.1508 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| Nope. Just some of the things they do are sick.
Like what?
| And when did you find this out? So far you just have the say-so of those who
| said the things about him. You still can't see the double standard, can you...
I see it clearly, Joe. But I really had to see if you thought what the
CFV said was fact, or just say-so. Now that I know how you view it.....
You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
back, at how wrong we are because of them. You weren't touting them off as
say-so, but as gold. Then you state that you did not want the source listed, as
the content would be dismissed. But guess what? It wasn't. Now you refuse to
address the facts that were presented. Why can't you comment on the CFV taking
things out of context? Or if you feel they haven't, why can't you show us how
that is possible? You're in here all the time touting off these things, but now
all of a sudden you can't defend them? You can certainly write new notes, but
you can't defend what you write? Come on.
| > I may not even have to buy them...... but if I need to, I will.
| So was THAT a lie?
I guess if I do not go out and get it, the above will become just that.
I have no intentions on getting this book now. After the CFV distorted the Hart
book, and your refusal to answer to it, why bother?
| Your reasons for accepting the outing of those who don't want to be outed are
| mererly justifications in your mind.
Ahhh.... now you are analyzing my mind now. You lose here, Joe.
| It's wrong whether or not you convince yourself to the contrary.
No..... if one is not ready, but does, then it is not wrong. If one is
not ready, and is forced, then it is wrong.
| You've done no less with bible teachings regarding homosexual behavior too.
Nah....the Bible does that.
| Nope. And I noticed you asked me something about this elsewhere too. Modems
| are a wonderful technology. You should try one sometime.
Actually, the reason I asked is you say you don't work on Mondays, and
so you don't respond to anything until Tuesday. And then you do that once you
got caught up from Monday. Yet all this time you have had a modem, but painted
a picture that you can't respond until you're in work. Uh huh....
Glen
|
323.1513 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:08 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.1489 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>> generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
>
> There is no problem. Your lifestyle, as a Christian, is a matter
> of choice. That choice is very specifically protected by the CRA.
Not all religious practices are covered by CRA. Holding one's
faith is so protected, but we've sees many examples of 'lifestyle'
or practices that have been denied to individuals.
But I'm sure you're aware that the constitution specifically
protects that choice, and for a very good reason. That 'choice'
was a founding principle of this nation. It was so important
that the founders saw fit to specifically include it in the
constitution. Ideally religion shouldn't have to be included
in the CRA. It is only there as protection against those who
want to undermine what is already constitutionally protected.
Certain other lifestyle choices are inherently contradictory to
the vast majority of religions that are supposed to be protected
by the CRA, and it verges on insult to place them side by side.
|
323.1514 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:09 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.1510 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > Err....Cameron has been denounced. Plain and simple.
| So? So has homosexual behavior, but not by people you believe in so you don't
| accept it.
One (Cameron) is based on realities, while homosexuality is not. Pretty
simple. Look at what the APA said about homosexuality. It's in the gay topic, I
believe. It also goes against what you think about homosexuality.
| What's plain and simple is that you show your stripes in who you will accept
| without question and who you question at the expense of the real issues.
It's a fact that he was thrown out of the APA. You even stated that
Cameron said he quit before he was tossed. So you know what was going on. But
the APA is funny. They don't allow members to quit while they are being
investigated, which is what Cameron did. Their investigation got him kicked
out.
And the 2nd posting I put in about Cameron had many listings to back it
all up. Hell, you could even send mail to Dr. Groth and ask him about Cameron
if you'd like.
Glen
|
323.1515 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:13 | 2 |
| Glen, once upon a time the APA said that homosexuality is a disorder.
Now they say it's not. Why do you think their word is fact?
|
323.1516 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:15 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1515 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>
| Glen, once upon a time the APA said that homosexuality is a disorder.
| Now they say it's not. Why do you think their word is fact?
Because through their trials and errors of trying to correct
homosexuality (electric shock therapy, etc), they found that it was not
a mental disorder. So when they say it, they have the past to show them
what they say is true.
Glen
|
323.1517 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:22 | 33 |
| <<< Note 323.1512 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
> back, at how wrong we are because of them.
I listed them. Once. Period.
Who has been doing the rambling?
And the stats that you have decided are the whole issue were
merely a small part of a larger preponderance of support showing
that one particular lifestyle is riskier than another. Quotes
from gay leadership, gay columnists, Mel White. After that the
issue of the Red Cross was raised. And the issue of the increased
exposure to health risks inherent in anal sex. Focusing on a
limited set of questionable statistics at the expense of the real
issue for the sake of making public debating points is nothing
short of sticking one's head in the sand.
> Actually, the reason I asked is you say you don't work on Mondays, and
>so you don't respond to anything until Tuesday.
This seems like a rather desperate straw... Of course, if you
read for comprehension (boy, a lot of people are telling you
this lately) you would know what I said. I can refresh you:
.998>> Where did you get these numbers, Joe?
>
> Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be
> back to work on Tuesday. Remind me.
The fact that that entry was made on a Sunday might have given
you a clue that I sometimes write here from home too.
|
323.1518 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:24 | 13 |
| RE: .1512 Glen
Joe // Nope. Just some of the things they do are sick.
/ Like what?
Like what, indeed. I've never heard of a single sexual act done
by some gays that isn't also done by some heterosexuals.
What consenting adults choose to do in their private love lives
isn't anyone else's business. Why do you suppose some folks go
to such lengths to speculate as to how 'sick' another person's
private love life might be?
|
323.1519 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:25 | 6 |
| re .1516
ANd what's to say that further research might encourage them
to change their position yet again? After all, they've been
wrong in the past. How do we know that they really have it
right now?
|
323.1520 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:26 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1518 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>
> Like what, indeed. I've never heard of a single sexual act done
> by some gays that isn't also done by some heterosexuals.
And this has already been answered, many times already, with:
"Pigs is pigs."
|
323.1521 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:29 | 6 |
| RE: .1520 Joe Oppelt
Well, then, you agree that heterosexuals do things you regard
as 'sick'.
Thank you.
|
323.1522 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:31 | 34 |
| Joe,
You are right, some people should just know where their place is and
keep quiet. A police force in Philadelphia recently demonstrated how
dangerous it is for a black to drive a new luxury vehicle, even when
you can afford it.
DEA currier profiles demonstrate how dangerous it is to be black or
hispanic and have cash or a rental car. The ACLU still has to help
quash insisting that certain peoples have to act or look a certain way,
or they must have criminal intent.
Cracker Barrell demonstrated that it is not good to look or act
androgenous. The people they fired's only real sin was to look "femme"
or "butch" or to have someone say they looked or acted gay.
Several people in this state were murdered and injured by a man who
walked into a bar with an (illegal) automatic weapon and the murderer
got away with 10 months on a firewarms charge because these people
didn't fit a societal norm. (Goddess only know what those bikers were
planning, another toy run?)
You are right, hippies, blacks, hispanics, and anyone who isn't white
and middle class appearing with their 2.37 children have no business
acting like they are a part or society and asking to take part. Rosa
Parks should have moved when asked, people shouldn't have asked to be
served at the lunch counters when they were permitted to work in back
as cooks and dishwashers, people should never demonstrate, no matter
how just they feel their cause is.
Guess I won't see you on Satuday mornings on my end of town anymore,
right?
meg
|
323.1523 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:43 | 27 |
| <<< Note 323.1501 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Whether sexual orientation is a choice or not is irrelevent to any
> point I've brought up in this string. As far as the CRA is concerned,
> it does not protect "lifestyle" as you seem to imply. It protects
> "religion" specifically.
"Religion" being a lifestyle choice. It is certainly not a
genetic predisposition.
> I haven't danced around anything. What I see as future possibilities
> in law due to silly expansive readings of the CRA is irrelevent to the
> current discussion. I do not want to needlessly rathole this
> discussion with what I see as "possibilities".
Then why do you keep bringing it up in such an oblique manner?
> Of course, your above comments doesn't do much to promt me to
> take any time to respond. You have already determined your reaction,
> so I would consider any time spent typing in my ideas would be wasted.
I must admit that I am making certain assumptions about what
"possibilities" you are concerned about. You can correct any
misconceptions on my part by being more specific, or you can
drop this line of argument. Your choice.
Jim
|
323.1524 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:46 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.1502 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> You've extracted one snippet of my note without surrounding context
> (not to mention out of context of the ideas I've been trying to get
> across in this string).
I extracted an ill-concieved statement made by you that assigned
blame to the victims.
I merely wanted to know if your statement applied to all minorities
that "pushed" for equal treatment under the law.
Jim
|
323.1525 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:55 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1511 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> I find it curious that you bring up that era, for it perfectly
> demonstrates what Steve is saying.
So then you admit that the views expressed by you and Steve
ARE, in fact, bigotry akin to the type that Blacks were
subject to in the 50s and 60s.
Well, I guess the first process point in changing your views
is the realization that those views need changing. Good luck
on the rest of the process.
Jim
|
323.1526 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 13:59 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.1513 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
>Ideally religion shouldn't have to be included
> in the CRA. It is only there as protection against those who
> want to undermine what is already constitutionally protected.
Ideally, the CRA would have been unneccessary. The fact that
specific statuatory protections were required for certain
groups does show us that relying on the Constitution to
protect individual civil rights is not a viable option.
Jim
|
323.1527 | See the differences. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Nov 28 1995 14:00 | 10 |
|
Let's clarify it : race, we assume, is inate, at least for the
individual. religion certainly isn't - in fact, conversion is the
goal of many religions and belief systems, from Islam to the Commies
or the Baptists. We treat these two things quite differently -
there is no "separation of race and state" doctrine. Sexuality
is in-between on this co-ordinate axis, more innate than beliefs,
but less than race. Jim, do you agree at least with that ?
bb
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323.1529 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 14:08 | 20 |
| <<< Note 323.1527 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>Sexuality
> is in-between on this co-ordinate axis, more innate than beliefs,
> but less than race. Jim, do you agree at least with that ?
Frankly, no. I believe that sexual orientation is every bit as
inate as race. Mind you that this is a belief, not certain
knowledge.
I can not remember a time where I made a choice to be sexually
excited by women. It was ALWAYS so. My brother, who was Gay,
told me it was the same for him, except that his attraction
was to men.
Acting on this inate characteristic IS a choice. And I think this
is where the confusion may lie, but the attraction itself is some
thing that I believe is inborn.
Jim
|
323.1530 | You're all over the map. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Nov 28 1995 14:10 | 6 |
|
So, in that case, you reject YOUR OWN classification of this as
a lifestyle choice, and you DON'T think it should be handled like
religion, but more like race ?
bb
|
323.1531 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto | Tue Nov 28 1995 14:33 | 9 |
| > YOUR OWN classification of this as a lifestyle choice,
Bzzzt. Not that Jim isn't perfectly capable of handling this, but his
point was that this issue is moot- whether ANYONE sees it as a 'choice'
of behavior or not, BOTH types of situations are covered by the Civil
Rights Act of 1964. That he has a personal belief about the situation
doesn't invalidate his analysis.
DougO
|
323.1532 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 14:44 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1530 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> -< You're all over the map. >-
Not at all. In previous generations of this discussion, the side
opposing opening the CRA to "lifestyle choices" needed to be
reminded that such choices were already part of the Act. It
merely seemed like a good time to reiterate the information,
> So, in that case, you reject YOUR OWN classification of this as
> a lifestyle choice, and you DON'T think it should be handled like
> religion, but more like race ?
I have never classified homosexuality as a lifestyle choice.
You may wnat to go back and re-read my postings a bit more
carefully.
Jim
|
323.1533 | Is it really ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Nov 28 1995 15:17 | 21 |
|
Well, as you know, I would personally never use a pretentious
newspeak euphemism like "lifestyle choices" - it was a quote from
you. Sorry if your usage was also a quote.
Pardon me for skepticism, but I admit I have no idea what "causes"
sexual attraction, and I doubt you do either.
Race and gender are observable, mostly, and determinable by test.
We in the USA have all sorts of special rules for those with special
genes. But there's no way to decide if you're a Methodist unless
you help, and no way to tell if you're gay. Since it's just your
statement, it falls, at least in that respect, into the same
category, like occupation, etc.
It was precisely this fact which Colin Powell used as the basis for
his opposition to Clinton at the beginning of the term. Like all
soldiers, Powell mostly only cares about practical situations. It
comes down to this : it's not like race at all, in real life.
bb
|
323.1534 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 15:27 | 53 |
| | <<< Note 323.1517 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
| > back, at how wrong we are because of them.
| I listed them. Once. Period.
You know, you and your word games. You kept alluding to the figures in
your notes, asking me to address them, etc. Is that better? Of course I see you
haven't addressed the issues as of yet. But maybe further down the line you
did.
| And the stats that you have decided are the whole issue were merely a small
| part of a larger preponderance of support showing that one particular
| lifestyle is riskier than another.
The stats from Cameron were proven false. The stuff from the Hart book
was taken out of context. End result, the article is trash.
| Quotes from gay leadership, gay columnists, Mel White.
Quotes, like with what the CFV did with the Hart book. Show the text
and we can work with it. Showing snippets, which is all you seem to be able to
do, doesn't prove anything.
| After that the issue of the Red Cross was raised.
And addressed.
| And the issue of the increased exposure to health risks inherent in anal sex.
Yup. I saw people's opinions on that.
| Focusing on a limited set of questionable statistics
That's where you once again are proven false. Focusing on what you are
avoiding, while addressing the other stuff, was done. When you address the
distortions, then you will have done your homework. Until then, you have just
avoided it all.
| > Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be
| > back to work on Tuesday. Remind me.
| The fact that that entry was made on a Sunday might have given
| you a clue that I sometimes write here from home too.
No Joe, I was referring to how you couldn't respond last week due to
your not being in work on Monday. While we all waited until Tuesday. I had
forgotten about the other one. It just appeared that there were more games.
Glen
|
323.1535 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 15:29 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1519 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| ANd what's to say that further research might encourage them to change their
| position yet again?
Go back and read how they came to the conclusions they have now. You
will see why they won't be changing. Do some homework.
But nice avoidance of how they seem to have a different viewpoint than
you.
Glen
|
323.1536 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 15:36 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1533 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
| Race and gender are observable, mostly, and determinable by test. We in the
| USA have all sorts of special rules for those with special genes. But there's
| no way to decide if you're a Methodist unless you help, and no way to tell if
| you're gay.
If you use the test of looking at someone to determine race or gender,
you would not know if they are lefthanded, unless they did a seperate test.
Wouldn't hetro/homosexuality fall under the same catagory?
Glen
|
323.1537 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 16:15 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1533 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> Pardon me for skepticism, but I admit I have no idea what "causes"
> sexual attraction, and I doubt you do either.
As I said, it is a belief. I also said in was not actual knowledge.
There is a difference in believing something and knowing something.
My belief is based on my own personal experience and that of the
only Gay person that I knew really well.
An experiment that you can try at home. Ask yourself when you made the
DECISION to be heterosexual. If you can come up with a date, then I may
need to re-evaluate my belief.
Jim
|
323.1538 | sinister... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Nov 28 1995 16:31 | 37 |
|
Yes, lefthandedness is more what I'm thinking about. That was
Powell's argument. He knew perfectly well that if you ask, some
will lie, others won't. He was quite aware of gays in the military.
But like any engineer at Digital, an officer in the army would be
very hard pressed to say much about the colleagues in the next six
offices, beyond their names. He would know their race or gender,
but he wouldn't know their religion, their marital status. He would
be more likely to guess their age than their sexual orientation.
What this means is that, unlike blacks or women, there is no workable
systematic oppression. As a practical matter, nobody is going to
refuse a customer or applicant on this basis, because they don't know.
It would only be some sort of behavior to reveal, and that might take
quite a while. But a bias based on longterm rather than glancing
impressions are also unprovable as a bias. If I hire you for six
months, then fire you about the same time I learn you are gay, how
can you ever prove that was the reason ?
So the fundamental problem any Civil Rights Act recognition has to
face is that there's not that much you can stop, except blatant actions.
The subtle ones are pretty much hopeless. The advantage is, subtlety
takes time. By the time I find out my tenant is gay, I may know more
than just a category about them, and a decision to end the lease will
not be just a gut reaction.
All of which is a long way of saying I disagree with Jim, not because
I think gayness isn't genetic (I admit I don't know), but because the
wrenching displacements, inefficiencies, and hardships the whole
country is put through to suppress our racial prejudice, is less
warranted in this much milder case. And the more we extend the
categories, the more meaningless become the definitions. I'm sorry,
quote all the so-called sociologists you want, you'll never get me to
believe dislike of gays is the same sort of evil as race hatred has
been in America. It is to compare a boulder to a mountain.
bb
|
323.1539 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 28 1995 16:42 | 18 |
| As far as firing someone, one would think you would have followed the
standard corrective actions, like verbal warnings, written warnings and
what have you, as any employer large enough to come under the CRA does.
A case in CO that was one on wrongful firing because of a persons
legal, off premisis activities, was won, largely because shortly before
the firing the person had had a sterling performance appraisal and a
record of good performace for the 18 months he worked for the company.
He was fired shortly after he requested leave to care for his sick
partner, who happened to be dying of AIDS, (this person remians
HIV-free to this day). Fortunately Colorado had a "smoker's rights"
bill which states employees cannot be fired for legal activities off
the job, and consensual relations between adults is legal. Be
interesting to watch if it gets appealed. The company that lost the
case happens to be a law firm specializing in labor disputes.
meg
|
323.1540 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 16:42 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.1538 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
| but he wouldn't know their religion, their marital status. He would
| be more likely to guess their age than their sexual orientation.
Guess is a key word. If anyone acts, or looks like they are gay, then
there are problems. Cracker Barrel used this way of doing things. But what you
fail to see is all it takes is a couple of questions, and one will know if
another is gay, religious, etc. Should the person lie? Don't ask, don't tell is
workable if one were to lie. If someone asks if you're dating someone, how do
you answer? Truthfully would be best. Yes, I am. (if the person is) Then comes
the next question, "what's her name?" At that point, you're screwed. Do you
lie? There are countless scenerios where this type of stuff comes up. In the
military, at work, etc. What happens when 2 guys, or 2 women look for a 1
bedroom apartment? Do you think people won't wonder? Some will ask, some will
use the Cracker Barrel method and assume. Either way, it comes out easily
enough without anyone having to walk up and say, "Hi, I Glen. I am gay."
Glen
|
323.1541 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 16:45 | 57 |
| <<< Note 323.1534 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| > You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
>| > back, at how wrong we are because of them.
>
>| I listed them. Once. Period.
>
> You know, you and your word games. You kept alluding to the figures in
>your notes, asking me to address them, etc. Is that better?
I kept asking you to address .1080. I'm sure you remember that.
And you said you would but haven't.
> The stats from Cameron were proven false.
Were they? I've only seen a report that criticized his methods
and claims a small sample size. How do you know that his sample
size realls was what they claimed?
Do you have statics that disprove Camerons? I've already asked
for that from you.
How exactly were Cameron's stats proven false?
>| Quotes from gay leadership, gay columnists, Mel White.
>
> Show the text and we can work with it.
I provided sources. Show me they were taken out of context.
Without that you are just blowing hot air.
>| After that the issue of the Red Cross was raised.
>
> And addressed.
Insufficient. You provided an opinion -- a GUESS (emphasis
yours) by some nurse.
In spite of that, the Red Cross continues to discard blood
from high-risk profiles. They seem to know something about
risk that you are unable to accept.
>| And the issue of the increased exposure to health risks inherent in anal sex.
>
> Yup. I saw people's opinions on that.
Biological, verifiable, documented fact.
You are the one insisting on 'education', yet when faced with
this touchy subject that perhaps hits a little too close to home,
you choose to bury your head in the sand.
> No Joe, I was referring to how you couldn't respond last week due to
> your not being in work on Monday. While we all waited until Tuesday.
Poor baby. You had to wait. I don't dial in every day.
You'll just have to live with that.
|
323.1542 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 17:06 | 58 |
| | <<< Note 323.1541 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > You know, you and your word games. You kept alluding to the figures in
| >your notes, asking me to address them, etc. Is that better?
| I kept asking you to address .1080. I'm sure you remember that.
More diversions away from the Hart stuff. Gee, for one who was gun ho
on not letting the source be the determining factor, you certainly have slid
behind a rock on this one.
| > The stats from Cameron were proven false.
| Were they? I've only seen a report that criticized his methods and claims a
| small sample size. How do you know that his sample size realls was what they
| claimed?
Did you read the 2nd note put in the gay topic? It even has sources.
Now you can do your homework.
| Do you have statics that disprove Camerons?
They are listed by the authors who had their studies taken out of
context, by articles listed in the stuff that was posted. Go read for yourself.
Talk to Groth. Let Nick tell you what he knows about Cameron. Write the APA.
| How exactly were Cameron's stats proven false?
You've stated sample size is important, so 42 is pretty small. He has
had authors tell him that he took their studies out of context. The APA bounced
him. Not credible if ya ask me. The stats can't be taken as fact when his
methods are proven wrong.
| I provided sources. Show me they were taken out of context.
| Without that you are just blowing hot air.
This coming from someone who won't go check the sources from the APA,
Groth himself, etc. Yup...
| In spite of that, the Red Cross continues to discard blood from high-risk
| profiles. They seem to know something about risk that you are unable to
| accept.
Uh huh... I hope you're still here when I get the info I requested.
| You are the one insisting on 'education', yet when faced with this touchy
| subject that perhaps hits a little too close to home, you choose to bury your
| head in the sand.
It ain't a touchy subject. But you knew that.
| Poor baby. You had to wait. I don't dial in every day.
| You'll just have to live with that.
Just more of your games, that's all.
Glen
|
323.1543 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 17:08 | 38 |
| <<< Note 323.1540 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Guess is a key word. If anyone acts, or looks like they are gay, then
> there are problems. Cracker Barrel used this way of doing things.
'Used' is the keyword here. All of your examples are ones from
the past. Look at .1420. You are going back 50 years for
examples.
Perhaps you can give us some 'uses' examples instead of 'used'
ones.
>fail to see is all it takes is a couple of questions, and one will know if
>another is gay, religious, etc. Should the person lie?
Is saying 'none of your business' a lie?
You should practice that. Here are some others:
'That's personal.'
'That's private.'
'Why does it matter?'
'No coment.'
>If someone asks if you're dating someone, how do
>you answer? Truthfully would be best. Yes, I am. (if the person is) Then comes
>the next question, "what's her name?" At that point, you're screwed.
Straw man. (Is that a sexist term?)
What if you were only dating your palm? Would you tell them
that too? (I say that tongue-in-cheek, but in reality the same
logic on both sides of the debate could be applied to a compulsive
masturbator. Hey, what he does in his private life is not my
concern, but what if he wanted his lifestyle choice to be affirmed
by society. Are you suggesting that we should cheer the wankers
parades, and have a special month devoted to the great figures
in history who were avid masturbators?)
|
323.1544 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Tue Nov 28 1995 17:30 | 46 |
| | <<< Note 323.1543 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| 'Used' is the keyword here. All of your examples are ones from the past.
Joe, any example that is ever used is from the past, unless someone can
really see into the future.
| Look at .1420. You are going back 50 years for examples.
Yeah, the old focus in on one thing and dismiss the other stuff. Great
ploy the CFV uses, too. I guess the other examples listed are 50 years ago. Uh
huh.
| Is saying 'none of your business' a lie?
Oh yeah.... it makes perfect sense to just say it's none of your
business. Great way to make friends, great way to make others think you're
hiding something. Your other examples fall into the same sad catagory.
| >If someone asks if you're dating someone, how do
| >you answer? Truthfully would be best. Yes, I am. (if the person is) Then comes
| >the next question, "what's her name?" At that point, you're screwed.
| Straw man. (Is that a sexist term?)
Strawman? How?
| What if you were only dating your palm? Would you tell them that too?
| (I say that tongue-in-cheek, but in reality the same logic on both sides of
| the debate could be applied to a compulsive masturbator.
There is no logic in that, Joe. You don't date your hand.
| Are you suggesting that we should cheer the wankers parades, and have a
| special month devoted to the great figures in history who were avid
| masturbators?)
When you find some logic, please feel free to use it.
Another thing crossed my mind. Here you are, hopping on the Cameron
proof bandwagon, yet you won't address the other stuff about the Hart. Why is
that?
Glen
|
323.1545 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 17:45 | 68 |
| <<< Note 323.1542 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> More diversions away from the Hart stuff.
I answered you in .1473. You just don't like the answer and
now choose to beat a dead horse.
>| > The stats from Cameron were proven false.
>
>| Were they?
>
> Did you read the 2nd note put in the gay topic? It even has sources.
>Now you can do your homework.
Not a single source shows that the stats are false. There is
a CLAIM that he used a small sample size, but nothing to support
that.
The Cameron has serious doubt cast upon him, but his stats
have not truly been proven false.
>| Do you have statics that disprove Camerons?
>
> They are listed by the authors who had their studies taken out of
>context, by articles listed in the stuff that was posted. Go read for yourself.
>Talk to Groth. Let Nick tell you what he knows about Cameron. Write the APA.
Cameron's STATISTICS were from his own studies. The claim
against his STATISTICS regard his methods and samples. They
are not a function of misquoting someone else. The misquote
issues are only valid to cast further doubt on Cameron himself.
> You've stated sample size is important, so 42 is pretty small.
How do you know that the alleged sample size is true? I've asked
this several times now.
> He has had authors tell him that he took their studies out of context.
> The APA bounced him.
What does that have to do with the statistics?
>| I provided sources. Show me they were taken out of context.
>| Without that you are just blowing hot air.
>
> This coming from someone who won't go check the sources from the APA,
You're the one making the claims that they are out of context.
In addition, I really don't care about Cameron. I've moved on
from his stuff except to hold you to consistency in your demand
for support and documentation. I don't need Cameron make my point.
The Red Cross does that for me. So I don't need to research the
sources for/against him. But if you intend to be consistent and
require accuracy and verification, it is inherent upon you to
support your claims or to drop your same requirements of others.
As it stands now, you are making the claims. 1) Cameron's
statistics are false. 2) The quotes from gay leaders and
authors were taken out of context.
So what is your proof?
> Just more of your games, that's all.
Looks like it, huh? So tell us what it's like to be on the
losing side of the board so much... You sure complain about
it enough!
|
323.1546 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Tue Nov 28 1995 17:52 | 27 |
| <<< Note 323.1544 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Joe, any example that is ever used is from the past, unless someone can
>really see into the future.
Semantics. Show me some current cases.
>| Is saying 'none of your business' a lie?
>
> Oh yeah.... it makes perfect sense to just say it's none of your
>business. Great way to make friends, great way to make others think you're
>hiding something.
My my. What a touchy conscience you have.
Personally I would EXPECT an answer of 'none of your business',
for in most circumstances I have no business at all asking.
Yes, it DOES make perfect sense.
And if you're talking about friends, I wouldn't be interested in
'friends' who wouldn't respect my privacy. If they are put off
by my suggestion of 'noyb', then I'm better off without them.
> There is no logic in that, Joe. You don't date your hand.
Of course, then, you missed the point entirely.
|
323.1547 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Nov 28 1995 18:05 | 63 |
| <<< Note 323.1538 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> What this means is that, unlike blacks or women, there is no workable
> systematic oppression. As a practical matter, nobody is going to
> refuse a customer or applicant on this basis, because they don't know.
Mere suspicion is enough and has been upheld by the courts as
sufficient cause to refuse to hire a person.
A case was posted in this file about a qualified teacher applying
for a job. The Administrator's secretary thought the applicant
was Gay and told the Administrator. The person was refused the
job on that basis. There was no admission on the part of the
applicant and there was no proof that the applicant was Gay.
In point of fact he was not. But the courts ruled that the school
was within their rights not to hire him.
Then you have the Cracker Barrel resturant incident where all the
known or suspected Gays were fired, soley on the basis of their
sexual orientation. Also held up by the courts.
Such injustices need to be dealt with in the stautes. The CRA
is the most likely place to make that change.
>If I hire you for six
> months, then fire you about the same time I learn you are gay, how
> can you ever prove that was the reason ?
Because you tell me. There is nothing in the law today that
says you can not.
Are you willing to argue that this is right and proper?
> So the fundamental problem any Civil Rights Act recognition has to
> face is that there's not that much you can stop, except blatant actions.
> The subtle ones are pretty much hopeless.
The same can be said for all the other categories that are currently
covered under the law. Yet it would be hard to argue that the CRA
has not had a positive effect on those that are protected.
>And the more we extend the
> categories, the more meaningless become the definitions.
Personally, I think this would be a good thing. Imagine a society
where people are treated for what they accomplish, what they can
contribute, how they behave. Rather than one that continues to
discriminate against certain classes of people on the basis of
some preconceived baseless predjudice.
> I'm sorry,
> quote all the so-called sociologists you want, you'll never get me to
> believe dislike of gays is the same sort of evil as race hatred has
> been in America. It is to compare a boulder to a mountain.
Obviously we disagree. The predjudice is exactly the same. It has
exactly the same negative effect on individuals. And the arguments
that are used to support this bigotry are, word for word, the same
as those used to justify the suppression of racial minorities in
times past.
Jim
|
323.1548 | sorry for the length, but I felt some clarification was in order | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Nov 28 1995 18:12 | 198 |
| re: .1509
> >You are making a moral judgement here.
> :^) :^) :^) :^) I'm not the only one, Steve.
True enough. 8^) But I believe (as obviously you do) that some
judgement calls have to be made. We simply disagree on what the right
call is. My judgement is based on morality that I believe to be set up
by God, and has been reinforced since long before the colonies became a
nation (by law, and by traditional moral teachings that is
well-ingrained into the fabric of this nation).
Our history has everything to do with why homosexual relations are
considered deviant by most. Even though the Bible believing Christians
make up a much smaller % of the population than they did at the time
our Constitution was ratified (the numbers on this that I have are
99.5% of the population at this time were Bible-believing Christians of
some form, while most of the remainder were Jews), society still has a
few untoppled moral dominoes.
> So, while you do not "insist" that gays remain in the closet, you *will*
> resist them if they seek a more equitable status.
----------------
As citizens of the US, all are equal under the law. I believe this is
a strawman argument on your part. Of course, I do not consider deviant
sexual attractions as a good reason (whether genetic or not) to define
a minority nor change laws (speaking particularly about marriage laws
and legal definition of family).
> Yeah, just as it was a "given" that whites don't like to live with
> blacks.
Some don't. This too is reality.
> But that changed, as people refused to accept it as a "given",
> as people exercised the moral courage to fight that "given".
Things are changing, yes. However, there is still much racism- perhaps
more than in the 50's, though certainly of a different variety
(less outward hostility). It is still a given, though, that some white
folk don't want to live with black folk. It's a shame, but it is true
nontheless. [FWIW, the reverse is also true in many cases.
Bigotry works both ways.]
> >You seem to think that any resistence to public acceptance of a lifestyle,
> >can be equated to trying to force gays to stay in the closet.
> Lack of public acceptance will have the effect of coercing some gays to
> remain in the closet, and will make life difficult for those who do not.
> The end speaks volumes about the means.
So my above statement was a correct analysis of your view, more or
less. You are, therefore, encouraging any activist group, who
identifies themselves by sexual preference, to be able force society to
accept and protect their behavior? To be able to identify themselves as a
minority?
> >This will not change the way people feel about such relations.
> However, standing up and saying "Such relations are okay. I *accept*
> such relations." might change the way people feel.
But to most of society, such relations ARE NOT okay, and are NOT
acceptable. You are suggesting that society should humor deviant
behaivor, calling it 'okay/normal', just to make folks feel better
about themselves.
Sorry, I don't do this for heterosexuals (pre-marital sex), nor will I
compromise my morals for homosexuals by doing this.
> Saying "Society
> should not accept such relations" perpetuates the problem.
Just maybe the problem is not with society? Maybe society is rightly
protecting its collective moral base. It has that right to define what
it considers family and proper relations.
> Ahhh. Bugs you, doesn't it? To be lumped in with Benny Hinn or
> Jack Van Impe or Jack Bakker or Jerry Falwell. So why do you think
> it bugs gays any less, to be judged along with Nerf ball murderers
> or practitioners of fisting?
As I said, it is pretty much the same thing. I am not doing the
lumping here, though, only suggesting that certain outspoken gay activist
groups are not helping public opinion any.
> No, you are right. "Insist" may have been a poorly-chosen word, but
> your position is still clear: gays are better off in the closet.
Probably so. To me, there is no real human rights issue involved in
this; so as I see it, pushing for moral acceptance from a society that
has never accepted (as a whole) homosexual relations as moral, is only
causing problems for all involved.
As it stands, the only real things that homosexuals cannot do is
legally marry. They can live together as mates, however, and no one is
trying to stop them (and some companies are even allowing partnerships
of this sort to be equal to marriage for insurance purposes).
I think the job situation is blown out of proportion- on average gays make
more money that their het. counterparts, according to a couple of studies
that I have seen. I don't think that the problem is big enough to warrent
legislation to cover. As society's mindset changes, so will this
situation. Besides, in most cases, I think there is some legal
recourse if you are fired ONLY for being gay. Most corporations have
such conditions in their policies that do not allow firing someone just
because of their sexual orientation (I believe Digital is amoung
them).
The housing issue is a strawman. The only cases I've ever heard about
had to do with small-time renters who were religious and didn't want to
rent to gay couples for religious reasons. They should have this
right, IMO.
> Whatever happens if they come out is their own fault, as it was *their*
> choice to come out.
Your words, not mine. Coming out may have consequences, yes, and by
coming out one does take that chance. However, this in no way means that
I condone actions taken against gay individuals (like bashing) simply
because they are gay. When society is morally geared 180% from your
position, expect to take some guff when you announce that you not only
disagree, but will flaunt your disagreement in public.
Responsibility does not lie solely in the one coming out, of course, as
those who react must take responsibility for their own actions. Giving
them a target is the responsibility one has to take when
announcing to the world that you deviate from accepted norms.
Think of it this way: I'm a Christian. I go to an atheistic nation,
known to be hostile to Christianity, determined to share my faith. I
must accept the responsibility for putting myself at risk. If I were
beaten, the one doing the beating is ultimately responsible for his
actions, but I did knowingly put myself in harms way to begin with. I am
partly responsible, since I could have kept quiet (knowing that this
particular country hated Christians) and avoided all problems.
So, if you want to further your cause by coming out, fine. But you
can't choose to come out and blame everyone else for reacting
negatively when you already know that most do not accept your relations
as being moral or acceptable. If you are beaten, you can be a martyr
for the cause, a rallying point for your peers to help push your cause
forward. All social changes have potential to be personally costly to
the ones pushing it- right or wrong. Don't expect a free ride when
trying to change society.
Does this help to clarify my point a bit about "fault"?
> You call it "force-fit[ting]". I say that we're not fooled by the
> surgical use of language. "I have no problem with gays, it's the
> *behaviour* that I find repugnant, it's the *lifstyle* I won't accept,
> it's the *agenda* I will oppose" is a bogus rationalization. They are
> as intertwined as crime and criminal. No crime? No criminal. No
> criminal? No crime.
I disagree. Hate the sin, but love the sinner. I cannot ever condone
sin, not even my own (especially not my own). Do not expect me to. I
can honestly love a person who happens to be a homosexual, this in no
way means that I condone or otherwise approve of a lifestyle, political
agenda or behavior.
A more down to earth (and personal) example deals with my sister. She
slept with her husband before she married him...lived with him in fact.
I most certainly did not accept this lifestyle as moral or acceptable
in any way. Does this mean that I didn't love my sister (then or now)?
Of course not. That love never changed, though it hurt me to see her
live in sin.
I veiw homosexual relations in the same light. It hurts me to see
people wasting their lives in what I see as living in sin the Bible
calls an abomination. Though my argument is not dependent upon the
Bible, it is certainly more than a consideration to me in my personal
views.
I view the homosexual agenda not so much as a threat to society (though
this may be true enough on a spiritual level, according to the Bible),
but as being a complete disservice to homosexuals. If homosexual
relations are indeed sinful (and it is, according to the once revered
American moral guide), then accepting it- rationalizing it as being no
different (morally) than proper marriage- is harmful to society as a whole
and homosexuals specifically (encouraging sin...just like many TV
programs encourage debauchery and promiscuity.
I realize that this takes the discussion from "societal sensibilites
and/or morality" to Biblical morality specificaly; but I feel that by
expanding a bit on my views, you may get a better understanding of where
I'm coming from. My arguments seem to be viewed as hostile and/or
uncaring, but that is far from the truth. It is because I do care that
I argue/fight so vehemently against the homosexual agenda. The
secondary reasons are the inevitable fallout (that I see) that will come
of this agenda, if all of it makes its way into legislation.
"In the latter days they shall call good evil and evil good."
-steve
|
323.1549 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Nov 28 1995 18:55 | 16 |
| Gee thanks Steve,
You sound just like my grandfather did on the subjects of H Rap Brown,
malcom X, Cesar Chavez, Martin Luther King, and a host of others in the
60's and '70's whose main "sin" was to fight for better living
standards for their identifiable groups.
Oh yes, he did use the same book you use to justify this.
Oh it was Cameron who came up with the income statistic (from his
ISIS83 study, no doubt. When it was pointed out that actually the
income levels for most gays and lesbian couples were much lower he
turned arund and said it was because they were morally and
intellectually deficient, and suitable for only some jobs in the main.
meg
|
323.1550 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 07:05 | 89 |
| <<< Note 323.1548 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> As citizens of the US, all are equal under the law. I believe this is
> a strawman argument on your part. Of course, I do not consider deviant
> sexual attractions as a good reason (whether genetic or not) to define
> a minority nor change laws (speaking particularly about marriage laws
> and legal definition of family).
Steve, Do you beleive that not hiring someomone because they are
THOUGHT to be Gay is just?
Do you believe that firing someone because they are or are thought
to be Gay is just?
Do you believe that denying a person housing, or the use of a
public accomodation foir this same reason is just?
You say that all are equal, but the opnly one you are fooling
is yourself. Gays can be denied simply for being Gay. They suffer
this penalty WITHIN THE CURRENT LAW. A pewnalty that you CAN NOT
suffer for being a Christian, that a Black can not suffer for being
Black, or a woman can not suffer for being a woman.
How can you call this equal?
>> Yeah, just as it was a "given" that whites don't like to live with
>> blacks.
> Some don't. This too is reality.
You talk a lot about "reality". Why not address the issue of right
and wrong. Or is it your intention to justify your sexual bigotry
by pointing to those that still are racial bigots? Saying, "See,
I'm not the only one".
> As it stands, the only real things that homosexuals cannot do is
> legally marry.
They can be denied jobs, or they can be fired and the courts will
not protect them. They can be denied housing and the courts will
not protect them. I can operate a store and refuse entry to a
person that I may suspect is Gay and the courts will not protect
them. There is far more than just the issue of civil marriage to
be considered.
>Besides, in most cases, I think there is some legal
> recourse if you are fired ONLY for being gay.
You are wrong.
> Most corporations have
> such conditions in their policies that do not allow firing someone just
> because of their sexual orientation (I believe Digital is amoung
> them).
An individual company can set policies to protect Gays, but this
does not have the force of law. And that policy can be eliminated
in a heartbeat and Gays would have no recourse at all.
> Think of it this way: I'm a Christian. I go to an atheistic nation,
> known to be hostile to Christianity, determined to share my faith. I
> must accept the responsibility for putting myself at risk. If I were
> beaten, the one doing the beating is ultimately responsible for his
> actions, but I did knowingly put myself in harms way to begin with. I am
> partly responsible, since I could have kept quiet (knowing that this
> particular country hated Christians) and avoided all problems.
If asked, would you lie about being a Christian? Would you deny it
if someone made the assupmtion that you were Christian? Would it
still be "your fault" if someone made that assumption and you
decidedto tell the truth?
> So, if you want to further your cause by coming out, fine. But you
> can't choose to come out and blame everyone else for reacting
> negatively when you already know that most do not accept your relations
> as being moral or acceptable. If you are beaten, you can be a martyr
> for the cause, a rallying point for your peers to help push your cause
> forward. All social changes have potential to be personally costly to
> the ones pushing it- right or wrong. Don't expect a free ride when
> trying to change society.
> Does this help to clarify my point a bit about "fault"?
It certainly does. It puts you squarely on the side of the cops that
sent their dogs after the marchers in Birmingham, or the Nightriders
that burned Black churches. Maybe James Earl Ray will put you on
his Christmas card list.
Jim
|
323.1551 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 09:05 | 23 |
| re: .1544
| 'Used' is the keyword here. All of your examples are ones from the past.
> Joe, any example that is ever used is from the past, unless someone can
>really see into the future.
This is called avoidance. Joe was asking for recent examples (the
Cracker Barrel incident is not very recent, and has been quite
overused). If this is such a huge problem that needs federal
legislation, how about giving us a few recent (1995) examples.
| Are you suggesting that we should cheer the wankers parades, and have a
| special month devoted to the great figures in history who were avid
| masturbators?)
> When you find some logic, please feel free to use it.
He did, you simply missed his point.
-steve
|
323.1552 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 09:18 | 12 |
| re: .1549
You don't realize how much you cheapen the efforts of those who have
fought for race equality, by connecting their efforts with the
homosexual agenda. Race and lifestyle in no way, shape, or form, are
equal.
Besides, homosexuals/lesbians are NOT an identifiable group, as you
seem to assert.
-steve
|
323.1553 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 29 1995 09:45 | 10 |
| Steve,
what you don't want to realize is inequality is inequality. Whether
it is race, gender, religion (or lack thereof), or orientation.
If gays are not identifieable, then what is your issue in the first
place? why should they be singled out as the one group in the country
without equal rights?
meg
|
323.1554 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 09:49 | 19 |
| <<< Note 323.1552 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> You don't realize how much you cheapen the efforts of those who have
> fought for race equality, by connecting their efforts with the
> homosexual agenda. Race and lifestyle in no way, shape, or form, are
> equal.
And you don't realize how much you defecate on their struggle
when you use the same rhetoric that was used by their opponents
against a different minority population.
> Besides, homosexuals/lesbians are NOT an identifiable group, as you
> seem to assert.
"Physically identifiable"? No. But every bit as identifiable
as someone claiming to be "Christian". I knew there was a
reason that I made that point earlier.
Jim
|
323.1555 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 09:57 | 99 |
| re: .1550
>Steve, Do you beleive that not hiring someomone because they are
> THOUGHT to be Gay is just?
I guess it comes down to what kind of job this person is applying for.
Selective hiring (like in the case of Hooters- only physically
attractive females need apply) is not always a consciously evil act, but
something done to insure business success.
Whether you or I feel it is just is irrelevent. In most cases, I would
probably agree with you that it is not- but not in every situation.
Things are not alway so black and white as you would try to make them.
> Do you believe that firing someone because they are or are thought
> to be Gay is just?
No. If they were hired, then I feel that they should only be fired via
performance problems.
> Do you believe that denying a person housing, or the use of a
> public accomodation foir this same reason is just?
Depends on the details, but for the most part, no. I also believe that
this is not a significant problem that requires legislation.
> You say that all are equal, but the opnly one you are fooling
> is yourself. Gays can be denied simply for being Gay. They suffer
> this penalty WITHIN THE CURRENT LAW. A pewnalty that you CAN NOT
> suffer for being a Christian, that a Black can not suffer for being
> Black, or a woman can not suffer for being a woman.
You show an ignorance of the one point that I have been trying to make
all along. Homosexuality IS NOT EQUAL to race, sex or religion. It is
a deviant lifestyle that is not morally acceptable to society (at least
currently). Trying to turn this into a human rights issue is an
obfuscation of the basic principles of "rights". Not all lifestyles
are valued, nor are all behaviors acceptable. Society has no
obligation to legally condone all lifestyles.
In short, sexual preference does not a minority make, at least in any
legal sense, nor should it be given such status. This is the crux of
our disagreement.
> You talk a lot about "reality". Why not address the issue of right
> and wrong.
I have. You aren't listening.
> Or is it your intention to justify your sexual bigotry
> by pointing to those that still are racial bigots? Saying, "See,
> I'm not the only one".
You read my entire .1548, and you still come up with "sexual bigotry"?
I thought your reading comprehension level better than that, Jim.
Although I didn't expenct agreement, I did expect better than name
calling.
> They can be denied jobs, or they can be fired and the courts will
> not protect them. They can be denied housing and the courts will
> not protect them. I can operate a store and refuse entry to a
> person that I may suspect is Gay and the courts will not protect
> them. There is far more than just the issue of civil marriage to
> be considered.
You keep bringing this up, but you fail to give any recent examples of
such discrimination. You have not convinced me that this is a problem
worthy of the legislation that is proposed.
> It certainly does. It puts you squarely on the side of the cops that
> sent their dogs after the marchers in Birmingham, or the Nightriders
> that burned Black churches. Maybe James Earl Ray will put you on
> his Christmas card list.
Nonsense. This bit of hysterics is unbecoming of you, Jim...or maybe
not. You continually bring up the "bigot" strawman, so I begin to
wonder. Is it just the inability to communicate, or have you lost the
ability to look at the other side of an issue objectively? You don't
have to agree with me, but equating me to a racist is ridiculous and
insulting.
I do discriminate on behaviors. Homosexual relations will always be
considered immoral by me, and I will do my best to keep society from
condoning it. As I HAVE ALREADY SAID (more than once), I do not agree
that firing someone just because they are gay, is a good thing. I HAVE
ALREADY SAID that discrimination against gay people in housing (outside
the private small-time owner) is not a good thing. I HAVE ALREADY SAID
that discrimination in hiring (for most jobs) is not a good thing (all
else being equal).
But that's okay, Jim. Ignore what I've said. Ignore the parts of my
note that shows I do care, and label me as you will. Your logical
reasoning, that I've come to expect from your notes, seems to be
limited on this issue- giving up ground to emotionalism.
-steve
|
323.1556 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 10:12 | 22 |
| Meg, (.1553)
This is the whole point. They are not a specific group, and as such,
they cannot be "singled out" as the one group who does not have equal
rights.. Homosexuals are black, white, hispanic, male, female, etc.,
and as such, they do have the same rights as everyone esle. What they do
not have is a societal acceptance of their lifestyle, and it is this
very thing that causes the problems.
If inequality is inequality, as you say, then why don't we allow
pedophiles to be protected. They probably have some genetic
predisposition, too. Why not allow Mormons to have more than one
spouse? Why not allow bigamy? Why not allow bestiality as a protected
right?
No, your inequality argument holds no water in this case. Society has
every right to set values for itself. If these values make certain
groups (who go against those values) uncomfortable, then that's tough
noogies.
-steve
|
323.1557 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 10:14 | 72 |
| <<< Note 323.1555 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> You show an ignorance of the one point that I have been trying to make
> all along.
So it is your dertermination that I am ignorant because I do not
agree with you? Not much of an argument there Steve.
> Homosexuality IS NOT EQUAL to race, sex or religion. It is
> a deviant lifestyle that is not morally acceptable to society (at least
> currently).
Stating your opinion as some sort of fact is also very poor
technique.
> Trying to turn this into a human rights issue is an
> obfuscation of the basic principles of "rights".
Discussing people that have been denied jobs, or housing or
the use of public accomodations is most certainly a "rights"
issue. Your feeble attempts to claim that there is equal
treatment is not obsfucation, it's an outright lie.
> You keep bringing this up, but you fail to give any recent examples of
> such discrimination. You have not convinced me that this is a problem
> worthy of the legislation that is proposed.
THe most recent case in this file was posted by Oppelt. It involved
the teacher that was not hired because he was THOUGHT to be Gay.
That was about a year ago. Trying to divert the discussion because
there hasn't been a case that happened yesterday is truly obsfucation.
> Nonsense. This bit of hysterics is unbecoming of you, Jim...or maybe
> not. You continually bring up the "bigot" strawman, so I begin to
> wonder. Is it just the inability to communicate, or have you lost the
> ability to look at the other side of an issue objectively? You don't
> have to agree with me, but equating me to a racist is ridiculous and
> insulting.
It may be insulting, but after all according to you, you brought it
on yourself.
> I do discriminate on behaviors.
Bull. You discriminate against PEOPLE because of behaviors that
you ASSUME they participate in, nothing more. Again I ask you,
how many homosexual acts have you actually witnessed?
> Homosexual relations will always be
> considered immoral by me, and I will do my best to keep society from
> condoning it. As I HAVE ALREADY SAID (more than once), I do not agree
> that firing someone just because they are gay, is a good thing. I HAVE
> ALREADY SAID that discrimination against gay people in housing (outside
> the private small-time owner) is not a good thing. I HAVE ALREADY SAID
> that discrimination in hiring (for most jobs) is not a good thing (all
> else being equal).
So then why do you have such a problem in adding sexual orientation
to the CRA? These are exactly the wrongs that this piece of legislation
is designed to stop.
> But that's okay, Jim. Ignore what I've said. Ignore the parts of my
> note that shows I do care, and label me as you will. Your logical
> reasoning, that I've come to expect from your notes, seems to be
> limited on this issue- giving up ground to emotionalism.
I haven't ingored what you've said. You claim that these things are
wrong, but you resist setting them right. At best, your position is
dishonest. At worst, it the same position that a racial bigot takes
when he tells us that some of his best friends are Black.
Jim
|
323.1558 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 10:18 | 14 |
| re: .1554
>...as identifiable as "Christians"...
True enough.
Now, you have to prove that homosexuality, like religion, is deemed
beneficial- even necessary- to society. This was the original reason that
religion was specifically protected via the First Amendment.
Another strawman comparison, it would seem.
-steve
|
323.1559 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Wed Nov 29 1995 10:27 | 2 |
| Arguments have and can be made for religion being detremental to
society.
|
323.1560 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Wed Nov 29 1995 10:30 | 12 |
|
> Arguments have and can be made for religion being detremental to
> society.
and while those arguments continue society continues to proceed on it's
downward spiral.
Jim
|
323.1561 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:02 | 8 |
| Z Discussing people that have been denied jobs, or housing or
Z the use of public accomodations is most certainly a "rights"
Z issue.
Jim, I have no doubt you were denied employment due to discrimination.
Inequity is spread throughout.
-Jack
|
323.1562 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:02 | 65 |
| | <<< Note 323.1545 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > More diversions away from the Hart stuff.
| I answered you in .1473. You just don't like the answer and now choose to
| beat a dead horse.
No, what you did was say you disagree with me, but went no further.
What parts did you disagree with, Joe?
| > Did you read the 2nd note put in the gay topic? It even has sources.
| >Now you can do your homework.
| Not a single source shows that the stats are false.
Part of his stats were compiled by Dr Groth's study. Dr Groth said
Cameron took his work out of context. There is one source. It had listed
newspaper articles, Cameron being tossed by the APA (gee, there is another
source), etc. It's there, but you choose to ignore it. It's understandable.
| There is a CLAIM that he used a small sample size, but nothing to support
| that.
Check with the APA. There is a source.
| Cameron's STATISTICS were from his own studies.
Then why was Dr Groth so upset?
| What does that have to do with the statistics?
If they bounced him for producing crap, like they did, then his methods
can not be trusted.
| In addition, I really don't care about Cameron. I've moved on from his stuff
| except to hold you to consistency in your demand for support and documentation
The support is there. Go check it out. Your refusal to check with the
APA, or Dr. Groth only makes one wonder if you are really willing to prove that
it is wrong. Hell, you listed an article, and yet I had to go out and disprove
it. Taking the Hart stuff out of context, Cameron's work being trash, yet now
you want me to go off and prove this other stuff? The sources are there. And
like you have told me, go do your homework.
| The Red Cross does that for me.
You really should talk to the Red Cross. Really. Oh, not just on the
local level, either.
| 1) Cameron's statistics are false.
True.
| 2) The quotes from gay leaders and authors were taken out of context.
False. What I did say is the Hart stuff was taken out of context. But
you refuse to address it. I mean, how much time have you spent on trying to
show me that the Cameron stuff I posted is supposed to be wrong? And how much
time have you spent on the Hart stuff I posted? 1 or 2 lines, maybe? It shows a
lot, Joe. By not addressing the Hart stuff, it can show many that you know the
took the book out of context. Otherwise, why spend so much time on Cameron, and
no time on Hart? Especially when the Hart stuff is listed here?
Glen
|
323.1563 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:05 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.1546 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| My my. What a touchy conscience you have.
You forgot....according to Joe.
| Personally I would EXPECT an answer of 'none of your business', for in most
| circumstances I have no business at all asking.
Ahhh.... so you're just at work, you're just in the military, etc. You
have no friends? You NEVER discuss ANYTHING that goes on in your life?
| And if you're talking about friends, I wouldn't be interested in 'friends'
| who wouldn't respect my privacy.
The above made me laugh. Please, when you speak, try to remember that
there are people on this planet who like to associate with others? People are
not all like you?
Glen
|
323.1564 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:18 | 26 |
| <<< Note 323.1556 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> This is the whole point. They are not a specific group, and as such,
> they cannot be "singled out" as the one group who does not have equal
> rights.. Homosexuals are black, white, hispanic, male, female, etc.,
> and as such, they do have the same rights as everyone esle.
Substitute "Christian" for "Homosexuals" in the above statement.
It remains true. So how do you justify protection for yourself,
while denying it to others?
> If inequality is inequality, as you say, then why don't we allow
> pedophiles to be protected.........
I was waiting for the beginning of the "can of worms" argument.
Unfortunately, my assumptions about your worries were correct.
> No, your inequality argument holds no water in this case. Society has
> every right to set values for itself. If these values make certain
> groups (who go against those values) uncomfortable, then that's tough
> noogies.
Going to stand in the schoolhouse door to block the entrance for
all these evil people who don't know their place, eh Steve?
Jim
|
323.1565 | I understand his view - see My American Journey | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:20 | 20 |
|
But "don't ask" means "don't ask", right ?
And nyob is EXACTLY what Powell meant by "don't tell".
I believe it was in VN that CP tells of an underling who referred
to him as "n----r", and got his reply, "That's COLONEL n----r to
you, Mister !" In any event, if you aren't thick-skinned, you
won't like the military. Under fire, people won't watch their words.
The really important thing isn't being nice or fair, it's attaining
objectives first; reducing the quantity of US sausage meat, second.
You must be willing to protect those you dislike, to take risks with
the lives of those you like. In a diverse set of personnel, it makes
lots of sense to reduce this extraneous stuff. In fact, the only
reason CP gave for the difference, is that there is no way to avoid
race. If he could have, he would have. But unfortunately, you don't
have to ask about race (or gender).
bb
|
323.1566 | Pigs in Space | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:20 | 8 |
|
> Arguments have and can be made for religion being detremental to
> society.
And arguments have and can be made that pigs can fly.
/john
|
323.1567 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:21 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.1558 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Now, you have to prove that homosexuality, like religion, is deemed
> beneficial- even necessary- to society. This was the original reason that
> religion was specifically protected via the First Amendment.
We are not discussing the 1st Amendment Steve. We are discussing the
CRA. Now the reason that "religion" was added to the CRA is not
becuase it was deemed "beneficial". It was added becuase there
was evidence that certain people were being denied employment,
housing and the use of public accomodations because of their
religious beliefs.
Exactly the same situation the Gays find themselves in today.
Jim
|
323.1568 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:23 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1561 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Jim, I have no doubt you were denied employment due to discrimination.
> Inequity is spread throughout.
You'll need to expound on this one Jack. Maybe a second cup of
coffee before you do though, then it might make some sense.
Jim
|
323.1569 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:36 | 134 |
| | <<< Note 323.1548 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| As citizens of the US, all are equal under the law. I believe this is
| a strawman argument on your part.
This is where you lose it, Steve. Unless you are willing to admit that
ANY changes in ANY laws since 1776 should not have happened, then the above is
a strawman, but on your part. There are loopholes all over the place. Do you
see a problem with taking out the loopholes?
| Of course, I do not consider deviant sexual attractions as a good reason
That's just it. That's how you view it. But that isn't reality. Gay
people are just that, people. It is people who view it as just a sexual thing
that take it and screw it over. If someone is gay, and is denied a job JUST for
that reason, what kind of moral problem is there if the gay had worked there?
None. Yet you would be against a law that would prevent that from happening.
AND, as people have told you again and again, sexual orientation covers
everyone. I even put in a note in the gay topic about a case that had a
straight woman being cut because she was straight. So will you at least view
sexual orientation as what it is?
| Sorry, I don't do this for heterosexuals (pre-marital sex), nor will I
| compromise my morals for homosexuals by doing this.
The catch 22. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Gays should
not have premarrital sex. Gays can not marry.
| only suggesting that certain outspoken gay activist groups are not helping
| public opinion any.
Which one's, Steve? The group names would do.
| I think the job situation is blown out of proportion- on average gays make
| more money that their het. counterparts, according to a couple of studies
| that I have seen.
Wow..... does that mean that at a certain amount of money a person
makes, things should be done differently? That if <insert group> makes more
money than <insert any other group>, that it is ok for anyone from the richer
group to be discriminated against? Be real, Steve. The amount of money one
makes should have nothing to do with it.
And as far as the studies go, I will search for one that was
realistically based. :-)
| I don't think that the problem is big enough to warrent legislation to cover.
Did you see the note I put in about the woman who got fired cuz she was
straight? Did you see the stats they provided for cases that happened in the 2
year span? And that was just for that one area. Look at reality, please.
| Besides, in most cases, I think there is some legal recourse if you are fired
| ONLY for being gay.
So, you are saying there isn't a problem, but in the above you say you
THINK in most cases..... sorry....I can't believe you can't see the problem
here. It might be because you never really looked at it.
| Most corporations have such conditions in their policies that do not allow
| firing someone just because of their sexual orientation (I believe Digital is
| amoung them).
Digital IS among them. But please, give us a list of the big name
companies that you KNOW have this policy.
| The housing issue is a strawman. The only cases I've ever heard about had to
| do with small-time renters who were religious and didn't want to rent to gay
| couples for religious reasons.
So..... for your base, yourself, this is a strawman. This is funny. How
often have you looked into gays getting turned away, Steve?
| When society is morally geared 180% from your position,
More line 100�. :-)
| but will flaunt your disagreement in public.
Wow... you're talking about your disagreement in public right now. Do
you consider yourself to be flaunting?
| Responsibility does not lie solely in the one coming out, of course, as
| those who react must take responsibility for their own actions.
Steve, the above is PURE trash. You say that you don't condone anyone
bashing a gay person. You just said above that those who react must take
responsibility for their own actions. That's cool, too. With those two things,
it would appear that you feel a gay person should not be bashed for being gay.
But then how can you say that, but say the gay has some responsibility in the
bashing? If your belief is that no gay should be bashed for being gay, then it
can not be the gays fault AT ALL. Cuz if you feel they are at fault, then you
can't believe they shouldn't get bashed for being gay.
| Giving them a target is the responsibility one has to take when announcing to
| the world that you deviate from accepted norms.
It's thinking like this that keeps bigotry, racism, sexism, etc alive
and well.
| Think of it this way: I'm a Christian. I go to an atheistic nation,
| known to be hostile to Christianity, determined to share my faith. I
| must accept the responsibility for putting myself at risk. If I were
| beaten, the one doing the beating is ultimately responsible for his
| actions, but I did knowingly put myself in harms way to begin with. I am
| partly responsible, since I could have kept quiet (knowing that this
| particular country hated Christians) and avoided all problems.
Steve, lovely scenerio. You walk down the street, wearing a cross. Now
you're not religious, you're just stuck in the 60's. :-) You get beaten. Was it
your responsibility for wearing the cross?
People don't have to say a word to get beaten.
| But you can't choose to come out and blame everyone else for reacting
| negatively when you already know that most do not accept your relations
| as being moral or acceptable.
The above is true. But by coming out and talking, you can clear up the
misconceptions. Like I said, for *me*, everyone in my family, or any of my
friends, who I have come out to, are fine with it now. Not all of them were.
| If you are beaten, you can be a martyr for the cause, a rallying point for
| your peers to help push your cause forward.
What you just wrote speaks volumes about you.
| Does this help to clarify my point a bit about "fault"?
Oh, it clarifies it. You don't get it.
Glen
|
323.1570 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:38 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1552 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| You don't realize how much you cheapen the efforts of those who have fought
| for race equality, by connecting their efforts with the homosexual agenda.
Wow... for the other groups, you say equality. For homosexuals, you say
agenda. How nice. Equality is what is being sought. Closing the loopholes that
are out there is accomplishing this.
Glen
|
323.1571 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:39 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1552 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Besides, homosexuals/lesbians are NOT an identifiable group, as you
| seem to assert.
Sexual orientation include yourself, Steve. That's what you fail to
see.
|
323.1572 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:41 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1555 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| It is a deviant lifestyle that is not morally acceptable to society (at least
| currently).
You have avoided this quite often. I hope you address it now. When the
majority of people accept homosexuality, will you stop talking?
|
323.1573 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:44 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1566 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| -< Pigs in Space >-
HEY! That was one of the Muppetman's best things!
|
323.1574 | Bad form, Jim. | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 11:56 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1557 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>> You show an ignorance of the one point that I have been trying to make
>> all along.
>
> So it is your dertermination that I am ignorant because I do not
> agree with you? Not much of an argument there Steve.
Of course you know that Steve is not saying this at all.
|
323.1575 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:08 | 9 |
| ZZ You'll need to expound on this one Jack. Maybe a second cup of
ZZ coffee before you do though, then it might make some sense.
Easy. Have you ever been a victim of Affirmative Action programs?
You're deceived if you think you haven't. Translation, you have been
discriminated against and it is still happening today. So please stop
harping on job discrimination for gays. Poop flows everywhere.
-Jack
|
323.1576 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:22 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.1575 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Easy. Have you ever been a victim of Affirmative Action programs?
> You're deceived if you think you haven't. Translation, you have been
> discriminated against and it is still happening today. So please stop
> harping on job discrimination for gays. Poop flows everywhere.
Well, I think affirmative action is wrong. It goes against my belief
in equal treatment. But I can not honestly say that I have suffered
because of it.
Jim
|
323.1577 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:30 | 5 |
| Oh but you have. Directly or indirectly, you have. And the really sad
thing is your government sponsors it and you pay for its
implementation.
-Jack
|
323.1578 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:36 | 63 |
| <<< Note 323.1562 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
>| I answered you in .1473. You just don't like the answer and now choose to
>| beat a dead horse.
>
> No, what you did was say you disagree with me, but went no further.
Right. So you didn't like the answer. That's what I said.
> What parts did you disagree with, Joe?
I didn't agree with your opinion that the context changed the
meaning of the statements. End of point. I disagree with you.
I'm entitled to that, and you're entitled to continue beating
that horse.
>| Not a single source shows that the stats are false.
>
> Part of his stats were compiled by Dr Groth's study.
I see what you are saying. But Up until now I thought you
were only focusing on the stats that were posted in here, (and
in part-1 of your posting in the other topic) and none of those
came from Groth. Stats from part-3 in your posting were
supposedly from Groth.
>| There is a CLAIM that he used a small sample size, but nothing to support
>| that.
>
> Check with the APA. There is a source.
APA isn't making the claim about the sample size.
> The support is there. Go check it out. Your refusal to check with the
>APA, or Dr. Groth ...
Have you? Again, all you have is claims from a report that
was written to counter-agendize Cameron's agenda (or alleged
agenda as claimed by the report.)
As I said before, *I* am not the one trying to prove or
disprove anything about Cameron. You seem to be, though,
and if you were to hold yourself to the same standards you
demand of others, you would be verifying these things yourself
instead of trying to get me to do it for you.
>| The Red Cross does that for me.
>
> You really should talk to the Red Cross. Really. Oh, not just on the
>local level, either.
The national Red Cross policy has already been posted here.
You countered that with the opinion of a local-level nurse.
Where is that pot and kettle topic anyway...
>you refuse to address it. I mean, how much time have you spent on trying to
>show me that the Cameron stuff I posted is supposed to be wrong? And how much
>time have you spent on the Hart stuff I posted? 1 or 2 lines, maybe? It shows a
>lot, Joe.
I've spent absolutely *NO* time trying to show you that the
Cameron stuff is wrong. I've only focused on your double
standard in what you accept and reject as proof.
|
323.1579 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:38 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1564 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> I was waiting for the beginning of the "can of worms" argument.
> Unfortunately, my assumptions about your worries were correct.
Why does your crusade end with one orientation and exclude another?
What makes you think it ends with gays? In more and more circles
pedophilia is being considered an orientation too.
|
323.1580 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:45 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.1575 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Poop flows everywhere.
Been in the Charles River again? :-)
|
323.1581 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:55 | 48 |
| | <<< Note 323.1578 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| > What parts did you disagree with, Joe?
| I didn't agree with your opinion that the context changed the meaning of the
| statements. End of point.
Let me ask you something. When the CFV used the phrases about gays and
one night stands, did you think they were talking about now, or did you think
they were talking about what the book said, between Stonewall (1969) and the
onset of AIDS (1977)? If you say now, then you, along with the CFV, have taken
the book out of context. We'll deal with this one first, and then move on.
| > Part of his stats were compiled by Dr Groth's study.
| I see what you are saying. But Up until now I thought you were only focusing
| on the stats that were posted in here, (and in part-1 of your posting in the
| other topic) and none of those came from Groth.
The study, Joe. Much more than JUST the stats. And seeing the APA threw
him out for questionable practices, it would seem his credibility is shot as
well. Again, that goes towards whether or not he is credible or not.
| APA isn't making the claim about the sample size.
The APA used that as part of their reasoning for tossing him. That,
along with taking other people's stuff out of context.
| As I said before, *I* am not the one trying to prove or disprove anything
| about Cameron.
Merely pointing out he is not credible according to the APA, and has
taken other people's works out of context. Yet I do seem to remeber the CFV
newsletter stating, "in one of the most extensive studies"......
| The national Red Cross policy has already been posted here.
The policy comes from the FDA, btw.
| You countered that with the opinion of a local-level nurse.
Who ever said I stopped there? Talk to the director.
| I've spent absolutely *NO* time trying to show you that the Cameron stuff is
| wrong. I've only focused on your double standard in what you accept and
| reject as proof.
Ahhhh.... I see..... GANT!
|
323.1582 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 29 1995 12:56 | 6 |
| Joe,
it is the victim thing. A child is not in a position to give or deny
consent from an adult. But then you knew that.........
meg
|
323.1583 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:05 | 1 |
| So then pedophilia's wrongness is based on choice and not principle?
|
323.1584 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:09 | 19 |
| <<< Note 323.1579 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Why does your crusade end with one orientation and exclude another?
> What makes you think it ends with gays? In more and more circles
> pedophilia is being considered an orientation too.
Asked and answered many times already Joe. But just for your
benefit I will repeat it. You may want to write this down this
time.
The difference between fighting for Gay rights and not supporting
Pedophilia rights is that one behavior involves consenting adults
and the other does not (does any of this sound familiar?).
As soon as the homophobic bigots run out of illogic, you can count
on the word pedophilia showing up in their next reply. It's as
reliable as the Sun coming up tommorrow.
Jim
|
323.1585 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:17 | 18 |
| Yepper,.
No pedophilia is beyond a choice, although I have no idea what anyone
would find sexually attractive about a child, I can understand what one
adult would find sexually attractive in another adult, no matter what
the gender.
From Groth 51% of offenders sho no persistant sexual interest in
children, but turned to them as the result of conflicts or problems in
their adult relationships. A;though this group regressed to sexual
encounters with children, their primary preference was to adults. In
examining the adult sexual lifestyle of this group, it was found that
the large majority 83% of these subjects led exclusively heterosexual
lives and the remaining subjects 17% were bisexually oriented, that is
their adult sexual activites involved both male and female partners,
although their preference was for women.
meg
|
323.1586 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:25 | 1 |
| So 49% showed a choice of children over adults?
|
323.1587 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:26 | 1 |
| Meg, were all of these subjects male? Your last sentence implies that.
|
323.1588 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:49 | 6 |
| .1582
Dead horse, Glen.
So put in your standard "you're afraid to discuss it" note
and be done with it.
|
323.1589 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 13:51 | 6 |
| ZZ The difference between fighting for Gay rights and not supporting
ZZ Pedophilia rights is that one behavior involves consenting
ZZ adults and the other does not (does any of this sound familiar?).
Thanks Meg. Jim, how about you? Do you believe that Pedophilia is
about choice and not about principle?
|
323.1590 | | ALPHAZ::HARNEY | John A Harney | Wed Nov 29 1995 14:04 | 5 |
|
Gazing in my crystal ball, I see Our Jack about to put words
somebody's mouth...
\john
|
323.1591 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 14:09 | 2 |
| Jim, by your silence, you have defaulted your opinion to principle
having absolutely nothing to do with it. How could you?
|
323.1592 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 14:13 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1588 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| .1582
| Dead horse, Glen.
errr...you mean, Meg, don't you?
Glen
|
323.1593 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 14:15 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1591 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Jim, by your silence, you have defaulted your opinion to principle
| having absolutely nothing to do with it. How could you?
Jack, don't you remember doing something like this just last week, or
the week before? Silence, without any notes going in anywhere, does not mean
they are ignoring you. :-)
|
323.1594 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 14:25 | 4 |
| .1592
No, Glen, I meant you. So I referenced the wrong note.
Sue me.
|
323.1595 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 14:50 | 20 |
| re: .1572
>You have avoided this quite often. I hope you address it now.
I have ignored this *once* as being irrelevent. Since you deem it
important, I'll answer.
>When the majority of people accept homosexuality, will you stop
>talking?
No. Unless the majority turns to this form of sexual relations, then
such relations still deviate from the norm. If the majority accepts it
as moral, then I will quit saying that homosexual relations go against
societal morality. I will not, however, say that such relations are
proper or moral- even if 90% of America believes it is.
Happy now?
-steve
|
323.1596 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Wed Nov 29 1995 15:09 | 23 |
| The Groth study was a study done on male convicted child molesters.
49% were exclusively into young children, boys girls or both, and
showed no interest in age-mates. With the exception of the 17% who
claimed to be bisexual, the rest all expressed disgust at the idea of
any sexual contact with adult males.
regardless, young children cannot give consent IMO, and may find it
hard to reject someone in a position of trust's advances. An adult on
the other hand is generally able to say no, yes or whatever, unless the
other adult is bent on a power trip and has the means to bakc the power
trip up.
I consider sex with a child as rape, consenting sex between adults is
none of my business. Love relationships between adults is also none of
my business.
meg
|
323.1597 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 15:16 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.1595 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| >When the majority of people accept homosexuality, will you stop
| >talking?
| No. Unless the majority turns to this form of sexual relations, then
| such relations still deviate from the norm. If the majority accepts it
| as moral, then I will quit saying that homosexual relations go against
| societal morality.
That's fair, and that was what I am wondering. Thanks.
| I will not, however, say that such relations are proper or moral- even if 90%
| of America believes it is.
That's fair, too. They are your beliefs. And it even shows that you
have conviction (when mentioning the 90%). Again, thanks. That was even more
than I was looking for.
Btw, I know you stated you did not mention the marriage thing (gays
don't need a law for marriage, cuz they can marry under the law), but do you
think this is true with what marriage is supposed to be about?
Glen
|
323.1598 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 15:37 | 2 |
| If you'll parse you last question, Glen, I'll be happy to answer it.
8^)
|
323.1599 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 16:12 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1589 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Thanks Meg. Jim, how about you? Do you believe that Pedophilia is
> about choice and not about principle?
Huh?
It's either residual jet-lag or this bloody cold that I've come
down with, but I'm having a real tough time figuring out your
notes Jack.
Jim
|
323.1600 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Nov 29 1995 16:19 | 1 |
| SNARF!
|
323.1601 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 16:30 | 10 |
| Z Pedophilia rights is that one behavior involves consenting adults
Z and the other does not (does any of this sound familiar?).
In other words Jim, if Pedophilia were legalized in this country, would
you then think it was okay since it is legal?
Not an outrageous question. We have people here who are prochoice.
They agree it is murder however it is protected under law.
-Jack
|
323.1602 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 16:53 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1601 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> In other words Jim, if Pedophilia were legalized in this country, would
> you then think it was okay since it is legal?
No. I don't think the issue is legality. I think the exploitation
of children by adults is wrong, period.
Jim
|
323.1603 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 16:56 | 33 |
|
Btw, I know you stated you did not mention the marriage thing (gays
don't need a law for marriage, cuz they can marry under the law), but do you
think this is true with what marriage is supposed to be about?
Translate that to:
Marriage is based on love between 2 people who want to commit to each other
forever. (you can put God in here too. I didn't because I thought the above
would cover everyone, where as God does not [ie different religions, athiests,
don't give a damn])
It has been said that gays can get married under the present law. So no new law
is needed. All gays have to do is to marry someone of the oppisite sex.
That brings us back to:
Marriage is based on love between 2 people who want to commit to each other
forever. (you can put God in here too. I didn't because I thought the above
would cover everyone, where as God does not [ie different religions, athiests,
don't give a damn])
Now, what I would like to know is, are you one who believes gays can
marry, so no other laws are needed. Remember, use your definition of what
marriage should be.
Glen
|
323.1604 | Going back a few notes... | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 29 1995 17:02 | 14 |
| Some folks keep bringing up 'Pedophilia' with the argument that if we
were talking about 'Pedophilia', people on the gay rights side would
be against it.
The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
Heterosexuality is a sexual orientation among consenting adults.
Homosexuality is also a sexual orientation among consenting adults.
Some people are heterosexual. Others are homosexual. What people
do as consenting adults in their private sex lives is no one else's
business whether people make it clear they happen to be heterosexual
OR homosexual.
None of this has anything to do with 'Pedophilia', of course.
|
323.1605 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 17:03 | 4 |
|
Suz, great note!
|
323.1606 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 17:18 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.1604 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>
> The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
No one is saying that it is.
Pedophilia is introduced into the equation when the term
'sexual orientation' is used in proposed additions to the
Civil Rights Act. Increasingly pedophilia is being called
an orientation too. Sure, it is not mainstream today, but
that doesn't change the budding trend it has.
> None of this has anything to do with 'Pedophilia', of course.
It does if you are not careful about the umbrella you choose
to stand under.
|
323.1607 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Nov 29 1995 17:20 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.1606 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Pedophilia is introduced into the equation when the term
> 'sexual orientation' is used in proposed additions to the
> Civil Rights Act. Increasingly pedophilia is being called
> an orientation too.
Joe, You made this claim a number of times, can you back this up?
Who is calling it an orientation?
Jim
|
323.1608 | Get out your bag of rocks, Glen... | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 17:45 | 12 |
| Jim -- The Nov 16, 1992 Focus on the Family magazine 'Citizen'
quotes several professors and doctors who hold this belief.
For instance Dr. John Money, a retired professor of medical
psychology and pediatrics as Johns Hopkins University says,
"pedophilia should be viewed as a sexual orientation, not a
disease or disorder".
Also UMASS, Amherst, has revised its non-discrimination
policy to protect "persons whose sexual orientation includes
minor children as the sex object." (May 27,1993 Washington
Times.)
|
323.1609 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 18:04 | 3 |
|
Gee, I wonder if FoF takes things out of context like the CFV does?
|
323.1610 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 29 1995 18:16 | 33 |
| RE: .1606 Joe Oppelt
/ Pedophilia is introduced into the equation when the term
/ 'sexual orientation' is used in proposed additions to the
/ Civil Rights Act. Increasingly pedophilia is being called
/ an orientation too. Sure, it is not mainstream today, but
/ that doesn't change the budding trend it has.
Heterosexuality is a sexual orientation, too.
Right now, some say there is only ONE sexual orientation that is OK.
Well, I say there are TWO sexual orientations which are OK.
We are both against 'Pedophilia'. I'm against it because it involves
the exploitation of children (and does not involve relations between
consenting adults.) I'm not sure why you are against it.
// None of this has anything to do with 'Pedophilia', of course.
/ It does if you are not careful about the umbrella you choose
/ to stand under.
Heterosexuals and homosexuals would both be protected under laws
which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation. Both
of these sexual orientations involve consenting adults.
If you wish to keep it legal to discriminate against gays so that
everyone can discriminate against pedophiles at will, I won't agree
to that.
The sexual orientations which involve consenting adults are: hetero-
sexuality and homosexuality. These two belong grouped together,
while 'Pedophilia' stands alone.
|
323.1611 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Wed Nov 29 1995 18:38 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1610 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>
> Heterosexuals and homosexuals would both be protected under laws
> which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation. Both
> of these sexual orientations involve consenting adults.
Great. Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying
your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.
|
323.1612 | Why? | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 29 1995 18:56 | 23 |
| RE: .1611 Joe Oppelt
// Heterosexuals and homosexuals would both be protected under laws
// which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation. Both
// of these sexual orientations involve consenting adults.
/ Great. Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying
/ your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.
Why? Would you like employers to be able to walk up to people and
say, "You look like a pedophile to me - even though you've never
been arrested or accused of molesting any children - so you're fired."
Most pedophiles are also heterosexual, so that means that most people
can be described as 'looking like' pedophiles.
If people have been convicted (or accused) of child molesting, then
some of their illegal exploitation of children have been documented.
They wouldn't be protected on the basis of 'orientation' anyway.
If given a choice, I'd rather not have ANY employers given the legal
right to fire someone based on their (perhaps horribly flawed)
perceptions or prejudices about a person's sexual orientation.
|
323.1613 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 19:03 | 9 |
| ZZ The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
Right; however, they are both predispositions. Some cultures no doubt
consider sex with minors a non offense, as Meg pointed out last week.
Therefore, pedophilia being a victimization of children is based on our
perception of exploitation.
I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays
victimize each other. My point is no less valid than yours correct?
|
323.1614 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 29 1995 19:18 | 25 |
| RE: .1613 Jack
// The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
/ Right; however, they are both predispositions. Some cultures no doubt
/ consider sex with minors a non offense, as Meg pointed out last week.
Some other cultures execute people for having heterosexual sex in certain
situations. What's your point?
/ Therefore, pedophilia being a victimization of children is based on
/ our perception of exploitation.
It's based on the determination that children are unable to give
consent. That's why pedophilia stands alone (apart from sexual
relations between consenting adults.)
/ I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays
/ victimize each other. My point is no less valid than yours correct?
Your point has no validity at all because you would turn all those
who engage in anal intercourse into *victims* (as well as victimizers.)
Please don't try to turn people into victims against their wills in order
to justify discriminating against them.
|
323.1615 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Nov 29 1995 19:24 | 10 |
| ZZ It's based on the determination that children are unable to give
ZZ consent.
Congressman Studds in Massachusetts might disagree with this.
Re: Victims. Haha...that's a laugh. Your ilk in government has been
manufacturing victims of all colors, shapes and sized for the last
twenty years. Don't sit there and tell me I'm doing it!
-Jack
|
323.1616 | By the way, don't forget that hets have anal intercourse, too. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Nov 29 1995 19:34 | 11 |
| RE: .1615 Jack
/ Re: Victims. Haha...that's a laugh. Your ilk in government has been
/ manufacturing victims of all colors, shapes and sized for the last
/ twenty years. Don't sit there and tell me I'm doing it!
So, I take it that you've abandoned the notion of classifying people
as victimizers (and victims) for engaging in anal intercourse with
other consenting adults.
Good idea.
|
323.1617 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 21:48 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1613 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Right; however, they are both predispositions.
Along with heterosexuals..... but two deal with consenting adults, one
does not. Two don't have victims, one does. Yet another difference.
| I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays victimize each
| other. My point is no less valid than yours correct?
Sex can be unsanitary. Depends on what you do beforehand.
|
323.1618 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Wed Nov 29 1995 21:49 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1615 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| ZZ It's based on the determination that children are unable to give
| ZZ consent.
| Congressman Studds in Massachusetts might disagree with this.
Please explain.
Glen
|
323.1619 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 06:54 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1608 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
Joe, you have one quote from a former medical professional and
one institution that has implemented a policy.
These two instances do not support your use of the term
"increasingly". Do you have anything that actually backs up
the statement you made?
Jim
|
323.1620 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 06:58 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.1611 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Great. Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying
> your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.
But Joe, as you keep telling us, it's the behavior. Being Gay
is NOT behavior it is an orientation. Sex with minors IS behavior.
Behavior that can be prohibited without addressing the supposed
orientation of the pedophile.
Jim
|
323.1621 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 07:00 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.1613 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays
> victimize each other. My point is no less valid than yours correct?
Is it your contention that ONLY Gays participate in anal intercourse?
You point has no validity if you use a particular behavior as
justification to discriminate against one group, when more than
that group participate.
Jim
|
323.1622 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 12:55 | 13 |
| ZZ You point has no validity if you use a particular behavior as
ZZ justification to discriminate against one group, when more than
ZZ that group participate.
Jim, let me ask you this. Stupid law or not...totally ridiculous or
not, if you commit an act against somebody else that is against the
written civil law for personal gratification, is is victimizing?
I am by no means draconian on these laws but anal intercourse and oral
sex are illegal in certain parts of the country. As stupid as you may
think they are, it is interesting our politicians haven't removed them
yet.
-Jack
|
323.1623 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:02 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1619 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> These two instances do not support your use of the term
> "increasingly". Do you have anything that actually backs up
> the statement you made?
There are more than two instances, and .1608 indicates that.
And surely you saw in .1606 that I do not consider this
widespread, so you set your expectations erroneously.
But certainly a growth from zero, to a few professionals, to
the policy of an entire university shows an increase. You
are welcome to debate the semantics of that if you wish.
Count me out.
|
323.1624 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:05 | 22 |
| RE: .1622 Jack Martin
// You point has no validity if you use a particular behavior as
// justification to discriminate against one group, when more than
// that group participate.
/ Jim, let me ask you this. Stupid law or not...totally ridiculous or
/ not, if you commit an act against somebody else that is against the
/ written civil law for personal gratification, is is victimizing?
This may come as a great surprise to you, but heterosexual and
homosexual couples often use oral and anal sex to give pleasure
to their partners. Or are you saying that a man who has his pipes
cleaned (so to speak) by his wife is a "victim" in this encounter?
/ I am by no means draconian on these laws but anal intercourse and oral
/ sex are illegal in certain parts of the country. As stupid as you may
/ think they are, it is interesting our politicians haven't removed them
/ yet.
These laws are usually only enforced when homosexual couples are
involved. That's probably why the laws are still on the books.
|
323.1625 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:11 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.1620 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
>> Great. Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying
>> your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.
>
> But Joe, as you keep telling us, it's the behavior. Being Gay
> is NOT behavior it is an orientation.
Precisely. I stand by my position regarding behavior. I'm
merely showing what the term 'orientation' can include if
left unqualified. You sneer at the suggestion of 'the can
of worms' or the slippery slope. (Of course you are very
selective in that sneer for I've seen you use slippery
slope concepts in constitutional debates -- especially
regarding gun issues -- and you make slippery slope hints
that limiting gay rights will lead to jackbooted lynchings,
etc...) But I've shown you that the movement into sexual
orientation protection is already drifting into the inclusion
of behaviors even you abhor.
I'm doing you a favor and giving you the opportunity to
adjust your wordings so that you do not inadvertently
include behaviors you do not intend to support.
|
323.1626 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:12 | 7 |
| ZZ This may come as a great surprise to you, but heterosexual and
ZZ homosexual couples often use oral and anal sex to give pleasure
ZZ to their partners.
whatz it loik? (Monty Python)
Sorry...couldn't resist!
|
323.1627 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:14 | 4 |
| I am well aware of this. So a predisposition is a predisposition is a
predisposition as long as it is done by two consenting adults. What
about the case in news briefs of the 72 year old man and the 32 year
old granddaughter? Suzanne, do you feel incest should be legalized?
|
323.1628 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:14 | 5 |
| >This may come as a great surprise to you, but heterosexual and
>homosexual couples often use oral and anal sex to give pleasure
>to their partners.
If couples have partners, it's group sex. HTH.
|
323.1629 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Nov 30 1995 13:15 | 3 |
| re .1627:
71, 30. HTH.
|
323.1630 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:02 | 15 |
| RE: .1627 Jack Martin
/ I am well aware of this. So a predisposition is a predisposition is a
/ predisposition as long as it is done by two consenting adults.
Consenting adults are not victimized by sexual acts that are done to
give (or share) pleasure as part of sexual relations.
/ What about the case in news briefs of the 72 year old man and the
/ 32 year old granddaughter? Suzanne, do you feel incest should be
/ legalized?
As far as I know, those two were arrested for plotting to kill her
husband. Are there laws against related consenting adults having
sex with each other? If so, how often are they enforced?
|
323.1631 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:06 | 6 |
| > As far as I know, those two were arrested for plotting to kill her
> husband. Are there laws against related consenting adults having
> sex with each other? If so, how often are they enforced?
I suspect most states have laws against incest. I also suspect they're
rarely enforced.
|
323.1632 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:32 | 6 |
| Z As far as I know, those two were arrested for plotting to kill her
Z husband. Are there laws against related consenting adults having
Z sex with each other? If so, how often are they enforced?
Let's assume there isn't a husband. Do you feel incest should be
outlawed between two consenting adults?
|
323.1633 | I got some gasoline here for the fire... | ALPHAZ::HARNEY | John A Harney | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:35 | 7 |
| re: .1632 (Jack)
> Let's assume there isn't a husband. Do you feel incest should be
> outlawed between two consenting adults?
No.
\john
|
323.1634 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:41 | 20 |
| RE: .1632 Jack Martin
/ Let's assume there isn't a husband. Do you feel incest should be
/ outlawed between two consenting adults?
Who would monitor every consenting adult who has sex to make sure
that he or she chooses a partner who does not happen to be a relative?
Such laws are probably on the books already, as Gerald said, but if
so, they are rarely enforced.
Are you suggesting that we support discrimination against gays under
the fear that if we don't, then related people all over this country
will start boinking each other since they'll figure that anything done
between consenting adults is ok?
Homosexuality is not incest (just as it isn't pedophilia.)
Homosexuality is most like heterosexuality, if you want to compare
it with something.
|
323.1635 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:48 | 9 |
| Suzanne, before answering any of those points, I am asking you a yes/no
question. Do you believe incest should continue to be outlawed in this
country if done between two consenting adults?
I believe it should remain outlawed for the simple fact that babies
born from incest have a higher degree of genetic disabilities. Once
again babies suffer due to the actions and choices of selfish adults.
-Jack
|
323.1636 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Nov 30 1995 14:59 | 2 |
| Jack, do you think sex between two Tay-Sachs carriers should be outlawed?
There's a 1 in 4 chance of the offspring living a short painful life.
|
323.1637 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:01 | 5 |
| ZZ Tay-Sachs
Is that like Potato Sacks?
I see your point.
|
323.1638 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:12 | 29 |
| <<< Note 323.1622 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Jim, let me ask you this. Stupid law or not...totally ridiculous or
> not, if you commit an act against somebody else that is against the
> written civil law for personal gratification, is is victimizing?
> I am by no means draconian on these laws but anal intercourse and oral
> sex are illegal in certain parts of the country.
I would not call consensual oral or anal sex "victimizing", regardless
of the legal status of such acts.
>As stupid as you may
> think they are, it is interesting our politicians haven't removed them
> yet.
What is even more stupid is the Supreme Court has upheld such laws
to be Constitutional.
But you ignored the point of my note. Oral and anal sex may, in your
opinion, be unhealthy., but those acts are NOT soley committed by
Gays. In fact, from a pure numerical perspective, they are quite
likely committed by hets MORE than by Gays. Using these acts as
a reason to support continued discrimination of Gays is not logical.
If you want to start a campaign to outlaw these acts throughout
the country, that's one thing. But to single out the Gay community
is unequal treatment, pure and simple.
Jim
|
323.1640 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:16 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.1625 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
> Precisely. I stand by my position regarding behavior. I'm
> merely showing what the term 'orientation' can include if
> left unqualified.
And wild, unfounded scare mongering, while a favorite tactic of
the religious right, makes for a very poor argument. You STILL
aren't very good at this, are you?
Jim
|
323.1641 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:24 | 16 |
| Jack,
Irt has been pointed out to you many times, by someone who is in a
position to know that not all, or even most same-sex couples practice
anal intercourse, in the case of two women, this would be nigh unto
impossible. It has also been pointed out that some heterosexual
couples do. In fact Cameron seems to approve of this practice, and
some others that I find more repugnant and unsafe between married
couples if they both enjoyed it, (Sexual Gradualism, C 1981) while
condemning the same practices among gay partners.
Also among the sexually active which is the lowest risk group as far as
transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex?
I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
meg
|
323.1642 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:28 | 11 |
| re .1640
Content-free.
You used to be able to compose forceful arguments that
didn't have to resort to "wild, unfounded" accusations.
I've shown you clear examples for what you requested.
These are neither wild nor unfounded.
You've slipped, Jim. You have a different style now, and
you're right. I'm not very good at it.
|
323.1643 | Only 1 or 2 cases of Lesbians transmitting AIDS have been found. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:28 | 13 |
| RE: .1641 Meg
/ Also among the sexually active which is the lowest risk group as far as
/ transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex?
/ I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
Ooo! Ooo! Can I answer this, Meg?
Lesbians are the lowest risk group for AIDS and other STDs.
Some claim that AIDS is God's punishment - if so, then lesbians are
God's chosen people (because they are the lowest risk group for this
disease and other STDs.)
|
323.1644 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:29 | 93 |
| re: .1604
Actually, bringing up "sexual orientation" only obfuscates the argument
by suggesting that there is no proper form of relations. At least
currently, society does not buy into this argument, and neither do I.
"Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real issue
society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and moral
parameters). It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, in order
that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon society's
social base as just being "different", and not inherantly deviant or
immoral.
I've fully explained, historically, why society has the views it does
in previous notes, so I'll spare you the repeat here. Let's just say
that the buzz-words like "sexual orientation" are irrelevent and
misused by those who seek to defend that which is otherwise
indefensible by societal standards.
Using "sexual orientation" is simply a way to make homosexuality equal
to heterosexuality, which is a very deceptive form of argument.
"Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", but is
considered to be THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the
foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and
female). This is the crux of the issue that is purposely being ignored or
dismissed offhand, and why the gay rights activists wisely hide behind
the well-stuffed strawman of "equal rights".
You see, it is difficult to argue against "equal rights", so this is the
rallying call behind the gay movement, which tries to bury the issues
of what society has every right to define for itself (proper relations
and concept of family). As I've tried to point out in
several of my notes (this one included), "equal rights" is simply an
obfuscation of the real issue.
Some behaviors and lifestyles are rightfully discriminated against.
[and please don't take this as a defense for gay bashing and the like,
this is not what I'm talking about at all] This does not mean that
society cannot change its mind on certain behaviors/lifestyles down the
road (premarital sex is widely accepted today, and is a good example).
However, placing such behaviors/lifestyles under a huge umbrella of
"eqaul rights" is not really honest.
Perhaps we should add "obesity" to the CRA, too. I've heard more
stories about obese people being discriminated against than I have
about gays being discriminated against; and at least the obese are
identifiable, though probably not a minority (as the
term is so loosely used today). The reasoning for adding this is
comparable to the reasoning behind adding "sexual orientation" to the
Act.
Pedophilia was brought up as an overt example of going against
society's currently defined social/sexual morality. Having sex with
children is simply immoral/wrong. What makes it a good exaple is that
A) we can all agree it is not a good thing; and B) it can be placed under
the generic "sexual orientation" strawman being thrown about in this
currnet discussion.
No one feels the least bit bad about a pedophile losing his job
(because he was found out), being vilified in public, or being
discriminated against in a number of other ways. But if indeed
pedophilia is a "sexual orientation", can those sticking up for
homosexuality really cast aspersions on pedophiles? If so, you are
making a moral judgement that one orientation is NOT good, while the
other is okay, and it is okay to discriminate against the one that is
considered "bad".
And indeed, if pedophilic "orientation" is not considered to be a good
thing by society, then it has every right to discriminate against it-
whether pedophilia is a choice, a genetic issue, or whatever. And if
it does not consider it a good thing, then why on earth would it ever
consider giving pedophiles equal status under law (by consideration of
sexual "orientation" only), by changing the law to conform to their
sexual deviancy?
If you can follow the above logic, then you should easily be able to
understand my argument against changing laws regarding marriage and
such to include homosexual. It is not at all a bad parallel (and
'parallel' certainly does not mean that I am COMPARING homosexuality
with pedophilia), as you suggest, when viewed from this perspective.
Both go against current etablished laws and established societal morality.
The "consenting adults" argument against this parallel is irrelevent, as
the parallel is not dependent upon this one factor, at least within the
context in which I am using it.
I don't expect you to be able to separate all issues involved, but
you can't blame me for trying to point out that your simplistic
"homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'" dismissal is quite beside every
point I was attmpting to get across.
-steve
|
323.1645 | what passage ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:32 | 6 |
|
Jim Percival : it isn't stupid, you are. Nowehere does the
constitution of the USA say you or anybody has any sexual rights.
You made it up. Fortunately, the SCOTUS doesn't (mostly).
bb
|
323.1646 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:32 | 13 |
| <<< Note 323.1641 by CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" >>>
> Irt has been pointed out to you many times, by someone who is in a
> position to know that not all, or even most same-sex couples practice
> anal intercourse, in the case of two women, this would be nigh unto
> impossible.
I missed where that was pointed out. According to what was
reported in .997, 75% of (assumed male) couples do.
But regarding the two females, I wonder if this could be a
reason for the fact that the spread of AIDS is the lowest
among lesbians.
|
323.1647 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:36 | 3 |
| re .1643:
Solo masturbators are at lower risk than lesbians.
|
323.1648 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:51 | 16 |
| .1645
> Nowehere does the
> constitution of the USA say you or anybody has any sexual rights.
Bill of Rights. Amendment 9. "The enumeration in the Constitution, of
certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others
retained by the people."
The people have the right to live their lives as they see fit, so long
as they do not in so doing injure other people or society in general.
Q: How does what goes on between consenting adults in the privacy of
their own homes injure anyone else?
A: It doesn't. So butt out.
|
323.1649 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Nov 30 1995 15:57 | 76 |
| RE: .1644 Steve Leech
/ Actually, bringing up "sexual orientation" only obfuscates the argument
/ by suggesting that there is no proper form of relations. At least
/ currently, society does not buy into this argument, and neither do I.
On the contrary, I think society has become sophisticated enough by
now to realize that the days are gone when 'the missionary position
only with the lights out and bodies still mostly covered' was the
only truly "PROPER FORM" of sexual relations between consenting adults.
Most people in our society don't particularly care what consenting
adults do in the privacy of their own sex lives anymore. You've
said yourself that you don't care about it either.
/ "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real
/ issue society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and
/ moral parameters). It is a way to deflect from the moral issues,
/ in order that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon
/ society's social base as just being "different", and not inherantly
/ deviant or immoral.
Society has no business deciding what consenting adults can or should
do in the privacy of their own sex lives.
Some people in our culture are pushing very hard to 'get government
off the backs of the people' so why on Earth would anyone want society
(or the government) to decide what consenting adults can or should do
in the most private aspects of their lives?
/ Using "sexual orientation" is simply a way to make homosexuality equal
/ to heterosexuality, which is a very deceptive form of argument.
Homosexuality is more like heterosexuality than it's like anything
else. There's nothing deceptive about that.
People don't develop their sexual attractions based on majority rule.
Most people grow up to be attracted to the opposite sex but some people
grow up to be attracted to people of the same sex. We've known about
this aspect of our species (and other species on Earth) for thousands
of years. It's long past time to get used to the idea.
/ "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", but is
/ considered to be THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the
/ foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and
/ female).
It's the most common form of sexual relations, but 'heterosexuality'
itself includes a substantial range of behaviors within it. A subset
of these behaviors are sexual acts that some homosexuals also perform.
Homosexuals have no unique sexual acts which are not also done by
heterosexuals.
/ You see, it is difficult to argue against "equal rights",
As well it should be.
There is no justification for discriminating against people who just
happen to be gay. There are no assumptions which hold true for all
gays (just as no assumptions hold true for ALL heterosexuals, either.)
What consenting adults do in the privacy of their own sex lives is
no one else's business. Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.
/ Some behaviors and lifestyles are rightfully discriminated against.
When gay people burst into your home and have sex on your living
room floor, complain about it. Until then, you're only talking
about what you presume gay people do by the fact that they are gay.
You're talking about unequal treatment of human beings based on
your presumptions about them.
This is not rightful discrimination. It's bigotry and unfair
discrimination.
|
323.1650 | doesn't mean that | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:01 | 13 |
|
Amendment 9 means no such thing, nor is there any recognition
in Law in the USA that there is a victim/victimless dichotomy
that you (and other 'Boxers) mistakenly assume. There just isn't
any recognition anywhere that "hurting others" is germane.
If you read 9 the way you want, it forbids all laws, but that's
not reasonable, as either a principle, or historically. And in
fact, nobody challenges, say, the anti-bigamy laws, on a 9th
Amendment basis because they know the basis has no merit and the
court would quite rightly dismiss the argument.
bb
|
323.1651 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:34 | 15 |
| .1650
> Amendment 9 means no such thing
IYHO.
Amendment 9 is there specifically to prevent the government from
trampling on individuals' rights just because it wants to. The
Constitution does not grant rights, it recognizes the rights that are
inherent to the people. And the people of a Constitutionally
areligious state have the right not to be bound by the moral strictures
of ANY religion. Hence, whether you like it or not, there IS a right
to one's chosen sexual behaviors. And there IS a victim/victimless
dichotomy in the very nature of injury. The people have a right not to
be injured by each other. Your fist ends at my nose.
|
323.1652 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:42 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.1644 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real issue
| society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and moral
| parameters). It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, in order
| that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon society's
| social base as just being "different", and not inherantly deviant or immoral.
And the woman who got fired because she was straight was able to use
the sexual orientation laws because...... tell us, Steve.
| Using "sexual orientation" is simply a way to make homosexuality equal
| to heterosexuality, which is a very deceptive form of argument.
Deceptive? Let me ask you something. It can only be deceptive if the
person using the terminology views it as such, but uses it anyway.
| "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation",
I forgot...you're all gods.... Steve, talk about deception. The
"proper" form of sexual relations? I guess the next thing you should do
is tell us which sex acts from the het community are "proper", and which
ones aren't. Or are all of them ok?
|
323.1653 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:44 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.1645 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> Jim Percival : it isn't stupid, you are. Nowehere does the
> constitution of the USA say you or anybody has any sexual rights.
> You made it up. Fortunately, the SCOTUS doesn't (mostly).
Made what up? Try to at least attempt to be coherent. I most
certainly did not say that sexual rights were contained in the
Constitution.
I stated that it was stupid for the Court to agree that the
state has a role in the private bedroom habits of consenting
adults. I stand by that statement.
Now, you may wish to argue that the state has an overiding
interest in such matters and that such laws are "good". But
the idea that the state should establish some sort of "sex
police" detachment is very likely not one that will gain
a large following except among those that rely on the 700
Club for their view of the world.
Jim
|
323.1654 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:45 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1646 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| But regarding the two females, I wonder if this could be a
| reason for the fact that the spread of AIDS is the lowest
| among lesbians.
Yeah... all those wimmins out there who are straight and having anal
sex. Yup... that's how they got it. Be real...just for once?
|
323.1655 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:48 | 4 |
| The U.S. Supreme Court quite recently ruled in the Atlanta case that states
had the authority to outlaw sodomy.
/john
|
323.1656 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:50 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.1650 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> Amendment 9 means no such thing, nor is there any recognition
> in Law in the USA that there is a victim/victimless dichotomy
> that you (and other 'Boxers) mistakenly assume. There just isn't
> any recognition anywhere that "hurting others" is germane.
The Court is quite obtuse at times. The same Court that finds
the right to privacy (very likely an unenumerated right) in
Roe v. Wade, upholds anti-sodomy laws. Go figure.
>And in
> fact, nobody challenges, say, the anti-bigamy laws, on a 9th
> Amendment basis because they know the basis has no merit and the
> court would quite rightly dismiss the argument.
The argument could be made on a privacy point. But more likely
challenges would spring from the 1st Amendment's protections
of religious freedom.
Jim
|
323.1657 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:52 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1655 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| The U.S. Supreme Court quite recently ruled in the Atlanta case that states
| had the authority to outlaw sodomy.
Now define sodomy, John. Tell me who it covers. Actually, your
definition will cover that.
|
323.1658 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 16:52 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1655 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
>The U.S. Supreme Court quite recently ruled in the Atlanta case that states
>had the authority to outlaw sodomy.
Quite true. And quite a bad decision.
Jim
|
323.1659 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 30 1995 17:02 | 7 |
| >Now define sodomy, John. Tell me who it covers. Actually, your
>definition will cover that.
The specific law which was upheld was broad enough to cover anyone engaging
in sodomy with anyone of either sex.
/john
|
323.1660 | ...so, don't do it anymore. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Nov 30 1995 17:03 | 14 |
| Before anyone else even CONSIDERS making an argument against gays
for 'behaviors', consider this: Unless a specific gay person is
having sex in front of you (in your house, in your office at work,
in your car, in the movie theater where you are watching a movie,
in the restaurant where you are eating, on the street where you
are walking or driving, for example), then you don't ever really
know what behaviors anyone does in the privacy of his/her own sex
life.
You are trying to discriminate against people based on your
presumptions and assumptions about which behaviors they may
possibly be performing.
That's bigotry and unfair discrimination.
|
323.1661 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Thu Nov 30 1995 17:09 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1659 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| The specific law which was upheld was broad enough to cover anyone engaging
| in sodomy with anyone of either sex.
John, what sex acts does the sodomy laws include. Please don't leave
any out.
|
323.1662 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 30 1995 17:18 | 3 |
| Go look up the law, Glen.
/john
|
323.1663 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Nov 30 1995 17:19 | 14 |
| ZZ The people have the right to live their lives as they see fit, so long
ZZ as they do not in so doing injure other people or society in
ZZ general.
And since 1980, would you say the way people have been behaving hasn't
done injury to the society in general?
ZZ Q: How does what goes on between consenting adults in the privacy
ZZ of their own homes injure anyone else?
ZZ A: It doesn't. So butt out
Exactly. Now maybe I can send my kids to public school again.
-Jack
|
323.1664 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 17:20 | 78 |
| <<< Note 323.1644 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Actually, bringing up "sexual orientation" only obfuscates the argument
> by suggesting that there is no proper form of relations. At least
> currently, society does not buy into this argument, and neither do I.
The term "proper" connotes a right and a wrong form. This, of course,
raises the question concerning the authority used for determining
what is right or wrong. I suspect that it took so many lines in
your reply so that you could avoid answering that question.
> "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real issue
> society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and moral
> parameters). It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, in order
> that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon society's
> social base as just being "different", and not inherantly deviant or
> immoral.
You skirt the source just a bit here. The use of the term "moral"
gives us an indication of the source of your "authority", but I
can only wonder why you don't just come out and tell us.
Everyone sing along now....."Because the Bible Tells Me So".
> I've fully explained, historically, why society has the views it does
> in previous notes, so I'll spare you the repeat here. Let's just say
> that the buzz-words like "sexual orientation" are irrelevent and
> misused by those who seek to defend that which is otherwise
> indefensible by societal standards.
You have regurgitated the same arguments that were used over the
last several hundred years to keep racial minorities in their
place. You take aim at a different minority, but the words are
identical. You claim you are not a bigot, but you have their
songs down pat.
You choose to argue for the continued unequal treatment of fellow
citizens because you, and your ilk, do not approve of their
"lifestyle" or more particularly of their sexual practices.
Once again I'd like an answer to my question concerning how mamy
Gay sex acts you have witnessed. Or is your bigotry based soley
on your own assumptions? The concept of streotyping is another
trait that you share with the racial bigots of old it seems.
>THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the
> foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and
> female).
Why? Surely you have logic to back up such a strongly held belief.
> Some behaviors and lifestyles are rightfully discriminated against.
This is true, but I suspect that we do not agree on certain
areas where the state has no proper interest in behavior.
> Pedophilia was brought up as an overt example of going against
> society's currently defined social/sexual morality. Having sex with
> children is simply immoral/wrong. What makes it a good exaple is that
> A) we can all agree it is not a good thing; and B) it can be placed under
> the generic "sexual orientation" strawman being thrown about in this
> currnet discussion.
It only is placed there by you and Joe. But let's assume for a moment
that you are right. I could support a law that prohibits discrimination
against pedophiles, while at the same time supporting a law that
makes sex with children a crime. This position would be perfectly
consistent with your CLAIMS that it is behavior that is at issue,
not orientation. But of course your claims are bogus when it comes
to Gays. You choose to discriminate against ALL Gays, regardless
of the behaviors that they may, or may not, choose. You lie
when you tell us it's the behavior and not the person. You streotype
all Gays into one homongenous group and then point at them and say
"Society is right to discriminate". You don't deal with behavior
at all, only the people that acknowledge their orientation.
Jim
|
323.1665 | | CSC32::J_OPPELT | Wanna see my scar? | Thu Nov 30 1995 19:48 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1654 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
> Yeah... all those wimmins out there who are straight and having anal
> sex. Yup... that's how they got it. Be real...just for once?
I didn't say that, of course. But all the same, I wonder why
you deny that this is a possiblity?
Still, you have to consider that anal intercourse stretches
the sphincter beyond normal limits, causing small rips in
the skin, and providing the HIV virus (if present) the most
direct route to the recipient's blood supply. This,
whether the recipient is male or female. And even if HIV
is not present, certainly the recipient's own intestinal
bacteria is -- whether the partner wears a condom or not --
exposing the recipient to a host of bacterial infections
not normally at risk in vaginal intercourse.
|
323.1666 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 19:56 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1659 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
>The specific law which was upheld was broad enough to cover anyone engaging
>in sodomy with anyone of either sex.
John, How many Het couples have been charged under Georgia's law?
Jim
|
323.1667 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Nov 30 1995 20:08 | 20 |
| <<< Note 323.1665 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
And your point is?
Sounds to me like you want to enlist in the first squad of
bedroom police.
I should warn you. The first jackboot that comes peering into
MY bedroom will be studying the rifling patterns of TWO .45
pistols (both my wife and I have one).
When will you self righteous twits figure it out that it's none
of your bloody business?
Unfortunately, the spirit of Torquemada lives on.
Jim
|
323.1668 | Some behavior yes, some no. Like, duh. | ALPHAZ::HARNEY | John A Harney | Thu Nov 30 1995 20:29 | 24 |
| re: .1663 (Our Jack)
> And since 1980, would you say the way people have been behaving hasn't
> done injury to the society in general?
you trot this out quite often. the fact of the matter is that people
have ALWAYS been saying "things are going down hill," since the beginning
of recorded time. It's a scare tactic, nothing more. Like telling old
people the republicans are after their medicare, it's designed to put
fear into people. And to control them. To sway their opinion.
You hold no moral high ground. You have no proof of "PROPER RELATIONS."
You are not the arbiter of what causes "moral decay." If you believe
that book to follow so closely, you'd know you are not perfect. That
you make mistakes. Accept the notion for just one second that you
MAY BE WRONG about "societal pillers" and gay people. Think about that
for a moment. What if you're wrong? That you've been bashing, maligning,
harassing, badgering, and insulting perfectly fine people? ... Ok, enough
strain. Now that you see how wrong it would be, you owe it to yourself,
and to them, to be more open. To examine the facts more closely. To
admit where errors might creep into the system. To see if maybe, just
maybe, you're misdirecting your "energy".
\john
|
323.1669 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Nov 30 1995 22:08 | 6 |
| >How many Het couples have been charged under Georgia's law?
I think if you actually study the history you'll find that the law has
probably been used most often in the case of heterosexual sodomy.
/john
|
323.1670 | | ALPHAZ::HARNEY | John A Harney | Fri Dec 01 1995 05:05 | 6 |
| re: .1668 (me)
Yes, I know Jack didn't bring up "proper relations." No problem,
right? Since there's only one morality, he certainly agree...
\john
|
323.1671 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:03 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1669 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
>I think if you actually study the history you'll find that the law has
>probably been used most often in the case of heterosexual sodomy.
Of course this response does not constitute an answer to my
question.
Jim
|
323.1672 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:35 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.1662 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| Go look up the law, Glen.
I knew a response like this would come from you. I mean, you might be
one of those law breakers.....
|
323.1673 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:37 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1665 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
| I didn't say that, of course. But all the same, I wonder why
| you deny that this is a possiblity?
Because it is not anal penetration that does it. It is penetration in
the anus or vagina that causes it. Seeing lesbians do not have penetration from
a penis, they are a very low risk group.
Glen
|
323.1674 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Tummy Time | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:37 | 4 |
|
Ban penises!
|
323.1675 | | TROOA::COLLINS | RoboBar: The Future Of Hospitality | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:38 | 3 |
|
{GASP!}
|
323.1676 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:42 | 15 |
|
>| Go look up the law, Glen.
> I knew a response like this would come from you. I mean, you might be
>one of those law breakers.....
How would you have liked him to respond? John posted the Supreme Court
finding, you asked him (John) to define sodomy (hint, John is not the
Supreme Court) and he tells you to go look up the law..what the heck is
the problem with that?
Jim
|
323.1677 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 09:56 | 3 |
|
It could have to do with he knows what the law involves.
|
323.1678 | Love this book ! | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Dec 01 1995 10:06 | 64 |
|
[note mine : In the Oxford Companion, an astrisk * indicates there is
an entry under the word following. For non-technical research on the
Supreme Court, I heartily recommend this 1000-page reference, arranged
as a dictionary/encyclopedia, alphabetically, with over 20 distinguished
contributors, 400 cases, biographies of all justices, court definitions
of words and code phrases - bb]
from Oxford Companion to the Supreme Court of the United States,
1992, Oxford University Press, "Homosexuality", by John Anthony Maltese
Homosexuality. The Supreme Court has protected some aspects of sexual
autonomy within the context of a constitutional right of *privacy. It
has recognized an individual's right to use contraceptives in *Griswold
v. Connecticutt (1965) and *Eisenstadt v. Baird (1972) and upheld a
woman's right to decide whether or not to terminate her pregnancy in
*Roe v. Wade (1973). In *Bowers v. Hardwick (1986), the Court refused
to construe the right of privacy to protect consensual homosexual activity
by adults in their own homes. At that time, twenty-four states plus the
District of Columbia outlawed sodomy. The 5-4 majority in Hardwick held
that such laws had a rational basis. In his majority opinion, Justice
Byron *White maintained that the right to privacy did not confer a general
right to sexual autonomy but was limited to questions of marriage, family,
and procreation, concluding that homosexual activity bore no connection
to any of those. In a strong dissent, Justice Harry *Blackmun insisted
that the majority had addressed issues not before it. Gay rights groups
denounced Hardwick as their equivalent of the Dred *Scott case.
Despite increasing litigation in the 1970s and 1980s, efforts to secure
more expanded protection for homosexuals have been largely unsuccessful.
In addition to the privacy claim rejected in Hardwick, advocates have
suggested that constitutional protections of the rights of homosexuals
could be derived from the *First, *Eighth, and *Ninth Amendments as well
as from the *Equal Protection Clause of the *Fourteenth Amendment. Justice
Lewis *Powell, concurring in Hardwick, suggested that imprisonment for
private sexual conduct would raise a serious Eighth Amendment issue. Still,
the Eighth Amendment ban on *cruel and unusual punishment would provide only
limited protection to homosexuals.
The most direct concern of many lesbians and gay men is not imprisonment
but the discrimination that they face on a regular basis at the workplace,
in securing housing, and in gaining custody of their children. Although
some courts have granted First Amendment protection for such activities as
public acknowledgement of one's homosexuality, advocacy of gay rights, and
even some forms of symbolic speech, the Supreme Court has been reluctant to
extend broad First Amendment protection to homosexuals. For instance, it
has consistently denied *certiorari in cases concerning the dismissal of
schoolteachers because of their known homosexual status.
The Court's recognition of homosexuality as a *suspect classification
under the *Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment would
provide more expansive constitutional protection. Some argue that
homosexuals as a group meet the criteria established for suspect
classification, but the Supreme Court has not agreed. In Hardwick the
Court concluded that conduct that is a defining characteristic of
homosexuality is not constitutionally protected and may be criminalized.
The Court has been reluctant to create new suspect classes, and the federal
civil rights statutes that bar discrimination do not specifically address
the issue of sexual orientation (see DISCRIMINATORY INTENT).
Ref. : "The Constitutional Status of Sexual Orientation : Homosexuality
as a Suspect Classification", note in Harvard Law Review 98 (1984):1285-1309
|
323.1679 | | TROOA::COLLINS | RoboBar: The Future Of Hospitality | Fri Dec 01 1995 10:14 | 8 |
|
.1678
>The 5-4 majority in Hardwick held that such laws had a rational basis.
Sounds like the court is only one appointment away from a completely
opposite decision.
|
323.1680 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 01 1995 10:17 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1678 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
Very nice summary.
Thanks
Jim
|
323.1681 | Guess what "suspect" means before reading this. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Dec 01 1995 10:47 | 37 |
|
[note mine : I love my new toy. I previously used a copy from the public
library, but two days ago, I coughed up $35 for my own Oxford Companion.
How well written it is ! If you don't agree, hit "next unseen". - bb]
from Oxford Companion to the Supreme Court of the United States,
1992, Oxford University Press, "Suspect Classifications" by Thomas G. Walker
Suspect Classifications. The *Due Process Clause of the *Fifth Amendment
and the *Equal Protection Clause of the *Fourteenth Amendment prohibit
federal and state governments from engaging in certain forms of
discriminatory behavior. Not all government discrimination is
unconstitutional, however. It is legitimate for the law to treat individuals
differently if such classification is reasonable and designed to accomplish
a compelling government interest. A state, for example, may discriminate
on the basis of age in treating youthful and adult offenders differently
even if they have committed the same illegal act. The Constitution
prohibits discrimination that is invidious, arbitrary, or irrational. The
validity of the government action depends largely on the criterion on which
the discrimination is based.
The Supreme Court has determined certain classifications to be
constitutionally suspect. Discrimination based on any characteristic that
the Court has declared suspect is presumed irrational and constitutionally
invalid. When such discrimination is constitutionally challenged, the
court proceeds with *strict scrutiny and the government carries the
difficult burden of proof to justify the legitimacy of its actions. The
Supreme Court, for example, has declared *race and *religion suspect.
Therefore, government discrimination against racial minorities or
religious groups is unlikely to be upheld. The Court has occasionally
conferred suspect class status on other characteristics, such as poverty
and illegitamcy, especially when the discrimination has impinged on the
exercise of *fundamental rights (see INDIGENCY; INHERITANCE AND ILLEGITIMACY).
Women's groups have long sought to have *gender elevated to a suspect
class, but the Supreme Court has yet to endorse that position.
|
323.1682 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:17 | 1 |
| I might be inclined to use right guard on mine, but not ban.
|
323.1683 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:34 | 40 |
| ZZ you trot this out quite often. the fact of the matter is that people
ZZ have ALWAYS been saying "things are going down hill," since the
ZZ beginning of recorded time. It's a scare tactic, nothing more.
I had Jim's "twit" remark copied to paste but simply couldn't let this
one go.
This scare tactic as you state, has been propogated by the gay lobby in
Washington D.C., the Centers for Disease Control, the AMA, ACT-UP,
Queer Nation, and many liberals throughout the country. The Feds have
just released and aired television ads on condom use and the spread of
AIDS.
Ya know, I was an average student in school. I excelled in some things
and was deficient in others. Point being it doesn't take a brain
surgeon to use common sense. Jim just made an interesting request. He
said, "Why don't you twits just mind your business."
Okay Jim, you want to be crass...Fine! This is what we'll do. From
now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
congressional budgets. From now on any kind of humanitarian aid will
have to be provided by private donation, be it churches, individuals,
and organizations. I continually hear this pissing and moaning
regarding none of my business but when the perverbial chit hits the
fan, somehow it's societies responsibility to bail every victim out.
Would that be minding our business enough??? I thought not.
You think people should have the right to act reckless, fine...so do I.
But don't sit there with this self righteous attitude that people are
mean for having the attitude of the preceding paragraph. The paradigm
in this nation seems to be live free and do as you will but exploit the
goodness of giving when the poop hits the fan. How dare they.
Same with smokers. You want to smoke??? Then smoke your brains out
but don't sob, piss, moan and cry when the compassion isn't there. I'm
sick of this perverbial whining. It's becoming of a nation of
dependents, not a super power.
Sorry to seem heartless but I'm sick of it!
|
323.1684 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:37 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1681 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> -< Guess what "suspect" means before reading this. >-
One interesting inference from this. One need not be declared
a "suspect class" in order to be covered by the CRA. Gender
is the obvious example.
Jim
|
323.1685 | Bowers v. Hardwick article... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:41 | 94 |
|
[note mine : In Oxcomp, all cases refer to opinions in the official
500+ volume United States Reports, which stores all 200 years worth of
opinions, etc. Thus Hardwick 478US186 (1986) means in 1986 the majority,
concurring, and dissenting opinions, if any, were stored in Volume 478
starting at page 186. References to page numbers in the subsequent
article are always pages in the volume of USR where the case resides. - bb]
from Oxford Companion to the Supreme Court of the United States,
1992, Oxford University Press, "Bowers v. Hardwick, 478U.S. 186 (1986)"
by John Anthony Maltese
Bowers v. Hardwick, 478US186 (1986) argued 31 Mar 1986, decided 30 June
1986 by vote of 5 to 4; White for the Court, Blackmun and Stevens in
dissent. In this case, the Supreme Court refused to extend the constitutional
right of *privacy to protect acts of consensual homosexual sodomy performed
in the privacy of one's own home. The narrow majority led by Justice Byron
*White differentiated this case from earlier right-to-privacy decisions,
saying that those decisions were limited to circumstances involving "family,
marriage, or procreation" - things that bore "no connection" to homosexual
activity (p. 191). Indeed, White claimed the right to privacy was limited
to the reach of those previous cases. He further claimed that the
proposition that "any kind of private sexual conduct between consenting
adults is constitutionally insulated from state proscription is unsupportable"
(p. 191) To argue that the right to engage in such conduct is a fundamental
right " 'deeply rooted in this Nation's history and tradition' or 'implicit
in the concept of ordered liberty' is, at best, facetious," White wrote
(p. 194). He pointed out that until 1961 all fifty states had outlawed
sodomy and that twenty-four states and the District of Columbia continued
to do so in 1986. He then rejected Hardwick's claim that such laws lack a
rational basis.
White also differentiated the Hardwick case from *Stanley v. Georgia (1969),
arguing that Stanley should be understood as a *First Amendment case that
was not relevant to the issues raised in Hardwick. Although Stanley
protected individuals from prosecution for possessing and reading obscene
materials in the privacy of their own homes, White stressed that it did not
offer blanket protection to otherwise illegal conduct simply because it
occurs in the home.
The present case evolved out of the arrest of Michael Hardwick, a gay
Atlanta bartender, for performing oral sex with another man in his own
bedroom. They were discovered by a police officer who had come to serve a
warrant on Hardwick for not paying a fine for drinking in public. The
officer was given permission to enter the house by another tenant who did
not know whether Hardwick was at home. Under Georgia law, sodomy (defined
as "any sexual act involving the sex organs of one person and the mouth
or anus of another") was a felony that could bring up to twenty years in
prison.
Although the district attorney did not prosecute, he did not drop the
charge. Hardwick then brought a civil suit challenging the law's
constitutionality in federal court. The defendant was Georgia's attorney
general, Michael J. Bowers. The district court granted Bowers' motion to
dismiss, but a divided panel of the Court of Appeals for the Eleventh
Circuit reversed on the grounds that the Georgia statute violated Hardwick's
fundamental rights. The Supreme Court then granted Bowers' petition for
*certiorari. Since the only claim before the Court dealt with homosexual
sodomy, it expressed no opinion about the constitutionality of the Georgia
statute as applied to acts of heterosexual sodomy.
Justice Lewis *Powell was the crucial swing vote in the case. It appears
that at conference he tentatively agreed to provide the fifth vote for
striking down the Georgia statute, but then later changed his mind. Powell
felt that a prison sentence for sodomy would create a serious *Eighth
Amendment issue that could be used to strike down the statute, but Hardwick
had not been prosecuted. Thus, Powell was unable to apply the Eighth
Amendment issue to this case, and he was apparently unconfortable with using
the right of privacy to strike down the statute. In October, 1990, Powell
told law students at New York University that he had "probably made a
mistake" in ultimately voting the way he did. Nonetheless, he maintained
that Hardwick was "a frivolous case" since no one had been prosecuted.
Had Powell not changed his vote, Justice Harry *Blackmun would have
written the majority opinion. Instead, White wrote the majority opinion,
Powell added a carefully worded concurrence that pointed out the Court's
inability to address the Eighth Amendment issue, and Blackmun wrote a
harsh dissent. When the decision was handed down, both White and Blackmun
took the unusual step of reading detailed portions of their opinions from
the bench.
Blackmun strongly criticized the majority opinion, saying that the case
was no more about a "fundamental right to engage in homosexual sodomy"
than Stanley v. Georgia was about a fundamental right to watch obscene
movies. Rather, he concluded, "this case is about 'the most comprehensive
of rights and the right most valued by civilized men', namely, 'the right
to be let alone' " (p. 199). Blackmun also took issue with the majority's
refusal to consider whether the Georgia statute ran afoul of the Eighth
or *Ninth Amendments or the *Equal Protection Clause od the *Fourteenth
Amendment. "The Court's cramped reading of the issue before it makes for
a short opinion," Blackmun concluded, "but it does little to make for a
persuasive one" (pp. 202-203). (see also HOMOSEXUALITY)
|
323.1686 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:46 | 2 |
| Defective condoms were distributed to various agencies in NY to help with
AIDS prevention. They're quietly being recalled.
|
323.1687 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:48 | 15 |
| <<< Note 323.1683 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Okay Jim, you want to be crass...Fine! This is what we'll do. From
> now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
> remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
> congressional budgets.
You mentioned smokers, let's not forget red meat eaters, folks who
ride motorcycles without helments, those who don't use seatbelts,
and on and on and on.
Close the CDC, the NIH, the whole lot. If you are going to make
an issue of it, go the whole route.
Jim
|
323.1688 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:48 | 1 |
| I'm surprised they didn't cover up the whole thing.
|
323.1689 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:53 | 17 |
| RE: .1683 Jack Martin
/ Okay Jim, you want to be crass...Fine! This is what we'll do. From
/ now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
/ remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
/ congressional budgets.
You'd have to remove all funding for cancer and heart disease research,
too, if you wanted to strike back at people for any disease which can be
acquired through the actions people take in their lives.
If it turned out that most people who get cancer or heart attacks were
gay, I wonder how that would influence some folks' support for funding.
When someone tells you he or she is gay, you have no way to know what
this person actually does in his or her private life unless you make
assumptions. Stop making assumptions! It's that simple.
|
323.1690 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Dec 01 1995 11:53 | 1 |
| They tried to cover it up, but it was leaked to the media.
|
323.1691 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:06 | 27 |
| Okay, you answered as I suspected you would. So in other words,
disease is universal, it is a part of life and can only be prevented
through education.
Therefore, it is reasonable to suggest...
Jack: So and so, if you are looking for approval as to your lifestyle or your
life choices, then you aren't getting it from me. Your choices are not
healthy, unsafe, and promote a standard that is in my opinion not in
synch with Christian Values.
So and so: JACK MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
Jack: Fine, but don't look for special rights to support your cause.
So and so: Jack your are mean spirited, cruel, unfeeling, and I have
no use for you.
Jack: That's your opinion and your welcome to it. Then go ahead and
live as you see fit, but please don't drag me into it.
The next day, so and so is in a gay pride parade telling the masses
what his preferences are. Hence I am getting dragged into it once
again.
|
323.1692 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:23 | 49 |
| RE: .1691 Jack Martin
/ Jack: So and so, if you are looking for approval as to your lifestyle
/ or your life choices, then you aren't getting it from me.
People aren't looking for your approval. They're looking for an end
to discrimination against gays.
Do you think that if you forget to discriminate against someone at
some point, it's the same thing as giving your approval to every single
thing the person may ever do in life?
/ Your choices are not healthy, unsafe, and promote a standard that is
/ in my opinion not in synch with Christian Values.
You don't know WHAT choices the person has been making unless you've
had sex with him yourself (or just watched.)
/ So and so: JACK MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
But you can't - or you won't.
/ Jack: Fine, but don't look for special rights to support your cause.
The ending of unfair discrimination is not a 'special right'.
/ Jack: That's your opinion and your welcome to it. Then go ahead and
/ live as you see fit, but please don't drag me into it.
If you want to be left out of it, then don't participate in discussions
about this subject (and don't support discrimination against gays.)
/ The next day, so and so is in a gay pride parade telling the masses
/ what his preferences are. Hence I am getting dragged into it once
/ again.
The people in Gay Pride parades don't cite specific sexual acts they
prefer. They simply stand up to say that they are proud of who they
are.
It's important for people in the gay community to come 'out of the
closet' because every person who comes 'out' to family members and
friends wins allies for the gay rights movement. When people realize
that they know good people who are the subjects of bigotry and unfair
discrimination, many start fighting back against it along with their
gay family members or gay friends.
Eventually, our society will indeed accept that our species is prone
to more than one sexual orientation (and that it's no big deal.)
|
323.1693 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:24 | 3 |
| > They tried to cover it up, but it was leaked to the media.
Deep throat?
|
323.1694 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:54 | 25 |
| Suzanne, I am not including dialog in here. I think you need to hear
opposing opinions in here. If you and I worked together, you prolly
wouldn't know my stand on such issues.
ZZ People aren't looking for your approval. They're looking for an end
ZZ to discrimination against gays.
The gay population IS seeking the approval of society. My mother used
to make us eat a green veggie every night. Sometimes she would say,
"You are going to eat it, and you are going to like it!" Well, the
latter of course didn't hold true. You can' force somebody to like
something even though you can legislate it to the hilt. It won't do any
good.
As mentioned, The Nat'l Education Association promoted "Gay Pride
Month". I don't approve of this as a taxpayer and hence I exercise my
right to dissent. I don't have to celebrate Gay Pride Month, nobody
should have to and I don't believe tax money should be used to
celebrate a disposition.
It's like the old addage of looking at the glass half empty or half
full. You equate being gay to good predispositions. This should be of
no surprise to anybody but I see it as a handicap.
-Jack
|
323.1695 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 12:55 | 19 |
|
Jack, too funny. The next day so and so is in a gay pride parade where
they are talking about their preferences? YEEEah...right. You come up with the
weirdest scenerios that I have ever seen.
The spread of AIDS is done by BOTH sexual orientations. That has to do
with individual choices in the bedroom (unprotected sex). Now if one is in a
monogamous relationship, then AIDS will not ever be a part of those 2 people's
lives.
Now, other diseases one can get. ANYone can get diseases from sleeping
around with many people. But I wonder if anyone has ever done a study with
monogamous couples (gay/straight) ONLY, to see what the rates are for any of
the diseases out there.
Glen
|
323.1696 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:04 | 28 |
| >============================================================================
>Note 323.1641 The AIDS topic 1641 of
>CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" 16 lines 30-NOV-1995
>----------------------------------------------------------------------------
> Jack,
>
> .
.
.
> Also among the sexually active which is the lowest risk group as far as
> transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex?
> I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
>
> meg
>
OK Meg:
Also among the sexually active which is the HIGHEST risk group as far as
transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex?
I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
Choose Only one: Het male - female
Lesbian Female - female
Gay Male - male
Steve
|
323.1697 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:06 | 7 |
|
Steve, that is easy. Hets. Go read the CDC's stats on this. I think
it's a 12-1 ratio (in favor of hets) world wide for AIDS alone.
Glen
|
323.1698 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:07 | 4 |
| By %%%%%%%%% please
Thank you
|
323.1699 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:07 | 1 |
| In the US too
|
323.1700 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:10 | 1 |
| Snarf
|
323.1701 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:12 | 9 |
| Glen:
That would make sense since the gay population is exponentially smaller
than the het population.
The appropriate question is...what percentage within the gay population
is at high risk verses what percentage within the het population.
-Jack
|
323.1702 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:41 | 13 |
| Glen, you would also be interested to know
that women who have a SINGLE lifetime partner (as opposed
to serial monogamy -- one monogamous relationship at a time)
are far less prone to yeast infections. That is because
people have different bacteria tendencies, and the SINGLE-
partnered woman builds immunity to the common bacteria
regularly found on that partner. If she switches from
partner-to-partner, she needs to re-establish immunities to a
different set of bacteria common to each subsequent partner.
I've heard this someplace and perhaps Meg can confirm it.
-Jack
|
323.1703 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:45 | 2 |
| Oh rubbish, Jack. Everyone knows you can get it from toilet seats and
you have to microwave your panties daily.
|
323.1704 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:46 | 1 |
| Not if you use an ass gasket provided in your local DEC head.
|
323.1705 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 13:46 | 2 |
| By the by Glen, exclude Africa from the stats since the AMA has counted
central Africa lost!
|
323.1706 | Give it up, it's NOT a gay disease any longer | DECLNE::REESE | My REALITY check bounced | Fri Dec 01 1995 14:02 | 9 |
| Silva's answer complies with what I heard reported locally from the
CDC. Although AIDS had increased slightly in the gay community (after
steadily declining for several years), the CDC said the largest group
of HIV+ and AIDS suffers are now black and hispanic women.
Substance abuse, prostitution and unprotected sex were listed as
major factors leading to the increase in this segment of society.
|
323.1707 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Fri Dec 01 1995 14:46 | 10 |
| RE: .1683
^From now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
^remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
^congressional budgets.
I agree. Let's go further then that. Let's remove all health related
research from the federal budget, cut taxes by the same amount,
eliminate government controland regulations over all health related issues
and watch how quickly all major diseases are cured. Breakneck speed
|
323.1708 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 01 1995 15:41 | 38 |
| RE: .1694 Jack Martin
/ The gay population IS seeking the approval of society.
The gay population is seeking an end to bigotry and discrimination
against gay people.
/ As mentioned, The Nat'l Education Association promoted "Gay Pride
/ Month". I don't approve of this as a taxpayer and hence I exercise my
/ right to dissent. I don't have to celebrate Gay Pride Month, nobody
/ should have to and I don't believe tax money should be used to
/ celebrate a disposition.
How is any average citizen forced to 'celebrate' any day or month
which is declared to be for a particular group? [Hint: We're not.]
We hear about these months, then life goes on as usual.
Jack, a certain percentage of our population is gay. This means that
a certain percentage of the children at school are already aware that
they are attracted to people who are the same sex that they are.
Schools and national education associations have to consider that when
bigotry occurs against gays, it is aimed at some of their own students.
They are doing the right thing to try to keep anti-gay bigotry out of
the schools. Gay children have as much right as any other child does
to go to school without being subject to flagrant bigotry.
/ It's like the old addage of looking at the glass half empty or half
/ full. You equate being gay to good predispositions. This should be of
/ no surprise to anybody but I see it as a handicap.
I equate 'gay person' to be 'human being' in the same way that I equate
heterosexual persons to be human beings.
I think it is a tremendous handicap for someone to see a human being
who happens to be gay and think, "We better discriminate against these
people or else we'll be 'approving' of what they do" (especially when
you don't even KNOW what they do as individuals.)
|
323.1709 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Fri Dec 01 1995 15:49 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.1699 by 43GMC::KEITH "Dr. Deuce" >>>
| In the US too
AIDS is a world wide disease.
|
323.1710 | | MPGS::MARKEY | now 90% fulla gadinkydust | Fri Dec 01 1995 16:10 | 43 |
|
Suzanne has been making some excellent points in this string.
She's much better when she eschews etymology! :-) :-)
I have a story to tell:
As a kid, I was sickly. Rail thin, missed a lot of school,
ALWAYS ill. I had the worst asthma... I had a lot of trouble
with other kids in school.
So, when the time came, my parents decided to send me to a
private (Catholic) high school in another city. I didn't
know anybody. Around this time of year, they had a dance
for freshmen; a welcome party I guess. It was made clear
that you could bring a date to this dance, and that you
didn't have to bring someone from the school. Well, the
thought of talking to a real live girl, much less actually
asking for a date, scared the hell out of me.
So, I ASSUMED that there would be single girls there, if
I found the courage, to dance with. However, knowing that
it was unlikely, I asked another shy MALE friend to go, who
was not a student at the school (he lived in town).
I figured, if I didn't end up with a girl (the odds seemed
better at winning the lottery), I could always hang with
my friend and listen to the music. Well. Let's just say
that the fertilizer hit the ventilator when I showed up
with a guy. For four years, I was continuously persecuted
as a fag, by (and this is very important!) students AND
teacher alike.
In my senior year, we had a "marriage class". It was taught
be a priest who appeared rather effeminate in mannerism,
and who I thought might be gay (didn't matter much, either
way). One day, I had one more beating than I could take,
and was sitting in front of my locker sobbing. This priest
came by and called me into his office. He told me, "Brian,
whether you're a homosexual or not doesn't matter. It's
not an awful thing to be gay, if you are. I am". He was
the only person who ever showed me any kindness there.
-b
|
323.1711 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Dec 01 1995 16:13 | 4 |
|
marriage class taught by a gay priest.
the mind boggles. sort of.
|
323.1712 | | MPGS::MARKEY | now 90% fulla gadinkydust | Fri Dec 01 1995 16:15 | 4 |
|
Hey, Catholic high school seldom made much sense... :-)
-b
|
323.1713 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 16:25 | 6 |
| Wait a minute...now let's see here.
Suzanne...was..errrr...getting beat into a pulp a few weeks ago for her
alleged illogic. Errr...now she is uhhh....doing a great job dealing
with me. Does this mean she is getting better or is there something
about me here?
|
323.1714 | :-) | MPGS::MARKEY | now 90% fulla gadinkydust | Fri Dec 01 1995 16:33 | 8 |
|
Jack,
It's you.
HTH.
-b
|
323.1715 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 01 1995 18:18 | 44 |
| Brian, thanks for the story - it brings up a good point about how
some kids get treated in school. The schools have every right
(and a duty), in my opinion, to keep anti-gay bigotry out of the
schools. No one - whether gay or not - deserves to be hassled like
that while simply trying to get an education.
When I was High School, my parents sent me to an expensive school
that I didn't particularly want to attend. But I made a lot of
friends there and became a class officer. I had a great many more
friends at another school (close to where I lived), though, so I
visited their school every time my school had an extra day off while
the local school was in session.
I got Bronchitis in the middle of the first school year and was out
of classes for a week. When I came back, I was an outcast. No one
ever explained why. I was still a class officer, but it was like I
didn't exist all of a sudden. I still don't know what was said or
done while I was sick at home.
In my case, I was lucky because I was still very popular at the local
school. I just figured that I'd have more time at my own school to
concentrate on my work since no one would speak to me. After awhile,
though, I spent so much time with my friends at the local school that
I badgered my parents into letting me transfer there.
The school interviewed me for the local paper when I transferred (as
a way of saying hello to a VERY familiar new student.) They asked
me about why I transferred and I said (in a way that wasn't quite
this blunt) that the other school 'kinda sucked'.
The other school went ballistic to have this printed in the newspaper. :)
People at my new school thought the whole episode was just great. :)
Things went great at the new school - I still have friends from there.
I had to wonder why the old school didn't do anything when they saw
that someone was turned into an outcast for no apparent (or explained)
reason. I didn't complain to anyone about it, but it was obvious.
In my opinion, the school *did* 'kinda suck' for fostering that sort
of environment when the parents were spending a lot of money to send
kids there.
Gay kids are often treated a lot worse than this - and I think the
schools have a real obligation to try to eliminate bigotry so that
gay (and heterosexual) kids don't have to put up with such hassles.
|
323.1716 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 01 1995 18:27 | 25 |
| Suzanne:
There is nothing I can argue against you on nothing. There is one
element you did prove however. Bigotry knows no boundaries.
In third grade, I transferred from Catholic school to public. The nun
I had was inept and her skin was the only thing holding her bones
together. Upon transfer I was of course an outcast. Three kids picked
fights with me the first few weeks. I remember sitting on the front
steps watching the other kids play and I was basically the black sheep
for reasons I can only speculate.
The abuse eventually subsided but I remember it quite well. There was
a stinging feeling of lonliness. I learned that fighting back was
unfortunately necessary if I were to assimilate. Well, I did, I won,
and the isolation subsided.
This was back in 1970 and it sounds like children are children. Gay
children being harrassed IS NOT acceptable; but it happens Suzanne, it
happens to a cross section of people and I was a victim of this.
I am beginning to understand your point about changing the paradigm
regarding gays acceptability. Why can't we make it universally taught
that people should not be harrassed because of their color, religion,
or sex? Why do we have to promote National whatever month?
-Jack
|
323.1717 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 01 1995 18:36 | 24 |
| RE: .1716 Jack Martin
/ There is one element you did prove however. Bigotry knows no boundaries.
It's especially sad when it's inflicted on kids. I think we agree on
this.
/ Gay children being harrassed IS NOT acceptable; but it happens Suzanne,
/ it happens to a cross section of people and I was a victim of this.
/ I am beginning to understand your point about changing the paradigm
/ regarding gays acceptability.
Thanks, Jack.
/ Why can't we make it universally taught that people should not be
/ harrassed because of their color, religion, or sex? Why do we have
/ to promote National whatever month?
Well, I think the 'National whatever months' are part of the effort
to make people aware of the harassment (and to try to make it stop.)
When we don't need 'National whatever months' anymore, it'll be great.
Thanks again, Jack.
|
323.1718 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Fri Dec 01 1995 18:58 | 3 |
| ^I was basically the black sheep for reasons I can only speculate.
Kinda like now, huh Jack?? :)
|
323.1719 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Sat Dec 02 1995 11:27 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.1716 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
>I learned that fighting back was
> unfortunately necessary if I were to assimilate. Well, I did, I won,
> and the isolation subsided.
Sounds like you do not agree with Steve's suggestions that Gays
should simply be quiet. Sometimes open confrontation is neccessary
to affect a change.
Jim
|
323.1720 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Sun Dec 03 1995 10:11 | 4 |
|
Bummer, Brian. Imagine, getting that crap because people THOUGHT you
were gay. What was the name of the school.... Cracker Barrell Catholic?
|
323.1721 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Sun Dec 03 1995 14:50 | 123 |
| re: .1649 (Suzanne)
> On the contrary, I think society has become sophisticated enough by
> now
You say sophisticated, I say morally impaired.
> to realize that the days are gone when 'the missionary position
> only with the lights out and bodies still mostly covered' was the
> only truly "PROPER FORM" of sexual relations between consenting adults.
This is completely irrelevent, outside the one fact that society does
indeed have standards (and it is in the law) regarding family and
proper relations.
> Most people in our society don't particularly care what consenting
> adults do in the privacy of their own sex lives anymore. You've
> said yourself that you don't care about it either.
This is true enough. The problem is, it has gone beyond the parameters
you define above. It is now an issue of completely redifining the
meaning of family and societal morality by legislation.
> Society has no business deciding what consenting adults can or should
> do in the privacy of their own sex lives.
This is not the issue at all, nor is anyone suggesting that we have
"bedroom police". As I said above, it has been taken well outside the
"privacy of their own sex lives".
> Homosexuality is more like heterosexuality than it's like anything
> else. There's nothing deceptive about that.
Which is a matter of opinion, and quite beside the point I was trying
to make.
> People don't develop their sexual attractions based on majority rule.
> Most people grow up to be attracted to the opposite sex but some people
> grow up to be attracted to people of the same sex. We've known about
> this aspect of our species (and other species on Earth) for thousands
> of years. It's long past time to get used to the idea.
How one develops their sexual attraction, or how long such sexual
attraction is documented historically is irrelevent to my point.
/ "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", but is
/ considered to be THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the
/ foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and
/ female).
> It's the most common form of sexual relations, but 'heterosexuality'
> itself includes a substantial range of behaviors within it. A subset
> of these behaviors are sexual acts that some homosexuals also perform.
Nice deflection, but you once again side-step the point. Society has
defined het. relationships (mainly marriage relationships, though this
domino is quickly falling over) as the basis of its social structure
and sexual morality. This is not currently an arguable point- though
perhaps the eventual swing in mindset will eliminate this domino,
as well.
> Homosexuals have no unique sexual acts which are not also done by
> heterosexuals.
So? This is also beside the point. You may refer to what I wrote
above for a refresher of what my point is.
> There is no justification for discriminating against people who just
> happen to be gay.
The problem is, you are using "discrimination" much too broadly.
Society has every right to be discriminating in what it considers
'family' and 'marriage'. These concepts have been changing over the
years- for good or bad- so maybe it will eventually be accepting of
homosexual relationships in a similar way that is does normal
marriages. Once again, on this particular issue, "equal rights" is a
misuse of the term when applied to legalizing marriage to include
homosexuals.
> There are no assumptions which hold true for all
> gays (just as no assumptions hold true for ALL heterosexuals, either.)
Which again, has nothing to do with the point I was making.
> Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
> gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.
Then you agree that any form of discrimination, laws or otherwise, that
go against pedophilia are indefensible, correct?
The reality is that society not only has the right to make such moral
judgements, but it has the duty to do so- if it feels that homosexual
relations are unhealthy to the fabric of that society in any way.
> Until then, you're only talking
> about what you presume gay people do by the fact that they are gay.
I don't have to presume anything to make my point. The fact that you
continually bring up this particular strawman shows that you are stuck
in neutral in this discussion.
> You're talking about unequal treatment of human beings based on
> your presumptions about them.
Ah, here's the crux. Discrimination of a lifestyle does not necessarily
equate to unequal treatement. Not allowing gays to marry is not
unequal treatment, as marriage is defined by society to be one man and
one woman. Not allowing pedophiles to marry children is not unequal
treatment, as marriage is defined as one man and one woman. Not
allowing Mormons to have several wives is not unequal treatment, as
marriage is defined as one man and one women. Not allowing bigamy is
not unequal treatment (to those so disposed), as marriage is defined
as one man and one woman. Who one loves, or how many, is IRRELEVENT.
Society has every right to decide what core values it will identify as
proper for the foundation of that society (and the foundation of all
societies is the family unit).
No one is trying to stop homosexuals from living together if they so
choose. However, society does not recognize such as a proper legal/moral
arrangement.
-steve
|
323.1722 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Diablo | Mon Dec 04 1995 09:47 | 27 |
| | <<< Note 323.1721 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| It is now an issue of completely redifining the meaning of family and
| societal morality by legislation.
Oh please. I mean, really. The family has been redefined due to so many
reasons. You have people who want to bring children into this world, but don't
want to be married. You have families that have split. You have families that
stay together that love isn't exactly present. You have families that are
together where love is present. And with most of these groups, you would add
gays. You see, they already fit into these groups.
| Society has defined het. relationships (mainly marriage relationships, though
| this domino is quickly falling over) as the basis of its social structure
| and sexual morality.
Steve, you have seen things change in the past. Some for the better,
some for not. I can see why you feel this is for the not. So for argument sake,
I can accept it. I won't agree with it, but I can accept it. I think it has to
do with your honesty towards it. But I think we both know that there will
always be people on both sides of this issue. But something I don't recall you
answering before is, when the majority says it IS ok, will you keep fighting
for it to change back? The reson I ask is because you keep using the majority
card. I'm just wondering how much of a card is it.
Glen
|
323.1723 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 04 1995 10:06 | 14 |
| Glen,
My views don't depend on what the majority thinks, so yes, I would
still fight for the traditional family standards even if the majority
does a turn-a-bout. Though I use the majority card to make a point, my
argument does not depend upon it.
As a parallel to this topic; even though the majority of folk seem to
believe that sex before marriage is appropriate, I still argue to the
contrary. I try to bring about change in these attitudes by pointing
out the problems this attitude about sex has created in this nation.
-steve
|
323.1724 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 10:25 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1723 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| My views don't depend on what the majority thinks, so yes, I would
| still fight for the traditional family standards even if the majority
| does a turn-a-bout. Though I use the majority card to make a point, my
| argument does not depend upon it.
Steve, then using the majority card makes absolutely no sense. Because
if you are only going to use it in cases that show things to be on your side,
then stop using it as a reason when it doesn't, isn't that hypocritical?
Glen
|
323.1726 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Good Heavens,Cmndr,what DID you do | Mon Dec 04 1995 12:17 | 10 |
|
>When you meet a nice young male-female couple with children, do you
>think "Gee, these two definitely have vaginal sex. They may also
>engage in oral sex, too, and possibly some anal sex. She may even
>agree to be on top once in awhile. But vaginal sex is definite."
>Of course not. (Or at least I hope not.)
The "masturbation and turkey baster" method is possible, too.
|
323.1727 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Mon Dec 04 1995 12:21 | 1 |
| That would appeal to my baster instincts.
|
323.1728 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 12:24 | 2 |
| True, Shawn - the point is that most people don't usually wonder/worry
about what heterosexual couples might be doing when they have sex.
|
323.1725 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 12:32 | 68 |
| RE: .1721 Steve Leech
// Society has no business deciding what consenting adults can or should
// do in the privacy of their own sex lives.
/ This is not the issue at all, nor is anyone suggesting that we have
/ "bedroom police". As I said above, it has been taken well outside the
/ "privacy of their own sex lives".
The privacy of their sex lives has been INVADED by homophobes who hear
the word 'gay' and immediately think about what sorts of sex acts others
probably do.
When you meet a nice young male-female couple with children, do you
think "Gee, these two definitely have vaginal sex. They may also
engage in oral sex, too, and possibly some anal sex. She may even
agree to be on top once in awhile. But vaginal sex is definite."
Of course not. (Or at least I hope not.)
Why think of gay sex when you meet gay people then? They aren't
bringing you into their bedrooms - you are intruding there.
/ How one develops their sexual attraction, or how long such sexual
/ attraction is documented historically is irrelevent to my point.
It's central to my point, though. Homosexuality is a normal part of
the development of a certain percentage of people in our species.
Knowledge about the two sexual orientations in our species goes all
the way back in our recorded history.
// Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
// gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.
/ Then you agree that any form of discrimination, laws or otherwise, that
/ go against pedophilia are indefensible, correct?
When children are raped or molested, it's a different matter entirely
than relations between consenting adults.
// You're talking about unequal treatment of human beings based on
// your presumptions about them.
/ Ah, here's the crux. Discrimination of a lifestyle does not necessarily
/ equate to unequal treatement.
You support discrimination against people without even KNOWING what
'lifestyle' they happen to lead. When you meet a gay person, the
man or woman could be celibate for all you know. Yet you want to
discriminate against the person for what you BELIEVE the person
does in the privacy of their own sex life (without knowing what
they actually do.)
As you've said elsewhere, society is much more accepting of hetero
sex outside of marriage now. It's only a matter of time until
homosexual relations are included (more than they already are) as
being under the heading of 'sex outside of marriage' (which has
already been accepted.)
Every day, more and more gays come out of the closet (and it becomes
less and less shocking to find out that someone is gay.) That means
that our society is slowly changing to accept it.
The majority will eventually accept homosexuality as being just
another sexual orientation (similar to heterosexuality) and there's
nothing you will be able to do to stop this acceptance.
Meanwhile, there will still be plenty of REAL problems for all of us
to worry about when this happens (and it will.)
|
323.1729 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:19 | 17 |
| Suzanne:
Most hets don't really wonder or care what methodologies take place in
the bedroom of anybody. It all comes down to an issue of knowing a man
is affectionate with a man and a woman is affectionate with a woman.
Since our country IS NOT a christian nation but a humanist one, then
the issue of Christian morality takes a back seat.
I see alot of dysfunctionalism generally accepted as normal and because
of this, I am lead to have a burden not so much for individuals
involved in a certain lifestyle but the good of the society in general.
Translation: If the family unit is becoming meaningless and because of
this the society is going down the perberbial poop chute, then I as a
citizen have a right to voice concern over this.
-Jack
|
323.1730 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Reformatted to fit your screen | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:25 | 1 |
| Can I have the translation translated please?
|
323.1731 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:27 | 3 |
|
.1730 aagagagag.
|
323.1732 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:35 | 13 |
| Brian, I believe the disintegration of the family
unit...MOMMY...DADDY...CHILDREN is in direct correlation to the rise in
crime, the rise in homelessness, suicide, promiscuity, and numerous
other problems related to today's America.
I see the most healthy role model for a child as the parents. This
means a Mommy and a Daddy. This means a Daddy who is attentive to
Mommies needs and a Mommy who is attentive to Daddies needs. Of course
understand my convictions in this matter are molded by what I follow by
faith. I believe marriage was instituted by God in the Genesis account
where a man is to leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife.
-Jack
|
323.1733 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:39 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.1729 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Most hets don't really wonder or care what methodologies take place in the
| bedroom of anybody.
But you're not most hets.... that's obvious.
| It all comes down to an issue of knowing a man is affectionate with a man and
| a woman is affectionate with a woman.
Please tell me, if you would, why do you imagine anything about
man/man, woman/woman, but not between man/woman? I know one is the oppisite for
you, but one is for me too. And I certainly don't wonder what they do. View
everyone as a human being, and you probably won't have this problem.
| I see alot of dysfunctionalism generally accepted as normal and because of
| this, I am lead to have a burden not so much for individuals involved in a
| certain lifestyle but the good of the society in general.
Jack, do you believe homosexuality to be something dysfunctional?
Glen
|
323.1734 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:42 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.1732 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Brian, I believe the disintegration of the family unit...MOMMY...DADDY...
| CHILDREN is in direct correlation to the rise in crime, the rise in
| homelessness, suicide, promiscuity, and numerous other problems related to
| today's America.
Jack, is it so much the family unit, or does it have more to do with
the love part of it all?
| I see the most healthy role model for a child as the parents.
I view it as love. So I guess we differ on this. Having parents is
nice, but without the love part of it, well, it's kind of useless.
| This means a Mommy and a Daddy.
This is one form, true.... but by all means not the only one that works
good.
Glen
|
323.1735 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:45 | 6 |
| ZZ Jack, do you believe homosexuality to be something dysfunctional?
Let me answer this question with a question. Why shouldn't it be
considered dysfunctional?
|
323.1736 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:47 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1735 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Let me answer this question with a question. Why shouldn't it be
| considered dysfunctional?
Jack, the question I asked is answered with either a yes or a no. Not
with a question. If you would like to ask me a question, fine, but answer mine
first please.
Glen
|
323.1737 | | TROOA::COLLINS | This spot marks your location... | Mon Dec 04 1995 13:47 | 3 |
|
Many homosexuals are "fully functional".
|
323.1738 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 14:04 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.1737 by TROOA::COLLINS "This spot marks your location..." >>>
| Many homosexuals are "fully functional".
I know... I know..... ;-)
|
323.1739 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 14:22 | 7 |
| Okay Glen. Yes, I believe it is. This should be of no surprise. I've
compared the predisposition to alcoholism but also freely admit my
opinion is molded by spiritual bias.
Now, why shouldn't it be defined that way?
-Jack
|
323.1740 | BOOB! | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 15:20 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1739 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Okay Glen. Yes, I believe it is. This should be of no surprise. I've
| compared the predisposition to alcoholism but also freely admit my
| opinion is molded by spiritual bias.
Jack, you're a boob...plain and simple. Not to be confused with a boob
cake, though.
| Now, why shouldn't it be defined that way?
Because homosexuality is closer to heterosexuality (with the only
difference being the gender) than it could ever be to alcoholism. So unless you
tie heterosexuality into the alcoholism catagory on a 100% basis, like you are
with homosexuals, then you don't have a leg to stand on.
Glen
|
323.1741 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 15:49 | 30 |
| RE: .1732 Jack Martin
/ Brian, I believe the disintegration of the family
/ unit...MOMMY...DADDY...CHILDREN is in direct correlation to the rise in
/ crime, the rise in homelessness, suicide, promiscuity, and numerous
/ other problems related to today's America.
You can blame REAL PROBLEMS on anything you dislike or distrust, though.
It's an easy thing to do. Too easy, in fact.
Sometimes, you can unite people by saying, "See??? We have all these
problems because of ... T H E M !" (The Nazis did this in the 1930s
and it worked pretty well - for awhile.)
/ I see the most healthy role model for a child as the parents.
The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
with parents who are no longer together. Do you think he's going to
run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with swear
words? Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores? Do you
think he'll get 20 girls pregnant by the time he's 20 years old? Do
you think he'll get an STD?
It isn't just the magic "Daddy + Mommy" (or the lack thereof) that defines
a child's future. Further, it isn't any one societal phenomenon which
decides whether or not a family *has* a "Daddy + Mommy" arrangement.
Don't go after the nearest 'Boogeyman' to blame him for everything that
bothers you. The problems in this (or any) country are important enough
to stand and be addressed on their own.
|
323.1742 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | ch-ch-ch-ch-ha-ha-ha-ha | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:00 | 11 |
|
>The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
>with parents who are no longer together. Do you think he's going to
>run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with swear
>words? Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores? Do you
>think he'll get 20 girls pregnant by the time he's 20 years old? Do
>you think he'll get an STD?
Suzanne, sometimes it's the rich kids who cause trouble, for
whatever reason.
|
323.1743 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:09 | 17 |
| RE: .1742 Shawn
/ Suzanne, sometimes it's the rich kids who cause trouble, for
/ whatever reason.
There are LOTS of reasons why kids from a variety of backgrounds cause
trouble.
Lately, some people are pointing to a mental ability as the solution
to some of these problems. Not intelligence or talent or dedication,
though.
Some people think that optimism is the key. (Optimism is defined as
being capable of seeing that everyday problems and bad situations are
temporary, but ones worth as a person is permanent.)
These same people believe that optimism can be learned and acquired.
|
323.1744 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:22 | 3 |
| Actually Suzanne, most of the things you listed are pretty much normal
behaviour for the Royals. It's only quite recently that the rampant
rogering and the "being a looney" behaviours have been hushed up.
|
323.1745 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:47 | 34 |
| Before replying, the royal family is superficial and dysfunctional to the
core. Those poor kids don't have a chance.
Z The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
Z with parents who are no longer together.
Yes, divorce is an unfortunate fact of life which erodes the family.
Z Do you think he's going
Z to run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with
Z swear words?
Probably not. I imagine the kid has a great chance of going to jail or
commiting suicide due to the dysfunctionalism of their environment.
Z Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores?
Good chance of it.
Z Do you think he'll get 20 girls pregnant by the time he's 20 years old?
His chances of rebellion are greater due to the irresponsibility of his
parents.
Z Do you think he'll get an STD?
Depends on his scope of responsibility or irresponsibility. Jim
Morrison hated his father and consequently, he fathered kids all over
the country.
The consequences of a child with gay parents has not been adequately
determined. I am skeptical it is doable.
-Jack
|
323.1746 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:50 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1739 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Now, why shouldn't it be defined that way?
Because you offer no cogent argument to back up your belief. You even
admit that your belief is based on scripture, not objective data.
In the last 35 or so centuries, these writings have been used by
several cultures to oppress, subjugate, even exterminate those that
did not share the same beliefs. Not a terrific track record for those
who choose to rely upon them to label other individuals.
Jim
|
323.1747 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:54 | 1 |
| Jack, please address .1740
|
323.1748 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 04 1995 16:56 | 5 |
| > The consequences of a child with gay parents has not been adequately
> determined. I am skeptical it is doable.
oh fer bloody crissakes . . . .
|
323.1749 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:03 | 11 |
| ZZ oh fer bloody crissakes . . . .
Jack, is this just an emotional reply or is there a solid basis for it?
Any competent psychologist will tell you that there are ramifications
to a childs development based on their environment and surroundings.
There is no evidence to support the idea that two men acting as a
married couple would...even in the highest sense of propriety wouldn't
have some sort of effect on the childs outlook on women, outlook on
marriage, or outlook on life in general.
-Jack
|
323.1750 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:04 | 57 |
| RE: .1745 Jack Martin
/ Before replying, the royal family is superficial and dysfunctional
/ to the core. Those poor kids don't have a chance.
The worst choice those 'poor kids' will probably make is to take up
their father's passion for polo.
// The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
// with parents who are no longer together.
/ Yes, divorce is an unfortunate fact of life which erodes the family.
Charles and Diana aren't divorced.
// Do you think he's going
// to run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with
// swear words?
/ Probably not. I imagine the kid has a great chance of going to jail or
/ commiting suicide due to the dysfunctionalism of their environment.
So - every child of divorce is in danger of suicide, Jack? I don't
think so.
Wills is going to step into a job where he will be worth billions of
dollars. I think he'll find a way to live with it.
(If Bill Gates has kids and someday gets divorced, do you think his
children will be in danger of suicide, too?)
// Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores?
/ Good chance of it.
Only if his bodyguards agree to it, though. (And if they do, they'll
take the drugs and rob the convenience stores FOR him.)
/ His chances of rebellion are greater due to the irresponsibility of his
/ parents.
He lives at a boarding school. I doubt his schedule is interrupted
much by his parents' relationship.
/ Depends on his scope of responsibility or irresponsibility. Jim
/ Morrison hated his father and consequently, he fathered kids all over
/ the country.
Jim Morrison's parents didn't get divorced, though.
/ The consequences of a child with gay parents has not been adequately
/ determined. I am skeptical it is doable.
Jack, you have the mentality that children of divorced parents can
be expected to try to commit suicide. Whatever you have to say
about the children of gay parents is bound to be just as silly, so
who cares?
|
323.1751 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:07 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.1749 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Jack, is this just an emotional reply or is there a solid basis for it?
This is pretty funny... Jack Martin asking someone if their reply has a
solid basis.... start at home, Jack.
| There is no evidence to support the idea that two men acting as a
| married couple would...even in the highest sense of propriety wouldn't
| have some sort of effect on the childs outlook on women, outlook on
| marriage, or outlook on life in general.
Yeah... I know that my mother and father, who kept wanting me to date
women, drove me to homosexuality. Guess again, Jack.
But I would be interested in your telling us just what kind of effect 2
gay men can have on a childs view of women.
Oh, and I guess it is ok for lesbians to "act" like a married couple,
cuz you didn't say anything about them.
Glen
|
323.1752 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:14 | 16 |
| Z Because you offer no cogent argument to back up your belief. You even
Z admit that your belief is based on scripture, not objective data.
For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual
revolution of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming
rate. Every cause has an effect and the effect on children is suicide,
misery, crime, dropping out of school, and out of wedlock childbirths.
So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside
of marriage. Alot of my ideas are based on scripture. We know that
casual sex has been a catastrophe. There is no evidence to support the
idea that a gay couple can nurture a child properly. As far as anal
intercourse is concerned, I am not a proponent of it be it gay or
straight. C. Everett Koop stated the dangers of such practices and as
an authority, I am inclined to believe what he says.
-Jack
|
323.1753 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:16 | 5 |
| >> We know that
>> casual sex has been a catastrophe.
shoot - i thought i had the shades down.
|
323.1754 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:20 | 24 |
| Glen called me a boob...Oh well!
Z Because homosexuality is closer to heterosexuality (with the only
Z difference being the gender) than it could ever be to alcoholism. So
Z unless you
Z tie heterosexuality into the alcoholism catagory on a 100% basis, like
Z you are with homosexuals, then you don't have a leg to stand on.
Glen, sexual preference and alcoholism are both predispositions. Of
course there are differentiators, they are both unrelated. However,
just as one does not learn to be an alcoholic, autistic, straight, gay,
whatever, these traits are inherent to our genetic make up.
Therefore, adherance to this genetic makeup is driven by social agenda.
You are saying that certain predispositions are dangerous to
society...and on this I agree. You state that being gay is not
dangerous to society...and there I agree. You state that having a gay
relationship is a sign of love, normal behavior, and beneficial to
society. Well, there's where you and I differ. However, this opinion,
like yours, is subject to societal pressure and one's spiritual outlook
on life.
-Jack
|
323.1755 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:22 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1753 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
> shoot - i thought i had the shades down.
Maybe the beddroom police have installed video monitoring equipment
to ensure that you don't do anything "unhealthy".
Jim
|
323.1756 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:27 | 36 |
| <<< Note 323.1752 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual
> revolution of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming
> rate.
And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?
> Every cause has an effect and the effect on children is suicide,
> misery, crime, dropping out of school, and out of wedlock childbirths.
And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?
> So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside
> of marriage.
And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?
> Alot of my ideas are based on scripture.
No! Really?
>There is no evidence to support the
> idea that a gay couple can nurture a child properly.
Jack, you have it backwards. In order to label something as "bad"
YOU have to supply the data that it IS bad. You can't simply say
that there is no evidence that it is "good" and call it a day.
> As far as anal
> intercourse is concerned, ...........
You're starting to blather Jack. Take a deep breath and try to get
focused back on the discussion at hand.
Jim
|
323.1757 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | A Parting Shot in the Dark | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:28 | 11 |
|
Keep at it, Diane ... practice makes perfect.
Jack, many changes have occurred during the 60's, so how can
you blame the divorce rate on the sexual revolution? Do you
know that that's what caused it?
Maybe the divorce rate should be blamed on color TV? Or the
digital watch?
|
323.1758 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:32 | 5 |
|
>> Keep at it, Diane ... practice makes perfect.
<various and sundry looks of amusement, apathy, etc.>
|
323.1759 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:33 | 105 |
| re: .1725 (Suzanne)
/ This is not the issue at all, nor is anyone suggesting that we have
/ "bedroom police". As I said above, it has been taken well outside the
/ "privacy of their own sex lives".
> The privacy of their sex lives has been INVADED by homophobes who hear
> the word 'gay' and immediately think about what sorts of sex acts others
> probably do.
Ah, so it is the dreaded homophobes who are trying to redefine the
basic family unit.
Here's a thought for you (one I've been trying to get across to you for
a couple of notes, now), I don't care whether gay folk have sex with
each other or not- either way, I am not willing to agree with
redefining the basic family unit. Sexual acts are not relevent to this
point.
> Why think of gay sex when you meet gay people then?
Who says I do?
> They aren't bringing you into their bedrooms - you are intruding there.
But when they suggest that family should be redefined in their image, I
have every right to say "no", and support current standards.
> Homosexuality is a normal part of
> the development of a certain percentage of people in our species.
This is arguable.
> Knowledge about the two sexual orientations in our species goes all
> the way back in our recorded history.
As do other "orientations" that have been historically unacceptable.
This is not something on which to base your argument.
// Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
// gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.
/ Then you agree that any form of discrimination, laws or otherwise, that
/ go against pedophilia are indefensible, correct?
> When children are raped or molested, it's a different matter entirely
> than relations between consenting adults.
My question really has nothing to do with children getting raped, this
is your addition. My question had to do with making a "moral
judgement". This is what I do when I fight against redefining the
basic family unit; this is what you are telling me I have no right to
do, while making the moral judgement that pedophilia is immoral (one
point on which we agree).
/ Ah, here's the crux. Discrimination of a lifestyle does not necessarily
/ equate to unequal treatement.
> You support discrimination against people without even KNOWING what
> 'lifestyle' they happen to lead.
What discrimination do I support? My main concern has to do with
marriage and the basic family unit of society. On this point, it is
society's *responsibility* to discriminate. To wit: pedophiles cannot
marry children; bigamy is illegal; polygamy is illegal, etc.
> When you meet a gay person, the
> man or woman could be celibate for all you know. Yet you want to
> discriminate against the person for what you BELIEVE the person
> does in the privacy of their own sex life (without knowing what
> they actually do.)
I haven't said this at all. Whether they are celibate or promiscuous
matters not to the point at hand. That point being society has every
right to define family and marriage as it sees fit.
> As you've said elsewhere, society is much more accepting of hetero
> sex outside of marriage now. It's only a matter of time until
> homosexual relations are included (more than they already are) as
> being under the heading of 'sex outside of marriage' (which has
> already been accepted.)
I've already granted you this point. I think you are right about this.
This, IMO, does not make it morally right (just as sex outside marriage
is not morally right, IMO), or something we want to promote by
redefining the basic unit of our society. Unfortunately, we probably
will.
> Every day, more and more gays come out of the closet (and it becomes
> less and less shocking to find out that someone is gay.) That means
> that our society is slowly changing to accept it.
Correct. We are being systematically desensitized to homosexuality.
It is only a matter of time before society becomes accepting of such
coupling.
> Meanwhile, there will still be plenty of REAL problems for all of us
> to worry about when this happens (and it will.)
No doubt; and the continual moral degredation of society should create
new problems, as well as making existing problems worse.
-steve
|
323.1760 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:33 | 42 |
| RE: .1752 Jack Martin
/ For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual
/ revolution of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming
/ rate.
The divorce rate has climbed since the national speed limit was
reduced, too. The divorce rate has climbed since the invention
and increasing frequency of the use of semi-conductor devices, too.
(We won't even discuss what the VCR and home computer revolutions
have done to the divorce rates. These last 15 years have been hell.)
/ Every cause has an effect and the effect on children is suicide,
/ misery, crime, dropping out of school, and out of wedlock childbirths.
When you live in a complex society which is constantly changing, you
can't point to any one thing which is THE CAUSE of all possible problems
(unless you want to promote a particular solution such as religion,
of course.)
/ So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside
/ of marriage. Alot of my ideas are based on scripture.
You sometimes adjust reality to fit the Scriptures.
/ There is no evidence to support the idea that a gay couple can nurture
/ a child properly.
Gay people are human beings, so there is EVERY REASON to believe that
they can nurture a child properly. And I've seen gay parents myself
who have wonderful, beautiful children.
/ As far as anal intercourse is concerned, I am not a proponent of it be
/ it gay or straight. C. Everett Koop stated the dangers of such
/ practices and as an authority, I am inclined to believe what he says.
The same dangers exist for vaginal intercourse. The only difference
is that women are the ones in danger in heterosexual relations, while
men are the ones in danger in sex between gay males. Lesbians aren't
in any danger at all. (Hint: It's the penetration that causes the
problems. Heterosexual and homosexual males are the ones who do this.)
|
323.1761 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:35 | 25 |
| Z He lives at a boarding school. I doubt his schedule is interrupted
Z much by his parents' relationship.
Suzanne, don't make the mistake of thinking rich kids will be happy.
There are alot of people who are quite wealthy who commit suicide.
Kurt Colbain sticks in my mind right now and I have no doubt there are
many others.
Secondly, your posting above is actually the opposite. His schedule is
EXACTLY why those kids will end up screwy if in fact they are unable to
cope. Children at that age, particularly boys need their dad around
and they DO notice when the father isn't there.
I don't claim all kids will commit suicide if their parents end up
divorced. That's absurd. Statistically, children from divorced
parents will in fact have a better chance of failing than those from
married homes.
ZZ Maybe the beddroom police have installed video monitoring equipment
ZZ to ensure that you don't do anything "unhealthy".
Snide as you want to be, this isn't about legalization. This is about
societal acceptance.
-Jack
|
323.1762 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:36 | 3 |
| re: .1740
Not a very convincing argument, Glen.
|
323.1763 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:39 | 11 |
| ZZ And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?
None...except to make the point that lifestyles have ramifications on
children. There is not enough evidence to show how a child can cope in
life with two men living together as husband and husband...that was
all.
Instead of making condecending remarks, try to follow the flow of the
discussion. This is what I brought up in the first place.
-Jack
|
323.1764 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:40 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1759 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> What discrimination do I support? My main concern has to do with
> marriage and the basic family unit of society.
So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
the CRA? This has nothing to do with the definition of the family
or the marriage laws.
Jim
|
323.1765 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:40 | 8 |
| ZZ The divorce rate has climbed since the national speed limit was
ZZ reduced, too. The divorce rate has climbed since the invention
ZZ and increasing frequency of the use of semi-conductor devices, too.
Non sequitor and I'm surprised you stooped this low. Divorce and
adultery/fornication have a proven correlation.
-Jack
|
323.1766 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:41 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1761 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> I don't claim all kids will commit suicide if their parents end up
> divorced. That's absurd. Statistically, children from divorced
> parents will in fact have a better chance of failing than those from
> married homes.
Data, Jack, data.
Jim
|
323.1767 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | A Parting Shot in the Dark | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:41 | 9 |
|
Glen, I guess homosexuality and alcoholism could be considered
"similar" if you happen to think they're "deviances from the
norm". And in that way they're "inferior" to heterosexuality.
If they actually are genetic in nature, then although they'd
still be "deviances from the norm", they'd have to be consid-
ered "alternative" instead of "inferior".
|
323.1768 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:43 | 14 |
| <<< Note 323.1763 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> None
That's what I thought.
> Instead of making condecending remarks, try to follow the flow of the
> discussion. This is what I brought up in the first place.
Jack, when you try to divert the discussion with one of your free
form rambles, expect that you will be reminded regarding the subject
of the disccusion.
Jim
|
323.1769 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | A Parting Shot in the Dark | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:44 | 10 |
|
Jack, how man "messed up" kids are from the homes of divorced
hetero parents? Maybe all of them?
And how many "messed up" kids are from the homes of divorced
homo parents? Maybe none of them?
With these numbers, it looks like you have no basis for your
claim.
|
323.1770 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:44 | 3 |
| ZZ Data, Jack, data.
The datum is there. Don't have it at my finger tips.
|
323.1771 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:47 | 9 |
| ZZ And how many "messed up" kids are from the homes of divorced
ZZ homo parents? Maybe none of them?
Insufficient data...I already said that! But the claims here seem to
be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple and I
am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
child rearing that we are not aware of!
-Jack
|
323.1772 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:47 | 36 |
| RE: .1761 Jack Martin
/ Suzanne, don't make the mistake of thinking rich kids will be happy.
/ There are alot of people who are quite wealthy who commit suicide.
/ Kurt Colbain sticks in my mind right now and I have no doubt there are
/ many others.
A sample of one (out of 5+ billion human inhabitants on the planet), eh?
// He lives at a boarding school. I doubt his schedule is interrupted
// much by his parents' relationship.
/ Secondly, your posting above is actually the opposite. His schedule is
/ EXACTLY why those kids will end up screwy if in fact they are unable to
/ cope. Children at that age, particularly boys need their dad around
/ and they DO notice when the father isn't there.
If Wills and Harry lived at home (and their parents were still together),
they'd spend more time with their nannies than with their parents.
/ I don't claim all kids will commit suicide if their parents end up
/ divorced. That's absurd.
You seem to think that kids from divorced families are a lot more
prone to suicide, though. I'd like to see some hard stats to back
up that claim. (And if you do go for such stats, be sure they've
eliminated the possibility that the kids committed suicide because
their families faced financial ruin after the divorce.)
/ Statistically, children from divorced parents will in fact have a
/ better chance of failing than those from married homes.
If this is true, the financial difficulties of divorce probably had
more to do with their success or failure than the divorce itself.
(Let's see some hard stats on this, too, and be sure the researchers
were watching out for the effects of financial problems on these kids.)
|
323.1773 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:47 | 1 |
| Staring at the tips of your fingers isn't going to help.
|
323.1774 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:48 | 15 |
| .1761
> Statistically, children from divorced
> parents will in fact have a better chance of failing than those from
> married homes.
From the famous Curmudgeon's Dictionary:
statistics n. Mathematical figures purporting to describe
reality, sufficiently arcane that they can be explained in whatever
way makes the prospects most attractive to the customer.
Attractive to the customer, or, in your case, useful for imposing your
agenda on others. You're a great purveyor of hate propaganda, Jack;
Joseph Goebbels had nothing on you.
|
323.1775 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | A Parting Shot in the Dark | Mon Dec 04 1995 17:52 | 19 |
|
>Joseph Goebbels had nothing on you.
He was my favorite "Hollywood Squares" celebrity guest star.
Really funny guy.
RE: Jack
> Insufficient data...I already said that! But the claims here seem to
> be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple and I
> am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
> child rearing that we are not aware of!
And who's to say that that "new dimension" wouldn't be for the
better?
|
323.1776 | Independence snarf | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:01 | 13 |
| .1771
> But the claims here seem to
> be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple
I don't see that claim. I see people saying that the fact that the
parents are gay does not per se produce a messed-up kid - or a gay one.
I suggest that what messes up kids in gay homes is the pressure from
hatemongers like you. If these kids were surrounded by supportive
people who were good role models, they would grow up a lot healthier
than they can if they see everyone around calling their parents
perverts. It is YOU, Jack, not gay parents, that produce messed-up
kids.
|
323.1777 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:02 | 42 |
| RE: .1771 Jack Martin
/ But the claims here seem to be that a gay couple can raise a child
/ as easily as a het couple
No one said it was 'just as easy'. The children of gay couples have
to face ignorance, bigotry and homophobia. (Before you say that it's
selfish for gay couples to put children in this situation, let me
remind you that children at school face ignorance, bigotry and all
sorts of idiotic prejudices and attitudes at school - no parent can
protect any child from all the truly stupid people in the world.)
/ and I am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new
/ dimension to child rearing that we are not aware of!
My uncle had three young boys when his wife (their mother) died. Two
of his sisters (my aunts) moved into another floor of a three-floor
(three-family) building that he owned. They became like mothers to
these little boys. They grew up to be successful family men with
wonderful wives and children.
If my uncle could only have found some of his brothers to move into
the downstairs apartment (my Dad's family had 10 kids), I think they
would have grown up just as well.
The boys were loved. They knew it. Their lives went on with one
parent and two loving aunts (plus the other aunts, uncles, cousins
and a grandmother on one side.)
My two aunts could just as easily have been lesbians. They lived
together for their entire adult lives (until the younger aunt died
of a heart condition from an old childhood disease.) My two aunts
owned property together. They owned cars together. They socialized
together. They even shared a room with two beds. (They shared a
room with two other sisters while they were growing up, so it probably
seemed like a luxury to them to reduce the arrangement to TWO sisters
instead of four.)
Children wouldn't see adults having sex one way or another. What
difference would it make if the two adults were siblings or lovers?
(Or do you and your wife have sex in front of your children?)
|
323.1778 | One of my uncles was a Carmelite brother in a monastery. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:09 | 8 |
| Jack, in case you're starting to wonder about my aunts now, I should
probably mention that they were 'lay nuns' who performed outside
works for a convent while also holding down their own jobs to support
themselves. They dedicated their lives to the Church and to their
siblings' families after their parents died.
My grandmother - their mother - was a 'lay nun', too. One of my other
aunts was a nun (a Mother Superior at a Catholic school.)
|
323.1779 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Great big Electrowhocardiofluxe! | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:14 | 3 |
|
Stop saying "lay nun".
|
323.1780 | we'll know what you mean | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:16 | 3 |
|
or say "lei none".
|
323.1781 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:17 | 10 |
| By the way, when my siblings and I were growing up, our parents had
it in their wills that if something happened to them, the two aunts
who lived together would take custody of us and raise us.
The older of the two sisters became the head of the family after
my grandparents died. My Dad was in his 20s when both of his
parents died. He was child #6 out of the 10 kids in the family.
My parents wanted us to be raised by two women - rather than by any
of their married siblings - if something had happened to them.
|
323.1782 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:37 | 14 |
| Some convents are set up so that the nuns inside are cloistered.
They live without making any face-to-face contact with the outside
world. Such convents are sometimes associated with women who make
the outside contacts for them. These women take certain vows - or
make certain promises - but they do not take the full vows that
nuns take.
They are close enough to being nuns that the cloistered nuns can
interact with them on a face-to-face basis, though.
My aunts used the term 'lay nuns' to describe themselves, I thought.
It's similar to the term 'layman'.
I certainly knew what they meant, anyway.
|
323.1783 | Do you ever wonder why people don't like you? | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 04 1995 18:42 | 42 |
| re: .1749, Our Jack Martin
> Jack, is this just an emotional reply or is there a solid basis for it?
I dunno - you tell me. It is largely uttered in the amazement that you
continue to prove me wrong. On almost a daily basis, I will run across one
or another of your missives in here and say to myself, "Well, there's no
question about it - that has got to be the dumbest thing that Jack Martin
has ever said in his life." But, lo and behold, a day or two will pass
and you prove me wrong yet again.
> Any competent psychologist will tell you that there are ramifications
> to a childs development based on their environment and surroundings.
Yes - I know. Was it in this string or another, that you made that asinine
statement about the importance of molding a child's values at an early
age by fostering the idea that a "same sex eros relationship" was
"fundamentally wrong"? Do you recall that one, Jack? The one where I pointed
out the fact that the love and respect likely to be present in a like-gendered
parental-pair home was probably a more valuable lesson for any child to
learn than the "fundamental wrongness" of such a relationship? That one -
the one you conveniently never replied to because it prolly stuck in your
miserable craw that a point had been made which even your hate couldn't
wheedle its way around.
> There is no evidence to support the idea that two men acting as a
> married couple would...even in the highest sense of propriety wouldn't
> have some sort of effect on the childs outlook on women, outlook on
> marriage, or outlook on life in general.
And likewise there's zero evidence to the contrary and you know it, Jack.
Why the hell should it have any effect on the child's outlook on women?
Because YOU believe that all gay men are by definition women haters? Jack,
I'd be willing to bet next week's salary that the majority of gay men have
an order of magnitude more respect for women than you do! Why the hell
should it have any effect on the child's outlook on marriage? Because
people like YOU are in the business of seeing to it that marriage isn't an
option legally available to like-gendered parents? Why the hell should it
have any effect on the child's general outlook on life? Because YOU want
to single these families out as different and unequal?
What a sad, sad, case you are, you hatemongering dweeb.
|
323.1784 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 19:17 | 7 |
| <<< Note 323.1770 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> The datum is there. Don't have it at my finger tips.
Oh, I HOPE you have more than one point of information.
Jim
|
323.1785 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 04 1995 19:21 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1771 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
> child rearing that we are not aware of!
Pure, insubstantiated, conjecture on your part at this point.
Jim
|
323.1786 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:22 | 38 |
| | <<< Note 323.1752 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual revolution
| of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming rate.
Now tie the 2 together. Could it be that seeing we also saw that a lot
of the so called, "happy families" that were out there, really weren't? That
abuse was rampant? That a lot of people were staying together just for the
kids, without realizing that because they did not love each other, it was
harming the kids? Be real, Jack. There are a whole host of things that went on
during the time period that led to the way marriages are failing now. Pat of
that also had to do with people felt, or were pressured into getting married.
For you to even imply that it is JUST the sexual revolution that has caused the
problems, shows you lack of knowledge on what happened during that time period.
Btw... homosexuality was around before the sexual revolution. It wasn't
the sexual revolution that brought things to where they are now. It was a thing
called Stonewall. You should really read up on things before you speak.
| So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside of
| marriage.
No, we don't know that from what you said.
| casual sex has been a catastrophe. There is no evidence to support the
| idea that a gay couple can nurture a child properly.
Please....what does casual sex and a gay couple nurturing a child have
in common? Please elaborate.
Btw, when each person goes into the child raising part of their life,
no one has any evidence to support that THEY can nurture a child properly. Your
reasoning has nothing to back it up.
Glen
|
323.1787 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:27 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1761 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Statistically, children from divorced parents will in fact have a better
| chance of failing than those from married homes.
Show us those statistics.
Glen
|
323.1788 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:27 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1762 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Not a very convincing argument, Glen.
Steve, I think many might agree that Jack is a boob! :-)
|
323.1789 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:30 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.1763 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| ZZ And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?
| None...except to make the point that lifestyles have ramifications on
| children.
Jack, if it's none, then I guess you won't be upset if I adopt a kid,
right?
| There is not enough evidence to show how a child can cope in life with two
| men living together as husband and husband...that was all.
Be real. You say there is not enough evidence right now. Let's go with
that. Now tell us, of the evidence that there is out there now... what does it
say?
Glen
|
323.1790 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:31 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1765 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| ZZ The divorce rate has climbed since the national speed limit was
| ZZ reduced, too. The divorce rate has climbed since the invention
| ZZ and increasing frequency of the use of semi-conductor devices, too.
| Non sequitor and I'm surprised you stooped this low. Divorce and
| adultery/fornication have a proven correlation.
So doesn't homosexuality/heterosexuality. Btw, the speed limit thing
has more of a chance of being true than homosexuality/alcoholism.
Glen
|
323.1791 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:33 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1767 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "A Parting Shot in the Dark" >>>
| Glen, I guess homosexuality and alcoholism could be considered "similar" if
| you happen to think they're "deviances from the norm".
Alcoholism covers homosexuality and heterosexuality. So how can you use
it with just homosexuality and consider it a deviance from the norm? Cuz
alcoholism is a deviance from the norm for homosexuals as well.
Glen
|
323.1792 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:35 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1771 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Insufficient data...I already said that! But the claims here seem to
| be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple and I
| am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
| child rearing that we are not aware of!
Jack, you are using what data to determine it is bad? Oh wait, you
don't have any.... but it is bad. ok...
|
323.1793 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:36 | 4 |
| | <<< Note 323.1776 by SMURF::BINDER "Eis qui nos doment uescimur." >>>
| -< Independence snarf >-
Dick, talk about a note that says it all. Thanks for posting it.
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323.1794 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:39 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.1783 by MOLAR::DELBALSO "I (spade) my (dogface)" >>>
| I dunno - you tell me. It is largely uttered in the amazement that you
| continue to prove me wrong. On almost a daily basis, I will run across one
| or another of your missives in here and say to myself, "Well, there's no
| question about it - that has got to be the dumbest thing that Jack Martin
| has ever said in his life." But, lo and behold, a day or two will pass
| and you prove me wrong yet again.
Jack, I was reading this at home, and good thing. I don't remember
laughing so hard at anything someone wrote before. Too bad it is true. :-)
| And likewise there's zero evidence to the contrary and you know it, Jack.
| Why the hell should it have any effect on the child's outlook on women?
| Because YOU believe that all gay men are by definition women haters?
Jack, there could be another reason OJ has..... gay men might make
their gay children......errr....gay!
Glen
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323.1795 | | MPGS::MARKEY | Your SPR pooper scooper | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:39 | 5 |
|
Mr. Binder, aside from certain pathologies involving the Democratic
party, is one smart man. Way to go Biggus Dickus.
-b
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323.1796 | | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&Glory! | Mon Dec 04 1995 21:45 | 2 |
| Wot, am I missing yet another OurJackBashingFest? Oh Fie, Feh, Oi!!
|
323.1797 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 04 1995 23:16 | 59 |
| On the subject of 'who is qualified to raise children'...
Up until 100 years ago, the whole concept of 'childhood' wasn't even
recognized. Children were miniature adults who dressed in small
adult clothing and worked for a living.
In the mid 1800s, there was a substantial 'homeless' population in
New York City. At least 10,000 young children roamed the streets
to beg, sweep sidewalks, sing or prostitute themselves for money
to eat. They slept on the streets, cuddled up together. Some
of these children were toddlers.
The city did nothing about it until someone formed an association
to relocate these children to homes in the country. They went
west on 'Orphan Trains'. They slept in their seats for days and
were cleaned up shortly before arriving in various farming towns
where they would be made available to foster homes. The children
would stand on a stage like slaves to be purchased - people would
look inside their mouths at their teeth to see if they were healthy.
Many of these children had parents who died or could no longer take
care of them. The Orphan Trains ran from the mid 1800s until 1929.
Around 100,000 children were relocated to homes in rural communities.
Children were laborers, so some of the families wanted them to work.
Other families lavished love and kindness on the children. Some
arrangements didn't work out well, so children were passed from farm
to farm to look for better situations. The 'foster parents' weren't
screened very well, and the committees set up to watch out for the
children weren't very persistent about it. Some children simply ran
away. In other words, it was hit and miss for these kids. Some of them
did very well with loving families, but others were treated as slaves.
Many of them were finally off the streets for good, though.
After thousands of years of treating children like small adults who
needed to work to help support their parents and siblings, in the
late 20th century we now have a situation where only a narrowly-defined
set of people are considered qualified (by some) to raise children at all.
Our species has become so fragile that if the parents get divorced,
some consider the kids to be on the brink of suicide or at the very
least, ruined for life. For thousands of years, a substantial number
of women died in childbirth while men died in wars (and everyone was
in danger from disease) - so it wasn't unusual at all for children to
be raised by other 'family'-type arrangements. Children born out of
wedlock were put into homes where most of them died from the lack of
nurturing. Many other children were prey to deadly childhood diseases,
but the children who did survive were raised in a quite a variety of
family arrangements.
It's wonderful that children have 'childhoods' now and that most
childhood diseases have been conquered. It's also great that we
don't have 10,000 children wandering around by themselves on the
streets of New York and other big cities.
Children need to be loved, nurtured and given positive examples for
what it means to be good, honorable human beings. People who can do
these things make good parents, regardless of their marital status
and/or their sexual orientation.
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323.1798 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 04 1995 23:18 | 9 |
| re: .1732, Our Jack Martin
> I believe the disintegration of the family unit [...] is in direct
> correlation to the rise in [...] homelessness
Many of the points you mentioned here could have been fun to pursue, Jack,
but I'll restrain myself to inquiring about this one in particular. Please
enlighten us as to how this works. I'm sure that it will prove to be my source
of levity for the day.
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323.1799 | Merci beaucoup, les fr�res Montgolfier!! | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&Glory! | Tue Dec 05 1995 06:13 | 2 |
| Don't forget -- hot air was the original source of levity...
|
323.1800 | SNARF | PLAYER::BROWNL | Tyro-Delphi-hacker | Tue Dec 05 1995 06:20 | 1 |
|
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323.1801 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Tue Dec 05 1995 08:29 | 5 |
|
> Any competent psychologist will tell you that there are ramifications
Jack, any competent psychologist would tell you that there is not
enough hard evidence to support your hypothesis.
|
323.1802 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Tue Dec 05 1995 08:38 | 36 |
|
re:.1764
> So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
> the CRA?
Jim, I'm opposed to the CRA on general principle, but then we've
already had that discussion....
re:.1785
> > am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
> > child rearing that we are not aware of!
>
> Pure, unsubstantiated, conjecture on your part at this point.
Jim, are you claiming that a couple being gay DOES NOT add a whole new
dimension to child rearing? Or are you claiming that you are aware of
the dimension that is added by the couple being gay?
re:.1789
> | None...except to make the point that lifestyles have ramifications on
> | children.
>
> Jack, if it's none, then I guess you won't be upset if I adopt a kid, right?
Glen, what would you propose to teach you kid about sexuality?
re: Mr Binder
I must say that I'm disappointed in your slurring of Jack Martin.
Calling him a "hatemonger", and comparing him to "Joseph Goebbels" I
feel is more than a little extreme! IMNHO. You are an intelligent
man, surely you can get your point across without this sort of
foolishness!
|
323.1803 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:09 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1802 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
| Glen, what would you propose to teach you kid about sexuality?
1) Whatever sexual orientation they are, I love them the same.
2) Think before you have sex. You must take responsibility for your
actions. (ie, pregnancy, std's, AIDS)
3) Treat others with respect, not as objects.
4) Teach the kid about safer sex. Then revert back to #2.
Glen
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323.1804 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:37 | 18 |
| <<< Note 323.1802 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
>> So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
>> the CRA?
> Jim, I'm opposed to the CRA on general principle, but then we've
> already had that discussion....
The CRA was, and still is, an unfortunate neccessity. Recognizing
this, what objection is there to adding sexual orientation to the
list of protected classes? Even Jack and Steve seem to agree that
denying someone a job simply because they are Gay is wrong. Or denying
them a place to live is wrong. WE haven't specifically addressed the
use of public accomodations, but I'll assume that they agree on that
point as well. If this is so, then why the reluctance to simply
codify what they believe?
Jim
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323.1805 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:52 | 25 |
| Glen, nice little box you and others have me cornered into.
1) Whatever sexual orientation they are, I love them the same.
Yeah? And I would do the same.
2) Think before you have sex. You must take responsibility for
your actions. (ie, pregnancy, std's, AIDS)
Yeah? And I would do the same. However I would go the extra step in
reminding my child of the responsibility to present himself holy before
God.
3) Treat others with respect, not as objects.
Yeah? I would do the same.
4) Teach the kid about safer sex. Then revert back to #2.
Yeah? You can rest assure that I would teach my child about
contraception. Simultaneously, I would remind him of his
responsibility to present himself holy before God.
-Jack
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323.1806 | strict scrutiny | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:53 | 32 |
|
I am NOT opposed to the Civil Rights Act on principle, as applied
to black and native American minorities. Yes, I see that this act
causes terrible harm to our society, but the alternative is worse.
In my view, the society made a proper political choice in deciding
to violate our basic principles of egalitarianism, because we were
doing even more violation because of long, blatant oppression.
To me, the recognition of special legal status to any groups is
repugnant - each time we do it, we restrict majority rule, we rob
the people of their role in our system of governance, we cause
people to throw up their hands at fate, rather than control their
own destiny through participation, we undermine the legitimacy of
America itself. But I recognize the necessity of the Fourteenth
Amendment and the 1964 Act due to the extraordinary circumstances.
But this special legal status requires constant vigilance - it is
a direct violation of our fundamental principles, and must never be
allowed to grow and destroy us.
To be included as such a special case, the burden of proof must lie
heavily on any group - to convince a hostile and skeptical majority
to voluntarily accord them rights which the majority does not itself
possess. At a minimum, they must (a) demonstrate systematic
oppression; (b) be recognizable, distinct, and innate; (c) demonstrate
through deeds their special dedication to our society; (d) have
significant political clout; (e) minimize wherever possible any
adverse effects upon the majority which special treatment causes.
Any claim of such privilege is very, very dangerous. It can kill
us all.
bb
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323.1807 | doesn't belong in this note!! | SCAMP::MINICHINO | | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:54 | 20 |
| Not that I should put a comment about the royal family in the AIDs
topic, but,
Don't you think that Dianna and Charles are from extremely
dysfunctional families that were in play long before the 60's. Come on,
we all know that environment plays a big part on a childs out look on
things, but along with that envirnment, we as adults and parents need
to explain things honestly and openly with our children...usually it
bores them to tears and they are ok with whatever is going on at the
time.
Charles father was estranged from his mother (can't say I wouldn't
have been too), CHarles grew up in a boarding school (probably with
gay students)...(no way...gay students in England...get out!!) and
Dianna came from a split family too...so, did they just repeat their
parents mistake? The parents stayed together until the children were
old enough to understand..mommy hates daddy...Now that's good child
rearing....
|
323.1808 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:56 | 15 |
| Dan:
Thanks for sticking up for me, but not to worry. My colleagues here
tend to read what they want to read at times and consequently react in
an emotional way.
Dan, all I'm telling these people is simply not to assume that a gay
couple adopting a child will have the same results as a stable hetero
couple bringing up the same child. This poppycock about their
instability being the fault of people like me is typical jibberish.
There's no doubt that hatred exists...the typical "God hates fags"
crowd. These folks have this tendancy to try and paint me into this
category. I'm no stranger to this but thanks just the same!
-Jack
|
323.1809 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Dec 05 1995 09:59 | 4 |
| > Charles father was estranged from his mother
When did Elizabeth and Phillip split? I must have missed it.
|
323.1810 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:04 | 18 |
| Lucky Jack,
Thanks for that somewhat humorous response. Regarding homelessness, I
feel since the mighty new lord hemmerhoid has left our midst, I can
bring this up.
Jack, 40% of black children in the inner city will be born into a broken
home this year. Be it divorce or desertion, this of course
is a travesty and as usual, the do gooders in government are like the
perverbial child in the drivers seat of a car. 99% symbolism, 1%
substance. Anyway, I would challenge you to visit any homeless shelter
and ask any women with children why they are there. You will most
likely find their response to be their husband ran away, beat her up,
or is incarcerated. Be it divorce or separation, the result usually
ends up making a dysfunctional and homeless family. Hence you have
homeless children.
-Jack
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323.1811 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:23 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.1806 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> To me, the recognition of special legal status to any groups is
> repugnant
You may want to review the actual wording of the CRA. Groups
are not specifically protected by the Act. Certain charachteristics
are mentioned. Blacks, for example, are not mentioned anywhere in
the wording. But a prohibition against discrimination on the
basis of RACE is mentioned. This wording covers ALL discrimination
on the basis of race, ANY race.
It is the same for all the other charachteristics listed. They
are NOT exclusive, they are INCLUSIVE.
> But this special legal status requires constant vigilance
No special legal status is conferred by the Act. It prohibits specific
discriminatory practices on the basis of certain charachteristics.
As such, it is an affirmation of our basic principles, not a violation
of them.
Jim
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323.1813 | re: .1810 | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:27 | 4 |
| What percentage of those in homeless shelters are women with children?
I thought most of them were receiving AFDC and living in low income
housing through governmental assistance programs?
|
323.1814 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:28 | 26 |
| re: .1764
> So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
> the CRA?
I do have objections, actually (some reasons given below, others can be
found throughout this string).
> This has nothing to do with the definition of the family
> or the marriage laws.
Maybe not, but it will be used as a lever to redefine the family and
marriage. This is a legal stepping stone, IMO.
Legal acceptance of all sexual orientations is not a tenable solution
to this discrimination. Not all forms of discrimination are inherantly
wrong, and should not be illegal (one form is not allowing two men or
two women to marry- though I still argue whether this can be classified
properly as "discrimination").
I still say it is disengenuous to define an individual by "sexual
orientation". This is not a proper classification when dealing with
legal rights, nor when defining a legal minority.
-steve
|
323.1815 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:33 | 4 |
| re: .1785
And that's just what the nay-sayers said in the "free love" era.
|
323.1816 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:46 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1805 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, nice little box you and others have me cornered into.
Jack, no one has cornered you anywhere except YOU! Try to remember, or
maybe realize that.
| 1) Whatever sexual orientation they are, I love them the same.
| Yeah? And I would do the same.
But you would think the kid is dysfunctional. Something that isn't
true. Would you make your kid go to classes to get "healed" of this
dysfunction?
Glen
|
323.1817 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:54 | 41 |
| | <<< Note 323.1808 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Thanks for sticking up for me, but not to worry. My colleagues here tend to
| read what they want to read at times and consequently react in an emotional
| way.
Wow.... this is funny. I didn't see Dan sticking up for your ideas.
Just that you shouldn't be called a hatemonger. What does that tell you, Jack?
| Dan, all I'm telling these people is simply not to assume that a gay couple
| adopting a child will have the same results as a stable hetero couple bringing
| up the same child.
No Jack, you have added in dysfunctionalism to the parameters, JUST
because the couple are gay, so their default is to be dysfunctional. You say
that there could be problems with girls (but you haven't gone into what those
problems are yet), you say you have this data at your fingertips, but can't
produce any of it.
Jack, no one here is assuming that 2 guys are going to make good
parents. But then again, I don't think anyone in here is assuming that ANYONE
is going to make good parents. You need the right tools for that to happen. And
sexual orientation isn't one of them.
| This poppycock about their instability being the fault of people like me is
| typical jibberish.
Instability? Nah.... just most of the hatred parts. If total strangers
hate you, ya gotta wonder why. And ya gotta wonder if the reasons are even
justified...which how could they be if they don't know you, and you have not
done anything to harm anyone?
| There's no doubt that hatred exists...the typical "God hates fags" crowd.
| These folks have this tendancy to try and paint me into this category.
Jack, I don't think you hate fags at all. I do think you don't hold
much respect for them though.
Glen
|
323.1818 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Always a Best Man, never a groom | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:55 | 4 |
|
And Jack, if sexual orientation is truly genetic, you could do
irrepairable harm to a child by trying to change him/her.
|
323.1819 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 10:55 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1810 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Jack, 40% of black children in the inner city will be born into a broken
| home this year.
Jack can predict the future. WOW! Hey, does that mean these 40% are
dysfunctional, and will all become gay?
Glen
|
323.1820 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:08 | 17 |
| First Glen, you say...
ZZ No, just the hate parts.
Then you say...
ZZ Jack, I don't think you hate fags at all.
Judging how you usually think, you separate hate speech from hate am I
correct? Glen, hate speech and meanness are cliches that are becoming
ad nauseum, old, overused, and tired. Put in in there with Valuing
Differences, Abortion is murder, and Freedom of Choice. Yawn.
However, I believe you and others wield the word "hate" arbitrarily as
you did above. I consider "hate" to be a strong accusation and don't
take it lightly. There's a new sheriff in town....spit!
Oh...sorry....I went into Blazing Saddles mode!
|
323.1821 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:13 | 35 |
| re: .1791
Glen, alcoholism is a disorder, somtimes due to genetics. Some folks
have a predisposition towards alcohol addiction. It is certainly not
the norm for society. Homosexuality may well be a disorder, too, in
the same light. Certainly, psychologists of the past viewed it as such,
some still do. Homosexuality is not the norm for this society.
We treat alcoholics. We do not treat homosexuals (any more). Why?
Whether genetic or not, it is not "normal", nor does society currently
consider homosexual relations acceptable. Alcoholism, genetic or not,
is not "normal", nor does society currently consider this "orientation" a
good thing (which is why we treat alcoholics).
Though the destructiveness of uncontrolled alcoholism can be easily seen
on the physical side of things (health, job loss, depression, spousal
problems/divorce, etc.), there are spiritual problems as well (the
"intangables", many of which are covered by AA). We do not try and
rationalize alcoholism as a good thing in order to increase the
self-esteem of the alcoholic (in order to help his depression).
Homosexuality, is likely to lead towards unhealthy relations
physically (anal sex is wrought with perils that have already been
covered in this and other strings) and spiritually (according to the
doctrine that this nation's morality was founded upon). But rather
than trying to cure or help those with this disorder (which is my opinion
of what homosexuality is), we try to rationalize it as something normal
'for a given segment of the population'. Not only that, but we now see
efforts to make it legally the equivalent of normal relations in family
and marriage.
-steve
|
323.1822 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:15 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.1820 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| First Glen, you say...
| ZZ No, just the hate parts.
That was reflecting to strangers hating gays when they don't even know
them. Your words can lead to that. Sorry if I wasn't clear.
| Judging how you usually think, you separate hate speech from hate am I
| correct? Glen, hate speech and meanness are cliches that are becoming
| ad nauseum, old, overused, and tired.
Then don't use them. I don't believe you hate gays. But when you say
they are dysfunctional, your words can lead someone else to hate gays.
| However, I believe you and others wield the word "hate" arbitrarily as you
| did above.
I guess seeing I wasn't 100% clear, I'll let you get away with this. :)
| I consider "hate" to be a strong accusation and don't take it lightly.
Then I would watch what you say....
Glen
|
323.1823 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:24 | 10 |
| re: .1818
And if alcoholism is truly genetic, you could do 'irrepairable' harm to
a person by trying to change him/her.
Same logic.
-steve
|
323.1824 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:24 | 46 |
| | <<< Note 323.1821 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Glen, alcoholism is a disorder, somtimes due to genetics. Some folks have a
| predisposition towards alcohol addiction. It is certainly not the norm for
| society.
You are correct with the above. You have gay alcoholics, and straight
alcoholics. For EACH group, it is not the norm.
| Homosexuality may well be a disorder, too, in the same light. Certainly,
| psychologists of the past viewed it as such, some still do.
Besides Cameron, can you think of any by name? Or is this just a
blanket statement? Steve, you have to wonder why they changed their minds that
it was a disorder. Could it be because of the research they did into it finding
it not to be one? Could it be the failed attempts of trying to correct what
was thought to be a problem have something to do with it? I was talking with my
roomate last night. He was talking about how his grandmother had her left hand
tied to her, so she would learn to be right handed. I think we're past that
now, don't you?
| Homosexuality is not the norm for this society.
I agree. I always have. The majority of the people are straight. But
the norm does not always mean correct, or the only way.
| Homosexuality, is likely to lead towards unhealthy relations physically (anal
| sex is wrought with perils that have already been covered in this and other
| strings) and spiritually (according to the doctrine that this nation's
| morality was founded upon). But rather than trying to cure or help those
| with this disorder (which is my opinion of what homosexuality is), we try to
| rationalize it as something normal 'for a given segment of the population'.
Well, at least now we have learned two things in this string. Jack
Martin thinks it is dysfunctional, and Steve Leech thinks it is a disorder. How
nice. But I guess many have used the same stuff for other things... like
religion. :-)
You say homosexuality is "likely" to lead to unhealthy physical
relations, but I see nothing that states that which is a fact. Oh, I have heard
people say this and that, but no one has provided any fact.
And the reason why no one is trying to cure this disorder, is because
those who tried saw it didn't work.
Glen
|
323.1825 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Always a Best Man, never a groom | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:24 | 11 |
|
RE: .1821 [Steve]
Well, that was the gist of what I was getting at, but I'm not
convinced that homosexuality is a "defect" as much as it is a
genetic trait.
The majority of people born have O+ blood, I believe, but that
doesn't mean that those with AB- are "inferior". They're just
different.
|
323.1826 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Always a Best Man, never a groom | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:26 | 5 |
|
RE: .1823 [Steve]
That's a very good point.
|
323.1827 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:36 | 16 |
| .1803
>> Glen, what would you propose to teach you kid about sexuality?
[ answers deleted to save bits ]
Bingo. That is, in fact, the way we raised our kids. They have gay
friends, they have straight friends, they have gay relatives, they have
straight relatives. They don't care about others' orientations, cuz
they're too busy living their own lives.
People whose business in life it is to cram their narrow agendas down
others' throats have too much time on their hands; they need to get a
life. You have a problem with my life choices? Fine, be polite and
I'll listen. Once. After that, you are a pest and a disturber of my
peace.
|
323.1828 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:42 | 25 |
| Glen:
I think I need to point out that my use of the word "dysfunctional" is
not meant in the perjorative, meaning to belittle. I am using it as a
description to identify flaw. We all have traits and attributes which
are "dysfunctional" and I have my share. I believe this is part of the
human condition and we're all stuck with what we have.
I believe how we handle these dysfunctions says alot about our
character. Unfortunately, how one handles being gay may involve
compromising one's convictions regarding marriage and fornication.
This may or may not be a conviction you have; however it is a
conviction I have and hence there we have the driving force which makes
me a supposed mean individual. I see a great lack of tolerance for
this conviction.
As I've stated before, the personal lives of individuals is none of my
business and I have no problem keeping it this way. But this in no way
means I have to conform in order to fill this nebulous mold we call
valuing differences. Under our current system of law, we have the
right to dissent, the right to petition, and the right of free
expression. While there are extremes like the "God hates fags" crowd,
I also see the diversity crowd at times acting reprehensible.
-Jack
|
323.1829 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:45 | 29 |
| .1808
> Dan, all I'm telling these people is simply not to assume that a gay
> couple adopting a child will have the same results as a stable hetero
> couple bringing up the same child.
If you are the archetype of a stable hetero couple, I'd rather have my
kids brought up by a loving gay couple. At least they they'd learn
what the word TOLERANCE means. You have apparently removed that word
from all your dictionaries.
> This poppycock about their
> instability being the fault of people like me is typical jibberish.
Gibberish, NNTTM. But until you provide documentary evidence that
hatred does not foster misfits while love does, your argument is
exactly the kind of gibberish you so blithely accuse others of writing.
Consider this: At home, children of both gay and straight parents are
loved and cherished. Elswehere the first group are reviled, ridiculed,
and told their parents are perverts. The second group suffer none of
this hatred, none of the confusion, none of the soul-wrenching
disillusionment. Can you tell me which group is more likely to be
messed up?
At least you may take comfort in the fact that I don't paint you as a
"God Hates Fags!" crowdmember. I know you know God loves fags. The
problem is that, try as you might and despite all your pretty rhetoric,
you yourself do not love fags.
|
323.1830 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:45 | 12 |
| ZZ People whose business in life it is to cram their narrow agendas down
ZZ others' throats have too much time on their hands; they need to get
ZZ a life.
See Dick, this is the attitude that sometimes pisses me off. The fact
is that I was honky dory minding my own business. YOU are the one that
started it, not me.
Note: The term "you" is a generic term directed at society and not you
individually.
-Jack
|
323.1831 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:48 | 1 |
| jack was honky dory.
|
323.1832 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 11:50 | 9 |
| Z problem is that, try as you might and despite all your pretty
Z rhetoric, you yourself do not love fags.
So if I understand you correctly, one of the prerequisites to loving
somebody or a group of people is that we must accept their actions?
The fine line of misunderstanding I believe we have is being gay and
acting upon our predisposition. Dick, I believe couples living
together without commitment is equally dangerous. So what?
|
323.1833 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Tue Dec 05 1995 12:00 | 14 |
| .1830
> I was honky dory minding my own business.
No, you were not, and are not, minding your own business. You are
telling people that homosexuality is a dysfunction and that gays should
not be parents because their kids will, with high likelihood, grow up
dysfunctional. Jack, NEITHER of these premises is supported by ANY
hard evidence. When you continue to promulgate them, you are violating
the Commandment against bearing false witness against your neighbor.
Have you never noticed, Jack, that small children do not hate gays?
It's a learned behavior. But Jesus says we should be as children in
our faith (Mark 10:14). Let go, let God handle it.
|
323.1834 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 12:06 | 8 |
| It is an accurate indictment Dick; but since you are bringing religion
into the fray, it also teaches us to admonish one another unto holiness
and righteousness. Since Glen is a Christian and since he is the one
stating that acting on ones predisposition is not an unclean thing, the
foundation of the discussion has been set by him. I am refuting what
he says. This has nothing to do with hate.
-Jack
|
323.1835 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Tue Dec 05 1995 12:21 | 7 |
| .1834
Jack, how many times have you admonished Glen? How many times have you
removed the beam from your own eye before going after the speck in his?
Jesus told the seventy-two that if the people of a town would not hear,
they were to shake the dust from their sandals and depart. It's about
time for you to do some shaking, don't you think?
|
323.1836 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 12:35 | 21 |
| Dick, I have already succumbed to the fact that Glen is set in his ways
and I am set in mine. My purpose here is to provide some sort of
balance.
Dick, we all have our own convictions in life and telling me to go away
is kind of silly. Even if I fall off the face of the earth, the world
is going to have it's Jack Martins and its Dick Binders throughout.
Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or
whatever, then go ahead and knock yourself out. If somebody wants to
have a picture of their SO on their desk or hold hands with their
boyfriend while walking down the street, hey...its a free country. I
already proposed the idea of legalizing same sex marriages so I think
your not giving me credit here. However, if you ask my opinion, I'm
sure as hell going to give it to you. And quite frankly Dick, I have
alot more respect for somebody who speaks his/her mind than the wishy
washies in our society today. I believe any kind of instruction within
the school system is a fostering of opinion, since I am a taxpayer and
it is a proposed part of the curriculum. Make schools an option for
taxpayers and I promise to shut up!
-Jack
|
323.1837 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 12:50 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1823 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| And if alcoholism is truly genetic, you could do 'irrepairable' harm to
| a person by trying to change him/her.
| Same logic.
No, one does harm if it is not corrected, while the other does not do
harm when people don't correct it.
|
323.1838 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 12:59 | 33 |
| | <<< Note 323.1828 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I think I need to point out that my use of the word "dysfunctional" is
| not meant in the perjorative, meaning to belittle. I am using it as a
| description to identify flaw.
So Jack..... do you think that my life being flawed in your eyes and
having you state it here is going to make me happy? Or that you don't think
that it isn't going to belittle me? Be real!
| I believe how we handle these dysfunctions says alot about our character.
| Unfortunately, how one handles being gay may involve compromising one's
| convictions regarding marriage and fornication.
Wow..... you really take the cake. The same group that says gays can't
marry, also says it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage. How nice. But if
compromising is being done, what is it due to? Reread the 2ndsenence of this
paragraph.
| As I've stated before, the personal lives of individuals is none of my
| business and I have no problem keeping it this way.
They're just er...... flawed....
| But this in no way means I have to conform in order to fill this nebulous
| mold we call valuing differences.
Jack, I am convinced, on MANY fronts, that you will never conform to
valuing differences. Cuz they're just flawed people out there.
Glen
|
323.1839 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:00 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1828 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| While there are extremes like the "God hates fags" crowd,
Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
and the gays are flawed crowd?
|
323.1840 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:02 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.1830 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| See Dick, this is the attitude that sometimes pisses me off. The fact
| is that I was honky dory minding my own business. YOU are the one that
| started it, not me.
Jack, it is too bad you didn't pick up anything of signifigance from
Dick's note. It had quite the message in there.
Glen
|
323.1841 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:04 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.1832 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Dick, I believe couples living together without commitment is equally
| dangerous. So what?
Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
"real"?
Glen
|
323.1842 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:08 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1834 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Since Glen is a Christian and since he is the one stating that acting on
| ones predisposition is not an unclean thing, the foundation of the discussion
| has been set by him.
Jack, go back and reread this string. You were on the disfunctional
road for quite a while.
Now please, considering I don't have the same beliefs as you,
considering there has been a lot of heterosexuals talking about this with you,
please don't state that I set any parameters to worm out of it. The TRUTH of
the matter is simple. The standards that are being set are being done so by
YOU. No one stated in this string that a homosexual couple would automatically
make good/bad parents. You stated both.
Glen
|
323.1843 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:11 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.1836 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| My purpose here is to provide some sort of balance.
Wow...Jack... this was pretty funny.
| Dick, we all have our own convictions in life and telling me to go away is
| kind of silly.
Are you saying what you believe to be God's Word is silly? Cuz I
thought Dick was talking about a passage from the Bible.
| Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or whatever,
| then go ahead and knock yourself out.
If you want to be??? Jack, tell us the day you decided you wanted to be
heterosexual. I want to hear all about it.
Glen
|
323.1844 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:13 | 3 |
|
Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
|
323.1845 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:48 | 63 |
| re: .1825
> Well, that was the gist of what I was getting at,
I realize that, I was just explaining things for Glen. 8^)
> but I'm not
> convinced that homosexuality is a "defect" as much as it is a
> genetic trait.
Is alcoholism a defect of sorts? I think so. Otherwise, alcoholism
would be the norm. It is a defect in the fact that it gives one a
predisposition towards addiction to alcohol. Whether it is genetic or
not isn't really the issue- either way it is a defect/disorder.
> The majority of people born have O+ blood, I believe, but that
> doesn't mean that those with AB- are "inferior". They're just
> different.
No one is saying homosexuals are inferior. For the record, we all have
certain dysfunctions- every one of us. From a religious standpoint,
the fall of man created a sin-nature that is ripe with
dysfunctionalism. My point of contention is that dysfunctions should
be recognized for what they are, not glorified or rationalized as being
"normal" for a select segment of the population.
I have a bad temper. When I was a youth, I used to throw fits. No one
ever told me that my personal disposition (prone towards an anger
reaction to <insert negative stimuli> ) was okay, or rationalized that
I can't change or otherwise be helped to deal with this disorder (and
yes, such fits of rage ARE a disorder). They didn't say that such
displays of rage are acceptable, as long as no one gets hurt.
No, I was told that such displays are WRONG, and that behaving in such
a way is unacceptable.
As I grew up, I learned to deal with anger in varying ways, knowing
full well that certain reacions- no matter how appropriate I thought
they may be at the time- were simply unacceptable. In time, I came to
grips with my disposition/disorder and brought my temper under control.
No matter how in control I am, however, I still have the *tendency* to
react a certain way. Though I no longer throw fits or act badly due to
my temper (though I still yell at the TV during sporting events that
count 8^) ), I still have the seed within me. Without being
constantly aware of this seed, I would not be able to head off
impulsive reactions before they become action.
Just imagine the disservice society would have done to me had such
reactions been rationalized away. "Oh, don't worry about your
disposition, Steve, you can't help it. See? We found an "anger" gene,
which makes you act this way. Your reactions aren't bad, just
different. They are perfectly normal for 5% of the population that has
this type of gene."
Unfortunately, under the guise of "equal rights" (a misnomer, IMO),
society is being desensitized to the "disorder", the rationalization
being that it is "normal" for some people. This simply isn't good
reasoning, since many things undesirable can seem "normal" to some
people.
-steve
|
323.1846 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:53 | 4 |
| re: .1827
Too bad you only apply this logic to one side of the debate. If both
sides adhered to your "rule", there would be fewer problems.
|
323.1847 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 13:58 | 4 |
| re: .1837
Says you. I believe otherwise, though the harm is not as visible as
that of alcoholism.
|
323.1848 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:03 | 6 |
| re: <<< Note 323.1845 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
If I understand this properly, your desire is that gay people "curb
their behavior" in the same way that you curb your temper, and that society
admonish them to do this, as society admonished you. Is that about it,
Steve?
|
323.1849 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:09 | 30 |
| | <<< Note 323.1845 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Is alcoholism a defect of sorts? I think so. Otherwise, alcoholism
| would be the norm.
Steve, do you view lefthandedness as being a defect? Or blue eyes, etc?
Unless you view EVERYTHING IN EXISTANCE that goes against the norm a defect,
then the above makes absolutely no sense.
| It is a defect in the fact that it gives one a predisposition towards
| addiction to alcohol.
Are you saying you think homosexuality is an addiction? That would be a
new twist. :-)
| My point of contention is that dysfunctions should be recognized for what they
| are, not glorified or rationalized as being "normal" for a select segment of
| the population.
Yup... those American Indians...what a dysfunction they are. They
aren't the norm...anymore for this country. Oh, I forget which is the
dysfunction for the Irish people...red hair or brown? I believe brown used to
be the normal one, but I'm not sure if those freaky red haired ones became the
non-dysfunctional of the two. You see Steve, for each of these genetic traits,
we have differences. But the differences are normal for a select segment of the
population.
Glen
|
323.1850 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:12 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1847 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Says you.
Are we at this point now?
| I believe otherwise, though the harm is not as visible as that of alcoholism.
Then I guess you might also believe that like alcoholism, I am in the
denial period, huh?
Glen
|
323.1851 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:14 | 89 |
| Z So Jack..... do you think that my life being flawed in your eyes and
Z having you state it here is going to make me happy? Or that you don't think
Z that it isn't going to belittle me? Be real!
Glen, this is the unfortunate nature of conferences like this. I live by the
rule that if we don't take chances, then learning is stunted. While I
sympathize with your dilemna and have always appreciated your candor, your
willingness to share your life to the world opens the door to scrutiny.
Z Wow..... you really take the cake. The same group that says gays can't
Z marry, also says it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage. How nice.
And what is really ironical is I stated the restriction of marriage is a church
issue and therefore should not be legislated legally or illegally. You were
the one that said it should be under the auspices of the state.
| But this in no way means I have to conform in order to fill this nebulous
| mold we call valuing differences.
Z Jack, I am convinced, on MANY fronts, that you will never conform to
Z valuing differences. Cuz they're just flawed people out there.
Including myself. But you asked a YES/NO question, insisted on an answer and
I gave it to you.
Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
Z and the gays are flawed crowd?
The same difference there is between one who peacefully pickets a clinic and
one who blows up a clinic.
ZZ Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
ZZ "real"?
Again the unanswered question to the Soapbox proper....What are you afraid of?
Z considering there has been a lot of heterosexuals talking about this with you,
Z please don't state that I set any parameters to worm out of it.
Fair enough!
Z the matter is simple. The standards that are being set are being done so by
Z YOU. No one stated in this string that a homosexual couple would automatically
Z make good/bad parents. You stated both.
Fib! I never stated this. What I said was there isn't enough data to show
what kind of effect a gay couple would have on a child, but that there would
be ramifications just as there would be with any non traditional or family.
The effects are unknown but I don't recall commiting an opinion one way or the
other. The point I attempted to make was that we shouldn't go into this with
rose colored glasses. The sexual revolution nay sayers have now changed their
opinion on the ramification of choices in life.
| My purpose here is to provide some sort of balance.
Z Wow...Jack... this was pretty funny.
See, I do add value here! :-)
| Dick, we all have our own convictions in life and telling me to go away is
| kind of silly.
Z Are you saying what you believe to be God's Word is silly? Cuz I
Z thought Dick was talking about a passage from the Bible.
No, I said that my going away is silly. This forum is here to exchange ideas,
not a tool to evangelize.
| Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or whatever,
| then go ahead and knock yourself out.
Z If you want to be??? Jack, tell us the day you decided you wanted to be
Z heterosexual. I want to hear all about it.
Edited for comprehension. If you want to freely practice what your predis-
position motivate you to, then by all means.
Z Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
Perhaps not one way or the other. Madelyn Murray O'Hare had a son who was a
born again Christian. I will however point out that for the most part, the
nurturing of a parent figure plays a heavy role on the child's oulook on life.
Our Valuing Diversity trainer was open about her lesbianism (?) and said she is
bringing up a daughter. Now considering the woman was married at one time, it
is quite possible there is some anamosity toward men in her life. This may or
may not be the case but I wouldn't think it unusual if it were. This will
effect the daughters outlook on men if it is true.
-Jack
|
323.1852 | horsefeathers | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:15 | 23 |
|
re, Jim Percival. Look, I was there, 19 and for St. Barry in 1964.
I know what the Civil Rights Act was about. I remember Martin Luther
King, Everett Dirksen, LBJ. It was about the federal government
restricting the behavior of the white majority in order to protect
the black minority. Don't kid me with weaselwords.
Life, liberty, the pursuit of happiness. If we were all the same
race, an employer could hire/fire me as he likes, I could stay or
leave in the same way. That's freedom. But in a society with a
grossly oppressed minority, we decided as a country to sacrifice
some of our freedom to right a terrible historic wrong.
Barry said at the time that it was a very dangerous precedent.
Once you give up some of your liberty, no matter how morally bound
you are to do so, you are on a slippery slope. The more we restrict,
the less free we all become. It is patently obvious that the
application of the Civil Rights Act increases the freedom of the
minority dramatically by restricting the freedom of the majority,
to a smaller extent. There is no free lunch - it's a compromise.
And the less compelling the case, the worse a deal it is.
bb
|
323.1853 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:30 | 5 |
| re: .1850
Yup. As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about
acting out on homosexuality. Oh, but you have ratinalizations for that
too...I forgot.
|
323.1854 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:46 | 94 |
| | <<< Note 323.1851 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, this is the unfortunate nature of conferences like this. I live by the
| rule that if we don't take chances, then learning is stunted.
Well, I have learned a lot about you this week, that's for sure.
| While I sympathize with your dilemna
Stop here, please. My dilema? Errr..... I don't think I am the owner of
this one, Jack. I believe YOU are.
| And what is really ironical is I stated the restriction of marriage is a church
Then are you saying any marriage that is not done in a church is
invalid?
| Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
| Z and the gays are flawed crowd?
| The same difference there is between one who peacefully pickets a clinic and
| one who blows up a clinic.
You really think that, huh? I have to disagree.
| ZZ Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
| ZZ "real"?
| Again the unanswered question to the Soapbox proper....What are you afraid of?
Jack, please answer the question, and we'll see what I am afraid of.
| Fib! I never stated this. What I said was there isn't enough data to show
| what kind of effect a gay couple would have on a child, but that there would
| be ramifications just as there would be with any non traditional or family.
You forgot about the possible effects a gay couple could have on a
child towards women. I do hope you express your ideas on this one.
| The effects are unknown but I don't recall commiting an opinion one way or the
| other.
Jack, would you have no problem with a couple that you view as
dysfunctional, as being parents? Yes or No?
| The point I attempted to make was that we shouldn't go into this with rose
| colored glasses.
Jack, no one has said anyone is. But you don't judge how good a parent
is due to their sexual orientation, their being single, etc. You judge it on
their love for their children, how they raise them, etc. That determines a
good/bad parent... not sexual orientation.
| Z Are you saying what you believe to be God's Word is silly? Cuz I
| Z thought Dick was talking about a passage from the Bible.
| No, I said that my going away is silly. This forum is here to exchange ideas,
| not a tool to evangelize.
Ahhh.... but Dick was telling you something from the Bible, not from
him. So maybe you don't hold the Bible up like you appear.
| Edited for comprehension. If you want to freely practice what your predis-
| position motivate you to, then by all means.
Practice? Why don't you say it like it is? If you want to be who you
were born to be, go for it.
| Z Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
| Perhaps not one way or the other. Madelyn Murray O'Hare had a son who was a
| born again Christian. I will however point out that for the most part, the
| nurturing of a parent figure plays a heavy role on the child's oulook on life.
| Our Valuing Diversity trainer was open about her lesbianism (?) and said she
| is bringing up a daughter. Now considering the woman was married at one time,
| it is quite possible there is some anamosity toward men in her life.
Wow.... this really takes the case. I do understand you said this may
or may not be the case, but when you only seem to state the bad part of life
with gays as parents, how you think of what kind of sex someone has when they
say they are gay (but not if they are het), one has to wonder if the bad is
just not a permanant default for you and gays, PERIOD.
Jack, when you stated that there could be a problem with gays's kids
towards women (which I guess that means we would only adopt boys), you had to
have had some specific ideas in your mind, or you would not have stated what
you did. What are those ideas SPECIFICALLY? I guess one might be that if a gay
man got out of a marriage, that they may hate women. (which would be absurd) Of
course then that would say nothing of those who never married, or ever dated
women, etc. So what are your ideas on this?
Glen
|
323.1855 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:46 | 6 |
| re: .1848
Reasonably close, if a bit too simplified.
-steve
|
323.1856 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:49 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 323.1853 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Yup.
Well, I guess that makes me Cleopatra.... Queen of De-Nile! Thank you
Steve, for pointing that out to me.... I am now cured. I am no longer gay!
Wow... what a wonderous feeling this is! Hey raq! Wanna go on a date sometime!
WOW! This is ABBBBSSSOOLLLUUTTTEELLLYY amazing! YES! I feel so FREEE!
| As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about acting out
| on homosexuality.
There is nothing in there about that.
Glen
|
323.1857 | | BARSTR::JANDROW | Green-Eyed Lady... | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:54 | 4 |
|
if i were single, definitely...
|
323.1858 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Tue Dec 05 1995 14:55 | 15 |
| Steve,
G-d also said something about going out an multiplying, something you
apparently don't practice either.
IMO loving families raising children are great, no matter what the
gender(s) of the adults are. When the adults don't love each other or
themselves, this is where children grow up with lousy examples of how
to interact with others. I don't care if they are a married couple who
sing in the choir and have the reverand over every other sunday for
dinner, if they don't like each other, and aren't good to their kids
they are doing a far worse service to this country and society than a
single parent, gay or lesbian parental units, foster parent, or anyone
who is raising children in a loving environment.
but what does this have to do with aids?
|
323.1859 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:02 | 36 |
| re: .1856
> Thank you Steve, for pointing that out to me....
You're welcome.
> I am now cured. I am no longer gay!
Good for you.
>Wow... what a wonderous feeling this is! Hey raq! Wanna go on a date sometime!
>WOW! This is ABBBBSSSOOLLLUUTTTEELLLYY amazing! YES! I feel so FREEE!
See, the truth does set one free.
| As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about acting out
| on homosexuality.
> There is nothing in there about that.
Oh, of course not. Bible scholars throughout the centuries were all
simply bigoted and read that into the Bible. Yup, that must be it.
God was just joshing when he called 'a man lying with a man' an
abomination. He really didn't mean it...that God, what a jocker he is.
And of course, the other umpteen passages that say similar things don't
mean what they say, either. I see.
You know, Glen, if you weren't a Christian, I wouldn't beat you over
the head with Bible passages. 8^) If you think the Bible is silent on
homosexual relations, you really are in denial.
-steve
|
323.1860 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:06 | 8 |
| re: Meg
Well, Meg, my life ain't over yet. I still got time to do the
multiplication thing. I do, however, follow the Biblical teaching of
abstinance during my life as a single.
-steve
|
323.1861 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:14 | 13 |
|
> Oh, of course not. Bible scholars throughout the centuries were all
> simply bigoted and read that into the Bible. Yup, that must be it.
not only that, but the translators with their "agenda", made sure that
the Bible, while it contains guidlines for parental relationships, and
husband-wife relationshsips, contained no such guidelines for same sex
relationships.
Jim
|
323.1862 | Some Christians are now obsessed with fighting homosexuality. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:19 | 9 |
| There aren't 'umpteen' admonishments against homosexuality in the
Bible - there aren't any-'teen' such admonishments.
The only quote I've seen about homosexuality included it in a list
of things that were occurring in a certain time and place.
Considering the lack of much mention of homosexuality in the Bible,
how on Earth did so much of Christianity become so centered around
fighting against it?
|
323.1863 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:39 | 15 |
| .1853
> As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about...
...killing innocent women and children because they happen to be
Amalekites instead of Hebrews.
...purification time after a woman's period.
...the penalty to be visited on your neighbor's ox if it accidentally
kills a member of your family.
...mixing meat with milk.
...judging others.
|
323.1864 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:45 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.1857 by BARSTR::JANDROW "Green-Eyed Lady..." >>>
| if i were single, definitely...
You're so quool!
|
323.1865 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:46 | 113 |
| zz Well, I have learned a lot about you this week, that's for sure.
What it shows Glen is you haven't been paying attention too well. I have been
voicing this opinion in both conferences for well over two years and you have
been responding in kind. If you've learned I am a homophobe, well opinions
are like bumbs, everybody has one.
Z Stop here, please. My dilema? Errr..... I don't think I am the owner of
Z this one, Jack. I believe YOU are.
This was in reference to your implication my calling you dysfunctional was
putting you down. This is what you indicated by your rhetorical question a
few replies back.
Z Then are you saying any marriage that is not done in a church is
Z invalid?
No but I am saying the state can recognize it as a religious ordination...be it
done at a church, on a ship, or in a court of law. Deem it a religious
ordination and then the state cannot make it illegal.
| The same difference there is between one who peacefully pickets a clinic and
| one who blows up a clinic.
ZZ You really think that, huh? I have to disagree.
You can disagree all you want. I am from the "flaw" crowd and am telling you
this is how it is. Look Glen, if I visit my sister and say, "Sis, you're fat!
You're fat sis. Go to the gym!!!", or I said, "Sis, I know you're having a
difficult time with this and I know it is your business, but out of concern I
have for you, I would love to see you come on down to the gym with me in order
to get your weight in better control", which response shows love and which shows
hate?
| ZZ Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
| ZZ "real"?
| Again the unanswered question to the Soapbox proper....What are you afraid of?
ZZ Jack, please answer the question, and we'll see what I am afraid of.
No, because I believe real commitment is an act that carries the ramification
of a lifetime. Now I realize people move in together and act married for
economic reasons or what have you. This however is my conviction on the matter
and I stand by it. Now, what are people afraid of?
| Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
| Z and the gays are flawed crowd?
| Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
| Z and the gays are flawed crowd?
| Fib! I never stated this. What I said was there isn't enough data to show
| what kind of effect a gay couple would have on a child, but that there would
| be ramifications just as there would be with any non traditional or family.
ZZ You forgot about the possible effects a gay couple could have on a
ZZ child towards women. I do hope you express your ideas on this one.
My ideas are simple...insufficient data. What we must not do is assume it
won't have any negative effect.
Z Jack, would you have no problem with a couple that you view as
Z dysfunctional, as being parents? Yes or No?
No because it would be their call. I would only say the parent and the child
would have challenges ahead of them. I would also state that dysfunctionalism
is clearly preferential over death.
Z Ahhh.... but Dick was telling you something from the Bible, not from
Z him. So maybe you don't hold the Bible up like you appear.
Glen, this is proposterous. The scripture Dick used was a mandate from Jesus
to the disciples who were evangelizing and sharing the gospel. Soapbox is
NOT a forum to convert people. It is an escape from the clutches of
Political Correctness where people can argue their POV without fear of
reprisal. I see this as valuable and profitable for both sides of an issue.
ZZ Practice? Why don't you say it like it is? If you want to be who you
ZZ were born to be, go for it.
This is fallacy. There are alot of things that I would like to do as a male
with a predisposition toward others of the opposite sex. This is a result of
who I am. I DON'T go for it because there are parameters my convictions will
not allow me to break. There is conviction of the law and conviction of the
heart. It is that which restrains me from acting on instinct and in place of
that, being lead by the Spirit.
Z Wow.... this really takes the case. I do understand you said this may
Z or may not be the case, but when you only seem to state the bad part of life
Z with gays as parents, how you think of what kind of sex someone has when they
Z say they are gay (but not if they are het), one has to wonder if the bad is
Z just not a permanant default for you and gays, PERIOD.
Glen, it isn't just a matter of what kind of sex the father has with a man. It
is the whole conditioning thing and the attitudes a child inherits from their
upbringing. Are you suggesting this isn't the case? That children don't
inherit attitudes from their role models growing up?
Z I guess one might be that if a gay
Z man got out of a marriage, that they may hate women. (which would be absurd) Of
Z course then that would say nothing of those who never married, or ever dated
Z women, etc. So what are your ideas on this?
On the contrary, I think it is quite possible. If for example you are gay but
marry and have a child, and you are then verbally abused by your spouse to the
point of divorce, consider the possibility the child is going to see your dis-
dain for women, see you are loving another man, and put two and two together.
You honestly think this won't effect his view of women?
-Jack
|
323.1866 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:50 | 29 |
| | <<< Note 323.1859 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| See, the truth does set one free.
On this, we agree! When I was hiding who I was, I was trapped. Not
lying to others or myself about who I am, I have become free.
| Oh, of course not. Bible scholars throughout the centuries were all simply
| bigoted and read that into the Bible. Yup, that must be it.
Thems yer words, not mine. I would put it more into the likes of when
psycologists thought being gay was a mental disorder. They say what they wanted
to do. But of course, the psycologists went out and proved they were wrong. The
scholars just took a bunch of words written by men and made it into God's laws.
Not to mention the taking things out of context stuff that goes with it.
| God was just joshing when he called 'a man lying with a man' an
| abomination. He really didn't mean it...that God, what a jocker he is.
Put it into it's proper context, please.
| You know, Glen, if you weren't a Christian, I wouldn't beat you over the head
| with Bible passages.
You call that beating me over the head? Wow!
Glen
|
323.1867 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:51 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.1860 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Well, Meg, my life ain't over yet. I still got time to do the
| multiplication thing.
Actually, so don't I.
Glen
|
323.1868 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:52 | 8 |
|
> Actually, so don't I.
What the heck does that mean?
|
323.1869 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | pack light, keep low, move fast, reload often | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:52 | 1 |
| Do. So DO I. Say it! C'mon, say it!
|
323.1870 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Tue Dec 05 1995 15:55 | 59 |
|
re:.1804
> The CRA was, and still is, an unfortunate necessity. Recognizing
> this, what objection is there to adding sexual orientation to the
> list of protected classes?
But Jim, that IS the point of contention. I do NOT consider the CRA
"an unfortunate necessity". I consider it one of the main causes of
the inter-racial strife that we are currently facing. But as I said,
you and I have been down this road already.
-----------------
re:.1829
> Consider this: At home, children of both gay and straight parents are
> loved and cherished. Elsewhere the first group are reviled, ridiculed,
> and told their parents are perverts. The second group suffer none of
> this hatred, none of the confusion, none of the soul-wrenching
> disillusionment. Can you tell me which group is more likely to be
> messed up?
Consider this: At home, children of both German and English parents are
loved and cherished. Elsewhere the first group are reviled, ridiculed,
and told their parents are Nazis. The second group suffer none of
this hatred, none of the confusion, none of the soul-wrenching
disillusionment. Can you tell me which group is more likely to be
messed up?
-----------------
re:.1844
> Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
Yes Glen, I think that is my main question. how will 2 gay men
influence their child towards women?
-----------------
re:.1862
> Considering the lack of much mention of homosexuality in the Bible,
> how on Earth did so much of Christianity become so centered around
> fighting against it?
Excuse me ?!?! I think that that's a little bit of an overstatement of
the situation! of course IMNHO, YMMV, etc...
-----------------
re:.1863
> ...mixing meat with milk.
BBLLLUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRGH! :-P
Where's the GAK topic?
|
323.1871 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:05 | 17 |
| >This is fallacy. There are alot of things that I would like to do as a male
>with a predisposition toward others of the opposite sex. This is a result of
>who I am. I DON'T go for it because there are parameters my convictions will
>not allow me to break. There is conviction of the law and conviction of the
>heart. It is that which restrains me from acting on instinct
What a load of crap this is, Jack.
You DID go for it. You're a married man with a few kids. You DID act on
your instincts by choosing to court, wed, and procreate. Most homosexual
people are asking for the legal ability to do some or all of this as
well, but principally the "wed" part, the part that you hang onto as your
holy ordination, and THAT'S the part you want to prevent them from having.
How the hell can you dare to tell them NOT to act on their instincts
when you have done just that?
|
323.1872 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:19 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.1814 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> I still say it is disengenuous to define an individual by "sexual
> orientation". This is not a proper classification when dealing with
> legal rights, nor when defining a legal minority.
The CRA does not define legal minorities, not does it, in actuality,
define legal rights. It merely outlaws certain specific types of
discrimination based on certain charachteristics.
What is truly disengenuous is to say that the discrimination against
Gays in the areas of employment, housing or the use of public
accomadations is wrong and then not be willing to back up this
belief in statute.
Jim
|
323.1874 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:22 | 13 |
| ZZ but principally the "wed" part, the part that you hang onto as your
ZZ holy ordination, and THAT'S the part you want to prevent them from
ZZ having.
Could somebody please inform lucky Jack here that I've stated on more
than one occasion that churches, apostate though they are, should be
able to marry same sex couples. This is my contention that people have
me painted in a box and aren't really paying attention here.
Like I said Jack, the people will prevail but don't label me as a
hatemonger for disliking it.
-Jack
|
323.1875 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:24 | 5 |
| So then you DON'T have a problem with homosexuals acting on their
instincts even though you just said they shouldn't???
Which is it? You're more confusing than usual today.
|
323.1873 | I was going to post this earlier, but forgot where I saw it | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Basket Case | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:28 | 7 |
|
> Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or
> whatever, then go ahead and knock yourself out.
And if you want to be a hermaphrodite, then knock yourself up.
|
323.1876 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:39 | 8 |
| ZZ So then you DON'T have a problem with homosexuals acting on their
ZZ instincts even though you just said they shouldn't???
I was asked my opinion and therefore said they shouldn't. I believe
people shouldn't be promiscuous but I support their right to self
determination.
-Jack
|
323.1877 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:43 | 3 |
| How did promiscuity enter into it? You acted on your instincts in choosing
a mate. Do homosexuals deserve the same privilege or don't they?
|
323.1878 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:45 | 135 |
| | <<< Note 323.1865 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| What it shows Glen is you haven't been paying attention too well. I have been
| voicing this opinion in both conferences for well over two years and you have
| been responding in kind.
Jack, I have never heard you use the words dysfunctional or flawed
before. I have never thought you were one who doesn't respect gays. I did not
know that when a male tells you he is gay, you think of the sex that he has. I
did not know that you thought gay males would only adopt boys (I did get that
impression though). I didn't know that you thought gays or lesbians could teach
their children to hate men/women. Hmmm... I guess in your lesbian analogy you
must think that lesbians will only have girls. I should talk to my friend about
this. She and her lover have had 1 boy each. But these things were not the
things you have talked about over the years. These are things I have learned
this week.
What I have lheard you talk about in the past is that Biblically, you
don't believe homosexuality is right, but you don't have any problems with the
people, themselves. That was something I said I could live with. But the stuff
I learned this week about you has nothing to do with what you said in the past.
The things I learned this week really give me a different, and unpleasent
outlook towards you.
| If you've learned I am a homophobe,
I don't know what to classify it as, Jack. Maybe sad is an accurate
word. It certainly is the nicest one I can think of.
| well opinions are like bumbs, everybody has one.
Most of the population has 2 bumps.
| Z Stop here, please. My dilema? Errr..... I don't think I am the owner of
| Z this one, Jack. I believe YOU are.
| This was in reference to your implication my calling you dysfunctional was
| putting you down. This is what you indicated by your rhetorical question a
| few replies back.
Jack, I know what you were referencing.... but the dilema, if there is
one, was caused by you. Plain and simple.
| No but I am saying the state can recognize it as a religious ordination...be it
| done at a church, on a ship, or in a court of law. Deem it a religious
| ordination and then the state cannot make it illegal.
Jack, I think you missed the point. Let me try again. If a marriage
isn't done in a religious manner (which would cut out common law, etc), is it
viewed in God's eyes as being legit?
| | ZZ Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
| | ZZ "real"?
| No, because I believe real commitment is an act that carries the ramification
| of a lifetime.
Then two gay men in a relationship should not be seen as casual sex in
your eyes, right?
| Now I realize people move in together and act married for economic reasons
Jack, I'm sorry, but I had to laugh. All I could think of was some guy
or woman saying: Come on... we're in this for economic reasons. So lets get it
on!" :-)
| Now, what are people afraid of?
It would appear if people are willing to commit to each other, then
those people, while I'm sure have many fears, are going forward with it. So if
this isn't what you're looking for for the afraid part, explain it some more.
| ZZ You forgot about the possible effects a gay couple could have on a
| ZZ child towards women. I do hope you express your ideas on this one.
| My ideas are simple...insufficient data. What we must not do is assume it
| won't have any negative effect.
NO ONE IS DOING THAT! What I found extremely annoying is that when you
mentioned a lesbian getting divorced and possibly hating men, and passing it
onto her daughter, that you never said anything about a heterosexual woman
going through the same thing. Why was that?
| No because it would be their call. I would only say the parent and the child
| would have challenges ahead of them. I would also state that dysfunctionalism
| is clearly preferential over death.
HO HO! Clearly better than death. WOW! Now I have heard everything!
Ever wonder why people get pissed at you so much?
| Glen, this is proposterous. The scripture Dick used was a mandate from Jesus
| to the disciples who were evangelizing and sharing the gospel. Soapbox is
| NOT a forum to convert people.
Jack, I hadn't thought that sharing the gospel was = to converting
people. Because if that were the case, then they would not have been told to
move on. I had thought converting was supposed to be something someone wanted
to do, not something forced. So it would appear that Dick had the correct
interpretation. So....bye.
| This is fallacy. There are alot of things that I would like to do as a male
| with a predisposition toward others of the opposite sex.
Jack, do you know that there is a difference between being who you are
(which is what I said) and doing what you want to (which is what you said)? If
not, there is.
| Glen, it isn't just a matter of what kind of sex the father has with a man. It
| is the whole conditioning thing and the attitudes a child inherits from their
| upbringing. Are you suggesting this isn't the case? That children don't
| inherit attitudes from their role models growing up?
Jack, attitudes are inheritted from parents, and other grown-ups, and
peers. But sexual orientation has nothing to do with this. Hell, I used to be
very bigotted before. I got that from my parents. They were heterosexual. If my
parents were lesbians, or gay males, and had the same attitudes my parents did
towards <insert race>, then I would have still grown up the same way. Sexual
orientation is not the problem.
| On the contrary, I think it is quite possible. If for example you are gay but
| marry and have a child, and you are then verbally abused by your spouse to the
| point of divorce, consider the possibility the child is going to see your dis-
| dain for women, see you are loving another man, and put two and two together.
| You honestly think this won't effect his view of women?
Wow...Jack.... this is a stretch.... even for you. The above could very
well happen.... yes..... IF the parents don't explain to the child why they are
having the divorce. If they aren't close with the child so she/he would ask
mommy and daddy questions when they have them. But is that a problem with
homosexuality and child rearing? Or is it a problem where mommy and daddy
didn't take the child(ren) into full consideration?
Glen
|
323.1879 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:49 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.1868 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>
| > Actually, so don't I.
| What the heck does that mean?
It means if I want to have a kid, I still can.
|
323.1880 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:50 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.1869 by CONSLT::MCBRIDE "pack light, keep low, move fast, reload often" >>>
| Do. So DO I. Say it! C'mon, say it!
it
phew... I feel so much better!
|
323.1881 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:50 | 5 |
|
"so don't I" means you can have a kid?
|
323.1882 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Be gone - you have no powers here | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:52 | 6 |
|
If you speak/understand slang, it means the same thing.
I graduated from a public school system, so I learned all the
wrong ways to use the language. Right, Jack?
|
323.1883 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:52 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.1874 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Could somebody please inform lucky Jack here that I've stated on more
| than one occasion that churches, apostate though they are, should be
| able to marry same sex couples. This is my contention that people have
| me painted in a box and aren't really paying attention here.
Oh good. Then we can have sex after we get married, and you won't be
upset by it. This is good.
Glen
|
323.1884 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:53 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1876 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I was asked my opinion and therefore said they shouldn't. I believe
| people shouldn't be promiscuous but I support their right to self
| determination.
Why would you allow someone to marry in a church, but not have sex
after they are married?
Glen
|
323.1885 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 16:59 | 3 |
| re: .1863
Let's play obfuscate!!
|
323.1886 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:01 | 3 |
| re: .1862
You are misinformed.
|
323.1887 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:06 | 15 |
| Glen:
I have used the alcoholism analogy MANY times and you know it.
Let's just agree to disagree. This is getting dull for both of us I
imagine. Look, do what you feel is right in your own eyes, I am not
your conscience. You're gay, I accept that. For whatever reason, you
were born gay, I was born non gay. How we act on our predispositions
is molded by our convictions as to what is sanctified, what is holy,
what is right or what is wrong. If you truly believe your actions are
right, then you shouldn't have any remorse or anger over what I say.
Like I said, everybody has an opinion.
-Jack
|
323.1888 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:06 | 11 |
| re: .1872
The answer to everything is NOT legislation. This is not a simple
issue at all, and I've typed in hundreds of lines of text showing you
how your simple rationalizations come up short.
I'm not sure what else to type in, other than I agree that we will
continue to disagree on this issue.
-steve
|
323.1889 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:13 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.1887 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| You're gay, I accept that.
I know you accept that I am gay, but I now wonder if you accept me, as
a person. From what I have learned this week I get the impression that this is
not the case.
| How we act on our predispositions is molded by our convictions as to what is
| sanctified, what is holy, what is right or what is wrong.
Jack, you've labeled gays, PERIOD. Don't you dare try to hold this to a
me you thing. There are many people who mold their convictions is ways you have
not listed.
| If you truly believe your actions are right, then you shouldn't have any
| remorse or anger over what I say.
Jack, that is bullcrap and you know it. I suppose no one is supposed to
ever get upset if people say false things about them? And not just them, but
anyone like them? Please, jack... be real... just for once?
Glen
|
323.1890 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:27 | 25 |
| ZZ I know you accept that I am gay, but I now wonder if you accept me, as
ZZ a person. From what I have learned this week I get the impression that
ZZ this is not the case.
Glen, you're putting on the perverbial victim hat and THAT is bullcrap.
I have NEVER kept it a secret of how I perceived the matter of being
born gay and you know it! If I didn't accept you as a person, it would
seem to me we would never have dialog, or exchange EMail, or
communicate in any way! That ALONE should speak on whether or not I
accept you as a person.
Glen, the cold hard facts are as follows. There are people in here who
honestly believe Christians are deluded, misguided fools who follow
myths. Heck we have that right in our own beloved Christian
Perspective conference. There are people who firmly believe being gay
is a choice. There is another segment who believe as I do that being
gay is a handicap. Now the day may come when I will be called on the
carpet as it were, for non conformity. The fact is Glen, that there
are always going to be people who believe differently than you.
It doesn't bother me that guys like Tom Ralston, for example, believe
I'm a misguided fool! Heck he's always good for a laugh...and I
respect his right to differ with me on this. It's not malicious...it's
just the way it is Glen!
-Jack
|
323.1891 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:56 | 14 |
| >There are people in here who honestly believe Christians are deluded,
>misguided fools who follow myths.
Me, me, except for the fool part.
>It doesn't bother me that guys like Tom Ralston, for example, believe
>I'm a misguided fool!
Misguided yes, fool no.
>Heck he's always good for a laugh...
I'm glad it's working Jack, except I seldom see you smile. :)
|
323.1892 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 05 1995 17:58 | 1 |
| Sorry. I really should use that more!! :-)
|
323.1893 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 05 1995 18:07 | 52 |
| | <<< Note 323.1890 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, you're putting on the perverbial victim hat and THAT is bullcrap.
Jack, if I can't live without you acceptance, then there is a victim
hat. What I stated is at one time I thought you accepted gays as people. Now I
do not feel the same way. I can live with the knowledge that you don't. It
isn't going to effect me one way or the other, except in how I view you, maybe.
But I ain't claiming victimization. Just pointing out what I thought about you
was wrong.
| I have NEVER kept it a secret of how I perceived the matter of being born gay
| and you know it!
Jack, I listed all the things that I learned this week about you. Did
you miss that?
| If I didn't accept you as a person, it would seem to me we would never have
| dialog, or exchange EMail, or communicate in any way!
Oh... like I said before, you have stated that you accept gay people.
But from the things I've learned this week, I can't say I believe that now.
| Glen, the cold hard facts are as follows. There are people in here who
| honestly believe Christians are deluded, misguided fools who follow myths.
You are correct. That is their beliefs. And maybe when they hear the
word Christian, they think of two people, just laying there, barely moving, and
call it their sex. I don't know. Or maybe they envision a Jim Bakker type. What
anyone should do under any of these circumstances is pretty simple. Talk to the
individual. Don't make sweeping generalizations about any group.
| There are people who firmly believe being gay is a choice. There is another
| segment who believe as I do that being gay is a handicap.
Isn't that the same group, Jack?
| The fact is Glen, that there are always going to be people who believe
| differently than you.
I don't have a problem with that, Jack. I just stated that I now see
you in a different light, and one that is not nearly as good as the one I used
to see you from. I guess I just didn't see as much of the picture back then.
| It doesn't bother me that guys like Tom Ralston, for example, believe
| I'm a misguided fool!
How can you think differently on this one? :_)
Glen
|
323.1894 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 18:14 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.1852 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> re, Jim Percival. Look, I was there, 19 and for St. Barry in 1964.
So? You are old. This does not make you right. The WORDS are what
they are. The law can protect white as well as Black, man as well
as woman, Jew as well as Lutheran. That's what they law says.
If you have a problem with the applications to which the law
has been put, then it may tell you about those who have\
suffered discrimination.
> I know what the Civil Rights Act was about.
You obviously do not know what the Act says, or how it can be
and has been used.
Jim
|
323.1895 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 18:20 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.1870 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> But Jim, that IS the point of contention. I do NOT consider the CRA
> "an unfortunate necessity". I consider it one of the main causes of
> the inter-racial strife that we are currently facing. But as I said,
> you and I have been down this road already.
Yes, and if you recall, the last time we had this discussion it
became obvious that you had confused the differences between the
CRA and AA. I thought we had cleared that up for you.
Jim
|
323.1896 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 18:24 | 18 |
| <<< Note 323.1874 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Could somebody please inform lucky Jack here that I've stated on more
> than one occasion that churches, apostate though they are, should be
> able to marry same sex couples. This is my contention that people have
> me painted in a box and aren't really paying attention here.
Currently the state regulates just who can be married and requires
a license before any ordained minister can legally marry two
individuals.
A marriage ceremony could be performed for a Gay couple, but
the marriage would not be legally recognized by the state.
Failing to recognize this simple fact is a rather poor attempt
at diversion.
Jim
|
323.1897 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 05 1995 18:27 | 8 |
| <<< Note 323.1888 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> I'm not sure what else to type in, other than I agree that we will
> continue to disagree on this issue.
Why not just a simple confession that you are a hypocrite?
Jim
|
323.1898 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 08:40 | 13 |
| re: .1894
Why was the CRA written and passed (the original)?
(hint: not to protect white folk)
You can argue that the wording is such that it protects all races, and
I'll agree with you on technical usage. You cannot argue that the
intent was anything but to protect minorities (specifically black
people, at the time it was written).
-steve
|
323.1899 | ...why I am noT for adding... | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 08:47 | 13 |
| re: .1897
I've fully explained why I am no for adding "sexual orientation" to the
CRA. If you cannot look past your overly simplistic view on this matter,
well, I guess I would seem to be a hypocrite to you.
Quit turning this into a black or white issue. There are many shades
of gray, though you refuse to accept this (or even consider the
possibility).
-steve
|
323.1900 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 08:48 | 3 |
| And while I'm here...
SNARF!
|
323.1901 | Yes. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Wed Dec 06 1995 08:50 | 17 |
|
Steve's right. If you put 6 dogs and a rabbit in a cage, and
make a rule that "no animal may harm another", you are NOT practicing
equality - you are restricting the freedom of the dogs, and
specially protecting the rabbit. Jim Percival is no dummy and he
knows perfectly well that this is the case. The trouble is that he
wants us to believe that Civil Rights protection has "no" downside,
a logically untenable position - EVERYTHING has a down side. In the
case of protecting the black race, our society decided (correctly,
in my view, as in the animal case) that the tradeoff was necessary.
For lefthanded people, I think the legal protection would cost more
than it's worth, by a lot. Sexual orientation lies between these
cases. Every time we make such protection, we make life harder for
everybody in the society. It's a tradeoff - Jim P. is just wrong,
and demonstrably so.
bb
|
323.1902 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 09:08 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.1898 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| You can argue that the wording is such that it protects all races, and I'll
| agree with you on technical usage. You cannot argue that the intent was
| anything but to protect minorities (specifically black people, at the time it
| was written).
Read what you said above and think for a minute. Specifically black
people. That would make everyone else, INCLUDING the white man, a minor thought
in the bill, under your view.
BUT, regardless of what you think their intent was, the FACT remains it
covers white, black, asian, indian, etc.
Glen
|
323.1903 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Wed Dec 06 1995 09:31 | 22 |
|
re:.1895
> > But Jim, that IS the point of contention. I do NOT consider the CRA
> > "an unfortunate necessity". I consider it one of the main causes of
> > the inter-racial strife that we are currently facing. But as I said,
> > you and I have been down this road already.
>
> Yes, and if you recall, the last time we had this discussion it
> became obvious that you had confused the differences between the
> CRA and AA. I thought we had cleared that up for you.
No Jim, you are mistaken. The confusion regarding CRA and AA was a
minor side issue. The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall
continue to oppose it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.
Once these categories/classes are created, people will tend to
associate themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other
groups. This leads to internal strife within the nation. If and when
this country falls, it will not be to an outside enemy, it will be to
our internal strife. This is why I'm opposed to the CRA.
IMNHO, YMMV, etc...
|
323.1904 | | GMASEC::KELLY | | Wed Dec 06 1995 09:51 | 13 |
| Glen-
I'm really surprised at you. For all your blathering in the past about
Joe stating x,y,z about you as fact and taking offense to it, why,
you're doing the same to Jack with your current blathering about what
you've learned about him this week. Even tho he's telling you
different. I love how your 'go to the source' only works one way.
And yes, Jack has beliefs about gays which you claim are not true and
happen to dislike, but at least Jack acknowledges with his "hey I may
be called on the carpet for this one day" that he may be wrong. He's
also one of the only "thumpers" to say, yes, make gay marriages legal.
At least admit that your opinion of his is just that, stop stating it
as fact.
|
323.1905 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Wed Dec 06 1995 09:55 | 8 |
|
<-------
>I'm really surprised at you.
You may be the only one Christine....
|
323.1906 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:08 | 25 |
| Thinking about this last night, and tell me if I'm correct, the thorn
on the side of this segment of dialog was the use of the word,
"dysfunctional". Is this right Glen? The word dysfunctional being
applied to a whole group of society?
Let me reiterate that "dysfunctional" is a generic term and is not an
implication to mental health. My sister for example, cannot have
children and never will. She adopted three children but cannot bear
children because she has a dysfunctional reproductive system. There
are men out there who are impotent, they were born with that trait. It
has nothing to do with their stamina in bed, they are simply
dysfunctional. I have certain allergies which make it difficult for me
to breathe properly. The lack of oxygen affects my noting ability and
therefore I am dysfunctional. These dysfunctions, handicaps, whatever
you want to label them are traits we have to deal with. There are some
handicaps which require more conviction in the choice we make. An
alcoholic can be sober for sixty years, never touch a drop. A gay
individual can be chaste all his life to honor God. The presidposition
still exists. Again, it is NOT the predisposition which is being
judged. Predispositions are given to us by the almighty in my opinion.
How we handle life when adversity comes our way is the real test.
The stalemate of course is that your "blessing" is my adversity.
-Jack
|
323.1908 | a hint: white people did not need protection at this time | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:14 | 15 |
| re: .1902
Glen, please explain why the CRA came into existence. While you are at
it, please share with us the social situation at this time.
Thank you.
And fwiw, the only thought about white folk during the passage of this
act, was the thought of limiting their right to discriminate against
the black folk. Intent is the issue, my friend, not technicalities.
-steve
|
323.1909 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Takin' it to the streets... | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:17 | 6 |
|
>A gay individual can be chaste all his life to honor God.
How disappointing for him if, after all that, there is no God (or, if
there is a God, that He just plain doesn't give a damn about chastity).
|
323.1910 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:23 | 2 |
| Not only that, he may not give a tinker's cuss about not having sex
either!
|
323.1911 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:27 | 36 |
| | <<< Note 323.1904 by GMASEC::KELLY >>>
| I'm really surprised at you. For all your blathering in the past about Joe
| stating x,y,z about you as fact and taking offense to it, why, you're doing
| the same to Jack with your current blathering about what you've learned about
| him this week. Even tho he's telling you different.
'tine, he is not telling me different. He is agreeing with what I am
saying. I listed the things I had learned this week, and compared them to the
things I have leaned in the past. The end result is I view him differently than
I did before, and it is not favorable. I did state that I do not believe he is
homophobic. But I stated how I view him is differently, now.
| And yes, Jack has beliefs about gays which you claim are not true and happen
| to dislike, but at least Jack acknowledges with his "hey I may be called on
| the carpet for this one day" that he may be wrong.
What was interesting about that was he said his beliefs are Biblically
based. So if that is true, then the Bible would have to be wrong for him to be,
wouldn't it? So I'm not so sure that him saying the carpet thing is saying all
that much at all.
| He's also one of the only "thumpers" to say, yes, make gay marriages legal.
I'm still waiting for him to respond to the sex part of marriage. If we
marry, is it ok for sex. So no difinitive statement has been made with this
yet.
| At least admit that your opinion of his is just that, stop stating it
| as fact.
'tine, you surprise me. If I state that I view Jack unfavorably, how is
that anything more than my opinion?
Glen
|
323.1912 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:32 | 7 |
|
'Tine???
You still surprised????
|
323.1913 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Dec 06 1995 10:48 | 27 |
| ZZ I did state that I do not believe he is
ZZ homophobic. But I stated how I view him is differently, now.
Glen, the word homophobe has little creedance with me. "Homophobe" is
one of those misused terms applied to the masses of those who disagree
regarding the morality issue of same gender intercourse. Try labeling
me as homophobic and you may as well be pissing into the wind.
Re: Sex and marriage. My opinion is this. If you notice when I put
forth the idea that churches should be able to perform marriages to
gays, I always include, "apostate though they are". I don't make this
comment lightly. I believe the tenet of the church is to build the
body of believers in holiness and sanctification before a holy God.
Apostacy is a common infiltration within the church and has been since
the beginning of it. Personal opinion, a gay marriage is not a
sanctified act. My legal opinion, you should have the right to self
determination.
However, if marriage were to be labeled a religious institution, be it
atheists, satan worshippers, Christians, whomever, then the government
would be interfering with the establishment of a religious ordinance.
This is why, apostate though they are, a church could and would be able
to make a marriage legal and binding for anybody. I believe it is an
apostate practice but the government would be out of it and of course
my opinion would mean squat...so you would live happily ever after.
-Jack
|
323.1914 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 11:16 | 26 |
| <<< Note 323.1901 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>The trouble is that he
> wants us to believe that Civil Rights protection has "no" downside,
> a logically untenable position - EVERYTHING has a down side.
Pray tell us the downside of requiring that discrimination in
the three areas covered by the CRA be stopped.
> In the
> case of protecting the black race, our society decided (correctly,
> in my view, as in the animal case) that the tradeoff was necessary.
Please explain why the CRA has been used, successfully, by whites
then.
>It's a tradeoff - Jim P. is just wrong,
> and demonstrably so.
I guess as long as you are not of the ones suffering discrimination
it's easy to call such a position wrong. But if the ideas and
principles of this Country concerning the equal treatment of its
citizens are to be respected then thy must apply to everyone, not
just a select few.
Jim
|
323.1915 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 11:18 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.1903 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> No Jim, you are mistaken. The confusion regarding CRA and AA was a
> minor side issue. The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall
> continue to oppose it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.
Apparently not such a minor issue since you are STILL confused.
AA does create special classes, the CRA most certainly does not.
Jim
|
323.1916 | | GMASEC::KELLY | | Wed Dec 06 1995 11:31 | 7 |
| Andy-
Nope.
Glen,
Don't have the time or the inclination.
|
323.1917 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 11:33 | 32 |
| <<< Note 323.1899 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> I've fully explained why I am no for adding "sexual orientation" to the
> CRA. If you cannot look past your overly simplistic view on this matter,
> well, I guess I would seem to be a hypocrite to you.
I look at it a simple issue because it IS a simple issue. Either
this discrimination is right or it is wrong. You, yourself, have
opined that it is wrong, but then you attempt to complicate the
issue with all your boogyman domino scare tactics, so that you
can tell us (even though you believe it's wrong) that you do
not favor rectifying the situation.
That IS hypocritical, plain and simple.
Of course there is another possibility. It very well could be that
you are not telling us the truth when you say that you believe that
discriminating against Gays is wrong.
So we are left with a choice of believeing that you are a hypocrite
or a liar.
> Quit turning this into a black or white issue. There are many shades
> of gray, though you refuse to accept this (or even consider the
> possibility).
The difference between us Steve is that I have a set of principles
that I truly believe in. You, on the other hand, only have a negotiable
set of beliefs.
Jim
|
323.1918 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 11:40 | 27 |
| <<< Note 323.1913 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> Glen, the word homophobe has little creedance with me. "Homophobe" is
> one of those misused terms applied to the masses of those who disagree
> regarding the morality issue of same gender intercourse. Try labeling
> me as homophobic and you may as well be pissing into the wind.
Funny. the same thought occurs to me when you label Gays as
"dysfunctional".
The term, and you examples of its various useages, implies a lack
of function. The inability to perform. The only area where this
could possibly apply would be to Gay men bearing children. But then
that lack of function applies to ALL men.
Other than this one area, which is NOT exclusive to Gays, you can not
describe a lack of function that applies to Gays. Therefore, your
use of the term is not descriptive. It is merely derogatory.
>My legal opinion, you should have the right to self
> determination.
Then you DO favor changing the law to allow same sex couples
access to marriage.
Jim
|
323.1919 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Wed Dec 06 1995 11:42 | 29 |
| RE: .1903
/ The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose
/ it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.
These categories already existed. The categories were used to exclude
people from jobs, education and housing. At one point, they were used
to exclude people from certain drinking fountains, lunch counters and
bus seats.
/ Once these categories/classes are created, people will tend to
/ associate themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other
/ groups.
The CRA didn't 'create' the categories. They already existed. Once
the CRA was created, though, people from the various groups began to
live and work together in ways that had never been possible before.
/ This leads to internal strife within the nation. If and when
/ this country falls, it will not be to an outside enemy, it will be to
/ our internal strife.
The internal strife already existed, too.
It's a Catch-22 if you tell people who have been excluded as a group
that you can't try to improve their situation because it would turn
them into a 'group' (thus creating problems which exist when people
are divided into groups), as if groups don't exist until someone tries
to solve the injustices being inflicted on a particular group.
|
323.1920 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Dec 06 1995 12:10 | 15 |
| Z Then you DO favor changing the law to allow same sex couples
Z access to marriage.
Yes, I do. As I've said before, marriage to me is a sacrament under
the auspices of church or religion. Now obviously one size does not
fit all since the world is full of non religious people. However,
since Secular Humanism has been deemed a religion by the Supreme Court
under Reagan, this to me would cover those bases and an atheist would
be able marry by a JP under the auspices of religion. This would
remove the legislature from legislating morality.
I frankly find it surprising this idea isn't well received here. I'm
proposing getting government out of it and the whole bit!
-Jack
|
323.1921 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 12:45 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.1906 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Thinking about this last night, and tell me if I'm correct, the thorn on the
| side of this segment of dialog was the use of the word, "dysfunctional". Is
| this right Glen?
Jack, the word is only part of it.
| The lack of oxygen affects my noting ability and therefore I am dysfunctional.
See? I learned something new. I now know the reason for your faulty
noting style! :-)
| These dysfunctions, handicaps, whatever you want to label them are traits we
| have to deal with.
To include homosexuality in those is pretty insulting, if you ask me.
And it was not something I thought you believed up until this week.
Glen
|
323.1922 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 12:48 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1908 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| -< a hint: white people did not need protection at this time >-
No kidding. But it was made for them incase they needed it. That was
what I was saying. The protection COULD have been made JUST for one group,
PERIOD. But it wasn't. Some thought actually went into it. Whether or not it
was put together for <insert group> isn't the who crux of the matter. What IS,
is the FACT it covers EVERYONE.
Glen
|
323.1923 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 12:53 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.1920 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| As I've said before, marriage to me is a sacrament under the auspices of
| church or religion.
Jack, I'm confused by this. I had thought with you being a Christian
from the Right, that the only true religion is Christianity. Are you now saying
other religions are valid in your eyes? I'm confused.
Glen
|
323.1924 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Dec 06 1995 12:59 | 7 |
| Z To include homosexuality in those is pretty insulting, if you
Z ask me.
Considering sexual relations between same sex individuals is by and
large something most people shun away from, I think your use of the
word insulting is somewhat over done. You can tell me my remark is
without precedent or without basis...but insulting!?!
|
323.1925 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 13:04 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.1924 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Considering sexual relations between same sex individuals is by and large
| something most people shun away from, I think your use of the word insulting
| is somewhat over done.
Jack, shun away from? Could you elaborate with some stats? Or is this
another one of your whims?
| You can tell me my remark is without precedent or without basis...but
| insulting!?!
Yeah, you have cassified a whole group of people as being something
less than desireable, but out of that whole group, how many do you know?
|
323.1926 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Dec 06 1995 13:15 | 17 |
| Z that the only true religion is Christianity. Are you now saying
Z other religions are valid in your eyes? I'm confused.
Well, let me splain it to ya. Any religion is valid. A religion is
a belief system. Atheism in my opinion is a valid belief system.
Satanism is a valid belief system. Now are they the true belief
system? This remains to be seen. "In your eyes" is the phrase you
used above. In other words, I have an opinion based on a core belief
system. In a Republic such as the US, we are afforded the right to
believe and worship as we see fit.
You also may recall I don't believe Christianity is a religion. A
religion has a core element of humankind reaching upi to God through
whatever medium or avenue they deem fit. I believe Christianity is
based on God reaching down to man by his plan.
-Jack
|
323.1927 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Wed Dec 06 1995 13:19 | 7 |
|
re. .1923
>I'm confused.
Color me stunned!!!
|
323.1928 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Wed Dec 06 1995 13:33 | 27 |
| Jack, shun away from? Could you elaborate with some stats? Or is this
another one of your whims?
Probably another one of my whims. When I wrote this I was thinking of
the hoopla a few months back regarding the use of abortion if it could
be discovered the baby was going to be gay. My whim here is there is a
good probability people would use abortion for this and personaaly I
find this to be the height of hatred. Far more than any rhetoric
coming from me. Like I said yesterday, growing up with any
predisposition is far greater than death. Why don't you go into the
abortion topic and pose the question to the people you side with over
there...and see how much hatred comes out of that one.
| You can tell me my remark is without precedent or without basis...but
| insulting!?!
Z Yeah, you have classified a whole group of people as being something
Z less than desireable, but out of that whole group, how many do you
Z know?
So my sister who cannot bear children is less desirable? I said no
such thing about gays as people...nothing! What I said was to me, how
we handle a predisposition will determine our conviction. Your
conviction isn't the same as mine that's all!
-Jack
|
323.1929 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 15:10 | 74 |
| re: .1917
> I look at it a simple issue because it IS a simple issue.
Only if you ignore all the points I have brought up (which you have
done a pretty good job of doing).
> Either this discrimination is right or it is wrong.
I have also brought up the uselessness of using "discrimination" as a
cover-all term.
> You, yourself, have opined that it is wrong,
I have agreed that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the term
"discrimination" are wrong.
> but then you attempt to complicate the issue with all your boogyman
> domino scare tactics,
The "domino theory" was a side issue, and labelled properly as such.
My argument has never rested on this opinion that you are
quick to label as "scare tactics".
> so that you can tell us (even though you believe
> it's wrong) that you do not favor rectifying the situation.
I have said that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the
label "discrimination" are wrong. I have not said that I do not favor
rectifying the situation, but that I believe legal rectification is not
in order, nor needed in this instance.
> That IS hypocritical, plain and simple.
Only if you ignore 90% of what I have posted in this string.
> Of course there is another possibility. It very well could be that
> you are not telling us the truth when you say that you believe that
> discriminating against Gays is wrong.
I've already said society has a right to discriminate against gays
within certain boundaries; it has every right not to allow gay
marriages, for one.
As far as gays getting fired from a job JUST because they are gay, well,
I agree this is bad. I do not agree that this problem is widespread
enough to need legislation, and I think change will come on its own-
without legislation. I also believe that there are certain issues in
which an employer should be able to be selective in his hiring.
You are being incredibly simplistic when you attemp to label me as a
hypocrite (or liar). You imply that because I do not want "sexual
orientation" to be added to the CRA, that I do not wish to see any
of the problems you mention fixed. This is an untenable conclusion on
your part. You refuse to see this issue outside of your binary
filters.
> So we are left with a choice of believeing that you are a hypocrite
> or a liar.
Or that you are ignoring most of what I post.
> The difference between us Steve is that I have a set of principles
> that I truly believe in. You, on the other hand, only have a negotiable
> set of beliefs.
I would like to hear how your logic brought you to this conclusion. Even
more interesting to me, is that you feel the need to resort to personal
attacks (no, I don't really care, I just find it interesting).
-steve
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323.1930 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 15:22 | 21 |
| re: .1922
| -< a hint: white people did not need protection at this time >-
> No kidding. But it was made for them incase they needed it.
Nonsense. This was NEVER a fear of the white establishment of this
era. The CRA was created SPECIFICALLY for blacks, who were the ones
being discriminated against wholesale. The INTENT (the point you keep
deflecting from) was to protect blacks.
> Whether or not it
>was put together for <insert group> isn't the who crux of the matter. What IS,
>is the FACT it covers EVERYONE.
Then adding in "sexual orientation" is redundant, since everyone is
already covered.
-steve
|
323.1931 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Wed Dec 06 1995 15:52 | 11 |
|
Malawi to execute certain rapists
LILONGWE, Malawi - President Bakili Muluzi plans to institute the death
penalty for rapists who infect their victims with the virus that causes
AIDS. Speaking at a prayer meeting Sunday in Malawi's administrative
capital, Muluzi expressed concern over the spread of AIDS to unwitting
victims. More than 1 million of Malawi's 8 million inhabitants are
believed infected with HIV. Muluzi succeeded dictator Kamuzu Banda last
year, following the first multiparty elections in Malawi's 30 years of
independence.(AP)
|
323.1932 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Wed Dec 06 1995 15:55 | 4 |
|
President Bakili Mulazi from Lilongwe Malawi. Oy!
-b
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323.1933 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:13 | 15 |
| So what of the situation currently going on in NYC?
A young (6? 8?) girl on the NYC subway, was "stabbed" in the thigh by
a hypodermic needle wielded by a known drug abuser/vagrant. Because
he is charged with assault, rather than a sex crime, current city,
state and/or federal laws prevent the ordering of a blood test on this
character to determine whether or not he might be HIV positive, which
presumably would help establish some probability as to the risk that
he infected the child.
Mayor Giuliani expresses disgust that the authorities' hands are tied
against violating this scumbag's civil rights.
(Or is that already in here somewhere?)
|
323.1934 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:31 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1930 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Then adding in "sexual orientation" is redundant, since everyone is
| already covered.
Steve, an issue you always ignore is when there are loopholes, they
need to be closed.
|
323.1935 | i fear we are getting nowhere, Jim... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:32 | 51 |
| re, 323.1914 -
Pray tell us the downside of requiring that discrimination in
the three areas covered by the CRA be stopped.
> The downside is this : no citizen of the USA, no business in the USA,
no organization or local government in the USA, can any longer (1) hire or
not hire whoever it wants; (2) accomodate/ not accomodate whoever they
want. Instead, it now depends WHY - "just because I want to/don't
want to" is NOT good enough, as it used to be. Now you must be able
to convince a court you did not violate this law. This is a HUGE cost -
in some cases, whole lines of work have been abolished, companies
obliterated by foreign competition due to the added burden, people
placed in positions for legal, not business reasons. And a new huge
industry of "rights" lawyers was created, a tax on all of us.
Please explain why the CRA has been used, successfully, by whites
then.
> In an ironic and gross perversion of the intent of the Congress of
the time, angry white bigots hired the same slime lawyers the Act
created as a weapon for blacks to use against whites, and they got
the courts to rule "reverse discrimination", an absurd charge, but a
predictable one, I suppose.
I guess as long as you are not of the ones suffering discrimination
it's easy to call such a position wrong. But if the ideas and
principles of this Country concerning the equal treatment of its
citizens are to be respected then thy must apply to everyone, not
just a select few.
> I guess you can always win arguments if you put cotton in your ears.
Or perhaps <Next unseen> your opponents' notes without reading them.
At any rate, I fail to see what this paragraph has to do with anything
in this argument - what "selected few" are you talking about - blacks ?
Whites are not a "few" in the USA, they are a "many".
And in case you didn't notice, it was "equal treatment" that I claim
is endangered by specific mention of a list of characteristics which
cannot be discriminated against, while, by implication, those not
listed can be.
Discrimination is the act of choosing through perception - it is
fundamental to all of the higher animals. The ability to tell the
difference between patterns is a pure test of survivability, and in
complex cases, of intelligence. For the state to say what criteria
I may or may not use in doing this is repulsive, and very expensive.
We can justify such hideous laws only where there is compelling
evidence that their absence would lead to something even worse.
bb
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323.1936 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:33 | 8 |
|
Lucky Jack.... that's awful. Considering AIDS can be transmitted
through a used needle, that should be on the list of things to check people's
blood if they use the needle as a weapon.
Glen
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323.1937 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:46 | 100 |
| <<< Note 323.1929 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Only if you ignore all the points I have brought up (which you have
> done a pretty good job of doing).
Once I discount one of your "ideas", I don't feel the need to
do so again. I did not ignore "all of the points" you have
brought up. I offered counterarguments that you have failed
to respond to.
> I have also brought up the uselessness of using "discrimination" as a
> cover-all term.
We have not been using it as a cover-all term. I have been very
specific in the use of the term and the proposed remedy.
> I have agreed that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the term
> "discrimination" are wrong.
Those are the aspects that I have been discussing.
> I have said that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the
> label "discrimination" are wrong. I have not said that I do not favor
> rectifying the situation, but that I believe legal rectification is not
> in order, nor needed in this instance.
You imply that you do favor rectifying the situation. How, short
of legislation, do you propose to do this?
> Only if you ignore 90% of what I have posted in this string.
Ignoring 90% of your postings sounds just about right. The S/N ratio
seems to run about 10/90.
> I've already said society has a right to discriminate against gays
> within certain boundaries; it has every right not to allow gay
> marriages, for one.
And in this particular generation of the discussion I have not
argued with you about the marriage laws. I HAVE specifically
addressed employment, housing and the use of public accomodations.
> As far as gays getting fired from a job JUST because they are gay, well,
> I agree this is bad. I do not agree that this problem is widespread
> enough to need legislation,
How "widespread" does the problem need be before legislation is
required? Is there some magic number? What about the real people
who have been refused real jobs? They don't count unless there is
a crowd?
> and I think change will come on its own-
> without legislation.
The history of discrimination in this country does not support
such a hope.
> I also believe that there are certain issues in
> which an employer should be able to be selective in his hiring.
Such as?
>You imply that because I do not want "sexual
> orientation" to be added to the CRA, that I do not wish to see any
> of the problems you mention fixed. This is an untenable conclusion on
> your part.
It is most certainly a legitimate conclusion. You offer lip service
to the situation, but offer nothing, absolutely nothing, in order
to see it corrected.
"Don't worry, be happy, it'll get better someday" is NOT an answer.
> You refuse to see this issue outside of your binary
> filters.
I refuse to be diverted by your attempted obsfucation of the issue.
> Or that you are ignoring most of what I post.
No reading every word that you post and dismissing it is not the
same as ignoring it.
Your arguments are logically invalid and you have offered nothing
to back them up other than unsubstantiated opinion. They have no
value in a logical discussion. If you wnat to consider this
"ignoring" them, so be it.
> I would like to hear how your logic brought you to this conclusion.
Your words betray you.
> Even
> more interesting to me, is that you feel the need to resort to personal
> attacks (no, I don't really care, I just find it interesting).
It's not really a personal attack, it's merely an observation regarding
your positions.
Jim
|
323.1938 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:48 | 4 |
| re: .1934
I don't consider "sexual orientation" a loophole. But you knew that
already.
|
323.1939 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 16:53 | 22 |
| <<< Note 323.1935 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> -< i fear we are getting nowhere, Jim... >-
I am sure of it.
The principle involved related to employment is that ones ability
to perform the job should be the only criteria used in making
employment decisions. Do you disagree with this principle?
As for housing, it the ability to pay the rent/mortgage. DO you
disagree with this?
The use of public accomodations also uses the ability to pay for
services. Do you disagree with this as well?
You seem to be arguing that people have a right to be bigots. On
this we agree. They can think anything they want. But once they
enter the public domain, there are certain minimum rules that
should be followed. Non-discrimination is one of those rules.
Jim
|
323.1940 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Wed Dec 06 1995 17:16 | 87 |
| re: .1937
> I offered counterarguments that you have failed
> to respond to.
Such as? I normally extract the entire note and respond to all of it
within a discussion- with minimal editing (the longer the note, the
more editing out to save bytes).
> You imply that you do favor rectifying the situation. How, short
> of legislation, do you propose to do this?
Why does Digital's policy of non-discrimination include sexual
orientation? Did legislation force this?
Why can't we pressue corporations into having such policies?
Why must everything always be legislated?
> And in this particular generation of the discussion I have not
> argued with you about the marriage laws. I HAVE specifically
> addressed employment, housing and the use of public accomodations.
As have I. I've stated that in some cases, discrimination in housing and
employment are understandable. For example, the religious owner of a
duplex who does not want to rent to homosexuals.
> How "widespread" does the problem need be before legislation is
> required? Is there some magic number?
How bad did it have to be in order for there to be a Civil Rights Act
to begin with? I'd say that similar discrimination would have to be
proven in order to rationalize adding "sexual orientation" to the
CRA's list.
> What about the real people
> who have been refused real jobs? They don't count unless there is
> a crowd?
This is an unfortunate fact of life. We can't save everyone, even if
we legislation for every conceivable aspect of life (something we are
not far from, actually).
> The history of discrimination in this country does not support
> such a hope.
Neither does it support the idea that legislation can change opinion.
In the case of AA, it actually promotes racism.
>> I also believe that there are certain issues in
>> which an employer should be able to be selective in his hiring.
> Such as?
Hooters only hires physically attractive waitresses. I believe that
this is their right. An employer must do what he sees as best for his
business- sometimes this means discriminating against those that may be
qualified, but do not fit their criteria for this ideal.
> It is most certainly a legitimate conclusion. You offer lip service
> to the situation, but offer nothing, absolutely nothing, in order
> to see it corrected.
Perhaps because the small amount of such discrimination does not
warrent an all-encompassing approach (like adding "sexual orientation"
to the CRA). Just because I have no alternative to your suggestion,
does not mean that I wish to see such discrimination continue. This is
the untenable aspect of your conclusion.
> "Don't worry, be happy, it'll get better someday" is NOT an answer.
It already IS getting better. The gay lifestyle is more accepted today
than ever it was in this society.
>> I would like to hear how your logic brought you to this conclusion.
> Your words betray you.
More like, your interpretation of my words make me look bad.
> It's not really a personal attack, it's merely an observation regarding
> your positions.
I'll take your word for it. Whatever the case, I find your
"observation" lacking.
-steve
|
323.1941 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Dec 06 1995 17:59 | 80 |
| <<< Note 323.1940 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> Such as? I normally extract the entire note and respond to all of it
> within a discussion- with minimal editing (the longer the note, the
> more editing out to save bytes).
One notable example is the issue of people vs. behavior. You have
still not addressed this.
> Why can't we pressue corporations into having such policies?
> Why must everything always be legislated?
Some things require legislation in order to cover the widest possible
possible population. Also such legislation takes the approach that
certain things are wrong and are not to be tolerated. Relying on
individuals to change for the better is to view the world through
rose colored glasses.
> As have I. I've stated that in some cases, discrimination in housing and
> employment are understandable. For example, the religious owner of a
> duplex who does not want to rent to homosexuals.
The resident landlord of a duplex is not affected by the CRA.
> How bad did it have to be in order for there to be a Civil Rights Act
> to begin with? I'd say that similar discrimination would have to be
> proven in order to rationalize adding "sexual orientation" to the
> CRA's list.
So in order for Gays to achieve basic civil rights we need to have
them suffer lynchings, fire bombings, having attack dogs set on
them during a march? I don't think we have to wait for these things
to occur before we fix the problem. Why do you?
> This is an unfortunate fact of life. We can't save everyone, even if
> we legislation for every conceivable aspect of life (something we are
> not far from, actually).
Unfortunate, not for you. YOU are already protected by the CRA.
As I stated before, hypocritical.
How "bad" was religious persecution before that charachteristic
was added to the CRA?
> Neither does it support the idea that legislation can change opinion.
Legislation can affect behaviors. Once discrimination against
Gays in these specific areas is prohibited, some folks WILL
change their opinions about their ability to perform a job,
be model tenants, etc.
> In the case of AA, it actually promotes racism.
We are not discussing AA, but you knew this.
> Perhaps because the small amount of such discrimination does not
> warrent an all-encompassing approach (like adding "sexual orientation"
> to the CRA).
How easily you dismiss the discrimination against real people,
however few they may be. This is what I meant by "negotiable
set of beliefs". In your mind, the problem must be of a certain
"size" before you believe that action should be taken. A principled
person realizes that something is wrong, and regardless of the
size of the problem works to right the situation.
Do the words "As you do for the least of these, you do for me" ring
a bell?
> More like, your interpretation of my words make me look bad.
Nope, your wrods do that all by themselves. All I do is point this
out.
> I'll take your word for it. Whatever the case, I find your
> "observation" lacking.
Naturally. You are hardlyt objective concerning your failings.
Jim
|
323.1942 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 19:38 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1938 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| I don't consider "sexual orientation" a loophole. But you knew that already.
I'm talking about housing, jobs, things like that. There are loopholes,
and they need to be cleaned up. Btw, sexual orientation covers you as well. It
worked out fine for that woman who lost her job cuz she was straight.
|
323.1943 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Wed Dec 06 1995 19:56 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.1940 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Why does Digital's policy of non-discrimination include sexual orientation?
| Did legislation force this?
I can answer this. The heterosexual woman who submitted the policy for
review did so after going to a meeting that was being held for gays, lesbians,
and bisexuals. No one pressured her to do this. Yes, it was suggested, but she
did it because felt it was the right thing to do. She worked the issue with 2
other people. 1 woman, 1 man. Their names are, Lisa Brown, Tom Couming, and
Donna Taylor. You see, one doesn't have to be forced into doing something. Some
people, believe it or not, can actually feel doing some things are the right
thing to do, period.
| Why can't we pressue corporations into having such policies?
Digital wasn't pressured into this, either. But you would have to
pressure someone like Cracker Barrell. But can you? Probably not. That's why
you can't expect pressuring corporations to work, and sometimes you do need to
legislate.
Glen
|
323.1944 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Dec 06 1995 22:13 | 6 |
| The fact that failing to discriminate within Digital is the right thing to
do is a very different matter than whether there should be the same legal
status for homosexual couples as for husband and wife or even the same
anti-discrimination laws as for existing protected classes.
/john
|
323.1945 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 07:52 | 20 |
| <<< Note 323.1944 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
>The fact that failing to discriminate within Digital is the right thing to
>do is a very different matter than whether there should be the same legal
>status for homosexual couples as for husband and wife or even the same
>anti-discrimination laws as for existing protected classes.
I guess we have to keep repeating this since folks continue, either
deliberately or through ignorance, to mistate the facts.
The CRA does not create any protected classes. It prohibits
discrimination in the areas of employment, housing and the use
of public accomodations, based on listed charachteristics.
Affirmative Action does create special classes, the Supreme Court
has created special classes, but the CRA inclusively covers
charachteristics like race, gender, national origin, religion,
etc.
Jim
|
323.1946 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Thu Dec 07 1995 08:28 | 67 |
|
re:.1915
> > No Jim, you are mistaken. The confusion regarding CRA and AA was a
> > minor side issue. The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall
> > continue to oppose it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.
>
> Apparently not such a minor issue since you are STILL confused.
> AA does create special classes, the CRA most certainly does not.
No Jim, you are mistaken. You are not understanding what I wrote. I
am not confused regarding the difference between CRA and AA. By
"categories/classes" I meant "race, creed" etc. which are in the CRA. I
did not mean racial quotas as are in AA.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
re:.1919
> / The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose
> / it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.
>
> These categories already existed.
True, but the CRA itemized them. This itemization, I believe, prevents
people from seeing past these distinctions.
> / Once these categories/classes are created, people will tend to
> / associate themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other
> / groups.
>
> The CRA didn't 'create' the categories. They already existed.
A an inaccuracy on my part, the CRA itemized these categories. See
above...
> Once
> the CRA was created, though, people from the various groups began to
> live and work together in ways that had never been possible before.
One does not lead to the other. People did NOT immediately begin working
together after the CRA, in fact they had already started working
together before the CRA. They started working together because it was
mutually beneficial. They would have anyway for the added benefits. The
CRA didn't do this, it was the benefit gained from having more resources
to draw from.
> / This leads to internal strife within the nation. If and when
> / this country falls, it will not be to an outside enemy, it will be to
> / our internal strife.
>
> The internal strife already existed, too.
True, but as I said above, the CRA itemizes the distinctions and
thereby makes it more difficult to see past them.
> It's a Catch-22 if you tell people who have been excluded as a group
> that you can't try to improve their situation because it would turn
> them into a 'group' (thus creating problems which exist when people
> are divided into groups), as if groups don't exist until someone tries
> to solve the injustices being inflicted on a particular group.
Who said that people "can't try to improve their situation"?
"improve[ing] their situation" does not put someone into a "group". What
are you taking about?
|
323.1947 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Thu Dec 07 1995 08:31 | 17 |
|
Glen, I don't think you answered my question from .1870. If you did, I
missed it, so here it is again:
<<< Note 323.1870 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
-----------------
re:.1844
> Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
Yes Glen, I think that is my main question. how will 2 gay men
influence their child towards women?
-----------------
|
323.1948 | well, at least we understand each other... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Thu Dec 07 1995 08:57 | 58 |
|
reply to Jim, 323.1939 (my responses after the >) :
I am sure of it.
The principle involved related to employment is that ones ability
to perform the job should be the only criteria used in making
employment decisions. Do you disagree with this principle?
> The singular is "criterion".
Yes, I disagree with this idiotic idea, and so does the CRA. I can
use any criteria not listed. "Sorry, no lefthanders." Animals make
no such lists of can't use criteria - the whole idea is wildly unnatural.
This silly concept is artificially imposed and maintained by scads of
lawyers created for the purpose, and is used widely as a scam to gain
advantage, and if we could do without it, we certainly should. The
trouble is, people are not rational about some things, so we put this
evil in as a fix. Yet often success or failure in a business situation
depends upon intimate interpersonal dependencies, the chemistry of
teamwork. By tying people's hands in ANY way, there must be some loss
of efficiency, and the more you tie them, the less viable the whole
economy of the United States becomes.
As for housing, it the ability to pay the rent/mortgage. DO you
disagree with this?
> Ditto. And it is the INTENTION to pay that is critical, not the
ability - a judgement that calls on all a merchant's faculties.
The price of everything we buy is higher due to the CRA. Also,
there are other considerations - interactions between tenants,
trusting someone with your most expensive possessions.
The use of public accomodations also uses the ability to pay for
services. Do you disagree with this as well?
> Ditto.
You seem to be arguing that people have a right to be bigots. On
this we agree. They can think anything they want. But once they
enter the public domain, there are certain minimum rules that
should be followed. Non-discrimination is one of those rules.
> In nature, living things learn to choose quickly, or they die. In
commerce, same thing. Requiring people not only to make difficult
business decisions, but also to PROVE they did not use several
forbidden criteria is an opening a mile wide for abuse and tyranny.
This is not a hypothetical complaint - people resent the whole thing.
Nor is this resentment limited to those who actually use the
forbidden criteria. It is a gross affront to our adulthood.
As to your private/public distinction, it's a joke - under the CRA,
almost everything is public by definition. I wish we didn't need
the government involved in any of these situations. But we do, so
we have to hold our noses, and document why every little decision
is made, no matter how innocent, to ward off the circling lawyers.
bb
|
323.1949 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 09:13 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.1946 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> No Jim, you are mistaken. You are not understanding what I wrote. I
> am not confused regarding the difference between CRA and AA. By
> "categories/classes" I meant "race, creed" etc. which are in the CRA. I
> did not mean racial quotas as are in AA.
The INCLUSIVELY lists a group of charachteristics. When it lists
Race, it means ALL races. When it lists Gender, it applies to BOTH
men and women. When it lists National Origin, it includes ALL
countries.
How in the world can this be construed as devisive?
Jim
|
323.1950 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 09:26 | 45 |
| <<< Note 323.1948 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>Animals make
> no such lists of can't use criteria - the whole idea is wildly unnatural.
So then your main arguments is that we should be no more than
unthinking beasts? The use of intellect does not enter into
the discussion? That your foundation principle is that there
is no right or wrong, only survival of the fittest?
I can not accept such a philosophy, sorry.
>By tying people's hands in ANY way, there must be some loss
> of efficiency, and the more you tie them, the less viable the whole
> economy of the United States becomes.
If you would care to take a look at the economy of the US now
and compare it to the economy we had in 1964, you might notice
that today's is MUCH larger, more efficient and more productive.
Your assertion that the CRA has made the economy less viable
is utter crap.
> > Ditto. And it is the INTENTION to pay that is critical, not the
> ability
A well intentioned idigent person would not make a good tenant.
> As to your private/public distinction, it's a joke - under the CRA,
> almost everything is public by definition.
Businesses with more than 15 employees are covered, below that number
they are not affected. Apartment complexes of more than two units or
less than two where the landlord does not live on site are covered.
And businesses that are open to the general public are covered.
The distinctions are clear.
> I wish we didn't need
> the government involved in any of these situations.
Actually, on this we agree. But as you point out, the CRA was
a neccessity. And far from beeing something evil as you suggest
it has brought along much good.
Jim
|
323.1951 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Dec 07 1995 09:31 | 83 |
| re: .1941
> One notable example is the issue of people vs. behavior. You have
> still not addressed this.
I have addressed this issue, at least in general. If there is
something specific you are looking for, why don't you give me a
pointer, or bring up specifics that I can address.
> So in order for Gays to achieve basic civil rights we need to have
> them suffer lynchings, fire bombings, having attack dogs set on
> them during a march? I don't think we have to wait for these things
> to occur before we fix the problem. Why do you?
I was referring to notable widespread discrimination of the sort we are
discussing...but you knew that. The above is your own scare tactics,
as society is not heading in this direction.
> Unfortunate, not for you. YOU are already protected by the CRA.
> As I stated before, hypocritical.
As is everyone else, Jim. What is not specifically covered is sexual
attraction, which I have explained before (several times) as being a
silly thing to base one's identity on- especially in a legal sense.
This is an issue you have not addressed from any of my notes,
preferring to set your own binary rules for this discussion.
> How "bad" was religious persecution before that charachteristic
> was added to the CRA?
Religion does not need to be in the CRA, religion is protected by the
first. I'm not sure why it was added to the CRA to begin with.
But, as I have brought up in this string numerous times, religion was
something deemed worthy to protect, as being necessary for good
government and for the well-being of the people. How does this compare
with unnormal sexual attractions?
In order to be given specific protection, something must be of value to
society. Currenly, strange/alternative sexual attractions are not
something that society values, in itself.
>> In the case of AA, it actually promotes racism.
> We are not discussing AA, but you knew this.
AA is an offshoot of the CRA. It would not have come into existence
without it.
> How easily you dismiss the discrimination against real people,
> however few they may be. This is what I meant by "negotiable
> set of beliefs". In your mind, the problem must be of a certain
> "size" before you believe that action should be taken.
This is where you are mistaken. It does not have to be of a certain
size to take action. Howver, in order for legislation to be a feasable
response, there should be obvious, wide-spread problems, IMO. I'm not
one who is quick to legislate things.
> A principled
> person realizes that something is wrong, and regardless of the
> size of the problem works to right the situation.
Well, we both have a different idea on the type of solution to promote.
You insist on looking at this issue in a binary way. Until you can
accept the fact that not wanting to add "sexual orientation" (for the
many reasons I have given throughout this string) is not equal to
"promote discrimination", there is little we have to discuss. This has
already become quite tedious, and will only get worse, IMO.
You see, gay individuals ARE covered under the CRA -- religious gays,
black gays, hispanic gays, women who are gay, etc. Why must they be
covered twice?
Hey, why not add "homliness" to the CRA? Ugly folk can't help the fact
that they are ugly, and I bet they are discriminated against far more
than gay people. Why not add "obesity"? Why? Because these people
are protected under the CRA as citizens- regardless of what race or sex
they are.
-steve
|
323.1952 | trying to end rathole, get back to AIDS disease... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Thu Dec 07 1995 09:48 | 23 |
|
re, .1950 - rather than hash over the same ground, perhaps it
would be more useful to see where you have to get to
to have a political concensus on sexual orientation, as
we do on race. You are convinced, but society is not,
that the situations are comparable.
A gay equivalent of King would help. Make no mistake.
Although MLK wrote none of it, LBJ (first) and Dirksen
(secondarily), the key players politically, were convinced
by King and by the public reaction to him.
The demonstration of necessity was made, and the concensus
accomplished. Even Goldwater and Byrd, who voted against
the bill, offered their votes if certain provisions were
changed. And across America, there was a commitment on
the part of the white majority, or at least much of it, to
try to make this thing, ugly as was, work as well as it
could.
The country, and I, are not there yet on orientation.
bb
|
323.1953 | interesting protein identified | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Thu Dec 07 1995 09:52 | 8 |
|
WSJ today : Researchers identified proteins that may slow the
progression of AIDS in people who are infected but not yet sick.
The proteins, produced by human immune cells, prevent the virus
from reproducing in the test tube. The discovery is likely to
set off a race to develop treatments, but new drugs may be years away.
bb
|
323.1954 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 10:05 | 100 |
| <<< Note 323.1951 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> I have addressed this issue, at least in general.
No, you have not. All you HAVE done is make a general statement
that you claim represents your view. This claim is demonstrably
false.
> If there is
> something specific you are looking for, why don't you give me a
> pointer, or bring up specifics that I can address.
An answer to my question regarding Gay sex acts would be a start.
> I was referring to notable widespread discrimination of the sort we are
> discussing...but you knew that.
You said it had to be the same. Are you now saying that it does not
need to be the same?
> The above is your own scare tactics,
> as society is not heading in this direction.
The level of hate crimes against Gays is certainly higher now
than it was 20 years ago, how can you say we are not headed in
this direction?
> As is everyone else, Jim.
Maybe this is where the confusion lies. People are not actually
covered in the CRA, charachteristics are.
> What is not specifically covered is sexual
> attraction, which I have explained before (several times) as being a
> silly thing to base one's identity on- especially in a legal sense.
Why is it silly, when that very charachteristic is used by others
as an excuse to discriminate? If it wasn't for the fact that you
and others like you support discrimination on the basis of sexual
orientation we wouldn't even be having this discussion.
> Religion does not need to be in the CRA, religion is protected by the
> first. I'm not sure why it was added to the CRA to begin with.
It is obvious that you are ignorant of the purpose of the CRA.
The Constitution protects religion from the government. The
CRA extends that principle of protection to employers, lanlords
and businesses.
> But, as I have brought up in this string numerous times, religion was
> something deemed worthy to protect, as being necessary for good
> government and for the well-being of the people.
I would wager that there are several religions that you find hard put
to categorize in this manner.
> How does this compare
> with unnormal sexual attractions?
Would you consider Santa Ria "normal"?
> In order to be given specific protection, something must be of value to
> society.
What is of value is the basic principle of equality. When that principle
is violated we all suffer.
> AA is an offshoot of the CRA. It would not have come into existence
> without it.
Again, your ignorance of the law is showing. AA was implemented
via Executive Order, the CRA was Federal Legislation passed by
the Congress. LBJ could have very easily implememented AA with,
or without, the CRA.
> This is where you are mistaken. It does not have to be of a certain
> size to take action. Howver, in order for legislation to be a feasable
> response, there should be obvious, wide-spread problems, IMO.
Those two sentences are contradictory. More hypocrisy.
> Well, we both have a different idea on the type of solution to promote.
No. One of us has propsed a solution, one of us has not.
> You insist on looking at this issue in a binary way. Until you can
> accept the fact that not wanting to add "sexual orientation" (for the
> many reasons I have given throughout this string) is not equal to
> "promote discrimination", there is little we have to discuss. This has
> already become quite tedious, and will only get worse, IMO.
All that is needed for evil to flourish is that good men fail to
speak out. You want to just turn a blind eye to the problem. Ignore
it and tell those that suffer, "too bad". A person that truly
believes in the principle of equal treatment would fight to see
those injustices rectified.
Jim
|
323.1955 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 10:10 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1952 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
> -< trying to end rathole, get back to AIDS disease... >-
Now now, don't try to rathole the AIDS topic with discussions
regarding AIDS.
;-)
> re, .1950 - rather than hash over the same ground, perhaps it
> would be more useful to see where you have to get to
< to have a political concensus on sexual orientation, as
> we do on race. You are convinced, but society is not,
> that the situations are comparable.
For me the issue is one of principle, not of political clout.
Reality, of course, is that the situation will not change without
that clout, but lacking that I will continue to speak out against
the injustice.
> The country, and I, are not there yet on orientation.
All the more reason for discussions such as this.
Jim
|
323.1956 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Thu Dec 07 1995 10:46 | 7 |
| Z and others like you support discrimination on the basis of sexual
Z orientation we wouldn't even be having this discussion.
We do??? I thought this was all about creating a class based on sexual
orientation.
-Jack
|
323.1957 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 10:52 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.1944 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| The fact that failing to discriminate within Digital is the right thing to
| do is a very different matter than whether there should be the same legal
| status for homosexual couples as for husband and wife or even the same
| anti-discrimination laws as for existing protected classes.
Errr.... why?
|
323.1958 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:09 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.1956 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
>I thought this was all about creating a class based on sexual
> orientation.
Not sure about you Jack, but the discussion I have been
participating in deals with legal protections against
discrimination in employment, housing and the use of public
accomodations based on sexual orientation.
Jim
|
323.1959 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:11 | 37 |
| | <<< Note 323.1947 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
| Glen, I don't think you answered my question from .1870. If you did, I
| missed it, so here it is again:
You know, I did answer it. But I don't have a clue where the hell it
is. I remember after I wrote it, Jack Martin responded to it stating he was
pretty much like me in how the child would be brought up. I remember asking him
if he would tell his kid that he was dysfunctional or not. Why can't I find it?
It's not in the gay topic, either. This is really weird. ANYhow, here is my
response on how 2 gay men would influence their child (which I'm assuming is a
male) towards women:
Treat people with respect, not as objects.
Think before you act, as you have to take responsibility for your actions.
Whatever sexual orientation you are, we still love you.
But the above would be said, period. Not aimed at women in general, but
towards everyone. I don't believe anyone has to go out and set up rules geared
towards any one gender, PROVIDING you bring your kids up to respect others. Not
the catch phrase of respecting others, but the real thing. That would involve
me and hubby doing what we preach. An example of the catch phrase version is
when I was a kid and watching football with my dad, he would say there are too
many niggers in the game. But he would say that we should respect everyone.
(thanks God he has changed!)
Does this help, Dan?
Glen
|
323.1960 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:13 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.1953 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
| WSJ today : Researchers identified proteins that may slow the
| progression of AIDS in people who are infected but not yet sick.
| The proteins, produced by human immune cells, prevent the virus
| from reproducing in the test tube. The discovery is likely to
| set off a race to develop treatments, but new drugs may be years away.
bb, the weird thing about this is while it kills off the virus in the
test tube, it doesn't in the human body. This is where they are stuck, right
now.
|
323.1961 | AIDS cases in the US to date | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:16 | 186 |
| Table 3. AIDS cases by age group, exposure category, and sex,
reported July 1993 through June 1994, July 1994 through June 1995;1
and cumulative totals, by age group and exposure category, through
June 1995, United States.
Males Females
July 1993- July 1994- July 1993- July 1994-
Adult/ June 1994 June 1995 June 1994 June 1995
adolescent
exposure
category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have
sex w/men 38,504 (55) 32,448 (52) - - - -
Injecting
drug use 17,468 (25) 14,728 (24) 6,343 (45) 5,421 (39)
Men who have
sex w/men
and inject
drugs 4,765 ( 7) 3,609 ( 6) - - - -
Hemophilia/
coagulation
disorder 583 ( 1) 430 ( 1) 19 ( 0) 23 ( 0)
Heterosexual
contact: 2,914 ( 4) 2,974 ( 5) 5,685 (40) 5,204 (38)
Sex w/
injecting
drug user 1,004 903 2,299 1,893
Sex w/
bisexual
male - - 441 346
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 3 6 61 57
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 61 65 82 57
Sex w/HIV-
infected
person,
risk not
specified 1,846 2,000 2,802 2,851
Receipt of blood
transfusion, blood
components, or
tissue3 468 ( 1) 382 ( 1) 361 ( 3) 305 ( 2)
Other/risk
not reported or
ident4 4,745 ( 7) 7,414 (12) 1,734 (12) 2,885 (21)
Adult/adolescent
subtotal 69,447(100) 61,985(100) 14,142(100) 13,838 (100)
Totals2
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
Adult/adolescent June 1994 June 1995 total
exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex
w/men 38,504 (46) 32,448 (43) 244,235 (52)
Injecting drug use 23,811 (28) 20,149 (27) 118,694 (25)
Men who have sex w/men
and inject drugs 4,765 ( 6) 3,609 ( 5) 31,024 ( 7)
Hemophilia/coagulation
disorder 602 ( 1) 453 ( 1) 3,872 ( 1)
Heterosexual
contact: 8,600 (10) 8,178 (11) 35,683 ( 8)
Sex w/injecting
drug user 3,303 2,796 17,118
Sex w/bisexual male 441 346 1,999
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 64 63 299
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 143 122 692
Sex w/HIV-infected
person, risk not
specified 4,649 4,851 15,575
Receipt of blood
transfusion, blood
components, or
tissue3 829 ( 1) 687 ( 1) 7,128 ( 2)
Other/risk not reported
or identified4 6,479 ( 8) 10,301 (14) 29,652 ( 6)
Adult/adolescent
subtotal 83,590 (100) 75,825 (100) 470,288 (100)
Pediatric (<13 years old)
Males Females
July 1993- July 1994- July 1993- July 1994-
June 1994 June 1995 June 1994 June 1995
exposure
category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/
coagulation
disorder 16 ( 3) 11 ( 2) 1 ( 0) - -
Mother with/
at risk for HIV
infection4 443 (92) 419 (88) 478 (95) 462 (92)
Injecting
drug use 153 120 160 136
Sex w/injecting
drug user 74 70 71 69
Sex w/bisexual
male 5 10 5 10
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 1 1 - 1
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 3 1 1 3
Sex w/HIV-
infected person,
risk not
specified 70 91 85 89
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 12 2 10 5
Has HIV infection,
risk not
specified 125 124 146 149
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 17 ( 4) 23 ( 5) 13 ( 3) 14 ( 3)
Other/risk
not reported
or identified4 6 ( 1) 24 ( 5) 13 ( 3) 24 ( 5)
Pediatric
subtotal 482 (100) 477 (100) 505 (100) 500 (100)
Total 69,929 62,462 14,647 14,338
Totals2
Pediatric July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
(<13 years old) June 1994 June 1995 total
exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/
coagulation
disorder 17 ( 2) 11 ( 1) 226 ( 3)
Mother with/
at risk for HIV
infection4 921 (93) 881 (90) 5,925 (90)
Injecting
drug use 313 256 2,471
Sex w/injecting
drug user 145 139 1,107
Sex w/bisexual
male 10 20 120
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 1 2 24
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 4 4 27
Sex w/HIV-
infected person,
risk not
specified 155 180 676
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 22 7 140
Has HIV infection,
risk not
specified 271 273 1,360
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 30 ( 3) 37 ( 4) 359 ( 5)
Other/risk
not reported
or identified4 19 ( 2) 48 ( 5) 101 ( 2)
Pediatric
subtotal 987 (100) 977 (100) 6,611 (100)
Total 84,577 76,802 476,899
|
323.1962 | TOTAL report | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:18 | 3155 |
| What is listed below is the WHOLE report from June 94 - June 95. The
report listed in the last note is included in with this one. But seeing this
one is so long, I took it out incase people didn't want to read the whole
thing.
CDC HIV/AIDS Surveillance Report, Vol. 7, No. 1.
Mid-Year Edition
U.S. HIV and AIDS cases reported through June 1995
Report Description
The U.S. HIV and AIDS case data presented below are extracted from
the "HIV/AIDS Surveillance Report," published each quarter by the
Division of HIV/AIDS Prevention, National Center for HIV/AIDS, STD,
and TB Prevention, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention,
Atlanta, GA, 30333. In addition to the data presented here, the
printed copy of the report contains maps and figures. Single
copies of the printed report are available from:
CDC National AIDS Clearinghouse
P.O. Box 6003
Rockville, MD 20849-6003
(800) 458-5231 or (301) 217-0023
(800) 243-7012 (TTY/TDD)
Suggested citation:
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. HIV/AIDS Surveillance
Report, 1995;7(no.1).
About this report
Through June 1995, nearly half a million (476,899) persons
have been reported with AIDS. The expanded AIDS surveillance case
definition (implemented on January 1, 1993) continues to influence
the pattern of AIDS diagnosis and reporting. In the first half of
1995, 37,142 AIDS cases were reported. Although this number exceeds
the 23,896 cases reported in the first half of 1992, before the
case definition was expanded, it is less than the 61,887 and 40,457
cases reported in the first halves of 1993 and 1994, respectively.
Trends in reporting of AIDS cases are expected to continue to
stabilize gradually over the next several reporting periods as the
surge in cases caused by the expanded definition continues to wane.
Analysis of the absolute numbers of cases reported each year,
as presented in this report, continues to provide valuable
information on the magnitude of the epidemic in affected
communities. The data provide an important profile of young (13 to
24 years) men and women with HIV infection and AIDS, and
demonstrate the need for prevention strategies appropriate for
these age groups (see Tables 7 and 20). They also profile the
characteristics of children with HIV and AIDS, in whom nearly all
recent HIV infections occurred perinatally, and emphasize that, to
prevent HIV in children, prevention programs need to assist women
in reducing their risk of acquiring HIV infection by reducing high
risk drug-injection or sexual activities (see Tables 6 and 19).
These data will assist states in monitoring the impact of current
recommendations to reduce HIV transmission to children through
counseling, voluntary testing, and prenatal care services for
women.
The expansion of the case definition artifactually distorted
the AIDS epidemic curve. Fluctuation in the number of reported
cases in recent years has complicated the interpretation of trends
in the absolute number of reported cases. However, comparing
proportions and relative rates over time permits trends to be
monitored. For example, in the two most recent 12-month periods,
about 10 percent of persons with AIDS were residents of small
metropolitan areas (50,000 to 500,000 population), and about 6
percent were residents of non-metropolitan areas (see Table 2).
These percentages are consistent with those reported for 1992 (10
percent and 6 percent, respectively), before the case definition
was expanded. They not only reflect the emergence of AIDS outside
large metropolitan areas (500,000 or more population), but also
illustrate that the epidemic remains disproportionately
concentrated in large metropolitan areas, where AIDS incidence
rates are consistently 2 to 3 times higher than in small
metropolitan areas, and about 5 times higher than in non-
metropolitan areas.
To monitor trends in the incidence of AIDS-defining
opportunistic illnesses (AIDS-OIs), CDC is using analytic methods
that adjust for the case definition expansion by using comparable
definitions over time. The estimated number of persons with AIDS-
OIs diagnosed in 1994 (64,300) increased approximately 6 percent
over the estimated number in 1993 (see Table 13). In addition,
previously reported trends continued: the South and the Northeast
accounted for the majority of the estimated number of persons with
AIDS-OIs, and blacks and Hispanics accounted for a growing
proportion of persons with AIDS-OIs (see Table 14). Although men
who have sex with men accounted for the largest proportion of AIDS-
OIs, the rate of growth has slowed; persons infected through
injecting drug-use and their heterosexual partners accounted for an
increasing proportion of persons with AIDS-OIs (see Table 15).
AIDS surveillance data can detect recent shifts in the
epidemic: because AIDS develops in a substantial number of HIV-
infected persons within a year or two of infection, their
characteristics are soon reflected in the surveillance data. For
example, emerging trends among women, black and Hispanic
minorities, persons in moderate- and small-sized metropolitan
statistical areas and in the rural South, persons infected through
heterosexual contact, minority homosexual/bisexual men, and young
men who have sex with men have all been detected through AIDS
surveillance. In addition, timely data from 25 states on
characteristics of adults/adolescents with HIV infection (not AIDS)
have documented the impact of the epidemic among sexually active
and drug-using adolescents at early stages of HIV disease and have
highlighted the need for appropriate prevention interventions in
these populations (see Table 20).
National population-based HIV/AIDS surveillance data can be
used to guide allocation of resources for HIV/AIDS prevention and
control. State and local health departments provide surveillance
information to assist prevention planning in local communities.
Together with data from seroprevalence surveys, behavioral surveys,
and vital statistics, HIV/AIDS surveillance data can assist
communities in developing HIV needs assessments, health care
planning, and community profiles for implementing and evaluating
prevention interventions.
Suggested Reading
CDC. AIDS among racial/ethnic minorities - United States, 1993.
MMWR 1994;43:644-47,653-55.
CDC. Update: trends in AIDS diagnosis and reporting under the
expanded surveillance definition for adolescents and adults -
United States, 1993. MMWR 1994;43:826-31.
CDC. Update: acquired immunodeficiency syndrome - United States,
1994. MMWR 1995;44:64-67.
CDC. Update: AIDS among women - United States, 1994. MMWR
1995;44:81-84. Erratum: MMWR 1995;44:135.
CDC. Update: trends in AIDS among men who have sex with men -
United States, 1989-1994. MMWR 1995;44:401-04.
Table 1. AIDS cases and annual rates per 100,000 population,
by state, reported July 1993 through June 1994, July 1994
through June 1995;1 and cumulative totals, by state and age
group, through June 1995, United States
July 1993 - July 1994 -
June 1994 June 1995
State of residence No. Rate No. Rate
Alabama 556 13.3 566 13.4
Alaska 74 12.4 79 13.0
Arizona 645 16.4 559 13.7
Arkansas 289 11.9 288 11.7
California 14,388 46.1 10,989 35.0
Colorado 880 24.7 718 19.6
Connecticut 1,303 39.8 1,066 32.5
Delaware 263 37.7 313 44.3
District of Columbia 1,575 272.0 1,220 214.0
Florida 7,750 56.5 9,377 67.2
Georgia 2,240 32.5 2,284 32.4
Hawaii 318 27.3 263 22.3
Idaho 55 5.0 57 5.0
Illinois 2,748 23.5 2,785 23.7
Indiana 723 12.7 524 9.1
Iowa 99 3.5 145 5.1
Kansas 266 10.5 284 11.1
Kentucky 300 7.9 311 8.1
Louisiana 1,226 28.6 1,124 26.0
Maine 137 11.1 139 11.2
Maryland 2,235 45.1 2,951 58.9
Massachusetts 2,024 33.6 1,396 23.1
Michigan 1,080 11.4 1,071 11.3
Minnesota 392 8.7 413 9.0
Mississippi 411 15.6 414 15.5
Missouri 815 15.6 696 13.2
Montana 30 3.6 24 2.8
Nebraska 106 6.6 111 6.8
Nevada 444 32.1 413 28.3
New Hampshire 90 8.0 116 10.2
New Jersey 5,220 66.4 4,764 60.3
New Mexico 163 10.1 228 13.8
New York 15,122 83.3 12,578 69.2
North Carolina 1,295 18.6 1,015 14.4
North Dakota 27 4.2 7 1.1
Ohio 1,359 12.3 1,188 10.7
Oklahoma 346 10.7 266 8.2
Oregon 577 19.0 506 16.4
Pennsylvania 2,815 23.4 2,678 22.2
Rhode Island 277 27.7 291 29.2
South Carolina 1,170 32.2 995 27.2
South Dakota 17 2.4 20 2.8
Tennessee 851 16.7 883 17.1
Texas 5,841 32.4 5,153 28.0
Utah 136 7.3 153 8.0
Vermont 81 14.1 32 5.5
Virginia 1,369 21.1 1,150 17.6
Washington 1,182 22.5 933 17.5
West Virginia 78 4.3 114 6.3
Wisconsin 401 7.9 366 7.2
Wyoming 20 4.3 13 2.7
Subtotal 81,809 31.7 74,029 28.4
Guam 1 0.7 - -
Pacific Islands, U.S. - - - -
Puerto Rico 2,616 72.5 2,582 71.0
Virgin Islands, U.S. 38 36.8 62 59.7
Total2 84,577 32.3 76,802 29.1
Cumulative totals
Adults/ Children
State of residence adolescents <13 years old Total
Alabama 3,266 52 3,318
Alaska 301 4 305
Arizona 4,047 19 4,066
Arkansas 1,725 25 1,750
California 82,937 460 83,397
Colorado 4,914 26 4,940
Connecticut 6,321 140 6,461
Delaware 1,338 11 1,349
District of Columbia 7,593 115 7,708
Florida 47,076 1,062 48,138
Georgia 13,203 140 13,343
Hawaii 1,667 13 1,680
Idaho 303 2 305
Illinois 15,306 171 15,477
Indiana 3,538 28 3,566
Iowa 794 8 802
Kansas 1,508 9 1,517
Kentucky 1,671 13 1,684
Louisiana 6,995 92 7,087
Maine 644 6 650
Maryland 11,613 224 11,837
Massachusetts 9,874 163 10,037
Michigan 6,728 75 6,803
Minnesota 2,529 17 2,546
Mississippi 2,156 37 2,193
Missouri 5,934 41 5,975
Montana 176 2 178
Nebraska 639 7 646
Nevada 2,368 20 2,388
New Hampshire 560 7 567
New Jersey 26,562 600 27,162
New Mexico 1,175 4 1,179
New York 86,318 1,704 88,022
North Carolina 5,828 81 5,909
North Dakota 64 - 64
Ohio 7,044 82 7,126
Oklahoma 2,301 17 2,318
Oregon 3,151 13 3,164
Pennsylvania 13,822 207 14,029
Rhode Island 1,324 15 1,339
South Carolina 4,817 58 4,875
South Dakota 91 4 95
Tennessee 4,222 37 4,259
Texas 32,732 270 33,002
Utah 1,074 20 1,094
Vermont 243 3 246
Virginia 6,829 125 6,954
Washington 6,394 22 6,416
West Virginia 536 6 542
Wisconsin 2,323 23 2,346
Wyoming 121 - 121
Subtotal 454,695 6,280 460,975
Guam 14 - 14
Pacific Islands, U.S 2 - 2
Puerto Rico 14,937 320 15,257
Virgin Islands, U.S. 234 9 243
Total2 470,288 6,611 476,899
1See Technical Notes for a discussion of the impact of the 1993
AIDS surveillance case definition for adults and adolescents
(implemented January 1, 1993) on the number of cases reported in
the two most recent 12-month reporting periods.
2Totals include 408 persons whose state of residence is unknown.
Table 2. AIDS cases and annual rates per 100,000 population,
by metropolitan area with 500,000 or more population, reported
July 1993 through June 1994, July 1994 through June 19951 and
cumulative totals, by area and age group, through June 1995,
United States.
July 1993 - July 1994 -
June 1994 June 1995
Metropolitan area
of residence No. Rate No. Rate
Akron, Ohio 62 9.2 47 6.9
Albany-Schenectady, N.Y. 146 16.7 169 19.3
Albuquerque, N.Mex. 79 12.5 108 16.7
Allentown, Pa. 98 16.1 94 15.4
Ann Arbor, Mich. 38 7.5 36 7.0
Atlanta, Ga. 1,499 46.4 1,600 48.0
Austin, Tex. 528 56.6 388 40.3
Bakersfield, Calif. 129 21.5 76 12.5
Baltimore, Md. 1,478 60.5 2,058 83.7
Baton Rouge, La. 175 31.6 168 30.1
Bergen-Passaic, N.J. 788 60.7 614 47.1
Birmingham, Ala. 193 22.3 158 18.1
Boston, Mass. 1,754 30.8 1,217 21.2
Buffalo, N.Y. 104 8.7 107 9.0
Charleston, S.C. 187 35.6 152 29.1
Charlotte, N.C. 260 21.1 220 17.5
Chicago, Ill. 2,381 31.3 2,479 32.3
Cincinnati, Ohio 225 14.3 220 13.9
Cleveland, Ohio 343 15.4 474 21.3
Columbus, Ohio 360 25.5 191 13.4
Dallas, Tex. 1,171 41.2 1,422 49.1
Dayton, Ohio 106 11.1 52 5.4
Denver, Colo. 676 38.4 569 31.7
Detroit, Mich. 659 15.3 778 18.1
El Paso, Tex. 82 12.7 116 17.4
Fort Lauderdale, Fla. 1,130 83.7 1,609 116.3
Fort Worth, Tex. 321 22.4 550 37.6
Fresno, Calif. 155 18.8 123 14.7
Gary, Ind. 74 12.0 97 15.6
Grand Rapids, Mich. 85 8.7 69 7.0
Greensboro, N.C. 169 15.5 206 18.6
Greenville, S.C. 232 26.9 143 16.4
Harrisburg, Pa. 106 17.5 89 14.6
Hartford, Conn. 587 52.4 393 35.2
Honolulu, Hawaii 224 25.9 191 21.8
Houston, Tex. 2,082 58.0 1,337 36.6
Indianapolis, Ind. 413 28.6 216 14.8
Jacksonville, Fla. 347 36.1 478 49.2
Jersey City, N.J. 777 140.6 887 160.6
Kansas City, Mo. 352 21.6 304 18.5
Knoxville, Tenn. 106 17.1 89 14.1
Las Vegas, Nev. 343 33.9 337 31.3
Little Rock, Ark. 98 18.4 96 17.9
Los Angeles, Calif. 4,786 52.4 3,979 43.5
Louisville, Ky. 130 13.3 142 14.5
Memphis, Tenn. 308 29.6 334 31.6
Miami, Fla. 2,924 146.0 2,980 147.2
Middlesex, N.J. 361 34.2 392 36.7
Milwaukee, Wis. 218 15.0 212 14.6
Minneapolis-Saint Paul, Minn. 334 12.6 369 13.7
Mobile, Ala. 86 17.0 104 20.3
Monmouth-Ocean City, N.J. 335 32.8 351 33.9
Nashville, Tenn. 241 23.1 289 27.0
Nassau-Suffolk, N.Y. 573 21.7 552 20.8
New Haven, Conn. 612 37.6 580 35.7
New Orleans, La. 701 53.8 612 46.8
New York, N.Y. 13,431 156.7 10,780 125.6
Newark, N.J. 2,136 110.8 1,741 90.0
Norfolk, Va. 371 24.5 392 25.6
Oakland, Calif. 968 44.6 745 34.1
Oklahoma City, Okla. 141 14.2 100 9.9
Omaha, Nebr. 70 10.6 77 11.6
Orange County, Calif. 569 22.6 543 21.4
Orlando, Fla. 430 32.2 747 54.9
Philadelphia, Pa. 2,258 45.7 2,039 41.2
Phoenix, Ariz. 431 18.0 393 15.9
Pittsburgh, Pa. 269 11.2 329 13.7
Portland, Oreg. 443 26.9 398 23.7
Providence, R.I. 261 28.6 273 29.9
Raleigh-Durham, N.C. 266 28.4 186 19.3
Richmond, Va. 258 28.5 227 24.8
Riverside-San Bernardino,
Calif. 976 34.0 830 28.6
Rochester, N.Y. 193 17.7 218 20.0
Sacramento, Calif. 434 30.3 356 24.7
Saint Louis, Mo. 442 17.5 382 15.1
Salt Lake City, Utah 119 10.3 126 10.7
San Antonio, Tex. 636 45.2 384 26.7
San Diego, Calif. 1,221 46.7 952 36.2
San Francisco, Calif. 3,433 209.6 2,163 131.4
San Jose, Calif. 479 31.0 291 18.7
San Juan, P.R. 1,553 82.0 1,542 80.6
Sarasota, Fla. 183 35.8 170 32.8
Scranton, Pa. 36 5.6 49 7.7
Seattle, Wash. 770 35.7 658 30.2
Springfield, Mass. 265 44.3 185 31.1
Stockton, Calif. 135 26.4 48 9.3
Syracuse, N.Y. 96 12.7 120 15.9
Tacoma, Wash. 127 20.1 82 12.8
Tampa-Saint Petersburg, Fla. 778 36.4 830 38.5
Toledo, Ohio 52 8.5 47 7.7
Tucson, Ariz. 165 23.2 118 16.1
Tulsa, Okla. 117 15.8 81 10.9
Ventura, Calif. 79 11.4 72 10.2
Washington, D.C. 2,742 62.1 2,160 48.3
West Palm Beach, Fla. 586 62.9 864 90.5
Wichita, Kans. 72 14.3 98 19.3
Wilmington, Del. 219 41.0 256 47.5
Youngstown, Ohio 33 5.5 35 5.8
Metropolitan areas with
500,000 or more population 70,974 44.0 63,710 39.1
Central counties 69,653 47.1 62,408 41.9
Outlying counties 1,321 9.6 1,302 9.3
Metropolitan areas with
50,000 to 500,000 population 8,400 17.7 7,905 16.5
Central counties 7,891 18.7 7,402 17.4
Outlying counties 509 9.9 503 9.6
Non-metropolitan areas 4,699 8.9 4,617 8.6
Total2 84,577 32.3 76,802 29.1
Cumulative totals
Metropolitan Adults/ Children
area of residence adolescents <13 years old Total
Akron, Ohio 311 - 311
Albany-Schenectady, N.Y. 938 20 958
Albuquerque, N.Mex. 649 2 651
Allentown, Pa. 450 5 455
Ann Arbor, Mich. 246 5 251
Atlanta, Ga. 9,537 74 9,611
Austin, Tex. 2,486 16 2,502
Bakersfield, Calif. 516 3 519
Baltimore, Md. 7,590 161 7,751
Baton Rouge, La. 785 13 798
Bergen-Passaic, N.J. 3,488 59 3,547
Birmingham, Ala. 1,020 14 1,034
Boston, Mass. 8,777 143 8,920
Buffalo, N.Y. 854 10 864
Charleston, S.C. 913 10 923
Charlotte, N.C. 1,191 12 1,203
Chicago, Ill. 13,406 152 13,558
Cincinnati, Ohio 1,151 12 1,163
Cleveland, Ohio 2,101 32 2,133
Columbus, Ohio 1,504 8 1,512
Dallas, Tex. 8,124 34 8,158
Dayton, Ohio 615 8 623
Denver, Colo. 4,000 18 4,018
Detroit, Mich. 4,690 55 4,745
El Paso, Tex. 482 2 484
Fort Lauderdale, Fla. 7,466 173 7,639
Fort Worth, Tex. 2,092 21 2,113
Fresno, Calif. 729 8 737
Gary, Ind. 401 2 403
Grand Rapids, Mich. 463 3 466
Greensboro, N.C. 976 12 988
Greenville, S.C. 823 2 825
Harrisburg, Pa. 483 5 488
Hartford, Conn. 2,158 36 2,194
Honolulu, Hawaii 1,237 10 1,247
Houston, Tex. 11,904 104 12,008
Indianapolis, Ind. 1,721 11 1,732
Jacksonville, Fla. 2,738 61 2,799
Jersey City, N.J. 4,321 99 4,420
Kansas City, Mo. 2,770 11 2,781
Knoxville, Tenn. 401 4 405
Las Vegas, Nev. 1,850 19 1,869
Little Rock, Ark. 643 9 652
Los Angeles, Calif. 28,850 188 29,038
Louisville, Ky. 737 8 745
Memphis, Tenn. 1,521 12 1,533
Miami, Fla. 14,835 373 15,208
Middlesex, N.J. 2,163 60 2,223
Milwaukee, Wis. 1,263 14 1,277
Minneapolis-Saint Paul, Minn. 2,235 14 2,249
Mobile, Ala. 665 9 674
Monmouth-Ocean City, N.J. 1,865 48 1,913
Nashville, Tenn. 1,310 14 1,324
Nassau-Suffolk, N.Y. 4,119 75 4,194
New Haven, Conn. 3,650 98 3,748
New Orleans, La. 4,106 50 4,156
New York, N.Y. 74,312 1,547 75,859
Newark, N.J. 10,621 262 10,883
Norfolk, Va. 1,658 43 1,701
Oakland, Calif. 5,615 32 5,647
Oklahoma City, Okla. 1,055 2 1,057
Omaha, Nebr. 454 2 456
Orange County, Calif. 3,775 24 3,799
Orlando, Fla. 3,320 57 3,377
Philadelphia, Pa. 10,699 173 10,872
Phoenix, Ariz. 2,904 11 2,915
Pittsburgh, Pa. 1,599 10 1,609
Portland, Oreg. 2,650 8 2,658
Providence, R.I. 1,242 14 1,256
Raleigh-Durham, N.C. 1,205 19 1,224
Richmond, Va. 1,430 19 1,449
Riverside-San Bernardino, Cal. 4,252 41 4,293
Rochester, N.Y. 1,124 8 1,132
Sacramento, Calif. 2,142 21 2,163
Saint Louis, Mo. 2,927 26 2,953
Salt Lake City, Utah 942 14 956
San Antonio, Tex. 2,438 22 2,460
San Diego, Calif. 6,758 39 6,797
San Francisco, Calif. 21,795 33 21,828
San Jose, Calif. 2,146 11 2,157
San Juan, P.R. 9,351 209 9,560
Sarasota, Fla. 876 18 894
Scranton, Pa. 269 3 272
Seattle, Wash. 4,673 13 4,686
Springfield, Mass. 967 19 986
Stockton, Calif. 450 12 462
Syracuse, N.Y. 697 7 704
Tacoma, Wash. 511 7 518
Tampa-Saint Petersburg, Fla. 5,116 73 5,189
Toledo, Ohio 351 7 358
Tucson, Ariz. 859 6 865
Tulsa, Okla. 702 6 708
Ventura, Calif. 509 2 511
Washington, D.C. 13,426 200 13,626
West Palm Beach, Fla. 4,203 152 4,355
Wichita, Kans. 428 2 430
Wilmington, Del. 1,043 9 1,052
Youngstown, Ohio 209 - 209
Metropolitan areas with
500,000 or more population 398,022 5,604 403,626
Central counties 390,951 5,501 396,452
Outlying counties 7,071 103 7,174
Metropolitan areas with
50,000 to 500,000 population 45,419 623 46,042
Central counties 42,662 570 43,232
Outlying counties 2,757 53 2,810
Non-metropolitan areas 24,740 369 25,109
Total2 470,288 6,611 476,899
1See Technical Notes for a discussion of the impact of
the 1993 AIDS surveillance case definition for adults and
adolescents (implemented January 1, 1993) on the number of
cases reported in the two most recent 12-month reporting periods.
2Totals include 2,122 persons whose area of residence is unknown.
Table 3. AIDS cases by age group, exposure category, and sex,
reported July 1993 through June 1994, July 1994 through June 1995;1
and cumulative totals, by age group and exposure category, through
June 1995, United States.
Males Females
July 1993- July 1994- July 1993- July 1994-
Adult/ June 1994 June 1995 June 1994 June 1995
adolescent
exposure
category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have
sex w/men 38,504 (55) 32,448 (52) - - - -
Injecting
drug use 17,468 (25) 14,728 (24) 6,343 (45) 5,421 (39)
Men who have
sex w/men
and inject
drugs 4,765 ( 7) 3,609 ( 6) - - - -
Hemophilia/
coagulation
disorder 583 ( 1) 430 ( 1) 19 ( 0) 23 ( 0)
Heterosexual
contact: 2,914 ( 4) 2,974 ( 5) 5,685 (40) 5,204 (38)
Sex w/
injecting
drug user 1,004 903 2,299 1,893
Sex w/
bisexual
male - - 441 346
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 3 6 61 57
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 61 65 82 57
Sex w/HIV-
infected
person,
risk not
specified 1,846 2,000 2,802 2,851
Receipt of blood
transfusion, blood
components, or
tissue3 468 ( 1) 382 ( 1) 361 ( 3) 305 ( 2)
Other/risk
not reported or
ident4 4,745 ( 7) 7,414 (12) 1,734 (12) 2,885 (21)
Adult/adolescent
subtotal 69,447(100) 61,985(100) 14,142(100) 13,838 (100)
Totals2
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
Adult/adolescent June 1994 June 1995 total
exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex
w/men 38,504 (46) 32,448 (43) 244,235 (52)
Injecting drug use 23,811 (28) 20,149 (27) 118,694 (25)
Men who have sex w/men
and inject drugs 4,765 ( 6) 3,609 ( 5) 31,024 ( 7)
Hemophilia/coagulation
disorder 602 ( 1) 453 ( 1) 3,872 ( 1)
Heterosexual
contact: 8,600 (10) 8,178 (11) 35,683 ( 8)
Sex w/injecting
drug user 3,303 2,796 17,118
Sex w/bisexual male 441 346 1,999
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 64 63 299
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 143 122 692
Sex w/HIV-infected
person, risk not
specified 4,649 4,851 15,575
Receipt of blood
transfusion, blood
components, or
tissue3 829 ( 1) 687 ( 1) 7,128 ( 2)
Other/risk not reported
or identified4 6,479 ( 8) 10,301 (14) 29,652 ( 6)
Adult/adolescent
subtotal 83,590 (100) 75,825 (100) 470,288 (100)
Pediatric (<13 years old)
Males Females
July 1993- July 1994- July 1993- July 1994-
June 1994 June 1995 June 1994 June 1995
exposure
category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/
coagulation
disorder 16 ( 3) 11 ( 2) 1 ( 0) - -
Mother with/
at risk for HIV
infection4 443 (92) 419 (88) 478 (95) 462 (92)
Injecting
drug use 153 120 160 136
Sex w/injecting
drug user 74 70 71 69
Sex w/bisexual
male 5 10 5 10
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 1 1 - 1
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 3 1 1 3
Sex w/HIV-
infected person,
risk not
specified 70 91 85 89
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 12 2 10 5
Has HIV infection,
risk not
specified 125 124 146 149
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 17 ( 4) 23 ( 5) 13 ( 3) 14 ( 3)
Other/risk
not reported
or identified4 6 ( 1) 24 ( 5) 13 ( 3) 24 ( 5)
Pediatric
subtotal 482 (100) 477 (100) 505 (100) 500 (100)
Total 69,929 62,462 14,647 14,338
Totals2
Pediatric July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
(<13 years old) June 1994 June 1995 total
exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/
coagulation
disorder 17 ( 2) 11 ( 1) 226 ( 3)
Mother with/
at risk for HIV
infection4 921 (93) 881 (90) 5,925 (90)
Injecting
drug use 313 256 2,471
Sex w/injecting
drug user 145 139 1,107
Sex w/bisexual
male 10 20 120
Sex w/person
w/hemophilia 1 2 24
Sex w/transfusion
recipient w/HIV
infection 4 4 27
Sex w/HIV-
infected person,
risk not
specified 155 180 676
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 22 7 140
Has HIV infection,
risk not
specified 271 273 1,360
Receipt of blood
transfusion,
blood components,
or tissue 30 ( 3) 37 ( 4) 359 ( 5)
Other/risk
not reported
or identified4 19 ( 2) 48 ( 5) 101 ( 2)
Pediatric
subtotal 987 (100) 977 (100) 6,611 (100)
Total 84,577 76,802 476,899
1See Technical Notes for a discussion of the impact of the 1993
AIDS surveillance case definition for adults and adolescents
(implemented January 1, 1993) on the number of cases reported in
the two most recent 12-month reporting periods.
2Includes 4 persons whose sex is unknown.
3Thirty-three adults/adolescents and 2 children developed AIDS
after receiving blood screened negative for HIV antibody. Ten
additional adults developed AIDS after receiving tissue, organs, or
artificial insemination from HIV-infected donors. Three of
the 10 received tissue, organs, or artificial insemination from a
donor who was negative for HIV antibody at the time of donation.
See N Engl J Med 1992;326:726-32.
4See Table 11 and Figure 6 for a discussion of the "other" exposure
category. "Other" also includes 25 persons who acquired
HIV infection perinatally but were diagnosed with AIDS after age
13. These 25 persons are tabulated under the adult/adolescent,
not pediatric, exposure category.
Table 4. Male adult/adolescent AIDS cases by exposure category and
race/ethnicity, reported July 1994 through June 1995, and
cumulative totals, through June 1995, United States.
White, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 19,837 (71) 162,549 (77)
Injecting drug use 2,943 (11) 17,915 ( 8)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 1,840 ( 7) 16,651 ( 8)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 323 ( 1) 3,008 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 584 ( 2) 2,663 ( 1)
Sex with injecting drug user 185 1,164
Sex with person with hemophilia 4 16
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 30 110
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 365 1,373
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 208 ( 1) 2,797 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified1 2,127 ( 8) 6,273 ( 3)
Total 27,862 (100) 211,856 (100)
Black, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 7,543 (34) 48,167 (40)
Injecting drug use 7,652 (35) 44,054 (36)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 1,219 ( 6) 9,388 ( 8)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 54 ( 0) 365 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 1,667 ( 8) 6,653 ( 5)
Sex with injecting drug user 185 1,164
Sex with person with hemophilia 2 4
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 18 90
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 1,128 3,527
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 119 ( 1) 829 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified1 3,744 (17) 11,561 (10)
Total 21,998 (100) 121,017 (100)
Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 4,568 (40) 30,303 (45)
Injecting drug use 4,049 (36) 25,742 (38)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 498 ( 4) 4,691 ( 7)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 41 ( 0) 304 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 700 ( 6) 2,647 ( 4)
Sex with injecting drug user 193 931
Sex with person with hemophilia - 6
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 16 66
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 491 1,644
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 43 ( 0) 450 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified1 1,426 (13) 3,914 ( 6)
Total 11,325 (100) 68,051 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 347 (72) 2,263 (78)
Injecting drug use 26 ( 5) 132 ( 5)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 16 ( 3) 92 ( 3)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 8 ( 2) 46 ( 2)
Heterosexual contact: 16 ( 3) 57 ( 2)
Sex with injecting drug user 3 17
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 1 4
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 12 36
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 9 ( 2) 89 ( 3)
Risk not reported or identified 61 (13) 223 ( 8)
Total 483 (100) 2,902 (100)
American Indian/Alaska Native
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 106 (54) 618 (61)
Injecting drug use 39 (20) 135 (13)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 33 (17) 175 (17)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 2 ( 1) 24 ( 2)
Heterosexual contact: 3 ( 2) 17 ( 2)
Sex with injecting drug user 2 8
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - 1
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 1 8
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 2 ( 1) 6 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified 13 ( 7) 35 ( 3)
Total 198 (100) 1,010 (100)
Cumulative totals2
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 32,448 (52) 244,235 (60)
Injecting drug use 14,728 (24) 88,121 (22)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 3,609 ( 6) 31,024 ( 8)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 430 ( 1) 3,755 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 2,974 ( 5) 12,049 ( 3)
Sex with injecting drug user 903 5,154
Sex with person with hemophilia 6 26
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 65 272
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 2,000 6,597
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 382 ( 1) 4,183 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified 7,414 (12) 22,095 ( 5)
Total 61,985 (100) 405,462 (100)
1See Figure 6.
2Includes 626 men whose race/ethnicity is unknown.
Table 5. Female adult/adolescent AIDS cases by exposure category
and race/ethnicity, reported July 1994 through June 1995, and
cumulative totals, through June 1995, United States.
White, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 1,238 (40) 6,739 (43)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 15 ( 0) 78 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 1,167 (38) 5,786 (37)
Sex with injecting drug user 455 2,639
Sex with bisexual male 142 934
Sex with person with hemophilia 41 211
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 26 229
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 503 1,773
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 117 ( 4) 1,596 (10)
Risk not reported or identified1 535 (17) 1,371 ( 9)
Total 3,072 (100) 15,570 (100)
Black, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 3,119 (40) 17,601 (50)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 5 ( 0) 25 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 2,664 (34) 11,767 (33)
Sex with injecting drug user 892 5,891
Sex with bisexual male 127 717
Sex with person with hemophilia 10 37
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 20 105
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 1,615 5,017
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 125 ( 2) 834 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified1 1,934 (25) 5,145 (15)
Total 7,847 (100) 35,372 (100)
Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 1,030 (37) 6,043 (45)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 3 ( 0) 13 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 1,330 (47) 5,846 (44)
Sex with injecting drug user 531 3,341
Sex with bisexual male 68 297
Sex with person with hemophilia 5 20
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 8 69
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 718 2,119
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 55 ( 2) 436 ( 3)
Risk not reported or identified1 391 (14) 955 ( 7)
Total 2,809 (100) 13,293 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 13 (22) 59 (18)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 1 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 24 (40) 144 (44)
Sex with injecting drug user 7 43
Sex with bisexual male 5 41
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 3
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 15
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 9 42
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 8 (13) 68 (21)
Risk not reported or identified 15 (25) 53 (16)
Total 60 (100) 325 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 13 (22) 59 (18)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 1 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 24 (40) 144 (44)
Sex with injecting drug user 7 43
Sex with bisexual male 5 41
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 3
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 15
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 9 42
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 8 (13) 68 (21)
Risk not reported or identified 15 (25) 53 (16)
Total 60 (100) 325 (100)
American Indian/Alaska Native
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 15 (47) 84 (49)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - - -
Heterosexual contact: 14 (44) 63 (36)
Sex with injecting drug user 7 36
Sex with bisexual male 4 8
Sex with person with hemophilia - 2
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 3 17
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - 10 ( 6)
Risk not reported or identified 3 ( 9) 16 ( 9)
Total 32 (100) 173 (100)
Cumulative totals2
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 5,421 (39) 30,573 (47)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 23 ( 0) 117 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 5,204 (38) 23,633 (36)
Sex with injecting drug user 1,893 11,964
Sex with bisexual male 346 1,999
Sex with person with hemophilia 57 273
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 57 420
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 2,851 8,977
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 305 ( 2) 2,945 ( 5)
Risk not reported or identified 2,885 (21) 7,554 (12)
Total 13,838 (100) 64,822 (100)
1See Figure 6.
2Includes 89 women whose race/ethnicity is unknown.
Table 6. Pediatric AIDS cases by exposure category and
race/ethnicity, reported July 1994 through June 1995, and
cumulative totals, through June 1995, United States
White, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 9 ( 6) 156 (13)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 115 (80) 868 (71)
Injecting drug use 32 373
Sex with injecting drug user 20 162
Sex with bisexual male 5 44
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 15
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 1 10
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 24 87
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 1 39
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 31 138
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 16 (11) 178 (15)
Risk not reported or identified1 4 ( 3) 14 ( 1)
Total 144 (100) 1,216 (100)
Black, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 1 ( 0) 32 ( 1)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 528 (92) 3,578 (95)
Injecting drug use 149 1,470
Sex with injecting drug user 70 541
Sex with bisexual male 8 41
Sex with person with hemophilia - 5
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 1 9
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 111 440
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 4 73
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 185 999
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 8 ( 1) 80 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified1 36 ( 6) 68 ( 2)
Total 573 (100) 3,758 (100)
Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 1 ( 0) 34 ( 2)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 228 (92) 1,424 (91)
Injecting drug use 73 609
Sex with injecting drug user 48 395
Sex with bisexual male 7 33
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 4
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 8
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 42 138
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 2 27
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 53 210
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 12 ( 5) 91 ( 6)
Risk not reported or identified1 6 ( 2) 17 ( 1)
Total 247 (100) 1,566 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 3 ( 8)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 5 (63) 24 (63)
Injecting drug use - 4
Sex with injecting drug user 1 3
Sex with bisexual male - 2
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 2 6
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - 1
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 2 8
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 1 (13) 9 (24)
Risk not reported or identified 2 (25) 2 ( 5)
Total 8 (100) 38 (100)
American Indian/Alaska Native
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 1 ( 5)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 2 (100) 18 (95)
Injecting drug use 1 9
Sex with injecting drug user - 4
Sex with bisexual male - -
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified - 1
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - -
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 1 4
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - - -
Risk not reported or identified - - - -
Total 2 (100) 19 (100)
Cumulative totals2
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 11 ( 1) 226 ( 3)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 881 (90) 5,925 (90)
Injecting drug use 256 2,471
Sex with injecting drug user 139 1,107
Sex with bisexual male 20 120
Sex with person with hemophilia 2 24
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 4 27
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 180 676
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 7 140
Has HIV infection, risk
not specified 273 1,360
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 37 ( 4) 359 ( 5)
Risk not reported or identified 48 ( 5) 101 ( 2)
Total 977 (100) 6,611 (100)
1See Figure 6, footnote 1.
2Includes 14 children whose race/ethnicity is unknown.Table 7. AIDS cases in adolescents and adults under age 25, by sex
and exposure category, reported July 1993 through June 1994, July
1994 through June 1995;1 and cumulative totals through June 1995,
United States.
13-19 years old
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
June 1994 June 1995 total
Male exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 75 (29) 82 (32) 471 (33)
Injecting drug use 15 ( 6) 16 ( 6) 92 ( 6)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 10 ( 4) 10 ( 4) 68 ( 5)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 112 (43) 89 (35) 613 (43)
Heterosexual contact: 10 ( 4) 10 ( 4) 36 ( 3)
Sex with injecting drug user 3 1 13
Sex with person with hemophilia - 1 1
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 7 8 22
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 15 ( 6) 11 ( 4) 60 ( 4)
Risk not reported or identified2 21 ( 8) 39 (15) 97 ( 7)
Male subtotal 258 (100) 257 (100) 1,437
(100)
20-24 years old
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
June 1994 June 1995 total
Male exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 1,250 (60) 1,029 (60) 8,613 (63)
Injecting drug use 275 (13) 207 (12) 1,727 (13)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 178 ( 9) 112 ( 7) 1,486 (11)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 85 ( 4) 55 ( 3) 501 ( 4)
Heterosexual contact: 95 ( 5) 108 ( 6) 456 ( 3)
Sex with injecting drug user 26 37 196
Sex with person with hemophilia - - 1
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 2 11
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 67 69 248
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 17 ( 1) 10 ( 1) 99 ( 1)
Risk not reported or
identified2 171 ( 8) 200 (12) 717 ( 5)
Male subtotal 2,071 (100) 1,721 (100) 13,599 (100)
13-19 years old
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
June 1994 June 1995 total
Female exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 18 (11) 14 ( 7) 122 (16)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 2 ( 1) 3 ( 2) 9 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 93 (55) 89 (48) 397 (53)
Sex with injecting drug user 32 27 186
Sex with bisexual male 5 6 22
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 3 10
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - - 1
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 55 53 178
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 7 ( 4) 13 ( 7) 57 ( 8)
Risk not reported or identified 49 (29) 68 (36) 162 (22)
Female subtotal 169 (100) 187 (100) 747 (100)
Total 427 444 2,184
20-24 years old
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
June 1994 June 1995 total
Female exposure category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 223 (27) 183 (22) 1,351 (33)
Hemophilia/coagulation
disorder 2 ( 0) 2 ( 0) 12 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 455 (54) 423 (51) 2,093 (50)
Sex with injecting
drug user 189 129 1,058
Sex with bisexual male 31 23 165
Sex with person with
hemophilia 13 6 41
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 3 12
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 220 262 817
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or
tissue 12 ( 1) 10 ( 1) 98 ( 2)
Risk not reported or
identified 149 (18) 209 (25) 592 (14)
Female subtotal 841 (100) 827 (100) 4,146 (100)
Total 2,912 2,548 17,745
1See Technical Notes for a discussion of the impact of the 1993
AIDS surveillance case definition for adults and adolescents
(implemented January 1, 1993) on the number of cases reported in
the two most recent 12-month reporting periods.
2See Figure 6.
Table 8. AIDS cases by sex, age at diagnosis, and race/ethnicity,
reported through June 1995, United States
White, not Black, not
Male Hispanic Hispanic Hispanic
Age at diagnosis No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
(years)
Under 5 401 ( 0) 1,593 ( 1) 630 ( 1)
5-12 288 ( 0) 270 ( 0) 193 ( 0)
13-19 649 ( 0) 468 ( 0) 288 ( 0)
20-24 6,054 ( 3) 4,641 ( 4) 2,735 ( 4)
25-29 29,889 (14) 16,854 (14) 10,851 (16)
30-34 49,941 (23) 27,096 (22) 16,750 (24)
35-39 47,371 (22) 28,321 (23) 15,311 (22)
40-44 34,274 (16) 20,518 (17) 10,332 (15)
45-49 20,271 (10) 10,877 ( 9) 5,608 ( 8)
50-54 10,900 ( 5) 5,863 ( 5) 2,923 ( 4)
55-59 6,082 ( 3) 3,236 ( 3) 1,677 ( 2)
60-64 3,514 ( 2) 1,746 ( 1) 908 ( 1)
65 or older 2,911 ( 1) 1,397 ( 1) 668 ( 1)
Male subtotal 212,545 (100) 122,880 (100) 68,874
(100)
Asian/Pacific American Indian/
Male Islander Alaska Native Total1
Age at diagnosis
(years) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Under 5 15 ( 1) 9 ( 1) 2,651 ( 1)
5-12 8 ( 0) 1 ( 0) 761 ( 0)
13-19 18 ( 1) 13 ( 1) 1,437 ( 0)
20-24 99 ( 3) 48 ( 5) 13,599 ( 3)
25-29 384 (13) 210 (21) 58,268 (14)
30-34 646 (22) 272 (27) 94,836 (23)
35-39 630 (22) 199 (20) 91,986 (22)
40-44 509 (17) 142 (14) 65,883 (16)
45-49 281 (10) 63 ( 6) 37,156 ( 9)
50-54 154 ( 5) 30 ( 3) 19,899 ( 5)
55-59 90 ( 3) 15 ( 1) 11,128 ( 3)
60-64 42 ( 1) 11 ( 1) 6,230 ( 2)
65 or older 49 ( 2) 7 ( 1) 5,040 ( 1)
Male subtotal 2,925 (100) 1,020 (100) 408,874
(100)
White, not Black, not
Female Hispanic Hispanic Hispanic
Age at diagnosis No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
(years)
Under 5 406 ( 3) 1,606 ( 4) 596 ( 4)
5-12 121 ( 1) 289 ( 1) 147 ( 1)
13-19 140 ( 1) 482 ( 1) 119 ( 1)
20-24 980 ( 6) 2,217 ( 6) 910 ( 6)
25-29 2,825 (18) 5,885 (16) 2,488 (18)
30-34 3,695 (23) 8,692 (23) 3,412 (24)
35-39 3,043 (19) 8,140 (22) 2,766 (20)
40-44 1,850 (11) 5,085 (14) 1,663 (12)
45-49 953 ( 6) 2,208 ( 6) 852 ( 6)
50-54 565 ( 4) 1,166 ( 3) 479 ( 3)
55-59 445 ( 3) 660 ( 2) 303 ( 2)
60-64 326 ( 2) 422 ( 1) 151 ( 1)
65 or older 748 ( 5) 415 ( 1) 150 ( 1)
Female subtotal 16,097 (100) 37,267 (100) 14,036
(100)
Total2 228,644 160,148 82,910
Asian/Pacific American Indian/
Female Islander Alaska Native Total1
Age at diagnosis
(years) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Under 5 9 ( 3) 9 ( 5) 2,634 ( 4)
5-12 6 ( 2) - - 565 ( 1)
13-19 4 ( 1) 1 ( 1) 747 ( 1)
20-24 16 ( 5) 18 (10) 4,146 ( 6)
25-29 36 (11) 36 (20) 11,280 (17)
30-34 70 (21) 44 (24) 15,936 (23)
35-39 61 (18) 35 (19) 14,075 (21)
40-44 50 (15) 19 (10) 8,676 (13)
45-49 28 ( 8) 8 ( 4) 4,054 ( 6)
50-54 16 ( 5) 4 ( 2) 2,233 ( 3)
55-59 10 ( 3) 4 ( 2) 1,424 ( 2)
60-64 16 ( 5) 3 ( 2) 918 ( 1)
65 or older 18 ( 5) 1 ( 1) 1,333 ( 2)
Female subtotal 340 (100) 182 (100) 68,021
(100)
Total2 3,265 1,202 476,899
1Includes 630 males, 99 females, and 1 person with unknown sex
whose race/ethnicity is unknown.
2Includes 4 persons whose sex is unknown.
Table 9. AIDS cases, case-fatality rates,1 and deaths, by half-year
and age group, through June 1995, United States
Adults/adolescents
Cases diagnosed Case-fatality Deaths occurring
Half-year during interval rate during interval
Before 1981 86 90.7 30
1981 Jan.-June 104 90.4 37
July-Dec. 203 92.1 83
1982 Jan.-June 428 93.2 151
July-Dec. 725 91.6 295
1983 Jan.-June 1,343 94.2 525
July-Dec. 1,700 94.2 945
1984 Jan.-June 2,667 93.6 1,423
July-Dec. 3,494 93.7 2,015
1985 Jan.-June 5,120 92.7 2,869
July-Dec. 6,529 93.1 3,973
1986 Jan.-June 8,647 92.1 5,185
July-Dec. 10,210 92.3 6,696
1987 Jan.-June 13,476 91.1 7,798
July-Dec. 14,860 89.4 8,233
1988 Jan.-June 17,283 87.5 9,671
July-Dec. 17,769 87.3 11,032
1989 Jan.-June 20,799 84.1 12,694
July-Dec. 21,131 82.8 14,592
1990 Jan.-June 23,901 80.0 14,995
July-Dec. 23,403 77.7 15,952
1991 Jan.-June 27,836 73.7 16,993
July-Dec. 29,924 69.3 18,861
1992 Jan.-June 36,048 61.3 19,247
July-Dec. 38,962 54.4 20,416
1993 Jan.-June 40,147 41.3 20,571
July-Dec. 32,818 34.0 21,503
1994 Jan.-June 32,090 24.2 22,091
July-Dec. 25,577 15.8 21,475
1995 Jan.-June 13,008 7.8 11,112
Total2 470,288 62.1 291,815
Children <13 years old
Cases diagnosed Case-fatality Deaths occurring
Half-year during interval rate during interval
Before 1981 8 75.0 1
1981 Jan.-June 10 80.0 2
July-Dec. 6 83.3 6
1982 Jan.-June 15 93.3 10
July-Dec. 16 87.5 4
1983 Jan.-June 32 100.0 14
July-Dec. 44 90.9 16
1984 Jan.-June 52 88.5 26
July-Dec. 63 87.3 24
1985 Jan.-June 108 81.5 47
July-Dec. 137 85.4 72
1986 Jan.-June 143 83.2 68
July-Dec. 195 77.9 97
1987 Jan.-June 228 78.1 121
July-Dec. 269 73.6 171
1988 Jan.-June 262 68.3 137
July-Dec. 348 65.5 179
1989 Jan.-June 368 64.4 173
July-Dec. 345 67.5 194
1990 Jan.-June 386 60.6 193
July-Dec. 402 54.0 199
1991 Jan.-June 400 52.0 174
July-Dec. 389 48.1 218
1992 Jan.-June 473 44.4 190
July-Dec. 425 47.3 219
1993 Jan.-June 413 37.8 244
July-Dec. 396 36.9 254
1994 Jan.-June 345 26.7 271
July-Dec. 243 20.6 215
1995 Jan.-June 90 8.9 112
Total2 6,611 55.3 3,658
1Case-fatality rates are calculated for each half-year by date of
diagnosis. Each 6-month case-fatality rate is the number of
deaths ever reported among cases diagnosed in that period
(regardless of the year of death), divided by the number of total
cases diagnosed in that period, multiplied by 100. For example,
during the interval January through June 1982, AIDS was diagnosed
in 428 adults/adolescents. Through June 1995, 399 of these 428 were
reported as dead. Therefore, the case fatality rate is 93.2 (399
divided by 428, multiplied by 100). The case-fatality rates shown
here may be underestimates because of incomplete reporting of
deaths. Reported deaths are not necessarily caused by HIV-related
disease.
2Death totals include 352 adults/adolescents and 7 children known
to have died, but whose dates of death are unknown.
Table 10. AIDS cases by year of diagnosis and definition category,
diagnosed through June 1995, United States
Period of diagnosis
Before July 1991- July 1992-
July 1991 June 1992 June 1993
Definition category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Pre-1987 definition 163,750 (73) 34,781 (52) 30,933 (39)
1987 definition 52,050 (23) 18,514 (28) 17,522 (22)
1993 definition1 9,751 ( 4) 13,539 (20) 31,492 (39)
Pulmonary tuberculosis 1,616 1,276 1,891
Recurrent pneumonia 380 370 926
Invasive cervical cancer 68 51 98
Severe HIV-related
immunosuppression2 7,720 11,867 28,609
Total 225,551 (100) 66,834 (100) 79,947 (100)
Period of diagnosis
July 1993- July 1994- Cumulative
June 1994 June 1995 total
Definition category No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Pre-1987 definition 19,976 (30) 9,831 (25) 259,271 (54)
1987 definition 11,591 (18) 6,084 (16) 105,761 (22)
1993 definition1 34,082 (52) 23,003 (59) 111,867 (23)
Pulmonary tuberculosis 1,480 528 6,791
Recurrent pneumonia 914 439 3,029
Invasive cervical cancer 115 43 375
Severe HIV-related
immunosuppression2 31,603 22,002 101,801
Total 65,649 (100) 38,918 (100) 476,899 (100)
1Persons who meet only the 1993 AIDS case definition and whose date
of diagnosis is before January 1993 were diagnosed
retrospectively. The sum of diagnoses listed for the four
conditions under the 1993 definition do not equal the 1993
definition total because some persons have more than one diagnosis
from the added conditions of pulmonary tuberculosis,
recurrent pneumonia, and invasive cervical cancer.
2Defined as CD4+ T-lymphocyte count of less than 200 cells/uL or a
CD4+ percentage less than 14 in persons with laboratory
confirmation of HIV infection.
Table 11. Health-care workers with documented and possible
occupationally acquired AIDS/HIV infection, by occupation reported
through June 1995, United States1.
Documented Possible
occupational occupational
transmission (2) transmission (3)
Occupation No. No.
Dental worker, including dentist - 6
Embalmer/morgue technician - 2
Emergency medical technician/
paramedic - 9
Health aide/attendant 1 11
Housekeeper/maintenance worker 1 7
Laboratory technician, clinical 15 14
Laboratory technician,
nonclinical 3 0
Nurse 16 23
Physician, nonsurgical 6 10
Physician, surgical - 4
Respiratory therapist 1 2
Technician, dialysis 1 2
Technician, surgical 2 1
Technician/therapist, other than
those listed above - 4
Other health-care occupations - 2
Total 46 97
1Health-care workers are defined as those persons, including
students and trainees, who have worked in a health-care, clinical,
or HIV laboratory setting at any time since 1978. See MMWR
1992;41:823-25.
2Health-care workers who had documented HIV seroconversion after
occupational exposure or had other laboratory evidence of
occupational infection: 40 had percutaneous exposure, 4 had
mucocutaneous exposure, 1 had both percutaneous and mucocutaneous
exposures, and 1 had an unknown route of exposure. Forty-one
exposures were to blood from an HIV-infected person, 1 to visibly
bloody fluid, 1 to an unspecified fluid, and 3 to concentrated
virus in a laboratory. Twenty of these health-care workers
developed AIDS.
3These health-care workers have been investigated and are without
identifiable behavioral or transfusion risks; each reported
percutaneous or mucocutaneous occupational exposures to blood or
body fluids, or laboratory solutions containing HIV, but HIV
seroconversion specifically resulting from an occupational exposure
was not documented. Table 12. Adult/adolescent AIDS cases by single and multiple
exposure categories, reported through June 1995, United States.
AIDS cases
Exposure category No. (%)
Single mode of exposure
Men who have sex with men 235,025 (50)
Injecting drug use 97,574 (21)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 3,024 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact 34,597 ( 7)
Receipt of transfusion1 7,118 ( 2)
Receipt of transplant of tissues/organs
or artificial insemination2 10 ( 0)
Other3 52 ( 0)
Single mode of exposure subtotal 377,400 (80)
Multiple modes of exposure
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use 27,164 ( 6)
Men who have sex with men;
hemophilia/coagulation disorder 118 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; heterosexual contact 5,814 ( 1)
Men who have sex with men; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 3,009 ( 1)
Injecting drug use; hemophilia/coagulation
disorder 155 ( 0)
Injecting drug use; heterosexual contact 18,841 ( 4)
Injecting drug use; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 1,384 ( 0)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder;
heterosexual contact 55 ( 0)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 766 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 1,086 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
hemophilia/coagulation disorder 34 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
heterosexual contact 3,170 ( 1)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
receipt of transfusion/transplant 509 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; hemophilia/coagulation
disorder; heterosexual contact 12 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; hemophilia/coagulation
disorder; receipt of transfusion/transplant 30 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; heterosexual contact;
receipt of transfusion/transplant 223 ( 0)
Injecting drug use; hemophilia/coagulation disorder;
heterosexual contact 36 ( 0)
Injecting drug use; hemophilia/coagulation disorder;
receipt of transfusion/transplant 29 ( 0)
Injecting drug use; heterosexual contact;
receipt of transfusion/transplant 660 ( 0)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder; heterosexual
contact; receipt of transfusion/transplant 27 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
hemophilia/coagulation disorder; heterosexual
contact 7 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
hemophilia/coagulation disorder; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 13 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
heterosexual contact; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 125 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; hemophilia/coagulation
disorder; heterosexual contact; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 4 ( 0)
Injecting drug use; hemophilia/coagulation disorder;
heterosexual contact; receipt of
transfusion/transplant 15 ( 0)
Men who have sex with men; injecting drug use;
hemophilia/coagulation disorder; heterosexual
contact; receipt of transfusion/transplant 2 ( 0)
Multiple modes of exposure subtotal 63,288 (13)
Risk not reported or identified4 29,600 ( 6)
Total 470,288 (100)
1Includes 33 adult/adolescents who developed AIDS after receiving
blood screened negative for HIV antibody.
2Ten adults developed AIDS after receiving tissue, organs, or
artificial insemination from HIV-infected donors. Three of the 10
received tissue or organs from a donor who was negative for HIV
antibody at the time of donation. See N Engl J Med 1992;326:726-32.
3See Table 11 and Figure 6 for a discussion of the "other" exposure
category. "Other" also includes 25 persons who acquired HIV
infection perinatally, but were diagnosed with AIDS after age 13.
4See Figure 6.
Table 13. Estimated AIDS-opportunistic illness incidence, by
region of residence and year of diagnosis, 1990 through 1994,
United States1.
Year of diagnosis
Region of residence2 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994
Northeast 13,900 15,500 17,000 18,600 19,100
Midwest 4,600 5,500 6,300 6,300 6,500
South 15,000 17,400 20,400 21,000 23,500
West 10,600 12,200 13,000 12,500 13,200
Territories 1,700 2,100 2,100 2,200 2,000
Total3 45,800 52,500 58,800 60,600 64,300
1Estimates are adjusted for delays in the reporting of AIDS cases,
but not for incomplete reporting of cases. Estimates are rounded to
the nearest 100. Opportunistic illness refers to AIDS-defining
opportunistic illnesses included in the 1993 AIDS surveillance case
definition. See Technical Notes.
2See Technical Notes for a list of states or dependencies and
possessions which comprise each region of residence.
3The sum of the regional estimates may not equal the total annual
estimates because of rounding.
Table 14. Estimated AIDS-opportunistic illness incidence, by
race/ethnicity and year of diagnosis, 1990 through 1994, United
States1.
Year of diagnosis
Race/ethnicity 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994
White, not Hispanic 22,600 25,200 26,700 25,700 26,400
Black, not Hispanic 14,600 17,400 21,000 23,000 25,300
Hispanic 8,000 9,400 10,400 11,100 11,900
Asian/Pacific Islander 300 360 420 460 480
American Indian/
Alaska Native 110 140 160 170 200
Total2 45,800 52,500 58,800 60,600 64,300
1Estimates are adjusted for delays in the reporting of AIDS cases,
but not for incomplete reporting of cases. Estimates of less than
200, 200 to 499, 500 to 999, and 1,000 or more are rounded to the
nearest 10, 20, 50, and 100, respectively. See Technical Notes.
2The sum of race/ethnicity estimates may not equal the total annual
estimates because of rounding. Totals include estimates of persons
whose race/ethnicity is unknown.
Table 15. Estimated AIDS-opportunistic illness incidence, by age
group, sex, exposure category, and year
of diagnosis, 1990 through 1994, United States1
Year of diagnosis
Male adult/adolescent
exposure category 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994
Men who have sex with men 25,200 28,300 30,000 29,600 31,300
Injecting drug use 8,700 10,100 12,000 12,700 13,400
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 3,200 3,500 3,800 3,600 3,500
Hemophilia/coagulation
disorder 340 380 440 440 420
Heterosexual contact 1,100 1,500 2,100 2,600 3,100
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 440 460 440 380 440
Risk not reported
or identified 360 380 440 400 280
Male subtotal 39,300 44,700 49,200 49,700 52,400
Female adult/adolescent
exposure category 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994
Injecting drug use 3,000 3,600 4,300 4,600 4,900
Hemophilia/coagulation
disorder 10 20 10 20 20
Heterosexual contact 2,200 2,900 3,800 4,800 5,700
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 320 320 320 340 400
Risk not reported
or identified 120 190 200 150 110
Female subtotal 5,700 7,000 8,600 9,900 11,100
Pediatric (<13 years old) 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994
exposure category2 800 830 990 970 850
Total3 45,800 52,500 58,800 60,600 64,300
1Estimates are adjusted for delays in the reporting of AIDS cases
and anticipated redistribution of cases initially reported with no
identified risk, but not for incomplete reporting of cases.
Adult/adolescent and total estimates of less than 200, 200 to 499,
500 to 999, and 1,000 or more are rounded to the nearest 10, 20,
50, and 100, respectively. Pediatric estimates are rounded to the
nearest 10. Opportunistic illness refers to AIDS-defining
opportunistic illnesses included in the 1993 AIDS surveillance case
definition. See Technical Notes.
2Estimates are based on cases diagnosed using the 1987 definition,
adjusted for reporting delays. The 1993 AIDS surveillance case
definition affected only adult/adolescent cases, not pediatric
cases.
3The sum of the exposure category estimates may not equal the
subtotal and total annual estimates because of
rounding.Table 16. HIV infection cases (not AIDS) by state, reported July
1993 through June 1994, July 1994 through June 1995; and cumulative
totals, by state and age group, through June 1995; from states with
confidential HIV infection reporting.
State of residence July 1993- July 1994- Adults/
(Date HIV reporting June 1994 June 1995 adolescents
initiated)
Alabama (Jan. 1988) 527 559 3,764
Arizona (Jan. 1987) 366 366 3,087
Arkansas (July 1989) 220 316 1,298
Colorado (Nov. 1985) 484 461 5,248
Connecticut (July 1992)1 48 22 -
Idaho (June 1986) 50 50 343
Indiana (July 1988) 544 411 2,563
Louisiana (Feb. 1993) 1,351 1,161 3,714
Michigan (April 1992) 676 1,277 2,679
Minnesota (Oct. 1985) 266 309 2,093
Mississippi (Aug. 1988) 433 604 2,893
Missouri (Oct. 1987) 554 656 3,289
Nevada (Feb. 1992) 344 417 1,944
New Jersey (Jan. 1992) 2,694 4,259 10,221
North Carolina (Feb. 1990) 980 1,427 5,659
North Dakota (Jan. 1988) 27 7 59
Ohio (June 1990) 677 575 2,992
Oklahoma (June 1988) 201 176 1,540
South Carolina (Feb. 1986) 771 736 5,444
South Dakota (Jan. 1988) 15 21 148
Tennessee (Jan. 1992) 725 1,075 2,989
Texas (Feb. 1994)1 44 145 -
Utah (April 1989) 104 89 775
Virginia (July 1989) 1,239 1,000 5,623
West Virginia (Jan. 1989) 97 96 359
Wisconsin (Nov. 1985) 261 252 1,845
Wyoming (June 1989) 11 9 57
Subtotal 13,709 16,476 70,626
Persons reported from
states with confidential
HIV reporting who were
residents of other states2 422 490 1,694
Total 14,131 16,966 72,320
Cumulative totals
State of residence Children
(Date HIV reporting <13 years old Total
initiated)
Alabama (Jan. 1988) 31 3,795
Arizona (Jan. 1987) 29 3,116
Arkansas (July 1989) 20 1,318
Colorado (Nov. 1985) 26 5,274
Connecticut (July 1992)1 93 93
Idaho (June 1986) 3 346
Indiana (July 1988) 23 2,586
Louisiana (Feb. 1993) 42 3,756
Michigan (April 1992) 73 2,752
Minnesota (Oct. 1985) 22 2,115
Mississippi (Aug. 1988) 35 2,928
Missouri (Oct. 1987) 36 3,325
Nevada (Feb. 1992) 20 1,964
New Jersey (Jan. 1992) 306 10,527
North Carolina (Feb. 1990) 46 5,705
North Dakota (Jan. 1988) - 59
Ohio (June 1990) 26 3,018
Oklahoma (June 1988) 9 1,549
South Carolina (Feb. 1986) 73 5,517
South Dakota (Jan. 1988) 5 153
Tennessee (Jan. 1992) 37 3,026
Texas (Feb. 1994)1 189 189
Utah (April 1989) 5 780
Virginia (July 1989) 57 5,680
West Virginia (Jan. 1989) 2 361
Wisconsin (Nov. 1985) 23 1,868
Wyoming (June 1989) - 57
Subtotal 1,231 71,857
Persons reported from
states with confidential
HIV reporting who were
residents of other states2 26 1,720
Total 1,257 73,577
1Connecticut and Texas have confidential HIV infection reporting
for pediatric cases only.
2Includes 347 persons reported from states with confidential HIV
infection reporting, but whose state of residence is unknown. See
Technical Notes.
Table 17. Male adult/adolescent HIV infection cases (not AIDS) by
exposure category and race/ethnicity, reported July 1994 through
June 1995, and cumulative totals through June 1995, from states
with confidential HIV infection reporting1.
White, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 2,615 (57) 15,135 (60)
Injecting drug use 559 (12) 2,274 ( 9)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 283 ( 6) 2,103 ( 8)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 48 ( 1) 308 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 117 ( 3) 598 ( 2)
Sex with an injecting drug user 36 179
Sex with person with hemophilia - 4
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - 16
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 81 399
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 17 ( 0) 168 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 942 (21) 4,642 (18)
Total 4,581 (100) 25,228 (100)
Black, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 1,715 (28) 7,883 (31)
Injecting drug use 1,403 (23) 5,646 (22)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 210 ( 3) 1,272 ( 5)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 10 ( 0) 72 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 472 ( 8) 2,064 ( 8)
Sex with an injecting drug user 139 558
Sex with person with hemophilia 2 5
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 7 30
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 324 1,471
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 33 ( 1) 141 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 2,226 (37) 8,247 (33)
Total 6,069 (100) 25,325 (100)
Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 265 (29) 1,132 (35)
Injecting drug use 306 (33) 964 (30)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 27 ( 3) 203 ( 6)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 1 ( 0) 8 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 46 ( 5) 163 ( 5)
Sex with an injecting drug user 14 61
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - 2
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 32 100
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 2 ( 0) 18 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 281 (30) 749 (23)
Total 928 (100) 3,237 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 16 (47) 74 (50)
Injecting drug use 3 ( 9) 14 (10)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 1 ( 3) 3 ( 2)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 3 ( 2)
Heterosexual contact: 1 ( 3) 6 ( 4)
Sex with an injecting drug user 1 3
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified - 3
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 1 ( 3) 3 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified2 12 (35) 44 (30)
Total 34 (100) 147 (100)
American Indian/Alaska Native
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 17 (38) 150 (49)
Injecting drug use 10 (22) 51 (17)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 6 (13) 47 (15)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 4 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 2 ( 4) 10 ( 3)
Sex with an injecting drug user 1 2
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 1 8
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - 3 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 10 (22) 44 (14)
Total 45 (100) 309 (100)
Cumulative totals3
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 4,675 (39) 24,611 (44)
Injecting drug use 2,296 (19) 9,028 (16)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 529 ( 4) 3,655 ( 7)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 61 ( 1) 400 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 644 ( 5) 2,869 ( 5)
Sex with an injecting drug user 193 811
Sex with person with hemophilia 2 9
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 7 48
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 442 2,001
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 53 ( 0) 339 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 3,637 (31) 14,761 (27)
Total 11,895 (100) 55,663 (100)
1See Table 16 for states with confidential HIV infection reporting.
2For HIV infection cases (not AIDS), "risk not reported or
identified" refers primarily to persons whose mode of exposure was
not reported and who have not been followed up to determine their
mode of exposure, and to a smaller number of persons who are not
reported with one of the exposures listed above after follow-up.
See Technical Notes.
3Includes 1,417 men whose race/ethnicity is unknown.Table 18. Female adult/adolescent HIV infection cases (not AIDS) by
exposure category and race/ethnicity, reported July 1994 through
June 1995, and cumulative totals through June 1995, from states
with confidential HIV infection reporting1.
White, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 291 (28) 1,286 (30)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 1 ( 0) 7 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 346 (34) 1,595 (38)
Sex with an injecting drug user 120 614
Sex with a bisexual male 39 207
Sex with person with hemophilia 11 45
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV-infection 4 23
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 172 706
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 8 ( 1) 102 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified2 381 (37) 1,238 (29)
Total 1,027 (100) 4,229 (100)
Black, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 691 (22) 2,693 (25)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 1 ( 0) 7 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 891 (28) 3,660 (33)
Sex with an injecting drug user 276 1,188
Sex with a bisexual male 72 295
Sex with person with hemophilia 3 24
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV-infection 6 27
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 534 2,126
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 53 ( 2) 188 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified2 1,507 (48) 4,425 (40)
Total 3,143 (100) 10,973 (100)
Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 97 (26) 290 (29)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - - -
Heterosexual contact: 113 (30) 382 (38)
Sex with an injecting drug user 49 178
Sex with a bisexual male 5 17
Sex with person with hemophilia - 5
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV-infection - 3
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 59 179
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 2 ( 1) 18 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified2 159 (43) 308 (31)
Total 371 (100) 998 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 2 (13) 6 (14)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - - -
Heterosexual contact: 4 (27) 15 (35)
Sex with an injecting drug user 1 6
Sex with a bisexual male - -
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 3 9
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - 1 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified2 9 (60) 21 (49)
Total 15 (100) 43 (100)
American Indian/Alaska
Native
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 7 (30) 40 (40)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - - -
Heterosexual contact: 6 (26) 34 (34)
Sex with an injecting drug user 5 22
Sex with a bisexual male - 6
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 1 6
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 1 ( 4) 1 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 9 (39) 26 (26)
Total 23 (100) 101 (100)
Cumulative totals3
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 1,094 (24) 4,340 (26)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 2 ( 0) 14 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 1,365 (29) 5,718 (34)
Sex with an injecting drug user 451 2,015
Sex with a bisexual male 117 527
Sex with person with hemophilia 14 74
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 10 53
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 773 3,049
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 64 ( 1) 316 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified2 2,120 (46) 6,253 (38)
Total 4,645 (100) 16,642 (100)
1See Table 16 for states with confidential HIV infection reporting.
2For HIV infection cases (not AIDS), "risk not reported or
identified" refers primarily to persons whose mode of exposure was
not reported and who have not been followed up to determine their
mode of exposure, and to a smaller number of persons who are not
reported with one of the exposures listed above after follow-up.
See Technical Notes.
3Includes 298 women whose race/ethnicity is unknown.
Table 19. Pediatric HIV infection cases (not AIDS) by exposure
category and race/ethnicity, reported July 1994 through June 1995,
and cumulative totals through June 1995, from states with
confidential HIV infection reporting1.
White, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 10 ( 9) 68 (21)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 91 (85) 221 (68)
Injecting drug use 19 50
Sex with injecting drug user 17 31
Sex with bisexual male 1 2
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 3 4
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 15 29
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 2 3
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 34 102
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 1 ( 1) 18 ( 6)
Risk not reported or identified2 5 ( 5) 19 ( 6)
Total 107 (100) 326 (100)
Black, not Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 3 ( 1) 22 ( 3)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 225 (91) 646 (89)
Injecting drug use 65 165
Sex with injecting drug user 26 64
Sex with bisexual male 5 9
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 2
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - 1
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 36 78
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 3 5
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 89 322
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 2 ( 1) 5 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 18 ( 7) 49 ( 7)
Total 248 (100) 722 (100)
Hispanic
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 4 ( 7) 9 ( 6)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 45 (80) 137 (84)
Injecting drug use 15 35
Sex with injecting drug user 10 19
Sex with bisexual male - 1
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 5 14
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 1 2
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 14 66
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 3 ( 5) 5 ( 3)
Risk not reported or identified2 4 ( 7) 12 ( 7)
Total 56 (100) 163 (100)
Asian/Pacific Islander
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 1 (20)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: - - 1 (20)
Injecting drug use - -
Sex with injecting drug user - -
Sex with bisexual male - 1
Sex with person with hemophilia - -
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified - -
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - -
Has HIV infection, risk not specified - -
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - - -
Risk not reported or identified - - 3 (60)
Total - - 5 (100)
American Indian/Alaska Native
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 2 (17)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 2 (100) 8 (67)
Injecting drug use - 3
Sex with injecting drug user 2 2
Sex with bisexual male - -
Sex with person with hemophilia - 1
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - -
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified - -
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - -
Has HIV infection, risk not specified - 2
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - - -
Risk not reported or identified - - 2 (17)
Total 2 (100) 12 (100)
Cumulative totals3
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 18 ( 4) 105 ( 8)
Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: 370 (87) 1,026 (82)
Injecting drug use 103 257
Sex with injecting drug user 55 116
Sex with bisexual male 6 13
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 3
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 3 5
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 56 121
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 6 10
Has HIV infection, risk not specified 140 501
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 8 ( 2) 30 ( 2)
Risk not reported or identified 27 ( 6) 96 ( 8)
Total 423 (100) 1,257 (100)
1See Table 16 for states with confidential HIV infection reporting.
2For HIV infection cases (not AIDS), "risk not reported or
identified" refers primarily to persons whose mode of exposure
was not reported and who have not been followed up to determine
their mode of exposure, and to a smaller number of persons who
are not reported with one of the exposures listed above after
follow-up. See Technical Notes.
3Includes 29 children whose race/ethnicity is unknown.Table 20. HIV infection cases (not AIDS) in adolescents and adults
under age 25, by sex and exposure category, reported July 1994
through June 1995, and cumulative totals through June 1995, from
states with confidential HIV infection reporting1.
13-19 years old
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Male exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 108 (46) 583 (43)
Injecting drug use 5 ( 2) 70 ( 5)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 7 ( 3) 82 ( 6)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 14 ( 6) 93 ( 7)
Heterosexual contact: 9 ( 4) 90 ( 7)
Sex with an injecting drug user 1 17
Sex with person with hemophilia 1 2
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection - 1
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 7 70
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue - - 11 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified2 91 (39) 434 (32)
Male subtotal 234 (100) 1,363
(100)
20-24 years old
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Male exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Men who have sex with men 728 (53) 4,235 (53)
Injecting drug use 77 ( 6) 478 ( 6)
Men who have sex with men
and inject drugs 59 ( 4) 530 ( 7)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder 14 ( 1) 89 ( 1)
Heterosexual contact: 84 ( 6) 428 ( 5)
Sex with an injecting drug user 24 93
Sex with person with hemophilia - 1
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 1 4
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 59 330
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 4 ( 0) 38 ( 0)
Risk not reported or identified2 401 (29) 2,179 (27)
Male subtotal 1,367 (100) 7,977 (100)
13-19 years old
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Female exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 11 ( 4) 99 ( 8)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - -
-
Heterosexual contact: 121 (40) 549 (43)
Sex with an injecting drug user 23 138
Sex with a bisexual male 6 41
Sex with person with hemophilia 2 10
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 4
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 88 356
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 3 ( 1) 11 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified 168 (55) 605 (48)
Female subtotal 303 (100) 1,264
(100)
Total3 537 2,628
20-24 years old
July 1994- Cumulative
June 1995 total
Female exposure category No. (%) No. (%)
Injecting drug use 83 (12) 436 (15)
Hemophilia/coagulation disorder - - 1 ( 0)
Heterosexual contact: 209 (30) 1,158 (39)
Sex with an injecting drug user 50 349
Sex with a bisexual male 22 128
Sex with person with hemophilia 7 26
Sex with transfusion recipient
with HIV infection 2 11
Sex with HIV-infected person,
risk not specified 128 644
Receipt of blood transfusion,
blood components, or tissue 6 ( 1) 28 ( 1)
Risk not reported or identified 403 (57) 1,337 (45)
Female subtotal 701 (100) 2,960 (100)
Total3 2,070 10,940
1See Table 16 for states with confidential HIV infection reporting.
2For HIV infection cases (not AIDS), "risk not reported or
identified" refers primarily to persons whose mode of exposure was
not reported and who have not been followed up to determine their
mode of exposure, and to a smaller number of persons who are not
reported with one of the exposures listed above after follow-up.
See Technical Notes.
3Includes 4 persons whose sex is unknown.
Table 21. HIV infection cases (not AIDS), by sex, age at diagnosis,
and race/ethnicity, reported through June 1995, from states with
confidential HIV infection reporting1.
White, not Black, not
Male Hispanic Hispanic Hispanic
Age at diagnosis
(years) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Under 5 116 ( 0) 321 ( 1) 63 ( 2)
5-12 74 ( 0) 59 ( 0) 19 ( 1)
13-19 558 ( 2) 712 ( 3) 51 ( 2)
20-24 3,744 (15) 3,546 (14) 415 (13)
25-29 6,579 (26) 5,477 (21) 833 (25)
30-34 6,041 (24) 5,703 (22) 813 (24)
35-39 3,975 (16) 4,759 (19) 571 (17)
40-44 2,199 ( 9) 2,831 (11) 322 (10)
45-49 1,100 ( 4) 1,180 ( 5) 137 ( 4)
50-54 546 ( 2) 607 ( 2) 46 ( 1)
55-59 239 ( 1) 254 ( 1) 21 ( 1)
60-64 131 ( 1) 133 ( 1) 17 ( 1)
65 or older 116 ( 0) 123 ( 0) 11 ( 0)
Male subtotal 25,418 (100) 25,705 (100) 3,319 (100)
Asian/Pacific American Indian/
Male Islander Alaska Native Total2
Age at diagnosis
(years) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Under 5 2 ( 1) 3 ( 1) 511 ( 1)
5-12 - - 2 ( 1) 161 ( 0)
13-19 4 ( 3) 8 ( 3) 1,363 ( 2)
20-24 26 (17) 59 (19) 7,977 (14)
25-29 41 (28) 95 (30) 13,353 (24)
30-34 31 (21) 69 (22) 12,998 (23)
35-39 18 (12) 40 (13) 9,607 (17)
40-44 14 ( 9) 22 ( 7) 5,521 (10)
45-49 7 ( 5) 8 ( 3) 2,516 ( 4)
50-54 3 ( 2) 5 ( 2) 1,243 ( 2)
55-59 2 ( 1) 2 ( 1) 532 ( 1)
60-64 - - 1 ( 0) 287 ( 1)
65 or older 1 ( 1) - - 266 ( 0)
Male subtotal 149 (100) 314 (100) 56,335 (100)
White, not Black, not
Female Hispanic Hispanic Hispanic
Age at diagnosis
(years) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Under 5 115 ( 3) 291 ( 3) 65 ( 6)
5-12 21 ( 0) 51 ( 0) 16 ( 1)
13-19 252 ( 6) 930 ( 8) 52 ( 5)
20-24 816 (19) 1,924 (17) 149 (14)
25-29 1,047 (24) 2,462 (22) 271 (25)
30-34 931 (21) 2,406 (21) 255 (24)
35-39 590 (14) 1,678 (15) 122 (11)
40-44 264 ( 6) 883 ( 8) 80 ( 7)
45-49 158 ( 4) 332 ( 3) 35 ( 3)
50-54 53 ( 1) 148 ( 1) 15 ( 1)
55-59 45 ( 1) 100 ( 1) 13 ( 1)
60-64 22 ( 1) 50 ( 0) 5 ( 0)
65 or older 51 ( 1) 60 ( 1) 1 ( 0)
Female subtotal 4,365 (100) 11,315 (100) 1,079 (100)
Total3 29,784 37,022 4,398
Asian/Pacific American Indian/
Female Islander Alaska Native Total2
Age at diagnosis
(years) No. (%) No. (%) No. (%)
Under 5 2 ( 4) 6 ( 6) 491 ( 3)
5-12 1 ( 2) 1 ( 1) 93 ( 1)
13-19 1 ( 2) 10 ( 9) 1,264 ( 7)
20-24 10 (22) 19 (18) 2,960 (17)
25-29 16 (35) 18 (17) 3,888 (23)
30-34 9 (20) 20 (19) 3,689 (21)
35-39 1 ( 2) 22 (20) 2,452 (14)
40-44 3 ( 7) 9 ( 8) 1,264 ( 7)
45-49 2 ( 4) 2 ( 2) 546 ( 3)
50-54 1 ( 2) 1 ( 1) 222 ( 1)
55-59 - - - - 160 ( 1)
60-64 - - - - 79 ( 0)
65 or older - - - - 118 ( 1)
Female subtotal 46 (100) 108 (100) 17,226 (100)
Total3 195 423 73,577
1See Table 16 for states with confidential HIV infection reporting.
2Includes 1,430 males and 313 females whose race/ethnicity is
unknown.
3Includes 16 persons whose sex is unknown.Table 22. Persons reported to be living with HIV infection (not
AIDS) and with AIDS, by state and age group, reported through June
19951.
State of residence Living with HIV (not AIDS)2
(Date HIV reporting Adults/ Children
initiated) adolescents <13 years Total
old
Alabama (Jan. 1988) 3,673 31 3,704
Alaska - - -
Arizona (Jan. 1987) 2,768 25 2,793
Arkansas (July 1989) 1,279 20 1,299
California - - -
Colorado (Nov. 1985) 5,107 26 5,133
Connecticut (July 1992)4 - 86 86
Delaware - - -
District of Columbia - - -
Florida - - -
Georgia - - -
Hawaii - - -
Idaho (June 1986) 275 3 278
Illinois - - -
Indiana (July 1988) 2,475 22 2,497
Iowa - - -
Kansas - - -
Kentucky - - -
Louisiana (Feb. 1993) 3,585 40 3,625
Maine - - -
Maryland - - -
Massachusetts - - -
Michigan (April 1992) 2,382 62 2,444
Minnesota (Oct. 1985) 1,985 20 2,005
Mississippi (Aug. 1988) 2,820 35 2,855
Missouri (Oct. 1987) 3,203 36 3,239
Montana - - -
Nebraska - - -
Nevada (Feb. 1992) 1,849 19 1,868
New Hampshire - - -
New Jersey (Jan. 1992) 9,224 295 9,519
New Mexico - - -
New York - - -
North Carolina (Feb. 1990) 5,374 45 5,419
North Dakota (Jan. 1988) 52 - 52
Ohio (June 1990) 1,911 13 1,924
Oklahoma (June 1988) 1,493 9 1,502
Oregon - - -
Pennsylvania - - -
Rhode Island - - -
South Carolina (Feb. 1986) 5,189 71 5,260
South Dakota (Jan. 1988) 132 5 137
Tennessee (Jan. 1992) 2,918 37 2,955
Texas (Feb. 1994)4 - 181 181
Utah (April 1989) 760 5 765
Vermont - - -
Virginia (July 1989) 5,453 55 5,508
Washington - - -
West Virginia (Jan. 1989) 331 2 333
Wisconsin (Nov. 1985) 1,752 22 1,774
Wyoming (June 1989) 56 - 56
Subtotal 66,046 1,165 67,211
Guam - - -
Pacific Islands, U.S. - - -
Puerto Rico - - -
Virgin Islands, U.S. - - -
Total 66,046 1,165 67,211
State of residence Living with AIDS3
(Date HIV reporting Adults/ Children
initiated) adolescents <13 years Total
old
Alabama (Jan. 1988) 1,431 18 1,449
Alaska 140 1 141
Arizona (Jan. 1987) 1,343 8 1,351
Arkansas (July 1989) 849 15 864
California 28,622 169 28,791
Colorado (Nov. 1985) 2,010 8 2,018
Connecticut (July 1992)4 3,016 75 3,091
Delaware 585 4 589
District of Columbia 3,086 62 3,148
Florida 19,202 495 19,697
Georgia 5,688 71 5,759
Hawaii 583 4 587
Idaho (June 1986) 120 - 120
Illinois 5,805 86 5,891
Indiana (July 1988) 1,477 14 1,491
Iowa 345 4 349
Kansas 569 3 572
Kentucky 578 8 586
Louisiana (Feb. 1993) 2,820 45 2,865
Maine 308 5 313
Maryland 4,889 131 5,020
Massachusetts 3,623 63 3,686
Michigan (April 1992) 2,706 28 2,734
Minnesota (Oct. 1985) 1,022 11 1,033
Mississippi (Aug. 1988) 882 19 901
Missouri (Oct. 1987) 2,580 15 2,595
Montana 63 1 64
Nebraska 247 3 250
Nevada (Feb. 1992) 996 11 1,007
New Hampshire 273 3 276
New Jersey (Jan. 1992) 9,102 242 9,344
New Mexico 466 2 468
New York 26,240 671 26,911
North Carolina (Feb. 1990) 2,363 42 2,405
North Dakota (Jan. 1988) 26 - 26
Ohio (June 1990) 2,496 30 2,526
Oklahoma (June 1988) 946 5 951
Oregon 1,260 4 1,264
Pennsylvania 5,725 115 5,840
Rhode Island 575 5 580
South Carolina (Feb. 1986) 2,248 23 2,271
South Dakota (Jan. 1988) 36 2 38
Tennessee (Jan. 1992) 2,044 14 2,058
Texas (Feb. 1994)4 13,174 129 13,303
Utah (April 1989) 458 6 464
Vermont 102 1 103
Virginia (July 1989) 2,623 70 2,693
Washington 2,618 11 2,629
West Virginia (Jan. 1989) 208 2 210
Wisconsin (Nov. 1985) 1,024 9 1,033
Wyoming (June 1989) 46 - 46
Subtotal 169,638 2,763 172,401
Guam 4 - 4
Pacific Islands, U.S. - - -
Puerto Rico 5,851 153 6,004
Virgin Islands, U.S. 134 7 141
Total 175,627 2,923 178,550
State of residence Cumulative totals
(Date HIV reporting Adults/ Children
initiated) adolescents <13 years Total
old
Alabama (Jan. 1988) 5,104 49 5,153
Alaska 140 1 141
Arizona (Jan. 1987) 4,111 33 4,144
Arkansas (July 1989) 2,128 35 2,163
California 28,622 169 28,791
Colorado (Nov. 1985) 7,117 34 7,151
Connecticut (July 1992)4 3,016 161 3,177
Delaware 585 4 589
District of Columbia 3,086 62 3,148
Florida 19,202 495 19,697
Georgia 5,688 71 5,759
Hawaii 583 4 587
Idaho (June 1986) 395 3 398
Illinois 5,805 86 5,891
Indiana (July 1988) 3,952 36 3,988
Iowa 345 4 349
Kansas 569 3 572
Kentucky 578 8 586
Louisiana (Feb. 1993) 6,405 85 6,490
Maine 308 5 313
Maryland 4,889 131 5,020
Massachusetts 3,623 63 3,686
Michigan (April 1992) 5,088 90 5,178
Minnesota (Oct. 1985) 3,007 31 3,038
Mississippi (Aug. 1988) 3,702 54 3,756
Missouri (Oct. 1987) 5,783 51 5,834
Montana 63 1 64
Nebraska 247 3 250
Nevada (Feb. 1992) 2,845 30 2,875
New Hampshire 273 3 276
New Jersey (Jan. 1992) 18,326 537 18,863
New Mexico 466 2 468
New York 26,240 671 26,911
North Carolina (Feb. 1990) 7,737 87 7,824
North Dakota (Jan. 1988) 78 - 78
Ohio (June 1990) 4,407 43 4,450
Oklahoma (June 1988) 2,439 14 2,453
Oregon 1,260 4 1,264
Pennsylvania 5,725 115 5,840
Rhode Island 575 5 580
South Carolina (Feb. 1986) 7,437 94 7,531
South Dakota (Jan. 1988) 168 7 175
Tennessee (Jan. 1992) 4,962 51 5,013
Texas (Feb. 1994)4 13,174 310 13,484
Utah (April 1989) 1,218 11 1,229
Vermont 102 1 103
Virginia (July 1989) 8,076 125 8,201
Washington 2,618 11 2,629
West Virginia (Jan. 1989) 539 4 543
Wisconsin (Nov. 1985) 2,776 31 2,807
Wyoming (June 1989) 102 - 102
Subtotal 235,684 3,928 239,612
Guam 4 - 4
Pacific Islands, U.S. - - -
Puerto Rico 5,851 153 6,004
Virgin Islands, U.S. 134 7 141
Totals 241,673 4,088 245,761
1Persons reported with vital status "alive" as of the last update.
2Includes only persons reported from states with confidential HIV
reporting. Excludes 1,553 adults/adolescents and 26 children
reported from states with confidential HIV infection reporting
whose state of residence is unknown or are residents of other
states.
3Includes 225 adults/adolescents and 2 children whose state of
residence is unknown.
4Connecticut and Texas have confidential HIV infection reporting
for pediatric cases only.
Technical notes
Surveillance of AIDS
All 50 states, the District of Columbia, U.S. dependencies and
possessions, and independent nations in free association with the
United States1 report AIDS cases to CDC using a uniform
surveillance case definition and case report form. The original
definition was modified in 1985 (MMWR 1985;34:373-75) and 1987
(MMWR 1987;36[suppl no. 1S]:1S-15S). The case definition for adults
and adolescents was modified again in 1993 (MMWR 1992;41[no.
RR-17]:1-19; see also MMWR 1995;44:160-61,64-7). The revisions
incorporated a broader range of AIDS-indicator diseases and
conditions and used HIV diagnostic tests to improve the sensitivity
and specificity of the definition. The laboratory and diagnostic
criteria for the 1987 pediatric case definition (MMWR
1987;36:225-30,235) were updated in 1994 (MMWR 1994;43[no.
RR-12]:1-19).
For persons with laboratory-confirmed HIV infection, the 1987
revision incorporated HIV encephalopathy, wasting syndrome, and
other indicator diseases that are diagnosed presumptively (i.e.,
without confirmatory laboratory evidence of the opportunistic
disease). In addition to the 23 clinical conditions in the 1987
definition, the 1993 case definition for adults and adolescents
includes HIV-infected persons with CD4+ T-lymphocyte counts of less
than 200 cells/uL or a CD4+ percentage of less than 14, and persons
diagnosed with pulmonary tuberculosis, recurrent pneumonia, and
invasive cervical cancer. All conditions added to the 1993
definition require laboratory confirmation of HIV infection.
Persons who meet the criteria for more than one definition category
are classified hierarchically in the following order: pre-1987,
1987, and 1993. Persons in the 1993 definition category meet only
the 1993 definition.
The pediatric case definition incorporates the revised 1994
pediatric classification system for evidence of HIV infection.
Children with their first positive results on Western blot or HIV
detection tests before October 1994 were categorized based on the
1987 classification system. Those tested during or after October
1994 are categorized under the revised 1994 pediatric
classification system. For children of any age with an
AIDS-defining condition that requires evidence of HIV infection, a
single positive HIV-detection test (i.e., HIV culture, HIV PCR, or
HIV antigen [p24]) is sufficient for a reportable AIDS diagnosis if
the diagnosis is confirmed by a clinician. The 1994 pediatric
definitions for HIV encephalopathy and HIV wasting syndrome reflect
increased knowledge of these conditions in children, and replace
the 1987 definitions.
Although completeness of reporting of diagnosed AIDS cases to
state and local health departments varies by geographic region and
patient population, studies conducted by state and local health
departments indicate that reporting of AIDS cases in most areas of
the United States is more than 85 percent complete (J Acquir Immune
Def Syndr, 1992;5:257-64 and Am J Public Health 1992;82:1495-99).
In addition, multiple routes of exposure, opportunistic diseases
diagnosed after the initial AIDS case report was submitted to CDC,
and vital status may not be determined or reported for all cases.
Included in this report are persons known to be infected with
human immunodeficiency virus type 2 (HIV-2). See MMWR
1995;44:603-06.
Surveillance of HIV infection (not AIDS)
Through December 31, 1994, 25 states had laws or regulations
requiring confidential reporting by name of all persons with
confirmed HIV infection, in addition to reporting of persons with
AIDS. Two other states, Connecticut and Texas, required reporting
by name of HIV infection only for children less than 13 years of
age. These states initiated reporting at various times after the
development of serum HIV-antibody tests in 1985. Before 1991,
surveillance of HIV infection was not standardized and reporting of
HIV infections was based primarily on passive surveillance.
Consequently, many cases reported before 1991 do not have complete
information. Since then, CDC has assisted states in conducting
active surveillance of HIV infection using standardized report
forms and software. However, collection of demographic and risk
information still varies greatly among states.
HIV infection data should be interpreted with caution. HIV
surveillance reports are not representative of all persons with HIV
infection. Because many HIV-reporting states also offer anonymous
HIV testing, confidential HIV infection reports are not
representative of all persons being tested in these areas.
Furthermore, many factors may influence testing patterns, including
the extent that testing is targeted or routinely offered to
specific groups and the availability and access to medical care and
testing services. These data provide a minimum estimate of the
number of persons known to be HIV infected in states with
confidential HIV infection reporting.
For this report, persons greater than 18 months of age were
considered HIV infected if they had at least one positive Western
blot or positive detection test (culture, antigen, or other
detection test) or had a diagnosis of HIV infection documented by
a physician. Before October 1994, children less than 15 months of
age were considered HIV infected if they met the definition stated
in the 1987 pediatric classification system for HIV infection (MMWR
1987;36:225-30,235). Beginning October 1994, children less than 18
months of age are considered HIV infected if they meet the
definition stated in the 1994 pediatric classification system for
HIV infection (MMWR 1994;43[no. RR-12]:1-10). This report also
includes children who were diagnosed as HIV infected by a
physician. Although many states monitor reports of children born to
infected mothers, only those with documented diagnosis of HIV
infection are included in this report.
Because states initiated reporting on different dates, the
length of time reporting has been in place will influence the
number of HIV infection cases reported. For example, data presented
for a given annual period may include cases reported during only a
portion of the year. Prior to statewide HIV reporting, some states
collected reports of HIV infection in selected populations.
Therefore, these states have reports prior to initiation of
statewide confidential reporting.
Over time, persons with HIV infection will be diagnosed and
reported with AIDS. HIV infection cases later reported with AIDS
are deleted from the HIV infection tables and added to the AIDS
tables. Persons with HIV infection may be tested at any point in
the clinical spectrum of disease, therefore the time between
diagnosis of HIV infection and AIDS will vary. In addition, because
surveillance practices differ, reporting and updating of clinical
and vital status of cases vary among states.
Included in this report are persons known to be infected with human
immunodeficiency virus type 2 (HIV-2). See MMWR 1995;44:603-06.
Tabulation and presentation of HIV infection and AIDS data
Data in this report are provisional. Each issue of this report
includes information received by CDC through the last day of the
reporting period. AIDS data are tabulated by date of report to CDC
unless otherwise noted. Data for U.S. dependencies and possessions
and for associated independent nations are included in the totals.
Age group tabulations are based on the person's age at first
documented positive HIV-antibody test result for HIV infection
cases, and age at diagnosis of AIDS for AIDS cases.
Adult/adolescent cases include persons 13 years of age and older;
pediatric cases include children under 13 years of age. Age group
tabulations for AIDS cases in Table 14 (year-end edition only) are
based on age at death.
Tabulations of persons living with HIV and AIDS (Table 22),
include persons whose vital status was �alive� as of the last
update; persons whose vital status is missing or unknown are not
included. Caution should be used in interpreting these data because
states vary in the frequency with which they review the vital
status of persons reported with HIV infection and AIDS. In
addition, some cases may be lost to follow-up.
Table 12 (year-end edition only) tabulates AIDS-indicator
conditions reported during the last year. These data are known to
under report AIDS-indicator conditions and should be interpreted
with caution. Reported conditions over represent initial
AIDS-indicator illness because follow-up for subsequent indicator
diseases is resource intensive and has not been systematic or
standardized in most health departments. The 1993 AIDS
surveillance case definition for adults and adolescents added
reporting of HIV-infected persons with severe HIV-related
immunosuppression (CD+ T-lymphocyte count of less than 200/uL or
less than 14 percent). Since implementation of the 1993 definition,
approximately half of all cases were reported based only on
immunologic criteria; consequently, reporting of AIDS cases based
on AIDS-defining opportunistic infections has decreased (see AIDS
1994;8:1489-93).
Table 2 lists AIDS case counts for each metropolitan area with
500,000 or more population. AIDS case counts for metropolitan areas
with 50,000 to 500,000 population are reported as a combined
subtotal. On December 31, 1992, the Office of Management and Budget
announced new Metropolitan Statistical Area (MSA) definitions,
which reflect changes in the U.S. population as determined by the
1990 census. These definitions were updated most recently on July
1, 1994. The cities and counties which compose each metropolitan
area listed in Table 2 are provided in the publication
�Metropolitan Areas as of June 30, 1995� (available by calling the
National Technical Information Service, 1-703-487-4650, and
ordering accession no. PB95-208880). Standards for defining central
and outlying counties of metropolitan areas were published in the
Federal Register (see FR 1990;55:12154-60).
The metropolitan areas definitions are the MSAs for all areas
except the 6 New England states. For these states, the New England
County Metropolitan Areas (NECMA) are used. Metropolitan areas are
named for a central city in the MSA or NECMA, may include several
cities and counties, and may cross state boundaries. For example,
AIDS cases and annual rates presented for the District of Columbia
in Table 1 include only persons residing within the geographic
boundaries of the District. AIDS cases and annual rates for
Washington, D.C., in Table 2 include persons residing within the
several counties in the metropolitan area, including counties in
Maryland, Virginia, and West Virginia. State or metropolitan area
data tabulations are based on the person's residence at first
positive HIV-antibody test result for HIV infection cases and
residence at diagnosis of the first AIDS-indicator condition(s) for
AIDS cases.
Estimated AIDS-opportunistic illness
In 1993, the AIDS surveillance case definition was expanded to
include a laboratory measure of severe immunosuppression (CD4+
T-lymphocyte count of less than 200 cells/uL or a percent of total
lymphocytes less than 14) and three additional clinical conditions
(pulmonary tuberculosis, recurrent pneumonia, and invasive cervical
cancer). Before 1993, the surveillance definition included only
opportunistic illnesses, and trends in the incidence of AIDS were
evaluated by examining the number of AIDS opportunistic illnesses
(AIDS-OIs) diagnosed per year or quarter (adjusted for reporting
delays). Because most HIV-infected persons become severely
immunosuppressed before the onset of AIDS-OIs, the addition of the
CD4+ criteria has temporarily distorted observed trends in AIDS
incidence. To examine trends over time, an additional adjustment is
required to estimate when an AIDS-OI will develop in persons who
were reported based on the CD4+ criteria. CDC has developed a
procedure to estimate the incidence of AIDS-OIs among persons
reported with AIDS based on the CD4+ criteria. Estimates of trends
in AIDS-OIs are displayed in Tables 13, 14, and 15.
The estimated AIDS-OI incidence is the sum of incidence in two
groups. The first group is persons reported to AIDS surveillance
with AIDS-OIs. Incidence in this group is estimated by adjusting
reported cases for delays in case reporting.
The second group is persons reported with AIDS based on a CD4+
count or percent. Most of these persons will eventually have an
AIDS-OI diagnosed. CDC has estimated the number of persons who had
or will have an AIDS-OI diagnosed after the date of the reported
CD4+ count or percent, by month of AIDS-OI diagnosis. To do this,
CDC used data from the Adult Spectrum of Disease Project (see JAMA
1992;267:1798-1805) to estimate the probability distribution of the
time interval between a CD4+ count in a particular range (e.g., 0
to 29 cells/uL, 30 to 59 cells/uL, etc.) and the diagnosis of an
AIDS-OI. This probability distribution is the proportion of persons
with a CD4+ count in a given range who will have an AIDS-OI
diagnosed 1 month, 2 months, etc., after the reported CD4+ count.
The expected number of persons with an AIDS-OI diagnosed in each
later month among persons whose CD4+ count was in a particular
range during a given month is the product of the number of these
persons and the proportion expected to have an AIDS-OI diagnosed in
this later month. The estimate of the number of AIDS-OI diagnoses
in a particular month among persons reported with AIDS based on the
CD4+ criteria is the sum, over all combinations of CD4+ ranges and
previous months, of the number of persons expected to be diagnosed
with an AIDS-OI in the month for which the estimate is made.
There is uncertainty in these estimates of AIDS-OI incidence.
Some uncertainty is the result of the need to adjust for delays in
reporting of AIDS cases. There is additional uncertainty because
some persons reported with AIDS based on the CD4+ criteria die
before an AIDS-OI is diagnosed and hence should not contribute to
the AIDS-OI incidence estimate. Other persons reported with AIDS
based on the CD4+ criteria have an unreported AIDS-OI diagnosis by
the date of the CD4+ determination; the estimation procedure counts
their contribution to AIDS-OI incidence later than it should.
However, preliminary analyses show that these two sources of bias
change estimated AIDS-OI incidence by only a few percentage points.
Reporting delays were estimated by a maximum likelihood
statistical procedure, taking into account possible differences in
reporting delays among exposure, geographic, racial/ethnic, age,
and sex categories, but assuming that reporting delays within these
groups have not changed over time (see Lecture Notes in
Biomathematics 1989;83:58-88).
The regions of residence included in Table 13 are defined as
follows. Northeast: Connecticut, Maine, Massachusetts, New
Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, and
Vermont; Midwest: Indiana, Illinois, Iowa, Kansas, Michigan,
Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, North Dakota, Ohio, South Dakota,
and Wisconsin; South: Alabama, Arkansas, Delaware, District of
Columbia, Florida, Georgia, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland,
Mississippi, North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Tennessee,
Texas, Virginia, and West Virginia; West: Alaska, Arizona,
California, Colorado, Idaho, Hawaii, Montana, Nevada, New Mexico,
Oregon, Utah, Washington, and Wyoming; Territories: Guam, Puerto
Rico, the U.S. Virgin Islands, and the U.S. Pacific Islands listed
on page 30.
Exposure categories
For surveillance purposes, HIV infection cases and AIDS cases
are counted only once in a hierarchy of exposure categories.
Persons with more than one reported mode of exposure to HIV are
classified in the exposure category listed first in the hierarchy,
except for men with both a history of sexual contact with other men
and injecting drug use. They make up a separate exposure category.
"Men who have sex with men" cases include men who report sexual
contact with other men (i.e., homosexual contact) and men who
report sexual contact with both men and women (i.e., bisexual
contact). �Heterosexual contact� cases are in persons who report
specific heterosexual contact with a person with, or at increased
risk for, HIV infection (e.g., an injecting drug user).
Adults/adolescents born, or who had sex with someone born, in
a country where heterosexual transmission was believed to be the
predominant mode of HIV transmission (formerly classified as
Pattern-II countries by the World Health Organization) are no
longer classified as having heterosexually acquired AIDS. Similar
to case reports for other persons who are reported without
behavioral or transfusion risks for HIV, these reports are now
classified (in the absence of other risk information which would
classify them into another exposure category) as "no risk reported
or identified" (see MMWR 1994;43:155-60). Children whose mother was
born, or whose mother had sex with someone born, in a Pattern-II
country are now classified (in the absence of other risk
information which would classify them into another exposure
category) as "Mother with/at risk for HIV infection: has HIV
infection, risk not specified."
"No risk reported or identified" cases are in persons with no
reported history of exposure to HIV through any of the routes
listed in the hierarchy of exposure categories. Risk not identified
cases include persons who are currently under investigation by
local health department officials; persons whose exposure history
is incomplete because they died, declined to be interviewed, or
were lost to follow-up; and persons who were interviewed or for
whom other follow-up information was available and no exposure mode
was identified. Persons who have an exposure mode identified at the
time of follow-up are reclassified into the appropriate exposure
category. In general, investigations and follow up for modes of
exposure by state health departments are conducted routinely for
persons reported with AIDS and as resources allow for those
reported with HIV infection. Therefore, the percentage of HIV
infected persons with risk not reported or identified is
substantially higher than for those reported with AIDS. As
HIV-infected persons with risk not reported or identified are
diagnosed and reported with AIDS, they are assigned higher priority
for follow up to determine the mode(s) of exposure.
Rates
Rates are calculated on a 12-month basis per 100,000
population for AIDS cases only. Rates are not calculated for HIV
infection reports because case counts for HIV infection are
believed to be less complete than AIDS case counts. Population
denominators for computing AIDS rates for the 50 states and the
District of Columbia are based on official post-census estimates
from the U.S. Bureau of Census. Denominators for U.S. dependencies
and possessions are linear extrapolations of official 1980 and 1990
census counts. Each 12-month rate is the number of cases reported
during the 12-month period, divided by the 1994 or 1995 population,
multiplied by 100,000. The denominators for computing race-specific
rates (Table 10, year-end edition only) are based on 1990 census
projections published in U.S. Bureau of Census publication
P25-1104, "Population Projections of the United States, by Age,
Sex, Race, and Hispanic Origin: 1993 to 2050." Race-specific rates
are the number of cases reported for a particular racial/ethnic
group during the preceding 12-month period divided by the projected
population for that race/ethnicity, multiplied by 100,000.
Case-fatality rates are calculated for each half-year by date
of diagnosis of AIDS. Each 6-month case-fatality rate is the number
of deaths ever reported among cases diagnosed in that period
(regardless of the year of death), divided by the number of total
cases diagnosed in that period, multiplied by 100. Reported deaths
are not necessarily caused by HIV-related disease. Caution should
be used in interpreting case-fatality rates because reporting of
deaths is incomplete (see Am J Public Health 1992;82:1500-05 and Am
J Public Health 1990;80:1080-86).
Reporting delays
Reporting delays (time between diagnosis of HIV infection or
AIDS and report to CDC) vary widely among exposure, geographic,
racial/ethnic, age and sex categories, and have been as long as
several years for some AIDS cases. About 50 percent of all AIDS
cases were reported to CDC within 3 months of diagnosis, with about
20 percent being reported more than one year after diagnosis.
Reporting delay for HIV infection cases is being evaluated.
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323.1963 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:25 | 119 |
| re: .1954
> No, you have not. All you HAVE done is make a general statement
> that you claim represents your view. This claim is demonstrably
> false.
This is too generic to be of use to me. Perhaps you could humor me and
repost your questions. I don't have the time nor inclination of going
back and re-reading this entire string.
> An answer to my question regarding Gay sex acts would be a start.
And that question was? <prod prod>
>> I was referring to notable widespread discrimination of the sort we are
>> discussing...but you knew that.
> You said it had to be the same. Are you now saying that it does not
> need to be the same?
This is disengenuous, Jim. If there was any doubt as to what I was
referring to before, my statement above should have cleared it up.
> The level of hate crimes against Gays is certainly higher now
> than it was 20 years ago, how can you say we are not headed in
> this direction?
Seems to me that over the last couple years, hate crimes have been
going down. Someone even posted statistics a while back to this
effect. Perhaps you have other statistics that will back up your
assertion that things are still getting worse?
> Maybe this is where the confusion lies. People are not actually
> covered in the CRA, charachteristics are.
Right. Characteristics that society deems worthy of protection. I
think you are right- this is where the confusion lies in our
communication. Society is not yet convinced that "sexual orientation"
meets this criteria, in and of itself, just yet (and neither am I).
> Why is it silly, when that very charachteristic is used by others
> as an excuse to discriminate?
People use all manner of characteristics when discriminating against
others. Are you for adding "obesity" and "homliness" to the CRA, as
well? How about alcoholism?
> If it wasn't for the fact that you
> and others like you support discrimination on the basis of sexual
> orientation we wouldn't even be having this discussion.
Fact? As far as what we are discussing here, I do not personally support
discrimination- nor do I support your solution. Quit trying to put me
into a box or your own creation.
Why do some people discriminate against certain "sexual orientations"
to begin with? Is all discrimination bad?
> It is obvious that you are ignorant of the purpose of the CRA.
> The Constitution protects religion from the government. The
> CRA extends that principle of protection to employers, lanlords
> and businesses.
But such discrimination was never a problem, so I still wonder why it
was added. In any case, society supported such an addition, as
religion is deemed worthy of such protections. You still haven't
provided any convincing argument that "sexual orientation" is worthy of
being added to the list.
> Would you consider Santa Ria "normal"?
This is called a deflection. You are avoiding the question.
> What is of value is the basic principle of equality. When that principle
> is violated we all suffer.
Nice speech, but your "equality" argument holds no water. I won't
bother going through the explanation of why I believe this, as you will
only ignore it once more.
> Again, your ignorance of the law is showing. AA was implemented
> via Executive Order, the CRA was Federal Legislation passed by
> the Congress. LBJ could have very easily implememented AA with,
> or without, the CRA.
Without the CRA, would there have been an executive order to implement
AA? I think not.
>> This is where you are mistaken. It does not have to be of a certain
>> size to take action. Howver, in order for legislation to be a feasable
>> response, there should be obvious, wide-spread problems, IMO.
> Those two sentences are contradictory. More hypocrisy.
Only because you equate legislation with action. I do not. There are
other ways to combat problems outside of legislation, but you know that
already. You simply refuse to look at anything else as a viable
alternative. You refuse to see the other issues involved, as well.
Such binary thinking is unbecoming of you, Jim.
> No. One of us has propsed a solution, one of us has not.
You lie. I have promoted pushing for "sexual orientation" to be added
to corporations' non-discrimination policies.
> All that is needed for evil to flourish is that good men fail to
> speak out. You want to just turn a blind eye to the problem. Ignore
> it and tell those that suffer, "too bad". A person that truly
> believes in the principle of equal treatment would fight to see
> those injustices rectified.
Nice speech; but again, I have made suggestions. You simply
see anything short of adding "sexual orientation" to the CRA as
"doing nothing".
-steve
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323.1964 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Thu Dec 07 1995 11:58 | 10 |
| >just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
They won't, nor should they have too. Teaching children the reality of
sexuality, that everyone is differant, that there are heterosexuals,
homosexuals and nonsexuals, and that each person needs to decide for
themselves what is best for their own individual lives, is what is
right. Children being taught acceptance of individuals and the travesty
and immorality of bigotry will result in a peaceful, cooperative
and successful world. I find my homosexual friends to be the least
bigoted of all my friends.
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323.1965 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 12:00 | 71 |
| <<< Note 323.1963 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> This is too generic to be of use to me.
Awfully short attenttion span you got there.
>> An answer to my question regarding Gay sex acts would be a start.
> And that question was? <prod prod>
OK, for the 4th time. How many Gay sex acts have you personally
witnessed?
> Right. Characteristics that society deems worthy of protection.
I don't agree. The actual wording of the Act makes it clear
that the discrimination based on a charachteristic is what
is being addressed. It is not an endorsement of the charachteristic,
it is the prohibition of discrimination based on the charachteristic
that is addressed.
> People use all manner of characteristics when discriminating against
> others.
Right now we are addressing the issue of discrimination against
Gays. If you like, we can start another note to discuss other forms
of discrimination.
> Fact? As far as what we are discussing here, I do not personally support
> discrimination-
So you say. Ever hear "Actions speak louder that words"?
> But such discrimination was never a problem,
Never?
>> Would you consider Santa Ria "normal"?
> This is called a deflection. You are avoiding the question.
Good one Steve. Accuse me of deflection by deflecting.
> Nice speech, but your "equality" argument holds no water.
Not to you obviously. Too bad that you do not agree with the
basic principles upon which this nation exists.
> Without the CRA, would there have been an executive order to implement
> AA? I think not.
You can "what if" all you like. The fact is that AA in not dependant
on the CRA for its existence.
>You simply refuse to look at anything else as a viable
> alternative.
No one had offered a viable solution that adresses the correction
of the problem as well as would the CRA.
> You refuse to see the other issues involved, as well.
What "other issues" Steve? (prod, prod)
> You lie. I have promoted pushing for "sexual orientation" to be added
> to corporations' non-discrimination policies.
Which addresses precisely one third of the problem and ineffectively
at that.
Jim
|
323.1966 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Thu Dec 07 1995 12:44 | 20 |
|
re:.1949
> The INCLUSIVELY lists a group of charachteristics. When it lists
> Race, it means ALL races. When it lists Gender, it applies to BOTH
> men and women. When it lists National Origin, it includes ALL
> countries.
>
> How in the world can this be construed as devisive?
The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose
it, is that it itemizes categories/classes of people.
Because these distinctions have been itemized, people see themselves
and others in these terms, tend to associate themselves with a particular
group, and opposed to other groups. This makes it more difficult to
see past the distinctions. This leads to internal strife within the
nation.
This is why I'm opposed to the CRA. IMNHO, YMMV, etc...
|
323.1967 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 13:23 | 21 |
| <<< Note 323.1966 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose
> it, is that it itemizes categories/classes of people.
> Because these distinctions have been itemized, people see themselves
> and others in these terms, tend to associate themselves with a particular
> group, and opposed to other groups. This makes it more difficult to
> see past the distinctions. This leads to internal strife within the
> nation.
Dan, I'm still having a problem with your logic.
The CRA denotes "gender" as an example. Now EVERYONE has a "gender".
You are either "male" or "female". The CRA does not distinguish
between these two options. All it says is that "gender" is not
an acceptable reason for discrimination. There is no distinction
that one gender is better than the other. Both are declared to
be equal. How does this lead to internal strife?
Jim
|
323.1968 | | GMASEC::KELLY | | Thu Dec 07 1995 13:42 | 5 |
| Dan-
So, are you trying to tell us, oh, for instance, black people didn't
know that they were part of a group and they didn't see themselves as
being part of a group until the CRA came along?
|
323.1969 | More research into HHV-VI is needed, though. | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Thu Dec 07 1995 13:48 | 13 |
| Speaking of AIDS...
Did anyone else hear the report about how some researchers believe
that it's a second virus (HHV-VI, or Human Herpes Virus #6) which
actually attacks the body after HIV has harmed the immune system?
This was on ABC's evening news yesterday, but not CNN (so I just
heard it once.) They were saying something about how the HHV virus
is treatable, I think - so that if AIDS patients were treated for
the second virus, it would make a huge difference in the patient's
prognosis.
Did anyone else hear about this?
|
323.1970 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Thu Dec 07 1995 13:56 | 49 |
|
re:.1959
> Does this help, Dan?
I'm not sure. My concern is that children tend to emulate their
parents. How would the interaction between you and your mate effect
your child? Some het couples are "hangy" (sp?), and some are distant.
I assume that the same is true for gays. Children being the sponges
that they are tend to emulate their parents in their own life. Now if
a boy is "hangy" with his girl friend, no big wow. If he's "hangy"
with his guy friends, I don't know. If he's gay, no problem; but if
he's straight, how's he going to reconcile the differences between
himself and his friends, and his dads and their friends? For an older
child this probably isn't a problem, but a young one, I don't know.
Please help me with this...
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
re:.1964
> >just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
>
> They won't, nor should they have too.
Horse-pucky! Whether they intend to or not, they will influence their
child.
> Teaching children the reality of
> sexuality, that everyone is different, that there are heterosexuals,
> homosexuals and nonsexuals, and that each person needs to decide for
> themselves what is best for their own individual lives, is what is
> right.
We're talking about children here, not adults. OBTW you forgot
trans-sexuals (sp?), or is that a gender I forget.
> Children being taught acceptance of individuals and the travesty
> and immorality of bigotry will result in a peaceful, cooperative
> and successful world.
Maybe true, but not relevant to the discussion.
> I find my homosexual friends to be the least
> bigoted of all my friends.
Anecdotal evidence at best.
|
323.1971 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | pack light, keep low, move fast, reload often | Thu Dec 07 1995 13:59 | 6 |
| Tom Ralston! How dare you! How dare you bring reason and level
headedness into this, um, er, debate!? How dare you advocate
openmindedness and tolerance. Next thing you know you will be
suggesting we all get along. How unreasonable of you.
Brian
|
323.1972 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Thu Dec 07 1995 14:02 | 1 |
| i've heard tom is hangy, too.
|
323.1973 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Thu Dec 07 1995 14:02 | 26 |
|
re:.1967
> Dan, I'm still having a problem with your logic.
>
> The CRA denotes "gender" as an example. Now EVERYONE has a "gender".
> You are either "male" or "female". The CRA does not distinguish
> between these two options. All it says is that "gender" is not
> an acceptable reason for discrimination. There is no distinction
> that one gender is better than the other. Both are declared to
> be equal. How does this lead to internal strife?
People see themselves and others in these terms, tend to associate
themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other groups. This
makes it more difficult to see past the distinctions.
---------------------------------------------------------------------------
re:.1968
> So, are you trying to tell us, oh, for instance, black people didn't
> know that they were part of a group and they didn't see themselves as
> being part of a group until the CRA came along?
No, 'tine, of course not. The CRA is just making the situation worse.
|
323.1974 | | GMASEC::KELLY | | Thu Dec 07 1995 14:19 | 6 |
| Dan-
I don't understand your logic of how it makes it worse. Seems to me,
with regard to blacks in the states, it WAS a group of people who did
oppose them and this was one of the primary problems the CRA is
intended to correct.
|
323.1975 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 14:35 | 66 |
| | <<< Note 323.1970 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
| I'm not sure. My concern is that children tend to emulate their parents. How
| would the interaction between you and your mate effect your child?
I can assure you that my parents were straight.... but look how I
turned out. :-) I did go through the process of my "straight" years. But that
was due to the pressure that one is supposed to get married, etc. I believe
this is what does make some gay people stay straight for a while, but
eventually they come out. I also believe this has a lot to do with failed
marriages. People under pressure to marry to please their parents, and they end
up marrying the wrong person.
But I don't see that "pressure" being applied by gay parents. They went
through the crap, so it doesn't seem probable that they would apply the same
thing to their children.
You gotta understand that if a child were to just see the two guys
interact with each other, they just may emulate them. So lets go with that one
first. Is someone who is not gay going to remain gay because their parents hug
and kiss each other? I seriously doubt it. I know I didn't. And the whole time
I knew I wasn't straight, I just wasn't ready to deal with it. I don't think
there would be problems with a child err... coming out as a heterosexual. :-)
But you should remember that a child could be gay.
The other things involved are that a child is more likely to ask about
the relationship. Once it is explained, then the child will have a much better
understanding with it all.
Now the important part, where I said that the child would have to know
that regardless of what their sexual orientation is, they are loved, and it
doesn't matter.
Now you know as well as I do that not all male/male or female/female
couples are going to make good parents. Cuz not all male/female couples make
good parents. But if love is in the equation, if openess and dialogue is
happening, then I can't see the child treating anyone, regardless of
male/female, gay/straight, white/non-white, any different. Sexual orientation
does not play into it.
| if he's straight, how's he going to reconcile the differences between himself
| and his friends, and his dads and their friends?
Dan, you need to take sexual orientation out of the equation. You have
straight and gay friends. How do you handle it? If a child is brought up in a
way where people are people, then how much of a problem is there going to be?
The child could have white, black, asian friends. How will he deal with those
differences? The same way.
| Horse-pucky! Whether they intend to or not, they will influence their child.
Yes. And there is a good chance that a lot of the stuff the parents
went through as kids would not be present in this new childs life. I think you
find heterosexuals that do things differently, too.
| We're talking about children here, not adults.
Dan, children are taught to hate at a very young age. They can do that
quite well. They learn that from adults. So why can't the child learn about
everyone being the same, regardless of their sexual orientation, etc? Think
about it.
Glen
|
323.1976 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Thu Dec 07 1995 14:38 | 22 |
| Excuse me?
People ave always tended to "hang" with their own race, before and
after the CRA. I fail to see what difference the CRA has made in that
light, except that my neighborhood is much more integrated than it was
30 years ago, and I interact more with people who are different from me
because of it. I have gotten to know people of difference in my
workplace, schools, and neighborhood, largely because of the CRA and
rulings around it.
As far as two men or two women raising children and what the attitudes
of the kids might be toward people of the opposite sex, I can't see it
matters, any more than two people of opposite sex and their attitudes
regarding people of other genders. With very few exceptions kids are
not raised in a vacuum. They go to preschools, schools, are around
other people in a neighborhood, and most of my gay friends have friends
who are not gay and are around as well.
Isn't a loving two-parentfamily what so many think is the right thing
to have?
meg
|
323.1977 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Thu Dec 07 1995 16:20 | 28 |
| RE: .1971
I'm sorry Brian. I just won't learn. {slap, slap} :)
RE: .1970
>Horse-pucky! Whether they intend to or not, they will influence their
>child.
Absolutely, that influence will show their children that diversity,
respect and understanding of individual likes and dislikes is moral and
right.
>We're talking about children here, not adults. OBTW you forgot
>trans-sexuals (sp?), or is that a gender I forget.
Actually I was speaking of the teaching of children.
>Maybe true, but not relevant to the discussion.
For you maybe who, from your words in the BOX, seems to have adopted
homophobic bigotry as a way of life.
>Anecdotal evidence at best.
But evidence none the less.
|
323.1978 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Thu Dec 07 1995 16:25 | 6 |
|
<-------
So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
"homophobic bigot"????
|
323.1979 | To answer your question though, depends on your reasons | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Thu Dec 07 1995 16:31 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.1978 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
| So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
| "homophobic bigot"????
Andy, you need to add what was said earlier to the whole thing. From
note .1970:
> Children being taught acceptance of individuals and the travesty
> and immorality of bigotry will result in a peaceful, cooperative
> and successful world.
That's what Dan said was irrelavant, and why the homophobic way of life
was inserted.
Glen
|
323.1980 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Thu Dec 07 1995 16:47 | 5 |
| >So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
>"homophobic bigot"????
No
|
323.1981 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Thu Dec 07 1995 18:02 | 6 |
|
> So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
> "homophobic bigot"????
There you go!
|
323.1982 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Dec 07 1995 18:07 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.1978 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
> So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
> "homophobic bigot"????
By itself? No.
Jim
|
323.1983 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | runs with scissors | Thu Dec 07 1995 18:08 | 7 |
| I don't know about the rest of you, but I generally close my bedroom
door when Frank and I are indulging in "heterosexual behavior". While
it isn't the end of the world when kids walk in it isn't something I
care to demonstrate for them. They might "get repuled" and then where
would I be?
meg
|
323.1984 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Thu Dec 07 1995 18:10 | 8 |
|
> They might "get repuled" and then where
> would I be?
Looking up "repuled" in a dictionary?
|
323.1985 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Thu Dec 07 1995 18:11 | 18 |
|
> So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
> "homophobic bigot"????
No, but there seems to be little or no distinction sometimes
between "repulsed" and "obsessed". In my view most, if not
all, of those I have heard argue against homosexual rights
in this conference seem to be, and I feel in an altogether
unhealthy way, preoccupied with the actual sex acts. Let
me make it clear that this is opinion, but it is in fact
an opinion which I hold. I can't imagine for the life of me
why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice. If
I didn't know better, I would conclude that being a Christian
means that you have to care about that which you shouldn't.
But I know better...
-b
|
323.1986 | | SCASS1::EDITEX::MOORE | PerhapsTheDreamIsDreamingUs | Thu Dec 07 1995 18:16 | 8 |
| > They might "get repuled" and then where
> would I be?
On top ?
Couldn't resist.
;^)
|
323.1987 | | TINCUP::AGUE | http://www.usa.net/~ague | Thu Dec 07 1995 19:43 | 7 |
| Re: .1985
I hold exactly the same opinion that you do regarding a few that seem
to be not only repulsed but also obsessed. I think it has to do with a
"testimonial" way of life.
-- Jim
|
323.1988 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 08 1995 08:14 | 24 |
| <<< Note 323.1973 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> People see themselves and others in these terms, tend to associate
> themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other groups. This
> makes it more difficult to see past the distinctions.
Dan, You keep repeating this but offer no argument that it is, in
fact, true.
As Meg pointed out, the result of the CRA is that there is more
diversity in the workplace and in neighborhoods. Given this,
more people are exposed to those from other "groups" and
start interacting with them as individuals and not just members
of some other group. Now this doesn't work for everyone, but
it does for most.
In order for your theory to have even a small amount of validity
you would have to show that relations between the races, or between
men and women, or those amongst the various religions are worse
now than they were in 1964. I don't think you can do this. For
all the problems that we still have in these areas, we are light
years ahead of where we were 30 years ago.
Jim
|
323.1989 | Think-speak?? | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 08:50 | 6 |
|
Nice, subtle turn in the road there...
So, now it's "possible" for somebody who is repulsed by certain
behaviour, to actually be obsessed with it???
|
323.1990 | | 38099::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:14 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.1989 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
| So, now it's "possible" for somebody who is repulsed by certain
| behaviour, to actually be obsessed with it???
Yes. I think it depends on the "reasons" why, for one, and how often
they are talking about it. Take Jack, for a moment...please! :-) When he finds
out someone is gay, he defaults to the kind of sex they have. Why?
Glen
|
323.1991 | | 38099::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:14 | 3 |
|
Brian.... maybe they're all closet cases. :-)
|
323.1992 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:17 | 62 |
| re: .1965
> OK, for the 4th time. How many Gay sex acts have you personally
> witnessed?
You mean this non-sequitur is what you are talking about? I have
already shown this to be irrelevent to any point I have brough up, but
if you insist on knowing: none. But I'm sure you knew that already.
And you accuse me of bringing up irrelevencies.
> I don't agree. The actual wording of the Act makes it clear
> that the discrimination based on a charachteristic is what
> is being addressed. It is not an endorsement of the charachteristic,
> it is the prohibition of discrimination based on the charachteristic
> that is addressed.
I do see this as endorsement of said charicteristic. Not too many years
ago, blacks were viewed as inferior by some, which was rationalization
for discrimination. By creation of the CRA, society endorsed the idea of
equality amoung races. By adding sexual orientation to the list, society
is, in effect, endorsing other forms of sexual orientation- which goes
against its moral make-up (currently).
> Good one Steve. Accuse me of deflection by deflecting.
I thought it appropriate. Wasting words on a deflection
is only going to send this discussion off on tangents.
> Not to you obviously. Too bad that you do not agree with the
> basic principles upon which this nation exists.
Dig into your history, Jim. Tell me how our FF have condoned
homosexuality. Tell me how they considered it as something worthy to
protect in society. You are going out of a limb, here.
> You can "what if" all you like. The fact is that AA in not dependant
> on the CRA for its existence.
My "what if", as you call it, is accurate, though. Without the CRA,
there would be no AA. Whether one is dependant on the other is
irrelevent.
> No one had offered a viable solution that adresses the correction
> of the problem as well as would the CRA.
Which is quite different from the "either/or" you have been laying on
me. My solution may not be all-encompassing, but I think it better
overall, in the long run. This is not the same as "promoting
discrimination", as you have accused me of, simply because I do not
agree your solution is the best route for this nation.
> What "other issues" Steve? (prod, prod)
If you are really interested, I'll skim through my notes in this topic
and point you out to the pertinent ones that describe these other
issues. This note would be far too long if I tried to address them
in this post.
-steve
|
323.1993 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:30 | 45 |
| <<< Note 323.1992 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
> You mean this non-sequitur is what you are talking about? I have
> already shown this to be irrelevent to any point I have brough up, but
> if you insist on knowing: none. But I'm sure you knew that already.
> And you accuse me of bringing up irrelevencies.
It is highly relevant. The issue of what, if any types of sex
that Gays may enjoy is the true irrelevancy. But one that you
insist on bring up.
> I do see this as endorsement of said charicteristic. Not too many years
> ago, blacks were viewed as inferior by some, which was rationalization
> for discrimination. By creation of the CRA, society endorsed the idea of
> equality amoung races. By adding sexual orientation to the list, society
> is, in effect, endorsing other forms of sexual orientation- which goes
> against its moral make-up (currently).
So you are saying that Gays are inferior and that discriminating
against them is OK.
> Dig into your history, Jim. Tell me how our FF have condoned
> homosexuality. Tell me how they considered it as something worthy to
> protect in society. You are going out of a limb, here.
You might wnat to notice that I did not use the term founded. The
FFs did not believe in equality for all citizens. That concept took
decades to take hold.
> Which is quite different from the "either/or" you have been laying on
> me. My solution may not be all-encompassing, but I think it better
> overall, in the long run.
Your "solution" is a joke. It addresses nothing, it fixes nothing.
> If you are really interested, I'll skim through my notes in this topic
> and point you out to the pertinent ones that describe these other
> issues. This note would be far too long if I tried to address them
> in this post.
I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't interested Steve.
Jim
|
323.1994 | | BROKE::PVTPARTS | | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:38 | 8 |
|
| I can't imagine for the life of me
| why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
| people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice.
i can't either, but it doesn't mean it wouldn't be fun
speculating.
|
323.1995 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:46 | 2 |
| they probably wonder whether they're missing out on
anything.
|
323.1996 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:48 | 8 |
|
re: Andy
> So, now it's "possible" for somebody who is repulsed by certain
> behaviour, to actually be obsessed with it???
are you saying this is a revelation to you?
|
323.1997 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:54 | 5 |
|
>are you saying this is a revelation to you?
Yes... what's so damned hard to understand about that???
|
323.1998 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:56 | 56 |
| re: .1985
> ... there seems to be little or no distinction sometimes
> between "repulsed" and "obsessed". In my view most, if not
> all, of those I have heard argue against homosexual rights
> in this conference seem to be, and I feel in an altogether
> unhealthy way, preoccupied with the actual sex acts.
Well, this is a mistaken conclusion, if you are lumping me in with this
view (and no doubt you are, since I am most active in this string).
You see, I believe that the big obfuscation in this issue is the use of
"homosexual" before the word "rights". Defining oneself by one's
sexual attractions, is not a correct parameter in which we should define
a group of people.
What further confuses things, is the fact that homosexuality has been
long considered by most to be an unnatural attration, or a disorder of
sorts, by society. In addition, homosexual sex is regarded as immoral
by society, historically, due to the Christian herritage that our moral
make-up is based on (something that is being quickly turned around,
BTW).
It isn't an issue of rights at all, but an issue of having society
condone one's sexuality. Society has no legal responsibility to honor
any sexual orientation outside what it defines as proper.
> Let me make it clear that this is opinion, but it is in fact
> an opinion which I hold. I can't imagine for the life of me
> why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
> people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice. If
> I didn't know better, I would conclude that being a Christian
> means that you have to care about that which you shouldn't.
Normally, I wouldn't (nor do I think Joe or Jack or John would,
either), but the fact is, the gay movement is trying to change our
social structure to accept homosexual relations in the same light as normal
relations- by condoning gay marriage, redefining family, and promoting
same sex relations as moral. Though I don't think discrimination in
the work-place, housing or whathaveyou is a good thing, I cannot
support federal legislation that will enable these things to take
place. (which is why I suggested one non-legislative solution)
> But I know better...
Well, there is hope for you after all. 8^)
It isn't about "rights" or "equality" at all. I've been candid in my
explanation throughout this string, trying to explain why these terms
are obfuscations of the real issue. Using the same terminology applied
to "pedophile orientation", folks seem to pick up on this idea quickly;
but for some reason, they cannot see the parallel with the current
issue (and it has nothing to do with perceived victims, either).
-steve
|
323.1999 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 09:57 | 1 |
| andy, sometimes the flip side of repression is obsession.
|
323.2000 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:04 | 11 |
|
> Yes... what's so damned hard to understand about that???
er... my question exactly. you have never witnessed behavior
on someone's part that you'd classify as obsessive when they
were trying to combat something they apparently find repulsive?
this would surprise me, if it were the case. you've been
around, my dear. ;>
|
323.2001 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:06 | 34 |
| Z | I can't imagine for the life of me
Z | why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
Z | people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice.
We must have some real thick participants here. First of all, I didn't
bring it up. Secondly, go piss and moan at the people outside the
Whitehouse yelling, "Shame on you Mr. Clinton...shame on you." There
the ones making the noise, not me. Thirdly, well....there is no
thirdly! Fourthly, this is America baby....survival of the fittest.
Unlike what you wish for your utopia, we live in a country with
differing opinions, diverse backgrounds, and definitely diverse
outlooks, and we're all entitled to our opinions.
I saved the best for last and I know you're going to love this one.
Let's focus on this part of the comment...
Z | and a host of others give other
Z | people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice.
Well, I'll tell you why. Since you made a generic comment about
sexual practices, I will just consider the gay element a part of the
whole picture here. The reason I give a time slice to other peoples
sex practices is this. Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially and
now we have a disease we are learning more about everyday. This
disease is killing people every day. I personally think we don't fully
know what we are dealing with here and quite frankly, I RESENT your sex
practices interfering with the safety of society in general. I read
the stats and all I see is a society of lamebrains who seem to have a
difficult time thinking circumspectly, responsibly, and logically.
Consequently, your practices are effecting the well being of others.
So there you have it!
-Jack
|
323.2002 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:13 | 1 |
| wussies and lamebrains 'r us.
|
323.2003 | It's still "think-speak" | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:18 | 28 |
|
re: .1999
>andy, sometimes the flip side of repression is obsession.
I hate snakes... The sight of them sends chills up and down my
spine.... Doesn't matter what kind of snake... pick one. I'd rather get
into a cage with a tiger than into one with a snake... I can't even
watch them on TV...
I am not obsessed with snakes... I do not go out of my way to learn
more about them... etc. Intellectualy, I know they can't hurt me (much)
and I really have nothing to fear from them.
I don't think about snakes normally, unless I inadvertently see one
in passing.
I have no problem with homosexuals. I know them... converse with them,
shake hands with them, sit with them... communicate with them. I do not
look through them or into them and see revolting behaviour. I do become
uneasy when the talk turns to a sexual nature, whether subtly or
through innuendos...
Does that make me obsessed?? Should I sign up for elecro-shock
therapy???
No... I don't think so...
|
323.2004 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dreaming on our dimes... | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:21 | 7 |
|
.2001
>...this is America baby....survival of the fittest.
I didn't learn this in our wussy Canadian Sunday schools.
|
323.2005 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:21 | 10 |
|
re: .2000
Di...
To me.... some of the things ACT-UP does towards churches and religion
border on the obsessive...
You say tomayto...
|
323.2006 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:26 | 9 |
| > <<< Note 323.2005 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
> You say tomayto...
i know you're fond of this little catch-phrase, but i fail to see
how it applies in this case. you seem to now be saying that it's
_not_ a revelation to you that people can be obsessed with such
issues. fine.
|
323.2007 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:27 | 2 |
| andy, when the talk turns to a sexual nature, tell 'em to
keep it to themselves or shut up about it. i have.
|
323.2008 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:30 | 1 |
| And don't fax your buns. You never know who might see them.
|
323.2009 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:32 | 16 |
| re: .2006
Di,
Nope.... but I often fail to make myself as clear as lead crystal, but
you know that and often point that out to me...
Let's just say I do NOT believe that revulsion and obsession go hand in
hand... that was the point of my example.
My saying "tomayto" was only to highlight that you *may* thinks so, as
my "tomahto" says I don't...
Isn't communication fun???
|
323.2010 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:33 | 1 |
| i'm still waiting for those buns :-(
|
323.2011 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:34 | 9 |
|
re: .2007
>andy, when the talk turns to a sexual nature, tell 'em to
>keep it to themselves or shut up about it. i have.
Then does that make me a hypocrite because I enjoy heterosexual
banter???
|
323.2012 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:35 | 11 |
|
re: .2010
>i'm still waiting for those buns :-(
Patience is a virtue... ;)
Perhaps something can be arranged on the evening of the 21st????
:)
|
323.2013 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:37 | 4 |
| andy, you know as well as i do that het or homo sexual
banter can cross a line where it's just not funny anymore.
and most people, although they're wussies or lamebrains,
know when that line's been crossed.
|
323.2014 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:39 | 8 |
|
re: .2013
Bonnie,
That's not the point. Sigh... I guess I am homophobic because there is
no line for me before I get uneasy...
|
323.2015 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:42 | 2 |
| then pick up your buns and remove yourself from the situation.
is that so hard?
|
323.2016 | yet another law... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:43 | 6 |
|
For every obsession, there is an equal and opposite revulsion.
- Fig Newton
bb
|
323.2017 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:48 | 9 |
|
> Let's just say I do NOT believe that revulsion and obsession go hand in
> hand... that was the point of my example.
> My saying "tomayto" was only to highlight that you *may* thinks so, as
> my "tomahto" says I don't...
i didn't say they go hand in hand, and i don't think they do.
|
323.2018 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 10:52 | 9 |
| let me ask you this, bb. do you think a male obsession with
female sexuality might have something to do with a certain
cultural practice of scraping off the clitoris and labia and
then sewing the whole thing back up again until it's time for
the new husband to slit it open so that he can have sex???
i do.
|
323.2019 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:03 | 62 |
| > We must have some real thick participants here.
I have a plethora of faults; thick is not one of them (unless you're
using a tape measure).
> First of all, I didn't bring it up. Secondly, go piss and moan at
> the people outside the Whitehouse yelling, "Shame on you Mr. Clinton..
> shame on you."
I assume you mean the AIDS protestors. They want the government
to throw more money into AIDS research. Few understand the slow
plodding nature of science. Fewer still understand that in
America, if there is an AIDS cure, it's because someone figured
out how to make a buck from it. So they're a little deluded.
What can I say?
> There the ones making the noise, not me.
It's "they're" MeatyLuv, but aside from that, no, it's YOU making
the noise. Or generically, the RR. That "you" talk more about
homosexuality than any actual homo I've ever met!! How am I
to conclude that the RR is not obsessed? Did you see Joe's CFV
newsletter? Sorry, but I think they're nucking futz. The idea
of sitting down and typing a newsletter about men packing fudge
is a little sick IMHO.
> Fourthly, this is America baby....survival of the fittest.
> Unlike what you wish for your utopia, we live in a country with
> differing opinions, diverse backgrounds, and definitely diverse
> outlooks, and we're all entitled to our opinions.
No excrement, Dick Tracy. As a deeply-rooted cynic, I harbor
no delusions of utopia (other than the Todd Rundgren group,
who I think are fabulous). I must admit that getting a lecture
from you on diversity of opinion was good for a laugh though.
> Well, I'll tell you why. Since you made a generic comment about
> sexual practices, I will just consider the gay element a part of the
> whole picture here. The reason I give a time slice to other peoples
> sex practices is this. Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially and
> now we have a disease we are learning more about everyday.
I'm sorry, I didn't notice the long line of people who want to
give you VD that had formed outside your cubicle.
> I RESENT your sex
> practices interfering with the safety of society in general. I read
> the stats and all I see is a society of lamebrains who seem to have a
> difficult time thinking circumspectly, responsibly, and logically.
That's the crux of the matter. See, you don't really know what my
sex practices are. But you RESENT them. The difference between us
is simple. I don't know what your sex practices are either, but I
don't WANT TO KNOW. I won't even SPECULATE; I'll draw NO CONCLUSIONS.
It's NONE OF MY EFFING BUSINESS.
> Consequently, your practices are effecting the well being of others.
I've been told that, but really I'm trying...
-b
|
323.2020 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:16 | 12 |
|
Andy,
A lesson that I have learned, and learned the hard way, is
sexual innuendo is inappropriate unless you know the person
very well; and preferably outside the context of the office.
Sure, I can tolerate heterosexual banter easier than I can
tolerate homosexual banter, but some people have an extremely
low threshold of tolerance for BOTH and it's definitely better
to be safe than sorry... when in doubt, stfu I guess.
-b
|
323.2021 | sorry, over my head... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:17 | 5 |
|
re, .2018 - if I turn my monitor upside down, will I understand
what on Earth your reply is about ?
bb
|
323.2022 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:17 | 12 |
| ZZ No excrement, Dick Tracy.
I like that...I'll have to remember that one! :-)
I've thought about this for a long long while. Maybe I think too much
but somethings wrong here. I agree...none of my business...don't want
to know, etc. Bottom line Brian is that to me, couples living together
in a more than plutonic relationship shouldn't be shown as a viable
choice in our public schools. Let this molding of values remain in the
homes.
-Jack
|
323.2023 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:23 | 5 |
| Brian:
That's why I mentioned the boinkable topics are potential powderkegs!
-Jack
|
323.2024 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:27 | 13 |
| .2016
|yet another law...
i'm assuming you were expressing your boredom or condescension.
let me know if i'm wrong.
|For every obsession, there is an equal and opposite revulsion.
| - Fig Newton
i'm assuming you were expressing your boredom or condescension.
let me know if i'm wrong.
|
323.2025 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Dec 08 1995 11:27 | 1 |
| probing pluto now?
|
323.2026 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:16 | 38 |
| RE: .2022 Jack Martin
/ I've thought about this for a long long while. Maybe I think too much
/ but somethings wrong here. I agree...none of my business...don't want
/ to know, etc.
Then leave it at that, because no one wants to TELL you what they
actually do in the privacy of their own sex lives. "Gay" or "het"
or "bi" is a description of the way a person is attracted to people
in romantic and physical ways. It isn't a description of what
anyone actually does about it. (The word "celibate" is a description
of a person's sex life - specifically, the lack thereof - but "gay"
and "het" and "bi" are not.)
/ Bottom line Brian is that to me, couples living together
/ in a more than plutonic relationship shouldn't be shown as a viable
/ choice in our public schools. Let this molding of values remain in the
/ homes.
Plutonic? (As Robin Williams once said to Exidor, "Don't go to Pluto.
It's a Mickey Mouse planet.")
Schools don't need to go into detail about how same-sex couples COULD
be having sex. No one needs to know what an individual couple does.
The kids DO need to know that some of their classmates have parents
who are same-sex couples (so that they won't go nuts and torment these
kids when they find out.) The kids of same-sex couples need to know
that they are OK themselves and that their parents are OK.
If you want to teach children to torment kids with same-sex parents,
make sure they do this outside of school. The kids of same-sex couples
have the right to get an education without being treated to bigotry.
(Before you say it's irresponsible for same-sex parents to expose their
kids to possible torment at school - NO PARENT can protect his/her kids
from all the stupid people in the world. There is simply too much
stupidity to go around.)
|
323.2027 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:26 | 35 |
|
> Bottom line Brian is that to me, couples living together
> in a more than plutonic relationship shouldn't be shown as a viable
> choice in our public schools. Let this molding of values remain in the
> homes.
Suzanne or Meg or (whoever, sorry; bad memory) already explained
why it is necessary. The point is not to encourage gay couples
or to promote a particular lifestyle, the point is to DISCOURAGE
violence against them.
You spoke of Utopia earlier... isn't believing that every parent
will make sure their kids don't beat the snot out of other kids
a bit optimistic? You've been shown the examples. The ONLY reason
for bringing homosexuality into the schools is to teach tolerance;
and I know firsthand that many kids ARE NOT learning it at home.
Maybe they are learning it in your house (I get the impression
that you are an EXCELLENT parent), but you're (unfortunately)
NOT in the majority.
Everyone has the RIGHT to learn. That's what public education
is about. I do consider it the teacher's job to make sure that
EVERYONE in his/her class gets an education. If a kid is
being persecuted (for whatever reason), that person is deprived
of his/her RIGHT to an education. The teacher's not doing the
job!
It's not endorsing a particular lifestyle; it's about tolerance.
In our classrooms. In the workplace. Everywhere.
It's not about political correctness, either. Everytime you
refuse to acknowledge the rights of another individual, you place
your own civil rights in jeopardy.
-b
|
323.2028 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:30 | 4 |
|
Well, I guess it was Suzanne... :-) :-) :-)
-b
|
323.2029 | | TALLIS::SCHULER | Greg, DTN 227-4165 | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:31 | 50 |
| RE: .1998 by ACISS2::LEECH
> Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct
> parameter in which we should define a group of people.
Well then, I think straight America ought to stop doing this.
If society stops attacking people based on their sexuality, I'm
pretty sure people will stop insisting they not be attacked based
on their sexuality.
> In addition, homosexual sex is regarded as immoral
> by society, historically, due to the Christian herritage that our
> moral make-up is based on...
Can you explain why this moral belief should be followed any
more than past "moral" beliefs about race & sex? For example,
the defense of slavery and the arguments against women's suffrage
that relied on tradition and religious dogma...
To put this another way, do you think society has any obligation
to *defend* its "moral" beliefs if those beliefs have an adverse
impact on members of that society? Is it enough to just *say*
"I think homosexual acts are immoral." and not provide any reasons?
> It isn't about "rights" or "equality" at all. I've been candid in my
> explanation throughout this string, trying to explain why these terms
> are obfuscations of the real issue. Using the same terminology applied
> to "pedophile orientation", folks seem to pick up on this idea quickly;
> but for some reason, they cannot see the parallel with the current
> issue (and it has nothing to do with perceived victims, either).
Steve, it isn't that people cannot see your parallel. You seem unable
to understand that people are *rejecting* your parallel. I, for one,
do not believe you can ignore the reasons why people object to
pedophilia. You are asking us to think of the pedophile in the abstract,
as just another type of person who does things we don't like. If this
is the "logic" you want to use, why not replace pedophilia with
miscegenation? People use to object to seeing mixed-race couples with
the same mixture of gut revulsion and patronizing Juedo-Christian
historical mumbo jumbo used to attack gays.
I'm asking that you go deeper. That you support your moral assertions
with facts and objective logic. That you (and society) provide reasons
for your beliefs and behavior.
Or is that too much to ask?
/Greg
|
323.2030 | :^) | WONDER::BOISSE | | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:32 | 1 |
| re: .2022 Jack Martin
|
323.2031 | oooops!!! | WONDER::BOISSE | | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:34 | 7 |
| re: .2022 Jack Martin
> I've thought about this for a long long while.
Like the time between your last two replies? Sorry, just had to...
Bob
|
323.2032 | "Hello It's Me" | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:43 | 13 |
| Bob Boisse...I thought for sure you got the joke after .2021. Did you?
Suzanne didn't but Brian should have...See below.
/ I've thought about this for a long long while. Maybe I think too much
/ but somethings wrong here. I agree...none of my business...don't want
/ to know, etc.
ZZ Then leave it at that,
The first part of what I said came from a Todd Rundgren tune. Brian
alluded to Rundgren in an earlier reply.
-Jack
|
323.2033 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:53 | 66 |
| | <<< Note 323.1998 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct parameter in
| which we should define a group of people.
You forgot to include, "according to the word of Steve"! :-)
| What further confuses things, is the fact that homosexuality has been long
| considered by most to be an unnatural attration, or a disorder of sorts, by
| society.
There were a lot of things throughout history that people have thought
was bad at one point, only to find out that it isn't. They discover this by not
labeling what is different as bad. This is something I'm not sure you do very
often.
| It isn't an issue of rights at all,
If jobs, housing, etc don't equal rights, then, and only then, can you
be correct.
| but an issue of having society condone one's sexuality.
Then you have no clue to what it is about. I suggest that you start
over again.
| but the fact is, the gay movement is trying to change our social structure to
| accept homosexual relations in the same light as normal relations- by
| condoning gay marriage, redefining family, and promoting same sex relations as
| moral.
Steve, do you condone any marriage not held in the light of God? Yes or
no. You see, your answer would HAVE to be no in order for you to say anything
about marriage. Now, if you are talking just from a legal stance, then your
answer would still have to be no, and for the same reasons. If religion is part
of it, how could you accept any marriage that is not under God? If the law is
involved only, how can you accept a no vow marriage, but not one between two
homosexuals?
About redefining family. That was pretty funny. Families are defined
through several different catagories. Please don't pull this gays are trying to
redefine the family, when the family has been doing that already. But again, it
appears that seeing how families have been redefining themselves on a regular
basis, it wouldn't surprise me if you found the change to be bad. It would fit
your profile.
| Though I don't think discrimination in the work-place, housing or whathaveyou
| is a good thing, I cannot support federal legislation that will enable these
| things to take place.
Steve, say the country started to take anyone who is religious and not
allow them jobs, housing, etc. Not because they knew you, but they threw you
into this screwed up catagory. How would you feel?
| trying to explain why these terms are obfuscations of the real issue. Using
| the same terminology applied to "pedophile orientation", folks seem to pick
| up on this idea quickly; but for some reason, they cannot see the parallel
| with the current issue (and it has nothing to do with perceived victims,
| either).
Steve, this is why you will never see the issue. The victim thing has
everything to do with it. And THAT is why folks in here don't see the parallel
with the current issue.
Glen
|
323.2034 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:57 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.2001 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially
Tie it into homosexual sex. Let's see some stats.
| I personally think we don't fully know what we are dealing with here and quite
| frankly, I RESENT your sex practices interfering with the safety of society
| in general.
Jack, please tie all this into homosexuality. You can realistically tie
it in with people who just didn't think. But that is about as far as you can go
with this.
Glen
|
323.2035 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 12:58 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2005 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
| To me.... some of the things ACT-UP does towards churches and religion
| border on the obsessive...
And I would agree with you on this one, too.
|
323.2036 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:00 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2011 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
| Then does that make me a hypocrite because I enjoy heterosexual banter???
Yes. :-) Seriously, I have many straight friends who will say, look at
her <insert body part(s)>. But if I say, wow, nice butt, they look at me. :-)
|
323.2037 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:03 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.2025 by SMURF::WALTERS >>>
| probing pluto now?
Leave the poor dog alone!
|
323.2038 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:05 | 1 |
| sorry, I was feeling a bit goofy.
|
323.2039 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:06 | 5 |
|
I think the things ACT-UP does SUCK. Of course, I also think the
things OR does SUCK.
-b
|
323.2040 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:35 | 15 |
| | Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially
ZZ Tie it into homosexual sex. Let's see some stats.
Glen, I was very careful not to exclusively limit it to homosexuality.
In the note I said that since the reply I was answering was generic,
then my statement will be directed at the society at large and not just
the gay community.
I do not isolate homosexuality as the monster spreading all the
diseases. On the contrary, I believe promiscuity knows no
predispositional boundaries and hold up the free thinkers as
contemptuous as anybody else!
-Jack
|
323.2041 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dreaming on our dimes... | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:42 | 7 |
|
.2040
>I...hold up the free thinkers as contemptuous as anybody else!
<boggle>
|
323.2042 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 13:54 | 4 |
| Free thinkers: Throwbacks from the sexual revolution who are selfish
and act irresponsibly.
-Jack
|
323.2043 | | 34860::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Dec 08 1995 14:03 | 34 |
| re: .1993
> It is highly relevant. The issue of what, if any types of sex
> that Gays may enjoy is the true irrelevancy. But one that you
> insist on bring up.
Actually, it was me who said this was irrelevent to my point. Whether
men have sex with men is not pertinent whatsoever. I'm not sure why
you insist that I keep bringing it up (miscommunication?).
> So you are saying that Gays are inferior and that discriminating
> against them is OK.
I did not say this. I said that I am not for society to officially
endorse any deviant brand of sexuality that it currently has a problem
with morally.
> I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't interested Steve.
I have a list of notes that deal with issues I am speaking of. You may
peruse them at your leisure:
.1410
.1441
.1497
.1548
.1555
.1556
.1644
.1821
.1845
-steve
|
323.2044 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:19 | 13 |
| .2042
|Throwbacks from the sexual revolution...
jack, just when did this particular revolution occur? i
must have missed it...or are you talking about the one
the media made up to sell magazines and whatnot. you
know, the one the lamebrains and wussies believe in cuz
they read about it in a mag somewhere...
or are you just talking about the introduction of the
infamous birth control pill? which?
|
323.2045 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:31 | 6 |
| Bonnie:
Are you trying to tell me that STDs and out of wedlock births in the
50's were at parity with the decades before? I think not!
-Jack
|
323.2046 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:34 | 2 |
| so, jack. the sexual revolution took place in the fifties?
is that what you're saying? the decade of foreplay?
|
323.2047 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dreaming on our dimes... | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:42 | 3 |
|
I MISSED IT?!?!
|
323.2048 | P Larkin (approximately) | CTHU26::S_BURRIDGE | A spark disturbs our clod | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:45 | 4 |
| Sexual intercourse began
in 1963
Between the end of the "Chatterley" ban
and the Beatles' first LP
|
323.2049 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dreaming on our dimes... | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:46 | 3 |
|
That would explain my birth date.
|
323.2050 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:49 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.2040 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, I was very careful not to exclusively limit it to homosexuality.
| In the note I said that since the reply I was answering was generic,
| then my statement will be directed at the society at large and not just
| the gay community.
Thanks for clarrifying. I appreciate it.
| I do not isolate homosexuality as the monster spreading all the diseases.
But you isolate homosexuality to the point that if some guy tells you
he is gay, you think of what sex acts he does.
Glen
|
323.2051 | | SCASS1::EDITEX::MOORE | PerhapsTheDreamIsDreamingUs | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:49 | 10 |
|
\|||/
\^ ^/ EAT, Pappa, EAT!
(|+ +|) |
\ V / |
O _______
v
|
323.2052 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:51 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.2048 by CTHU26::S_BURRIDGE "A spark disturbs our clod" >>>
| Sexual intercourse began in 1963
So then when they had couples sleeping in two seperate beds on tv, this
was something that reflected reality! :-)
Glen
|
323.2053 | It's inaccurate for you to speak out against gays, if... | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Fri Dec 08 1995 15:55 | 13 |
| RE: .2040 Jack Martin
/ I do not isolate homosexuality as the monster spreading all the
/ diseases. On the contrary, I believe promiscuity knows no
/ predispositional boundaries...
Then, you regard the majority of gays (who happen to be in long-term
monogamous relationships) as being among the 'good guys' in our
society. True?
If you're really against promiscuity and not against homosexuality,
then correct your rhetoric. It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
they're all (or mostly) promiscuous. They're not.
|
323.2054 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:31 | 16 |
| re: .2053
> It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
> they're all (or mostly) promiscuous. They're not.
You don't know this is as fact. You are assuming that this is
true, an assumption that is not necessarily backed by reality (nor
studies).
Of course, I guess it depends on what you consider as being
"promiscuous", too. This definition must at least be understood within
this discussion, in order that everyone is on the same wavelength.
-steve
|
323.2055 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:33 | 33 |
| Z If you're really against promiscuity and not against homosexuality,
Z then correct your rhetoric. It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
ZZ they're all (or mostly) promiscuous. They're not.
Never said this. I categorically deny it. What I said was the
teaching of ammoral lifestyles in the schools is not what I as a parent
want...which is why I'm trying like the dickens to keep my son in a
private school. In order to teach the virtues of being gay, the
teaching, as neutral as you would try to make it, would still have the
underpinning of non marital partners who share an eros relationship
living together. I believe this is a destructive precedent to set but
again that's my opinion.
Now I understand what you are saying...that the purpose of bringing
Heather Has Two Mommies is to try and eradicate meanness and bigotry.
I understand that. However, I am extremely dubious it will stop there.
I simply do not believe it. And considering the bullcrap the NEA has
pulled in the past, I WILL Not fully trust those people. They have an
agenda. I will not subject my children to the
subjective amoral bias of this ilk if there is any way possible. This
kind of training in a child must be left to the discretion of the
parents. The NEA must be destroyed. The federal government MUST get
out of the schools, and schools must be directed locally. Ooops...I'm
ranting.
ZZ If you're really against promiscuity and not against homosexuality,
Gays can't marry. Well, you can thank government for that. But here
we have the dichotomy. I believe anybody engaging in sex before
marriage is dealing in non overt promiscuity. Again that's an opinion
and is biased by my faith.
-Jack
|
323.2056 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:34 | 10 |
| Steve,
If you are using studies from Focus on the Family, colorado for Family
values, the Oregon equivilent or the Christian Coalition it has already
been stated in here that they use a "study" from Paul Cameron which as
been demonstrated to be statistically unreliable, taken from too small
a sample and says that 22% of heterosexual men have attempted or
committed murder.
meg
|
323.2057 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:35 | 4 |
| By the way Suzanne can you back up a claim that the majority of gays (or
the majority of ANYONE) are in long-term, monogamous relationships.
-Jack
|
323.2058 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:37 | 8 |
| Jack
Using the same shoe since it fits you as well, can you document a study
by a reputable sociologist or psychologist that says this isn't true?
The gay people I have known of both sexes were, if not in a monogomous
relationship, looking for one.
meg
|
323.2059 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:38 | 9 |
| Then you and Steve should both check your dictionaries for the
definition of promiscuity, Jack. Sex outside of marriage does
not promiscuity make.
And, Steve, yes, I can categorically state that all homosexuals
are not promiscuous, by dictionary standards, as I know of homosexuals
who have been engaged in one single-partener relationships for the entirety
of their sexually active life (over thirty-five years on one case.)
|
323.2061 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:48 | 10 |
| Jack, I did check it and wouldn't have said non overt if my dictionary
didn't say..."...lacking standards of selection..."
If you go into something as serious as an eros relationship without
intent to make a lifelong commitment, then in my opinion one is lacking
standards of selection. Since perfect love casts out all fear, and
since our society has numerous couples in a perpetual state of
indecision for whatever reason, then the standard is lacking!
-Jack
|
323.2062 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:51 | 13 |
| .2054
>> It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
>> they're all (or mostly) promiscuous. They're not.
> You don't know this is as fact.
I know it as fact. I know several gays, in different cities and in
different walks of life. They tell me that promiscuity among gays is
about the same as among hets. The difference is that there aren't all
those busybodies out there screeching about the promiscuity among hets
because, although they deplore it as fornication, they do not think it
unnatural.
|
323.2063 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:52 | 5 |
|
jack, I am wondering. Will you be teaching your son that when someone
who is a guy says they are gay, that your son should start thinking about what
kind of sex the person has?
|
323.2064 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | we put the fun in dysfunctional! | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:52 | 2 |
| i think jack's definition of a promiscuous person is anyone
who has more sex than he does.
|
323.2065 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:55 | 14 |
| Suzanne:
Got a friend, right winger...celebate all his life...is gay. I realize
what you are saying, I believe in the right to self determination. I
believe standards of conduct should be left to the instruction of the
family unit, not a school board. Unfortunately, recognizing the simple
predisposition of homosexuality implies one would have to eventually
have relations out of wedlock and with a member of ones own gender. In
America, we all swing from a different vine and I'm not interested in
the particulars...so we agree there. All I'm saying is...let me
instruct my kids on matters of sexuality. I don't trust the social
engineers and the beaurocrats. I think they're scum! Simple enough!
-Jack
|
323.2066 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:55 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2064 by LANDO::OLIVER_B "we put the fun in dysfunctional!" >>>
| i think jack's definition of a promiscuous person is anyone
| who has more sex than he does.
Wow... no wonder he thinks everyone is promiscuous. :-)
|
323.2067 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Dec 08 1995 16:56 | 35 |
| re: .2059
Why should I check my dictionary? I never tried to define promiscuity
in my note, but merely said that in order to debate on this aspect of the
discussion, it may be helpful to be using the same terminology.
Are most homosexuals promiscuous? Beats me. No one knows for sure one
way or the other. Some studies I've read (some from RR sources, some
from government sources) seem to indicate that the tendency is towards
promiscuity, but I couldn't say as a matter of fact that most
homosexuals ARE promisuous. Saying "most aren't", though, is every bit
as much of an assertion as saying "most are"- maybe more, since I've
yet to see ANY studies by competent agencies that counter the studies
I've seen (and I'm even willing to throw out the "RR" sources).
I don't consider your example as an example of "promiscuity", neither
do I use the "sex before marriage" as my sole parameter. Serial
monogamy (one partner one year, a different one the next, etc.) is
promiscuity (in my view), though not as bad as having several partners
at once (what I would label as overt promiscuity).
The dictionary I have basically says "indiscriminate in sexual
relations", and even uses the term "casual" (with regards to sexual
intercourse). So casual sex is promiscuous, according to the
dictionary. I do not use the dictionary as my sole arbiter of this
term, however, as promiscuity is also a moral issue, IMO. I'm sure my
view of "casual sex" differs from your view.
I could start up another argument that "indiscriminate in sexual
relations" could encompass all homosexual relations (involving sex), as
such relations are considered by society to be rather "indiscriminate".
But of course, I won't do that. 8^)
-steve
|
323.2068 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:02 | 12 |
| Z jack, I am wondering. Will you be teaching your son that when someone
Z who is a guy says they are gay, that your son should start thinking
Z about what kind of sex the person has?
No, I'm sure his imagination will take care of that for himself.
My intent is to teach him that there is a certain percentage of our
population who are born gay. It's for whatever reason God created this
predisposition. I will also teach him that acceptance of
acting on ones predispositions earn merit by societal beliefs and the
beliefs of you (son).
-Jack
|
323.2069 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:05 | 13 |
| re: .2062
Your sampling is still limited, Binder. You may have a good idea that
homosexuals are not more promiscuous than hets (and for the record,
this is certainly not saying much in today's society), but you still
can't say that this is absolute fact. Your sampling is too limited.
I could say that I know several gay men and know that they and
most of their male friends they hang around with, are promiscuous.
This would not be any more proof than your empirical data.
-steve
|
323.2070 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:07 | 3 |
|
Steve, I think you need to get laid.
|
323.2071 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:09 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2068 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| No, I'm sure his imagination will take care of that for himself.
ARRRHHH!!!! God I hope not! :-)
| I will also teach him that acceptance of acting on ones predispositions earn
| merit by societal beliefs and the beliefs of you (son).
Jack, for some reason, I'm not getting this part. Could you possibly
explain it another way?
Glen
|
323.2072 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:11 | 14 |
| Meg:
I thought you said Focus on the Family doesn't use Camerons stuff. I
noticed you wrote this though...
If you are using studies from Focus on the Family, colorado for Family
values, the Oregon equivilent or the Christian Coalition it has
already
been stated in here that they use a "study" from Paul Cameron which as
been demonstrated to be statistically unreliable, taken from too small
a sample and says that 22% of heterosexual men have attempted or
committed murder.
-Jack
|
323.2073 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:11 | 1 |
| But he knows how it's going to turn out, so there's no point in it.
|
323.2074 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:14 | 14 |
| C I personally think we don't fully know what we are dealing with here
C and quite
C frankly, I RESENT your sex practices interfering with the safety of
C society in general.
ZZ Jack, please tie all this into homosexuality. You can realistically tie
ZZ it in with people who just didn't think. But that is about as far as
ZZ you can go with this.
Glen, don't your stats in .1961 kind of affirm my point? It is clear
that certain behaviors and certain classes of individuals have the
highest incidents of STDS.
-Jack
|
323.2075 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dreaming on our dimes... | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:19 | 6 |
|
The strongest possible argument AGAINST pre-marital sex
is that it resulted in...ME!
Smoke that, Jack.
|
323.2076 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:23 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.2074 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Glen, don't your stats in .1961 kind of affirm my point?
No. Those are US stats. With the exception of north america, AIDS
(which is what those stats ONLY reflect) has hit heterosexuals far more than
homosexuals. That's EVERY OTHER COUNTRY, Jack.
| It is clear that certain behaviors and certain classes of individuals have the
| highest incidents of STDS.
Yeah.... heterosexuals. Damn those people.
|
323.2077 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Fri Dec 08 1995 17:36 | 15 |
| Jack,
FOF has used Cameron's study in some of its stuff on homosexual people
and why they are "dangerous" to children. The web site listed in here
by Glen has a list of the groups that utilized Cameron's studies. Now
FoF has backed away from Cameron since he moved out here and said they
don't use his stuff, but they have in the past, according to the web
site.
Jack in the US black men are 2 1/2 times more likely than white men to
be HIV +, and black women are 4 1/2 times as likely to be hiv+ in
Colorado, stats from the CO dept of health. should all blacks be
discriminated against because of this?
meg
|
323.2078 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Dec 08 1995 19:19 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.2055 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
Jack, Your use of the term "Amoral" denotes a lack of morality. I would
think that you should be able to accept the concept that many people
who consider themselves to be "moral" simply do not share YOUR
particular version of "morality".
Simply having differnt views on the subject does not make them
amoral.
Jim
|
323.2079 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Dec 08 1995 22:45 | 25 |
| re: <<< Note 323.2067 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
.2054>> It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
.2054>> they're all (or mostly) promiscuous. They're not.
.2054> You don't know this is as fact.
And my assertion was, "Yes - I DO".
> Why should I check my dictionary?
Only to demonstrate your integrity, I guess. If you'd actually prefer to use
a definition of your own choosing which isn't commonly shared by most rational
folks, that's certainly your prerogative, of course.
> Saying "most aren't", though, is every bit as much of an assertion
> as saying "most are"- maybe more
I wasn't claiming anything regarding "most". My claim was in rebuttal of your
assertion (at the top of this response) that it wasn't necessarily a fact that
all are not promiscuous. It is very much a fact, as demonstrated by several
respondents here. For you to prove otherwise requires you to demonstrate
that we've lied.
|
323.2080 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 08:21 | 9 |
| <--- Actually, I must now wonder what definition of FACT you are using.
I do believe you missed the point of my note, though. Empirical data
does not equal fact. The sampling rates are usually too limited. I
did not argue that this was a possibility, however, just that it is not
concrete fact.
-steve
|
323.2081 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 11 1995 09:35 | 23 |
| > <--- Actually, I must now wonder what definition of FACT you are using.
Fact
(noun)
1. Something true and accurate.
2. Something having real, demonstrable existence; reality
3. An act considered with regard to its legality; after the fact
Pick one.
> I do believe you missed the point of my note, though. Empirical data
> does not equal fact. The sampling rates are usually too limited. I
> did not argue that this was a possibility, however, just that it is not
> concrete fact.
What kind of circuitous BS is that supposed to be, Weasel?
I pointed out that there are known instances of people involved in long
term monogamous same sex relationships who are clearly not promiscuous,
thereby disproving your assertion that it is a _fact_ that all homesexuals
are promiscuous, and you start babbling about sample sizes? A sample size
of one is more that sufficiently large to dispell any claims about "all".
|
323.2082 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 09:47 | 16 |
| ZZ What kind of circuitous BS is that supposed to be, Weasel?
Jack watches wrestling everybody!! :-)
Joan:
My two brothers and sisters outdid you. They were able to swim around
the diaphram, nyahhh! I in no way made the claim that anybody born out
of wedlock was bad...or that bad can come from a child born out of
wedlock. But surely you must agree that being born out of wedlock
statistically decreases ones chances of growing up in a stable
environment. Unfortunately, children born out of wedlock carry a
majority of the legacy regarding school drop outs, suicide, STDs,
abortion, and the like.
-Jack
|
323.2083 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 09:49 | 7 |
| Jim, My use of the word "amoral" connotes subjective moral relativity.
You are right in that we do not all hold to the same standard. A
standard of morality has to have a source, be it a higher authority or
one's own consciense. I submit to you that we are in the dilema we
face today because people chose the latter.
-Jack
|
323.2084 | Ooh, Our Jack is into S&M, heh-heh, heh-heh-heh... | DRDAN::KALIKOW | DIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&Glory! | Mon Dec 11 1995 09:53 | 2 |
| .2083 Martin> I submit to you
|
323.2085 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 09:54 | 24 |
| re: .2081
>I pointed out that there are known instances of people involved in long
>term monogamous same sex relationships who are clearly not promiscuous,
>thereby disproving your assertion that it is a _fact_ that all homesexuals
>are promiscuous, -------------------------------------------------------
---------------
You are mistaken. I made no such assertion. You are either a) reading
comprehension impared; b) confusing me with another noter; c) having a
bad Monday; or d) all the above.
> and you start babbling about sample sizes? A sample size
>of one is more that sufficiently large to dispell any claims about "all".
My only point of contention was that we do not know that "most"
homosexuals are promiscuous, or whether "most" are not. I've pointed
out that even the studies I've read that support the idea that "most"
are, is an inadequate to say that this is FACT. Equally unreliable in
the overall picture is empiracal data. This was my only point.
-steve
|
323.2086 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:07 | 16 |
| Go back and read your .2054, Steve.
It had been stated in a previous reply -
> It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
> they're all [...] promiscuous. They're not.
Your response was -
> You don't know this is as fact.
I responded "Yes - some folks do know, as a fact, that not all homosexuals
are promiscuous.". Do you wish to claim that by saying "you don't know this
[that not all homosexuals are promiscuous] as a fact", that you were not
claiming the contrary to be the reality of the matter? Or were simply
contending that those who disagree with you in this matter are liars?
|
323.2087 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:17 | 12 |
| Here's what I was resonding to in my .2054:
>>It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if they're all (or mostly)
>>promiscuous. They're not.
I find it interesting that you left out the parenthetical statement in
your post. This is what prompted me to respond- not the "all" that you
seem to imply ("mostly" is still in question). I thought that my notes
in this particular rathold made that quite clear from the beginning.
-steve
|
323.2088 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:25 | 6 |
| So, then you'll be willing to state that you agree that not all
homosexuals are promiscuous? Regardless of your contentions, it
was this that I haven't heard you yet willing to admit. It's sort
of sounded like you've been avoiding it, actually.
|
323.2089 | | DECWIN::JUDY | That's *Ms. Bitch* to you! | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:25 | 23 |
|
I have tried to stay out of this discussion because it is
such and emotional one. However, after reading Jack's .2057
I felt I needed to reply. I apologize if anyone else has already
posted something similar but I didn't read all the replies after
.2057.
Because of the subject I chose to do my research paper on for
this semester at school, I've come across some of the stats
that Jack is looking for as 'proof' of monogamous relationships
of gays. This is from a survey done by the Partners Task Force
of Gay and Lesbian Couples. It is based on 1266 couples.
75% of women and 82% of men ALWAYS live with their partner.
91% of women and 63% of men have a sexual agreement with their
partner for a monogamous relationship.
90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
|
323.2090 | re: .2088 | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:32 | 5 |
| If it makes you feel better: yes, I agree that not all homosexuals are
promiscuous. I've agreed with this point all along.
-steve
|
323.2091 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dangled from a rope of sand... | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:34 | 4 |
|
I believe that not all Christians are promiscuous, although many
certainly are.
|
323.2092 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:39 | 7 |
| And those who are, and are unwilling to recognize it as _wrong_, and
promote it as a positive way of life, deserve the same amount of push-back
for their improper behaviour as those who promote any other kind of wrong
behaviour, whether it's needlessly killing fur seals or picking their
noses in cafeteria lines.
/john
|
323.2093 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dangled from a rope of sand... | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:42 | 4 |
|
I *knew* we could count on you to encourage monogamy within the
gay community, /john!
|
323.2094 | "Wrong" is in the eye of the beholder | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Dec 11 1995 10:48 | 4 |
| > whether it's needlessly killing fur seals
A new crusdade, perhaps?
|
323.2095 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:02 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2082 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Unfortunately, children born out of wedlock carry a majority of the legacy
| regarding school drop outs, suicide, STDs, abortion, and the like.
Jack, you better have the stats to prove this one!
|
323.2096 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:04 | 1 |
| Sounds like I have a lot of trouble comin'.
|
323.2097 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:09 | 2 |
|
.2096 only you could tell us for sure. but please don't.
|
323.2098 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:25 | 5 |
|
> Jack, you better have the stats to prove this one!
why should he. you rarely do
|
323.2099 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:28 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2098 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>
| why should he. you rarely do
Wrong again, Jimbo.
|
323.2100 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:29 | 9 |
|
>| why should he. you rarely do
> Wrong again, Jimbo.
"Many" of us agree with Jimbo...
|
323.2101 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:31 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2100 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
| "Many" of us agree with Jimbo...
Then back your claims.
|
323.2102 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dangled from a rope of sand... | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:32 | 3 |
|
I believe that Andy agrees with Jim.
|
323.2103 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:34 | 3 |
|
:-)
|
323.2104 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:37 | 10 |
| Z 90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
Z 93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
Thanks for posting this Judy. I think the above is absolutely
pathetic. So in the world of living together, we have about four out
of ten lying to their significant other, and of those liers, the
majority selfishly put themselves in a position of danger...not only to
themselves but also to the unsuspecting significant others.
-Jack
|
323.2105 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:39 | 7 |
| Glen,
I just put a call in to the Childrens Defense Fund. I am also putting
calls in to the US Census Bureau and will summarily put the perverbial
nail in your coffin once and for all once I get the call back!
-Jack
|
323.2106 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:39 | 7 |
| > <<< Note 323.2100 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
> "Many" of us agree with Jimbo...
Who are these "'Many'"?, one wonders, and how does Andy know
who agrees with Jimbo and who doesn't?
|
323.2107 | | TALLIS::SCHULER | Greg, DTN 227-4165 | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:41 | 6 |
| Steve Leech - when you have the time, would you mind addressing
note 323.2029?
Thanks,
/Greg
|
323.2108 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:41 | 11 |
| RE: .2104 Jack Martin
// 90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
// 93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
/ Thanks for posting this Judy. I think the above is absolutely
/ pathetic. So in the world of living together, we have about four out
/ of ten lying to their significant other,
Sounds like a better record than marriage has (considering that 50%
of marriages end in divorce.)
|
323.2109 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:42 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.2104 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Thanks for posting this Judy. I think the above is absolutely
| pathetic. So in the world of living together, we have about four out
| of ten lying to their significant other, and of those liers, the
| majority selfishly put themselves in a position of danger...not only to
| themselves but also to the unsuspecting significant others.
Jack, isn't 40% still lower than the 50% divorce rate?
|
323.2110 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:43 | 1 |
| Notes collision, Glen! :)
|
323.2111 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:43 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2105 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I just put a call in to the Childrens Defense Fund. I am also putting
| calls in to the US Census Bureau and will summarily put the perverbial
| nail in your coffin once and for all once I get the call back!
Jack, you mean you stated those things as fact, but you didn't know
they were?
Glen
|
323.2112 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:44 | 3 |
|
Suz.... too funny!
|
323.2113 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dangled from a rope of sand... | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:50 | 12 |
|
.2104
>So in the world of living together, we have about four out
>of ten lying to their significant other...
I heard on the radio the other day about a survey of married men in
Italy. The survey found that about two-thirds of them had cheated
on their wives at least once.
So in the world of marriage...
|
323.2114 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:54 | 10 |
| ZZ Jack, you mean you stated those things as fact, but you didn't know
ZZ they were?
Glen, the datum is there. I just don't know the exact numbers but I'm
going to get them. I got the fact from our beloved Dr. Brudnoy. You
know, the gay talk show host who is dying of AIDS?? You know, the guy
I idolize while you don't like him. Yeah, that's the one. See the base
note.
-Jack
|
323.2115 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:55 | 1 |
| Glen, see the base note of the Gay Issues topic, not this one!
|
323.2116 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 11:55 | 4 |
| Yes, the marriage one is equally pathetic..which only proves my point
that subjective relativism is a sham.
-Jack
|
323.2117 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dangled from a rope of sand... | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:02 | 3 |
|
Oh, there's *definitely* a "sham" afoot.
|
323.2118 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:05 | 7 |
| RE: .2116 Jack Martin
/ Yes, the marriage one is equally pathetic..which only proves my point
/ that subjective relativism is a sham.
It proves the point that heterosexual marriage is no more stable than
'living together' relationships by people of either sexual orientation.
|
323.2119 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:06 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2116 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Yes, the marriage one is equally pathetic..which only proves my point
| that subjective relativism is a sham.
Jack, it does not prove that. You'd have to look at the reasons why
they cheated, got divorced, etc. Several of those reasons has to do with the 2
people before they ever got married. Parents pushing their kids to get married,
2 people rushing into marriage, etc.
Glen
|
323.2120 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:08 | 10 |
|
re: .2106
Oh to be the focus of the ever so curious!!!!
Oh Joy.. oh joy!!!
Am I then on my penultimate journey towards the land of "Those that
Count"?????
|
323.2121 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:13 | 8 |
|
> Am I then on my penultimate journey towards the land of "Those that
> Count"?????
I wouldn't know, but you're definitely on the list of "Those who
can't give a straight answer". ;>
|
323.2122 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:28 | 13 |
|
re:.1988
> In order for your theory to have even a small amount of validity
> you would have to show that relations between the races, or between
> men and women, or those amongst the various religions are worse
> now than they were in 1964. I don't think you can do this. For
> all the problems that we still have in these areas, we are light
> years ahead of where we were 30 years ago.
Are you saying that we have greater racial harmony today than existed
30 years ago?
|
323.2123 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 12:36 | 8 |
| What? No one is questioning the source of these statistics? I'm
disappointed. I never would have gotten one by that was from a group
with a right-leaning name (like Focus on the Family, et-al). 8^)
Where's Binder with his Curmudgeon dictionary telling us how worthless
polls and statistics are?
I smell bias in boxland!!! 8^)
|
323.2124 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:08 | 8 |
| re .2122
Oh sure, relations "looked" better when people "knew their place." For
me, I know more people who are different than I do, as I work with
people, and live around people that I wouldn't have interfaced with on
an equals basis 30 years ago.
meg
|
323.2125 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:10 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2124 by CSC32::M_EVANS "cuddly as a cactus" >>>
| Oh sure, relations "looked" better when people "knew their place."
Meg, don't forget...."their place" was in the back seat of the car,
while the mens drove up front!
Glen
|
323.2126 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:12 | 10 |
|
> Meg, don't forget...."their place" was in the back seat of the car,
>while the mens drove up front!
you'd prefer they drove from the back?
|
323.2127 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment uescimur. | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:15 | 7 |
| Passengers objecting to the manner in which this vehicle is operated
will please note:
1. The controls are arranged so that the vehicle can be operated from
the left front seat only.
2. There is a sprig of mistletoe attached to the driver's coattail.
|
323.2128 | | MPGS::MARKEY | No thanks, I already don't have one | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:17 | 5 |
|
I tell you officer, her head is in my lap because she's napping,
yeah, that's it, napping...
-b
|
323.2129 | (One of my favorite Chevy Chase moments...) | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:32 | 6 |
| Chevy Chase in a phone call on the "news" set of Saturday Night Live
(before noticing the camera was on him):
"Yes, I *do* think the truck driver saw you....
"No, I *don't* think he thought you were taking a nap."
|
323.2130 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | smooth, fast, bright and playful | Mon Dec 11 1995 13:39 | 1 |
| Same phone conversation: "No, honey, blow is just a term."
|
323.2131 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 14:21 | 40 |
| Just spent 30 minutes on the phone with a man from the Children's
Defense Fund. Interesting revelations.
First of all, I will say up front that Glen WILL NOT have the
perverbial nail put in his coffin today. However, the man stated that
Brudnoy is correct in what he said. However, Brudnoy looks at the
problem from an Associational and not a Causal. No one can determine
what the causal is and here's why.
In the late 1950's, women were more likely to become pregnant than they
are today. When a young man turned 16 or 17, and a job opened at the
plant, his uncle, or dad would get him a job and he would drop out of
school and work. He would then get girlfriend pregnant. Girlfriend
would tell folks, folks would ask if they were going to marry, she says
yes, parents arrange. This was quite common.
Actuality is young man is following his fathers footsteps today.
However, what was feasible for blue collared family of the 50's is not
feasible today. Job at the plant is not viable for raising a family.
What was feasible for middle/upper middle class is not for low class
today. Therefore, what is happening today is little Johnny is dropping
out of school because he sees no benefit to finishing. Johnny spends
two to three years on street developing a felony record. Johnny gets
girlfriend pregnant. Parent says to girlfriend, "Johnny has been in
and out of jail last three years, we cannot afford to help raise
child". Girlfriend checks out other means, hence we have abortion or
adoption.
Brudnoy and others leap from description to conclusion. He sees
pattern, thinks of explanations, hits talk button. Same with Murray
and "The Bell Curve".
So what I got out of this is poverty has an enormous impact, and I will
concede this point. However, I still believe there are holes in it.
Consider of course the rate of crime during the depression years to
today. And what of the causality. Does poverty cause the family to
erode or does the erosion of the family cause poverty. He thought it
was the former but I don't know!
-Jack
|
323.2132 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 11 1995 14:43 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.2122 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> Are you saying that we have greater racial harmony today than existed
> 30 years ago?
Significantly so.
Jim
|
323.2133 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Mon Dec 11 1995 14:52 | 5 |
|
>Significantly so.
Bull!!! Too broad brush....
|
323.2134 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Mon Dec 11 1995 14:54 | 18 |
| jack,
I think that the corporate leadership has become so immoral in this
country that it tends to spread down-ward. Kind of the trickle-down
theory in action. Gone are the CEO's that believe that their own
workers should be able to afford their products, as well as a decent
standard of living. Now we have companies that will job out to 3rd
world nation contractors that don't even pay a living wage in that part
of the world, and yet sell the items in the US for many times the cost
of the labor, and we have a congress that has been willing to give
corporations tax breaks to subsidize this.
The oldest Day-care facility in C Springs was founded and staffed by
the upper-class matrons who volunteered their time in the center. one
day a week so their staff knew that their children were well-cared for.
wonder how many people are willing to do this today.
meg
|
323.2135 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 14:55 | 9 |
| Jim:
An alarming statistic showed that many black youth believe AIDS was
propogated by whitey to bring about genocide toward blacks.
I believe racism is less overt than in the 60's. However, I believe
racism is very powerful today from both sides.
=Jack
|
323.2136 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:00 | 108 |
| Since I have been requested to respond to this note, I will. It's a
few days old now (and many notes ago). 8^)
RE: .2029
> > Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct
> > parameter in which we should define a group of people.
> Well then, I think straight America ought to stop doing this.
We don't. Only due to homosexual activism, has the term "heterosexual"
really gained mainstream use in our everyday lives. This, in itself,
is one of the great word-engineering feats of this agenda, IMO. By
turning normal relations into an "orientation", it tries to equalize
the playing field in both legalities and morality.
Heterosexuality, as the norm, does not NEED a label at all; only those
"orientations" that go against the established norm are in need of being
identified specifically.
> Can you explain why this moral belief should be followed any
> more than past "moral" beliefs about race & sex? For example,
> the defense of slavery and the arguments against women's suffrage
> that relied on tradition and religious dogma...
There is no religious dogma (at least nothing in the Bible) that suggests
we should be able to enslave people based on their color, or to opress
people due to their gender.
The scriptures have been abused throughout history in ways such as
these. Sexual orientation does not fall under the same umbrella,
however, as scripures do indeed condemn homosexual sex. It also only
acknowledges marriage as being one man and one woman- not two men and
not two women. This is not a misinterpretation, but a consistent
teaching of the church since day one.
> To put this another way, do you think society has any obligation
> to *defend* its "moral" beliefs if those beliefs have an adverse
> impact on members of that society? Is it enough to just *say*
> "I think homosexual acts are immoral." and not provide any reasons?
Yes, it should. It has been wrong in the past (slavery, for one), by
not adequately following the dogma that made up said "morality". If we
are going to follow our traditional base, we must make sure that we are
accurate in our interpretations of it.
It isn't at all about adversely impacting an identifyable group of
citizens (as you assert above), it is a moral issue regarding family
and proper relations.
As society removes its historical morality, this will- sooner or later-
become a non-issue. Not that many folk won't feel that something is
"wrong" with it, but that as we lose our moral base, we cannot claim
any universal morality that would defend these feelings. As the Bible
loses all authority in the lives of most Americans, it is little
surprise that the moral issues involved are scoffed at, and little
surpise that those who will not conform are labelled as 'intollerant',
'bigots', 'homophobes', etc.
As far as being adversely affected, how about pedophiles?
Those with this orientation are most certainly adversely affected by
marriage laws and 'age of consent' laws (with regards to sex), but this
is acceptable and proper limitation. As citizens, they enjoy
the freedom guaranteed by the Constitution, but do not enjoy the freedom
to engage in their particular sexual orientation.
> Steve, it isn't that people cannot see your parallel. You seem unable
> to understand that people are *rejecting* your parallel.
There was never any doubt as to this. However, the reasons given had to
do with "victim" (in the case of the pedophile) and "consenting adults"
(in the case of gays)- neither of which had anything to do with the
parallel itself. This suggests to me that the parallel was not
fully understood.
> I, for one,
> do not believe you can ignore the reasons why people object to
> pedophilia. You are asking us to think of the pedophile in the abstract,
> as just another type of person who does things we don't like.
The parallel had nothing to do with pedophiles. It had to
do with societal morality. The example of pedophilia was an easy
subject to use, since it is something we all can agree on to be immoral.
> If this
> is the "logic" you want to use, why not replace pedophilia with
> miscegenation? People use to object to seeing mixed-race couples with
> the same mixture of gut revulsion and patronizing Juedo-Christian
> historical mumbo jumbo used to attack gays.
Using 'miscegenation' would render the parallel useless, as it is not a
moral issue. The church never taught that marrying someone of another
race was immoral. Society may have taken a dim view of this at one
time, but this is not an issue of morality (in itself).
> I'm asking that you go deeper. That you support your moral assertions
> with facts and objective logic. That you (and society) provide reasons
> for your beliefs and behavior.
I feel that it is the duty of those seeking change to back up their
reasoning behind steering America away from its traditional morality, to
think of what they are doing (beyond their own sense of personal
interest). Is it really good for the nation as a whole? Why? If not,
then isn't it really selfish to try and change America to suit your
agenda?
-steve
|
323.2137 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:03 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2133 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
| Bull!!! Too broad brush....
How does a broad brush? ;-)
|
323.2138 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:05 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2135 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| I believe racism is less overt than in the 60's. However, I believe
| racism is very powerful today from both sides.
Insert the word, "all" in place of "both", and I believe Jack has said
something I could agree with.
Glen
|
323.2139 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:11 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 323.2136 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
I'll let Greg respond to much of what you wrote here, cuz he asked you
for the info. But some things stuck out pretty bad:
| Heterosexuality, as the norm, does not NEED a label at all;
Then in the USA, we don't need caucasion, right handed, brunette,
overweight, American, Ford, IBM, Christian, God, etc.... cuz these are all the
norms, so they do not need a label. That's how ridiculous your above line
sounds.
Glen
|
323.2140 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:11 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.2133 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
> Bull!!! Too broad brush....
Really? Look at the news tonight ans tell me how many cities are
burning, how many civil rights workers have been killed today,
how many Black churches were burned last night.
Jim
|
323.2141 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:24 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.2135 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
> I believe racism is less overt than in the 60's. However, I believe
> racism is very powerful today from both sides.
Jack, If you go back you'll notice that I did not claim that racism
was better, only that relations between the races had improved.
Even this is not required to prove Dan's statement false, only
that those relations had not gotten any worse. This latter
assertion is obvious.
Jim
|
323.2142 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:39 | 11 |
|
re: .2140
>Really?
Yeah... really...
Not where I grew up... and that's why I said it was too broad brush...
YMMV....
|
323.2143 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:41 | 18 |
| Jim, thanks for clearing that up.
Meg, regarding your comments about big business. I think you
understand this since you are a proponent of freedom. While I agree
with you regarding corporate responsibility and the like, I still
maintain that corporations are in no way obliged to have a heart. I
believe it is in their best interest and in the interest of the economy
and the society to have one; however at the same time I find
governments subtle attempts at social engineering by exploiting the
private sector to be...most disgusting. I would rather have stingy
businesses and have government keep it's nose out. I believe coersion
of business needs to be brought forth by the people through boycotts
and the like. I see government as a meddling whore. A necessary evil
at times but a whore nonetheless.
Support our troops!
-Jack
|
323.2144 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:44 | 5 |
| > Not where I grew up... and that's why I said it was too broad brush...
you might have noticed that the question Jim was answering was
in regard to race relations in general. how could his answer
_not_ have been too "broad brush" for you?
|
323.2145 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:45 | 19 |
|
Information taken from "Science News" December 2, 1995 Vol 148, no 23
pg 380.
Researches have known for sometime that babies infected with HIV at
birth suffer many hert abnormalities. Now it appers that simply being
exposed to HIV in utero, may contribute to developmental heart
problems.
A Study done by Harvard Medical School on 414 infamints born to HIV
infectoed mothers found that 12 % of infants suffered from heart
abnormalities, including heart wall defects, valve defects and poor
pumping function. These defects show up in 0.8% of the general
population.
Researchers aren't claiming that hiv exposure alone causes the defects,
as hiv+ pregnant women often have drug, alcohol and nutrition problems
that can interfere with heart deveolpment.
|
323.2146 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:46 | 7 |
|
re: .2144
really?? "Significantly so" did not give me that impression...
Your mileage may vary...
|
323.2147 | | MPGS::MARKEY | I'm feeling ANSI and ISOlated | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:49 | 10 |
|
If anything, racism has taken an underground, and decidedly
nastier, turn. In the 60s, at least we knew who the yahoos
with the sheets were. Now? Who knows? A neighbor, who I've
trusted for years, upon hearing that my house was for
sale, said "please don't sell to any niggers or spics..."
Apparently, the look on my face said it all as he quickly
back-pedaled into "just kidding... blah blah blah..."
-b
|
323.2148 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:50 | 4 |
| .2146 > really?? "Significantly so" did not give me that impression...
oy. "significantly so" didn't give you _what_ impression?
you didn't know he was talking about race relations in general?
|
323.2149 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:51 | 4 |
| re .2147:
I don't disagree with your premise, but I don't think your neighbor would
have worn sheets in the '60s.
|
323.2150 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:53 | 34 |
| (snip)
75% of women and 82% of men ALWAYS live with their partner.
91% of women and 63% of men have a sexual agreement with their
partner for a monogamous relationship.
90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
(snip)
"...ALWAYS live with their partner" is meaningless. How long
does this partnership last? If the partnership ever breaks up,
then THAT is the equivalent of divorce. Chances are that there
is an implied clause of "for the duration of the relationship",
which makes this particular factiod rather impotent.
"...agreement ... for a monogamous relationship." -- what is
the definition of monogamy? I'd be willing to bet my monthly
salary that it just means one partner at a time, which would
therefore include serial monogamy, which would be considered
promiscuous by quite a few people.
"... NEVER break the agreement..." Again I would bet my salary
that this statement implies an additional clause of "for the
duration of the relationship."
"... 62% of [gay] men are NOT at risk for AIDS" I'd be curious
to see what % of het men are not at risk for AIDS. Frankly, I
don't consider this a number to crow about. More than a third
of all gay males (38%) are at risk.
And, of course, I wonder why Glen isn't asking for these stats
to be considered globally... (I assume that these are USA stats.)
|
323.2151 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:58 | 9 |
| There were plenty of people who felt the same way in the 60's as your
neighbor who didn't wear white sheets. Instead they relied on
covenents and deed restrictions to keep people out of "their"
neighborhoods, and when that failed, moved out en masse or tried
intimidation techniques to get the offending race or religion out of
the neighborhood. I haven't hear the term "blockbusting" in anything
but history books and old fiction for the last 10 years.
meg
|
323.2152 | | MPGS::MARKEY | I'm feeling ANSI and ISOlated | Mon Dec 11 1995 15:59 | 8 |
| > I don't disagree with your premise, but I don't think your neighbor would
> have worn sheets in the '60s.
I was using the sheets as a metaphor. My point was, I would
probably have found out that my neighbor had some, shall
we say, prejudices, before 9 years had passed...
-b
|
323.2153 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Mon Dec 11 1995 16:00 | 5 |
| re: .2151
And "There were plenty of people" who lived with their neighbors of
every stripe in peace and harmony throughout the nation...
|
323.2154 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 16:58 | 20 |
|
Jack, what you continue to not see is that whether you got a piece of
paper that says you are married, or you are in a relationship without it, both
are only going to last as long as the two people allow it. If both do what they
need to do, the relationship will be a life long one, with or without a piece
of paper. If a couple is not going to put what is needed into it, then it is
going to fail at some point, with or without the piece of paper.
You want to call it serial monogamy? Fine. But don't let a piece of
paper stand in your way from calling it the same thing for hetrosexuals. A
relationship will work, when you have two people committed to each other. A
piece of paper ain't gonna make a hill of beans.... oh wait... it will. That
piece of paper will keep many couples together who are miserable in each others
company. Cuz they don't want to give up part of their paycheck, house, etc.
Commitment ain't a piece of paper, it is a hell of a lot of work.
Glen
|
323.2155 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:06 | 21 |
| Z That piece of paper will keep many couples together who are miserable in
Z each others
Z company. Cuz they don't want to give up part of their paycheck, house,
Z etc. Commitment ain't a piece of paper, it is a hell of a lot of work.
Damn straight. It keeps one from taking the easy way out. I get
annoyed at the lack of vision in the world today. When people go up to
the alter, they seem to fail to count the cost. This is what vows are
all about Glen. Before you ever take the vow, ask yourself the
question. Would you be willing to give your very life for your spouse?
Jesus would, and did. This is why he calls his church the bride. The
world doesn't understand this because they make decisions and look at
thing tacticly instead of strategically. Hence they expect instant
gratification and hapily ever after. You use the term "piece of
paper". I see this as the worlds definition of marriage. I see the
proper definition as a vow. Simplistic enough? Perhaps. I see the
vow as encompassing much...like honor, caring, love, communication,
tenderness, and sacrifice. If one is miserable and communication
breaks down, the vow is kept by law, but not by the spirit!
-Jack
|
323.2156 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:15 | 39 |
| | <<< Note 323.2155 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Damn straight. It keeps one from taking the easy way out.
Jack, the piece of paper is NOT a form of comittment other than forced,
if the two parties aren't able to give what it takes. People get married for
the wrong reasons many a time, and they should not be together if they can not
work out their differences. That would be like you and Schroeder being married,
and trying to work out your differences. It would be foolish.
A commitment is something that takes a begining, and is carried out
til the end. You can't FORCE it. At least not if you expect it to work.
| I get annoyed at the lack of vision in the world today. When people go up to
| the alter, they seem to fail to count the cost.
More than vows, Jack.... the vows will outline the committment
parameters, but the vows won't make committment happen.
But seeing you're caught up in the vows thang, any two people can take
the same vows. They don't need to be married for that to happen. But vows won't
make a committment. Hard work will.
| Before you ever take the vow, ask yourself the question. Would you be willing
| to give your very life for your spouse?
Then it would appear the vows are useless, aren't they?
| You use the term "piece of paper". I see this as the worlds definition of
| marriage.
That's why you can't see why marriages aren't lasting. You keep looking
at that piece of paper like it is going to do something magical. It ain't. But
hard work will.
Glen
|
323.2157 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:16 | 20 |
| re: .2139
| Heterosexuality, as the norm, does not NEED a label at all;
> Then in the USA, we don't need caucasion, right handed, brunette,
>overweight, American, Ford, IBM, Christian, God, etc.... cuz these are all the
>norms, so they do not need a label. That's how ridiculous your above line
>sounds.
Out of your whole list, "right handed" and "American" are the only real
norms currently in this nation; though it would be silly to do away
with American, as we are not the norm for the world. We could very
well do without "right-handed", though.
Now, if you'd be so kind as to address the actual point I was making,
rather than deflecting it with silliness, I'd be very appreciative.
-steve
|
323.2158 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:25 | 15 |
|
re:.2132
> > Are you saying that we have greater racial harmony today than existed
> > 30 years ago?
>
> Significantly so.
hhhmmm.... LA riots ring a bell? How about the Simpson verdict?
I suggest you walk around in "Kennedy country" for a little bit, and
see how well received you are. Or have a black guy walk around in
Lynnfield, Swampscott, Marble Head or any of a dozen other exclusive
communities and see how they are treated. You may have greater racial
harmony where you are, but trust me buddy, it ain't obvious 'round
here.
|
323.2159 | | TALLIS::SCHULER | Greg, DTN 227-4165 | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:30 | 173 |
| RE: .2136 by ACISS2::LEECH
> > > Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct
> > > parameter in which we should define a group of people.
>
> Well then, I think straight America ought to stop doing this.
>
> We don't. Only due to homosexual activism, has the term "heterosexual"
> really gained mainstream use in our everyday lives....
I meant straight America ought to stop defining gay people by
their sexual attractions. The paragraph that followed the one you
quoted should have clued you in. Gay people have been and continue to
be attacked based on our sexual attractions. We are attacked in the
fund raising appeals sent out by conservative religious organizations.
We are attacked in congress by "distinguished" senators railing on
about "damned lesbians" in the executive branch. We are attacked by
teen-aged boys who's idea of a fun evening is to go to the "queer"
areas of town looking for some "fags" to beat up on.
You seemed to have been arguing that gay people are the ones to blame.
That, all of a sudden apparently, we loudly identified ourselves to
society and that how we have been/are treated is a *reaction* to this
announcement. If that is your position, I think it is in error.
>> Can you explain why this moral belief should be followed any
>> more than past "moral" beliefs about race & sex? For example,
>> the defense of slavery and the arguments against women's suffrage
>> that relied on tradition and religious dogma...
>
> There is no religious dogma (at least nothing in the Bible) that suggests
> we should be able to enslave people based on their color, or to opress
> people due to their gender.
Hmm - seems to me one would have to ignore volumes of human history
to make a statement like that.
>> The scriptures have been abused throughout history in ways such as
>> these. Sexual orientation does not fall under the same umbrella,
>> however, as scripures do indeed condemn homosexual sex. It also only
>> acknowledges marriage as being one man and one woman- not two men and
>> not two women. This is not a misinterpretation, but a consistent
>> teaching of the church since day one.
One hundred years ago I could probably have said that it has been
the consistent teaching of the church since day one that women are
to be silent in church and are to submit to the will of their husbands -
which in turn meant that in the larger society, women were to be
silent in matters of official state business (e.g. no right to vote)
and were subject to rampant abuse on the part of husbands and fathers.
>> To put this another way, do you think society has any obligation
>> to *defend* its "moral" beliefs if those beliefs have an adverse
>> impact on members of that society? Is it enough to just *say*
>> "I think homosexual acts are immoral." and not provide any reasons?
>
> Yes, it should. It has been wrong in the past (slavery, for one), by
> not adequately following the dogma that made up said "morality". If we
> are going to follow our traditional base, we must make sure that we are
> accurate in our interpretations of it.
And so, now, finally, after two-thousand years, you have it right?
The interpretation is correct? There will be no more mistaken
interpretations? No more abuses?
And what about my question about *reasons* to support this "moral"
belief. I ask again, is it enough to just say that this is your
belief (because of the Bible)?
Finally, suppose you do have the right interpretation. Since when
are members of a free and democratic society required to adhere to
the laws of the Bible?
> It isn't at all about adversely impacting an identifyable group of
> citizens (as you assert above), it is a moral issue regarding family
> and proper relations.
Hmm - so you just assert that it isn't about adverse impact on others
and that makes it so? Sorry. That just won't cut it. You're going
to have to explain why I should just ignore the effects of your
morality on other people.
> As society removes its historical morality, this will- sooner or later-
> become a non-issue. Not that many folk won't feel that something is
> "wrong" with it, but that as we lose our moral base, we cannot claim
> any universal morality that would defend these feelings. As the Bible
> loses all authority in the lives of most Americans, it is little
> surprise that the moral issues involved are scoffed at, and little
> surpise that those who will not conform are labelled as 'intollerant',
> 'bigots', 'homophobes', etc.
Steve, did it ever occur to you that some "moral standards" have been
challenged on the grounds that they lack a substantive base of logic
or reason? That maybe the standards came to be scoffed at because
every time they were challenged intellectually the institutional
response was to turn red in the face and refuse to discuss the subject?
You have *still* failed to provide any rational basis for the
belief that homosexuality is immoral. Simply stating that there are
thousands of years of tradition and doctrine behind you does not add
up to the presentation of a rational argument. All you've done is
present an appeal to authority. Why should I submit to such a logical
fallacy?
> As far as being adversely affected, how about pedophiles?
> Those with this orientation are most certainly adversely affected by
> marriage laws and 'age of consent' laws (with regards to sex), but this
> is acceptable and proper limitation. As citizens, they enjoy
> the freedom guaranteed by the Constitution, but do not enjoy the freedom
> to engage in their particular sexual orientation.
Once again you would have us ignore the very REASONS why we find
pedophilia abhorrent (the physical and emotional scarring of innocent
children - the direct violation of the rights of those children).
This is NOT an effective analogy.
>> I, for one,
>> do not believe you can ignore the reasons why people object to
>> pedophilia. You are asking us to think of the pedophile in the abstract,
>> as just another type of person who does things we don't like.
>
> The parallel had nothing to do with pedophiles. It had to
> do with societal morality. The example of pedophilia was an easy
> subject to use, since it is something we all can agree on to be immoral.
Huh? What do you think the sentence "You are asking us to think of the
pedophile in the abstract, as just another type of person who does
things we don't like." means? The point is that, regardless of
your example, you have to go beyond the simple statement that
person A or activity B is immoral. You have to address the *WHY*.
>> If this
>> is the "logic" you want to use, why not replace pedophilia with
>> miscegenation? People use to object to seeing mixed-race couples with
>> the same mixture of gut revulsion and patronizing Juedo-Christian
>> historical mumbo jumbo used to attack gays.
>
> Using 'miscegenation' would render the parallel useless, as it is not a
> moral issue. The church never taught that marrying someone of another
> race was immoral. Society may have taken a dim view of this at one
> time, but this is not an issue of morality (in itself).
The parallel had nothing to do with miscegenation. It had to
do with societal morality. The example of miscegenation was an easy
subject to use, since it is something that was considered immoral
(or, at the very least, disgusting and deviant) by society.
>> I'm asking that you go deeper. That you support your moral assertions
>> with facts and objective logic. That you (and society) provide reasons
>> for your beliefs and behavior.
>
> I feel that it is the duty of those seeking change to back up their
> reasoning behind steering America away from its traditional morality, to
> think of what they are doing (beyond their own sense of personal
> interest). Is it really good for the nation as a whole? Why? If not,
> then isn't it really selfish to try and change America to suit your
> agenda?
I don't think that justifying the treatment of individual American
citizens based solely on some words in an ancient religious text is
good for America. I think blind adherence to *any* standard, viewpoint
or belief is dangerous and bad for America. I think continued progress
towards a "more perfect Union" requires that we make certain *all*
Americans are free to claim their rights to Life, Liberty and the
Pursuit of Happiness.
/Greg
|
323.2160 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:32 | 39 |
| | <<< Note 323.2157 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
| > Then in the USA, we don't need caucasion, right handed, brunette,
| >overweight, American, Ford, IBM, Christian, God, etc.... cuz these are all the
| >norms, so they do not need a label. That's how ridiculous your above line
| >sounds.
| Out of your whole list, "right handed" and "American" are the only real norms
| currently in this nation;
Steve, why is it on tv that they say most Amer... of us are overweight?
Ford is the #1 car company, so their cars are the norm. IBM is the #1 computer
company, so they are the norm. You have stated that the majority of people in
this country claim to be Christian, so that makes them the norm. So that would
also have to mean that the majority of people believe in God, so that makes Him
the norm. So we don't need to weigh these things down with labels, cuz they are
all the norms.
| though it would be silly to do away with American, as we are not the norm for
| the world.
Steve, reread what I wrote. I said in the USA we can do away with these
things. So let's do away with them, ok?
| We could very well do without "right-handed", though.
Then you have to either see that we do away with the others, or your
logic is severly flawed.
| Now, if you'd be so kind as to address the actual point I was making,
| rather than deflecting it with silliness, I'd be very appreciative.
It is silliness, isn't it? And it does address your point. You don't
feel there should be a label for heterosexuals, cuz they are the norm. Well
with THAT logic, we can do away with so much more. So if you're game, I am too!
Glen
|
323.2161 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:33 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.2158 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> hhhmmm.... LA riots ring a bell? How about the Simpson verdict?
One city Dan. Care to count the number of cities that were
burning 30 years ago?
Please note that "better" does not equal "good". Race relations
ARE better than they were 30 years ago. They are still not "good".
Jim
|
323.2162 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:38 | 3 |
| RE: .2159 /Greg
Excellent note!!
|
323.2163 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:48 | 15 |
| Z That's why you can't see why marriages aren't lasting. You keep looking
Z at that piece of paper like it is going to do something magical. It
Z ain't. But hard work will.
That's what I said, I thought. Didn't I say that people are taking
vows blindly, not realizing there is a cost? Didn't I say that having
a piece of paper without the characteristics, i.e. love, communication,
etc. keeping the vow by the letter but not by the spirit? So
therefore, you and I are in consensus.
All I'm saying is selfishness, self centeredness and immaturity seem to
spermeate our society today and therefore, the term of marriage in the
worlds eyes are lowered to being a piece of paper.
-Jack
|
323.2164 | | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:53 | 14 |
| The major flaw in the way some people think of gay people is that they
think gay == { x, y, z sexual acts }, almost as if it's impossible for
a gay man, lesbian or bisexual man or woman to be a virgin or celibate.
So heterosexual == { virgin, celibate, married, sexually active or
promiscuous, but give 'em the benefit of the doubt if you don't know },
but gay == { 'I KNOW what you do and I'm mad about it', even though this
person has as little idea what an individual gay person does as what
individual heterosexual people do in the privacy of their own sex lives. }
That's why some people can only think of sex when they hear someone is
gay, yet they DON'T think of sex when it's clear that someone is not gay.
It's a double standard and quite clearly _wrong_ to do this.
|
323.2165 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:53 | 1 |
| Question: Is masturbation a homosexual act?
|
323.2166 | If so, it sure changes the hell out of the het/gay ratio... | BSS::S_CONLON | A Season of Carnelians | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:54 | 3 |
| Good question.
Considering that only one sex is involved in this act, I'd say 'YES'.
|
323.2167 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Mon Dec 11 1995 17:58 | 51 |
|
Glen:
Z Jack, what you continue to not see is that whether you got a piece of
Z paper that says you are married, or you are in a relationship without it, both
Z are only going to last as long as the two people allow it. If both do what they
Z need to do, the relationship will be a life long one, with or without a piece
Z of paper. If a couple is not going to put what is needed into it, then it is
Z going to fail at some point, with or without the piece of paper.
Seeing you write this, I can only wonder about why gays are
so hot for being able to have that "useless piece of paper."
And Glen, you clearly missed the enitre point of the posting.
Under the anti-moral model of serial monogamy, there is no
statistical cost to that lifestyle, but under the marriage
model, each change in monogamous partnership chalks up another
statistical divorce.
When people were trying to imply, "Look - these statistics
show that gays are more committed than married hets" they were
comparing apples and oranges.
Serial monogamy - whether gay or het - is fraught with risk,
and it necessarily implies broken relationships and the baggage
inherent with such brokenness. (And don't try to convince me
that it does not NECESSARILY imply broken relationships, for
people are talking about truly long-term, committed, monogamy.
If one can simply walk away from such a relationship without
pain or loss, we have to question what sort of "commitment" it
really involved...)
And what RISK does serial monogamy involve? Switching partners -
no matter how long it's been since the last one or how long that
new partner will be with you - still means that you are being
exposed to all the past sexual history of each new partner, as
well as all the past partners of that partner, and so on. It
doesn't matter if you have 4 partners in one day or 4 partners
over the course of 10 years. Their sexual history doesn't change
because of your intentions with them.
So pointing out that hets cheat on their spouses, or get divorces,
or practice serial monogamy doesn't amount to a hill of beans.
And it doesn't change the statistical impotency of what was posted
in .2089 because those stats are for totally undefined parameters,
and it may very well be that the lack of definition was by design
to obfuscate. Regardless of design, it appears that many have
fallen victim to the fuzzy definitions.
|
323.2168 | | HIGHD::FLATMAN | Give2TheMegan&KennethCollegeFund | Mon Dec 11 1995 18:53 | 13 |
| > -< If so, it sure changes the hell out of the het/gay ratio... >-
>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> Good question.
>
> Considering that only one sex is involved in this act, I'd say 'YES'.
Yes, only if you want to change the definition of the term from its
common usage. It would depend on the "fantasy" involved during the
act.
IMBHO,
-- Dave
|
323.2169 | | ASDG::GASSAWAY | Insert clever personal name here | Mon Dec 11 1995 19:05 | 14 |
| re: serial monogamy is "amoral"
Properly married heterosexual couple has two small children. One
spouse is killed in an auto accident. Remaining spouse should now
never remarry? (Corrolary: If spouse doesn't remarry will children be
damaged by not having a male and female role model?)
Properly married couple #2. One spouse runs off, requests divorce.
Remaining spouse must now remain chaste for the rest of his/her life,
even though he/she remained true to the wedding vows?
Do tell, Jack.
Lisa
|
323.2170 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | RIP Amos, you will be missed | Tue Dec 12 1995 06:23 | 9 |
|
AIDS discussion people, AIDS discussion!!!!!! There is a topic for
discussing homosexuality. AIDS and homosexuality are not synonymous
although many people in here seem to think so.
Mike
|
323.2171 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 12 1995 08:41 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.2163 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| That's what I said, I thought. Didn't I say that people are taking vows
| blindly, not realizing there is a cost? Didn't I say that having a piece of
| paper without the characteristics, i.e. love, communication, etc. keeping the
| vow by the letter but not by the spirit? So therefore, you and I are in
| consensus.
No, we aren't. Reason being is you said earlier that the piece of paper
will keep two people working harder, when someone who doesn't have one, won't
work as hard. As long as you think that way, then you have lost sight of
reality.
| All I'm saying is selfishness, self centeredness and immaturity seem to
| spermeate our society today and therefore, the term of marriage in the
| worlds eyes are lowered to being a piece of paper.
Errrr..... cuz that's what it is. Let me ask you. When did the piece of
paper come into play? Do you know?
Glen
|
323.2172 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 12 1995 08:42 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.2165 by DASHER::RALSTON "screwiti'mgoinhome.." >>>
| Question: Is masturbation a homosexual act?
Masturbation is a homosexual act.
It is also a heterosexual one as well. :-)
Glen
|
323.2173 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Tue Dec 12 1995 08:49 | 8 |
|
re: .2161
enlighten us Jim...
I count three... Watts, Detroit and Newark... and if I recall, it was
mostly black on black (neighborhoods)...
|
323.2174 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 12 1995 08:56 | 54 |
| | <<< Note 323.2167 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>
| Seeing you write this, I can only wonder about why gays are so hot for being
| able to have that "useless piece of paper."
Easy, Jack. For some they want what goes with it, so they can be
protected. For others, the piece of paper is a SYMBOL of their committment. But
the actual committment comes from hard work.
| When people were trying to imply, "Look - these statistics show that gays are
| more committed than married hets" they were comparing apples and oranges.
Jack, I agree with the above. I also view that if people weren't
pressured into thinking they had to get married and have 2.5 kids, then
the divorce rate would drop dramatically. So wouldn't the marriage rate.
Don't you think?
| Serial monogamy - whether gay or het - is fraught with risk, and it
| necessarily implies broken relationships and the baggage inherent with
| such brokenness. (And don't try to convince me that it does not NECESSARILY
| imply broken relationships, for people are talking about truly long-term,
| committed, monogamy. If one can simply walk away from such a relationship
| without pain or loss, we have to question what sort of "commitment" it
| really involved...)
Jack, you have implied above that if someone does the serial monogamy
thing, that they walk away without pain or loss. IF, and only IF this is true,
then you can wonder about the committment. But I'm not sure if you're trying to
lump everyone into that catagory or not. I hope not, as you would be wrong. The
other factor is one of the 2 people can be putting in most/all of the work,
trying to keep it together. In their minds they think there is a good
relationship, but in the end, it was really one person doing most of the work.
Of course all these things come into play with heterosexual marriages, as well.
| And what RISK does serial monogamy involve? Switching partners - no matter
| how long it's been since the last one or how long that new partner will be
| with you - still means that you are being exposed to all the past sexual
| history of each new partner, as well as all the past partners of that partner,
| and so on.
Jack, do you even know what you're talking about? You talk like one
relationship ends, they're off sleeping with someone else, no big deal. While
you will have people who do this, I believe those are the people who didn't
feel a loss. You will NOT be exposed to anyone's past if you KNOW your partner's
status beforehand. Plain and simple. If both people do not have HIV/AIDS,
STD's, etc, then no one is at risk for anything.
I think what you have done is take what has been said about one night
stands/unsafe sex, and apply it to what happens after a relationship ends. It
doesn't apply to that. It only applies to one night stands/unsafe sex.
Glen
|
323.2175 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend, will you be ready? | Tue Dec 12 1995 09:08 | 15 |
|
> So wouldn't the marriage rate.
Speak English, will ya?! What the heck does "so wouldn't" mean? Sheesh..last
night I was in a large national retail establishment and the woman behind
the counter was saying "so don't I" and "so wouldn't this or that"..drove
me nuts..
|
323.2176 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Tue Dec 12 1995 09:13 | 7 |
| <----
I want to slap these people upside the head!!!
Those that I know, when they do this, get an ear-full each and
everytime!!
|
323.2177 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 12 1995 09:31 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.2173 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
> I count three... Watts, Detroit and Newark... and if I recall, it was
> mostly black on black (neighborhoods)...
Well, you can add Cleveland and Akron for starters. I can remember
sitting by the scanner listening to the mayhem.
Jim
|
323.2178 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Tue Dec 12 1995 10:03 | 7 |
|
re: Cleveland and Akron
What happened there? Was it as extensive as the others? I don't recall
hearing about these places "going up in flames"...
|
323.2179 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Tue Dec 12 1995 10:58 | 2 |
| Add in Chicago and Philedelphia, and i believe, Atlanta, smaller, but
riots none the less.
|
323.2180 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Dec 12 1995 11:05 | 2 |
| Watts, Detroit and Newark were the biggest, but there were lots of smaller
race riots. Wasn't there also one in Gary, Indiana?
|
323.2181 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | I press on toward the goal | Tue Dec 12 1995 11:07 | 7 |
| We bought our parents a book called "The Front Page". It had all the
pertinent front pages of the NY Times since the Lindberg Kidnapping.
I believe the first page was, "Warren Harding Dies in Sleep".
Anyway, when MLK was assassinated, the headline said, "Martin Luther
King Assassinated in Memphis. National Guard Called in Chicago,
Detroit, Boston. President Urges Calm".
|
323.2182 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Tue Dec 12 1995 11:51 | 3 |
| Rochester and Buffalo, New York had very big riots during that time. I
lived in a small town outside of Rochester and remember it being on the
TV News, what seems like all day long.
|
323.2183 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Dec 12 1995 11:54 | 1 |
| Rochester rioted because Mr. Benny mistreated him.
|
323.2184 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 12 1995 12:00 | 1 |
| <---I must be old... I understood that one. :-) Very funny!
|
323.2185 | :) | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Tue Dec 12 1995 12:01 | 1 |
|
|
323.2186 | | DEVLPR::DKILLORAN | No Compromise on Freedom | Tue Dec 12 1995 12:08 | 13 |
|
re:.2161
> Race relations ARE better than they were 30 years ago.
On this we will never agree. You and I see different things
completely. Everyday I hear more and more about how divided this
country is by race. I see more and more examples of racial hatred.
White cops beat black man. Blacks riot in the streets. Blacks beat up
Hispanics, Hispanics come back and stab several blacks, etc, etc, etc...
This does not indicate to me that race relations are getting better.
|
323.2187 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 12 1995 12:58 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.2178 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
> What happened there? Was it as extensive as the others? I don't recall
> hearing about these places "going up in flames"...
Same as LA, etc.
Jim
|
323.2188 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 12 1995 13:01 | 17 |
| <<< Note 323.2186 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>
> On this we will never agree. You and I see different things
> completely. Everyday I hear more and more about how divided this
> country is by race. I see more and more examples of racial hatred.
> White cops beat black man. Blacks riot in the streets. Blacks beat up
> Hispanics, Hispanics come back and stab several blacks, etc, etc, etc...
> This does not indicate to me that race relations are getting better.
Dan, You are dealing with the last few years. My statement is about the
difference between 30 years ago and today.
Jim
|
323.2189 | | TINCUP::AGUE | http://www.usa.net/~ague | Wed Dec 13 1995 10:00 | 6 |
| RE: "perverbial nail put in his coffin ...", over and over again
This cliche has been misspelled too many times to ignore any longer.
The word is PROVERBIAL, like the book in the Bible.
-- Jim
|
323.2190 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Sparky Doobster | Wed Dec 13 1995 10:08 | 3 |
|
He's had all he can stands, he can't stands no more...
|
323.2191 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Fri Dec 15 1995 19:36 | 6 |
| A bone marrow transfusion from a Baboon to human has been performed in
an attempt to give the patient a fighting chance against AIDS.
Apparently Babboons are imune to HIV and the marrow is close enough to
humans to make this worth a shot.
|
323.2192 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Sat Dec 16 1995 11:36 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.2191 by CSC32::M_EVANS "cuddly as a cactus" >>>
> A bone marrow transfusion from a Baboon to human has been performed in
> an attempt to give the patient a fighting chance against AIDS.
> Apparently Babboons are imune to HIV and the marrow is close enough to
> humans to make this worth a shot.
Radio news reports I heard said that the treatment may kill him, but
his chances without it were zero anyway. Last report (Thursday) said
that the patient was doing remarkably well, but that it would be
4 to 5 weeks before they could make any determination concerning the
outcome.
Dean Adell (the TV and radio Doc) raised an interesting question
regarding the procedure. Since the patient's immune system is
severely compromised, it's quite possible that his body will
not (not be able to actually) reject the transplant, improving
the chances for success.
Jim
|
323.2193 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Mon Dec 18 1995 08:56 | 6 |
|
Steve, your personal name.... trying to tell us something? :-)
|
323.2194 | a bit worried here | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Tue Dec 19 1995 08:35 | 27 |
|
Hi,
There's too many replies to this for me to check back and see
if this has already been discussed. And, it's actually a serious
question from me.
I'm going in for surgery on Thursday this week. I was thinking
about the fact that they are going to have 2 units of blood waiting
for me just in case I need blood. It suddenly worried me this
morning about AIDS. I realize that they test the blood and all that,
but what suddenly worried me is the fact that I've 'heard' that
sometimes people don't know they have AIDS for years and then they
are positive.
My question is..... Where does the AIDS stay dormant before it's
'positive'. Say if a person contracted it and they don't know yet
that it's laying there waiting to come out. I know that TB when
contracted stays in the lungs with casing's around it. Then if the
casing breaks the person then has TB, they could have been in contact
with it 20 years ago. So, I'm now WONDERING, where does the AIDS
lay dormant? What are my risks if they need to give me the blood and
the blood was tested negative when they tested it before saving
it in the blood bank for me? I'm now wondering if I should have
given my own blood when I found out that I needed the surgery.
Rosie
|
323.2195 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Dec 19 1995 08:47 | 9 |
| <<< Note 323.2194 by BIGQ::MARCHAND >>>
Rosie, The possibility exists, but in the grand scheme of things it's
a very very small possibility. Given all the risks of surgery
(also small probabilities) contracting AIDS is way down the list
these days.
Jim
|
323.2196 | | BIGQ::SILVA | EAT, Pappa, EAT! | Tue Dec 19 1995 08:53 | 9 |
|
But we are talking about two things here. HIV is detected within 6
months. So they would know that already. (they test all blood) AIDS happens
when the t-cell count drops below 200. If the t-cell count is anywhere near
that level, they won't be giving you that blood.
Glen
|
323.2197 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Tue Dec 19 1995 09:35 | 9 |
|
phew! That's a relief. I guess I was getting a little worried because
of not knowing all that much about AIDS. I've missed the two programs
they had here because of other obligations.
Thanks for the replies. Boy, when we don't know an answer to
something it can be scarey!
Rosie
|
323.2198 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Tue Dec 19 1995 09:37 | 4 |
|
In certain cases, you can make provisions to have your own blood used.
|
323.2199 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Tue Dec 19 1995 11:01 | 8 |
|
They asked me yesterday if I planned on giving my own blood. But,
it's really too late to give 2 units before Thursday. Especially
where I'm on vitamins and iron supplements to compensate for the
main reason I'm getting the surgery..... I've had a considerable loss
of blood since Sept.
Rosie
|
323.2200 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 19 1995 12:41 | 10 |
|
(__)
(oo)
/-------\/
/ | || \
* ||W---|| CLINTON!
~~ ~~
|
323.2201 | | SUBPAC::SADIN | Freedom isn't free. | Tue Dec 19 1995 17:29 | 5 |
|
did that cow just barf?
|
323.2202 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Tue Dec 19 1995 17:37 | 2 |
| Snarf Cow came up with something more inane than "snarf", when
collecting his favorite note numbers.
|
323.2203 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Wed Dec 20 1995 14:21 | 2 |
|
Did Clinton catch aids from the cow?
|
323.2204 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Buzzword Bingo | Wed Dec 20 1995 15:33 | 3 |
|
The cow probably got AIDS from Clinton.
|
323.2205 | Poor cow... | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot. | Wed Dec 20 1995 15:36 | 1 |
|
|
323.2206 | | DASHER::RALSTON | screwiti'mgoinhome.. | Fri Dec 29 1995 15:32 | 15 |
| LOWER AIDS RISK WITH TRANSFUSIONS:
A study published in the New England Journal of Medicine says that the
risk of catching AIDS from a blood transfusion is only about half as great
as previously estimated. The analysis, conducted by Dr. Eve Lackritz and
colleagues from the Centers for Disease Control, shows only about two
dozen of the 12 million pints of blood used in transfusions each year are
now infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Dr. Lackritz's team
examined 9 million blood donations in 1992 and 1993. The CDC now estimates
that the risk that a patient will contract HIV from donated blood is
between one in 83,000 and one in 122,000.
|
323.2207 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Thu Jan 04 1996 22:41 | 18 |
|
.2206 It's good to know that they are doing everything they can to
check this blood. I had decided that if they need to give me the blood
fine.
Well, the good news is that they never had to give me a blood
transfusion. My hemoglobin was quite low, but not low enough for a
blood transfustion.
Boy, surgery is incredible these days! I had a hysterectomy on
the 21st of Dec. and I'll be back to work on the 15th of Jan.! go
figure! I'm just a little sore and tired right now, but I know
by the 15th I'll be fine. I'm taking vitamins and iron supplements
to get my blood back up, so by the 15th I will be fine.
Rosie
|
323.2208 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Thu Jan 04 1996 22:42 | 3 |
| eating boob cake helps too!
Nice to hear that you got through it all ok!
|
323.2209 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Thu Jan 04 1996 22:45 | 7 |
|
Gosh! I forgot all about that cake! Maybe that's what got me
through!
Thanks,
Rosie
|
323.2210 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | CPU Cycler | Thu Jan 04 1996 22:48 | 5 |
| We haven't!
You're welcome!
8^)
|
323.2211 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of Nightmares | Thu Jan 04 1996 23:02 | 3 |
|
Glad to hear you're ok, Rosie.
|
323.2212 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:03 | 6 |
|
Alright Rosie! If you were a vampire, you could have avoided all this.
Ya just could have refilled! :-)
Glen
|
323.2213 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dialed in for dharma. | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:03 | 8 |
|
Heard on the nooz this morning about an AIDS sufferer in SF who had
been given a bone marrow transplant from a baboon. It seems that
baboons are immune to SIV and HIV.
He is apparently doing well, although it's too early to judge the
effectiveness of the treatment.
|
323.2214 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:07 | 3 |
|
Geeze....Canada is slow, eh? I heard about that last week! :-)
|
323.2215 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:08 | 7 |
| there are also fears that transplants of this kind could lead to
another outbreak of evil viruses baboons are immune to, but humans
aren't.
who knows? I wish the man well.
meg
|
323.2216 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Dialed in for dharma. | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:10 | 5 |
|
.2214, Glen:
Didja post it here? Huh? Didja?
|
323.2217 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:17 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2216 by TROOA::COLLINS "Dialed in for dharma." >>>
| Didja post it here? Huh? Didja?
No. I ain't no stinkin disgruntled postal worker!
|
323.2218 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | to infinity and beyond | Fri Jan 05 1996 09:18 | 2 |
| He didn't ask if you took an M16 to work, he asked if you wrote it on a
product from 3M.
|
323.2219 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Fri Jan 05 1996 10:31 | 5 |
| see .2191.
I think there are a few others referencing this later in the string.
meg
|
323.2220 | Keep fingers crossed; he's bought some time | DECLNE::REESE | My REALITY check bounced | Fri Jan 05 1996 15:01 | 10 |
| The dude with the baboon marrow left the hospital this AM. Today
Show carried part of news conference; the guy looked remarkedly
fit and healthy.
He said considering most people thought he'd leave the hospital
in a box, this was definitely a great day :-) Any healthy days
to come will definitely be appreciated as a gift and a hope that
this might turn into a viable treatment.
|
323.2221 | ...or offering... | TROOA::COLLINS | Turn on, log in, drop out. | Fri Jan 05 1996 15:09 | 3 |
|
His friends keep offerring him bananas.
|
323.2222 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Big Bag O' Passion | Fri Jan 05 1996 15:23 | 1 |
| At least he didn't have to go through an elephantoplasty operation.
|
323.2223 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 05 1996 15:24 | 1 |
| peanuts taste better than banana's
|
323.2224 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Never Cry Fox, Either | Fri Jan 05 1996 15:39 | 3 |
|
[apostrophe alert]
|
323.2225 | | MPGS::MARKEY | We're upping our standards; up yours | Fri Jan 05 1996 15:42 | 7 |
| > peanuts taste better than banana's
So how did banana's taste?
Never mind, I don't wanna know...
-b
|
323.2226 | | SCASS1::GUINEO::MOORE | ALittleOfMazePassagesTwisty | Fri Jan 05 1996 16:09 | 3 |
| .2221
...yeah, apparently because he slipped by death's door.
|
323.2227 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Jan 05 1996 16:54 | 7 |
| There is, of course, some concern that he may now be carrying some NEW virus
that previously did not infect humans.
There was supposed to be some special testing by the CDC before he was
released, but the gummint shutdown prevented this from happening.
/john
|
323.2229 | wanna see my operation scar? | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Jan 05 1996 17:02 | 1 |
| Or his bum will turn huge and blue.
|
323.2230 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Big Bag O' Passion | Fri Jan 05 1996 17:04 | 1 |
| I suppose hell be looking for a blue box to go with it?
|
323.2231 | | TROOA::COLLINS | Turn on, log in, drop out. | Fri Jan 05 1996 19:54 | 3 |
|
I'm anticipating a comment soon re: Samsonite...
|
323.2232 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Big Bag O' Passion | Fri Jan 05 1996 22:18 | 3 |
|
case in point?
|
323.2233 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Mon Jan 08 1996 09:38 | 1 |
| It probably wasn't the bag he was into....
|
323.2234 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Big Bag O' Passion | Mon Jan 08 1996 10:44 | 1 |
| He wouldn't do that woody?
|
323.2235 | Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:12 | 497 |
| Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter
The Email address of the original person behind this chain letter appears
to have been lost, but the name appears to be "Bradley Young". I won't
endanger Digital's Internet connection by mailing this back out onto the
Internet, but it would not be politically correct to refuse to participate
in some manner in attempting to infect as many people as possible, so I
have posted this in a few places, rather than mailing it.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Subject: AIDS project
For a class project, I was wondering if this could be passed on to prove a
point. In my human sex class, we learned that if someone has received the
HIV disease, and they don't know about it, they could pass it on to people
who they don't even know.
Could you all pretend that I have HIV, and I gave it to you. Then could
you pass it on to your friends? Let's see if the entire e-mail population
could get infected by me alone.
Please remember that this is a lab experiment. I have to say that I am
not intending to offend any one in any way.
By the way, don't erase this or the forwards from your computer.
Thankyou
Young bradley
Miles of headers follow:
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X-Mailer: Post Road Mailer (Green Edition Ver 1.00)
From: Marion Leeds Carroll <[email protected]>
To: covert::covert
To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
Date: Tue, 23 Jan 1996 11:59:52 EST
Reply-To: Marion Leeds Carroll <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [[email protected]: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project]
Address to: Distribution list (see below)
I detest chain letters, but given the recent events in my family
(involving a transfusion), I feel it's important to help this person
with this disturbing lab project. Please read on through the multiple
forwards to understand further. - Marion
Forwarding note from: [email protected] 01/23/96 09:30am -0500
Date: Mon, 22 Jan 1996 18:31:02 -0500
From: [email protected] (Ben Dubrovsky)
To: [email protected], [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected]
Subject: [[email protected]: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project]
Date: Mon, 22 Jan 1996 11:15:10 -0500 (EST)
Subject: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project
From: <[email protected]>
To: "dti staff" <[email protected]>,
"Patrice Backer" <[email protected]>,
"Ellerton Castor" <[email protected]>,
"Dave Decker" <[email protected]>, "Dzu Do" <[email protected]>,
"Ben Dubrovsky" <[email protected]>, "Ian Rowe" <[email protected]>,
"Dave Weinstein" <[email protected]>
Mime-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII"
An useful exercise...
Subject: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project
Sent: 01/21 7:39 PM
Received: 01/22 11:08 AM
From: John Small, [email protected]
To: [email protected]
[email protected]
Tyrone Thomas, [email protected]
jay.ward%[email protected]
[email protected]
This is safe-mail, an idea worth pondering...
---------------------
Forwarded message:
From: [email protected] (julia tortolani)
To: [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
76341.1703@compuser, [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected], [email protected]
Date: 96-01-21 13:46:22 EST
I am forwarding this to all of you because I too think this student is
proposing an interesting and important concept in AIDS awarness. Imagine
the consequences with this model of transmission.
----------------------------------------------------------
From: [email protected]
Date: Fri, 19 Jan 1996 15:28:36 -0500
To: [email protected]
Subject: Fwd: FW: Fwd(3): FW: AIDS Project
-------------------------
the following is the forwarded from info:
-------------------------
Forwarded message:
From: [email protected]
Sender: [email protected]
To: [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected] (Jim Kurpius), [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected] (Chris M
Tostenson), [email protected]
Date: 96-01-19 01:17:18 EST
This is not intended to offend or inflame, but it is an interesting concept.
Continue it on the journey if you desire. Please Don't delete the other
addresses. It will make more sense as you read on...
----------
From: Lisa Winter
To: Working Assets\Share CS
Subject: Fwd(3): FW: AIDS Project
Date: Thursday, January 18, 1996 9:39AM
Not meant to offend...
----------------------------------------------------------------------------
--
FORWARDED FROM: Lisa Winter
To: lwinter@WASSETS
From: Paige@UGATE (Paige Manzo) {[email protected]}
Reply-to: Paige @ UGATE{[email protected]}
Subject: Fwd(3): FW: AIDS Project
Date: 07-Jan-96 16:18:40 +0000
____________________________________________________________
Not meant to offend...this is pretty interesting. Pass it on, please.
____________________________________________________________
Not meant to offend... i just 'hub' so many peoplez... :: gLENN
<---- Begin Forwarded Message ---->
Date: Wed, 20 Dec 95 16:27:41 -0800
From: [email protected] (Kristen Nelson)
Subject: FW: AIDS Project
To: gossip
..this is pretty interesting. Pass it on, please.
____________________________________________________________
<---- Begin Forwarded Message ---->
Date: Tue, 19 Dec 1995 15:45:50 -0500
From: [email protected]
To: [email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected],
[email protected], [email protected]
Subject: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project
just keep reading
---------------------
Forwarded message:
From: [email protected] (Tom Wear)
To: [email protected] (Sue Hartke), [email protected] (Jann Glisson),
[email protected] (Kasz Maciag), [email protected] ('cameron davidson'),
[email protected] (Caryn Rose), [email protected] (carlos), [email protected]
('Marta Smith'), [email protected] (Richard Younger), [email protected]
(Tedfry)
Date: 95-12-18 21:58:46 EST
Interesting synergy of cyberspace and AIDS education (with a little bit of
chain-letter). Please pass on, if you will.
TW
----------
From: Richard Stringfellow
To: Alex Hattwig; Charles Sliwoski; Daniel Armstrong; Danielle Turner;
Elizabeth Bellas; Ernest Batiste; Glen Martin; Jeff Wherett; Jon Luke;
Katherine DeBruler; Kaya Hoffmann; Nightime Imaging Lab Staff; Matt
vien;
Michael O'Brien; Sarah Phillips; Shawn Schollmeyer; Tom Wear
Subject: FW: AIDS Project
Date: Monday, December 18, 1995 6:09PM
As stated below, this is not meant to offend anyone...
----------
From: jkuras
To: 'Joseph, Kurt'; 'DeYonker, Michael'; 'Bertuccelli, Jeanne'; 'Hagberg,
John'; 'Balvanz, Randi'; 'Rose, James'; 'Kuras, John'; 'Marks, Manuel';
'Moore, Trevor'
Subject: FW: AIDS Project
Date: Saturday, December 16, 1995 7:05PM
Once again, this is not meant to offend anyone, but a good point could be
proven if we all participate.
Be well.
Andie
---------------------------------
Forwarded message
Date: Fri Dec 15, 1995 3:44 pm EST
From: Robin Ricca / MCI ID: 472-0700
TO: MHOUT
EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414
MBX: [email protected]
TO: Daniel Carda
EMS: CompuServe / MCI ID: 592-7515
MBX: P=CSMail
MBX: C=US
MBX: GI=Daniel
MBX: SU=Carda
MBX: D=ID=70304.2100
TO: 72703,1612
EMS: CompuServe / MCI ID: 592-7515
MBX: P=CSMail
MBX: C=US
MBX: GI=1612
MBX: SU=72703
MBX: D=ID=72703.1612
TO: Becky Boardsen
EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414
MBX: [email protected]
TO: Paul R Gross
EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414
MBX: [email protected]
TO: SIEGEL
EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414
MBX: siegel%[email protected]
TO: ROBYN R. GOSSARD
EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414
MBX: [email protected]
TO: Richard Ho / MCI ID: 546-5273
TO: Andie Joseph / MCI ID: 279-3580
TO: Joan S. Amann / MCI ID: 454-0942
TO: Timothy Sisneros / MCI ID: 607-2816
TO: Dwight W. Bynum / MCI ID: 271-2279
TO: Bryan Nielsen / MCI ID: 315-5567
Subject: AIDS Project
-- [ From: Robin Ricca * EMC.Ver #2.3 ] --
A rather strange lab project, but perchance some educational basis lies
beneath
this effort.
Don't delete the e-mail addresses, just pass it on...definitely
nteresting
reading.
Robin
------- FORWARD, Original message follows -------
Date: Thursday, 14-Dec-95 01:18 PM
From: Chris Poppe \ MCI Mail: (Chris Poppe / MCI ID:
550-3272)
To: William Stockton \ MCI Mail: (William Stockton / MCI ID:
423-9215)
To: Debbie Smith \ MCI Mail: (Debbie Smith / MCI ID:
596-4457)
To: Cynthia Zender \ MCI Mail: (Cynthia Zender / MCI ID:
720-4205)
To: Robin Ricca \ MCI Mail: (rricca / MCI ID:
72-0700)
To: Pam Benton \ MCI Mail: (Pam Benton / MCI ID:
543-4514)
Subject: AIDS Project
As below, not meant to offend but perhaps some goodness can be found...
____________________
Forwarded message:
Date: Thu Dec 14, 1995 10:57 am MST
From: Christopher McCloskey / MCI ID: 502-0337
TO: * Chris Poppe / MCI ID: 550-3272 Subject: AIDS Project
This is not intended to offend or inflame, but it is an interesting
concept.
Continue it on the journey if you desire. Please Don't delete the other
addresses.
Someone should let the originator know this message's progress from time to
time. If you receive it on Jan 2 or 3rd please send a copy of the whole
message to the original author.
Apologies for my promiscuity. Have a good, safe holiday.
Forwarded message:
_________________________________________________________________
Date: Thu Dec 14, 1995 09:29 am MST
Source-Date: Thu, 14 Dec 1995 08:02:42 -0700
From: John Roccaforte
EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414
MBX: [email protected]
TO: * Christopher McCloskey / MCI ID: 502-0337
Subject: AIDS Project
Message-Id: 64951214162946/0003765414DC1EM
Source-Msg-Id: <v01510100acf5eb7989b2@[164.104.1.35]>
U-Mime-Version: 1.0
U-Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"
From: [email protected]
Date: Wed, 13 Dec 1995 22:15:02 -0600 (CST)
To: internet"[email protected]"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us,
[email protected],
internet"[email protected]"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us,
[email protected],
internet"[email protected]"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us,
internet"[email protected]"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us,
[email protected] Subject: FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project
I realize that this is a bit disturbing, but I think that it makes a point
that
can not be made enough. Please share this with many people; there can not
be
enough discourse on HIV/AIDS!!!
Christy
From: ATHENA::LDOHERTY 13-DEC-1995 18:07:43.87
To: Croccaforte, kguijo, swelty, tnance, rwalkenhorst, clauer, lroefer,
jbarry, priley, sditterline, eboone, jhetzel, jbrown1, drausch, rrusso,
espiegel
Subj: FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project
From: ATHENA::MCONIGLIARO 13-DEC-1995 18:01:13.87
To: ldoherty
Subj: FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project
From: ATHENA::FERICSSON 13-DEC-1995 17:09:47.27
To: mconigliaro
Subj: FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project
From: SMTP%"[email protected]" 11-DEC-1995 23:57:59.39
To: FERICSSON
Subj: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project
Date: Tue, 12 Dec 1995 00:55:37 -0500
From: [email protected]
Message-ID: <[email protected]>
To: [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected],
[email protected] Subject: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project
---------------------
Forwarded message:
From: [email protected]
To: [email protected]@emin04.mail.aol.com
Date: 95-12-11 19:50:01 EST
From: SMTP%"[email protected]" 11-DEC-1995 17:36:38.46
To: RRUSSO
Subj: (Fwd) AIDS project
Date: Mon, 11 Dec 1995 15:32:13 -0800
From: [email protected]
Message-Id: <[email protected]>
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: text/plain
Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit
Subject: (Fwd) AIDS project
To: [email protected]
Cc: [email protected], [email protected]
X-Mailer: SPRY Mail Version: 04.00.06.14
<---- Begin Forwarded Message ---->
From: "Little Earthquakes" <[email protected]>
To: [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected],
[email protected], [email protected], [email protected]
Date: Mon, 11 Dec 1995 10:26:53 CST
Subject: (Fwd) AIDS project
Forwarded message:
From: "Abigail Cowan" <VIKING/ABIGAIL-COWAN>
To: Jennifer-McGinnis, Amanda-Wissel, carol-spatafora,
nadine-johns,
sanela-puskar, tricia-keefe, rebecca-blair, michelle-burke,
kimberly-mclain,
bridget-mcmanus
Date: Mon, 11 Dec 1995 00:27:22 CST
Subject: AIDS project
------- Forwarded Message Follows -------
From: "Snoot" <VIKING/JONATHAN-CIESLA>
To: Timothy-fries, jason-chase, Kelly-Thompson, Michael-Ray,
Abigail-Cowan,
joshua-sova, joshua-murphy, Ronald-Ruhaak, Nicholas-polyak
Date sent: Mon, 11 Dec 1995 00:21:20 CST
Subject: AIDS project
"You're the Inspiration"
-Chicago
SMILE!!!
**********************************************************************
Anyone know my e-mail address?
KEEP SMILIN', KEEP SHININ',
KNOWING YOU CAN ALWAYS COUNT ON ME, FOR SURE
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323.2236 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:44 | 2 |
| Um, isn't AIDS usually passed on by boinking? Aren't most people more casual
with who they email than with who they boink?
|
323.2237 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment vescimur. | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:47 | 1 |
| Not anymore, Gerald, at least not much.
|
323.2238 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:48 | 1 |
| Which question were you answering?
|
323.2239 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Wed Jan 24 1996 15:48 | 4 |
| Gerald, I would pose that question to the citizens throughout central
Africa and see how they answer it!
-Jack
|
323.2240 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Wed Jan 24 1996 16:02 | 4 |
|
Jack, I believe Europe is in worse shape than central Africa. Or is
that Asia. I forget which one.... I'll look it up
|
323.2241 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Jan 24 1996 16:03 | 1 |
| But there's less email in Central Africa than in Europe or Asia.
|
323.2242 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Wed Jan 24 1996 16:08 | 1 |
| :-)
|
323.2243 | Thinly veiled prank | HANNAH::BAY | Jim Bay, peripheral visionary | Wed Jan 24 1996 17:18 | 15 |
| I think this is actually an experiment in inundating the internet. The
requestor asked that forwards NOT be deleted. And this version is
pretty large already. Imagine what it will look like after a few
thousand (small number) more forwards.
Also, in any "experiment", you pose a hypothesis and test it. He has
certainly started a test, but he has no way of actually retrieving the
data. Unless everyone that forwards it forwards a copy to him as well,
which I'm sure would shut down his server quickly.
It doesn't sound thought out at all. This is more like one of those
mail viruses, and I commend Doug for removing it.
jeb
|
323.2244 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Jan 25 1996 10:47 | 140 |
| The note has been deleted from another conference now. Moderators claimed
it violates orange book policy. I don't think it does -- mailing it would
have, but posting it in a few conferences for discussion is not "developing
chain letters" (the forbidden action).
So continue the discussion here.
Here are extracts from some of the replies which had been posted there, with
other authors' identities removed:
================================================================================
Note xxx.1 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 1 of 16
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Where does the political correctness come in?
================================================================================
Note xxx.2 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 2 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 5 lines 24-JAN-1996 15:11
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Like I said, even though chain letters are normally forbidden, political
correctness outweighs that and would make it unlikely that any internet
provider would take action against the letter.
But obviously a moderator of one other conference (where I put it in a
topic about students using the internet for class projects) isn't at all
concerned about being considered politically incorrect, and deleted it.
/john
================================================================================
Note xxx.4 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 4 of 16
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> Like I said, even though chain letters are normally forbidden, political
> correctness outweighs that and would make it unlikely that any internet
> provider would take action against the letter.
I find this thread a non-sequitor! Are you trying to infect =WN=
members with virtual AIDs? I find no political correctness in that -
unless it is Rush Limblah correctness.
If this chain-letter is politically-correct to you then I think you have
a very strange [IMO] picture of politically correct that does not match
my view of it. Are you attempting to shock the members of =WN=?
I see no reason why a chain letter that portends to virtually infect
anyone would be protected from any action. Should I virtually sue you
for knowingly virtually infecting me with unsafe noting on your part?
Frankly, I find this whole thread pretty pointless and urge the mods
to delete the whole thing on the basis of lack of content. But what
do *I* know... :-\
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Note xxx.5 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 5 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 10 lines 24-JAN-1996 15:31
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The Political Correctness is "AIDS Awareness".
I'm currently discussing (off-line) whether "AIDS Awareness" is higher on
the scale of political correctness than "Spamming discouragement", and
which should take precedence.
BTW, I had just returned to move this topic to the Rathole rather than
give it a topic of its own, but the first reply had already appeared.
/john
================================================================================
Note xxx.6 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 6 of 16
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It's politically correct to be aware of AIDS? I should think it was
just healthy to be aware of AIDS.
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Note xxx.7 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 7 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 3 lines 24-JAN-1996 15:32
-< ACT-UP >-
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It's politically correct to be "in your face" about AIDS awareness.
/john
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Note xxx.9 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 9 of 16
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The "experiment" is bogus anyway -- if he really wanted even an
approximation of a transmission model the instructions should be to send
it to people with whom you have had at-risk sex or other at-risk
activites. Sending it to everyone you know on the net is simply
spamming.
================================================================================
Note xxx.10 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 10 of 16
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Also, are we going to wait four or five years and THEN see if this shows
up in our mail folders? I think this is not a good analogy at all...
================================================================================
Note xxx.11 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 11 of 16
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And the point is?
What's the little lesson our Moral Guardian wants to teach us this
time?
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Note xxx.12 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 12 of 16
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I find this note (xxx.0) extremely offensive. Not the
subject of HIV/AIDS, but the way it was presented, and the lack
of sensitivity to people with HIV/AIDS and their friends and
relatives.
I suggest that the mods delete this whole string.
================================================================================
Note xxx.13 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 13 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" 10 lines 25-JAN-1996 08:09
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> And the point is?
From the original message:
Let's see if the entire e-mail population
could get infected by me alone.
Will Young bradley succeed? Will everyone in the entire e-mail population
be infected from this message from a high-school student, passed on by
thousands, maybe even millions of e-mail users? Will internet providers
threaten to disconnect users for posting this message? Will moderators
delete it? Or is AIDS awareness such a politically charged topic that
messages such as this rightly take precedence over normal rules of
netiquette?
================================================================================
Note xxx.16 Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter 16 of 16
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I see Bradley's point. He's just out of class and they taught them a
thing or two about the transmission of AIDS. He knows about other
things, like email and Internet, and he used that as a reference frame
to 'play' with his new knowledge in order to get a better reference and
a more thorough understanding. All kids tend to do that, involving
things they learn into their standard play. Nothing special, if a
little childish.
>Or is AIDS awareness such a politically charged topic that
>messages such as this rightly take precedence over normal rules of
>netiquette?
Well? What are we to conclude if it is or if is isn't?
|
323.2245 | I'll take body lint for $200, ALex | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | pack light, keep low, move fast, reload often | Thu Jan 25 1996 10:52 | 6 |
| >> So continue the discussion here.
Let's see.....
Discuss a crusade or examine bellybutton lint. Hmmmm, this is a tough
one.
|
323.2246 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | memory canyon | Thu Jan 25 1996 11:06 | 1 |
| And the answer is "the source of white fuzz"
|
323.2247 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Thu Jan 25 1996 11:36 | 3 |
|
Gee John...... why here?
|
323.2248 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Thu Jan 25 1996 12:25 | 5 |
| Because Glen, the other conferences are full of dreamers who would
rather their head be in the sand than confronted reality. I have very
little patience with such stupidity.
-Jack
|
323.2249 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Thu Jan 25 1996 12:29 | 5 |
|
You mean, for instance, like if someone were convinced that teens
could be taught to practice abstinence instead of being given con-
doms?
|
323.2250 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Thu Jan 25 1996 12:31 | 1 |
| Works in my house Shawn. Sorry about yours!
|
323.2251 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Thu Jan 25 1996 12:34 | 5 |
| > Works in my house Shawn.
Geeziz, Jack - your kids are all of, what, 6 or 7 years old maybe? Less?
Let us know how well it works when they're 15 or 16.
|
323.2252 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Thu Jan 25 1996 12:39 | 13 |
|
You've gotta wonder what people like Jack do to muddy statistics,
you know?
Jack answers a sex survey, and reveals that the teaching of ab-
stinence has proved successful in preventing pregnancy in his
house. And 10K other parents of similarly-aged kids answer the
same way, and it appears that abstinence works like a charm.
So we have 10K+ households where the 6-year olds aren't getting
pregnant, and the 50K households which include teens of child-
bearing years don't bother to answer the survey.
|
323.2253 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Thu Jan 25 1996 13:09 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2248 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>
| Because Glen, the other conferences are full of dreamers who would
| rather their head be in the sand than confronted reality. I have very
| little patience with such stupidity.
Is that why you don't note in CHRISTIAN? I don't think you can even
talk about AIDS in there.
Glen
|
323.2254 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Thu Jan 25 1996 13:58 | 54 |
| News from the ACLU National Headquarters
ACLU Secures Final Victory in Groundbreaking AIDS Bias Case
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
January 23, 1996
TOLEDO -- A $350,000 settlement was announced today in a lawsuit
brought by the American Civil Liberties Union against a doctor and
hospital for refusing to treat a man with AIDS. The settlement
closes a precedent-setting case that paved the way for people with
HIV to be protected under federal law.
"We brought this case to prohibit doctors and hospitals from
refusing to treat people with HIV," said Marc E. Elovitz, staff
attorney for the ACLU's AIDS Project. "In clear language, a
federal court has sent a warning to medical professionals that they
are not exempt from federal non-discrimination laws. This
settlement will drive that point home."
The case was brought in 1992 on behalf of Fred L. Charon, who was
traveling through Ohio when he suffered a severe allergic reaction.
He was rushed to a nearby hospital in Fremont, Ohio only to be
refused treatment when the admitting physician, Dr. Charles
Hull who was quoted as saying "if you get an AIDS patient in the
hospital, you will never get them out" learned of his HIV status.
The ACLU brought suit against Dr. Hull and the Fremont Memorial
Hospital for violating federal law. In an initial victory, a federal
jury in June 1994 awarded Charon $512,000 in punitive and
compensatory damages, finding the doctor and hospital in violation
of the Federal Rehabilitation Act of 1973.
Several months later, federal district Judge John Potter ruled
that the defendants' actions also violated the Americans With
Disabilities Act, and enjoined them from further violations of the
law. The hospital and doctor was ordered to post signs in waiting
rooms informing patients with HIV of their right not to be denied
treatment.
In reaching his decision, Judge Potter rejected the defendants'
argument that there is a "medical exception" to non-discrimination
laws, as well as a number of arguments that would have denied
people with HIV the right to challenge unfair treatment.
It was the first decision applying the 1992 law to prohibit
doctors and hospitals from denying care to individuals because of
their HIV status. The settlement announced today ends the
defendants' appeal of that decision.
Although Charon passed away on March 25, 1993, the suit was
continued by his surviving partner, Bruce Howe, who represents
Charon's estate. The case was tried by the ACLU's Elovitz and
cooperating attorneys for the ACLU of Ohio, Ellen Simon (a partner
with the Cleveland law firm of Spangenberg, Shibley, Lancione &
Liber) and Doris Wohl (principal of the Toledo law firm of Wohl &
Associates).
"More than one million people in America are infected with HIV,"
said Ms. Simon. "This victory and settlement confirm that
discrimination against people with HIV is wrong and will not be
tolerated."
|
323.2255 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Thu Jan 25 1996 16:30 | 9 |
| Glen:
Ya know, I'd really love to see the look on your face when some day
there is a plague and you have a beloved family member who is exposed
to it and would be in breach of such laws if he/she refused treatment.
No doubt this will one day bite you in the arse.
-Jack
|
323.2256 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Thu Jan 25 1996 16:35 | 4 |
|
Jack, an infected person can't be refused treatment. That doesn't
mean the victim is forced to request treatment.
|
323.2257 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Thu Jan 25 1996 16:46 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2255 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>
| Ya know, I'd really love to see the look on your face when some day
| there is a plague and you have a beloved family member who is exposed
| to it and would be in breach of such laws if he/she refused treatment.
Huh? A person can't be refused to be treated. How does that tie in with
the above?
| No doubt this will one day bite you in the arse.
If I understood what you meant, maybe.
|
323.2258 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Thu Jan 25 1996 17:05 | 10 |
| Let me ask it this way. Say in twenty years or so, the black plague
comes back. You are a doctor in a hospital and somebody with the
plague comes in. Glen, I would in no way expect you to put your life
at risk.
I was saying a few back that the Rehabilitation Act of 1972 may apply
to the AIDS patient but someday it's going to bite us in the arse
because it may put the doctors life in jeopardy.
-Jack
|
323.2259 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment vescimur. | Thu Jan 25 1996 17:15 | 13 |
| .2258
> You are a doctor in a hospital and somebody with the
> plague comes in. ... I would in no way expect you to put your life
> at risk.
Then you would expect a doctor to refuse to do the thing that doctors
do, which is care for people who are ill. Sometimes being a doctor
requires risk, other times it does not. Throughout history, doctors
have been willing to take risks - otherwise, the cures we have for many
diseases would likely not exist, and tens of thousands more soldiers
who were treated by doctors in MASH units would have died from combat
injuries.
|
323.2260 | Hang your head, Jack | DECLNE::REESE | My REALITY check bounced | Thu Jan 25 1996 17:34 | 13 |
| Jack,
Hospitals have been equipped for treating patients who "might"
have the AIDS virus for quite awhile now; there's no reason to
refuse anyone treatment.
If it had happened in the late 70s or early 80s when researchers
still weren't sure how the virus was transmitted I could understand
a doctor being hesitant in treating someone who acknowledged they
had aids; by the time this incident occurred there was no excuse to
refuse.
|
323.2261 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Thu Jan 25 1996 17:59 | 11 |
|
>If it had happened in the late 70s or early 80s when researchers
>still weren't sure how the virus was transmitted I could understand
Reminds me of "And the Band Played On":
One of the best lines was the lady responding to the doctor's
question "Has your husband ever had sex with a man?" with "But
he's a MAN. How can a MAN have sex with another MAN??".
|
323.2262 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Jan 25 1996 20:15 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.2258 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>
> I was saying a few back that the Rehabilitation Act of 1972 may apply
> to the AIDS patient but someday it's going to bite us in the arse
> because it may put the doctors life in jeopardy.
Jack, You really are a cold-blooded bastard. Why don't we pass a law that
anyone with a communicable disease should be left to die.
Jim
|
323.2263 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Thu Jan 25 1996 21:23 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2262 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
| Jack, You really are a cold-blooded bastard.
Hmmm....... seems that something similar was said about Jack in another
conference.....funny how that all worked out, eh?
Glen
|
323.2264 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty! | Fri Jan 26 1996 08:44 | 6 |
| Z Jack, You really are a cold-blooded bastard. Why don't we pass a law
Z that anyone with a communicable disease should be left to die.
Yeah Yeah but enough with the compliments already.
Typical knee jerk reaction.
|
323.2265 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 08:45 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.2264 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>
| Typical knee jerk reaction.
Jack, why is it that people seem to do this to you sooooooo often? In
other conferences too????
Glen
|
323.2266 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Jan 26 1996 08:58 | 1 |
| 'Cos in the end, people get what they deserve.
|
323.2267 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Captain Dunsel | Fri Jan 26 1996 09:10 | 4 |
| I heard on the news that some children have been able to fight off the
HIV infection.
This is certainly good news.
|
323.2268 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:31 | 3 |
| Jack is right about one thing. No one should be forced to place themselves in
jeopardy for someone else. The choice is the individuals regardless of the
outcome. We should help or not help for our own reasons.
|
323.2269 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:36 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.2268 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>
| Jack is right about one thing. No one should be forced to place themselves in
| jeopardy for someone else.
Then they should not choose to be doctors. As Dick said, you have
doctors, nurses, who go to war. You have the same working with patients with
all sorts of diseases they could catch. You either accept it, or don't take the
oath. Cuz otherwise, it becomes the hypocritical oath.
Glen
|
323.2270 | not about individual doctors | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:41 | 14 |
|
What's this about doctors not being able to refuse to treat a
disease ? I've had several decline - sorry, I am totally
ignorant, please see Dr. Specialist who will give me a kickback.
I thought this was about HOSPITALS, not individual doctors.
There are hospitals who say, "Sorry, but we lack the gazillion
dollars and rare expertise to do heart transplants. Call this
other place." That's OK. So far as I can see, the question is
whether ALL hospitals ought to be equipped to treat AIDS. So far
as I know, this is not impractical. If it were, it would be stupid.
bb
|
323.2271 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:44 | 6 |
|
Bill, did you mean "treat AIDS" or "treat AIDS patients"?
The issue is not necessarily treating AIDS, but treating someone
with AIDS, whether treating for that disease or not.
|
323.2272 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:53 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.2270 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
| What's this about doctors not being able to refuse to treat a
| disease ? I've had several decline - sorry, I am totally
| ignorant, please see Dr. Specialist who will give me a kickback.
If someone does not know how to treat problem A, B, or C....there is no
problem. It's when they REFUSE to treat A, B or C when they do know how, is the
problem.
Glen
|
323.2273 | don't get the distinction, Shawn | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Jan 26 1996 10:55 | 15 |
|
Well, as I understand it, there really ISN'T any cure, which
is the tragedy. There are mitigating measures, but the prognosis
is always horrible death. They now have techniques of making this
lengthy, excruciating, and expensive, but nobody lives 5 years
with real AIDS. Being HIV+ doesn't necessarily have this result,
but it's the only path to AIDS, and they monitor you.
Doctors actually tell people this. "You are going to die. If I
could do anything, I would. But there is nothing I can do. Maybe
someday we will figure it out." I'd sure hate to have a doctor
refuse to even tell me that, even if he does charge my insurance
company for doing it. Seems reasonable to me.
bb
|
323.2274 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 11:11 | 2 |
| Though I think that doctors should help, that does not give anyone the right to
force them to help.
|
323.2275 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 11:17 | 5 |
|
So if you were brought into the hospital after a heart attack and
died in the waiting room because all the doctors were on coffee
break, you'd be OK with that?
|
323.2276 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 11:27 | 10 |
| Re: .2275
Making a problem that doesn't exist, to prove a point? How many emergency rooms
do you know of that wouldn't treat a heart attach victim? I'd venture to say,
none.
There are plenty of doctors to go around. Find one that will treat the condition
and leave the others alone. A doctor who refuses to treat patiences will
probably lose his practice in a short time. In addition I wouldn't want a
doctor who was forced to treat me. I might suspect he wasn't into his work.
|
323.2277 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 11:43 | 4 |
|
The issue is treating people WITH the condition, not treating the
condition itself.
|
323.2278 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment vescimur. | Fri Jan 26 1996 11:50 | 5 |
| .2276
Documented case. Methodist Hospital, Indianapolis. A man who had had
a heart attack was allowed to die in the Emergency Room waiting area
because he had no medical insurance.
|
323.2279 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 11:52 | 5 |
|
There was a "Quincy" episode that dealt with that issue. A cert-
ain hospital was transferring incoming patients to a hospital a-
cross town if the patient didn't have sufficient coverage.
|
323.2280 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 12:06 | 7 |
| >Documented case. Methodist Hospital, Indianapolis. A man who had had
>a heart attack was allowed to die in the Emergency Room waiting area
>because he had no medical insurance.
So Dick, are you suggesting that new laws be created to force doctors
participation, because you can find one case out of a millions?
|
323.2281 | Ain't anecdotes great!! | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Too many politicians, not enough warriors. | Fri Jan 26 1996 12:39 | 1 |
|
|
323.2282 | | SMURF::BINDER | Eis qui nos doment vescimur. | Fri Jan 26 1996 12:56 | 5 |
| .2280
Doubting that one could be produced, you asked for a single citation.
I provided one. I lived in Indianapolis at the time said breach of
medical ethics occurred.
|
323.2283 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | We shall behold Him! | Fri Jan 26 1996 13:02 | 13 |
|
> -< Ain't anecdotes great!! >-
They're also handy to have around in case of accidental poisoning!
Jim
|
323.2284 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 13:12 | 13 |
|
I guess the point of this whole discussion is WHOOSHING right
over people.
If there is no way to force a doctor to treat someone, then
there is no such thing as an invalid excuse for NOT treating
someone. They can refuse treatment for ANY reason that they
choose to use.
Becoming a doctor is tantamount to agreeing to treat anyone,
to the best of your abilities, whether or not it's documented
as such.
|
323.2285 | oh, bah - they're just people | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Jan 26 1996 13:33 | 9 |
|
Get off your high horse, Shawn. Medicine is A BUSINESS. I
don't do free engineering. I don't do engineering I'm not
competent to do. I don't do engineering if I don't believe in
the goals of it. Doctors are no different. There is no shortage
of doctors willing to treat AIDS patients, as well as they can,
which isn't very well. Much ado about nothing.
bb
|
323.2286 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 13:36 | 8 |
|
OK, a guy with AIDS goes to a hospital complaining of chest pains.
They refuse to give him treatment for the pains because he has
AIDS, and he dies of a heart attack as he's walking back out the
door.
Are you OK with this?
|
323.2287 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:06 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2274 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>
| Though I think that doctors should help, that does not give anyone the right to
| force them to help.
Once they take the oath, they are required to, no?
|
323.2288 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:07 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.2279 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448" >>>
| There was a "Quincy" episode that dealt with that issue. A cert-
| ain hospital was transferring incoming patients to a hospital a-
| cross town if the patient didn't have sufficient coverage.
Quincy went ballistic in that episode! Wait.... he went ballistic in
EVERY episode. :-)
|
323.2289 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:09 | 5 |
| re: .2286
Shawn, very good point, and things like that, or say a car accident, is
where people have the worst time with doctors.
|
323.2290 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:14 | 5 |
|
Glen, that's the 2nd or 3rd time I've relayed the same situation
with minor changes in the details ... people are confusing the
treating of an AIDS patient with the treating of AIDS itself.
|
323.2291 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:19 | 5 |
|
Shawn, that was the one I think people might understand better than the
others. Although I got what you were saying. Hmmm... that could be a scary
thing for both of us.... ;-)
|
323.2292 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 14:55 | 13 |
|
>OK, a guy with AIDS goes to a hospital complaining of chest pains.
>They refuse to give him treatment for the pains because he has
>AIDS, and he dies of a heart attack as he's walking back out the
>door.
The problem with this again is that it is a made up situation. If it has
ever happened at all, it is so infrequent as to be of no consequence. We continue
to make rules and regulations based on such as this. Give me a common real
problem to solve on this subject, based on facts and then we can discuss it.
Doctors choose their fields based on their interest and experise. Void of
regulation doctors, like all other businesses, would move in to fill a need
that is genuine, for business, interest and personal reasons.
|
323.2293 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 15:04 | 3 |
|
Ralston... insert car accident in the place of chest pains.....
|
323.2294 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 15:17 | 7 |
| Again, made up problem. If not OK, but show where it happens. You can keep
changing the scenario all you want. Unless it is a real situation to solve it
is worthless and should not be considered. In 1996 there are doctors and most
hospitals that are capable and willing to treat AIDS patients. Forcing
someone to do it only looks like it is solving a problem. If I force a
doctor to treat a patient that he doesn't want to treat, what good is that
for the patient? I sure wouldn't want him treating me.
|
323.2295 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 15:18 | 7 |
|
Tom, it doesn't matter WHY he's there. He's there, and he has
AIDS, and he's refused treatment.
This is somewhat of a fabricated situation, but isn't this what
started the current thread in the 1st place?
|
323.2296 | Force always produces the wrong outcome. | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 15:30 | 9 |
| I am all for AIDS research and plenty of it. I think that it is imperative
to cure this terrible disease. I think that the FDA should get out of the way
and let the doctors and AIDS patients decide what drugs to try and how to
proceed. I don't however believe that anyone should be forced by anyone else to
participate. Force is of no use to anyone, especially the AIDS patient. The
high level and quality of research required to cure AIDS and the importance
of that cure makes it imperative that only the best doctors participate. If
I had AIDS I would not want a second rate doctor or one who's heart wasn't in
the game.
|
323.2297 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 16:18 | 6 |
|
I give up.
Someone else can teach the rest of "Comprehension 101" while I
try and recover my sanity, or what little I have left.
|
323.2298 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 16:40 | 3 |
| You often blame comprehension for those who you claim do not understand. Perhaps
your inability to communicate honestly and rationally has something to do with
it.
|
323.2299 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 16:41 | 8 |
|
I don't remember shawn being irrational at all. And he has honestly
presented examples of things that can happen. So where are you coming from?
Glen
|
323.2300 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Jan 26 1996 16:41 | 1 |
| snarf
|
323.2301 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 16:56 | 16 |
| Re: .2299, Glen
The examples are not real or happen so seldom as to be worthless. It is
irrational and a waste of time IMO to create a problem just to solve it.
A created example does not a problem make.
If AIDS patients are not being treated for some reason that is real, it should be
examined. Why is it happening, are there alternatives. Are doctors and
hospitals refusing AIDS patients? If so why. What can be done to change this?
I would claim that forcing doctors and hospitals to treat AIDS patients is
not the answer. AIDS patients will be hurt by this more than helped. They will
get inferior service which is only to their detriment. As I have stated their
are numerous doctors and hospitals available and willing to treat AIDS. That is
not the problem. The real problem that I see is the restrictions placed on
doctors and hospitals. Restrictions that put the brakes on real and affective
cures that are so desperately needed.
|
323.2302 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448 | Fri Jan 26 1996 16:57 | 11 |
|
Person wants heart condition treated.
Person has AIDS.
Doctor says "No treat. AIDS bad."
Person dies of heart condition.
This bad.
|
323.2303 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Fri Jan 26 1996 17:01 | 2 |
| Agree, but how often does it happen? Has it happened at all. Do you think
forcing a doctor to treat the patient is to the patient's advantage. I don't.
|
323.2304 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | Too many politicians, not enough warriors. | Fri Jan 26 1996 17:21 | 19 |
| Person wants heart condition treated.
Person has AIDS.
Doctor says "We'll treat. AIDS bad."
Person does not respond to treatment.
Person becomes despondent.
Person begins to hate doctor and blames him/her for
not doing enough
Person, just before slipping into a coma, spits in doctor's face
Person dies of heart condition.
This bad.
|
323.2305 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Sat Jan 27 1996 19:58 | 26 |
| | <<< Note 323.2301 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>
| The examples are not real
False. I KNOW the accident one is real.
| or happen so seldom as to be worthless.
Oh yeah.... makes sense... AIDS patients don't have any type of
accidents where blood comes into play, so it has to be worthless. Uh huh....
| It is irrational and a waste of time IMO to create a problem just to solve it.
Of course it would be a waste for you...cuz it shows how flawed your
thinking is...oh well....
| If AIDS patients are not being treated for some reason that is real, it should be
| examined.
Accidents, especially where blood is involved, isn't real? Uh huh....
Glen
|
323.2306 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Sat Jan 27 1996 22:54 | 9 |
| Glen,
I got the universal protection lecture in my last First Aid course.
All people in accidents are supposed to be treated as if they may have
a body fluid transmisible desease. I keep my gloves in a film can in
my pack and have trained my girl scouts to always "glove up" when
dealing with a bleeding accident.
meg
|
323.2307 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sun Jan 28 1996 08:52 | 64 |
| Internet AIDS letter keeps spreading, and that's the point
----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Copyright � 1996 Nando.net
Copyright � 1996 The Associated Press
SAN FRANCISCO (Jan 27, 1996 3:33 p.m. EST) -- A circle of friends, lots of
socializing, maybe you don't know everyone as well as you should, and then,
suddenly, one day you get it -- the AIDS virus.
In your e-mail, that is.
You've become part of an interesting experiment that's been making its way
around the Internet for the last two months -- an e-mail chain letter that's
been spreading from person to person, just like the deadly virus.
On Wednesday it went into pandemic mode when it was sent out as part of the
daily Internet AIDS news summary by the Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention in Atlanta.
"It was sent out to show that the virus can be transmitted very quickly. It
can go around the world," said Flynn McLean, an information specialist with
the CDC who helps assemble the on-line updates.
The e-mail letter started as a message sent as early as November from
someone known only as "young Bradley," who began it as part of a health
class project on AIDS.
"Could you all pretend that I have HIV, and I gave it to you. Then could you
pass it on to your friends? Let's see if the entire e-mail population could
get infected by me alone," the message read.
Each time the message was forwarded, or "transmitted" on the Internet, the
To: line showed just how many people it has "infected." By Friday, the
headers took up 10 pages and consisted of several hundred names. The
letterhead bounced from Alaska through Microsoft workers in Seattle to New
York and then back to the West Coast.
By now, all traces of the original sender, beyond his name, have been
obliterated.
Of course, HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, isn't as easily transmitted as
junk e-mail.
The very nature of e-mail relationships is detached people in front of
computer screens. Intimate contact is what spreads the AIDS virus. Bradley's
message assures readers that AIDS is only transmitted by having unprotected
sex or sharing needles.
Still, having the message pop up on your screen does give pause.
"The message clearly demonstrates how anyone can be affected by HIV," said
Rob Sabados of ACT UP!, the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power in San
Francisco.
While the transmission of electronic mail may not be the best model for how
HIV is passed along, it does highlight a powerful tool in the fight against
AIDS, said Dr. James Curran, dean of the school of public health at Emory
University in Atlanta.
"The spread of information about HIV on the Internet is excellent," he said.
An AIDS "virtual library" can be found at
http://www.actwin.com/aids/vl.html.
|
323.2308 | | BRITE::FYFE | Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without. | Mon Jan 29 1996 09:22 | 9 |
|
Has anyone answered the question of the frequency a patients with AIDS being
refused treatment?
Is it a real problem? Few (if any) isolated instances?
Someone set the scope of the issue please ...
Doug.
|
323.2309 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Mon Jan 29 1996 10:32 | 12 |
| Re: .2305, Glen
I'm surprised at you Glen. Usually you keep your replies in context. Your
emotional response to this issue is evident. Think about it. Forcing doctors
to treat patients (any patient, with any illness) will only result in the
quality of care to deteriorate. I personally do not want a doctor, who was
forced by another law, to treat me. I would be very suspect of his dedication
to my case. There are plenty of doctors that are willing to treat all the
known illnesses. It is s given that some problems will exist. However, the
frequency is much to small to warrant more stupid laws.
Tom
|
323.2310 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Mon Jan 29 1996 10:39 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.2309 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>
| I'm surprised at you Glen. Usually you keep your replies in context. Your
| emotional response to this issue is evident.
There is emotion involved. But it would be the same emotion involved if
someone, in an emergency situation, wasn't treated. It could be for AIDS, the
person's color, nationality, lack of insurance, anything.
| Think about it. Forcing doctors to treat patients (any patient, with any
| illness) will only result in the quality of care to deteriorate.
What you have failed to see in all this is when we talk about the
common denominator in the cases. Emergencies. In an emergency situations,
people, any people, don't need to have doctors around who are not going to
attend to anyone who comes in during an emergency. If they can't do the job,
then don't be in that part of the hospital. It's very simple.
Glen
|
323.2311 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Fugitive from the law of averages | Mon Jan 29 1996 10:58 | 9 |
| Again Glen, your not including all of the context of my note. I know that some
problems will exist. If you think that a law, forcing doctors to treat all
patients, will eliminate these problems, I suggest you examine the numerous
laws presently on the books and see if the problems these laws were created
to alleviate worked. I suggest that they haven't. The only outcome of such a
law will be the creation of a new bureaucratic mess that will cost taxpayers
more money and place more power in the hands of our politicians. I will even
be so bold to suggest that such a law would only increase incidents like
those that concern you.
|
323.2312 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Mon Jan 29 1996 12:23 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.2311 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>
| Again Glen, your not including all of the context of my note. I know that some
| problems will exist. If you think that a law, forcing doctors to treat all
| patients, will eliminate these problems, I suggest you examine the numerous
| laws presently on the books and see if the problems these laws were created
| to alleviate worked.
In an emergency room, there should be only ONE reason why a patient
should be turned away. And that is if the hospital is not equiped to do the job
needed. Otherwise, they should help whoever comes in, PERIOD.
| I will even be so bold to suggest that such a law would only increase
| incidents like those that concern you.
What I would see likely happening is if someone who did not want to
deal with certain types of people who come into the emergency room, wouldn't be
working in the emergency room.
Glen
|
323.2313 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | cuddly as a cactus | Mon Jan 29 1996 13:19 | 14 |
| Actually there has been a study regarding pediatric HIV+ patients and
discrimination. children who are HIV + or merely have the
antibodies for a short time are routinely denied repair of heart
defects (not related to HIV, but common in children whose mothers had
poor prenatal nutrition, a common problem amoung HIV+ women) There are
other items which are not treted as well. This was in the news a
couple of months ago. It was a CDC study, FWIW.
If Dr's routinely discriminate against the smallest victims of this
scourge, I am not surprised that the adults victims are simalarly
treated.
meg
meg
|
323.2314 | | WECARE::GRIFFIN | John Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159 | Mon Jan 29 1996 13:26 | 2 |
| What -- no indignation about Israelis ditching Ethiopian blood
donations?
|
323.2315 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Feb 16 1996 09:18 | 60 |
| U.S. says AIDS deaths rising, ages 25-44 hardest hit
----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Copyright � 1996 Reuter Information Service
ATLANTA (Feb 15, 1996 6:51 p.m. EST) - Deaths from AIDS rose 9 percent in a
year and the disease was the leading cause of death among Americans aged 25
to 44 for a second year in a row, federal health officials said on Thursday.
The U.S. Centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimated that,
among all ages, 55,000 to 60,000 people with AIDS died in 1994, the latest
year for which figures were available. The total U.S. population is about
260 million.
The agency said the total number of AIDS deaths rose 9 percent from 1993 to
1994.
The CDC said AIDS accounted for 19 percent of all deaths among people aged
25 to 44 in 1994. Of all AIDS deaths in 1994, 72 percent were among people
aged 25 to 44, 25 percent were among those age 45 or older, and 3 percent
occurred in people under age 25.
Dr. John Ward, chief of the CDC's HIV/AIDS Surveillance Branch, said deaths
from AIDS can only be estimated because death certificates sometimes list
other causes.
"Based on death certificates we know of an estimated 42,000 persons who have
died of HIV, and that number may be as high as 55,000 to 60,000," Ward said.
Among people aged 25 to 44, AIDS caused 32 percent of deaths among black
men, 22 percent of deaths among black women, 20 percent among white men and
6 percent among white women. In this age bracket, the rate of AIDS-related
deaths rose 30 percent among white women, 28 percent among black women, and
13 percent among black men. The rate among white men aged 25 to 44 changed
little, the CDC said.
"It's sobering to me that almost one out of every three black men who die in
this age group die of HIV, an illness that wasn't even recognised 15 to 16
years ago," Ward said. "These are very disturbing statistics."
The CDC said 1994 was the first year that AIDS was the leading cause of
death among white men aged 25 to 44 and the second year it was the leading
cause among black women in that age group.
AIDS has been the leading cause of death among black men aged 25 to 44 every
year since 1991.
The rate of AIDS-related deaths among people age 25 to 44 was almost four
times as high among black men than it was among white men, the CDC said, and
the rate was nine times as high for black women as it was for white women.
In 1994, the death rate from AIDS was 177.9 per 100,000 among black men aged
25 to 44, and 51.2 per 100,000 among black women.
The CDC also warned that the estimated 80,000 HIV-infected women of
childbearing age who were alive in 1992 will leave approximately 125,000 to
150,000 children when they die during the 1990s.
Among people aged 25 to 44, the second-leading cause of death is
unintentional injuries -- mostly motor vehicle accidents, Ward said.
|
323.2316 | | GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER | going, going, gone | Fri Feb 16 1996 10:33 | 13 |
|
Anyone catch the whole Tommy Morrison press conference yesterday? What
he said and what was shown on most news broadcasts seemed like two
different things. He said the lifestyle he led (permissive) can only
lead to one thing. Misery. He also said he doesn't want kids to look
at him as a role model any longer, but he hopes they will learn from
his mistakes.
Definitely a heartfelt message and one that took a lot of guts and has
given me a lot of respect for this guy.
Mike
|
323.2317 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Feb 16 1996 11:03 | 9 |
| Z "It's sobering to me that almost one out of every three black men who
Z die in
Z this age group die of HIV, an illness that wasn't even recognised 15 to
Z 16 years ago," Ward said. "These are very disturbing statistics."
This is most likely attributed to the rampant spread of HIV in Central
Africa to which Glen doesn't believe me.
-Jack
|
323.2318 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Keep hands & feet inside ride at all times | Fri Feb 16 1996 11:07 | 3 |
| Jack, your comprehension module is on the fritz again. Whack your head
on your desk a few times, that should straighten it out. The data is
for the U.S. HTH.
|
323.2319 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Feb 16 1996 11:19 | 4 |
| OH...
Nevermind!!
|
323.2320 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Fri Feb 16 1996 14:20 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2317 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| This is most likely attributed to the rampant spread of HIV in Central
| Africa to which Glen doesn't believe me.
No Jack, they are US figures only.
|
323.2321 | See .2318 hth | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | He's no lackey!! He's a toady!! | Fri Feb 16 1996 14:27 | 1 |
|
|
323.2322 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Mon Mar 11 1996 11:59 | 28 |
|
Just got off the phone with Greg Brown, who is handling the Digital
account for the Walk. Check this out:
1991: 154 walkers, $56,608 raised #1
1992: 288 walkers, $78,170 raised #1
1993: 154 walkers, $46,443 raised #1
1994: 138 walkers, $38,750 raised #2
1995: 21 walkers, $ 4,300 raised
What happened? I know after 1994 we lost the money kicked in by
Digital, and layoffs took � the company away.....but we lost about 85% of
the walkers. And I know when we did pre-registration here in Hudson, we got one
person who came in with $1000! And he almost didn't walk because of a foot or
knee problem. (i forget which) Digital isn't really organizing stuff this
year, but we really need to get people out there and walking, getting sites set
up to advertise the walk, posters, pre-registration, etc. If there is ANYONE
who can volunteer to get the walk going in your site, please, PLEASE, drop a
note into the WECARE::AIDS_WALK.
This is a Digital Sponsored Event.
Glen
|
323.2323 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Dia do bheatha. | Mon Mar 11 1996 13:42 | 1 |
| Looks like Digital layed off all the walkers...
|
323.2324 | only couch potatoes remain | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Mon Mar 11 1996 13:53 | 4 |
|
those of us left are too catatonic to even wiggle
bb
|
323.2325 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Wed Mar 13 1996 10:42 | 63 |
|
********************************************************************************
THIS IS A DIGITAL SPONSORED EVENT
********************************************************************************
Hi Everyone!
Well, we have gotten the Walk organizing started! With
Digital not doing much of anything this year, we will have to
do the bulk of it.
In 1994 we raised $38+k, with 138 walkers. In 1995 we
raised $4300+, with 21 walkers. Last year we had one person who
came in with $1+k. And he wasn't planning on walking due to an
injury.
In 1996 we have got to do better. Not for Digital's
sake, but for those who could really use the money.
Site coordinators are really needed badly. Without
them, it is going to be hard to get the message out.
You're probably asking what would be required? That's
an easy question to answer. We need people to hang posters and
put pledge sheets somewhere where people can get to them. If
that was all you did, then that would be fine. If you planned
an event, then you would probably have to have a meeting. But
that is totally up to you.
HLO is having a contest for kids, where they draw a
picture dealing with AIDS. The winner gets a t-shirt, and
everyone else gets their pictures on a poster. The t-shirt
will also be given to anyone who walks.
Gear has said they would donate a jacket to us for the
person who gains the most money from pledges. That will be
determined by the person who comes up with the most money at
pre-registration. (which looks to be in Littleton and Hudson
this year)
So all that is left is getting site coordinators for the
various facilities. We do have people who said they would cover the
following facilities:
ZKO1, ZKO3, TAY2, MRO1, NQO & HLO1-3
If you are not at one of these facilities, and you can hang
some posters, please let me know so I can add you to the list.
Thanks!
Glen
********************************************************************************
THIS IS A DIGITAL SPONSORED EVENT
********************************************************************************
|
323.2326 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | Little Chamber of French Heaters | Wed Mar 13 1996 10:49 | 3 |
|
When is the walk this year?
|
323.2327 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity | Wed Mar 13 1996 11:06 | 7 |
|
June 2nd for the Boston Walk, and June 9th for the Worcester Walk.
Glen
|
323.2328 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Wed Mar 13 1996 14:36 | 13 |
|
There is an AIDS Walk page that was started a couple of years ago. We
have permission to use it as a Digital page for walk info for 96. It will have
information about what is happening this year. Right now it is 2 years old, but
updates will be happening on a regular basis. The page is at:
http://sdtad.zko.dec.com/pub/csgperf/group/wwlk/wwlk-aids-walk-info.html
Glen
|
323.2329 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue Mar 26 1996 15:10 | 36 |
|
We just got the numbers in from APW (AIDS Project Worcester) for
Digital. In 1994 there were 60 walkers with Digital. They raised $10,021.50.
In 1995 there were only 10 walkers, and they raised only $1,629.
What seems evident in both the APW and AAC Walks is that the number of
people who actually walk are down. This is key, I believe. The APW Walk was
down 83% for walkers, while the AAC Walk was down 85%. What happened to the
walkers?
If you add in the money %'s, you get this result:
mf= matching funds
1994 (with mf) 1994 (w/o mf) 1995 %drop with mf %drop w/o mf
APW $10,021 $6,700 $1,629 84% 76%
AAC $38,000 $25,000 $4,300 89% 83%
This is quite the drop in people, and in money. Can we make this year
any better? Not so much for Digital's sake, but for those who really need it. I
urge that if you can help out in any way with this Digital sponsored event,
please do.
What ways can we devise that might get some interest back into this?
Glen
|
323.2330 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Apr 23 1996 13:12 | 15 |
| Z Police said they want to know if there are more victims. They said
Z they are concerned that the incidents could lead to a kidnapping, or
Z that the suspect's milk could transmit diseases or drugs to the infant.
Z "There's always the possibility of HIV with fluids," Johnson said.
This is a lie. I have been assured by Glen AND the science community
that nobody can catch AIDS except by unprotected sex, drug use, or
transfusions.
I wish these people would just mind their own business and stop trying
to scare the public into something that isn't true. We live in America
and America is synonomous with freedom.
-Jack
|
323.2331 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue Apr 23 1996 14:15 | 3 |
|
Jack, to go along with what you are quoting, you are a boob.
|
323.2332 | | BSS::PROCTOR_R | Smarmy THIS!!! | Tue Apr 23 1996 14:47 | 6 |
| > Jack, to go along with what you are quoting, you are a boob.
I believe boobs were mentioned in today's edition of Wacky News
Briefs". Something to do with a frustrated mother-wannabe...
|
323.2333 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Apr 23 1996 14:49 | 2 |
| Oh, so then you do admit that there are many more ways to catch
HIV...and that our methods of determining truth are inconclusive...
|
323.2334 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue Apr 23 1996 15:50 | 5 |
|
Jack, when you can find something where I said body fluids getting into
the blood stream is not a possible cause, then you have a point. But you never
will because I, and others, have talked about body fluids all along.
|
323.2336 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue Apr 23 1996 15:54 | 3 |
|
I don't think I can print what I am thinking, Shawn.... :-)
|
323.2335 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | FUBAR | Tue Apr 23 1996 15:56 | 3 |
|
Jack's a few teats short of an udder sometimes, isn't he?
|
323.2337 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Apr 23 1996 16:27 | 2 |
| May the fleas from ten thousand diseased camels descend upon your naked
bodies! And may you NEVER RECOVER!!!!
|
323.2338 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue Apr 23 1996 16:40 | 3 |
|
Nice answer, Jack. Maybe if you did some research into the disease....
|
323.2339 | | BSS::SMITH_S | | Tue Apr 23 1996 20:12 | 2 |
| ...and watch out for those misquitoes, right?
-ss
|
323.2340 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue Apr 23 1996 21:46 | 3 |
|
I thought you couldn't write anymore? :-)
|
323.2341 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Tue Apr 23 1996 23:04 | 8 |
|
mOsquito..
|
323.2342 | | BSS::SMITH_S | | Wed Apr 24 1996 00:02 | 4 |
| re .-2
No. I can sneak in every once in a while.
-ss
|
323.2343 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Wed Apr 24 1996 07:35 | 3 |
|
How lucky we are not.
|
323.2344 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Apr 24 1996 12:19 | 9 |
| Glen:
My initial posting here was a cynical response to the live free
community. Only to prove that the private actions of a few DO effect
the whole community. I get annoyed because this philosophy called
Subjective Hedonism is a fallacy in itself. All actions ultimately
have an effect on the society at large.
-Jack
|
323.2345 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | april is the coolest month | Wed Apr 24 1996 12:31 | 4 |
| |Subjective Hedonism is a phallacy in itself.
As opposed to objective hedonism?
|
323.2346 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Wed Apr 24 1996 12:37 | 6 |
|
Jack, that does not make any sense. You directed it right at me. Hmm...
ok, so you may have a point. :-)
Of course your info was wrong as usual. :-)
|
323.2347 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Apr 24 1996 13:33 | 4 |
| Oh...so you do believe that every action ultimately has an effect on
society as a whole. Thanks for agreeing with me.
|
323.2348 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Wed Apr 24 1996 14:37 | 8 |
|
Jack, it amazes me today that how you get the notes you write. It seems
like each time you write one to someone today, that person says the same thing,
"How did you get that from what I wrote?"
|
323.2349 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Apr 24 1996 14:53 | 1 |
| Fouteen Quatloos to anybody who can decipher Glens last reply.
|
323.2350 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | A Parting Shot in the Dark | Wed Apr 24 1996 15:21 | 8 |
|
OK, I'll try.
Translation: "Jack, you are a moron."
And I'll take those 14 Quatloos in cash ... no checks.
|
323.2351 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Thu Apr 25 1996 10:07 | 6 |
| Chop chop all you want...but we can never escape the inevitable.
Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they
are.
|
323.2352 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz! | Thu Apr 25 1996 12:00 | 10 |
|
>Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they
>are.
In the sense of "every single action has some effect [however
small or large] on the future", then yes, you're right.
But this is a blanket statement that just isn't true in all
cases.
|
323.2353 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Thu Apr 25 1996 21:55 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.2351 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they are.
Explain...in detail. Not that I think you can, but I would love to see
you try.
|
323.2354 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Apr 26 1996 11:15 | 4 |
| Well, let's try it this way Glen. Your personal life alone determines
your parents outlook on you. Be it good or bad, it makes no diff.
Your personal choices determine peoples outlook on your integrity, your
convictions and character...be it good or bad, it makes no diff.
|
323.2355 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Crazy Cooter comin' atcha!! | Fri Apr 26 1996 11:40 | 14 |
|
Jack, the fact that Glen likes guys does not effect my life a
bit, at least not in the way you're trying to explain.
However, let's say Glen is going somewhere to meet some guy,
and he's travelling down 85 in Hudson and I happen to be trav-
elling up 85 in Hudson. His wheel falls off, he swerves into
my lane and hits my car.
NOW his personal choices have effected my life, since if he
didn't like guys he very probably wouldn't have been in that
particular place at that particular time, heading towards
that particular destination.
|
323.2356 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Apr 26 1996 11:46 | 1 |
| And all because the man has loose nuts.....
|
323.2357 | unless he's a sperm banker | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | a legend beings at its end | Fri Apr 26 1996 11:55 | 4 |
| > Jack, the fact that Glen likes guys does not effect my life a
The fact that Glen "likes guys" doesn't effect any lives. Now if he
liked women, then he might have a chance to effect a life.
|
323.2358 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Idleness, the holiday of fools | Fri Apr 26 1996 12:01 | 10 |
| Shawn, obviously you fail to recognize the social expense associated
with the gay lifestyle. If there weren't gays, we would not have as
many people to hate, fear and whisper about. We would have less fodder
for our children to learn about morally righteous intolerance. Pat
Robertson et al would only have half as much to blame on Satan. We
would have to find another explanation for the eventual proliferation of
AIDS and other communicable diseases. Yes, alternative lifestyles weigh
very heavily on society.
Brian
|
323.2359 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Apr 26 1996 12:14 | 19 |
| Z Yes, alternative lifestyles weigh
Z very heavily on society.
Brian, let's make this more generic and include the whole attitude
within our society since the 1960's.
Central Africa, Puerto Rico, Southeast Asia, The Florida Keyes.
Brian...what do you think all these places have in common? I'll give
you a hint, it rhymes with pepidemic. Hope this helps.
And for your information, the inability of these slobs to keep their
zippers up is weighing heavily on the taxpayers. So yes, the little
insignificant indiscretions of your ilk is costing everybody Brian.
And you have the gumption to sit there and smugly infer it doesn't have
an impact on society. Mister....you got balls.
-Jack
|
323.2360 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Crazy Cooter comin' atcha!! | Fri Apr 26 1996 12:18 | 5 |
|
RE: Doctah
Wow, I don't believe I used the wrong *ffect word. Ouch!!
|
323.2361 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Apr 26 1996 12:18 | 2 |
|
.2359 Brian's ilk??
|
323.2362 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Apr 26 1996 12:35 | 2 |
| Okay...that isn't fair. How about types who keep their head in the
sand?!
|
323.2363 | | WONDER::BOISSE | | Fri Apr 26 1996 13:31 | 15 |
|
...a little quote heard one night a few months back, on
Pat Robertson's 700 Club...they were doing a special report
on the gay lifestyle...
..turning to his sidekick with the white hair...
"..you know...at one time, the word 'gay' meant happy, joyful, carefree..
..well the truth is, these people are not happy, are they?"
I was just waiting for him to begin a crusade to ban the use of the word
"gay" for meaning anything other than "happy"...blame the gays for
destroying the word "gay"...will they never stop?
Bob
|
323.2364 | Ilk this | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Idleness, the holiday of fools | Fri Apr 26 1996 13:46 | 23 |
| Jack, the 60's have nothing to do with it. Do you really truly believe
that there was an global unveiling of sexual awareness that began with
the 1960's? Can you possibly be that ignorant?
Try this on for size Jack. I blame the faux moralists for sticking
their heads in the sand and ignoring the plight of humanity at large.
The empty platitutdes of "just say no" have given the right a smug
moral perch in which to tsk tsk the unfortunates from. Once again, you
have no real solution other than to try and change everyone to your
views. You would be better off trying to stop the tide from coming in,
Jack. Your "ilks" inability to deal with that is costing society far
more. Your "ilks" unwillingness to help find workable solutions will
eventually prove to be fatal. A disease ignored is just as lethal as a
disease confronted. I'll choose to go down fighting.
I will agree with you on one point. The decline continues to use a well
worn phrase. I know it is too much to ask to take a look at how much
of the decline is attributable to the pretentiously moralists at large,
so I won't bother. The bad news is that regardless of our positions,
we will both end up at the bottom of the slide in the same festering
heap.
Brian
|
323.2365 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Apr 26 1996 13:47 | 5 |
| > I was just waiting for him to begin a crusade to ban the use of the word
> "gay" for meaning anything other than "happy"...blame the gays for
> destroying the word "gay"...will they never stop?
I blame them.
|
323.2366 | | SMURF::BINDER | Uva uvam vivendo variat | Fri Apr 26 1996 14:13 | 10 |
| .2351
> Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they
> are.
Ignoring your egregious linguistic solecism in an attempt to inject a
serious tone into this banter, I ask you to explain what effect will be
made on any other person by the decision of a single celibate man who
lives alone to have a hand shandy instead of dropping right off to
sleep.
|
323.2367 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Only half of us are above average! | Fri Apr 26 1996 14:54 | 5 |
| Brian is correct in his assessment and Jack is correct on the impact
to taxpayers. Both areas are the result of the irrational thinking that
I often speak of. It is irrational to hate someone based on private
personal preferences. It is also irrational for others to have to pay
for someones private personal preferences or the results of them.
|
323.2368 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Do ya wanna bump and grind with me? | Fri Apr 26 1996 14:56 | 3 |
|
Uh-oh, here we go again.
|
323.2369 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Apr 26 1996 15:17 | 40 |
| Z Jack, the 60's have nothing to do with it. Do you really truly believe
Z that there was an global unveiling of sexual awareness that began
Z with the 1960's? Can you possibly be that ignorant?
Of course not. Syphallis and Gonorrhea have been around since the
first steps of humnakind. I think it would be ignorant to deny the
60's period of free love...which went well into the 70's has brought
about a sharp increase in the spread of death. Is this a fair
estimate?
Z Try this on for size Jack. I blame the faux moralists for sticking
Z their heads in the sand and ignoring the plight of humanity at large.
Brian, "just say no" is a sham of course. It is human nature to ignore
such common sense and I believe "just say no" is about all anybody
could do....although doomed to failure. No...sometimes society needs a
SLAP in the face to get their attention. So far, AIDS hasn't been
adequate enough for this.
Z The empty platitutdes of "just say no" have given the right a smug
Z moral perch in which to tsk tsk the unfortunates from. Once again,
Z you have no real solution other than to try and change everyone to your
Z views. You would be better off trying to stop the tide from coming
Z in, Jack. Your "ilks" inability to deal with that is costing society
Z far more. Your "ilks" unwillingness to help find workable solutions
Z will eventually prove to be fatal.
Oh, but my ilk is doing something about it. Ever hear the expression,
"Think Globally, Act Locally"? I for one pour my life into my
children...because they are going to be the adults of tomorrow. If Mr.
Smith across the street is cheating on his wife and ignoring the kids,
then there is little I can do to change his behavior other than tell
him he is participating in destructive behavior. Of course I will get
the Soapbox cold shoulder regarding the inappropriateness of meddling
into his business. So the most I can do is try to set a good example
for his kids when I see them...and pray the fallout isn't too bad for
them when the powderkeg goes off. It always does eventually. I don't
wish it on anybody...but I don't deny the inevitable.
-Jack
|
323.2370 | Flappers were cooler than hippies | ASDG::GASSAWAY | Insert clever personal name here | Fri Apr 26 1996 16:15 | 7 |
| Why does OJM� continue to harp on the 60's as the era of "Evil Free
Love"?
Personally, I think the 20's were a much niftier time of hedonistic
excess. Women got to smoke, drink, and jitterbug just like the guys.
Lisa
|
323.2371 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Idleness, the holiday of fools | Fri Apr 26 1996 16:36 | 69 |
| The age of "free love" you seem so fond of pointing to as the
accelerant of the demise of current society, was a non-event. A
curiosity. It had as much staying power as the leisure suit. There
is no spike on the chart of global mortality. Life expectancies are
still rising, on average. If you wish to pin our pending demise on
something, pin it on greedheaded money mongers and the ongoing
industrial explosion in the third world. Along with this new found
global prosperity comes the continuous depletion of resources and a
commensurate population increase with all the sordid trimmings.
Focusing on AIDS and gays is so myopic in terms of the big picture.
Definitely a serious problem that I am confident will be dealt with
in time. Most diseases that are deemed incurable, eventually are cured.
Of course it is not a slap in the face because people are not falling down
in the streets. It is tragic when someone dies. It has not touched
enough people, yet. There are far scarier things to deal with than AIDS
I'm afraid. Some natural, like diseases we have yet to be treated to
and some precipitated though our indiscriminate rape of the
environment.
If it is human nature to ignore the "common sense" of denying ones
sexuality, (this is what you are asking, yes?) then why would you not
want to arm people with all of the weapons possible to combat the
spread of disease? Why would we not wake up to the fact that teens
will get pregnant, and gays and unmarried people will have sex and arm
folks with the knowledge on how to prevent the unpleasant consequences
these actions may bring? Why would we deny them the education and tools
(condoms, b.c., etc.) to give them a fighting chance? Jack, you are
always asserting that humanity is weak and depraved and we will pander
to our desires. How could we be so intellectually dishonest to not
confront these assertions and help prepare our children and adults alike
to meet the challenges head on, from all fronts? To do otherwise is
morally bankrupt IMO.
The expression "Think globally, act locally" is very appropriate. It
is ironic that you of all people should cling to this liberal mantra
as it is usually associated with {GASP!} the tree hugging, granola
crunching, free lovers. If it works for you, fine. For many it means,
"I'll send my dog to the Joneses yard to take a crap so I don't have to
deal with it."
If locally to you begins and ends at your children, then yes, you, OJM,
have your head stuck 12" into the beach. Like it or not, you are a
member of a larger section of society. Your nice little home with
satellite dish that doesn't receive the Body Dance stations, does not sit
alone on the frontier. Hiding in the living room will not shield you
from the rest of us depraved beings.
So many times in here I read "I do everything I can to protect my
children from harm". Why then do many of us stop short when it comes to
sex education, birth control and allowing children to be aware of what
they are eventually going to encounter in society at large? Ignore the
Pope. Ignore the self proclained moralists. Do the right thing by
untying the other hand and giving kids a fighting chance. It strikes
me as more than mildly hypocritical to put boundaries on what that
protection consists of.
WRT to Mr. Smith across the street, whether or not you interfere with
his business depends upon your relationship with the family. Teaching
your kids about how destructive that behavior is, is a good first step.
What are you going to do when you find out one of your children went out
of bounds as defined by you and there are dire consequences? Tell them
"I told you so!"? If you were close to the Smith's in your analogy, I
personally would commend you for giving it a shot at helping out. Far
better than turning a blind and mumbling something about not being my
brother's keeper. I am sure that doesn't mean much but fwiw, sometimes
it takes courage to help out a fellow human being.
Brian
|
323.2372 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Apr 26 1996 16:52 | 27 |
| Brian:
Heck, I am all for helping out our fellow man/woman. Never said
otherwise. I do believe however that the path of least resistance
should be attempted first....and the "just say no" mentality, totally
futile though it may be, is in essence the most valid and logical way
to curb disease, but it is the most ignored. I don't believe it is in
societies best interest to accolade lifestyles as...ooouuu....Johnny is
expressing his freedom....or....ooouuuuu...my coworker just had her
second child without being married. I see the amoralists condoning
this through their silence...and it is quite deafening.
Why is it so bad to retort this wonderful news with...."No...no I don't
think that was a good decision at all. Statistically, you will most
likely end up on welfare and I resent supporting you. Use your brain
dingbat!" Why is that Brian??? Why is it so wrong for society to be
discouraging this kind of thinking? You say that my decisions are
fine...if they work for me. But ultimately the stupid decision that
Johnny or Sally makes will ultimately cost me something...and all
because Brian thinks I should butt out because I don't know the person
well enough to tell them to their face how inane their logic is.
I believe it is the responsibility of individuals throughout society to
treat these amoral decisions in the same manner as discouraging a child
from drinking or smoking weed. I just don't see a whole lot of it.
-Jack
|
323.2373 | | ACISS2::LEECH | extremist | Fri Apr 26 1996 16:57 | 3 |
| .2364
Broad brush alert!!
|
323.2374 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Apr 26 1996 17:01 | 5 |
| Z Why does OJM� continue to harp on the 60's as the era of "Evil Free
Z Love"?
Easy...the 60s and 70s stand as the pinnacle of a rise in illegitamecy,
abortions, and sexually transmitted diseases. The datum is there!
|
323.2375 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Dogbert's New Ruling Class: 100K | Fri Apr 26 1996 17:06 | 5 |
|
>a rise in illegitamecy,
Was the same true for illiteracy?
|
323.2376 | | POWDML::AJOHNSTON | beannachd | Fri Apr 26 1996 17:19 | 6 |
| a datum?
eek.
seems a bit of a slim basis for conjecture...
|
323.2377 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Idleness, the holiday of fools | Fri Apr 26 1996 17:49 | 56 |
| Let's try this again, Jack. Encourage abstinence, "just say no",
whatever. Agreed. So far, so good?
When the above doesn't work we should go and belittle them for their
indiscretions to shame them into modifying their behavior. Right? You
know, call them names like dingbat etc. and predict the economic demise
of a co-worker (someone that is working yes?) End of story. Right?
Wow. I cannot for the life of me understand how I missed the brilliant
yet simplistic beauty of this behavior modification style. Give them
nothing to work with up front and when they screw up, reinforce how much
of a loser they are.
Jack, from what I read, you are willing to help your fellow human as
long as it fits inside a nicely confined set of boundaries.
Discouragement for you it seems stops at filling their ears with do's
and don'ts and then ranting about how much of a burden they are when
the predestined outcome appears.
Here's an OJM analogy for you:
A family get a new puppy. The family does nothing but tell the puppy
to go outside to do its duty. No paper available, no hands on training
i.e. placing the dog outside when it's time. After the 25th time that the
dog piddles on the shag rug, they take it to be destroyed because "it's
a bad dog." Pretty much a waste of everyone's time, especially the
puppy, wouldn't you say?
Look. Your opinion of single parenthood and gay lifestyles works for
you. I think it is negligent for society to adopt an attitude that
all we have to do is just tell them, no. To give them any other means of
learning the "correct" behavior is tantamount to condoning all the bad
things we wish to prevent, is grossly negligent, IMO. If you believe
your tactless diatribe on a single mother is helping to curb socially
unacceptable behavior, you will in all likelihood see baby number three
before too long.
You may be able to teach your children the correct behaviors. Not
everyone can or has the courage to speak to their children frankly
about what to expect in the real world. I feel safe in saying that we
agree the circle should be broken. That means stepping in, not butting
out. Words do not equate to direct action though. The messages being
delivered should be along the lines of:
1. Don't do it.
2. Here are the consequences.
3. Here is the prevention.
With a little imagination, I bet the prevention list could be long and
workable. When the consequences stop at "you'll get sick and go to
Hell" and the prevention is nothing but an endless loop of Go to 1, we
have just created the perfect perpetual motion engine. The product of
which is all the evil and nasty things we (see that? we) ultimately wish
to prevent.
Brian
|
323.2378 | | BSS::SMITH_S | | Fri Apr 26 1996 17:59 | 3 |
| Yes, get rid of that damn dog.
-ss
|
323.2379 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Fri Apr 26 1996 21:03 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.2354 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Your personal life alone determines your parents outlook on you. Be it good
| or bad, it makes no diff.
Yes, it DOES make a difference. My parents viewed my homosexuality in a
totally different light when I first told them. But as my dad sais, he had to
swallow his pride, do some investigating, and find out that homosexuality did
not change anything about me. It was not something that should be used to guage
what kind of person I am. And this is coming from a guy who would walk out of
the room if my mother and I talked about anything that had the word gay in it.
Hell, last year he came over and helped out with outfield practice with a gay
team I am on. My personal life SHOULD not set up anything for anyone except me.
If I include other people in it, then at that point in time, they too are
affected. But not until I do. If I have sex with a man, I don't think I'm going
to go into it with my parents. It does not affect them.
| Your personal choices determine peoples outlook on your integrity, your
| convictions and character...be it good or bad, it makes no diff.
No, Jack. Not always.
|
323.2380 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Fri Apr 26 1996 21:05 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.2356 by SMURF::WALTERS >>>
| And all because the man has loose nuts.....
Toooooo funny!
|
323.2381 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Fri Apr 26 1996 21:07 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2363 by WONDER::BOISSE >>>
| "..you know...at one time, the word 'gay' meant happy, joyful, carefree..
| ..well the truth is, these people are not happy, are they?"
Bob, I woke up early one morning and was flipping through the channels.
I saw that. Unreal, huh? To think I must have caught a rerun.....
|
323.2382 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Fri Apr 26 1996 21:09 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2374 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Easy...the 60s and 70s stand as the pinnacle of a rise in illegitamecy,
| abortions, and sexually transmitted diseases. The datum is there!
Jack, where is the datum now?
|
323.2383 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | It's the foodchain, stupid | Sat Apr 27 1996 19:29 | 22 |
| jack, the 60's and early 70's are long gone. In the intervening
decades we have had a "just say no" instead of "just say Know" system,
and where has it gotten us? During the "free-love" era, I knew few
pregnant teens, few people who had gotten the clap and the one who got
syphillis got it playing games with needles and an infected fellow
junkie. he was still a mainliner when I met him, but was scrupulous
about keeping his own works and keeping them clean. (Things you learn
when volunteering at a clinic, you know)
Now we have a country who has spent the last decade(s) saying, "just
say no" to kids, while ranting that giving those kids who make the
decision to say yes the tools to keep themselves unpregnant,
undiseased, is tantamount to giving them a green light to boff whoever
they please. It is the '80's and '90's where teen pregnancy, HIV, Hep
B, and non a non b hep, clamydia, herpes, are epidemic. Penecillin
resistant clap was a no op in this town until 1982, even with a large
number of young men who came back from Southeast Asia in the early
'70's.
Now where is the problem?
meg
|
323.2384 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Sun Apr 28 1996 10:39 | 7 |
|
Meg, that last question will force Jack to deal with the situation we
have today. Don't expect him to answer, as I am sure he does not know.
Glen
|
323.2385 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Apr 29 1996 15:49 | 30 |
| Glen, I will be glad to address the issue. I've done it in the past and
I'll do it yet again.
Z Now we have a country who has spent the last decade(s) saying, "just
Z say no" to kids, while ranting that giving those kids who make the
Z decision to say yes the tools to keep themselves unpregnant,
Z undiseased, is tantamount to giving them a green light to boff
Z whoever they please.
Please don't take this as a personal affront Meg...the bottom line
is...
We don't trust the crowd you hang around with Meg...it's as simple as
that! Once again it all comes down to Marketing and believe
me...Planned Parenthood is in my book a "hostile witness".
Any parent stupid enough to throw their children to the wolves is just
asking for trouble. Planned Parenthood should be banned from the
Public School System.
On the other hand, the local church has been sorely lax in reaching out
to the community regarding sex education. The silence of the church
holds no more virtue than Planned Parenthood.
---------
Glen, the bottom line with you is that societies goof ups don't have to
be handled by anybody...except the goof who goofed.
-Jack
|
323.2386 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Mon Apr 29 1996 18:23 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2385 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| We don't trust the crowd you hang around with Meg...it's as simple as that!
Name the "we", if you will.
| Glen, the bottom line with you is that societies goof ups don't have to
| be handled by anybody...except the goof who goofed.
Jack, I believe that is your policy. It's cheaper and more republican
that way. You're poor and on welfare? Too bad, fix it yourself.
Glen
|
323.2387 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Apr 29 1996 18:45 | 15 |
| Z Jack, I believe that is your policy. It's cheaper and more republican
Z that way. You're poor and on welfare? Too bad, fix it yourself.
Actually, it is more a libertarian mantra than a republican one.
Being poor and on welfare isn't exactly what I was thinking Glen. I
was actually referring to the people who poo poo the Christian Right
and scowl at what the Christian Right has to say...and even give them
the finger....just before they fall into the ditch and have to be
bailed out.
Glen, I'm always glad to give a helping hand. From what I can see
however, you have absolutely NO right for judging anybody's harsh
attitudes toward stupidity.
-Jack
|
323.2388 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Mon Apr 29 1996 18:48 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.2387 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| I was actually referring to the people who poo poo the Christian Right and
| scowl at what the Christian Right has to say...and even give them the finger..
| ..just before they fall into the ditch and have to be bailed out.
Jack, people can turn to God without having to turn to the Christian
Right. There are many conservatives I would turn to for help if needed. But not
the Right.
| Glen, I'm always glad to give a helping hand.
Then why is it when one asks you to listen, you can't do it? It would
help if you would not put people into neat little packages like you do.
| From what I can see however, you have absolutely NO right for judging
| anybody's harsh attitudes toward stupidity.
I don't judge you, Jack. I give you my opinions. Only God can really
judge you accurately.
Glen
|
323.2389 | Two AIDS Walks | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Thu May 02 1996 15:31 | 71 |
|
----------+++++++++----------
Walk for Life, Two AIDS Walks
----------+++++++++----------
We have TWO Walks for Life coming up this year at Digital! The 1st being the
Boston Walk (June 2, 9:00am) and the second being the Worcester (June 9th,
at 1 pm)!
The Boston Walk team will meet on the common between 8:00 and 8:30 for a team
picture on the 2nd, while the Worcester team will meet at City Hall at Noon on
the 9th!
The walk itself takes you down the streets of Boston and Worcester, with
entertainment on the streets. You end up meeting lots of new people, and
seeing all the families out there is great!
In 1994, Digital raised $38k, and had 120 walkers. Last year we dropped down to
$4300, with 21 walkers. So we have taken some steps this year in hopes to get
more people involved!
If you have any Walk related questions, you can check out the list of site
coordinators by either going to the AIDS Notesfile (WECARE::AIDS_WALK) and go
to note 5.L (for the latest version), or you can check out the Web Site which
is located at:
http://sdtad.zko.dec.com/pub/csgperf/group/wwlk/wwlk-aids-walk-info.html
Both Walks are taking on many new venues this year from last! We have people
who have volunteered to be site coordinators in many facilities again, and we
hope to have a free Walk T-Shirt for those people who come to either of the
pre-registrations we have in Hudson and Littleton. Along with insentive prizes
for the top 3 people who raise the most money for any one Walk! Not to mention
the insentive prizes both the AIDS Action and APW give out!
Pre-Resistration will be happening for both the Worcester and Boston Walks at
the HLO facility, and just the Boston walk at Littleton. On Friday, May 31st,
we will have the pre-registration for the Boston Walk from 11:00 - 12:30 in
TAY1 cafe, and from 11:30 - 2:00 at the HLO2 lobby.
Friday, June 7th is pre-registration for the Worcester Walk, and it will be
held at the HLO facility ONLY , from 11:30 - 2:00.
Whoever raises the most amount of money between the 2 Walks AND comes to one of
the pre-registrations, will receive a Gear Sport Jacket which was donated to
us from Gear Sport! There is a second prize of a Digital Sweatshirt which was
donated by the Hudson Logo Store! And a third prize of a Digital Golf shirt
donated by the Shrewsbury Logo Store!
AIDS Action has the following insentive prizes: $200 is a t-shirt, $500 is a
sweatshirt, $750 is a canvas attach�, $1,500 is a pair of New Balance athletic
shoes, and $2500 will get you a Polaroid Impulse camera and film.
APW is offering the following insentive prizes, $100 for an AIDS Care Lapel Pin,
$200 for a Walk for Life T-shirt, $400 for a Walk for Life special edition
sweatshirt, and a grand prize of a trip for two to Cancun for 7 nights which
will be awarded to the person who turns in the most paid pledges!
We also hope to offer each person who comes to either of the pre-registrations
a FREE Walk T-shirt that was designed by the winner of the HLO Walk for Life
drawing contest! Many people submitted designs for a shirt contest and the
winning drawing was submitted by Jennifer Lund! And if we get the t-shirts
donated, the winning design will be put on a t-shirt for walkers! You will see
the other designs on posters in various facilities which will have the
pre-registration information!
We hope as many of you will Walk, or will pledge someone to walk in this
Digital Sponsored event! With your help, people who need it most will get
the help they need!
|
323.2390 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | It's the foodchain, stupid | Fri May 03 1996 17:40 | 18 |
| jack,
PP has not been in most Schools in my area since 1975. The pregnancy
rate for girls in middle and high school has skyrocketed since then. I
have not seen th "Johnny has a new set of Wheels" poster in any of the
health classes or in hallways since the early 1980's. Strange that the
teen pregnancy rate also started to go through the roof about the same
time the posters were decided to be MI. (Morally Incorrect) "Just say
No," instead of "this is why you should avoid pregnancies" has been IMO
counter-productive. Raise your kids any way you wish, but I want the
kids in my neighborhood to understand about and use protection should
they decide not to pay attention to abstinence information. Your kids
too. I don't want some innocent person being killed or impregnated
because your kids didn't understand that condoms are necessary if you
have sex outside of a comitted, monagomous relationship where both
partners know and share their STD status and are ready to make babies.
meg
|
323.2391 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri May 03 1996 18:03 | 23 |
| Meg:
There is very little I can dispute in what you have said. I just
wished people in years past had used their brains. For example, I
believe the "sex is a natural function" talk should have been revealed,
but should have been superceded by the message of marriage and family.
As much as you poo poo the staistics you wrote this morning, they are
fact. Being in a single parent family, although unavoidable at times,
is robbing the child of something they very much need and the kids
stand a greater chance of failure in life...may not happen but the
chances increase nonetheless!
This is why I have the check list....Before having a child...
-MUST graduate from high school
-MUST be married...
-MUST be able to hold down a job...
Don't want to get married...fine but don't have kids because you are
putting a greater chance of burden on me...and everybody else (not
directed at you personally!).
-Jack
|
323.2392 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | It's the foodchain, stupid | Fri May 03 1996 20:37 | 15 |
| So, um jack,
Are you going to force abortions on all who don't meet your criteria?
Steal their children from them when they give birth? Vasectomize all
boys and freeze their sperm as soon as they have live wigglies, then
distribute it to a fertility specialist when people meet the criteria
and get a license to reproduce?
C'mon Jack, get serious. Single parent homes that have no extended
family have problems. Dual parent homes that are dysfunctional will
have problems with children. There are a lot of things tht boil down
to problem kids. It isn't just single parenthood, graduation from
highschool, marital status, age of first pregnancy tht is the problem.
meg
|
323.2393 | http://quince.tay.dec.com/www/silva/glen.html | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Sat May 04 1996 19:55 | 7 |
|
If I remember when I get into work Monday, I'll put the URL in for the
1995 AIDS numbers. But if you go to my homepage, it's there under the Dr icon.
Glen
|
323.2394 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue May 07 1996 18:17 | 11 |
|
Ok, I didn't remember on Monday, but I did now.... here is the URL for
the 1995 AIDS numbers:
gopher://cdcnac.org:72/11/4/yearend95
Glen
|
323.2395 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Mr. Logo | Tue May 14 1996 17:35 | 15 |
|
Ok, for the recipient list, for the Walk route, how to get to Boston
Common for the Walk, insentive prizes, etc.... EVERYTHING! (even info on what
the AIDS Action Committee does) The URL is
http://www.aac.org/walk/
It takes about 1 minute to load, but after that it is pretty quick. Mr.
Bill found this.
Glen
|
323.2396 | Boston AIDS Walk Pre-Registration Date Set | BIGQ::SILVA | Boston Gay Pride, June 8 | Wed May 29 1996 14:09 | 31 |
|
-----------------------------++++++++++-----------------------------
Pre-Registration for the Boston AIDS Walk in TAY1 and HLO2 on May 31
-----------------------------++++++++++-----------------------------
The Boston AIDS Walk is on Sunday, June 2nd. Digital is having a
Pre-Registration for this Walk in TAY1 Cafe (11:00-12:30), and the
HLO2 Lobby (11:30-2:00) on May 31st.
What is Pre-Registration? For those of you who are walking, it allows
you to come in with your pledge sheets, and pledge dollars before the
Walk itself. This will help keep you out of the long lines that are
present the day of the Walk. Also, this will also help you take your
pre-registration prizes early, which means you don't have to carry
them over the 10k Walk.
What this does for the AIDS Action Committee is allows them to get a
head start on processing the paperwork. As the day after the Walk is
quite a busy time for them.
What some site coordinators have said they would do is to gather up
your pledges from your site, and bring them to one of the
pre-registration sites for you! For a list of the site coordinators
for your facility, check out note 5.25 in the WECARE::AIDS_WALK
notesfile, or the AIDS Walk homepage @:
http://sdtad.zko.dec.com/pub/csgperf/group/wwlk/wwlk-aids-walk-info.html
So if you aren't interested in standing in long lines the day of the
Walk, stop by the pre-registration tables at TAY1 or HLO2!
|
323.2397 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed May 29 1996 15:39 | 15 |
| Glen,
Just curious...honestly...and don't mean to sound like a troublemaker
but because of the sensitivity of this forum...I'll take a chance and
ask anyway...
Why specifically have you taken such a strong interest in this
disease...considering the disease is not one of gay origin...not a
disease of the gay population, and one that is spreading far more
rapidly toward the heterosexual community.
I do believe you are operating a worthy cause here but was just curious
if your passion is driven from a personal loss.
Thanks.
|
323.2398 | | BIGQ::SILVA | Boston Gay Pride, June 8 | Wed May 29 1996 16:11 | 22 |
|
Jack, I have had several friends die of this disease. I have seen
people do stupid things because they did not know better. I was one of them.
Thank God I came out ok. With what the money is used for (you can check out the
Walk homepage for that info, under the AAC) it helps a lot of different people
with a lot of different things. From meals, to rape crisis, to hospise, etc.
For me, I see an opportunity to help others that need it. Not just the
sick, but the living. And seeing I walk it every year, it's cool to help
organize it for Digital. With everyone helping like we have it now, we are
making a difference.
And lastly, 1994 we raised 38K for the Walk. Last year we dropped down
to $4300. About � of that was from 3 people. That is a wide drop, and a lot of
it had to do with people not realizing that Digital was still involved with
this. While there are no matching funds, it was a hard pill to swallow that we
got about 12% of what we did in 94. I'd like to see the numbers go up so that
the programs that are slated to get money have a better chance of getting it.
Glen
|
323.2399 | You all have my email address.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Thu May 30 1996 17:43 | 24 |
| Jack -
I got involved several years ago for a very simple reason - a good
friend asked.
Since then I've walked every year. A couple of years ago, when
the web was still young, I created a simple internal web page about
the walks. This was before many people were talking about "intranets".
(Now there is a page about the walk on the internet.)
A couple of winters ago we were visiting my folks when we got to talking
about the people we had lost over the years. Cancer, heart attacks, and
AIDS claimed too many. Erica mentioned that it was the rare family that
hadn't been touched by all three. My parents commented that they didn't
know anyone that had died of AIDS.
A few weeks later I got a call from my mother. Her nephew, my cousin
has just passed on - AIDS.
One day maybe you too will realize that this isn't a they disease.
-mr. bill
|
323.2400 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | I'd rather be gardening | Thu May 30 1996 18:11 | 13 |
| HIV is a communicable, incurable, and invariably fatal infection at
this time. I have lost a very dear friend and several acquaintances to
AIDS. I support the research for it the same as I do innoculations for
children.
I would imagine that my risk for HIV is at least as low as some of the
more MC people in here, however, I do know that I want a cure or 100%
prevention for this scourge. since living pure is not a guarantee
(some people have wound up infected by their partners who weren't
living cleanly and others through transfusions, births, or
breastfeeding) I think that working toward a cure is a good thing.
meg
|
323.2401 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri May 31 1996 09:44 | 5 |
| > HIV is a communicable, incurable, and invariably fatal infection at
> this time.
Aren't there some people who've been HIV+ for years yet show no signs of
developing AIDS?
|
323.2402 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri May 31 1996 10:02 | 11 |
|
>Aren't there some people who've been HIV+ for years yet show no signs of
>developing AIDS?
Magic Johnson for one..
Jim
|
323.2403 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri May 31 1996 10:03 | 1 |
| No, I mean lotsa years.
|
323.2404 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri May 31 1996 10:13 | 4 |
|
ah...
|
323.2405 | | 43GMC::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Fri May 31 1996 10:14 | 3 |
| I saw a thing on TV about a guy in NYC (I think) who has been for 10+
(?) years. They (medical professionals/researchers) have been studying
the heck out of him. He has never advanced to AIDS from HIV+.
|
323.2406 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri May 31 1996 10:16 | 3 |
|
no, he means "lotsa years" :-)
|
323.2407 | | WECARE::GRIFFIN | | Fri May 31 1996 10:33 | 7 |
|
New book out by Peter Duesberg disputes the HIV-AIDS link.
Makes HIV sound pretty harmless, if'n you stay away from IV drugs, etc.
(So much for my 2-minute browse at Barnes & Noble).
|
323.2408 | | POWDML::AJOHNSTON | beannachd | Fri May 31 1996 11:03 | 19 |
| Yes, there are long-term survivors who've been HIV+ for upwards of 10
years. [PARADE magazine does annual updates on a group of 10 that is
now down to 6, mayber less]
I don't personally know anyone who has lasted that long. The longest
anyone I've known has lived with HIV present is 7.5 years. The shortest
is less than one, but her immune system was already very trashed from
other illness.
I have a cousin who tested positive about two years ago. She hasn't
gotten _dangerously_ ill with anything yet, but her life-long battle
with yeast infections has meant that she's been hospitalised a few
times and she gets other, pesky opportunitistic infections with dismal
frequency.
Long-term survivors are very in demand as test subjects. There is much
hope that their survival will point us toward cure or vaccine.
Annie
|
323.2409 | | SMURF::BINDER | Uva uvam vivendo variat | Fri May 31 1996 11:58 | 4 |
| There are several documented cases of infants, born to HIV+ mothers, who
were themselves also HIV+ but have now, a few years into their
childhood, apparently somehow managed to rid themselves of the disease;
they show no trace whatever of HIV antibodies or virus.
|
323.2410 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Fri May 31 1996 18:10 | 38 |
|
Hi Everyone!
Ok.... the numbers are all in!!!! The HLO/TAY Pre-registration got a
total of FIVE THOUSAND DOLLARS EVEN!!!!! YYYYEEEEESSSSS!!!!!! Last year at
pre-registration we had $2100. The Stow facility ALONE brought in more than
that!!! Last year we had 4 people pre-register for the Walk. This year we had
SEVENTEEN people in HLO, and another TEN in TAY1!!!!!!!
Now, if it works like last year, and pre-registration only raised � the
money, then we could raise TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS!!!! I'll check in with the AAC
in a couple of weeks to get the numbers for Digital!
If you remember, all of last year Digital raised $4300. And � of that
was between 3 people. This year our numbers are WAY up, both in cash and in
people participating!!!
If we break this down into 3 catagories, we had the following money
raised. Stow raised over $2300, which they brought to the HLO facility.
Littleton brought in almost $1400!!!! And HLO (minus Stow) brought in the
rest! Stow should be commended for their efforts in getting all of this
together!
As it stands now, we have three people who could win the Gear Sport
Jacket, the Digital Sweatshirt, and the Digital Golf Shirt. Those people raised
the following amounts of money for the Boston Walk. $750, $505, $417. So
unless people from the Worcester Walk pre-registration raise more than at least
$417, these people will receive the insentive prizes from the HLO committee!
So all of the hard work everyone did was WELL worth it! We raised more
in pre-registration than we did for ALL of Digital last year! This is
definitely a good thing, as those who really need it will get it. My HAT is off
to all of you!
Glen
|
323.2411 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Sat Jun 01 1996 00:23 | 5 |
|
Overuse of exclamation points alert!
|
323.2412 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Sun Jun 02 1996 20:09 | 3 |
|
Well, after last year being so disapointing, I got excited!
|
323.2413 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 03 1996 12:33 | 8 |
| ZZ One day maybe you too will realize that this isn't a they disease.
I will check out Glen's homepage. A few years ago, it seemed like alot
of the money was being diverted to special interest groups and
political interests...which is why I never donated or participated in
the walk.
-Jack
|
323.2414 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | I'd rather be gardening | Mon Jun 03 1996 15:35 | 6 |
| You mean like hospice or the Southern Colorado Aids Project? (The
group that sees to meals on wheels, support groups, getting into
medical tests (e.g. experiments) .....? (These are two biggies for
AIDS fundraising here in Colorado)
meg
|
323.2415 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 03 1996 16:48 | 13 |
| Meg:
No doubt much of the money is going to good groups. Like the United
Way however, money is also getting channeled to PACs and other
organizations who are in reality promoting an agenda rather than using
the money for research and meaningful causes.
The listing of organizations is in the AIDS WALK conference. Pine
Street Inn is indeed a worthy place, needle exchange programs may not
be considered the best and therefore, people may want to consider
earmarking their donations...similar to that of the United Way.
-Jack
|
323.2416 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Mon Jun 03 1996 17:56 | 23 |
| | <<< Note 323.2415 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Way however, money is also getting channeled to PACs and other organizations
| who are in reality promoting an agenda rather than using the money for
| research and meaningful causes.
I'm glad that you, who until today, have never seen a list of what the
money is being spent on, can make the claim you did above. Interesting.
| The listing of organizations is in the AIDS WALK conference. Pine Street Inn
| is indeed a worthy place, needle exchange programs may not be considered the
| best and therefore, people may want to consider earmarking their donations...
| similar to that of the United Way.
The people in the Christian notes conference wanted to see a list of the
orgs who would receive money. I provided them with a list. I got some very
interesting mail from people. Some who said they were not going to give any
money to the AAC, but were helping out in other ways. For some, they sent money
to specific orgs. So your idea is a good one if there are things on the list
that you don't want to see get money.
Glen
|
323.2417 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 04 1996 10:51 | 47 |
| Glen:
I actually did a posting in the C-P conference in 1994 (I believe), offering a
list of the organizations the AIDS Walk funded. Some of them were very
politically oriented and had nada to do with R&D, but had more to do with
promoting agendas.
Incidentally, while looking for this list I came across an interesting exerpt
from a discussion Glen and I had a few years ago. This was in regard to
Elders distributing faulty condoms in the Arkansas School System....
I told another participant that I should go to Washington and fast for her
departure. The challenge was to go and do it...
Note 91.4151 Christianity and Gays 4151 of 5559
AIMHI::JMARTIN 4 lines 18-JUL-1994 18:43
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
No fast required, her incompetence is a testimony in itself. She'll be
gone by the end of the year.
-Jack
Note 91.4152 Christianity and Gays 4152 of 5559
BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." 14 lines 19-JUL-1994 09:16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Jack, you amaze me. I'm finding more and more that you don't SEEM to
stand by your convictions. I guess maybe you COULD be one of those people that
say a lot, but then really do nothing to change anything. One of those, "some
other person will do it" type-o-guy. It really showed in your last note. If you
want to see a change, then do more than JUST SITTING AT THE KEYBOARD TYPING!
Get up and take a stand. You'd be surprised at how good it really can be when
you participate in something instead of just squawking about it. You would then
be able to find out some of the things it takes to make changes. Try it
sometime. (if you have, tell us about it)
A perfect example of how Glen diverts the discussion by ignoring reality.
Suddenly the discussion goes from Mz. Elders to my squaking...
Glen...read and learn my son! I need not act out these matters as stupidity
always surfaces on its own. By the way, per usual I am correct in my
predictions! Sorry you don't have as good a hit rate!!!
-Jack
|
323.2418 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Tue Jun 04 1996 11:00 | 28 |
| | <<< Note 323.2417 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| I actually did a posting in the C-P conference in 1994 (I believe), offering a
| list of the organizations the AIDS Walk funded. Some of them were very
| politically oriented and had nada to do with R&D, but had more to do with
| promoting agendas.
So why didn't you post that list in here? You obviously went back in
CP. Come on Jack, post the list.
| A perfect example of how Glen diverts the discussion by ignoring reality.
| Suddenly the discussion goes from Mz. Elders to my squaking...
Gee Jack, maybe the people should go back into the notesfile and see
what you posted before that as well. How you wanted this stopped, you wanted
people to hear the news, but how you wouldn't be the one to do it. That is
where I said you don't stand by your convictions. You squawk, but do squat.
| Glen...read and learn my son! I need not act out these matters as stupidity
| always surfaces on its own. By the way, per usual I am correct in my
| predictions! Sorry you don't have as good a hit rate!!!
Jack, too funny. I love the above when you leave out how you complained
in notes, but never went out to try and make a change yourself. You are just
lacking the convictions to do something about it.
Glen
|
323.2419 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Tue Jun 04 1996 16:51 | 3 |
|
Jack... you were in... but are you gonna answer the previous reply?
|
323.2420 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 04 1996 17:00 | 4 |
| Answer what? I cannot find where I posted the list. I looked in the
AIDS topic and the Gays topic. I know I posted it some time back.
|
323.2421 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Tue Jun 04 1996 23:53 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2420 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Answer what? I cannot find where I posted the list. I looked in the
| AIDS topic and the Gays topic. I know I posted it some time back.
Can you remember any of the names of those organizations that were
supposed to be so bad? And what the money was to be used for in that
organization?
Also, will you be addressing your lack of convictions, and your then
distortions of what I wrote in cp?
Glen
|
323.2422 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 05 1996 11:21 | 8 |
| Glen, I don't lack conviction just because I'm incapable of doing the
extensive traveling our illustrious Gloria Stienam has been able to do.
And no, other than ACT UP, many of the names allude me. And I didn't
say they were so bad. I said I will not participate because alot of
the money is being lobbied to special interest PACs.
-Jack
|
323.2423 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Wed Jun 05 1996 11:55 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.2422 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Glen, I don't lack conviction just because I'm incapable of doing the
| extensive traveling our illustrious Gloria Stienam has been able to do.
Jack, no one asked you to tour around the country. You could have
written a letter to the paper, or brought it up in some meeting you might
attend for whatever group(s) you could belong to. Or you could join a group.
But you lacked the conviction to do any of that. Instead, you tried to make it
out that I wasn't open to listening to what you were saying, when in fact you
do what you always do...complain and expect someone else to fix the problem.
| And no, other than ACT UP, many of the names allude me. And I didn't
| say they were so bad. I said I will not participate because alot of
| the money is being lobbied to special interest PACs.
SIP's? Be real. Let's see, ACT-UP received money because of their
needle exchange program, not because they make a lot of noise. PP got money for
rape issues, etc... You see a name, and you automatically shut it down. You
should look into it a bit, Jack. Because if you did, you would see that it
isn't SIP's.... it's dealing with specific issues.
Glen
|
323.2424 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 05 1996 12:03 | 10 |
| Z SIP's? Be real. Let's see, ACT-UP received money because of their
Z needle exchange program, not because they make a lot of noise. PP got
Z money for rape issues, etc... You see a name, and you automatically
Z shut it down.
And I stand by it. North Korea has alot of nice citizens within it,
yet it is still listed as a terrorist state. Why would I possible want
an untrustworthy scumbag organization to receive money from me?
|
323.2425 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Wed Jun 05 1996 12:47 | 9 |
|
You're a piece of work, Jack. Tell me everything you know about the
ACT-UP organization. If you don't know anything about their organization, then
you're just spewing hot air. Now where did I put that balloon????
Glen
|
323.2426 | Thanks! | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Wed Jun 05 1996 12:52 | 7 |
|
JFWIW-
ACT-UP was not on the list of recipient organizations for the
AIDS Pledge Walk '96.
-mr. bill
|
323.2427 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 05 1996 13:24 | 8 |
| That's fine...hey look...I'm sure that organizations like PP and the
like do offer services of value to some of their associates/patients.
Let's just say that their poor marketing tactics and rude behavior
puts them on the scum list.
Kind of like George Bush. Very nice man and did a great job on foreign
policy...but it matters not. His tax hike made him a scum bumb
virtuoso!!
|
323.2428 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Wed Jun 05 1996 14:26 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2426 by PERFOM::LICEA_KANE "when it's comin' from the left" >>>
| ACT-UP was not on the list of recipient organizations for the
| AIDS Pledge Walk '96.
Right. And the list, along with what it is being used for is on that
fabulous AIDS Walk homepage you made up! Bill has a connection to the AAC on
the page.
Glen
|
323.2429 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Wed Jun 05 1996 14:27 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2427 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Let's just say that their poor marketing tactics and rude behavior
| puts them on the scum list.
But then that would be a lie. It's you not liking some of what they do
that makes it so you can't see that they do things that help those even you
think need it.
Glen
|
323.2430 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 05 1996 14:38 | 1 |
| Same could be said for Focus on the Family...Right Glen!?
|
323.2431 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Wed Jun 05 1996 14:46 | 4 |
|
Ho ho!
|
323.2432 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Wed Jun 05 1996 14:54 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.2430 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Same could be said for Focus on the Family...Right Glen!?
Yes.
|
323.2433 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 07 1996 12:54 | 6 |
| Z Tomorrow: Get up early, inject coffee into me, hook up the chains to
Z the gay pride banner, wait for a friend to come over to help me
Z bring it to copley square, wait for other marchers to show up,
A question...if AIDS is a disease going across all boundaries, why the
sign?
|
323.2434 | Gay Pride Banner for Gay Pride March | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Fri Jun 07 1996 13:19 | 33 |
| | A question...if AIDS is a disease going across all boundaries, why the
| sign?
Uh, Jack.
The AIDS Pledge Walk was June 2. Past tense. I raised $505.00.
(Thanks to those who donated!) My muscles are no longer sore from
carrying a 30-something pound guy on my shoulders for most of
the walk. We had a wonderful time. Marsden gave high marks to the
Starbucks ice cream, the Citgo Triangle, the water birds in the Charles,
playing in a playground while listening to Patsy Kline, and a band that
looked like the Beatles. (Except that that Paul was a righty.)
I'm not gay. I walked in the AIDS Pledge Walk.
Glen is gay. He walked in the AIDS Pledge Walk.
The common denominator of all the walkers was interest in raising money
for AIDS prevention and care. NOT our sexual orientation. GOT IT yet?
Glen is marching in the GAY PRIDE MARCH this weekend in Boston. That's
why he is bringing a gay pride banner to Copley Square. UNDERSTAND
YET?
I'm going to Foxboro with Marsden to watch a friendly on Sunday.
Maybe you can tie that into AIDS as well?
(The Walk for Life in Worcester takes place on Sunday as well.)
-mr. bill
|
323.2435 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Fri Jun 07 1996 13:20 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2433 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Z Tomorrow: Get up early, inject coffee into me, hook up the chains to
| Z the gay pride banner, wait for a friend to come over to help me
| Z bring it to copley square, wait for other marchers to show up,
| A question...if AIDS is a disease going across all boundaries, why the sign?
I left what I wrote so you could see it. It said gay pride banner. I am
marching in gay pride. I don't think I have ever marched in the walk. :-) I
have power walked it, though.
Glen
|
323.2436 | | BIGQ::SILVA | | Fri Jun 07 1996 13:21 | 7 |
|
Mr Bill... nicely put. :-)
Glen
|
323.2437 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 07 1996 13:38 | 5 |
| Bill, please refrain from being a hemmerhoid...I got the two
marches/walks mixed up okay!!!? Damn, nice of you to paint me as
Snydley Wiplash here.
|
323.2438 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Jun 07 1996 14:48 | 1 |
| Patsy Cline. NNTTM.
|
323.2439 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 07 1996 14:51 | 2 |
| Her song, "I Fall to Pieces", was number one on the charts when I was
coming out of utero!
|
323.2440 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Jun 07 1996 14:56 | 1 |
| And when your mother saw you she fell to pieces?
|
323.2441 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Fri Jun 07 1996 19:51 | 16 |
| <<< Note 323.2437 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
>Damn, nice of you to paint me as
> Snydley Wiplash here.
Jack, I'm afraid you were holding the paintbrush. Bill merely pointed
at the picture.
Rather than railing at Bill, you might have just said "Ooopps,
my mistake". Of course, doing this takes charachter.
Jim
|
323.2442 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 10 1996 10:28 | 12 |
| Z I'm afraid you were holding the paintbrush. Bill merely pointed
Z at the picture.
Z Rather than railing at Bill, you might have just said "Ooopps,
Z my mistake". Of course, doing this takes charachter.
Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.
I was railing Bill for his condescending upper case letters at the end
of his sentences. He was implying it was done on purpose. It was a
simple mistake is all.
-Jack
|
323.2443 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jun 10 1996 10:45 | 6 |
| > <<< Note 323.2442 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
> Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.
That is true. I've always admired that in you.
|
323.2444 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:02 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2442 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.
It doesn't matter how often you may or may not do it... it matters if
you do it everytime.
Glen
|
323.2445 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:07 | 3 |
|
.2444 rubbish, imo.
|
323.2446 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:08 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.2445 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
| .2444 rubbish, imo.
Ifn yer wrong, you should state it (provided you believe you are wrong)
|
323.2447 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:12 | 9 |
|
So Glen, let's say someone apologizes 9 times out of 10.
According to you, that makes no difference? They get zero
credit for that?
Btw, I do believe Jack was justified in taking offense in
this case.
|
323.2448 | charcoal gray | HBAHBA::HAAS | more madness, less horror | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:23 | 3 |
| > Ifn yer wrong, you should state it (provided you believe you are wrong)
I think we got us a loophole, here...
|
323.2449 | Ask yourself *why* you got mixed up.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:24 | 24 |
| | I was railing Bill for his condescending upper case letters at the end
| of his sentences. He was implying it was done on purpose.
No I wasn't implying it was done on purpose. You keep repeating this
same mistake, over and over again. Frankly, you've show no ability
to learn from this same mistake.
| It was a simple mistake is all.
No it wasn't a simple mistake. It was a complex mistake. When you
realize that, you might *begin* to learn.
Finally, helpful hint. If you truly believe those five words were
condenscending I'm sorry. They weren't supposed to be, they were just a
vocalization of my frustration that the light bulb still hadn't
apparently lit up. Your "just curious" and "a question" replies do rub
the wrong way. You seem to acknowledge such the first time, but
plowed on inartfully yet again.
Now if you could explain your intentions when you called me a
"hemmerhoid" (where are the NNTTM crowd?)....
-mr. bill
|
323.2450 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:24 | 20 |
| Glen, it is one thing to have an opinion and after reflection, realize
your point of view was erred. In this case, I simply mixed up two
different marches. This didn't necessarily call for contriteness.
How would it be if I had said this....
Mr. Bill, thank you for straightening me out on that...I wasn't
thinking I guess which is something my wife gets on me from time to
time. Incidently, your use of upper case implied to me that you felt I
did this on purpose. Let me assure you that this simply was not the
case and I apologize for misrepresenting the march.
Rgds.,
-Jack
But ya see Glen, I have to do this with customers on behalf of DEC
screwups frequently. Why does Soapbox suddenly require such protocol?
-Jack
|
323.2451 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 10 1996 11:50 | 23 |
| Z No it wasn't a simple mistake. It was a complex mistake. When you
Z realize that, you might *begin* to learn.
No Mr. Bill...it was a simple mistake, and by my recollection, it is
the FIRST time I've mixed up these two marches in this forum. As far
as your frustration, you may have a point. There are still alot of
people who believe AIDS is a gay disease...or God's judgement..etc. I
have always been of the belief that this isn't a judgement but God
allowing humanity to see what we reap when we go by our own agenda.
When I say, "a question", my intent is to convey I am seriously
interested and am not just writing to get Glen's hairs up on edge.
Regarding the Hemmerhoid thing, quite simple to explain. It isn't the
comparison to a hemmerhoid to which I am attempting to insult you. It
is the comparison to my long time oversensitive arch enemy, Don Topaz,
a.k.a. Lord Hemmerhoid. Lord H. had this way of always becoming over
insulted, over sensitive, or becoming a martyr for the cause
of....whatever. Your upper cases seemed to convey the need for a
defense. So I was actually comparing you to Topaz. Now you may choose
to believe this is an even deeper insult than the hemmerhoid remark.
This is up to your discernment!
-Jack
|
323.2452 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:07 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2447 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
| So Glen, let's say someone apologizes 9 times out of 10. According to you,
| that makes no difference? They get zero credit for that?
The only thing they don't get credit for it the 10th time where they
did not. But that does not mean someone can say they acknowledge when they are
wrong more times than not and have it make up for the time(s) they did not. Of
course Jack may not have meant to imply this, but that was how I took it. Maybe
he can clear that part of it up.
Glen
|
323.2453 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:11 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2450 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| But ya see Glen, I have to do this with customers on behalf of DEC
| screwups frequently. Why does Soapbox suddenly require such protocol?
That would be the polite thing to do. :)
|
323.2454 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:13 | 9 |
| | <<< Note 323.2451 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| When I say, "a question", my intent is to convey I am seriously
| interested and am not just writing to get Glen's hairs up on edge.
Well, my hair IS pretty short these days... so i probably wouldn't see
it standing anyways. :-)
|
323.2455 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:17 | 7 |
| > <<< Note 323.2452 by BIGQ::SILVA "I'm out, therefore I am" >>>
> The only thing they don't get credit for it the 10th time where they
>did not.
So, contrary to what you said in .2444, it _does_ matter how
often someone apologizes.
|
323.2456 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:24 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.2455 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
| So, contrary to what you said in .2444, it _does_ matter how
| often someone apologizes.
Di, we're looking at it from two different angles. Jack said he does
apologize most of the time. I took it that this somehow justified the times he
did not, which it doesn't. It only justifies it for the times he does. And that
is what .2444 was supposed to imply.
Glen
|
323.2457 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:25 | 8 |
| Glen:
Apologizing nine times does not give me the right not to apologize for
the tenth. But when my integrity and character are being raised, then
it is my desire to point out my record on humility has stood in the
past, and it shouldn't be questioned....baldy!
-Jack
|
323.2458 | And you say I'm condenscending.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:25 | 14 |
| | I have always been of the belief that this [AIDS] isn't a judgement but
| God allowing humanity to see what we reap when we go by our own agenda.
I see someone who is such a clod that he uses other people to
persue his own agenda. (Notice there are no capitalizations there.
That is, I'm not refering to God. You're a bright fellow, figure it
out for yourself.)
| Regarding the Hemmerhoid thing, quite simple to explain.
If you were indeed attempting to compare me to Don Topaz, then I must
say you have my deepest thanks.
-mr. bill
|
323.2459 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:27 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.2457 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
Is it me, or is Jack contrdicting himself here:
| Apologizing nine times does not give me the right not to apologize for the
| tenth.
| But when my integrity and character are being raised, then it is my desire to
| point out my record on humility has stood in the past, and it shouldn't be
| questioned....baldy!
I think it is the SHOULDN'T be questioned part that troubles me....
|
323.2460 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:33 | 13 |
| Using people...to further my own agenda????? Chuckle...I don't have an
agenda Mr. Bill...but I do have the gumption to acknowledge what I see.
Right now I see one really screwed up dysfunctional society with a hell
of alot of problems...the biggest one of them of course being sheer
denial.
Z If you were indeed attempting to compare me to Don Topaz, then I must
Z say you have my deepest thanks.
Your welcome. Let me tell you you have my most heartfelt condolences.
Don was just another beaut who lived in denial as well!
-Jack
|
323.2461 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jun 10 1996 12:35 | 7 |
|
Glen, look, Jim Percival tells Jack he should have apologized, but
that that would take character. Jack says hey, wait a second, pal,
I do it a lot more often than other people in here. You counter by
saying that doesn't matter - you should have done it this time.
That's crap. It _does_ matter, when someone is telling you you don't
have enough character to apologize.
|
323.2462 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 13:57 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2460 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| the biggest one of them of course being sheer denial.
If it is anything like raq's sheer pantyhose, it'll run pretty easily!
| Don was just another beaut who lived in denial as well!
I would have paid to see Don dress as Cleopatra.... :-)
Glen
|
323.2463 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 14:02 | 20 |
| | <<< Note 323.2461 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
| I do it a lot more often than other people in here. You counter by saying
| that doesn't matter - you should have done it this time. That's crap.
And it also isn't what I said. Like I said, we are looking at it from 2
different views. You seem to be looking at it that the other times he did
apologize were a good thing. (which we both do agree, but it was not what I was
talking about) I on the other hand, was looking at it from the standpoint that
you can't use the other 9 times to justify the one time you did not apologize.
Nothing more. Even Jack agreed with that part of it.
If my message wasn't clear enough in the beginning, then I'm sorry. But
this is what I was talking about.
| It _does_ matter, when someone is telling you you don't have enough character
| to apologize.
And that is a different topic from the one I was talking about.
|
323.2464 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Mon Jun 10 1996 15:57 | 1 |
| I'm getting dizzy...
|
323.2465 | i'm misquoting you? well, here it is. | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jun 10 1996 16:12 | 14 |
| > <<< Note 323.2444 by BIGQ::SILVA "I'm out, therefore I am" >>>
>
>| <<< Note 323.2442 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
>
>
>| Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.
>
> It doesn't matter how often you may or may not do it... it matters if
>you do it everytime.
>
>
>
>Glen
|
323.2466 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 18:01 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2464 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| I'm getting dizzy...
Getting???? :-)
|
323.2467 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 10 1996 18:02 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2465 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
| -< i'm misquoting you? well, here it is. >-
I said you are giving the WRONG meaning I applied to it.
Glen
|
323.2468 | Who do we appreciate snarf | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Mon Jun 10 1996 18:05 | 6 |
|
di, you're supposed to ask Glen what he means, not tell him.
Jim
|
323.2469 | | SCASS1::BARBER_A | But what do I know? | Mon Jun 10 1996 18:05 | 1 |
|
|
323.2470 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Jun 11 1996 12:53 | 23 |
| <<< Note 323.2461 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
> Glen, look, Jim Percival tells Jack he should have apologized, but
> that that would take character. Jack says hey, wait a second, pal,
> I do it a lot more often than other people in here. You counter by
> saying that doesn't matter - you should have done it this time.
> That's crap. It _does_ matter, when someone is telling you you don't
> have enough character to apologize.
Di, Characther is not something you turn on and turn off.
When someone points out an error you (or anyone) have essentially
five choices. You can ignore them. You can rail about the way
they conveyed the message. You can talk about how you rarely make such
errors. You can point out how many errors the other person has made.
Or you can say "Ooops, sorry. I goofed".
Only the last requires charachter.
Jim
|
323.2471 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Tue Jun 11 1996 13:00 | 16 |
|
>Di, Characther is not something you turn on and turn off.
No, but sometimes it manifests itself and sometimes it doesn't.
> Or you can say "Ooops, sorry. I goofed".
> Only the last requires charachter.
Jack does this more often than most people in here. So
I guess he has character then, eh? Er, since you can't turn it
on and off, that is.
|
323.2472 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 11 1996 13:54 | 26 |
| Di:
I thank you deeply for your kind words.
I think there is an element of emotionalism involved here. Throughout
this forum, people are wrong daily...including myself. Sometimes it
manifests itself through ignorance and other times through plain
stubbornness.
I have a feeling emotions tend to get charged particularly in this
string for a few reasons. A, AIDS is a killer which has taken many
lives...the lives of friends and even family members of participants
here. B, and this of course belongs in the gay issues topic, is
because there is a societal propensity to equate AIDS as a gay disease,
and my little faux pax brought out the frustrations in people.
As a side note, I see gay pride as another yawnful special interest
group making themselves known to the world. In closing, some of you
seem to feel you have the obligation and the right to throw a tantrum
or a hissy fit for the sheer reason that people like myself don't see
these sort of things in the same light as you do. Well, surprise
surprise....you don't.
Rgds.,
-Jack
|
323.2473 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Tue Jun 11 1996 15:09 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.2471 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
> No, but sometimes it manifests itself and sometimes it doesn't.
Real charachter always manifests itself. "Sometimes" is simply
behavioral convience.
Sorry if that sounds harsh, but it is my opinion.
Jim
|
323.2474 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 11 1996 17:47 | 45 |
| | <<< Note 323.2472 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| A, AIDS is a killer which has taken many lives...the lives of friends and
| even family members of participants here.
That, like other diseases, yes. It can get people charged up.
| B, and this of course belongs in the gay issues topic, is because there is a
| societal propensity to equate AIDS as a gay disease, and my little faux pax
| brought out the frustrations in people.
The above I'm not sure what you are saying. Are you saying:
a) You believe AIDS is a gay disease, and so we should talk about it in the gay
topic.
b) You hear from others that AIDS is a gay disease and that is why it should be
discussed in the gay topic.
c) You thought that because AIDS is thought of as a gay disease, I was talking
about the Walk and not Gay Pride.
d) Something else.
| As a side note, I see gay pride as another yawnful special interest group
| making themselves known to the world.
Kind of like the St Patrick's Day Parade? Or when the Pope makes a
visit anywhere? Things like that, Jack?
| In closing, some of you seem to feel you have the obligation and the right to
| throw a tantrum or a hissy fit for the sheer reason that people like myself
| don't see these sort of things in the same light as you do. Well, surprise
| surprise....you don't.
We agree on something? Wild.
But Jack, remember one thing... you yourself have told me you like to
wind people up in here, and that your real persona is not the same as what you
have for the box. So who knows when you are winding up, and when you are being
serious? :-)
Glen
|
323.2475 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 11 1996 17:49 | 37 |
| MONKEY STUDY QUESTIONS RELATIVE SAFETY OF ORAL SEX
BOSTON, MA -- A new study based on the simian equivalent of the human AIDS virus
suggests the risk of oral transmission of HIV may be much higher than previously
thought. The journal Science reports six of seven rhesus monkeys were infected
with SIV after the virus was dabbed on unbroken tissue at the backs of their
mouths.
The New York Times quotes Dr. Ruth Ruprecht, the head of the research team, as
saying these and other findings "should be a warning that oral sex is not safe
sex." Dr. Ruprecht stressed it was very unlikely the human AIDS virus, HIV, was
transmitted by casual contact such as kissing or sharing of eating utensils or
toothbrushes.
The findings surprised both health officials and the researchers at the
Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston and Tulane University in New Orleans
where the study was conducted. Oral-genital exposure has rarely been sited in
the transmission of HIV. Another surprise is that the amount of the monkey AIDS
virus needed for infection was one six-thousandth (1/6,000) of the amount
required for infection through the rectum.
Unprotected receptive oral intercourse, even in the absence of cuts or other
breaks in the lining of the mouth, should be added to the list of risk behaviors
for transmission of HIV, the authors wrote.
Dr. Ann Duerr, an AIDS epidemiologist at the Centers for Disease Control
expressed some confusion at the findings, as numerous studies have shown
virtually no transmission of HIV between infected and uninfected partners who
engage only in unprotected oral-genital sex. "If it were that much riskier than
anal intercourse, we would have turned it up by now, and so the implications of
the monkey study for humans at best are unclear," she said.
Dr. Ruprecht said a protein in human saliva may help block transmission of low
amounts of HIV but that scientists had not yet looked for a similar protein in
primates.
|
323.2476 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Candy'O, I need you ... | Tue Jun 11 1996 17:56 | 3 |
|
The moral: avoid having oral sex with monkeys.
|
323.2477 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 11 1996 17:56 | 11 |
| Glen, the answer is B. AIDS is not a gay disease.
Z Kind of like the St Patrick's Day Parade? Or when the Pope makes a
Z visit anywhere? Things like that, Jack?
Yes...pretty much like this. St. Patties bores me and I'm not
Catholic.
-Jack
|
323.2478 | | SCASS1::BARBER_A | But what do I know? | Tue Jun 11 1996 17:57 | 1 |
| agagaga!
|
323.2479 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Tue Jun 11 1996 18:06 | 13 |
| > <<< Note 323.2473 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>
> Real charachter always manifests itself. "Sometimes" is simply
> behavioral convience.
Oh, my achin' back - here we go again. So if somebody apologizes
9 times out of 10, they don't have character? Give me a friggin'
break.
And if somebody reads you the Riot Act when all you did was make
a simple mistake, it's perfectly natural to react to that, so the
whole thing is moot in this case anyways.
|
323.2480 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 11 1996 18:07 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2477 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Glen, the answer is B. AIDS is not a gay disease.
Jack, if the answer is B, then why did you make the connection in the
gay topic if YOU think AIDS is not a gay disease, and I was the one talking
about the Parade? Slip of the mind? :-)
|
323.2481 | A question... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Tue Jun 11 1996 18:11 | 21 |
| Jack Martin on "Is AIDS a gay disease?":
March 1995:
| Glen: I don't think it is a gay disease but I certainly believe it used
| to be one....
June 1996:
| Glen... AIDS is not a gay disease.
Did you learn something this past year? Or do you still believe that
AIDS used to be a gay disease?
(BTW, for someone who acknowledges the emotions involved here, you do
seem to enjoy stiring the pot. Over and over and over and over and
over again. BTW, there is that trite saying from that awful movie
"Love Story"....)
-mr. bill
|
323.2482 | | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Tue Jun 11 1996 18:13 | 10 |
| | And if somebody reads you the Riot Act when all you did was make
| a simple mistake, it's perfectly natural to react to that, so the
| whole thing is moot in this case anyways.
I didn't read him the riot act. It wasn't a simple mistake.
But do defend him here, after all, he's just going out of his way to be
a persona.
-mr. bill
|
323.2483 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Wed Jun 12 1996 10:45 | 6 |
| > <<< Note 323.2482 by PERFOM::LICEA_KANE "when it's comin' from the left" >>>
> I didn't read him the riot act. It wasn't a simple mistake.
Okay, it was an egregious error for which you rebuked him
gently. My mistake.
|
323.2484 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 10:57 | 11 |
| Z Jack, if the answer is B, then why did you make the connection in the
Z gay topic if YOU think AIDS is not a gay disease, and I was the one
Z talking about the Parade? Slip of the mind? :-)
Appropriate and reasonable question. The reason I said it should be
shifted to the gay issues topic was because I was attempting to seguay
into discussing the gay pride march. I didn't say that to make the
connection between AIDS and being gay but I admit I didn't do the best
job of shifting gears.
-Jack
|
323.2485 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:04 | 17 |
| Z Did you learn something this past year? Or do you still believe that
Z AIDS used to be a gay disease?
Disclaimer: I discuss this for the purpose of educating myself better.
Therefore, the certainty of my statements should be construed as strong
conjecture.
Mr. Bill, I stand by what I said in both cases. My 1995 statement
simply acknowledges the fact that in the early 1980's, AIDS propogated
as a disease of wide proportion amongst the homosexual population
FIRST. The victims of AIDS were mainly from the gay community. My
remarks here don't put the blame on the gay community for
HIV/AIDS...I am a believer that we are responsible for our own actions.
However, I find denial to be an even bigger crime than the statements
I've made in the past.
-Jack
|
323.2486 | You are one sorry confused individual | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:07 | 18 |
| | Z why did you [Jack] make the connection in the gay topic if YOU [Jack]
| Z think AIDS is not a gay disease, and I [Glen] was the one talking
| Z about the Parade? Slip of the mind? :-)
| The reason I said it should be shifted to the gay issues topic was
| because I was attempting to seguay into discussing the gay pride march.
1 - Glen enters a reply in the gay issues topic, way over there.
2 - You extract the reply and move it *HERE* and ask, uh, a
provacative question. (I'm being most kind here.)
3 - Glen answers your question.
4 - I answer your question.
5 - You call me a "hemmerhoid".
And you did all this because you wanted to "seguay" into discussing the
gay pride march?
-mr. bill
|
323.2487 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:28 | 21 |
| - I ask a question
- You answer question but instead of graciously giving me the benefit
of the doubt, you throw your hissy fits born from frustration at the
end of each sentence.
-I respond by saying something to the effect of..."Okay Mr. Bill, don't
be a hemerhoid..." Translation, Okay Mr. Bill, relax, take some
downers...
Yes, it was a simple mistake...I refuse to change my stance on that.
You're trying to make this a mistake of great proportions. I will not
give in to this.
By the way, when you were at the Walk for Life, was there a contingent
of the gay lobby there...promoting homosexuality? If so, then it is
the gay community that is making the connection with gays and AIDS, not
I Kemosabbe!
-Jack
|
323.2488 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:40 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2484 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| The reason I said it should be shifted to the gay issues topic was because I
| was attempting to seguay into discussing the gay pride march. I didn't say
| that to make the connection between AIDS and being gay
But it did end up being seen that way, would you agree?
Glen
|
323.2489 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:42 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2485 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| simply acknowledges the fact that in the early 1980's, AIDS propogated
| as a disease of wide proportion amongst the homosexual population FIRST.
In North America ONLY. In every other country, the disease hit far more
heterosexuals, than homosexuals. It is still that way today.
| However, I find denial to be an even bigger crime than the statements I've
| made in the past.
Denial of what? So far your facts from before are not accurate.
|
323.2490 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:48 | 31 |
| | <<< Note 323.2487 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| - You answer question but instead of graciously giving me the benefit
| of the doubt, you throw your hissy fits born from frustration at the
| end of each sentence.
Well Jack, you did take something out of the gay topic and moved it
over to the AIDS topic. Think about it....
| By the way, when you were at the Walk for Life, was there a contingent of the
| gay lobby there...promoting homosexuality?
Promoting homosexuality? Too funny. No, there was not. There were
people there who walked for other people. The person they walked for could have
been gay/straight, and the people doing the walking could have been
gay/straight. Who knows? I didn't ask.
But I would recommend that next year you do the walk yourself. This way
you can get first hand experience on it. AND, it would help clear up any
misconceptions you may have.
| If so, then it is the gay community that is making the connection with gays
| and AIDS, not I Kemosabbe!
No, it would still be you. If gays were there promoting homosexuality,
then that has nothing to do with the Walk. So if you make a connection, then
you have done it, not gays.
Glen
|
323.2491 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 11:52 | 17 |
| ZZ Denial of what? So far your facts from before are not accurate.
Pray tell then, please give us more facts on this. North America is
our home Glen...my exposure to news and the media in the early 80's
lead the public to believe that AIDS spread throughout the gay
population. You say my facts are inaccurate...I haven't given any
information other than my belief that AIDS propogated itself through
the gay community FIRST! Okay, in North America...so what? It is
common knowledge that AIDS is rampant in Southeast Asia, Puerto Rico,
the Florida Keyes and Africa...amongst Hets...I know that Glen and I've
brought it up here before. I'm speaking of the early 1980's, here in
our country Glen. What other facts have I misrepresented?
By the way Glen, do you know if there was a gay contingent(s) at the
Walk for life?
-Jack
|
323.2492 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 12:05 | 19 |
| Z Well Jack, you did take something out of the gay topic and moved it
Z over to the AIDS topic. Think about it....
Glen, I moved it over to the AIDS topic because it was germane to the
AIDS walk. Didn't want to rathole the Gay topic.
As far as misconceptions, I recognize I may be uninformed....which is
why I asked the question in the first place.
Re: The march, nooo Glen. If five men are holding a sign, for example,
stating something perhaps like..."GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then
at this point the parade has lost its neutrality and has now fallen
into the realm of becoming a tool for a special interest group.
Otherwise, there would be no need for such an endorsement coming out.
As far as you answering the question with..."too funny..." you
indicate here a suspicion that my question is disingenuous.
-Jack
|
323.2493 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | _8^p_ | Wed Jun 12 1996 12:08 | 9 |
|
>If five men are holding a sign, for example,
>stating something perhaps like..."GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then
>at this point the parade has lost its neutrality and has now fallen
>into the realm of becoming a tool for a special interest group.
<boggle>
|
323.2494 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 12:52 | 1 |
| bugle
|
323.2496 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 13:48 | 30 |
| | <<< Note 323.2492 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Glen, I moved it over to the AIDS topic because it was germane to the
| AIDS walk. Didn't want to rathole the Gay topic.
I know what/why you did it, but it didn't make sense. Why would *I*
talk about the AIDS Walk in the gay topic?
| As far as misconceptions, I recognize I may be uninformed....which is why I
| asked the question in the first place.
And this is good.
| If five men are holding a sign, for example, stating something perhaps like...
| "GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then at this point the parade has lost its
| neutrality and has now fallen into the realm of becoming a tool for a special
| interest group. Otherwise, there would be no need for such an endorsement
| coming out.
Jack, be real. If it were heterosexuals in place of gays, would it make
them and the walk a special interest group? You have Digital, Bank of Boston,
etc, all walking and holding their signs, wearing their t-shirts. Does this
make it a special interest group walk? Of course not. If any organization has a
sign for an AIDS Free America, then that is what they are looking for. If it be
gay, stright, a corporation, a grocery chain, what have you.... it is NOT a
special interest. It is a GROUP who wants to see something happen.
Glen
|
323.2495 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 13:50 | 44 |
| | <<< Note 323.2491 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| North America is our home Glen...my exposure to news and the media in the
| early 80's lead the public to believe that AIDS spread throughout the gay
| population.
Thank you... now what you have said above reflects the situation. You
narrowed the field to North America.
But in this country, they made it sound like world wide it was a gay
disease.
| You say my facts are inaccurate...
Only because you did not state North America. AIDS is a disease that is
a world issue. So when you said you heard it was a gay disease, it was
inacurate.
| I haven't given any information other than my belief that AIDS propogated
| itself through the gay community FIRST! Okay, in North America...so what?
Because it kills off the other tags that go along with it. That's why
the label needs to be in there. It's kind of like saying that Christians hate
fags. That is an inaccurate label. There are some who do, but to put everyone
into that group by using a blanket statement is wrong.
| I'm speaking of the early 1980's, here in our country Glen.
Now you are by stating it correctly. And back in the 1980's there could
have been a hell of a lot of people (gay & straight) saved if the country did
something about it. But it wasn't until they realized that anyone could get
this disease, that major things started happening. Blanket statements stink.
More harm can happen from a blanket statement because it then makes those who
aren't covered under the statement feel safe, or better, or good. As with the
Christian thing, people get hurt by the blanket statement.
| By the way Glen, do you know if there was a gay contingent(s) at the Walk for
| life?
I already answered this a couple of notes back.
Glen
|
323.2497 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Wed Jun 12 1996 14:52 | 16 |
| <--- I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
"Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America". I would also be suspect of
a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America". I fail
to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays, minorities, or hets.
How about "Americans for an AIDS free America"? Sort of has that
'all-for-one and one-for-all' togetherness that is needed for such
causes. Such an endorsement of cohesiveness should make the PC crowd
all warm and fuzzy, too. A definite win-win scenario.
Of course, I have no idea if any such signs were present, as I was not
there. I'm just stirring the pot a bit. 8^)
-steve
|
323.2498 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 16:54 | 17 |
| | <<< Note 323.2497 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says "Heterosexuals for
| an AIDS free America". I would also be suspect of a sign that reads "African
| Americans for an AIDS free America". I fail to see the need for such
| distinctive signs- for gays, minorities, or hets.
Steve, you do realize that the situation Jack talked about was not
there. But lets say it was. I agree with part of what you are saying, but it
shouldn't stop at America... it should be world. But I wouldn't be suspect of
any group, any company, etc, who would say <insert group/company> for an AIDS
Free World. I mean, why would you be suspect to any group/company/etc?
Glen
|
323.2499 | | ASDG::GASSAWAY | Insert clever personal name here | Wed Jun 12 1996 17:56 | 8 |
| The Glob did an article on the parade. Focused on same sex couples who
came with their children as a family unit. Seems there were a larger
number of these families than before and they came from all over New
England to promote the concept of family and try to take some of the
emphasis off of the more extreme marchers who go overboard with the
PDA.
Lisa
|
323.2500 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:08 | 1 |
| Is is okay to snarf in a serious topic?
|
323.2501 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't get even ... get odd!! | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:13 | 6 |
|
Maybe you should have asked that in note 17.
Heck, it looks like you could have even gotten a .*69 snarf
at the same time.
|
323.2502 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:14 | 1 |
| I don't do 69 snarfs!
|
323.2503 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:15 | 4 |
| Z Focused on same sex couples who came with their children as a family unit.
They really should consider moving to Greece. It's quite nice there
actually!
|
323.2504 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't get even ... get odd!! | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:16 | 3 |
|
Are you calling all Greeks homosexuals, Jack?
|
323.2505 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | Don't get even ... get odd!! | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:16 | 3 |
|
Nancy, a .*69 might do you some good.
|
323.2506 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 12 1996 18:17 | 6 |
| ZZ Are you calling all Greeks homosexuals, Jack?
Certainly not. They just don't have the "hangups" we Charletons have
over here!
|
323.2507 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Jun 12 1996 19:09 | 11 |
| <<< Note 323.2479 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>
> And if somebody reads you the Riot Act when all you did was make
> a simple mistake, it's perfectly natural to react to that, so the
> whole thing is moot in this case anyways.
The response to our beloved Bill's reply WAS perfectly natural.
No problem with it at all. AFTER "Ooops, I goofed" of course.
Jim
|
323.2508 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Jun 12 1996 19:13 | 12 |
| <<< Note 323.2485 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
> Mr. Bill, I stand by what I said in both cases. My 1995 statement
> simply acknowledges the fact that in the early 1980's, AIDS propogated
> as a disease of wide proportion amongst the homosexual population
> FIRST. The victims of AIDS were mainly from the gay community.
Very US centric view of this disease. AIDS has ALWAYS been
primarily a heterosexual disease, if you educate yourself
concerning worldwide cases.
Jim
|
323.2509 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Wed Jun 12 1996 19:17 | 10 |
| <<< Note 323.2491 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
>You say my facts are inaccurate...I haven't given any
> information other than my belief that AIDS propogated itself through
> the gay community FIRST!
And this is inaccurate. AIDS did not spread from NA to Africa,
it was the other way around.
Jim
|
323.2510 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Jun 12 1996 19:23 | 3 |
| XXXX cuse me!!! Slabounty, thats kinda personal tyvm.
|
323.2511 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 12 1996 19:57 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2506 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| They just don't have the "hangups" we Charletons have over here!
Ahhhh... so just ship us off, huh? Not on your life! :-)
|
323.2512 | Jack is still confused.... | PERFOM::LICEA_KANE | when it's comin' from the left | Thu Jun 13 1996 08:57 | 33 |
| Jack -
| Glen, I moved it over to the AIDS topic because it was germane to the
| AIDS walk.
Glen's reply in the gay topic was not germane to the AIDS walk.
| Didn't want to rathole the Gay topic.
Nah. Far better to rathole the AIDS topic. Over and over and over
again.
| If five men are holding a sign, for example, stating something perhaps
| like..."GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then at this point the parade
| has lost its neutrality and has now fallen into the realm of becoming a
| tool for a special interest group.
Have you ever heard anyone refer to "The Walk for Hunger" as a parade?
Yet here you are, calling "The AIDS Pledge Walk" a parade. It's just
a "simple" mistake after all. It's quite easy to continue to get
"The AIDS Pledge Walk" and the Gay Pride March (which *is* a parade)
all mixed up.
Lisa -
| The Glob did an article on the parade. Focused on same sex couples who
| came with their children as a family unit.
Don't let Jack confuse you too. The Globe's article on "The AIDS
Pledge Walk" focused on "Team Lodie". The Globe's article on the Gay
Pride March is a different topic all together.
-mr. bill
|
323.2513 | | CNTROL::JENNISON | It's all about soul | Thu Jun 13 1996 10:39 | 5 |
|
re .2505
Take it to the "Tacky Replies" topic!
|
323.2514 | | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | FUBAR | Thu Jun 13 1996 13:05 | 7 |
|
We have a "tacky replies" topic?? I did not know that.
And BTW, I did say .*69, which refers to a snarf and nothing
more [unless, of course, you have a dirty mind like Nancy or
Karen].
|
323.2515 | | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Jun 13 1996 13:09 | 4 |
| .2514
OH yeah, play innocent now. BWAhahahahahahah. :-)
|
323.2516 | | ASDG::GASSAWAY | Insert clever personal name here | Thu Jun 13 1996 15:03 | 16 |
|
RE: Glob article
I meant the parade for Pride Day and not the AIDS walk. In the
thousands of replies to this topic there have been quite a few that
imply that all homosexuals are one of the following:
1) pedophiles
2) promiscuous
3) hideous people that cross-dress for Gay Pride marches and suck
face with each other in front of impressionable 4-year-olds.
I brought up the article as a counterpoint.
Not that it mattered.
Lisa
|
323.2517 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Thu Jun 13 1996 15:12 | 10 |
| From the Flummery Digest:
After five years of heated debate, the National Institutes of Health has
decided to undertake a nationwide clinical trial of Kemron, the drug touted
by the Nation of Islam as a cure for AIDS, despite a previous finding by
the World Health Organization that the drug had no effect on the HIV virus.
Nation of Islam Health Minister Dr. Abdul Alim Muhammed, who once told a
Baltimore crowd that AIDS is "the perfect genocidal weapon" manufactured
by the white government against black people, runs the Abundant Life Clinic
in Washington, D.C., which has been chosen one of the drug's testing sites.
|
323.2518 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Thu Jun 13 1996 15:42 | 6 |
| Z 1) pedophiles
Z 2) promiscuous
Z 3) hideous people that cross-dress for Gay Pride marches and
Z suck face with each other in front of impressionable 4-year-olds.
And which of these boxes do I fit into Lisa?!
|
323.2519 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Thu Jun 13 1996 21:04 | 15 |
| > I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
> "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America". I would also be suspect
> of a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America".
> I fail to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays,
> minorities, or hets.
Steve, as a white christian living in the midwest, perhaps you
don't have an appreciation for what I would loosely call the
question of identity.
That you fail to see the need for such distinctive signs is only
your myopia, nobody else's problem. Perhaps this will give you a
clue.
DougO
|
323.2520 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 14 1996 11:26 | 52 |
| re: .2519
> Steve, as a white christian living in the midwest, perhaps you
> don't have an appreciation for what I would loosely call the
> question of identity.
First of all, technically, I am a minority- I'm not white (though my
skin certianly is rather pale 8^) ). I am no less than 1/16
Black Foot Indian. Under the law, I qualify for whatever bennies
native Americans get. I could care less about being a minority,
though. I am an AMERICAN, dammit, not a native american, not a
Dutch-American, etc. (yes, I'm part Dutch, too). No one in my family
has ever pushed for minority status, we've done quite well without any
government help, tyvm.
If you are going to be a cohesive nation, putting aside our differences
and live together in peace, isn't it a good idea not try and separate
yourself into your own little group? I see so much lip-service that
says we need to "unite" Americans of all races/etc., yet each little
group feels that it is necessary to segregate themselves. I think this
is counterproductive to the end goal. ymmv.
> That you fail to see the need for such distinctive signs is only
> your myopia, nobody else's problem. Perhaps this will give you a
> clue.
I disagree. Clearly, when a group purposely segregates themselves in
any manner, the problem will eventually be theirs. I see it as
somewhat hypocritical that some of these very groups promote a "color
blind" society, while waving signs that proudly display how they are
different. Color me confused.
The gay pride signs take this silliness to extremes, IMO. Not only
does someone else's sex life not concern me, but I really could care
less to know if your attraction runs towards those of the same sex. In
fact, I don't want to know.
If you want to take pride in your sexuality, fine. That's your problem.
Personally, I see nothing to be prideful about in the arena of sexual
attraction. Hey, flaming-red hair turns me on, but I'm sure most folk
find this less than interesting, and certainly nothing to be "proud" of
oneself for. It's just my personal tastes. Demanding that everyone
respect my peculiar attractions is rather silly, IMO.
Do I take pride in being attracted to women? No. What's to be
prideful about? This comes quite naturally to most of the male
species. Going against the mainstream is certainly nothing to be proud
about, either. Get the picture yet?
-steve
|
323.2521 | Instead, you approve of discrimination. | SMURF::BINDER | Uva uvam vivendo variat | Fri Jun 14 1996 11:29 | 8 |
| .2520
> Not only does someone else's sex life not concern me...
And hypocrisy runs rampant. If someone else's sex life did not concern
you, you would be fighting to UNITE all Americans such that none would
discriminate against another merely because of the other's sexual
identity and the behavior choices based thereon.
|
323.2522 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 14 1996 12:37 | 72 |
| | <<< Note 323.2520 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| If you are going to be a cohesive nation, putting aside our differences and
| live together in peace,
This has got to be one of the best ideas you have ever come up with!
The only problem is it isn't possible while we are still in human form. I think
you will agree that the only one who can really see through the colors,
orientations, bigotry, etc, every single time, is God (and I know this could
only apply to those who believe in God). But, we can still try. If you think
about it, you have people who pull out the differences to use as a weapon to
hurt a group, while the group shows that it is a strength, not a weakness. I
can't ever see this stopping while we are here. Too many variables.
But like I said.... that was one of the best ideas you have ever come
up with!
| Clearly, when a group purposely segregates themselves in any manner, the
| problem will eventually be theirs. I see it as somewhat hypocritical that
| some of these very groups promote a "color blind" society, while waving signs
| that proudly display how they are different. Color me confused.
While we are still humans, we all will still be different. Some people
say I'm loud. :-) Imagine that.... but it is part of me, I guess. :-) For
some, they have been put down over and over again for their difference by
others, and they are trying to show the difference is not the problem.
Ignorance is. And that is why as long as there is division, your idea will not
work.
To *me*, only God can see through all that, and when He is ready to
allow us to do the same, it will only be that it's because it just doesn't
matter.
| The gay pride signs take this silliness to extremes, IMO. Not only does
| someone else's sex life not concern me,
What signs are you reading?
| but I really could care less to know if your attraction runs towards those
| of the same sex.
Then I guess maybe you should close your eyes while passing them? :-)
What's kind of ironic here is that you are saying it is same sex, when it could
very well not be same sex. This might be the ignorance thing I was talking
about. Gay pride has gay, lesbian, bisexuals, transgendered and heterosexuals
both in and at the parade.
| In fact, I don't want to know.
Steve.... errr... I'm..... errrr..... gay? :-)
| If you want to take pride in your sexuality, fine. That's your problem.
Yes, it is. But then you wouldn't be at a gay pride parade. What people
are proud about is just being themselves completely. You take for granted that
you can walk around and be heterosexual. You can be a complete person. For many
of us, it took a lot to get to that point. Not based on reality, but based on
what other people think. It's like lifting a ton of bricks off your back.
Knowing that you are ok, and not some monster some people make you out to be.
| Personally, I see nothing to be prideful about in the arena of sexual
| attraction.
And someday you might actually know what gay pride is about.
| Get the picture yet?
I'm hoping you do.
Glen
|
323.2523 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 14 1996 12:42 | 7 |
| .2521
I'm not *for* discriminating against anyone, so your point is rather
moot.
-steve
|
323.2524 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 14 1996 14:54 | 4 |
| Glen, what I am finding is that social engineering is in some cases
having the opposite effect. We want desirable results.
-Jack
|
323.2525 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 14 1996 19:05 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2524 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Glen, what I am finding is that social engineering is in some cases
| having the opposite effect. We want desirable results.
Well, you can start off by which social engineering cases you are
referring to above, and what ideas you might have that could give you desirable
results.
Glen
|
323.2526 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 17 1996 11:05 | 22 |
| Z Well, you can start off by which social engineering cases you are
Z referring to above, and what ideas you might have that could give you
Z desirable results.
Glen, I have done this in the past and you for whatever reason always
side with big brother.
- Abolish Affirmative Retribution programs of course. I don't owe
society an alternative solution since AA is illegal anyways.
- Abolish welfare as we know it today. Make having a baby out of wedlock
an even more frightening experience than it is today. Put the onus on
the individual families.
- Get rid of all programs in prisons giving aid and comfort to lifers. I
have no interest in reforming these dolts because there is or should be
absolutely no hope of them ever seeing the outside of a fence. Again I
owe society no other alternative to make convicts feel better...
That's for starters....
-Jack
|
323.2527 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 17 1996 11:11 | 3 |
|
Now somehow tie them all in with AIDS....
|
323.2528 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 17 1996 11:29 | 1 |
| Don't have to. I mentioned special interest groups in general!
|
323.2529 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 17 1996 13:34 | 5 |
|
Does that also include Christians? Like can we take off the special
interest group "no tax" clause? Or will this be a case where you will find the
interests of this group to be ok?
|
323.2530 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 17 1996 15:46 | 17 |
| Z Does that also include Christians? Like can we take off the special
Z interest group "no tax" clause? Or will this be a case where you will
Z find the interests of this group to be ok?
And as I've said before, this is one of the most absurd and bizarre
beliefs you have. First of all, this would not stand in court on
constitutional grounds and you know it. Secondly Glen, when I say
special interest groups, I am referring to parasitical groups that
usurp some sort of benefit from the Federal Gummint. The Church, Glen,
defrays the expenses incurred by the Federal Government; therefore, you
would be cutting off your nose to spite your face.
Thirdly Glen, the Church is a non profit organization. Therefore,
stipends used toward the operation of a church, or any non profit
organization cannot be taxed. That would be robbery...pure and simple.
-Jack
|
323.2531 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Mon Jun 17 1996 17:28 | 52 |
| >>> I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
>>> "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America". I would also be suspect
>>> of a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America".
>>> I fail to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays,
>>> minorities, or hets.
>>
>> Steve, as a white christian living in the midwest, perhaps you
>> don't have an appreciation for what I would loosely call the
>> question of identity.
>>
>> That you fail to see the need for such distinctive signs is only
>> your myopia, nobody else's problem. Perhaps this will give you a
>> clue.
>
> First of all, technically, I am a minority- [...]
Pardon my error.
> If you are going to be a cohesive nation, putting aside our differences
> and live together in peace, isn't it a good idea not try and separate
> yourself into your own little group? I see so much lip-service that
> says we need to "unite" Americans of all races/etc., yet each little
> group feels that it is necessary to segregate themselves. I think this
> is counterproductive to the end goal. ymmv.
"segregate themselves" [sic] is not the same thing as taking pride in
identity and carrying signs in a parade. Since the personal will serve
as such a convenient example here, tell us about your heritage as a
Black Foot Indian. How much do you know about it? And if its ANYTHING
AT ALL, I submit that as evidence that you *do* have some curiosity or
interest in your own 'identity'. Does this make you less American?
Does this mean you segregate yourself? No, of course not. It means
none of those things. It is perfectly legitimate and just for you to
get as much enjoyment, sense of identity, sense of place, or whatever,
from your heritage as you think appropriate. Nobody else is you,
nobody else is in a position to gainsay. Do you think acknowledging
your native american heritage is "counterproductive"? Why, then, do
you say that about others' particular identities?
> Color me confused.
Grab a clue, Steve. The many facets of our complex society reflect
different identities for each one of us. Knowing ourselves as
individuals, together with knowing ourselves as part of groups, is
an enriching and rewarding privilege of our multicultural heritage.
It isn't unAmerican, it has nothing to do with appealing for government
help, and it doesn't have to be confusing. Unless you have political
reasons to try to make it so.
Tell us about your heritage, Steve.
DougO
|
323.2532 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Mon Jun 17 1996 18:00 | 26 |
| Z Do you think acknowledging
Z your native american heritage is "counterproductive"? Why, then,
Z do you say that about others' particular identities?
I know of many whose families left their place of origin to find a
better life here in America. They made a decision and upon coming over
here, made it their prime initiative to forego the identity they had
with their old country and assimilate into America. While it is true,
for example, that specific parts of Boston have a high percentage of
immigrants from the same background, they also knew that it wasn't
America's obligation to assimilate to their culture, but for them to
assimilate to that of the United States.
I tend to see the opposite happen as of late. I find some of these
backassed repulsive philosophies brought here....the very things that
made people leave their country in the first place...propogated and
forced upon the masses by the PC/sensitivity types here in America.
Apparently, these pseudo intellectuals don't seem to believe in a
common identity between all Americans...hence we have major cities in
the US as repositories of violence and lacking identity.
Check out the stats. You will find that many of the more monolithic
countries have far less of a crime and violence problem than a
multiculturalist society. It's as plain as the nose on your face!
-Jack
|
323.2533 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Mon Jun 17 1996 20:52 | 4 |
| putcher pants back on, Jack. I'm still asking Steve why carrying signs
is "suspect".
DougO
|
323.2534 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 17 1996 21:54 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.2530 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| And as I've said before, this is one of the most absurd and bizarre beliefs
| you have. First of all, this would not stand in court on constitutional
| grounds and you know it.
Gee..... and to think the things you talked of are under the gov as
well, but it is ok to do away with those things. Nice try, Jack. But religious
orgs are special interest groups as well.
| Thirdly Glen, the Church is a non profit organization.
Then if they make even 1 single penny, it should go to the government
so they are truly a non-profit org.
Glen
|
323.2535 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 17 1996 21:57 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2532 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| America's obligation to assimilate to their culture, but for them to
| assimilate to that of the United States.
What IS our culture, Jack? Isn't our culture based on the other
cultures that come into the country? Oh... well... as long as no one yells in a
foreign language....
| It's as plain as the nose on your face!
AJ has a thing for noses, I think.
Glen
|
323.2536 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Mon Jun 17 1996 22:00 | 14 |
|
>| Thirdly Glen, the Church is a non profit organization.
> Then if they make even 1 single penny, it should go to the government
>so they are truly a non-profit org.
b-b-b-but what about this wall of separation between church and state?
Jim
|
323.2537 | Don't women alone have the majority? | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 17 1996 22:13 | 14 |
| | <<< Note 323.2536 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Every knee shall bow" >>>
| b-b-b-but what about this wall of separation between church and state?
Then give every penny away, or lose the no tax clause. It doesn't
really matter to me. But they are just a special interest group right now
receiving special status, which many people who support this special interest
for the church, would deny it to other groups who they consider special
interest, cuz those groups are bad..... (even though the groups make up the
majority of the people in the country)
Glen
|
323.2538 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Tue Jun 18 1996 09:51 | 13 |
| .2533
I'd already answered that. You simply disagree with me. Judgeing by
your last note, we certainly are coming from two diverse trains of
thought (big surprise there 8^) ), and I wonder if you really
understand what I'm taking issue with. Perhaps not.
As far as "gay pride" signs... I still fail to see what there is to
take pride in. Why is one's sexuality (of any orientation, much less
one that is not the norm) a source of pride?
-steve
|
323.2539 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 18 1996 10:20 | 22 |
| | <<< Note 323.2538 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| As far as "gay pride" signs... I still fail to see what there is to take pride
| in. Why is one's sexuality (of any orientation, much less one that is not the
| norm) a source of pride?
Gee.... you should read the interview series as the last question asked
is what does Pride mean to you. You will see several people replying. Something
to think about. I've already given you *a* reason for it. And that is it has to
do with people taking Pride in who they are. Not being put down for who they
are.
Now what would really take away the sexual orientation issue would be
for you, and people like you to not bring it up? I do realize this is the only
way you can remotely justify your claims is to keep it a sexual orientation
issue. Pride has to do with people just realizing they aren't the monsters some
try to make us out to be. That there is nothing wrong being us.
Glen
|
323.2540 | at least, according to JC&co... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Jun 18 1996 10:35 | 4 |
|
Pride is a sin. It is humility which is a virtue.
bb
|
323.2541 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Tue Jun 18 1996 10:35 | 19 |
|
>| b-b-b-but what about this wall of separation between church and state?
> Then give every penny away, or lose the no tax clause. It doesn't
>really matter to me. But they are just a special interest group right now
>receiving special status, which many people who support this special interest
>for the church, would deny it to other groups who they consider special
>interest, cuz those groups are bad..... (even though the groups make up the
>majority of the people in the country)
So, the "wall of separation" only goes one way?
Jim
|
323.2542 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 18 1996 11:23 | 4 |
|
If they want to be a non-profit org and not pay taxes, then every bit
of money they make should go away, or lose their taxless status.
|
323.2543 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | _8^p_ | Tue Jun 18 1996 11:26 | 4 |
|
Well, they need to keep _some_, to cover expenses and all. They can't
maintain a zero bank balance, it's not feasible.
|
323.2544 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 18 1996 11:41 | 15 |
| Z Well, they need to keep _some_, to cover expenses and all. They can't
Z maintain a zero bank balance, it's not feasible.
Actually Mz. Debra, the church is allowed to itemize their money into
funds, i.e. the Church building fund, Trustees Fund, etc. This money
then becomes non taxable, which is why it is important for churches to
have an annual budget.
What Glen again fails to see is that taxation is stagnating the economy
as it is...and taxing churches would quell much of the goodies our
society gets as churches are the largest defrayers of social
expenditures in this country. It all stems from a sheer lack of wisdom
and understanding.
-Jack
|
323.2545 | unsure of the concept ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Jun 18 1996 11:44 | 19 |
|
I have noticed that many 'Boxers do not understand what a
non-profit organization is and isn't. Since non-profits have
no income, they all pay no income tax, whether they are the
Catholic Church, Boston University, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance,
the Sierra Club. But they must file each year as a non-profit.
If they buy things, they pay sales tax, like anybody else.
Property tax exemptions for private universities, churches, etc,
are not required by the Constitution, as far as I can tell. They
are there simply because they have the votes. It would probably
be constitutional to tax the property of all non-profits, and
might significantly alter the tax base in our big cities. But it
would also have the effect of suggesting relocation. I doubt
there is a political concensus that property taxes on non-profits
would be good policy.
bb
|
323.2546 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Jun 18 1996 11:52 | 4 |
| > If they buy things, they pay sales tax, like anybody else.
Wrong. They have a "tax number" which they present to the merchant.
The merchant then doesn't charge sales tax.
|
323.2547 | don't try to change the subject | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Tue Jun 18 1996 13:06 | 13 |
| >.2533
>
> I'd already answered that. You simply disagree with me.
Your answer prompted further discussion to which you have not
yet given response. It is not "simple disagreement". See .2531.
> As far as "gay pride" signs...
You were previously talking about all manner of signs you found
"suspect".
DougO
|
323.2548 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 18 1996 13:28 | 7 |
| Glen:
By the way, to answer your question, we are primarily a western
Eurocentric culture. What we don't need is immigrants who insist upon
foisting their nasties that they tried so desparately to escape from.
Not interested, go away! Assimilate damnit.
|
323.2549 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 18 1996 14:57 | 3 |
|
Aunt Jack, the only thing you are escaping from is reality....
|
323.2550 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Tue Jun 18 1996 15:05 | 1 |
| jack's grundel is too tight, that's all.
|
323.2551 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Here we are now, in containers | Tue Jun 18 1996 15:05 | 1 |
| I thought you liked guys with a nice tight set of grundels?
|
323.2552 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Tue Jun 18 1996 15:11 | 1 |
| don't get cheeky.
|
323.2553 | Posted WITH permission | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 18 1996 16:14 | 74 |
| From: CRL::"[email protected]" "Douglas Spencer" 18-JUN-1996 14:25:53.31
To: distribution:;@[email protected] (see end of body)
CC:
Subj: HIV Elimination
Here's an email I just received. Check out the bottom of the article for
comments from someone at AIDS Action.
Scientists: HIV Elimination Within Sight
By Associated Press, 06/14/96
NEW YORK (AP) - Some of the world's leading AIDS researchers and
physicians have begun talking optimistically about the possibility of
eliminating HIV from infected people.
Recent tests of existing and new treatments on tens of thousands
of infected patients appear to have left them with no detectable signs of
HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, the researchers say.
``If you had asked me in January, `Can you eradicate HIV
infection?' I would have laughed in your face,'' Dr. Julio Montaner of
the University of British Columbia was quoted as saying today in Newsday.
``But now we've been able to demonstrate that we can effectively
suppress viral production. That is leading to a dramatic change in how we
think of this disease,'' he said.
The clinical trials were discussed Thursday in Washington, D.C.,
at a conference held by the medical journal Antiviral Therapy and the
University of Amsterdam.
Scientists cited three factors for their optimism:
-The development of a new class of anti-HIV drugs, three of which
were licensed by the government earlier this year.
-Successful tests to combine different families of HIV drugs in a
``cocktail'' that assaults the virus' ability to reproduce.
-Tests that allow doctors to measure precisely the amount of HIV
present in a patient's blood.
Scientists believe treating patients early with the mixture of HIV
drugs may be reducing the virus to a level that a still-intact immune
system can handle.
The Wall Street Journal reported today that even cautious
physicians are astonished by recent developments.
``It now appears, at the very least, we may finally have the tools
to turn (AIDS) into a long-term manageable and treatable disease, much
like hypertension and diabetes,'' said Roy Gullick, research physician at
New York University Medical School.
``Almost every one of my patients is doing significantly better.''
Between 650,000 and 900,000 Americans are infected with HIV;
almost 60,000 have been treated with the new drugs, none for more than
two years.
- - - - - - -
From a friend who works at AIDS Action: the 'buzz' here is that it's all
real, but that it's premature to drop our guard given that we don't have
stats looking at how protease inhibitors work over time.
There are also concerns about protease inhibitors working on healthier
bodies, and that they may not be as effective once people have "real"
immune damage. It seems the jury is still out.
- - - - - - -
|
323.2554 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:04 | 32 |
| | <<< Note 323.2554 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| If I held up a sign that said "White people for an AIDS free America",
| I would certainly raise some eyebrows...my motivation for such a sign
| would rightly cause suspicions on my motivation. I imagine you would
| be one of the first to cry "foul" over it.
Steve, you don't really think the media has always been favorable
towards gays, do you? Come on.... when it started off, it was anything but
good. But as time went on, they saw what was real, and what was not. What went
as a destructive media view, has become much much much better. They just report
what is there.
I suspect the same would happen with your white people signs.
| I disagree. I think it is all mush-minded nonsense. Don't get me
| wrong, there is nothing wrong with learning and being proud of your
| herritage. However, at some point, you have to assimilate into society.
And I'm sure you'll be there to tell us when we can be proud, and when
we shouldn't be.
| I can see first and second generation immagrants calling themselves
| "African Americans" or "Hispanic Americans", etc., but after that, there
| comes a time to drop the prefix.
Why? Because you said so?
Glen
|
323.2555 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:05 | 3 |
| .2553
glen, this is most encouraging news. thanks for posting it.
|
323.2556 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:05 | 76 |
| .2531 (DougO)
This is a waste of time, IMO, which is why I opted for the short form
answer. You don't seem to understand where I am coming from on this
issue; maybe I have not been as clear as I thought, maybe we simply
have two very different ways of looking at things that keep
understanding at bay.
Whatever the case, I will try to clarify, since you are so insistent.
me> I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
me> "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America". I would also be suspect
me> of a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America".
me> I fail to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays,
me> minorities, or hets.
The word you seem to have a problem with is "suspect", it seems. I use
this term as I see in these signs a certain motivation which seems to
have nothing at all to do with an "AIDS free America". Such signs
focus on the group in question first: "GAYS for an AIDS free America",
"HETEROSEXUALS for an AIDS free America", "AFRICAN AMERICANS for an
AIDS free American", etc, then on what they are for. I find such signs
"suspect" because I feel that at least some of the motivation for them
is to promote said group.
If I held up a sign that said "White people for an AIDS free America",
I would certainly raise some eyebrows...my motivation for such a sign
would rightly cause suspicions on my motivation. I imagine you would
be one of the first to cry "foul" over it.
> "segregate themselves" [sic] is not the same thing as taking pride in
> identity and carrying signs in a parade.
This is where we disagree. It is a form of segregation, if a mild one.
It does have an affect on race relations. If a group of white people
started a "white pride" parade, holding up signs promoting white people
in various ways, don't you think it would be castrated by the media?
Don't you think that most people would call such a parade racist?
I certainly would not join in such a parade, as I would certainly be
suspect of the motivation behind it. I don't need a public
display to show off my identity, or to be proud of who I am. Such a
self-promotion, to me, shows a lack of confidence in one's identity.
You see, as I said in my last note, we simply disagree on the basics of
what comprises "self-segregation". By promoting self, you set yourself
apart from others by default.
> Grab a clue, Steve. The many facets of our complex society reflect
> different identities for each one of us. Knowing ourselves as
> individuals, together with knowing ourselves as part of groups, is
> an enriching and rewarding privilege of our multicultural heritage.
This is all fine and dandy, but why do we need official distinctions?
Why not just be "Americans"? There is nothing wrong with learning and
being proud of your herritage. However, at some point, you have to
assimilate into society. We are all in this together. We are either all
Americans, or we are not.
I can see first and second generation immagrants calling themselves
"African Americans" or "Hispanic Americans", etc., but after that, there
comes a time to drop the prefix. It doesn't change your herritage or
change who you are, it merely puts you on equal footing with everyone
else.
There was a time when immigrants came to this country and were proud to be
called "Americans"...no prefix.
If you want a color-blind society, you need to give every citizen the
same moniker. If you live in America, that moniker is "American".
Anything extra is a form of segregation.
-steve
|
323.2557 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:10 | 21 |
| Glen Marie:
I congratulate you on your asbility to answer retorts before they are
posted! :-)
| but after that, there
| comes a time to drop the prefix.
Z Why? Because you said so?
Glen, in your effort to be a sensytyve goody goody type, you ARE
causing the problem. You ARE causing a division between the genders
and the races. So the answer is yes, I said so, in my opinion. You
are perpetuating an age old problem many of us got over years ago. You
possess the same problem Jesse Jackson has. Instead of getting this
diversity thing out from under your fingernail, you insist upon, as you
say, putting people in boxes...distinguishing each other as a seperate
entity...all in our cute little category to which we can use to demand
our rights blah blah blah, etc. etc. etc.
-Jack
|
323.2558 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:21 | 25 |
| | <<< Note 323.2557 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Glen, in your effort to be a sensytyve goody goody type, you ARE causing the
| problem. You ARE causing a division between the genders and the races.
Jack, this is funny. If someone wants to be known as something, they
can't because you and Steve don't think they should be known as what they want
to be. And then you tell me I am part of the problem because I don't mind them
being known as whatever they want to be known as. I think you have it
backwards.
If someone comes to this country, but does not want to forget their
heritage, then they call themselves <insert country> Americans. If they don't
care about their heritage, they won't use it. Plain and simple. There is no cut
off date, there is nothing wrong with the label. What is wrong is instead of
just accepting the label, which doesn't hurt anyone, some think they should
change it to what they think it should be. How nice of you to tell others who
or what they are. If you would, I hope that both Steve and yourself never use
the word Christian again. Because those people become suspect.
Glen
|
323.2559 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:23 | 2 |
| jack, what do you want us all to be? one massive,
amorphous blob?
|
323.2560 | | EDITEX::MOORE | GetOuttaMyChair | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:25 | 2 |
|
Globular-Muricans.
|
323.2561 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | tumble to remove jerks | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:29 | 3 |
|
Funded by the Tri-literal Commission
|
323.2562 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:33 | 20 |
| Z I hope that both Steve and yourself never use
Z the word Christian again. Because those people become suspect.
Glen, I have never, in the conference or otherwise referred to myself
as a Christian American. I would find the term to be absurd at best
and would simply see it as a perpetuation of my ideals upon others
around me.
Re: Bonbon's question. Bonnie, I find the categorization of Americans
to be a deterrant to the cause of harmony in this country. As I
mentioned before, monolithic countries throughout the world are by far
less crime ridden than the United States.
I am Scottish-American...because I am Scottish. What an absurd
concept. No...I am proud of my heritage but I am of this country
first. Scotland has absolutely no ties to me other than the fact that
my great grandparents came from there. And from what I understand, my
great grandfather was a crackpot anyways!
-Jack
|
323.2563 | | EDITEX::MOORE | GetOuttaMyChair | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:46 | 5 |
| > And from what I understand, my great grandfather was a crackpot anyways!
This explains a lot.
;^)
|
323.2564 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:51 | 11 |
| I mean the whole thing's absurd.
Why would anybody get all worked up over what piece of land their
forebears were dropped out of the water sack from. I believe we have
become a society of mental midgets...I really do. We seem to have
forgotten the important things in life...like American pride, honoring
those around us...that sort of thing. Instead we have a society of
whining, sobbing, meely mouthed spineless types who have no concept of
looking ahead. What a pathetic lot we've become.
|
323.2565 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Tue Jun 18 1996 17:59 | 1 |
| you don't honor those around you?
|
323.2566 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Wed Jun 19 1996 09:19 | 4 |
| >If you live in America, that moniker is "American". Anything extra is a
>form of segregation.
Help, I'm being segregated!
|
323.2567 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 19 1996 09:51 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2562 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| Glen, I have never, in the conference or otherwise referred to myself as a
| Christian American.
Jack, if you are an American, then drop the Christian label. If you
call yourself a Christian, then please don't tell others they can't also add
something else onto what they want to be. In both cases the people are saying
they are two things. You say you're an American, you say you are Christian.
Just because you don't use the 2 together, doesn't mean you aren't doing the
same thing as the other person who uses African American.
Glen
|
323.2568 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Wed Jun 19 1996 10:30 | 9 |
| .2559
Do you want a color blind society? This seems to be the goal, yet no
one is doing anything to promote it...quite the opposite, in fact.
No one is suggesting that we all be an amorphous blob, just that we all
be "Americans". Why must this include forgeting about our herritage?
-steve
|
323.2569 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Wed Jun 19 1996 11:02 | 16 |
| | <<< Note 323.2568 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| Do you want a color blind society? This seems to be the goal, yet no
| one is doing anything to promote it...quite the opposite, in fact.
Steve, as long as we have people who hate for <insert reason>, there
isn't a remote chance of a color blind society. What various groups have done
is establish themselves to show they really aren't the monsters some make them
out to be. And it has worked.
Why don't we do the same thing you ask when it comes to jobs? Because
it would never work. Not while we are human, anyway.
Glen
|
323.2570 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Wed Jun 19 1996 11:30 | 14 |
| Z Just because you don't use the 2 together, doesn't mean you aren't
Z doing the same thing as the other person who uses African American.
Nyah nyah blah blah blah.....Glen, this is one of the most ridiculous
things I've ever seen. I have no problem with labels like Christian,
Gay, Jewish, Hispanic...whatever. The context of this is the
hyphenation crapola.
By the way, there are many blacks who are offended by the term,
"African American", since their forebearers are not from Africa.
And by the way GM, very good self control on .2569!
-AJ
|
323.2571 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Wed Jun 19 1996 12:09 | 9 |
|
Can a white south african who comes to the US of A refer to him/herself
as "African American"?
Jim
|
323.2572 | | EVMS::MORONEY | It's alive! Alive! | Wed Jun 19 1996 12:15 | 1 |
| How about Berbers, northern Egyptians etc. ?
|
323.2573 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Thu Jun 20 1996 14:28 | 36 |
| Steve, I see you don't choose to discuss whether you've investigated
much of your Black Foot Indian cultural heritage. That gives the
appearance you want to avoid discussing whether there is any legitimate
purpose in celebrating one's distinctive cultural inheritances. If you
admit you've done it, you undercut your political position that such
activities are 'suspect'. No wonder you don't want to discuss it.
>> Grab a clue, Steve. The many facets of our complex society reflect
>> different identities for each one of us. Knowing ourselves as
>> individuals, together with knowing ourselves as part of groups, is
>> an enriching and rewarding privilege of our multicultural heritage.
>
> This is all fine and dandy, but why do we need official distinctions?
What do you mean by "official"? Nobody needs government permission or
programs to celebrate a portion of their identity on a sign, to assert
pride in group membership, to bolster a cultural community, foster good
citizenship, provide role models. What is 'suspect' in that?
The society is not culturally color blind, Steve. I think there is
plenty of reason to seek for color-blind justice, in legal codes, in
court systems, in legislatures, in tax-funded life. But to imply that
color-blind justice imposes a whitebread american no-prefix-allowed
cultural tapioca upon our vibrant cultural mixture is to entirely miss
the point of why people want colorblind justice in the first place!
Its precisely in order to allow people the maximum amount of personal
liberty to be themselves, whatever their cultural identity, that the
justice system is stripped of the ability to discriminate upon the
basis of that self-expression.
Suppress your cultural heritage if your political values require it of
you, Steve, but don't expect the rest of us to agree with you that such
a self-denial is required in a free society, or even good for such a
society. I can't imagine living in such a place.
DougO
|
323.2574 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Thu Jun 20 1996 17:28 | 15 |
| Not adding a prefix to "American" is self denial?
Wait, I think I should post this in the "I didn't know that" topic.
As far as my herritage goes, what difference does it make if
I've studied it or not? I know a little about the Black Foot, but
certainly far from a complete historical knowledge. My only point
was that I could claim minority status if I wished, OR I could label
myself Native American. I have no such desire to do either. I'm an
AMERICAN. Not a Native American, not a Caucation American, not a Dutch
American, or English American, or any other permeatation from my
historical family tree.
-steve
|
323.2575 | Parse? | ASDG::GASSAWAY | Insert clever personal name here | Thu Jun 20 1996 18:04 | 6 |
| Fine Steve.
Then we're all AMERICANS � and not Christian Americans and therefore we
don't have to do things because the bible tells us to.
Lisa
|
323.2576 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Thu Jun 20 1996 18:22 | 19 |
| Z Then we're all AMERICANS � and not Christian Americans and therefore
Z we don't have to do things because the bible tells us to.
This is equivocal. Our law is not based on scripture. Our country was
founded on Judeo Christian principles; however, our laws of civility
are pretty much standard throughout all religions.
However, I do agree with your first part. To call myself Christian
American is absurd. This isn't something I would want to celebrate
with society...as an identification to myself...frankly because I
respect society enough not to sit there and say, "I'm Christian and I'm
proud of it. You be proud of this fact to or else you are not
inclusive, you are mean spirited...blah blah blah." In other words,
stop making your business mine...what is so mean spirited about this.
I don't really care quite frankly if you are German, French, Irish,
Russian, African. You are Lisa Gassaway. Lisa Gassaway has value to
me...period!
-Jack
|
323.2577 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Thu Jun 20 1996 18:24 | 11 |
|
Lisa, Steve doesn't go by a Christian American. But he somehow thinks
just by not adding the American to the end of Christian that it is somehow
different than someone having African, Indian, etc. I guess if an Indian is
born in this country, they are no longer an Indian, but an American. But he can
be both a Christian, and an American.
Glen
|
323.2578 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Thu Jun 20 1996 18:29 | 9 |
| Z I guess if an Indian is
Z born in this country, they are no longer an Indian, but an American.
Oh, sure they are. What is the issue at hand is...ready Glen?? The
key is to have a society of people from all backgrounds obtain a
monolithic attitude toward one another. This will undo the racial
problems you and others have created over time.
-Jack
|
323.2579 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Thu Jun 20 1996 18:33 | 19 |
|
Jack, correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds like you can say:
I am Christian. I am American.
I am African. I am American.
But it is wrong to say:
I am a Christian American.
I am an African American.
Is this what you are saying?
|
323.2580 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Thu Jun 20 1996 19:05 | 28 |
| > Not adding a prefix to "American" is self denial?
no, I didn't say that. Finding it 'suspect' when others add such
prefixes to describe themselves, and ducking questions about whether
you've researched your own heritage, indicates a certain degree of
denial, yes.
> As far as my herritage goes, what difference does it make if
> I've studied it or not?
To you, personally, it may make no difference. Or it may make a
lot of difference. I'm not guessing. I *am* saying that dodging the
question, when you're trying to impugn the motives of others who do
celebrate their cultural identities by calling their actions "suspect",
looks hypocritical. Have you engaged in any of those actions you term
"suspect" or not, Steve?
> My only point was
understood long ago. My point was that celebrating a cultural
heritage, claiming an identity, providing a role-model as a citizen
AND a member of a particular cultural identity, should an individual
wish to do so, is NOT a "suspect" activity. You may have even done it
yourself. And there's no problem with your doing that, nobody minds.
Why do *you* mind when others do it? Why do you accuse them of wanting
"official distinctions"? What did you mean by that?
DougO
|
323.2581 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Thu Jun 20 1996 21:54 | 7 |
|
Friday is the day when a lot of the day time tv shows have something
that deals with HIV or AIDS.
Glen
|
323.2582 | always wondered this... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Fri Jun 21 1996 09:13 | 5 |
|
So Steve, what's the plural ? Several Blackfoot ? Several
Blackfeet ? Several Blackfoots ?
bb
|
323.2583 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 21 1996 09:52 | 7 |
| .2575
Fine with me. I never call myself a "Christian American". And no one
*has* to do what the Bible says. hth
-steve
|
323.2584 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:02 | 19 |
| .2577
Glen, the obvious difference is one of nationality. I would be a
Christian no matter what nation I held citizenship. "African" suggests
Africa. Well, are you African or are you American? Make up your mind,
I say.
Same goes with all the others.
I don't see any x-Americans in France using the term American French,
nor have I ever heard the term American German, American African,
American English, American Mexican, etc. etc.
There simply is no point to official classifications outside of failed
federal policies like AA, which are divisive by nature.
-steve
|
323.2585 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:21 | 36 |
| re: DougO
> Not adding a prefix to "American" is self denial?
> no, I didn't say that. Finding it 'suspect' when others add such
> prefixes to describe themselves, and ducking questions about whether
> you've researched your own heritage, indicates a certain degree of
> denial, yes.
You missed the point, then. I did not do this. What I found suspect
is not what someone wants to call themselves (and my latest arguments
have anchored on "official" moniker prefixes), but for putting their
difference on a sign in an AIDS walk. Meaning, it would seem to be a
bit out of place there, IMO.
In other places- say an equal rights march- it would be more
appropriate.
> To you, personally, it may make no difference. Or it may make a
> lot of difference. I'm not guessing. I *am* saying that dodging the
> question, when you're trying to impugn the motives of others who do
> celebrate their cultural identities by calling their actions "suspect",
> looks hypocritical.
Well now, since I did not do this, you have nothing to worry about.
You are simply reading too much into what I originally said.
> Have you engaged in any of those actions you term
> "suspect" or not, Steve?
I've never picketed with a sign that promotes my whiteness, my Indian
heritage, nor my sexuality or religion.
-steve
|
323.2586 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:30 | 11 |
| | <<< Note 323.2584 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| Glen, the obvious difference is one of nationality. I would be a Christian
| no matter what nation I held citizenship.
Yes. You are Christian, and you are American. The term African American
is the same thing. The only difference is they put it together.
Glen
|
323.2587 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | plus je bois, mieux je chante | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:48 | 2 |
| So I'm a french canadian native american. BFD. American is label enough
for me. I don't need to augment the label to remember my heritage.
|
323.2588 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:50 | 17 |
| .2586
But I am a Christain in the here and now. Most of our darker skin
American brothers are well-displaced from their African heritage- the
majority probably farther displaced from Africa than I am from my
Blackfoot heritage by a good margin.
I would like to stress that there IS NOTHING WRONG with being proud of
your heritage, but I see no reasoning behind official monikers for any
nationality outside of the US (outside of the devisive AA policies).
You also missed my point. 'Christian' denotes no nationality; 'African'
does (to limit my examples to one). I disagree that this is an apples
to apples comparison.
-steve
|
323.2589 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:58 | 17 |
| Let's take this a step further, Glen. If I were to go back farther in
time up my family tree, I bet I could add a few things to my heritage
outside the immediate ones (Dutch-English-Native American). I bet I
could trace my Dutch roots back to somewhere else, as could I trace my
English roots back to some other nation. Heck, even the Blackfoot
migrated from some other place originally.
All said and done, I think all of us can trace our roots back to the
same place, which truly makes us one big extended family - not only as
humans, but as people with a similar origin (though
certainly different histories to get where we are today).
I find all this chasing of "immediate" heritage to distract from the
ideal goal. We are not so different as we think.
-steve
|
323.2590 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 21 1996 10:58 | 15 |
| Z But it is wrong to say:
Z I am a Christian American.
Z I am an African American.
Glen, what I'm trying to say, as I've addressed to you countless times
in the past, is that your affirmation to labeling is not decaying the
wedge between those of race, religion, or sexual orientation. I
wouldn't say it is wrong so much as it is counterproductive.
As Wahoo said, American is fine enough a label for me. I don't give
two cow doots where your forebearers water broke.
-Jack
|
323.2591 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:01 | 5 |
|
Steve, if you trace your roots back far enough, the very first mom in
your family would be Eve, and the very first dad would be Adam. :-) You and I
are related! Isn't life grand!?
|
323.2592 | all wet | HBAHBA::HAAS | more madness, less horror | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:22 | 3 |
| Hey they reset the counter after that.
We only have to go back to Noah afore all of us meet...
|
323.2593 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:34 | 4 |
|
I'm a European American.
|
323.2594 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:37 | 3 |
|
I'm a Swedish American. And I have the two lips to prove it.
|
323.2595 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:40 | 10 |
|
My exwife is a European-Canadian American, her mother is an Asian-European-
Canadian American, having been born in India, transplanted to England, then
Canada, and then America.
Jim
|
323.2596 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:43 | 2 |
| I'm from New York.
|
323.2597 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:45 | 1 |
| i'm really a swedish-irish-english american.
|
323.2598 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:47 | 3 |
|
Well, technically, I'm Dutch-Irish-Welsh American
|
323.2599 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | plus je bois, mieux je chante | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:47 | 3 |
| >i'm really a swedish-irish-english american.
Oh, a swedireng american. Cool. :-)
|
323.2600 | | GAVEL::JANDROW | i think, therefore i have a headache | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:48 | 4 |
|
i'm a mutt. what can i say???
|
323.2601 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Every knee shall bow | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:49 | 8 |
|
> i'm a mutt. what can i say???
"I'll have a snickers bar, please"
|
323.2602 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:49 | 1 |
| bow wow?
|
323.2603 | | SCASS1::BARBER_A | out of my way | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:53 | 1 |
| I'm at least 1/4 German. Can I play?
|
323.2604 | | CNTROL::JENNISON | It's all about soul | Fri Jun 21 1996 11:57 | 11 |
|
I'm an Irish-Lithuanian-American. I'm having the darnedest
time finding a social club in the area ;-)
My kids are mongrels. Italian-English-Scottish-Irish-Lithuanian-
American. But, we all know that the Italian cancels out all the
other nationalities, making them Italian Americans.
At least *they* have a club.
|
323.2605 | | SMURF::BINDER | Uva uvam vivendo variat | Fri Jun 21 1996 12:00 | 3 |
| Trace it back a quarter of a million years, folks, and we're all
African Americans. Some of us have ancestors who emigrated from Africa
sooner than others, that's all.
|
323.2606 | | TINCUP::AGUE | http://www.usa.net/~ague | Fri Jun 21 1996 12:11 | 18 |
| Re .2591 & .2592
>>Hey they reset the counter after that.
>>We only have to go back to Noah afore all of us meet...
Actually you don't have to go Biblical, use a little mathematics and
you can demonstrate how incestuous the human race is.
Presuming 4 generations per century, each century provides 16 (2^4)
great-grandparents per individual, 200 years give 256 ancestors (2^8),
... . In only 1,000 years we each have 2^40 ancestors (about 10^12 or
1000 billion people, if there were enough to go around).
Since today's world population is about 5 billion, and there were a lot
less people 1000 years ago, we're all cousins, just slightly removed.
-- Jim
|
323.2607 | | GAVEL::JANDROW | i think, therefore i have a headache | Fri Jun 21 1996 13:25 | 6 |
| mmmmmm.....yum....snickers!! (jimbo, i may have to hurt you...)
-raq (french-irish-polish-scotish-french candian-american, tho a 1/4 of
that IS irish!)
|
323.2608 | no, no denial there, nah. | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Fri Jun 21 1996 15:07 | 10 |
| re .2585, Steve-
You claim not to impugn the motives of people carrying signs when you
call their actions "suspect". That's enough doublespeak for my taste.
May you never experience the degradation of having your actions judged
suspect when merely celebrating who you are- I think the shock of
recognition would kill you.
DougO
|
323.2609 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 21 1996 15:38 | 7 |
| Z Trace it back a quarter of a million years, folks, and we're all
Z African Americans. Some of us have ancestors who emigrated from
Z Africa sooner than others, that's all.
Dick, this is Afrocentrism and is a sham.
-Jack
|
323.2610 | | SMURF::BINDER | Errabit quicquid errare potest. | Fri Jun 21 1996 15:54 | 1 |
| Forgive me, Jack. We minorities gotta stick up for *something*!
|
323.2611 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Fri Jun 21 1996 16:17 | 22 |
| .2608
Now you are playing word games, DougO. You were originally taking me
to task for impugning upon people's motives for celebrating their
heritage- something I did not do.
I took to task what the motivation would have been behind carrying
signs like "_Homosexuals_ for and AIDS free America" and "_African
Americans_ for an AIDS free America", etc. As I explained
previously, I would find such exclusive signs out of place in this
particular instance. I fail to see how such signs (and in truth, there
were no such signs, so this is all just a mental exercise), in this
context, is celebrating one's heritage.
Because I question the motivation behind such a thing, you seem to go
off the diversity deep end on me, suggesting that I am somehow a
hypocrite (because I have done no more than a topic study of my own
heritage), or that I am judging other people's actions. Questioning the
motivation != judging actions. /hth
-steve
|
323.2612 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Fri Jun 21 1996 16:57 | 13 |
| Don't talk to me about word games, Steve. You've been sidestepping
the politics of identity since you introduced the word "suspect" to
describe the motivations of people who celebrate their cultural
heritage in a manner that you don't happen to find appropriate.
You accuse them of wanting "official" status, of being divisive,
"exclusive", of "segregating themselves". You "fail to see" any
innocent motive for their carrying signs, even though I've given a
half-dozen reasons that people will celebrate their identity as a
normal parts of their lives, in their volunteer time, in the arena of
politics, as community role models, etc, etc. etc. Well, you fail to
see a lot, Steve. But it isn't due to word games of mine.
DougO
|
323.2613 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 21 1996 16:58 | 4 |
|
I wonder if Steve would find a sign, "Christians for Christ" to be
something suspect?
|
323.2614 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | tumble to remove jerks | Fri Jun 21 1996 17:06 | 4 |
|
I wonder what sign the guy on stilts was carrying last week???
|
323.2615 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 21 1996 17:11 | 5 |
| Z I wonder if Steve would find a sign, "Christians for Christ" to be
Z something suspect?
Speaking for myself, I don't wear crosses, I don't have bumperstickers,
or tea shirts pronouncing Christianity at all.
|
323.2616 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 21 1996 17:30 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.2614 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "tumble to remove jerks" >>>
| I wonder what sign the guy on stilts was carrying last week???
The guy on the stilts was NOT part of the parade. He added himself into
it.
|
323.2617 | | SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI | tumble to remove jerks | Mon Jun 24 1996 11:44 | 7 |
|
How about the lesbians in the bed??
How about the other tasteless individuals? Or were they also not
invited to begin with?
|
323.2618 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Mon Jun 24 1996 12:03 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2617 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "tumble to remove jerks" >>>
| How about the lesbians in the bed??
They were not invited either.
| How about the other tasteless individuals? Or were they also not
| invited to begin with?
What other ones. Those were the only 2 I heard of. Or are you talking
about the Digital crowd? :-)
|
323.2619 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Tue Jun 25 1996 10:08 | 3 |
| .2613
I would find it redundant.
|
323.2620 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Tue Jun 25 1996 10:22 | 34 |
| .2612 (DougO)
> Don't talk to me about word games, Steve. You've been sidestepping
> the politics of identity since you introduced the word "suspect" to
> describe the motivations of people who celebrate their cultural
> heritage in a manner that you don't happen to find appropriate.
No, I've been ignoring your opinion of my words. You continually try
to evolve my words into something not intended. I thought I was quite
clear in my last note, but you STILL don't get it.
> You accuse them of wanting "official" status, of being divisive,
> "exclusive", of "segregating themselves".
And you are taking all these things completely out of context.
> You "fail to see" any
> innocent motive for their carrying signs,
I don't "fail to see" anything of the sort. That is your assertion.
I was trying to make a point. Obviously, it went completely over your
head. You are so indoctrinated into PC-style diversity that you cannot
even see the point I am trying to make. As soon as I question
motivation behind any minority action, you go into instant attack mode.
Well, have fun. I made my point- some folks actually seemed to
understand it, others didn't. As much as you and others jump on Jack
Martin, I think it is only fair to point out that he was one of the few
who seemed understand the point I tried to make.
-steve
|
323.2621 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Tue Jun 25 1996 10:33 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.2619 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| I would find it redundant.
But would you find it suspect?
|
323.2622 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Tue Jun 25 1996 11:46 | 1 |
| I would find it redundant.
|
323.2623 | what a phrase ! | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Jun 25 1996 13:57 | 7 |
|
"sidestepping the politics of identity" ?
Could you translate to English, please ? What on earth are
you on about, now, DougO ?
bb
|
323.2624 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Tue Jun 25 1996 17:21 | 47 |
| >> You accuse them of wanting "official" status, of being divisive,
>> "exclusive", of "segregating themselves".
>
> And you are taking all these things completely out of context.
That's because you duck every question about them. I've asked you
several times what you meant by your accusation that they seek
"official status" - no answer.
>> You "fail to see" any innocent motive for their carrying signs,
>
> I don't "fail to see" anything of the sort. That is your assertion.
This was an explicit reference to your previous note. You said:
> I fail to see how such signs (and in truth, there were no such signs,
> so this is all just a mental exercise), in this context, is celebrating
> one's heritage.
So you do fail to see an innocent motive which has been explained time
and again. Nope, to you this is "suspect". My "assertion" stands.
> I was trying to make a point...As soon as I question motivation
> behind any minority action, you go into instant attack mode.
"instant attack mode", Steve? Perhaps you'd care to review how long
you dodged my questions about your investigation of your own Black Foot
Indian heritage, which certainly weren't in any way phrased as attacks.
No, I was giving you plenty of time to consider whether such activities
must be "suspect".
Your point was to label and attack those who find that their political
voices are strengthened with explicit references to their identity
issues. Since you are often in the political opposition to those who
are currently using this mode of expression, your attack is easily
understood as partisanry, attacking the motives of your opponents
rather than their political stances. I find your attack "suspect"
myself, given who you've targetted. It looks like racist. sexist, and
cultural bigotry to me. Find it "suspect" when people carry signs
proclaiming their identity, do you? You come across with all the
subtlety of the KKK, Steve.
> Well, have fun.
This isn't fun.
DougO
|
323.2625 | hope this helps | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Tue Jun 25 1996 17:27 | 19 |
| > "sidestepping the politics of identity" ?
>
> Could you translate to English, please ?
"sidestepping", ie, dodging the issues, attempting to deflect attention
from the weak points of the argument. In this case, ducking questions
about whether or not he has investigated his own heritage, ducking
questions about his statements regarding his opponents ("official"
recognition accusation, "exclusive" accusation, "segragating
themselves" accusation, all questions he ducked.)
"politics of identity", a shorthand to discuss the fact that many
political groups on the scene today have come together based on their
perceptions of their similar identities, the perceptions that as a
group they have political grievances, and their recognition that in
numbers, in a democracy, there is power. Women's issues. Black
issues. SUrely you are not clueless.
DougO
|
323.2626 | well, it's complicated... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Jun 25 1996 17:50 | 28 |
|
Shirley, I'm clueless. I have no idea if my own politics are a
"politics of identity" or not, and I wouldn't know how to tell.
It is true I share views with some other people, some of the time,
but with completely different people some different time. So does
that mean that I don't practice a "politics of identity" ? In other
words, is "politics of identity" just a case of "solidarity", i.e.,
the thought that sometimes, "I'll oppose this politically, even
though on the merits I'd be for it, because by opposing it I
demonstrate solidarity with people who I find are like myself on
other matters."
If so, I can see why many people avoid solidarity out of principle.
Curiously, this is not a left-right thing. For example, consider
the Christian Coalition, or even the National Rifle Association,
then the NAACP or the AFL/CIO, all examples of solidarity. There
are also people who SEEK solidarity out of principle.
As a tactic, the jury is still out on solidarity. Sometimes it
works out well for those who practice it, and sometimes it works
out very badly indeed. Oddly, a two-party system offers a very
different game for group politics than proportional systems do.
If "politics of identity" is intended to mean something else,
I still don't understand it.
bb
|
323.2627 | | EDITEX::MOORE | GetOuttaMyChair | Wed Jun 26 1996 02:47 | 5 |
| > Shirley, I'm clueless.
It's "surely".
;^)
|
323.2628 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Wed Jun 26 1996 19:10 | 164 |
|
me > And you are taking all these things completely out of context.
> That's because you duck every question about them.
I've ducked nothing of the sort. You simply aren't listening. I've
answered every question you've posed, though obviously not to your
satisfaction (too bad).
> I've asked you
> several times what you meant by your accusation that they seek
> "official status" - no answer.
That's because I never made this accusation. This is your creation. I've
just waded through this topic, all the way back to my .2497 - the note
that started your reactive engines running - and have found no such
accusation. The closest I come to one is in .2556, where I ask the
question: "why do we need official distinctions?" I'll be the first to
admit that I've topic-skipped a bit (this question really is not within
the general context of what was being discussed), but I was not making any
accusations. I was questioning the existence of *official* distinctions
(eg. "race" on applications, and federal categories of people- segregated
by race and color...the basis behind AA policies and other such
nonsense).
> This was an explicit reference to your previous note. You said:
> I fail to see how such signs (and in truth, there were no such signs,
me > so this is all just a mental exercise), in this context, is celebrating
> one's heritage.
There is a difference between 'failing to see how a sign that says
"African Americans (or pick any group) for and AIDS free American" is
valuing heritage', and 'failing to see a an innocent motive' (what you
accuse me of, below). I even stated (in .2556) that not all the
motivation for carrying such signs was suspect.
> So you do fail to see an innocent motive which has been explained time
> and again. Nope, to you this is "suspect". My "assertion" stands.
No, your assertion does not stand. Go back and re-read .2556.
> "instant attack mode", Steve? Perhaps you'd care to review how long
> you dodged my questions about your investigation of your own Black Foot
> Indian heritage, which certainly weren't in any way phrased as attacks.
Perhaps you need to go review some of your own notes. I did answer
your questions - even the ones I found irrellevant (like the ones aimed
at my Blackfoot heritage). Here's list of my notes, and a brief
synopsis.
.2497 Where I bring up the now infamous term...SUSPECT. <shiver>
.2520 Where I first bring up the self-segregation idea (I mention in
.2556 that this is really a "mild" form of self-segregation, but
IMO, it still qualifies)
.2538 Where I try to bow out, it being obvious that we are
communicating through too many filters.
.2556 Further explanation on my use of "suspect", and other assorted
treasures. 8^)
.2585 Yet MORE explanation on how I used the term "suspect" (when
communications get difficult, I try to use as many examples
as possible...this usually leads to an argument over the
examples).
.2611 Yet still even more explanation, clarification, and context
straightening.
.2620 Exasperation sets in (my own fault for not bowing out sooner).
I may have missed one or two, but I think these pretty much cover
things.
Perhaps you need to look at your first response to me in this string,
where you suggest I am myopic, and that your note would "give (me) a
clue". Or maybe you should look to another early note in this
discussion (.2531) where you tell me to "grab a clue". Etc.
Yes, your supply of "clues" throughout this conversation has been
repeatedly sent my way. Of course, you never stopped to think that maybe
we are simply discussing two different things (what I perceive I am
taking to task, and what you perceive I am taking to task). This was
obvious to me at the onset of this discussion, which was why I posted
.2538 (a note where I try to bow out nicely, without suggesting you
"find a clue" or somesuch clever retort).
> No, I was giving you plenty of time to consider whether such activities
> must be "suspect".
Your own notes suggest something else entirely, but I'll give you the
benefit of the doubt that you had had nothing but the best intentions
when you suggested that I was clueless.
> Your point was to label and attack those who find that their political
> voices are strengthened with explicit references to their identity
> issues.
Ahh...you admit it is political. Well, I guess I was right to be
suspicous of the motivation, eh? IMO, self-political promotion, within
the context of an AIDS march (remember the original context?), is
certainly not the most honourable of motivations. You may see things
differently.
> Since you are often in the political opposition to those who
> are currently using this mode of expression, your attack is easily
> understood as partisanry,
I am in political opposition of heterosexuals? Remember, I did include
a "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America" in my list of "suspect"
signs. I must also be in political opposition to white people, too.
I do learn a lot about myself in this here forum. I never would have
found out that I was politically opposed to white folk and
heterosexuals without your aid, DougO. Thanks clueing me in on this.
> attacking the motives of your opponents
> rather than their political stances.
I argue political stances day in and day out. In this one
instance, I decide to make a point of looking at the inner motivation
behind a THEORETICAL sign, and I get lambasted by you for doing it.
You simply haven't shown any sign (heh heh..pun intended) that you
understand what it is I'm taking issue with.
> I find your attack "suspect"
> myself, given who you've targetted. It looks like racist. sexist, and
> cultural bigotry to me.
Oh my! I'm a racist, sexist and cultural bigot. I HIT THE
MOTHERLOAD!!! I am simply a dispicable person, I am. Why, in my spare
time I like to torture pupies and burn churches, too. Don't forget to
leave those out in your next note.
Seriously, though, I'm wondering where you come up with the above.
My goal is the same as what the liberals say they want. The only
difference is, they don't seem to really mean it. They are going in
the opposite direction, in fact. I want a color-blind society, where
everyone is treated equally as a citizen of the US. Nothing less,
nothing more. This has nothing to do with styfling anyone's heritage-
far from it. When I suggest dropping prefixes, I suggest doing it on
an "official" level - be it federal, state or whatever. No "official"
classifications, only American. How someone want to *personally*
identify themselves is up to them.
> Find it "suspect" when people carry signs
> proclaiming their identity, do you?
Actually, no. Those are your words, not mine. And if you keep twisting
them, you can pretty much come up with any conclusion you like - especially
given this particular subject matter. I see you have done so.
> You come across with all the subtlety of the KKK, Steve.
Ah yes. The KKK reference was over-due. I'm surprised it took you
this long to drag it out. Oh, don't worry, I know you aren't
*comparing* ME to the KKK, just using their lack of "subtlety" as a
point of reference. The fact that you see me as a racist, sexist bigot
certainly doesn't come into play here.
> This isn't fun.
You seem to be having a grand time taking privilege with my words.
Of course, you can't trust me to explain what I said...nah, I'm
probably lieing. Better that you create your own version of what I
mean.
-steve
|
323.2629 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Thu Jun 27 1996 09:10 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.2628 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>
| > I find your attack "suspect"
| > myself, given who you've targetted. It looks like racist. sexist, and
| > cultural bigotry to me.
| Oh my! I'm a racist, sexist and cultural bigot. I HIT THE
| MOTHERLOAD!!! I am simply a dispicable person, I am. Why, in my spare
| time I like to torture pupies and burn churches, too. Don't forget to
| leave those out in your next note.
Steve, he said it LOOKS LIKE, not that it is.
Glen
|
323.2630 | Jeremy was a Digital employee | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Thu Jun 27 1996 10:09 | 48 |
| TALLIS::SCHULER "Greg, DTN 227-4165" 45 lines 26-JUN-1996 11:27
-< Jeremy Michael Mathews - 1957-1996 >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Jeremy Michael Mathews was born in Laconia, NH, October 9th, 1957.
He and his family are from Gilmanton Corners, NH...just this side of
the White Mountains.
Today, Wednesday, June 26th, 1996 - Jeremy passed away after a long
battle with AIDS.
Jeremy is survived by his parents Francis (Butch) and Donna White,
his sister, Lisa and her fiance Scott...and his cat, Blanche - as well
as many "brothers & sisters" who loved him as parts of their own
families, from points all around the globe.
Jeremy volunteered his time and talents for many years in the battle
against HIV/AIDS, by working on both the Boston based "From All Walks
of Life" as well as the Worcester based "Walk For Life"..yearly
fundraiser marathon pledge walks, helping to raise much needed money
for the AIDS Action Committee & AIDS Project Worcester.
In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to AIDS Project
Worcester (85 Green St. Worcester, MA).
"All hailing frequencies closed, Sir"
-Tasha Yar
****
The above is my best interpretation of the final obitutary Jeremy would
have written himself. I would like to add some info for those who may
wish to attend a memorial service - it will be held on Friday, June
28th at 7pm at the Mercadante Funeral Home in Worcester, MA. Calling
hours are from 6pm to 7pm immediately preceding the service.
Mercadante is located on Plantation Street - From the Boston area, take
the Mass Pike to exit 12 in Framingham. Take Rte. 9 West into
Worcester. Just after passing over Lake Quinsigamond, continue to top
of hill and take a right at the lights onto Plantation St. The funeral
home is located approx. two-tenths of a mile from the intersection on
the right hand side just past the Hospital.
"I've had the time of my life!"
-Jeremy Mathews
|
323.2631 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Thu Jun 27 1996 12:39 | 5 |
| .2629
I'm aware of the words use, Glen. My feigned over-reaction was just
taking the his words to the next step in absurdity. The beginning of my
next paragraph clearly shows I was not being serious.
|
323.2632 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Fri Jun 28 1996 16:19 | 17 |
| you doth protest too much, Steve. You can duck and weave and obfuscate
all you want- you're still sidestepping the politics of identity. You
invent derogatory labels ("self-political promotion") for innocent
activities to justify your suspicions of people's motivations, call
them less than honorable. What they are is different from you, and
proud of it, and exercising their constitutional rights to freely
assemble and to speak their points of view.
Patrick Henry would laugh at your pretensions to constitutional
scholarship, Steve- you so plainly miss simple exercise of basic
rights, even when its right in front of you. Henry might disagree
with what someone said on their sign, but he would defend to the death
their right to say it. You find them "suspect".
Well, I'm done trying to teach this pig to sing.
DougO
|
323.2633 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 28 1996 16:33 | 8 |
| DougO:
I personally don't have suspicions...I just think your parading your
identity down Main St. USA is a waste of time. Nobody really cares.
I know this is a shock but your heritage will actually reach obscurity
within a few generations from now.
-Jack
|
323.2634 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Fri Jun 28 1996 16:37 | 27 |
| > Shirley, I'm clueless. I have no idea if my own politics are a
> "politics of identity" or not, and I wouldn't know how to tell.
Seems likely not. If you don't have 'identity' issues in your politics
then you don't. This is not unusual - don't feel bereft.
> It is true I share views with some other people, some of the time,
> but with completely different people some different time. So does
> that mean that I don't practice a "politics of identity" ? In other
> words, is "politics of identity" just a case of "solidarity", i.e.,
> the thought that sometimes, "I'll oppose this politically, even
> though on the merits I'd be for it, because by opposing it I
> demonstrate solidarity with people who I find are like myself on
> other matters."
No, I don't think solidarity is a synonym for politics of identity,
though there are certainly congruent elements. I do not suggest that
the politics of identity would impel people to desert their principles
in order to demonstrate solidarity. Rather, given that societal
prejudice exists, people who share common cultural backgrounds are
likely to find common cause in their search for political
representation. If you've been treated the same unfair way as 100,000
other people like you, you may practise a politics of identity with
them. Solidarity? That seems more a tactic.
DougO
|
323.2635 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 28 1996 16:38 | 7 |
| Oh by the by:
I predict our great grandchildren will view our generation in history
as a bunch of oversensitive blokes who wasting alot of time and energy
contemplating our navels.
|
323.2636 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Only half of us are above average! | Fri Jun 28 1996 16:54 | 5 |
| >I predict our great grandchildren will view our generation in history
>as a bunch of oversensitive blokes who wasting alot of time and
>energy contemplating our navels.
And I will definitely confirm it for them when they ask me.
|
323.2637 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Fri Jun 28 1996 17:34 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2633 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
| I personally don't have suspicions...I just think your parading your
| identity down Main St. USA is a waste of time. Nobody really cares.
| I know this is a shock but your heritage will actually reach obscurity
| within a few generations from now.
Then can we cancel the St. Patrick's day parade?
|
323.2638 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs. | Fri Jun 28 1996 17:45 | 1 |
| My God...please do. I find those people equally annoying!
|
323.2639 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Sat Jun 29 1996 17:19 | 42 |
|
I happened to be in a restaurant today waiting for my 'takeout'
and a woman whom I know came in for her 'takeout'. We sat at the same
table and were chatting, she commented on how 'delicious' her drink
was and when I saw the label commented on how I'd never tasted 'that
flavor', so she offered me a drink. I immediately said "no", a lot
because I don't like to drink from others cups or bottles, but because
a sister had once finished a brownie of a friend who was sick. The
girl was 'sick' because she had hepatitis and my sister got it.
Well, my major reason though for not wanting to drink from this
womans bottle was because I know she has aids and is sick from it. She
was diagnosed in 1990 and she's been losing weight and getting having
a lot of lung problems. When I saw the look on her face and she said.
"Okay" I almost felt like I should take a taste of it, but decided
to not let the discomfort take over and force me to do something that
I 'didn't' want to do anyways. But, I sensed a lot of both of our
discomfort was because she has aids, maybe I just sensed my own
discomfort of it.
There are too many replies in here to see if anyone ever mentioned
'saliva' and I'm sure though that most believe that it can't be passed
on by saliva. So, a curious quesion, What if I did drink a sip to taste
it without knowledge of her having aids?" Is there actually any risk,
or is it really unknown? What would others have done? I mean, what
if it was a GOOD friend and sometimes good friends share drinks. I
guess most would say they wouldn't do that anyways. But, what if I had?
She's not a close friend, she's a friend of a family member. But,
she did share with me that she has aids because she needed a ride a
few times and wanted me to know that so I didn't find out from someone
else and then 'worry' about her leaving germs in my car. But, she's
also pretty open to people whom she knows that she's got it. I would
suppose that she's also learned enough about it to know whether
or not sharing a drink would have passed it on or not.
I know it's better to just say 'no' anyways to sharing something
like that, especially where there are certain possibilities of carriers
of other 'diseases'. It just bothered me more that I worried that I
made her feel bad probably.
Rosie
|
323.2640 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | I'd rather be gardening | Sun Jun 30 1996 17:19 | 22 |
| Rosie,
I think it has to do with each and every one of our comfort zones.
People who live in close contact with PWA's even to sharing
toothbrushes have not caught the disease. On the other hand, if you
had an easily transmissable virus bacteria or parasite, even a cold,
you would be putting your friend at serious risk, so not sharing
actually could have been doing her a favor as well as not taking what
to you might be an unacceptable risk.
I do know the discomfort all of us had as far as sharing meals with
Chuck and Jefferson in 1985. We didn't know as much about AIDS as we
do now, but I figured the dishwasher was good for preventing the spread
of hepetitus and mono, so it would probably work on whatever it was
that Chuck had. Needless to say, even Jefferson has never
seroconverted as he and Chuck were most careful, and Chuck and
Jefferson were together from 1982 until 1991, when Chuck died. He was
the first HIV+ person I knew, although he hasn't been the last, by any
means. As far as I can tell it takes pretty intimate contact to pick
this little nasty up.
meg
|
323.2641 | There's intimate, and then there's intimate | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Sun Jun 30 1996 21:19 | 17 |
| > As far as I can tell it takes pretty intimate contact to pick
> this little nasty up.
It's the transfer of bodily fluid from an infected individual directly
into the bloodstream of another, isn't it? Via an open wound, cut, minor
tear in mucous membrane, etc? To the best of my knowledge, the virus (or
maybe just the antibody - I'm unsure) seems to be detectable in almost
any body fluid - tears, sweat, blood, semen, saliva, vaginal secretions,
etc. Ingestion of such fluids isn't the issue (the virus is pretty much
incapable of surviving the G-I environment), but the introduction of the
fluids to areas where there might be access to the blood stream. That's
why medical, dental, law enforcement and emergency professionals who might
come in contact with bodily fluids use mucho latex - to protect themselves
in the event that they have an open route to the blood stream.
From that standpoint, a cut on the lip, a gum condition, etc., could put
one at risk when sipping from the same drink as an HIV+ person, could it not?
|
323.2642 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | I'd rather be gardening | Sun Jun 30 1996 23:42 | 15 |
| jack,
One could say this is a valid concern, but people who have shared
TOOTHBRUSHES, and I don't know about you, but I have bloody gums on a
regular basis. I don't know how exactly they have avoided passing
stuff.
Like I said there is some real risk to the person who is HIV + from a
person who has a "bug." This doesn't mean I would tell anyone to go
ahead and share a drink with someone they aren't comfortable sharing
with. I don't do this with any but very close friends, and it has
nothing to do with HIV. I don't need a case of hepetitus, or even a
cold or flu.
meg
|
323.2643 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Mon Jul 01 1996 09:31 | 14 |
|
I think that I was feeling pretty 'ignorant' and actually felt
a bit cruel by saying "no"... I hadn't thought of possibly killing
her myself. Like if I were a carrier of something and she caught that.
Like even a cold or something that could cause pneumonia, her having
a very bad immune system. So either way, whether I could catch it or
not isn't AS important as catching other things either way. PLUS, she's
not a close friend of mine and I don't drink out of ANYONE'S drinks,
even my kids and grandsons cups. So, there was more 'guilt' on my
part for feeling I'd hurt her feelings. She looked so sad, I feel
so sorry for her! She's going to die in the very near future and she's
only 24 years old!
Rosie
|
323.2644 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Jul 01 1996 10:28 | 5 |
| > a sister had once finished a brownie of a friend who was sick. The
> girl was 'sick' because she had hepatitis and my sister got it.
I've been reading about hepatitis B, and it's apparently not spread by saliva.
Do you know what kind of hepatitis this was?
|
323.2645 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Mon Jul 01 1996 10:35 | 10 |
|
Maybe it was the OTHER hepatisis? It was determined that was where
she contracted it. We all had to go and get shots. She's got liver
damage because of it. She got it about 20 or so years ago, so maybe
someone else could give their knowledge of hepatitis on this. I can
remember them hospitalizing her back then, and then my company
going 'nuts' and wanting me to take some time off 'just in case'. I
didn't work for Digital at that time.
Rosie
|
323.2646 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Mon Jul 01 1996 10:48 | 77 |
| re: .2632
> you doth protest too much, Steve.
What I protest, is the fact that you have done nothing but twist my
words since this discussion began. At first I thought it was because
you failed to understand my point, so I clarified...and clarified...and
clarified. Now, I can only believe that you could care less about what
my point was, all you wish to do is cast baseless accusations at me.
> You can duck and weave and obfuscate
> all you want- you're still sidestepping the politics of identity.
This is absolutely laughable. It took a lot of time and effort to post
.2627. I had to go back over this entire discussion to put things into
proper context. Not only have you completely ignored my (rather long)
post, but you continue to assert falsehoods about me- falsehoods that
were revealed in my note - then you claim that *I'm* the one ducking
and weaving, as you repeat that which I have shown to be untrue.
> You invent derogatory labels ("self-political promotion") for innocent
> activities to justify your suspicions of people's motivations, call
> them less than honorable.
You don't even have the phrase right, DougO. It is "political
self-promotion", and it is not a label as you claim. Once again, you
are casting ignorant aspersions at me. You don't even understand what
I was talking about, obviously, as you broad-brush this well beyond the
context in which I used it.
> What they are is different from you, and
> proud of it, and exercising their constitutional rights to freely
> assemble and to speak their points of view.
Why do you even bother mentioning this? Of course they are free to
assemble, be proud of their heritage and speak their pov. Who said
this was a BAD thing (and before you claim I did, you better go back
and read my notes in their proper context).
> Patrick Henry would laugh at your pretensions to constitutional
> scholarship, Steve- you so plainly miss simple exercise of basic
> rights, even when its right in front of you.
This is a gem. I'll add this to my "where the heck did this come from"
list (which is getting larger as this "discussion" goes on. I'm very
interested in why you think I am missing anything of the sort, especially
since I HAVEN'T EVEN BEEN TALKING ABOUT THE CONSTITUTION, NOR BASIC
RIGHTS. Good grief, man, you really aren't paying attention. Normally,
you can at least stay on a given topic.
> Henry might disagree
> with what someone said on their sign, but he would defend to the death
> their right to say it. You find them "suspect".
Oh, get over it already. You clearly do not understand what I call
"suspect", even though I've explained it to you clearly (over and over).
And why do you assume that I would not defend their right to carry a sign
that I either disagreed with or found suspect? And let's get one thing
straight, I do not find THEM suspect, I find a PART of their motivation
"suspect", and only within the context of this discussion (which you
have once again expanded to fit your own agenda).
> Well, I'm done trying to teach this pig to sing.
Your noting is going downhill, DougO. You used to be able to argue a
given point, rather than creating demons where none exist. I would
suggest that you read .2627, or at least go over some of the notes that
I have provided pointers for within this note.
I find your above comment amusing, though. You have so out-maneuvered
yourself on this discussion, that all you can do is try and make me
look stupid, then quit the discussion before anyone notices that you
are argue against an army of straw-men.
-steve
|
323.2647 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Mon Jul 01 1996 10:57 | 13 |
| > but people who have shared TOOTHBRUSHES
Actually, a toothbrush is a poor place to culture HIV. HIV seems to be
pretty susceptible to attack by common disinfectants - soap and water, alcohol,
etc. I wouldn't be surprised that toothpaste is a good candidate as well.
Once the toothbrush dries in the rack, it becomes less than a hospitable
environment for the virus to survive, also.
My point isn't to rationalize why toothbrush sharing is OK, though - it's
more to keep a cautious eye on whether or not such casual transmission vectors
should be ignored and/or disregarded. I haven't seen any serious research
or professional indications that such lack of caution is warranted.
|
323.2648 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Jul 01 1996 11:03 | 5 |
| > Maybe it was the OTHER hepatisis?
I just read that hepatitis A is spread through contaminated food and water,
so that must have been it. These days, there are [at least] five recognized
varieties of hepatitis (A through E).
|
323.2649 | | BIGQ::MARCHAND | | Mon Jul 01 1996 11:29 | 11 |
|
5 recognizable varieties. I surely didn't know that. Of course I
don't keep up with all the details of a lot of things. The girl that
gave her the brownie had eaten part of it (they were at lunch in
school) and the girl was getting ready to throw the brownie away. My
sister, who loves brownies asked her if she could finish it, she didn't
want to waste a perfectly good brownie. The girl couldn't finish
it because she was feeling 'sick'. Next thing both girls end up in
the hospital and both have hepatitis.
rosie
|
323.2650 | | SX4GTO::OLSON | DBTC Palo Alto | Mon Jul 01 1996 11:56 | 23 |
| Piggy wants more singing lessons? Too bad. Let me correct one of your
more blatant lapses, and you can squeal again if you want.
>> You invent derogatory labels ("self-political promotion") for innocent
>> activities to justify your suspicions of people's motivations, call
>> them less than honorable.
>
> You don't even have the phrase right, DougO. It is "political
> self-promotion", and it is not a label as you claim.
I put it in quotes, I attributed it to you, and you tell ME I don't
have the phrase right? Go back and look at your note, clown. And then
tell me the way you misused it isn't a label, you'll be just as wrong.
That's a sweet little example of why I don't care to engage in a
several-hundred line quote-extract go-around with you, Steve- your
recall of your OWN notes is so bad, you invent such misleading
"context" after the fact, that you can't even represent your own
words clearly the second time through- much less understand mine.
So boo-hoo for all your "effort". I read your note. It was a waste
of time.
DougO
|
323.2651 | | CHEFS::COOKS | Half Man,Half Biscuit | Mon Jul 01 1996 12:53 | 17 |
| I was reading in the Daily Telegraph yesterday about AIDS figures in
the UK. (This was an article by a Doctor).
Since 1982,there has been just over 12 thousand reported cases of AIDS.
Of which 162 people were non-drug using heterosexuals. (Apparently,
AIDS is similar to Hepatitus B and there are,like Hepatitus B,many
thousands more cases of AIDS in the 3rd World,for some unknown reason).
Shouldn`t the message be "if you have heterosexual sex with an iffy
partner you run a small risk of catching AIDS. However,we do recommend
using a condom anyway" etc. Instead of the scaremongering at the
moment????
The truth should be told..
|
323.2652 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Mon Jul 01 1996 14:33 | 21 |
| .2650
I see we've resorted to name-calling, now. I was wondering how long it
would take to degrade to this. You are indeed a peice of work. I told
you we were on two different pages long ago, but you simple didn't
believe this. Now, many notes later, you are still whining about
demons that you have created, never having understood a thing I've
posted.
The amusement value of this has gone down drastically. I think I'll
sign off. You are simply too blinded by what you perceive to be my
political views/motivation, to even give me the benefit of the doubt
that we are not on the same page.
But please, if it makes you feel better, continue with your
blind demonizations and childish name-calling. You have lost all
credibility with me, and you need not worry about me getting caught up
in any meaningful discussion with you again. It simply isn't worth it.
-steve
|
323.2653 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jul 01 1996 14:43 | 4 |
|
.2652 hmm - no mention of the "self-political promotion" screw-up
here. Steve prolly meant to say "oops - you're right", but
just forgot. yep, that's my guess.
|
323.2654 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | snapdragons. discuss. | Mon Jul 01 1996 14:47 | 1 |
| do i smell a credibility problem?
|
323.2655 | | WMOIS::GIROUARD_C | | Mon Jul 01 1996 14:48 | 1 |
| -1 i dunno. what's it smell like?
|
323.2657 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jul 01 1996 15:12 | 2 |
|
.2656 I love a man who can graciously admit an error. 8-)
|
323.2658 | You know the rest | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Jul 01 1996 15:16 | 12 |
|
I accidentally picked up someone else's water glass at lunch
today.
One of the Monday Lunch Pundits immediately said
Eeeuuuuuuuuwwwwwww!
That's like drinking from the
water glass of everyone he
ever ...
|
323.2659 | re: .2657 | ACISS2::LEECH | | Mon Jul 01 1996 15:15 | 6 |
| <--- I deleted the note. We were both in error (DougO and I). The only
phrase I could find was "self-promotion", no "political" in it. Unless
I missed a note somehow.
I *was* incorrect, though. I'm not trying to weasel out of owning up
to it. 8^)
|
323.2660 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Jul 01 1996 15:21 | 4 |
|
.2659 It's in .2628.
nnttm
|
323.2661 | | ACISS2::LEECH | | Mon Jul 01 1996 15:29 | 6 |
| > nnttm
Oh, but I do! It was bothering me that I couldn't find it before.
.2628 was not in my search parameters (I thought I mentioned this
general phrase much earlier in the conversation).
|
323.2662 | progress against this...bb | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Tue Jul 09 1996 09:58 | 39 |
|
AIDS Experts Warn Against Exuberance (Lowell Sun, 7/8/96)
Vancouver, British Columbia (AP) - The incredible news that AIDS may
at last be a treatable disease has hardly sunk in, and experts are
already warning against unbridled optimism that the epidemic is over.
"There is hope, but let's not exaggerate," said Dr. Peter Piot, head
of the U.N. AIDS program. "Let's not switch from very dark pessimism
to hype and over-optimism so we will all have a hangover within six
months or a year."
In the past few months, researchers have found they can completely
suppress the AIDS virus with a combination of three drugs. The
development may at last allow people with HIV to keep their infection
under control, if not cure it.
But people have been taking this combination for less than two years,
and no one knows how long the effects will last. Many at the international
AIDS conference meeting this week worried that the euphoria of finding an
effective treatment will produce impossibly high expectations of a total
victory over HIV.
The meeting's organizers cautioned that while the preliminary findings
are a welcome change, they do not represent a cure - although some AIDS
experts have begun to talk about just that possibility.
"We don't want the pendulum to swing so far over that we have the state
of very unrealistic expectations that will leave people bitterly
disappointed," said Dr. Martin T. Schechter of the University of British
Columbia, the conference co-chairman.
Even AIDS activists took up the theme during opening ceremonies yesterday
at Vancouver's hockey arena.
"The media started the spin that the cure is here. The cure is here !!
Let's dance !! If you think the cure is here, think again. The cure is
not here," Eric Sawyer of the AIDS protest group Act Up told the conference.
In all, nine AIDS drugs are on the U.S. market, five of them introduced
this year. The most important are three in a new class called protease
inhibitors, which block one step in HIV's reproductive cycle. When
combined with two older AIDS drugs, the virus appears to stop reproducing.
Even if the new treatments work as well as researchers hope, Piot noted
they are likely to be little use to most of the world's HIV-infected
people, who cannot afford to pay $10,000 or $15,000 per year for treatment.
|
323.2663 | Disgusted | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Tue Jul 09 1996 14:09 | 16 |
| >Piot noted they are likely to be little use to most of the world's
>HIV-infected people, who cannot afford to pay $10,000 or $15,000 per
>year for treatment.
Does anyone have an idea on who we can get medical research to
established procedure/medicine to public without it being such an
outrageous cost to the ill?
I know this is the question of the century, but there must be a way.
How can these organizations to which we donate so much of our monies
not provide the public with a more affordable result?
|
323.2664 | | MOLAR::DELBALSO | I (spade) my (dogface) | Tue Jul 09 1996 14:21 | 2 |
| Hillary has a plan ....
|
323.2665 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | I shower naked, man. NAKED! | Thu Jul 11 1996 03:20 | 9 |
| In years to come, only the rich will be able to afford virtual
immortality.
Poor people will die of many diseases that there are cures for. It
happens already, why is aids any different?
Anybody want to fund global medicare?
I didn't think so.
|
323.2666 | like rogaine ? | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Welcome to Paradise | Thu Jul 11 1996 14:18 | 12 |
|
If my understanding of how they discovered protease inhibitors is
correct, or if the reported difficulties of producing any quantities
of these drugs is as bad as they say, $10-15k/yr is a bargain.
I imagine the US market would bear an even higher price. I was
wondering if Glen could report upon the reaction amongst the AIDS
community to this year's optimistic findings.
By the way, what was the Canadian role in developing the treatment ?
bb
|
323.2667 | | BIGQ::SILVA | I'm out, therefore I am | Thu Jul 11 1996 15:05 | 18 |
| | <<< Note 323.2666 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
| I imagine the US market would bear an even higher price. I was wondering if
| Glen could report upon the reaction amongst the AIDS community to this year's
| optimistic findings.
Caution..... seeing there is no cure, and there has already been too
many false hopes, caution. I have a friend who found out a year ago that he was
hiv+. He doesn't have to take any meds yet, and hopefully when his blood work
comes back, he won't have to take anything. But his doctor did mention if he
does, it will be the coctail that will be needed. He has other friends who have
taken this, and are doing fine. My hope is this will work for him, as well.
Glen
|
323.2668 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | I shower naked, man. NAKED! | Thu Jul 11 1996 20:11 | 1 |
| The protease inhibitor was developed at McGill University in Montreal.
|
323.2669 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Fri Jul 12 1996 09:46 | 1 |
| Is Nancy a striptease inhibitor?
|
323.2670 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Oct 14 1996 01:30 | 49 |
323.2671 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 01:52 | 6 |
323.2672 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Mon Oct 14 1996 13:13 | 4 |
323.2673 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 14:24 | 6 |
323.2674 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Mon Oct 14 1996 15:13 | 10 |
323.2675 | yet more clueless Americans... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Mon Oct 14 1996 15:27 | 20 |
323.2676 | | GENRAL::RALSTON | Atheism, Religion of the Gods | Mon Oct 14 1996 16:17 | 8 |
323.2677 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 16:29 | 6 |
323.2678 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 16:35 | 34 |
323.2679 | | EVMS::MORONEY | Sorry, my dog ate my homepage. | Mon Oct 14 1996 16:56 | 18 |
323.2680 | | BUSY::SLAB | Technology: no place for wimps | Mon Oct 14 1996 16:58 | 8 |
323.2681 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Oct 14 1996 17:01 | 7 |
323.2682 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Mon Oct 14 1996 17:04 | 3 |
323.2683 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Oct 14 1996 17:21 | 1 |
323.2684 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Mon Oct 14 1996 17:24 | 13 |
323.2685 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Oct 14 1996 17:56 | 5 |
323.2686 | don't look for reason, when lack of it suffices... | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Mon Oct 14 1996 18:16 | 15 |
323.2687 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Mon Oct 14 1996 18:19 | 9 |
323.2688 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Mon Oct 14 1996 18:22 | 1 |
323.2689 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 18:35 | 21 |
323.2690 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 18:39 | 18 |
323.2691 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Mon Oct 14 1996 18:40 | 10 |
323.2692 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Mon Oct 14 1996 19:06 | 10 |
323.2693 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Mon Oct 14 1996 19:09 | 12 |
323.2694 | | EVMS::MORONEY | Sorry, my dog ate my homepage. | Mon Oct 14 1996 20:07 | 8 |
323.2695 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Mon Oct 14 1996 20:12 | 11 |
323.2696 | | EVMS::MORONEY | Sorry, my dog ate my homepage. | Mon Oct 14 1996 20:20 | 11 |
323.2697 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Tue Oct 15 1996 00:18 | 8 |
323.2698 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Tue Oct 15 1996 00:20 | 13 |
323.2699 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.yvv.com/decplus/ | Tue Oct 15 1996 00:23 | 13 |
323.2700 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Tue Oct 15 1996 09:46 | 10 |
323.2701 | My Take | YIELD::BARBIERI | | Tue Oct 15 1996 09:50 | 40 |
323.2702 | | SMURF::WALTERS | | Tue Oct 15 1996 09:53 | 5 |
323.2703 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:08 | 22 |
323.2704 | | ASIC::RANDOLPH | Tom R. N1OOQ | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:12 | 7 |
323.2705 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:20 | 6 |
323.2706 | legitimate | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:29 | 27 |
323.2707 | Me Too | YIELD::BARBIERI | | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:30 | 20 |
323.2708 | there you go | ASIC::RANDOLPH | Tom R. N1OOQ | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:40 | 3 |
323.2709 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:44 | 2 |
323.2710 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Tue Oct 15 1996 10:50 | 4 |
323.2711 | | ASIC::RANDOLPH | Tom R. N1OOQ | Tue Oct 15 1996 11:02 | 5 |
323.2712 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Tue Oct 15 1996 11:02 | 17 |
323.2713 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Tue Oct 15 1996 11:02 | 31 |
323.2714 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Tue Oct 15 1996 11:05 | 13 |
323.2715 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Oct 15 1996 11:12 | 14 |
323.2716 | Most elderly men have it | EVMS::MORONEY | Sorry, my dog ate my homepage. | Tue Oct 15 1996 12:03 | 7 |
323.2717 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Oct 15 1996 12:04 | 1 |
323.2718 | | EVMS::MORONEY | Sorry, my dog ate my homepage. | Tue Oct 15 1996 12:38 | 2 |
323.2719 | first symptom - whether benign or malignant | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Tue Oct 15 1996 12:39 | 4 |
323.2720 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Oct 15 1996 12:43 | 1 |
323.2721 | | POMPY::LESLIE | Andy, living in a Dilbert world | Wed Oct 16 1996 03:50 | 4 |
323.2722 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Oct 16 1996 07:42 | 8 |
323.2723 | | POMPY::LESLIE | Andy, living in a Dilbert world | Wed Oct 16 1996 08:01 | 6 |
323.2724 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:19 | 10 |
323.2725 | | CONSLT::MCBRIDE | Idleness, the holiday of fools | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:31 | 2 |
323.2726 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:45 | 2 |
323.2727 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:48 | 3 |
323.2728 | yeah, Gerald | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:49 | 4 |
323.2729 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:50 | 5 |
323.2730 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Wed Oct 16 1996 10:57 | 9 |
323.2731 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:01 | 13 |
323.2732 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:08 | 12 |
323.2733 | | BUSY::SLAB | Trouble with a capital 'T' | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:28 | 6 |
323.2734 | pick an adjective - eg, misleading, sleazy, meaningless, etc. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:30 | 5 |
323.2735 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:50 | 8 |
323.2736 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:51 | 11 |
323.2737 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:52 | 3 |
323.2738 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | Look in ya heaaaaaaaaaaaart! | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:55 | 1 |
323.2739 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:57 | 19 |
323.2740 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:57 | 3 |
323.2741 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Oct 16 1996 13:59 | 6 |
323.2742 | | GOJIRA::JESSOP | | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:00 | 2 |
323.2743 | | BUSY::SLAB | Trouble with a capital 'T' | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:04 | 6 |
323.2744 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:08 | 3 |
323.2745 | | BUSY::SLAB | Trouble with a capital 'T' | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:10 | 4 |
323.2746 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:11 | 1 |
323.2747 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:38 | 19 |
323.2748 | | BUSY::SLAB | Twisted forever, forever twisted. | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:45 | 5 |
323.2749 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:45 | 6 |
323.2750 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Oct 16 1996 14:45 | 9 |
323.2751 | | ASIC::RANDOLPH | Tom R. N1OOQ | Wed Oct 16 1996 15:32 | 7 |
323.2752 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Wed Oct 16 1996 15:37 | 10 |
323.2753 | | BUSY::SLAB | Watch it, Joe - danger lurks ahead | Wed Oct 16 1996 15:38 | 3 |
323.2754 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | guess I'll set a course and go | Wed Oct 16 1996 16:01 | 16 |
323.2755 | | ASIC::RANDOLPH | Tom R. N1OOQ | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:06 | 17 |
323.2756 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:09 | 1 |
323.2757 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:17 | 2 |
323.2758 | research in Cal. | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:19 | 4 |
323.2759 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:20 | 4 |
323.2760 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:26 | 3 |
323.2761 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Wed Oct 16 1996 17:26 | 1 |
323.2762 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Thu Oct 17 1996 08:05 | 8 |
323.2763 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | guess I'll set a course and go | Thu Oct 17 1996 08:23 | 8 |
323.2764 | | POWDML::HANGGELI | sweet & juicy on the inside | Thu Oct 17 1996 09:37 | 7 |
323.2765 | | APACHE::KEITH | Dr. Deuce | Thu Oct 17 1996 09:52 | 10 |
323.2766 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | guess I'll set a course and go | Thu Oct 17 1996 10:26 | 12 |
323.2768 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | guess I'll set a course and go | Thu Oct 17 1996 10:56 | 6 |
323.2767 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Thu Oct 17 1996 11:03 | 21 |
323.2769 | | BUSY::SLAB | Why don't you bend for gold? | Thu Oct 17 1996 11:20 | 5 |
323.2770 | no math skills required | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | guess I'll set a course and go | Thu Oct 17 1996 11:25 | 5 |
323.2771 | | BUSY::SLAB | Why don't you bend for gold? | Thu Oct 17 1996 11:37 | 3 |
323.2772 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Thu Oct 17 1996 13:16 | 7 |
323.2773 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Thu Oct 17 1996 13:23 | 1 |
323.2774 | | WMOIS::GIROUARD_C | | Thu Oct 17 1996 13:42 | 1 |
323.2775 | | GOJIRA::JESSOP | | Thu Oct 17 1996 13:46 | 1 |
323.2776 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Thu Oct 17 1996 13:48 | 1 |
323.2777 | | GOJIRA::JESSOP | | Thu Oct 17 1996 14:05 | 4 |
323.2778 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Thu Oct 17 1996 14:11 | 2 |
323.2779 | | BIGHOG::PERCIVAL | I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO | Thu Oct 17 1996 14:35 | 38 |
323.2780 | No way! | GOJIRA::JESSOP | | Thu Oct 17 1996 14:38 | 4 |
323.2781 | | BUSY::SLAB | Would you care for a McSeal,sir? | Thu Oct 17 1996 14:43 | 3 |
323.2782 | | MKOTS3::JMARTIN | Be A Victor..Not a Victim! | Thu Oct 17 1996 15:17 | 3 |
323.2783 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Thu Oct 17 1996 19:27 | 3 |
323.2784 | | BUSY::SLAB | You're a train ride to no importance | Thu Oct 17 1996 19:45 | 4 |
323.2785 | | GOJIRA::JESSOP | | Fri Oct 18 1996 09:59 | 1 |
323.2786 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Bitin' off more than I can spew | Fri Oct 18 1996 11:40 | 17 |
323.2787 | Got this in the mail this morning..... | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Tue Jan 28 1997 11:30 | 38 |
| Subj: Fwd: AIDS DEATHS IN NEW YORK CITY PLUNGE 30 PERCENT
NEW YORK, NY -- The New York Times reported Saturday that for the
first time since the outbreak of the AIDS epidemic in 1981, AIDS
deaths in New York City fell sharply last year, dropping 30 percent
according to the Health Department.
Experts were quick to point out that the decline was not the result of
new protease inhibitor-based treatments. New combination therapies
would have had little impact on the steep decline in AIDS mortality
evidenced in early 1996, since the first of three protease inhibitors
was licensed only in December 1995.
Dr. Mary Ann Chiasson, assistant commissioner for disease intervention
research, told the Times that early treatment of opportunistic
infections and expanded access to medical care and services were the
most likely explanations. Chiasson said neither would have been
possible without a surge in state and federal money made available in
1994.
Since full statistics have yet to be compiled, no one is sure if the
decline in New York City will be repeated elsewhere in the
country. The number of people who died from the disease in New York
fell from 7,046 deaths in 1995 to 4,944 in 1996. Health officials in
San Francisco say AIDS deaths rose there from to 1,443 in 1995 to
1,517 last year, though California statistics include deaths that may
have occurred earlier but whose reporting was delayed.
With only 3 percent of the population, New York City has 16 percent of
all AIDS cases in the country, the Times reports. Since the epidemic
began, 60,000 New Yorkers have died of the disease. 30,000 people are
currently living with AIDS in the city and another 100,000 are
HIV-positive.
At its peak in November 1995, an average of 21 New Yorkers a day died
of AIDS-related complications. Though the decline is heartening,
current monthly mortality rates average out to between 10 and 11
people dying of AIDS every day in New York City.
|
323.2788 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Fri Jan 31 1997 15:39 | 8 |
| Latest information on the HIV front. A two dollar, two pill treatment
may prevent transmission of HIV to children during childbirth. This is
a breakthough s there had been no really good way to prevent HIV
transmission during delivery of babies to HIV+ mothers. This won't
help babies who are infected in utero, but it does give a cheap,
effective method of prevention which can be used worldwide.
meg
|
323.2789 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 03 1997 10:30 | 27 |
|
===========++++++++++++===========
Jeremy Mathews Memorial AIDS Quilt
===========++++++++++++===========
Many of us have lost friends, acquaintances, family members or even
lovers to AIDS. At the recent HLO AIDS Walk meeting, Christine Conran
suggested that we, in an effort to bring AIDS to the forefront at
Digital, sponsor and dedicate a panel to those people who we know who
have died from AIDS. The quilt will be named after Jeremy Mathews, a
DIGITAL employee who recently died of AIDS-related complications.
For those unfamiliar with the concept, each AIDS quilt panel will be 6
inches by 6 inches, and is dedicated to the memory of the person lost
to this terrible plague. Panels can include the lost person's name,
quilted pictures, birth dates, and any other information. When
completed, any number of panels are sewn together and the resultant
quilt can be displayed at various DIGITAL facilities
The HLO AIDS Walk team is also involving Corporate HR in this project.
If you would like more information on the project, or if you would like
to submit a panel yourself, please either send mail to Christine Conran
([email protected]) or call Chris at work (DTN) 225-4749 or
(outside line) 508-568-4749.
Let's get sewing!
|
323.2790 | interesting ethical/moral dilemma | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | Spott Itj | Tue Feb 04 1997 10:38 | 114 |
| AIDS researchers confront ethical issue
By Richard A. Knox, Globe Staff, 02/04/97
Worried that rapid advances in AIDS treatment are pulling them into an
ethical maelstrom, leaders of one of the largest AIDS drug studies ever
mounted have been asking themselves whether they should halt the
project in midstream.
Their fear: that hundreds of volunteers who are getting a two-drug
regimen under the study might be faring worse than those randomly
assigned to a comparison three-drug treatment. Their worry is based on
new data from another study strongly suggesting the two-drug treatment
doesn't work as well.
Whatever happens, leaders of the study say it is probably the last of
its kind - large trials that continue until differences appear in the
death rate or the incidence of serious AIDS infections. One critic
labels such studies ``death trials.''
The directors of the Boston-based study, which involves nearly 1,200
volunteers at 19 treatment centers, recently asked an outside panel of
experts for an urgent review of the interim data. Because neither
researchers nor study subjects can know who is getting which treatment,
to prevent bias, only outsiders are allowed to see the data on how the
two study groups are doing.
The reviewers found that as of Jan. 16, there was no statistically
significant difference between the two groups of volunteers in the rate
of deaths or serious AIDS-related illnesses. However, the panel did not
look at other possible signs that one study group may be getting a raw
deal - such as having higher blood levels of AIDS virus. When the study
was designed, scientists didn't recognize the importance of testing for
virus levels.
The outside experts concluded that the $5 million study did not need to
be stopped for ethical reasons - at least not then.
That review didn't settle the ethical worries, however, and a regular
full-dress evaluation of the study, code-named ACTG-320, is due in two
weeks.
The episode illustrates a vexing dilemma in current research of
acquired immune deficiency syndrome. As notions of what constitutes the
best available treatment shift from one month to the next, can
researchers properly ask some volunteers to stick with older regimens
that many experts consider ineffective? It is an issue that has arisen
with other human treatment studies, but the revolution in AIDS
treatment over the past 18 months makes the question especially urgent.
Merely posing the question - and it was posed repeatedly at a recent
AIDS conference in Washington - has touched off a reassessment of a
dozen or so studies funded by the federal government.
Federal agencies, academic scientists, AIDS doctors, community
activists and pharmaceutical companies are looking for more ethical
ways to test fast-evolving AIDS therapies. ``We're all trying to
grapple with the best way to do this,'' said Dr. William Duncan of the
National Institute of Allergies and Infectious Diseases, the
government's lead AIDS research agency.
``I think it will be very difficult to do studies like ACTG-320 in the
future,'' said Dr. Scott Hammer of Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center
in Boston, the study chairman. ``I do think the field is at a
crossroads.''
Others are more blunt. ``It's treading on thin ice to ask people to
experience death or a serious AIDS illness so we can understand just
how good a particular drug is,'' said Dr. Calvin Cohen, a Boston AIDS
specialist and researcher.
``It doesn't make sense to compare something we know is suboptimal to
something we think is optimal,'' Dr. Joep Lange, a leading Dutch AIDS
researcher, said at the Washington meeting.
The nub, of course, is what researchers ``know'' about the best AIDS
treatment at a given time, and how they know it. The ethics of human
research bar using human volunteers in a comparison study unless
researchers honestly cannot say from available data which treatment is
likely to prove better.
This state of ``equipoise,'' Duncan said, may have eroded in the year
since the study started assigning patients to the two different drug
regimens being tested in ACTG-320.
Hammer said, ``1996 was a revolutionary year in drug development, in
monitoring patients' viral levels and in changing standards of care.
... This trial bridged that period.''
Most researchers think that accumulating evidence tells them the human
immunodeficiency virus, or HIV, which causes AIDS, will not stay
suppressed for long without maximal drug therapy. Currently that means
at least three anti-HIV drugs, one of them from a new class called
protease inhibitors.
Dr. Robert T. Schooley of the University of Colorado, who chairs the
federally funded AIDS Clinical Trial Group, decried ``timid therapy''
using less than all-out treatment because it risks creating
drug-resistant strains of HIV.
The next generation of AIDS studies, many believe, will test drug
combinations for their ability to suppress HIV blood levels and keep
them down, and to allow HIV-ravaged immune systems to rebuild. Studies
that rely on rates of death and serious illness will no longer be done.
Practically speaking, it may be impossible to do otherwise because
individuals are increasingly reluctant to volunteer for studies that
test suboptimal therapies.
Harry Chang, a Los Angeles AIDS activist, said researchers might have
to rely on patients too poor to get costly AIDS drugs except as part of
human experiments. Or, he said, recruits might be less sophisticated
individuals who do not understand the implications of different AIDS
treatments.
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323.2791 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Feb 19 1997 11:25 | 20 |
| The American Foundation for AIDS Research has pulled a nationwide ad
campaign after complaints were received.
Ads included messages such as
Sexual abstinence won't cure AIDS. Research will.
Red ribbons won't cure AIDS. Research will.
Prayer won't cure AIDS. Research will.
Sally Morrison, a VP for the New-York-based foundation said that the
controversy and negative take on the ads was obscuring the underlying
message. The most complaints had been received from Dallas and Fort
Worth.
Mary Herring, marketing director for the Fort Worth city transit agency,
said that they had received a lot of complaints about ads. She called
for the foundation to redesign the ads to play up the benefits of AIDS
research without belittling someone else's beliefs.
/john
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323.2792 | | NHASAD::SHERK | I belong! I got circles overme i's | Thu Feb 20 1997 19:00 | 9 |
| wot??
is there really a segment of the population that believes that
prayer will cure AIDS? If so, let them get on with it. Nothing
like a miracle to make believers out of doubters. Otherwise I'd
suggest they try raising money for research.
ken
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323.2794 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Feb 20 1997 19:20 | 12 |
|
Prayer is just as likely to cure AIDS as it is
to cure cancer or heart disease -- and there are
documented cases of serious disease being cured
(or having their cure assisted or made faster)
by prayer reported in respectable magazines such
as TIME and NEWSWEEK.
That does not mean that research is not also important.
At least as important as red ribbons.
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323.2795 | | CHEFS::UKFURNITURE | | Fri Feb 21 1997 07:14 | 16 |
| "reported in respectable magazines such as TIME and NEWSWEEK."
Let's face it John, not exactly a guarantee of truth is it.
Journalists are employed by 'respectable magazines' to write good copy
that ultimately sells more of their 'respectable magazine'. I am
not saying prayer can't assist the curing of serious disease (although
I expect there may be more of a psychological than spiritual reason), I
am simply saying that you know as well as I do that anything in the
media has to be taken with a healthy dose of cynicism.
Richard
PS Find me the passage in the bible that says homosexuality is
forbidden, and I'll find you the passage that says men should wear
their hair in ringlets from their temples, I don't expect you do that
do you?
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323.2796 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Fri Feb 21 1997 08:00 | 7 |
| re finding passages
And then I'll find you the passages that say that the moral laws
apply to all the world while the ritual laws are not necessary for
non-Jews.
/john
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323.2797 | | CHEFS::UKFURNITURE | | Fri Feb 21 1997 09:13 | 5 |
| John
Which version of the bible will *you* be looking at?
Richard
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323.2798 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Fri Feb 21 1997 11:38 | 6 |
| > PS Find me the passage in the bible that says homosexuality is
> forbidden, and I'll find you the passage that says men should wear
> their hair in ringlets from their temples, I don't expect you do that
> do you?
Leviticus 18:22. Your turn, Mr. Furniture.
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323.2799 | | CHEFS::UKFURNITURE | | Fri Feb 21 1997 11:43 | 3 |
| Monday mate, monday. I don't have a bible handy, ever.
Richard
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323.2800 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Fri Feb 21 1997 11:48 | 3 |
| http://www.gospelcom.net/bible
very handy.
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323.2801 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Feb 21 1997 11:58 | 3 |
| XX http://www.gospelcom.net/bible
Get movin!
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323.2802 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Fri Feb 21 1997 11:58 | 1 |
| Uhhhh.....sorry Diedra!
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323.2803 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Fri Feb 21 1997 17:44 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.2798 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>
| Leviticus 18:22. Your turn, Mr. Furniture.
I guess it was a good year to be a lesbian then, eh?
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323.2804 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Sat Feb 22 1997 10:03 | 1 |
| Women don't count, this _is_ the old testament we're talking about.
|
323.2805 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Sat Feb 22 1997 23:11 | 1 |
| did they count somewhere in the new testament? I must have missed that.
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323.2806 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Sat Feb 22 1997 23:19 | 9 |
|
Checkout Ephesians "Husbands love your wives even as Christ loves the
Church", for starters.
Jim
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323.2807 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Sun Feb 23 1997 09:21 | 12 |
| | <<< Note 323.2806 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>
| Checkout Ephesians "Husbands love your wives even as Christ loves the
| Church", for starters.
Jim, you mean where it tells the wives to submit themselves to your
husbands as to the Lord. For a husband has authority over his wife just as
Christ has authority over the church;
You call that respect?
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323.2808 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Sun Feb 23 1997 11:39 | 3 |
| Glen, do you believe that Christ has authority over you? If so, do you
call that respect? If you're a Christian, what authority does Christ
have in your life?
|
323.2809 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Sun Feb 23 1997 14:52 | 11 |
|
Yeah, that's the one Glen..right after it says "submit yourselves one to
another", and right before "..even as Christ loved the church and
gave his life for it"..
Jim
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323.2810 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Sun Feb 23 1997 15:10 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2808 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| Glen, do you believe that Christ has authority over you?
No. Because of free will we are able to make our own decisions. They
may be the right ones, the wrong ones. We can ask Him to guide us, but the
ultimate decision is our own.
|
323.2811 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Sun Feb 23 1997 15:11 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.2809 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>
| Yeah, that's the one Glen..right after it says "submit yourselves one to
| another", and right before "..even as Christ loved the church and
| gave his life for it"..
But Jim, you forgot that men are supposed to love their wives like they
love their bodies. Now there is a realistic thing....
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323.2812 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Sun Feb 23 1997 16:32 | 2 |
| Glen, if you believe Christ has no authority over you, then how can you
say you're a Christian?
|
323.2813 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Sun Feb 23 1997 22:05 | 21 |
| | <<< Note 323.2812 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| Glen, if you believe Christ has no authority over you, then how can you
| say you're a Christian?
I believe that Christ wants us to come to Him. He doesn't force anyone
to do that. If you want to, you do. If you don't want to, you don't.
When you make the decision to go to Him, then you continuously work
together. Christ wants each and every one of us (my belief). So Christ will do
what it takes to bring us to Him. How? Sometimes by things falling into place,
sometimes by us calling out to Him for help, and a ton of other ways. I rely on
Him, He keeps me there. Sometimes He does that by letting me fall on my face.
Valuable lessons can be had there. It's not a one way street. If it were, then
it would not be based on love (imho).
I think a marriage is basically the same thing. One way can hardly be
love, while a relationship that works together, is based on love. Again, ymmv.
Glen
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323.2814 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Sun Feb 23 1997 23:12 | 5 |
| But where is obedience and sacrifice? As a follower of Christ, you
should follow his example of obedience and sacrifice. You make him your
saviour but not your lord. I find this to be an incongruity.
Mileage doesn't vary, it's either right or wrong.
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323.2815 | | CHEFS::UKFURNITURE | | Mon Feb 24 1997 04:06 | 7 |
| Didn't have the time to look up that passage in the bible, perhaps one
of the kind Christian folks in here would look it up for me. I think
John knows the bit I'm on about.
Richard
PS Which version of the bible do Christians in the US generally use?
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323.2816 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Mon Feb 24 1997 08:25 | 15 |
| >Which version of the bible do Christians in the US generally use?
Conservative Anglicans: Mostly RSV, sometimes KJV, NEB, or JB
Liberal Anglicans: NRSV and REB
Conservative Roman Catholics: RSV, JB, or Douai
Liberal Roman Catholics: NAB or JB
Mainline Protestants: NRSV, TEB
Free-Church (Fundamentalists): NIV, KJV, NASB
Jehovah's Witnesses: NWT
/john
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323.2817 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 08:58 | 19 |
| | <<< Note 323.2814 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| But where is obedience and sacrifice? As a follower of Christ, you
| should follow his example of obedience and sacrifice. You make him your
| saviour but not your lord. I find this to be an incongruity.
One can model themselves after another, Glenn. But they will never
achieve 100%. It doesn't mean they shouldn't try, but due to free will, 100% is
not ever going to equal reality. And then one has to look at....100% of what?
The God that was written about in the Bible? How close is that to what/who God
really is? I know I can't answer that.
But the Bible does not hold a woman as an equal to a man. She must
serve man. While man must love a woman like he does his own body. And the
strange thing about that passage was it asked what man doesn't love his body?
Talk about a bunch of crap.
Glen
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323.2818 | | SMARTT::JENNISON | And baby makes five | Mon Feb 24 1997 09:31 | 3 |
|
<boggle>
|
323.2819 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 09:35 | 1 |
| ganip ganop
|
323.2820 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Mon Feb 24 1997 09:47 | 6 |
|
.2817
Fascinating.
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323.2821 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Mon Feb 24 1997 09:53 | 15 |
| | One can model themselves after another, Glenn. But they will never
|achieve 100%. It doesn't mean they shouldn't try, but due to free will, 100% is
|not ever going to equal reality. And then one has to look at....100% of what?
|The God that was written about in the Bible? How close is that to what/who God
|really is? I know I can't answer that.
Then why bother calling yourself a Christian if you admit that you don't
know who God is? If you're saying that you can define Christ and ignore all
the scripture about him, the accounts written about him, the things he
said and did then it's a sham. Why bother? You're not modeling
yourself after some guy who lived 2000 years ago, you're modeling
yourself after a man who claimed to be the son of god, a man who died
for your sins. If you're not going to believe what was written about
him then you really don't have much to go on and regardless of any
professions you make, you end up just being a follower of yourself.
|
323.2822 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Mon Feb 24 1997 10:39 | 18 |
| Z Jim, you mean where it tells the wives to submit themselves to your
Z husbands as to the Lord. For a husband has authority over his wife just
Z as Christ has authority over the church;
Z You call that respect?
Absolutely. It is also important to understand the implications of the
husband's responsibilities here. We are to perpetually treat our wives
as an honored vessel. Just as if a well admired dignitary were staying
at your home. We are to treat our spouses with reverence in this
manner. At the same time, the wife should acquiesce the spiritual
leadership responsibilities to the husband, for this is the role of the
husband.
If this formula were followed by both parties, marriage counseling
would be a non existent art.
-Jack
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323.2823 | urned respect | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:01 | 4 |
|
.2822 an "honored vessel"? oy.
|
323.2824 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:02 | 1 |
| Better than an honored exemption.
|
323.2825 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:12 | 6 |
| > Didn't have the time to look up that passage in the bible, perhaps one
> of the kind Christian folks in here would look it up for me. I think
> John knows the bit I'm on about.
The best I can figure is that you're referring to Leviticus 19:27, which
has nothing to do with ringlets or temples.
|
323.2826 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:50 | 31 |
| | <<< Note 323.2821 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| Then why bother calling yourself a Christian if you admit that you don't
| know who God is?
Who can say they know who God is? I doubt anyone. No one has ever met
the guy. People know of Him, through what they have heard, through His works,
but that is as far as it can go.
I had always thought one had to believe that Christ died for our sins
in order to be Christian.
| If you're saying that you can define Christ and ignore all the scripture about
| him, the accounts written about him, the things he said and did then it's a
| sham. Why bother?
A sham? Not Christ. The Bible I view as a history book. If you look at
our own history books, can anyone say they are inerrant? Humans give their
views of what they have seen. It doesn't mean that view is 100% accurate.
Basically, I think the Bible is a great guide. But nothing more.
Remember, if someone who is on their death bed cries out to Christ to save
them, and in their hearts they really mean it, then they will be saved. I don't
think at that point they have to say the book is also believed.... just that
they believe in Him.
Glen
|
323.2827 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:54 | 24 |
| | <<< Note 323.2822 by ASGMKA::MARTIN "Concerto in 66 Movements" >>>
| Absolutely.
I know YOU would! :-)
| It is also important to understand the implications of the husband's
| responsibilities here. We are to perpetually treat our wives as an honored
| vessel.
Yeah.... according to scripture, love a woman like a man would love his
body. For some this might mean a lotta lovin....superficially. I mean, how can
love for a body be equated to love for another? One is in an object, and is
kind of vein. The other is in the inner workings of a person, and from the
heart. Two different levels, wouldn't you say? And if a woman submits herself
to the husband, and it isn't in the makeup of the woman, (ie, she doesn't want
that) then where is the love from the man for that?
Respect, imnsho, is a two way street in a relationship.
Glen
|
323.2828 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:59 | 18 |
| |Who can say they know who God is?
A Christian should be able to. If a Christian can't say he knows who
god is, then his faith isn't worth much. How can one live within such a
contradiction?
|No one has ever met the guy.
This sounds really silly coming from a professing Christian.
|People know of Him, through what they have heard, through His works,
|but that is as far as it can go.
So if you hear it, that's cool. But if you read it, that's not cool.
How can one identify his works if there's no concrete way to define
them?
If you've never met Christ, how can you be his follower?
|
323.2829 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Mon Feb 24 1997 11:59 | 22 |
|
>Remember, if someone who is on their death bed cries out to Christ to save
>them, and in their hearts they really mean it, then they will be saved. I don't
How do you know that?
>think at that point they have to say the book is also believed.... just that
>they believe in Him.
But, where did they come to know about Christ? Without the Bible we know
nothing of Him.
Jim
|
323.2830 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 12:04 | 29 |
| | <<< Note 323.2828 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| A Christian should be able to. If a Christian can't say he knows who god is,
| then his faith isn't worth much. How can one live within such a contradiction?
Glenn, with no one ever meeting Him, they can only base it on what the
read, hear, and experience. That isn't going to give you the whole picture.
| This sounds really silly coming from a professing Christian.
Can you name one person who has met Him?
| So if you hear it, that's cool. But if you read it, that's not cool.
| How can one identify his works if there's no concrete way to define them?
Prayer. Watching what He does. What He allows to happen.
And I didn't mean to imply that hearing is good, and reading is bad.
What one hears from someone else is probably based mostly on what that person
talking has read, or heard from others. They are all pretty much equal because
it all relies on human frailty.
| If you've never met Christ, how can you be his follower?
Faith based on what He has done, what He has allowed to happen. This is
both good and bad.
Glen
|
323.2831 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 12:05 | 13 |
| | <<< Note 323.2829 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>
| How do you know that?
From a guide I read.
| But, where did they come to know about Christ? Without the Bible we know
| nothing of Him.
I agree. And with the Bible I also don't believe we know everything
about Him. We don't know all the truth about Him due to human beings writing
the book.
|
323.2832 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Mon Feb 24 1997 12:10 | 4 |
| If no one has ever met him, then he simply doesn't exist.
Shall I name the apostles? Shall I name Saul of Tarsus? Or are these
all mythical people to you?
|
323.2833 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Mon Feb 24 1997 12:12 | 13 |
|
"if you have seen me, you have seen the Father"
Jesus Christ (about whom there are eyewitness
accounts in the Bible).
Jim
|
323.2834 | | SMARTT::JENNISON | And baby makes five | Mon Feb 24 1997 12:56 | 16 |
|
Aw, c'mon, Jim.
The bible is just a guide!
Can you imagine hiking a mountain using a trail guide
in which you only believed what you wanted to believe ?
"Hey, the guide says there's water up 100 yards on the
left. Cool"
"Hmm, it also says there's a cliff 75 yards on the left."
"Anyone wanna go get some water ?"
|
323.2835 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:13 | 11 |
| .2826
The Bible is not a "great guide" to you if you give it no authority
(outside of being a history book).
What makes it a "great guide", spiritually, if you don't believe the
spiritual truths therein? How can you use anything as a basis for a
belief system, if you don't believe it?
-steve
|
323.2836 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:22 | 5 |
| You can create your own belief system based on your own ideas. I have
no problems with that. Believe what you want to , great, but call
yourself a follower of someone who is really quite well defined and
reject most of the definition because there's no real way to be sure is
nonsensical to me. Why bother?
|
323.2837 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:26 | 5 |
| Why don't you all take this to "holier than thou notes," or whatever
the name of the notesfile is where you can compare your christianity
the way some people compare the size of their, um, wallets.
meg
|
323.2838 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:30 | 4 |
|
.2837 aagagag. good question, Meggeldy.
|
323.2839 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:31 | 2 |
| I'd rather talk about it here where I can question anyone's belief
system without having to believe it myself, thanks.
|
323.2840 | | PENUTS::DDESMAISONS | person B | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:40 | 6 |
|
.2839 It does end up sounding pretty absurd, at least to me, though.
All this you're-not-a-REAL-Christian-if-you-don't-do-X
stuff. Sheesh. You guys could at least take it 390.
|
323.2841 | | SMARTT::JENNISON | And baby makes five | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:47 | 7 |
|
re. 2817
Glen, check out Matthew 7:21-29
Karen
|
323.2842 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:14 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2832 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| Shall I name the apostles? Shall I name Saul of Tarsus? Or are these
| all mythical people to you?
Can they, or could they, tell us what He looks like?
|
323.2843 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:14 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.2834 by SMARTT::JENNISON "And baby makes five" >>>
| The bible is just a guide!
FINALLY! Now you have it right!
|
323.2844 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:15 | 4 |
|
What does it matter "what He looks like"?
|
323.2845 | | LANDO::OLIVER_B | ready to begin again | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:16 | 1 |
| he's really tall and he has a big white beard.
|
323.2846 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:18 | 15 |
| | <<< Note 323.2835 by ACISS2::LEECH "Terminal Philosophy" >>>
| How can you use anything as a basis for a belief system, if you don't believe
| it?
This coming from someone who thinks he knows what the forfathers meant.
How did you come to that conclusion? Do you believe any book you read is
inerrant? Otherwise, do you believe your view could be wrong?
My faith is with Him. I do not, and will not hold a book at the same
level as Him.
Glen
|
323.2847 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:19 | 8 |
| | <<< Note 323.2837 by CSC32::M_EVANS "be the village" >>>
| Why don't you all take this to "holier than thou notes," or whatever
| the name of the notesfile is where you can compare your christianity
| the way some people compare the size of their, um, wallets.
Meg, in one of those one side can trash the non-Christian side, but the
non-Christian side can't say anything if it goes against the Bible.
|
323.2848 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:20 | 6 |
| | <<< Note 323.2844 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>
| What does it matter "what He looks like"?
How can they say they met someone if they never saw her/him?
|
323.2849 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:49 | 3 |
| When talking about a person, that is a good question. When talking
about god, is not anything possible? Or is god bound by your
limitations?
|
323.2850 | idnkt | GAAS::BRAUCHER | Champagne Supernova | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:50 | 4 |
|
So blind people never meet anybody ?
bb
|
323.2851 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Give the world a smile each day | Mon Feb 24 1997 15:59 | 10 |
|
> How can they say they met someone if they never saw her/him?
my best friend is blind..he's never seen me, but I'll just bet he'd tell you
he's met me.
Jim
|
323.2852 | | BUSY::SLAB | A cross upon her bedroom wall ... | Mon Feb 24 1997 16:09 | 3 |
|
He might not admit to it at a job interview, though, just in case.
|
323.2853 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 16:29 | 5 |
| | <<< Note 323.2849 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>
| Or is god bound by your limitations?
God is not bound by human limitations. Just we are.
|
323.2854 | | BUSY::SLAB | A cross upon her bedroom wall ... | Mon Feb 24 1997 16:30 | 3 |
|
Speak for yourself.
|
323.2855 | | ASGMKA::MARTIN | Concerto in 66 Movements | Mon Feb 24 1997 18:04 | 12 |
| Glen:
Your rejection of scripture is based on scriptures position on gay
relationships. Why don't you just admit it?!
Z Who can say they know who God is? I doubt anyone. No one has ever met
Z the guy. People know of Him, through what they have heard, through His
Z works, but that is as far as it can go.
I seem to recall Job's friends had the same cynical attitude!
-Jack
|
323.2856 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon Feb 24 1997 18:37 | 10 |
| | <<< Note 323.2855 by ASGMKA::MARTIN "Concerto in 66 Movements" >>>
| Your rejection of scripture is based on scriptures position on gay
| relationships. Why don't you just admit it?!
Been there before....
| I seem to recall Job's friends had the same cynical attitude!
I don't want more than one job, though.
|
323.2857 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Mon Feb 24 1997 18:54 | 10 |
| Glen,
This at least could be taken to the thumper string in this file, where
you all can harp on who knows god better than whoever else. Personally
she is a round, pregnant, woman, with both maiden and crone aspects
built in, stirring the cauldron of lfe and death.
meg
;-)
|
323.2858 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | be the village | Mon Feb 24 1997 19:08 | 16 |
|
I am reminded by the basenote.
>The Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) topic.
>Discuss AIDS and/or the HIV virus associated with it as it affects your
>lives and those around you, the arts, your community, and public
>policy.
doesn't say who should thump on whose head over who is the bigger,
badder christian. I think there is another note for that nonsense,
something like how christians should act in the box?
|
323.2859 | Meg, your knee is jerking | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Feb 25 1997 00:06 | 7 |
| > something like how christians should act in the box?
I'll remind you that this rathole was started by UKFURNITURE
throwing out some bible-quoting bait which was taken up by SACKS
and followed up by SILVA and RICHARDSON.
/john
|
323.2860 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Tue Feb 25 1997 01:26 | 2 |
| Thanks, John.
|
323.2861 | You lot aren't half tetchy. | CHEFS::UKFURNITURE | | Tue Feb 25 1997 05:42 | 5 |
| Ha! Ha! Ha!
What an excitable lot you are.
Richard
|
323.2862 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Tue Feb 25 1997 06:59 | 7 |
| | <<< Note 323.2859 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
| I'll remind you that this rathole was started by UKFURNITURE throwing out some
| bible-quoting bait which was taken up by SACKS and followed up by SILVA and
| RICHARDSON.
Don't forget the Muppetman was in there!
|
323.2863 | | POLAR::RICHARDSON | Patented Problem Generator | Tue Feb 25 1997 09:10 | 1 |
| Oh yes, what a terrible oversight that would be.
|
323.2864 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu Apr 24 1997 08:03 | 21 |
| Weird article in the St. Louis Post-Dispatch.
Apparently a guy named Darnell "Boss Man" McGee, HIV positive, had sex with
over 100 women and girls between the ages of 12 and 22.
Seems he preyed on women "with low self esteem, making them feel important
with flattery and gifts."
The health departments in the area are getting help from women who have
already come forward after the publicity about McGee. These women are
volunteering to contact other women they think were also involved.
"It's a real testament to women," said Elisa Daues, a spokeswoman for the
Missouri Department of Health's bureau of sexually transmitted diseases.
"They're looking out for each other."
And what of McGee? On January 15th a gunman stopped McGee and shot him
dead. Police have no suspects, and are investigating whether it was a
revenge murder.
/john
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323.2865 | 12 year olds??!! | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Thu Apr 24 1997 10:10 | 5 |
| For some reason his early demise doesn't seem to upset me too awful
much. Guess I need to spend more time in church or something...
In fact, the phrase "a fitting end to a scumbag" seems to pop unbidden
into my unsympathetic brain.
|
323.2866 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Thu Apr 24 1997 12:24 | 4 |
|
Good thing you're not Jesus.
|
323.2867 | | SMARTT::JENNISON | And baby makes five | Thu Apr 24 1997 12:25 | 4 |
|
Where's that P&K note ???
|
323.2868 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Thu Apr 24 1997 12:28 | 5 |
|
Even after I said you look young???? :-)
|
323.2869 | | ACISS2::LEECH | Terminal Philosophy | Mon Apr 28 1997 10:38 | 1 |
| Just being honest...
|
323.2870 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Wed May 07 1997 17:44 | 33 |
|
All employees are welcome--at 11:30 on 14 May, in the HLO2
Cafeteria Annex--to join in DIGITAL's kickoff for the annual
Boston (Sunday, 1 June) and Worcester (Sunday, 8 June) AIDS
Pledge Walks. Registration materials will be available for
both events.
Among the honored guests currently scheduled for the kickoff
are:
Ed Caldwell--Vice President of Digital Semiconductor, and
opening speaker;
Paul Ross--Consultant/Director of HIV Education for DIGITAL, who
plans to discuss the company's past and present contributions
to this event;
Larry Kessler--Director of the Aids Action Committee (AAC)
of Boston, who will talk to where the money raised will be
spent and why the disease has not quite been conquered; and
Andi Kudzol--Member of the Board of Directors of Aids Project
Worcester, who will share her experiences as an active volunteer
and as a young woman living with AIDS.
The kickoff will be an opportunity for community members to
learn the facts about HIV and AIDS, become informed about local
support groups that might need volunteers, and to help raise
money to educate and provide support for people living with
HIV and AIDS.
|
323.2871 | | MRPTH1::16.121.160.239::slab | [email protected] | Thu May 08 1997 01:38 | 8 |
|
Hey, did you send a message to whoever mailed that out and notify him/her
that there was an extra "n" added to your name?
All I could picture when I saw that was Mr. Richardson asking "Huh? What
are you mentioning me for?".
|
323.2872 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Thu May 08 1997 14:02 | 19 |
| In another conference, a pointer was given to "The Rethinking AIDS" Home Page.
The site maintainers quote some people with an impressive set of credentials,
including Nobel prize winning molecular biologists and biochemists.
http://www.xs4all.nl/~raido/
I just discussed the site with a friend in Atlanta, who tested HIV+ twelve
years ago and tells me that these people really might have a point.
He says that he feels perfectly fine now, and has for the past six years
after he _quit_ taking AZT. He is convinced that he was being poisoned by
AZT, and never felt sicker in his whole life than during the year he tried
the recommended treatments.
Is he just lucky, or do these people have a point: look elsewhere, look
to continued detrimental behaviour, look to improper treatments.
/john
|
323.2873 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon May 12 1997 14:27 | 19 |
|
In addition to the speakers at this Wednesdays Corporate Kick-off Rally
for the AIDS Walks, a viewing of the AIDS Panel will be held as well. Several
people donated time and effort to either make a panel for someone they know, or
make a panel for someone else from the company for someone they knew.
The overall collection of panels was named after Jeremy Mathews. He was
a DIGITAL employee who died of AIDS last summer. There have been about 10
people who submitted panels of people they knew who died of AIDS complications.
The panel can be viewed between the hours of 11:00-1:00 in the cafe
annex at HLO2 on Wednesday, May 14th.
Glen
|
323.2874 | Old friend? | CPEEDY::ZALESKI | | Mon May 12 1997 14:39 | 5 |
| Is there a Web site or something that has a list of names of people
who are on the quilt? I had a friend who I heard died of Aids. He moved
to San Fran. about 25 years ago. He was a nice guy and the kindest
person I knew. Always wondered if the stories are true?
|
323.2875 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Mon May 12 1997 14:58 | 5 |
| http://www.aidsquilt.org/
It should have what you are looking for.
|
323.2876 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Wed May 14 1997 10:24 | 16 |
|
The Corporate Kick-off Rally for the AIDS Walks, and a viewing of the
AIDS Panel will be held TODAY!
Ed Caldwell (VP of DS), Paul Ross (HIV/AIDS office), Larry Kessler
(head of AIDS ACTION) and Andi Kudzol (a woman with AIDS) will be speaking
today.
The Kick-off Rally for the Walks will be held between 11:30-1:00 in the
cafe annex at HLO2.
Glen
|
323.2877 | | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Fri May 23 1997 12:21 | 39 |
|
The Boston and Worcester AIDS Walks are almost upon us! As in past years,
DIGITAL is having their own Pre-Registration in TWO facilities this year.
One will be in Littleton and one will be in Hudson.
On May 30th, from 11-1:00 we will have Pre-Registration for the Boston
Walk in the Tay 1 Cafe. A table will be set up, and someone from AIDS
Action will assist in collecting the pledge sheets and money.
On the same day in HLO2 (May 30), a table will be set up outside the
Credit Union to collect pledges and money for Boston. The time for this
will be 11:30-2:00.
On June 6th, during the same time periods and same locations, tables will
be set up for collecting money/pledges for the Worcester Walk. A
representative from Worcester will be at this pre-registration as well.
What does Pre-Registration do for you? The lines are long on the day of
the Walk. Depending on how much money you collect, you could end up
carrying the AAC/APW incentive prizes around with you. This would
eliminate that.
There is a prize from the DIGITAL Logo Store that will be given out to
the person who collects the most amount of pledges for either walk! So
regardless of whether you walk the Worcester or Boston Walks, you will
be elligible IF you come to Pre-Registration with your form/money. The
prize is a Sportsgear Jacket!
Also this year, DIGITAL has made up some great t-shirts for the Walks.
These are in line with the Healthy Balance t-shirts many of you already
have. These are probably the best designed shirts for any of the Walks
we have had! Each Walker gets a t-shirt!
If you have any questions about Pre-Registration for Littleton, call
Donna Winston 227-3418 [email protected] or Patti Mahoney 227-3598
[email protected]. If you have any questions about the Hudson
Pre-registration, call Glen Silva at 225-6306 [email protected].
See you all at Pre-Registration!!!!!!!
|
323.2878 | UPDATED!!! | BIGQ::SILVA | http://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/ | Wed May 28 1997 17:04 | 27 |
|
The Boston AIDS Walk is almost upon us! As in past years, DIGITAL is having
their own Pre-Registration in TWO facilities this year. One will be in
Littleton and one will be in Hudson.
On May 30th, from 11-1:00 we will have Pre-Registration for the Boston Walk in
the Tay 2 Cafe. A table will be set up, and someone from AIDS Action will
assist in collecting the pledge sheets and money.
On the same day in HLO2 (May 30), a table will be set up outside the Credit
Union to collect pledges and money for Boston. The time for this will be
11:30-2:00.
What does Pre-Registration do for you? The lines are long on the day of the
Walk. Depending on how much money you collect, you could end up carrying the
AAC incentive prizes around with you. This would eliminate that.
On the day of the Boston Walk, look for us at the corporate area, usually under
the D, for DIGITAL! You won't be able to miss us with the GREAT t-shirts we
have this year!
If you have any questions about Pre-Registration for Littleton, call Donna
Winston 227-3418 [email protected] or Patti Mahoney 227-3598
[email protected]. If you have any questions about the Hudson
Pre-registration, call Glen Silva at 225-6306 [email protected].
See you all at Pre-Registration!!!!!!!
|
323.2879 | | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Tue Jun 03 1997 14:07 | 11 |
| SCOTUS declined to hear the case of a soldier with the HIV
virus who claimed that his right to privacy was violated
by the Army when his commander ordered him to use a
condom during sexual relations.
Carinel Pritchard was found guilty in 1993 of disobeying
the safe-sex order and of assault against his wife, when
she and another woman complained to Army officials that
he had not warned them of his condition nor donned a
condom during sex. The case is Pritchard v. United
States, 96-1751.
|