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131.1 | ;^) | MARKER::BUCKLEY | its MIDI 4 me | Wed Jun 29 1988 10:54 | 2 |
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Sounds good....I'll take two!
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131.2 | My opinion | PLEXUS::V5REGISTRAR | | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:11 | 29 |
| I have to admit, even though I am "heavy into heavy," when my kids
are born (hopefully, I won't have kids until I'm old and gray) I
will be concerned about what they listen to. I don't believe in
going so far as to tell my kids that they have to listen to Pat
Boone, but I definitely will keep an eye on it. Most of the bands
we are hearing about (Crue, Ozzy, Prince, Poison, etc) I don't think
are "dangerous," and I'd let my own kids listen to them, but some
of the more underground speed/thrash music is a little heavy duty
for 11 year olds.
I think it's the same principle as keeping an eye on the movies
your 10 year olds are renting. Friday the 13th is fine, if you
think they can handle it, but Faces of Death is too much. I see
nothing wrong with kids listening to heavy metal, provided they
are mentally equipped to draw their own conclusions from it.
I think they average 14 year old knows where it's at as far as fantasy
and reality, but a 9 or 10 year old might not.
I don't think banning or censoring, or even labels are the answer.
I think it's much more individual than that. It's up to the parents
to keep an eye on what their kids are doing and to provide guidance
and explanation if needed. For a parent to forbid a certain kind
of music or anything, for that matter, is the biggest incentive
a kid can have to go out and do it. I'd rather my kids did things
out in the open, so I could keep an eye on them.
Down with censorship! It's the responsibility of the parent.
Stacie
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131.3 | PERFECT! | HAZEL::STARR | You ain't nothin' but fine, fine, fine! | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:28 | 6 |
| Stacie,
That is one of the best written, most thought-out response
I've ever seen on teh subject. You hit it right on the head!!
cat
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131.4 | A FATHER SPEAKS | PAR5::C_DENOPOULOS | | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:31 | 19 |
| re: .2 I have to admit it, I think you'll make an excellent father.
Being the father of a teenager (yes, it's true) I have to say that
even though I LOVE HM, I don't care for a lot of the "new" stuff
coming out. For instance, my daughter comes home with a new poisson
tape. She gave it to me to listen to on the way to work. Well,
let me tell you, they know how to say "F***". I'm impressed. Wow!
All those years I've been listening to bands that don't say "F***"
on their records. What have I been missing. Is what I'm saying
sound stupid to you? I think the use of the F word just for the
sake of using it is stupid. Now I know my daughter isn't going
to go around saying F*** all over the place (or maybe she does)
but that's an example of the kind of stuff I'm hearing more and
more.
Well, if I don't stop now I'll ramble on for ever.
Chris D.
p.s. Have I been singing the wrong words when I sing-a-long with
Black Sabbath??
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131.5 | ... | TIGER::SLABOUNTY | Nuke the whales!! | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:36 | 7 |
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RE: Chris
Somehow I doubt Stacie will be a good father. 8^)
Shawn GTI
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131.6 | | PAR5::C_DENOPOULOS | | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:38 | 5 |
| Shawn,
I can only go by what I read.
Chris D.
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131.7 | Responsible Parenting 101 | RAVEN1::JERRYWHITE | Anthrax ROOLZ !!! | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:39 | 11 |
| I too am a parent of a 12 year old, and he's into HM as much
as I am. Some of the lyrics do get a bit rough, but it's nothing
you won't hear at the mall, or the grocery store, or anywhere else.
I agree it's the parents job, and NO ONE else's to decide what their
child listens to, it's accepting responsibility. If the child is
mature enough to understand that Jason isn't real then rough lyrics
shouldn't be a problem, but only the parent really knows. To each
his own, I guess.
Papa Scary II
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131.9 | what what what | RICKS::UPHAM | | Wed Jun 29 1988 12:48 | 6 |
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What are the real lyrics for that part they got wrong. I don't
know.
/Bill
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131.11 | My finishing touch | WILVAX::BOURQUE | Have you hugged your Drums today? | Wed Jun 29 1988 13:12 | 7 |
| RE:10
end part:
" And so as I say these words, Im telling you now, I want my state
I tell you to enjoy life, I wish I could but its too late".
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131.12 | yeah...but | CAINE::MINARDI | | Wed Jun 29 1988 13:42 | 27 |
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Okay, I'll admit that lusting after rotting flesh is pretty
disgusting. Also, demanding the death of my God is also a bit
disturbing. It's disgusting to me, and I'm not a little kid, I'm
22 and I like heavy heavy music. I just can't enjoy that kind
of s*it. It's ridiculous.
One thing about Ozzie, I haven't heard all of his stuff, but
what I've heard has been pretty damn positive. I can't think of
one song that's very objectionable, can you?
If I were a parent, I'm sure that I would be a little upset
to see Motorbreath Jr. into a band that wrote songs about necrophilia,
and demon/devil worship. I don't care what anyone says, but as a
kid you ARE influenced by whatever bands you're crazy about. I was
wild over KISS in sixth grade. I thought they were incredibly cool,
and grew my hair very long, and had KISS patches all over all my
clothes. I didn't feel any urges to drink "Cold Gin" or anything,
but who can tell what a kid is gonna think is okay.
I agree with Stacie also. I would think that if my kid were
14 or something, he's going to know better, but if my kid were
10 and listening to that music, I'd want to know, and talk about
it. If you give a kid a hard time about doing something, you know
he's going to want to do it even more. I remember that!
/Motorbreath
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131.13 | All this encouragement! | PLEXUS::V5REGISTRAR | | Wed Jun 29 1988 13:54 | 18 |
| Re: 3
Why, thank you. I try to keep an open mind about things like this.
It's hard enough to be a kid in this world now, never mind by the
time I have kids. If you do a good job raising your kids for 13
or 14 years, and you can look yourself in the eye and say you did
your best, then you should be able to set them free to make their
own choices. You have to have faith that you taught them right
from wrong.
Re: 4
Shawn was just giving you a hard time. I hope I'm not ever in the
position to be a good father. A good mother, maybe. (I'm a girl.)
Thank you, too.
Stacie
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131.14 | Too much OPINION! | CSC32::G_HOUSE | Anthrax droolz | Wed Jun 29 1988 13:55 | 28 |
| RE: .2 Stacie, brilliantly stated, I wholehearted agree!
RE: .4 about the F word
I think that needless abuse of any word (or musical expression for that
matter) is stupid. When people needlessly abuse profanity (or
colloquialisms) they are usually either showing ignorance or just have
bad habits. Example: inserting the word 'like' at various points in a
sentence.
RE: ...the lyrics
While I can believe that bands like Venom & Slayer have some really
objectionable things in their lyrics, most of the quotes I've seen for
less obscure bands and songs have either been incorrect or out of
context. I can take pieces otta the Bible, out of context, and say it
tells you to go kill yourself. (...and Judas went out and hanged
himself..., ...go thou and do likewise...). That's obviously not it!
Like, 'Suicide Solution', I always understand it (as a whole) to be
saying exactly the opposite, that suicide is NO solution. Same with
that Black Sabbath quote. Incidently, I thought it said what they said
for a long time too, I obviously didn't kill myself...
While I'm feeling so opinionated, I think that some of the most
destructive and influential lyrics are the ones that advocate substance
abuse.
gh
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131.15 | Just a formality. | PAR5::C_DENOPOULOS | | Wed Jun 29 1988 14:02 | 8 |
| re: .13 Delete "father, add "mother".
I would say that by the responces so far that there are a bunch
of level-headed people in this conference (did I say that?).
Chris D.
p.s. I do have a 10 year old and I do worry about that one.
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131.16 | Teach your Children | FSLENG::CAMUSO | Event Horizon | Thu Jun 30 1988 08:18 | 12 |
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RE .2 Absolutely!
Don't forget to show your kids how to accept the absurd and resurd
with tongue in cheek. It's good for them to learn that dimension
of wryness they'll need to deal with heavy-duty sensory input.
Makes them better prepared to confront everything from necrophilia
to used car salemen and politicians. Please insert the "F" verb
in its gerund form before the word "politicians."
- Tony -
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131.17 | what a minute!! | CVETTE::GONZALES | and then there was HEAVY METAL! | Thu Jun 30 1988 08:39 | 12 |
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RE: 131.4
I also have the new Poison tape and I must come to their defense.
They never once say the word f*** in their lyrics! I don't know
if you are reading into the words but using synonyms for the word
f*** is totally different than coming right out and saying it.
Tracy
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131.18 | yeaaaah | KETZEL::MINARDI | | Thu Jun 30 1988 09:25 | 5 |
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...That's funny Tracy, I was thinking the same thing.
/Motorbreath...hey I can write notes again!
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131.19 | "I'll Take Her & Make Her" | PLEXUS::V5REGISTRAR | | Thu Jun 30 1988 12:07 | 13 |
| Re. The "Poison issue"
I know you guys are talking about the guy who said he hears the
F-word in the Poison tape, but the PMRC doesn't like them because
of the song "I Want Action" off of the ...Cat... album.
There's a line in it about "taking her and making her" that they
have latched onto.
So, I guess the song is about rape, so the band members must be
rapists. Doesn't that make sense?
Talk about twisting things around!!
Stacie
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131.20 | My opinion on this subject ... phooey: but seriously ... | TIGER::SLABOUNTY | Nuke the whales!! | Thu Jun 30 1988 17:01 | 159 |
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Alan, thanks for typing this in. I'd like to add some
commentary.
>"We're possessed by
>all that's evil; the death of you God we demand. We spit at the
>virgin you worship, and sit at Lord Satan's left hand."
This is unnecessary for ANY album, but only weak-minded people
will take it as 'the way to go'. I could do without it, but
since it's there I'm not gonna try to fight it.
> The teacher, 23-year-old Michael Whaley, gently tried to explain
>the lyrics. The next day,a host of parents phoned the principal,
>incensed that a teacher was discussing Satanism and necrophelia with
>their children.
Why can't parents accept the fact that they don't have the ability
to be with their kids every minute of the day, and that maybe some-
one besides them has the ability to teach/inform them? The prob-
lem here is the age of the audience ... they can't really explain
what the teacher told them (at least not enough for the parents to
realize that the teacher's intentions were good).
>Studies show that the
>average teen-ager listens to rock music four hours a day, we are
>clearly not dealing with an inconsequential fringe element.
Only 4 hours? They didn't survey THIS conference!! 8^)
>For example, one question draws on the title of a popular Samantha Fox
>song, "Touch Me (I Want Your ____)." Eighty percent of fourth-graders
>knew the missing word was "body". They could also sing along with such
>lilting refrains as George Michael's "I Want Your Sex".
>Prince's album 'Purple Rain', which won a Grammy Award and has sold
>over 14 million copies, includes "Darling Nikki", a song that describes
>Prince's sexual encounter with a girl he met "in a hotel lobby, mastur-
>bating with a magazine". Another popular Prince entry was "Sister",
>from the 'Dirty Mind' album, which informs the listener that "my sister
>never made love to anyone but me. Incest is everything it's said to be."
No Heavy_Metal references here ... I say we ban pop music.
"George Michael was arrested yesterday on charges of 'offensive
and suggestive lyrics'. He will be formally charged tomorrow,
with Tipper Gore prosecuting."
>"Can you help me? Oh, shoot out my brains, ohhh yeah...I tell you to
>end your life" from "Paranoid".
Close - "Oh, shoot out my brains" is actually "Thought you were my
friend".
> Such lyrics are not relegated to out-of-the-way record or porn shops.
>They are readily available to youngsters of all ages in record stores
>throughout the nation, on radio and occasionally on rock-video
>networks.
Big deal ... Playboy and Playgirl are sold over the counter in alot
of stores, and are clearly visible in a good number of them. Why
aren't the sales of such limited to mail-order, to limit the chance
of a little kid seeing them?
>Susan Baker, wife of Treaury Secretary James Baker, discovered her
>seven-year-old daughter's sex education "was beginning at an early
>age, via her bedside radio" - so this mother took action. Together with
>Pam Howar, Sally Nevius and Tipper Gore, wife of Sen. Albert Gore, Jr.
>(D., Tenn.), she started Parent's Music Resource Center (PMRC).
I know how we all feel about THESE people ... and due to rules I
help set up for the conference I will refrain from expressing
these feelings. 8^)
>But, as
>Jennifer Norwood, executive director of PMRC, puts it, "As violence
>goes down, explicit and pornographic sex seems to increase, and often
>the violence remains."
I've noticed that ... ever stay home during the week and watch the
afternoon soaps?
> PMRC also suggests a media watch. Monitor your local radio and TV
>broadcasts and, if offensive material is aired, write down the
>objectionable words and scenes, name and date of the program, and its
>commecial sponsors. The fire off a letter of protest to the local
>station manager and the program's sponsors. Send a tape to the Federal
>Communications Commission (FCC) and a transcript to the RIAA and your
>elected state and national representatives.
I don't believe this ... what kind of garbage is this? There is
a good chance that you can guess what kind of material is gonna
appear in a show by the title/description. A show like 'Teenage
Nude Beach Blanket Bingo' will probably contain some objectionable
material, even if edited for TV.
>The federal government has strict laws aginst mailing,
>interstate transporting and importing of obscene materials, and a
>broadcast law prohibiting obscene and indecent programming.
Hmmm ... then how do some people get Playboy and other sex-mags
through the mail? Are they smuggled in crates marked 'Bozo the
Clown Coloring Books'?
>If your state does not have sucha law, ask your legislator to propose one.
Hello, Mr. Legislator? Please ban the sale of all obscene public-
ations and rock music albums in Massachusetts ... they're affect-
ing my weak mind and therefore qualify as too much of a temptat-
ion for me. Thank you.
>So in 1985 parents
>persuaded the city council to design a first-of-its-kind ordinnce
>requring parents or legal guardians to accompany children under 14
>to concerts featuring material deemed obscene to children.
Now this is a joke ... either the kids won't be able to go because
the parents refuse to sit/stand through 2 hours of Metal, or the
parents are so upset about the material/noise level that they won't
ever bring them again.
There are ways around it ... an understanding parent can tow along
15 kids or so, whether they're his/hers or not.
> The impact of the ordinance, says Bobbie Meuller, head of Community
>Families in Action, has been significant. Attendance by preteens has
>dropped substantially and performances are more restrained.
When was the last time you went to a concert where security had to
break up a rumble caused by 10-year olds? The big problem is the
teens (15-19 or so) who go to concerts stoned/drunk/etc. They get
into fights about the bands or their girls, and that's what starts
the trouble.
> Even the so-called '60s generation - which gave rock music its
>biggest push - favors more control. According to a recent poll in
>Rolling Stone magazine, 48 percent of that age group - most of them
>parents themselves - sees today's rock music as a "bad influence" on
>young people. They support a rating system for records similiar to
>one for movies. "In many ways what's happening in music today is
>very corrupting", say rock superstar Bruce Springsteen. "Let's help
>our children toss out the garbage."
And you know why the parents see it as a bad influence? Because
they listened to it as kids, and tripped on acid while Iron But-
terfly cranked on the turntable. They're afraid that the same
thing will happen to their kids (love-ins, etc.).
And Bruce speaks out ... what does he know about rock music, or
even music for that matter?
To sum all this up, I think that parents and other 'concerned
citizens' should keep their noses out of the young peoples'
lives. We/they can make our own decisions about what we wanna
listen to. We also (should) have the sense to realize what's
reality and fiction, meaning not listening to lyrics like they
were The Constitution.
Rock music is meant to be enjoyable, not 'word'.
Shawn GTI
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131.21 | Maybe some were wrong, but... | CSC32::G_HOUSE | Greg House - CSC/CS | Thu Jun 30 1988 19:12 | 8 |
| Incidently, while some of the other quotes in the article were wrong,
the one from Venom was correct. I saw the album in a record store last
night. That particular excerpt was printed on the back cover. The
front cover was black with a huge pentagram complete with the symbols
in each quadrant and the writing. Everything about this record looked
evil. Gave me the creeps.
gh
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131.22 | Wasn't the newest tape. | PAR5::C_DENOPOULOS | | Fri Jul 01 1988 07:59 | 5 |
| re .17 I know it's not the newest tape. I'll have to listen to
it again and find out what song it is. My daughter just bought
the newest tape. I haven't listened to it yet.
Chris D.
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131.23 | Off our backs!! | FSLENG::CAMUSO | Event Horizon | Fri Jul 01 1988 08:27 | 16 |
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RE .20
Right! When are we gonna get these goody-two-shoes creeps off our
backs??!! Their never-ending, busy-body hypocrisy is a public
nuisance. We're all big boys and girls now, responsible for all
our own actions and reactions.
As for our young, we're responsible for developing in them a sense
of humor and discretion, so, when they're all grown-up, they too
can be responsible for their own actions and reactions. Porn-baiters
and rock-haters can just watch or listen to something else. That's
their choice. Leave us ours.
- Tony -
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131.24 | A young one speaks | REPAIR::EDWARDS | WARNING-lawnmower on the loose | Tue Jul 12 1988 08:31 | 20 |
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I'd like to confess that I listen to a lot of bands that use
obsenities, references to the devil, and the like. While the music
in the main is very good, the lyrical content does sometimes get
a bit sick. I play the music real loud, but when my parents are
home the offending albums go straight back in their sleeves. My
parents don't particularily like me listening to this sort of lyric
and I'm glad that they could talk to me about it and asked me not
to play it when they're around.
From listening to these type of album I can safely say that
the Heavier the music gets, the worse the lyrics get. It's a bit
like the macho feeling you get from firing a gun, once you've fired
you want to fire again, you feel powerful. The heavier the music,
the greater the aggression.
Down with the devil, but let the music live,
MoshDuck.
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131.25 | Words of wisdom from "Papa Scary" | RAVEN1::JERRYWHITE | Rebel without a pause ... | Tue Jul 12 1988 08:49 | 18 |
| RE: .24
I with ya MoshDuck !! My son, who's 12 is just now really getting
into metal and it does concern me what the lyrics have to say.
So far he's into AC/DC, Anthrax, and Metallica, and that's OK to
me but certain albums shouldn't be played along with certain moods.
Operation Mindcrime by Queensryche played over the headphones with
candles burning and me in a bad mood already makes Scary wanna run
a bus full of handicapped kids off the road (in the rain). I worry
about that kind of thing because who knows what will trigger these
*strange* feelings. Jethro Tull has the same effect, I guess it's
the intensity more than the lyrics but they play their part too.
Parents ... teach your children well !!!
Mr Scary II
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131.26 | pop doesn't like Metallica | OTIS::MINARDI | | Tue Jul 12 1988 09:14 | 12 |
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>Down with the devil, but let the music live
Amen MoshDuck.
I cut the music when Mom and Dad come around also, because the music
to them sounds like chainsaws and jackhammers.
/Motorbreath...I bet Mr. Scary Jr. doesn't mess with dad when he's
in "that" mood.
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131.27 | I remember when I was your age(child falls asleep) | RAVEN1::JERRYWHITE | Rebel without a pause ... | Tue Jul 12 1988 09:25 | 10 |
| I made up my mind a LONG time ago that my kid wouldn't have to go
through the same ^%$# I did about my music. Then it was Sabbath,
Deep Purple, Kiss, and Nugent. Times are tougher for kids now with
AIDS, gangs, and Debbie Gibson, and the music is a reflection of
the times. Parents just have to be more in tune with their kids,
which takes time. And that's the thing most of us have the least
of.
Mr Scary II
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131.28 | Iron Maiden, Jesus Saves ! | SAMURI::COOPER | Bag it, Mr. Boo-Boo! | Tue Jul 12 1988 10:38 | 6 |
| Gangs in Greenville ?!?!?!?!?!?!
Whoa... I bet Iron Maiden would go over real good at that Jesus
Saves Revival on Heywood Rd., eh Jerry ?
jc
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131.29 | Can I have an AMEN ??? | RAVEN1::JERRYWHITE | Rebel without a pause ... | Tue Jul 12 1988 11:23 | 6 |
| Hey, they got the PA for it .... probably 24 ch/stereo tri-amped.
"Ahh say brother mixer, could I have a bit more delay ? I say
BROTHERS, Put your hands in the back of these amps and FEEL the power!"
Mr Scary II
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131.30 | Some people never learn | RICKS::UPHAM | | Thu Jul 21 1988 09:22 | 9 |
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On CNN last night they said the California State court of Appeals
has upheld the decision that Ozzy Osbourne did NOT have anything
to do with the boys suicide who was listening to Suicide Solution.
It is now on its way to the California Supreme Court. When will
these people get a clue and stop wasting time and money.
/Bill
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131.31 | Dave Barry on rock lyrics [thanks to Alan/Tigga] | BUSY::SLABOUNTY | HereComesTrouble&ItLooksLikeFun | Mon Apr 27 1992 18:41 | 9 |
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April 27th
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One thing you have probably wondered about for many years is why musicians
who sing rock'n'roll tend to be extremely thin, if not actually dead, whereas
those who sing, say, opera, tend to be humongous wads of cellulite. The
reason for this phenomenon, scientists now believe, is that fat cells are
actually destroyed by stupid lyrics.
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131.32 | | METALX::SWANSON | TheyAreAllMissingOnWhatLifesAbout | Tue Apr 28 1992 10:26 | 2 |
| But that doesn't explain why guitarists are usually thin too... 8*)
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131.33 | ? | WMOIS::MAZURKA | Son of the Dawn | Tue Apr 28 1992 10:35 | 4 |
| I suppose havin long_hair causes brain_cells to be yanked out of
yer head because of the weight of the hair pullin on them.
Crazy_Dr._Al
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131.34 | | CAVLRY::BUCK | Aunty Emme ... It's a TWISTER! | Tue Apr 28 1992 10:36 | 11 |
| >One thing you have probably wondered about for many years is why musicians
>who sing rock'n'roll tend to be extremely thin, if not actually dead, whereas
>those who sing, say, opera, tend to be humongous wads of cellulite. The
>reason for this phenomenon, scientists now believe, is that fat cells are
>actually destroyed by stupid lyrics.
Hmmmm ... wonder what genre that would put me in comfortably?!
8^)
Buck, who has been 6'2", 190# since the 8th grade!
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131.35 | :^) | ARRODS::OHAGANB | Cheap essential dialogue | Tue Apr 28 1992 10:44 | 9 |
| >is that fat cells are actually destroyed by stupid lyrics.
Luther Vandross is living evidence to the contrary.........
......if we can expand the theory to R&B that is.
barry.
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131.37 | I agree! | COMET::FRISBYA | I'll be in your hearts forevermore | Tue Apr 28 1992 14:06 | 7 |
| Hmmm......That's why I'm so skinny! 8)
I write whatever is in my head and sometimes it's the damn
stupidest thing I've ever heard the next day!
Frizkid
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131.38 | | GOES11::G_HOUSE | The rack is a torture device, right? | Tue Apr 28 1992 14:16 | 3 |
| ...and sometimes it's the stupidest thing you've heard *that* day!
Yaha!
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131.39 | I hate dry spells! | COMET::FRISBYA | I'll be in your hearts forevermore | Tue Apr 28 1992 14:56 | 4 |
| That too! The life of a lyric writer is somewhat tedious.
Frizkid
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131.40 | But what does it have to do with lyrics? | GOES11::G_HOUSE | The rack is a torture device, right? | Tue Apr 28 1992 16:12 | 5 |
| > -< I hate dry spells! >-
Me too! Use KY...
gh
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131.41 | It you want wet...Do it the old fashion way. Earn it! | COMET::FRISBYA | I'll be in your hearts forevermore | Tue Apr 28 1992 16:20 | 4 |
| Greg: You're slaying me today!
Frizkid
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131.42 | and Ice Cream ? | NEWOA::DALLISON | Kiss my axe | Thu Apr 30 1992 06:20 | 1 |
| Agagagaga!!
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131.43 | Beat the dead horse! | COMET::FRISBYA | I'll be in your hearts forevermore | Thu Apr 30 1992 10:23 | 5 |
| Hey...How about B.T.O.? Their lryics were rather stupid and they're
still fat?
Frizkid
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131.44 | | CADSYS::SIMSNS::FENNELL | Hard to bargle nawdle zouss?? | Thu Apr 30 1992 10:48 | 3 |
| Bachman Turner Overweight?
Tim
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131.45 | It was a sight to see. | COMET::FRISBYA | I'll be in your hearts forevermore | Thu Apr 30 1992 10:59 | 5 |
| Yea...That's the group! I saw them with Van Halen back a few years.
totally hilarious. Leslie West even joined them.
Frizkid
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