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972.1 | | SCARY::M_DAVIS | Marge Davis Hallyburton | Tue Nov 21 1989 15:58 | 9 |
| We're not having a Christmas party; we're having a holiday gettogether
at a local restaurant. Each person may bring a guest, and the costs
are borne by the individual.
In view of Digital's Valuing Differences policy, I think it's important
that we consider non-Christians during the holidays, don't you?
regards,
Marge
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972.2 | "Holiday Season" | DELREY::WEYER_JI | | Tue Nov 21 1989 17:46 | 4 |
| I agree with .1 as to valuing differences - let's consider this
time of year as celebrating the "Holiday Season".
Looking forward to more replies.
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972.3 | | POLAR::POND | | Tue Nov 21 1989 20:53 | 7 |
| At our plant, our 'Social committee' is planning a 'holiday
get-together'. Funds are being raised through lotteries, etc.,
with a donation from our (Canadian) VP of Manufacturing.
The get-together consists of dinner and dancing at a local
country club on Dec 21st. There is a $25/couple fee.
Jim
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972.4 | Merry Christmas to all... | CGOA01::DTHOMPSON | Don, of Don's ACT | Tue Nov 21 1989 20:56 | 21 |
| Re: .1 & .2
Valuing differences also means my holiday is valued. If not for
its significance to you, at least for its importance to me. My
being in the majority should not be cause for the denigration of
my beliefs through watered-down names.
I hope you have a Merry Christmas, and some of the benefits I believe
derive from the basis for that holiday accrue to you regardless
of your personal faith or lack of it.
By the same token and in the same spirit I would rather be wished
Happy Chanukah by those who observe it rather than ask them to adjust
their customs in public because they differ from mine.
Most of the world's major religions have wonderful heritages of
which adherents can be justly proud. There is no shame or slander
in a wish of good will.
Don
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972.5 | | BOLT::MINOW | Pere Ubu is coming soon, are you ready? | Tue Nov 21 1989 22:54 | 7 |
| Unfortunately for those who wish to celebrate the "holiday season" with
their Jewish collegues, Chanukkah is pretty minor as holidays go. The
most important Jewish holidays seem always to conflict with a major
Dec function, such as DecWorld. (And accompanied by an apology that
this will never happen again until next year.)
Martin.
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972.6 | | JUPITR::BUSWELL | We're all temporary | Wed Nov 22 1989 08:03 | 6 |
| Ok to .4 you got to love it.
buz
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972.7 | | THEPIC::AINSLEY | Less than 150 kts. is TOO slow! | Wed Nov 22 1989 08:20 | 4 |
| I just ignore the whole thing. I hate big parties. I'd much rather get
together with 2 or 4 of my friends on my own.
Bob
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972.8 | Our EAC is GREAT! | ARCHER::LAWRENCE | | Wed Nov 22 1989 08:45 | 17 |
| Here at DDD (Nashua) we adopt a local nursing home. Names of patients/guests
along with a few of their 'wishes' are distributed to those of us who want
to adopt. We then buy and wrap the presents which are taken to the rest
home amidst party surroundings.
We are, this year, also having a toys for tots drive.
Collecting food for those who are in need is also one of my favorites.
These activities go far towards instilling (in me) the REAL spirit of the
holidays. I love them and am grateful to our EAC for all the work they've
done in lining up recipients, etc.
Like one of the previous replies, I'm not a heavy 'party' person, so prefer
the excuse to go shopping. (My favorite sport!)
Betty
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972.9 | Holiday washout... | NEWVAX::PAVLICEK | Zot, the Ethical Hacker | Wed Nov 22 1989 10:04 | 16 |
| Like .8, our District is also sponsoring a Toy Drive.
I received the notice of our "holiday party" one day before the RSVP
date (and I tend to be one of the _better_ informed people in our
delivery units). It is going to be some type of cross-functional party
in downtown Washington DC at a restaurant. I have seen absolutely
nothing about cost, but rumor has it that it will run $16 per person
($32 per couple). Personally, I don't need to shell out that sort of
money (plus several dollars parking, plus childcare...) just before the
holidays to go into downtown DC (where I don't like to go anyway) to
be with a group of people who will probably drink too much and act like
fools (and I'm not talking about the people I work with, either).
Thanks, but no thanks. Give me a turkey/food voucher/whatever any day.
-- Russ
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972.10 | IMHO | LESCOM::KALLIS | Time takes things. | Wed Nov 22 1989 11:54 | 21 |
| Re "holidays":
This comes on as a bugaboo. "New Years" is RomanoPagan/Christian, with
January the first month of the Romans (with its sponsoring god,
Janus, with his two faces looking both fore and aft, seeing the
year that's just been as well as the year to come). Other religions'
years start at different times: Rosh Hashana, the Jewish New Year,
is celebrated in late September or early October (based on a lunar
calendar, the date varies); the Druidic Samhain is on the 31st of
October; and the ancient Egyptians started their New Years in mid
July. However, the religious component has been squeezed out of
New Years, and it has become purely secular.
Christmas, as it's practiced now, is nearly as secular, and is
secularly celebrated by many who are not Christian. [I could go
on for some time about the outside-Christian traditions in Christmas,
including the Yule Log, the Christmas Tree, and mistletoe, but that's
the province of another conference or two.] So, it's not devaluing
differences if we choose to have a "Christmas party," in my opinion.
Steve Kallis, Jr.
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972.11 | whats an EAC? | WFOV11::KULIG | | Wed Nov 22 1989 13:53 | 3 |
| re: .0
What is an "E A C " ?
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972.12 | | SMOOT::ROTH | Opens Friday:'Who Framed Veronica Vax?' | Wed Nov 22 1989 14:29 | 1 |
| Employee Activity Committe
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972.13 | | STRATA::GAUTHIER | Stop and Think | Wed Nov 22 1989 16:09 | 25 |
| We take 2-3 hours on a day (TBD) the week before Christmas and all
bring in a special dish of our own for the group to eat. Kind of
like a Smorgeshboard (99% probability that it's spelled wrong).
This is a group and not a site activity. The site has nothing
specific planned (at least to my knowlege).
Does this kind of thing detract from work? Sure, I suppose it does
but responding to Notes does too and getting a cup of coffee and
going to the bathroom and.... just think of it as planned for
on-site vacation time. I'm sure the upper management is aware of
this sort of thing and plan for decreased productivity at this time.
As to some of the other responses, I tink it might help to think
of Christmas as an American holiday as well as a Religious one.
I mean if you carry the ACLU approach to the limit, we wouldn't celebrate
anything at all. As they say... "When in Rome...". If the notion
of Christmas and Christianity feels uncomfortable, call it the American
Winter Holiday of Good Cheer or something but don't spoil it for
the rest, that won't serve anyone. If you can't find any reason
to feel good, then too bad, you're outnumbered and the majority
gets it's way in the good ole USA :-)
Merry Christmas
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972.14 | we don't get "CHRISTMAS" off! | WR2FOR::BOUCHARD_KE | Ken Bouchard WRO3-2/T7 | Wed Nov 22 1989 16:39 | 2 |
| I agree comrades,lets get rid of this "Christmas" stuff and get
with the XMAS thing or even the "Holidays".
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972.15 | | DELREY::WEYER_JI | | Wed Nov 22 1989 17:36 | 13 |
| I'm sure upper management does realize that the individual contributors
are distracted during "The Holidays" and the benefits of group get-
togethers (promoting teamwork, breaking down barriers, etc.) outweigh
the time it takes away from the work day. These gatherings could
actually increase productivity in the long run. One thing to consider:
Is anyone even in the building during this time of year? Most
people take vacation and those that don't must be leaving before
5pm because it sure is deserted in here in the afternoons. Our
site luncheon is the 19th - I sure hope we have more than just a
handful of people here to participate.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING & MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!
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972.16 | Enjoy, endure, or overcome ... as the case may be | STAR::ROBERT | | Thu Nov 23 1989 08:46 | 40 |
| Just a note from one employee who understands and very much sympathesizes
with those who are bothered in one way or another by the common use of
the term "Christ's Mass" or Christmas.
Since I've a Christian upbringing it is, perhaps, a little easier for
me to object without acquiring some negative image of whining, or spoilsport,
or scrooge, or mean-spirited.
The general argument runs in two usual flavors:
Everyone does it ... it's *really* a secular holiday, c'mon,
stop sending negative vibes
[or]
It's a time of good spirit and good wishes; we mean only
good things ... why can't *you* accept that?
Well, if we really mean good wishes then perhaps we can go the extra
mile and walk in another's shoes. If someone finds the "common practice"
to be, in some way offensive, and if there is a moderately large number
of such people (we aren't talking one odd wheel here), then perhaps
that should give us pause --- after all you really have to see it from
another side to understand.
I can think of no time of the year when it is better to take the time
to understand that a particular custom, culture, or religion is not
shared in exactly the same way by all people. (In this case it is
not shared by the majority of humans).
For me the "Christmas spirit" *explicitly* suggests understanding
that for others it is the "Holiday Spirit" and respecting that; and
that for others it is a time of sadness, and understanding that as
well, without burdening them with an expectation to set aside any
trouble or belief and "join up with the majority party [pun intended]".
I can hardly cast stones here; I certainly used to do it myself.
I no longer do.
- greg
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972.17 | | YUPPY::DJACKSON | Diane Jackson @HHL | Thu Nov 23 1989 08:55 | 7 |
| Since when was Christmas an `American' holiday?? We have Christmas
here in England too you know. And I bet the other European countries
wouldn't like to be missed out!
Let's try to think further than our own small borders!
Its a little early yet but - Happy Christmas EVERYBODY!
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972.18 | | ULTRA::WITTENBERG | Secure Systems for Insecure People | Thu Nov 23 1989 10:29 | 20 |
| RE: .13
I don't see why thinking os Christmas as American as well as
Christian should make it any more palatable. First off, that's
wrong, as Christmas is celebrated in many other countries. (The
only purely American holiday I can think of is the 4th of July,
and even then, the British might be glad of getting rid of some
revolting colonies.) Secondly, Christmas is primarily a religious
holiday. Thus those of us who do not see Christ as part of our
religion will feel left out.
I am not made uncomfortable by the idea of Christmas and
Christianity, in fact, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas, but
I don't want to be involved. Your comment about the majority
getting it's way in the U.S. ignores the history and constitution
of the U.S. Many of the early colonists came to escape religious
prosecution, and the constitution explicitly protects against the
establishment of a state religion.
--David
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972.19 | things aren't about to change.. | STAR::MFOLEY | Rebel without a Clue | Thu Nov 23 1989 11:11 | 6 |
|
What has this got to do with working at DIGITAL? I think I lost
the point a few replies back...
mike
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972.20 | | STAR::ROBERT | | Thu Nov 23 1989 11:18 | 5 |
| re: .19
Respect for fellow employees?
- greg
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972.21 | | HOCUS::RICCIARDI | Mark Ricciardi New York Financial | Thu Nov 23 1989 23:03 | 5 |
| Is Thanksgiving American? (Someone said only 4th of July)
If Christmas is objectionable to some, then some can ignore it.
Go to work. My kids love it, me to. Should we all think about
it more?
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972.22 | | SCARY::M_DAVIS | Marge Davis Hallyburton | Fri Nov 24 1989 11:10 | 11 |
| re: several.
My point in objecting to the default name "Christmas party" is that it
is not inclusive of many DECies who celebrate other holidays this time
of year. A simple change from Christmas party to "holday party" or
"holiday get-together" is more inclusive and rather painless. Any
company party should support Valuing Differences, a Digital policy.
IMHO,
Marge
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972.23 | How about after Christmas Party? | BALMER::MUDGETT | did you say FREE food? | Sat Nov 25 1989 14:39 | 15 |
| In the past 5 years I've worked for 2 different cost centers. The
first one (Washington DC) had terrific activities and Christmas
was the best with dinner and dancing at a local resturant. I
transferred up the road 40 miles to Baltimore and I was amazed at
the difference! I was invited to DC's Christmas party which I turned
down because I felt that I should be involved with my new unit etc.
What a mistake! This cost center's manager of a Christmas party
was a pot luck dinner with the branch suppling the table. I guess
I had been spoiled.
Last year we got a new District Manager and he had an after Christmas
party...on like Jan.20, it was great! No crowds and it happened
during a boring time of the year.
Fred Mudgett
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972.24 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sun Nov 26 1989 16:02 | 8 |
| > Is Thanksgiving American? (Someone said only 4th of July)
I was in Tokyo this Thursday, where "Labor Thanksgiving Day" was being
celebrated.
Canada has a "Thanksgiving" holiday, celebrated in early October.
/john
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972.25 | | LESLIE::LESLIE | Andy ��� Leslie | Mon Nov 27 1989 04:28 | 3 |
| In the UK we tend to give thanks that the US is no longer a colony.
:-)
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972.26 | valuing differences, yes, but .... | LESCOM::KALLIS | Time takes things. | Mon Nov 27 1989 08:27 | 27 |
| Re .25 (Andy):
>In the UK we tend to give thanks that the US is no longer a colony.
>
>:-)
Interesting; so do lots of us Yanks. :-D
Seriously, this has strayed from a point being asked. And the answer's
not easy. Christmas, in many countries, is a legal as well as a
religious holiday. Let's take a purely U.S. legal/nonreligious
holiday to make a point: Labor Day. Suppose someone wanted to throw
a party that day. Logic would dictate that it'd be called a Labor
Day party. From a legalistic standpoint, Christmas is a holiday
for all, therefore, by the same logic, a Christmas Party is not
a religious event ....
Does that tread on toes? I don't know.
One alternative would be to call it a "Yuletide" party. The Yule
celebration is Pagan in origin, yet it's also a synonym to "Christmas"
to many; this would cause minimum impact. Of course, we could always
call it a "Winter Solstice" party, for the purists ....
Are things _this_ bad?
Steve Kallis, Jr.
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972.27 | Xmas was illegal in the U.S. | SERENA::DONM | | Mon Nov 27 1989 08:58 | 8 |
| Interestingly enough, it was actually _illegal_ to celebrate Christmas
in a number of the existing states as late as the end of the 18th
century. Even after it was legal to do so, most New England states
(Massachusetts included) did not celebrate Christmas until the middle
of the 19th century. Christmas was considered by the Puritans and
New England Protestants to be a repressive holy day, and in fact
was a regular work day as late as the 1830s (except when it fell
on a Sunday, of course).
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972.28 | "What's in a name?" | STAR::ROBERT | | Mon Nov 27 1989 09:07 | 31 |
| re: .26
I don't think it is a matter of logic nor legalities nor are things
_this_ bad. It's rather simple really.
- The word "Christmas" is so secularized and so pervasive
in some countries that we simply forget it is fundamentally
a deeply relgious word.
- The "holiday spirit" is one of good will, but sometimes
we feel that others confuse the contents of the package
with the wrapping --- while others might remind us that the
wrapping is the first and most visible aspect seen.
It doesn't seem much different to me than the sensitization that
has occurred with other words that carry connotations that are
offensive, or at least annoying to some; gender specific pronouns
and titles, various euphanisms for skin color. Protesting the use
of these is often dismissed as trivial nitpicking when they indeed
carry subconscious reinforcement of cultural specifics.
Is it so difficult within the spirit of the season to remember that
some find a particular labelling of that spirit to be exclusionary
or proprietary?
- greg
ps: if it's not obvious I tend to take the "separation of church
and state" quite literally, and believe that in most cases it
should carry over into the world of business. But I also
enthusiastically support "good tidings for all".
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972.29 | Merchant's day | CIVIC::FERRIGNO | | Mon Nov 27 1989 13:24 | 7 |
| re: 972.27
Sounds like Christmas as something for merchants to lick their chops
over came about around the same time as the industrial revolution.
In America, the buying frenzy is unbelievable. The idea of referring
to it as a religious holiday is silly -- it's simply a retailers'
holiday.
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972.30 | I like 'Yuletide' | MLTVAX::SAVAGE | Neil @ Spit Brook | Mon Nov 27 1989 13:29 | 7 |
| I rather like the idea of replacing 'Christmas' with 'Yuletide'
Scandinavians refer to the celebration as 'Jul' and this
company is run by a man named 'Olson' :-)
Question is, can we get Employee Activities (or someone else in
authority) to change company usage? This is undoubtedly the wrong
notesfile to do so.
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972.31 | Let Christmas stay Christmas | SMOOT::ROTH | Opens Friday:'Who Framed Veronica Vax?' | Mon Nov 27 1989 15:30 | 14 |
| Re:< Note 972.30 by MLTVAX::SAVAGE "Neil @ Spit Brook" >
> Question is, can we get Employee Activities (or someone else in
> authority) to change company usage? This is undoubtedly the wrong
> notesfile to do so.
As far as I'm concerned, any notesfile is the wrong notesfile to do so-
Let's leave the name of the holiday alone!
Shakespeare wrote a play whose title springs to mind...
"Much ado about nothing".
Lee
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972.32 | | SCARY::M_DAVIS | Marge Davis Hallyburton | Mon Nov 27 1989 15:46 | 8 |
| The issue is not renaming the holiday, Lee. The issue is in having
company-authorized parties around the holiday, which everyone
acknowledges has religious overtones for many who celebrate it. I
still prefer Holiday Party or Holiday Gettogether to Yuletide or
Christmas. It's more inclusive. Greg said it best.
Marge
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972.33 | | TRCU11::FINNEY | Keep cool, but do not freeze | Mon Nov 27 1989 20:36 | 19 |
| I said it elsewhere, and I'll say it here - the word "Christmas" in
*general* usage, has almost as little to do with its religious roots,
these days, as the word "holiday" does.
If you insist that a corporate
change is in order, I insist that you can't say "holiday". Say
"Yuletide vacation" or (in case "vacation" has religious roots, and
since "Yuletide" has pagan roots) "December Free Time".
Leave the holidays alone. Corporately.
If Christmas, then is Easter next ?
In the U.S. you have time off for the Fourth of July celebrations.
Should we in foreign countries insist that you NOT use Independence Day
to designate that holiday, corporately ? (ie. No Independence Day
parties, if they were to exist.)
Scooter
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972.34 | | DEC25::BRUNO | It will HURT if I swallow! | Mon Nov 27 1989 21:36 | 9 |
| I have to agree there. We had several groups who had Halloween
parties here in Colorado Springs. The holiday has some truly pagan
roots. There were churches in town who were campaigning against
celebration of the pseudo-holiday. However, most people don't
celebrate Halloween the way its ancient roots determined. So, why
irritate a large group of people for a reason which has such an
infinitesimal offense capability?
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972.35 | | LESLIE::LESLIE | Andy ��� Leslie VMS/CSSE Newbury | Tue Nov 28 1989 05:45 | 8 |
| Using the nonclemature "holiday" - originating as a Holy day - is
offensive to all devil worshippers. In the name of valuing differences
the phrase "free time" must be used instead.
Ooops. "free time" is offensive to all tyrants.
__________
Good grief.
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972.36 | Shinto/Buddhist Japanese wish each other "Marui Christmas" | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 28 1989 06:29 | 5 |
| >If Christmas, then is Easter next?
No problem. The U.S. has no Easter holidays.
/john
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972.37 | | WMOIS::FULTI | | Tue Nov 28 1989 09:10 | 12 |
| I can't believe this discussion, what a giant waste of time!
How many christians would be really upset if a DECie who was of the
Jewish faith wished them a happy hunakkah? or invited them to a Hunnakkah
party (if there is such a thing)?
Are there any non-christians out there who are upset with the term
"Christmas party"?
I also agree that except for the word Christ, there is very little that is
christian about christmas.
- George
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972.38 | No matter what you do, someone will be offended | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Tue Nov 28 1989 10:27 | 13 |
| I know Christians who don't like office "Christmas parties."
These people believe that Christmas parties should be celebrated during
Christmas, rather than during Advent.
According to the Christian calendar, Christmas begins with the First Day of
Christmas, the 25th of December, and continues until the Twelfth day of
Christmas, the 5th of January. (Remember the song?).
For these people, Advent, the four week period leading up to Christmas, is a
season for preparing oneself for Christmas, not a time for Christmas parties.
/john
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972.39 | Put the Shoe on the Other Foot | SUBWAY::BOWERS | Count Zero Interrupt | Tue Nov 28 1989 12:27 | 9 |
| How would you feel, as a Christian, if the majority of the company's
employees and management were Orthodox Jews and the Company-sponsored
party were a Chanukah Party?
I worked for such a company once. The non-Jewish employees came to
the party, but generally seemed to feel very left out.
Try those feelings on for size and you may understand why some folks
object to a party for all employees being called a Christmas Party.
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972.40 | time to close a rat hole? | CVG::THOMPSON | My friends call me Alfred | Tue Nov 28 1989 12:49 | 8 |
| Is there anything new to add? This topic is starting to go in
circles. Topic 66 in PEAR::SOAPBOX is covering this argument at
great length. Perhaps we can put aside the naming convention
arguments and get back to what the base note is about which is
how different groups celebrate this season and not what they call
it? Thanks.
Alfred
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972.41 | Let's get back on track | NEWPRT::WEYER_JI | | Tue Nov 28 1989 13:01 | 9 |
| Wow! I've never seen a note topic get so far sidetracked. I thought
we would be discussing what each site EAC was doing to celebrate
the holidays, rather than having a religious vs. secular discussion.
Previous replies indicate that some people are not interested in
attending company get-togethers. Are any site EAC's doing something
different such as giving turkeys or food vouchers in lieu of having
a holiday party?
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972.42 | | STAR::ROBERT | | Tue Nov 28 1989 14:37 | 30 |
| What difference does it make whether it is being discussed in SOAPBOX?
The only question would be whether the way in which the holiday season
is treated at DEC is relevant to "The Digital Way of Working". If we
are having "EAC Christmas Parties" then comment upon that would seem
directly relevant to this conference. IF I am incorrect, please explain.
The only circle here is that some people would like to explain how
they have a problem with the term "Christmas" and some others would
like to deny them their feelings. There is absolutely no reason why
they should take any heat for explaining this.
The topic note title contains the word Christmas and expliticly discusses
Christmas parites, and asks what we are doing about/for/with them; it
is quite direct and relevant for employees to explain that the term
"Christmas Party" is troublesome for them.
I can think of no good reason to insist on the use of the religion
derived term when perfectly good, well established alternatives exist.
This isn't even a new idea --- the concept of replacing "Christmas"
terms with "Holiday" is quite old.
re: whichever --- "Holiday" <-- "holy day"
Aha! I didn't know that. But I'm willing to argue that that term
is completely seculuarized (when people mean Holy Day they say that,
not holiday), while the term Christmas remains religious for a significant
subset of employees (both Christian and non-Christian including atheist).
I think you raised it humoursly though and I enjoyed the edification.
- greg
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972.43 | so what's your group doing this generic winter holiday? | CVG::THOMPSON | My friends call me Alfred | Tue Nov 28 1989 14:59 | 4 |
| Title changed to avoid offending those offended by religious
holidays.
Alfred
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972.44 | too much | DEC25::BRUNO | It will HURT if I swallow! | Tue Nov 28 1989 15:35 | 1 |
| Nyuk, nyuk, nyuk!!
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972.45 | | WMOIS::FULTI | | Tue Nov 28 1989 15:38 | 16 |
| Greg;
I contend that if we referred to these parties as "Holiday parties" or
"yuletide parties" or anyother name that didnt use "Christmas", there
would be those who would be offended by the lack of the name "Christ".
They would be advocating the return of "Christ" to "Christmas".
My point is, whats in a name? are we not "Christian", "Adult", "Caring",
"Liberal", "Loving", etc, etc, enough to accept the term "Christmas party"
as meaning "holiday party" and not get upset at the timing of it.
I believe that ALL religions teach tolerance of others and that this issue
is for those religous people amoung us to show their love for human kind.
If we are going to be offended so easily then we are going to be one
miserable bunch of people our whole life.
- George
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972.46 | | COMET::MESSAGE | Harder'n Chinese Algebra | Tue Nov 28 1989 15:47 | 9 |
| "What's in a name?"....Quite a bit, apparently.
Also, you have to remember that there's ALWAYS someone lurking
around with a chip on the shoulder, just waiting for the opportunity
to "defend my belief".........whether it needs defending or not!
So have a wonderful December!
Bill
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972.47 | | LESLIE::LESLIE | Andy ��� Leslie VMS/CSSE Newbury | Tue Nov 28 1989 15:49 | 9 |
| In all seriousness, there seems to be a need for some personal growth
here.
My tolerating the views of others is fine.
Insisting that the the nonclemature of holidays persued by others doesn't
offend me merely demonstrates that I have a problem, not them.
- Andy ��� Leslie
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972.48 | private vs. public | ULTRA::WITTENBERG | Secure Systems for Insecure People | Tue Nov 28 1989 16:48 | 15 |
| > Insisting that the the nonclemature of holidays persued by others doesn't
> offend me merely demonstrates that I have a problem, not them.
I don't care what holidays you persue personally, and have been
known to accept invitations to (private) Christmas parties. What I
(and I think others) object to is a company that stresses "Valuing
Differences" to sponsor an event with strong significance to one
religion without doing the same for all religions. Since there are
many religions, it seems simpler to have no religion-specific
events.
Winter holiday or New Years parties seem to me to be sufficently
secular as to not be a problem.
--David
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972.49 | back on the track | SMOOT::ROTH | Opens Friday:'Who Framed Veronica Vax?' | Tue Nov 28 1989 17:44 | 17 |
|
3 cheers for my local office EAC.
This year they did it right... Employees choose either a turkey/ham
coupon or a party. Those that select party get the funds that are left
after purchasing the turkey/ham for those that choose turkey/ham. Thus,
if you fail to choose your $$ goes towards the party.
In the past, if the EAC decided to do a party then *all* $$$ went to the
party. If you were unable to attend or chose not to then those that
attended the party got great deal.
The new method is the most fair to all. In the past a number of employees
wished to donate any gifts from digital to local food pantries but were
unable because the EAC had decided a party was best for all.
Lee
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972.50 | I know it's just a measly turkey but... | PH4VAX::SCHNAUFFER | Big BILL | Wed Nov 29 1989 13:09 | 11 |
| Re: .49
Hey Lee, will you GRANT PERMISSION to REPRINT your note?? I've been
waiting 15 years for my Holiday Turkey!! Each year it's the same
story...they say its "IMPOSSIBLE". Supposedly the money ($x/employee)
is to be used only for a PARTY (which a small percentage of the
employees ever attend). I'd sure like to say..."see someone else is
getting turkeys". So can I show them your note?? Can I? Can I?
Bill...(maybe this year I'll get a Holiday gift from my employer of
15 years)
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972.51 | Donating toys and turkeys | MLTVAX::SAVAGE | Neil @ Spit Brook | Wed Nov 29 1989 14:03 | 13 |
| In the Greater Maynard/Southern NH area we just get the turkeys; the
choice is whether to take it home, or donate it to the needy by writing
"CHARITY" on the voucher (known locally as a "turkey card") and putting
it in an appropriately marked box.
We also traditionally have a drive called, "Toys for Tots" that may
also be administered through the EAC (don't now for sure).
Somewhere around the beginning of December. a box is placed in the
lobby of the facility so that employees can donate new or used toys (in
good condition) for needy children. I don't know how the toys are
distributed, it just comes and goes before that traditional, "C"-word,
winter holiday.
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972.52 | | SCCAT::BOUCHARD | | Wed Nov 29 1989 17:56 | 5 |
| .51> distributed, it just comes and goes before that traditional, "C"-word,
.51> winter holiday.
For Crissakes can't you say "Christmas"? You're making it sound
like a dirty word.
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972.53 | Are we going a little overboard here? | PAXVAX::SONTAKKE | | Thu Nov 30 1989 09:16 | 8 |
| > For Crissakes can't you say "Christmas"? You're making it sound
^^^^^^^^^
> like a dirty word.
What the "H"-word "Crissakes" mean? My DEC supplied AHD does not have
listing for it.
- Vikas
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972.54 | Go nuts! | SMOOT::ROTH | W -+- | Thu Nov 30 1989 16:52 | 6 |
| Re: .50
Permission for mailing and cross-posting within Digital my note (972.49)
is granted.
Lee Roth
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972.55 | California Holiday Affair | WLDWST::KING | INVEST IN YOURSELF | Fri Dec 01 1989 18:16 | 16 |
| Back to the original question.....
The UCF (Cupertino, CA) site party is this evening at the same place
that it has been every year of our existence (3 years now), the
Fairmont Hotel in San Jose. Employees may bring their spouse or
significant other. Cost is $20 or $40/couple. Includes dinner and
dancing.
Unfortunately, we run a 6-day work week so those people scheduled
to work during the Holiday Affair must either take vacation time
or time without pay to attend.
Seasons's Greetings and Happy Vast Capital Gains Day to all !!
-paul
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972.56 | Were other field holiday plans canceled? | GRANPA::DLEADER | Dave Leader @EJO | Mon Dec 10 1990 12:15 | 23 |
| <<< HUMANE::HUMANE$DUA1:[NOTES$LIBRARY]DIGITAL.NOTE;2 >>>
-< The DEC way of working >-
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Note 1290.7 Turkey Tickets-TFSO People 7 of 7
GRANPA::DLEADER "Dave Leader @EJO" 16 lines 10-DEC-1990 11:42
-< Turkeys ARE being distributed??? >-
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Field offices were budgeted ($15.00 per employee, at one time) for a
holiday 'something' in lieu of the turkeys which New England employees
received. The local facility team determined how to use this money.
Usually a "Holiday Party" was organized, which was usually a weekend
dinner and dance party. Employees usually had to pay a ticket,
Significant Others had to pay as well. This is the first year (I've
been with DEC for 19 years) that there will be no Holiday party. I
received a mail message that it was canceled due to the current
financial position of the company. I know of several other facilities
that also canceled their parties. Deposit fees had to be lost due to
these last minute (early December) cancellations.
I was surprised that turkeys are still planned for New England this
year! Doesn't seem equitable to me.
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972.57 | No party funds here, either | NEWVAX::PAVLICEK | Zot, the Ethical Hacker | Mon Dec 10 1990 14:13 | 12 |
| Our holiday celebration was cancelled the same way. The volunteers
organizing the event put it together only to have it rejected. It was
apparently told to them that a less-pricey affair might make it, so
they redesigned a smaller event for about half the original price.
This too was rejected.
We're having an informal carry-in event this Friday. I don't know if
anything is going to be provided by Digital or not. If Digital will
play a part financially, it certainly won't be very big (apart from the
lost revenue of our billable bodies being idle for a couple of hours).
-- Russ
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972.58 | Official U.S. policy: no company-sponsored parties | NOTIME::SACKS | Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085 | Mon Dec 10 1990 15:31 | 27 |
| According to Live Wire:
As the holiday season approaches, the following schedules and company
policies should be kept in mind for planning purposes:
1) This year, normal work operations will be suspended on:
Monday, December 24, 1990
Tuesday, December 25, 1990
Monday, December 31, 1990
Tuesday, January 1, 1991
2) Both Friday, December 21, and Friday, December 28, will be full
working days.
3) Without proper approval as an exception, the company does not sponsor
holiday parties inside or outside its facilities. Parties at Digital
facilities, outside restaurants, or private homes cannot be sponsored
wholly or in part by the company.
4) Potluck lunches are traditionally held by many departments. These
festivities should be encouraged. Obviously, alcoholic beverages
are not to be served at these events.
"These expectations have been established to insure consistent practices
throughout all organizations," said Dick Farrahar, vice president,
Personnel.
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972.59 | beer or wine? | CSC32::K_BOUCHARD | Ken Bouchard CXO3-2 | Fri Dec 21 1990 15:19 | 7 |
| Just curious. When I read about the "potluck" policy in -1,I had to
wonder: When such a potluck is held in a DEC facility in Europe,is it
OK to serve alcoholic beverages? (ie. beer)
Just wondering,
Ken
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972.60 | | LESLIE::LESLIE | Andy Leslie - *RE02 F/C3, 830 6723* | Sat Dec 22 1990 07:57 | 1 |
| Sure.
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972.61 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sat Dec 22 1990 11:25 | 16 |
| In most of our European subsidiaries (and here is a case where the UK is
different from the rest of Europe) it's OK to have alcoholic beverages
(at least beer and wine) anywhere in the facility at any time.
Most cafeterias sell beer and wine, and in Germany it's available from
vending machines.
Of course, in the U.S., vending machines with alcoholic beverages would not
only be against DEC policy, they would be against the law, since there would
be no way to verify that the purchaser is over 21.
Cigarette vending machines (already banned at DEC facilities) are likely to
become illegal in the U.S. within the next two-to-five years because they,
too, cannot determine the age of the purchaser.
/john
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972.62 | | LESLIE::LESLIE | Andy Leslie - *RE02 F/C3, 830 6723* | Sat Dec 22 1990 15:02 | 4 |
| Cigarette vending machines are NOT banned in DEC facilities. Theres
machines in Newbury and Reading, for two.
- andy
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972.63 | | DEC25::BRUNO | Essen sie auch Chitlin's gern? | Sat Dec 22 1990 15:33 | 3 |
| There are also cigarette machines at CXO.
Greg
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972.64 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Sun Dec 23 1990 15:08 | 11 |
| re .62
The last two paragraphs of .61 were clearly talking about the U.S.
re .63
All cigarette machines were supposed to have been removed from all U.S. DEC
facilities. There are none in New England any more; removed about a year
before the no smoking policy went into effect.
/john
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972.65 | | DEC25::BRUNO | Nuthin' compares 2 U | Wed Jan 02 1991 13:36 | 10 |
| RE: <<< Note 972.64 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
>All cigarette machines were supposed to have been removed from all U.S. DEC
>facilities. There are none in New England any more; removed about a year
>before the no smoking policy went into effect.
Well John, I don't know what was supposed to happen, but I do know
that there is at least one cigarette machine in CXO1.
Greg
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