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886.1 | | LEZAH::BOBBITT | pools of quiet fire | Sat Jun 22 1991 14:54 | 24 |
| Here was one report I got from a Washington newspaper, I think
-- The Supreme Court ruled on Friday that while erotic nude dancing is
a form of expression entitled to a measure of protection under the
First Amendment, states may ban it in the interest of ``protecting
order and morality.'' The 5-4 decision upheld an Indiana public
indecency law as applied to nude performances in a nightclub and adult
bookstore in South Bend. The law requires female performers to wear at
least pasties and a G-string. Three separate opinions supported the
court's holding, with a concurring opinion by Justice Souter providing
a decisive fifth vote.
re: .0
> Some of you have now got what some of you have been crying for --
> The supreme okay for state-imposed censorship. Hope you like it.
> (You know who you are.)
Although I have never "cried for" anything in the area of state-imposed
censorship, I find the above really obnoxious in tone. Are you seeking
a discussion or an argument here?
-Jody
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886.2 | Hmph. | SMURF::SMURF::BINDER | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Sat Jun 22 1991 14:57 | 12 |
| I saw .0 as bitter, not obnoxious. This decision embitters me, too. I
don't particularly care for nude dancing, any more than I slaver over
the Playboys of the world, but I am greatly disheartened to see that
our Supreme Court has eradicated yet another of the freedoms so many
men and women have died to preserve. This is all, in my opinion, done
in the name of our "Christian" morality, a laughable excuse given that
the First Amendment prohibits government interference in religion. But
then it doesn't prohibit religious interference in government, does it?
Grrrrrr.......
-d
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886.3 | Freedom? | RIPPLE::KENNEDY_KA | | Sat Jun 22 1991 16:49 | 9 |
| Good point d! Even though I personally feel that nude dancing, male or
female is just one more way to objectify (is that a word?) the human
body, I feel just as strongly that if someone wants to do it and/or
watch it they should be allowed to. After all our country is based on
personal freedom of choice. In relation to your note d, some of the
religions teach that our bodies are something we should be ashamed of.
This ruling seems to continue to promote that sense of shame.
Karen
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886.4 | | ATLANT::SCHMIDT | Thinking globally, acting locally! | Sat Jun 22 1991 19:23 | 14 |
| -d's got the right tone. Bitter. It's a drum you've heard me beat
before. When you voted for Nixon, Nixon, Reagan, Reagan, or Bush
because you liked any aspect of their politics, you also signed
up for their choice of Supreme Court nominees. And here we are.
But this time, it goes further. It is a specific plank in some
noters' platform that censorship is perfectly okay (although
they only want to see works "they" object to censored). So
we're all going to participate in this grand experiment. And
when they get around to declaring "Our Bodies, Our Selves" an
obscene work, you can remember that you heard it hear early,
although certainly not first.
Atlant
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886.5 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Sat Jun 22 1991 22:13 | 6 |
| The newsbroadcast I listened to pointed out that this decision
could be used to ban stage shows like Hair, or movies like
Dances with Wolves. One would presume it could also be used
to ban naturist activities.
Bonnie
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886.6 | Ehh?? | ATLANT::SCHMIDT | Thinking globally, acting locally! | Sun Jun 23 1991 09:11 | 5 |
| Bonnie:
Are you saying that this decision isn't/can't be "the camel's nose?"
Atlant
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886.7 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Sun Jun 23 1991 10:33 | 5 |
| Atlant,
No I'm saying the reverse, that it is the 'camel's nose'.
Bonnie
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886.8 | | ATLANT::SCHMIDT | Thinking globally, acting locally! | Sun Jun 23 1991 16:39 | 7 |
| Bonnie:
> No I'm saying the reverse, that it is the 'camel's nose'.
Okay, thanks. (That's what I'm saying too! :-) )
Atlant
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886.9 | Go nude in the national parks! | CALS::MALING | Mirthquake! | Sun Jun 23 1991 21:56 | 11 |
| Could it really be used to ban naturist activities? I thought it was
for performances only. Of course, you could always go nude on Federal
land and the states can't do anything about it.
And what if someone started a religion that included ritualized nude
dancing? Hmmmmm.....
BTW What is the "camel's nose"?
Mary
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886.10 | | GUESS::DERAMO | dully noted | Mon Jun 24 1991 00:12 | 24 |
| re .-1,
>> BTW What is the "camel's nose"?
It's that part of the camel on the face below the eyes
and above the mouth.
Dan
:-)
p.s. There's also the "proverbial" camel's nose.
Picture a tent in the desert. The tent has no bottom,
the floor inside being the desert sand. The camel just
slips its nose inside the tent, above the sand and under
the fabric of the tent wall. That's the first step down
the (also proverbial) slippery slope. If you don't do
something soon the whole camel will be inside the tent.
(One of the implicit cultural assumptions is that you
don't want your camel inside your tent, you want it to
stay outside.) The analogy is that if you don't do
something soon the whole Bill of Rights will be thrown
out. (One of the implicit cultural assumptions is that
you want to keep [at least 90% of] the Bill of Rights.)
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886.11 | camels | HIGHD::ROGERS | | Mon Jun 24 1991 00:37 | 16 |
| re: (.10)
> ... that you want to keep [at least ninety percent of] the Bill of
> Rights.
Hmmm. Le'see here | Bill of Rights = 10 amendments
| 10A - (.9 * 10A) = 1 amendment.
Which amendment [personal right] are YOU willing to sacrifice?
What if others prefer (a) different one(s)?
If
we allow any right to be abridged?
How long will it be
before none of us have any rights left?
Endif
[dale]
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886.12 | | GUESS::DERAMO | support 7 day free speech waiting periods | Mon Jun 24 1991 00:45 | 6 |
| re .11,
I didn't want to offend anyone by suggesting they
supported the second amendment.
Dan
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886.13 | Rathole alert... | NOVA::FISHER | Rdb/VMS Dinosaur | Mon Jun 24 1991 07:31 | 4 |
| I thought we had given uup about 10% of each of the amendments already.
A little here a little there, pretty soon they get 'em all.
ed
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886.14 | lamentations ... | ASDS::BARLOW | i THINK i can, i THINK i can... | Mon Jun 24 1991 09:32 | 17 |
|
I must say that I agree with you all. The Supreme Court's decisions
lately have been appalling. (excuse the spelling.) How about that
decision where a hispanic man was being tried for X and the star
witness spoke only Spanish. There were two prospecitive jurors who
spoke Spanish as a first language but also spoke English. These
jurors were asked if they could totally ignore the witness' first hand
testimony and only take into account the court's translation of it.
When they said "no", they couldn't ignore the Spanish testimowould
they were disqualified as jurors based on the fact that they
be dealing with different evidence than the English speaking jurors.
What ever happened to a jury of peers?
I'm afraid to see what rights we'll all lose in our lifeti.
Rachael Barlow
I wish some qualified Libertarians would run for President
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886.15 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | Animal Magnetism | Mon Jun 24 1991 09:47 | 5 |
| > Although I have never "cried for" anything in the area of state-imposed
> censorship, I find the above really obnoxious in tone. Are you seeking
> a discussion or an argument here?
I read it as "I told you so. Nanny nanny boo boo!"
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886.16 | | KVETCH::paradis | Music, Sex, and Cookies | Mon Jun 24 1991 11:16 | 17 |
| > And what if someone started a religion that included ritualized nude
> dancing? Hmmmmm.....
Nice try, but the Supremes have already pretty much said that if your
religion isn't Judaeo-Christian enough, then it is entitled to less
protection than current "name-brand" religions. That's why, f'rinstance,
the Rastafarians can't smoke marijuana (even though it's part of their
ceremony), or members of the Native American Church can't use peyote
(except maybe on Indian reservations; i'm not sure...).
On the other hand, back during Prohibition, the Jews and Christians
won exemptions so they could continue to use wine in their services.
To paraphrase Orwell, in this country some religions are more equal
than others...
--jim
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886.17 | | WILLEE::FRETTS | mm-mM-MM!!!! | Mon Jun 24 1991 11:25 | 6 |
|
RE: .16 Jim
Interesting piece of info about the Prohibition times Jim. Thanks.
Carole
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886.18 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Mon Jun 24 1991 11:32 | 6 |
| I think that we'd be hard pressed to come up with two
rights "guaranteed" by the the Bill of Rights that haven't
been infringed upon... And I blame the left more than
the right...
Tom_K
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886.19 | Nudity in stage plays is allowed. The decision still stinks | CUPMK::SLOANE | Is communcation the key? | Mon Jun 24 1991 11:36 | 18 |
| Re: Nude stage plays, etc.
Justice David Souter agreed with the majority that a state ban on nude dancing
was legal. Souter did write a dissenting note that nudity as part of a play or
performance was legal.
Does that mean that you can dance nude if you're following a script? (Just
don't ad lib.)
Is it legal if the dancers wear transparent pasties and g-strings? "Pasties"
and "g-strings" sound more obscene than totally nudity.
Presumably you can legally look at breasts as long as a "pasty" is pasted over
the nipple. Can women breast feed in public in Indiana without wearing a pasty?
It is still a disgusting and appalling decision. Long live free speech!
Bruce
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886.20 | not everyone agrees | BLUMON::GUGEL | Adrenaline: my drug of choice | Mon Jun 24 1991 11:45 | 19 |
|
> I think that we'd be hard pressed to come up with two
> rights "guaranteed" by the the Bill of Rights that haven't
> been infringed upon... And I blame the left more than
> the right...
> Tom_K
I find that extremely and distastefully hypocritical, Tom, considering
you're openly anti-women rights (abortion specifically) in this file.
As for me, Tom, I am above stooping to labels made up for "blame"
purposes like "left" and "right", and for applying blame to nameless,
faceless made-up entities such as these.
I *am* very much willing to place direct blame on Ronald Reagan for
appointing these court "justices", as he was directly responsible for
these decisions.
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886.21 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:10 | 10 |
| re .20
> I find that extremely and distastefully hypocritical, Tom, considering
> you're openly anti-women rights (abortion specifically) in this file.
I am not anti-women rights. Please refrain from saying false things
about me.
Thank you.
Tom_K
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886.22 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:11 | 3 |
| Then you support women's right to freedom of choice?
BJ
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886.23 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:14 | 3 |
| Choice of what?
Tom_K
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886.24 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:18 | 3 |
| You know exactly what I mean.
BJ
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886.25 | C'mon, children, let's stop playing footsie. | SMURF::CALIPH::binder | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:19 | 5 |
| Tom_K, do you support the position that a woman has the right to decide
for herself whether she will continue to carry a fetus to term? A
simple yes or no will suffice.
-d
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886.26 | And now may we continue with the topic at hand? | SMURF::CALIPH::binder | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:23 | 6 |
| Abortion, abortion rights, etc., have their own topic(s). Let's see if
we can return this one to discussion of the Supreme Court's decision
that the human body is a filthy thing suitable for being washed instead
of admired.
-d
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886.27 | ***co-moderator response*** | LEZAH::BOBBITT | pools of quiet fire | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:33 | 10 |
|
re: .26
I second the motion
Please take all discussion of abortion and fetal rights to the abortion
topic.
-Jody
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886.28 | | BLUMON::GUGEL | Adrenaline: my drug of choice | Mon Jun 24 1991 12:53 | 26 |
|
In .18, TomK made a sweeping generalization that directly ties
into the discussion at hand. I believe that turning the abortion
topic into a general "rights" topic won't satisfy the moderators
any better. But if there is going to be a place for a more general
discussion of rights, then by all means, please move this and the
other replies (maybe there already is one?)
re .21:
Don't you remember writing this?
<<< IKE22::$1$DKB700:[NOTESFILES]WOMANNOTES-V3.NOTE;1 >>>
-< Topics of Interest to Women >-
================================================================================
Note 49.149 Abortion Concerns (*read .0 BEFORE replying*) 149 of 250
TOMK::KRUPINSKI "C, where it started." 8 lines 23-MAY-1991 16:15
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Great news!
If the Federal Government is paying the bill, you gotta follow
the rules. If you want free speech, do it on your own time,
not the governments.
Tom_K
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886.29 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Mon Jun 24 1991 13:19 | 3 |
| Yes. So?
Tom_K (trying to abide the moderators wishes)
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886.30 | Anybody got a island to hide on? | BUSY::KATZ | Wow, Bob, Wow. | Mon Jun 24 1991 13:30 | 45 |
| re: 5
Actually, the ruling is so vague that what it really means from a
Constitutional law perspective is that every attempt by a federal
prosecutor to apply this ruling as means of upholding a local law will
have to go through the federal court system because no federal district
or appeals judge in her/his right mind would apply it as precedent.
that does not, however, keep the local prosecutors from having a field
day...it depends on where you are. In Massachusetts, they can't do
diddly-sqaut becasue the State Constitution is more permissive than the
Federal (scary thought...since when are our rights supposed to
priviledges of proximity anyway?)
re: general thread. It is important to note that throughout history
none of our rights have ever been completely absolute, even speech acts
have been curbed in the name of "the common good" It's that age-old
dichotomy left in the Constitution between the Libertarian and the
Athoritarian philosophies that has kept us on our toes for over 200
years. Neither philosophy has absolute dominion over the truth of our
government. Keeping them from imploding is another story all together.
What makes last week's ruling so different, is it is the first attack
on what is considered artistic expression to succeed to recent court
history. Even though some speech acts have never been afforded full
protection, artistic expression has been one of our most jealously
guarded forms of speech. What the court did amounted to opening the
door for Jesse Helmes and his ilk just when we managed to get their
feet out of the doorjam.
Nudity in film, photography, theatre, sculpture, painting, etc. are
all in potential danger even if it is unlikely that widespread banning
will take place. Instead of celebrating the human form, the Court has
told our state and loal governments that they have they ability to
decide upon a standard of public "morality" whatever the hell that
means. The government may make legit arguments to keep our lives safe
and hence we have police forces and firefighters. But are they now
going to try to keep our *minds* safe? Well, considering what's
happening in my life right now, I'll take my safe mind to go, please.
And could you put that it a cardboard box instead of styrofome?
And one last observation: did anyone else catch Ray Flynn *drooling*
when he heard about the case decision? Sheez, what a fright!
-daneil
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886.31 | just out of curiosity... | GEMVAX::BROOKS | | Mon Jun 24 1991 14:25 | 6 |
|
...whose nudity are we talking about? I see that the title here says
girls (and boys); but are we in fact talking about both sexes' nudity,
or female nudity?
Dorian
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886.32 | Must be nasty | CSC32::M_EVANS | | Mon Jun 24 1991 14:59 | 7 |
| Dorian,
The suit was applied to nude female dancers. I guess this means the
female body is a nasty thing which must be covered up. Back into your
chador's
sMeg
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886.33 | | CALS::MALING | Mirthquake! | Mon Jun 24 1991 15:31 | 8 |
| I think it would have to apply to both sexes. It would be hard to
argue that a law could apply only to female nude dancing and not to
male nude dancing. Such a law could be easily chalenged as sex
discrimination.
But do the men have to wear pasties? :-)
Mary
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886.34 | | SMURF::CALIPH::binder | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Mon Jun 24 1991 15:48 | 9 |
| But, Mary, the ERA did *not* pass. The clear implication to be drawn
from that fact is that, at least in the collective eyes of the States,
discrimination based on the sex of the individual is legal. As, in
fact, it demonstrably is. Common standards of "public decency" do not
forbid men to walk about topless, yet women are prohibited form that
activity. No, I'm not being sarcastic. Sexism still has a very solid
basis in American law.
-d
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886.35 | 2nd Support | DPDMAI::JOHNSTON | | Mon Jun 24 1991 15:55 | 10 |
| re .12
Dan,
You need not worry about offending *me* by suggesting I support the
second amendment. I do, wholeheartedly, just as I do numbers 1 and
3-10.
Mike
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886.36 | As many in this conference are quick to point out... | WAYLAY::GORDON | Hunting mastodons for the afternoon... | Mon Jun 24 1991 16:24 | 5 |
| Considering how skewed the movie ratings are w.r.t. male genitals, and
I believe that many of the 'obscenity' laws have similar skews, I believe that
male nude dancing would certainly fall under this category...
--D
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886.37 | yeah......great :-) | CSC32::PITT | | Mon Jun 24 1991 23:41 | 14 |
|
good...great...glad to hear it...
the moral standards of this country have seriously deteriorated since
the 60's and we're certainly paying for it with increased rape,
teen pregnancy, and AIDS.
Glad to hear the silent majority is being heard and spoken for!
Put on those clothes, Madonna....!
C.
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886.38 | compare it to murder, not teen pregnancy | CARTUN::NOONAN | my *life* is an ad lib! | Tue Jun 25 1991 09:50 | 12 |
| READ MY LIPS!!!!!!!!!
RAPE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MORALS!
RAPE IS NOT A SEX CRIME!
RAPE IS A CRIME OF VIOLENCE!
E Grace
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886.39 | Let's keep this in perspective | ERLANG::KAUFMAN | Charlie Kaufman | Tue Jun 25 1991 09:56 | 19 |
| Much as I disapprove of this decision, I think it overemphasizes its importance
to call it "the camel's nose". The camel is half way in the tent, always has
been, and it is a constant struggle to keep it at bay.
If I were king, I would abolish all obscenity laws. I believe they are
fundamentally at odds with the operation of a free society. But we have
obscenity laws, and always have, and they are enforced in spite of their
contradicting the first amendment. And if I were to prioritize which obscenity
laws are most dangerous to the operation of a free society, prohibition of nude
dancing would be low on my list. It is difficult to identify any benefit to
society that nude dancing as an entertainment form provides. And a good case
can be made that it probably does actual damage to its patron's attitudes
towards women.
So yes, this is a significant battle in the fight for freedom lost. Our
society became much more "liberal" about such things in the fifties and sixties
and the pendulum is now swinging the other way. We should be disappointed and
should prepare for more fights and more disappointments in the years to come.
But as battles go, I can't think of one I'd rather lose.
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886.40 | | BOMBE::HEATHER | | Tue Jun 25 1991 10:10 | 5 |
| Re: 38
Thank you E....It needed to be said.
-HA
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886.41 | leave AIDS out of it! | BUSY::KATZ | Wow, Bob, Wow. | Tue Jun 25 1991 11:54 | 9 |
| RE: .37
on the same tone as .38:
WHAT DOES IMMORALITY HAVE TO DO WITH AIDS?????
ACT UP for your LIFE!!!
-d.
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886.42 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Tue Jun 25 1991 13:31 | 35 |
| I wouldn't put it so much as "immorality" as much as changes in
moral standards and ways of living. One doesn't need to be
judgmental to recognize that, in general, each pattern of living
has benefits, as well as associated costs.
For example, the "stay a virgin until you are married/man is the
breadwinner/woman stays home and takes care of the home and
children" "morality" that was held up as a standard for many years
has the advantages of reduced opportunities for the spread of
sexually transmitted diseases, and generally good child care, but
has a number of unacceptable costs including reduced occupational
opportunities.
Similarly, the "Sex outside of marriage/both partners work outside the
home" "morality", has the advantages of allowing greater fulfillment
in peoples lives, but has costs, such as as increased risk of
transmission of sexually transmitted disease.
Certainly, I am not suggesting that the above are the only choices,
nor that one of the above "moralities" will or will not be optimal
for some people. Society is still trying to determine what the optimal
"morality" is (most benefits, fewer (more tolerable?) costs), and
will continue to do so, probably for as long as people live together.
In addition, people will continue to search for ways to allow multiple
"moralities" to co-exist with a minimum of conflict, since, while
it is possible that one "morality" will be optimal for most people,
it is almost a certainty that it will not be optimal for all people.
What we do need to recognize is that changes to moral standards
generally have associated costs, usually unanticipated. Failure
to look at these costs square in the face is as bad as being
intolerant.
Tom_K
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886.43 | | CARTUN::NOONAN | my *life* is an ad lib! | Tue Jun 25 1991 13:54 | 5 |
| Quite often, the only change in "morality" is that things that have
been happening for years finally get talked about honestly.
E Grace
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886.44 | Yes, but the problem is... | SMURF::CALIPH::binder | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Tue Jun 25 1991 13:55 | 14 |
| ...that too often the "moral" standards of people I have never met and
never will meet come in conflict with my standards. It is not part of
fundamentalist religious people's philosophy to live and let live.
Fundamentalists of whatever color seem to find it incumbent on them to
ensure that others obey the fundamentalists' religious strictures while
they themselves refuse even to consider the others' position. This is
the "I know what's best for you" school. My mother probably knew what
was best for me when I was a child, but I'm not a child anymore, and
she does not know what is best for me. Or for you. And you, and you.
Yet here we are, forced to get our legislators to pass laws affirming
the freedoms that the Americn Founding Fathers tried to grant us but
which the "mommies" of the world would deny us.
-d
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886.45 | | FDCV06::KING | And just when you thought it was safe......... | Tue Jun 25 1991 14:28 | 7 |
| Being a virgin until you are married is a lot of crap to me...
What happens if you get a divorce and want to re-marry?? Become
a born-again virgin? "morality" is a hot button with me...
REK
Yeah, I'm back reading to see where this file has evolved....
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886.46 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Tue Jun 25 1991 14:49 | 26 |
| re .43
E Grace,
I don't know, I think that the talking is an acknowledgment of the
change, no doubt the things were done, but were considered "immoral",
but now are no longer considered so...
re .44,
Dick,
Also consider those who feel that the actions of others may have
an impact on what happens to them. For example, a person who
believes that my doing X will cause God to destroy the world
will likely have great incentive for dissuading me from doing X.
I see this as different from the "I know what is best for you"
view, which, of course, also exists.
re .45
REK,
That's simply another example of the costs associated with a
particular "morality". I didn't pretend to enumerate all of them!
Tom_K
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886.47 | | SA1794::CHARBONND | Barbarians have more fun | Tue Jun 25 1991 15:02 | 8 |
| While there may not be a perfect moral standards, too many parents
seem to have said, "To heck with it, I won't teach my children _any_
moral standards." These kids are not indoctrinated in _any_ system
of ethics which says "Hurting others is wrong."
People need a system of ethics. Even if the system of ethics is
imperfect, it beats heck out of having neighbors with _no_ code
of ethics whatsoever.
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886.48 | | CARTUN::NOONAN | my *life* is an ad lib! | Tue Jun 25 1991 15:04 | 6 |
| That was my point, Tom. The fact that people don't talk about things
does not mean that they aren't *doing* them. So, have a person's
morals changed because once s/he did things clandestinely, and now is
honest about them? Are you saying it is more moral to lie?
E Grace
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886.49 | | SMURF::CALIPH::binder | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Tue Jun 25 1991 16:48 | 17 |
| Re: .46
Dissuading me from doing X is not the same as forcibly prohibiting me
from doing it. Suppose I think going to the movies will cause God to
destroy the world - do I have the right to make movie viewing illegal?
I think not. I have the right to tell others my views, but that is the
sum total of it. My fist ends at your nose.
Re: .47
Of course people ened a system of ethics. But passing laws to make
others abide by your view of ethical/moral behavior is not the same
as teaching your children to behave ethically/morally. Failure to
teach one's children how to behave in a manner that does not injure
others is reprehensible.
-d
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886.50 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Tue Jun 25 1991 17:39 | 28 |
| re .48
E Grace,
I agree with you that talking about things is a change, and often
an important one, but I believe that changes in underlying behavior
are probably greater. I'm sorry. But to answer the questions,
I think that changing from doing something clandestinely to doing
it openly could be because of a change in morals, but it could also
be for other reasons. And not saying something may be questionable
from a moral standpoint, but doing so is not lying.
re .49
-d,
I agree completely with what you say. My point was that recognizing
and understanding where a view is coming from is important, is not
the same as agreeing with it or condoning it. To use your scenario,
you have the right to advocate for making movie watching illegal,
and I may or may not concur, but, especially if I don't concur,
my knowing and understanding why you want to make movie watching
illegal will be helpful in interacting with you with a minimum
of friction.
Tom_K
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886.51 | | SMURF::CALIPH::binder | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Tue Jun 25 1991 17:50 | 12 |
| Re: .50
Tom_K, I'm not sure I *do* have the *moral* right to advocate making
moviewatching illegal. The legal right isn't the moral right. It is
the legal right that is giving me the willies at the moment.
Also, in re: your comments to E, not saying something can most surely
be lying. It's called lying by omission. Not saying I'm married when
an attractive women becomes interested in me is an example of lying by
omission.
-d
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886.52 | | CARTUN::NOONAN | my *life* is an ad lib! | Tue Jun 25 1991 17:59 | 17 |
| Tom,
My comments were directed to your entry .42. What I was saying is that
this:
>For example, the "stay a virgin until you are married/man is the
>breadwinner/woman stays home and takes care of the home and
>children" "morality" ...
may well have been the admitted standard, but that *this*:
>Similarly, the "Sex outside of marriage/both partners work outside the
>home" "morality",
was being done just as much. It just wasn't talked about.
E Grace
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886.53 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Wed Jun 26 1991 09:48 | 11 |
| -d
You do have the right to advocate (at least in theory). It's number
on on the Bill of Rights.
E Grace.
I'll agree it was done, but not any where near as much as today.
Maybe we'll have to agree to disagree...
Tom_K
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886.54 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Wed Jun 26 1991 09:56 | 9 |
| Tom,
you have no way of knowing that 'it was done' 'not any where near as
much as today' all you know is that people talk about 'it' more
now.
The two don't correlate at all.
BJ
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886.55 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Wed Jun 26 1991 10:37 | 5 |
| I thought that it was an established fact that the numbers of women
working outside the home went up drastically during and after WWII.
If this is not the case, then you are correct.
Tom_K
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886.56 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Wed Jun 26 1991 10:46 | 14 |
| Tom_K
But what happened just before WWII was not in any way some sort
of norm.
For generations women worked in the family business, or on farms,
or as serving women. The number of women who were free to just
stay home and do no more than basic house hold chores and child
raising throughout all of history is a very very small percent.
We are looking to an 'ideal' that existed for only a few generations
at the most, and even then only for the well off.
Bonnie
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886.57 | Do we understand each other, really? | SMURF::SMURF::BINDER | Simplicitas gratia simplicitatis | Wed Jun 26 1991 11:26 | 16 |
| Tom_K,
We're at odds over *what* right I have to advocate my position. I
agree willingly that I have the legal right to advocate banning cinema
- but I do not agree that I have the *moral* right to do that. In some
states I have the legal right - indeed the obligation - to report you
and your bed partner to the authorities as criminals if I should by
happenstance learn that you are engaging (privately) in any form of
sexual encounter other than man/woman genital intercourse in the
Missionary position. Does that make my reporting you the moral thing?
I rather think not, yet the laws that require such a report are
advocated by the same people whose advocacy got Ronald Reagan and
George Bush elected and, in turn, David Souter et al. appointed to the
US Supreme Court. Legal v. moral - what a conumdrum!
-d
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886.58 | in an ideal world, all laws are just | TLE::TLE::D_CARROLL | dyke about town | Wed Jun 26 1991 12:26 | 6 |
| In the words of Martin Luther King, Jr. (paraphrased, but close)
"We have a moral obligation to obey just laws; conversely, we have a
moral obligation to disobey unjust laws."
D!
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886.59 | | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Wed Jun 26 1991 12:32 | 16 |
| Bonnie,
Take another look at .42, and you'll find that I said "for a number of
years", which you seem to be concurring with. I'm in complete agreement
with your statement in .56. I think were all pretty much in violent
agreement, just miscommunicating!
-d,
Isn't who is advocating a particular position irrelevant to the
positions "goodness"? If Charles Manson says "the sky is blue",
we might be more inclined to get independent verification, but
I don't think we immediately say, "no, it isn't, because Charles
Manson said it, it must be wrong"...
Tom_K
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886.60 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Wed Jun 26 1991 13:42 | 7 |
| um, Tom
I think you were replying to E Grace not me, (not that I mind
being confused with the HUG Goddess of America if not the
world and the Universe) ;-)
Bonnie
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886.61 | .59 was in response to .56 | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Wed Jun 26 1991 14:04 | 5 |
| Bonnie,
No, I was responding to your .56...
Tom_K
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886.62 | | WMOIS::REINKE_B | bread and roses | Wed Jun 26 1991 14:23 | 5 |
| Then, Tom, as long as the stay at home mother working father
is not held up as some sort of universal ideal, then we
are in agreement on that point.
BJ
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886.63 | I think were pretty much on the same plane on this | TOMK::KRUPINSKI | C, where it started. | Wed Jun 26 1991 16:11 | 5 |
| I did say that I believe it *was* held up as an ideal
(especially during the '50s). I did not say I subscribed
to that view (I don't).
Tom_K
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886.64 | | USWRSL::SHORTT_LA | Touch Too Much | Wed Jun 26 1991 18:43 | 20 |
| re .38 E Grace
�RAPE IS NOT A SEX CRIME!
�
�RAPE IS A CRIME OF VIOLENCE!
I must disagree with this. I know it's what is commonly said, but
it's JUST NOT TRUE. If you read the reports from psychologists they
will tell you that rape in the traditional sense is primarily an
act of control. They will not say there is no sexual element, or
even that violence is a facet (control does not equate to violence).
To claim there is no element of sexuality is foolhardy. Date rapes
are almost entirely a result of sexual excitement BEFORE any control
comes into play.
Enough said.
L.J.
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886.65 | uh-uh | BUSY::KATZ | My Goddess Can beat Up Your God | Thu Jun 27 1991 09:22 | 16 |
| L.J. sex is the medium for the violence of rape, the same way deadly
force is the medium for murder.
What makes rape so different is the fact that because a supposedly
sexual act (read "supposedly" as meaning this ain't exactly
love-making) is central to the violation, society has given it a
similar stigma that surrounds almost all sexual contact that isn't in
the missionary position between 2 partners for life...
Rape is a crime about someone trying to take away what is most
fundamentally yours: the control of your body. But it is not about
sex any more than a murder is "about" a pistol.
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\ D /
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886.66 | Control Ish-shues | THEBAY::COLBIN::EVANS | One-wheel drivin' | Wed Jul 03 1991 13:42 | 30 |
| RE: changing "morals"
The parents of people my age (now in their 60's, 70', and 80's) were
doing the very same stuff in the very same places as today's
teen-agers. (That's why "just say no" doesn't work - never has, never
will.)
One big difference is that the young women who become pregnant are no
longer treated like pariahs, forced to "disappear" for months at a
time, and not talk about where they were. We actually made a start in
treating these young women like human beings. Apparently, this has come
to the notice of those who Have Problems reconciling the word "woman"
with the term "human being".
Someone has apparently noticed that women are gaining contol of their
bodies. Oops.
So now we can't dance nude in public. For money. Men's money. I view
this in somewhat the same light as I view prostitution. The "problem"
is not so much in women "displaying" their bodies, or selling their
"sexual favors". The problem is that men have to *pay* for it.
There are certainly other issues, here. But somehow, control of women's
bodies seems to be right up there at the top of the list. And
unfortunately, with the Supreme Court going the way it is, we'd better
get used to it, gurrrls.
--DE
(Dawn_who_has_practically_no_time_to_keep_up_with_notes_these_days)
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886.67 | | USWS::HOLT | Karakorum Pass or Bust! | Wed Jul 03 1991 14:01 | 5 |
|
whats so new about men having to pay for it?
few men are so pretty that they'd get it for free....
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886.68 | huh? | THEBAY::COLBIN::EVANS | One-wheel drivin' | Wed Jul 03 1991 14:15 | 12 |
| Er...I didn't say that men paying was new.
I *implied* that women controlling their own bodies was new. Which
it is.
Women doing it for free has nothing to do with male attractiveness. You
don't really need to be attractive - you just need to have the
situational power.
--DE
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