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Conference turris::womannotes-v3

Title:Topics of Interest to Women
Notice:V3 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1078
Total number of notes:52352

312.0. "Women's Anger" by MCIS1::DHURLEY () Wed Aug 22 1990 10:04

    Women's Anger.  I feel that this is a empowering tool for us to
    change the way we live and realte to others.
      
    
    My own personal feelings have been that when I let me anger work
    for me I am able to change the course of my life and how people
    deal with me.  
    
    Anger is a very strong emotion and a vital one to be use to effect
    change.  
    
    I want to use my anger to effect change for me.  My anger will motivate
    me to change the injustices I feel as a woman.
    
    It is necessary to allow our anger to surface and to be dealt with
    and that then we can go on with our lives.
    
    denise
    
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312.1pointersLYRIC::BOBBITTwater, wind, and stoneWed Aug 22 1990 10:1723
    to supplement the previous and ensuing responses, please see also:
    
    womannotes-v1
    130 - anger towrds men
    208 - how do we deal with anger
    282 - anger - how do women deal with it?
    574 - on anger and change - hope for a new direction
    
    womannotes-v2
    416 - help with lingering anger
    
    human_relations
    773 - when is anger unacceptable
    
    self_help
    29 - anger...grrrh!
    
    psychology
    93 - anger, anyone?
    
    
    -Jody
    
312.2Quotations On AngerACE::MOOREThu Sep 06 1990 19:3215
    
    Anyone who angers you conquers you.
    
    To be angry with a weak man is proof that you are not very strong
    yourself.
    
    When you see a married couple who's coming down the street, the one two
    or three steps ahead is the one who's mad.
    
    The man who cannot be angry at evil usually lacks enthusiasm for good.
    
    Be strong enough to control your anger instead of letting it control
    you.
    
                                   RM
312.3Anger = Strong StuffSADVS1::HIDALGOTue Nov 13 1990 19:2218
    
    Anger.  Very interesting stuff this.  Having spent time and energy
    attempting to ignore feelings of anger, I've come to the conclusion
    that anger is a very healthy thing.  It's just a STRONG negative
    feeling.  The best part of it is that it motivates one to examine
    the causes and leads to CHANGE.
    
    Being raised female, catholic and spanish, I learned that "girls
    don't get angry", "anger = violence" and "anger = bad".   But
    that's not true.  Women do get angrey, anger doesn't have to result
    in violence and anger is not in and of itself bad. 
    
    Anger is just a feeling.  Granted, a rather strong feeling, but still
    just a feeling.  The question is "What do you do with the Anger?"
    Do you use it to LOOK at the situation, or do you use it as an excuse
    to hit someone?
    
    Miriam