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Conference turris::womannotes-v3

Title:Topics of Interest to Women
Notice:V3 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1078
Total number of notes:52352

277.0. "What Qualifies As Sexual Harassment?" by --UnknownUser-- () Wed Aug 08 1990 12:04

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277.1Amherst, here I come! :-)CADSYS::PSMITHfoop-shootin', flip city!Wed Aug 08 1990 12:1714
    Well, all I can say, is thank heavens I'm moving to Amherst in two
    weeks!  :-)
    
    I was talking about this rule to a friend who goes to UMass and we
    agreed it was a) impossible to enforce, b) inappropriate intervention
    by administration, and c) needlessly narrow.  You can't legislate
    politeness.  Summary:  it's dumb and it won't work.  We didn't think
    about how it's unconstitutional restriction of free speech, but that's
    very true...
    
    Sudden thought -- hey, maybe they could extend it to CONSTRUCTION
    SITES!!  Now THAT I would support!  :-)
    
    Pam
277.2pointersLEZAH::BOBBITTwater, wind, and stoneWed Aug 08 1990 12:3814
    see also:
    
    womannotes-v1
    271 - how do you spell harassment?
    798 - sexual harassment or cowardice?
    
    womannotes-v2
    949 - verbal abuse and harassment
    
    human_relations
    686 - harassment?
    
    -Jody
    
277.4Just the person I'd pick.REGENT::BROOMHEADDon't panic -- yet.Wed Aug 08 1990 12:584
    Locke missed a swipe:  Here's ol' Gus making the rules for what
    constitutes harrassment against women and girls.
    
    							Ann B.
277.5confessions of a bawdy wenchTINCUP::KOLBEThe dilettante debutanteWed Aug 08 1990 15:548
    Why is it that we (generic universal humans) always have to take things
    to extremes? Sigh, this is the sort of thing that ends up imprisoning
    women. For matters of personal rudness I prefer the "Buzz off Bozo"
    defense.

    It also occurs to me that this is a take off on the "right to life" sex
    is bad and teenagers should never "do it" philosophy. Geeze, I'd be
    arrested under half those rules. (no I won't say which ones ;*)) liesl
277.6did we read this right?COOKIE::CHENMadeline S. Chen, D&SG MarketingFri Aug 10 1990 18:519
    
    I noticed that most the replies to this note assume the harrassment 
    rules in question apply to the male as the predator, and the female as
    the prey.   Who said the rule against lurid looks, or suggestive
    comments don't apply to the female doing the looking, and the
    suggesting?  The verbage in the original note did not imply which was
    which.
    
    -m
277.7CONURE::AMARTINyou IDIOT! You made me!!!Sat Aug 11 1990 11:315
    ITs a given.  Only the male beast of the species can be so crass....
    
    
    :-) :-)
    
277.9gray zones have gray definitionsAV8OR::TATISTCHEFFnoah and zeke like him tooSat Aug 11 1990 17:2220
    re .8
    
    the argument of using terms such as rape and sexual harrassment very
    carefully so as to retain the "shock value" our society places on them
    was used in _Liscence_to_Rape_ (on marital rape, a legal oxymoron in
    many states).
    
    while i find it a good argument, it leaves many victims in a real
    quandary on how best to describe what has happened to them.  they
    experience a real, horrible, and entirely unambiguous event, but are 
    left without words to describe it.
    
    re .0
    
    while the rule is terribly vague, and yes, could be abused easily, i
    can still envision many situations where the behaviors described
    (innuendo, leers, etc) could indeed leave a person *truly* and
    *justifiably* fearful.
    
    lee