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Conference turris::womannotes-v3

Title:Topics of Interest to Women
Notice:V3 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1078
Total number of notes:52352

152.0. "Pregnancy tips" by WMOIS::B_REINKE (treasures....most of them dreams) Thu May 24 1990 07:21

    
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Note 139.15                Does pregnancy=bitchiness?                   15 of 16
TOKNOW::METCALFE "Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers"       12 lines  23-MAY-1990 16:30
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Re: 14

Moderators, 
maybe make this a note on its own?

Pregnancy tips.

For example, my wife swears by red respberry leaf tea during pregnancy 
to help against nausea, and it is said to help in a smoother delivery.
Why?  I don't know, but it seemed to work for her, if only psychosomatic.

Mark
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152.1USCTR2::DONOVANcutsie phrase or words of wisdomThu May 24 1990 08:142
    For nausea: Saltines and ginger ale
    Kate
152.2DZIGN::STHILAIREno wait, here&#039;s what I wantThu May 24 1990 14:517
    When I was 2-4 months pregnant I suffered from severe nausea and
    I got rid of it by taking a vitamin B6 and a Dolamite tablet every
    morning.  It got rid of it.  I had read about it in an Adelle Davis
    book.
    
    Lorna
     
152.3Pregnancy's impact on the child's personality (?)TOKNOW::METCALFEEschew Obfuscatory MonikersThu May 24 1990 15:2641
[before I start, could the person with the raspberry leaf addition, post
her concoction here?]

I have been fascinated with the relation that the mother's attitude may
have on the baby while still in the womb.

Four cases (my children):

While pregnant with Miranda, (two years before we decided to have number one; 
a surprise at the time) we decided to enjoy it and be happy (we were 19 and 
married for two and a half months when Joy conceived).  Miranda was a happy 
baby, is optomistic, and out-going.

While pregnant with Jessica, (3 months to conceive from when we decided to
have number two), we had stresses in our lives.  Jessica is shy, had crying
fits at the drop of a hat in her early years, and is very sensitive.

While pregnant with Emily (11 months to conceive from when we decided to have
number three), I had just changed careers into High Tech, things seemed to
have gotten much better (out of school and all that).  Emily is out-going,
intelligent (Joy and I played chess almost always during her pregnancy),
happy, and unique.

While pregnant with Andrew (conceived on the night she said "tonight is 
a very good chance..."), things were a little hectic, but not the stress
of Jessica's pregnancy.  Andrew is shy, sometimes impatient, very loving,
and happy.

Each of my children are different from the other.  I know some of it has 
to do with child positioning (second child) but I can't help but wonder
about the feelings, emotions, and attitudes that pass through the umbilical
cord and how it affects the child.  

I've observed other mothers during and after pregnancies with (IMO) interesting
results.

Have any of you mothers/parents had these types of thoughts?  Do you think
there is a significant bearing on the personality of the child from the
mother during gestation?

Mark Metcalfe
152.4A Couple More IdeasHENRYY::HASLAM_BACreativity UnlimitedThu May 24 1990 18:2316
    Re: Mark,
    
    Absolutely!  Having had 7, I can strongly agree that my attitude
    affected each of my children.  The body does release various chemicals
    according to stress levels, so I see no reason why attitudes would
    not cause the body to react in different ways.  
    
    Now for maternity tips...
    
    Pour boiling water over cinnamon sticks and steep.  Add sweetner
    if desired.  Very good for nausea.
    
    For those gawdawful leg/thigh/foot cramps...
    Try antacid tablets--especially effective at bedtime.
                           
    Barb
152.5The kid has a personality in the wombWMOIS::B_REINKEtreasures....most of them dreamsThu May 24 1990 20:5213
    Barbara and Mark
    
    I also think that the child in the womb has a personality. However
    I've only been pregnant with one of my 5 kids so I have no way
    to compare.
    
    But I definite felt that there were things about my oldest that
    I 'knew' about him before he was born.
    
    (one being that he is a very stubborn individual when he really
    wants something)
    
    Bonnie