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Conference turris::womannotes-v3

Title:Topics of Interest to Women
Notice:V3 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1078
Total number of notes:52352

71.0. "CHEAP to FREE EVENTS" by --UnknownUser-- () Fri Apr 20 1990 11:26

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71.1TOMK::KRUPINSKIChina has gun controlFri Apr 20 1990 11:426
	Contradancing every Monday night in the Nelson NH town hall.
	8:30 (or so) to 10:30. Guest musicians or callers welcome.
	Nice people. Good music. *Great* dancing. Beginners assisted.
	Sponsored by the Monadnock Folklore Society. $2.00

						Tom_K
71.2NEFFA (20-22 April)ULTRA::WITTENBERGSecure Systems for Insecure PeopleFri Apr 20 1990 17:3915
    The New  England  Folk  Festival (NEFFA) is this weekend at Natick
    High School, Natick MA. It runs Friday from 7-11 pm, Saturday from
    10am-11pm,  and Sunday from 10am-5:30pm. It costs about $4/session
    (4  Sessions:  Friday,  Saturday  till  6,  Saturday  after 5, and
    Sunday).  Free admission if you volunteer to help.

    This is  a  wonderful  festival  that  fills  much  of the school.
    There's  continuous dancing, often several kinds at once (contras,
    squares,  international folk ...) demonstrations (lots of morris),
    singing  (both  concerts  and singalongs), and ethnic food. Also a
    crafts  hall. There is one room which is for kid's activities, but
    kids  seem  to  enjoy most of the festival. I'll probably be there
    all weekend, as I am every year.

--David
71.3Earth Day - April 22ndPENUTS::JLAMOTTEJ & J's MemereFri Apr 20 1990 18:112
    Tom Rush and Livingston Taylor will be among the artists performing
    free at the Esplanade in Boston on Sunday - Earth Day.
71.4Earth Day in WorcesterUSCTR2::DONOVANFri Apr 20 1990 23:2710
    Institute Park, Worcester celebrates Earth Day Sunday from 12:30 to 5:30.
    I think that's on Park Ave.
    
    Be there or be ______
                   |    |
                   |    | 
                   L____l 
    
    Kate
                      
71.5Boston premiereJURAN::TEASDALETue Jul 17 1990 17:4015
                       _Give_My_Love_to_Everyone_But...._
                            a comedy of mixed results
                  
                  a new play written and directed by Susan Vick
    
                  
                                 27-28 July, 8pm
                       Lyric Stage, Charles St., Boston
                                  tickets $5.00
    
                      Reservations & Info:   617-868-5835
    
     three generations of women...adoption...mother/daughter dynamics
    
     The show will travel to the Edinburgh Festival Fringe next month.
71.6REGENT::BROOMHEADDon't panic -- yet.Tue Jul 17 1990 18:404
    When-where will they be part of the Fringe?  (I'll be in Edinborough
    in late August.)
    
    							Ann B.
71.7First week of FestivalJURAN::TEASDALEWed Jul 18 1990 16:425
    They'll be at the Fringe 13-18 Aug.
    
    Venue 28 -- Greyfriars Kirkhouse
    
    Nancy
71.9Tonight - Free!!!32291::POIRIERTue Jul 24 1990 13:0416
                Merrimack Community Concert Band Presents
    
                          A Concert In the Park
    
               Wasserman Park, Naticook Road, Merrimack NH
                       July 24th, 1990 at 7:00  Pm
    
    The concert is outdoors and free.  Please bring chairs or blankets. 
    Please feel free to bring a picnic supper as well.
    
    The program consists of several Sousa Marches, Show Tunes, Two
    Classical selections by Bach and more.  This is the Band's first full
    length concert.
    
    Rain Date: July 31.
                   
71.10Susie Bright - "How to Read a Dirty Movie" - Oct 30, MITTLE::D_CARROLLHakuna MatataTue Oct 30 1990 10:3613
    I am going to a talk tonight by Susie Bright (aka Susie Sexpert)
    entitled "How to Read a Dirty Movie" at MIT.  It is free, co-sponsored
    by GAMIT (Gays at MIT), starts at 7:00 in room 6-120.  (This
    information is from the GAMIT contact line recording at (617)
    253-5446.)  Anyone care to join me?
    
    Susie Bright is a columnist for On Our Backs (a Lesbian sex mag),
    author of "The Lesbian Sex Handbook" and other stuff.  I'm not sure
    exactly what the talk is about, but I'm a real Susie fan, so I'm eager
    to hear her talk about whatever.  (She's in town because she also spoke
    at the Harvard Gay and Lesbian Mumblesomething this weekend.)
    
    D!
71.11Pretty please?MOMCAT::BROOMHEADTue Oct 30 1990 13:275
    D!,
    
    Would you consider taking notes, and posting them here?
    
    						Ann B.
71.12I'll take notes, just like high schoolTLE::D_CARROLLHakuna MatataTue Oct 30 1990 14:038
    Heh heh.
    
    Sure, Ann, you are probably the 5th or 6th person to ask for a trip
    report, so I guess I will.  :-)
    
    Funny, people seem very interested but no one will come with me?!
    
    D!
71.13Can't make it, forgot my trench-coat....MILKWY::JLUDGATEpurple horseshoesTue Oct 30 1990 14:4110
    
    
    re: .12
    
    heh heh heh......those wimps!
    
    Gee, I would go, but......
    
    jonathan
    
71.14love to, butSUBWAY::FORSYTHLAFALOTTue Oct 30 1990 15:322
    re .12  I would go too...but the commute is a bit of a pain..
    
71.15SELECT::GALLUPDrunken milkmen, driving drunkTue Oct 30 1990 15:417


	Well, I'm going so.......


	k
71.16combatting erotic illiteracyTLE::D_CARROLLHakuna MatataWed Oct 31 1990 09:4677
    The talk was very good...Susie Bright is an interesting and energetic
    speaker.  (Although she looked surprisingly matronly in cat-eye glasses
    and her hair up in a bun.)
    
    She started the talk explaining how her perceptions of pornography were
    before she encountered any, how she first did encounter it (her best
    frind got a job as a cashier at a porno house), and what it was like. 
    (She says "In a normal movie, people react with laughs at funny parts,
    gasps at surprising parts, etc.  In a porno movie, there is absolute
    dead silence.)  She went on to discuss how the industry changed with
    the advent of home videos.
    
    She explained that her goal in giving these lectures was to "combat
    erotic illiteracy."
    
    Then she discussed roles and perceptions of "Masculine" and "Feminine"
    in the context of pornography.  She showed clips that she felt were
    classic examples of the traits that make a man a Real Man (again, in
    the context of a dirty movie) and a woman a Real Woman.  (For instance,
    men are supposed to be knowledgeable and experienced...so the showed a
    clip from "Smoker" where a man was explaining and *demonstrating* that
    he knew what a woman's orgasm felt like.)  She also showed clips that
    were rule-breaking/taboo with regards to gender roles - a man dressing
    up in women's clothes (but remaining masculine) and a woman who goes by
    the name of Martin in BurLEZk (a Lesbian strip show) who does a big
    macho man routine.
    
    She also showed some clips from movies that had classic role
    interactions, and ones that broke rules.  (In the latter category was a
    movie called Sexcapades in which an older woman who "swears like a
    sailor", and is very agressive and domineering, instructs a younger
    woman in how to please her.)
    
    She talked about the differences between heterosexual and gay male
    porno.  For instance, in the former, masturbation is taboo, and in the
    latter it is a standard thing.  She showed a clip from a movie called
    "How to Enlarge Your Penis" which was sold as an instructional tape
    ("it will stretch a mile, but it won't tear an inch") but was really
    the only hetersexual masturbation tape.
    
    She talked about "feminist pornography" and how companies were tryingto
    appeal to women.  She point out something interesting - a lot of
    women's porno and erotic (eg: Harlequin style stuff) was centered
    around frustration and *not* getting what you wanted till the very end. 
    (Two clips supported this.)
    
    She discussed "violence in pornography" and how things commonly
    percieved as violence are really fetishes and varations that simply
    aren't understood by the general public and are therefore labelled
    "violent."  (She showed a clip of the famous Betty Page/Irving Klaw
    movies, and a gay male clip involving the beautiful black man who is in
    many of the Mapplethorpe photos.)
    
    She discussed how the one thing that is absolutely taboo in American
    porography is the combination of porno with depressing subjects.  She
    says every other art forms deals with things like death, fear, disease,
    poverty, broken relationships, etc, but not porno.  She showed one film
    (arg, can't remember the name...Kath?) featuring a call-girl sent to
    kill a man in his room, and instead he kills her (during sex) and then
    has a nervous breakdown.  This was the last movie this guy (Richard 
    Mahler) made, because that just didn't go over well. 
    
    Finally she discused how pornography is used in a lot os places where
    it is not labelled as such, and therefore isn't subject to a lot of the
    regulation and taboo.  As an example of this she showed a clip from a
    tape she bought through some gun-owner's magazine, that was in theory
    an instruction tape in how to use certain automatic weapons (the movie
    was called Rock and Roll 3, Susie refered to it as "Machine Gun
    Bimbos".)  They had a tough looking woman (body builder) wearing very
    little (and spike heels!) shooting a HUGE gun and talking the whole
    time about what she's doing.
    
    (I kept thinking of Eagles while watching that clip.)
    
    Anyway, there's the promised report.
    
    D!
71.17SELECT::GALLUPCombat erotic illiteracyWed Oct 31 1990 10:4449
	Great report, D!.

	The one feeling that I came away with from the talk was that
	porn, in all forms, is more than just "dirty sex."  The stereotypes,
	the portrayals, the appeal of certain porn as opposed to other
	porn was something she really presented well--and something the
	average porn viewer (or amateur porn viewer) might not see.

	I felt like I was watching a "Siskel and Ebert"-type critique...and
	I feel like I'm going to have a different view on porn if I
	ever happen to see a porn movie again.

	
>    The talk was very good...Susie Bright is an interesting and energetic
>    speaker.  (Although she looked surprisingly matronly in cat-eye glasses
>    and her hair up in a bun.)

        She was definitely a real mix.  In addiction to the cat's eyes
	glasses and the hair in a bun, she was wearing a skin-tight, very
	revealing spandex dress.  But it WAS the perfect "look" for the
	topic.


	I became slightly angry at the porn industry when she was talking
	about it's attempts at porn for females.  As D! said, the two
	clips she presented were both based on the "you have to kiss a
	lot of toads before you find your handsome prince" concept.  I felt
	that the porn producers were somehow implying that a woman cannot
	be whole (ie, frustrated, lonely, sad, etc) until she finds her
	"man" that can fulfill her.
  
>    She showed one film
>    (arg, can't remember the name...Kath?) featuring a call-girl sent to
>    kill a man in his room, and instead he kills her (during sex) and then
>    has a nervous breakdown. 

        The movie was "Midnight Heat", I believe.  Perhaps the most
	artistic out of all the clips and very moving.  I can really
	understand why such a thing is taboo in our culture.  And you didn't
	even see the call-girl being killed, you just "felt" it, you just
	"knew" it.
    


	All in all, it was a great talk.  And I'd like to think I'm
	better equipped to "read a dirty movie" now. 8-)

	kath
71.19arg, line noiseTLE::D_CARROLLHakuna MatataWed Oct 31 1990 13:456
    >I think "a mile" may be an exaggeration.
    
    Not if you had seen the guy demonstrating it!
    
    D! 
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71.20MILKWY::JLUDGATEpurple horseshoesWed Oct 31 1990 14:2510
    another point.....'stretch..' was a quote from the male
    actor who was demonstrating the product.
    
    and another....the actress shooting the gun first used an AK-47,
    switched to an Uzi full-auto, then back to the AK.  susie mentioned
    that this particular actress was the only one who had previous
    experience shooting.
    
    jonathan (no, i didn't have a raincoat, but i went anyways....)
    
71.21bang bangTLE::D_CARROLLHakuna MatataWed Oct 31 1990 14:275
    I must say, after seeing "Kathy" shooting that AK-47, my attraction to,
    uh, guns grew quite considerably.  (Kathy was obviously a *real*
    bodybuilder...)
    
    D!
71.22De gustibus.REGENT::BROOMHEADDon't panic -- yet.Wed Oct 31 1990 14:3914
    Reminds me of the casting for "Rollerbabies".  (A XXX movie I never
    got to see.  I `just' knew half the production people.)
    
    Producer:  Do you ****?
    Actress:  Yes.  [Or no.]
    Producer:  Do you ****?
    Actress:  Yes.  [Or no.]
    Producer:  Do you ****?
    Actress:  Yes.  [Or no.]
    Producer:  Do you rollerskate?
    Actress recoils in horror.  Look that asks, "What kind of pervert
    are you?" is painted across her face.
    
    						Ann B.
71.23Woooo baby!SELECT::GALLUPCombat erotic illiteracyWed Oct 31 1990 15:0011
>    I must say, after seeing "Kathy" shooting that AK-47, my attraction to,
>    uh, guns grew quite considerably.  (Kathy was obviously a *real*
>    bodybuilder...)


	Well, if I have my way, THIS Kathy will have a body like THAT
	Kathy someday!


	kath
71.24MY SISTERS' PLACEGWYNED::YUKONSECaaaaaahhhh, the gentle touchWed Oct 31 1990 15:0222
There will be an open house and brunch at My Sisters' Place, 62 Berkeley St.
Boston, MA on Saturday, 11/3 from 10:30 - 12:30.

My Sisters' Place is an American Friends Service Committee (AFSC) Program for 
homeless women and their children.

The reasons for the the open house are two-fold:

	1. To introduce people to the center, explain its history, etc.

	2. To raise a little money.

As part of the original plan, My Sisters' Place is starting the separation 
from the AFSC, and becoming an independent and self-supporting entity.

I doubt that I will be able to go, I have a commitment for Saturday morning,
but I thought some of the community would be interested in hearing about this.

They are also going to need volunteers in the future, for those of you who 
were looking for volunteer opportunities.

E "bookish" Grace
71.25BOLT::MINOWCheap, fast, good; choose twoWed Oct 31 1990 15:5117
re: .16:
Thanks for the "trip report," D!

One comment confuses me a bit:
    
    She discussed "violence in pornography" and how things commonly
    percieved as violence are really fetishes and varations that simply
    aren't understood by the general public and are therefore labelled
    "violent."

While this is reasonable if one shares in the particular fetish, someone
who does not have (to take an extreme case) a rape fetish might well
feel that rape fantasy/fetish films "glorify" rape.

Perhaps this should be in a different topic?

Martin.
71.26Nashoba Valley WineryLEZAH::BOBBITTbut you're *french* vanilla...Mon Nov 19 1990 11:1854
    Nashoba Valley Winery is open every day except thanksgiving, christmas
    and new years....
    
    To get there take 495 to 117 (exit 27) - go west for one mile to Bolton
    Center, turn left at the blinking light, and it's about 1/4 mile to the
    wintery.  
    
    1991 Calendar  (these events are free, but if you eat and drink food
    provided by them there may be a charge - call to make sure -
    508-779-5521)
    
    January til Spring - cross country skiing in the orchard, and skating
    when ice permits.  Bring your own equipment
    
    February 9,10 (Sat, Sun) - Winter Wassail - wassailing, music, story
    telling, maple sugar tapping, etc.
    
    May 11, Saturday (Sun rain date), 10-6....Seventh Annual Apple Blossom
    Festival - Morris Dancers, Bluegrass Band, Crafts Exhibits, Picnic
    Foods, Orchard and Winery Tours
    
    June 22, Saturday (Sun rain date), 10-6....Strawberryfest - Jazz in the
    Orchard, Fresh Strawberry Shortcake (picnicking is welcome usually)
    
    July 20, Saturday (Sun rain date), 10-6....Raspberryfest - Folk music
    in the Orchard, fresh Raspberry Shortcake (picnicking is welcome
    usually)
    
    August is Melba Month - come pick fresh PEACHES and their giant
    thornless blackberries. 
    
    September 14, Saturday (Sun rain date), 10-6.... Harvest Festival -
    pick-your-own apples, press-your-own cider, apple recipes and uses,
    bluegrass band - welcome to autumn.
    
    September 28-29, Sat, Sun - Bolton Fair weekend (allow extra time for
    traffic)
    
    December 16-23, Holiday Open House - open til 8 p.m. for wine and gift
    shopping.
    
    
    and when it comes to picking fruits and flowers (call first for
    availability)....
    
    late april-may - DAFFODILS
    mid june-early july - STRAWBERRIES
    mid july - early august - PURPLE RASPBERRIES
    august-mid-september - THORNLESS BLACKBERRIES
    early august - mid-september - PEACHES
    late august - late october - APPLES
    september - october - RED RASPBERRIES
    
    
71.27Free Holiday Concert - New HampshireACESMK::POIRIERWed Nov 21 1990 13:5717
                    "A free gift for the whole family
                         with no STRINGS attached
    
                   (but there will be plenty of horns,
                     trumpets, trombones, saxaphones,
                       clarinets, drums and tubas)
    
            Presenting the Merrimack Community Concert Band's
                   First Annual Family Holiday Concert
                        Saturday, December 1, 1990
                                 8:00 PM
                  Little Theatre, Merrimack High School
                              FREE Admission
    
    
               Sponsored by the Exchange Club of Merrimack.

71.28GOLF::KINGRPREPARE to die earth scum!!!!!!!!!!!Wed Nov 21 1990 23:524
    Merrimack, New Hampshire? Mass?
    
    
    REK
71.29XCUSME::QUAYLEi.e. AnnSat Nov 24 1990 19:131
    Merrimack, New Hampshire
71.30VIA::HEFFERNANJuggling FoolThu Jul 25 1991 10:537
The Lowell Folk Festival is this weekend - Saturday and Sunday.  I
hope to get out there (between doing homework) and see some acts,
crafts, workshops, ethnic food, etc...  The Boston Globe calendar has
a full schedule.  If anyone is interested in hooking up, send mail...

john

71.31ISSHIN::MATTHEWSOO -0 -/ @Fri Jul 26 1991 10:548
              <<< Note 71.30 by VIA::HEFFERNAN "Juggling Fool" >>>

I second that.  The Lowell Folk Festival is always a gas!  I'd love to be 
able to meet any of you folks that plan to go.  


			Ron

71.32FDCV07::KINGIf the shoe fits... BUY IT!!!!!!!!!!!!Fri Jul 26 1991 11:064
    I'll be there tomorrow afternoon... Good people, good fun, good music,
    good food, good time!
    
    REK
71.34Olde Shresbury Village FREE ConcertsTADSKI::ABBERTONFri Jul 26 1991 13:2913

		FREE Concerts at Olde Shrewsbury Village
                Every Friday at 7:00pm

               
                Friday 7/26	Women of Note - Womens Barbershop Chorus
            
                Friday 8/2      Women of NOte - Women's Barbershop Chorus


                Olde Shrewsbury Village is located at the intersection of
                Routes 9 and 20 in Shrewsbury MA.
71.35FREE Concerts in BEllingham MATADSKI::ABBERTONFri Jul 26 1991 15:3525
		FREE Outdoor Concerts, Bellingham MA
                Bellingham High School


                All concerts are from 7:00-9:00pm


                Wednesday 7/31	MOSAIC - Comtemporary Top-40 Band

                Wednesday 8/7   CJammers

                Wednesday 8/15  Local Talent Night - Show made of several
                                local and town Talent


Directions:
Take 495 south to the Bellingham exit, Rt 126.  At the top of the exit ramp take
a left onto rte 126.  About 50 feet there's a 4 way stop sign intersection,  
Take a left (staying on 126) follow 126 into town, you'll come to another 
intersection (junction 140 & 126).  Stay on 126 (i.e. bear right at fork with 
church in center).  Continue on 126 until the High school on the left hand side 
(I'm not sure exactly, but I think it's between 1-2 miles).  The school ball
field is set back and you may not see it from the road, but pull into (and
drive past/behind the high school building...