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544.1 | | RAINBO::TARBET | I'm the ERA | Thu Apr 13 1989 13:50 | 16 |
| I heard the same presentation (I think...I didn't actually get the
lecturer's name, but the content sounds identical) at a recent
W.I.T.C.H lecture.
It was indeed chilling. And sickening with it. The images that stick
in my mind are the meat-grinder collage, the cartoon of the mutilated
body (pelvic area only) lying in bed, and the cartoon of the woman
having her vagina used as a roach trap.
I don't know what to do about it. I used to think that the Danish and
Swedish stats proved that the availability of porn reduced the
frequency of sex crimes rather than increasing them, but the lecturer
asserted that the sharp drop in stats was due to a simultaneous change
in reporting criteria.
=maggie
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544.2 | | MEMORY::SLATER | | Thu Apr 13 1989 14:33 | 23 |
| I have not been to one of these lectures but I know that some of
this stuff is pretty sick. I do not think that we can beat this
by making it illegal. It will just drive it further underground.
I would like to make an analogy to much of the *unchallenged* racism
that used to go on. It was *reduced* with the rise of the civil rights
movement and the more recent Black rights movements.
I think that there is a serious lack of respect for women in this
country. There is also a general lack of respect for human rights.
This permeates our society and institutions. How can women expect
that they be respected while much of the establishment does not
even grant a woman the right to control her own body.
I think we have a long struggle ahead of us. Women's equality and
dignity will not be cheap for those that make $trillions on the
lower wages that are paid women.
Women that cannot be degraded will be very powerful force. A very
powerful force of women will not and cannot be degraded.
Les
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544.3 | pointer | LEZAH::BOBBITT | invictus maneo | Thu Apr 13 1989 14:47 | 6 |
| Another topic on pornography can be viewed in Womannotes-V1
topic 45 is titled Pornography.
-Jody
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544.4 | | RUTLND::KUPTON | Tweeter and the Monkey Man | Thu Apr 13 1989 15:01 | 36 |
| I don't think pornography itself can be blamed for rape, incest,
murder etc., any more than anyone believes that dress, mannerisms,
makeup, can be blamed for same. It's all window dressing for a much
deeper problem.
People who have alcoholic parents are very likely to experience
alcohol related problems. Children who were beaten by parents are
likely to beat their own children. This is known and treatable.
Pornography is a sickness within itself. People who buy
pornographic material are fulfilling fantasies that they may otherwise
never be able to fulfill.
I did a study in college about sexual attitudes in the Greater
Portland Maine area. An area of 80-100,000 people at the time had
5-6 X-rated cinemas, 4 peep shops, and a rising prostitution problem
in an age of relative sexual freedom (1975). I won't go into the
entire research paper, but what I found was that many average people
are embarrassed about being in these places but it affords them
a temporary stress relief from everyday pressure. I spoke with men
and women who purchased materials, magazines, films etc. and almost
to a person they did it to fulfill something missing in their lives.
I did not deal with Pedophilia or kiddie porn, just adult stuff.
Snuff films and other depictions of gruesome action are not
really pornographic, rather they are more horror effective. They
present an opportunity for the viewer experience something out of
the ordinary. It's the same sick little gremlin that makes people
slow down and take a curiously long look at an automobile accident.
I'm not justifying pornography. I believe that it does not promote
rape, incest, or other extraordinary behavior. I think some pornography
actually provides therapy to some individuals who find it tantilizing
or 'naughty'.
Ken
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544.5 | Nit | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Thu Apr 13 1989 15:30 | 3 |
| re .4:
"tantalizing" is spelled with an a.
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544.6 | | ERLANG::LEVESQUE | Torpedo the dam; Full speed astern! | Thu Apr 13 1989 15:58 | 28 |
| What I don't understand is why people allow those types of pictures to
be taken of themselves. I realize the degrading nature of some
pornography applies more to women than men, but I have seen some
equally degrading pictures of men all trussed up by their dominatrixes.
How does one go about forcing another human being into posing for
these types of photos? Isn't that action (forcing) illegal? If the
action is voluntary, do we have any right to ban such materials? (Will
it make any difference if we do?)
To me, pictures of naked people do not in and of themselves constitute
pornography. I know some people have differing opinions over what is
pornographic. I am certain from the descriptions in the first few notes
that I would not be interested in looking at the pictures described-
they definitely sound pornographic. I am not sure that we have the
right to ban pictures of that nature, though, if the subjects of the
pictures are consenting adults. I understand and empathise with the
disgust and frustration exhibited by the previous noters. I too am
disgusted at some things I see. I am not sure that a ban on said
articles would solve any problems.
When someone is actually forced to do things of that nature, to be
captured on film or otherwise, it is or should be against the law. When
someone feels it necessary to do that to express themselves sexually, I
don't have a problem with it. I do think that the distribution of those
materials should be restricted to those over 21.
The Doctah
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544.7 | more pointers | SKYLRK::OLSON | Doctor, give us some Tiger Bone. | Thu Apr 13 1989 17:44 | 6 |
| also from womannotes-v1:
774 "Why I Hate Marilyn" 59 replies (including rathole on porn)
782 "Playboy/Playgirl (from 774) how do we react" 218 replies
DougO
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544.8 | Careful, now! | TUT::SMITH | Passionate commitment to reasoned faith | Thu Apr 13 1989 18:04 | 16 |
| It is extremely important (IMO) to distinguish *violent* porn from
porn depicting non-violent, consensual sex between adults. Too
many people lump the two together. Even this early in this string,
there is at least the *tendency* to do so.
I really would like to see the results of a study that compares
the effects of three different stimuli: (1)violent pornography,
(2) non-violent pornography (which *I* would call eroticism), and
(3) violent images that are unrelated to any sexual activity.
My problem with this is that too many people are eager to lump together
#1 and #2 and ban both of them, while almost everyone ignores the
impact of #3!
Nancy
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544.10 | Ah, yes, the cartoons | REGENT::BROOMHEAD | I'll pick a white rose with Plantagenet. | Thu Apr 13 1989 18:14 | 4 |
| Yes, Maggie, it is the same woman. (I kept my flyer; her name
is given as plain Gail Dines in it.)
Ann B.
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544.11 | Pornography a symptom? | LOWLIF::HUXTABLE | Who enters the dance must dance. | Thu Apr 13 1989 20:33 | 28 |
| .0>...Statistics correlating rise in pornography with
.0>rise in rape. Admissions from rapists and serial murderers that they were
.0>heavily into pornography.
I have a gut feeling (shared by some previous noters) that
there is at least an indirect connection between violent
pornography and violence against women.
But the statistical correlation does *not* imply a causal
relationship.
Nor do the admissions by criminals that they were "into"
porn...what percentage of them were? What "type" of porn,
how violent was it? How did they feel at the time? How many
(presumably) non-criminal persons are "into" porn? How do
the stats compare? And again, even if the stats show that a
significantly higher number of rapists etc were "into" porn,
or that they "felt" differently about it, it still doesn't
imply that porn is the direct cause.
I suspect that porn, like woman-directed violence, is a
symptom of something else...and *that* is what we have to
fix.
-- Linda
P.S. Sorry about the digression, but mis-use and
mis-understanding of statistics is one of my pet peeves.
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544.12 | Brit Nit | HAMPS::PHILPOTT_I | Col. Philpott is back in action... | Fri Apr 14 1989 06:22 | 12 |
| � < Note 544.5 by GEMVAX::KOTTLER >
-< Nit >-
� re .4:
� "tantalizing" is spelled with an a.
And of course an 's' (as in tantalising)
:-)
/. Ian .\
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544.13 | It sure is. | ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI | We're part of the fire that is burning! | Fri Apr 14 1989 10:31 | 36 |
|
The definition of pornography, from the AHD anyway, is "written
or pictorial material intended to arouse sexual feelings"
Seems the material spoken of in .0 is intended to arouse a
bit more than just "sexual feelings"...
Either that, or they're presenting the idea of sex in a completely
inappropriate context, yet, "apparently" one that some people can
relate to. How do I know? Because it "apparently" sells...
Now, why would anyone only be able to get themselves aroused
sexually in the context of violence, hate and desecration? Could
it be that they themselves were once the object of such a view?
Could it be that this is what "works for them" as a direct result
of their own past experiences, ones that they perhaps had no choice
in "going through with it" or not? (likely as a child...)
As was alluded to earlier, that the market for this stuff even exists
is merely a symptom of a much bigger problem in our society. Working
on clearing up the symptoms of the bigger problem will provide some
*temporary* relief, but, it will return again at some later time
or simply manefest itself in a different way...Hopefully *not* in
some "proactive effort" on the part of the person with the problem.
Working on the actual problem and perhaps solving it in our
Great Society, will eventually cause this market to dissappear. With
no market for this material, there will be no sales. With no sales,
there will be no product offering. With no product offering, the
"clean up" goal has been achieved.
An analogous argument can be made for the drug problems in this
country.
Joe Jas
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544.14 | | ODIHAM::PHILPOTT_I | Col. Philpott is back in action... | Fri Apr 14 1989 10:55 | 22 |
|
�< Note 544.13 by ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI "We're part of the fire that is burning!" >
� -< It sure is. >-
� The definition of pornography, from the AHD anyway, is "written
�or pictorial material intended to arouse sexual feelings"
My dictionary defines "pornography" as "published material that
tends to deprave or corrupt normal members of the public". This
definition is probably due to the fact that this is how British
law defines pornography. A judge once defined these criteria to
a jury by saying that a typical member of the public was the man
on the upper deck of the Clapham Omnibus.
I would argue that the material mentioned in .0 neither depraves
nor corrupts normal members of the public: it simply sickens them.
The people who would buy it and read (or otherwise view) it are
already depraved and corrupt. Therefore the material may be sick,
but it isn't pornographic.
/. Ian .\
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544.15 | | DPDMAI::MATTSON | | Fri Apr 14 1989 18:26 | 6 |
| Pornography is not going to go away, until *everybody* stops purchsing
it. John and Jane Doe may not think they are hurting anything or
anyone if they purchase a magazine or rent a video, whatever, but by
doing so, they are *SUPPORTING* the creeps that make this stuff. And,
as was said in an earlier reply, as long as there is a demand, there
will be a supply. (Same argument with drugs).
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544.16 | it's a sign of the society | NOETIC::KOLBE | The dilettante debutante | Fri Apr 14 1989 19:43 | 19 |
|
I believe that a lot of us care. But what can we do about it? I
don't want censorship, it will too soon be used to block political
thought regardless how it starts. My time spent working in the ER
let me see a lot of what happens to people in our supposedly
civilized society. Violence is a fact of daily life for the poor
in the streets. Violence is a fact in a large number of movies
made for teenagers (got to reach those developing minds). Just
watch TV at night. We are suffused with violence.
We can not remove violence from sex if it exists as a permissable
form of behavior in the rest of our lives. When I see pictures
like that I'm afraid. Who are these men that think this is sexy?
How can I tell them apart from the decent ones? They don't carry
the sign of the devil in their faces, I suspect more than a few of
them are "pillars" of the community.
No answers here, just questions and a background fear of "what
evil lurks, in the minds of men". liesl
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544.19 | Lets blame it on John and Jane Doe | WEA::PURMAL | Living a scratch 'n' sniff life | Mon Apr 17 1989 11:46 | 14 |
| re: .15
How are John and Jane Doe hurting anyone or anything by supporting
the "creeps" that make pornography?
John and Jane have decidee that they enjoy what other people
call pornography. They enjoy it in the privacy of their home and
they are courteous enough to not "expose" others who may not be
interested in it. Who is being hurt?
Would anyone care to explain to me the relationship between
pornography and erotica?
ASP
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544.20 | Hey I've got some opinions | BALMER::MUDGETT | did you say FREE food? | Mon Apr 17 1989 23:17 | 34 |
|
I have several opinions on this subject:
1. Once while I was in the USMC I had to clean up the barracks after
a deployment (our squadron was in Yuma Arizona for 20 days) and
I cleaned out a huge pile of Playboys. Noone ever talked about buying
them. So who buys this stuff? Also there were none of the goofy
violent magazines in the bunch.
2. Censorship is always wrong. I can't imagine I'd ever agree with
the ACLU but they are correct on this one, have you ever been in
a video store that has been closed down because they rent X-rated
movies? Well I have. I have. There wasn't any intent of renting
anything other than mainstream X-rated stuff but the local prosecutor
went after them and closed them down and force the store to open
up a mile away in another county. If the government starts telling
us what to watch it won't be long before they tell us what to read.
Pretty soon we'll have to watch what we say in NOTES.
3. As disgusting and rotten as he was I have to take my hat off
to Ted Bundy. He used every trick in the book to escape the chair
and after he failed what did he do he dredged up a Preacher and
told him that pornograply made him do it! What a joke! What a magic
button, why didn't he say that moneygrubbing TV ministers caused
him to not believe in God? Or maybe he could have said he was following
in Jim and Tammy's footsteps by trying to rip off society. No he
was smarter than that. All he had to do is say that pornography
caused him to murder and he had a chorus that would give him
credability forever.
for what its worth
Fred Mudgett
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544.21 | Is this necessary? | ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI | We're part of the fire that is burning! | Tue Apr 18 1989 12:18 | 30 |
|
Seems ch. 27 has a lot of time to sell on Saturday mornings...
Interspersed with the "get rich quick" type stuff was an hour of
campaigning by the "National alliance against pornography" or some
such group, asking for $25, $50, $100, and $500 donations. With
a 1-800 number.
After watching their presentation, *I* was almost ready to give!
I could identify with their causal implications between the presence
of pornography and the "state of the street" or whatever. They even
didnt "slight the context" by carefully stating "Hard Core, Violent
Pornography" *each* time they mentioned their issue.
I assumed they werent talking about "Playboy"...
However, many of the stories they presented to validate their
cause I have heard before, in the context of "the alcoholic family"
and "family dysfunctionality". As I had suspected, HCVP is a symptom
/manefestation of a much bigger problem. Relieving the symptoms
will provide temporary relief...
Clearly, getting one's self aroused over images of desecration
and violence is dysfunctional in terms of context. Is looking at
"playboy" as a member of a barracks full of Marines also being
"dysfunctional", considering the context of arousal? Certainly it
can be argued that a barricks full of Marines is hardly a "fully
functional" situation for the individual's needs. Certain "levels"
just may be *necessary*, I've been told.
Joe Jas
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544.22 | An Open Letter | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Tue Apr 18 1989 15:40 | 25 |
|
An Open Letter
We live in cities like the tame pheasants who are hand-raised and then
turned loose for hunters to shoot, an activity called sport. The hunting,
maiming, the mutilation and murder of ourselves, our mothers, our
grandmothers, our daughters, our granddaughters is the stuff of a vast
industry. Just as the National Rifle Association spends millions whenever
restriction of hunting is considered in an area like the one I live in,
where more dogs are shot every year than deer, so the corporate
woman-desecrators hire the best legal talent to keep their violence against
women on the streets, in the theaters, in the combat zones of every city.
They use all the arsenal of weapons available to those with money and
position: they use economic pressure against newsstand vendors: if you
don't like these flesh magazines, you can't have the others you need. They
use muscles. They use threats and injunctions and sympathetic or bought
judges. They use male intellectuals who consider arousal sacred, no matter
whether it is caused by a caress or the sight of a disemboweling. The link
between sex and violence must be broken in our generation and broken for
good if we are to survive into a future fit for our children to inhabit.
-- Marge Piercy, Take the Back the Night, 1980
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544.23 | Obsession? | BOLT::MINOW | Who will can the anchovies? | Tue Apr 18 1989 16:16 | 7 |
| > The link
>between sex and violence must be broken in our generation and broken for
>good if we are to survive into a future fit for our children to inhabit.
Perhaps you might start with Calvin Klein ads?
Martin.
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544.24 | | MEMORY::SLATER | | Tue Apr 18 1989 16:33 | 6 |
| re .23 (Martin)
I agree. I think much of the U.S.'s gross national product is based
on some degree of appealing to sexual insecurities.
Les
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544.25 | | RUTLND::SAISI | | Tue Apr 18 1989 17:55 | 5 |
| Pheasants are not "hand-raised" they are pen-raised in large flight
pens, and they are not tame either any more than the alligators
raised on alligator farms are tame. What does that part have to
do with pornography anyway?
Linda
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544.26 | | WAHOO::LEVESQUE | Torpedo the dam, full speed astern | Tue Apr 18 1989 18:10 | 5 |
| Yeah Linda!!!!!
Your pal,
Doc :-)
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544.27 | Birds of a Feather | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Wed Apr 19 1989 09:40 | 5 |
| Re .25:
Pheasants per se, as far as I know, have nothing to do with
pornography. Ostriches, on the other hand, have everything to do
with it. They enable it by burying their heads in the sand.
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544.28 | Another note for the birds | BOLT::MINOW | Who will can the anchovies? | Wed Apr 19 1989 12:01 | 4 |
| Someone once defined the difference between erotica and pornography as
the difference between a feather and a chicken.
M.
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544.30 | | VAXRT::CANNOY | Convictions cause convicts. | Wed Apr 19 1989 12:29 | 1 |
| A feather is erotic, the whole chicken is kinky!
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544.31 | | HAMPS::PHILPOTT_I | Col. Philpott is back in action... | Wed Apr 19 1989 12:33 | 12 |
|
When I was a humble photographic apprentice (a long time ago) I
was told that if when I had taken a figure study I was prepared
to sign it then it was [erotic] art. If I wasn't it was either bad
or pornographic or both.
I have used the guideline ever since, and haven't had a lot of trouble
with it.
/. Ian .\
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544.32 | | RAINBO::TARBET | I'm the ERA | Wed Apr 19 1989 17:29 | 31 |
| <** Moderator Response **>
So that we're at least on opposite sides of the _same_ issue, could
I ask that we use these terms:
"Erotica" -- stuff that winds up in museums if it's good
enough, and which we'd then be willing to have our name
on if we were the artist/photographer/subject/ whatever
[thanks, Ian]
"Soft Porn" -- stuff that's typically peddled in Playboy
or Playgirl. Nudity, provocative poses, no sex acts.
"Hard Porn" -- sex acts, but no violence (except maybe
consensual, as B&D or S&M).
"Violent Porn" -- sexualised violence.
"Violence" -- without a link to sex.
"Degradation" -- portrayal of something not explicity
sexual or violent, but nonetheless clearly conveying an
image not favorable to the subject.
I may have left some off, or you may wish to redefine some term in
the context of your note. For the sake of clearer communication,
let's at least take these as the default meanwhile. Thanks.
=maggie
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544.33 | What's In an Ad? | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Fri Apr 21 1989 13:49 | 10 |
| Last Sunday's Globe had an article in the Focus section on the recent trend
in advertising towards steamily sexual spreads in women's fashion
magazines. Just to give one example, the May issue of Vogue has an ad for
Obsession fragrance showing a full-page nude, front-view female torso with erect
nipples.
Can anyone explain how this happened - the transformation of Vogue, Cosmo,
New Woman, Self, and the like, via of the ads they carry, into virtual
soft-core porn mags? What does it say about anything?
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544.34 | Money has corrupted everything today. | SPIDER::PARE | What a long, strange trip its been | Fri Apr 21 1989 15:16 | 8 |
| Money
It appears to be the only thing that matters today. Everything has
a price, from whole governments (the Japanese stock scandal), to
human dignity. Sometimes I wish the entire economic system would
collapse and give us a chance to start over.
Mary
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544.35 | | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Fri Apr 21 1989 15:38 | 8 |
| Re .34:
Granted, money explains almost everything...but why soft-porn imagery
in magazines that are supposedly for *women*? I.e., why does it
sell products to women? (Unless the real function of these magazines is
to teach women how to become the sex objects that are so similarly
portrayed in men's magazines for purposes of titillation)
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544.36 | | MEMORY::SLATER | | Fri Apr 21 1989 16:17 | 17 |
| re .35
> Granted, money explains almost everything...but why soft-porn imagery
> in magazines that are supposedly for *women*? I.e., why does it
> sell products to women? (Unless the real function of these magazines is
> to teach women how to become the sex objects that are so similarly
> portrayed in men's magazines for purposes of titillation)
But isn't this the major reason for such magazines? Who are their
advertizers? Arn't they the ones that are making gobs from telling
women that they must buy these products to be in vogue, to be worthy
of a fitting mate and acceptance in this strata of society.
Magazines targeted to men do similar things. That's how a lot of
cars get sold.
Les
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544.37 | | CIVIC::JOHNSTON | weaving my dreams | Fri Apr 21 1989 16:24 | 25 |
| re.35 'dawn breaks...'
Cosmo's idea of 'liberated and independent' oh so frequently translates
to 'marketable enough to be a total bitch and still attract men like
bees to honey'
Vogue is 'high-fashion' and puts forward the latest and greatest
ideas of those who brought us:
1. women with no hips
2. women with no breasts
3. women whose bodies automatically adapt to the shape of this
year's chic
Neither by their imagery present women as realistic persons, but rather
as segmented icons. The images portrayed are attractive on first
glance and project an appealing aura of beauty-made-simple.
While there's nothing wrong with breasts having nipples, indeed
one hopes that they do, one does wonder what earthly connection
they have to _smelling_ alluring.
Advertisers will stop using these images when they no longer sell.
Ann
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544.38 | | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Fri Apr 21 1989 17:14 | 7 |
| Re .36 -
I guess you're right, fashion magazines have always told women how to
dress, etc. to please men. It just was a surprise to me to see how
blatantly they're now telling women how to *un*dress to please men!
Oh well, so what's female sexuality for anyway, if not to please men?
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544.39 | | BOLT::MINOW | Who will can the anchovies? | Fri Apr 21 1989 17:39 | 23 |
| Instead of "... to please men," perhaps one could read the advertisements
roughly as follows:
"You're ugly. You smell bad. Noone loves you. Noone desires you.
You're not sexually exciting."
"Buy this stuff."
"You'll be beautiful. You'll smell normal. Someone will love you.
Someone will desire you. You'll be sexually exciting."
For "this stuff" substitute anything you wish, from jeans to toothpaste
to automobiles.
When I moved back to America, the strangest culture shock came from
"ring around the collar" and toothpaste/mouthwash/deodorant ads. The
ads where the "before" person gets into an elevator and everyone else
gets out. The image of "you don't belong unless you smell fresh and
you won't smell fresh unless you use our soap" is very strong.
The porno-ads are just a bit more blatant, but not intrinsically different.
Martin.
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544.40 | | GIAMEM::FISHER | | Fri Apr 21 1989 17:40 | 18 |
|
Joe Jas explained the Pornography phenomenon very well
a few replies back. The abundance of vulgar and degrading
material is America's market economy satisfying a need.
The need for violent or degrading material probably begins
at an early age - especially if a child is denied the opportunity
to discuss or explore their sexuality in a healthy, normal way.
If children make an association between degradation or violence
and sexuality, that connection is likely to carry into adulthood.
Similarly, if a child is taught to feel guilt over sexual feelings
perhaps the violent aspect of pornography are concessions to guilt
feelings - by adding a pain element to the sexual act.
TF
TF
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544.42 | I dont know. | ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI | We're part of the fire that is burning! | Mon Apr 24 1989 09:51 | 17 |
|
re .35...
I've noticed that about those "women's" magazines; and the "erotica"
is clearly _not_ limited to the advertizements, it is also part
'n parcel of the whole publication - it's in the articles.
If I wanted to "get turned on" by looking at women's photographic
images in an objective/subjective context, I could do it just as
easily with these "women's magazines" as I could by looking at any
"playboy". The "required material" is there. So, in my mind, the
question of "why is that?" still stands unanswered.
It does "suggest" some things, however.
Joe Jas
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544.43 | | RUTLND::KUPTON | Tweeter and the Monkey Man | Tue Apr 25 1989 09:13 | 16 |
| All one has to do is look at the cover of Cosmopolitan to see
the latest 'hot' 13 year old model made up to look 26 or the latest
'hot' 26 year old model made up to look 13.
My daughter picked up a copy of Vogue Saturday while we were
in the checkout line. The ads were "sexier" (IMO) than most of the
photo spreads in men's magazines. Long legged women with garters
and black nylons, sheer nightwear (playwear??), and most intriguing
of all, the magazines had an aroma like a musk(ish) male aftershave
or cologne. She went to another rack to sniff another issue and
it smelled the same. I don't understand why scantily clad, alluring
female models are selling ads in these magazines. Unless they are
selling women that they will look like the model if they buy the
stuff in the ad.
Ken
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544.44 | Better living through cosmetics | NUTMEG::VEILLEUX | All this, but no surprises | Tue Apr 25 1989 11:31 | 17 |
| <-- re .43, << Unless they are selling women that they will look
like the model if they buy the stuff in the ad. >>
Bingo! Ms. Average Woman picks up Cosmo/Vogue/etc. in the grocery
check-out line. Sees scores of models with perfect faces and bodies
(scantily clad to accentuate their perfection and utter lack of
cellulite) in romantic and exciting scenarios. Thinks, "Gee, I
don't look much like that. Maybe if I did, I'd be in one of those
exciting scenarios instead of here in a crowded grocery store."
Quel coincidence! The advertisement helpfully informs Ms. Average
that all she needs to do to transform her body/face/life is buy
Product A. And then Product B, then C, etc. etc. So that women
keep buying, and perfection (beyond the glossy pages of these
magazines) always hovers just out of reach.
...Lisa V...
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544.45 | X + Y = higher profit margin | SPIDER::PARE | What a long, strange trip its been | Tue Apr 25 1989 14:27 | 4 |
| If Madison Avenue has decided that "sex sells" then they will probably
apply their formula without distinction or thought.
Mary
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544.46 | | AQUA::WALKER | | Tue Apr 25 1989 14:38 | 6 |
| Also tied in with this, in my opinion, is "designer labels" on
clothing. If you have ever worn clothing with a conspicuous
designer label have you noticed the associations made to the
advertisements? Do people assume that you are automatically
the same type of person as portrayed in the tv commercial or
magazine ad?
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544.47 | | HYDRA::LARU | Surfin' the Zuvuya | Tue Apr 25 1989 14:45 | 5 |
|
Advertisers haven't decided that sex sells,
they have LEARNED that sex sells.
/bruce
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544.48 | ps- sex does get your attention, doesn't it? | ERLANG::LEVESQUE | Torpedo the dam; Full speed astern! | Tue Apr 25 1989 15:58 | 20 |
| re: Lisa V
Isn't it a pretty strong indictment of women that they are willing to
buy things advertised in a manner that clearly exploits them (according
to my understanding of your reply)? What I got from your note is that
women see the sexy/sensual/perfect body in the advertisement and the
woman thinks she will be transformed by purchasing the product. Does
anyone really believe that? (Am I misunderstanding you?)
I find it hard to believe that too many women would fall for that, or
too many men either. I think it's more a matter of wanting to be
associated with "pretty people" rather than becoming one that draws
people's interest. Most people I know are at least somewhat realistic
about their appearance. I know I'm not going to magically become 6'2"
when I buy a pair of Sergio Valente jeans or Brooks Brothers suit. I
think it's more a matter of people wanting to be associated with a
"winner" or popular product. (Similar to wearing a tshirt of your
favorite sports team.)
The Doctah
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544.49 | some thoughts on ads | TOOK::HEFFERNAN | Am I having fun yet? | Tue Apr 25 1989 18:37 | 62 |
|
Looks like we are going off pornography and into advertizing (although
as it has been pointed out, the difference is hard to discern at
times).
I think most of us can see (if we check it out) that all these images
affect us in many ways. Along with the messages we get directly from
adults, the messages we get from ads are:
o Money is very important and we should make sure others know our
status through the products we use. We need to compete with
others to be sucessful.
o To be physically attractive to the opposite sex is very important and the
products we buy can help get us there.
o There is an ideal for Americans and it involves a sexy mate of
the opposite sex, children, a big house, lots of expensive toys,
a wonderful career (may be gender specific although less so these
days), and if you have all these things, you will be happy and
live happily ever after.
How many of have not bought into these beleifs?
The messages are insidious and I think it takes a lot of discipline
and inner work to actually see the effects of these things on our
life. Suffering seems to occur when:
o You have all these things and still aren't happy
o Or you don't have all these things but you wan them so you
aren't happy
Personally, I don't watch TV and fancy mags because it is such a
fertile ground for these images that I find take me away from the
important experience of direct moment to moment existence. Also, I
don't find them very interesting or helpful and find that TV and
magazine ads are full of "you should
be" messages.
We are so full of "SHOULD BE" messages, how can be ever be free to be
just what we are meant to be? Each of us has wonderful gifts and I
think a lot of the work of finding out what these are and living them
is really seeing clearly all the SHOULD BE messages and not listening
to them. I wonder that if we can get below the SHOULD BE level, we
might find that we already have a sense of what to do without the need
for creating a lot of thoughts and emotional turmoil about our life.
I guess in terms of advertizing, we can:
o Not look at ads
o Look at ads but be sensitive to their affects
o Work for non-sexist and realistic ads
There are some ads now that use real people for models and it was
quite interesting to me to look at these ads. I sensed alot less
tension and desire and other weird effects from these ads.
I find violence pornography to be very scary in terms of the
messages that are being sent!
john
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544.50 | it's the FEELING you get with it. | SSDEVO::GALLUP | Time to live your dreams... | Tue Apr 25 1989 19:24 | 36 |
|
It's not the LOOK women want to achieve, its the FEELING
associated with it. I look at an ad like that and I say,
"Wow! I would feel SOOOOO sexy in that outfit!"
Is there something wrong with WANTING TO FEEL SEXY? I don't
think any of us expect to LOOK like that, but we definately
like to FEEL like that.
Without the perfect body in the ads, tho, HOW would they
really stun your imagination and fantasies with the feeling
of sexiness? The women in the ads are the epitomy of
sexy...you can tell they FEEL that sexiness. I open the mag
to the ad and it makes ME feel SEXY because THEY feel so
SEXY (feelings rub off, ya know?)! Whether it makes me buy
the product or not (usually not, cuz I'm a thrift shopper,
but...) it still gives me that feeling of the ultimate
sexiness.
Something, I might add, most men IMHO can't/don't give women. I
can count on one hand the number of times a man has instilled
that feeling of ultimate sexiness in me....The feeling is
almost like a natural high and is almost purely fantasy....if
a magazine can help me heighten these fantasies, then *I'm*
gonna buy if for the good feeling it gives me!
(not to mention all the designer styles I can steal from the
ads and create on my own sewing machine for pennies!)
I'm NOT going to buy it because I want to look/smell/act like
that....I want to FEEL that!
nuff said.
kath
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544.51 | | RUBY::BOYAJIAN | Starfleet Security | Wed Apr 26 1989 03:55 | 49 |
| re:.46
Whenever I think of designer clothing, the first thing that pops
into my mind is an old Rosanne Rosannadanna skit on SATURDAY
NIGHT LIVE, where RR was telling a story about meeting Gloria
Vanderbilt. After mentioning the name for the first time, she
said, "You know, the woman with her name on half the asses in
America?" Somehow, seen in that light, the appeal seems
questionable.
re:.49
Sex or no sex, that's how the ad game operates. When you see an
ad, say, in a music magazine with Guitar_Hero_of_the_Week endorsing
Brand X guitars, isn't it the intended implication that the
consumer will subconsciously think that by buying Brand X, he or
she will be able to play just like G_H_o_t_W?
Getting back to the topic of pornography, I was struck by something
Liesl quoted in Note 556.8:
� ...after all watching an ad is the safest sex of all"
Judith Langer of Langer Associates �
Can't the same be said for (non-violent) pornography? We seem to
orient our concern -- not without reason -- about the fact that
porno objectifies the subjects (mostly women). The question that
leaps to mind, and is worth a round of discussion, is: "Is this
*necessarily* a bad thing, or should it depend on what the mind-
state is of the person who looks at the material?"
For instance...
For many people, pornography provides a sexual release that they
can't, for one reason or another, get elsewhere. Maybe they're
too shy or have a psychological disorder that makes it hard for
them to establish a relationship with a member of the desired sex.
Maybe they have a physical impairment or disfigurement that makes
it difficult for them to find someone to love them (or more likely,
makes them *think* they can't find someone). Or maybe they have a
phobia about "social diseases" and think of porn, like the quote
suggests about ads, as the "safest sex".
It could be that denying these people pornography would be,
essentially, denying them sex.
Something to think about.
--- jerry
|
544.52 | We do buy it | CURIE::ROCCO | | Wed Apr 26 1989 10:37 | 20 |
| Re .48 and the ad game:
I don't think that most women consiously believe that if they buy a certain
product it will make them look like "that" in the ad. It is the whole
range of messages that some of these ads give that women buy into. If I
am "thinner, shorter, thinner, taller, thinner, different hair, thinner,
smoother skin, thinner etc etc." then I will attract a man and be happy.
Many products deal with one aspect of getting that perfect body, face,
smell.
Women do buy into the message that 1) I have to have a man to be happy,
and 2) To get a man I have to be beautiful. Few of these ads give messages
about personality, loving, giving, strong, dynamic, self aware etc.
I think the major problem we have today among young (and older) women
with anorexia and bulimia is a result of women trying to live up to
the "perfect" image. That "perfect" image is portrayed by the media.
Trying to live up to the perfect image can be a dangerous game both
physically and emotionally.
|
544.53 | | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Wed Apr 26 1989 12:44 | 21 |
|
Re .51 -
Pornography may be the only form of sex acceptable to a few people. So what?
Does that mean we have to cater to these deviants, at the expense of the
dignity and well-being of half+ the population? Objectifying/degrading/
violent images of women are symbols of men's sexual power over women. They
are extremely insidious, for at least two reasons:
o There are *everywhere* - in the corner newsstand, in the drugstore, on tv,
on billboards, on public transportation, in store windows. They are
published, as we've seen in this string, not just in skin mags, but in
good ole Mom/apple pie women's mags at supermarket checkout counters. These
images are inescapable. As a result, they permeate the consciousnesses of
us all, shaping our attitudes towards women whether we want them to or not.
o The conditions under which these images are created are often *very*
degrading and dangerous to the women used in making them. Read the book
Ordeal by Linda Lovelace, who was forced virtually at gunpoint into
making the porn movie Deep Throat, for more on this theme.
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544.54 | In other words... | FENNEL::VEILLEUX | All this, but no surprises | Wed Apr 26 1989 13:36 | 27 |
| Re: .48 (Doctah)
My reply was an oversimplification of a much more complex process
(i.e., advertisers using sex to induce us to buy). Certainly I do not
believe that an intelligent woman or man looks at a picture in a
magazine and consciously thinks "If I buy that product, I will be
transformed".
But the message from advertisers does seem to be "You're not attractive
enough as you are -- you need to buy this in order to be attractive."
This message is targeted primarily at women, because in our culture
a higher premium is placed on physical attractiveness for women
than for men. As one of the previous replies pointed out, this
is an attitude that permeates our consciousness -- the message is
everywhere. Sometimes it's blatant, sometimes it's very subtle.
So no, I don't mean <<the woman thinks she will be transformed by
purchasing the product>>, but that the relentless repetition of
the message "You aren't attractive enough as you are -- you need
to buy this in order to be attractive (like these perfect models
we're showing you)" can't help but insinuate its way into our attitudes
about ourselves.
Hope this is clearer?
...Lisa V...
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544.55 | fat? short? ugly? boring? | CLOSUS::WOODWARD | In your eyes, the light, the heat | Wed Apr 26 1989 13:37 | 5 |
| Speaking of Cosmo, there's a section in there that give the model's
vital statistics. I'm always comparing myself to those stats.
I think "God, she's 2 inches taller and 10 pounds lighter!" I wonder
how many other do the same. I feel totally inadequate compared
to the models.
|
544.56 | | ACESMK::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Wed Apr 26 1989 19:15 | 18 |
| Re: .51
>"Is this *necessarily* a bad thing, or should it depend on what
>the mindstate is of the person who looks at the material?"
I don't think non-violent pornography is, in and of itself, a bad
thing. Looking at an attractive person is usually a pleasant
experience and most of us engage in that behavior to some degree.
(Witness the Playgirl channel note.) The problem is that it doesn't
take place in isolation, but in the context of thousands of years
of women being relegated to a secondary status. Objectification
is part of an attitude. It's possible to relish the appearance
of an attractive person without objectifying them beyond the extent
that you objectify anyone you don't really know. It's possible
to objectify people without using pornography. Unfortunately,
pornography does nothing to discourage the attitudes that lead to
objectification and it creates a situation in which objectification
is a very easy outlook to adopt.
|
544.57 | Dworkin: "I'm A Feminist, Not The Fun Kind." | FDCV01::ROSS | | Thu Apr 27 1989 00:45 | 28 |
|
Re: .53
> Pornography may be the only form of sex acceptable to a few people. So what?
> Does that mean we have to cater to these deviants, at the expense of the
> dignity and well-being of half+ the population? Objectifying/degrading/
In .32, Maggie Tarbet provided us with what, I thought, were very good
defintions of terms such as erotica, soft-porn, hard-porn, violent porn,
violence, and degredation. Did you read and understand them?
And are you calling the men and women who read (and even look at the photos
in) Playboy, Penthouse, Playgirl "deviants"? I find that term rather offen-
sive, myself.
> The conditions under which these images are created are often *very*
> degrading and dangerous to the women used in making them. Read the book
> Ordeal by Linda Lovelace, who was forced virtually at gunpoint into
> making the porn movie Deep Throat, for more on this theme.
Right!
Month after month, Hugh Heffner, Bob Guccione, Larry and Althea
Flynt and their ilk, send out teams of hit-persons to round up poor, un-
suspecting people and force them to pose nude at gunpoint.
Alan
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544.58 | | HAMPS::PHILPOTT_I | Col. Philpott is back in action... | Thu Apr 27 1989 07:52 | 15 |
| re .55 � -< fat? short? ugly? boring? >-
� ... I feel totally inadequate compared to the models.
Considering the fact that many if not all advertising models maintain
their figures by a dietary regime that walks the tightrope over
the abyss of anorexia or bolemia, and have an exercise regime that
would be suitable for an olympic athlete, I would'nt be too worried
if I were you ... if all spent spent 4-6 hours a day on it I'm sure 95%
of the female population of the world could have similar figures.
However I do wonder at the relevance of this section of the magazine
for the general reading public...
/. Ian .\
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544.59 | | RUBY::BOYAJIAN | Starfleet Security | Thu Apr 27 1989 08:01 | 17 |
| re:.53
For the record, I wasn't advocating anything in .51, just tossing
in some food for thought. Some of what you say I agree with.
Also for the record, consider this:
If something isn't a "good thing", does that mean it has to
be a "bad thing"? And if it isn't a "bad thing", does that
mean it's a "good thing"?
I ask this because while I don't particular feel that pornography
(as a general concept; I'm not talking about specific examples)
is a good thing, I'm not convinced it's a bad thing. More or less
neutral.
--- jerry
|
544.60 | | GEMVAX::KOTTLER | | Thu Apr 27 1989 09:42 | 11 |
| Re .57:
I think that if you read my .53 again, and the reply to which I
referred (.51), you will understand what I was saying.
I would also recommend reading and understanding the book I referred
to, before misconstruing my statements.
Of course, with the present emphasis in our culture on visual images,
the task of reading and understanding printed words *is* becoming a
real challenge!
|
544.61 | | RAINBO::TARBET | I'm the ERA | Thu Apr 27 1989 10:07 | 8 |
| <** Moderator Response **>
I think I'm starting to detect some clenched teeth here. Could
we perhaps take a few deep breaths and generally reduce the heat
under the various pots? It'll make for a better discussion and
fewer wounded feelings. Please?
=maggie
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544.62 | A good side | WEEBLE::SMITH | Passionate commitment to reasoned faith | Thu Apr 27 1989 10:40 | 15 |
| RE: .56 and others
I grew up in a time and culture (KY in the 50's) where sexual feelings,
especially by women, were either not to be had or not to be admitted
to. As I look back on it, the atmosphere (or was it just my own
hormones) was sexually-charged, but "nice girls" were inexperienced
and tolerated painful sex on their wedding nights.
Frankly, the photos in Playboy were a real help in having *some*
kind of "role-model" that portrayed that a woman could *enjoy* sexual
feelings and activities! I have always felt that the majority of
the pics in Playboy portrayed women _actively_in_charge_of_their_
_own_sexuality!
Nancy
|
544.63 | Not Surprisingly, I Read It In Playboy | FDCV01::ROSS | | Thu Apr 27 1989 11:37 | 21 |
| Re: .62
Nancy, in the latest (June) issue of Playboy, there is Part 3 of
an article entitled "Burning Desires In America".
In it, the authors have interviewed (among others) a woman -
<mumble> Rice - who defines herself as a "feminist" pornographic
writer. Her targeted audience is female.
Ms. Rice talks about "good-girls" having been taught to be afraid
of ever being "bad-girls", and how she hopes the new wave of feminist
pornography will help liberate women in their sexuality.
The article also mentions "Femme Productions" - a partnership of
five women - whose pornographic films and videoes are slanted to
match the sexual fantasies that women have expressed to them.
No longer can - or should - porn be considered a "male-the-oppressor-
subjugating-poor-helpless-women-for-sex-and-money" industry.
Alan
|
544.64 | | RAINBO::TARBET | I'm the ERA | Thu Apr 27 1989 11:49 | 6 |
| Alan, one swallow does not a summer make. The preponderance of the
evidence still suggests that the porn industry (insofar as such a
monolithic characterisation is valid) is still incredibly sleazy and
overwhelmingly one-sided: men exploiting women.
=maggie
|
544.65 | but no, I didn't read this month's Playboy ;^) | HACKIN::MACKIN | Question Reality | Thu Apr 27 1989 13:49 | 6 |
| Re: .63
I think the author was probably Anne Rice (author of the Queen of
the Damned, Interview with a Vampire, among others). The only author
I've ever read who makes sucking the blood out of someone seem
incredibly sensual.
|
544.66 | | ACESMK::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Thu Apr 27 1989 15:12 | 9 |
| I think part of the problem is that most people, when they hear
"pornography," think immediately of Playboy, then perhaps Penthouse,
maybe Hustler, probably some adult movies. Most of this is pretty
mainstream and therefore relatively mild. But there are plenty
more magazines that are considerably less mainstream and less mild
that a lot of people really haven't had much exposure to. So when
someone with a mainstream image of pornography discusses the topic
with someone who has a wider view, there's bound to be some
miscommunication. My .56 pertains to the mainstream-style pornography.
|
544.67 | we can't lump it all together and talk | NOETIC::KOLBE | The dilettante debutante | Thu Apr 27 1989 16:52 | 15 |
|
< I think the author was probably Anne Rice (author of the Queen of
< the Damned, Interview with a Vampire, among others). The only author
< I've ever read who makes sucking the blood out of someone seem
< incredibly sensual.
But then there was Louis Jourdan (sp?) in Dracula who really made
it sensual.
I have to say that "mainstream" pornography does not much bother
me. I find much of it erotic myself. I see no real problem with it
and suspect that many women don't.
Violent porn sickens me and is scary. I think we must disinguish
between the two or we can't even carry on a discussion. liesl
|
544.68 | hey liesl! wanna read it!?! | SSDEVO::GALLUP | Time to live your dreams... | Thu Apr 27 1989 21:49 | 13 |
|
> I have to say that "mainstream" pornography does not much bother
> me. I find much of it erotic myself. I see no real problem with it
> and suspect that many women don't.
See, this note's got me all worked up....I wrote a cool poem
today...definately pornographic.....and I LOVE IT!
Nope! I have no problem with it! There's nothing wrong with
eroticism....violence yes, eroticism, no...
kath
|
544.69 | | CSC32::WOLBACH | | Thu Apr 27 1989 23:17 | 18 |
| .65
Anne Rice also wrote 'erotica' under the pen name Ann Rampling.
One of her works was called "Belinda" and was the story of a
writer's affair with a girl in her early teens.
Under another pen name which also starts with an "R", she wrote
soft-core pornography. The first in the series was called "The
Opening of Beauty" (I think) and was a fairy-tale-like story of
bondage, sadism and masochism, with a few other fetishs thrown in
for good measure.
Frankly, I much preferred the Vampire Chronicles.
Deborah
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544.71 | Did you know eagles are scavengers? | SUPER::REGNELL | Smile!--Payback is a MOTHER! | Mon May 01 1989 12:45 | 17 |
|
You know Eagles....[sigh]
To my reading...not a single one of these women has expressed the
position of pretending to "not like" while "enjoying". To a person,
they have been open, frank, straight forward, honest...in discussing
this *very* touchy subject. I think that they deserve some respect
for their ability to handle such a topic rather than snide comments
from birds who soar so high they miss minor details like actual
fact of written replies....Hmmmm?
And...re: frank, honest...etc?
Try it...you'll like it....
Melinda
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544.72 | | RUBY::BOYAJIAN | Starfleet Security | Tue May 02 1989 06:30 | 34 |
| re:.69
I had this saved from off of Usenet:
From: hoptoad!tim 3-DEC-1987 12:23
To: @SUBSCRIBERS.DIS
Subj: Re: more on vampire novels...
Newsgroups: rec.arts.sf-lovers
Path: decwrl!ucbvax!hoptoad!tim
Subject: Re: more on vampire novels...
Posted: 3 Dec 87 12:23:35 GMT
Organization: Sun Microsystems, TOPS Division, Berkeley
Anne Rice fans may want to check out her pseudynomous S&M novels, "The
Claiming of Sleeping Beauty", "Beauty's Punishment", and "Beauty's Release".
She wrote them as "A. N. Rocquelaure". The setting is a vague feudalistic
fantasy world, with no magic except that implied by the superhuman tolerance
of the heroine and her fellow victims, and the spell that prevents them from
ever having to relieve themselves at an inappropriate moment....
It's not Great Art by any means, but for porn the books are very well
written, and Rice has a well-developed feel for the location of those secret
buttons.
If you were wondering how Rice wrote a great book like "Interview with the
Vampire" as her first novel, now you know; she wrote the Beauty books first,
and didn't let on until she was too well-established for them to make a
difference.
--
Tim Maroney, {ihnp4,sun,well,ptsfa,lll-crg}!hoptoad!tim (uucp)
hoptoad!tim@lll-crg (arpa)
--- jerry
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544.74 | | 24733::STANLEY | What a long, strange trip its been | Tue May 02 1989 17:23 | 5 |
| Why not start another note Dorian. This is just one of many symptoms
of a 'deep problem in our society' (indeed, in the world's society)
and perhaps it's time we started discussing it.
Mary
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544.75 | Porn is dangerous/erotica is enjoyable | DELNI::P_LEEDBERG | Memory is the second | Wed May 31 1989 14:49 | 24 |
|
When I was 13 I used to babysit at a relatives house
for her three daughters. There were a large number
of "Detective" magazine there - some in living color.
At that time I had already read a number of "classic"
novels that involved profusely illustrated sex scenes.
I still remember in my nightmares some of the pictures
in those magazines and that stuff is now seen on TV.
There is a clear line between erotica and prono for me
one give me good dreams the other is a nightmare.
_peggy
(-)
|
The world is full of many fine images
most of which can be erotic with the
right person at the right time.
|
544.76 | | RUBY::BOYAJIAN | Starfleet Security | Thu Jun 01 1989 07:45 | 10 |
| re:.75
I'm not sure that any rational person would argue against
the statement "porn is dangerous and erotica is enjoyable"
or that there isn't a clear line between the two.
Where the problem comes in is that each person draws that
"clear line" in a different place.
--- jerry
|
544.77 | Pornography vs. Erotica | 56860::PETERS | Chris Peters | Thu Jun 01 1989 09:40 | 6 |
| Re: .74
I must admit that one person's "erotica" is another person's
"pornography". There isn't any objective distinction between
the two.
-- Chris Peters
|
544.78 | Interview of a rapist | SYSENG::BITTLE | coming up for air | Thu Sep 14 1989 22:19 | 45 |
| re: topic 787 "Can you be both wicked and innocent"
.12 (GEMVAX::KOTTLER)
> I guess what I'm saying though is, that when Hollywood gets
> their hands on such fantasies, they can all too easily come
> across as a whole 'nuther kind of thing... namely, the typical
> male fantasy that women *really do* want to be raped.
The following is an interview of a repeat sexual offender/rapist
whose career in violence against women began the night he viewed
a violent porn flick in a porn store. A brief description of the
movie is included in the interview which some could find
unsettling.
From the book "Men on Rape" (by Timothy Beneke):
"Chuck" who had a bad marriage and an abusive childhood
"...Then one night about a year after I split from my wife, I was
out partyin' and drinkin' and smokin' pot. I'd shot up some
heroin and done some downers and I went to a porno bookstore, put
a quarter in the slot and saw this porn movie. It was just a guy
coming up from behind a girl and attacking her and raping her.
That's when I started having my rape fantasies. When I seen that
movie, it was like somebody lit a fuse from my childhood on up.
When that fuse got to the porn movie, I exploded. I just went
for it, went out and raped. It was like a little voice saying,
"It's all right, it's all right, go ahead and rape and get your
revenge; you'll never get caught. Go out and rip off some girls.
It's all right; they even make movies of it"
The movie was just like a big picture stand with words on it say-
ing go out and do it, everybody's doin' it, even the movies.
So I just went out that night and...."
That night he attempted his first rape. Within ten days, he had
attempted 3, succeeded in one, and was contemplating a fourth.
He spent six and a half years in a state hospital as a mentally
disordered sex offender and has been out for a year. He is
twenty-eight."
nancy b.
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544.79 | cut off his b*lls and be done with it | SUBSYS::NEUMYER | | Fri Sep 15 1989 17:12 | 7 |
|
That guy is a drugged out wacko and would have ended up doing what he
did without the porno flick. He said it himself, the fuse was already
lit.
ed
|
544.80 | tick, tick, tick | AZTECH::KOLBE | The dilettante debutante | Fri Sep 15 1989 18:25 | 20 |
|
< "...Then one night about a year after I split from my wife, I was
< out partyin' and drinkin' and smokin' pot. I'd shot up some
< heroin and done some downers and I went to a porno bookstore, put
< a quarter in the slot and saw this porn movie. It was just a guy
It seem to me the movie was merely the last straw in a string of
events that was waiting to happen. Lets see, he was abused as a
child, his marriage had failed, he was drinking, smoking pot, doing
downers and shooting heroin. What would have happened if he had been
watching TV? Miami Vice perhaps? Would it be any less likely that he
might have gone out and become a mass murderer? That he choose to
pick on women is not too unusual, we have less of an ability to
fight back, but the truth is he was a time bomb waiting to blow. Had
he been in volved in a traffic accident that might have set him off.
This makes me think of the incident just yesterday where the guy
walked into his former office and shot his co-workers into bloody
plups. Or how about Manson claiming the beatles song told him to
kill? If you're crazy enough anything can be your excuse. liesl
|
544.81 | sick | CECV03::LUEBKERT | | Fri Sep 15 1989 20:56 | 13 |
| Society has become much more violent in the past couple of decades.
I think that it is due to our acceptance of extreme violence, including
most porn, as reasonable activity. I think porn is more addictive
than any drug. That's because, first of all, I believe it is
increasingly addictive, and secondly because you can't expell it
from your body without the help of brain surgery. The "porn beginning"
story is repeated time after time with rapists and serial murders.
Granted, not everyone that watches porn is going to go out and
do what they saw, but there are a lot of sex related deaths which
often include sexual mutilation. I don't believe those thoughts
were born there (in the perpetrator).
Bud
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544.82 | And I'm sure there are many other examples... | WAYLAY::GORDON | bliss will be the death of me yet... | Sun Sep 17 1989 16:36 | 1 |
| Did Jack The Ripper frequent porno theaters?
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544.83 | Putting on my Spock ears... | STAR::BECK | The question is - 2B or D4? | Sun Sep 17 1989 17:50 | 10 |
| re .82
Non-sequitor. I haven't seen anybody suggest that porn is a necessary ingredient
to sexual violence, just that it may be a contributing factor.
The same logic would suggest that it's okay to give guns to children because
children could kill each other with bricks anyway.
(I'm not suggesting this is a direct analogy to porn and violence, nor am I
taking a stand on the issue. Just on the use of logic.)
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544.84 | What Mr. Rapist has to say on the matter... | SYSENG::BITTLE | healing from the inside out | Sun Sep 17 1989 21:56 | 67 |
| re: .79 (Ed Neumyer)
> That guy is a drugged out wacko and would have ended up
> what he did without the porno flick. He said it himself,
> the fuse was already lit.
Note 544.80 (Liesl Kolbe)
> It seem to me the movie was merely the last straw in a
string of events that was waiting to happen.
.
.
> What would have happened if he had been watching TV?
> Would it be any less likely that he might have gone out
> and become a mass murderer? <--|
|
Good guess, Liesl. -------------------|
When I was reading, I also thought that his raping would've just
happened sooner or later, with or without seeing the porn flick.
But later in the chapter, he is asked:
"If there had been no pornographic movies showing rape, would you
have raped?"
The response:
" I think I would've hurt a woman in a different way
physically. If I wouldn't have committed rape, I'd be in
prison for murder right now, because it was goin' that way.
I would've killed my next victim or the one after that. I
would've killed somebody. I would've killed my stepmother,
my mother, and my wife if I'd had the chance.
Pornographic movies have a lot to do with rape. I be-
lieve they shouldn't make movies of _any_ kind of rape.
They just shouldn't show it. Specials are okay because they
can tell what can happen in rape, but a TV movie, a porn
movie, or a regular movie about rape -- they should ban
them. You look at these movies and think, "Wow, I wonder
what it would be like to go out and rape somebody!" I heard
stories in the hospital of people saying society must con-
done it--they have it on TV and movies. I know five or six
guys who saw pictures of rape in a dirty book and believed
it was all right to go out and rape; just still snapshots
and that justified it to them. It said, okay, go out and
rape because it's in a dirty book; there's nothin' wrong
with it. That goes for child molesting, too. "
His answer about how he would've assaulted or murdered as a way
to get revenge is one I can understand much better than a man
getting revenge through sexual violence.
But somewhere else in the chapter he says:
"Rapists want to be in control. Somewhere in their life a
woman destroyed their ego. Rape is a way a man rebuilds his
ego, rebuilds his manhood. Shit like that.
.
.
I know that's the worst thing you can do to a female."
So, I guess if many rapists feel that way (that rape is the worst
think you can do to a female), that's why they commit rape in-
stead of plain assault or murder.
nancy b.
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544.85 | Bundy | CECV03::LUEBKERT | | Mon Sep 18 1989 08:57 | 17 |
| Bundy, in one of his last interviews, said that porn was what got
him started also. Generalization is somewhat unfair, but when I
hear of a search of the private quarters of a serial rape killer,
it seems that there are always porn books and/or flicks there.
Sometimes there are even pictures or movies taken of the victims.
While it's true that society used to sweep crimes such as rape under
the carpet, they did not do so when murder was involved. These
were highly publicised, and I would say that there were not nearly
as many rape/murders years ago, not even per capita, as there are
today. I believe this is due to the proliferation of violent and
sex/violent films and books today, all of which were banned a couple
of decades ago.
Just my observation. I couldn't prove it in court.
Bud
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544.86 | Lots of "obvious" conclusions
to a condition in which rape would seem "normal."
An intermediate interpretation would suggest that some men are intrinsically
unstable or rape-prone and some are not. For the rape-prone, pornography
might offer an image | MOIRA::FAIMAN | light upon the figured leaf | Mon Sep 18 1989 11:20 | 33 |
| An association between sexual violence and pornography -- the simple
observation that "rapists read pornography" -- can have several
plausible (and not necessarily mutually exclusive) interpretations.
On the one hand, it would seem inevitable that a person who tends to
sexual violence would also be attracted to the representation of sexual
violence. By this interpretation, the reading of pornography is a
*consequence* of the rapists condition. This allows the possibility
of pornography being an alternative to overt violence -- that the
might-be rapist may (to some extent, for some time) sublimate his
tendencies through pornography. It implies that one cannot conclude
anything interesting about the non-rapist who reads pornography.
On the other hand, it seems plausible that extensive exposure to
pornography could lead to a gradual acclimitization to a "pornographic
world view," in which sexual violence is the norm and women are objects
to be used. By this interpretation, enjoyment of "soft" pornography
would lead to a weakening of the natural revulsion at the subject
matter of "hard" pornography, and a natural progression would lead
to a condition in which rape would seem "normal."
An intermediate interpretation would suggest that some men are intrinsically
unstable or rape-prone and some are not. For the rape-prone, pornography
might offer an image or a direction for the release of violent impulses
that might otherwise have stayed in check (or been released in other
directions). For the stable, pornography might simply remain a fantasy,
clearly distinguished from the moral values of the real world.
Personally, I find all of these interpretations reasonable, at least in the
abstract; and any assertion that one or another is *the* truth of the matter
less than convincing.
-Neil
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544.87 | study says: no correlation | TLE::D_CARROLL | On the outside, looking in | Mon Sep 18 1989 12:31 | 27 |
| A relevent but non-specific statistic:
I my "Human Sexuality" course last semester, in the section of "Sex, Violence
and the Law", the book said that in a study done in <the late sixties>,
men convicted of sexual crimes had had considerably *less* exposure to
pornography in their "formative years".
A few possible conclusions - they had never learned how to deal with the
difference between fantasy and reality in porn, so when they were exposed
later in life it had negative effects.
- they tended to be raised in stricter/more represive home, and this is
related to their crimes
- they have different views of sexuality because they were not exposed to
the same images as most men.
Also, rapists tend to react *less* (physically...erections, blood pressure,
skin conductance, etc) to pornographic material than other men.
I believe the study was commisioned by the government on the affects of
pornography, and the committee stated that there was no evidence that reading
pornography had any significant correlation to violent crimes against
women.
I can't remember which study it was, though. Anyone else know what I am
talking about?
D!
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544.88 | | ULTRA::ZURKO | The quality of mercy is not strained | Mon Sep 18 1989 12:41 | 3 |
| Does anyone know if 'date rape' or 'acquaintance rape' has a conviction rate at
all akin to 'random rape'?
Mez
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544.89 | DECwindows notes lets you accumulate your responses... | WAYLAY::GORDON | bliss will be the death of me yet... | Mon Sep 18 1989 14:06 | 25 |
| Re :.83 re my .82
Paul,
.82 was mostly a reaction to the following in .81:
� Granted, not everyone that watches porn is going to go out and
� do what they saw, but there are a lot of sex related deaths which
� often include sexual mutilation. I don't believe those thoughts
� were born there (in the perpetrator).
Re: .85
From everthing I've seen/read about him, Bundy was an expert at
manipulating people. I get the feeling he would have said anything if he
thought it would buy him some time. I don't think Bundy is a good example.
Re: .86
I suspect my feelings are very similar to what Neil presented here.
For the few folks that may be "pushed over the edge", there have to be an
awful lot who aren't.
--D
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544.90 | Do murder mysteries lead to murder? | TOPDOC::SLOANE | Augment the auspicious | Mon Sep 18 1989 15:13 | 6 |
| To say that reading pornography causes sex crimes is like saying
reading murder mysteries leads to murder. I don't think there is any
porno-rape correlation, or if there is, it is an inverse relationship.
(i.e, those who read porno are less apt to commit sex crimes).
Bruce
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544.91 | I don't think there are any final answers, but... | LEZAH::BOBBITT | invictus maneo | Mon Sep 18 1989 16:22 | 36 |
| I think the cause/effect is incorrect - I do believe that there
are some people who WILL go over an edge whatever the provocation
- be it killing or raping or whatever. There are some people who
will not go over the edge, no matter how much they are provoked
(stressed, etc....).
It's like the argument that says "let's take away
non-work-related-noting because so many people note instead of
working". If people want to avoid work, there are *many* other
ways to do it - computer games, coffee breaks, etc.....so don't
blame the noting. Many people use notes in productive ways, in
educational ways, in enjoyable ways that allow them a break from
work - but do not abuse them.
Likewise, if a few dungeons-and-dragons players
took it too seriously and wound up mentally unbalanced in the sewers
of New York (mazes and monsters, by Rona Jaffey, went into this),
or died in caves by their college campus (another tale which is
used by those who say D&D is dangerous)....I don't think it indicates
that D&D is dangerous - I think these people had to be unbalanced
to begin with.
And for someone to say that a movie or magazine caused them to go out
and rape a human being, I'd say they, too, were pretty unbalanced to
begin with. A vast majority of people are taught from day 1 of
why it's wrong to hurt other people. Some people are somehow able
to "unlearn" it, or get by it, or are given so many examples to
the contrary ("do what I say, not what I do" says the parent as
the child gets another 10 bruises), that they no longer hold life
sacred, even for themselves. Or they are able to look at other
people as somehow "less than themselves" - or put there "for their
entertainment" or even "to be at their mercy".....
-Jody
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544.92 | it's not that simple | CADSYS::PSMITH | foop-shootin', flip city! | Mon Sep 18 1989 16:45 | 35 |
| re .90 and others
I agree with .86 that it may not be possible to state categorically
"pornography triggers rapes that would not otherwise occur" or
"pornography is a harmless outlet that prevents rapes that would
otherwise occur". Or other theories in between.
From my readings on the subject (I do recommend the "Men Who Rape" book
for voices on the other side), it appears that there are different
categories of rapists. For instance, a book I read (I think it was a
section in the MWR book) tried to answer the question: what should you
do if you are in a situation where you are about to be raped?
The answer was: IT DEPENDS. There is no one easy, obvious answer. You
have to make a quick judgment as to which of four (their categories)
different types of rapist personalities you are dealing with. What you
should do (talk, cry, scream, act bizarrely, do nothing, fight and run
away) is DIFFERENT based on who you are dealing with.
So, if you agree that there are different personalities and different
motivations for rape, I think it would be difficult to say that
pornography -- as a class of literature -- EITHER contributes to OR
wards off raping behavior. It has to do a little of both. (It's like
the Pill -- longterm, I believe it both decreases your risk of ovarian
cancer and increases your risk of breast cancer. So it's linked to
cancer, but positively or negatively for different people.)
Having said all that, I DO think that the more violent and dehumanizing
types of hardcore pornography, as well as pornography with children,
etc., has ZERO redeeming value, and promotes an unhealthy view of the
world. I see a real difference between "generic pornography" and THAT
type of pornography: it's violence that happens to include sex. Sound
familiar?
Pam
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544.93 | Murder mysteries != Rape pornography | HPSCAD::TWEXLER | | Tue Sep 26 1989 17:28 | 10 |
| RE: Do murder mysteries lead to murder?
The comparision of murder mysteries being ok, therefore pornography is ok is
misleading at best. Murder mysteries are about finding the murderer and
sticking him or her in jail. Pornography and specifically such pornography as
deals with rape are about 'enjoying' the rape (shudder). The first (murder
mystery) is about figuring out who to punish, the second (rape pornography) is
about enjoying the rape--not PUNISHING someone who rapes.
Tamar
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544.94 | | ACESMK::CHELSEA | Mostly harmless. | Tue Sep 26 1989 18:30 | 4 |
| Re: .93
To avoid being nitpicked to death, insert the word "most" in front of
"murder mysteries". (I felt a nitpicking kneejerk coming on....)
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544.95 | Nixon Porn Study | CSC32::DUBOIS | Love makes a family | Fri Nov 03 1989 20:17 | 22 |
| <<< Note 544.87 by TLE::D_CARROLL "On the outside, looking in" >>>
<
<I my "Human Sexuality" course last semester, in the section of "Sex, Violence
<and the Law", the book said that in a study done in <the late sixties>,
.
<I believe the study was commisioned by the government on the affects of
<pornography, and the committee stated that there was no evidence that reading
<pornography had any significant correlation to violent crimes against
<women.
.
<I can't remember which study it was, though. Anyone else know what I am
<talking about?
In my Human Sexuality course at Univ Calif San Diego around 1979-80, they
brought in a speaker who had a copy of the study. If it was the same study,
I seem to remember that it was commissioned by the Nixon administration
and that they expected it to tell how bad pornography was. Instead, it
supported the legalization of (most/all?) pornography, so the Nixon
administration dropped the mention of it like a hot potato, since it was
not politically correct to say that porn was okay.
Carol
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