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Conference turris::womannotes-v2

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 2 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V2 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1105
Total number of notes:36379

498.0. "Is this legal?" by CLOVE::VEILLEUX (light in the darkness of insanity) Mon Mar 13 1989 12:46

    Over the weekend, my brother and his girlfriend (both 20) told me
    about several incidents that have happened to friends of theirs
    that I don't think are legal.  I'm trying to find out if this has
    happened to anyone else, and if, in fact, it is legal.
    
    On two different occasions, my brother was with a 22-year-old friend
    who was buying beer (once in a liquor store, once in a grocery store).
    The cashier asked the friend for ID, which showed that he _is_ of
    legal age to buy alchol, then asked my brother for ID.  When my
    brother said that he was underage, the cashier refused to sell the
    beer to _his friend_, because my brother was with him.  On the occasion
    in the grocery store, my brother went and sat in the car while his
    friend went back to a different register and tried again.  The cashier
    at the new register said she couldn't sell the beer to him because
    she knew he'd been in the store a few minutes earlier with a minor.
    
    A 25-year-old friend of my brother's girlfriend was told in a grocery
    store he couldn't buy a six of beer with his weekly groceries because
    he had his 4-year-old daughter with him!
    
    Now, all the arguments about people of legal drinking age obtaining
    alchohol for underage friends aside, is this legal?  Can 21+-year-old
    be refused the sale of alcohol because a minor is with them?  This
    doesn't sound right to me......                
    
    Just wondering...                ...Lisa V...
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498.1MEMORY::SLATERMon Mar 13 1989 13:3810
    I do not see how they then can deny the right to purchase to a legally
    qualified person because they are in the presence of someone that
    is not qualified.
    
    In the case where the alcohol was not sold *after* the qualified
    person came back in, we could carry this to it logical conclusion.
    "The last time I sold you beer, you went home with it, I know there
    are people there that are under age."
    
    Les 
498.2Preventing Liability Later??COMET::HENNINGERMon Mar 13 1989 14:0020
    The seller is of course making a presumption of the comsumer of
    the beverage in question.  However, in CO and several other states
    an over age person is legally prohibitted from providing alcoholic
    beverages under any conditions.  Be it a waiter to an overage person
    who provides it to the underage or the overage who provides to the
    underage at home.
    
    Further, in these litiginous days, the seller was protecting himself
    from the possibility of a future negligence or 'brother's keeper'
    ordinance suit.  The minor if provided by the overage person could
    and probably has on more than one occasion claimed "But the seller
    must have known as a reasonable person that I would be consuming
    the beverage."  and have won massive damages.
    
    I applaud the seller as a parent for the stand taken.  If my children
    are to drink they should be at home or of age not buying through
    a third party.
    
    Don
    
498.3Me Too!!!!GIAMEM::FISHERGive me torque or give me deathMon Mar 13 1989 14:049
    
    The same thing happened to me several years ago, and I too 
    questioned the legality of the store owners action.  Especially
    since my parents never had a problem purchasing alcohol while
    accompanied by their underaged children.
    
    Could anyone answer this conclusively?
                                 
    TF
498.4<it = CYA>CGVAX2::HOGLUNDinsert cute p nameMon Mar 13 1989 15:1115
    it's very legal!  i've had it happen to me while i've had my underage
    sister (only a year younger) with me.  she had to go out to the
    car and i went to a different cashier and was allowed to purchase
    the beer i had to put back the first time.  i've also worked as
    a cashier and you can refuse to sell alcohol for any reason.  be
    it you think they've had to much, the ID isn't valid or you suspect
    they are purchasing for minors.  i have refused to sell to someone 
    because they were in the store 5 times within 2 hours purchasing at 
    least a case of beer each time.  the guy had obviously had to much 
    to drink and i *knew* he was drinking with minors.  i refused to sell 
    to him but my manager did.  so if anything did come of it she was 
    responsible not me.  it's called CYA!
    
    
498.5LiabilityPERFCT::NOVELLOMon Mar 13 1989 23:3410
    
    	In MA, liability is on the liquor seller. One of my law professors
    	said that, if you buy a baseball bat in a sporting goods store,
    	and club someone to death, the store has no liability, but,
    	if you buy a 6 pack, then kill someone while driving drunk,
    	the package store could be liable. He also mentioned that liability
    	insurance had *risen* dramatically for his package store clients.
    
    	Guy Novello
     
498.6ERLANG::MINOTTTue Mar 14 1989 09:495
    I think, at least in Massachusetts, that it is illegal for anyone
    under 21 to enter a liquor store along with entering a night club type
    of place after 7:00 pm.
    
    Not 100% sure though.
498.7MEMORY::SLATERTue Mar 14 1989 10:1719
    re .6
    
    In Massachusetts you can buy some alcoholic spirits in some grocery
    stores. These stores are *primarily* grocery stores.
    
    What if a single parent with a three-year-old child wishes to buy
    groceries and a bottle of wine (or a six pack) to have in the
    apartment.
    
    It would be reasonable to bring the child grocery shopping and into
    the store and to put that bottle of wine (or six pack) into the
    cart. What are the alternatives? Leave the child home? Hire a babby
    sitter? Leave the child in the car? Order the beverage delivered?
    
    If the store forced a parent of young child to by left home or in
    a car alone just to satisfy some *stores* concern for their skins,
    then they should be sued.
    
    Les
498.8ODIHAM::PHILPOTT_ICol. Philpott is back in action...Tue Mar 14 1989 10:4714
    
    I believe the situation in [most] US states is the same as in Britain:
    to whit a store, in displaying goods, such as alcoholic beverages,
    is inviting you to offer to buy - in legal terms the display is
    an invitation to tender. However whilst there are restrictions on
    the price they may ask when you do offer to buy, there is no compulsion
    whatsoever on the store to actually sell.
    
    ie they may not have to refuse the sale in circumstances .0 describes,
    but they don't need a real excuse to do so - provided they don't
    appear to violate some anti-discrimination legislation - they can
    refuse to sell anything to anybody.
                                      
    /. Ian .\
498.9True in New YorkCIVIC::FERRIGNOTue Mar 14 1989 12:070
498.10illegal to sell; not illegal to not sellHEADS::MARSHALLhunting the snarkWed Mar 15 1989 18:157
    Legal, scmegal. A shop owner can refuse to sell anything to anyone
    for any reason. They are his goods, to sell or not as he chooses.
                                                   
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498.11APEHUB::STHILAIREIt&#039;s beyond my controlThu Mar 16 1989 10:4115
    I can't remember ever having anyone refuse to sell me alcohol when
    I had my daughter with me.  But, maybe we didn't strike them as
    two people who were likely to be boozing it up together.

    I do remember once when I was over 21 and I went into a liquor store
    with an 18 yr. old guy who was a friend of mine.  After I paid for
    the stuff my friend started to take the bag for me, to carry it
    (chauvinist little thing!), and the guy in the store said, "He can't
    carry that out of here!"  I thought he was joking, but he wasn't.
     He actually made me carry the bag out because my friend was under
    age.  I thought that was ridiculous at the time, but at least he
    sold us the stuff.  (and we did booze it up together!)
    
    Lorna
    
498.12same hereTARKIN::TRIOLOVictoria TrioloThu Mar 16 1989 11:005
   
    The same thing happened to me with my brother.  I had to make two
    trips because my younger brother couldn't help me.
	(just 3 sixes :-))
    
498.13MEMORY::SLATERThu Mar 16 1989 16:5420
    re .10 (Steve)
    
>        Legal, scmegal. A shop owner can refuse to sell anything to anyone
>    for any reason. They are his goods, to sell or not as he chooses.
 
    Not true. There are many reasons, that an "owner" of goods offered
    to the public for sale, that are not permissible. Try not selling
    to woman or Blacks and see how far you will get.
    
    There is danger for abuse of "owner" discretion. If an owner or
    operator sees some kids hand someone money in the parking lot and
    then the person comes in and orders beer or whatever, then there
    may be good reason to refuse the sale.
    
    However, if one makes it a habit to sell to forty-year-olds with
    fourteen-year-olds in tow but not to twenty-two-year-olds with the
    the fourteen-year-old in tow, we would have a clear case of
    discrimination.
    
    Les 
498.14TFH::MARSHALLhunting the snarkThu Mar 16 1989 17:3717
    re .13:
    
    Thank you Les, for reminding me of that {heavy sarcasm}.
    
    The civil rights act can only come into play if there is a clear and
    present pattern of discrimination, i.e. refusing to sell to any Black
    or Woman. I still maintain that on an individual basis, the shop keeper
    can refuse to sell to anyone. It may be illegal to refuse to sell to
    Blacks for the reason that they are Black, but it is not illegal to
    refuse to sell to an individual Black for some other reason.
              
                                                   
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498.15They reserve the right to not sell...TOOK::TWARRENStand in the place where you work...Fri Mar 17 1989 13:1119
Refusing to sell to someone is very legal.  As mentioned before- the store
maintains liability for selling those goods.  I worked as a cashier in a
store a few summers ago.  If you sell to someone who is under age, or to
someone who looks to you as if that person and the one with him/her are
going to both be the ones to consume it- then you are liable.  Not only
can the store have their license revoked, but you yourself can receive
a $1,000 fine (or more), and even a few days in jail.  If you sell to 
someone who appears intoxicated- you are liable as well.

I was in shaws about 6 months ago, and I knew someone who I had gone
to college with two people ahead of me in line.  We spoke briefly, she
made her purchase and left.  When I got to the cashier, I showed my
ID, and she told me that she could not sell to me until she saw the
ID of the person I was talking to.  Now that's a bit drastic (as it
is now- I don't talk to anyone when I am buying alcohol at Shaws), but
it does happen.

Terri