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464.1 | | 2EASY::PIKET | | Wed Feb 22 1989 12:04 | 13 |
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Actually, I was impressed by the outrage expressed by the paper.
I was half-way into the second paragraph before I looked at the
date, realizing something had to be fishy.
It's interesting that the article was written right after WWII,
during which women were involved in industry to a greater extent
than ever before, because all the men were off fighting. I wonder
if the outrage expressed would have been the same had the article
been written five years earlier.
Roberta
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464.2 | We've come a long way, baby. | BURREN::FAHEL | Amalthea, the Silver Unicorn | Wed Feb 22 1989 12:27 | 1 |
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464.3 | | ULTRA::ZURKO | Words like winter snowflakes | Wed Feb 22 1989 12:58 | 8 |
| Nice.
I actually believed it! Shows you how much confidence _I_ have in progress.
It helps to realize we've taken steps backward before.
Of course, I come from the state the voted the human as it's state animal (all
the representatives woke up with a hangover the next morning and promptly voted
in the whale to replace it!).
Mez
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464.4 | Uh-oh, I'm thinkin' again | ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI | just a revolutionary with a pseudonym | Wed Feb 22 1989 12:59 | 39 |
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I've got to wonder that *some* of the "men's attitude toward women"
ala the "Oh this, this, this, this, this, & this are too much for
"tender little you"" is an attempt on men's part to compensate for
something men cannot come to terms with, the pain a woman bears in the
birthing process.
From any account of this I've ever heard, giving birth is no
picnic - it can kill you, possibly, as a matter of fact. What does
the man go through in actually sharing (his part of the feeling) this
particular pain? I dare say, in the "classic" sense, nothing. He just
sits and waits for the event to be over - nothing he can do - while
the "midwife" and "doctor" are present during the delivery. (I am
aware that more and more men *are* sharing the event with their
women these days)
Realizing this, (and likely doing all the wrong things) men try
to compensate for this subtle truth, perhaps going way overboard
in doing so. They try to "ease" whatever other pains a woman might
have to go through - that they can comprehend. Maybe this is where
the idea of "That's a man's job" comes from. Certainly relieving
women from "having to go through" certain things by telling them
what they can and what they cannot to do is within the realm of a
man's ability.
That it's really only compensation for what a man cannot face
within himself (How her pain really makes him feel) is I'm sure what
eventually bugs most women. That it really is an enabling_women_to
_do_nothing_else kind of thing must generate resentment from them,
eventually.
I wonder if this has anything to do with "war" a classic thing
that men_only do that can be real painful and maybe kill you?
From the 13th moon of Jupiter,
Joe Jas
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464.5 | New York, 1970 | ULTRA::WITTENBERG | Secure Systems for Insecure People | Wed Feb 22 1989 13:19 | 9 |
| Around 1970 New York still allowed any woman to be excused from
Jury duty "as a woman". For a man to be excused he had to show
that his work was particularly vital. My mother used this after my
father was called for jury duty but not chosen for any juries. She
figured that her time was better spent in the laboratory.
I believe that this rule has been changed, but I'm not certain.
--David
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464.6 | | DMGDTA::WASKOM | | Wed Feb 22 1989 16:33 | 10 |
| re .4
Interesting thesis, and one I'd never considered before. Might
even have some validity (and I'll think on it).
I also read the article thinking that it was possibly 'current'.
Reassuring to realize at the end that it is a sign of progress.
Alison
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464.7 | Cobwebs on the brain. | LOWLIF::HUXTABLE | Who enters the dance must dance. | Wed Feb 22 1989 18:46 | 7 |
| I read in, ummm, some book or another recently that women
were not allowed to serve on juries in Alabama until 1966,
and not until 1968 in Mississippi. (Approximate dates.)
And I agree--good to see such outrage expressed in 1945!
-- Linda
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464.8 | Jury duty isn't much of a privilege anyhow | CADSYS::RICHARDSON | | Thu Feb 23 1989 12:28 | 37 |
| I'm not so sure it is much of a privilege to serve on a jury...I live
in a one-day-or-one-trial county, and they call me up for jury duty
once every three years like clockwork, that being the minimum legal
interval (my husband has never been called up - but when he lived in
Hartford, CT, he served once - and there, it is ONE MONTH!). To be
truthful, once you show up as ordered at some miles-and-miles-away
courthouse (I usually walk to work; driving to East Cambridge for an 8
AM jury duty summons is a real drag from way out where I live) real
early in the morning, the court employees are *very* nice to you - I
guess they realize that to most people it is a major inconvenience.
On the other hand, you get to see what kind of silly frivolous cases
are appealed for jury trial - mostly people trying to reverse their
speeding tickets or their drunk driving convictions (all the trials
I've been on were one or the other of those) - thus wasting not only
the court's time, but the time of the folks on the jury as well, and
their own of course. (But if you got one of the rare "important"
cases, you could be tied up for weeks! - How'd you like to be on the
Oliver North jury?? Me, neither!) But everyone is called up - cops,
judges, lawyers, doctors, software engineers, *everyone*. Of course in
practice, a cop or judge or the spouse of one never actually gets
empanelled since the defendant's lawyer always challenges them, and
those folks always get to go home at the end of the day (in my
experience; the form the lawyers get to see has your occupation on it
and asks about your spouse as well). So, the system is equitable and
inconveniences everyone in the same way - although I still don't like
it that one alleged drunk driver can waste a whole day or more of not
only my time but that of several other people and a judge!
Apparently in Connecticut, at least when Paul served jury duty there
before he moved up here, most anyone could get themself excused, since
it was for a month - they let off doctors, store owners, cops, judges,
parents, etc. He had to serve because he was job-hunting at the time
and thus couldn't show that his work was "critical" - he also never got
empanelled in the entire month! He spent most of it playing cards with
the other "captives"/jurors who weren't empanelled. What a waste of
time...
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464.9 | | ASABET::BOYAJIAN | Ah ah, ee ee, tookie tookie | Fri Feb 24 1989 03:07 | 12 |
| re:.8
As far as "miles-and-miles-away" courthouses go, in Middlesex
County at least, you can request to go to a closer courthouse
if the one listed on your notice is inconvenient. I don't think
you even need to supply a reason. So, instead of going to
Cambridge, you could've called the Court and asked to go to
Framingham instead. Unfortunately, I didn't think of this when
I got called for duty and drove into Cambridge when Lowell is a
lot closer.
--- jerry
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464.10 | You can move it, but you can't get out of it/ | CADSYS::RICHARDSON | | Fri Feb 24 1989 11:57 | 6 |
| Yes, Jerry, I did that the most recent time I got called up, but I
still had to drive into Framingham from here (45 minutes or so, at that
time of day), in the snow on a day when I was recuperating from the
flu, in order to listen to some guy challenge his drunk driving
conviction. Bleah. When they let me out of there (around 3 pm), I
went home and back into bed.
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