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Conference turris::womannotes-v2

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 2 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V2 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1105
Total number of notes:36379

103.0. "Oct. wedding--need music" by MEMV01::BULLOCK (Hulk's REAL name is Terry!) Tue Aug 09 1988 11:24

    Hi--
    
    I'm getting married this Oct., and am looking for an inexpensive
    band.  As this will be a low-budget wedding all around, I would
    really welcome any suggestions or ideas to provide music for 
    people to dance at the reception.
    
    Help!  I'm making this up as I go along!
    
    Jane
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103.1Where's the wedding?GIGI::WARRENTue Aug 09 1988 11:585
    Where are you located?
    
    
    -Tracy
    
103.2LocationMEMV01::BULLOCKHulk's REAL name is Terry!Tue Aug 09 1988 12:147
    Whoops--
    
    Sorry!  I'm getting married in Billerica, Mass., and live in Tewksbury.
    
    Thanks again,
    
    Jane
103.3Just a suggestion....PNEUMA::BLANCHARDIt ain't that pretty at allTue Aug 09 1988 13:587
    I too am getting marrried in October. I don't know if you have your
    heart set on live music, but I would suggest a DJ. They are 
    cheaper, and you are sure of what the music sounds like. Send
    me mail if you want details of the DJ we are going with.
    
    Dee
    
103.4How much can you spend?RATTLE::MONAHANTue Aug 09 1988 14:2514
    What is your budget for the music?
    
    I just booked a band for my wedding......VERY expensive.
    
    I know that for a D.J. it will cost you around $500 or so.
    
    If that's too high still, do you have a stereo with a tape recording
    system in it?  You could call your radio station to request your
    first dance, have them play it, record it.  Borrow some records
    from friends and record certain songs.  Call the radio station and
    request more songs.  Buy some records and/or tapes.
    
    Any good???
      
103.5Wedding TunesGIGI::WARRENTue Aug 09 1988 14:5029
    Jane--
    
    We had the Paul Broadnax trio at our wedding.  (I can't believe
    it'll be four years in October!)  He is also available solo (on
    piano).  As I recall, he was cheaper and better than most of the 
    bands we checked out.  He plays quite a bit of jazz.  He frequently 
    plays--or at least he used to--at Ephraim's in Sudbury.  I think it 
    would be worth going to hear him play.  Even if you don't end up with 
    him, it's a nice evening out.
          
    The only problem was that instead of his usual club act, he turned
    a little "wedding-y" on us that day, which we didn't enjoy as much.
    If we had anticipated that, we would have been clearer with him
    about what we liked and didn't.  You might want to keep that in
    mind no matter who you select.
    
    I'll ask my husband if he remembers how much they cost.
    
    I also have a friend who's a DJ and does a lot of weddings and other
    events.  Let me know if you decide to go that route and I'll get
    you the information.
    
    Good luck (and hurry--it's August!).
    
    -Tracy
    
    
    
    
103.6Make your own wedding tapes.NSG022::POIRIERSuzanneTue Aug 09 1988 15:0221
    Jane,
    
    The cheapest way would be as .4 suggested.  If you have your own sound
    system make your own tapes of your favorite dance music.  Borrow, buy
    oldies, top 40's, jazz, waltzes - whatever music you like best.  I do
    this all the time for my parties and for friends - Just plop the tape
    in and you don't have to worry about it for another 45 minutes!  In
    fact if you want help making a tape, I will gladly offer.  I have a
    large selection of CDs and albums from classical, jazz, piano solos,
    50's, to top 40's. 
    
    The only thing you must make sure of is that your sound system can
    project well where ever you are having your reception (especially for
    outdoor weddings).  If your speakers are to small, some rental stores
    will rent audio equipment including speakers or an amplifier.
    
    Let me know if you would like help Jane - I know you've offered
    to help me before with kitty situations!
    
    Suzanne
    
103.7Forgot to mentionNSG022::POIRIERSuzanneTue Aug 09 1988 15:049
    PS
    
    My cousins wedding last April used pre-made tapes for her home wedding.
    They made one tape to be used for all the special dances ie first
    dance, mother/groom dance, father bride dance.  One tape was dinner
    music.  And several tapes were made with great dance music.
    Everything was just fine.  In fact everyone had a great time dancing!
    
    Suzanne
103.8Thank you!!MEMV03::BULLOCKHulk's REAL name is Terry!Wed Aug 10 1988 17:237
    Thanks everyone for all your suggestions!  I may have something;
    waiting for the tape to see if I like this person or not.  
                                                     
    Thank you to everyone for your kindness.
    
    Jane
    
103.9a radical ideaDOODAH::RANDALLBonnie Randall SchutzmanThu Aug 11 1988 10:066
    We went extremely radical and didn't have music. Very few people
    in either of our families even like to dance, so our reception was
    just a nice dinner so everybody had a chance to talk and get to
    know the other side of the family. 
    
    --bonnie
103.10Another vote for tapesSKETCH::SHUBINI'm not changing *my* name, either.Mon Aug 29 1988 16:5812
    We're getting married on Saturday (my, how time flies), and we're using
    tapes. I'm making one, my brother-in-law is making one (he used to be a
    radio DJ), and we're having a friend of a friend make a third. It was
    fun going through all our records, and trying to figure out clever
    combinations of songs. I found things that I'd completely forgotten
    about.
    
    We thought about a band, but figured it'd be too much. We really dislike
    having a bandleader who acts as MC, and this way we'll be sure to like
    the music. 
    
    					-- hs