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Conference turris::womannotes-v1

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:873
Total number of notes:22329

852.0. "Something for Nothing, or A Free Lunch" by SHALE::HUXTABLE (Listen to My Heartbeat) Fri May 20 1988 17:04

    (This isn't a women's issue per se, but I'm feeling really
    riled up at the moment and need to share a little mad.)

    I just heard another "non-advertisement" for the Missouri
    lottery on my car radio. (Obviously I should have been
    listening to NPR.)  I don't know how state lotteries work
    elsewhere, but apparently when Missouri went to the polls to
    vote on the lottery, some conservative group felt like they
    could support it only if the state promised that they
    wouldn't advertise it.

    So now I hear something that sounds, feels, tastes, and
    smells like an ad for the Missouri lottery.  Then at the end
    I find out this "is not an advertisement or intended to
    induce anyone to purchase lottery tickets" or something like
    that.  Grrrrr. 

    But, quite aside from the insult to my intelligence, I'm
    really bothered by something else. I hear on the radio about
    how much fun it is to play the lottery, and all the neat
    things I could do if I won. In my mail, I get notices from
    savings people who want me to believe that if I haven't the
    money for that dream vacation, or I'm having trouble paying
    my taxes, or I can't meet my credit card bills, I should take
    out a loan with them. Also in my mail I get an absolutely
    astonishing amount of "you've won one of the following prizes
    (35mm camera, Ferrari, Hawaiian vacation); to claim your
    prize, just come to our office and let us tell you about..."
    and I haven't even entered any contest.  And I'm probably
    missing a whole glut of similar messages on TV, since I
    haven't got one.

    I'm about ready to tell the whole world that it's against my
    religion to accept something for nothing and I'm going to
    throttle the next person who tries to convince me to do so.
    (But "they" are too smart, "they" do all their dirty work via
    the media and through the mail so I can't get my hands on
    anyone.) 

    I feel like *everyone* out there is trying to convince me
    that I should live a dream.  Why worry about next week when
    tomorrow I might win the lottery, or get a free vacation to
    Hawaii, or pay all those bills with a loan that isn't due
    until sometime later?  I have nothing against dreams:
    sometimes they provide a vitally necessary temporary escape
    from reality, sometimes they provide goals and motivations. 

    But I see too many of my friends and relatives who are living
    a dream, or rather dreaming instead of living. "Any day now,
    I ought to get the settlement for that 'whiplash' I claimed
    (wink, wink) and then I'll have money to ..." "We're thinking
    about buying a house, the real-estate agent says we ought to
    be able to afford something in the low 50s" from someone who
    can't always manage the rent payments on a low-priced duplex,
    but wants a house so badly that she's not willing to examine
    the numbers.  "Yeah, the office manager and I just didn't get
    along there, and all the other secretaries were brainless
    children, but, boy this new job looks really good, and I've
    been working on a really great idea for a story" from a man
    in his mid-30's with a college degree who works as a
    secretary, never keeps a job for more than two years (because
    he doesn't like being a secretary and feels he has so little
    in common with the other office workers), and is always
    convinced that he'll get that story written (and presumably
    sold) Real Soon Now.

    A lot of these sound like variations on a theme:  "I didn't
    create this problem I'm experiencing so I don't have to solve
    it," or "the world owes me just for being alive."

    I can't blame my friends' present unhappiness on society or
    whatever.  They've made their own choices.  But, geez, with
    all those messages about "why work, dream instead" is it any
    surprise that so many people go along hating what they're
    doing right now, dreaming about someday when everything will
    be perfect, but not doing anything to make it happen?  I
    mean, why work to make it happen when you can *not* work and
    play the lottery and it might happen anyway?  Why work to get
    something you want when everything you hear reminds you that
    of *course* you can get something for nothing, all you have
    to do is take out a loan, buy a lottery ticket, listen to our
    sales pitch for lake lots ...

    I'm not even quite sure why it makes me so mad.  But it sure
    does.  And being ticked off is my excuse ;) for why I don't
    have to work to make this sound less disconnected. 

    Grump.

    -- Linda
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852.1wow, it's nice to hear a similar view on this3D::CHABOTCalifornia bornFri May 20 1988 18:3724
    Yah.  The "Easy Street" ads I used to see years ago on TV in Boston
    used to make me very upset.
    
    I know the aim of lotteries is to make money, but the appeals seem
    to be calling on something more than philanthropy, something often
    called more ancient, greed.  (Although it's not clear that generosity
    isn't as old as greed.)  And the images used...sometimes I feel
    as though I'm being told that I shouldn't worry about how poor or
    wretched I am because there is an out if only you are pure of heart
    and joyfully buy tickets.  But then this seems to be an affirmation
    of something higher, such as it is better to consume than to produce.
    Sit home and buy things, but don't do anything innovative.
    Winning the lottery is often depicted as the pinnacle of this, because
    once you win you need never work again but you can buy all sorts
    of good things.
    
    Maybe some find this a comforting and attractive message.  I find
    it stifling and destructive.  The ads create a persisting need to
    be rich, much like new car ads make you want to go and drool all
    over that nice new enamel.  It's just as lulling and just as much
    a false ideal.  Banning television ads of cigarettes did work some
    deal of good, but when you ask the regulating party (the state
    government) to regulate themselves ... especially when they consider
    it against their interests...
852.2another possible place to discuss thisDANUBE::B_REINKEwhere the sidewalk endsFri May 20 1988 20:0711
  Lauren,
    
    If you would like to enter your topic in a conference that is
    more 'generic' (for want of a better word) I would suggest
    Quark::human_relations. That conference was originally founded
    to deal with issues comon to both sexes...
    
    Bonnie
    
    p.s, if you do not have human_relations in your note book press
    the  7 key on your keypad to add it.
852.321001::BOYAJIANMonsters from the IdSat May 21 1988 10:1517
    re:.1
    
    �Although it's not clear that generosity isn't as old as greed.�
    
    But of course it is, Lisa. The first generous person probably
    gave money to the first greedy person. :-)
    
    I have no problem with the dream to be rich. And I have no
    problem with lotteries per se. If they want to prey on the greed
    of the public as a way to raise money, fine.
    
    The only problem I have regarding lotteries is the inherent
    hypocrisy. Gambling is outlawed unless, of course, it's
    administered by the government. There's something wrong with
    that picture, non?
    
    --- jerry
852.4Yeah - and then what?ELESYS::JASNIEWSKII know from just bein' aroundMon May 23 1988 10:3628
    
    	Oh, the power of the $! More powerful than free will, more powerful
    than love, more important than life itself!...Or so *they'd* like
    you to believe.
    
    	Remember these words: "Just get the money - doesnt matter how
    - just get the money."
    
    	Sell hard drugs to the American public to finance your foreign war!
    
    	Sell addictive substance to the American public as your legitimate
    	business!
    
    	Sell false hopes to the American public as a way to make it
        big!
    
    	Think they care about your Integrity? Think they care about
    your Higher Consciousness? Think they care whether you're well off
    or broke, healthy or ill, addicted or not? Think again...
    
    	God *is* green to the Monetary Monsters. I say capitolism *must*
    remain in balance with ethical behavior. It'd be my guess a lot
    of people dont think so...They're content to try an transform society
    into a group of impulse buyers, addicts and such - till they extract
    *every last drop*. And then what?
    
    	Joe Jas
                                                                
852.53D::CHABOTCalifornia bornMon May 23 1988 11:1940
    Re hypocrisy in government-run gambling
    
    Yes, but that kind of hypocrisy is all over: certain kinds of killing 
    are okay if done by the government...and then there's taxes, printing 
    money, imprisoning people, and lots of other things.  If you're
    going to go libertarian, might as well do a thorough job of it!
    :-)
    
    The dream of work hard and you'll grow rich seems to be being replaced
    by the dream of buy a lottery ticket and you may get rich.  While
    both dreams are fallacious (you have to work hard just to keep yourself
    fed is the reality), I have better feelings about the former than
    the latter.  Yes, working hard can lead to burn-out and
    disillusionment, but at least it's not resigning your fate as much
    to some arbitrary and insufficient process.
    
    While Alger never did write the great American novel, he did depict
    the great American dream very accurately, with its emphasis on
    diligence and certain moral values.
    Of course, even Horation Alger's stories included the element of
    chance.  The boy who worked selling newspapers on the street may
    have worked hard, but it took a chance encounter with a rich man
    who perceived the boy's qualities to elevate him to a track for
    success.  Even then hard work was required to maintain the new status.
    With lotteries, there is no personal contact, it's all mechanical.
    No person will see your potential and grant you an opportunity;
    and after you win, you need never work again.  Since you have no
    obligaton to anyone, you need feel no obligation to assist any young
    person with potential, either, and for that matter, you will have
    no pattern for helping other than urging your friends to buy lottery
    tickets, reinforcing the ads.
    
                                           
    Who was it that described capitalism in sort of Darwinian terms?
    Smith?  That everyone is out for there own good, and some how it
    just all seems to work out for the general good.  One could say
    that consumerism only affects those who aren't watching out for
    their own good.  Unfortunately, most of us have been affected.
    
                        
852.6Maybe so but....MCIS2::MORANMon May 23 1988 17:0512
    
    If you don't play you can't win.
    
    Why not be able to dream and work at the same time?
    There is nothing wrong with the lottery.  Anyone willing to take
    the chance, are the one's they are making the money from. not you
    obviously.
    So have a little variety in the way of thinking, it doesn't have
    to be so one-sided.  
    ;^)
    
    
852.7Nice folksSTAR::BECKPaul Beck | DECnet-VAXMon May 23 1988 17:304
    The nice thing about the lottery is that there are all those
    other people VOLUNTARILY paying more taxes than they owe, so
    that my taxes needn't be so large.
    
852.8Helps support my habit - Theater!MEIS::GORDONUnstuck in time...Tue May 24 1988 10:537
    	I have to agree with Paul - I view the lottery as a stupidity
    tax - if you're stupid enough to throw money after a 1 in 1.9 million
    chance (Mass Megabucks odds) then I'm more than happy that my theater
    group gets money from the Mass council for the Arts (which is funded
    through some of the lottery profits...)
    
    					--Doug
852.9Governmental HypocrisyIAMOK::ALLENFrom the home office in Scottsdale ArizonaTue May 24 1988 11:3620
    
    
    I view the lottery as a statement of governmental hypocrisy at its
    best.  Many states won't allow gambling because it is morally and
    ethically wrong.  Yet these same states spend vast amounts of money
    on lottery advertising to get the public to gamble all under the
    guise of it's okay to gamble in state run operations because its
    good for the state.  Well I don't think it is okay.  
                                                      
    Their was an interesting article in the Boston Globe sometime ago
    that dealt with this very issue.  The conclusion of the article
    was that the people who can ill afford to gamble money away are
    the ones most hurt.  The author did a breakdown of money spent
    by region on state lotteries.  The outcome was that those regions
    with the lower per capita income had the highest outlay of cash
    spent to lotteries.