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Conference turris::womannotes-v1

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:873
Total number of notes:22329

791.0. "Something to think about" by RANGLY::DUCHARME_GEO () Wed Apr 06 1988 16:40


  I have been reading quietly for sometime now trying to
understand the anger expressed here by some women.I
originally stated reading this file because a women friend
of mine was expressing great anger toward men and I wanted
to understand.I now realize that, that anger became noticeable
to me after she started a job at Dec. as a secretary, and seems
to have subsided sense changing to another job.It could be
just a coincidence but when I thought about it I saw some
plausibility to it.She worked for and with mostly managers.
It will come as no surprise to any of you who have had
manager courses that it is held by some that the three
sources of job satisfaction are affiliation,achievement,and power.
It is also believed, people who are motivated by power often
seek management positions.I want to make it clear that
the desire for power is not a bad thing, power used correctly
can have very positive results.The situation my friend was in
was one were the people around her may have been motivated
by power and she may have been motivated by achievement and
affiliation.So I guess my questions are.

What gives you job satisfaction, affiliation,achievement,or power?

What gives those around you job satisfaction?

Where do you have bad experiences with men?

P.S. Many of the people I work with lean toward affiliation,and
achievement.From talking to them I feel they have no anger toward
men as a group.They did state they knew individuals who they
considered jerks however.

                       George D.
   
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791.1SUPER::HENDRICKSThe only way out is throughWed Apr 06 1988 20:5225
    I need to think about your questions before answering, but off the
    top of my head, my first trivial response to job satisfaction is
    "doing something fun that I get to plan by myself for good money".
           ~achievement         ~power over my time
    
    I'm not motivated to have power over others, but I'm very highly
    motivated not to let others have day to day power over my time and
    attention.  Managers and supervisors are fine as long as they assign
    me the work and the deadline and leave me to figure out how to do
    it.
    
    Can you define how you are using "affiliation"?  In my organizational
    behavior class, people interpreted it two different ways.  The first
    was contact with 'desirable' people, in other words, movers and
    shakers who had power, charisma and influence.  The second was contact
    with other humans in a more general sense, people who were enjoyable
    for you as a person, but not necessarily influential or 'important'.
    
    Would you be willing to cross-post this to COLORS::DEC_SECRETARY?
    Or can I?  People in that file have been discussing some related
    things, and this question is quite relevant.
    
    Holly 
                                                          
    
791.2intended meaningsMTBLUE::DUCHARME_GEOThu Apr 07 1988 09:0813

  RE:1   Feel free to cross post my note if you feel it
        would be appropriate.The intended meaning of affiliation
        was interaction with enjoyable people,for no other purpose
        than having close friendly relations.I should add that
        the intended meaning of achievement is competing against
        your own past performance and desiring to better it.The
        intended  meaning of power is to influence and manage.


                        George D.  
         
791.3more ramblings on this subjectATPS::FODENTue Apr 12 1988 18:2925
    From similiar classes I have learned about power and women.  If
    we define power as influence, then women have historically had the
    most powerful (influencial) jobs in our society.  For example most of the
    women's jobs/roles such as mother, teacher, nurse, and social worker
    are fields where practitioners have a lot of influence over others.
    
    As a woman I  have always thought that power was something 'bad',
    something to avoid at all costs.  However, women are very powerful
    people and power is not bad and neither is being powerful.

    I took a great DEC sponsored course called Management Directives
    for Women that covered this material very well.  They guided us
    in learning what motivates us and to see if there was a good fit
    between our motivation needs and those provided by our current jobs.
    If there is not a good fit, that might be the reason for lack of
    productivity, happiness etc on our parts.  Knowing this, allows
    us some choices for remedying the situation.  For example if we
    are high in achievment motivation and our job lacks that, we 
    could take find another job, or take up a hobby that fills our
    achievement needs.  It is unreasonable to expect a job to always
    be a perfect fit all the time, but knowing our needs permits
    us to fill them in a variety of ways.